From Fear to Influence: Tun Kim’s Personal & People Mastery Framework for Career Growth — Transcript
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- 0:00[Music]
- 0:01Welcome to the Amazing Authorities
- 0:04podcast, where game changers,
- 0:06visionaries, and category leaders share
- 0:09how they built their brands, platforms,
- 0:11and global influence. Your host is Mitch
- 0:14Carson, international speaker, media
- 0:17strategist, and creator of the Instant
- 0:19Authority System. If you're ready to
- 0:22learn from those who've done it and want
- 0:23to become the go-to expert in your
- 0:26space, you're in the right place.
- 0:31Today's guest, Toune Kim from Singapore,
- 0:34is going to wow you on multiple levels.
- 0:38Number one, she is a super smart person.
- 0:41She's kind and she's written about her
- 0:44passion helping people. She's got a
- 0:46corporate highle corporate
- 0:48seale executive position with a major
- 0:51corporation. She'll share that or not
- 0:53during her time with you today. but she
- 0:56has got a fantastic presentation ready
- 0:59for you. Welcome Toun Kim to the program
- 1:03today.
- 1:05Thank you very much, Mitch. I'm so
- 1:07delighted to be with you today and
- 1:10certainly to talk about the book that
- 1:13I've written on the art of personal and
- 1:16people mastery. Well, that's a biggie
- 1:19right there. Personal and people
- 1:20mastery. Now, I could go at many levels.
- 1:23Is it mastering yourself or is it
- 1:25mastering how to engage with other
- 1:27people just to create a little context?
- 1:30Right? It is actually about mastering
- 1:33myself or yourself. And at the same
- 1:36time, once you are able to master
- 1:38yourself, how do you also master your
- 1:40interactions with people? And that's the
- 1:43reason why I talk about personal and
- 1:46people mastery. Okay. Well, the floor is
- 1:49yours, Mrs. Kim. All right. All right.
- 1:53Okay. So, hi everybody. As Mitch
- 1:56introduced, my name is Tun Kim and um I
- 2:00truly have a passion in terms of um
- 2:02learning more and more skills and over
- 2:05the past um 20 or 30 years. I have
- 2:10learned from many mentors, read many
- 2:12books, attended many seminars on how I
- 2:16can master myself um and also how do I
- 2:20interact with people. So today in my
- 2:23book I will talk about how do you unlock
- 2:26your full potential to achieve
- 2:28breakthrough with these two very
- 2:31important skills. And to me people and
- 2:35personal skills are the two pillars of
- 2:38your success because if you are able to
- 2:41master yourself only then you can
- 2:44inspire others. So let's get going.
- 2:51So in our journey to personal and people
- 2:53mastering um I I really like this
- 2:57picture if you could see it. It gives
- 2:59you that warmth. Um the sun the sun rise
- 3:04always signifies growth. It always
- 3:08signifies potential. And so for any one
- 3:12of us, I truly believe that every one of
- 3:15you has the resources within yourself to
- 3:18be successful and the only thing is that
- 3:23are you able to unlock that potential in
- 3:27yourself. So let's go through that
- 3:30journey in terms of how you can master
- 3:33yourself and only when you master
- 3:36yourself, you can inspire others.
- 3:42The first thing first is that hey you
- 3:45can't be what you cannot see. So clarity
- 3:50clarity is the starting point for your
- 3:54success. Only when you are able to see
- 3:57clearly on what you want then you are
- 4:01able to pursue in terms of how you want
- 4:04to achieve your goal. And to me I have
- 4:08three simple steps in terms of how you
- 4:11can achieve clarity. The first point is
- 4:16to pause and reflect. Now in this
- 4:20today's world we are always always so
- 4:22busy rushing from one place to another
- 4:26being stuck on our social media and so
- 4:29we are just too busy. So one area to
- 4:33achieve clarity is to pause and reflect.
- 4:38The second point is how about
- 4:41journaling?
- 4:42I found that journaling is a very
- 4:44powerful tool that you can use because
- 4:47by journaling you are able to think back
- 4:51on what you have achieved and what you
- 4:54have done and then looking back and hey
- 4:56saying that hey this is what I can do
- 4:59better and the last area to achieve
- 5:02clarity is to seek guidance.
- 5:05Never be too shy to ask to look for pe
- 5:10people who can help you and guide you.
- 5:12So seeking for guidance is one way is
- 5:16where you can achieve clarity.
- 5:24In my book I emphasize a lot about the
- 5:28power of I am.
- 5:32The words that follow I am follows you.
- 5:38Do you know that every single day you
- 5:42talk to yourself 60,000 times?
- 5:47Oh wow. 60,000 times, Mitch. So if I
- 5:51thought it was 61, but m
- 5:54that's amazing,000 times. Amazing,
- 5:57right? Imagine if you talked to yourself
- 6:0060,000 times and you said I am confused.
- 6:04I am no good at this. I am just lousy. I
- 6:08am incapable.
- 6:10What are you telling yourself? You're
- 6:12programming yourself to tell that hey
- 6:15you are that person. But if you tell
- 6:18yourself that I am confident, I am
- 6:22capable.
- 6:24I am worthy of all of these good things
- 6:27that is happening to me. Just imagine
- 6:30the power that you have created in your
- 6:34own mind and that whole reframing of
- 6:36your thoughts. So do think is there
- 6:40another word for this tune Kim called
- 6:42self-t talk? Is that the the popular
- 6:44word is is our power is our selft talk.
- 6:47Yes. Yes. Very much a lot of us talk
- 6:50about selft talk right. How do you talk
- 6:53to yourself? Or some people even call it
- 6:55the inner voice. Yes, there you go.
- 6:58Right. The inner voice. So imagine the
- 7:00inner voice keeps running and running
- 7:03the record to says that I am confused. I
- 7:07am incapable
- 7:09whether you like it or not. This is
- 7:11going to get programmed in your mind. So
- 7:14absolutely Meech self-t talk inner voice
- 7:17whatever whatever you call that. I love
- 7:20this command. The power of I am capable.
- 7:24Perfect. Perfect. Perfect. Love it. Love
- 7:27it. Toune Kim. Good. Very good. Very
- 7:30good. So, let's move on. Wow. Look at
- 7:33this. Oh my gosh. Snake charmer.
- 7:38That's me, Mish. That's me in this
- 7:41photo. And it was like
- 7:442018.
- 7:46Okay. And you're still alive?
- 7:49Yes, I am still alive. And I'm so glad
- 7:52that I took the courage um to to hold
- 7:57the python and in my hands. And you know
- 8:01what? I was so scared when someone asked
- 8:04me, "Tunk, would you want to hold the
- 8:06python?" My immediate action was, "Nope.
- 8:08Nope. Nope. I'm not going to do it."
- 8:10Why? What if? What if the python turn
- 8:15around and bite me? What if the python
- 8:19coil around my neck? No, there were so
- 8:21many whatifs in our mind. And this is
- 8:24exactly what happens. In fact,
- 8:28I learned that fear is actually our
- 8:31guardian angel. Believe it or not, fear
- 8:35is our guardian angel. Why? Because it
- 8:38is constantly protecting us from danger.
- 8:42It is constantly protecting us from
- 8:45things that are unknown. However, fear
- 8:49also stops us from thinking big. Fear
- 8:53also stops us from achieving more. Fear
- 8:56stops us from doing a lot of things that
- 8:59actually you are capable to do. So the
- 9:02question to ask is that how do we tame
- 9:06the cobra of fear in us? Remember that
- 9:10fear only exists in your mind. It is
- 9:13just imaginary. It has never never
- 9:15happened. It is just something that we
- 9:18have in our mind and we keep asking
- 9:20ourselves what if. Now the word fear
- 9:24mean you probably has heard of some
- 9:26acronyms right? In fact there are so
- 9:28many acronyms to the word fear. It has
- 9:32this word to say that face everything
- 9:37and rise. Rise. Yes. Acronym that I love
- 9:41the best. Fear. That's the one I use.
- 9:44Yes. Face everything and rise. Right.
- 9:47Rather than uh what you call that? Um uh
- 9:51some some of them says that flight as in
- 9:54you will you take you flee away from
- 9:56fear. So that's not the acronyms that I
- 9:58would want to to adopt.
- 10:01Yes, that's that's better faced
- 10:03everything in rise or false evidence
- 10:06appearing real. I've heard that. I'm
- 10:08sure there are a whole bunch of them,
- 10:10but I like the one that we share and
- 10:13embrace which is face everything and
- 10:16rise. Let's go with a positive slope
- 10:18there. Exactly. Exactly. So, so I love
- 10:22this picture and whenever I'm fearful, I
- 10:25always use this picture and tell myself,
- 10:27"Hey, Tunim, you have already caught a a
- 10:31python around you. So, what else are you
- 10:33fearful of?" And I remembered me, you
- 10:36had a photo as well with a tiger. Yes.
- 10:40I'm not sure whether I'm as brave as you
- 10:42yet, but certainly I think that was also
- 10:45a very good picture yourself. Well, what
- 10:47I was told was it doesn't eat Americans,
- 10:49but it will eat Singaporeans. So I
- 10:51recommend you don't go there. Don't go
- 10:53there. Okay, got it.
- 10:59Right
- 11:01now, now we talk about our goals and
- 11:05said that this is the goal that we want
- 11:07to achieve and this is what we want to
- 11:10see ourselves achieving, right? And so I
- 11:14I found that
- 11:17the very word that is the bridge between
- 11:19our goals and our results is actually
- 11:22the word discipline. So at this picture,
- 11:26I use this picture to deplete this this
- 11:31particular theory is because if you look
- 11:33at the left, this is probably where you
- 11:35are today. And looking at the right,
- 11:38this is where you want to go. And to go
- 11:41from the left to the right, you need to
- 11:44have a bridge that helps you to go
- 11:46across. And as you go across, you look
- 11:50at the water. It is never still. It can
- 11:54be still but it can be rough. So
- 11:57anything could happen to us in anything
- 12:00that we do. Our goals, our way to
- 12:03achieve our goals could never be plain
- 12:06sailing. In fact, we see that as we go
- 12:09through the different steps and the
- 12:10different actions we take, we learn from
- 12:13the experiences. So remember that
- 12:16discipline, which is that bridge, is
- 12:19your bridge to achievement.
- 12:23Love it. Love it. Go over the unknown to
- 12:27the known and and get there. Good.
- 12:30Absolutely. Absolutely. And the bridge
- 12:32can be all kinds of bridge. The bridge
- 12:35that I've selected is a more solid one.
- 12:37But of course in life there are many
- 12:40different types of bridge and it is for
- 12:42us to decide whether how how strong we
- 12:45want our foundation to be. And that
- 12:48foundation actually lies in your
- 12:50personal and your people mastery. So it
- 12:53all goes back again to that two pillars
- 12:55of mastering yourself and mastering your
- 12:58interactions with people around you.
- 13:01Okay. Really nice.
- 13:04Wow. Wow. Wow. We talk a lot about
- 13:07clarity, the power of I am, how you tame
- 13:11the cobra of fear and how do you have
- 13:14that discipline which is the bridge to
- 13:17your accomplishment. But I particularly
- 13:20like this in terms of self-love.
- 13:25Very often we do not love ourselves as
- 13:28much. we kind of neglect ourselves and
- 13:33says that oh okay I will take care
- 13:35ofelves when I'm able to um I was asked
- 13:41this question maybe about 5 years ago
- 13:45the question was
- 13:48who is the person that you love the most
- 13:52who is the person that you love the most
- 13:55now my immediate answer was my parents
- 13:59my family, my children, my husband.
- 14:04But then
- 14:06my mentor told me, "No, Tunim,
- 14:09the person whom you must love the most
- 14:12is yourself." Because if you don't love
- 14:16yourself the most, you will not be well
- 14:18enough to look after the people who are
- 14:22around you.
- 14:24And if you are not well enough to look
- 14:25after them, who are going to look after
- 14:28them?
- 14:30So the person that you must love the
- 14:32most is yourself. I I thought to myself,
- 14:36isn't that sounded selfish? Right? But
- 14:40then I thought, no, it is very true. And
- 14:44I remembered me, we were talking about
- 14:46this too, right? About this analogy on
- 14:49in the airplane. Whenever we're in the
- 14:52airplane, what did they announce? They
- 14:55said that when the oxygen masks drop,
- 14:58who do you put on the oxygen mask first?
- 15:02Yourself. Help yourself first before you
- 15:06help the person next to you. Because if
- 15:09you do not put on the mask, you probably
- 15:11could not survive through to help the
- 15:14person next to you. So it is always
- 15:18important to practice self-love.
- 15:22And how do you practice self-love and
- 15:25how do you build that confidence?
- 15:28First you must accept who you are.
- 15:32Accept who you are. Do not compare
- 15:35yourself to other people all the time.
- 15:38Compare yourself to two years ago of
- 15:43you. 10 years ago of yourself and see
- 15:46how you have progressed and how you have
- 15:49improved. So do not compare yourself
- 15:51with others. Accept yourself for who you
- 15:53are. And secondly, when someone gives
- 15:57you a compliment, accept it. Accept that
- 16:00compliment and not to be shy and say,
- 16:02"No, no, I'm not like that." Accept the
- 16:05compliment graciously and give
- 16:08compliments to others as well. And the
- 16:11third way that I learned how I can build
- 16:14my confidence is to truly treat myself
- 16:17well. Give myself a break, give myself,
- 16:21go for a spa, go for a spacia when I
- 16:24need it, you know, really really treat
- 16:26yourself well, eat well, go and
- 16:30exercise. So this to me is truly
- 16:33important or a foot massage.
- 16:36Yes, go for a massage. Me? Yes. That's
- 16:39self-care. That's my idea of self-care
- 16:42for sure. Give yourself that time to
- 16:45love yourself. So
- 16:48everyone on the call remember I advocate
- 16:52self love and I want you to advocate
- 16:55self- loveve too.
- 16:57Great.
- 17:00We talk a lot about the self. Now what I
- 17:04like to emphasize on is this is a modern
- 17:07world, right? You just look at all the
- 17:10diagrams in there. I use the social
- 17:13media, the connections, you know, how we
- 17:15can connect with one another. And I want
- 17:19us to know, I want you to know that
- 17:23connection is your superpower. It is no
- 17:26longer a luxury.
- 17:29Today in today's environment
- 17:32connection building connection
- 17:35authentically
- 17:37multiplies your influence. So do not
- 17:40take connection just as a luxury. Do not
- 17:44think that connection is only meant for
- 17:47extroverts. It is meant for everybody
- 17:52you and me. So take super take
- 17:56connection seriously. And when I say
- 17:58connection, networking is not about just
- 18:01going for activities, drinking,
- 18:04socializing, etc. But meeting people and
- 18:10creating that meaningful connection with
- 18:12the people. It doesn't have to be many.
- 18:15Every single person that you connect
- 18:18with, but you connect it meaningfully.
- 18:22One other thing is that how can you be a
- 18:25better connector? You need to learn how
- 18:27to listen.
- 18:29We do not know how to listen. We hear,
- 18:32but we do not listen. And we sometimes
- 18:35only listen with our ears. I learned how
- 18:38to listen with our eyes, by watching the
- 18:42body language, by watching the
- 18:44expression. Listen with your ears. You
- 18:47can hear the tone. You can hear the the
- 18:50the the the pace as they speak. Were
- 18:53they excited? Were they sad? And you
- 18:55listen with your heart.
- 18:58Listen. Bingo. Heart. Right. Listen with
- 19:01your heart. How do you how do you listen
- 19:04to the person? Listen, empathize and put
- 19:09yourself in the shoes of that person.
- 19:13So, and when you communicate, you
- 19:15communicate with openness and with
- 19:18sincerity. It's not about hi mage, how
- 19:21are you? Okay. Okay. Then you fly to
- 19:24another person. Hello Jane, how are you
- 19:26doing? You know that is pretty
- 19:28superficial. So whenever you go for
- 19:30networking,
- 19:32do connect authentically and do connect
- 19:36with sincerity.
- 19:38So remember connection is no longer
- 19:40luxury. It is truly your superpower.
- 19:46Love it.
- 19:49Now I particularly like this
- 19:53which amplify your voice, amplify your
- 19:57career. Now I particularly like this
- 20:00because when I look at my younger self,
- 20:03right, Tunim in 25 years ago, I was like
- 20:10I dare not speak up. No, when I was in a
- 20:12meeting, I said I actually have a point
- 20:16of view. I have a suggestion. But I
- 20:18thought h probably someone has a better
- 20:21suggestion than me so I don't want to
- 20:24speak. And I also have this thought in
- 20:26me to say that what if they think that
- 20:29my suggestion was so naive and what if I
- 20:33asked a very stupid question or what
- 20:35would they think of me? So I had this
- 20:38thoughts a lot of these questions in my
- 20:40mind. So I actually missed a lot of
- 20:42opportunities because I was so quiet in
- 20:45those meetings. I did not dare to put my
- 20:49point of views across. I did not dare to
- 20:52ask questions because I was so afraid of
- 20:55what people think of me. But I learned
- 20:58that it is so silly of me to think of
- 21:01that way. So we need you need to be
- 21:05brave to take your space, take the stage
- 21:09and make your voice be heard. So amplify
- 21:13your voice, amplify your career. Step
- 21:16up, step forward and be visible. And
- 21:20this is even more important in today's
- 21:23environment where things are remote. You
- 21:26go for meetings, you on a virtual
- 21:29meeting, are you showing your face or
- 21:32are you not showing your face? It is
- 21:36always important to show your face. It
- 21:38is always important to have a face and
- 21:41not be faceless.
- 21:44So amplify your voice so that you can
- 21:48amplify your career or even amplify your
- 21:51business. So me this is very dear to me
- 21:54and I really want to make sure that you
- 21:57know people around me do not do not get
- 22:00into that same mistake that I made 25
- 22:03years ago. Well, here's a here's
- 22:05something I want to insert because this
- 22:07is so valuable. Well, obviously this is
- 22:09close to my heart being a speaker myself
- 22:12and speaker trainer. There is let's talk
- 22:15about numbers because I know you're a
- 22:16numbers person as well. There is a a
- 22:20very clear study and and and
- 22:23relationship between income and the
- 22:26ability to communicate and speak to a
- 22:28crowd of people. The introverts are
- 22:32safe. They're like turtles that stay in
- 22:34their shell. But the ones that stick
- 22:36their heads out of the shell and plaid
- 22:39forward get to the end. They progress
- 22:44through, you know, sh change your
- 22:46thoughts, move, and then there's an
- 22:48energy that goes out. Movement causes an
- 22:50energetic change. And it's so true. I
- 22:54was more introverted than you. I
- 22:56guarantee you at one time. So quiet. And
- 22:59it took a while to build up that
- 23:00confidence. Like you're very confident
- 23:03today. You're celebrating your heritage
- 23:05with of Chinese New Year wearing red,
- 23:08which means you said austerity, wealth,
- 23:12yeah, prosperity, all of this. This is
- 23:15an example of you out of your shell.
- 23:18Your head is out of your turtle shell,
- 23:20which was the younger 25 years ago toune
- 23:23Kim. Today, you're this confident
- 23:25executive who's willing to wear red,
- 23:28smile on camera, and present to a live
- 23:30group. And that's a that's case in
- 23:32point. How does somebody I want to ask a
- 23:35question or pretend like somebody is
- 23:37here and the question would be how do
- 23:39you build up that confidence to move
- 23:42forward? What do you do specifically?
- 23:45Okay. I I I think it's a lot about
- 23:49mindset shift. Sure. Yes. It has to
- 23:52start with a mindset shift. And the very
- 23:55first thing is that tell yourself the
- 23:58power of I am. I am capable of putting
- 24:03my points across. I am confident to talk
- 24:08to people. So the power of I am is so
- 24:11important. So remember just now we talk
- 24:14about we speak to ourselves 60,000 times
- 24:17a day. Imaging that you tell yourself
- 24:20that I am so scared. I am not able to do
- 24:23it. I am not going to be successful in
- 24:26front of a group of people. what will
- 24:30happen? You will not be successful. You
- 24:32will not be confident because you are
- 24:35drumming this message into yourself all
- 24:37the time. So for me one very powerful
- 24:41tips is the power of I am.
- 24:46The second tip of gaining that
- 24:48confidence me is really about
- 24:52modeling people.
- 24:54Success leaves clues, right? Oh yes.
- 24:57learn from people who are successful.
- 24:59Find out you know what exactly do they
- 25:02do and I really like the point you
- 25:04mentioned about communications. Now,
- 25:06communications, whether you like it or
- 25:09not, is the number one number one skill
- 25:12that every professional, every leader
- 25:17must must must
- 25:20excel in. Because if you are not able to
- 25:23communicate what's in your mind, if
- 25:26you're not able to communicate what
- 25:28exactly do you want to put across, you
- 25:31will never be able to get your message
- 25:33across. And how are you going to help
- 25:35people? How are you going to inspire
- 25:37people? So, communication is so
- 25:40important and therefore learn from
- 25:43people who communicates well. Attend
- 25:46speaking mastery class. Speak to people
- 25:49that are able to bring to help you to
- 25:52bring your points across. So, I would
- 25:54say these two things right the power of
- 25:57I am and also tell yourself model
- 26:01successful people. Bravo. Bravo.
- 26:07So now that you have learned how to
- 26:09amplify your voice, I'm going to share
- 26:13my next slide with you is something that
- 26:16again is very dear to me. And a lot of
- 26:19things that we do here, it actually
- 26:22boils down to this particular word. And
- 26:26this word is actually
- 26:29gratitude.
- 26:32Gratitude.
- 26:34The power of gratitude
- 26:3710x
- 26:39your success is 10x your success.
- 26:46You will notice that people who are
- 26:49successful are always choosing to be
- 26:53grateful.
- 26:55They are grateful for the things that
- 26:58around them. They are grateful for
- 27:02the the environment that they are in.
- 27:04They are grateful for the help that
- 27:06someone rendered them. They do not go
- 27:09around whining, complaining and crying
- 27:13for things that they do not have, but
- 27:16they choose to be grateful. So to me
- 27:20this feeling of gratitude is such a
- 27:24powerful and strong feeling that we all
- 27:27need to choose to have. So remember that
- 27:31the power of gratitude 10x your success.
- 27:36So when you have a choice what do you
- 27:38choose? Choose gratitude. Grateful.
- 27:42Right. And at this point, niche, I'd
- 27:47like to say that these are all the the
- 27:52highlights of my book, The Art of
- 27:55Personal and People Mastery. And
- 28:00to me, if we were able to master just
- 28:04one of these skills
- 28:06every single day, you will see an
- 28:09improvement in yourself.
- 28:12And if you master yourself only then you
- 28:17can inspire others.
- 28:20And I want to share that to create that
- 28:26ripple of greatness.
- 28:29Be the person to create that ripple of
- 28:32greatness.
- 28:34And I want
- 28:37myself to be able to be that drop that
- 28:42create the ripple of greatness to the
- 28:45people around me.
- 28:49So, Meech,
- 28:51I am so delighted to be able to share um
- 28:55my book, The Art of Personal and People
- 28:58Mastery, because I know that I can make
- 29:03a difference to not just myself, but to
- 29:08many, many people around me. I've
- 29:11practiced all of those areas, all of
- 29:14those tips in my book. I know that it
- 29:18works and I know that it will work for
- 29:20anybody who
- 29:23has who make it an intention to master
- 29:27themselves to create that ripple effect.
- 29:32Well, I believe it's something called
- 29:34implementation
- 29:35and it starts with your framework that
- 29:38you've laid out. I am capable of like
- 29:41you say it's the mindset. Then you've
- 29:44got principles that you've laid out in
- 29:46your book. This is a very scant overview
- 29:49of what's possible and you've laid out,
- 29:52you've almost teased us with what we
- 29:53need to do, but it's enough ammunition
- 29:56to load our gun on life and how to shoot
- 30:00straight and be productive and show us a
- 30:02road map, a stepbystep system to live
- 30:06our best lives. And that's what you've
- 30:08laid out in your book is what do you
- 30:10have to do? putting the mask on your
- 30:13face first. Save yourself when there's
- 30:16turbulence in life, just like the
- 30:18turbulence in an airplane. Save
- 30:20yourself. Be ready to help other people.
- 30:23You can't help other people if you're
- 30:25not together, if your own house is not
- 30:28in order. And that's what you're
- 30:29sharing. There are all sorts of
- 30:30metaphors out there, but you've laid it
- 30:32out very simply, concisely, in a
- 30:35pleasant way, one that our viewers can
- 30:40implement. But I think the bigger
- 30:42takeaway is invest in the book, invest
- 30:45in your system because it takes
- 30:47practice. Nobody's an overnight success.
- 30:50Nobody's an overnight great speaker.
- 30:53Some people would say, "Oh, I was uh I'm
- 30:56a natural-b born speaker, a natural-b
- 30:58born communicator." I say horseeradish.
- 31:02That's not true. That's not true. It
- 31:04takes practice. You took it took you 25
- 31:09years of being the best I am toune Kim
- 31:13who is blank to go from where you were
- 31:16this introverted shy Asian woman to now
- 31:19this sealevel executive running you know
- 31:23loads of employees who's making a
- 31:25difference. That's what I admire about
- 31:28you. Who's willing to wear red and smile
- 31:31and be in prosperity. And that's where
- 31:34people can implement your system, your
- 31:37stepbystep system to benefit. So how can
- 31:39they best get in touch with you? What
- 31:41would be the next best step for our
- 31:44viewers today? Tune Kim.
- 31:47Right. So Meech, I'm living behind. The
- 31:50best way that they can connect is to
- 31:52follow and connect with me on my
- 31:54LinkedIn. They can just pick up the
- 31:56phone and um and um and connect with me
- 32:00through this um QR code. So I'm I'm on
- 32:03LinkedIn. Connect with me on LinkedIn
- 32:05where you will be able to read a lot
- 32:08more about my insights and also how do I
- 32:12um how do I live my life right in my
- 32:15personal and my professional life. So
- 32:18you'll get to know more about me. Um so
- 32:21yes um like you have originally said uh
- 32:24now you could see that I'm actually um
- 32:27working in IBM and I'm the general
- 32:29manager of IBM. Um so I'm an author of
- 32:32the book the art of personal and people
- 32:34mastery and at the same time I am very
- 32:38passionate in terms of um mentoring and
- 32:41coaching. So I do a lot of mentoring and
- 32:44coaching um and also um also have u
- 32:48courses that um are put together for the
- 32:51people. Um so yes so connect with me on
- 32:54LinkedIn happy to to to um to have
- 32:58further conversations with uh with every
- 33:00one of you on the call. Great Tudkim.
- 33:03Thank you for your time today. You've
- 33:05dispensed great information,
- 33:07valuable information came from the
- 33:10heart. You do this out of care, not out
- 33:13of profit. You do this to share with
- 33:16others to enrich their lives. And
- 33:18everyone who's been through this session
- 33:21today has benefited, including myself.
- 33:24So, thank you for your time today,
- 33:26Tonkim. We'll see you next time. Thank
- 33:28you very much, Meech.
- 33:32Oh, by the way, Tonkim, we've got a
- 33:34couple more slides to share with them.
- 33:36You It wasn't so easy for you to get
- 33:38away. Why don't we go to the next slide?
- 33:40Go to the next slide. And here's your
- 33:42book. It's available on Amazon. Personal
- 33:45and People Mastery. A great picture of
- 33:47it. It's right here. This is where you
- 33:50need to go. Buy it today. It's available
- 33:54right now in ebook form and in print
- 33:56form. Is that correct? They can get the
- 33:58physical copy and the printed copy at
- 34:00amazon.com.
- 34:02I think it's a limited versions are on
- 34:05Amazon. Amazon.sg. But let's go to your
- 34:07next slide, Tonkim.
- 34:10And here's the snapshot of who you are,
- 34:12what you've done. Ladies and gentlemen,
- 34:15everything you need to know about this.
- 34:17Lady Tounkim is available right here.
- 34:20And there's more coming. So this is for
- 34:23you. You can access her on LinkedIn or
- 34:26tunkim.com on the web or that looks like
- 34:30Telegram, isn't it? That's right. which
- 34:32I have my own telegram channel which I
- 34:34do recording of um of how some of the
- 34:37tips that um anyone could listen to. So
- 34:40yeah, join my telegram channel as well.
- 34:43Okay, great. Well, thank you again. We
- 34:45forgot these couple little slides which
- 34:47are important, but this is how you get
- 34:49in touch with Tonkim and this is how you
- 34:51then invest in her book. Guys, we'll see
- 34:54you next time. Thank you. Thanks for
- 34:56tuning in to the Amazing Authorities
- 34:58podcast. If today's episode inspired
- 35:01you, take a moment to subscribe, rate,
- 35:04and leave a review. It helps more
- 35:06experts like you rise to the top. For
- 35:09behindthe-scenes access and free
- 35:11resources to boost your authority, head
- 35:13to mitchcarson.com.
- 35:15Until next time, stay amazing.
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