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- 0:00no V please the P land Accord not
- 0:03speaking hi um I'm not really sure how
- 0:05to do this I'd like to do a welfare
- 0:07check
- 0:08on um he was a friend of M we work
- 0:11together he didn't show up for work
- 0:12today and nobody can get a hold of him
- 0:14if some going straight to voicemail and
- 0:16she's not like that at all he would
- 0:17never just not show up or not answer or
- 0:19not
- 0:20call prepare yourself for a descent into
- 0:23Obsession betrayal and cold-blooded
- 0:25murder this is the story of Grant Amato
- 0:29first meet the man himself then Sylvia
- 0:31venty slavova the Bulgarian webcam model
- 0:34Sylvie whose Allure drained over
- 0:36$200,000 from his family and ignited a
- 0:39deadly fuse it all unraveled here in
- 0:42this quiet Florida home where Grant's
- 0:45parents Chad and Margaret and his
- 0:47brother Cody thought they could save him
- 0:49but they were wrong next you'll hear the
- 0:52911 call from Cody's boss a plea that
- 0:55cracked open one of the most shocking
- 0:57crimes
- 0:58imaginable of Police Department on a
- 1:00recorded line This is
- 1:03terara hey Cara my name is I work at OMC
- 1:06downtown um I'm an anesthesia uh
- 1:09provider down here um I got an employee
- 1:12that uh has never missed a day work in
- 1:14about five days his phone is off um his
- 1:18brother also works here at the hospital
- 1:20his phone has been
- 1:22disconnected um I was wondering how I go
- 1:24about doing a wellness check on and just
- 1:26to make sure he's okay a we can s an
- 1:28officer out to the location do knew
- 1:30where he lives but Cody's boss wasn't
- 1:32the only one from his workplace to make
- 1:33a call that day no please the recorded
- 1:37not
- 1:38speaking hi um I'm not really sure how
- 1:41to do this I'd like to do a welfare
- 1:42check on somebody um he just a friend we
- 1:46work together he didn't show up for work
- 1:47today and nobody can get a hold of him
- 1:49in someone going straight to voicemail
- 1:51and he's not like that at all he would
- 1:53never just not show up or not answer or
- 1:55not call on January 25th 2019 at 9 17
- 2:00a.m. seol County deputies arrived at the
- 2:03Amato home in chilota Florida for a
- 2:05welfare check inside they found a grim
- 2:08scene Margaret Amato slumped at her desk
- 2:11shot in the head Chad Amato on the
- 2:13kitchen floor a bullet through his skull
- 2:16and Cody Amato in a storage room
- 2:18executed with a gun staged beside him
- 2:21the family's 1996 Honda Accord and Grant
- 2:24tomato were gone police tracked the car
- 2:27to a Double Tree hotel in Orlando
- 2:30arresting Grant at 7:45 a.m. on January
- 2:3426th brought to the seol county
- 2:36sheriff's office for
- 2:38interrogation I'm your host James Carver
- 2:41you're watching controversial crimes
- 2:45TV um full name my uh full name is Grant
- 2:49Tian Amato how do you spell ti t i e r
- 2:54and a I like that your date of birth um
- 2:58May 20th 19 1989 okay um home address
- 3:03home address is
- 3:09211 you have bun of uh school debt
- 3:13school I mean not anything from UCF I
- 3:15have about $100,000 I'd say from my math
- 3:19when I was going to Barry MH so that's
- 3:22the only school debt that I have right
- 3:24now um it kind of creeped back up when I
- 3:27wasn't working so I wasn't I had to go
- 3:28on to the deferred payment or whatever
- 3:30it's going so I get a
- 3:32job how long you been out of work I've
- 3:34been out of work for 6 months since June
- 3:37how did you pay that's a lot of money
- 3:38for to be out of work my brother oh yeah
- 3:41yeah my brother what does he do he's
- 3:42he's the CRNA what sorry the the
- 3:46certified registered nurse in esst okay
- 3:48what you were what you what we were both
- 3:50in the program together and then he was
- 3:52able to finish and then I did not so he
- 3:54was making good money yeah yeah yeah was
- 3:55he making that 150 he was working he was
- 3:59a lot I mean I don't know if he was I
- 4:01think he was cusping a lot of overtime
- 4:03not scheduled but like it's just kind of
- 4:05what happens um but yeah he was moving
- 4:08along what do you think he made his best
- 4:10year God he showed me cuz he was uh he
- 4:14want he was complaining about how like
- 4:18his taxes alone were like the annual
- 4:20income of like a nurse and I think when
- 4:23he showed me before like it had all
- 4:25ended like the uh before his pay year
- 4:28had ended MH that he was already up to
- 4:31like 166 but that was like after I think
- 4:34the $60,000 or $40,000 already came out
- 4:38I can't remember that was after it yeah
- 4:40I think so so he made more than 160s
- 4:42that was take on yeah wow yeah and I
- 4:45mean i' had been being told that cuz
- 4:48again it's like this last six or seven
- 4:49months was just like stressful for
- 4:50everybody sure and you know countless
- 4:54times my dad would like come up to me
- 4:57and he'd make like me feel like he try
- 5:01and use things and word things to make
- 5:03me feel guilty so that I would you know
- 5:06do everything that I can like get a job
- 5:08almost like a motivation right uh and
- 5:11he' he'd tell me time and time again
- 5:13that you know you're her favorite I mean
- 5:15she would do anything for you MH and I
- 5:18mean it's like yeah I don't need to hear
- 5:20that I mean that's not what would
- 5:21motivate me sure um but no with
- 5:24Mom I think we yelled at each other a
- 5:27grand total of like three or four times
- 5:29my whole life
- 5:30um I've never like yelled at
- 5:33her for anything because I mean she's
- 5:35never done anything wrong she's always
- 5:36been the one who's stood by you stood by
- 5:39me but tried you know even during our
- 5:41early childhood when it was really rough
- 5:44with our dad uh that my dad's a Leo type
- 5:48A Italian personality man he's very
- 5:53focused on his
- 5:56future um he's very focused on
- 5:59everything that he's sacrificed in his
- 6:01life for the better betterment of all of
- 6:04us um you know like he's always dreamed
- 6:07of going hiking up in the mountains they
- 6:08have a property up in Tennessee that
- 6:09they built and you been there I've
- 6:12actually me and Cody and Jason have
- 6:14never been up to that house just cuzin
- 6:16Mom and Dad hide that from you that's
- 6:17our our secret Hideway a little bit no
- 6:19kids allowed a little bit but I mean
- 6:21they have you seen the picture oh yeah
- 6:23yeah kind of place is you know Dad ever
- 6:25abuse you when we were younger um how so
- 6:29SP ings with like a 2x4 and then you
- 6:32know he'd he'd use like uh I mean it was
- 6:34like a 2x4 that was fashioned into a
- 6:37paddle called the lightning the
- 6:39lightning rod I think is what it was
- 6:40called no he he broke it on me uh I'd be
- 6:44sorry I would probably say with my dad
- 6:46take it out and burn it yeah so he
- 6:47didn't have it anymore but um yeah he
- 6:51would
- 6:53um you know he'd do that and then he'd
- 6:55push you around like he wouldn't he
- 6:56wouldn't punch you he wouldn't bruise
- 6:58you slap you he never slapped me but I
- 7:02guess I should say the only place that I
- 7:03ever got bruised was on my butt from
- 7:05from being spanked belittle you he would
- 7:08belittle me when I was younger but again
- 7:10how has you been out of work
- 7:12[Music]
- 7:17um no I mean not really he would just
- 7:20make me feel bad
- 7:23that like he would make me feel bad that
- 7:25Cody's doing all this stuff to like um
- 7:28and you're not and I'm not like I'm not
- 7:30contributing you're not as not
- 7:32as valuable maybe maybe that's not the
- 7:35word word but you're you're not you're
- 7:37not said contributing enough to what
- 7:38needs to be done when was the last time
- 7:40your dad put his hands on
- 7:43you uh the last time my dad put his
- 7:46hands on me would
- 7:51be I'd
- 7:55say kind of the middle of December of
- 7:592018
- 8:00what happened it's because um you know
- 8:04with all the money that had been getting
- 8:05spent and uh I guess just the mix of
- 8:10everything that I've been saying just
- 8:11kind of boiling up in him um and the
- 8:14fact that I was to him it seemed like I
- 8:17wasn't concerned about it so and then
- 8:20plus I was you know I wasn't acting like
- 8:22myself with the jovial and you know all
- 8:24that kind of stuff um my father chose to
- 8:30admit me to like a like an a depression
- 8:33or an addiction clinic or something like
- 8:35that in Fort Lauderdale called
- 8:37Cornerstone when was that that was
- 8:39December
- 8:4122nd okay until I think uh January 4th
- 8:46did you agree to go I I didn't but they
- 8:48said that you know this was your only
- 8:51who said my dad okay and that was in PT
- 8:53Lauderdale yes yeah did your mom agree
- 8:56to with it my mom and my brother both
- 8:58agreed but it was my dad who was like
- 9:01the Iron Fist like this is what's going
- 9:03to happen like you know he can't why did
- 9:05he say he needed to go what was his
- 9:06reasoning because uh with the way that I
- 9:10was acting he just he didn't see that I
- 9:14was doing anything for like the
- 9:16positive um you know and a lot of it
- 9:19just came back to money uh with
- 9:22him uh he would he would like allow me
- 9:26to to spend money that he had uh like
- 9:29with credit card or something like that
- 9:31but it's like then whenever I did it was
- 9:34like a huge problem okay so you had one
- 9:37of his credit cards yeah and what were
- 9:39you buying with it uh well what I was
- 9:41doing is um over the
- 9:45past four months or something like that
- 9:47I've been I've been talking to this
- 9:48woman online who is she uh she's is
- 9:52embarrassing as it is she's a she's a
- 9:54cam she's a cam Model A what a cam model
- 9:57you guys know whate uh just like all the
- 10:00video you have to tell us a cam model
- 10:02it's like they they it's like a virtual
- 10:06girlfriend I guess you would say okay
- 10:08like that type of situation mhm so a lot
- 10:11of the money went to her okay where's
- 10:12she at she lives in Bulgaria where
- 10:16Bulgaria where's that it's over in
- 10:18Europe it's like outside of Germany okay
- 10:20something like that you ever been there
- 10:21no okay um there wasn't there wasn't
- 10:23that serious so what would you give her
- 10:24money for um just for like the time
- 10:27online with her okay yeah so it was just
- 10:30like that type of thing and what did she
- 10:31charge by the minute by the hour minute
- 10:34okay and how much ises it per minute oh
- 10:36God I think it was
- 10:38like it was like 90 tokens a minute and
- 10:43it's like the conversion rate for all of
- 10:44that
- 10:46is like $600 for like a like 5,000 or
- 10:53something tokens or something like that
- 10:54so and then it was 4 hours a night um so
- 10:59I mean it's I mean that's basically just
- 11:00where all like the cost went to was you
- 11:02pay real money for the tokens then you
- 11:04use the company's digital currency for
- 11:07for that so you do that and when did you
- 11:09meet her I met her
- 11:11[Music]
- 11:14um at the beginning of July yeah at the
- 11:18very beginning of July okay and and
- 11:22still talking to her still yeah I mean
- 11:24more just on uh like Twitter like just
- 11:26through direct messaging um again phone
- 11:29service doesn't work so it's like I
- 11:30can't use the the chatting like that how
- 11:33much do you think you spent on this cuz
- 11:35it seems kind of pricey yeah 90 tokens
- 11:38and and $5,000 for for how many
- 11:42tokens no no it's uh $600 for for 5,000
- 11:46for 5,000 okay so how much you think you
- 11:48spent this probably close
- 11:55to like
- 11:57$200,000 I'd say
- 12:00$200,000 yeah and where did the money
- 12:02come from money came from me uh my
- 12:06brother and then my
- 12:08dad did they know where the money was
- 12:09going to they didn't know that it was
- 12:11going to uh a cam a cam autel I was
- 12:15saying that it was going towards my
- 12:17Twitch streaming uh
- 12:20like yeah like advertising like putting
- 12:22my name out there and that that type of
- 12:24thing but based on what you're telling
- 12:26me only so many people make so much
- 12:28money I think just a few in make a bunch
- 12:31of money so that that was like the
- 12:33ultimate goal is to get to that I was
- 12:35hoping that that the Stars would align
- 12:37and then I would be like one of those
- 12:38people because I was good at the games
- 12:40and I you know I'm a like a funny
- 12:42pleasant person on the camera and that
- 12:44type of thing so um yeah I mean that's
- 12:49so I guess to like bring it all back
- 12:51with why I was brought to
- 12:53Cornerstone uh it was a mix of all of
- 12:56those things it's like he felt like
- 12:59you know I
- 13:01um he felt like you need to be grounded
- 13:04yeah yeah and so then I was there you
- 13:07know I spoke to like the therapist and
- 13:09psychiatrist and all that stuff I didn't
- 13:11need any medications for anything they
- 13:13had analyzed it as this is an isolated
- 13:16event you've been out of work you have
- 13:18this PTSD from the whole getting
- 13:21arrested thing and I mean the last thing
- 13:23on my record was I think a speeding
- 13:25ticket back when I was at UCF MH and
- 13:27then you know just having all of that
- 13:30stuff going
- 13:31on
- 13:33um but then I didn't they had signed me
- 13:36they had signed me up I think to be
- 13:38there for 60 days but then I was only
- 13:40there until January 4th so who paid for
- 13:42that my brother Cody what was the cost
- 13:44of that to$ 15,000 it was
- 13:47$115,000 and then I think uh when I had
- 13:51gotten back we were going through the
- 13:52process of calling them and seeing if we
- 13:54get any type of refund and I think they
- 13:56said that he was going to get refunded
- 13:57$3,000 from his
- 13:59sure um there so long right right but I
- 14:02don't know if that transaction had ever
- 14:04gone through yet so their final
- 14:06diagnosis of you was what that I was
- 14:08fine that didn't need to be there yeah
- 14:10that I was I was fine I told them all
- 14:12about like my living situation and how
- 14:15it had been stressful and then it got
- 14:16better and then now it's just stressful
- 14:18again but they had all just said that it
- 14:20was just this isolated event situational
- 14:22PTSD from right yeah like once once you
- 14:25can get this legal thing taken care of
- 14:27which I I don't know if I mentioned but
- 14:29when we looked online and we saw that
- 14:31all the charges have been dropped that
- 14:32was on like November 30th or 31st the
- 14:35day before we were going to Japan M so
- 14:38while that was good and everything um I
- 14:40still knew that it was still going to be
- 14:43like on your record until you get it
- 14:44expunged so you know I was still
- 14:47thinking okay at least now I can maybe
- 14:49start applying when we get back from
- 14:51Japan um but you
- 14:55know yeah so I mean after you get back
- 14:59you got back on the 15th of December of
- 15:04December you got back I thought you said
- 15:07you went on the 22nd December that's
- 15:10when that's when I went to yeah it was
- 15:11after Japan and it was because when I
- 15:14had gotten back my um my mom and dad
- 15:18were you know dealing with a lot of the
- 15:19financial stuff while we were up there
- 15:21MH and then um when I got back that's
- 15:25where my dad started to get really kind
- 15:27of overbearing and I mean right so I
- 15:29know what I did but it's like with him
- 15:32it was every single day hours a day
- 15:34excuse me hours a day he'd come home
- 15:36from work and then he would just talk to
- 15:39me just about the same exact thing over
- 15:41and over and over and over and over
- 15:42again and did he get did it get heated
- 15:45he would get heated but how about you
- 15:47you get heated no I mean I was you know
- 15:49I I was always the person in the family
- 15:51where like my brother Cody would
- 15:53interrupt my dad when he was talking uh
- 15:55my mom would interject and say you can't
- 15:58be saying that or whatever ever but for
- 15:59me I would just sit there and I would
- 16:00just let my dad talk so that he could
- 16:02say everything that he wanted to say um
- 16:04and then if I saw that it was something
- 16:06that he wanted me to respond to then I'd
- 16:07respond but I would never be heed to him
- 16:10sure especially if I felt like I was in
- 16:11the wrong right um do all you think you
- 16:13were in the wrong I mean yeah to some
- 16:16some extent to some extent you know uh
- 16:18spending that amount of money it's
- 16:19idiotic to do that you know especially
- 16:21when you're not making 200,000 right
- 16:24when was the last time that you and your
- 16:25dad did have you know a heated convers
- 16:29ation uh it would
- 16:30be Thursday Thursday uh
- 16:34because one of his rules was that I
- 16:37wasn't allowed to talk to the woman
- 16:38anymore that I had been talking to um
- 16:42but I guess you could say behind the
- 16:44scenes my mom would let me talk to her
- 16:47through her cell phone using Twitter um
- 16:51and you know she would tell me like look
- 16:54you got to keep it you have to keep it
- 16:56just basic because if you say anything
- 16:59or if you entice anything or do anything
- 17:01like that it might lead her
- 17:05to say something to like my dad or
- 17:07something like that because why would
- 17:08she get in touch with him because
- 17:10apparently when I was in Cornerstone my
- 17:12dad told her cuz cuz he had like hacked
- 17:16my computer or something like that and
- 17:18then he found everything Electronics guy
- 17:19like you and your brother except he's
- 17:21more of that like hacking level like
- 17:23able to do all that stuff so he had
- 17:25found you know um like just the stuff
- 17:29that was related to her and
- 17:32then you know he like he like erased my
- 17:35whole entire computer he put a password
- 17:37on it so it's like even when I came back
- 17:39up until Thursday like I wasn't able to
- 17:41go on my own computer to look at
- 17:43anything say he's treating you like a
- 17:44small child right and rightfully so I
- 17:47mean spending that amount of I was
- 17:49acting childish I I can kind of get it
- 17:52but um so yeah anyways on Thursday he
- 17:55had apparently found out that I was
- 17:58speaking to to her again and when I came
- 18:01back on the 4th me my mom picked me up
- 18:04from the Cornerstone place and then me
- 18:07and my mom met my dad at California
- 18:09Pizza griller Kitchen in Waterford Lakes
- 18:13and he had this list front and back on a
- 18:15piece of paper of all the rules this is
- 18:18what's going to happen this is why I'm
- 18:20acting the way that I'm going to act I'm
- 18:21not going to be dad anymore I'm going to
- 18:23be Chad and I basically told him that
- 18:28I'm going to be I'm going to be present
- 18:30I'm going to do what I can I'm going to
- 18:32start to try and get jobs now I told him
- 18:33what my plan was um you know it wasn't
- 18:37really my intention to continue talking
- 18:39to this woman but it just kind of
- 18:42happened um and then because there was
- 18:45like that emotional connection I guess
- 18:46you could say uh between her and me like
- 18:49I I like you know it felt like like like
- 18:52a relationship you know I didn't want to
- 18:53just stop cold turkey on it um so he had
- 18:58apparently found found out and
- 19:00then right and one of the stipulations
- 19:02was that he told me at the dinner was if
- 19:05you speak to this woman again you're out
- 19:07of the house I'm kicking you out you can
- 19:10pack up your [ __ ] and then you're off my
- 19:12property MH and then because of the way
- 19:15that he used to be he had told me
- 19:18that basically if that happens that if I
- 19:22ever step back onto his property that he
- 19:24would kill me so you know on Thursday
- 19:30um um that all happened and then I was
- 19:33in the process I was getting all my
- 19:35stuff together I was peace mealing it
- 19:37out to the car and then uh you know I
- 19:41had interview on Friday so I I had to
- 19:44get my suit out of my car I was trying
- 19:45to just get all of my Necessities as
- 19:47best as I could from you know a lifetime
- 19:49of living inside the house and then
- 19:54um
- 19:55um my brother was working that night and
- 19:59I think he was working like one of his
- 20:00long nights but he ended up getting off
- 20:02early and then I had met with my brother
- 20:05before he came home just like in the
- 20:07neighborhood area and then it was just
- 20:11on the uh like the back side of the
- 20:14house like a I don't remember what that
- 20:15Road's called but it's like you take the
- 20:16bend where it has those two blinking
- 20:18lights and then it's just down that road
- 20:21away not for
- 20:23Christmas is it for Christmas when you
- 20:25still turn the corner I think so I'm not
- 20:28I think so well it was yeah it was just
- 20:31it was just down that road okay um and
- 20:34then I basically brought him up to speed
- 20:37and he had told me that he was going to
- 20:39do whatever what time was that you
- 20:41think uh God what time was that what
- 20:44what time you go to back up a second I
- 20:46apologize you Mom and Dad go to
- 20:49California Pizza Kitchen in Waterford at
- 20:51what time oh that was all the way back
- 20:53on January
- 20:554th oh you said Thursday no that wasn't
- 20:57Thursday no no that was that was when I
- 20:59had come back from Cornerstone and he
- 21:01was giving me the the rules okay okay
- 21:04then do Thursday then that well what
- 21:06happened with that that Thursday that
- 21:07you meet with Cody down the street this
- 21:09is this past Thursday yes okay tell me
- 21:11tell me about that after you and your
- 21:12dad argue after me and my dad had argued
- 21:15and he had told me you know this is how
- 21:17it's going to be and you know all that
- 21:19stuff okay um this is at the house this
- 21:21past Thursday yeah yeah okay cuz this is
- 21:24what now Saturday so yeah past Thursday
- 21:27I guess you can still say
- 21:29um so then yeah I spoke with Cody he
- 21:33told me about all that he had given me
- 21:36his debit so that because I mean I don't
- 21:39have any money and I don't know where to
- 21:40go you know I've never been out of the
- 21:42house on my own um and then the last
- 21:44thing that I was told was just that you
- 21:46know basically once again that he'll
- 21:47take care of it because this is Cody
- 21:49this is Cody what time what time is this
- 21:52approximately I'd say a little
- 21:55after 10 10:30ish at night
- 21:59Thursday night Thursday night okay
- 22:03um and
- 22:05then yeah so then after that I just like
- 22:09[Music]
- 22:10stayed in that a in the vicinity area
- 22:14for a number of hours and then I had
- 22:17remembered over some of the nights when
- 22:19I would work overnight but then I'd be
- 22:20able to come like get off early MH that
- 22:23I could that the Publix's on 50 on
- 22:26Colonial the one that's by Tractor
- 22:28Supply 49 yes yeah mhm that that public
- 22:32it's like their guest Wi-Fi is always
- 22:33still active even when the store closes
- 22:35down so I was like okay well I'm going
- 22:36to go there cuz I have my Surface um and
- 22:39I can you know check on my emails I had
- 22:41to pull up the address to my interview
- 22:43because I don't have GPS um so then I
- 22:46would like write all that stuff down and
- 22:48then um I was basically just waiting in
- 22:52that parking lot until I had to leave to
- 22:55go to the
- 22:56interview um you were scared of what
- 22:59being on your own or did your father say
- 23:02or do anything to scare you he had
- 23:04threatened me that if I stepped foot
- 23:06back on his property not the house but
- 23:08if I steep foot back on his property
- 23:09that he would kill me and like he had he
- 23:11said those specific words yes did you
- 23:13tell that to Cody that your father told
- 23:15you that no I didn't so you're afraid of
- 23:18him oh yeah you you are actually afraid
- 23:21that he could kill you yeah and it's
- 23:23also because like in the
- 23:26past like two weeks before I got kicked
- 23:30out my dad was going through like a lot
- 23:32of episodes where he was losing his
- 23:35temper a lot yelling a lot especially
- 23:37when me and Cody weren't at the house
- 23:39and um who's he yelling at my mom so was
- 23:42he being violent to your mom yeah like I
- 23:44think physically or just emotionally
- 23:47both put his hands on her he had bruised
- 23:49her left arm by grabbing it um and then
- 23:53apparently she had said that on one of
- 23:55the nights that um they were in the
- 23:58kitchen kit together and then he was
- 24:00like throwing food at her and then
- 24:01banged her head against the wall a
- 24:03couple times so and I'm not let me speak
- 24:06bad of your dad but he's kind of a
- 24:07violent guy he's yeah I mean you have a
- 24:09reason to be afraid of him and then the
- 24:11thing that I was getting to was that
- 24:13apparently my mom was so scared at one
- 24:15point cuz it had been a while since he
- 24:17had been like this that she had taken
- 24:20like a couple or number of voice memos
- 24:23on her phone whenever he would like come
- 24:26in and then start like she knew that you
- 24:28know something like he was going to
- 24:29start to get upset and that on multiple
- 24:33occasions um he had told her that if you
- 24:37or he had told her that basically if I
- 24:39[ __ ] up sorry for the language but that
- 24:41if I if I screw up he's going to kill me
- 24:44and then he's going to kill her he said
- 24:47those specific because he blames
- 24:49everything that happens negatively with
- 24:51me and with Jason not with Cody but with
- 24:53me and Jason on her because we're her
- 24:57favorites you have a reasonable belief
- 25:01in your mind that your dad could could
- 25:02hurt you yes he could hurt your mom yes
- 25:05he could baby hurt Jason yes he's a
- 25:09violent guy I'm sorry I've been this a
- 25:10long time he sounds like a violent guy
- 25:12yeah quick to lose his temper with you
- 25:14over minuscule stuff minuscule stuff
- 25:16yeah I get the point he's upset about
- 25:17the amount of money I do get that but
- 25:21physically he's abusive yeah and it's
- 25:24kind of embarrassing as you're an adult
- 25:25male right now he's been abusive you for
- 25:27years has he not yeah I mean more more
- 25:30mentally over the course but it has been
- 25:34to the point where you as a 29y old male
- 25:37right 29 29 that you're afraid that your
- 25:39father could kill you yeah and I mean
- 25:42again it's
- 25:44like you know at the house I mean I have
- 25:47like no access to anything so I mean
- 25:49it's literally just like me and you know
- 25:51I like I told you access to anything you
- 25:53mean what like you know anything to
- 25:55defend myself you know like I the gun
- 25:58sold all my guns you so does does Cody
- 26:00have guns in the house he does but
- 26:02they're like locked up somewhere dad
- 26:04have guns in the house again yeah but
- 26:06they're locked up somewhere and you
- 26:08don't have access to them I don't even
- 26:09have a house key um I don't have a house
- 26:11key I don't have any keys to the the the
- 26:13doors inside the house all I had was my
- 26:16car key that's all that he gave me and
- 26:17that night when you argued with your
- 26:19father and he said he grabbed your shirt
- 26:22and pulled you off the couch did he do
- 26:23anything else to you physically no no he
- 26:26didn't like pursue it anymore he was did
- 26:28you tell Cody that he acted that way
- 26:30towards you Cody had no idea that there
- 26:32was a heated physical just the argument
- 26:36that you needed to get out because you
- 26:38were talking to this girl right
- 26:41okay as a as a child always told the
- 26:44truth always is the best thing to do
- 26:46correct correct you agree with me yeah
- 26:49and accidents happen and things in the
- 26:50Heat of the Moment things happen that we
- 26:54wish hadn't happened but we make I I do
- 26:56it myself sometimes my kids would make
- 26:57me so aggravate I'll snap at him and
- 26:59then walk away and say wow I wish I
- 27:01would not have done that that was not
- 27:02very adult of me to to snap at my child
- 27:05for something yes they're wrong but I
- 27:08should be the adult and not snap at
- 27:12them tell me what you think because I I
- 27:14can tell by I've done this for a long
- 27:16long time and I read people the way they
- 27:18act and the way they they talk to me and
- 27:20the way they answer
- 27:21questions there's something you want to
- 27:23tell us I can see it in your eyes I can
- 27:25see it in your body language and just
- 27:27your
- 27:29the way you act Now's the Time Now's the
- 27:33Time if there's something you want to
- 27:34get off your chest and give us an
- 27:36explanation of what's bothering you now
- 27:38is the exact time to do it and I I I'm
- 27:41giving you that
- 27:42opportunity um right now to tell me some
- 27:45something you want to get off your chest
- 27:47it's there I can see it in your face I
- 27:48can see in your eyes kept out about that
- 27:50night you're upset about you're upset
- 27:51about it you've been that since we've
- 27:53talked to you I can see there's
- 27:54something's been bothering you even
- 27:55though I don't know you from Adam's
- 27:56house can't you see things in people
- 27:58that something really bother this guy
- 28:00it's not that you know I spent a bunch
- 28:02of money I shouldn't have on this girl
- 28:04so be it you did it's over with money
- 28:06can be made back something to bother you
- 28:09I'm just worried about what is all
- 28:12transpiring from this I I think at this
- 28:15point right now to be honest with you
- 28:16grant you know what it is um it's it's
- 28:20in your eyes your your eyes is is the
- 28:23view to your soul and it's in your eyes
- 28:26and it sounds stupid and people don't
- 28:29believe
- 28:30it like I told you out there in the car
- 28:32did I not tell you you may not like what
- 28:34I say but I'm going tell you the truth
- 28:35I'm going to tell you the truth every
- 28:36time because I can walk in walk in in
- 28:38front of anybody in God and say I don't
- 28:40care I told him the truth and we usually
- 28:43know answers before we ask it I I KN we
- 28:47me and Eva knew everything before before
- 28:50um we asked you the
- 28:53questions Now's the Time to come to
- 28:55Jesus be honest cuz you're holding
- 28:57something back I can see it in your
- 28:59eyes people don't believe that the
- 29:01police will help you but we are actually
- 29:03here to help you with issues you may
- 29:06have um I think something happened and
- 29:10you don't want to tell us but right now
- 29:12is the time to get it off your chest and
- 29:14I really wish you would because it will
- 29:16make you feel better in the end I I
- 29:19genuinely don't have anything else that
- 29:22I can say about the night or you know
- 29:25the the periods of time afterwards
- 29:27there's only there's only one
- 29:32opportunity
- 29:34to make that that good
- 29:37impression and if we've done something
- 29:40we shouldn't have done you fess up there
- 29:42you caught your hand a cookie jar you
- 29:44you do
- 29:46it now is there anything else that
- 29:48happened at the house that you didn't
- 29:49tell us that you've left out or we
- 29:51haven't asked you that would be of
- 29:53importance or during the time that you
- 29:55drove around for those few hours
- 29:58did you ever really go back to the house
- 30:00that you haven't told us about something
- 30:02that something that happened that caused
- 30:05you to defend yourself no because again
- 30:08it's like I didn't have I didn't have
- 30:10any means to defend myself I mean I
- 30:12didn't
- 30:14well we know from talking to that
- 30:17there's there's weapons in the house
- 30:19right we know that to be to be to be a
- 30:22fact something happened that caused you
- 30:26to defend yourself whether you had
- 30:28anything or not you found something to
- 30:30defend yourself
- 30:32with I can't tell you everything I'm not
- 30:34going to tell you
- 30:36everything but something happened
- 30:39whether your dad blew up on
- 30:41you threatened you physically harmed you
- 30:45or hurt
- 30:46you something happened that caused an
- 30:50altercation and I I didn't do anything
- 30:53at the house besides get my stuff
- 30:56together and take it out to my car
- 30:58Now's the Time now now is the time so
- 31:01what do you think happened be
- 31:04honest I think that there was something
- 31:07that obviously happened at the house
- 31:10tell me what happened I don't know what
- 31:12happened I know better listen to me I
- 31:16know better I can help you grant with
- 31:19honesty I can help you with honesty we
- 31:22think something else happened before you
- 31:24left the home that you're either afraid
- 31:26of or embarrassed to talk
- 31:29about but we need to know exactly what
- 31:32happened because like Danny said we can
- 31:34place you there at certain
- 31:36times and so we need to know what
- 31:38happened before you left that house
- 31:40because you didn't leave with everything
- 31:42being
- 31:43okay I I honestly I don't I don't have
- 31:46anything else that I can really say I
- 31:48mean I don't I don't know do you even
- 31:50know why law enforcement got
- 31:55involved like what what brought us to
- 31:57that home
- 31:58no
- 31:59I you just said it you know something
- 32:02bad happened there out of your voice not
- 32:04mine I didn't I have not told you
- 32:06anything what's happened there something
- 32:08bad happened you're here with us for a
- 32:10couple hours you you admit that you've
- 32:13looked at at a site and seen something
- 32:16bad happen because the video is not of
- 32:19just a general area it's of a specific
- 32:21location correct yeah I saw I saw like a
- 32:24a driveway or something whose driveway
- 32:26did you say
- 32:30I don't know I saw like like there was
- 32:32like a gate there was a gate and then I
- 32:34saw like that there was like two cars
- 32:36but then I didn't see anything past that
- 32:39okay well was that driveway and gate
- 32:41your
- 32:42home I I honestly did not fixate on it
- 32:46for like a long period of time I saw
- 32:48like the one with an actual like
- 32:50gate you've been here with us you think
- 32:54something bad has happened at your house
- 32:56and to date so long you haven't any ACC
- 32:59us about anybody well that's because for
- 33:02the like the last time that I was
- 33:04arrested I mean like nobody would tell
- 33:06me anything I'm once you start telling
- 33:09me something that's truthful that I
- 33:12know then we're going to have a
- 33:14conversation of exactly what happened I
- 33:16mean you're a smart guy you know
- 33:18something's happened at your home you
- 33:20have law enforcement here you haven't
- 33:22heard or gotten any email I mean I'm
- 33:25just scared as to what the answer is
- 33:29well you need to help yourself by
- 33:31filling in the blanks of what happened
- 33:32that night so we can give you the
- 33:36answer well we got called to the house
- 33:38because Cody didn't show up to
- 33:41work so law enforcement goes over there
- 33:45and can you tell us what we found
- 33:58what do you think we found when law
- 33:59enforcement arrived at your home uh I
- 34:02mean you guys are talking about guns and
- 34:04you're talking about other things
- 34:13that
- 34:17uh and then the uh the website and
- 34:21everything that something happened to
- 34:23him who's him Cody
- 34:31did you do anything to Cody no did you
- 34:34do anything to your mother no did you do
- 34:36anything to your father
- 34:40no you have any reason to believe that
- 34:43anybody else would harm
- 34:47them no the only thing that I was told
- 34:49was that Cody would take care of it for
- 34:51me that's all that I know but you didn't
- 34:54tell Cody what your father said to you
- 34:56correct correct
- 34:58so when Cody made those comments to you
- 35:00what do you believe he meant by that
- 35:03have you guys ever talked
- 35:05about that he was going
- 35:07to I thought he was just going to do
- 35:10what he always does which is where he
- 35:12just talks about it and he figures out
- 35:15whatever strategy he needs to so if
- 35:17anything happened in the home to bring
- 35:19law enforcement there what would you
- 35:21think
- 35:24happened that there was a shooting
- 35:29between whom I don't
- 35:33know between Cody and and my
- 35:39dad and why would you think
- 35:43that to protect me or to help me or to
- 35:46do something with
- 35:50me so you're telling me you did not
- 35:52shoot Cody your father or your mother no
- 36:00I mean I don't know like what more I can
- 36:02say Well when law enforcement arrived
- 36:05that's what they
- 36:10found so you're the only outstanding
- 36:13child you're the one that's been having
- 36:15problems with your dad you're the one
- 36:17that we haven't been able to find for
- 36:19two days do you understand now why would
- 36:22we would be questioning you about this
- 36:24yeah but I mean I wouldn't
- 36:27like I mean I wouldn't be saying like
- 36:30all like I don't know the way to I I I
- 36:34don't I don't I don't know like what he
- 36:36even
- 36:38say we're trying to see if there's
- 36:40anything else that you've left out
- 36:42during the night from when you first
- 36:45came home and confronted your father or
- 36:48when he confronted you until the time
- 36:50you
- 36:51left that you've not told
- 36:55us there's no was
- 36:59nothing
- 37:02uh there was
- 37:05nothing to that level of Confrontation
- 37:08between him and
- 37:11I so if anything happened in the home
- 37:13you believe it would be Cody and him yes
- 37:17cuz I was I mean I don't
- 37:20I I I don't have you know access to
- 37:24anything
- 37:29well I can tell you from what we R out
- 37:30now because you know what the news has
- 37:32said correct you know what the news has
- 37:34said I I only know that first story that
- 37:37I saw and then I didn't look again and
- 37:40what what did the first story say that
- 37:42there was a shooting in the sultan
- 37:44circle area and the investigation is
- 37:48ongoing okay and what do they say they
- 37:49say the status of the people inside the
- 37:51house what they say cuz all the news
- 37:52have reported the same thing every one
- 37:54of them the sheriff has has held a press
- 37:56conference the sheriff has providing
- 37:57information to the media let me this is
- 38:00exactly what happened and I already I
- 38:02already know I'll be honest I already
- 38:03know isn't my first rodo she's been
- 38:05doing we've been doing this what between
- 38:07the two of us 50 years over 50 years
- 38:10marriage over 50 years I've seen what is
- 38:13it you need to tell us that we're
- 38:15missing step over I mean the only thing
- 38:19that I know is just
- 38:21that I mean I I uh left the house later
- 38:25than what I had
- 38:26said um
- 38:28um J did you leave the house with your
- 38:32brother Cody looking like
- 38:35that or did you leave the house with
- 38:37your father looking like that or your
- 38:40mother is that how you left your
- 38:44family
- 38:47no nobody nobody else went into that
- 38:50house who left your family like this if
- 38:53you were the one that's been depressed
- 38:54you were the one that owes money you
- 38:56were the one that got into a
- 38:56confrontation with your father who did
- 38:59this to your
- 39:02family if you were trying to defend
- 39:05yourself or something else happened we
- 39:07need to know now to help
- 39:11you so tell us what happened
- 39:15Grant we're here to listen to you grant
- 39:18you need the truth we're we're here to
- 39:20make this
- 39:22right you got to tell the truth it's on
- 39:24the tip of your tongue my man I get that
- 39:27did your father go after you and you try
- 39:29to protect yourself no I didn't do any
- 39:32of
- 39:38this there there's something that's
- 39:40going to come
- 39:42up that
- 39:44that is going to make this all come
- 39:47real I'd rather it come from you than
- 39:51have to do it that way the evidence
- 39:53tells us what happened you have to fill
- 39:55in the blanks they can't tell me what
- 39:57happened F fact I know she she never she
- 40:01never held a gun she didn't have a gun
- 40:03that night fact he never fired a gun
- 40:07fact he never fired a gun never did this
- 40:11is the person right here mom who always
- 40:14stuck up for you something happened so
- 40:17bad that caused her death your dad's
- 40:20death and Cody and I I'll I'll tell you
- 40:22just about how it happened one two three
- 40:25based on evidence based on evidence I
- 40:29know he did not shoot your mom I know he
- 40:31didn't shoot your dad I know he didn't
- 40:33shoot
- 40:34himself and I know from from video
- 40:37surveillance camera in the
- 40:39neighborhood nobody else came to that
- 40:41house I know I know I can account for
- 40:44everybody that went to the
- 40:47house I know so tell us what happened I
- 40:50know it listen to me hey I know video
- 40:54surveillance tells me everything that
- 40:56happened this night I'm telling you of
- 40:59people that that you'd be surprised who
- 41:01in your neighborhood has video and I
- 41:03know that nobody there's only four
- 41:05people was at this house during this
- 41:07time one two 3 4 tell me you got to tell
- 41:12me man you got to tell me get over that
- 41:15over that hoop the video is the video if
- 41:17you're sitting there saying no no no no
- 41:19no and video shows something else guess
- 41:21what big problem because it will wind up
- 41:25later on that that
- 41:27you can't get any help from anybody a
- 41:29lot of this what people make decisions
- 41:31on is honesty with somebody
- 41:34honest of course you're going to be
- 41:36somewhat dishonest at some point we get
- 41:37that we understand that but at some
- 41:39point when you have that come to Jesus
- 41:41time that now I need to now I need to to
- 41:44Really I got to tell you what happened
- 41:46this is it this is it video tells me
- 41:49everything I need to know about this
- 41:51from the neighborhood and you're the
- 41:52only one left to tell
- 41:54us I know it's hard to look at me Grant
- 41:57look at me look at my eyes I know it's
- 41:58tough man I do it's a tough thing to say
- 42:01but we need to know what caused things
- 42:04at your house that night to come become
- 42:06so bad that we're this he's violent we
- 42:09know that he's got a gun on we get it
- 42:12Cody just probably ran around went
- 42:14around with a gun because he normally
- 42:15did he W he walked in the house and was
- 42:18shot the minute he walked in the house
- 42:20the minute he walked
- 42:22in we see trajectory we find the
- 42:24projectile we've got everything on that
- 42:27he shot over here and is brought over
- 42:29here see it over there find the we found
- 42:31the bullets in in in the uh in the house
- 42:34mom sitting her thing with a glass of
- 42:36wine doing her thing and she's shocked
- 42:38you just got to step over and tell me
- 42:40man I want to help you I
- 42:42do the evidence is going to be there
- 42:45most people I have cartridge cases we
- 42:47have projectiles and
- 42:50fingerprints so you just need to tell us
- 42:53what led up to this you've been arrested
- 42:55correct yeah so we have your
- 42:57fingerprints correct you understand
- 42:59that physical evidence is something I
- 43:01can't manipulate it's either there it's
- 43:03not
- 43:03there didn't fire a gun didn't fire a
- 43:06gun didn't fire a gun none of them did
- 43:09none of them did Cody did not go home or
- 43:10did your father point a gun at
- 43:13you no there's there's nothing else that
- 43:15I can
- 43:17say then you're this is not going to end
- 43:20up the way you want to with what you're
- 43:21telling me right
- 43:23now factual items do do not support what
- 43:28you're saying nothing that we can make
- 43:29up or I think or she thinks or who
- 43:33thinks you got to be honest that and the
- 43:36minute you start being completely honest
- 43:39you're pretty honest I'm not going to
- 43:40say you're not the minute you tell us
- 43:41what happened to get this to hear is the
- 43:43second that we start moving forward with
- 43:48healing you say you can't something yes
- 43:50you can there's something that you you
- 43:53have done that proves different I'm
- 43:55telling you I I don't know how else I
- 43:58can't make it any
- 44:00clearer there's something there just
- 44:03tell me tell me your emotions your
- 44:07demeanor your body language your eyes
- 44:09tell me everything I need to see about
- 44:11you you want to tell me in the worst way
- 44:13you want to get this this pain off your
- 44:15chest do it come forward tell the truth
- 44:18so like going to church and doing your
- 44:20confessional when I go to church a few
- 44:22times I go a year and I get up there and
- 44:24and ask for forgiveness I feel 100%
- 44:26better for all the crappy things I've
- 44:28done and didn't didn't do what I should
- 44:30have done throughout the course of the
- 44:31Year short with my co-workers short with
- 44:34my kids not not living the way I should
- 44:37live gets me too and when I go up there
- 44:40and make my confession to to to the
- 44:43pastor it makes me feel
- 44:50better I mean there's just there's just
- 44:52nothing else that I can say
- 44:57there's nothing else that happened in
- 44:58that home while you were there that
- 45:00would lead up to this no your father
- 45:03didn't point a gun at you there was
- 45:05nothing else more than what I had said
- 45:09then who do you think did this I don't
- 45:13know I don't I don't have the answer
- 45:32[Applause]
- 45:34it's
- 45:40[Applause]
- 45:53[Applause]
- 46:28you know the only thing that I have is
- 46:30just
- 46:31the the times in
- 46:34which uh I had left the
- 46:38house you know there was still an AR
- 46:41there was an argument
- 46:45when Cody had gotten
- 46:47home and then there was nothing
- 46:52that that he could do to help me
- 46:57so I don't remember the exact time when
- 46:59I actually left but I had
- 47:04left later than when I had
- 47:06done so you were home when Cody got home
- 47:09yes tell us about
- 47:12that uh what time did he get home and
- 47:15why did he come
- 47:17home I mean he got home
- 47:21at I think
- 47:24like 10:30 I still think that's when he
- 47:27got home was like at around
- 47:3010:30 I don't know why he was able to
- 47:33leave early and what was going on at the
- 47:35house when he arrived my uh dad and my
- 47:38mom were
- 47:40arguing and then I would still just
- 47:42packing up all my
- 47:44stuff or gathering the things that I
- 47:47could
- 47:48gather
- 47:51um and then when Cody got home
- 47:55he started to transgress with my dad and
- 47:59I was still kind of just staying out of
- 48:01it and doing my own
- 48:04thing and then the end result was still
- 48:06the end result and then I had to still
- 48:09leave and then so is it true that you
- 48:12still met Cody up the block or was that
- 48:14no no so you didn't meet him up the
- 48:16block so why did you tell us
- 48:20that I don't
- 48:24know all right so then now let's start
- 48:28from the time you and your father
- 48:29started have the having the argument
- 48:30about 6 6:30 you said when he got home
- 48:33yeah tell us exactly what happened from
- 48:38that time
- 48:40on even what was
- 48:43said I mean it was just a lot of yelling
- 48:46I mean it
- 48:48was every I mean it was everything that
- 48:51he had been telling me for the
- 48:53past months and months and months about
- 48:56just
- 48:57how I had ruined his retirement and how
- 49:00I had pushed him back and now you know
- 49:03he'd never be able to do things that he
- 49:05wanted to do because I had saddled him
- 49:08with a lot more
- 49:11expenses and that I had told him that
- 49:13you know once I can get a job then I
- 49:15have plans to make amends for the things
- 49:19that I had caused for everybody
- 49:24mhm
- 49:25um and he's he's yelling yeah he's
- 49:29heated are you yelling back at him no I
- 49:32never yelled at my
- 49:34dad and are you sitting on the couch
- 49:36downstairs like you said I was in the
- 49:39living room yeah and at what point does
- 49:40he put his hands on
- 49:43you it's just a I mean it's like maybe
- 49:46five minutes into the
- 49:48conversation I mean there's nothing
- 49:50there wasn't really anything that was a
- 49:52trigger that I can think of what was
- 49:54your reaction when he grabbed your shirt
- 49:56and pulled you
- 49:58up I mean
- 50:03uh I mean I had always been passive so I
- 50:06mean I didn't really I didn't I didn't
- 50:09fight back or anything like that I just
- 50:12tried to get my my grounding and
- 50:15then and then we were just standing
- 50:18and you know just continued
- 50:21on and then what and then after that uh
- 50:27I started the whole process
- 50:30of gathering everything and where's your
- 50:33mom at this point she was still in her
- 50:35office did she intervene at all she had
- 50:37gotten up to say that you know like you
- 50:41need like you need to settle down or you
- 50:43you know some some sort of diffusing
- 50:44statement that she always used to make
- 50:47and then my dad yelled at her to stay
- 50:49out of this and then she just went back
- 50:52into
- 50:53there okay and then what what happened
- 50:56next
- 51:04um I mean then it was just like it was
- 51:08just a lot
- 51:09of like just it was just a lot of
- 51:12yelling and confrontation between me and
- 51:14Dad but it wasn't anything more physical
- 51:18about
- 51:22it and like I said I was just going up
- 51:25and about
- 51:27you know getting my stuff and taking it
- 51:28out to my car and getting back whatever
- 51:31I could whatever I could
- 51:33gather and what did your dad do while
- 51:35you were doing that he was just
- 51:37following me around just making sure you
- 51:39were gathering your stuff to get out my
- 51:42my possessions and not taking anything
- 51:44of his and how long did that go on Bes
- 51:47before Cody shows
- 51:48up I mean that was
- 51:51like for three 3 4 hours or something
- 51:54like that so you did that for 3 hours
- 51:57Gathering your stuff and dealing with
- 51:59Dad and cuz it wasn't just like he pack
- 52:03up those two little bags you brought was
- 52:05three hours yeah he wouldn't just I mean
- 52:08I went onto my computer to to back up
- 52:11some stuff onto like some flash drives
- 52:13and I mean all that other stuff but it
- 52:16wasn't just like with him where I could
- 52:20just go and do my thing you know I mean
- 52:23he would stop me and then we
- 52:25would it talk
- 52:27for like an extended period of time and
- 52:30then I would start to do my thing again
- 52:32and then it would stop again and I mean
- 52:34that's all that was was your father
- 52:36wearing this yeah and what about that
- 52:39gun on his waist no he didn't have that
- 52:43on no is this normal no I mean I had I
- 52:47had seen him have his gun
- 52:50since
- 52:51since like high school so he doesn't
- 52:54walk around like this normally no why do
- 52:56you think think he would be like
- 52:58this I don't know if it's because of
- 53:02what he had told me that if I came back
- 53:04that he would kill
- 53:06me I me like you said you're afraid of
- 53:08him yeah but we're here we're here to
- 53:12this this this this is the person that
- 53:16is coming to to solve the problems for
- 53:19you or came home to solve the problems
- 53:21there's the one who always sticks up to
- 53:23you including talking to the gold she
- 53:25talked to the girl in vulgarity didn't
- 53:26she yeah she had conversations said that
- 53:29you you're not a bad guy and how this
- 53:31breakup basically his effect you had
- 53:33didn't she told him it was bad here's
- 53:36the problem is
- 53:38Dad this one's behind you support you
- 53:41that one's behind you support you this
- 53:43one I'm sure cares about you but it's
- 53:45upset cuz like you said you have ruined
- 53:48his plans for retirement so he can't
- 53:51retire because of the financial
- 53:54loss how much money Cody give
- 54:03you
- 54:0560,000 yeah I yeah I guess Dad gave you
- 54:08how
- 54:11much like
- 54:13100,000 mom gave you how
- 54:16much it's like 30,000 or something so
- 54:19around
- 54:22200,000 and the vast majority of this
- 54:24money went to some girl on the on the
- 54:26internet so they're upset I get that but
- 54:30we know he didn't fire a gun we know she
- 54:33didn't fire a gun we know he didn't fire
- 54:36a
- 54:37gun he shot the second he walks in the
- 54:40house at what point does he come into
- 54:42the
- 54:44house it's like like 10:30 and where
- 54:47does he
- 54:48enter through the garage so where does
- 54:51he Park his car under the the awning
- 54:55thing out side not in the garage right
- 54:58so do you see him walk
- 55:01in or hear him come in no so you're
- 55:04upstairs maybe or where are you when he
- 55:07comes home when I when he came home I
- 55:09was doing I was uh Gathering the some of
- 55:13the like Power Bars into my
- 55:17little shoulder Satchel thing and where
- 55:19are the power bars in the kitchen or in
- 55:21the kitchen so you see him come in I I
- 55:24hear the door but then that's it and
- 55:26then when do you see him Bally I see him
- 55:29when he walks into the kitchen and what
- 55:31do you guys what what is
- 55:34said I B he asked me what I'm doing and
- 55:36I basically tell him the quick short
- 55:39story because at the time my dad and my
- 55:42mom were talking where were they they
- 55:44were in her office okay and what is the
- 55:46short story you tell that Cody Co that
- 55:50dad caught me still talking to the girl
- 55:53that had caused all the problems and
- 55:56that uh he was kicking me out of the
- 55:58house because I had broken his rule did
- 56:01you tell Cody that he threatened to kill
- 56:03you if you came back
- 56:05home no I still didn't tell Cody about
- 56:08that I just I had told Cody previously
- 56:11when I went to Cornerstone that that's
- 56:15what uh dad was going to do if I had
- 56:19made any more mistakes not the specific
- 56:21one that I had caused but if I had made
- 56:23any more mistakes and then Cody told me
- 56:25that he was going to do that when I went
- 56:28into one of the side offices with him
- 56:30before they officially dropped me off
- 56:33when you went to Cornerstone right so
- 56:35your dad had told you in the past before
- 56:37that he would kill you right for what
- 56:40reason
- 56:41for if I basically did anything related
- 56:44to this again causing costing him a lot
- 56:47of money and Cody knew about that right
- 56:50he didn't he just didn't know
- 56:53about um the the one that was just said
- 56:58whether or not
- 56:59he knew from like the paper that my dad
- 57:03had written out of all the consequences
- 57:06and everything like
- 57:08that did you
- 57:27all right so uh I I take it you know
- 57:29what happened
- 57:35yeah I just I'm going to ask you plan
- 57:37now you are not part of it anyway
- 57:41no how when's the last time you saw
- 57:45everybody I left the house between like
- 57:48uh midnight and like
- 57:5012:30 on Thursday night so Friday
- 57:53morning going into front
- 57:56why just did that's when you went to a
- 57:59hotel no no the first night I uh I
- 58:02stayed just in the Public's parking lot
- 58:04by the Tractor Supply okay and why did
- 58:08you leave though it's cuz Dad had kicked
- 58:10me out Thursday because I was still
- 58:14talking to the woman that had caused
- 58:17everything and I was uh using Mom's cell
- 58:20phone to do that with her knowledge but
- 58:23uh no not uh Cody or dad dads so then
- 58:27dad found out
- 58:30somehow and that was one of the things
- 58:32that he had said would lead to
- 58:36my being removed from the
- 58:40premises so he forced you he basically
- 58:43told you you had to leave
- 58:50yeah okay so who could have done this I
- 58:55don't know I don't so you didn't have
- 58:57any problems or troubles with this woman
- 59:00or the online you didn't owe them any
- 59:02money I mean there's no like loan shark
- 59:04out looking for you or I mean I just
- 59:08don't see
- 59:10how things aren't adding up I
- 59:15just I'm really confused
- 59:19Grant I don't understand how did you get
- 59:23money to pay for a hotel I still had a
- 59:25few $100 on my debit card and then Cody
- 59:31uh gave me his debit
- 59:32card
- 59:34okay
- 59:42and I don't know I I want to believe you
- 59:47grant but you're the last person that I
- 59:49could put in that
- 59:50house and I know what happened over the
- 59:54last 6 months
- 59:57I can understand the troubles that
- 1:00:00you've gone
- 1:00:01through but it's hard for me to think
- 1:00:04that you would break to this point MH
- 1:00:08but I don't I who else can I blame who
- 1:00:11how are we going to find out who did
- 1:00:13this I don't know I don't have the
- 1:00:18answers so what are your intentions do
- 1:00:20you understand what we have to do now if
- 1:00:24you're not the person that did it
- 1:00:26we have months of stuff that we have to
- 1:00:29take care of from our dead
- 1:00:32parents months months you know how much
- 1:00:36stuff is in that
- 1:00:38house we have to go through it all I
- 1:00:41have to call people in California to let
- 1:00:43them know that Margaret Amato is not
- 1:00:45alive
- 1:00:47anymore I got a call at 3:00 in the
- 1:00:49morning because Cody's 30 years old and
- 1:00:52has perfectly good organs to donate and
- 1:00:55I I can't I can't call that shot he's
- 1:00:58not an organ donor I had to say no so
- 1:01:01that means there's someone out there
- 1:01:02that could have used his organs but we
- 1:01:04weren't prepared for
- 1:01:11[Applause]
- 1:01:13this I love you more than anything in
- 1:01:15this world just like I loved Cody Grant
- 1:01:17and Dad I know Dad was an [ __ ] I know
- 1:01:21Cody was an [ __ ] but they were our
- 1:01:23family and they would have never never
- 1:01:26done anything to hurt us MH the [ __ ] you
- 1:01:29did you could have been in jail you
- 1:01:32would have been in jail for
- 1:01:36years and they covered it up for
- 1:01:39you I have a feeling the FBI is already
- 1:01:42involved because no matter how much Dad
- 1:01:45can overcome the money
- 1:01:48laundering that's money that was
- 1:01:51moved just because they gave it to you
- 1:01:53as a gift you that that's you can't just
- 1:01:57claim gifts as income the FBI wants to
- 1:02:00know what the [ __ ] is money being moved
- 1:02:03in that
- 1:02:12amount I I'm sorry I I don't I don't
- 1:02:15believe
- 1:02:16you
- 1:02:18and I probably will have resentment for
- 1:02:21the rest of my life whether you did it
- 1:02:23or you didn't do it but
- 1:02:26I need closure I need to know what
- 1:02:28happened to my mother my father and my
- 1:02:32brother
- 1:02:33Cody because I wasn't there to [ __ ]
- 1:02:38help and that hurts
- 1:02:41me that hurts me a lot man I may not
- 1:02:45have been able to stop you you probably
- 1:02:49may have hurt me
- 1:02:51too but at least I would have known what
- 1:02:54happened and now I'm in [ __ ] who
- 1:02:56knows what now I'm
- 1:02:59lost and it scares me that you want to
- 1:03:02leave here and not face what happened
- 1:03:05because you're putting my life at risk
- 1:03:08then you're putting Donna's life at risk
- 1:03:10Grandma's life how do we know what
- 1:03:12you're going to do what happened on the
- 1:03:14job interview last
- 1:03:16Friday it all sounded good sounded like
- 1:03:19everything was moving forward and that I
- 1:03:22was supposed to hear something on
- 1:03:23Tuesday or Thursday of this com week and
- 1:03:27nothing it was just on
- 1:03:31Friday it was last Friday so it's been a
- 1:03:33little over a week no it was just this
- 1:03:37Friday that's not possible Friday was
- 1:03:40yesterday
- 1:03:42yeah so you're telling me you had a job
- 1:03:45interview yesterday but you got kicked
- 1:03:47out Thursday night right I had to get my
- 1:03:50suit and everything and put it into the
- 1:03:53car okay where was your job interview
- 1:03:58over on uh Lisa with uh something
- 1:04:03scripts so I mean so they'd be able to
- 1:04:05verify that you were there for an
- 1:04:08interview I don't know I'm going to feel
- 1:04:12really bad me this is
- 1:04:14just I understand I mean I really do I
- 1:04:19understand all your thoughts and what
- 1:04:20you're thinking
- 1:04:21and and everything and this is just
- 1:04:28um you know I know what I did to
- 1:04:31everybody over the months you like that
- 1:04:34I know you did and I know that you know
- 1:04:38the hell of dealing with it every single
- 1:04:41day when you're trying to move forward
- 1:04:43Dad Cody and all that stuff yep and I
- 1:04:46understand it was probably harder for
- 1:04:47you because you lived in the house I had
- 1:04:49the option of getting out which gave me
- 1:04:52the ability to
- 1:04:55not have to deal with it on a daily
- 1:04:57basis I understand the mental struggles
- 1:05:01you went through with Cody and dad's
- 1:05:03relationship you and dad's relationship
- 1:05:05everybody's relationship in the family
- 1:05:08you know how smart everybody is in the
- 1:05:11family when it comes to medical
- 1:05:15information and that's what scares me
- 1:05:17even more about
- 1:05:22you if you didn't do it then you you
- 1:05:26have to know that someone else did it
- 1:05:29there is no way that there were people
- 1:05:32out there looking for our parents or
- 1:05:34brother they had to have been looking
- 1:05:36for you there's no way that Mom Dad or
- 1:05:40Cody owed anybody money had
- 1:05:43anybody looking for them because of
- 1:05:45something that they did no I don't think
- 1:05:48that it's something money shark or
- 1:05:51bonger or somebody like that right
- 1:05:53because nothing was stolen from the
- 1:05:54house right so like people that are
- 1:05:57looking to compensate for financial
- 1:06:00obligations would have taken TVs
- 1:06:02computers
- 1:06:03jewelry monetarily
- 1:06:07things from what I've been advised that
- 1:06:09is not the situation
- 1:06:12so that leaves that the people were
- 1:06:15murdered for the reason that they were
- 1:06:18in the way of getting to something
- 1:06:22else I just I don't understand why
- 1:06:27I don't understand why it happened I was
- 1:06:30taking my steps forward despite
- 1:06:32everything that I was supposed to
- 1:06:34do that I was supposed to be doing the
- 1:06:37slip up was still communicating with the
- 1:06:41woman but what were you allowed to take
- 1:06:43when dad kicked you
- 1:06:44out obviously your car basically my
- 1:06:47possessions my cell phone my iPad my
- 1:06:51Surface some clothes weapons I don't
- 1:06:54have any weapons
- 1:06:56so there's going to be no weapons in the
- 1:06:58hotel that you were at last night no
- 1:07:01weapons in the car no weapons buried on
- 1:07:04the property
- 1:07:06no I don't I sold all my weapons when I
- 1:07:09was trying to make money y i remember my
- 1:07:12m mom telling me that
- 1:07:15what what about uh
- 1:07:19what yeah
- 1:07:22um I don't know what else to say
- 1:07:26but I'm scared for you and I'm scared
- 1:07:28for myself
- 1:07:31and I don't feel comfortable with you
- 1:07:34being around me alone I'm
- 1:07:38sorry I could take you physically but if
- 1:07:41you have a knife or know where a gun is
- 1:07:44I'm [ __ ] and I have little girls that
- 1:07:47I have to raise I have a woman that is
- 1:07:51depending on me for the rest of my life
- 1:07:57I
- 1:08:01understand even if you
- 1:08:04did it's going to be so hard for me to
- 1:08:08figure out what to do with
- 1:08:11you you do not deserve
- 1:08:14jail but I can't come to [ __ ] have
- 1:08:17attorney press charges for you to be
- 1:08:23killed Grant
- 1:08:25I need you to be honest with me man I
- 1:08:30need to have closure and if it doesn't
- 1:08:32come from your mouth and I have to hear
- 1:08:34it from an attorney or a law enforcement
- 1:08:36or the
- 1:08:40news it's going to be harder for
- 1:08:44me and I know if you can take Mom and
- 1:08:48Dad in Cody's life it's hard for you to
- 1:08:51comprehend that my emotions are going to
- 1:08:53be that but
- 1:08:58it it's unbelievably scary
- 1:09:02Grant and I don't believe in God I don't
- 1:09:07have a strong religious belief but I
- 1:09:09will pray that this is solved
- 1:09:13justifiably because it was not fair that
- 1:09:17Mom Cody and Dad's life were taken they
- 1:09:21did not deserve it no matter what
- 1:09:23feelings were felt by anybody they were
- 1:09:27good people I know and they showed it by
- 1:09:31protecting me all the time but dad
- 1:09:34kicked you out so because I still broke
- 1:09:37the rule and that it was apparently
- 1:09:39Dad's job to be the hammer person or
- 1:09:42whatever he would describe it as right I
- 1:09:45I was told that you would not be have
- 1:09:47access to be able to contact this woman
- 1:09:50why do you feel the intent to still
- 1:09:52contact her it was just the the whole
- 1:09:55emotional thing I mean that's that's all
- 1:09:58I can say so are you saying that you
- 1:09:59love the woman I feel like I did yeah
- 1:10:03okay you feel like you did so you don't
- 1:10:06feel that way now well I mean now it's
- 1:10:09pretty
- 1:10:10much you know I mean it's not what it
- 1:10:12used to be is all I can
- 1:10:14say because she's aware of what has
- 1:10:17happened in the last several months
- 1:10:20right so why do you feel the need to
- 1:10:23still contact her I don't know I mean
- 1:10:27it's I I don't know apart
- 1:10:31from just like that feeling when you
- 1:10:34care for somebody you've been with them
- 1:10:35for however many months no I know that
- 1:10:38feeling so I mean I was just you know I
- 1:10:41knew looking for closure to some degree
- 1:10:44yeah and I knew that I couldn't never do
- 1:10:45any of the money stuff anymore okay so I
- 1:10:48guess that was like it hurt right yeah
- 1:10:52yeah cuz you can't carry that Persona
- 1:10:55that you carried
- 1:10:57before but you know the crazy part is
- 1:11:00you're still the same person you are
- 1:11:03still Grand M that I grew up with for 17
- 1:11:08years that I played with that we hid
- 1:11:11[ __ ] from Dad so that we didn't get in
- 1:11:14trouble who covered those grenades
- 1:11:19Mom I
- 1:11:21just I I don't I don't feel like we're
- 1:11:24getting anywhere and I'm going to be
- 1:11:26honest I don't feel comfortable with you
- 1:11:28staying with me I mean if in a week or a
- 1:11:32couple days or 12 hours and something
- 1:11:35else is discovered then I might have a
- 1:11:37change of heart but I have no other
- 1:11:40options in my head of what's going on
- 1:11:42especially if you're confirming that
- 1:11:44there's nobody looking for
- 1:11:47you and if you're saying that you ran
- 1:11:50away or stayed in a hotel because you
- 1:11:52were forced to or you were told you
- 1:11:54couldn't stay there
- 1:11:58I I don't live there so I have no proof
- 1:12:01the only people that live there are dead
- 1:12:04so they can't say
- 1:12:09anything but uh Mor called me this
- 1:12:12morning so I have to make decisions for
- 1:12:15Mom Cody and gr and dad in the next se
- 1:12:20you know a couple days so
- 1:12:22uh just letting you know that
- 1:12:27um I'll be making those decisions cuz
- 1:12:31until I'm given verifiable information
- 1:12:34that you did not do it I don't think you
- 1:12:38have the right to make that
- 1:12:40decision you already made the decision
- 1:12:42on whether or not they can live or
- 1:12:47not that's not your
- 1:12:52job all right I'm ready
- 1:12:55I do love you though just remember that
- 1:12:59just like Mom Cody and Dad loved
- 1:13:02you nobody loved you anymore or any
- 1:13:10[Music]
- 1:13:18[Music]
- 1:13:23less I'm going pray for you brother cuz
- 1:13:26I can't pray for Mom Dad and Cody
- 1:13:29anymore
- 1:13:37check you ready man yeah question for
- 1:13:39you real quick you don't want to hurt
- 1:13:42yourself you don't want to hurt anybody
- 1:13:43else no Suicidal Thoughts no okay come
- 1:13:46on
- 1:13:56oh
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