Gestão do tempo e priorização • Liderança Subversiva e o Futuro do Trabalho na América Latina 2 — Transcript
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- 0:05Time management and prioritization. A
- 0:08lot of people are talking about this,
- 0:10right? What are some phrases and ideas
- 0:13you've heard when this topic comes up?
- 0:16I see people saying, for example, that
- 0:18you just need to learn to say no. You
- 0:20can also do something else, which is to
- 0:23reduce your screen time quite easily.
- 0:26There's one I hate, do you know it? The
- 0:28one that says, "In 21 days, if you
- 0:30repeat it, you'll create a habit."
- 0:33Honey, I've been trying to create the
- 0:34habit of going to the gym for about 10
- 0:36years. It never occurred to me. Every
- 0:38day I suffer, complain, and question my
- 0:41sanity. Is talking about time
- 0:43management and prioritization really
- 0:45that simple? Will these little tools
- 0:47like Pomodoro, Scrum, or whatever
- 0:49matrix solve the current problem with
- 0:55our prioritization and management? I
- 0:58don't know if I can solve this alone.
- 1:01And for that, I invited two very
- 1:03special people. I have some great
- 1:06professional friends who don't create
- 1:08content for the internet. I know we're
- 1:11kind of in a phase of thinking, "Oh,
- 1:13does the internet need more content?"
- 1:16But from one person to another, I think
- 1:18it does. That's why I forced them to
- 1:20come here to this podcast, that they'll
- 1:23be forced to share their knowledge with
- 1:25us. And I hope you're as happy as I am.
- 1:29So come on over, Baron and Lorena,
- 1:31Let's talk. Did you like it? podcastol
- 1:51Lorena invite con un po del inimooltura
- 2:26consultant un tiempo venezuela so una
- 2:31rpida dubling de meses y ahora estoy en
- 2:35crecimiento haciendo trabajo de cultura
- 2:40proyectos rapidísimo por recursos
- 2:44humanos de clima cultura consultant a
- 2:51minha invitação barão em português,
- 2:56faz à vontade.
- 2:59A gente legalizado o portol aqui.
- 3:01Contam pouco para galera sabe o sua
- 3:03antes de gente falar de gestão do
- 3:04tempo, prepricipação.
- 3:06Boa. Eu sou o Baron, Marco Baron, já
- 3:09conheço Lorena também, já conheço
- 3:11você.
- 3:12À panela, né? O negócio da panela.
- 3:14Praza estar aqui com você, Maira. Eh,
- 3:16eu sou consultor também, eu sou
- 3:18consultor de ORG design, então
- 3:21trabalho com o Targetil, eu sou uma dos
- 3:23parceiros de Targetil já por último
- 3:2610 anos, toda essa ano. Antes de isso,
- 3:30eu foi profissional de RH, então pelo
- 3:32maior parte do meu carreira
- 3:34profissional aí de HR em trabalho em
- 3:37vários subsistemas, Okay, so in HR,
- 3:39culture, development, I was a business
- 3:41partner, I was an HR executive, so I've
- 3:44also experienced many different
- 3:46realities, right? And in the last 10
- 3:48years, I've been working more as a
- 3:50professor. I teach at Dom Cabral, I
- 3:52teach at Targetil, I teach at FAAP, and
- 3:55then, obviously, consulting work,
- 3:57a little bit of everything, right? An
- 3:58entrepreneur, he's just doing it. And
- 4:00so I want to start, folks, with this
- 4:01topic of time management and
- 4:02prioritization. I don't know about you;
- 4:04every now and then you call me at
- 4:06companies to talk about this topic, and
- 4:07I only accept when I say, "I'm going to
- 4:09talk about it the way I think we should
- 4:11talk about time management and
- 4:12prioritization," because I have a
- 4:14worldview, a vision that I'm not going
- 4:15to share yet, for you to bring your own
- 4:17perspectives on this topic. So, to
- 4:21start warming up, I'd like to ask you,
- 4:24Lorena, what you think about this topic
- 4:27when we talk about time management and
- 4:30prioritization, aiming at...the
- 4:32companies, your feelings, your doubts?
- 4:36For example, on this topic, I believe
- 4:38it is a complicated topic. Firstly, it
- 4:41involves several elements of the
- 4:44country's local culture. I
- 4:47differentiate with the team in
- 4:48different countries, for example, I'm
- 4:51counting examples that come to me. I
- 4:53work with people from teams in Peru,
- 4:56Chile for example and to manage time is
- 5:00my priority. Jefe sends what's up. That
- 5:06phrase commands those who can obey
- 5:08those who have sense there too. Exactly
- 5:12like that, but that belief is in
- 5:13cultures that are very much the leader
- 5:15who commands and really obeys if they
- 5:17live that way. So the priority is good
- 5:21and that's what there is for today, it
- 5:22doesn't necessarily decide or has 100%
- 5:24of the decision also depending on the
- 5:25culture in Brazil including things that
- 5:27it is not just the task that has to be
- 5:29done or the delivery that has to be
- 5:30done, but that there are things that
- 5:32are not on schedule that require a lot
- 5:33of time. If I deliver something to many
- 5:38involved people, even my boss, I need
- 5:40to deal with all these people, dedicate
- 5:43a great deal of energy to managing each
- 5:45involved ego and after that delivery
- 5:52takes time. The first piece of feedback
- 5:55I remember receiving when I arrived in
- 5:57Brazil was Lorena, you have to learn to
- 6:00say things nicely.
- 6:01Hmm. You're
- 6:02very direct, you're very frontal.
- 6:05culture of direct frontales objective
- 6:06to decide things here I understand that
- 6:08culture is much more relational and
- 6:10that there is a need to know how to
- 6:12decide with giving 10 verdim.
- 6:25And
- 6:28for me, you have an aspect of this
- 6:30topic that is technical, right? it’s
- 6:32the techniques, the approaches and so
- 6:34on. We lived together Some of them,
- 6:36actually. And I think that perhaps you
- 6:40might want to address this point at a
- 6:42later time, but I do believe that they
- 6:45have their own place of importance and
- 6:47relevance.
- 6:48Uh, I think some of them even work,
- 6:50right? At least for me, some worked,
- 6:53but for me that's just one aspect and
- 6:55not the biggest aspect of this story.
- 6:58We could also talk perhaps about
- 7:00another part, which is why some things
- 7:02work and others don't, right? I would
- 7:05say it is perhaps a middle ground, a
- 7:07more scientific aspect—I am not sure
- 7:09if that is a good word—but for me
- 7:10there is an aspect that we cannot fail
- 7:12to address, which is the political
- 7:14aspect that is inherent to this entire
- 7:16story. When we think about time
- 7:18management or productivity or
- 7:19prioritization, right? Perhaps we
- 7:22should think about who benefits from
- 7:24this? What do I lose and what do I gain
- 7:27, and who else benefits from this? So,
- 7:30for me, that specific aspect of this
- 7:32story is something that we simply
- 7:34cannot remove from our conversation
- 7:37here. It's generally not what we talk
- 7:40about, it's generally not about What we
- 7:42read or hear, right? We talk about
- 7:45techniques, but we don't talk about who
- 7:47benefits from them. What are the hidden
- 7:49gains, what are the relationships? You
- 7:52know, in my research on Latin America
- 7:54—I'm doing a master's degree in Latin
- 7:56America through Prolan at USP—my
- 7:58research focus, and a supposed
- 8:00framework I want to propose, is that I
- 8:02see that most existing frameworks on
- 8:04time management and prioritization
- 8:06don't include relationships. They say,
- 8:09"Oh, it's important, it's urgent." I
- 8:10want to mention a few here so we can
- 8:12work on these realities. I think, "But
- 8:14aren't these frameworks including the
- 8:16relationships I need to deal with in
- 8:18this prioritization technique?" It
- 8:20seems very simple. We take what's
- 8:22important, separate it from what's
- 8:23urgent, or we learn to say no, and
- 8:25everything goes—I'll say no, but what
- 8:27about the relationships? When I say no,
- 8:29how does the other person feel? What
- 8:31consequences will I suffer if I say no?
- 8:33So I see that some jargon circulates as
- 8:36a solution to this time management and
- 8:38prioritization crisis, which isn't
- 8:40necessarily what it seems in practice.
- 8:43That's what happens. So I want to
- 8:45mention some clichés, some phrases,
- 8:47some clichés that people say help
- 8:49people, and then you can take what you
- 8:51find most interesting or worst of all
- 8:53and bring it to us—an opposite of
- 8:55that, or just criticism of it, or
- 8:56examples from your own experience,
- 8:58right? You can complain. You can
- 9:00complain. You
- 9:01can. Or we can give solutions too,
- 9:03right? Because I love to complain. I
- 9:04love it, right? Like, I love it.
- 9:06Pleasure to complain, love. There's a
- 9:08complaint. I'm there. Ah, Maira, choose
- 9:09your battles. Not me. For me, all
- 9:11battles would be fought, none would be
- 9:13left out. I just don't fight because
- 9:15the day has 24 hours, right? So I'm not
- 9:16going to speak ill of anyone. I want
- 9:18tips too, right? Because occasionally
- 9:20I'm well regarded out there because I
- 9:21complain, but I solve problems, okay?
- 9:23That's the phrase,
- 9:23so that's what will happen. Then we
- 9:25took a quote from Sebrae, for example,
- 9:27which is a reference on this subject,
- 9:29right? It brings up the issue of
- 9:31looking at time management, at your
- 9:33tasks, The key is to plan your daily
- 9:35activities. Number one, two, set goals
- 9:38and deadlines for your tasks. Three,
- 9:41reduce distractions. Four, delegate
- 9:44tasks. Five, learn to say no. This is a
- 9:47classic, right? Everywhere has this. Uh
- 9:49, create rewards for completed tasks.
- 9:53Set aside time to take care of yourself
- 9:55. Uh-huh.
- 9:57Eight. Master productivity techniques
- 9:59for time management. In other words, to
- 10:01manage your time, you are already
- 10:03looking at a list of eight items that
- 10:05you have to deal with to manage your
- 10:06time. These phrases, these tips on
- 10:09prioritization, time management, what
- 10:12do you think? Uh, does this work,
- 10:14doesn't it? What have you observed in
- 10:17practice? Uh, what are the hidden gains
- 10:19that people don't see? We say one thing
- 10:22and do another, it generates, I don't
- 10:23know if it's a conflict, a paradox
- 10:25of dissonance, maybe a dissonance. Man,
- 10:29we talk about saying no, but if I
- 10:31actually say it, they ask me to list my
- 10:32tasks, yet my tasks involve a large
- 10:34number of different people. I can list
- 10:37the Tasks. Uh, which tools work? This
- 10:42tool, we love to standardize it. Let's
- 10:44standardize it, let's make it
- 10:46company-wide. Will it work the same way
- 10:49for everyone? Yeah, I wanted to
- 10:51elaborate a little on these phrases,
- 10:52these tools. Maybe the baron can start.
- 10:55Well, I confess that I need to confess
- 10:58that I listen to these phrases with a
- 11:00certain prejudice, right? Or this first
- 11:04phrase, looking at it like that, it
- 11:05seems to me that it was chosen by a
- 11:07very specific audience, right? The
- 11:11audience that can delegate things, that
- 11:14can say: "I don't want interruptions,
- 11:16kids," right? That doesn't need to stop
- 11:18to answer the door when someone comes
- 11:20to understand something. Or when a
- 11:21person, well, they need to work in the
- 11:23office, because now everyone has gone
- 11:25back to the office, they need to go to
- 11:26the doctor, they need to pick up the
- 11:28kids from school, damn, they need to do
- 11:29a lot of things that can't be discussed
- 11:31, stop for a bit, right? Put it in the
- 11:32agenda, put an appointment in my agenda
- 11:34. I can't do that. So, I keep thinking
- 11:37that...It's an interesting formula; it
- 11:39carries interesting principles like
- 11:41minimizing interruptions. True. It
- 11:45takes us a certain amount of time to
- 11:47resume our train of thought, especially
- 11:49when it is creative, after we have been
- 11:50interrupted. But let's assume we don't
- 11:53live in a perfect life where we can
- 11:55turn off the interruption button. So,
- 11:59what happens when we are interrupted?
- 12:01So, for me, the question of how to deal
- 12:04with interruptions seems more practical
- 12:07and useful than a plan that can't be
- 12:10executed, right?
- 12:12Avoiding interruptions, making sure
- 12:14they...I have a phrase I've been using
- 12:16in some training sessions: "If there's
- 12:18an unforeseen event every week, let's
- 12:20agree that it's expected, like, it's
- 12:22part of your business model." And I see
- 12:25that people suffer a lot trying to have
- 12:28a week where we won't be interrupted.
- 12:31Today we won't be, there won't be any
- 12:33unforeseen events. If there are
- 12:34interruptions every week, I can even
- 12:35count them, every week I have a base of
- 12:37three or four, right? I start
- 12:38scheduling, planning for unexpected
- 12:40things that might happen, you know?
- 12:41That's it
- 12:42for me, that's where I was going to
- 12:44talk about what I learned, and I'm not
- 12:46a model for this, okay?
- 12:48But I learned that
- 12:50when I can do it, it's useful to me,
- 12:53which is to set aside time for
- 12:55unexpected things. I can't always
- 12:57manage it, right? Because I have to pay
- 12:59bills. So,
- 13:00sometimes we only do what needs to be
- 13:01done.
- 13:03Lorena, what else do you think about
- 13:05this? I was thinking about a phrase
- 13:08like that: about being able to learn to
- 13:09say no. I think that, sometimes, it's
- 13:12not learning; having the privilege,
- 13:14being able to say no, is the right;
- 13:15being able to say no, I know how to say
- 13:17no. Easy for my friends, for people
- 13:20like my mom I can't. Perfect, can I
- 13:25tell her? It doesn't happen, if I don't
- 13:28suddenly say no, but will it go badly
- 13:30for me? Me va mi empleo, are you in
- 13:34danger? I don't
- 13:36know how to deal with the consequences
- 13:37of then I believe that there I spend a
- 13:39lot of time on relationships like dices
- 13:41and levels of relationships because
- 13:43someone is suddenly at a high level
- 13:45where it's easy to decide if I can't
- 13:47this day and grab it to do this. But
- 13:51someone who is below and has 10 levels
- 13:52above a boss doesn't have much right to
- 13:54say: "No, I can't, I have to do these
- 13:55things." And he ends up working outside
- 13:58the clock or on a Saturday to deliver
- 14:00the things he needs every day, because
- 14:04every day he's paying for a fire that
- 14:06someone hasn't planned, with all the
- 14:08things pending and 10 meetings. In one
- 14:10time, there's plenty to say, "I'm going
- 14:13to do my things," you know? So, I think
- 14:15there are many factors involved in
- 14:17saying no. It's not that I can't learn,
- 14:23I mean it doesn't work due to the hard
- 14:29topic. I don't think there's a single
- 14:34conclusion, a single way to solve this
- 14:37problem, like some, uh, some times that
- 14:45could be unexpected, but within the
- 14:48corporate world, the individual
- 14:50generally can't make that choice. Oh,
- 14:53and I'll leave a little space here for
- 14:54my unexpected event, right? That
- 14:56doesn't happen often. And then, uh, at
- 15:00that moment, the Pomodoro method starts
- 15:04to circulate, uh, Pareto matrix, uh,
- 15:07that Hans matrix, uh, I can't stand it.
- 15:11Important, urgent. Important, but not
- 15:13urgent. Who said what's important?
- 15:15What's urgent? I'm going to wake up, I
- 15:16can wake up today, it's important, it's
- 15:18urgent, huh? Yes, but I wanted to hear
- 15:21from you what you've seen work this way
- 15:23. Do you think there's another method
- 15:25that works better? It's only useful for
- 15:28certain situations, right? Imagine that
- 15:31all kinds of people are listening to
- 15:33this podcast. And that's it, most of us
- 15:36wake up every day to work in a company
- 15:38without many choices, as we've
- 15:40discussed here. But one thing or
- 15:42another, when I was in that corporate
- 15:44world where I lived for over 15 years,
- 15:46I felt it worked. I don't, I don't
- 15:49discredit everything by definition, but
- 15:51I think an interesting attitude is to
- 15:54experiment and see if it works for you,
- 15:56right? So for me it's very much like
- 15:59that, I'll experiment and see if it
- 16:01works. The habit thing didn't work for
- 16:03me either.
- 16:04Oh my God.
- 16:05But I think it's good for people to be
- 16:08open to experimenting. What I think
- 16:10might be good to reflect on is: let's
- 16:12not blame ourselves when these things
- 16:15don't work, because that's what you
- 16:16said. I think there's a collective
- 16:18dimension to this story; it's not an
- 16:20individual one. But we're taught to
- 16:23individualize a lot of things,
- 16:26including psychological suffering.
- 16:29Yes,
- 16:30when in reality we're in a relationship
- 16:32, and many things that happen in
- 16:33organizations, for example, are the
- 16:35same as when people turn around and say
- 16:37, "Look, we want to combat turnover—
- 16:39no, burnout. Let's do it, let's offer
- 16:42yoga classes to people." Damn, I love
- 16:45yoga, but that's not it, you know? Yeah
- 16:47. Let's
- 16:49make your house more organized, more
- 16:51coherent so people can live well within
- 16:53it, and maybe they'll get sick less,
- 16:55right? In some way, we've been taught
- 16:58that time is simply an individual
- 17:02property, right? Time management. And
- 17:04the reality is that the organization
- 17:06really does rule.
- 17:07Yes.
- 17:07If I am paying you, I expect you to do
- 17:09whatever I want during the entire time
- 17:11that you are inside here. And so, I
- 17:13believe that we need to start
- 17:14deconstructing that all over again. I'm
- 17:17not invalidating the tools. So, for
- 17:19instance, the tools that work for me
- 17:21are those that are firmly based on the
- 17:23interaction between different people.
- 17:25For example, when we use Camban, the
- 17:28Camban board, we negotiate things,
- 17:30visualize these things,
- 17:32visualize bottlenecks, we negotiate
- 17:34movement from one place to another. So,
- 17:38when we manage to negotiate things,
- 17:39that is, social interaction, it's being
- 17:41negotiated all the time. When we manage
- 17:44to do this in a way that works well for
- 17:46people, we have a better chance of
- 17:47managing time and prioritizing it. When
- 17:50we do this, assuming it's just an
- 17:52individual thing, all I have to do is
- 17:54block out my time. Yes, but
- 17:56I just need to get organized for the
- 17:58rest. I can't stand it when I have to
- 17:59say it, but I can be my own individual
- 18:00Camban. Say it, no. The idea of Camban
- 18:04is that I see people use the Camban
- 18:06board very unconsciously because of a
- 18:08fad or to just throw tasks around. You
- 18:10said: "No, it has a power you don't
- 18:12know what happens, which is
- 18:13visualization, which is stimulating
- 18:14conversations that sometimes wouldn't
- 18:16happen if everything wasn't on that
- 18:18board. For those who don't know, at
- 18:20home, that famous 'to do', 'done', '
- 18:23doing' board...Uh, Trello is very
- 18:25famous as a tool, right?" This podcast
- 18:28is going to be sponsored any day now.
- 18:30Then I'll just mention chemical tools,
- 18:32uh,
- 18:32so, uh, Trello and so on, so they're
- 18:34useful for visualization, so we don't
- 18:37rely on our memory and can negotiate
- 18:39based on visualization. I think it's
- 18:41super useful too. I think this element
- 18:45of negotiation through interaction
- 18:47helps us have a better chance of having
- 18:50a tool that works for prioritization,
- 18:52for time management. But again, I think
- 18:57there's something else to talk about
- 18:59here, which is how we assume that time
- 19:01is a thing.
- 19:03Philosophized. Now let's see. It will
- 19:05be the next, the next episode, no, next
- 19:06, the next conversation, because I also
- 19:08want to say something, but first,
- 19:09Lorena. I'm left thinking about what
- 19:13Marco Varón says about individual time
- 19:15knowing the pipe of agreement that
- 19:17works when it's collective, and the
- 19:20experiences he has had in teams where
- 19:22everyone has one. safe environment to
- 19:25decide, I can't stay with five things,
- 19:27I don't have time for anything, this is
- 19:29great. I need boldness, but not all
- 19:31environments are safe. Not all cultures
- 19:34have this safe environment. There are
- 19:36very hierarchical cultures, on the soil
- 19:38of companies, but also of countries. As
- 19:41much as possible, the person doesn't
- 19:44feel confident enough to decide: "I
- 19:46can't grasp a demand", nor is he able
- 19:48to decide: "I can't do it with more"
- 19:50demands, "it's too much" or ask for
- 19:52anything less. So, I believe that it
- 19:56also involves questioning from the
- 19:57person. You can, independently of the
- 19:59herramienta, decide not to ask for help
- 20:01, as there is also a very strong
- 20:03cultural question here. Yo I feel very
- 20:06much, it's bad to say: "I can't, I need
- 20:07" auda. Like: "ay, no pudiste?", "hate
- 20:12counts", no, that phrase: "it doesn't
- 20:14matter" cotton is frowned upon in some
- 20:16cultures. So, even if the tools or the
- 20:20space to talk are provided, people do
- 20:21not necessarily feel comfortable enough
- 20:23to stand up and say: "No, I cannot." I
- 20:27did it a few times when I first arrived
- 20:28, feeling: "well, here you can," and
- 20:30said: "ask for help, raise your hand."
- 20:33I'm going to seize the opportunity
- 20:39because I'm going to find a way to
- 20:41resolve this my way. Here it's safe,
- 20:43you can speak, and when you try, it
- 20:45doesn't necessarily happen. And when we
- 20:48talk about time management,
- 20:49prioritization, all the work goes
- 20:51through some level of communication, of
- 20:53negotiation, right? I even learned that
- 20:55from Dominique Barter when I did their
- 20:57nonviolent communication training. He
- 20:59says: "Well, I like the idea that
- 21:01communication is the tool of tools.
- 21:03Many tools, canvases, and templates
- 21:05exist because we simply can't...talk
- 21:08about certain things. They are
- 21:10facilitators of conversations that
- 21:12could take place. The tools give shape
- 21:14to conversations. And when we talk
- 21:17about this topic, I want to bring up a
- 21:20point I've been addressing that you
- 21:22haven't touched on yet, which I think
- 21:24might be interesting: I realize that
- 21:26throughout my career, even though I've
- 21:28received feedback about insubordination
- 21:30or arrogance, I delivered a lot of
- 21:32results, right? And that's why I'm here
- 21:35. I've always been very interested in
- 21:38understanding the company's strategy,
- 21:40its goals. I was always very pushy, I'd
- 21:42be like, 'I want to know the goals,
- 21:44honey.' Because when a leader arrived,
- 21:46someone above me, and I started a
- 21:48dialogue based on their existing
- 21:50knowledge, they were shocked. It wasn't
- 21:52that they liked it; maybe I was
- 21:54perceived as arrogant, but they had
- 21:55more difficulty negotiating with me
- 21:56because they weren't going to...There,
- 21:58and I'd say," Oh, you have to do it
- 21:59because you have to, because I knew the
- 22:01quarterly goal was such and such, Roy
- 22:02was such and such. "You know, I had
- 22:04that knowledge, and when I talk about
- 22:06time management, wherever I go, the
- 22:08first question I ask people is," What
- 22:10is good time management? What does
- 22:12being productive mean to you? "" And
- 22:14many people respond like this: 'Ah, uh,
- 22:16to do the most tasks in the shortest
- 22:18amount of time.' I see that there's
- 22:20this mentality of the task, of a bunch
- 22:22of little tasks, a list. That's when I
- 22:24end the day with the feeling that I was
- 22:26productive.
- 22:27I say, folks, companies are organisms
- 22:29created to generate profit. Uh-huh.
- 22:31Feeling doesn't deliver work at the end
- 22:33of the day, right? Some people, when I
- 22:36ask, say: 'Oh, my goal this year is to
- 22:38deliver three projects.' Three projects
- 22:41. If they fail, that's okay. You met
- 22:43the goal. Folks, no. Did I say what
- 22:46kind of pointer was supposed to be used
- 22:47for those three projects? Because I see
- 22:49that many people get worn out because
- 22:51the execution of the task seems like
- 22:53productivity itself. It seems that
- 22:55managing tasks well is the delivery
- 22:57itself. Uh-huh. And they, you talked a
- 22:59little bit at the beginning about
- 23:00delivering value, uh, I see that people
- 23:02have this difficulty understanding what
- 23:03value is in that company, whether it's
- 23:05increasing the number of sales,
- 23:07reducing cancellations, or pleasing
- 23:08some leadership. They can't perceive
- 23:10what value is. And given that they
- 23:12don't... "They realize they're fighting
- 23:13over small tasks. So, I've been
- 23:16bringing this up, and I see it works—
- 23:18I say it's kind of a cliché, but some
- 23:20days only a cliché can save our lives
- 23:22—which is: for those who don't know
- 23:24what they want, any path will do.
- 23:26Uh-huh. For those who don't know their
- 23:29goals and objectives, I think no tool
- 23:30alone will be enough if you don't
- 23:32understand. Because I'll discuss this
- 23:34in front of Camban about the tasks, but
- 23:36it will become a dispute between you
- 23:37and me, or between different
- 23:38departments. So, at some point, when I
- 23:41dealt with very different departments
- 23:42where everything was very urgent—for
- 23:44legal it's urgent, for marketing it's
- 23:46urgent for everyone—at some point I
- 23:48had to talk to them about the size of
- 23:49the queue, about the quarterly goals,
- 23:51and what they were fighting over. Or
- 23:53when I realized I had million-dollar
- 23:55projects competing with R $ 1,000
- 23:57projects. Well, if I can't handle
- 23:59everything, it seems to me that a
- 24:01little revenue criterion would boost
- 24:02this good idea, right? What you People
- 24:05argue as if money doesn't matter, or as
- 24:08if only relationships matter. I don't
- 24:11know if you have any insight into this,
- 24:12because I've been bringing up this
- 24:13criticism a lot wherever I go. It seems
- 24:15to me that, of course I know that with
- 24:17different positions and roles, people
- 24:19don't feel they need to know the
- 24:20strategy. If you're very junior, it
- 24:22might seem like," Oh, I have nothing to
- 24:23do with this, I'm just doing my little
- 24:25task here, I have to leave. "But it
- 24:27seems to me that another way, perhaps
- 24:29to improve time management, which is
- 24:30very useful to me, is to focus on what
- 24:32is valuable here,
- 24:34whether it's what was interpreted or
- 24:36agreed upon in that team or what's
- 24:38implied, for example, because I apply
- 24:40this to my career as well. I always say
- 24:42that we're in 2026, the world is only
- 24:44accelerating, it won't stop. So, there
- 24:47will always be more to do than is
- 24:49possible to do. There won't be a day
- 24:52when you wake up in the morning and
- 24:53think," Look, I got it done today, huh?
- 24:55"" Damn. "I have nothing to say that
- 24:57doesn't exist. Given that, what is
- 24:59value? What is the objective? What is
- 25:01the fastest thing I can do, deliver in
- 25:03the shortest time, that is most
- 25:05valuable? I keep thinking about these
- 25:08factors. Does this make sense to you?
- 25:11It's because I've been feeling this
- 25:12lack, because I don't know what I'm
- 25:13chasing.
- 25:14Anyone who comes to me will ask me for
- 25:15anything, and I'll say:" How am I going
- 25:16to say no? "" You can't talk then. "But
- 25:19this task has to do with that agreement
- 25:21we made about the goal that has to be
- 25:22met in 15 days. The person reflects on
- 25:25that.
- 25:26I keep thinking about it. Ah, I think
- 25:29it does have to do with it, because
- 25:30maybe it makes sense for us to consider
- 25:32it from two angles, right, the way I'm
- 25:34listening to you. One angle is my
- 25:37individual time management, right, of
- 25:40my day. I don't care where I am, how I
- 25:43deal with my own prioritization, but
- 25:46another angle of this story is how I do
- 25:48this in relation to other people who
- 25:51are also doing their own prioritization
- 25:53and time management, right? And I think
- 25:58that more than the tool, maybe the
- 26:00important thing is for us to have
- 26:02spaces, not just a physical space, but
- 26:05emotional space, right, inner space, so
- 26:07we can recombine things. Will it be a
- 26:11taboo between us when we don't have
- 26:13time to do something? Will you feel
- 26:17guilty and ostracized because I
- 26:19couldn't do that on time, or will we be
- 26:22able to talk about it and about it?
- 26:26What conditions are necessary for us to
- 26:28, you know, rearrange ourselves, for
- 26:30things to be done in a more appropriate
- 26:32way, in a more appropriate time? The
- 26:36environment, the context that we
- 26:38sustain together, is very important for
- 26:40us to manage our time and to discuss
- 26:43topics like productivity and so on. Now
- 26:46, again, the tools you gave as examples
- 26:48, even the phrase you gave as an
- 26:50example there, or the matrix from the
- 26:53former president of the United States,
- 26:55these tools are based on assumptions
- 26:57that I think are wrong. One assumption
- 27:00they work from is that we are able to
- 27:02plan and then execute the things that
- 27:03we have planned in a simple way. Uh-huh
- 27:05.
- 27:05These are assumptions that I think are
- 27:07wrong. Another assumption is that the
- 27:09problem is technical. And Lour just
- 27:12said, right? For me, the problem isn't
- 27:14just technical, and most of it isn't
- 27:16technical. There are relational,
- 27:19political, existential problems, right?
- 27:21Problems that for some people are even
- 27:24hygienic, right? So basic. It's so
- 27:27elementary. So, it's not just a
- 27:28technical matter, like," Oh, you just
- 27:30have a little timer to do the Pomodoro,
- 27:32"right? Another assumption that I
- 27:34consider to be mistaken is the idea
- 27:35that we can simply assume that people
- 27:37are truly free. Just say no, just say
- 27:41move the card to the left and not to
- 27:44the right. The truth is that we are not
- 27:47free. That's the truth. There are a lot
- 27:51of restrictions that we are subject to,
- 27:53from the bills I need to pay, right?
- 27:57From the distance I have to my work and
- 27:59the time it takes me to get there, to
- 28:00the fact of having a boss, people who
- 28:02simply tell me either yes or no. So you
- 28:05have countless restrictions, both from
- 28:07your home, your family, and your work.
- 28:11There's another assumption that is
- 28:13wrong, which is this: that time is a
- 28:15thing and we should occupy that thing,
- 28:17that space. It's what Bergson talked
- 28:20about as the spatialization of time.
- 28:22The spatialization of time. When we
- 28:24think that time is...Space confuses you
- 28:27. So, I have to occupy the space. And
- 28:30we get this idea that the more I
- 28:32produce, the more tasks I do, the more
- 28:34I deliver, the better I occupied my
- 28:36time, the more productive I was. But,
- 28:40man, the other thing is, whose logic is
- 28:44that? You're producing more for whom?
- 28:46Because I'm more productive, I open up
- 28:48more space in my schedule. What do I do
- 28:49with that? I go to the beach to rest,
- 28:51no, right? I do more things. So, the
- 28:54more productive, the more efficient I
- 28:56am, I end up having more time to work
- 28:59more.
- 28:59Yes, all proactivity will be punished.
- 29:02If you are very proactive, you will
- 29:03have even more to do.
- 29:05So,
- 29:05this time calculation isn't working,
- 29:07because time has been expropriated,
- 29:08right? Yes,
- 29:09this time calculation isn't adding up.
- 29:11There's a book called Late Capitalism:
- 29:13The Ends of Sleep. Have you heard of it
- 29:15?
- 29:15Yes. It says that the last space to be
- 29:17occupied is sleep, that it's the last
- 29:18vestige of our humanity, that we lie
- 29:20down and sleep. And nobody can
- 29:21advertise, they're trying, right, a
- 29:24banner, and there have already been
- 29:26studies on how to keep people awake,
- 29:28military studies, right? It starts with
- 29:30the military, then it comes to society,
- 29:31how is that, right? What happened was
- 29:33that it was military and was
- 29:34distributed to people.
- 29:36Suspicious,
- 29:37suspicious, right? Uh, that brings this
- 29:40here, sleep is the last, our last cry
- 29:42of humanity. Uh, I think that's super
- 29:44interesting, man. It's so fragile to
- 29:46lie down and sleep, right? Because when
- 29:47you lie down and sleep, you're trusting
- 29:49in institutions, you're trusting in the
- 29:50next day, because you can close your
- 29:52eyes and never wake up again. I think
- 29:53sleep is a huge obsession. And that's
- 29:56it. And even now it seems like we're
- 29:59losing time in our regeneration, in our
- 30:01health, right? So many people with
- 30:03insomnia. I've heard a lot of people
- 30:05say:" No, I only sleep 5 hours a night,
- 30:07"telling winning stories like that, you
- 30:09know?"
- 30:09They cut their hair and post it on
- 30:11Instagram like this: 'I only sleep 5
- 30:12hours a night, I wake up, I go to
- 30:14karate practice, then I do this, I
- 30:15don't know what...' Saying: 'Damn, I
- 30:17also wanted to have a butler, right? I
- 30:19don't know what they do there, a lot of
- 30:20people do a lot of things, but damn, I
- 30:22only slept 5 hours a night, man.' No, I
- 30:23simply don't want that. I want a
- 30:25victory.
- 30:26Exactly. I think that's crazy. Your
- 30:29occupation of time as an obligation and
- 30:31rest as something that isn't also part
- 30:34of that time and that time management
- 30:36and what we're calling productivity. Do
- 30:39you want to bring up any other points
- 30:41about that? Yes. I was thinking about
- 30:44what you said about asking about goals
- 30:46and strategy, how could I put a
- 30:48negotiation argument in your head?
- 30:51Great. I think it works for certain
- 30:54types of people, certain types of
- 30:55people in some position. It would be a
- 30:57manager, I imagine a manager doing that
- 30:59with a director and negotiating. "It
- 31:01could be that good, what is the
- 31:02strategy? What is the goal that we have
- 31:04to accomplish? We have three things to
- 31:06choose in the battle, don't we? This
- 31:08month or this week. But as I said
- 31:10before, I believe that the person,
- 31:11while lower, is less free from this
- 31:13negotiation; less freedom and space
- 31:14sometimes have to be able to ask what
- 31:16is the strategy, what is the priority,
- 31:18because it is expected that everything
- 31:19that is on the list will be achieved.
- 31:24That's it, one side; But I find myself
- 31:26thinking about the theme over time, and
- 31:28now I can remember a time when I was
- 31:30working hard, with these projects, time
- 31:32, and I find myself struggling to sound
- 31:34contrary, sometimes sounding delivering
- 31:36, sometimes sounding like facilitating
- 31:38a meeting. The next day is horrible,
- 31:43you haven't rested, you're tired; Every
- 31:45therapy on the subject and the psycho
- 31:47tried to help me. But I'm wondering:
- 31:51how many times until the same person is
- 31:53propiado? O sea, I'm with you in bed,
- 31:56and do you have to control? They go to
- 32:00rest, to sound with work, there is no
- 32:03way, there is no control. I believe the
- 32:06work we are doing is work that goes to
- 32:08your house, home office, work invades
- 32:10the house. And he has had many more
- 32:12journeys, he has been a mother, he has
- 32:13had a family, he has been working for
- 32:15nothing. After 9, 6 hours work 24%. So,
- 32:19priorities...be good, priorities, work
- 32:21alone; and the mother has to have the
- 32:23priority of the child, the food, the
- 32:25lunch, the washing of the slate. At
- 32:27home I spend between meetings and
- 32:29meetings I put on a washing machine and
- 32:31I have to take out the clothes. I don't
- 32:33have time to take off my clothes. There
- 32:34it was again because it was ugly.
- 32:36happens. So I feel that these solutions
- 32:39, however beautiful they may be, depend
- 32:41a lot on the public, depend a lot on
- 32:43the social class of the person. It's
- 32:46easy for a CEO to decide that it takes
- 32:485 hours when he has a network of
- 32:50support that helps him, but for the
- 32:51person, the mother who is on the
- 32:53outskirts, he has to walk 3 hours to
- 32:55get to his work. I don't believe,
- 32:58sometimes these tools are good peregoo,
- 33:03and they are not for everyone; It's not
- 33:05so easy to apply and that ends up
- 33:08generating this self-demand of" I can't
- 33:10wait, if so and so on Instagram can ".
- 33:14No, your life is different from that
- 33:16guy on Instagram. I believe there is
- 33:20sometimes a lack of empathy, too, I
- 33:21believe, from the companies themselves
- 33:24or the people who sell tools to decide
- 33:26that it really applies to everyone. Or
- 33:28not, I see that these things, these
- 33:32premises, as Barão brought up,
- 33:34generally to organize large companies,
- 33:36I see an attempt to create standards,
- 33:38because there are many people working,
- 33:40many people deciding, and then, well,
- 33:42let's agree on some tools here, because
- 33:44it won't be possible for everyone to
- 33:46work in whatever way they want. Yes,
- 33:49because if you think about it, I
- 33:51believe that not everyone is able to
- 33:52work 8 hours a day, five days a week. I
- 33:54think that after I started my
- 33:55entrepreneurial journey, my
- 33:57relationship with time is very strange.
- 33:58How can I not be working 8 hours a day
- 34:02uninterruptedly? But it is not as if we
- 34:04were inside the companies also working
- 34:06for 8 hours a day without any break at
- 34:07all. Companies want to believe that.
- 34:09When you say," No, since I paid you to
- 34:11stay here for 8 hours, "you won't stop
- 34:13for a minute. But you can't control an
- 34:15individual just because they're sitting
- 34:17in a chair looking at a computer. And
- 34:19sometimes the best ideas don't come
- 34:21because I was sitting there too. So it
- 34:24strikes me that dealing with this
- 34:26complexity is a great challenge. As a
- 34:28consultant, sometimes I go to companies
- 34:30to map tensions and bring this
- 34:32complexity to the table, and people are
- 34:35still looking for a root cause, a
- 34:37single solution that will cover
- 34:39everything. Yes.
- 34:40And I understand that's the challenge,
- 34:41while at the same time not everything
- 34:42works for everyone. Giant companies
- 34:45sometimes need to have minimum
- 34:47boundaries and standards, so we can
- 34:49continue living our daily lives.
- 34:53Then I started thinking, Barão, with
- 34:54this thing about premises, it came to
- 34:56me, meta-agreements, right? Would it be
- 34:59better for us to work more on broad
- 35:01premises about how we're going to
- 35:03prioritize and manage time here in this
- 35:05company, rather than thinking that one
- 35:07mandatory tool or another will solve
- 35:09everything? Because I see this crisis,
- 35:11many people want to adopt tools, agile
- 35:14methodology being one of them. Uh-huh.
- 35:16People aren't adopting them, people
- 35:18aren't engaging. And I ask you, for
- 35:20what reason did you start using these
- 35:23tools?
- 35:23What problem were you trying to solve
- 35:26when you started using these tools? And
- 35:28people can't explain it to me. Was it
- 35:30because of a trend, because someone
- 35:31said so?
- 35:32So I keep thinking, what is this fine
- 35:35line you'd
- 35:36draw that says it's impossible for
- 35:37everyone to work however they want
- 35:39within the corporate world,
- 35:40realistically speaking?
- 35:43On the other hand, should we focus more
- 35:45on designing these premises and
- 35:47meta-agreements rather than thinking
- 35:49that one tool or another will work for
- 35:51everyone? I have been working with
- 35:53leadership, as you mentioned, regarding
- 35:55the question of who is allowed to
- 35:57decide or lead? Is this the same
- 35:59leadership that has an owner's mindset,
- 36:00wants initiative, and is proactive? And
- 36:03I have to say:" Wow, but did you guys
- 36:05really define the goals for this year?
- 36:08Are you talking to people about it?
- 36:11Because mental health is often about
- 36:13knowing what I have to do. I'm like,
- 36:17mental health is like when we were in
- 36:19school and we knew that getting a 10
- 36:21was the big deal. If I get a 10, okay?
- 36:23It's an agreement, everyone understood,
- 36:25everyone agreed. Getting a 10 is great.
- 36:28A 7 is weird, anything below that. No,
- 36:32are we agreeing on these big numbers,
- 36:34these big ideas, and ensuring that the
- 36:37largest number of people understand
- 36:39them? I keep thinking about whether
- 36:41different methods can work depending on
- 36:44the situation. I think there's this
- 36:46issue of experimentation, thinking that
- 36:48the case that worked at the company
- 36:49next door will work here, which is a
- 36:51big crisis that we'll work on in
- 36:53another episode of this season, which
- 36:54is this idea of translating tools from
- 36:56the global north directly to us. And
- 36:59then there's this Herculean effort to
- 37:00deal with it.
- 37:01So there are tons of tools, but
- 37:03understanding that experimentation for
- 37:04me is the key. "The only possible state
- 37:06in the world we're living in. Nobody
- 37:08can set a tool in stone and think it
- 37:10will last forever, prioritize time, and
- 37:11so on. And then these big agreements
- 37:14come to mind. If we can't tell if a
- 37:16tool isn't a silver bullet or if
- 37:18problems don't have a single cause,
- 37:20does it make sense to create these big
- 37:22agreements? Like, what's our perfect 10
- 37:24? You know? Bigger agreements. And
- 37:28within that perfect 10, how you're
- 37:30going to study for the test is your
- 37:31problem, you understand? But if you get
- 37:33a 10 at the end, that's fine. And I
- 37:36know it's challenging because people
- 37:38say they want people to deliver value,
- 37:41but they also want to control, right?
- 37:44They can't just do that. Besides
- 37:45wanting you to get a 10, I'd like you
- 37:48to study this way, Mondays, Tuesdays,
- 37:50and Wednesdays, from 3 to 4 pm. Wow, I
- 37:53think there's also that challenge in
- 37:55agreeing, in accepting that a 10 is...
- 37:5710 and then individuals organize
- 37:58themselves. Eh, and no, in addition to
- 38:0110, I want you to organize yourself 10
- 38:03in the way that I think is correct. I'm
- 38:06freaking out, guys. Poor people who
- 38:07hear this later. I'm thinking here that
- 38:10I had to remember an experience in a
- 38:12previous company that I was in, I
- 38:14believe that there was a meta-book like
- 38:17this that says here everything that we
- 38:19could do in a timely manner that we
- 38:21really had to be alive together in a
- 38:23meeting and that made it easier for me
- 38:25to create the theme of time management,
- 38:27because it was as if between everyone
- 38:30according to that, If I could always
- 38:32send an email, a functional company was
- 38:38also very functional. Because I feel
- 38:40that, in addition to not only managing
- 38:42time, I'm here for me. now more and
- 38:45more thinking about the energy
- 38:46management I put into things because I
- 38:48have the same twenty-four hours as
- 38:49everybody else. For the energy that I
- 38:52put into certain things, it's more or
- 38:53less, and when it's the 6th of the
- 38:55afternoon, there...Energy that remains
- 38:57is very little. energy go to the gym to
- 39:00study without excess energy, without
- 39:05excess energy for more. So, in this
- 39:08company, culture helps a lot so that I
- 39:11can do something that is important with
- 39:14less energy. An email, I finished it,
- 39:17on to the next. But there are cultures
- 39:19where sometimes the relationship is
- 39:21also more important and generates value
- 39:24. O, yo genre valor como sea, seeko la
- 39:27manera, en locrono, o yo genre valor;
- 39:29but I have to have a meeting With 10
- 39:31people, I have to meet in person for 4
- 39:33hours to create something with them,
- 39:35because otherwise, it's not there.
- 39:38Therefore, this generates a large
- 39:39energy expenditure that, sometimes,
- 39:41leaves very little and, sometimes, the
- 39:43delivery could have been equal to the
- 39:45best. I'm not questioning that, but
- 39:47it's energy that puts me on things.
- 39:50There was once a leader who liked me so
- 39:51much how she betrayed this theme of
- 39:53hers; no talk about time management,
- 39:54energy management decision. She said:"
- 39:58Ponle 20%of things to reach the 80%you
- 40:00need "and she spends a lot on that line
- 40:02. I mean, if this can be done by making
- 40:05a 5-minute video, you send it and
- 40:07You've achieved your goal, you've made
- 40:09it easier and shorter. But there are
- 40:12other cultures where this is not
- 40:13required. Even more people are
- 40:15involuting better, even more people are
- 40:17involucring energy that they have to
- 40:19put on things in the past when we are
- 40:21all locked up in the house and then I
- 40:23feel like my social crash is different
- 40:25after the pandemic isn't the same as
- 40:27before. The sea, I go to the workshop
- 40:30and then I don't have the energy to
- 40:32deal with people that are much harder
- 40:33than before the pandemic. So it's not
- 40:36like you have to manage 8 hours of
- 40:38managing the energy that you put into
- 40:40things in one place and you choose that
- 40:43it's a priority to put more energy in,
- 40:49but deliver I
- 40:51decided. Uh, I was listening to one of
- 40:56your podcasts and I remembered a guy
- 40:58who said," Look, it seems to me that
- 41:01when people are interacting, they have
- 41:04at least three needs that are quite
- 41:06recurrent, very regular among people
- 41:09when they interact. One of them is the
- 41:13need for inclusion, right? But in the
- 41:16sense of inclusion, of needing to be
- 41:18included in this, in this experience
- 41:20I'm seeing. So, maybe control is partly
- 41:24the desire or this need to be included
- 41:28in this. It's
- 41:30not malicious. I also sometimes think,
- 41:31'Oh, because so-and-so is controlling,
- 41:33man.' I don't think that's malicious.
- 41:36That's
- 41:36how so-and-so is,
- 41:39you know? And that's one of the things.
- 41:42The other thing is a need for
- 41:45predictability of what will happen. So
- 41:50we came to record the podcast with you.
- 41:53In some way, the three of us, at
- 41:55different levels or with different
- 41:58expressions, wanted to be sure of what
- 42:00was going to happen. Uh-huh.
- 42:02Right? So this need for predictability
- 42:05is present in the relationship, and the
- 42:07people...Interaction, right? And people
- 42:09deal with it differently. And a third
- 42:11thing is what he calls ontological
- 42:14security, which is what? The need I
- 42:17have that what I believe to be true, in
- 42:19fact, truly exists. So I want you to
- 42:22confirm it for me. Look at that, right?
- 42:25The girl is in a wooden chair here,
- 42:27right? Colorful, isn't she, Lorena?
- 42:30She's not in a colorful wooden chair.
- 42:33So, her pants aren't red, right? So it
- 42:36seems that we have a constant need to
- 42:39confirm everything that we perceive all
- 42:41of the time. So these needs are
- 42:44expressed in very different ways.
- 42:47That's why when we're talking about
- 42:49time management or productivity, right,
- 42:51or prioritization, people will deal
- 42:53with it in very different ways too,
- 42:55right? Uh, I forgot the first part I
- 42:58asked about.
- 42:59Meta-agreements. Yes, meta-agreements
- 43:01like that, it will be possible to
- 43:03customize everything for huge companies
- 43:04, which is the challenge that companies
- 43:05face.
- 43:06It's good. So, I think the thing about
- 43:09agreements, it's very...that's why I I
- 43:11remembered the three needs because it
- 43:13relates to that. Making agreements,
- 43:16trusting agreements, but also making
- 43:18more reliable agreements
- 43:21is a way of dealing with these three
- 43:23needs, right? So, I know what's going
- 43:25to happen. I'm being included because
- 43:28I'm agreeing, and things are as we
- 43:30think they are, right? Everyone agrees
- 43:34that this is the reality. But
- 43:36ultimately, what I think can happen
- 43:39more in organizations is that we have
- 43:41more space to discuss the assumptions
- 43:44that are currently in place, right? For
- 43:47example, I could adopt the assumption
- 43:49that time is fragmentable into small
- 43:52pieces that we are able to manage by
- 43:54using the concept of a time box. So now
- 43:58I'm going to divide my time into 37
- 44:00parts of the day where I'm going to do
- 44:02various things,
- 44:0337 things. That's an assumption. But
- 44:06there are people like Bergson, whom I
- 44:08mentioned, who believe it's part of
- 44:10another assumption, that time is a
- 44:12continuous flow. So, more important
- 44:14than chronological time is duration,
- 44:16which is what Lori talked about. That's
- 44:18it. My work time is the same, but my
- 44:21energy is the same as it was back there
- 44:24, that is, exhausted, zero. My energy
- 44:27ran out back there, it doesn't
- 44:28replenish. Like, in a rupture, right?
- 44:31In the rupture series. I don't leave
- 44:33work, I'm just chilling, I'm feeling
- 44:36awful, I am so pissed off with life,
- 44:39I'm tired, I don't even know what's
- 44:41going on. Why? Because it's the
- 44:43duration of the experience, right? So
- 44:45I'm starting from another premise, that
- 44:47time is not fragmentable, time is a
- 44:49continuous flow that passes through us.
- 44:52So, for me, to have space for us to
- 44:54discuss assumptions, not to plan them,
- 44:56to define them. Look, let's all start
- 44:59from the belief that people are good
- 45:01and are born good and so on. No, it's
- 45:04not something we can plan, but we
- 45:06should discuss it. Look, what we're
- 45:08creating together here seems to come
- 45:10from, what assumption, right? This
- 45:12control over the workday, which Do the
- 45:15assumptions seem to make this possible
- 45:18and desirable? And the other thing we
- 45:20should discuss is the implications. I
- 45:23see that we don't discuss them. Let's
- 45:25adopt Agile. It already starts off a
- 45:27bit crooked, right? Let's adopt it.
- 45:29What is Agile? How do you adopt it,
- 45:32right? You adopt it, what does adopting
- 45:34mean? It's grafting on a cascading
- 45:37effect. Cascading is also
- 45:39cascading, and so on. These are
- 45:41metaphors that don't require much
- 45:42thought. So we don't even discuss the
- 45:44premises, right? Or the assumptions.
- 45:48The assumption is that what worked at
- 45:50Spotify will work for me. That's the
- 45:51assumption. It's
- 45:52from Google. I can question that
- 45:54assumption. And the other thing is the
- 45:56implications. Oh, people are getting
- 45:58sicker. Ah, but then let's give yoga
- 46:00instead of changing the management
- 46:01model. Wait a minute. When are we going
- 46:04to talk about the implications of the
- 46:06decisions we make? We're talking about
- 46:09goals, about strategy, but when are we
- 46:11going to discuss the direct
- 46:12implications? Indirectly, right, from
- 46:15these decisions we've made? There is no
- 46:18room for that in daily organizational
- 46:19life. Those
- 46:21who create the goals or rules think
- 46:23it's common sense or a general
- 46:25understanding, a general acceptance,
- 46:28that it should be what they think it is
- 46:30for everyone.
- 46:33And that's where the various
- 46:34communication failures begin, because
- 46:35everyone interprets it according to
- 46:37their own point of view. And this idea
- 46:39of having space to combine these things
- 46:41seems very useful to me, because it
- 46:43brings up the cultural issue. What's
- 46:46normal in Brazil might not be
- 46:47considered normal in another Latin
- 46:49American country, for example. Some
- 46:53constitutions have included Bwen Bibir
- 46:55as part of the Constitution, which is
- 46:57an indigenous idea, that incorporates
- 46:59other assumptions about how we deal
- 47:02with nature, how we deal with each
- 47:04other, how we deal with time itself.
- 47:08And sometimes people are so convinced
- 47:10that time is what they think it is.
- 47:15When you present another way of
- 47:16organizing time, another way of being
- 47:18in the world, this discussion now,
- 47:19right, about the end of the scale...For
- 47:21example, a 6x1 work week, when you
- 47:23change that schedule, they
- 47:24automatically think: "Oh no, if you
- 47:26reduce the hours, you reduce
- 47:27productivity." And productivity isn't
- 47:30just about hours, as it's measured in
- 47:32the world; it's about the population's
- 47:34educational level, it's about the
- 47:36country's level of technological
- 47:37development. Then there are other
- 47:40premises regarding what we call
- 47:41development, which is another topic
- 47:43that we will work on here as well,
- 47:45which is: what exactly is development?
- 47:47Because for me, the highest technology
- 47:48is eating a mango that tastes like
- 47:50mango,
- 47:50eating rice and beans every day, you
- 47:52know? I find this discussion very
- 47:54interesting, for example, about
- 47:55artificial intelligence, which brings
- 47:57this to the forefront, because
- 47:58artificial intelligence doesn't emerge
- 47:59in a vacuum, it depends on minerals, it
- 48:01depends on land. So,
- 48:03what are these premises of what we're
- 48:05calling technological, or what we're
- 48:07talking about as a good use of time, or
- 48:09what we're calling priorities? I'm
- 48:12really fascinated by this whole thing,
- 48:14like practically recombining how we
- 48:16exist in the world to then manage...
- 48:18Time is possible, a priority can happen
- 48:21, you know?
- 48:23Want to see something that challenges
- 48:24this idea of time we're talking about,
- 48:26a
- 48:27tiny assumption, but if we put it on
- 48:30the table, things will get messed up.
- 48:33The idea that time is an infinite
- 48:35resource. Someone was talking, I was
- 48:38reading, the person calculated that on
- 48:41average we have 14,000 weeks in life,
- 48:43something like that. So it's a finite
- 48:46resource. If you know from now on that
- 48:50you have 14,000 weeks on average, what
- 48:52are you going to do with your weeks?
- 48:55Because the way we deal with it in our
- 48:57daily lives, it seems like time is an
- 48:59infinite resource.
- 49:00That Lorena said: "You don't have to do
- 49:01everything." What is the priority? So,
- 49:02you have to dedicate yourself, you
- 49:04sleep 5 hours a night. No, but I'm
- 49:05going to work on the weekend, schedule
- 49:07it, but just a crunch here, right? Like
- 49:10, let's get through this valley here
- 49:12and we deliver the sprint and then...
- 49:15Okay. That's when we relax a bit. But
- 49:18if I assume that time in my life is
- 49:21finite, damn, then the whole story
- 49:24starts to become something else
- 49:26entirely. I'm
- 49:27selling something
- 49:30finite, and often people are stealing
- 49:32that something I didn't sell, right?
- 49:34When people message me at 10 pm wanting
- 49:37me to reply, that person is stealing
- 49:39something finite from me, and I don't
- 49:41want it stolen, right? I see that this
- 49:44time crisis, along with the midlife
- 49:46crisis, hit me hard, making me realize
- 49:48that time is finite, and I'm not going
- 49:49to do just anything with the time I
- 49:51have. But that's it, I have more
- 49:53choices nowadays because of the
- 49:55privileges I've gained by becoming an
- 49:57entrepreneur. Some people say, "Oh,
- 49:58becoming an entrepreneur means working
- 50:00even harder than before." I said, "
- 50:01Honey, if it means working harder than
- 50:02before, find me a job. I'm not going to
- 50:04work harder than before.""The real joy,
- 50:05the real joy, is making money. Yes, but
- 50:07the real joy for me is a friend going
- 50:09on vacation, and me going on vacation
- 50:10too. I find joy in doing that. The real
- 50:13joy is that next week there are two
- 50:14vacations in Rio de Janeiro, and I'm
- 50:15going to stay there the whole week
- 50:16because I want to take advantage of it
- 50:18since we don't have those two here. So,
- 50:19for me, there are other incredibly rich
- 50:21joys, right? Of course, that's it.
- 50:23People who are in companies won't be
- 50:25able to do that, but it exists. I think
- 50:27it's important to know that it exists
- 50:28because it seems like there's only one
- 50:29time for everyone. We're starting to
- 50:31get to the end of our conversation here
- 50:33. I wanted to know if Lorena wants to
- 50:34bring up any more points about this
- 50:36discussion, otherwise I have a question
- 50:37to ask you. No, I was remembering an
- 50:39experience with agility that I had at a
- 50:41company where we got into the idea and,
- 50:43well, I got in; a friend, a colleague,
- 50:45and I brought up the issue of agility.
- 50:47I was in..." la moda y la jefa: "yes,
- 50:50let's do it". We bought courses and we
- 50:53all started the course and let's start
- 50:54working agile and these things,
- 50:55experimentation. At first, everyone was
- 50:58excited. At the time that the director
- 51:02understood, the director understood the
- 51:05assumptions and implications that she
- 51:07had that she enchanted every day with
- 51:09that character: "Come on, so-and-so,
- 51:11come on, ask me to kill you, fashion
- 51:13planning." And you won't be able to
- 51:17apply it, wait. I believe that
- 51:20sometimes we come into these tools like
- 51:22"ah, this is what is going to solve our
- 51:24life, the life of everyone here", but
- 51:25it means that we have to change habits.
- 51:28How are you, good, if you are going to
- 51:29work, it means that she had to open the
- 51:31agenda and decide "good, It is
- 51:32important for this week. She maintained
- 51:35strict control over her own affairs and
- 51:37would not open her schedule to us, but
- 51:39at the same time, she had this habit of
- 51:41causing fires that we were forced to
- 51:42extinguish every single day, you see?
- 51:45And when it comes to changing her way
- 51:47of leading, not everyone is necessarily
- 51:49on board with that, and so those tools
- 51:51eventually end up dying out. I walk
- 51:54this way, because it implies that the
- 51:57person has to change their way of doing
- 52:00things that is deeply rooted in their
- 52:03persona, I come with the intention of
- 52:06starting with agility that people don't
- 52:09realize that a change in behavior will
- 52:12also be necessary. Something like when
- 52:16I put up a board with tasks so that
- 52:18everyone can see somewhere, explaining
- 52:26to people what is happening, a cultural
- 52:29change that in thinking it was just one
- 52:32. herramienta. But certainties, explain
- 52:42, I mean, people. I think they realize
- 52:47that there are many hidden gains that
- 52:48they lose at that moment, that tool
- 52:55takes away, and they don't realize that
- 52:57if I do this, I'm going to lose this,
- 53:00and this is important to me, to be able
- 53:02to
- 53:03admit, right, that this is important.
- 53:04Hidden gain is hard to admit.
- 53:06Something in self-management, when we
- 53:08live in self-management, we make that
- 53:10move of disclosing everyone's salary.
- 53:11Wow, we're crying, but in reality it's
- 53:13not the coolest thing. It's cool. But
- 53:16then when we disclose the salary,
- 53:17everyone is like," No, but damn,
- 53:19they're going to disclose my salary, I
- 53:20don't know what, I'm going to get a
- 53:22raise. Everyone will know I got a raise
- 53:24. "So, look at the implications, the
- 53:26assumptions. Who is, who feels
- 53:28comfortable talking about money? When I
- 53:30worked in a self-managed company, women
- 53:32and Black people had a lot of
- 53:33difficulty in that meeting talking
- 53:35about the money they deserved to earn.
- 53:37More or less, or get into negotiating
- 53:39money. So, one of the criticisms I have
- 53:41, including regarding self-management,
- 53:43is this assumption that people will
- 53:44arrive there, talk about their tensions
- 53:46, and talk about money. I was crazy, I
- 53:48was like that because," I have this
- 53:49person, love, I'm going to talk, I'm
- 53:51going to talk, love, my dream is to
- 53:52talk about money. "I found the meeting
- 53:54about money very emotional, and other
- 53:55people left crying because they hadn't
- 53:57been able to talk about it. So, I think
- 53:59there are these specificities, and I
- 54:01think there's a phrase I learned from
- 54:03Mariana Zaparoli, I don't know if it's
- 54:06hers, but it's" practices stimulate
- 54:08behaviors. "Many times companies don't
- 54:10realize that adopting practices will
- 54:12stimulate other behaviors, and you have
- 54:14to see carefully if that's what you
- 54:16want. On the other hand, yes, if you
- 54:19want to change a behavior or try new
- 54:21things, maybe you have to think about
- 54:23new practices. That's
- 54:25it. And so, looking at this, I wanted
- 54:27to know from you, there could be two
- 54:29ways for us to end our episode today.
- 54:32One, is, was there any improvisation,
- 54:33any What kind of makeshift solution did
- 54:35you guys use, which wasn't really a
- 54:37tool, my love, but did it solve the
- 54:38problem that existed, for example?
- 54:41Because I see that when we talk about
- 54:42methodologies from the United States,
- 54:44from Europe, we call it experimentation
- 54:45, hypothesis testing, MVP. Uh-huh.
- 54:48And a makeshift solution isn't a
- 54:50minimum viable product, right? It's not
- 54:52an improvisation, it's not
- 54:54experimentation, right? I keep
- 54:56questioning myself about this. Is there
- 54:58any makeshift solution, anything that
- 54:59you think was really cool when it
- 55:01happened? If not, don't think of any
- 55:03right now. I wish you could offer me
- 55:05some of that kind of advice; I wish so
- 55:07much that someone had told me that.
- 55:10I've heard a lot of advice, especially
- 55:12from Baron, like, when I met Baron, it
- 55:13was like, it broke through a lot of
- 55:15things in my head, because I thought
- 55:16things, but you think you're crazy,
- 55:18right? Then you hear another person
- 55:21managing to pay the bills and saying
- 55:22things like, wow, how good that someone
- 55:24told me that. It either validated
- 55:26something I was thinking or helped me
- 55:28organize a thought I had. So, it's open
- 55:31for you all, starting with Lorena,
- 55:33either a makeshift solution you think
- 55:34worked, something you improvised and
- 55:36solved, or a piece of advice you say:"
- 55:38Look, I really wish someone had given
- 55:39me this advance, "and feel free to
- 55:41share." O, I believe that hubiese dear
- 55:45that someone, before, came to me when
- 55:47they were Brazilians, it was the
- 55:49Brazilian culture in these small things
- 55:51that one learns, not necessarily for
- 55:53the good times, noting here. But I
- 55:56believe, despite not having that advice
- 55:59, in these 11 years that I have lived
- 56:01here in Brazil, workers from Latin
- 56:07America with migrants, at the beginning
- 56:11, I remember that they went through
- 56:13several difficulties because they
- 56:15believed what was going on among
- 56:16Brazilians at the beginning, as Latinas
- 56:18, for example, not because we're going
- 56:20like this, we're going to agree like
- 56:21this, we're going to make an
- 56:23appointment, let's see, and nothing
- 56:24happens because we're Brazilians to see
- 56:29it and we're not capable of, then,
- 56:35understanding anything. y don't want me
- 56:42to fall I don't understand, I lack good
- 56:45intent, but all are tired, there is no
- 56:48energy. It is not hard to grasp, and I
- 56:57think that steals energy from this. A
- 57:02very here, very Brazilian phrase, which
- 57:04is when something medium as rare comes
- 57:06to you and says: "No, that ball arrived
- 57:08square in spit." At the beginning that
- 57:13the ball means that and then I
- 57:18understand that in these contexts that
- 57:23are common the time to round that ball
- 57:28to be able to play with it. behind,
- 57:34what the person is saying when he says:
- 57:35"I don't want it", but the truth, in
- 57:37the background, I don't want it, but I
- 57:39won't tell you that I can't, I don't
- 57:40have an experience that you had, one of
- 57:42the companies that I work for, after a
- 57:44lot of time here, it was a
- 57:45multinational company and has a team in
- 57:47Brazil, but I have a team in Brazil.
- 57:50worked with Argentine teams, United
- 57:51States, Colombia, countries, and the
- 57:53bosses are in Argentina. Then, it
- 57:56seemed very funny to me, because the
- 57:57Argentines came to quejarse from the
- 57:58Brazilians, the Brazilians came with me
- 58:00to quejase from the Argentines. A
- 58:03moment that I found in the medium and I
- 58:06stopped giving them advice: "No, you
- 58:07look at the Argentinean, Brazilian, you
- 58:09have to talk like that", and I was
- 58:11translating, and on the contrary, the
- 58:13same: "it's decent frontal, so you have
- 58:15to deal with it in this way". Suddenly
- 58:20I was on the bridge between Argentine
- 58:22Brazilians due to the issue of
- 58:25difficult communication, because
- 58:27Argentines tell me that if I don't do
- 58:30anything, that's how it works with
- 58:32mental salt to understand depending on
- 58:40the states. Brazil, a continent, so not
- 58:43necessarily all In São Paulo, that's
- 58:46how it works in the states. And you and
- 58:49you don't, I remembered a case I
- 58:51experienced. I was at a client's doing
- 58:54a design sprint, a cultural design
- 58:57sprint, and we were working with
- 58:59culture. There were several groups,
- 59:01right, raising hypotheses about culture
- 59:03, creating projects, and so on. And one
- 59:06group did something very simple that
- 59:08had to do with time, that had to do
- 59:09with prioritization. And I remembered
- 59:12that, that case, right? They created a
- 59:15super ugly artifact, as a prototype
- 59:17should be, right? And they said, "Our
- 59:21team is a team that puts out fires all
- 59:23the time.""But sometimes people don't
- 59:27know that we're putting out fires, and
- 59:29they just keep doing their normal jobs,
- 59:31unaware that there's a fire somewhere
- 59:33that we need to mobilize for, a small
- 59:35company, right?
- 59:37Uh-huh.
- 59:38And then we were like, 'Okay, what can
- 59:39you do?' They created a fire alarm
- 59:43scale
- 59:43with little flames, little
- 59:45flames and stuff, they drew something
- 59:48and stuck it on the wall. So, every
- 59:51week they updated it, and then they
- 59:54agreed with everyone, right? They said,
- 59:57'Look, when you pass by here, where the
- 59:59coffee shop is, you'll see the fire
- 1:00:02alarm scale, and you'll see where the
- 1:00:04fire is.' And this will give you
- 1:00:07information so you can mobilize in a
- 1:00:08different way, if you want and can,
- 1:00:10right? And I even told them, 'Hey, cool
- 1:00:13, but put some sticky notes next to it
- 1:00:15so people can leave feedback on the
- 1:00:17device too, right? How do you...'" You
- 1:00:19guys can improve this and stuff. So, it
- 1:00:20was a cool experiment. But what insight
- 1:00:22does this give me? If I had brought
- 1:00:27them a framework, a methodology, or a
- 1:00:29tool and said, "Use this tool for
- 1:00:32visibility and prioritization and so on
- 1:00:34," they might have responded, "Oh,
- 1:00:37that's cool, thanks, let us try it."
- 1:00:42But they created something with their
- 1:00:44own language, their own aesthetics,
- 1:00:46their own humor, which I think humor is
- 1:00:48very powerful at that moment, right?
- 1:00:51It's for Brazilians. So, yeah, laughing
- 1:00:53while we created something with their
- 1:00:55own style that I still use in my
- 1:00:57classes today, this artifact to
- 1:00:59show to the group, right? An example of
- 1:01:02a prototype. So, for me, this was a
- 1:01:04cool thing, like, they discussed
- 1:01:06assumptions together, discussed
- 1:01:08implications, discussed something very
- 1:01:11important that you said, which is what
- 1:01:13are the stimuli that people have in
- 1:01:15their daily lives to behave the way
- 1:01:17they behave. I get pissed that the guy
- 1:01:21from finance went there to do what he
- 1:01:23had to do and didn't help me. "To solve
- 1:01:26my problem. But did he know about the
- 1:01:28problem?
- 1:01:29Yes. Oh, Fano doesn't want to help me
- 1:01:31with my goal. But he didn't even know
- 1:01:32that goal existed. When I create an
- 1:01:34artifact, for example, a visual one
- 1:01:37like this, I generate a different
- 1:01:39stimulus that allows people to behave
- 1:01:42differently, to react to it differently
- 1:01:45. So, for me, if we don't discuss the
- 1:01:47stimuli that are in place, the
- 1:01:48incentives, some of which are quite
- 1:01:50perverse, and if we don't discuss the
- 1:01:52stimuli, we don't discuss the
- 1:01:54assumptions, we don't discuss the
- 1:01:56implications, things won't change. And
- 1:01:58then something I heard Lour say, a
- 1:02:01phrase that's more common here in
- 1:02:04Brazil, in the equivalent system in
- 1:02:07Venezuela, is: what Peter says about
- 1:02:10Paul says more about Peter than about
- 1:02:13Paul, right?
- 1:02:14Uh-huh. For me, that phrase liberated
- 1:02:16me when I learned it, because I was
- 1:02:21still an HR professional and I used to
- 1:02:22get very worried when people said: 'Wow
- 1:02:24, you don't look like...'""Of ragar,
- 1:02:26man? You say some crazy things that
- 1:02:29don't sound like ragar, how do I say
- 1:02:31something like that?" When I saw that
- 1:02:33phrase, I said, "Damn, that's it, right
- 1:02:35?""People are talking about her, she's
- 1:02:37not talking about me." Uh-huh.
- 1:02:38So, I think one thing I wish I had
- 1:02:41heard before,
- 1:02:43to feel more relaxed, to experience my
- 1:02:45time with more quality, you know, with
- 1:02:47more openness, with more lightness, is
- 1:02:49that when people tell me something,
- 1:02:51they're talking about themselves.
- 1:02:53They're not talking about me. Uh-huh.
- 1:02:55It's much less about me. I'm the least
- 1:02:58relevant part when someone says
- 1:03:00something to me. They're talking about
- 1:03:02themselves, right? And knowing that
- 1:03:04beforehand, I think, would help me a
- 1:03:05lot to make better use of my time.
- 1:03:07Very good, I learned a lot. Thanks
- 1:03:11again. I'm very happy to have you here
- 1:03:15with me. I hope that at home you also
- 1:03:19enjoy this conversation very much and
- 1:03:22that you learn as much as I did. I
- 1:03:24think these conversations are very rich
- 1:03:26. I have many insights from
- 1:03:29conversations with people that no tool
- 1:03:31has taught me, and the experience of
- 1:03:34others living their lives has often
- 1:03:36taught me more about time management
- 1:03:38than a tool. You are inspiring people
- 1:03:41to me, the way you live or the issues
- 1:03:43you address. You make me see things and
- 1:03:45think in different ways. I hope that
- 1:03:47those who are at home have also had
- 1:03:49insights, and if they have, these
- 1:03:51things will go to platforms. You
- 1:03:53comment on YouTube, for example, you
- 1:03:55comment on Spotify, it'll be on the
- 1:03:56internet, you want to leave your
- 1:03:58contacts, you're all offline. If people
- 1:04:00are offline, I'm against it, I'm
- 1:04:02against it. On LinkedIn they are,
- 1:04:04people. We are not, we have to pull
- 1:04:06them out of their house and put them in
- 1:04:07a chair to say something. So, take
- 1:04:10advantage of the fact that they opened
- 1:04:12their mouths, if you want you can go
- 1:04:13after them on the internet, but you can
- 1:04:15come after me. And thank you for
- 1:04:17staying with us until now.
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