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  1. 0:00you gotta watch your cochlear implant no
  2. 0:01no no i'm holding off on that hi i'm eva
  3. 0:04hi how are you
  4. 0:06i'm here
  5. 0:08hey we really appreciate you coming here
  6. 0:10with us and uh
  7. 0:12anytime during this you need to stop and
  8. 0:13go to the bathroom want a drink um
  9. 0:16snack saying just let me know and we'll
  10. 0:19be happy to do it um
  11. 0:21my name is danny anderson and uh
  12. 0:24i'm the deputy simple county sheriff's
  13. 0:25office at eva
  14. 0:27um so we just want to talk a little bit
  15. 0:29and we'll get this in now be on our way
  16. 0:31okay
  17. 0:32um
  18. 0:33full name
  19. 0:34my uh full name is grant tiernan amato
  20. 0:37how do you supposed to hear them t-i-e-r
  21. 0:40n-8
  22. 0:42i like that
  23. 0:44um may 20th 1989. okay
  24. 0:48um home address home address is 2112
  25. 0:51sultan circle
  26. 0:54trulia florida
  27. 0:57three two seven six six
  28. 1:00um phone number
  29. 1:02uh for the home or for
  30. 1:04home well i mean my original cell phone
  31. 1:07number was 407-687-0738
  32. 1:13uh home phone number was four oh seven
  33. 1:14nine seven one
  34. 1:16one four two two
  35. 1:18uh my cell phone currently doesn't have
  36. 1:20any service with it so i mean it's just
  37. 1:23so you don't have it you haven't moved
  38. 1:25to a november just that one's no longer
  39. 1:26good my dad had told me that he that
  40. 1:28when he disconnected my service that he
  41. 1:30also changed my phone number so i don't
  42. 1:32know what the new phone number is but uh
  43. 1:34i mean it's probably like you can
  44. 1:36probably still see it do you have the
  45. 1:37phone or it was in my duffel bag oh gosh
  46. 1:39there you go yeah sure um
  47. 1:43email email anything if we need to my
  48. 1:45main email is gmodo all one word all all
  49. 1:49lowercase uh gm auto lite like a light
  50. 1:52bulb
  51. 1:53gmail.com
  52. 1:58education
  53. 1:59i have a bachelor's of science in
  54. 2:01nursing from ucf
  55. 2:03back in 2011
  56. 2:06and that's my highest level okay what
  57. 2:09what is there any special uh nursing
  58. 2:11degree what you do or
  59. 2:12uh i mean i have like other
  60. 2:14certifications
  61. 2:15um but uh
  62. 2:17i mean with that like i primarily worked
  63. 2:19in the hospital
  64. 2:20for i think five years five or six years
  65. 2:24and then i was pursuing a master's of
  66. 2:26science in nurse anesthesia
  67. 2:28um that was back in 2015 i believe okay
  68. 2:32um but then i didn't complete that and
  69. 2:34then i just went back to nursing and
  70. 2:35then when this whole
  71. 2:38like wrongful accusation of the grand
  72. 2:40theft charge that i told you about in
  73. 2:41the car when that happened uh i stopped
  74. 2:45working at the hospital and then that
  75. 2:46took like i don't think
  76. 2:48i don't think we talked about that oh
  77. 2:50well i had i was accused of grant after
  78. 2:52the third degree back in
  79. 2:54[Music]
  80. 2:56june of 2018.
  81. 2:58um
  82. 2:59that like went on for six months and
  83. 3:02during that time obviously wasn't
  84. 3:03allowed to work because of it
  85. 3:05um
  86. 3:06and then where was that florida hospital
  87. 3:08south the main one down in orlando
  88. 3:11uh
  89. 3:12[Music]
  90. 3:13rollins that sort of bounce okay um
  91. 3:17so when that happened obviously i was
  92. 3:20dismissed from that job and i couldn't
  93. 3:21get another job because now you have an
  94. 3:23outstanding felony charge on your name
  95. 3:24sure um so then i got the attorney it
  96. 3:27all went through and then finally in
  97. 3:28december
  98. 3:30they posted on the orange county clerk
  99. 3:32courts or whatever website where your
  100. 3:34where your file is that there was no
  101. 3:36evidence that were ever presented all
  102. 3:38the charges were dropped and now i'm
  103. 3:39just in the process of expunging that
  104. 3:41from my records but
  105. 3:43um
  106. 3:45because you know i can't keep just not
  107. 3:47working forever um and you know that was
  108. 3:50that was kind of a
  109. 3:52topic around the house was you know i
  110. 3:54need to get started here right um who is
  111. 3:56your turning fork for that uh lauren
  112. 3:58likum chapman chapman law group okay
  113. 4:00they're
  114. 4:01i think that one's based in sarasota
  115. 4:03okay
  116. 4:04um
  117. 4:06so then they didn't really have to do
  118. 4:08anything no she didn't turn on charges
  119. 4:10so state attorney didn't
  120. 4:11file anything and then she just
  121. 4:13presented that she was going to be my
  122. 4:14attorney and that was the most work she
  123. 4:15ever had to do okay
  124. 4:17um
  125. 4:19and then
  126. 4:20i've been applying for jobs for the last
  127. 4:22couple weeks
  128. 4:24i've gotten uh like three or four
  129. 4:25callbacks
  130. 4:26um and then i went on a job interview
  131. 4:28yesterday for a home infusion nurse job
  132. 4:31where
  133. 4:32was that at um
  134. 4:34that was with uh
  135. 4:38a creta a credo
  136. 4:42that like a staffing or is that a like a
  137. 4:44like a head hunter kind of job
  138. 4:47no that's uh that's like their actual
  139. 4:48company it's uh
  140. 4:50why can i not remember the first name
  141. 4:51it's something scripts
  142. 4:53team scripts
  143. 4:57where's the location uh it's out
  144. 5:00close to the airport it's on lee vista
  145. 5:04what time was your interview yesterday
  146. 5:06uh it was scheduled for ten i got there
  147. 5:08around nine in the morning uh and then i
  148. 5:11think we actually had the interview at
  149. 5:12about 9 45. how'd that go i mean it was
  150. 5:15all good uh they didn't have anything
  151. 5:16they said that they'd probably be
  152. 5:18getting back to me by tuesday or third
  153. 5:19so this coming week get you back to work
  154. 5:21yeah yeah because i mean
  155. 5:25it's like it's crappy world when you
  156. 5:26know you don't have any money you can't
  157. 5:28do anything so finance like how how's
  158. 5:31the the nursing what you did i'm sorry i
  159. 5:33just don't know that much she knows all
  160. 5:34about understanding the nursing how does
  161. 5:36it pay how does it pay um i mean if you
  162. 5:38work your your standard three to three
  163. 5:3912 hours a week you get anywhere between
  164. 5:41i'd say 45 and 55 000 a year so i mean
  165. 5:44it's not bad
  166. 5:46um obviously if you work overtime like
  167. 5:48some of the nurses who have also been
  168. 5:50nurses for a long time uh i mean they
  169. 5:52can make six figures if if you work five
  170. 5:55what was your best way this year
  171. 5:57i think my best year i made like 55 000.
  172. 6:00because i rarely worked overtime right
  173. 6:01you know when i was just because i had
  174. 6:03the whole plan of going to uh to
  175. 6:05graduate school so i was just kind of
  176. 6:06using it as a stepping stone for that
  177. 6:08time just to pay the bills
  178. 6:10gotcha
  179. 6:11that's and what you're going for what
  180. 6:13does that pay nurse anesthesia pays
  181. 6:16i mean base like about 150 up to 175 you
  182. 6:20work a lot of overtime you can cusp 200
  183. 6:22but then you know so what would you
  184. 6:24actually be doing
  185. 6:25if i could do anything no i mean with
  186. 6:27that job that as nursing and right what
  187. 6:30would you do
  188. 6:31oh yeah
  189. 6:32thank you thank you uh you just be
  190. 6:34you're the you're in the or you put the
  191. 6:36patients to sleep keep them alive during
  192. 6:38surgery wake them up send them off to
  193. 6:40that i thought that was a doctor that
  194. 6:41did that
  195. 6:42in florida in florida the
  196. 6:44anesthesiologist which is the md
  197. 6:47equivalent if you will
  198. 6:48they have to come in at the start of
  199. 6:50surgery they have to induce the patient
  200. 6:51to put them to sleep and then as long as
  201. 6:53they're comfortable with you the surgeon
  202. 6:55is comfortable with you
  203. 6:56then the anesthesiologist leaves and
  204. 6:58then you take care of the whole entire
  205. 6:59surgeon
  206. 7:00right okay and then again you know by
  207. 7:03the time you're a crna you're obviously
  208. 7:06confident enough to wake the patient up
  209. 7:07so when i was a student though the
  210. 7:09anesthesiologist would sometimes come
  211. 7:11back in for wake up to make sure
  212. 7:12everything's okay
  213. 7:14and then you take them to the uh
  214. 7:15pacquiao or the post-op area drop them
  215. 7:18off you get the nurse report and then
  216. 7:20you go into your next case okay um
  217. 7:23high school where'd you go
  218. 7:25i went to timber creek high school on
  219. 7:28avalon okay and graduate what year
  220. 7:30uh 2007. okay
  221. 7:33and then did you go right to ucf and
  222. 7:34start your degree summer yeah okay
  223. 7:38what kind of grades you make
  224. 7:39i'll be great um high school and the
  225. 7:42first two years of college i was
  226. 7:45abc
  227. 7:47um
  228. 7:48you know i was in honors in the major
  229. 7:50program for uh ucf
  230. 7:53um and then my final two years when i
  231. 7:55was getting my my bsn
  232. 7:57i made a's and b's and then i had one
  233. 7:59slip up in my final semester where i had
  234. 8:01to
  235. 8:02redo a class
  236. 8:04and then i ended up graduating in
  237. 8:06august that's what year 2011.
  238. 8:09okay
  239. 8:10and did you start work right after that
  240. 8:14yeah i think like a couple months after
  241. 8:17where uh i went i first worked on the
  242. 8:19intermediate critical care unit at ormc
  243. 8:23in downtown okay
  244. 8:25and then went from where up to rollins
  245. 8:27at some point then i went to um
  246. 8:30i worked in the icc there at that
  247. 8:32hospital and then i worked in the multi
  248. 8:34system icu at that hospital
  249. 8:36uh and then i applied for the graduate
  250. 8:38school in
  251. 8:40december or i i started going in january
  252. 8:43of
  253. 8:452014
  254. 8:51that was at very university i think okay
  255. 8:54um
  256. 8:56girlfriends
  257. 8:57girlfriends i had
  258. 8:59like my high school sweetheart uh
  259. 9:01girlfriend
  260. 9:02um for about five years
  261. 9:05and then ever since then no like
  262. 9:06official girlfriends no flings or
  263. 9:08anything like that here and there
  264. 9:10dates occasionally but i mean not really
  265. 9:12kind of focused on like just getting
  266. 9:14through the life the life goals that you
  267. 9:16know i wanted to achieve
  268. 9:18and then um
  269. 9:20you know much of uh school debt
  270. 9:23school i mean not anything from ucf i
  271. 9:25have about a hundred thousand dollars
  272. 9:27i'd say from my math when i was going to
  273. 9:30berry
  274. 9:31so that's the only school debt that i
  275. 9:33have right now
  276. 9:34um
  277. 9:35it kind of creeped back up when i wasn't
  278. 9:37working so i wasn't i had to go into
  279. 9:38this deferred payments or whatever
  280. 9:40that's going on so i get a job
  281. 9:42what do you like to do
  282. 9:44what do i like to do i like to watch
  283. 9:45anime um
  284. 9:47me and my brother kind of started doing
  285. 9:49that back
  286. 9:51five years ago i said he kind of got me
  287. 9:53into it what is it i'm sorry oh oh sorry
  288. 9:55i don't know what it is i mean i think
  289. 9:57it said
  290. 9:59okay and then then when you start
  291. 10:01explaining to it i mean
  292. 10:03right now it's it's
  293. 10:04animated um
  294. 10:07it's like cartoons i guess you could say
  295. 10:09but it's japanese
  296. 10:10cartoons i guess the best way to put it
  297. 10:12so
  298. 10:13um it's not as it's like the the stories
  299. 10:16and whatnot and the way that the shows
  300. 10:18progress it's not as childish as
  301. 10:21cartoons as you would think like
  302. 10:22powderpuff girls and spongebob
  303. 10:24squarepants and all that stuff it's not
  304. 10:26like that so it's adult-based it's a
  305. 10:27doll face yeah i'm gonna put it that way
  306. 10:29yeah it's a cover i mean you can cover
  307. 10:31like slice of life versus comedies it
  308. 10:33can get dramatic romance all those
  309. 10:35different where do you where would one
  310. 10:36watch this
  311. 10:37um
  312. 10:38you you download it
  313. 10:40from the ad and then you can just watch
  314. 10:42it at home like on your computer you can
  315. 10:43watch it on uh you can watch it anywhere
  316. 10:46is it is it in japanese or it isn't
  317. 10:48japanese and then they uh it's about
  318. 10:50hollywood yeah you speak japanese that's
  319. 10:52what i say do you understand i don't i
  320. 10:54understand a few words we actually just
  321. 10:56went to uh me my brother and one of my
  322. 10:59friends or i guess friends from high
  323. 11:01school we went to japan in
  324. 11:04from december 1st to december 15th oh
  325. 11:07wow so we went because i mean and it was
  326. 11:09anime that kind of inspired us
  327. 11:11that one yeah first time actually who is
  328. 11:13your brother
  329. 11:14our friend jericho jericho he uh he's
  330. 11:17been he was originally a friend of my
  331. 11:18brothers back in high school and then we
  332. 11:20all kind of stayed close how expensive
  333. 11:22was that trip
  334. 11:24um
  335. 11:25and we got 20 tickets alone we're like
  336. 11:271400 bucks and then
  337. 11:30i'd say it was probably about
  338. 11:3210 grand total for like all those days
  339. 11:34for each one of you yeah wow i mean it
  340. 11:37was about it was two weeks so how did
  341. 11:39you know
  342. 11:40yeah
  343. 11:41how did how did you spend your time over
  344. 11:43there oh god it was we went to tokyo for
  345. 11:46the first four days and we stayed there
  346. 11:48and then we went to kyoto for two days
  347. 11:50and then i cannot remember all the names
  348. 11:52of the specific places but then it just
  349. 11:53stayed it was like one day stays at rio
  350. 11:56cons which are like guest houses or ends
  351. 11:59um
  352. 12:00that's food food is great but we were
  353. 12:03too scared to actually go into like the
  354. 12:04shops like the just like the side shops
  355. 12:07because
  356. 12:08all in japanese they all know what
  357. 12:10they're doing and we don't want to like
  358. 12:13say it wrong or do whatever like impose
  359. 12:16so uh we actually survived a lot at
  360. 12:19night on just like um
  361. 12:23food that you get from 7-eleven because
  362. 12:24over there over there it's called seven
  363. 12:26and i
  364. 12:27but
  365. 12:28it's like the 7-eleven symbol so it's
  366. 12:30the same exact thing and
  367. 12:32it's got way better food than what like
  368. 12:33the seven ones that we have here
  369. 12:35so we would go back oh yeah yeah we
  370. 12:37would go back yeah we i think we were
  371. 12:39actually planning on going back
  372. 12:41november of this year
  373. 12:43how long have you been out of work i've
  374. 12:44been out of work for six months since
  375. 12:46june how did you pay that's a lot of
  376. 12:48money to be out of work my brother oh
  377. 12:50yeah my brother what's he doing he's
  378. 12:52he's the crna
  379. 12:55sorry the the certified registered nurse
  380. 12:57and that's the thing
  381. 12:58okay what you were what you what we were
  382. 13:00both in the program together okay and
  383. 13:01then he was able to finish and then i
  384. 13:03did not so he was making good money yeah
  385. 13:05yeah was he making that hundred fifty
  386. 13:06hundred he was working
  387. 13:09he was working a lot i mean i don't know
  388. 13:10if he was i think he was cusping a lot
  389. 13:12of overtime not scheduled but like it's
  390. 13:15just kind of what happened
  391. 13:16um but yeah he was moving along what do
  392. 13:18you think he made his best year
  393. 13:21god he showed me because he was uh
  394. 13:24he went he was complaining about how
  395. 13:27like
  396. 13:28his taxes alone were like the annual
  397. 13:30income of like a nurse
  398. 13:32and i think when he showed me before
  399. 13:34like it all ended like the uh before his
  400. 13:38pay year had ended
  401. 13:40that he was already up to like 166 but
  402. 13:43that was like after i think the 60 000
  403. 13:45or 40 000 already came out i can't
  404. 13:48remember that was after it yeah i think
  405. 13:50so so he made more than 160 that was
  406. 13:52taken yeah wow
  407. 13:55so we definitely we definitely picked a
  408. 13:57long time i should have stayed in
  409. 13:58nursing yeah
  410. 14:00so he just paid for your trip to go said
  411. 14:02you're both into this right yeah okay um
  412. 14:07jericho
  413. 14:08what's he do uh he
  414. 14:10he's got just a high school diploma so
  415. 14:13he
  416. 14:14i think for the majority of the past
  417. 14:16year he was working as one of those um
  418. 14:19what are they called
  419. 14:20they're like the people that watch the
  420. 14:22security cams when you go into like a
  421. 14:23gap or something like that he's like
  422. 14:26lost prevention that's good correct
  423. 14:28how did he pay for all that i i mean i
  424. 14:30guess he just saved uh probably didn't
  425. 14:32have to pay for him no no no yeah he he
  426. 14:34like covered maybe some like daily
  427. 14:36expenses if there was like a taxi or
  428. 14:38something right how long did you guys
  429. 14:39plan this prior
  430. 14:42yeah i mean it had been a dream of ours
  431. 14:44to go for
  432. 14:46a couple years and then we really
  433. 14:48started planning probably just the year
  434. 14:50before
  435. 14:50like actually like putting the money
  436. 14:52aside getting all the reservations and
  437. 14:54whatnot schedules like the dream trip to
  438. 14:56go to their jobs this is for that anime
  439. 14:58you know what
  440. 14:59i mean it was the inspiration when we
  441. 15:01went there though we just kind of took
  442. 15:03up all the culture because
  443. 15:05through the anime you kind of see little
  444. 15:06glimpses of what the culture is actually
  445. 15:08like so then we just want to kind of
  446. 15:10experience all that so it was a good
  447. 15:11time definitely worth going back for
  448. 15:13definitely definitely um
  449. 15:16hobbies what do you like to do okay so
  450. 15:19besides the anime um
  451. 15:21besides that we
  452. 15:23would play video games we actually just
  453. 15:25got like a virtual reality
  454. 15:28headset thingy for like the computer
  455. 15:31um that was kind of fun
  456. 15:33what kind of games you play
  457. 15:34oh god back in the day
  458. 15:37we played call of duty a lot like back
  459. 15:39in the day and then we got out of that
  460. 15:41so just starting to get to like which
  461. 15:43system is
  462. 15:44playstation oh playstation then we went
  463. 15:46to xbox because that was like what a
  464. 15:48couple of our friends had and then we
  465. 15:50went back to playstation and then me and
  466. 15:51my brother got into pc gaming we're on
  467. 15:54that we just play like mobas which are
  468. 15:56like strategy type games rpg type games
  469. 16:00so i've got to ask that you're in these
  470. 16:01games
  471. 16:02did you hack
  472. 16:03did i hack you guys
  473. 16:05did you and your brother had games with
  474. 16:16[Music]
  475. 16:21i mean we would use like um
  476. 16:23like glitches or something like that
  477. 16:25when we would play on the pc
  478. 16:27where you could like have no recoil or
  479. 16:29you know
  480. 16:30it would like auto aim or something like
  481. 16:32that
  482. 16:33so some guesses answer
  483. 16:36but we didn't we didn't hack other
  484. 16:37people's accounts
  485. 16:39i've seen people in the middle of an
  486. 16:41xbox game
  487. 16:43they'll tell you that they'll find
  488. 16:44somebody that's cheating and they'll
  489. 16:46you'll see this big hand come in and
  490. 16:47grab them they say come over here
  491. 16:49against this section of the game and the
  492. 16:51guy's splattered against the wall and
  493. 16:52they just stand there and they shoot him
  494. 16:54he dies and he comes right back there oh
  495. 16:55you're not one of those guys
  496. 16:57all right all right all right
  497. 16:58unfortunately there's no question i have
  498. 16:59a big problem you probably got me before
  499. 17:02so you guys play a lot of of the pc
  500. 17:04games yeah we started getting the pc
  501. 17:06games primarily we kind of i haven't
  502. 17:08turned on my playstation in months
  503. 17:11um i think the only other game that we
  504. 17:12really played was fortnight but then
  505. 17:14that was starting to get to like it's a
  506. 17:16big deal right now yeah the young kids
  507. 17:18are all over and and actually yeah
  508. 17:20during the time that i was um
  509. 17:22that i wasn't working as a nurse i tried
  510. 17:24to do the whole twitch streaming thing
  511. 17:26what is that um
  512. 17:28i'm sorry i don't know what kind of we
  513. 17:30have to explain a lot of this to us with
  514. 17:31uh with twitch it's you got your mic and
  515. 17:34then you have your face cam and then
  516. 17:36basically people are just watching you
  517. 17:37play whatever game you're gonna say that
  518. 17:38you're playing okay and then you know
  519. 17:40they can donate they can subscribe to
  520. 17:42you which then you get like a monthly
  521. 17:43payment
  522. 17:44um or anybody doing that for you i had
  523. 17:47like a i think i was up to like 30
  524. 17:49something subscribers and what what
  525. 17:51would you charge them on uh
  526. 17:53with with subscriptions there's four
  527. 17:55tiers of it uh tier one is just five
  528. 17:57dollars so right when you see that you
  529. 17:59oh blank subscribe to you get five
  530. 18:01dollars uh monthly or just total
  531. 18:04actually it's everything to which page
  532. 18:05you're every 45 days because you're like
  533. 18:06an independent
  534. 18:08self-employed people saying with their
  535. 18:09account though they subscribe to you
  536. 18:11would be for a 30-day period yeah so
  537. 18:13every 30 days they owe you another five
  538. 18:15bucks if they resubscribe
  539. 18:17so then there was that uh tier two was
  540. 18:19like ten dollars two or three was
  541. 18:21fifteen then somebody tier four it was
  542. 18:2424 i think and what does that get you
  543. 18:26for
  544. 18:26all all the higher tiers do is they give
  545. 18:28you like more emotes like little things
  546. 18:30you can put in chat so when you're
  547. 18:32playing everybody who's in your room can
  548. 18:34chat about you know what you're doing or
  549. 18:36you know anything random
  550. 18:37um
  551. 18:39and then donations are just can range
  552. 18:41from one cent up to however
  553. 18:44what were we making off of twitch a
  554. 18:45month
  555. 18:46nothing really significant it was like
  556. 18:48so yeah you said about 30 people at one
  557. 18:50time yeah subscribe to you so minimum
  558. 18:52what
  559. 18:54then a few 155
  560. 18:56uh
  561. 18:57but primarily i guess just keeping
  562. 18:59myself busy right doing something
  563. 19:00there's a lot of money in there are
  564. 19:02these
  565. 19:02are these adult students or kids
  566. 19:05they're in their early 20s
  567. 19:07there's
  568. 19:10and thousands of streamers uh who do
  569. 19:12that on twitch but there's maybe like
  570. 19:14five that made six figures
  571. 19:16and then
  572. 19:18like the two most prominent ones are
  573. 19:19ninja and tim the tatman
  574. 19:21and they both play fortnite uh like
  575. 19:24ninja i think makes 300 grand a month
  576. 19:28from just 300 grand yeah and where's he
  577. 19:30ends
  578. 19:32like where does he live no
  579. 19:34u.s japan somewhere oh yeah he's us i
  580. 19:36think he lives up by chicago or
  581. 19:38something like that
  582. 19:39and but he's only he's only 24. no
  583. 19:41oblivious to all this computer stuff no
  584. 19:43yeah we played atari when i was younger
  585. 19:46yeah nice retro gaming or hogs
  586. 19:49pong yes first
  587. 19:52so you you do that and
  588. 19:55so you got a lot of computer knowledge
  589. 19:57a good amount you know i mean oh more
  590. 19:59than the average person yeah yeah i'm
  591. 20:01computer savvy yeah yeah uh computer
  592. 20:03home good
  593. 20:04computer i have it yeah i have a gaming
  594. 20:05pc up in my room um
  595. 20:08and then there's another gaming pc
  596. 20:10downstairs that we just built for the vr
  597. 20:13specifically you guys build it yeah
  598. 20:16and then uh but i mean yeah even like my
  599. 20:18gaming pc like we would buy all the
  600. 20:19parts and then we would put it together
  601. 20:20our own what wait what what would a good
  602. 20:22one cost you
  603. 20:23when i built mine it was
  604. 20:25about three grand and then the gaming
  605. 20:28one downstairs i think was
  606. 20:31four thousand or like forty five hundred
  607. 20:33and that's basically used within the vr
  608. 20:35stuff yeah yeah yeah that was pretty
  609. 20:37neat yeah yeah that was a lot of fun
  610. 20:39yeah that was cool
  611. 20:40getting into the pedagogy
  612. 20:42on virtual reality it was primarily just
  613. 20:44beat saber so it's like a rhythm based
  614. 20:47game like guitar hero like rock
  615. 20:49rocksmith or rock band whatever it was
  616. 20:52um and then you just use the virtual
  617. 20:54reality wands to hit the the cubes in a
  618. 20:56certain way however the song beats going
  619. 20:59and
  620. 20:59[Music]
  621. 21:00then yeah
  622. 21:02yeah apart from that uh we really didn't
  623. 21:05get into too many other games yes we
  624. 21:07were kind of just focused on beat saber
  625. 21:09but i think we had downloaded a few
  626. 21:10other where it's just like
  627. 21:12you're going through like a world and
  628. 21:14you can interact with the world or
  629. 21:16something like that
  630. 21:17what other hobbies yes
  631. 21:19besides that um
  632. 21:21a number of years ago like me and my
  633. 21:23brother were actually uh like gun
  634. 21:25enthusiasts and you know we got
  635. 21:28we did it wrong where we did it all
  636. 21:30during when the
  637. 21:32the season was like high so everything
  638. 21:34cost so much money cutting season yeah i
  639. 21:36guess so i mean for unfortunately we
  640. 21:38don't we don't hunt or anything like
  641. 21:39that but um we would go like clay
  642. 21:42shooting
  643. 21:43um where'd you get
  644. 21:45them primarily primarily the place we
  645. 21:47went to is uh quail creek plantation
  646. 21:50where's that
  647. 21:52like i was telling you the car i don't
  648. 21:53remember the
  649. 21:54local or is it it's like an hour and a
  650. 21:56half away from here you know what
  651. 21:57county's in our city um
  652. 22:00creek plantation the only place i know
  653. 22:02gun range i really know i mean that you
  654. 22:03do stuff like that is out in geneva
  655. 22:06geneva right yeah i think there's one
  656. 22:07out there
  657. 22:08i mean that might be where it is but i
  658. 22:10don't remember the city specifically uh
  659. 22:12but we would do the clay shooting and
  660. 22:13then we were part of the volus county
  661. 22:16gun and shooting i love ourselves yeah
  662. 22:18whatever
  663. 22:19but that was like two years ago
  664. 22:22um the only thing that we really kept up
  665. 22:23with was clay shooting
  666. 22:25but even that i don't think we've done
  667. 22:27that for like eight months or something
  668. 22:28what were you shooting what were you
  669. 22:29what what was your gun for that would
  670. 22:31you like uh me and my brother both got
  671. 22:33the benelli
  672. 22:35uh like long
  673. 22:36supernote super
  674. 22:38magnum super
  675. 22:41uh we both had those and then
  676. 22:44during the time where like i was
  677. 22:46struggling like in the last six months i
  678. 22:47mean i sold all of my guns
  679. 22:49what did you have
  680. 22:50what did i get a little gun collection
  681. 22:52going i did i had um i had about four
  682. 22:55ars uh they were all just where you
  683. 22:58would buy like the different parts again
  684. 22:59kind of like with the pc and then just
  685. 23:00put them all together because i'm not
  686. 23:03going like that
  687. 23:04why so many hours
  688. 23:06i mean again it was we were just like an
  689. 23:07enthusiast for wanting to build our own
  690. 23:09things and just kind of seeing what we
  691. 23:11will you know you might have already
  692. 23:12made we would buy the specific parts and
  693. 23:15then have them sent to the the gun clubs
  694. 23:17or whatever so that you could pick them
  695. 23:18up um and then yeah and then we put them
  696. 23:20all together you put them you guys build
  697. 23:22them yourself you have to be doing it
  698. 23:23for you no no no so you had four yards
  699. 23:25what'd you have
  700. 23:26um besides that i had uh benally m4
  701. 23:30uh
  702. 23:31shot shotgun yeah
  703. 23:32tactical shotgun one's in that form
  704. 23:35that was just that was like our space
  705. 23:37that was just our gun that like me and
  706. 23:39my brother both had one of those
  707. 23:41yeah and then
  708. 23:43we had um
  709. 23:44that had always just been our dream gun
  710. 23:45that we just wanted to have with them a
  711. 23:47tactical m4
  712. 23:49we took it to the range a couple of
  713. 23:50times just to make it
  714. 23:51like i've got an m1 oh nice yeah but the
  715. 23:54m4 is much nicer yeah
  716. 23:56um and then we have the supernovas which
  717. 23:58we just use for clay shooting and then
  718. 24:01uh pistols wise
  719. 24:05i had
  720. 24:08i think four or five just pistols
  721. 24:10yeah i had a glock
  722. 24:1317 i believe it was
  723. 24:16um i had uh
  724. 24:22it's not the shield
  725. 24:25it's a smith and wesson m9
  726. 24:27something i don't remember what it is
  727. 24:30and then i had a
  728. 24:32taurus
  729. 24:34which was i think like a 40 cal 45
  730. 24:36caliber and then i had uh again it's
  731. 24:39like the dream gun that i always wanted
  732. 24:41was the uh
  733. 24:44the fn tactical 45
  734. 24:48looks like the threaded barrel and all
  735. 24:49that stuff
  736. 24:50um tv gun yeah exactly no no no
  737. 24:53suppressors or anything like that
  738. 24:54because again during that time it's like
  739. 24:56to get your stamp alone would take six
  740. 24:58months and then you gotta wait however
  741. 25:00long to get that back so we never got we
  742. 25:02never got that deep into it
  743. 25:04um still have them all you said you got
  744. 25:06rid of something i sold all my guests
  745. 25:08yeah which sums it up uh
  746. 25:11the florida gun exchange the what
  747. 25:14florida gun exchange
  748. 25:15it's down in
  749. 25:18uh they have one and god i am just it's
  750. 25:20some ormond beach
  751. 25:22beach that's the one you took them over
  752. 25:24and sold them yeah tell them all at one
  753. 25:25time or no no just because i didn't want
  754. 25:28to go in with too many right then i felt
  755. 25:29like they didn't look at you like who's
  756. 25:31this guy with all these guns yeah or
  757. 25:32they would they would like
  758. 25:34cut me a lower deal because i've given
  759. 25:36them like a whole bunch what'd you get
  760. 25:38for the rs
  761. 25:39ars unfortunately like it wasn't that
  762. 25:41much it was only like
  763. 25:43three grand or something like that
  764. 25:45yeah just because they're like you spend
  765. 25:46on anything way more like at least
  766. 25:48double
  767. 25:49because again we bought them during the
  768. 25:51height of the season and then i'm
  769. 25:52selling apparently where it's like not a
  770. 25:54good season to sell and they told me
  771. 25:57that if they're not
  772. 25:58just like
  773. 26:00like companies that i can't even think
  774. 26:02of one like companies that make their
  775. 26:03own and they're just like a fool like
  776. 26:05this whole gun is all by this company or
  777. 26:07whatever
  778. 26:08those apparently sell for more than like
  779. 26:10a custom one because some people might
  780. 26:13not like what i put on it you know
  781. 26:15so um
  782. 26:16i think that's why i probably think
  783. 26:17about the hand guys would you even know
  784. 26:19hand guns was maybe like
  785. 26:22total was like fifteen hundred dollars
  786. 26:24or something like that a lot more than
  787. 26:25those and the fn alone was sixteen
  788. 26:27hundred dollars by all mall news yeah
  789. 26:29all know the the rivals you put together
  790. 26:32rifles we put you down to customize them
  791. 26:33yeah
  792. 26:34guns handguns were brand new shotguns
  793. 26:36were new we were getting dragons what
  794. 26:38would you get for them for for the m4
  795. 26:40that one was like the highest one i
  796. 26:41think they gave me like 1100 for it
  797. 26:44about 15.
  798. 26:47um and then for the uh the supernova it
  799. 26:50was only about 700 but that one cost
  800. 26:52about 1200
  801. 26:53and that one
  802. 26:55i think we actually had to get from
  803. 26:56gander mountain
  804. 26:57um
  805. 26:58way back when you have any of these left
  806. 27:00anything or you he did keep anything for
  807. 27:02yourself no no i ended up covering
  808. 27:04everything got
  809. 27:06i was just trying to get some semblance
  810. 27:08of money in
  811. 27:09um keep up with your payments keep up
  812. 27:11with my payments but also because like
  813. 27:13the the whole trip was coming down the
  814. 27:15line
  815. 27:16um
  816. 27:16you know my brother had to like foot the
  817. 27:19bill for the to get the attorney
  818. 27:22um so you know it's like there was a lot
  819. 27:24of stuff what do you think you turned
  820. 27:25you know i think it was eight thousand
  821. 27:26dollars for the
  822. 27:28holding holding the attorney right
  823. 27:30retainer retainership and basically she
  824. 27:32had to do nothing she had to do nothing
  825. 27:34and
  826. 27:35um
  827. 27:37he got like annoyed because
  828. 27:39he like he apparently wasn't told that
  829. 27:42it was non-refundable but i right like i
  830. 27:44know that i told him because like i send
  831. 27:46in the documents signing and saying this
  832. 27:48is not refund i've known
  833. 27:50any attorney that takes a retainer that
  834. 27:51ever gives you anything back yeah so
  835. 27:54i didn't hire me that's what it's gonna
  836. 27:55cost yeah i didn't he didn't get
  837. 27:56anything back from that unfortunately
  838. 27:58and she ended up i think only going
  839. 28:00through about 3 000 of it
  840. 28:02so because
  841. 28:05what was it i think 5 000 was for the
  842. 28:07criminal case and then 3 000 was for the
  843. 28:10other case if it had to go to the
  844. 28:11department of health which that never
  845. 28:13had to happen so that 3 000 is just so
  846. 28:15you're nursing
  847. 28:16so good uh free clearing act it's always
  848. 28:18been clear and active it's just the
  849. 28:20quintessential you go to that background
  850. 28:22check and then they'll see an
  851. 28:23outstanding thing even though i have the
  852. 28:26paperwork now saying
  853. 28:28everything's been dropped he's in the
  854. 28:30process of expunging his records did you
  855. 28:31have to go in front of the board or
  856. 28:32anything no no i didn't have to go
  857. 28:34before the judge because one
  858. 28:36board of nursing i don't know if any of
  859. 28:38this that's good
  860. 28:39um
  861. 28:40you know even when even when it all went
  862. 28:43down on the day where uh i was accused
  863. 28:46of that of that felony
  864. 28:48you know the uh the cops came in and
  865. 28:50then they handcuffed me and they were
  866. 28:51like you know you've been charged with
  867. 28:53this we're
  868. 28:54taking you down to the
  869. 28:56it um
  870. 28:57orange county the orange county
  871. 28:59jail area
  872. 29:00you know i'd have the picture taken and
  873. 29:02stay in the the
  874. 29:04sitting area where they
  875. 29:06process you all and everything like that
  876. 29:07and
  877. 29:08you know i'm using the phones on the
  878. 29:11cord you know trying to just pass around
  879. 29:14the phone
  880. 29:15i'm surrounded by all these guys who are
  881. 29:17talking about you know you're a real
  882. 29:18criminal yeah
  883. 29:20and the first person i call is my dad i
  884. 29:23mean my brother and
  885. 29:25what is your brother's name cody cody
  886. 29:27sorry
  887. 29:29um first person i called him and
  888. 29:32he was at work at the time but he
  889. 29:33answered his phone and i was just like
  890. 29:36look
  891. 29:37i'm freaking out i've been charged with
  892. 29:40this i've been told that my bond is this
  893. 29:42and then he i guess he tells
  894. 29:45you know whoever was was working that
  895. 29:47day with him i gotta i gotta go
  896. 29:49so then he uh he calls my mom
  897. 29:52he calls my dad
  898. 29:54he smooths things over as best as he can
  899. 29:56he's just basically saying i'm going to
  900. 29:58to pay this
  901. 30:00um
  902. 30:01and then i think i was there for like
  903. 30:02seven hours or something even though it
  904. 30:04was paid within like the first hour
  905. 30:06right it just takes a little time to get
  906. 30:07a lot of paperwork instead of booking in
  907. 30:09and in the bond process to go through
  908. 30:10right now right
  909. 30:12so
  910. 30:13that's dismissed you're out looking for
  911. 30:15jobs applying free regular
  912. 30:17yeah i mean i yeah yeah i'd say pretty
  913. 30:18regular anything left in savings nothing
  914. 30:21less than savings i think i had like
  915. 30:22three four hundred dollars uh but this
  916. 30:24is a brother kind of helping you through
  917. 30:26yeah i mean brother was helping me my
  918. 30:28dad was covering um the rent that he
  919. 30:30called it which is just like the monthly
  920. 30:32payment to for us to help since we all
  921. 30:34live at home what was that what was your
  922. 30:35favorite six hundred dollars a month
  923. 30:37yeah
  924. 30:38and then um it's not a bad deal isn't it
  925. 30:41no and then i mean he was he was
  926. 30:43covering like cell phone we were paying
  927. 30:45for our own internet
  928. 30:47um
  929. 30:49i imagine for that game concept you
  930. 30:50gotta have better than basic basic
  931. 30:52internet didn't you yeah unfortunately
  932. 30:54out where we live it's it's like our
  933. 30:57street like the street coming down i
  934. 30:59think for christmas before you turn in
  935. 31:01like that's the dividing line everything
  936. 31:04before you turn into fort christmas all
  937. 31:06the nice big fancy houses that are on
  938. 31:08that side
  939. 31:09they all have spectrum and the gigabyte
  940. 31:11connections they have everything
  941. 31:12available to them but then right when
  942. 31:14you come down here where i guess the
  943. 31:15older neighborhoods are they haven't
  944. 31:17branched out everything so i think it
  945. 31:19was just a t
  946. 31:21that was providing service and i mean we
  947. 31:22have the highest one but it's still like
  948. 31:25i think it was 50 megabytes
  949. 31:27downloaded like 10 megabytes upload so i
  950. 31:29mean it's not that great but it was
  951. 31:30basically all your computer systems were
  952. 31:32underworked for what yeah their
  953. 31:34capabilities yeah oh yeah yeah so i'm
  954. 31:36sure that virtual reality takes up a lot
  955. 31:38of
  956. 31:38speed doesn't it yeah yeah
  957. 31:41um let's see
  958. 31:43closer to your brother cody let's talk
  959. 31:44about coach oh yeah yeah yeah me and
  960. 31:46cody he's older you were him he is i'm
  961. 31:48the youngest one i'm 29 he's 31. my
  962. 31:50oldest brother jason is 35 for 36 now
  963. 31:54um
  964. 31:55who who lives at home
  965. 31:57all three boys no no it's just me and
  966. 31:59cody and then mom and dad okay uh tell
  967. 32:02me about talk about cody cody
  968. 32:04let's see uh me and cody had the
  969. 32:06quintessential
  970. 32:08rough like
  971. 32:10fighting each other and whatnot and
  972. 32:11where are you
  973. 32:12right typical
  974. 32:14but then i would say like my junior year
  975. 32:16of high school
  976. 32:17we were on the weightlifting team
  977. 32:18together uh that's where i got to know a
  978. 32:20lot of like his guy friends um
  979. 32:23and
  980. 32:24you know we just we stopped like arguing
  981. 32:27at that point and then
  982. 32:29we all you know we decided to go to
  983. 32:30nursing school together we decided to go
  984. 32:32to the
  985. 32:33nurse anesthesia school together
  986. 32:34um
  987. 32:36i mean we did everything together i mean
  988. 32:38we were a better student
  989. 32:39he was the better student in
  990. 32:42everything up through nursing school and
  991. 32:44then i was actually the better student
  992. 32:46in nurse anesthesia school
  993. 32:48but uh there was like a
  994. 32:50again kind of like are you guys sorry
  995. 32:52are you guys at the same time in the
  996. 32:55same classes yeah
  997. 32:56so you're
  998. 32:58not not for nursing school not for
  999. 32:59nursing no i mean for the anesthesia
  1000. 33:01yeah we sat right next to each other so
  1001. 33:02you're in there doing things together so
  1002. 33:04you got somebody to study with yeah
  1003. 33:05somebody to work to bounce things off of
  1004. 33:07them yeah and we would do that all the
  1005. 33:09time we're burning the midnight oil but
  1006. 33:11you were better at it
  1007. 33:12yeah uh and that was the one time that
  1008. 33:14he actually admitted that i was uh
  1009. 33:16didactically more
  1010. 33:18competent than him in that field
  1011. 33:20um
  1012. 33:22and then who's better than weightlifting
  1013. 33:24he was okay he he broke a number of
  1014. 33:27school records
  1015. 33:29uh i think he was like the 129 weight
  1016. 33:31class that was the 119 weight class
  1017. 33:33but uh he was he was definitely stronger
  1018. 33:36than uh in
  1019. 33:37high school
  1020. 33:38and then um
  1021. 33:41but yeah uh we were
  1022. 33:43close i mean
  1023. 33:44i mean like bonded you know um
  1024. 33:47i don't really know how else to really
  1025. 33:48say it was a lot of people thought that
  1026. 33:50it was weird
  1027. 33:51because we did everything together and
  1028. 33:53because we were so close but
  1029. 33:56yeah i mean a lot of people understand
  1030. 33:58the bond of brother though yeah the true
  1031. 33:59bond if you're closing and i mean during
  1032. 34:01like this whole time i mean kind of like
  1033. 34:02with just a few examples i've given you
  1034. 34:04he was he'd take care of everything
  1035. 34:07there for you yeah always there to
  1036. 34:08support you always there
  1037. 34:10um fight with you one minute but make
  1038. 34:12sure that you were not stuck in jail for
  1039. 34:14some silly charge right nice
  1040. 34:16and um
  1041. 34:18yeah i mean he was just
  1042. 34:20he's always been there for me so
  1043. 34:23with my oldest brother jason not so much
  1044. 34:24just because he was
  1045. 34:26adopted to begin with um
  1046. 34:29and then
  1047. 34:31he was adopted by who my dad he was my
  1048. 34:33mom's son
  1049. 34:34mom married before your dad no no just
  1050. 34:37hadn't just had him
  1051. 34:39um
  1052. 34:40and then he was heavily restricted when
  1053. 34:42we were younger uh for for lying and
  1054. 34:44stuff like that to her dad
  1055. 34:46so basically he was like
  1056. 34:48uh he would go to school and then he'd
  1057. 34:50come home he'd have to stay in his room
  1058. 34:52there's like no tv or anything like that
  1059. 34:54especially enough you know 15 years ago
  1060. 34:56or something like that
  1061. 34:57but um he would come down for dinner and
  1062. 34:59then he'd go back up and he'd do his
  1063. 35:00work uh on the weekends and whatnot he
  1064. 35:03would like go out and pick weeds and
  1065. 35:05like do that stuff and then come in and
  1066. 35:06then do the same thing so unfortunately
  1067. 35:09me and cody never really got to interact
  1068. 35:11with jason the oldest brother a whole
  1069. 35:14lot
  1070. 35:15but i mean jason's been
  1071. 35:18like i think he's one of the most
  1072. 35:19genuine people that you'd ever meet he's
  1073. 35:22cody's definitely you're way closer with
  1074. 35:25yeah yeah live hands down handsome go on
  1075. 35:27vacations he's helping with bills
  1076. 35:29helping with with the legal issues right
  1077. 35:31and i mean studying together together we
  1078. 35:33yeah did everything together connected
  1079. 35:35at the hip
  1080. 35:36any
  1081. 35:36issues really with him
  1082. 35:38no like i was saying during this last
  1083. 35:40six months it had been a very trying
  1084. 35:42time um you know financially trying to
  1085. 35:45get the job thing going worrying about
  1086. 35:48this whole what's going to happen with
  1087. 35:49this legal stuff
  1088. 35:51um
  1089. 35:52but like even through it all i mean
  1090. 35:55he would like have his moments where he
  1091. 35:57would get
  1092. 35:58extremely upset like uh
  1093. 36:01like you know he never gets
  1094. 36:03violent i guess you could say but like
  1095. 36:05at one point he got so upset that he
  1096. 36:08like pushed the cabinet and then it like
  1097. 36:09dented into the wall
  1098. 36:11um and he i mean so he'll like lose his
  1099. 36:13temper kind of my dad but
  1100. 36:15um
  1101. 36:17yeah i mean at least with me he's always
  1102. 36:19been
  1103. 36:21like where he's he's there for me like
  1104. 36:24whatever it takes regardless of what's
  1105. 36:26happening i'm gonna take care of it for
  1106. 36:28you
  1107. 36:29um
  1108. 36:30and i mean
  1109. 36:32over like the last six months i mean
  1110. 36:34it's
  1111. 36:35it's been sad for me because like i see
  1112. 36:39everything that like he's doing and like
  1113. 36:42i can't
  1114. 36:43be like how i've always been with him
  1115. 36:45where you know i'm i'm helping out too
  1116. 36:48or i can do something for you right you
  1117. 36:50know where we're kind of on the same
  1118. 36:52playing field
  1119. 36:53i know you should make more money than
  1120. 36:54me and all that kind of stuff but it's
  1121. 36:55like
  1122. 36:56you know we can do the stuff together
  1123. 36:58you don't have to pay for my dinner you
  1124. 36:59know when we go out with the guys you
  1125. 37:00don't have to pay for the trip you know
  1126. 37:03it's just so you know i couldn't help
  1127. 37:05relieving stress i guess as well as i
  1128. 37:07always used to and also the camaraderie
  1129. 37:10yeah you got your brother to go do stuff
  1130. 37:11with right but then i mean i know for me
  1131. 37:14i had been bummed out just because like
  1132. 37:16i've been out of work i've you know my
  1133. 37:17whole life it's been
  1134. 37:19school work school back to work and then
  1135. 37:23just
  1136. 37:24i mean that's it you know sacrifice all
  1137. 37:26my 20s and everyone tailgating or
  1138. 37:27anything like that do you have any
  1139. 37:29issues with depression over all the
  1140. 37:31legal issues and beyond i would say that
  1141. 37:33i was depressed but um
  1142. 37:36you know i'd always put on the put on
  1143. 37:37the happy face for like my brother and
  1144. 37:40how would you deal with this person
  1145. 37:42you know i i talk to god uh i try and
  1146. 37:46just rationalize it in my head that you
  1147. 37:48know
  1148. 37:49i haven't heard anything from this
  1149. 37:50attorney in five months six months i
  1150. 37:53mean you'd think that if it was
  1151. 37:54something so severe that you would heard
  1152. 37:56about it by now
  1153. 37:57um so i was just trying to rationalize
  1154. 37:59to myself that
  1155. 38:02hopefully this can all get taken care of
  1156. 38:03and then i can get back i was looking
  1157. 38:05towards the future you know like then i
  1158. 38:07can do like what i'm doing now where
  1159. 38:09applying
  1160. 38:11you know everybody likes me when they
  1161. 38:13talk to me and they look at my resume
  1162. 38:14and they see all my experience and then
  1163. 38:16just waiting for if i get the call back
  1164. 38:18well you know of course i'm sure you
  1165. 38:20know this you've got that little blemish
  1166. 38:22yeah over no fault in yours it goes away
  1167. 38:25but still it's there they can see it
  1168. 38:26right and then you have to explain away
  1169. 38:28right here
  1170. 38:29even though
  1171. 38:31it was dropped you still have that that
  1172. 38:33little check mark that they you've got
  1173. 38:34to get by right and then that's that's
  1174. 38:36stuff that to be go from what you were
  1175. 38:38and you're working towards you know the
  1176. 38:40job your brother has right and you know
  1177. 38:43the financial gains you the difference
  1178. 38:44between the nurse and the program you're
  1179. 38:46going to it's it's it's a huge burden on
  1180. 38:48your course yeah you take any medication
  1181. 38:50for the depression no no never i never
  1182. 38:52took any uh even test medicate no i
  1183. 38:55never took any antidepressants or
  1184. 38:56anything like that i think um the only
  1185. 38:58thing just because like sleeping was
  1186. 39:00kind of off and on at a time
  1187. 39:02i would take like um
  1188. 39:04um like benadryl just like help me go to
  1189. 39:05sleep back at home and then
  1190. 39:08when um
  1191. 39:10i think the only other thing is like
  1192. 39:12sleep aid which is again it's just
  1193. 39:14different hydramine
  1194. 39:16you know secondary side effect is just
  1195. 39:18drowsiness it's not like it's actual
  1196. 39:19purpose and then melatonin just to help
  1197. 39:22with the sleep cycle because i work
  1198. 39:24nights all the time so i was always a
  1199. 39:26night owl always awake and then now it's
  1200. 39:28like trying to get back into trying to
  1201. 39:30because yeah i'd be going to days
  1202. 39:32um but that's the only thing i ever took
  1203. 39:34and then advil ibuprofen for like
  1204. 39:36headaches but no antidepressants no
  1205. 39:38medical history none of that type of
  1206. 39:40stuff but you and cody since you've been
  1207. 39:41adults any any physical fistfights
  1208. 39:43anything no when we were super young but
  1209. 39:46besides that no
  1210. 39:47yeah yeah um
  1211. 39:50so living at home is who
  1212. 39:53me cody
  1213. 39:57my mom has uh
  1214. 40:00she's always been the uh
  1215. 40:02it's kind of like cody she's always been
  1216. 40:03the one that
  1217. 40:05focused on me
  1218. 40:07and um
  1219. 40:09she i mean she she worked at home she uh
  1220. 40:13what she did she was
  1221. 40:15god i do not like a
  1222. 40:18something manager like a client manager
  1223. 40:20for nuanced transcription
  1224. 40:22company basically
  1225. 40:25uh nuance their major thing is medical
  1226. 40:27transcription okay so it's just all the
  1227. 40:29the
  1228. 40:29things that the doctors are saying while
  1229. 40:31you're in the hospital
  1230. 40:32and then um well we should make sure
  1231. 40:34that those all got transcribed she would
  1232. 40:36manage the people who did that who did
  1233. 40:38all the transcriptions and then she had
  1234. 40:40a couple people
  1235. 40:41where there's like the managers over
  1236. 40:43those people that then she would also
  1237. 40:44take care of and i think she was in the
  1238. 40:46stage now where she was kind of
  1239. 40:48branching out to different
  1240. 40:50uh countries so she had just gotten like
  1241. 40:52this canada account i think where she
  1242. 40:54had to basically do the same thing but
  1243. 40:55now it's just all she had a job oh yeah
  1244. 40:57good paying job it sounds like and yeah
  1245. 41:00she only
  1246. 41:02i think she told me that she completed
  1247. 41:05high school but if she didn't then she
  1248. 41:07didn't have a high school diploma or she
  1249. 41:08did i honestly can't remember
  1250. 41:10and with that
  1251. 41:12when she first started doing everything
  1252. 41:14like with my dad and she was just
  1253. 41:15medical transcriptionist so she wasn't
  1254. 41:17she's making like 35 000 a year or
  1255. 41:19something like that um but now she had
  1256. 41:21worked her way all the way up to making
  1257. 41:24about ninety thousand dollars a year
  1258. 41:27at this job trust will tell
  1259. 41:29you know hard work
  1260. 41:30yeah i'd hear complain and
  1261. 41:33do all that stuff
  1262. 41:34where was her office at uh
  1263. 41:37you come down the staircase and then
  1264. 41:39it's right to the right so it's like
  1265. 41:40it's got like a potted plant in there
  1266. 41:42it's got like a bay window oh the green
  1267. 41:44one no i don't think office oh she
  1268. 41:54so it's like it's like where like all of
  1269. 41:56our internet and crap is like the long
  1270. 41:59home office yeah
  1271. 42:01it was like originally a dining room but
  1272. 42:02then it was transitioned into like her
  1273. 42:04office
  1274. 42:05and the lights and fusses with mom
  1275. 42:07no i mean when were you the baby you
  1276. 42:09were truly the family baby for my mom
  1277. 42:12yeah okay for my mom
  1278. 42:14um i'm a favorite yeah and i mean i had
  1279. 42:17been being told that because again it's
  1280. 42:19like this last six or seven months was
  1281. 42:20just like stressful for everybody sure
  1282. 42:22and
  1283. 42:24you know countless times my dad would
  1284. 42:26like come up to me
  1285. 42:28and he'd make like me feel
  1286. 42:32like he trying to use things and word
  1287. 42:34things to make me feel guilty so that
  1288. 42:36i would
  1289. 42:37you know do everything that i can like a
  1290. 42:39job almost like a motivation right
  1291. 42:41uh and he he'd tell me time and time
  1292. 42:44again that you know you're her favorite
  1293. 42:46i mean she would do anything for you
  1294. 42:48and
  1295. 42:49i mean it's like yeah i don't need to
  1296. 42:50hear that i mean that's not what would
  1297. 42:52motivate me sure um but no with mom
  1298. 42:56i think we yelled at each other a grand
  1299. 42:58total of like three or four times my
  1300. 43:00whole life
  1301. 43:01um
  1302. 43:02i've never like yelled at her
  1303. 43:05for anything because i mean she's never
  1304. 43:06done anything wrong she's always been
  1305. 43:08the one who's stood by you stood by me
  1306. 43:10but tried you know even during our early
  1307. 43:12childhood when
  1308. 43:14it was really rough with our dad
  1309. 43:16uh
  1310. 43:18my dad's the leo taipei
  1311. 43:20italian
  1312. 43:22personality man he's very focused on his
  1313. 43:26future
  1314. 43:28um he's very focused on everything that
  1315. 43:30he's sacrificed in his life
  1316. 43:33for the better betterment of all of us
  1317. 43:35um
  1318. 43:37you know he's always dreamed of going
  1319. 43:38hiking up in the mountains they have a
  1320. 43:39property up in tennessee that they built
  1321. 43:42and
  1322. 43:43i've actually me and cody and jason have
  1323. 43:45never been up to that house just cause
  1324. 43:46then mom and dad hide that from me
  1325. 43:48that's our secret hideaway a little bit
  1326. 43:50no kids allowed a little bit but i mean
  1327. 43:52they have you seen the picture then oh
  1328. 43:54yeah yeah
  1329. 43:55um it's nice it's like i think my dad
  1330. 43:57has emphasized that it's about half the
  1331. 43:58size of the house out in julio where we
  1332. 44:01all grew up
  1333. 44:03um but it's i mean super modern it's got
  1334. 44:06like the brick layout on the whole thing
  1335. 44:08it's on
  1336. 44:09like four or six acres or something like
  1337. 44:12that is this is
  1338. 44:13and where's that
  1339. 44:14tennessee he's in tennessee and it's um
  1340. 44:17is this is this something is what a
  1341. 44:19place like they rent the rental cabin
  1342. 44:20areas for a lot of touristy people no no
  1343. 44:22it's very secluded it's uh
  1344. 44:25god i can why am i so terrible
  1345. 44:27remembering these things it is
  1346. 44:32it's like an hour out from gatlinburg
  1347. 44:37it's very secluded it's like you see a
  1348. 44:39house like on the satellite thing and
  1349. 44:41then it's got like acres and acres and
  1350. 44:43acres of trees and then you might see
  1351. 44:44like another house right over there
  1352. 44:46and then off like the back end of their
  1353. 44:48property they would send us pictures
  1354. 44:49where it's got like the the guard rail
  1355. 44:51but it overlooks like a valley
  1356. 44:54so
  1357. 44:55um
  1358. 44:56that property had actually been causing
  1359. 44:58my dad a lot of stress because i think
  1360. 44:59it's been built for like five or six
  1361. 45:01years
  1362. 45:02he only goes up there once every month
  1363. 45:04once every couple months just to do
  1364. 45:05maintenance not to like enjoy it
  1365. 45:07and then every
  1366. 45:09like other month him and my mom would go
  1367. 45:11up there for like a week
  1368. 45:13um
  1369. 45:14but again it's like my mom would always
  1370. 45:15just be like you know i'm working every
  1371. 45:17day like we're doing stuff in the yard
  1372. 45:19we're clearing this clearing that they
  1373. 45:21need to enjoy that right and then my dad
  1374. 45:23apparently there was like this hog issue
  1375. 45:25up there that it's been destroying his
  1376. 45:26lawn you know everything that they're
  1377. 45:27maintaining
  1378. 45:29so um
  1379. 45:30you know he's he was like stressing
  1380. 45:32about all the money that that's costing
  1381. 45:34him and
  1382. 45:36um
  1383. 45:37yeah so
  1384. 45:39so like yeah i guess back to your
  1385. 45:40original statement with my mom
  1386. 45:43never any issues i mean she it was
  1387. 45:45always like if there was somebody that i
  1388. 45:46could talk to and like cody wasn't
  1389. 45:48available i'd always talk to my mom i'd
  1390. 45:49always let her know what's going on um
  1391. 45:51[Music]
  1392. 45:53yeah i mean she would help me out
  1393. 45:54through through anything okay tell me
  1394. 45:56about that
  1395. 45:57dad
  1396. 45:59what's he doing dad's a pharmacist uh he
  1397. 46:01works for cvs he's been a pharmacist for
  1398. 46:04i think 35 years or so always work for
  1399. 46:07cvs no he uh he worked for the hospital
  1400. 46:10omc actually i think it was
  1401. 46:12something orange back in the day
  1402. 46:15but um he worked for ormc
  1403. 46:17for about 15 years and then he worked
  1404. 46:19with home infusion with ambient
  1405. 46:21healthcare for
  1406. 46:23like
  1407. 46:2411 years or 13 years
  1408. 46:26and then he finally got into
  1409. 46:29this the sales one uh with cbs what do
  1410. 46:32you mean where he's just he's on he like
  1411. 46:35sits in a cubicle and then he's got the
  1412. 46:36headphone on and then if somebody calls
  1413. 46:38in he just like tells them what they
  1414. 46:40have to do like pharmacy-wise
  1415. 46:42so welcome to another pharmacist retail
  1416. 46:44retail pharmacy
  1417. 46:46so he want to go to like the cvs on the
  1418. 46:49side of the road he was at like
  1419. 46:51care mark or something like that which
  1420. 46:52is owned by cvs it's like 650 employees
  1421. 46:55to tell me about like how it's uh
  1422. 46:57a bunch of pharmacists doing the same
  1423. 46:58varieties
  1424. 47:00basically talking to other pharmacists
  1425. 47:02talking to other pharmacists talking to
  1426. 47:03doctors talking to patients
  1427. 47:05patients for like their home health care
  1428. 47:07stuff that they have and they just call
  1429. 47:09into the 24-hour pharmacist and then uh
  1430. 47:12you know they help them through with
  1431. 47:13whatever their whatever they think he
  1432. 47:14liked that job better than being in the
  1433. 47:16csa no he hated it he he
  1434. 47:20he tried when uh because he was fired
  1435. 47:22from oh sorry and then he was
  1436. 47:25uh like iv home infusion with florida
  1437. 47:27hospital's home in fusion group for only
  1438. 47:30about two or three years
  1439. 47:32um he was fired from that for being
  1440. 47:36like i guess to not like soft but like
  1441. 47:39an [ __ ] uh because he would like
  1442. 47:42like his manager something was just like
  1443. 47:44young woman and then she was giving him
  1444. 47:46crap and then he's like i've been a
  1445. 47:49pharmacist for this many years like i
  1446. 47:50don't and you're younger than it's like
  1447. 47:51i don't have to listen to you you know
  1448. 47:53so i guess he blew up one day when he
  1449. 47:54was down at work
  1450. 47:56and then um
  1451. 47:58because of that he ended up getting
  1452. 48:00fired and then he was out of work for
  1453. 48:01about three months
  1454. 48:03and then he was trying to get back into
  1455. 48:05the hospital system trying to do home
  1456. 48:06infusion again
  1457. 48:08but because of how old he is and because
  1458. 48:11he has an rph degree which was the
  1459. 48:13original pharmacist's degree he doesn't
  1460. 48:15have a new pharmd
  1461. 48:17um
  1462. 48:18he just issue up there that it's been
  1463. 48:20destroying his lawn you know everything
  1464. 48:21that they're maintaining
  1465. 48:23so um
  1466. 48:24you know he's
  1467. 48:26he was like stressing about all the
  1468. 48:27money that that's costing him and
  1469. 48:30um
  1470. 48:31yeah so
  1471. 48:33so like yeah i guess back to your
  1472. 48:35original statement with my mom
  1473. 48:37never any issues i mean she it was
  1474. 48:39always like if there was somebody that i
  1475. 48:40could talk to and like cody wasn't
  1476. 48:42available i'd always talk to my mom i'd
  1477. 48:44always let her know what's going on um
  1478. 48:46[Music]
  1479. 48:47yeah i mean she would help me out
  1480. 48:48through through anything okay tell me
  1481. 48:50about that
  1482. 48:52dad uh
  1483. 48:53what's he doing dad's a pharmacist uh he
  1484. 48:55works for cvs he's been a pharmacist for
  1485. 48:58i think 35 years or so always work
  1486. 49:01perceiving us no he uh he worked for the
  1487. 49:03hospital
  1488. 49:04ormc actually i think it was
  1489. 49:07something orange back in the day
  1490. 49:09but um he worked for ormc
  1491. 49:12for about 15 years and then he worked
  1492. 49:14with home infusion with ambient
  1493. 49:15healthcare for
  1494. 49:17like
  1495. 49:1811 years or 13 years
  1496. 49:21and then he finally got into
  1497. 49:23this the sales one uh with cbs
  1498. 49:27where he's just he's on he like sits in
  1499. 49:29a cubicle and then he's got the
  1500. 49:30headphone on and then if somebody calls
  1501. 49:32in he just like tells them what they
  1502. 49:34have to do like pharmacy-wise
  1503. 49:37so
  1504. 49:37pharmacists retail retail pharmacy
  1505. 49:40so he want to go to like the cvs on the
  1506. 49:43side of the road he was at like
  1507. 49:45caremark or something like that which is
  1508. 49:46owned by cvs it's like 650 employees he
  1509. 49:49tell me about like how it's uh
  1510. 49:51a bunch of pharmacists students hang out
  1511. 49:54basically talking to other pharmacists
  1512. 49:56talking to other pharmacists talking to
  1513. 49:57doctors talking to patients
  1514. 49:59patients for like their home health care
  1515. 50:02stuff that they have and they just call
  1516. 50:03into the 24-hour pharmacist and then uh
  1517. 50:06you know they helped him through with
  1518. 50:07whatever their whatever they wanted he
  1519. 50:09liked that job better than being in the
  1520. 50:10city no he hated it he he
  1521. 50:14he tried when uh because he was fired
  1522. 50:16from oh sorry and then he was
  1523. 50:19uh like iv home infusion with florida
  1524. 50:22hospital's home infusion group for only
  1525. 50:24about two or three years um he was fired
  1526. 50:27from that for being
  1527. 50:30like i guess to not like soft but like
  1528. 50:33an [ __ ]
  1529. 50:34because he would like
  1530. 50:37like his manager something was just like
  1531. 50:39young woman and then she was giving him
  1532. 50:40crap and then he's like i've been a
  1533. 50:43pharmacist for this many years like i
  1534. 50:44don't and you're younger than it's like
  1535. 50:45i don't have to listen to you you know
  1536. 50:47so i guess he blew up one day when he
  1537. 50:49was down at work
  1538. 50:50and then um
  1539. 50:53because of that he ended up getting
  1540. 50:54fired and then he was out of work for
  1541. 50:56about three months
  1542. 50:57and then he was trying to get back into
  1543. 50:59the hospital system trying to do home
  1544. 51:01infusion again
  1545. 51:02but because of how old he is and because
  1546. 51:05he has an rph degree which was the
  1547. 51:07original pharmacist's degree he doesn't
  1548. 51:09have a new pharmd
  1549. 51:11um
  1550. 51:12he just wasn't able to get back into the
  1551. 51:14avenue that he wanted to so that's why
  1552. 51:15he was forced basically to go to retail
  1553. 51:18so
  1554. 51:19but i mean he would
  1555. 51:21he tell me every day or every week that
  1556. 51:23you know he hates it
  1557. 51:25he's just trying to get to that
  1558. 51:27retirement earmark so that he can stop
  1559. 51:29because when he goes up to tennessee he
  1560. 51:32doesn't want to get re-certified in
  1561. 51:33tennessee
  1562. 51:34and even work part-time like what what
  1563. 51:36his dad does
  1564. 51:37um what do you mean was his dad there
  1565. 51:39his dad's also a pharmacist but he
  1566. 51:41originally hired he lived in florida and
  1567. 51:44then now he lives in south carolina and
  1568. 51:46he just works part-time as a pharmacist
  1569. 51:48but he got the whole recertification so
  1570. 51:50he keep doing that right um
  1571. 51:53dad make good money
  1572. 51:55uh i think he would tell me that he
  1573. 51:57makes like between 110 and 120 000 a
  1574. 51:59year not bad money so yeah it's not bad
  1575. 52:02um
  1576. 52:03well i'm sure
  1577. 52:04his mom you're both happy to see
  1578. 52:06you know that both of you going to that
  1579. 52:07program right you can make more you
  1580. 52:08always want your child to do better than
  1581. 52:10you right and i mean
  1582. 52:11you know that was what my dad always
  1583. 52:13emphasized when he was when we were
  1584. 52:14younger
  1585. 52:16going through grade school and high
  1586. 52:17school and college
  1587. 52:20we were heavily restricted but we were
  1588. 52:22allowed to do some things like it wasn't
  1589. 52:24like jason's situation where he was just
  1590. 52:26like like
  1591. 52:27the door's locked you know you're
  1592. 52:28staying in there type thing
  1593. 52:30um and who was that who was who was
  1594. 52:33keeping um
  1595. 52:35who was the disciplinary in the family
  1596. 52:37my dad
  1597. 52:38was he's the one inside jason stays yes
  1598. 52:41locked in yeah what'd mom think about
  1599. 52:42that mom
  1600. 52:44didn't approve it obviously but back in
  1601. 52:47that time my dad was a very
  1602. 52:51like angry violent type person
  1603. 52:53overbearing overbearing
  1604. 52:55um you know he would he would like push
  1605. 52:58my mom and like one instance you know
  1606. 53:02it was getting to that age where me and
  1607. 53:03cody were kind of getting old enough to
  1608. 53:05maybe be able to do something if she
  1609. 53:06needed our help
  1610. 53:08and
  1611. 53:08uh
  1612. 53:09i remember
  1613. 53:10her and my dad were like in their room
  1614. 53:13which if you go down the stairs it's
  1615. 53:14right there to the left
  1616. 53:16um
  1617. 53:17we heard our mom yell that he's hurting
  1618. 53:19me he's hurting me and then me and cody
  1619. 53:21run downstairs and we go into the room
  1620. 53:24and then we're trying to get our dad off
  1621. 53:26of our mom and then my dad elbows back
  1622. 53:28and that's why my nose has got its
  1623. 53:29little like bridge
  1624. 53:31right there
  1625. 53:32um
  1626. 53:33but i mean that's like how he was like
  1627. 53:35spankings with a two by four
  1628. 53:37um
  1629. 53:38you know like baseball practice it'd be
  1630. 53:40like four or five hours and he's
  1631. 53:43hurling the ball as fast as an adult can
  1632. 53:46and we're like
  1633. 53:47seventh eighth grade trying to catch
  1634. 53:48this stuff
  1635. 53:50um
  1636. 53:52yeah i mean definitely very overbearing
  1637. 53:53but he would always rationalize that
  1638. 53:55he's just trying to like secure our
  1639. 53:57future
  1640. 53:59violent towards the family violent
  1641. 54:01towards my mom and towards me never took
  1642. 54:04and towards jason
  1643. 54:05but never to cody why
  1644. 54:08um i mean cody his favorite yeah i mean
  1645. 54:12three boys yeah
  1646. 54:13and with that i mean i could kind of see
  1647. 54:16it but cody also never really made any
  1648. 54:19mistakes he did a few things wrong he
  1649. 54:21lied a few times
  1650. 54:23you know he cost my dad some money a few
  1651. 54:24times but
  1652. 54:26he was never like a repeat offender i
  1653. 54:27guess you could say whereas me and jason
  1654. 54:30you know we had that difficulty where
  1655. 54:32it's like okay we got a c or we got a d
  1656. 54:34on something and i just don't want to
  1657. 54:35tell dad about it sure but then he would
  1658. 54:37find out and then
  1659. 54:39you know dad ever abused you
  1660. 54:41when we were younger um so
  1661. 54:44spankings with like a two by four and
  1662. 54:46then you know he'd use like uh i mean it
  1663. 54:49was like a two by four that was
  1664. 54:51fashioned into a paddle called the
  1665. 54:52lightning
  1666. 54:54the lightning rod i think is what it was
  1667. 54:55called no he he broke it on me
  1668. 54:58uh
  1669. 54:59i'd be sorry i would probably think with
  1670. 55:01my dad take it out and burn it yeah it
  1671. 55:02didn't happen anymore but um
  1672. 55:05yeah he would um
  1673. 55:09you know he'd do that and then he'd push
  1674. 55:10you around like he wouldn't he wouldn't
  1675. 55:11punch you he wouldn't bruise you
  1676. 55:14he never slapped me
  1677. 55:16but
  1678. 55:17i guess i should say the only place that
  1679. 55:18i ever got bruised was on my butt from
  1680. 55:20from being spanked can't be little you
  1681. 55:22he would belittle me when i was younger
  1682. 55:24but again
  1683. 55:27um
  1684. 55:33no i mean not really he would just make
  1685. 55:36me feel bad that
  1686. 55:38like he would make me feel bad that
  1687. 55:40cody's doing all this stuff to like um
  1688. 55:43and you're not and i'm not like i'm not
  1689. 55:45contributing you're not as not as
  1690. 55:48valuable maybe right maybe that's not
  1691. 55:50the way it works but you're you're not
  1692. 55:52you're not you can't contribute enough
  1693. 55:53to what needs to be done right and then
  1694. 55:55but nobody knows better than you that
  1695. 55:57you want to be alberta you want to have
  1696. 55:58it i mean
  1697. 55:59the problem i guess was was that i was i
  1698. 56:02was always like the jokester the one
  1699. 56:04that could calm everybody down make
  1700. 56:05everybody smile if it was a heated
  1701. 56:07situation i could say a joke or
  1702. 56:08something and then make everybody kind
  1703. 56:10of move past it
  1704. 56:12and i was just in the point where it's
  1705. 56:13like you know i'm hearing you know all
  1706. 56:15this stuff from dad i'm seeing how much
  1707. 56:17code is helping me
  1708. 56:19you know mom stressed out with her job
  1709. 56:21and it's like i'm not doing anything and
  1710. 56:24it's like i'm in that situation where
  1711. 56:25it's like i'm not not doing something
  1712. 56:27because i don't want to i'm held out
  1713. 56:29because i'm waiting for this whole legal
  1714. 56:31thing to get taken care of and then for
  1715. 56:33jobs we've been talking for a while you
  1716. 56:35get stress related to the bathroom or
  1717. 56:37anything real quick
  1718. 56:38i'm good
  1719. 56:39okay 12 hours a day working on the
  1720. 56:41nervous system
  1721. 56:47we take those breaks and sometimes it's
  1722. 56:49time to touch your thoughts because you
  1723. 56:50know i'm just sitting talking talking
  1724. 56:51talking talking right thinking about
  1725. 56:53what you're saying um
  1726. 56:55i want to make sure you got a break
  1727. 56:56breaks the name because this isn't the
  1728. 56:58hospital and oh yeah
  1729. 57:00you wanna know what i'm gonna do it's
  1730. 57:00like water and stuff i'm not a breakfast
  1731. 57:02person okay waters
  1732. 57:06so
  1733. 57:09was the last time your dad put his hands
  1734. 57:10on you
  1735. 57:13uh the last time my dad put his hands on
  1736. 57:16me would be
  1737. 57:21i'd say
  1738. 57:25kind of the middle of december of 2018.
  1739. 57:29what happened
  1740. 57:30it's because um
  1741. 57:33you know with all the money that have
  1742. 57:35been getting spent and
  1743. 57:37um
  1744. 57:38i guess just the mix of everything that
  1745. 57:39i've been saying just kind of boiling up
  1746. 57:41in him
  1747. 57:42um
  1748. 57:43and the fact that i was to him it seemed
  1749. 57:46like i wasn't
  1750. 57:47concerned about it
  1751. 57:49so and then plus i was you know i wasn't
  1752. 57:51acting like myself with the jovialness
  1753. 57:53and you know all that kind of stuff
  1754. 57:55um
  1755. 57:57my
  1756. 57:57father chose to
  1757. 57:59admit me to like a like a depression or
  1758. 58:03an addiction clinic or something like
  1759. 58:05that in fort lauderdale called
  1760. 58:06cornerstone when was that that was
  1761. 58:09december 22nd
  1762. 58:11okay until i think
  1763. 58:13uh
  1764. 58:14january 4th did you agree to go
  1765. 58:17i i didn't but they said that you know
  1766. 58:19this was your only
  1767. 58:20who said my dad okay and i was in fort
  1768. 58:23lauderdale yes yeah did your mom agree
  1769. 58:25to it my mom and my brother both agreed
  1770. 58:29but it was my dad who was like the iron
  1771. 58:31fist like this is what's gonna happen
  1772. 58:33like you know you can why did he say you
  1773. 58:35needed to go what was his reasoning
  1774. 58:37because
  1775. 58:38uh with the way that i was
  1776. 58:40acting he just
  1777. 58:42he didn't see that i was doing anything
  1778. 58:44for like the positive
  1779. 58:46um
  1780. 58:48you know a lot of it just came back to
  1781. 58:49money
  1782. 58:50uh with him
  1783. 58:52uh he would
  1784. 58:54he would like allow me to to spend money
  1785. 58:57that he had like with his credit card or
  1786. 58:59something like that
  1787. 59:00but
  1788. 59:02it's like then whenever i did it was
  1789. 59:04like a huge problem
  1790. 59:05okay so you had one of those credit
  1791. 59:07cards yeah and what were you buying with
  1792. 59:09it uh well what i was doing is um over
  1793. 59:13the past
  1794. 59:15four months or something like that i've
  1795. 59:17been taught i've been talking to this
  1796. 59:18woman online
  1797. 59:20uh she's
  1798. 59:22as embarrassing as it is she's uh she's
  1799. 59:23a camp she's a cam model a what a cam
  1800. 59:26model
  1801. 59:27you guys know
  1802. 59:28uh just like all the
  1803. 59:30videos can't model it's like they they
  1804. 59:34it's like a virtual girlfriend i guess
  1805. 59:37you'd say okay like that type of
  1806. 59:38situation
  1807. 59:39so
  1808. 59:40a lot of the money went to her okay
  1809. 59:42where's she she lives in bulgaria that's
  1810. 59:45where bulgaria where's that it's over in
  1811. 59:47europe it's like outside of germany okay
  1812. 59:50never been there no okay uh there wasn't
  1813. 59:52it wasn't master what would you give her
  1814. 59:54money for
  1815. 59:55um just for like the time online with
  1816. 59:58her yeah so it was just like that type
  1817. 1:00:00of thing and what did she charge
  1818. 1:00:02by the minute by the hour minutes okay
  1819. 1:00:04and how much does it prevent it oh god i
  1820. 1:00:06think it was like
  1821. 1:00:09it was like
  1822. 1:00:1090 tokens a minute and
  1823. 1:00:12it's like conversion rate for all of
  1824. 1:00:14that is
  1825. 1:00:17like
  1826. 1:00:18six hundred dollars for
  1827. 1:00:21like a like five thousand or something
  1828. 1:00:23tokens or something like that so
  1829. 1:00:25and then it was four hours a night um
  1830. 1:00:28so i mean it's i mean that's basically
  1831. 1:00:30just where all the like the cost went to
  1832. 1:00:31was you pay real money for the tokens
  1833. 1:00:33then you use the company's digital
  1834. 1:00:35currency for
  1835. 1:00:36that so you do this and when did you
  1836. 1:00:38meet her
  1837. 1:00:39i met her
  1838. 1:00:41um
  1839. 1:00:45at the
  1840. 1:00:46beginning of july yeah at the very
  1841. 1:00:48beginning of july
  1842. 1:00:49okay and and still talking to her so
  1843. 1:00:53yeah i mean more just on uh like twitter
  1844. 1:00:55like just through direct messaging
  1845. 1:00:57um again cell phone service doesn't work
  1846. 1:00:59so it's like i can't use the
  1847. 1:01:01chatting right how much do you think you
  1848. 1:01:03spent
  1849. 1:01:04on this because it seems kind of pricey
  1850. 1:01:06yeah
  1851. 1:01:06ninety tokens and and five five thousand
  1852. 1:01:09dollars for for how many tokens
  1853. 1:01:12no no it's uh six hundred dollars for
  1854. 1:01:14for five thousand five thousand okay so
  1855. 1:01:17how much do you think you spent
  1856. 1:01:18um
  1857. 1:01:20probably
  1858. 1:01:22close to
  1859. 1:01:26like two hundred thousand dollars
  1860. 1:01:28i'd say
  1861. 1:01:29two hundred thousand dollars yeah and
  1862. 1:01:31where'd the money come from money came
  1863. 1:01:33from
  1864. 1:01:34me
  1865. 1:01:35uh my brother and then my dad
  1866. 1:01:38did they know where the money was going
  1867. 1:01:39to they didn't know that it was going to
  1868. 1:01:42uh a cam a camp model i was saying that
  1869. 1:01:45it was going towards my twitch streaming
  1870. 1:01:48uh like
  1871. 1:01:50like yeah like advertising like putting
  1872. 1:01:52my name out there and that that type of
  1873. 1:01:53thing
  1874. 1:01:54but based on what you're telling me only
  1875. 1:01:56so many people make so much money so
  1876. 1:01:58just i think just a few and have you
  1877. 1:02:00make a bunch of money right so that was
  1878. 1:02:02like that the ultimate goal is to get to
  1879. 1:02:04that i was hoping that that the stars
  1880. 1:02:06would align and then i would be like one
  1881. 1:02:07of those people because i was good at
  1882. 1:02:09the games and i you know i'm a like a
  1883. 1:02:11funny pleasant person on the camera and
  1884. 1:02:13that type of thing
  1885. 1:02:15so
  1886. 1:02:16um
  1887. 1:02:17yeah i mean that's
  1888. 1:02:19so i guess to like bring it all back
  1889. 1:02:20with why i was brought to cornerstone
  1890. 1:02:23uh it was
  1891. 1:02:24a mix of all of those things it's like
  1892. 1:02:26he felt like
  1893. 1:02:29you know i um
  1894. 1:02:31he felt like he needed to be grounded
  1895. 1:02:33yeah yeah
  1896. 1:02:35and
  1897. 1:02:36so then i was there you know i spoke to
  1898. 1:02:38like the therapists and psychiatrists
  1899. 1:02:39and all that stuff i didn't need any
  1900. 1:02:41medications for anything
  1901. 1:02:43they had analyzed it as
  1902. 1:02:45this is an isolated event you've been
  1903. 1:02:47out of work you have this
  1904. 1:02:49ptsd from the whole getting arrested
  1905. 1:02:51saying and i mean the last thing on my
  1906. 1:02:53record was i think a speeding ticket
  1907. 1:02:55back when i was at ucf
  1908. 1:02:57and then you know just having all of
  1909. 1:02:59that stuff going on
  1910. 1:03:01um
  1911. 1:03:03but then i didn't they had signed me
  1912. 1:03:06they had signed me up i think to be
  1913. 1:03:08there for 60 days but then i was only
  1914. 1:03:10there until january 4th so for that my
  1915. 1:03:13brother cody what was the cost of that
  1916. 1:03:14you know fifteen thousand
  1917. 1:03:16it was fifteen thousand dollars and then
  1918. 1:03:18i think
  1919. 1:03:19uh when i had gotten back we were going
  1920. 1:03:21through the process of calling them and
  1921. 1:03:23seeing if we could get any type of
  1922. 1:03:24refund and i think they said that he was
  1923. 1:03:26gonna get refunded three thousand
  1924. 1:03:27dollars from his fifteen sure um
  1925. 1:03:30but i don't care right right but i don't
  1926. 1:03:32know if that transaction had ever gone
  1927. 1:03:34through yet so their final diagnosis of
  1928. 1:03:36you was what
  1929. 1:03:37that i was fine that didn't need to be
  1930. 1:03:39there yeah that i was i was fine i told
  1931. 1:03:42them all about like my living situation
  1932. 1:03:44and how it had been stressful and then
  1933. 1:03:45it got better and then now it's just
  1934. 1:03:47stressful again
  1935. 1:03:48but they had all just said it was just
  1936. 1:03:50this isolated situational ptsd from
  1937. 1:03:52right yeah like once you six months once
  1938. 1:03:54you can get this legal thing taken care
  1939. 1:03:56of which i i don't know if i mentioned
  1940. 1:03:58but when we looked online and we saw
  1941. 1:04:00that all the charges even dropped that
  1942. 1:04:02was on like november 30th or 31st the
  1943. 1:04:04day before we were going to japan
  1944. 1:04:06so
  1945. 1:04:07well that was good and everything um i
  1946. 1:04:10still knew that it was still going to be
  1947. 1:04:12like on your record until you get it
  1948. 1:04:14expunged
  1949. 1:04:15so
  1950. 1:04:16you know i was still thinking okay at
  1951. 1:04:18least now i can maybe start applying
  1952. 1:04:19when we get back from japan
  1953. 1:04:21um
  1954. 1:04:23but you
  1955. 1:04:24know yeah so i mean
  1956. 1:04:27after you get back you got back
  1957. 1:04:30on the 15th of december of december
  1958. 1:04:34get back
  1959. 1:04:36after i thought you said you went on the
  1960. 1:04:3722nd right number yeah that's that's
  1961. 1:04:39what that's when i went to yeah it was
  1962. 1:04:41after japan and it was because when i
  1963. 1:04:43had gotten back
  1964. 1:04:45my um my mom and dad were you know
  1965. 1:04:48dealing with a lot of the financial
  1966. 1:04:50stuff while we were up there
  1967. 1:04:51and then um
  1968. 1:04:53when i got back that's where my dad
  1969. 1:04:55started to get really kind of
  1970. 1:04:57overbearing and i mean rightfully so i
  1971. 1:04:58know what i did
  1972. 1:05:00but
  1973. 1:05:00it's like with him it was every single
  1974. 1:05:02day hours a day excuse me hours a day
  1975. 1:05:05he'd come home from work and then he
  1976. 1:05:07would just
  1977. 1:05:08talk to me just about the same exact
  1978. 1:05:10thing over and over and over and over
  1979. 1:05:11and over again
  1980. 1:05:12and did did he get heated he would get
  1981. 1:05:15heated but he didn't
  1982. 1:05:17no i mean i was
  1983. 1:05:18you know i i was always the person in
  1984. 1:05:20the family where like my brother cody
  1985. 1:05:22would interrupt my dad when he was
  1986. 1:05:24talking uh my mom would interject and
  1987. 1:05:27say you can't be saying that or whatever
  1988. 1:05:29but for me i would just sit there and i
  1989. 1:05:30would just let my dad talk so that he
  1990. 1:05:31could say everything that he wanted to
  1991. 1:05:32say
  1992. 1:05:34and then if i saw that it was something
  1993. 1:05:35that he wanted me to respond to then i'd
  1994. 1:05:37respond but i would never be heeded to
  1995. 1:05:39him sure especially if i felt like i was
  1996. 1:05:40in the wrong right
  1997. 1:05:42um do well as you think you were in the
  1998. 1:05:43world
  1999. 1:05:44i mean yeah to some extent to some
  2000. 1:05:46extent you know uh spending that amount
  2001. 1:05:48of money it's idiotic to do that you
  2002. 1:05:50know especially when you're not making
  2003. 1:05:52200 000 right when was the last time
  2004. 1:05:54that you and your dad did have
  2005. 1:05:56you know
  2006. 1:05:57a heated conversation uh it would be
  2007. 1:06:01thursday thursday
  2008. 1:06:03uh because
  2009. 1:06:05one of his rules was that i wasn't
  2010. 1:06:07allowed to talk to the woman anymore
  2011. 1:06:09that i had been talking to
  2012. 1:06:10um
  2013. 1:06:11but
  2014. 1:06:13i guess you could say behind the scenes
  2015. 1:06:15my mom would let me talk to her through
  2016. 1:06:17her cell phone using twitter
  2017. 1:06:19um
  2018. 1:06:21and you know
  2019. 1:06:22she would tell me like look you gotta
  2020. 1:06:24keep it
  2021. 1:06:25you have to keep it just basic because
  2022. 1:06:27if you say anything or if you
  2023. 1:06:30entice anything or do anything like that
  2024. 1:06:31it might lead her
  2025. 1:06:33to
  2026. 1:06:35say something to like my dad or
  2027. 1:06:37something like that because she's in
  2028. 1:06:38touch with him because apparently when i
  2029. 1:06:40was in cornerstone my dad
  2030. 1:06:43told her because because he had like
  2031. 1:06:45hacked my computer or something like
  2032. 1:06:47that and then he found every electronics
  2033. 1:06:49guy like you and your brother except
  2034. 1:06:50he's more of that like hacking level
  2035. 1:06:52like able to do all that stuff
  2036. 1:06:54so he had found you know
  2037. 1:06:56um
  2038. 1:06:58like just the stuff that was related to
  2039. 1:07:00her
  2040. 1:07:01and then
  2041. 1:07:02you know he like he like erased my whole
  2042. 1:07:04entire computer he put a password on it
  2043. 1:07:07so it's like even when i came back up
  2044. 1:07:09until thursday like i wasn't able to go
  2045. 1:07:10into my own computer to look at anything
  2046. 1:07:13he's treating you like a small child
  2047. 1:07:14right and
  2048. 1:07:16rightfully so i mean spending that
  2049. 1:07:18amount of i was acting childish i can
  2050. 1:07:20kind of get it
  2051. 1:07:21but um
  2052. 1:07:23so yeah anyways on thursday he had
  2053. 1:07:25apparently found out that i was speaking
  2054. 1:07:28to her again and when i came back on the
  2055. 1:07:314th
  2056. 1:07:32me my mom picked me up from the
  2057. 1:07:34cornerstone place and then me and my mom
  2058. 1:07:37met my dad at california pizza grill or
  2059. 1:07:40kitchen in waterford lakes
  2060. 1:07:42and he had this list
  2061. 1:07:44front and back on a piece of paper of
  2062. 1:07:47all the rules this is what's going to
  2063. 1:07:48happen this is why i'm acting the way
  2064. 1:07:50that i'm going to act i'm not going to
  2065. 1:07:51be dad anymore i'm going to be chad
  2066. 1:07:54and
  2067. 1:07:55i basically told him
  2068. 1:07:57that i'm going to be
  2069. 1:07:59i'm going to be present i'm going to do
  2070. 1:08:00what i can i'm going to start trying to
  2071. 1:08:02get jobs now i told him what my plan was
  2072. 1:08:05um
  2073. 1:08:06you know it wasn't really my intention
  2074. 1:08:08to continue talking to this woman but
  2075. 1:08:11it just kind of happened
  2076. 1:08:13um
  2077. 1:08:14and then because there was like that
  2078. 1:08:15emotional connection i guess you could
  2079. 1:08:16say between her and me like i
  2080. 1:08:19i like you know i felt like like like a
  2081. 1:08:21relationship you know i didn't want to
  2082. 1:08:22just stop cold turkey honest
  2083. 1:08:25um
  2084. 1:08:26so
  2085. 1:08:27he had apparently found out and then
  2086. 1:08:30happy right and one of the stipulations
  2087. 1:08:32was that he told the dinner was
  2088. 1:08:34if you speak to this woman again you're
  2089. 1:08:37out of the house i'm kicking you out
  2090. 1:08:39you can pack up your [ __ ] and then
  2091. 1:08:41you're off my property
  2092. 1:08:43and then because of the way that he used
  2093. 1:08:45to be he had told me that
  2094. 1:08:49basically if that happens that if i ever
  2095. 1:08:51step back onto his property that he
  2096. 1:08:53would kill me
  2097. 1:08:54so
  2098. 1:08:56you know
  2099. 1:08:56on thursday
  2100. 1:08:58um
  2101. 1:09:01that all happened and then i was in the
  2102. 1:09:03process i was getting all my stuff
  2103. 1:09:05together i was piecemealing it out to
  2104. 1:09:07the car
  2105. 1:09:08and then uh
  2106. 1:09:10you know i knit
  2107. 1:09:11review on friday so i had to get my suit
  2108. 1:09:14out to my car i was trying to just get
  2109. 1:09:15all of my necessities as best as i could
  2110. 1:09:17from you know a lifetime of living
  2111. 1:09:20inside out
  2112. 1:09:21and then um
  2113. 1:09:24um
  2114. 1:09:26my brother was working that night and i
  2115. 1:09:28think he was working like one of his
  2116. 1:09:30long nights but he ended up getting off
  2117. 1:09:31early
  2118. 1:09:32and then i had met with my brother
  2119. 1:09:34before he came home just like in the
  2120. 1:09:37neighborhood area
  2121. 1:09:39and then
  2122. 1:09:40it was just on the uh
  2123. 1:09:42like the back side of the house like a
  2124. 1:09:44long i don't remember what that road's
  2125. 1:09:45going but it's like you take the bend
  2126. 1:09:47where it has those two blinking lights
  2127. 1:09:49and then it's just down that road always
  2128. 1:09:51not for christmas
  2129. 1:09:53it's like before christmas when you
  2130. 1:09:55still turn the corner i think so i'm not
  2131. 1:09:58sure i think so well it was yeah it was
  2132. 1:10:00just it was just down that road
  2133. 1:10:02um
  2134. 1:10:04and then i basically brought him up to
  2135. 1:10:06speed and he had told me that he was
  2136. 1:10:08going to do whatever time was anything
  2137. 1:10:11uh
  2138. 1:10:12god what time was that what what time
  2139. 1:10:14did you go to
  2140. 1:10:15backup to say and i apologize
  2141. 1:10:17you mom and dad go to california pizza
  2142. 1:10:20kitchen in waterford at what time
  2143. 1:10:22oh that was all the way back on january
  2144. 1:10:244th
  2145. 1:10:25oh you said three no that wasn't
  2146. 1:10:26thursday no no no that was that was when
  2147. 1:10:29i had come back from cornerstone and he
  2148. 1:10:31was giving me the the rules okay okay so
  2149. 1:10:34we'll do thursday then that what
  2150. 1:10:36happened that thursday that you meet
  2151. 1:10:37with cody down the street is this past
  2152. 1:10:39thursday yeah okay tell me tell me about
  2153. 1:10:41that after you and your dad argue after
  2154. 1:10:43me and my dad had argued and he had
  2155. 1:10:45told me you know this is how it's going
  2156. 1:10:47to be and you know all that stuff okay
  2157. 1:10:49um this is at the house this past
  2158. 1:10:51thursday yes sir yeah okay because this
  2159. 1:10:54is what now saturday so yeah right yeah
  2160. 1:10:56past thursday i got you good stuff
  2161. 1:10:58um
  2162. 1:11:00so
  2163. 1:11:01then yeah i spoke with cody he told me
  2164. 1:11:03about
  2165. 1:11:04all that he had given me his debit so
  2166. 1:11:07that
  2167. 1:11:07because i mean i don't have any money
  2168. 1:11:09and i don't know where to go
  2169. 1:11:10you know i've never been out of the
  2170. 1:11:11house on my own
  2171. 1:11:13um and then the last thing that i was
  2172. 1:11:14told was just that you know basically
  2173. 1:11:16once again that he'll take care of it
  2174. 1:11:17because this is cody this is cody what
  2175. 1:11:19time what time is this approximately
  2176. 1:11:22i'd say a little after
  2177. 1:11:2610 10 30ish at night
  2178. 1:11:29thursday night thursday night okay
  2179. 1:11:31um
  2180. 1:11:33and then
  2181. 1:11:35yeah so then after that
  2182. 1:11:37i just like stayed
  2183. 1:11:41in that air in the
  2184. 1:11:43vicinity area for a number of hours and
  2185. 1:11:46then i had remembered over some of the
  2186. 1:11:48nights when i would work overnight and
  2187. 1:11:49then i'd be able to come like get off
  2188. 1:11:51early
  2189. 1:11:52that i could that the public's on 50 on
  2190. 1:11:55colonial
  2191. 1:11:56the one that's by the tractor supply
  2192. 1:11:58that's what i can yeah yeah
  2193. 1:12:00that that publix it's like their guest
  2194. 1:12:02wi-fi is always still active even when
  2195. 1:12:04the store closes down so i was like okay
  2196. 1:12:05well i'm going to go there because i
  2197. 1:12:06have my surface
  2198. 1:12:08and i can you know check on my emails i
  2199. 1:12:10had to pull up the address to my
  2200. 1:12:13interview because i don't have gps
  2201. 1:12:15so then i would like write all that
  2202. 1:12:16stuff down
  2203. 1:12:18and then um
  2204. 1:12:20i was basically just waiting in that
  2205. 1:12:22parking lot until
  2206. 1:12:24i had to leave to go to the interview
  2207. 1:12:26um
  2208. 1:12:28and then i mean that was the last
  2209. 1:12:29because again it's like no cell phone
  2210. 1:12:31service
  2211. 1:12:32uh
  2212. 1:12:34i mean email was literally like my only
  2213. 1:12:36form of communication
  2214. 1:12:37and then
  2215. 1:12:39you know yeah i just i didn't have any
  2216. 1:12:42i didn't you know i was i went to the
  2217. 1:12:44the doubletree because i was like i
  2218. 1:12:46can't just stay in my car again all
  2219. 1:12:47night right
  2220. 1:12:48how did you pay for that i paid for it
  2221. 1:12:50with my with my debit card with your
  2222. 1:12:52data card yeah because i think there was
  2223. 1:12:54like the 400 or 300 and something
  2224. 1:12:55dollars still left on it okay
  2225. 1:12:59the doubletree
  2226. 1:13:03i think i got there around
  2227. 1:13:08three or four p.m
  2228. 1:13:10friday friday
  2229. 1:13:12and then yeah and then i was just i mean
  2230. 1:13:14i would like go out to my car so i get
  2231. 1:13:15like bottled water or something like
  2232. 1:13:17that or if i forgot something you know
  2233. 1:13:19just like necessity was
  2234. 1:13:20um and then i was just there the whole
  2235. 1:13:22night
  2236. 1:13:24talked to cody talk to mom talk to you
  2237. 1:13:25no i couldn't talk to anybody because i
  2238. 1:13:27didn't have but she had the phone in the
  2239. 1:13:29room
  2240. 1:13:30oh yeah i did have the fun in the room
  2241. 1:13:32but
  2242. 1:13:33i don't know no i just i didn't even
  2243. 1:13:35honestly think about it because i was i
  2244. 1:13:37was like
  2245. 1:13:39you know
  2246. 1:13:41away from a place where i lived for 25
  2247. 1:13:43years or something like that i had never
  2248. 1:13:44you know it's embarrassing as it is i've
  2249. 1:13:46never been on my own right the longest
  2250. 1:13:48period i've ever been away from anybody
  2251. 1:13:50is two weeks when we were up in japan
  2252. 1:13:52so
  2253. 1:13:54i mean yeah but yeah your brother with
  2254. 1:13:55yourself right right yeah so yeah
  2255. 1:13:58but yeah i mean so
  2256. 1:14:01i guess i was
  2257. 1:14:02waiting to see what would happen with
  2258. 1:14:04this job because i was told i'd either
  2259. 1:14:05be told tuesday or thursday
  2260. 1:14:08and then maybe i would try and outreach
  2261. 1:14:11or something like that or the last time
  2262. 1:14:13um
  2263. 1:14:15you know when it was like an issue where
  2264. 1:14:16i didn't have my phone like my brother
  2265. 1:14:18would email me so i was just thinking
  2266. 1:14:20okay i mean if anything he knows the
  2267. 1:14:22situation he'll just email me so i
  2268. 1:14:24checked my email a few times last night
  2269. 1:14:26and then i just inevitably was able to
  2270. 1:14:28to go to sleep
  2271. 1:14:29um
  2272. 1:14:31was it thursday night that your dad told
  2273. 1:14:33you that if you talked to the girl that
  2274. 1:14:35he would kick you out or was that the
  2275. 1:14:36conversation on the fourth at california
  2276. 1:14:38that was on that was yeah on the fourth
  2277. 1:14:40and then he just went through with it on
  2278. 1:14:43thursday okay so so thursday
  2279. 1:14:46you're home all day yes with your mom
  2280. 1:14:48she works at home correct yeah your
  2281. 1:14:50dad's at work what's his normal work
  2282. 1:14:51hours uh he works until
  2283. 1:14:55i think he had to go in early that day
  2284. 1:14:57because he had to start like doing
  2285. 1:14:58overtime or something like that
  2286. 1:15:00and
  2287. 1:15:01he normally works so from like five or
  2288. 1:15:03six in the morning to
  2289. 1:15:05i think he gets home between like 5 30
  2290. 1:15:07and 6 at night or something like that
  2291. 1:15:09what time do you get him that day
  2292. 1:15:11uh he got home at like 5 30.
  2293. 1:15:145 30 5 45 one of those two okay
  2294. 1:15:17um
  2295. 1:15:18[Music]
  2296. 1:15:19comes were you there when he came in yes
  2297. 1:15:21okay
  2298. 1:15:23describe your dead normal comment
  2299. 1:15:25uh when my dad normally comes in he'll
  2300. 1:15:27come in he'll look into the uh the
  2301. 1:15:30living room which is like there's the
  2302. 1:15:32kitchen and then there's the living room
  2303. 1:15:34where it's got like the long couch and
  2304. 1:15:36whatnot that's inside and then there's
  2305. 1:15:38the tv right there okay so he'll
  2306. 1:15:40normally come in through there and then
  2307. 1:15:42he'll
  2308. 1:15:43talk or he'll ask his questions or he'll
  2309. 1:15:45where are you where were you at when he
  2310. 1:15:46came in i was just in there i was just
  2311. 1:15:48watching uh in the virtual reality where
  2312. 1:15:50you said you had that set up right right
  2313. 1:15:52i was just watching and that's in what
  2314. 1:15:53room the living room the living room
  2315. 1:15:55yeah i was just watching youtube at that
  2316. 1:15:57time just like
  2317. 1:15:58yeah talk to you yeah okay uh and that's
  2318. 1:16:02where
  2319. 1:16:03uh
  2320. 1:16:04because
  2321. 1:16:05he had
  2322. 1:16:06i don't know how he found out but he had
  2323. 1:16:08apparently found out and then saw that
  2324. 1:16:10letter that i was talking to you're
  2325. 1:16:12still talking to the woman yeah
  2326. 1:16:14and then uh he came in and then he asked
  2327. 1:16:16me
  2328. 1:16:18in a calmer state i guess you could say
  2329. 1:16:21like
  2330. 1:16:22basically the leading question of you
  2331. 1:16:24know
  2332. 1:16:26why do you think
  2333. 1:16:27we're about to have this conversation
  2334. 1:16:29giving me i guess that opportunity to be
  2335. 1:16:31honest and truthful to maybe tone it
  2336. 1:16:33down a little bit
  2337. 1:16:35i of course did what i always did where
  2338. 1:16:37i kind of
  2339. 1:16:39didn't admit to it
  2340. 1:16:41um
  2341. 1:16:42and then he he came out and he told me
  2342. 1:16:44that i've been doing that yeah
  2343. 1:16:47um have an argument yeah and then
  2344. 1:16:50you know he got
  2345. 1:16:53just
  2346. 1:16:55he had kind of reverted back to the way
  2347. 1:16:57that he was when we were younger where
  2348. 1:16:59you know he kind of you know pulled me
  2349. 1:17:01up from the couch and then he was
  2350. 1:17:03yelling at me to pack my [ __ ] up and
  2351. 1:17:05just get out of the house that he was
  2352. 1:17:06the one who had to be the hammer
  2353. 1:17:08and that you know why am i making him
  2354. 1:17:10have to go through this
  2355. 1:17:12and all this other kind of stuff okay so
  2356. 1:17:15you know basically i had you becoming
  2357. 1:17:17violent
  2358. 1:17:19i just like the way you described it
  2359. 1:17:20when you were when you were when you and
  2360. 1:17:21cody were kids right
  2361. 1:17:23what do you do
  2362. 1:17:24um like i said he pulled me up from the
  2363. 1:17:26couch just by like the shirt that i was
  2364. 1:17:28wearing and then you know after that he
  2365. 1:17:31was basically just
  2366. 1:17:32having that yelling where it was kind of
  2367. 1:17:35kind of like cracking you know like his
  2368. 1:17:37voice would either crack or
  2369. 1:17:38he would just he was basically just
  2370. 1:17:40yelling at that point and monitoring my
  2371. 1:17:43mom my mom was in her office okay
  2372. 1:17:45because
  2373. 1:17:46she
  2374. 1:17:47and i'm trying to cut you off does mom
  2375. 1:17:49have like an office hours like she would
  2376. 1:17:51get up and do her work all day at a
  2377. 1:17:53certain time i'm done doing my office
  2378. 1:17:55work and i'm doing my family stuff not
  2379. 1:17:56really okay i mean work there all the
  2380. 1:17:58time right she would i think the the
  2381. 1:18:01major thing that she would do is she
  2382. 1:18:02would like cook dinner okay and then
  2383. 1:18:04after that
  2384. 1:18:05um she would go back into her office
  2385. 1:18:07what time was dinner usually generally
  2386. 1:18:09between like
  2387. 1:18:11seven like i guess usually around seven
  2388. 1:18:13seven seven thirty is when we usually
  2389. 1:18:15have dinner most nights you guys already
  2390. 1:18:17have dinner that night no no i think
  2391. 1:18:19that's what she was gonna make
  2392. 1:18:21i think she was gonna make something
  2393. 1:18:22with like chicken or something like that
  2394. 1:18:23stir fry or something like that because
  2395. 1:18:25cody was working late so she didn't want
  2396. 1:18:27to make something where because my dad
  2397. 1:18:28would always buy meals that were for
  2398. 1:18:30four
  2399. 1:18:31so he we didn't want to pull out
  2400. 1:18:33anything where there would be leftovers
  2401. 1:18:34or something like that
  2402. 1:18:35so but she hadn't
  2403. 1:18:37started making it yet i think she was
  2404. 1:18:38defrosting the chicken that was about
  2405. 1:18:40what time
  2406. 1:18:44uh what time
  2407. 1:18:47i think she took those out like at four
  2408. 1:18:49or something like that in the afternoon
  2409. 1:18:50and at this time the argument with dad
  2410. 1:18:52is at what time the argument with that
  2411. 1:18:54is like
  2412. 1:18:56six six thirty or seven thirty yeah
  2413. 1:18:59okay um
  2414. 1:19:02do you have your argument you pack
  2415. 1:19:03yourself i have my argument and then i'm
  2416. 1:19:06packing my stuff i'm you know taking it
  2417. 1:19:08out to the car it took me like a couple
  2418. 1:19:09hours to get as much as i could just
  2419. 1:19:11kind of out into there
  2420. 1:19:12um
  2421. 1:19:13and then
  2422. 1:19:15yeah it's like mom's kind of just
  2423. 1:19:17staying out of it to a certain degree
  2424. 1:19:19because
  2425. 1:19:21she knows like how dad can be
  2426. 1:19:23and then uh
  2427. 1:19:25yeah i mean
  2428. 1:19:28you know i was and that's just pretty
  2429. 1:19:30much where i was just kind of like
  2430. 1:19:30waiting so you wait outside did anybody
  2431. 1:19:33call cody and tell him what's going on
  2432. 1:19:35no no i mean not that i know of okay and
  2433. 1:19:37how did you know to meet cody down the
  2434. 1:19:38street it's because um my mom had
  2435. 1:19:41actually come and told me that
  2436. 1:19:45you know she again she was trying to
  2437. 1:19:46bridge the gap and then before i
  2438. 1:19:49actually physically left
  2439. 1:19:51i had told my mom that you know i'm
  2440. 1:19:53going to be
  2441. 1:19:54close i'm going to be local i'm just
  2442. 1:19:56going to be like down the street
  2443. 1:19:57and then you left so i left and then do
  2444. 1:20:00you think you laughed about oh god
  2445. 1:20:06if it's 6 30 the argument started how
  2446. 1:20:09long do you think before you left i'd
  2447. 1:20:10say like
  2448. 1:20:139 or 9 30 or so
  2449. 1:20:16and then uh
  2450. 1:20:20yeah so then
  2451. 1:20:23i mean yeah that's
  2452. 1:20:24because i guess
  2453. 1:20:26i think it's because
  2454. 1:20:27i think it's because um
  2455. 1:20:29like cody had called the house and then
  2456. 1:20:32my mom picked up
  2457. 1:20:33and then he was just letting like how we
  2458. 1:20:36would normally do where like i got
  2459. 1:20:37offered like he was supposed to work to
  2460. 1:20:38like 11 or something like that but he
  2461. 1:20:40came home early and then yeah he was
  2462. 1:20:42able to come home early because of the
  2463. 1:20:43fight
  2464. 1:20:44you think
  2465. 1:20:45i don't i don't
  2466. 1:20:46i don't know honestly but uh
  2467. 1:20:49he i mean like that week even on the
  2468. 1:20:51days that he was working until three he
  2469. 1:20:52would come home at like noon or one or
  2470. 1:20:54something that week so maybe it was just
  2471. 1:20:55a slow week
  2472. 1:20:57but
  2473. 1:20:58apparently that had happened and then my
  2474. 1:21:00mom was able to to
  2475. 1:21:02tell her
  2476. 1:21:03right and then she told me
  2477. 1:21:05um
  2478. 1:21:06did
  2479. 1:21:09cody
  2480. 1:21:10have the gun infinity you have to he did
  2481. 1:21:12he liked guns like you did right yeah
  2482. 1:21:13did he keep any guns on him i think cody
  2483. 1:21:16had his
  2484. 1:21:18um
  2485. 1:21:19he had his carry his pistol okay and
  2486. 1:21:22then he would normally carry it was like
  2487. 1:21:25uh
  2488. 1:21:27uh smith and wesson m9
  2489. 1:21:30shield or armor
  2490. 1:21:32core core or something
  2491. 1:21:34okay
  2492. 1:21:35and um
  2493. 1:21:36then the only other gun that he had was
  2494. 1:21:38his clay shooting shotgun okay
  2495. 1:21:41did your dad carry any guns my dad's my
  2496. 1:21:43knowledge he has like two sks or
  2497. 1:21:46something like that and then he has a
  2498. 1:21:48glock something do you carry glock
  2499. 1:21:50looking normally normally no no
  2500. 1:21:53no
  2501. 1:21:54what else happened what else happened uh
  2502. 1:21:57then after after
  2503. 1:21:59after i met with cody then that's where
  2504. 1:22:02you know i was again just kind of
  2505. 1:22:03staying around that area
  2506. 1:22:05and then i just went to the publix and
  2507. 1:22:07then to my knowledge i mean i was like
  2508. 1:22:09that was the last interaction that i had
  2509. 1:22:11with my
  2510. 1:22:12the three members of my family was was
  2511. 1:22:14that
  2512. 1:22:15um
  2513. 1:22:16was about what time last time last time
  2514. 1:22:19you saw your mom was what time
  2515. 1:22:20approximately last time i saw my mom
  2516. 1:22:22um
  2517. 1:22:24i'm just trying to think
  2518. 1:22:26uh last time that i saw my mom
  2519. 1:22:31was
  2520. 1:22:36god when did i say that i met cody i
  2521. 1:22:38went when i wrote
  2522. 1:22:39back time stopped by it was it was like
  2523. 1:22:4245 minutes before that
  2524. 1:22:44okay so
  2525. 1:22:46so when cody called the house you said
  2526. 1:22:48your mom told him about the argument
  2527. 1:22:50right he had and you told when you left
  2528. 1:22:52you said you told your mom you were
  2529. 1:22:53going to be in the area
  2530. 1:22:55how then does cody now know where to
  2531. 1:22:58meet you or if he's going to meet you
  2532. 1:23:00yes because that's that's when my mom
  2533. 1:23:02had come out to where i said that i was
  2534. 1:23:04going to be on that road somewhere
  2535. 1:23:06and then she was able to do that
  2536. 1:23:08and then i guess that's how she knew
  2537. 1:23:10like where i don't know if she talked to
  2538. 1:23:12cody again or if she was able to do that
  2539. 1:23:14but then she was able to like pinpoint
  2540. 1:23:15that area
  2541. 1:23:16okay so
  2542. 1:23:18this would have been late at night right
  2543. 1:23:19eight nine ten o'clock somewhere like
  2544. 1:23:21that time yeah so dinner was over you
  2545. 1:23:23guys already had dinner we hadn't had
  2546. 1:23:24dinner because of the whole argument
  2547. 1:23:26that was happening okay so yeah it never
  2548. 1:23:28i don't think yeah the chicken never got
  2549. 1:23:30past just being in the wrappers over
  2550. 1:23:32where she would always defrost it so
  2551. 1:23:35you leave go on your way cody goes home
  2552. 1:23:38right and you have no contact with
  2553. 1:23:39anybody since then right um
  2554. 1:23:44i just want to make sure that we're not
  2555. 1:23:46missing anything before we can close it
  2556. 1:23:47out
  2557. 1:23:50just a second right
  2558. 1:23:52this is a good time right now to take it
  2559. 1:23:54take it i'm good bathroom break anything
  2560. 1:23:56no i feel fine
  2561. 1:24:00sorry
  2562. 1:24:02[Music]
  2563. 1:24:04for christmas because we're not aware i
  2564. 1:24:06i'm not familiar with the area
  2565. 1:24:08so we're gonna go back and talk again
  2566. 1:24:10about this because it's kind of
  2567. 1:24:11important to me about
  2568. 1:24:13cody and you meeting that night right so
  2569. 1:24:16then that that night which was thursday
  2570. 1:24:19thursday night you meet cody
  2571. 1:24:21um because and did he ever tell you why
  2572. 1:24:25he left work early no no i mean he was i
  2573. 1:24:28i'd assumed it was just because he had
  2574. 1:24:30been allowed to leave earlier
  2575. 1:24:31okay
  2576. 1:24:33so here's
  2577. 1:24:35i think this is the blinking lights
  2578. 1:24:36there
  2579. 1:24:37so this is
  2580. 1:24:38to me this is 419 left on lake mills
  2581. 1:24:41right left on fort christmas okay um
  2582. 1:24:45where
  2583. 1:24:46would you say you met cody on fort
  2584. 1:24:48christmas so wait is this is this that
  2585. 1:24:50other like neighborhood i think maybe
  2586. 1:24:53i'm wrong i think it comes this way this
  2587. 1:24:55way is is 419. this is where this is
  2588. 1:24:58inside nothing i think this is
  2589. 1:25:02i think this is up by the hitching post
  2590. 1:25:04you come up you make a right on for
  2591. 1:25:06christmas this is where the boys
  2592. 1:25:07are okay yeah yeah because yeah this
  2593. 1:25:10goes into salt there are picket downs
  2594. 1:25:12right it's right here
  2595. 1:25:13and then this is the circle is this
  2596. 1:25:15where you live where do you live at
  2597. 1:25:17if this is if this is like the entrance
  2598. 1:25:19to take it down yeah i would like to
  2599. 1:25:20okay so here's the there's looking like
  2600. 1:25:23there's blinking lights right here so
  2601. 1:25:25people don't run up in this house i
  2602. 1:25:26think that's what was two red lights oh
  2603. 1:25:28yeah that's on the dude's fence yeah
  2604. 1:25:30then there's those sir there's those two
  2605. 1:25:31yellow arrow
  2606. 1:25:33blinking ones at the corner the corner
  2607. 1:25:34so these are blinking lights here
  2608. 1:25:36[Applause]
  2609. 1:25:38all right so then where do you and cody
  2610. 1:25:40meet
  2611. 1:25:40like way down this road like yeah
  2612. 1:25:43further pass on that road
  2613. 1:25:45so past
  2614. 1:25:46does this dead end anywhere
  2615. 1:25:48i don't think so i think it like it
  2616. 1:25:50literally
  2617. 1:25:51goes into this low and then it goes and
  2618. 1:25:53then if you keep going it which was the
  2619. 1:25:54way that i inevitably took it
  2620. 1:25:56uh where it'll dump you out on to 50 and
  2621. 1:25:59then i came up 50 to go back to the
  2622. 1:26:01publix right so here the blinking lights
  2623. 1:26:04how far down do you think you met half
  2624. 1:26:06mile mile uh i mean a significant ways i
  2625. 1:26:10mean
  2626. 1:26:11it's just an approximate
  2627. 1:26:15i mean i would say it was probably over
  2628. 1:26:17a mile
  2629. 1:26:18is this somewhere you haven't met before
  2630. 1:26:20we know uh like you know where that
  2631. 1:26:23if you're on this road
  2632. 1:26:25the
  2633. 1:26:26intersection where it's like it
  2634. 1:26:28intersects with another another road and
  2635. 1:26:30then it's got like a guardrail or
  2636. 1:26:31something like that right there it was
  2637. 1:26:33still past that area but it was it was
  2638. 1:26:36close to that intersection was it in
  2639. 1:26:38this roadway like off the roadway or
  2640. 1:26:41yeah just off the road just off the road
  2641. 1:26:43yeah okay
  2642. 1:26:45all right yeah i'm not i'm not gonna
  2643. 1:26:47lose it i can't even play it's back
  2644. 1:26:49there in the the
  2645. 1:26:51country
  2646. 1:26:52so you and cody meet right
  2647. 1:26:54and it's approximately what time and i
  2648. 1:26:56notice that yeah i'm not going to the
  2649. 1:26:57exact minute what time do you think you
  2650. 1:26:58met
  2651. 1:26:59like
  2652. 1:27:0210 30 30.
  2653. 1:27:04how long did you talk to him for
  2654. 1:27:05only about 10 minutes or so and what was
  2655. 1:27:07the conversation conversation was
  2656. 1:27:09basically that he was brought up to
  2657. 1:27:11speed
  2658. 1:27:12you know
  2659. 1:27:13and that he would take care of it he was
  2660. 1:27:15brought up speed by what he was brought
  2661. 1:27:16up to speed on like
  2662. 1:27:18why i'm
  2663. 1:27:19why i'm out here who are you about to
  2664. 1:27:21speak my mom oh she talked to him yeah
  2665. 1:27:24he told you that mom had to talk to him
  2666. 1:27:26right i just i just argument or win
  2667. 1:27:28since since i had left
  2668. 1:27:30about you left the house approximately
  2669. 1:27:32when
  2670. 1:27:32i left the house at like
  2671. 1:27:38god when did i leave dark
  2672. 1:27:40it was dark
  2673. 1:27:42um
  2674. 1:27:46it was after it was after 9 00 pm but i
  2675. 1:27:49just don't remember so between 9 and
  2676. 1:27:51approximately 10 30 right you leave
  2677. 1:27:54right go down to sit
  2678. 1:27:56on
  2679. 1:27:57for christmas christmas
  2680. 1:27:59cody comes and talks to you about 10
  2681. 1:28:00minutes at some point your mom has
  2682. 1:28:02spoken to cody based on what the
  2683. 1:28:04conversation you have then correct
  2684. 1:28:05correct and she told him what had
  2685. 1:28:07happened between you and your dad
  2686. 1:28:09okay
  2687. 1:28:10do you think that's why cody left work
  2688. 1:28:13i mean
  2689. 1:28:14i could i could say because he left work
  2690. 1:28:16no he never said why he left work but
  2691. 1:28:19in my mind i was just thinking oh he had
  2692. 1:28:21been let off work early like through
  2693. 1:28:23three times already this week so i was
  2694. 1:28:25just like 10 15 minutes you talked to
  2695. 1:28:26cody right what's he driving uh he
  2696. 1:28:28drives in 96 or 97 97 honda accord okay
  2697. 1:28:33yeah
  2698. 1:28:34um
  2699. 1:28:35you have a conversation and he leaves to
  2700. 1:28:37go home right and you leave to go where
  2701. 1:28:39and then i stay in that general area
  2702. 1:28:42just so that
  2703. 1:28:44if anything happens somebody like knows
  2704. 1:28:45where i am okay why would you stay there
  2705. 1:28:48i stay there for
  2706. 1:28:53i mean like couple hours i would say
  2707. 1:28:56where you were talking like i would go
  2708. 1:28:57like kind of just up and down that road
  2709. 1:28:59a little bit just that my car isn't just
  2710. 1:29:00like sitting there but for the most part
  2711. 1:29:02i mean i was staying in that general
  2712. 1:29:03area and then i decided to go to publix
  2713. 1:29:06publix which is about what time
  2714. 1:29:10like
  2715. 1:29:13between like midnight and one i think
  2716. 1:29:15yeah and you go to publix midnight one
  2717. 1:29:17and i don't stay there till i stay there
  2718. 1:29:19until like
  2719. 1:29:30uh on
  2720. 1:29:31[Music]
  2721. 1:29:32it's like on the on the side
  2722. 1:29:34of it where
  2723. 1:29:36like there's the back in the publix
  2724. 1:29:37where like all the shipments and stuff
  2725. 1:29:38come in and then you go around that
  2726. 1:29:39corner and then there's that line
  2727. 1:29:41on the bottom on the public's end of it
  2728. 1:29:43or the tractor farm supply public fund
  2729. 1:29:45so there's a parking there around that
  2730. 1:29:46side yeah i'm familiar they used to live
  2731. 1:29:48that in that area there's a side parking
  2732. 1:29:51right if you come up forward you make
  2733. 1:29:52the left you go in front of publix the
  2734. 1:29:54ice cream place is out front right but
  2735. 1:29:56you're on the side of the building right
  2736. 1:29:58did any deputies or anybody ever come by
  2737. 1:30:00or anybody that worked there nobody
  2738. 1:30:01needed three trucks
  2739. 1:30:03i saw delivery trucks like in the
  2740. 1:30:04morning yeah and seven o'clock seven
  2741. 1:30:07o'clock ish between seven and seven
  2742. 1:30:09thirty i leave and go where and then
  2743. 1:30:11that i just drive over to where my uh my
  2744. 1:30:13interview and i'm trying i'm just i'm
  2745. 1:30:15just not understanding where where was
  2746. 1:30:17that at uh off leave us though i'll be
  2747. 1:30:19vista
  2748. 1:30:20so how do you get there i just drove
  2749. 1:30:22there
  2750. 1:30:23which way
  2751. 1:30:24oh oh um
  2752. 1:30:26what role do you use
  2753. 1:30:28colonial to 408 and then i got off on
  2754. 1:30:31[Music]
  2755. 1:30:33goldenrod the goldenrod exit and then i
  2756. 1:30:35took goldenrod all the way down to the
  2757. 1:30:37levista
  2758. 1:30:39road make a right right go back towards
  2759. 1:30:42um
  2760. 1:30:43436. yeah okay you have an e-pass i do
  2761. 1:30:46you okay so your e-pass would have
  2762. 1:30:48probably hit you at
  2763. 1:30:50the dean road maybe yeah and i don't
  2764. 1:30:53think there's a toll if i'm not
  2765. 1:30:55mistaking that golden rod is there no
  2766. 1:30:56there's nothing that one yeah so worth
  2767. 1:30:58your weight on surface rows all the way
  2768. 1:31:01down leave this and go and what was the
  2769. 1:31:02name of the company again i'm sorry i
  2770. 1:31:04just i don't think we can um it was it's
  2771. 1:31:06a creta a creta yeah how do you think
  2772. 1:31:08it's spelled a-c-c
  2773. 1:31:11r-e-d-a
  2774. 1:31:12let me see if i can find or it's a credo
  2775. 1:31:14it's one of those two
  2776. 1:31:16but it's if you type in that and then
  2777. 1:31:18like scripts it'll give you like the
  2778. 1:31:19other name that the company has because
  2779. 1:31:21then they were also just like bought
  2780. 1:31:22from cigna so they're also called cigna
  2781. 1:31:24now
  2782. 1:31:25scripts like
  2783. 1:31:26yeah like like a doctor script
  2784. 1:31:29s-c-r-i-p-t-s
  2785. 1:31:32express scripts
  2786. 1:31:33that's that's the actual i think the
  2787. 1:31:35name of the infusion group but
  2788. 1:31:37they've kept their name accreta or a
  2789. 1:31:39credo a credos um
  2790. 1:31:41express ribs let's see i saw them why
  2791. 1:31:44are you looking now the 6272 leave us to
  2792. 1:31:47boulevard sound right yes yeah 62. yeah
  2793. 1:31:50i remember it being a 62. don't you look
  2794. 1:31:51at this look at the method
  2795. 1:31:54i'm sorry this is not good
  2796. 1:32:03[Music]
  2797. 1:32:08look about right yeah okay
  2798. 1:32:10so it's gonna be 6272 leave us to
  2799. 1:32:12boulevard ex and it's called express
  2800. 1:32:14scripts they're on their name where i
  2801. 1:32:15put it it said a credo expressway that's
  2802. 1:32:18not right okay so you went and had an
  2803. 1:32:19interview with hill
  2804. 1:32:20um i had an interview with the two
  2805. 1:32:22managers uh erica and terry eric and
  2806. 1:32:26terry females are males females okay two
  2807. 1:32:28females what erica look like
  2808. 1:32:30uh erica is
  2809. 1:32:32i think like maybe 30 or something like
  2810. 1:32:35that and she's got like blonde hair
  2811. 1:32:37like fake eyelashes um i mean white you
  2812. 1:32:41know kind of just look like
  2813. 1:32:44young standard small build woman
  2814. 1:32:47okay how about the other girl terry is
  2815. 1:32:51i think kind of into her 40s she's got
  2816. 1:32:53like auburn straight hair uh white again
  2817. 1:32:57and
  2818. 1:32:58um
  2819. 1:33:00yeah she was also just kind of like a
  2820. 1:33:01standard slim build person okay uh would
  2821. 1:33:05you wear it where'd you wear the
  2822. 1:33:06interview i wore my uh suit
  2823. 1:33:09uh
  2824. 1:33:10it's just like a men's warehouse gray
  2825. 1:33:11suit sure like uh
  2826. 1:33:14brown shoes okay um and you said the
  2827. 1:33:17interview was from what time was that
  2828. 1:33:18and i'm sorry to repeat no no no no
  2829. 1:33:20my interview was scheduled for 10 in the
  2830. 1:33:22morning but literally right because i
  2831. 1:33:23was told that i had to print out like my
  2832. 1:33:25resumes and my other things but then i
  2833. 1:33:27wasn't able to the night before so i had
  2834. 1:33:30brought my surface thing that i could
  2835. 1:33:31print it out earlier so i got there at
  2836. 1:33:33nine
  2837. 1:33:34or like maybe where'd you pronounce that
  2838. 1:33:36i actually didn't i mean they said that
  2839. 1:33:38they couldn't but they already had
  2840. 1:33:39copies of it so i was able i didn't have
  2841. 1:33:41to worry about that so you had the
  2842. 1:33:43interview and it started approximately
  2843. 1:33:44one time like 9
  2844. 1:33:4640. 940 and went to about one uh i think
  2845. 1:33:49it was about an hour so like 10 30 10 40
  2846. 1:33:53or so they didn't offer your job and
  2847. 1:33:54said they may have something coming
  2848. 1:33:56forward it's it seems like promising but
  2849. 1:33:58then they said that they had one more
  2850. 1:33:59person interview on
  2851. 1:34:01tuesday or wednesday of this coming week
  2852. 1:34:03so but they said that i would hear
  2853. 1:34:05something from them regardless like twos
  2854. 1:34:07or three i want to jump back just a
  2855. 1:34:08second when you left the house right
  2856. 1:34:11what were you wearing
  2857. 1:34:12uh when i left the house i was just
  2858. 1:34:14wearing
  2859. 1:34:15um
  2860. 1:34:17like my
  2861. 1:34:19uh like black pants and then just jeans
  2862. 1:34:22like just like good workout pants kind
  2863. 1:34:24of deal with no just yeah just like just
  2864. 1:34:26like workout camera workout
  2865. 1:34:28and then i um
  2866. 1:34:30i just had a black shirt on and then uh
  2867. 1:34:35was i wearing a jacket and i think just
  2868. 1:34:36like one of my sweaters or jackets or
  2869. 1:34:38something
  2870. 1:34:40and you changed where to go to the uh in
  2871. 1:34:42the parking lot at the at the
  2872. 1:34:45place i suppose okay you go to the
  2873. 1:34:47interview let's say you're there until
  2874. 1:34:49maybe 11 o'clock right approximately
  2875. 1:34:51where'd you go from there from there
  2876. 1:34:54um i pretty much just drove around i was
  2877. 1:34:56thinking of
  2878. 1:34:58like
  2879. 1:34:59passing by the house but i i inevitably
  2880. 1:35:02decided against it and then i was
  2881. 1:35:05i thought that i had to do like a skills
  2882. 1:35:08check off for the same exact things and
  2883. 1:35:10i had switched into into just like
  2884. 1:35:12scrubs okay um but then that didn't end
  2885. 1:35:15up needing to be done today or um on the
  2886. 1:35:18same day
  2887. 1:35:19and then i was pretty much just driving
  2888. 1:35:21around i ended up going to
  2889. 1:35:24water for or i had gone back to the
  2890. 1:35:26publix area at one point
  2891. 1:35:28um because i wanted to see if i could
  2892. 1:35:32um
  2893. 1:35:33get my phone service back
  2894. 1:35:36um but then i was told that i'm not like
  2895. 1:35:38a registered user did you go to a phone
  2896. 1:35:40store somewhere yeah which one the
  2897. 1:35:42verizon the verizon which is right there
  2898. 1:35:44in the same place and the
  2899. 1:35:46in the um public spider right it's like
  2900. 1:35:49tracker part of the fight it's right
  2901. 1:35:50next to the zaxby's it's where the
  2902. 1:35:52family dentistry oh yeah they built a
  2903. 1:35:54new building up there right it's like a
  2904. 1:35:56little strip uh four or five store there
  2905. 1:35:58yeah okay no exactly something where
  2906. 1:35:59you're trying to go to corner lakes
  2907. 1:36:00middle school right okay so talk to
  2908. 1:36:03somebody yeah i had tried to get my
  2909. 1:36:04phone service back and that's a girl it
  2910. 1:36:06was a guy what is it like
  2911. 1:36:09he was a young guy like
  2912. 1:36:11maybe in his early 20s he had black hair
  2913. 1:36:14i think he had like a goatee
  2914. 1:36:17um
  2915. 1:36:17[Music]
  2916. 1:36:19what time was that approximately uh
  2917. 1:36:22i think that was that was the first
  2918. 1:36:24place that i went to when i came back so
  2919. 1:36:28if i got out of there around 11 maybe
  2920. 1:36:30like
  2921. 1:36:3312 or 12 30 or something like that in
  2922. 1:36:34the afternoon i think okay couldn't get
  2923. 1:36:37the phone because why because i was told
  2924. 1:36:39that i wasn't a registered user because
  2925. 1:36:41it was under my dad's name sure and
  2926. 1:36:43everything and then um
  2927. 1:36:46i was told i was a registered user and
  2928. 1:36:47then
  2929. 1:36:48that
  2930. 1:36:50basically they can't do anything unless
  2931. 1:36:51he gives the sign off to it right the
  2932. 1:36:54account will have to approve of it right
  2933. 1:36:55right didn't work it didn't work and
  2934. 1:36:58then you went where and then after that
  2935. 1:37:00i went back um
  2936. 1:37:02and then i think i just sat in my car
  2937. 1:37:04for a little while because i was just
  2938. 1:37:05thinking okay well how am i going to do
  2939. 1:37:06this with everything that just happened
  2940. 1:37:08and
  2941. 1:37:09um
  2942. 1:37:11from there
  2943. 1:37:13that's where i think i decided that i
  2944. 1:37:15was going to maybe drive by the house
  2945. 1:37:18did you go right bye did i i didn't
  2946. 1:37:20drive by the house i
  2947. 1:37:22like was starting to go there down that
  2948. 1:37:24for christmas road and then i was just
  2949. 1:37:26like i'm just i'm not gonna i'm not
  2950. 1:37:28gonna do it because
  2951. 1:37:29as far as i know it's like
  2952. 1:37:32you know dad's probably at work i don't
  2953. 1:37:34know if cody works again today
  2954. 1:37:36and you know just like with everything
  2955. 1:37:38that had been when he drove down there
  2956. 1:37:39yeah see anything strange no i i had
  2957. 1:37:42seen um
  2958. 1:37:43i just seen like a couple of cars like
  2959. 1:37:45pass by me but
  2960. 1:37:47like just standard like just a little
  2961. 1:37:49bit of traffic
  2962. 1:37:50but then apart from that no i mean
  2963. 1:37:52nothing how close you get to the house
  2964. 1:37:55uh
  2965. 1:37:57it's i mean like a couple miles a couple
  2966. 1:38:00you leave there and you go where and
  2967. 1:38:03then after
  2968. 1:38:04i choose not to do that then i
  2969. 1:38:09go
  2970. 1:38:14i go
  2971. 1:38:15uh back towards the goldenrod express
  2972. 1:38:18scripts area because i thought that i
  2973. 1:38:19had to do the skills checkoff thing
  2974. 1:38:21um so then i'm going back that whole
  2975. 1:38:23like golden roddy area right um i think
  2976. 1:38:26i missed my exit and then i had to get
  2977. 1:38:28off at uh you go 408 again yeah
  2978. 1:38:31expressway yeah okay so you're going
  2979. 1:38:33back and forth on the four-way right
  2980. 1:38:34okay and then i missed the golden rod
  2981. 1:38:36exit and then
  2982. 1:38:38i like don't even think to get off on
  2983. 1:38:40samurai so then i end up like needing to
  2984. 1:38:42go off on crystal lake drive
  2985. 1:38:45and then i connect up with 50 and i just
  2986. 1:38:47go all the way back the whole
  2987. 1:38:49the goldenrod road
  2988. 1:38:50but um
  2989. 1:38:54then i stop off and i just
  2990. 1:38:57i see if if there was like any email
  2991. 1:38:59updates or anything like that and then
  2992. 1:39:00there's your emails yeah nothing and
  2993. 1:39:02then there was nothing so then i was
  2994. 1:39:03like oh crap it's not like today but
  2995. 1:39:06you've got to pay for things you've got
  2996. 1:39:07some money right in your account right
  2997. 1:39:09you got cody's cards right right on the
  2998. 1:39:11side do you still have your dance card
  2999. 1:39:13yes okay so i had that okay do you use
  3000. 1:39:15any of them i had used cody's card to
  3001. 1:39:18pay for one of my bills that was
  3002. 1:39:20outstanding
  3003. 1:39:21uh it was just one of those from that
  3004. 1:39:23site it was just like a bill that is
  3005. 1:39:26back in there it's
  3006. 1:39:27599.99
  3007. 1:39:29okay um cody know you're doing that yeah
  3008. 1:39:31he says okay he said to use this to
  3009. 1:39:35like survive until things can get
  3010. 1:39:37figured out because he knows that i only
  3011. 1:39:39have you know a few hundred dollars to
  3012. 1:39:41my name
  3013. 1:39:42he told you that that night that you
  3014. 1:39:43could use his card and pay off what
  3015. 1:39:45needed to be paid off yeah
  3016. 1:39:47he said to use it for like necessity did
  3017. 1:39:50he give it to you yes he gave here take
  3018. 1:39:52this and
  3019. 1:39:59so
  3020. 1:39:59then after the realization i didn't have
  3021. 1:40:02to do any skills check off then after
  3022. 1:40:04that
  3023. 1:40:06i go
  3024. 1:40:07then after that oh yeah then after that
  3025. 1:40:09that's where i go to waterford
  3026. 1:40:10and then at waterford you stop anywhere
  3027. 1:40:13over there i go into panera because i
  3028. 1:40:15think that i'm gonna get something to
  3029. 1:40:16eat about what time
  3030. 1:40:17um
  3031. 1:40:18[Music]
  3032. 1:40:21this was like right before i went to the
  3033. 1:40:23to the hotel so it was like
  3034. 1:40:25after that oh yeah then after that
  3035. 1:40:27that's where i go to waterford
  3036. 1:40:28and then at waterford you stop anywhere
  3037. 1:40:31over there i go into panera because i
  3038. 1:40:33think that i'm gonna get something to
  3039. 1:40:34eat about what time um
  3040. 1:40:36[Music]
  3041. 1:40:39this was like right before i went to the
  3042. 1:40:41to the hotel so it was like
  3043. 1:40:431 30 2 o'clock in the afternoon maybe
  3044. 1:40:46um
  3045. 1:40:48and then in there you know i i think
  3046. 1:40:50about getting something to eat but then
  3047. 1:40:52i don't really want to use like
  3048. 1:40:54the other cards to pay for something and
  3049. 1:40:56then i know that i only have a little
  3050. 1:40:58bit but then i'm gonna have to like
  3051. 1:40:59sleep somewhere and again i'm trying to
  3052. 1:41:00use like my money for that type of stuff
  3053. 1:41:03so then yeah so i'm only in panera for
  3054. 1:41:05like 10 minutes or something like that
  3055. 1:41:07and then i end up leaving from there and
  3056. 1:41:09then that's where i go to the double
  3057. 1:41:10tree and then that's where i checked in
  3058. 1:41:12and then i was at the double tree all
  3059. 1:41:14night did you go anywhere lee i only
  3060. 1:41:16came out of the doubletree to i think
  3061. 1:41:18get like a water bottle out of my car
  3062. 1:41:20and uh get
  3063. 1:41:21like
  3064. 1:41:23oh yeah to get my uh like my razor out
  3065. 1:41:25just in case i needed to shave or
  3066. 1:41:27something like that in your room what's
  3067. 1:41:29in your room back at that
  3068. 1:41:30at the double tree it's my
  3069. 1:41:33leather
  3070. 1:41:34like just shoulder bag
  3071. 1:41:36and then it has my other small leather
  3072. 1:41:39um
  3073. 1:41:40shoulder bag i guess you call up it's
  3074. 1:41:42like really like a satchel okay what's
  3075. 1:41:43up what's in it what's in this bag and
  3076. 1:41:45the satchels just got some batteries and
  3077. 1:41:47protein bars um
  3078. 1:41:50just some like ration type food and then
  3079. 1:41:53in my
  3080. 1:41:54uh
  3081. 1:41:56big carry it's got just
  3082. 1:41:58like some clothes standard clothes
  3083. 1:42:01it had my like all the electronic
  3084. 1:42:03chargers and whatnot that i could get
  3085. 1:42:04just kind of grabbing and putting in
  3086. 1:42:06there and then it has my surface
  3087. 1:42:09my cell phone and
  3088. 1:42:11uh my ipad yep and then
  3089. 1:42:16uh
  3090. 1:42:19it's got like some
  3091. 1:42:21some like bills like some previous
  3092. 1:42:23builds
  3093. 1:42:24does your cell phone have a lock on it
  3094. 1:42:28yes what's the lie
  3095. 1:42:29uh two one one two
  3096. 1:42:32two one one two for the lock one itself
  3097. 1:42:34one how about the ipad the ipad i don't
  3098. 1:42:35know i never turned it on oh you've
  3099. 1:42:37never even used it no no no i i've used
  3100. 1:42:40it before but i never turned it on since
  3101. 1:42:42i got it back
  3102. 1:42:43because my dad was like keeping all of
  3103. 1:42:45that stuff like blocked and sure putting
  3104. 1:42:48somebody up
  3105. 1:42:50there last night talk to anybody
  3106. 1:42:52i guess i messaged the girl that i've
  3107. 1:42:54been talking to
  3108. 1:42:56on twitter so you have to pay for it
  3109. 1:42:58right right respond back to you uh i
  3110. 1:43:00think once like one or two responses
  3111. 1:43:02what's what's your twitter
  3112. 1:43:04address i'm sorry i i'm not gonna do it
  3113. 1:43:06no it's just it's just grant hey it's
  3114. 1:43:08just what it is it says grant a
  3115. 1:43:11space
  3116. 1:43:12grant space a i think if you type in
  3117. 1:43:14grant space a it'll
  3118. 1:43:17like pull up my picture okay but it's
  3119. 1:43:18like one of those grant space a
  3120. 1:43:21eight four nine five thousand yeah it's
  3121. 1:43:22got like nine numbers after okay i'm
  3122. 1:43:24sorry i just i'm not a twitter person oh
  3123. 1:43:26no i don't know that much about it sorry
  3124. 1:43:28when you get
  3125. 1:43:29that rh the the some of these things
  3126. 1:43:31have passed you by and oh no no i
  3127. 1:43:33appreciate you explaining to me so the
  3128. 1:43:34surface and ipad have no passwords
  3129. 1:43:37this the surface my computer has a
  3130. 1:43:39password but it's again the pin it's
  3131. 1:43:40just two on one too
  3132. 1:43:43yeah yeah easy to remember
  3133. 1:43:45and then but with the ipad i don't know
  3134. 1:43:47if it has a password on it because i
  3135. 1:43:49never turned that on again uh once i got
  3136. 1:43:51it back okay
  3137. 1:43:53so
  3138. 1:43:54you stay there
  3139. 1:43:55we're gonna wake up this morning right
  3140. 1:43:58nobody else in the room nobody else is
  3141. 1:44:00greeted in your name running in my name
  3142. 1:44:02okay you come out and do what you come
  3143. 1:44:04out of the room today you go where
  3144. 1:44:05i was going to go down because i i had
  3145. 1:44:07like one more bottle of water in my car
  3146. 1:44:09and i just finished eating like just a
  3147. 1:44:11little granola bar thing so i was like
  3148. 1:44:13i'm just going to go down and get my
  3149. 1:44:14bottle of water and you found what let
  3150. 1:44:16me go outside all the police officers
  3151. 1:44:19okay real quick do you know if there was
  3152. 1:44:22a password on the ipad prior to your dad
  3153. 1:44:24taking it
  3154. 1:44:25uh
  3155. 1:44:25yeah but it was
  3156. 1:44:27just
  3157. 1:44:29they were always like two on one too
  3158. 1:44:32yeah
  3159. 1:44:35um here we got a better map just because
  3160. 1:44:39and i can't see that
  3161. 1:44:41okay
  3162. 1:44:42i'm blind
  3163. 1:44:43like mills okay
  3164. 1:44:46we've marked off there just for easy and
  3165. 1:44:48it's not there's your house okay here's
  3166. 1:44:51the guy with the fence with the lights
  3167. 1:44:53there
  3168. 1:44:54and you went down for christmas going in
  3169. 1:44:55orange county right and i would suspect
  3170. 1:44:57this is about somewhere around a mile
  3171. 1:44:59give or take okay from your
  3172. 1:45:02development remember a cross street or
  3173. 1:45:04anything that it was near it was i don't
  3174. 1:45:06know if it's on here
  3175. 1:45:08because it would be a road that's like
  3176. 1:45:10coming in in this direction where a side
  3177. 1:45:13road or like somebody's private road no
  3178. 1:45:15it's like a side road it's it's like a
  3179. 1:45:18road that inevitably collects back up
  3180. 1:45:20with 417
  3181. 1:45:22and it's like it's jesse i think i think
  3182. 1:45:24what you're saying that road it should
  3183. 1:45:27um
  3184. 1:45:28come back to um
  3185. 1:45:3350 if i'm not saying i think there's
  3186. 1:45:34there's a split where it splits off and
  3187. 1:45:36if you go left it'll win it was before
  3188. 1:45:39that yeah it was before that split where
  3189. 1:45:41if you take that
  3190. 1:45:42you don't you
  3191. 1:45:43but it was before that it's where
  3192. 1:45:45there's another road that's intersecting
  3193. 1:45:47that has like a metal guard rail like a
  3194. 1:45:51long metal guard rail
  3195. 1:45:53um and it's just like a little
  3196. 1:45:54i don't know i can't really describe it
  3197. 1:45:58it's like
  3198. 1:46:00like it should be a road that's
  3199. 1:46:03coming in from this direction
  3200. 1:46:06i just have no idea i mean unless it's
  3201. 1:46:08like one of these that's just like right
  3202. 1:46:09off the map or something like that over
  3203. 1:46:11here is
  3204. 1:46:15i think this goes back out if i'm not
  3205. 1:46:16mistaken goes back out to where
  3206. 1:46:23lake pickett lake pickett road goes all
  3207. 1:46:26the way from percival
  3208. 1:46:28it comes out and crosses fortnite julian
  3209. 1:46:29road 419 it goes back through some
  3210. 1:46:31developments some new developments
  3211. 1:46:33winds its way around
  3212. 1:46:35and kind of looks like that does that
  3213. 1:46:36look about right for christmas before
  3214. 1:46:38that road comes in it's it's a good road
  3215. 1:46:40yeah there's a stop sign that way so
  3216. 1:46:42probably you think right around there
  3217. 1:46:43before you get back into
  3218. 1:46:45the
  3219. 1:46:46afternoon proper area yeah could that
  3220. 1:46:48have been it like right around right
  3221. 1:46:49around here it's closed was there a
  3222. 1:46:51church right there the catholic diocese
  3223. 1:46:52of orlando is he's got some property
  3224. 1:46:54there
  3225. 1:46:56no i mean all that i can remember is
  3226. 1:46:57just because right here
  3227. 1:46:59because right here i know it's kind of
  3228. 1:47:00hard to see is where you live at right
  3229. 1:47:04is right
  3230. 1:47:06i think right there yeah salt is right
  3231. 1:47:08there
  3232. 1:47:09that other road comes down you say where
  3233. 1:47:10the lights are down that way
  3234. 1:47:12and the only real road that comes down
  3235. 1:47:14and goes back to the east
  3236. 1:47:17so it's probably that i don't know but
  3237. 1:47:18it looks like a decent sized road it
  3238. 1:47:20wasn't just like a little driveway
  3239. 1:47:22and then it winds through it should be
  3240. 1:47:24late ticket
  3241. 1:47:28for highway was it 420 420.
  3242. 1:47:32so somewhere in that interest yeah
  3243. 1:47:35and then
  3244. 1:47:36when you left
  3245. 1:47:38cody what did he say he was going to go
  3246. 1:47:40do cody said that he will take care of
  3247. 1:47:43it take care of what just the situation
  3248. 1:47:46that was at hand
  3249. 1:47:47with
  3250. 1:47:48whatever he had been updated with from
  3251. 1:47:49my mom did he tell you what he was
  3252. 1:47:51updated he had told me that he had told
  3253. 1:47:53me the reason why like i had been kicked
  3254. 1:47:55out um
  3255. 1:47:57but he really didn't give me that much
  3256. 1:47:59dialogue like about that situation you
  3257. 1:48:02know he was
  3258. 1:48:04he was
  3259. 1:48:05miffed a little bit because you know he
  3260. 1:48:06just gotten off work and now he has to
  3261. 1:48:08go deal with this and then after that i
  3262. 1:48:11mean it was just
  3263. 1:48:12he gave me the debit card to say you
  3264. 1:48:14know to use this in case of emergencies
  3265. 1:48:16and then uh i mean that was pretty much
  3266. 1:48:18it because i don't know if like he had
  3267. 1:48:21already said that he was on his way home
  3268. 1:48:22or if there were expectations like for a
  3269. 1:48:25time with him for making it home but
  3270. 1:48:27what was your demeanor like what did
  3271. 1:48:28cody see you as like were you like
  3272. 1:48:31scared yeah like
  3273. 1:48:32i was scared because i mean like i said
  3274. 1:48:34the first time that i had been out of
  3275. 1:48:36the house you know you were scared of
  3276. 1:48:38what being on your own or did your
  3277. 1:48:40father say or do anything to scare you
  3278. 1:48:42he had threatened me that if i stepped
  3279. 1:48:44foot back on his property not the house
  3280. 1:48:46but if i step foot back on his property
  3281. 1:48:48that he would kill me and like he had he
  3282. 1:48:50said those specific words yeah did you
  3283. 1:48:52tell that to cody that your father told
  3284. 1:48:54you that no i didn't so you're afraid of
  3285. 1:48:56him oh yeah you you
  3286. 1:48:59are actually afraid that he could kill
  3287. 1:49:01you yeah and it's also because
  3288. 1:49:03like in the past
  3289. 1:49:06like two weeks before i got kicked out
  3290. 1:49:09my dad was going through like a lot of
  3291. 1:49:12episodes where he was losing his temper
  3292. 1:49:14a lot yelling a lot especially when me
  3293. 1:49:16and cody weren't at the house
  3294. 1:49:18and um
  3295. 1:49:20my mom so was he being violent to your
  3296. 1:49:21mom yeah like i think physically or just
  3297. 1:49:24emotionally both
  3298. 1:49:26but his hands are he had bruised her
  3299. 1:49:28left arm by grabbing it
  3300. 1:49:30um and then apparently she had said that
  3301. 1:49:33on one of the nights
  3302. 1:49:35that um they were in the kitchen
  3303. 1:49:37together and then he was like throwing
  3304. 1:49:39food at her and then banged her head
  3305. 1:49:40against the wall a couple times so
  3306. 1:49:43and i'm not let me speak bad of your dad
  3307. 1:49:45but he's kind of a violent guy yeah i
  3308. 1:49:47mean you have a reason to be afraid of
  3309. 1:49:49him and then the thing that i was
  3310. 1:49:51getting to was that apparently my mom
  3311. 1:49:52was so scared at one point because it
  3312. 1:49:54had been a while since he had been like
  3313. 1:49:56this
  3314. 1:49:57that she had taken like
  3315. 1:50:00a couple or a number of voice memos on
  3316. 1:50:02her phone whenever he would like come in
  3317. 1:50:05and then start like she knew that you
  3318. 1:50:06know something like he was gonna start
  3319. 1:50:08to get upset and that on multiple
  3320. 1:50:10occasions
  3321. 1:50:12um he had told her that
  3322. 1:50:15if you or he had told her that basically
  3323. 1:50:17if i [ __ ] up sorry for the language but
  3324. 1:50:19if that if i if i screw up
  3325. 1:50:22he's going to kill me
  3326. 1:50:23and then he's going to kill her
  3327. 1:50:25he said those specifically because he
  3328. 1:50:27blames everything that happens
  3329. 1:50:28negatively with me and with jason not
  3330. 1:50:31with cody but with me and jason on her
  3331. 1:50:34because we're here
  3332. 1:50:36so you have a reasonable belief in your
  3333. 1:50:40mind that your dad could could hurt you
  3334. 1:50:42yes he could hurt your mom yes
  3335. 1:50:44he could baby hurt jason yes
  3336. 1:50:47he's a violent guy i'm sorry i've been
  3337. 1:50:49this a long time he sounds like a
  3338. 1:50:50violent guy yeah quick to lose his
  3339. 1:50:52temper with you over mini school stuff
  3340. 1:50:54minuscule stuff i get the point he's
  3341. 1:50:56upset about the amount of money i agree
  3342. 1:50:58but
  3343. 1:51:00physically he's abusive yeah
  3344. 1:51:02and it's kind of embarrassing as you're
  3345. 1:51:03an adult male right now he's been
  3346. 1:51:05abusive you for years has he not yeah i
  3347. 1:51:07mean
  3348. 1:51:08more more mentally over the course but
  3349. 1:51:11it has been
  3350. 1:51:13to the point where you as a 29 year old
  3351. 1:51:15male right 29 29 that you're afraid that
  3352. 1:51:18your father could kill you yeah
  3353. 1:51:20and i mean again it's like
  3354. 1:51:24you know at the house i mean i have like
  3355. 1:51:26no access to anything so i mean it's
  3356. 1:51:28literally just like me and you know
  3357. 1:51:31like i told you accept anything you mean
  3358. 1:51:32what like you know anything to defend
  3359. 1:51:34myself you know like i had a gun sold
  3360. 1:51:37all my guns
  3361. 1:51:38does cody have guns in the house he does
  3362. 1:51:41but they're like locked up somewhere do
  3363. 1:51:43i have guns in the house again yeah but
  3364. 1:51:45they're locked up somewhere and you
  3365. 1:51:46don't have access to them i don't even
  3366. 1:51:48have a house key um i don't have a
  3367. 1:51:49housekeep i don't have any keys to the
  3368. 1:51:51the
  3369. 1:51:52doors inside the house all i had was my
  3370. 1:51:55car key that's all that he gave me and
  3371. 1:51:56that night when you argued with your
  3372. 1:51:58father and he said he grabbed your shirt
  3373. 1:52:00and pulled you off the couch did he do
  3374. 1:52:02anything else to you physically no no he
  3375. 1:52:05didn't like pursue it anymore he was
  3376. 1:52:06just did you tell cody that he acted
  3377. 1:52:09that way towards you no cody had no idea
  3378. 1:52:11that there was a heated
  3379. 1:52:13physical
  3380. 1:52:14just the argument that you needed to get
  3381. 1:52:16out because you were talking to this
  3382. 1:52:17girl right
  3383. 1:52:20um
  3384. 1:52:24we've come and talked to you and wrote
  3385. 1:52:26up here voluntarily with us
  3386. 1:52:28to talk to us
  3387. 1:52:31why do you think we're having this
  3388. 1:52:32conversation
  3389. 1:52:34i honestly don't know but i'm
  3390. 1:52:35[Music]
  3391. 1:52:36pretty freaked out at this point because
  3392. 1:52:41you know it's uh
  3393. 1:52:43i mean i know like how the situation was
  3394. 1:52:45when i left and
  3395. 1:52:48you know i thought that it was weird to
  3396. 1:52:49begin with that i hadn't gotten any
  3397. 1:52:53communication whatsoever i mean like
  3398. 1:52:54like i told you my brother cody the last
  3399. 1:52:57time
  3400. 1:52:58um when i was away from the house that
  3401. 1:53:00he was the one who outreached to me via
  3402. 1:53:02email because again i didn't have my
  3403. 1:53:03phone or anything like that
  3404. 1:53:05so
  3405. 1:53:07i mean i thought that it was weird but
  3406. 1:53:09i've just been kind of putting it out of
  3407. 1:53:10my mind thinking okay you had to go to
  3408. 1:53:12work or there was or something when you
  3409. 1:53:14were in your room the hotel room hanging
  3410. 1:53:16out watching tv
  3411. 1:53:18no i didn't turn on the tv i had on just
  3412. 1:53:20like music uh on the in the background
  3413. 1:53:22just kind of helped me go to sleep are
  3414. 1:53:24you sure about that because the hotel
  3415. 1:53:27it's weird and i didn't know that they
  3416. 1:53:28should travel a lot for work they can
  3417. 1:53:30tell because of the
  3418. 1:53:32tv every channel you've been on when the
  3419. 1:53:35tv gets turned off i guess they have a
  3420. 1:53:37problem yeah i guess they have a problem
  3421. 1:53:39uh with people stealing from that oh wow
  3422. 1:53:41so those things are well moderate even
  3423. 1:53:43though that looks like a cheap yeah
  3424. 1:53:46i never even touched the tv remote i
  3425. 1:53:48didn't turn on that tv at all i was just
  3426. 1:53:50using my service like watch youtube
  3427. 1:53:52initially and then um
  3428. 1:53:56um
  3429. 1:53:57and then you're actually using the
  3430. 1:53:58surface to check things right so
  3431. 1:54:00there'll be a history of everywhere you
  3432. 1:54:01went on it right yeah okay
  3433. 1:54:06as a as a child was told the truth
  3434. 1:54:09always is the best thing to do correct
  3435. 1:54:11correct you agree with it yeah
  3436. 1:54:13and accidents happen and things in the
  3437. 1:54:14heat of the moment things happen
  3438. 1:54:17that we wish hadn't happened but we make
  3439. 1:54:20i do it myself sometimes my kids would
  3440. 1:54:21make me so aggravated i'll snap at them
  3441. 1:54:23and then walk away and say wow i wish i
  3442. 1:54:25would not have done that that was not
  3443. 1:54:26very adult of me to to snap at my child
  3444. 1:54:29for something
  3445. 1:54:30yes they're wrong but i should be the
  3446. 1:54:32adult and not snap at them right
  3447. 1:54:37tell me what you think because i can
  3448. 1:54:38tell by i've done this for a long long
  3449. 1:54:40time and i read people the way they act
  3450. 1:54:42and the way they they talk to me and the
  3451. 1:54:44way they answer questions
  3452. 1:54:46there's something you want to tell us i
  3453. 1:54:48can see it in your eyes i could see it
  3454. 1:54:50in your body language and just your
  3455. 1:54:53the way you act
  3456. 1:54:55now's the time
  3457. 1:54:56now is the time for something you want
  3458. 1:54:58to get off your chest and give us an
  3459. 1:55:00explanation of what's bothering you now
  3460. 1:55:02is the exact time to do it and i i i'm
  3461. 1:55:05giving that opportunity
  3462. 1:55:07um right now to tell me some something
  3463. 1:55:10you want to get off your chest it's
  3464. 1:55:12there i can see it you're facing to your
  3465. 1:55:13eyes that's out about that night you're
  3466. 1:55:14upset about you're upset about you've
  3467. 1:55:16been that since we've talked to you i
  3468. 1:55:17can see there's something been bothering
  3469. 1:55:19you even though i don't know you from
  3470. 1:55:20adam's house can't you see things in
  3471. 1:55:22people that
  3472. 1:55:23something's really bothering this guy
  3473. 1:55:24it's not that you know i spent a bunch
  3474. 1:55:26of money i shouldn't have on this girl
  3475. 1:55:28so be it you did it's over with money
  3476. 1:55:30can be made back something's bothering
  3477. 1:55:32you
  3478. 1:55:33i'm just worried about
  3479. 1:55:35what
  3480. 1:55:36is all transpiring from this i i think
  3481. 1:55:39at this point right now to be honest
  3482. 1:55:40with you grant you know what it is
  3483. 1:55:42um
  3484. 1:55:44it's in your eyes
  3485. 1:55:45your eyes is is the view to your soul
  3486. 1:55:48and it's it's in your eyes
  3487. 1:55:50and
  3488. 1:55:51it sounds stupid and people don't
  3489. 1:55:53believe it
  3490. 1:55:55like i told you out there in the car did
  3491. 1:55:56i not tell you you may not like what i
  3492. 1:55:58say but i'm going to tell you the truth
  3493. 1:55:59i'm going to tell you the truth every
  3494. 1:56:00time that i can walk and walk into in
  3495. 1:56:02front of anybody in god and say i don't
  3496. 1:56:04care i told him the truth
  3497. 1:56:07and we usually know answers before we
  3498. 1:56:08ask it right
  3499. 1:56:10we
  3500. 1:56:11me and even knew everything before
  3501. 1:56:13before
  3502. 1:56:14[Music]
  3503. 1:56:15we asked you the questions
  3504. 1:56:18now's the time to come to jesus be
  3505. 1:56:20honest because you're holding something
  3506. 1:56:21back i can see it in your eyes
  3507. 1:56:24people don't believe that the police
  3508. 1:56:25will help you but we are actually here
  3509. 1:56:27to help you with issues you may have
  3510. 1:56:30um i think something happened
  3511. 1:56:32and
  3512. 1:56:34you don't want to tell us
  3513. 1:56:36but right now is the time to get it off
  3514. 1:56:37your chest
  3515. 1:56:38and i really wish you would because it
  3516. 1:56:40will make you feel better in the end
  3517. 1:56:43i i genuinely don't have anything else
  3518. 1:56:46that i can say about
  3519. 1:56:48the night or
  3520. 1:56:49you know the period of time afterwards
  3521. 1:56:51there's only there's only one
  3522. 1:56:54opportunity
  3523. 1:56:57to
  3524. 1:57:00make that that good impression
  3525. 1:57:02and to if we've done something we
  3526. 1:57:04shouldn't have done if that's after you
  3527. 1:57:06caught your hand in a cookie jar
  3528. 1:57:08you do it
  3529. 1:57:11now is there anything else that happened
  3530. 1:57:12at the house that you didn't tell us
  3531. 1:57:14that you've left out but we haven't
  3532. 1:57:16asked you that would be of importance
  3533. 1:57:18or during the time that you drove around
  3534. 1:57:20for those few hours
  3535. 1:57:22did you ever really go back to the house
  3536. 1:57:24that you haven't told us about
  3537. 1:57:26something that something that happened
  3538. 1:57:28that caused you to defend yourself
  3539. 1:57:31no because again it's like i didn't have
  3540. 1:57:34i didn't have any means to defend myself
  3541. 1:57:36i mean i didn't well
  3542. 1:57:39we know from talking to that there's
  3543. 1:57:42there's weapons in the house
  3544. 1:57:43we know that to be to be to be a fact
  3545. 1:57:47something happened that caused you to
  3546. 1:57:51defend yourself whether you had anything
  3547. 1:57:53or not you found something to defend
  3548. 1:57:55yourself with
  3549. 1:57:57i can't tell you everything i'm not
  3550. 1:57:59going to tell you everything
  3551. 1:58:01but something happened
  3552. 1:58:03whether your dad blew up on you
  3553. 1:58:06threatened you physically harmed you or
  3554. 1:58:09hurt you
  3555. 1:58:11something happened that caused
  3556. 1:58:13an altercation
  3557. 1:58:15and i i didn't do anything at the house
  3558. 1:58:18besides get my stuff together and take
  3559. 1:58:20it out to my car
  3560. 1:58:23and that's i mean i mean i didn't
  3561. 1:58:25besides that one thing that i told you
  3562. 1:58:27guys where i was going down the road to
  3563. 1:58:29come back maybe besides that and
  3564. 1:58:31identify you saw nothing that was out of
  3565. 1:58:33the ordinary no
  3566. 1:58:36christmas area or 419 area
  3567. 1:58:40no i mean did you even get up to the uh
  3568. 1:58:42lake mills fort christmas area where
  3569. 1:58:44that guy's blinking lights are
  3570. 1:58:46no no when i came back i didn't come up
  3571. 1:58:48to there there there is and you're
  3572. 1:58:51you're you're a better electronics i am
  3573. 1:58:53i'm going to admit that there's a
  3574. 1:58:54digital footprint and there's ways to
  3575. 1:58:56see things that we know
  3576. 1:58:58that don't make sense
  3577. 1:59:00even though your phone may not have
  3578. 1:59:02service
  3579. 1:59:04there's still
  3580. 1:59:06issues with the phone right and it was
  3581. 1:59:07on you the entire time
  3582. 1:59:09when you left the house until you were
  3583. 1:59:11in touch with law enforcement
  3584. 1:59:13i can track places you've been
  3585. 1:59:15and i know where you have been and i
  3586. 1:59:17know what time you've been there
  3587. 1:59:19and what
  3588. 1:59:20everything you're telling me isn't just
  3589. 1:59:23copacetic it doesn't add up because
  3590. 1:59:25because there's
  3591. 1:59:26what i think what you think what she
  3592. 1:59:27thinks and there's things that are hard
  3593. 1:59:29facts you can't make like
  3594. 1:59:31what i'm saying
  3595. 1:59:32i think something happened at the house
  3596. 1:59:34based on my knowledge right now
  3597. 1:59:36and you're afraid to say it you're
  3598. 1:59:38afraid to
  3599. 1:59:40to come back and say that i was a victim
  3600. 1:59:42i was hurt i had something that happened
  3601. 1:59:45there that i don't want you to tell
  3602. 1:59:46because it's
  3603. 1:59:48something maybe embarrassing or not good
  3604. 1:59:50but
  3605. 1:59:52i know a lot more than i can let on
  3606. 1:59:54right now
  3607. 1:59:55and things you're not telling me i can't
  3608. 1:59:56help you if you won't let me help you
  3609. 2:00:00so what where's the missing piece what
  3610. 2:00:02have we missed here
  3611. 2:00:03i mean when i uh
  3612. 2:00:07when i had come back that other time i
  3613. 2:00:09crossed in front of the
  3614. 2:00:11the
  3615. 2:00:12red
  3616. 2:00:13the dude's fence the red blinking lights
  3617. 2:00:15ones
  3618. 2:00:16what time was that i can't i can't
  3619. 2:00:18remember that was that was friday during
  3620. 2:00:20the day when you said you're gonna come
  3621. 2:00:21back right yeah okay
  3622. 2:00:23but it was after you did your interview
  3623. 2:00:25correct okay
  3624. 2:00:27if you did that you would have seen
  3625. 2:00:28something and it would be something out
  3626. 2:00:30of the ordinary that you would have seen
  3627. 2:00:31if you passed that
  3628. 2:00:33you passed something out of ordinary
  3629. 2:00:34what was it i saw
  3630. 2:00:36like a news van and then uh
  3631. 2:00:41i don't think there there might have
  3632. 2:00:43been like a cop car there there was like
  3633. 2:00:45traffic being being human nature human
  3634. 2:00:48nature what do people do when i go back
  3635. 2:00:50to
  3636. 2:00:51my old neighborhoods and i've lived a
  3637. 2:00:53couple places in central florida in the
  3638. 2:00:5423 years i've been here
  3639. 2:00:56i see something major going on i get on
  3640. 2:00:58my phone i get on my computer at some
  3641. 2:00:59point look i wonder what's happened by
  3642. 2:01:01my neighborhood and look
  3643. 2:01:03did that even spark your
  3644. 2:01:05attention i was i was a digital
  3645. 2:01:07footprint of of what
  3646. 2:01:10where i went on my phone this right here
  3647. 2:01:12phone
  3648. 2:01:13they can tell me i looked i looked at
  3649. 2:01:16these maps on my phone because it's all
  3650. 2:01:18in there the memory is there you can't
  3651. 2:01:20delete it you can't
  3652. 2:01:22you came back to the neighborhood
  3653. 2:01:24you saw some things that are really out
  3654. 2:01:26of the ordinary
  3655. 2:01:28and i don't believe for a second that
  3656. 2:01:30you thought that i'm not gonna look
  3657. 2:01:31what's going on what happened to my
  3658. 2:01:32neighborhood
  3659. 2:01:33i i mean i didn't search it up on
  3660. 2:01:36anything on any of the devices that i
  3661. 2:01:38have did you search it somewhere else
  3662. 2:01:42remember like i said
  3663. 2:01:44i know things that you don't know and
  3664. 2:01:46honesty will get you all the the things
  3665. 2:01:50i can do for you beyond i can't deal
  3666. 2:01:51with someone who lies to me but i'll
  3667. 2:01:54deal with someone and help them till the
  3668. 2:01:56end
  3669. 2:01:57no matter what believe it or not that's
  3670. 2:01:58just me and she'll tell you i'm very
  3671. 2:02:01it's what it is
  3672. 2:02:02i'm going to be honest with you i'm
  3673. 2:02:04going to say if i can do something that
  3674. 2:02:06can help you i'm going to help you
  3675. 2:02:07because every one of us make mistakes
  3676. 2:02:10and do things we shouldn't have done in
  3677. 2:02:11the heat in a moment to protect
  3678. 2:02:13ourselves or to protect somebody else
  3679. 2:02:16it happens
  3680. 2:02:18i know you've searched for something
  3681. 2:02:20i know something i can't tell you
  3682. 2:02:22exactly
  3683. 2:02:24but you said you won't you tell me and
  3684. 2:02:26i'll tell you if you're being trippy
  3685. 2:02:27would you search on uh
  3686. 2:02:29when i had gone to the panera i searched
  3687. 2:02:32for like top stories
  3688. 2:02:35oviedo or juliot or something like that
  3689. 2:02:39and then i saw that there was
  3690. 2:02:41uh
  3691. 2:02:42it was like just the initial
  3692. 2:02:46like it had like a video but i didn't i
  3693. 2:02:47didn't listen to the video but it had
  3694. 2:02:49just an initial thing of
  3695. 2:02:51that there was
  3696. 2:02:52shootings in salt and circle but it
  3697. 2:02:55didn't say like the address or it was
  3698. 2:02:57involved it was just like this is
  3699. 2:03:01um
  3700. 2:03:03what was it what was it what was the
  3701. 2:03:04site you searched
  3702. 2:03:05i can't i honestly can't remember it and
  3703. 2:03:07i think it was one of the wishes and you
  3704. 2:03:09saw the story because we've seen the
  3705. 2:03:11same stories you've seen the story
  3706. 2:03:13because there's a thing that will tell
  3707. 2:03:14me how long of the of the time you spent
  3708. 2:03:17on this right you saw what happened
  3709. 2:03:20yeah i was on there for like 20 seconds
  3710. 2:03:22what was your thoughts when you reviewed
  3711. 2:03:23that story
  3712. 2:03:24i was freaking out and
  3713. 2:03:26i like i didn't
  3714. 2:03:28i was just like blank i didn't know what
  3715. 2:03:30to do
  3716. 2:03:32now's the time
  3717. 2:03:33now now is the time so what do you think
  3718. 2:03:36happened
  3719. 2:03:39i think that there was something that
  3720. 2:03:41obviously happened at the house
  3721. 2:03:43tell me what happened
  3722. 2:03:45i don't know what happened
  3723. 2:03:47i know better
  3724. 2:03:48listen to me
  3725. 2:03:49i know better i can help you grant with
  3726. 2:03:52honesty
  3727. 2:03:53i can help you with honesty we think
  3728. 2:03:56something else happened before you left
  3729. 2:03:58the home
  3730. 2:03:59that you're either afraid of or
  3731. 2:04:01embarrassed to talk about
  3732. 2:04:04but we need to know exactly what
  3733. 2:04:06happened because like danny said we can
  3734. 2:04:08place you there at certain times
  3735. 2:04:10and so we need to know what happened
  3736. 2:04:12before you left that house because you
  3737. 2:04:14didn't leave with everything being okay
  3738. 2:04:17i i honestly i don't i don't have
  3739. 2:04:20anything else that i can really say i
  3740. 2:04:22mean i don't i don't know do you even
  3741. 2:04:24know why law enforcement got involved
  3742. 2:04:29like what what brought us to that home
  3743. 2:04:32no right
  3744. 2:04:34you just said it you know something bad
  3745. 2:04:36happened there out of your voice not
  3746. 2:04:38mine i didn't i have not told you
  3747. 2:04:39anything what's happened there
  3748. 2:04:41something bad happened
  3749. 2:04:43you're here with us for a couple hours
  3750. 2:04:45you you admit that you've looked at a
  3751. 2:04:48site
  3752. 2:04:49and seen something bad happen because
  3753. 2:04:51the video is not of just a general area
  3754. 2:04:54of a specific location correct
  3755. 2:04:56yeah i saw i saw like a a driveway or
  3756. 2:04:59something like driving
  3757. 2:05:03i don't know i saw like like there was
  3758. 2:05:06like a gate there was a gate and then i
  3759. 2:05:08saw like that there was like two cars
  3760. 2:05:10but then i didn't see anything past that
  3761. 2:05:12okay well that driveway and get your
  3762. 2:05:14home
  3763. 2:05:16i i honestly did not
  3764. 2:05:19fixate on it for like a long period of
  3765. 2:05:21time i saw like the one with an actual
  3766. 2:05:23like gate
  3767. 2:05:25you've been here with us
  3768. 2:05:27you think something bad has happened at
  3769. 2:05:29your house
  3770. 2:05:30and to date so long you have any answers
  3771. 2:05:33about anybody
  3772. 2:05:35well that's because for the like the
  3773. 2:05:37last time that i was arrested i mean
  3774. 2:05:38like nobody would tell me anything i'm
  3775. 2:05:41once you start telling me something
  3776. 2:05:43that's truthful that i know
  3777. 2:05:46then we're going to have a conversation
  3778. 2:05:48of exactly what happened
  3779. 2:05:49i mean you're a smart guy
  3780. 2:05:51you know something's happened at your
  3781. 2:05:53home
  3782. 2:05:54you have law enforcement here you
  3783. 2:05:56haven't heard or gotten anything i mean
  3784. 2:05:58i'm just scared as to what the answer is
  3785. 2:06:02well you need to help yourself by
  3786. 2:06:04filling in the blanks of what happened
  3787. 2:06:06that night so we can give you the answer
  3788. 2:06:12did anything more happen with you and
  3789. 2:06:14your father besides him grabbing you up
  3790. 2:06:15from the couch
  3791. 2:06:17and yelling at you and kicking you out
  3792. 2:06:21anything
  3793. 2:06:22at all did he
  3794. 2:06:25pull did he harm you hit you
  3795. 2:06:28no draw any weapons on you no he didn't
  3796. 2:06:31do anything like that
  3797. 2:06:33[Applause]
  3798. 2:06:35i mean he was just yelling
  3799. 2:06:37this this is the time to come to jesus
  3800. 2:06:40to be honest because you know more i'm
  3801. 2:06:42looking in your eyes your eyes tell me
  3802. 2:06:44exactly that you you are hurting inside
  3803. 2:06:46i get it brother i get it you're hurting
  3804. 2:06:49and this is the only time we can help
  3805. 2:06:50you because once
  3806. 2:06:52we get to a certain point there's
  3807. 2:06:53nothing i can do
  3808. 2:06:55it's it's in the hands of who has it
  3809. 2:06:57nothing i can do
  3810. 2:06:59honesty is always the best policy
  3811. 2:07:02you get you get caught stealing the car
  3812. 2:07:04you admit it i did it how can i get help
  3813. 2:07:07what can be done to help me and let me
  3814. 2:07:09tell you the rest of my story
  3815. 2:07:12and if something happened that you were
  3816. 2:07:13defending yourself then we need to know
  3817. 2:07:15that
  3818. 2:07:16if you were protecting yourself because
  3819. 2:07:18you were in fear
  3820. 2:07:20then that makes sense
  3821. 2:07:21but we need to know exactly what
  3822. 2:07:23happened for you to protect yourself you
  3823. 2:07:25can't minimize this
  3824. 2:07:28once
  3825. 2:07:29a wise man told me one time once a bomb
  3826. 2:07:32goes off you can't defuse it you can't
  3827. 2:07:35that's already out there
  3828. 2:07:37now is the point to say how do i put
  3829. 2:07:38band-aids on myself
  3830. 2:07:40to
  3831. 2:07:41minimize the the injuries i have and
  3832. 2:07:43we're giving you that opportunity
  3833. 2:07:45i want to give you the opportunity i
  3834. 2:07:46don't think you're a bad guy at all i
  3835. 2:07:47really don't
  3836. 2:07:48i think you're going through a very
  3837. 2:07:50stressful and emotional time right now
  3838. 2:07:51with being out of work and just dealing
  3839. 2:07:53with all the problems with with the
  3840. 2:07:54arrest
  3841. 2:07:55you're probably not used to depending on
  3842. 2:07:57somebody to pay all your bills you know
  3843. 2:07:58you have to do mom and dad or have to
  3844. 2:08:00have to give you money
  3845. 2:08:01cody's having to give you money and
  3846. 2:08:03there's a significant debt
  3847. 2:08:05to people 200 000 i don't know what i do
  3848. 2:08:08i mean mortgage yeah i get it or
  3849. 2:08:10something like that or a medical bill
  3850. 2:08:11for my child yeah i get it but talking
  3851. 2:08:14to some girl you know in bulgaria you
  3852. 2:08:16know you said you hit it right ahead you
  3853. 2:08:18were embarrassed about it and you have
  3854. 2:08:19nothing to be embarrassed about and you
  3855. 2:08:21said you had a connection with her
  3856. 2:08:23and
  3857. 2:08:25here he is ma'am
  3858. 2:08:26i want to help you she won't help you
  3859. 2:08:29you gotta you gotta you gotta come to me
  3860. 2:08:31with the truth now because i i already
  3861. 2:08:33know the truth i do
  3862. 2:08:36here's here's here's the chance you
  3863. 2:08:37could you can
  3864. 2:08:38shake your head no and say i don't know
  3865. 2:08:41you do know and i know you know she
  3866. 2:08:43knows she knows you know
  3867. 2:08:44there's a reason you didn't go back to
  3868. 2:08:46the house there's a reason why you
  3869. 2:08:47haven't tried to reach out i mean
  3870. 2:08:51it's a lot you haven't heard from
  3871. 2:08:52anybody
  3872. 2:08:54yeah i mean i must i just i don't i it's
  3873. 2:08:57like it's words that like i can't
  3874. 2:08:59think of to even say
  3875. 2:09:01but i'm assuming that
  3876. 2:09:06you know when you see that there is a
  3877. 2:09:07shooting somewhere that
  3878. 2:09:09and it's around and it's
  3879. 2:09:12that it's it has to do with my family
  3880. 2:09:16your family has no
  3881. 2:09:19known enemies nobody has a problem with
  3882. 2:09:21them nobody right
  3883. 2:09:24continue what you were saying you said
  3884. 2:09:26but i mean it's like i'm
  3885. 2:09:28i just i don't i don't
  3886. 2:09:39like i i just i don't know how to even
  3887. 2:09:42say the words
  3888. 2:09:45give me around about what you're
  3889. 2:09:46thinking
  3890. 2:09:48that somebody in my family's dead
  3891. 2:09:54and how does that make you feel if you
  3892. 2:09:56think if you're thinking that i have
  3893. 2:09:58absolutely no
  3894. 2:10:04ability to to comprehend the words
  3895. 2:10:06because like i said i've been there
  3896. 2:10:09for my whole entire life and even though
  3897. 2:10:11there's been struggles and everything
  3898. 2:10:13like that there has never been any
  3899. 2:10:15issues
  3900. 2:10:18there's never been the struggles or the
  3901. 2:10:19issues
  3902. 2:10:21like happen thursday never for you i i
  3903. 2:10:24believe you 100 i believe it's never
  3904. 2:10:26been like that
  3905. 2:10:27but something happened thursday unlike
  3906. 2:10:29anything you've ever experienced in 29
  3907. 2:10:31years of your life
  3908. 2:10:32and maybe you felt that was rock bottom
  3909. 2:10:34for you you were getting kicked out of
  3910. 2:10:36the house your father gave you an
  3911. 2:10:37ultimatum
  3912. 2:10:38i mean that's
  3913. 2:10:40you know you're already dealing with the
  3914. 2:10:41the debt and you know now you have to
  3915. 2:10:44stop talking to this girl and now you're
  3916. 2:10:46being kicked out of the home i mean
  3917. 2:10:48that's
  3918. 2:10:49i
  3919. 2:10:50i can understand how you would feel
  3920. 2:10:53i mean that you'd want to lash out or
  3921. 2:10:56you know if something happened you'd
  3922. 2:10:57want to defend yourself sure
  3923. 2:11:00absolutely but we need to know what
  3924. 2:11:02happened
  3925. 2:11:04i mean i know i can tell that you guys
  3926. 2:11:06are like leading me into a certain way
  3927. 2:11:09of what
  3928. 2:11:11the only thing we're leading you to is
  3929. 2:11:12wanting to get the truth from you not
  3930. 2:11:14trying to make you say something that's
  3931. 2:11:15not true that's not accurate
  3932. 2:11:18the truth the end
  3933. 2:11:20that's it that's all we want is the
  3934. 2:11:22absolute truth
  3935. 2:11:23because it's got to come from you it
  3936. 2:11:25can't come from us it can't come from us
  3937. 2:11:27do we know what happened
  3938. 2:11:29yeah we we already know what happened
  3939. 2:11:32but it has to still come from you with
  3940. 2:11:34the truth because the parties involved
  3941. 2:11:37that's in all cases you want the truth
  3942. 2:11:39from i don't want somebody to say
  3943. 2:11:40something that's not true absolutely not
  3944. 2:11:43i want them to say
  3945. 2:11:45this is what happened and here's why it
  3946. 2:11:46happened because some sometimes there
  3947. 2:11:48are things that are justifiable
  3948. 2:11:51i'm dealing with a case right now where
  3949. 2:11:53some people were jumped in a house
  3950. 2:11:56there was a shooting and the people
  3951. 2:11:58involved in the shooting are not going
  3952. 2:11:59to be charged because they have the
  3953. 2:12:01right to defend themselves nothing in
  3954. 2:12:03the in
  3955. 2:12:03in the state or federal law says you
  3956. 2:12:06have to be
  3957. 2:12:07seriously physically harmed or or or
  3958. 2:12:10killed nothing does
  3959. 2:12:12you have a right to defend yourself
  3960. 2:12:13absolutely
  3961. 2:12:16sure
  3962. 2:12:17you being harder your life but grant i
  3963. 2:12:20just need you to come it's it's there
  3964. 2:12:22it's there i can see it it's on the tip
  3965. 2:12:24of your tongue
  3966. 2:12:25you want to say
  3967. 2:12:26let me tell you what what happened
  3968. 2:12:28i'm being honest i think you're being
  3969. 2:12:30honest about
  3970. 2:12:3195 percent of the story i truly do
  3971. 2:12:32believe you're being honest about that i
  3972. 2:12:34think is that five percent as most
  3973. 2:12:35people because they're afraid to
  3974. 2:12:37actually talk to us and tell us their
  3975. 2:12:39story and sometimes we can help justify
  3976. 2:12:41their story once they tell us the truth
  3977. 2:12:44it's a fact that happens that people are
  3978. 2:12:48afraid to tell things they're afraid oh
  3979. 2:12:49i'm like i'm going to get you know
  3980. 2:12:51you're not going to believe me you're
  3981. 2:12:52not going to like me or anything bad i
  3982. 2:12:53mean it's not the case at all
  3983. 2:12:55i have no opinion one way or the other i
  3984. 2:12:57don't know you i don't think batty i
  3985. 2:12:59don't think you guys don't know if
  3986. 2:13:00you're a friend i would think different
  3987. 2:13:01of you or somebody i know was was
  3988. 2:13:03something else i've ever had previous
  3989. 2:13:04healing yeah i may have an opinion but i
  3990. 2:13:06don't have an opinion
  3991. 2:13:07i just don't we don't know each other
  3992. 2:13:09we've never contacted each other
  3993. 2:13:10happening
  3994. 2:13:11so there's no reason for me but i've
  3995. 2:13:12been honest with you the entire time and
  3996. 2:13:14i will continue to be honest with you
  3997. 2:13:16till the remainder of my career similar
  3998. 2:13:18county sheriff's office always be honest
  3999. 2:13:19with you call me and say hey this is i'm
  4000. 2:13:20gonna tell you again you may not like
  4001. 2:13:21what i'm gonna tell you
  4002. 2:13:22it's just me and some people don't do
  4003. 2:13:24that and some people will
  4004. 2:13:26tell you things that are misleading i'm
  4005. 2:13:27not gonna say anything that's misleading
  4006. 2:13:29because that's that's my word that's my
  4007. 2:13:31integrity that's my character
  4008. 2:13:33um
  4009. 2:13:37now's the time my friend i want to help
  4010. 2:13:39you she wants to help you and i'm
  4011. 2:13:40telling you i'm going to help you
  4012. 2:13:41anything i can do within my power to to
  4013. 2:13:45to be honest with you i'm going to
  4014. 2:13:47that's it
  4015. 2:13:48but i gotta have the truth from you i
  4016. 2:13:50can't get it from somebody else
  4017. 2:13:51i can't get it from from
  4018. 2:13:54from her i can't get it from other
  4019. 2:13:56people i work with it's to come from you
  4020. 2:13:58i already i already know
  4021. 2:13:59i already i'm telling you i already know
  4022. 2:14:01i got a couple more years i'll retire
  4023. 2:14:03i'm going to take my career with me be
  4024. 2:14:05happy with what i've done because i've
  4025. 2:14:06been honest with everybody i'm asking
  4026. 2:14:08you to be honest with me too
  4027. 2:14:09i want to help you i mean apart from the
  4028. 2:14:12times maybe being wrong i don't
  4029. 2:14:15i genuinely don't have anything else
  4030. 2:14:17that i can say about
  4031. 2:14:18what transpired
  4032. 2:14:21during the night time
  4033. 2:14:24so when you left your house
  4034. 2:14:27everybody was fine yeah and when you
  4035. 2:14:29left cody
  4036. 2:14:31everything was fine
  4037. 2:14:35well we got called to the house because
  4038. 2:14:37cody didn't show up to work
  4039. 2:14:41so law enforcement goes over there
  4040. 2:14:43and
  4041. 2:14:44can you tell us what we found
  4042. 2:14:56what do you think we found when law
  4043. 2:14:57enforcement arrived at your home
  4044. 2:15:00i mean you guys are talking about guns
  4045. 2:15:02and you're talking about
  4046. 2:15:04other things that
  4047. 2:15:12uh
  4048. 2:15:16and then the uh
  4049. 2:15:18the website and everything that
  4050. 2:15:20something happened to him
  4051. 2:15:22who's him cody
  4052. 2:15:29did you do anything to cody no
  4053. 2:15:32did you do anything to your mother no
  4054. 2:15:34did you do anything to your father no
  4055. 2:15:39you have any reason to believe that
  4056. 2:15:41anybody else would harm them
  4057. 2:15:46no the only thing that i was told was
  4058. 2:15:48that cody would take care of it for me
  4059. 2:15:51and that's all that i know but you
  4060. 2:15:52didn't tell cody what your father said
  4061. 2:15:54to you correct right
  4062. 2:15:56so when cody made those comments to you
  4063. 2:15:58what do you believe he meant by that
  4064. 2:16:01have you guys ever talked about
  4065. 2:16:04that he was gonna
  4066. 2:16:07i thought he was just gonna do what he
  4067. 2:16:08always does which is where he just talks
  4068. 2:16:10about it and he
  4069. 2:16:12figures out whatever strategy he needs
  4070. 2:16:14to so if anything happened in the home
  4071. 2:16:17to bring law enforcement there what
  4072. 2:16:19would you think happened
  4073. 2:16:24that there was a shooting
  4074. 2:16:27between whom
  4075. 2:16:29i don't know
  4076. 2:16:32between cody and and my dad
  4077. 2:16:38and why would you think that
  4078. 2:16:42to protect me or to help me or to do
  4079. 2:16:44something with me
  4080. 2:16:49so you're telling me you did not shoot
  4081. 2:16:51cody your father or your mother no
  4082. 2:16:58i mean i don't know like what more i can
  4083. 2:17:00say
  4084. 2:17:01well when law enforcement arrived
  4085. 2:17:03that's what they found
  4086. 2:17:09so you're the only outstanding child
  4087. 2:17:12you're the one that's been having
  4088. 2:17:13problems with your dad
  4089. 2:17:15you're the one that we haven't been able
  4090. 2:17:16to find for two days
  4091. 2:17:18do you understand now why would we would
  4092. 2:17:20be questioning you about this
  4093. 2:17:22yeah but i mean i wouldn't
  4094. 2:17:26like
  4095. 2:17:27i mean i wouldn't be saying like all
  4096. 2:17:28like
  4097. 2:17:30i don't know the way to i i don't i
  4098. 2:17:32don't i don't know like what to even say
  4099. 2:17:37we're trying to see if there's anything
  4100. 2:17:39else that you've left out
  4101. 2:17:41during the night from when you first
  4102. 2:17:43came home and confronted your father
  4103. 2:17:46or when he confronted you until the time
  4104. 2:17:48you left
  4105. 2:17:50that you've not told us
  4106. 2:17:54there's nothing there was nothing
  4107. 2:17:58uh
  4108. 2:18:01there was nothing
  4109. 2:18:04to that level of confrontation between
  4110. 2:18:07him and i
  4111. 2:18:10so if anything happened in the home you
  4112. 2:18:12believe it would be cody and him yes
  4113. 2:18:15because i was i mean i don't i
  4114. 2:18:19i i don't have
  4115. 2:18:21you know access to anything
  4116. 2:18:27well i can tell you from what we've been
  4117. 2:18:28right now because you know what the news
  4118. 2:18:30is said correct
  4119. 2:18:32you know what the news has said i i only
  4120. 2:18:34know that first story that i saw and
  4121. 2:18:36then i didn't look again and what did
  4122. 2:18:38the first story say
  4123. 2:18:40that there was a shooting in the sultan
  4124. 2:18:43circle area and the investigation is
  4125. 2:18:46ongoing okay and what did they say they
  4126. 2:18:47say the status of the people inside the
  4127. 2:18:49house what do they say because all the
  4128. 2:18:50news have reported the same thing every
  4129. 2:18:52one of them the sheriff is held press
  4130. 2:18:54promise the sheriff has provided
  4131. 2:18:56information to the media
  4132. 2:18:58and it's all it's known
  4133. 2:19:00what has happened in the home all that i
  4134. 2:19:02had all that i saw was literally like
  4135. 2:19:04the paragraph and then the last sentence
  4136. 2:19:06was there's an investigation ongoing
  4137. 2:19:09you saw more because
  4138. 2:19:11at panera when you said you pulled it up
  4139. 2:19:16they they um
  4140. 2:19:19they um
  4141. 2:19:21had more information then
  4142. 2:19:22they had more information than just
  4143. 2:19:24there's been a shooting there's a lot
  4144. 2:19:25more information was given it was all
  4145. 2:19:27over the news by by that time
  4146. 2:19:29the new news report exactly what
  4147. 2:19:31happened
  4148. 2:19:32we know
  4149. 2:19:35that
  4150. 2:19:37cody
  4151. 2:19:38didn't shoot your dad
  4152. 2:19:40we know cody didn't shoot your mom
  4153. 2:19:43we know cody didn't shoot himself
  4154. 2:19:47there's something and you still haven't
  4155. 2:19:49asked us
  4156. 2:19:50the position of them that's because i'm
  4157. 2:19:52i'm i mean i don't know what the normal
  4158. 2:19:55proceedings are but i don't i mean
  4159. 2:19:57normal proceedings are for you to be
  4160. 2:19:58honest about what happens and then we
  4161. 2:20:00help you understand everything that's
  4162. 2:20:02going that's kind of going on from here
  4163. 2:20:03on out of what our responsibilities are
  4164. 2:20:06and we don't believe you're being honest
  4165. 2:20:08we feel that you are leaving something
  4166. 2:20:09out about what happened in that home
  4167. 2:20:12and the evidence tells us what happened
  4168. 2:20:14in the home but you need to fill in the
  4169. 2:20:16blanks
  4170. 2:20:18here here's here's here's
  4171. 2:20:21here's my hand for honesty
  4172. 2:20:23here it is
  4173. 2:20:24we're here to
  4174. 2:20:26help you do this and you're not going to
  4175. 2:20:28like something here in just a minute
  4176. 2:20:31and i know it's going to hurt you
  4177. 2:20:33but
  4178. 2:20:34you're leaving things out you've got to
  4179. 2:20:36you've got to take that step and cross
  4180. 2:20:38over and say okay i have to tell you
  4181. 2:20:41you probably you'd probably rather tell
  4182. 2:20:42us what happened before
  4183. 2:20:44neva opens that up
  4184. 2:20:46you probably want to tell us and save
  4185. 2:20:48yourself
  4186. 2:20:49some grief
  4187. 2:20:50by saying here let me tell you here's
  4188. 2:20:53what happened that night that i wasn't
  4189. 2:20:55completely honest about honestly
  4190. 2:20:56honestly great i believe you've been
  4191. 2:20:57honest about a very lot of things i
  4192. 2:20:59really do
  4193. 2:21:00because i can i can account for your day
  4194. 2:21:02i can account for your night from just
  4195. 2:21:04we have a couple very small polls 95
  4196. 2:21:07percent of the story already know that's
  4197. 2:21:09why you're here with us
  4198. 2:21:10and again your cell phone's going to put
  4199. 2:21:12you in the areas
  4200. 2:21:15you know we're going to check exactly
  4201. 2:21:17where you were throughout the entire
  4202. 2:21:18time you started this conversation
  4203. 2:21:21no
  4204. 2:21:22you went back to the house and did
  4205. 2:21:23something or how long you were there
  4206. 2:21:24we're gonna know
  4207. 2:21:26no i mean i never did anything like that
  4208. 2:21:29just things like those remember i saw my
  4209. 2:21:30digital footprint yeah e-pass tells me
  4210. 2:21:33where you went we have a thing called
  4211. 2:21:35they're called lpr's license plate
  4212. 2:21:36leaders in different places all over
  4213. 2:21:38everywhere and every time your car
  4214. 2:21:40passes or any car i look at i have
  4215. 2:21:41somebody when our intel girls put in or
  4216. 2:21:43guys put into things hey is this tag
  4217. 2:21:45went by there yep has it been in a
  4218. 2:21:47certain place yep it tells me exactly
  4219. 2:21:49where you went
  4220. 2:21:50man i'm telling you i know it's hard to
  4221. 2:21:52trust the police i know people don't
  4222. 2:21:54don't trust me don't just release you've
  4223. 2:21:56got to give us you got to give me the
  4224. 2:21:57chance to to trust me you have to i
  4225. 2:22:00already know i know what happened
  4226. 2:22:01i know
  4227. 2:22:0395 percent of the story i know what
  4228. 2:22:04happened
  4229. 2:22:06and and so do you and it's in your face
  4230. 2:22:09it's in your emotions it's in your body
  4231. 2:22:11language that
  4232. 2:22:13something is severely
  4233. 2:22:15from the men i met you in the hotel
  4234. 2:22:16severely bothering you and you knew why
  4235. 2:22:18we were there the minute we came to see
  4236. 2:22:20it you know why we were there you knew
  4237. 2:22:21it and you knew what i was going to tell
  4238. 2:22:23you at some point during the course of
  4239. 2:22:24the day what was going to happen you
  4240. 2:22:25already know because you've checked on
  4241. 2:22:26it i know you've checked on it
  4242. 2:22:28there's a way to tell i said that the
  4243. 2:22:30best thing about
  4244. 2:22:31the internet and electronics they tell a
  4245. 2:22:34story
  4246. 2:22:35and they tell how many times things have
  4247. 2:22:36been looked at
  4248. 2:22:38what's been looked at how long you spent
  4249. 2:22:39there
  4250. 2:22:40sheriff can tell me every website i've
  4251. 2:22:42ever been on this iphone everyone and
  4252. 2:22:44how long i was there for
  4253. 2:22:46every meme i made up for to send to
  4254. 2:22:47somebody something funny is a joke they
  4255. 2:22:49can see it
  4256. 2:22:51i'm here to help you man i'm here to
  4257. 2:22:52help you get through all this i'm gonna
  4258. 2:22:54i am an honest guy i'm going to be
  4259. 2:22:56honest
  4260. 2:22:57and when it's all said and done
  4261. 2:22:59i'm going to be honest to the very last
  4262. 2:23:01day that i deal with you and then when
  4263. 2:23:03this
  4264. 2:23:04when this investigation continues i'll
  4265. 2:23:06go to the next person to be honest with
  4266. 2:23:07them
  4267. 2:23:08but i've got to have you
  4268. 2:23:11step over that little bit like where's
  4269. 2:23:13basically we got a line here
  4270. 2:23:15and you know you're you're so close to
  4271. 2:23:17want to step over that line
  4272. 2:23:19you have come all the way from the back
  4273. 2:23:20side of that table over here now you're
  4274. 2:23:22right about right here that you want to
  4275. 2:23:24do it but you're scared i get that my
  4276. 2:23:26man i get you're scared
  4277. 2:23:29but something happened there that kicked
  4278. 2:23:31us off unlike anything that ever
  4279. 2:23:33happened in your life
  4280. 2:23:35to
  4281. 2:23:38get to where we are today
  4282. 2:23:40and i just need you to tell me exactly
  4283. 2:23:41what happened
  4284. 2:23:43here's your brother the guy who's always
  4285. 2:23:45looked out for you correct pay for your
  4286. 2:23:46trip to china or japan i'm sorry
  4287. 2:23:49pay bills your dad and your brother have
  4288. 2:23:51paid two hundred thousand dollars of
  4289. 2:23:54this video chat whatever with the
  4290. 2:23:56virtual not the virtual or the growing
  4291. 2:23:57bulgarian
  4292. 2:24:00dad's pissed about the cost i'm sure i'd
  4293. 2:24:02be upset too two hundred thousand
  4294. 2:24:04dollars a thing think of the car you
  4295. 2:24:05could have for two hundred thousand
  4296. 2:24:06dollars or paid off college debt or
  4297. 2:24:08whatever some girl in bulgaria got
  4298. 2:24:10basically your college debt
  4299. 2:24:12now i'm sure your brother and dad may
  4300. 2:24:13have been happy if you take 100 grand
  4301. 2:24:15and paid off that that that program
  4302. 2:24:18but there's a lot of pressure on you i
  4303. 2:24:19get it
  4304. 2:24:20i need you to step over man right there
  4305. 2:24:22you're right there at the end ready to
  4306. 2:24:24go
  4307. 2:24:25we're ready to
  4308. 2:24:26to take the information from you and
  4309. 2:24:28move forward we're there
  4310. 2:24:30i just need you i just need you to take
  4311. 2:24:32that last step over and say all right
  4312. 2:24:33let me tell you what else i've been
  4313. 2:24:35honest about
  4314. 2:24:37the vast majorities but let me tell you
  4315. 2:24:39what actually happened that night
  4316. 2:24:42it's there
  4317. 2:24:44when you're talking about the phones
  4318. 2:24:45because i'm i'm illiterate when it comes
  4319. 2:24:46to phones and wi-fi and all that so you
  4320. 2:24:49said when your dad cut off your phone a
  4321. 2:24:50few days ago um you had no phone number
  4322. 2:24:53like no way to call just pick up the
  4323. 2:24:55phone and call someone correct so when
  4324. 2:24:56you would communicate on twitter like
  4325. 2:24:58you said either on your cell phone or
  4326. 2:25:00your surface you would have to be
  4327. 2:25:02connected to wi-fi is that correct right
  4328. 2:25:05um when you were in your home
  4329. 2:25:07were you connected to wi-fi
  4330. 2:25:10um
  4331. 2:25:12talking to these
  4332. 2:25:14you know when you did the twitter and so
  4333. 2:25:15on and so forth were you connected to
  4334. 2:25:17the wi-fi at your home
  4335. 2:25:18yes
  4336. 2:25:20no wait
  4337. 2:25:23no no i wasn't i was on um
  4338. 2:25:26i was on the lt i was on lte i was just
  4339. 2:25:29on the cell service
  4340. 2:25:31and you can still talk do the twitter
  4341. 2:25:33thing on self service on the lte at home
  4342. 2:25:35right okay and then when you are at the
  4343. 2:25:38publix right you're on what that's on
  4344. 2:25:41wi-fi publix is wi-fi right okay and
  4345. 2:25:44then you said the next time was at
  4346. 2:25:46panera
  4347. 2:25:47yes was on the wi-fi
  4348. 2:25:49both your cell phone and the surface
  4349. 2:25:52just the surface i i and
  4350. 2:25:54the scenario was just on the surface
  4351. 2:25:56okay
  4352. 2:25:58all right so again with the whole
  4353. 2:25:59digital footprint like danny's talking
  4354. 2:26:01about you know that we will know exactly
  4355. 2:26:03where you were at every time that you
  4356. 2:26:05connected to wi-fi and how long you were
  4357. 2:26:07connected to the wi-fi you understand
  4358. 2:26:09that yes okay so when you drive away
  4359. 2:26:12from the publix or you're driving away
  4360. 2:26:13from panera
  4361. 2:26:16we will know all of that
  4362. 2:26:18in every hot spot you hit along the way
  4363. 2:26:20it's going to dink it's going to make
  4364. 2:26:22that connection even just for a brief
  4365. 2:26:23second
  4366. 2:26:24and i'm very familiar with that area out
  4367. 2:26:25there as i used to live out of 419.50
  4368. 2:26:27and i know just about where every
  4369. 2:26:28hotspot is
  4370. 2:26:30um along the way
  4371. 2:26:32so it's going to say it's going to be
  4372. 2:26:33boom boom
  4373. 2:26:34boom
  4374. 2:26:36i want to help you man i really do
  4375. 2:26:38but i got you've got to take that that
  4376. 2:26:39little step and and trust that we are
  4377. 2:26:41going to do
  4378. 2:26:44everything that that we can do and be
  4379. 2:26:46honest with you we're gonna do it but i
  4380. 2:26:48need you to i need you to step over you
  4381. 2:26:50have to
  4382. 2:26:51because what happens if you don't
  4383. 2:26:54you know it's gonna be something that we
  4384. 2:26:56just can't do anything to to
  4385. 2:26:59to deal with we can't
  4386. 2:27:01honestly i i've talked to people i
  4387. 2:27:03talked to a guy
  4388. 2:27:04that was responsible for a lot of bad
  4389. 2:27:06stuff in south america and we sat down
  4390. 2:27:08over the course of a month and he
  4391. 2:27:09finally admitted to some horrific
  4392. 2:27:12horrific things and felt a lot better
  4393. 2:27:14about it right because he trusts us
  4394. 2:27:16because he trusts us
  4395. 2:27:18because he realized you know you know
  4396. 2:27:19the typical thing you know the police
  4397. 2:27:21you know all i do is lie to you like you
  4398. 2:27:22lie to you or whatever
  4399. 2:27:24no i'm not like that i'm not i know she
  4400. 2:27:26ain't either i just want the truth i
  4401. 2:27:27want the truth to be told no matter
  4402. 2:27:29which way it is
  4403. 2:27:31and you will feel so much better we're
  4404. 2:27:33talking about your family here
  4405. 2:27:37are you telling us anything that we're
  4406. 2:27:38missing you're going to feel a lot
  4407. 2:27:40better by telling us the truth
  4408. 2:27:42guaranteed it's hard it's hard to take
  4409. 2:27:45that that leap of faith it is it's like
  4410. 2:27:47jumping out of here from that airplane
  4411. 2:27:48with a bear shape
  4412. 2:27:50yeah you know if the parachute works the
  4413. 2:27:51way it's supposed to
  4414. 2:27:53it's gonna be okay
  4415. 2:27:54but
  4416. 2:27:56do i the first time i take it i just
  4417. 2:27:58gotta take it you gotta take that you
  4418. 2:28:00gotta take that leap of faith with us
  4419. 2:28:02i can only do so much with honesty
  4420. 2:28:04honestly honestly honestly so what are
  4421. 2:28:05you not telling us
  4422. 2:28:08what happened at that home that you know
  4423. 2:28:25to get it off off your chest and out of
  4424. 2:28:28your head
  4425. 2:28:30but you got to do it i can't make you
  4426. 2:28:32say it i need you to say it so then we
  4427. 2:28:34can move forward with the truth
  4428. 2:28:36i said we're at 95 probably really
  4429. 2:28:38really close to getting 97 98 percentage
  4430. 2:28:40but that last step you've got to take
  4431. 2:28:42myself
  4432. 2:28:43because if when you say something to get
  4433. 2:28:45locked into a story and it's proven to
  4434. 2:28:47be false then you have problems because
  4435. 2:28:50what what do
  4436. 2:28:51people look at
  4437. 2:28:53during the course of
  4438. 2:28:54during the course of an investigation
  4439. 2:28:58did everybody who was honest and who
  4440. 2:29:00who was dishonest
  4441. 2:29:03so there's an explanation of things you
  4442. 2:29:05have to explain them and you're missing
  4443. 2:29:07that two three four five percent of the
  4444. 2:29:10truth that you hold back and that's the
  4445. 2:29:12most crucial for you right now
  4446. 2:29:14is the truth
  4447. 2:29:16sounds crazy
  4448. 2:29:17but that's a fact the truth so shut you
  4449. 2:29:20free emotionally you're probably going
  4450. 2:29:22to break down because you've got this
  4451. 2:29:24all pinned up inside you that you want
  4452. 2:29:26to say it but you're afraid to say it i
  4453. 2:29:28get it
  4454. 2:29:29i get i've talked to people
  4455. 2:29:31that make that that
  4456. 2:29:33makes it all this look like nothing this
  4457. 2:29:35whole investigation like nothing they're
  4458. 2:29:37just
  4459. 2:29:38bad
  4460. 2:29:40then once they get this off their chest
  4461. 2:29:42they say
  4462. 2:29:43you know
  4463. 2:29:44i didn't think i would but i feel better
  4464. 2:29:46i know it's tough but i feel better
  4465. 2:29:48because now i've told the rest of my
  4466. 2:29:50story you can't you know it's like
  4467. 2:29:51reading a book
  4468. 2:29:52and getting almost the end the
  4469. 2:29:53conclusion and you just shut it
  4470. 2:29:56you got to open up
  4471. 2:29:57you got to open up to it i'm here
  4472. 2:30:00here to take that information from you
  4473. 2:30:02to get you over this hump to
  4474. 2:30:05to
  4475. 2:30:06a little piece of your mind you'll never
  4476. 2:30:08have peace
  4477. 2:30:09without
  4478. 2:30:10saying here
  4479. 2:30:12this is exactly what happened and i
  4480. 2:30:14already already know i'll be honest we
  4481. 2:30:16already know this isn't my first rodeo
  4482. 2:30:18achievement we've been doing what
  4483. 2:30:19between the two of us 50 years
  4484. 2:30:22over 50 years and
  4485. 2:30:24over 50 years i've seen so what is it
  4486. 2:30:26you need to tell us
  4487. 2:30:28that we're missing step over
  4488. 2:30:30i mean the only thing that i know is
  4489. 2:30:32just that
  4490. 2:30:34i mean i i
  4491. 2:30:36uh left the house later than what i had
  4492. 2:30:38said
  4493. 2:30:40um
  4494. 2:30:43did you leave the house with your
  4495. 2:30:44brother cody looking like that
  4496. 2:30:49or did you leave the house with your
  4497. 2:30:50father looking like that
  4498. 2:30:52or your mother
  4499. 2:30:54is that how you left your family
  4500. 2:30:58no
  4501. 2:31:01nobody nobody else went into that house
  4502. 2:31:03who left your family like this
  4503. 2:31:05if you were the one that's been
  4504. 2:31:07depressed you were the one that owes
  4505. 2:31:08money you are the one that got into a
  4506. 2:31:09confrontation with your father who did
  4507. 2:31:11this to your family
  4508. 2:31:16if you were trying to defend yourself or
  4509. 2:31:18something else happen we need to know
  4510. 2:31:20now to help you
  4511. 2:31:24so tell us what happened grant
  4512. 2:31:29we're here to listen to you need the
  4513. 2:31:31truth
  4514. 2:31:32we're here to make this right
  4515. 2:31:36you've got to tell the truth it's on the
  4516. 2:31:37tip of your tongue my man i get that
  4517. 2:31:40did your father go after you and you try
  4518. 2:31:41to protect yourself
  4519. 2:31:43no i didn't do any of this
  4520. 2:31:52there's something that's going to come
  4521. 2:31:54up
  4522. 2:31:55that that
  4523. 2:31:58is going to make this all come real
  4524. 2:32:01i'd rather it come from you than have to
  4525. 2:32:04do it that way
  4526. 2:32:05the evidence tells us what happened you
  4527. 2:32:07have to fill in the blanks
  4528. 2:32:09they can't tell me what happened
  4529. 2:32:11that fact i know
  4530. 2:32:13she never she never held a gun
  4531. 2:32:15she didn't have a gun that night
  4532. 2:32:17in fact he never fired a gun
  4533. 2:32:20fat he never fired a gun never did
  4534. 2:32:23this is the person
  4535. 2:32:25right here
  4536. 2:32:26mom
  4537. 2:32:27who always stuck up for you something
  4538. 2:32:29happened so bad that caused her death
  4539. 2:32:32your dad's death and cody and i'll tell
  4540. 2:32:35you just about how it happened one two
  4541. 2:32:37three based on evidence
  4542. 2:32:40based on evidence i know he did not
  4543. 2:32:42shoot your mom i know he didn't shoot
  4544. 2:32:44your dad i know he didn't shoot himself
  4545. 2:32:48and i know from from video surveillance
  4546. 2:32:50camera in the neighborhood
  4547. 2:32:53nobody else came to that house
  4548. 2:32:55i know i know i could account for
  4549. 2:32:56everybody that went to the house
  4550. 2:33:01tell us what happened i know it
  4551. 2:33:04listen to me hey
  4552. 2:33:05i know
  4553. 2:33:07video surveillance tells me everything
  4554. 2:33:08that happened this night i'm telling you
  4555. 2:33:11of people that you'd be surprised who in
  4556. 2:33:14your neighborhood has video
  4557. 2:33:16and i know that no but there's only four
  4558. 2:33:18people is at this house during this time
  4559. 2:33:21one two three four
  4560. 2:33:23tell me
  4561. 2:33:24you gotta tell me man you got to tell me
  4562. 2:33:26get over that over that hoop the video
  4563. 2:33:29is the video if you're sitting there
  4564. 2:33:31saying no no no no no and video shows
  4565. 2:33:33something else guess what big problem
  4566. 2:33:36because it will wind up later on that
  4567. 2:33:39that
  4568. 2:33:40you can't get any help from anybody a
  4569. 2:33:42lot of this what people make decisions
  4570. 2:33:44on is honesty with somebody honest
  4571. 2:33:47of course you're gonna be somewhat
  4572. 2:33:49dishonest at some point we get that we
  4573. 2:33:50understand that
  4574. 2:33:51but at some point when you have that
  4575. 2:33:53come to jesus time that now i need to
  4576. 2:33:55now i need to to really
  4577. 2:33:57i gotta tell you what happened this is
  4578. 2:33:59it
  4579. 2:34:00this is it video tells me everything i
  4580. 2:34:03need to know about this from the
  4581. 2:34:04neighborhood and you're the only one
  4582. 2:34:05left to tell us
  4583. 2:34:08i know it's hard to sit look at me
  4584. 2:34:10look at my eyes i know it's tough man i
  4585. 2:34:12do
  4586. 2:34:13it's a tough thing to say but we know
  4587. 2:34:15what caused things at your house that
  4588. 2:34:18night to come become so bad that we're
  4589. 2:34:21this
  4590. 2:34:21he's violent we know that we've got a
  4591. 2:34:23gun on we get it
  4592. 2:34:25cody just probably ran around around
  4593. 2:34:27with a gun because he normally did
  4594. 2:34:29he he walked in the house and was shot
  4595. 2:34:31the minute he walked in the house
  4596. 2:34:33the minute he walked in
  4597. 2:34:35we see trajectory we find the projectile
  4598. 2:34:38we've got everything on that
  4599. 2:34:39he's shot over here and it's brought
  4600. 2:34:41over here
  4601. 2:34:42see over there find the b we found the
  4602. 2:34:44bullets in in in the uh in the house
  4603. 2:34:47mom's sitting her thing with a glass of
  4604. 2:34:48wine doing her thing and she's shocked
  4605. 2:34:51you just got to step over and tell me
  4606. 2:34:52man
  4607. 2:34:53i want to help you i do
  4608. 2:34:56the evidence is going to be there most
  4609. 2:34:58people out with cartridge cases we have
  4610. 2:35:00projectiles and fingerprints
  4611. 2:35:04so you just need to tell us what led up
  4612. 2:35:06to this you've been arrested correct
  4613. 2:35:09so we have your fingerprints correct you
  4614. 2:35:11understand that
  4615. 2:35:13physical evidence is something i can't
  4616. 2:35:14manipulate it's either there's not there
  4617. 2:35:17didn't fire a gun didn't fire a gun and
  4618. 2:35:19didn't fire a gun none of them did
  4619. 2:35:22none of them did cody did not go or did
  4620. 2:35:23your father point a gun at you
  4621. 2:35:27no there's there's nothing else that i
  4622. 2:35:28can say
  4623. 2:35:30then you're
  4624. 2:35:32this is not going to end up the way you
  4625. 2:35:33want to with what you're telling me
  4626. 2:35:34right now
  4627. 2:35:37factual items
  4628. 2:35:39do not support what you're saying
  4629. 2:35:41nothing that we can make up or i think
  4630. 2:35:43or she thinks or overthinks
  4631. 2:35:47you got to be honest that's and the
  4632. 2:35:49minute you start being completely honest
  4633. 2:35:51you're pretty honest i'm not going to
  4634. 2:35:52say you're not the minute you tell us
  4635. 2:35:54what happened to get this to hear is the
  4636. 2:35:56second that we start moving forward with
  4637. 2:36:00healing
  4638. 2:36:02you say you can't something yes you can
  4639. 2:36:04there's something that you you have done
  4640. 2:36:06that proves different i'm telling you
  4641. 2:36:10i don't know how i can't make it any
  4642. 2:36:12clearer
  4643. 2:36:14there's something there
  4644. 2:36:15just tell me
  4645. 2:36:17tell me
  4646. 2:36:18your emotions your demeanor your body
  4647. 2:36:21language your eyes tell me everything i
  4648. 2:36:23need to say about you
  4649. 2:36:24you want to tell me in the worst way you
  4650. 2:36:26want to get this this pain off your
  4651. 2:36:28chest do it
  4652. 2:36:29come forward tell the truth it's like
  4653. 2:36:31going to church and doing a confessional
  4654. 2:36:33when i go to church a few times i go a
  4655. 2:36:35year and i get up there and ask for
  4656. 2:36:37forgiveness i feel 100 better for all
  4657. 2:36:39the crappy things i've done and didn't
  4658. 2:36:41didn't do what i should have done
  4659. 2:36:43throughout the course of the year
  4660. 2:36:45short with my co-workers
  4661. 2:36:47short with my kids not not living the
  4662. 2:36:49way i should live
  4663. 2:36:50gets me too
  4664. 2:36:52and when i go up there and make my
  4665. 2:36:53confession
  4666. 2:36:55to to the pastor it makes me feel better
  4667. 2:37:04i mean there's just there's just nothing
  4668. 2:37:06else that i can say
  4669. 2:37:10there's nothing else that happened in
  4670. 2:37:11that home while you were there that
  4671. 2:37:12would lead up to this
  4672. 2:37:15your father didn't point a gun at you
  4673. 2:37:18there was nothing else more than what i
  4674. 2:37:20said
  4675. 2:37:21then who do you think did this
  4676. 2:37:24i don't know
  4677. 2:37:27i don't i don't have the answer
  4678. 2:37:42i'll give you a few minutes to think
  4679. 2:37:43about this
  4680. 2:37:44and think about
  4681. 2:37:48life decisions
  4682. 2:37:49and where do we go from there
  4683. 2:37:52want a few minutes to get plenty of
  4684. 2:37:53thoughts
  4685. 2:37:53[Applause]
  4686. 2:37:59[Applause]
  4687. 2:38:03hey do you need a drink or anything greg
  4688. 2:38:12[Applause]
  4689. 2:38:34[Applause]
  4690. 2:38:44[Applause]
  4691. 2:39:01[Applause]
  4692. 2:39:08[Applause]
  4693. 2:39:44like that
  4694. 2:40:00[Applause]
  4695. 2:40:10[Applause]
  4696. 2:40:22so
  4697. 2:40:46uh
  4698. 2:40:55and the only thing that i have is just
  4699. 2:40:58the
  4700. 2:41:00the times in which
  4701. 2:41:02uh
  4702. 2:41:03i left the house
  4703. 2:41:07you know there was
  4704. 2:41:08still an art there was an argument when
  4705. 2:41:14cody had gotten home
  4706. 2:41:16and then there was nothing that
  4707. 2:41:20that he could do
  4708. 2:41:22to help me
  4709. 2:41:25so i don't remember the exact time when
  4710. 2:41:27i actually left but i had left
  4711. 2:41:32later than what i had said
  4712. 2:41:35so you were home when cody got home yes
  4713. 2:41:38tell us about that
  4714. 2:41:41what time did he get home and why did he
  4715. 2:41:43come home
  4716. 2:41:46i mean he got home at
  4717. 2:41:50i think like
  4718. 2:41:5310 30 i still think that's when he got
  4719. 2:41:55home it was like around 10 30.
  4720. 2:41:59i don't know why he was able to leave
  4721. 2:42:01early and what was going on at the house
  4722. 2:42:03when he arrived
  4723. 2:42:04my uh dad and my mom were
  4724. 2:42:08arguing
  4725. 2:42:09and then i was still just packing up all
  4726. 2:42:11my stuff
  4727. 2:42:13or gathering the things that i could
  4728. 2:42:15gather
  4729. 2:42:17um
  4730. 2:42:20and then when cody got home he
  4731. 2:42:24started to transgress with my dad and i
  4732. 2:42:27was still kind of just staying out of it
  4733. 2:42:29and doing my own thing
  4734. 2:42:33and then the end result was still the
  4735. 2:42:34end result and then i had to still leave
  4736. 2:42:38and then so is it true that you still
  4737. 2:42:40met cody up the block or was that no no
  4738. 2:42:42so you didn't meet him up the block
  4739. 2:42:44so why did you tell us that
  4740. 2:42:49i don't know
  4741. 2:42:53all right so then now let's start
  4742. 2:42:55from the time you and your father
  4743. 2:42:57started have that having the argument
  4744. 2:42:58about 6 6 30 you said when he got on
  4745. 2:43:01yeah
  4746. 2:43:02tell us exactly what happened
  4747. 2:43:05from that time on
  4748. 2:43:09even what was said
  4749. 2:43:12i mean it was just a lot of yelling i
  4750. 2:43:14mean it was
  4751. 2:43:16it's everything i mean it was everything
  4752. 2:43:18that he had been telling me for the past
  4753. 2:43:22months and months and months about just
  4754. 2:43:25how i had ruined his retirement and how
  4755. 2:43:28i had pushed him back and now you know
  4756. 2:43:30he'd
  4757. 2:43:31never be able to do things that he
  4758. 2:43:33wanted to do
  4759. 2:43:35because i saddled him with a lot more
  4760. 2:43:37expenses
  4761. 2:43:39and that i told him that you know once i
  4762. 2:43:42can get a job then i have plans to
  4763. 2:43:45make amends for the things that i had
  4764. 2:43:48caused for everybody
  4765. 2:43:52um
  4766. 2:43:54and he's he's yelling yeah he's heated
  4767. 2:43:57are you yelling back at him no i never
  4768. 2:44:00yelled at my dad
  4769. 2:44:03and are you sitting on the couch
  4770. 2:44:04downstairs like you said i was in the
  4771. 2:44:06living room yeah and at what point does
  4772. 2:44:08he put his hands on you
  4773. 2:44:12it's just that i mean it's like maybe
  4774. 2:44:14five minutes into the conversation
  4775. 2:44:16so i mean there's nothing there wasn't
  4776. 2:44:18really anything that was a trigger
  4777. 2:44:21that i can think of what was your
  4778. 2:44:22reaction when he grabbed your shirt and
  4779. 2:44:24pulled you up
  4780. 2:44:27i
  4781. 2:44:30mean i mean i had
  4782. 2:44:33always been passive so i mean i didn't
  4783. 2:44:35really i didn't i didn't fight back or
  4784. 2:44:37anything like that i just
  4785. 2:44:40tried to get my my grounding and then
  4786. 2:44:43and then we were just standing and
  4787. 2:44:47you know just continued on
  4788. 2:44:50and then what
  4789. 2:44:52and then after that uh
  4790. 2:44:55i started the whole process of
  4791. 2:44:59gathering everything
  4792. 2:45:00where's your mom at this point she was
  4793. 2:45:02still in her office did she intervene at
  4794. 2:45:04all she had gotten up to say that
  4795. 2:45:07you know like you need like you need to
  4796. 2:45:10settle down or you you know some sort of
  4797. 2:45:12defusing statement that she always used
  4798. 2:45:13to make
  4799. 2:45:14and then my dad yelled at her to stay
  4800. 2:45:17out of this
  4801. 2:45:19and then she just went back into there
  4802. 2:45:22okay and then what what happened next
  4803. 2:45:26um
  4804. 2:45:32i mean then it was just
  4805. 2:45:35like it was just a lot of
  4806. 2:45:38like just it was just a lot of yelling
  4807. 2:45:40and confrontation between me and dad but
  4808. 2:45:44there wasn't anything more physical
  4809. 2:45:46about it
  4810. 2:45:51and like i said i was just going up and
  4811. 2:45:53about
  4812. 2:45:55you know getting my stuff and taking it
  4813. 2:45:56out to my car and getting back whatever
  4814. 2:45:59i could whatever i could gather
  4815. 2:46:02and what'd your dad do while you were
  4816. 2:46:03doing that
  4817. 2:46:04he was just following me around
  4818. 2:46:07just making sure you were gathering your
  4819. 2:46:08stuff to get out of my my possessions
  4820. 2:46:10and not taking anything of his
  4821. 2:46:13and how long did that go on because
  4822. 2:46:15before cody shows up
  4823. 2:46:17i mean that was like
  4824. 2:46:20for three three four hours or something
  4825. 2:46:22like that so you did that for three
  4826. 2:46:24hours
  4827. 2:46:25gathering your stuff and dealing with
  4828. 2:46:27dad and
  4829. 2:46:28because it wasn't just like he went up
  4830. 2:46:31those two little bags you brought was
  4831. 2:46:32three hours
  4832. 2:46:34yeah he wouldn't just
  4833. 2:46:36i mean i went onto my computer to back
  4834. 2:46:38up some stuff onto like some flash
  4835. 2:46:40drives and i mean all that other stuff
  4836. 2:46:42but
  4837. 2:46:43it wasn't just like with him where
  4838. 2:46:47i could just
  4839. 2:46:49go and do my thing you know i mean he
  4840. 2:46:51would stop me and then we would
  4841. 2:46:54talk for
  4842. 2:46:56like an extended period of time and then
  4843. 2:46:58i would start to do my thing again and
  4844. 2:47:00then it would stop again and i mean
  4845. 2:47:02that's all that was was your father
  4846. 2:47:04wearing this
  4847. 2:47:05yeah
  4848. 2:47:06and what about that gun on his waist
  4849. 2:47:09no
  4850. 2:47:10he didn't have that on no no is this
  4851. 2:47:12normal
  4852. 2:47:13no i mean i had i hadn't seen him have
  4853. 2:47:16his gun since
  4854. 2:47:18since
  4855. 2:47:20like high school so he doesn't walk
  4856. 2:47:22around like this normally no why do you
  4857. 2:47:24think he would be like this
  4858. 2:47:27i don't know if it's
  4859. 2:47:29because of what he had told me that if i
  4860. 2:47:31came back that he would kill me
  4861. 2:47:34and like he said you're afraid
  4862. 2:47:37yeah but we're here
  4863. 2:47:39we're here to this
  4864. 2:47:41this this
  4865. 2:47:43this is the person that is coming to to
  4866. 2:47:46solve the problem for you or came home
  4867. 2:47:48to solve the problems
  4868. 2:47:49there's the one who always sticks up for
  4869. 2:47:51you including talking to the goal she
  4870. 2:47:53talked to the girl in bulgaria didn't
  4871. 2:47:54she yeah she had conversations and said
  4872. 2:47:56that you know you're not a bad guy and
  4873. 2:47:58how
  4874. 2:47:59this breakup basically has affected you
  4875. 2:48:01had did you
  4876. 2:48:02enjoyment was bad
  4877. 2:48:04here's the problem
  4878. 2:48:05that
  4879. 2:48:07this one's behind you support you that
  4880. 2:48:09one's behind you supports him this one
  4881. 2:48:11i'm sure cares about you but is upset
  4882. 2:48:13because like you said you have ruined
  4883. 2:48:16his
  4884. 2:48:17plans for retirement so he can't retire
  4885. 2:48:19because of the financial
  4886. 2:48:21loss
  4887. 2:48:23how much money cody gave you
  4888. 2:48:32sixty thousand
  4889. 2:48:33yeah and yeah i guess dad gave you how
  4890. 2:48:36much
  4891. 2:48:40like a hundred thousand
  4892. 2:48:42mom gave damage
  4893. 2:48:45it's like 30 000 or something so around
  4894. 2:48:47200 000
  4895. 2:48:51and the vast majority of this money went
  4896. 2:48:52to some girl on the internet so they're
  4897. 2:48:55upset i get that
  4898. 2:48:57but we know
  4899. 2:48:59he didn't fire a gun we know she didn't
  4900. 2:49:01fire a gun we know he didn't fire a gun
  4901. 2:49:06he shout the second he walks in the
  4902. 2:49:07house
  4903. 2:49:08at what point does he come into the
  4904. 2:49:10house
  4905. 2:49:13it's like
  4906. 2:49:14like 10 30. and where does he enter
  4907. 2:49:17through the garage
  4908. 2:49:19where does he park his car
  4909. 2:49:21under the
  4910. 2:49:23awning thing outside not in the garage
  4911. 2:49:25right
  4912. 2:49:26so do you see him walk in
  4913. 2:49:29or hear him come in
  4914. 2:49:31no so you're upstairs maybe or where are
  4915. 2:49:34you when he comes home when i when he
  4916. 2:49:36came home i was doing
  4917. 2:49:39i was uh gathering
  4918. 2:49:40some of the like power bars into my
  4919. 2:49:44little
  4920. 2:49:46shoulder satchel thing where the power
  4921. 2:49:47bar's in the kitchen or in the kitchen
  4922. 2:49:49so you see him come in
  4923. 2:49:51i i hear the door but then that's it and
  4924. 2:49:54then when do you see him
  4925. 2:49:56honestly i see him when he walks into
  4926. 2:49:58the kitchen and what do you guys what
  4927. 2:50:00what is said
  4928. 2:50:02i bet he asked me what i'm doing and i
  4929. 2:50:04basically tell him
  4930. 2:50:06the quick short story because at the
  4931. 2:50:09time my dad and my mom were talking
  4932. 2:50:11where were they they were in her office
  4933. 2:50:13okay and what is the short story you
  4934. 2:50:15tell
  4935. 2:50:16that cody coat that dad caught me still
  4936. 2:50:19talking to the girl
  4937. 2:50:21that had caused all the problems
  4938. 2:50:24and that uh he was kicking me out of the
  4939. 2:50:26house because i had broken his rule
  4940. 2:50:29did you tell cody that he threatened to
  4941. 2:50:31kill you if you came back home
  4942. 2:50:33no i still didn't tell cody about that i
  4943. 2:50:36just i had told cody previously when i
  4944. 2:50:39went to cornerstone that that's what
  4945. 2:50:44uh dad was gonna do if
  4946. 2:50:46i had made any more mistakes not the
  4947. 2:50:48specific one that i had caused but if i
  4948. 2:50:51had made any more mistakes and then cody
  4949. 2:50:53told me that he was going to do that
  4950. 2:50:56when i went into one of the side offices
  4951. 2:50:57with him before they
  4952. 2:50:59officially dropped me off
  4953. 2:51:01when you went to cornerstone
  4954. 2:51:03so your dad had told you in the past
  4955. 2:51:05before that he would kill you right
  4956. 2:51:07for what reason for
  4957. 2:51:10if i basically did anything related to
  4958. 2:51:12this again causing costing him a lot of
  4959. 2:51:15money and cody knew about that right he
  4960. 2:51:18didn't he just didn't know
  4961. 2:51:20about
  4962. 2:51:22um
  4963. 2:51:23the
  4964. 2:51:24one that was just said whether or not he
  4965. 2:51:28knew
  4966. 2:51:30from like the paper that my dad had
  4967. 2:51:31written out of all the
  4968. 2:51:33consequences and everything like that
  4969. 2:51:36when did your dad write this paper
  4970. 2:51:38before they uh came to get me on the
  4971. 2:51:40fourth yeah i mean i don't know the
  4972. 2:51:42exact time do you know where the paper
  4973. 2:51:44is or what it's written on
  4974. 2:51:46it's written on like a
  4975. 2:51:48green like a greenish yellow college
  4976. 2:51:51rule just piece of paper and pen
  4977. 2:51:53in the office or a bedroom i don't i
  4978. 2:51:55don't know where he keeps all of his
  4979. 2:51:56stuff
  4980. 2:51:59all right so what else
  4981. 2:52:00do you and cody talk about
  4982. 2:52:03so then after talking about that he says
  4983. 2:52:05that he'll take care of it and then him
  4984. 2:52:07and my dad
  4985. 2:52:09they're the ones that
  4986. 2:52:11always yell and raise their voices and
  4987. 2:52:14everything like that did your dad
  4988. 2:52:15eventually enter the kitchen or did cody
  4989. 2:52:17go to your dad in the office no my dad
  4990. 2:52:19came in when he heard that me and cody
  4991. 2:52:21were talking and what what was the
  4992. 2:52:23conversation then
  4993. 2:52:25when they started to talk i just left
  4994. 2:52:27the room and i just went back upstairs
  4995. 2:52:30so you didn't hear what they talked
  4996. 2:52:31about
  4997. 2:52:33i mean not it was it was more just
  4998. 2:52:36that
  4999. 2:52:37he was defending that it's just you know
  5000. 2:52:39that i just did this and that it's not
  5001. 2:52:41like it's costing any money
  5002. 2:52:44were they yelling did they raise their
  5003. 2:52:45voice yeah they were talking they were
  5004. 2:52:48they were yelling
  5005. 2:52:49did you hear any threats or
  5006. 2:52:53my dad had said
  5007. 2:52:54that um
  5008. 2:52:59that he was that everybody had agreed
  5009. 2:53:02that if i had done this that
  5010. 2:53:04i would have to go
  5011. 2:53:06that there wasn't any more wiggle room
  5012. 2:53:09or second chances or anything like that
  5013. 2:53:13and then uh
  5014. 2:53:17you know he came around to the base of
  5015. 2:53:19the staircase and then he told me that i
  5016. 2:53:21need to go
  5017. 2:53:23your father did yeah
  5018. 2:53:25and then i told him that i was just
  5019. 2:53:26trying to pick up the last few things
  5020. 2:53:29that i needed to
  5021. 2:53:31uh there was like a bag of my like a
  5022. 2:53:34trash bag of like my clothes
  5023. 2:53:36um that i'd still not unpack from when i
  5024. 2:53:40got back from cornerstone
  5025. 2:53:42that i just you know had to gather and
  5026. 2:53:44put into my car you know all that just
  5027. 2:53:46some brand and stuff
  5028. 2:53:48and then um
  5029. 2:53:50i don't know what time i actually left
  5030. 2:53:52but
  5031. 2:53:54i think it was closer to like
  5032. 2:53:57midnight or something
  5033. 2:54:00and when you left where was your mother
  5034. 2:54:03when i left my mom was still just in her
  5035. 2:54:05office
  5036. 2:54:07and where was your dad dad and cody were
  5037. 2:54:09just yelling inside the kitchen
  5038. 2:54:12yelling not really yelling anymore but
  5039. 2:54:14they were
  5040. 2:54:18it was basically just the same exact
  5041. 2:54:20conversation that had been going on
  5042. 2:54:22where
  5043. 2:54:23there was nothing left and that dad
  5044. 2:54:25looked through some of my things to make
  5045. 2:54:27sure that i wasn't taking anything that
  5046. 2:54:28wasn't mine
  5047. 2:54:30i think the only thing that he had a
  5048. 2:54:32problem with was that
  5049. 2:54:35i had taken like
  5050. 2:54:38um
  5051. 2:54:39like some of my
  5052. 2:54:41my paperwork bills from like the chapman
  5053. 2:54:44law group
  5054. 2:54:45but then since i wasn't the one paying
  5055. 2:54:46for it that they would need those but
  5056. 2:54:49then i still just ended up keeping it
  5057. 2:54:50because i figured
  5058. 2:54:52nothing else was gonna like be covered
  5059. 2:54:54for me or anything
  5060. 2:54:57so then after i left
  5061. 2:54:59i took that
  5062. 2:55:00the fort christmas road
  5063. 2:55:03um that connected up with 50 and then i
  5064. 2:55:06was just at the publix for the rest of
  5065. 2:55:08the time
  5066. 2:55:09the same publix we talked about earlier
  5067. 2:55:11on 419.
  5068. 2:55:13so from about midnight till 7 a.m like
  5069. 2:55:16you said you were a puppet
  5070. 2:55:18and then is everything else the truth as
  5071. 2:55:19far as the job interview and so on and
  5072. 2:55:22so all the rest of the times
  5073. 2:55:24were accurate and
  5074. 2:55:27when i looked at the site
  5075. 2:55:28i did not i i only saw a small
  5076. 2:55:33blurb so when did you learn that your
  5077. 2:55:35family was
  5078. 2:55:36dead
  5079. 2:55:41i had been worried since
  5080. 2:55:43last night
  5081. 2:55:46when i was uh
  5082. 2:55:47just in the hotel but
  5083. 2:55:52i knew when you guys
  5084. 2:55:54told me
  5085. 2:55:55i mean like i knew
  5086. 2:55:57when you guys had told me you already
  5087. 2:55:59knew that
  5088. 2:56:00but i had you already said
  5089. 2:56:02you knew
  5090. 2:56:03at any point did you feel like you
  5091. 2:56:05needed to reach out to cody and see if
  5092. 2:56:06he was okay or
  5093. 2:56:10i just didn't want to call anywhere i
  5094. 2:56:12just didn't want to know
  5095. 2:56:15but you couldn't call
  5096. 2:56:17i well i mean you had brought up the
  5097. 2:56:18hospital that was that one but i just
  5098. 2:56:20worked there i didn't even think i was
  5099. 2:56:22to use that
  5100. 2:56:28you got a medical background correct
  5101. 2:56:30yeah you ever been to an autopsy
  5102. 2:56:33no
  5103. 2:56:33an autopsy tells us a lot of things
  5104. 2:56:36cause of death
  5105. 2:56:38a lot of times how close somebody was or
  5106. 2:56:40something
  5107. 2:56:41again remember i told you earlier
  5108. 2:56:43she didn't fire a gun he didn't fire
  5109. 2:56:45again
  5110. 2:56:47so they didn't get into us shooting
  5111. 2:56:48amongst themselves inside the house
  5112. 2:56:53angles tell us a lot of things
  5113. 2:56:57dad was over here when he got shot
  5114. 2:56:59the bullets in the cabinet and in the
  5115. 2:57:00wall
  5116. 2:57:02we know that we that's the one those
  5117. 2:57:03facts we just can't dispute
  5118. 2:57:05let's see what shell casings are over
  5119. 2:57:07here
  5120. 2:57:08see what shelf casings are in here
  5121. 2:57:10see where shelf kisses are there
  5122. 2:57:13cody was shot the minute he walked in
  5123. 2:57:15the door
  5124. 2:57:16when he first got home
  5125. 2:57:22bullet went through him
  5126. 2:57:24from his from his head to the back of
  5127. 2:57:26his head
  5128. 2:57:28hit the door frame and packed it in the
  5129. 2:57:30wall
  5130. 2:57:33he never fired
  5131. 2:57:34he never fired she never fired
  5132. 2:57:42and we know what time cody left work
  5133. 2:57:47i mean
  5134. 2:57:48from his boss from his co-workers and
  5135. 2:57:50you gotta remember we've talked to
  5136. 2:57:51everybody before we talk to you
  5137. 2:57:54so we know what time he left work
  5138. 2:57:56we know why he
  5139. 2:57:58told his co-workers and his boss why he
  5140. 2:58:00left work and we know what time he got
  5141. 2:58:02home
  5142. 2:58:03and we have text messages that he has
  5143. 2:58:05sent people afterwards
  5144. 2:58:10so based on what you're telling us that
  5145. 2:58:13he comes home and has this confrontation
  5146. 2:58:15talks to you talks to his dad you leave
  5147. 2:58:18about midnight
  5148. 2:58:19and he's still there talking to your dad
  5149. 2:58:22in the kitchen
  5150. 2:58:24none of that adds up
  5151. 2:58:26is going to approximate the time of
  5152. 2:58:28death based on the body
  5153. 2:58:33that was the time grant now is the time
  5154. 2:58:35buddy
  5155. 2:58:36i believe this this and this happened
  5156. 2:58:38while you were still present in the
  5157. 2:58:40house
  5158. 2:58:42and for whatever reason you don't want
  5159. 2:58:43to tell us
  5160. 2:58:46we understand your father was abusive
  5161. 2:58:48and we understand that he was the
  5162. 2:58:50[ __ ]
  5163. 2:58:52and if he threatened you
  5164. 2:58:54that he was going to kill you when you
  5165. 2:58:55came back
  5166. 2:58:57you were probably in fear were you not
  5167. 2:59:01so did your brother come home to try and
  5168. 2:59:03defend you and then this fun fight
  5169. 2:59:05happened
  5170. 2:59:07and you got so scared that you left
  5171. 2:59:11no i mean i i i had left when i had said
  5172. 2:59:15that i had left
  5173. 2:59:16which took
  5174. 2:59:18around the night or midnight no around
  5175. 2:59:19the midnight time
  5176. 2:59:23again we know stuff from the medical
  5177. 2:59:25examiner office
  5178. 2:59:28of times
  5179. 2:59:32said this a couple of times he never
  5180. 2:59:34fired a gun
  5181. 2:59:36he never fired a gun
  5182. 2:59:38she never fired them nobody did nobody
  5183. 2:59:40the house fired again
  5184. 2:59:42fact we know we're going to get dna off
  5185. 2:59:44the guns that are on scene and the
  5186. 2:59:46cartridge casings
  5187. 2:59:50reason to believe that your fingerprints
  5188. 2:59:52or your dna will be on
  5189. 2:59:54any of those weapons or the cartridge
  5190. 2:59:55cases that are on this scene
  5191. 3:00:01i mean not that i can think of i mean i
  5192. 3:00:03know that me and cody had
  5193. 3:00:05you know
  5194. 3:00:07like i mean we had used each other's
  5195. 3:00:09guns before in the past like when we go
  5196. 3:00:10to the range but
  5197. 3:00:12you said you had no access to these guns
  5198. 3:00:14now right i mean but yeah i mean it was
  5199. 3:00:16like that was a long time ago
  5200. 3:00:20sorry about it
  5201. 3:00:21so the gun that's still unseen and the
  5202. 3:00:23gun on your father's waistband
  5203. 3:00:25is your dna your fingerprints gonna be
  5204. 3:00:26on it
  5205. 3:00:30nothing i can think of
  5206. 3:00:31let me throw something at you
  5207. 3:00:34we pulled financial records from your
  5208. 3:00:35dad you cody your mom
  5209. 3:00:38remember that payment you made
  5210. 3:00:40which one
  5211. 3:00:42which payment on uh that bill you had
  5212. 3:00:44the 5.99 i saw that one well guess what
  5213. 3:00:47got paid right about the same time
  5214. 3:00:50three thousand dollars of debt was paid
  5215. 3:00:52off at his credit card
  5216. 3:00:54same time
  5217. 3:00:56within a very short time of each other
  5218. 3:00:58those things go together
  5219. 3:01:02records records show what was happening
  5220. 3:01:04wait
  5221. 3:01:05what happened 33 thousand dollars on
  5222. 3:01:08your daddy with a usaa credit card
  5223. 3:01:10he had 33 000 was paid
  5224. 3:01:14to pay off that credit card
  5225. 3:01:18i just don't know where else to go
  5226. 3:01:22to get you to to come around because
  5227. 3:01:28it does not make
  5228. 3:01:30any logistical sense
  5229. 3:01:32of what you're telling us
  5230. 3:01:35it doesn't
  5231. 3:01:38if these two got into shooting we would
  5232. 3:01:39know
  5233. 3:01:40we would know they shot each other we
  5234. 3:01:42know that
  5235. 3:01:44but why mom
  5236. 3:01:49you just got so bad and out of hand like
  5237. 3:01:51never it's been before in your life
  5238. 3:01:53never been here before in your life or
  5239. 3:01:54your family's life
  5240. 3:01:56he's pissed
  5241. 3:01:58his future his retirement his plans
  5242. 3:02:01are being upset by you
  5243. 3:02:04because of the financial cost
  5244. 3:02:09i would almost bet this is just a
  5245. 3:02:10horrible bad incident that on any other
  5246. 3:02:12day wouldn't happen
  5247. 3:02:17but you and me both know i said she what
  5248. 3:02:20happened that night
  5249. 3:02:22you're coming around and i really
  5250. 3:02:23appreciate it grant i do appreciate it
  5251. 3:02:25now you're starting to tell more the
  5252. 3:02:26truth
  5253. 3:02:27everybody minimizes when they're in a
  5254. 3:02:28stressful situation they do
  5255. 3:02:31my boston marks start yelling at me i
  5256. 3:02:32try to minimize the effect of thinking
  5257. 3:02:34about what am i going to do how do i
  5258. 3:02:35explain to him
  5259. 3:02:37what happened legitimately not that i
  5260. 3:02:39want to be a liar but let me explain to
  5261. 3:02:41you how legitimately something happened
  5262. 3:02:43where i bumped my defender on my car got
  5263. 3:02:46a ding in it
  5264. 3:02:48trying to say let me how am i going to
  5265. 3:02:49explain this
  5266. 3:02:50and you've already told us a lie
  5267. 3:02:52this whole map thing is [ __ ]
  5268. 3:02:56so when people start telling little fibs
  5269. 3:02:58they add up to big ones and i told you
  5270. 3:03:01just tell the truth
  5271. 3:03:02i already know the truth
  5272. 3:03:04i know the truth
  5273. 3:03:06you can't convince somebody something
  5274. 3:03:07they already know the packs of
  5275. 3:03:10walk outside today you try to tell me
  5276. 3:03:11tonight and i know it's it's noon i know
  5277. 3:03:14it's daytime right we both agree
  5278. 3:03:16here's the time
  5279. 3:03:18tell me what happened tell me what
  5280. 3:03:19really happened in this very short time
  5281. 3:03:21to get to where we are here tell me a
  5282. 3:03:23hundred times
  5283. 3:03:25none of them fired a gun none of them
  5284. 3:03:27nothing called gunshot residue
  5285. 3:03:30there's no gunshot ready to go on
  5286. 3:03:31anybody's hands
  5287. 3:03:35nobody fired a gun
  5288. 3:03:38he didn't shoot him he didn't shoot him
  5289. 3:03:40neither shot them
  5290. 3:03:42telling him looking i think he walked in
  5291. 3:03:45the door shot him and he walked in door
  5292. 3:03:46because right down here is a bag he
  5293. 3:03:48carries in
  5294. 3:03:49dropped right there where he opened the
  5295. 3:03:51door walked in and gets shot
  5296. 3:03:54there's dad's lunch box right there dad
  5297. 3:03:56came home was probably messing with it
  5298. 3:03:57right around here
  5299. 3:03:59arguments whatever's going on but there
  5300. 3:04:01was even an argument
  5301. 3:04:02dad gets shot and he drops right here
  5302. 3:04:05and most likely either got pulled or
  5303. 3:04:07crawled over here
  5304. 3:04:09over here
  5305. 3:04:11i wonder what dna is going to be in that
  5306. 3:04:13blood right there
  5307. 3:04:16what's going to be on your dad's pants
  5308. 3:04:17we got his pants we take we take all
  5309. 3:04:19their clothes all everything everything
  5310. 3:04:20that we take
  5311. 3:04:24your dna will be found on his pants
  5312. 3:04:28no you sure
  5313. 3:04:29it may be something a question i'm
  5314. 3:04:30asking already know the answer to i know
  5315. 3:04:32but
  5316. 3:04:33my dna wouldn't
  5317. 3:04:35shouldn't be on its own
  5318. 3:04:37okay
  5319. 3:04:39explain to me
  5320. 3:04:40i just need you to tell me
  5321. 3:04:42why the minute he walks in he gets shot
  5322. 3:04:45he shot it's right there just above
  5323. 3:04:47there is is is
  5324. 3:04:50what it is
  5325. 3:04:51we got investigator of the autopsy right
  5326. 3:04:53now and a doctor saying here's what
  5327. 3:04:55happened here where he shot cody shot
  5328. 3:04:57right below the eye he comes out the
  5329. 3:04:59back of his neck and then did a wall
  5330. 3:05:02dad shot twice
  5331. 3:05:05and the doctor basically said he could
  5332. 3:05:07have crawled from here to here
  5333. 3:05:09because of the injury
  5334. 3:05:12and we're going to look at their
  5335. 3:05:13clothing your clothing for dna
  5336. 3:05:16sun powder
  5337. 3:05:18blood spatter
  5338. 3:05:20all of that inside of your car
  5339. 3:05:22all the stuff that's in your room
  5340. 3:05:25all your electronic footprint we're
  5341. 3:05:27gonna look at
  5342. 3:05:28we will look at it we will see
  5343. 3:05:30it it's it's a whole lot easier for you
  5344. 3:05:33just to say what happened
  5345. 3:05:34then i have to come up here and say here
  5346. 3:05:36boom boom boom boom boom because that
  5347. 3:05:38may change the direction of this case
  5348. 3:05:40severely
  5349. 3:05:41of whether somebody says here let me
  5350. 3:05:43tell you what happened got me here
  5351. 3:05:45this blew up he's been threatening me
  5352. 3:05:47he's upset at me i've ruined you know
  5353. 3:05:49his financial
  5354. 3:05:51success and his his plans for retirement
  5355. 3:05:53without cody tried to get involved and
  5356. 3:05:55you wanted to protect cody that makes
  5357. 3:05:57sense you and cody are close
  5358. 3:06:00i just i i don't i don't have the answer
  5359. 3:06:03for
  5360. 3:06:04anything else
  5361. 3:06:07okay
  5362. 3:06:09this is the last time before i'm gonna
  5363. 3:06:10walk out now and then i'm done and i'm
  5364. 3:06:12done for good when i'm done i'm done
  5365. 3:06:14done
  5366. 3:06:15they won't let me hey can i come back
  5367. 3:06:16and talk to you the minute i walk out
  5368. 3:06:18that door with your story is where you
  5369. 3:06:20stay at that's you that's your lot in
  5370. 3:06:22life
  5371. 3:06:24i am more than willing to sit here all
  5372. 3:06:25day and all night if you want to to talk
  5373. 3:06:27to find the facts
  5374. 3:06:29but i can't i told you from the
  5375. 3:06:30beginning i will not deal with
  5376. 3:06:31somebody's not being truth with me
  5377. 3:06:32you're not being truthful you're not
  5378. 3:06:34telling me the truth you've lied and
  5379. 3:06:36we've forgiven you over that
  5380. 3:06:38we forgive you
  5381. 3:06:40you can't lie about this grant you can't
  5382. 3:06:43this is too important for your family of
  5383. 3:06:45what has happened
  5384. 3:06:46there's not somebody there's not
  5385. 3:06:48somebody out running around
  5386. 3:06:50the united states to kill them there's
  5387. 3:06:52not
  5388. 3:06:54there's no there's nobody out there some
  5389. 3:06:56hidden killer
  5390. 3:06:57there's not
  5391. 3:07:00you don't show the the remorse that you
  5392. 3:07:03should for someone who's lost three
  5393. 3:07:04family members
  5394. 3:07:06body language eyes and demeanor here's
  5395. 3:07:10the time man i know it's tough
  5396. 3:07:12tell the truth because when i walk out
  5397. 3:07:14there is no there's no another day and
  5398. 3:07:16it's going to look worse for you when we
  5399. 3:07:17prove it
  5400. 3:07:19by the dna
  5401. 3:07:21the gun powder
  5402. 3:07:22the blood spatter fingerprints
  5403. 3:07:25now is the time for you to be honest
  5404. 3:07:26with us and that's exactly what happened
  5405. 3:07:28in that house before you left
  5406. 3:07:31we'll be there for weeks gathering
  5407. 3:07:33evidence we are going to build the case
  5408. 3:07:35because we're going to disprove the fact
  5409. 3:07:37that nobody else came in this house we
  5410. 3:07:39already we already know that answer but
  5411. 3:07:41at some point we will build a case to a
  5412. 3:07:42conclusion that nobody else will
  5413. 3:07:48you know just i don't have anything else
  5414. 3:07:50that i can say
  5415. 3:08:05you know my brother even said the same
  5416. 3:08:07thing as like
  5417. 3:08:10when all this financial stuff was
  5418. 3:08:11happening like why i couldn't
  5419. 3:08:14show
  5420. 3:08:15like it's like sadness towards it
  5421. 3:08:19and uh
  5422. 3:08:22i just don't know i mean i don't
  5423. 3:08:29i just don't know what else to say
  5424. 3:08:33do you not feel bad for doing this to
  5425. 3:08:35your family
  5426. 3:08:45i don't know you don't know what you
  5427. 3:08:49don't know if you feel bad for doing
  5428. 3:08:50this to your family
  5429. 3:08:53i mean i've been getting blamed for the
  5430. 3:08:55last half a year for everything and i've
  5431. 3:08:57been trying to move forward into a
  5432. 3:08:59positive direction
  5433. 3:09:02and then every day i'm reminded of all
  5434. 3:09:04the trouble that i had caused
  5435. 3:09:08and then i keep being told the same
  5436. 3:09:10thing over and over again but there's
  5437. 3:09:12nothing that i can do to change it
  5438. 3:09:15do you regret doing this to each one of
  5439. 3:09:17your family members i didn't do that
  5440. 3:09:23who did
  5441. 3:09:25who has such an axe to grind with your
  5442. 3:09:27family that they shot him twice in the
  5443. 3:09:29head him in the head and her who has it
  5444. 3:09:33here you sit in my seat for a minute
  5445. 3:09:37set my seat get up here sit right here
  5446. 3:09:38come here sit right here get out of that
  5447. 3:09:40seat sit right there for me
  5448. 3:09:42sit on it look at it look at it from
  5449. 3:09:44from from our side
  5450. 3:09:45look at it from our side
  5451. 3:09:49think of it from what the way we look at
  5452. 3:09:50it
  5453. 3:09:51independent
  5454. 3:09:53what are we here for one thing
  5455. 3:09:55the blindfolded ladies with justice
  5456. 3:09:57justice all we're here for justice
  5457. 3:09:59look at it
  5458. 3:10:01who has a motive
  5459. 3:10:04who has a motive to hurt your family
  5460. 3:10:07you can say jason but we already know
  5461. 3:10:09what jason was i can account for every
  5462. 3:10:11bit of of jason's
  5463. 3:10:13activity
  5464. 3:10:14every bit of it
  5465. 3:10:16jason gave a statement he was the first
  5466. 3:10:18thing we looked at is jason telling the
  5467. 3:10:20truth can we verify what he told us and
  5468. 3:10:23in quick succession we did
  5469. 3:10:25he said i was xxxxs
  5470. 3:10:27yep he sure was
  5471. 3:10:32and we know exactly when cody left work
  5472. 3:10:35and knowing cody got home
  5473. 3:10:37and know when cody stopped answering his
  5474. 3:10:39phone
  5475. 3:10:44and know when bills were paid
  5476. 3:10:47and knows when vehicles left
  5477. 3:10:50and no when they when phones
  5478. 3:10:53tagged hot spots
  5479. 3:10:57no at all no every bit of it
  5480. 3:10:59now it's time for you to admit to what
  5481. 3:11:02you know
  5482. 3:11:03because you're saying i didn't do
  5483. 3:11:04something i don't know something
  5484. 3:11:07it's an easy easy thing to say to
  5485. 3:11:09yourself but you can't say it to us
  5486. 3:11:13because
  5487. 3:11:15facts and evidence don't lie
  5488. 3:11:18i've done everything i can do
  5489. 3:11:21to get to the bottom in the truth
  5490. 3:11:24and
  5491. 3:11:26we're not getting there
  5492. 3:11:28but i promise you down down at some
  5493. 3:11:31point
  5494. 3:11:32the facts will get there
  5495. 3:11:35and then you're going to ask hey can i
  5496. 3:11:36talk to you and tell you what happened
  5497. 3:11:38and the answer is no
  5498. 3:11:41after after we walk out of the room like
  5499. 3:11:43i said
  5500. 3:11:44it's done there is not a second chance
  5501. 3:11:46there's only one there's one time to
  5502. 3:11:48make a first impression heard that one
  5503. 3:11:50before this is it
  5504. 3:11:52i believe you're not a bad guy i do
  5505. 3:11:55i believe you want to tell us what
  5506. 3:11:57happened
  5507. 3:11:58and there's a reason this got so bad
  5508. 3:12:00there's a reason
  5509. 3:12:04i'm safe
  5510. 3:12:20so
  5511. 3:12:34i mean i just i don't have anything else
  5512. 3:12:36that i can say
  5513. 3:12:39i mean i don't i don't have the answers
  5514. 3:12:42that you can't say or want to say
  5515. 3:12:44that i can say
  5516. 3:12:46i mean i don't i don't know i don't
  5517. 3:12:49i i know from sitting over here what it
  5518. 3:12:52looks like
  5519. 3:12:53i mean it's just like when i was accused
  5520. 3:12:54of the whole grand theft thing
  5521. 3:12:57and then it's you know everything from
  5522. 3:12:59security cameras and all this other
  5523. 3:13:01stuff for saying this that and the other
  5524. 3:13:02but then
  5525. 3:13:03there's nothing that showed that i had
  5526. 3:13:05done anything wrong
  5527. 3:13:08[Applause]
  5528. 3:13:11and i just i don't know what else i can
  5529. 3:13:13say
  5530. 3:13:16[Applause]
  5531. 3:13:23so what they accused you of you didn't
  5532. 3:13:24do
  5533. 3:13:40two things that happened here today
  5534. 3:13:43two things
  5535. 3:13:45you're a guy swimming out in the middle
  5536. 3:13:46of the ocean
  5537. 3:13:47and we're gonna give you one of two
  5538. 3:13:49things based on based on you
  5539. 3:13:51you can have a life preserver
  5540. 3:13:53to keep the heat from drowning
  5541. 3:13:55or you get the boat anchor
  5542. 3:14:00this which one do you want
  5543. 3:14:02because we will give you whichever one
  5544. 3:14:04you ask for
  5545. 3:14:05the life preserver
  5546. 3:14:07the boat anchor
  5547. 3:14:10want the life preserved that i've said
  5548. 3:14:11everything that i can you want it and i
  5549. 3:14:14i believe you do but you have not said
  5550. 3:14:16everything you can say
  5551. 3:14:18be careful of locking yourself into
  5552. 3:14:20something because just like this
  5553. 3:14:22you've locked yourself into i was down
  5554. 3:14:24before christmas that's where me and
  5555. 3:14:26cody met which we've proven to be a lie
  5556. 3:14:29we are we already knew that we already
  5557. 3:14:30knew that wasn't true but i'm gonna let
  5558. 3:14:32you say it
  5559. 3:14:33i'ma let you say
  5560. 3:14:35what you want to about being honest in
  5561. 3:14:37here
  5562. 3:14:39and at some point we will pick that
  5563. 3:14:41apart of why you're not honest and what
  5564. 3:14:45physical evidence shows to be
  5565. 3:14:48what physical evidence shows to me
  5566. 3:14:55you want to be honest this is this is
  5567. 3:14:57the time right now to be honest
  5568. 3:14:59you see if i can say with it you're
  5569. 3:15:01saying what you want to say to me right
  5570. 3:15:03now just like you wanted me to believe
  5571. 3:15:05that you were down on fort christmas
  5572. 3:15:06down the road with cody
  5573. 3:15:08that you wanted to
  5574. 3:15:10that's what you wanted me to believe and
  5575. 3:15:11there's a reason you were being
  5576. 3:15:12deceptive to me because it doesn't
  5577. 3:15:14matter where you met him and had this
  5578. 3:15:16conversation
  5579. 3:15:17if you lie about something small you lie
  5580. 3:15:18about something big
  5581. 3:15:21you're being deceptive
  5582. 3:15:23over something that doesn't matter if
  5583. 3:15:24you met him down the road or not there's
  5584. 3:15:26no reason to lie about where you may
  5585. 3:15:27have been
  5586. 3:15:30this is it
  5587. 3:15:31your one chance in the rest of your life
  5588. 3:15:33to be honest about this right here
  5589. 3:15:36you say i've told you what i can tell
  5590. 3:15:37you you told me what you want me to know
  5591. 3:15:40just like you told me what you wanted me
  5592. 3:15:41to know about that and for even to know
  5593. 3:15:44what you want to know about that but is
  5594. 3:15:45it not it's not
  5595. 3:15:46true just like you want to tell me
  5596. 3:15:50what you want me to know about this
  5597. 3:15:56i get this
  5598. 3:15:58i get that
  5599. 3:15:59i don't get that
  5600. 3:16:01i don't get that i don't get it
  5601. 3:16:04i don't
  5602. 3:16:07one i get i understand
  5603. 3:16:11she didn't bully you she didn't belittle
  5604. 3:16:13you she didn't run you under the ground
  5605. 3:16:15nor does me
  5606. 3:16:16i don't get it
  5607. 3:16:20but this is it
  5608. 3:16:21because you're just about i kind of got
  5609. 3:16:23a number in my mind then i'm gonna get
  5610. 3:16:25up and i'm gonna walk out and we'll take
  5611. 3:16:26our stuff and be on our way and you're
  5612. 3:16:27gonna go the way you go
  5613. 3:16:30but there will be a time when you ask
  5614. 3:16:32for
  5615. 3:16:33that life preserver
  5616. 3:16:35i can't give it to you
  5617. 3:16:37i can't once i cross
  5618. 3:16:39once i cross the lines i gotta step over
  5619. 3:16:42can't do it won't do it
  5620. 3:16:47they think think about that
  5621. 3:16:50i want to talk to her for a minute
  5622. 3:16:52think about the the
  5623. 3:16:54last
  5624. 3:16:56life preserver i can give you
  5625. 3:16:59think about it take a few minutes just
  5626. 3:17:00to reflect on it and then we'll come
  5627. 3:17:03back to you in a couple of minutes
  5628. 3:17:05and then we'll go from there and what
  5629. 3:17:07happens is what happens
  5630. 3:17:08fair enough
  5631. 3:17:21all right
  5632. 3:17:22okay
  5633. 3:17:24need some food some water
  5634. 3:17:27all right
  5635. 3:17:28good you good to stay for one longer you
  5636. 3:17:30okay
  5637. 3:17:32i mean i just i just don't want to have
  5638. 3:17:33anything more than i can say i don't
  5639. 3:17:35know okay
  5640. 3:17:37i'm not keeping you if you want to stay
  5641. 3:17:39well i'll talk to you till whatever
  5642. 3:17:41until you're you're happy with with
  5643. 3:17:43everything and
  5644. 3:17:45you're okay
  5645. 3:17:46um
  5646. 3:17:50you're not detained you're not being
  5647. 3:17:51kept here
  5648. 3:17:54you're here you're here willingly
  5649. 3:17:55remember we talked about that
  5650. 3:17:58you're still looking you're still
  5651. 3:18:00you're still here voluntarily i'm not
  5652. 3:18:02i'm not detaining you i'm not keeping
  5653. 3:18:03here
  5654. 3:18:04i said you wanna walk out and take a
  5655. 3:18:06break catch your breath
  5656. 3:18:08get something to eat if you want
  5657. 3:18:09something that's been here for for a
  5658. 3:18:11while if you want something you gotta be
  5659. 3:18:12more happy get some food whatever you
  5660. 3:18:14want well sometimes you go get it
  5661. 3:18:16or whatever you want to do
  5662. 3:18:17it's totally up to you of of
  5663. 3:18:20i said you're voluntarily here
  5664. 3:18:27i don't know what the
  5665. 3:18:30i will i will stay here and talk to you
  5666. 3:18:32until you get everything off your chest
  5667. 3:18:34as long as you want to
  5668. 3:18:36but you're here on your own accord
  5669. 3:18:38we talked about that beginning remember
  5670. 3:18:40you're here because you want to be here
  5671. 3:18:42you don't you know you wanted to come up
  5672. 3:18:44here you had no problem coming you're
  5673. 3:18:45here
  5674. 3:18:47so you
  5675. 3:18:48don't want to be here you don't have to
  5676. 3:18:49be here
  5677. 3:18:51and i don't want to be here anymore
  5678. 3:18:53okay
  5679. 3:18:55give me a minute we'll get you
  5680. 3:18:57[Applause]
  5681. 3:19:19you have somewhere you want to go
  5682. 3:19:21me too we can put you up in a room for
  5683. 3:19:23the night
  5684. 3:19:24i know things are tough for you
  5685. 3:19:27i was just gonna go back to the hotel
  5686. 3:19:33i don't think you're going to be able to
  5687. 3:19:34get back into that room um
  5688. 3:19:39but if you want we can pick you up
  5689. 3:19:40somewhere for the night
  5690. 3:19:45[Music]
  5691. 3:19:49i don't know where i can go
  5692. 3:19:51a certain area you want to go to
  5693. 3:19:54a friend
  5694. 3:19:58so we don't mind putting up a hotel for
  5695. 3:19:59the night
  5696. 3:20:02[Applause]
  5697. 3:20:09we got some hotels right here in sanford
  5698. 3:20:10that'd be right yeah
  5699. 3:20:15what i'll do is i will get you up
  5700. 3:20:16somewhere i'll give my card my phone if
  5701. 3:20:18you want to talk to me you're more than
  5702. 3:20:19welcome call me
  5703. 3:20:21and uh we'll move forward from there
  5704. 3:20:23fair enough
  5705. 3:20:24any questions of me before i go
  5706. 3:20:26hopeful before we walk out
  5707. 3:20:29i'll be happy to answer any questions
  5708. 3:20:30you may have like what am i
  5709. 3:20:32like allowed to do
  5710. 3:20:34live your life
  5711. 3:20:36i wonder what i mean because that's like
  5712. 3:20:38i have my uh
  5713. 3:20:40like my wallet and all that stuff it's
  5714. 3:20:42back at the hotel room and
  5715. 3:20:47[Applause]
  5716. 3:20:54we have some hotels right here in
  5717. 3:20:55sanford that'd be right yeah
  5718. 3:21:00what i'll do is uh we'll get you up
  5719. 3:21:01somewhere i'll give you my card my phone
  5720. 3:21:03if you want to talk to me you're more
  5721. 3:21:04than welcome call me
  5722. 3:21:06and uh we'll move forward from there
  5723. 3:21:08fair enough any questions of me before i
  5724. 3:21:10go
  5725. 3:21:11or before before we walk out
  5726. 3:21:14i'll be happy to answer any questions
  5727. 3:21:15you may have like what am i
  5728. 3:21:17like allowed to do
  5729. 3:21:19live your life
  5730. 3:21:21i wonder behind me because that's like i
  5731. 3:21:23have my uh
  5732. 3:21:25like my wallet and all that stuff it's
  5733. 3:21:27back at the hotel room and
  5734. 3:21:31cell phone and all that stuff what
  5735. 3:21:35that's probably gonna remain with us
  5736. 3:21:38um
  5737. 3:21:42we make sure you get the hotel and get
  5738. 3:21:45some food if you need some food
  5739. 3:21:46something you know you say you don't eat
  5740. 3:21:47much but if you want something to eat
  5741. 3:21:48we'll grab you some food
  5742. 3:21:50grab some drink
  5743. 3:21:56um
  5744. 3:22:01if um
  5745. 3:22:04it's like i don't even know my brother's
  5746. 3:22:05phone number
  5747. 3:22:06off the top of my head
  5748. 3:22:10well we've got his phone
  5749. 3:22:11we've got everybody's phone
  5750. 3:22:14oh jason no i don't have this
  5751. 3:22:17we can get touch with jason tell him
  5752. 3:22:18where you at yeah sorry man i guess if
  5753. 3:22:20you could do that
  5754. 3:22:22like just wherever i'm staying or
  5755. 3:22:23whatever if he
  5756. 3:22:26you know i just i don't know
  5757. 3:22:28that's
  5758. 3:22:30i don't understand man i do
  5759. 3:22:44[Music]
  5760. 3:22:47yeah we're trying to figure out what
  5761. 3:22:48you're going to hang tight i said um
  5762. 3:22:51try to figure out a place to take the
  5763. 3:22:52day get you to a uh
  5764. 3:22:54to um
  5765. 3:22:57um
  5766. 3:22:58a place to stay for the night
  5767. 3:23:00you're just work on that right and
  5768. 3:23:01figure out what um what we need to get
  5769. 3:23:03to you good give me your first i said
  5770. 3:23:06you're free to go but we're going to get
  5771. 3:23:07you to to a hotel you know somewhere
  5772. 3:23:09here in sanford that you can stay out
  5773. 3:23:10for tonight just trying to try to find
  5774. 3:23:12an arrangement for that too who's got
  5775. 3:23:13everything who's got available blood
  5776. 3:23:16[Music]
  5777. 3:23:24all right jason's on his way he'd be
  5778. 3:23:25here okay okay anything you good all
  5779. 3:23:28right bathroom are you trying any
  5780. 3:23:30bathroom
  5781. 3:23:32yeah i guess i can see him yeah come on
  5782. 3:23:33we'll walk out of the bathroom
  5783. 3:23:35i'll go with you just because it's um
  5784. 3:23:37it's uh
  5785. 3:23:38um
  5786. 3:23:47hey man we are right there jason's here
  5787. 3:23:49it's gonna be a few more minutes what i
  5788. 3:23:50need to do is just for our investigation
  5789. 3:23:52get some pictures of you we're gonna
  5790. 3:23:54collect your clothing and if you have no
  5791. 3:23:56issues we're gonna get a swab of your
  5792. 3:23:57mouth just a saliva for for dna
  5793. 3:24:01to go along to make sure your story goes
  5794. 3:24:03along with with where we're at no
  5795. 3:24:05problem anything give me a few minutes i
  5796. 3:24:06said i apologize the clothes aren't
  5797. 3:24:08going to be the best and where we have
  5798. 3:24:09it
  5799. 3:24:10to get some we got something for you
  5800. 3:24:12some shorts and t-shirts and some shoes
  5801. 3:24:14and then uh as soon as that's done we'll
  5802. 3:24:16get jason here to talk to you all right
  5803. 3:24:19so good anything else no all
  5804. 3:24:25oh right we'll go here this room is
  5805. 3:24:27recorded the next room we're going to is
  5806. 3:24:28is not recorded
  5807. 3:24:32come on
  5808. 3:24:38you're going to have c on the other side
  5809. 3:24:40i'm gonna go grab jason
  5810. 3:26:09yep
  5811. 3:26:22uh
  5812. 3:26:32all right so uh i i think you know what
  5813. 3:26:34happened
  5814. 3:26:40i just i'm gonna ask you to play now you
  5815. 3:26:42are not part of it anyway
  5816. 3:26:44no how
  5817. 3:26:47when's the last time you saw everybody
  5818. 3:26:50i left the house between like uh
  5819. 3:26:52midnight and like 12 30.
  5820. 3:26:56on thursday night so friday morning
  5821. 3:27:00the why
  5822. 3:27:01just did that's when you went to a hotel
  5823. 3:27:04no no the first night i uh i stayed just
  5824. 3:27:07in the publix parking lot by the tractor
  5825. 3:27:09supply
  5826. 3:27:10okay and
  5827. 3:27:12why did you leave though and said dad
  5828. 3:27:14had kicked me out on a thursday
  5829. 3:27:17because
  5830. 3:27:18i was still talking to the woman
  5831. 3:27:20that had caused everything and i was
  5832. 3:27:23using mom's cell phone to do that with
  5833. 3:27:26her knowledge but uh nobody not
  5834. 3:27:29cody or dad
  5835. 3:27:31so then dad found out
  5836. 3:27:33somehow
  5837. 3:27:35and that was one of the things that he
  5838. 3:27:37had said
  5839. 3:27:38would lead to my
  5840. 3:27:41removed from the premises
  5841. 3:27:45so he forced you he basically told you
  5842. 3:27:47you had to leave yeah
  5843. 3:27:55okay
  5844. 3:27:57so who could have done this
  5845. 3:28:00i don't so you didn't have any problems
  5846. 3:28:03or troubles with this woman or the
  5847. 3:28:05online you didn't owe them any money i
  5848. 3:28:07mean there's no like loan shark out
  5849. 3:28:08looking for you or
  5850. 3:28:10you know i
  5851. 3:28:12just don't see
  5852. 3:28:13how
  5853. 3:28:14[Music]
  5854. 3:28:15things aren't adding up
  5855. 3:28:17i just
  5856. 3:28:20i'm really confused grant
  5857. 3:28:24i don't understand how did you get money
  5858. 3:28:27to pay for a hotel i still had a few
  5859. 3:28:30hundred dollars on my
  5860. 3:28:32debit card and cody
  5861. 3:28:35uh gave me his debit card okay
  5862. 3:28:40and
  5863. 3:28:47i don't know i
  5864. 3:28:50i want to believe you grant but you're
  5865. 3:28:52the last person that i could put in that
  5866. 3:28:54house
  5867. 3:28:56and i know
  5868. 3:28:57what happened over the last six months
  5869. 3:29:01i can understand
  5870. 3:29:03the troubles that you've gone through
  5871. 3:29:07but it's hard for me to think that you
  5872. 3:29:09would break to this point
  5873. 3:29:12but i don't i who else can i blame who
  5874. 3:29:16how are we gonna find out who did this
  5875. 3:29:19i don't know i don't have the answers
  5876. 3:29:23so what are your intentions you
  5877. 3:29:25understand what we have to do now
  5878. 3:29:28if you're not the person that did it
  5879. 3:29:31we have months of stuff that we have to
  5880. 3:29:33take care of from our dead parents
  5881. 3:29:37months
  5882. 3:29:38months
  5883. 3:29:39you know how much stuff is in that house
  5884. 3:29:43we have to go through it all
  5885. 3:29:45i have to call people in california to
  5886. 3:29:47let them know that margaret amato is not
  5887. 3:29:49alive anymore
  5888. 3:29:52i gotta call it three o'clock in the
  5889. 3:29:54morning because cody's 30 years old and
  5890. 3:29:56has perfectly good organs to donate
  5891. 3:29:59and i can't i can't call that shot he's
  5892. 3:30:02not an organ donor i had to say no so
  5893. 3:30:05that means there's someone out there
  5894. 3:30:06that could have used his organs but
  5895. 3:30:09we weren't prepared for this
  5896. 3:30:16[Applause]
  5897. 3:30:18i love you more than anything in this
  5898. 3:30:20world just like i loved cody grant and
  5899. 3:30:22dad i know dad was an [ __ ] i know
  5900. 3:30:25cody was an [ __ ]
  5901. 3:30:27but they were our family
  5902. 3:30:29and they would have never done anything
  5903. 3:30:30to hurt us
  5904. 3:30:32the [ __ ] you did
  5905. 3:30:34you could have been in jail you would
  5906. 3:30:36have been in jail for years
  5907. 3:30:41and they covered it up for you
  5908. 3:30:44i have a feeling the fbi is already
  5909. 3:30:47involved because no matter how much dad
  5910. 3:30:49can overcome the
  5911. 3:30:51money laundering
  5912. 3:30:53that's money that was moved
  5913. 3:30:56just because they gave it to you as a
  5914. 3:30:58gift
  5915. 3:30:59you that that you can't just claim gifts
  5916. 3:31:02as income
  5917. 3:31:03the fbi wants to know
  5918. 3:31:05what the [ __ ] is money being moved in
  5919. 3:31:07that amount
  5920. 3:31:17i'm sorry i i don't i don't believe you
  5921. 3:31:21and
  5922. 3:31:23i probably will have resentment for the
  5923. 3:31:26rest of my life whether you did it or
  5924. 3:31:27you didn't do it but
  5925. 3:31:30i need closure i need to know what
  5926. 3:31:33happened to my mother my father
  5927. 3:31:36and my brother cody
  5928. 3:31:38because i wasn't there to [ __ ] help
  5929. 3:31:43and that hurts me
  5930. 3:31:46that hurts me a lot man
  5931. 3:31:49i may not be able to stop you
  5932. 3:31:52you probably may have hurt me too
  5933. 3:31:56but at least i would have known what
  5934. 3:31:58happened
  5935. 3:31:59and now i'm in [ __ ] who knows what
  5936. 3:32:01now i'm lost
  5937. 3:32:04and it scares me that you want to leave
  5938. 3:32:07here and not face what happened because
  5939. 3:32:10you're putting my life at risk then
  5940. 3:32:12you're putting donna's life at risk
  5941. 3:32:14grandma's life how do we know what
  5942. 3:32:16you're going to do
  5943. 3:32:17what happened on the job interview last
  5944. 3:32:20friday it all sounded good it sounded
  5945. 3:32:23like everything was moving forward
  5946. 3:32:26now i was supposed to hear something on
  5947. 3:32:27tuesday or thursday
  5948. 3:32:29or this coming week and
  5949. 3:32:31nothing
  5950. 3:32:32it was just on friday
  5951. 3:32:36it was last friday so it's been a little
  5952. 3:32:38over a week no it was
  5953. 3:32:40just this friday
  5954. 3:32:42that's not possible
  5955. 3:32:44friday was yesterday yeah
  5956. 3:32:48so you're telling me you had a job
  5957. 3:32:49interview yesterday but you got kicked
  5958. 3:32:51out thursday night right
  5959. 3:32:53i had to get my suit and everything and
  5960. 3:32:55put it into the car
  5961. 3:32:59okay
  5962. 3:33:00where was your job interview
  5963. 3:33:02over on uh leave us
  5964. 3:33:04with
  5965. 3:33:05uh
  5966. 3:33:07something scripts so i mean so they'd be
  5967. 3:33:09able to verify that you were there for
  5968. 3:33:10an interview
  5969. 3:33:14i don't know
  5970. 3:33:15i'm gonna feel really bad this is just
  5971. 3:33:19i understand
  5972. 3:33:21i mean i really do
  5973. 3:33:23i understand all your thoughts and what
  5974. 3:33:24you're thinking and
  5975. 3:33:27and everything and this is just
  5976. 3:33:30um
  5977. 3:33:33you know i know what i did to everybody
  5978. 3:33:36over the months okay
  5979. 3:33:38i know you did and i know that you know
  5980. 3:33:42the hell of
  5981. 3:33:44dealing with it every single day and
  5982. 3:33:45when you're trying to move forward yeah
  5983. 3:33:48i code and all that stuff yep and i
  5984. 3:33:50understand it was probably harder for
  5985. 3:33:52you because you lived in the house i had
  5986. 3:33:53the option of getting out
  5987. 3:33:55which gave me the ability to
  5988. 3:34:00not have to deal with it on a daily
  5989. 3:34:01basis i understand the mental struggles
  5990. 3:34:05you went through with cody and dad
  5991. 3:34:07relationship you and dad's relationship
  5992. 3:34:09everybody's relationship in the family
  5993. 3:34:12you know
  5994. 3:34:13how smart everybody is in the family
  5995. 3:34:16when it comes to medical
  5996. 3:34:18information
  5997. 3:34:20and that's what scares me even more
  5998. 3:34:22about you
  5999. 3:34:27if you didn't do it then you have to
  6000. 3:34:30know
  6001. 3:34:31that someone else did it there is no way
  6002. 3:34:35that there were people out there looking
  6003. 3:34:37for our parents or brother
  6004. 3:34:40they had to have been looking for you
  6005. 3:34:42there's no way that mom dad or cody owed
  6006. 3:34:45anybody money had anybody
  6007. 3:34:48looking for them because of something
  6008. 3:34:50that they did
  6009. 3:34:52no i don't think that it's some money
  6010. 3:34:54shark or monger or somebody like that
  6011. 3:34:57right because nothing was stolen from
  6012. 3:34:59the house
  6013. 3:35:00so like people that are looking to
  6014. 3:35:02compensate for financial obligations
  6015. 3:35:05would have taken tvs computers jewelry
  6016. 3:35:09monetarily things
  6017. 3:35:12from what i've been advised that is not
  6018. 3:35:14the situation so
  6019. 3:35:17that believes that the people were
  6020. 3:35:20murdered
  6021. 3:35:21for the reason that they were in the way
  6022. 3:35:23of getting to something else
  6023. 3:35:27i just i don't understand why
  6024. 3:35:31i don't understand why it happened
  6025. 3:35:34i was taking my steps forward despite
  6026. 3:35:36everything that i was supposed to do
  6027. 3:35:39that i was supposed to be doing
  6028. 3:35:42the slip up was still communicating with
  6029. 3:35:45the woman but what were you allowed to
  6030. 3:35:47take when dad kicked you out
  6031. 3:35:49obviously your car basically my
  6032. 3:35:52possessions my cell phone my ipad my
  6033. 3:35:55surface
  6034. 3:35:56some clothes weapons
  6035. 3:35:58i don't have any weapons
  6036. 3:36:01so there's going to be no weapons in the
  6037. 3:36:02hotel that you were at last night no
  6038. 3:36:05weapons in the car
  6039. 3:36:07no weapons buried on the property no
  6040. 3:36:11i know i sold all my weapons when i was
  6041. 3:36:14trying to make money right yep i
  6042. 3:36:16remember my mom telling me that what
  6043. 3:36:20what about uh what
  6044. 3:36:27i don't know what else to say
  6045. 3:36:30but
  6046. 3:36:31i'm scared for you and i'm scared for
  6047. 3:36:33myself and
  6048. 3:36:36i don't feel comfortable with you being
  6049. 3:36:39around me alone i'm sorry
  6050. 3:36:43i could take you physically but if you
  6051. 3:36:46have a knife or know where a gun is
  6052. 3:36:49i'm [ __ ] and i have little girls that
  6053. 3:36:52i have to raise i have a woman that is
  6054. 3:36:55depending on me for the rest of my life
  6055. 3:37:01i understand
  6056. 3:37:06even if you didn't
  6057. 3:37:10it's gonna be so hard for me
  6058. 3:37:12to figure out what to do with you
  6059. 3:37:16you do not deserve jail
  6060. 3:37:19but i can't come to [ __ ] have
  6061. 3:37:21attorney press charges for you to be
  6062. 3:37:23killed
  6063. 3:37:28grant i need you
  6064. 3:37:31to be honest with me man
  6065. 3:37:34i need to have closure and if it doesn't
  6066. 3:37:36come from your mouth and i have to hear
  6067. 3:37:38it from an attorney or a law enforcement
  6068. 3:37:41or the news
  6069. 3:37:46it's going to be harder for me
  6070. 3:37:49and i know
  6071. 3:37:51if you can take mom and dad and cody's
  6072. 3:37:53life it's hard for you to
  6073. 3:37:55comprehend that my emotions are going to
  6074. 3:37:57be that but
  6075. 3:38:03it's unbelievably scary grant
  6076. 3:38:08and i
  6077. 3:38:09don't believe in god
  6078. 3:38:10i don't have a strong religious belief
  6079. 3:38:13but
  6080. 3:38:14i will pray
  6081. 3:38:16that this is solved justifiably because
  6082. 3:38:20it was not fair that mom cody and dad's
  6083. 3:38:23life were taken
  6084. 3:38:25they did not deserve it
  6085. 3:38:27no matter what feelings were felt by
  6086. 3:38:29anybody
  6087. 3:38:30they were good people
  6088. 3:38:34and they showed it
  6089. 3:38:36by protecting me all the time
  6090. 3:38:38but dad kicked you out so because i
  6091. 3:38:41still broke the rule and that it was
  6092. 3:38:43apparently dad's
  6093. 3:38:45job to be the hammer person or whatever
  6094. 3:38:47he would describe it as right i was told
  6095. 3:38:50that you would not be have access to be
  6096. 3:38:52able to contact this woman
  6097. 3:38:55why do you feel the intent to still
  6098. 3:38:56contact her
  6099. 3:38:58it was just
  6100. 3:38:59the whole emotional thing
  6101. 3:39:01i mean that's that's okay
  6102. 3:39:03so are you saying that you love the
  6103. 3:39:04woman
  6104. 3:39:05i
  6105. 3:39:06feel like i did yeah okay you feel like
  6106. 3:39:09you did so you don't feel that way now
  6107. 3:39:12well i mean now it's pretty much
  6108. 3:39:15you know i mean it's not what it used to
  6109. 3:39:17be is all i can say
  6110. 3:39:19because she's aware of what has happened
  6111. 3:39:22in the last several months right
  6112. 3:39:26so why do you feel the need to still
  6113. 3:39:27contact her
  6114. 3:39:29i don't know i mean it's
  6115. 3:39:32i don't know apart from
  6116. 3:39:36just like that feeling when you care for
  6117. 3:39:38somebody we've been with them for
  6118. 3:39:40however many months yo i know that
  6119. 3:39:42feeling so i mean i was just
  6120. 3:39:45you know i knew looking for closure
  6121. 3:39:47to some degree yeah and i knew that i
  6122. 3:39:49couldn't ever do any of the money stuff
  6123. 3:39:51anymore okay so i guess that was like
  6124. 3:39:55it hurt right
  6125. 3:39:56yeah yeah because you can't carry that
  6126. 3:39:58persona that you carried before
  6127. 3:40:02but you know the crazy part is
  6128. 3:40:04you're still the same person
  6129. 3:40:07you are still great a motto that i grew
  6130. 3:40:09up with for 17 years
  6131. 3:40:13that i played with
  6132. 3:40:15that we hate [ __ ] from dad so that we
  6133. 3:40:17didn't get in trouble who covered those
  6134. 3:40:20grenades mom
  6135. 3:40:21[Applause]
  6136. 3:40:24i just
  6137. 3:40:26i don't
  6138. 3:40:28i don't feel like we're getting anywhere
  6139. 3:40:29and i'm gonna be honest i don't feel
  6140. 3:40:32comfortable with you staying with me
  6141. 3:40:34i mean
  6142. 3:40:35if in a week or a couple days or 12
  6143. 3:40:38hours and something else is discovered
  6144. 3:40:40then
  6145. 3:40:41i might have a change of heart but i
  6146. 3:40:43have no other options in my head of
  6147. 3:40:45what's going on
  6148. 3:40:47especially if you're confirming that
  6149. 3:40:48there's nobody looking for you
  6150. 3:40:52and if you're saying that you ran away
  6151. 3:40:55or stay in the hotel because you were
  6152. 3:40:57forced to or you were told you couldn't
  6153. 3:40:58stay there
  6154. 3:41:03i i don't live there so i have no proof
  6155. 3:41:06the only people that live there are dead
  6156. 3:41:08so they can't say anything
  6157. 3:41:14but uh the moore called me this morning
  6158. 3:41:17so i have to make decisions for
  6159. 3:41:19mom cody and grant and dad in the next
  6160. 3:41:23several you know a couple days so uh
  6161. 3:41:28just letting you know that um
  6162. 3:41:32i'll be making those decisions
  6163. 3:41:34because
  6164. 3:41:35until i'm given verifiable information
  6165. 3:41:39that you did not do it i don't think you
  6166. 3:41:42have the right to make that decision
  6167. 3:41:45you already made the decision on whether
  6168. 3:41:47or not they can live or not
  6169. 3:41:52that's not your job
  6170. 3:41:57all right i'm ready
  6171. 3:42:00i do love you though just remember that
  6172. 3:42:03just like mom cody and dad loved you
  6173. 3:42:07nobody loved you anymore or any less
  6174. 3:42:14[Music]
  6175. 3:42:28i'm gonna pray for you brother
  6176. 3:42:30because i can't pray for mom dad and
  6177. 3:42:32cody anymore
  6178. 3:42:34be friends
  6179. 3:42:43you have anything else you need to talk
  6180. 3:42:45about before we
  6181. 3:42:46let you go
  6182. 3:42:48because now's your time you know that
  6183. 3:42:50like danny said once you're out of here
  6184. 3:42:54you there's no coming back from this
  6185. 3:42:56we're giving you every opportunity to
  6186. 3:42:58tell us what happened in that home that
  6187. 3:43:00you have not told us
  6188. 3:43:03so you're aware that when you leave here
  6189. 3:43:04you're not going to have any chance
  6190. 3:43:07to redeem yourself and tell us the truth
  6191. 3:43:09after the fact
  6192. 3:43:11and you're okay with that you can live
  6193. 3:43:12with yourself knowing that you're not
  6194. 3:43:14going to tell us the truth
  6195. 3:43:15i've said what i can say
  6196. 3:43:18okay
  6197. 3:43:32you ready man yeah question for you real
  6198. 3:43:34quick
  6199. 3:43:36you want to hurt yourself
  6200. 3:43:37you don't hurt anybody else no suicidal
  6201. 3:43:39thoughts
  6202. 3:43:40okay

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