Fermarti è la Cosa Più Difficile che Farai Oggi | Neville Goddard — Transcript
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- 0:10Imagine you are standing in line at the
- 0:14grocery store or stuck in traffic.
- 0:19In an imperceptible instant, without a
- 0:21conscious decision having taken shape in
- 0:24your head,
- 0:27your hand moves on its own and pulls
- 0:29your phone from your pocket.
- 0:36The screen lights up, the app opens, and
- 0:39only after a few seconds do you realize
- 0:43what just happened.
- 0:47The mind arrives late, when the choice
- 0:50has already been made.
- 0:54In that precise moment, an automatic
- 0:56force made of well-established habits
- 0:59and reactive mechanisms manages your
- 1:02gestures and your attention.
- 1:08All of this happens because silence and
- 1:11the absence of stimuli have become alien
- 1:14, unbearable, inhospitable spaces,
- 1:20hostile, unsettling, giving us a sense
- 1:25of emptiness.
- 1:30Our lovely society has turned rest into
- 1:34a guilt and constant busyness into a
- 1:37form of identity.
- 1:43Every time you try to stop, a sense of
- 1:46restlessness emerges, an irresistible
- 1:49need to fill that void with something,
- 1:52anything, as long as it is something.
- 1:59The ability to be with oneself and
- 2:02simply be has dissolved into a
- 2:05continuous stream of information
- 2:08designed to capture attention
- 2:14and fragment presence.
- 2:20We call ourselves human beings, but we
- 2:24have turned into human doings, as John
- 2:28Kabat-Zinn says.
- 2:31Hello everyone and welcome to Radical
- 2:33Awakening. I am Dominic.
- 2:37If you are new around here or if you
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- 2:55transformation to reach those searching
- 2:58for answers and in need of a new
- 3:00perspective.
- 3:08Do you know what is one of the hardest
- 3:11things for us human beings turned into
- 3:14human doings to do?
- 3:18It is doing nothing,
- 3:22sitting still, with eyes open, and just
- 3:25being.
- 3:29I like to call it presence contemplation
- 3:31.
- 3:33It is a very simple practice or exercise
- 3:37, but not easy at all.
- 3:41Try sitting comfortably on a chair or
- 3:44even the sofa, without slouching,
- 3:46obviously.
- 3:50Keep the light on and sit there still
- 3:53for 20 minutes
- 3:57and see what happens.
- 4:00Be there with yourself, you and the room
- 4:04.
- 4:07It does not count to start meditating,
- 4:10reciting mantras, counting sheep, or
- 4:13anything else that comes to mind to kill
- 4:17time.
- 4:21You must have a close encounter with
- 4:24silence and what we call boredom.
- 4:32You will see how the ego, the mind
- 4:35starts to fidget, it will start to buck
- 4:38like a wild horse that has been saddled
- 4:41for the first time.
- 4:46The first time you do it, perhaps it
- 4:49will come easy—the famous beginner's
- 4:53luck.
- 4:55Try doing it multiple times and you will
- 4:57see what happens.
- 4:59And each time, increase the
- 5:01contemplation time by 10 minutes.
- 5:07Try doing an hour if you want to go for
- 5:09a real rollercoaster ride.
- 5:14The ego is laid bare,
- 5:18you see it for what it is.
- 5:24The first few times I did it, after 10
- 5:26minutes, I would have eaten the table
- 5:28just to do something.
- 5:32My body stayed still, or at least tried
- 5:36to, while something inside was restless
- 5:40, a voice telling me, "What on earth are
- 5:44you doing?"
- 5:48At 20 minutes, it seemed impossible to
- 5:52go on.
- 5:54By the half-hour mark, I would have sold
- 5:58a kidney just to get up and do anything
- 6:01, even wash the dishes.
- 6:05You know something?
- 6:09By comparison, when you meditate,
- 6:11staying still becomes almost easy.
- 6:15And you know why?
- 6:17The ego has something to cling to
- 6:20because it is doing something, which in
- 6:24this case is called meditation.
- 6:30Even if you struggle and your mind jumps
- 6:33around like a grasshopper, you are
- 6:36trying, and for the ego, trying is
- 6:38enough to feel okay.
- 6:43Remove the label and you’re just a
- 6:45person sitting on a chair doing nothing
- 6:48.
- 6:51Then the ego goes into crisis and feels
- 6:55useless.
- 6:58Useless to whom? But
- 7:02stop for a moment on this question.
- 7:06The room is empty,
- 7:09no bosses or clients.
- 7:14Yet you feel a gaze upon you that judges
- 7:19and takes notes.
- 7:25Whose gaze is this?
- 7:29A parent's, an entire era that taught
- 7:31you to measure your worth by what you
- 7:34produce, until the gaze moved inside you
- 7:38and took up residence; it watches you
- 7:40even when you're alone, and by the way,
- 7:43it works for free.
- 7:48So then, what is boredom?
- 7:53What is this cursed boredom?
- 7:57And I didn't say joy.
- 7:59Sorry, a little quote from the Califano
- 8:03song.
- 8:07In my opinion, boredom
- 8:10is a withdrawal symptom.
- 8:16The ego thrives on stimuli and things to
- 8:18talk about.
- 8:20As soon as you take them away, what does
- 8:22it do?
- 8:23It protests.
- 8:25Like someone who suddenly stops, I don't
- 8:29know, drinking coffee or any addiction—
- 8:32headaches, irritation, nervous hunger
- 8:36for anything.
- 8:39Boredom is the noise of identity when it
- 8:42stops being fueled from the outside.
- 8:47Beneath the noise, if you endure, you
- 8:50find something else.
- 8:53You have to stay long enough to hear it
- 8:56. However,
- 9:03now I'll point something out to you
- 9:07and after this, you won't be able to
- 9:09unsee it.
- 9:10Has it ever happened that you found
- 9:12yourself with your phone in hand without
- 9:14remembering picking it up?
- 9:18You unlock the screen, open an app, and
- 9:21only after a few seconds you ask
- 9:22yourself,
- 9:25"Wait, when did I pick this up?"
- 9:29There was no decision, nor even a
- 9:33thought.
- 9:35Your hand moved on its own, and you
- 9:38arrived later,
- 9:40after the fact, as a spectator.
- 9:45If your hand moves
- 9:47before you do, who sent it?
- 9:52A habit with the keys to your house that
- 9:54decides and then informs you.
- 9:59You call it willpower.
- 10:03Neville Goddard said that attention is
- 10:06the creative faculty.
- 10:10What you hold it on is what you live.
- 10:16Read that sentence again, thinking of
- 10:18your phone.
- 10:20Someone built an entire industry just to
- 10:24harvest this very faculty every single
- 10:27day, bit by bit, and resell it to the
- 10:30highest bidder.
- 10:34Hours of attention surrendered to the
- 10:37stories of others, to unknown quarrels,
- 10:40to catastrophes 10,000 km away.
- 10:46Neville would have called them
- 10:47assumptions.
- 10:51You tell me how many moods you inhabited
- 10:53today without choosing even one of them
- 10:56.
- 10:59This is why the chair is so terrifying.
- 11:04Remove the stimuli and stay there,
- 11:07talking to your inner conversation.
- 11:13The same one that Neville considered the
- 11:14cause of everything that happens to you
- 11:16on the outside.
- 11:19For years, you have covered it up with
- 11:21noise.
- 11:25After 3 minutes, you hear it clearly,
- 11:27and it’s often a grumbling that repeats
- 11:30your life as it is now, with the usual
- 11:32complaints and the usual things that
- 11:35don't add up.
- 11:38Boredom acts as a screen upon which your
- 11:40initial assumption is projected.
- 11:4610 minutes of nothing
- 11:49and you know which state you inhabit
- 11:53without asking anyone.
- 11:58Think of an actor, an actor on stage who
- 12:01was never given a script.
- 12:06Lights on, the audience is full, and he
- 12:09stands there with the feeling that
- 12:12someone should prompt him on what to say
- 12:15.
- 12:18That feeling is boredom.
- 12:22We wait for the line to come from the
- 12:24outside, for someone to tell us what to
- 12:27think and what to feel.
- 12:31The phone acts as a prompter on a
- 12:33continuous loop, and as long as you
- 12:35recite the lines of others, no one is
- 12:37writing yours.
- 12:41Neville used to say that the world is a
- 12:45stage.
- 12:47The world is you yourself projected
- 12:51outward.
- 12:52Everyone is pushed out.
- 12:56And you are its author.
- 13:01Feeling bored means waiting for someone
- 13:03else to write the script for you.
- 13:08The phone hands them to you on a
- 13:10continuous loop, always from others, and
- 13:12as long as you recite them, the author
- 13:15sleeps.
- 13:18In the chair, no script reaches you, and
- 13:23the author
- 13:26wakes up.
- 13:29There is a verse that Neville loved very
- 13:31much, Psalm 46.
- 13:34Be still and know that I am God.
- 13:41Be still
- 13:43and know that I am God.
- 13:49For him, that "I am" was your
- 13:52consciousness, and to know it, you just
- 13:56need to be still.
- 14:05We live in an era that does everything
- 14:07to prevent you from getting there.
- 14:11By now, stillness feels like falling
- 14:14behind.
- 14:17It feels like you’re lagging, as if a
- 14:19meter were running somewhere and you
- 14:22were letting it tick away.
- 14:25You don't even know what it's counting.
- 14:28But are you sure you're missing
- 14:30something?
- 14:33When stopping became a moral fault, I
- 14:36don't know, maybe it has always been
- 14:39this way, because the anxiety of the
- 14:42human condition pushes you to feel that
- 14:45you must do something, and today that
- 14:48almost always means consuming.
- 14:52Right now, however, it seems worse than
- 14:55ever.
- 14:58Every minute must be justified.
- 15:01Even your existence must have a reason
- 15:04for being.
- 15:06Rest was once simply rest.
- 15:11Now it must be earned and documented,
- 15:14and if possible, turned into content.
- 15:19At a certain point
- 15:22Being constantly busy has become a
- 15:25personality.
- 15:28And I mean that literally.
- 15:32People start there.
- 15:36Ask someone how they are, and before
- 15:39answering, they tell you how swamped
- 15:42they are, as if it were their best
- 15:46quality.
- 15:49In our society, what you do coincides
- 15:52with who you are.
- 15:55And if you aren't doing something
- 15:58visible, or better yet, measurable, the
- 16:00question of who you are starts to burn.
- 16:08Where does all this come from?
- 16:13Human beings aren't born with a factory
- 16:16setting that demands constant, anxious
- 16:20motion.
- 16:24It’s installed later within a culture
- 16:28that has long repeated that rest is a
- 16:31reward to be earned.
- 16:37The philosopher Byung-Chul Han proposes
- 16:41an idea that really struck me.
- 16:47Today, no one forces us from above
- 16:50because everyone has become their own
- 16:54entrepreneur, exploiter and exploited in
- 16:57the same body.
- 17:01Do you see the sophistication?
- 17:05What’s the point of a whip if people
- 17:08whip themselves?
- 17:10And on top of that, they call it
- 17:12ambition.
- 17:16The sense of guilt
- 17:19when standing still is born from the
- 17:22system, and it has little to do with
- 17:26character.
- 17:29I needed to say this before anything
- 17:32else, otherwise this video becomes yet
- 17:34another lecture on how to better manage
- 17:37your time.
- 17:41A structure built around you prevents
- 17:44you from stopping altogether.
- 17:49The strange thing is that it seems
- 17:51normal, and that’s how you know it’s
- 17:54working.
- 17:59Think about when you sit down for a
- 18:01second to breathe or rest.
- 18:07At that very instant, your phone lights
- 18:10up as if it sees you waiting for quiet
- 18:14just so it can interrupt it.
- 18:19Unsettling, I’d say.
- 18:22Very unsettling.
- 18:27You open it, obviously, and find
- 18:29yourself in the infinite scroll.
- 18:34No one tells you at a certain point:
- 18:37okay, enough for today.
- 18:39Go back to being a person,
- 18:43go back to being.
- 18:46Why would they?
- 18:48It would be a disaster for business.
- 18:52So I keep giving you stuff.
- 18:55Just enough to hold your attention
- 18:57without ever satisfying it.
- 19:01In the background, an algorithm has been
- 19:03studying you for years and knows how to
- 19:06keep you suspended halfway, just
- 19:07slightly restless.
- 19:13Leaving the situation takes more effort
- 19:16than staying in it, and after a while,
- 19:18it seems like life is just made that way
- 19:21, that the constant motion comes from
- 19:24you.
- 19:27Someone, somewhere, is working to make
- 19:29stillness,
- 19:32so heavy that picking up a screen feels
- 19:35like a relief—and it truly is, because
- 19:39it’s an addiction.
- 19:47Blaise Pascal, or Blaze, I’m not sure
- 19:51how to say it, sensed it almost 400
- 19:54years ago.
- 19:59According to him, all of man’s
- 20:02misfortunes stem from a single root: the
- 20:05inability to sit quietly in a room.
- 20:10Think about it,
- 20:13a genius from the 1600s,
- 20:16without phones or notifications, had
- 20:19already seen right through us.
- 20:25We throw ourselves into action and
- 20:28entertainment to avoid coming face to
- 20:31face with ourselves.
- 20:36And you know what?
- 20:40It still holds true today, with the
- 20:42addition of fiber optics.
- 20:48Imagine a shepherd in Nepal or
- 20:53up in the Andes, grazing in the
- 20:55mountains.
- 20:58He spends entire days watching the
- 21:01animals and the sky.
- 21:06A podcast on herding?
- 21:10Not a trace of one.
- 21:13And that morning routine video titled "
- 21:16How I optimized my relationship with
- 21:19goats for maximum personal fulfillment.
- 21:22"
- 21:24It doesn't exist, as far as I know.
- 21:31He does his job,
- 21:35lights the fire at night, and starts
- 21:38over the next day.
- 21:44Many
- 21:47would react with a bit of pity, right?
- 21:54Doesn't he feel like he's missing
- 21:55something?
- 21:59Doesn't he want more from life?
- 22:03He should at least have a five-year plan
- 22:07and a LinkedIn profile.
- 22:11Where people can worry about him.
- 22:16The instinct to pity him is a red light
- 22:19turning on.
- 22:22The discomfort you feel before such a
- 22:25simple life
- 22:28says more about you than it does about
- 22:30him.
- 22:34This man possesses something that many
- 22:36of us have lost without realizing it.
- 22:41A life that doesn't need to put on a
- 22:44show,
- 22:48doesn't curate or optimize, and takes
- 22:53the morning as it comes,
- 22:58and just exists within it.
- 23:02In our culture, serenity is seen as
- 23:05failure or an illusion.
- 23:12It closes the gap between where you are
- 23:15and where you're told to be—the gap the
- 23:19algorithm thrives on—and a closed gap is
- 23:22bad for business.
- 23:27So we call it giving up, or a lack of
- 23:31ambition.
- 23:34Slowing down in this society is a form
- 23:39of silent rebellion.
- 23:45The entire architecture of restlessness
- 23:48needs your participation to function.
- 23:53And every time you step away, something
- 23:56small but real happens.
- 24:01It seems insignificant,
- 24:05but it is a withdrawal of consent that
- 24:07no one notices but you.
- 24:14Beneath all this is a fear I want to
- 24:17name, because it drives more behavior
- 24:21than we want to admit.
- 24:25The fear of disappearing.
- 24:29If you stop posting and producing,
- 24:32people will forget you.
- 24:36Honestly, some will—actually, almost
- 24:38everyone will.
- 24:41But they were doing that already,
- 24:43because the feed moves much faster than
- 24:46you think, and in the minds of others,
- 24:48you were never as present as the
- 24:50algorithm would like you to believe.
- 24:58Being visible and mattering are two
- 25:00different things, and we have spent
- 25:03years confusing them.
- 25:11And now,
- 25:13in practice,
- 25:16don't worry, I won't tell you to delete
- 25:18all your apps and move to a cabin in the
- 25:21mountains.
- 25:23That would be another performance with a
- 25:26few extra steps.
- 25:29I'm talking about something smaller and
- 25:32less flashy.
- 25:35Small, but powerful.
- 25:39And that is probably why it works.
- 25:45Take the line at the supermarket.
- 25:50Those are minutes when your hand moves
- 25:52on its own toward your pocket.
- 25:57Leave it where it is.
- 26:00Then, instead of scanning the neighbor's
- 26:02cart or the magazines on the racks,
- 26:07bring your attention to your body.
- 26:13Feel your feet touching the ground, the
- 26:16weight shifting onto the soles, the
- 26:19pressure on your heels, your toes inside
- 26:22your shoes.
- 26:27feel your hands, the air on your skin,
- 26:32the sound of the carts becoming just
- 26:35noise.
- 26:40It seems ridiculous,
- 26:43I know,
- 26:45and it turns out to be surprisingly
- 26:47difficult.
- 26:51That should tell you something about the
- 26:53state of things.
- 26:57Yet that queue has become a training
- 27:00room and no one noticed.
- 27:05It works
- 27:10the same at a red light, in an elevator
- 27:13, while you wait for water to boil, at
- 27:16any moment.
- 27:17Practice being present,
- 27:24become present in the here and now.
- 27:33The present is the only place where
- 27:35imagination has a door.
- 27:40Those who live in the next minute, in
- 27:42the notification yet to arrive, in the
- 27:44next thing to do, skip over the present
- 27:46like a station with no stop.
- 27:59Let's go back to the chair for a moment
- 28:02to doing nothing, or rather, to trying
- 28:06to be.
- 28:09After the first wave of annoyance, if
- 28:12you resist,
- 28:17something changes.
- 28:20The voice that was judging gets tired.
- 28:25The body settles, the gaze stops looking
- 28:29for a foothold and just sees
- 28:35and the room suddenly becomes big.
- 28:43Jiddu Krishnamurti claimed that boredom
- 28:46arises when the mind demands a stimulus
- 28:49to feel alive and that going through it
- 28:51without running away and without filling
- 28:54it opens a space that was previously
- 28:57missing.
- 29:02To notice that you are bored, someone
- 29:05must be standing a step back from the
- 29:08boredom.
- 29:11Boredom cannot watch itself.
- 29:16We always come back to that.
- 29:20The one who observes it is already
- 29:22outside in a place where boredom doesn't
- 29:26reach and sees it pass by like a cloud.
- 29:31If the cloud moves, it means the sky is
- 29:34still.
- 29:37That place has a name.
- 29:39And Neville repeated it to exhaustion.
- 29:45I am.
- 29:49The observing consciousness that no
- 29:51notification has ever touched.
- 29:56It was there when you felt useless.
- 29:59There with the phone in your hand and 27
- 30:01messages on the screen.
- 30:05You were looking elsewhere and it was
- 30:07waiting for you.
- 30:10For this reason, after the first half
- 30:14hour in the chair, boredom melts away
- 30:17and a steady, vast, and perfectly
- 30:20at-home presence remains.
- 30:26The system doesn't know what to do with
- 30:29a person so disconnected and present.
- 30:39Today's journey ends here.
- 30:44Thanks for staying until the end.
- 30:48If you intend to accept the challenge
- 30:50and sit in that chair,
- 30:54write human being in the comments.
- 30:59If instead you realize that the
- 31:01temptation to fill the void is still too
- 31:04strong, write human doing.
- 31:11Obviously I will read every response of
- 31:14yours, as I always do, and I apologize
- 31:16if I cannot reply to everyone.
- 31:24I am here.
- 31:26And you?
- 31:28Yes.
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