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Female “Sex Addict” Teacher Grooms Boy, has Sex in Classroom… then MOVES into his Home — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Hi everyone, welcome back. I hope you're
  2. 0:01all doing well. Today, we are covering
  3. 0:03another predator that just so happens to
  4. 0:05be a teacher. How many are there out
  5. 0:08there? It's absolutely ridiculous. And
  6. 0:10the predator from today's case is a
  7. 0:12woman named Pamela Rogers, and she
  8. 0:15is disgusting, like all of them. I don't
  9. 0:17know I don't know what I was thinking,
  10. 0:19and it's clear that I wasn't thinking. I
  11. 0:22was blinded by emotions. Because Pamela
  12. 0:25thought that she had it all. She thought
  13. 0:27that she was better than other people.
  14. 0:28She was prom queen when she was in
  15. 0:30school. She had a pretty successful
  16. 0:32modeling career. She then became a
  17. 0:34teacher, and she became known as the hot
  18. 0:37teacher by her students. She even taught
  19. 0:40sex education herself sometimes, which
  20. 0:42is just truly disturbing. But there was
  21. 0:44one thing that Pamela's students and
  22. 0:46nobody actually realized is that Pamela
  23. 0:49was also a sex addict. And over time,
  24. 0:51she started acting more and more
  25. 0:52inappropriate with her students. Being
  26. 0:55very flirtatious, wearing very revealing
  27. 0:57clothing, making very uncomfortable,
  28. 1:00disturbing, sexualized comments until
  29. 1:03they escalated into her targeting a
  30. 1:06student and becoming a predator.
  31. 1:09What I did was wrong, and I am deeply
  32. 1:12I regret everything. And that's what we
  33. 1:15are covering today, so let's jump in.
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  96. 3:13opportunities like this. And now, let's
  97. 3:15jump into today's case. Pamela Rogers
  98. 3:17was born on the 1st of July, 1977,
  99. 3:21making her a Cancer. And she grew up in
  100. 3:23a small town called Clark Range in
  101. 3:25Tennessee, where she lived with her
  102. 3:27parents and her siblings. Now, Pamela
  103. 3:29lived what could be said as a typical
  104. 3:32small town childhood. She attended the
  105. 3:34local school. She had a lot of friends.
  106. 3:36She was also very athletic. She loved
  107. 3:39basketball, and basketball actually kind
  108. 3:41of ran in the family because her dad,
  109. 3:43Lamar, was actually the basketball coach
  110. 3:46for the high school girls basketball
  111. 3:48team, and the girls basketball team was
  112. 3:50actually a pretty big thing in this
  113. 3:51small community. And Lamar had been
  114. 3:54coaching the team for 29 years, so he
  115. 3:56was pretty well-known. He even won state
  116. 3:59championships. And when Pamela started
  117. 4:01attending high school, she actually
  118. 4:02started playing basketball, and her dad
  119. 4:04was her coach. And the team had a lot of
  120. 4:07success when Pamela was playing on the
  121. 4:09team. So, Pamela, she's not only good at
  122. 4:12athletics, she's also extremely popular.
  123. 4:15She was one of the so-called it girls.
  124. 4:18She was athletic. She was seen as
  125. 4:20good-looking. Everyone wanted to either
  126. 4:23be her or be friends with her. And when
  127. 4:25it came to her senior prom in 1995,
  128. 4:29Pamela was picked as prom queen. And to
  129. 4:32the outside world, and probably to
  130. 4:33herself, she was living the perfect
  131. 4:36life. So, after graduating high school,
  132. 4:38Pamela then needed to decide like what
  133. 4:41was she going to do with her life? I
  134. 4:42mean, obviously, she was very athletic.
  135. 4:44Was she going to do something there?
  136. 4:46Well, she actually decided that she
  137. 4:47wanted to start modeling. And she did
  138. 4:50this for a few years. She started off in
  139. 4:52bikini modeling. She actually worked for
  140. 4:55pretty big brands. Like she did a
  141. 4:56campaign with Harley-Davidson, where she
  142. 4:59was posing on one of the motorbikes in
  143. 5:01her bikini. And she just did various
  144. 5:03other bikini photo shoots. And then in
  145. 5:061997, Pamela is currently 20 years old.
  146. 5:09This is when she got the biggest
  147. 5:11modeling job that she had gotten so far.
  148. 5:14And that is because in 1997, Pamela was
  149. 5:16crowned Miss Nitro. And this is not
  150. 5:19something I am an expert on, okay? So, I
  151. 5:22may be wrong here, but from what I could
  152. 5:23find out online, these Nitro Girls, cuz
  153. 5:27I think there's multiple, they are the
  154. 5:29women, like the models that appear at
  155. 5:32wrestling events, and they would either
  156. 5:34be dancing or modeling. We are amongst
  157. 5:37the Nitro Girls, and we're having a
  158. 5:39great time. I'm not 100% sure, but it's
  159. 5:42basically in the wrestling world, and
  160. 5:44you can see clips online of Pamela doing
  161. 5:47this. She's wearing a red bikini, and
  162. 5:50she has a ribbon around her that says
  163. 5:52Miss Nitro. And then she's called into
  164. 5:54the ring, and she's essentially And
  165. 5:56during the '90s, these wrestling gigs
  166. 5:59were huge. Millions of people tuned in
  167. 6:02to watch, so there would have been a lot
  168. 6:05of eyes on Pamela. And because of this,
  169. 6:07Pamela started to get more well-known.
  170. 6:10She started to make a little bit of a
  171. 6:11name for herself. I mean, she had a lot
  172. 6:13of eyes on her. And this resulted in her
  173. 6:15getting more and more modeling gigs. And
  174. 6:17she is very, very busy for the next 5
  175. 6:21years. But by the time Pamela gets
  176. 6:23[clears throat] to the age of 25, the
  177. 6:25work kind of dries up. She's not really
  178. 6:27getting that much work anymore, and she
  179. 6:29just feels like, "Yeah, this modeling
  180. 6:31thing, it's not for me anymore. Like
  181. 6:34I've had my go at it. I've been
  182. 6:35successful." She now wanted a change in
  183. 6:38her life. And unfortunately, these
  184. 6:40changes in her life would lead to the
  185. 6:42very disturbing events of today's case.
  186. 6:45So, we now get to 2003.
  187. 6:48Pamela is currently 26 years old, and
  188. 6:51she gets married. She gets married to a
  189. 6:53man named Christopher Turner, who just
  190. 6:55so happened to be a high school
  191. 6:57basketball coach, just like her dad. So,
  192. 6:59they definitely had things in common.
  193. 7:01Basketball was very important to both of
  194. 7:02them. And because they had similar
  195. 7:04interests, similar backgrounds, at
  196. 7:06first, the marriage was really great.
  197. 7:08And whilst Pamela is married, this is
  198. 7:10when she did decide to have a career
  199. 7:12change from modeling into, you guessed
  200. 7:16it, teaching. She probably got into
  201. 7:17teaching because her husband was a
  202. 7:20teacher, and it just kind of felt like
  203. 7:22the natural path for her to go down. So,
  204. 7:24she first gets a job at a school called
  205. 7:27Centertown Elementary in Tennessee. And
  206. 7:30yes, you heard that right, an elementary
  207. 7:33school. Now, I don't know much about the
  208. 7:35US school system because it's set up
  209. 7:38differently than in the UK, but I don't
  210. 7:40think that this elementary school is
  211. 7:42your typical elementary school because
  212. 7:45this elementary school went from
  213. 7:47kindergarten age all the way up to
  214. 7:49eighth grade, which is approximately 13
  215. 7:52to 14 years old. So, it's almost like
  216. 7:54it's an elementary school and a middle
  217. 7:57school together. Is that what that would
  218. 7:59be? But anyway, Pamela gets a job as the
  219. 8:02physical education teacher, which made
  220. 8:05sense because she was very athletic.
  221. 8:07That was her background. She did very
  222. 8:09well on the school basketball team. Her
  223. 8:10dad was a basketball coach. Her husband
  224. 8:12is a basketball coach. She played sports
  225. 8:14when she was at college as well. And
  226. 8:16just to kind of round things off, she
  227. 8:17actually did become the girls basketball
  228. 8:19coach. So, yeah, she literally is
  229. 8:21following in her dad's footsteps. And at
  230. 8:23first, things go well for Pamela. She's
  231. 8:25able to teach at this elementary school
  232. 8:28for the first year without any
  233. 8:30incidents. Um, can we get a round of
  234. 8:32applause for the predator? Yes, yes,
  235. 8:34yes. She was a very popular teacher. The
  236. 8:37students seemed to really love her, and
  237. 8:39the students seemed to like her because
  238. 8:41she was young, she was fun. She was just
  239. 8:44the kind of teacher that the students
  240. 8:45wanted to be around. She wasn't like a
  241. 8:48regular teacher, you know? But it
  242. 8:50doesn't take long for Pamela to get a
  243. 8:53reputation, especially amongst the older
  244. 8:55boys that were in the school because
  245. 8:57Pamela got the label of the hot teacher.
  246. 9:01And I think all of this went back to the
  247. 9:03fact that she was a model. The students
  248. 9:05in her school quickly found out about
  249. 9:07her modeling background, and because she
  250. 9:09was pretty successful, there are photos
  251. 9:11and videos of her online that her
  252. 9:13students could access. So, this is
  253. 9:15exactly what the students did. The
  254. 9:17students found out that she was a Miss
  255. 9:20Nitro. They were able to access the
  256. 9:22videos and photos of her in a bikini,
  257. 9:25which is definitely inappropriate. And
  258. 9:28And the older boys in the school, so
  259. 9:30you've got to remember, even though I'm
  260. 9:31saying older, they're still only 13 and
  261. 9:3314, they would start making comments
  262. 9:36about Pamela, or should I say, Miss
  263. 9:39Rogers. They would start saying, "Oh,
  264. 9:41Miss Rogers, you're so hot. You're so
  265. 9:43attractive. Oh, look at this photo of
  266. 9:45you in this bikini, blah, blah, blah."
  267. 9:47And I also read that for a few weeks,
  268. 9:49Pamela Rogers was actually the sex
  269. 9:51education teacher, which for a predator,
  270. 9:54mhm, no. And when she was teaching sex
  271. 9:57education, there were quite a few
  272. 9:59inappropriate comments said to her. But
  273. 10:01did she shut any of these comments down?
  274. 10:03I mean, she's the sex education teacher.
  275. 10:05Something that she should be teaching
  276. 10:07young boys and young girls is to respect
  277. 10:10other people, to respect their
  278. 10:12boundaries, to not say sexually
  279. 10:15inappropriate things to somebody else.
  280. 10:18That is what she should be teaching. So,
  281. 10:19that would have been perfect for her to
  282. 10:21actually use that and say, "Hold on,
  283. 10:23this is not right. You shouldn't speak
  284. 10:25to others like this." But she didn't use
  285. 10:27it as a lesson. She actually welcomed
  286. 10:29the comments. And it blows my mind. It's
  287. 10:32like, what message is that sending those
  288. 10:34students? She actually enjoyed the
  289. 10:36attention of the younger male students,
  290. 10:39which is just disgusting. It's like, why
  291. 10:42are you thriving on comments being made
  292. 10:44to you by children? Like, you're a
  293. 10:46grown-ass woman. Like, you're an adult.
  294. 10:50Why do you want the attention of young
  295. 10:52boys? There is just something wrong in
  296. 10:55her head. And things just start to get
  297. 10:57even more inappropriate from this moment
  298. 10:59on. Cuz we now get to 2004,
  299. 11:02just over a year into Pamela's marriage,
  300. 11:06and about a year into her teaching job.
  301. 11:08Well, this is where things start to go
  302. 11:09very wrong in Pamela's home life.
  303. 11:12Because she is no longer getting along
  304. 11:14with her husband. They're just always
  305. 11:15arguing and fighting. They stop spending
  306. 11:18time together. They stop really talking.
  307. 11:20And their sex life basically becomes
  308. 11:22nonexistent. And one thing that would
  309. 11:24actually come out later in the case is
  310. 11:26that Pamela is actually a sex addict.
  311. 11:29And she was no longer getting sex from
  312. 11:30her husband, and she was really
  313. 11:32struggling with this, which is no
  314. 11:34excuse. No excuse whatsoever. But in
  315. 11:37Pamela's mind, she was like, "Oh, well,
  316. 11:39I'm not getting sex from my husband, so
  317. 11:40I need to get it from somewhere else."
  318. 11:42And I'm like, "Well, that's okay. Get
  319. 11:44sex wherever you want, but just not from
  320. 11:46children. Just go and get sex from
  321. 11:47another consenting adult. Is it really
  322. 11:49that hard? Why do you have to go for
  323. 11:51children? Like, why?" Because Pamela,
  324. 11:53she's feeling really sorry for herself.
  325. 11:54Her marriage is breaking down. And she
  326. 11:56wants attention from other people, i.e.,
  327. 12:00teenage boys. So, this is when Pamela
  328. 12:02starts to encourage more than ever the
  329. 12:05inappropriate behavior and comments from
  330. 12:07the teenage boys to herself. She was
  331. 12:09lapping it all up. She started being
  332. 12:11really flirtatious with these boys. She
  333. 12:13started wearing more and more revealing
  334. 12:15clothing to work. And she's just loving
  335. 12:17all of the attention that she is
  336. 12:19getting. And she starts to get a lot of
  337. 12:21attention from one boy in particular.
  338. 12:24Now, his identity has been protected, so
  339. 12:27we will just call him boy A. And boy A
  340. 12:29is very significant to the rest of
  341. 12:31today's case. So, boy A was just 13
  342. 12:36years old. Yeah, 13. Crazy. He's a
  343. 12:39child. And he was currently in eighth
  344. 12:42grade, and he was on the basketball
  345. 12:44team. So, I assume that that is how
  346. 12:47himself and Ms. Rogers knew each other.
  347. 12:50Boy A was also reportedly very tall for
  348. 12:55his age, very mature for his age. And
  349. 12:58apparently, he went through puberty
  350. 13:00earlier than his peers. Like, that makes
  351. 13:02a difference. He's still 13. The
  352. 13:05reporting on this case that we are
  353. 13:07covering today was absolutely
  354. 13:08disgusting. It's like, why does that
  355. 13:11matter? I don't care how tall he is.
  356. 13:14He's 13. That is all the information
  357. 13:16that we need to know. That is all the
  358. 13:18information that Pamela needed to know
  359. 13:19to know that he is off-limits. So,
  360. 13:22Pamela and boy A, they start to get
  361. 13:25closer. This 27-year-old
  362. 13:27woman starts flirting with a 13-year-old
  363. 13:30child. And boy A, he starts flirting
  364. 13:34back. He started saying pretty
  365. 13:36inappropriate sexualized comments
  366. 13:38towards his teacher. And Pamela, she
  367. 13:40didn't shut them down. No, no, no. She
  368. 13:42loved it. She was lapping it up. Boy A
  369. 13:45started to say that he wanted to meet up
  370. 13:48with Ms. Rogers after school. He also
  371. 13:50said that he should come over and visit
  372. 13:52her at her home, where they could do
  373. 13:55very inappropriate things. And I just
  374. 13:58don't even know why an adult would even
  375. 14:01entertain any of this. I just don't
  376. 14:03understand. In fact, during one physical
  377. 14:06education lesson, Pamela's home key was
  378. 14:09on her keychain, and it was just hanging
  379. 14:12up in the locker room. And boy A took
  380. 14:15her home key off of her keychain and
  381. 14:18said that he was going to make a copy of
  382. 14:20the key so he could let himself into her
  383. 14:22home, which is obviously very
  384. 14:24inappropriate for a student to do. But
  385. 14:27Pamela, she didn't seem to have a
  386. 14:28problem with this. I know, of course she
  387. 14:30didn't. This is exactly what she wanted.
  388. 14:32And I just want to stress here that I am
  389. 14:34not blaming boy A for any of this. He's
  390. 14:37a child. I mean, obviously what he is
  391. 14:39doing is not appropriate, but again,
  392. 14:41he's a child. And it doesn't matter what
  393. 14:44he does, he's a child. Pamela is the
  394. 14:46adult. She should be shutting it down.
  395. 14:48She should not be encouraging this
  396. 14:50behavior. And I don't know if he
  397. 14:52actually did make a copy of her house
  398. 14:53key, but I wouldn't be surprised. And
  399. 14:55Pamela never reported it. She never
  400. 14:57stopped him. So, now we get to November
  401. 14:59of 2004, and this is when things really
  402. 15:02start to change and move very quickly.
  403. 15:05Because at this point, Pamela's home
  404. 15:07life was completely falling apart. Her
  405. 15:09husband had told her that he was filing
  406. 15:11for divorce. There were accusations of
  407. 15:13cheating, gambling, and drugs in the
  408. 15:15marriage. And we don't know who was
  409. 15:18accusing who of that. But if I'm going
  410. 15:20to take a wild guess, I'm just going to
  411. 15:23guess here that it was Pamela's husband
  412. 15:26that was accusing Pamela of all of those
  413. 15:27things. And she probably was doing those
  414. 15:29things. But anyway, so Christopher,
  415. 15:32Pamela's husband, ended up kicking
  416. 15:34Pamela out of their shared home. So,
  417. 15:36Pamela needed somewhere to stay. And I
  418. 15:40really cannot believe I am about to say
  419. 15:42this, because in what world does this
  420. 15:44happen? But Pamela ends up going to live
  421. 15:47at boy A's home.
  422. 15:51How?
  423. 15:52How? How did that end up happening?
  424. 15:54Well, apparently, Pamela was friends
  425. 15:56with boy A's mom, which makes all of
  426. 15:58this 10 times worse, that she was
  427. 16:01friends with boy A's mom. And she uses
  428. 16:04her friendship with boy A's mom to
  429. 16:06further target boy A. So, when Pamela
  430. 16:09needed somewhere to stay, she got in
  431. 16:11contact with boy A's mom and asked if
  432. 16:15she could stay at their home. Now, they
  433. 16:17were friends. Boy A's mom really liked
  434. 16:19Pamela. She thought that she was a good
  435. 16:21teacher. She thought that she was a good
  436. 16:23basketball coach. And she saw Pamela as
  437. 16:25a hard-working teacher who had done
  438. 16:27amazing things for her son's basketball
  439. 16:29career. And she felt sorry for Pamela
  440. 16:31that she had nowhere to live. So, boy
  441. 16:34A's mom opened up her home to a
  442. 16:36predator, and she didn't even know. So,
  443. 16:39Pamela is now living with boy A, living
  444. 16:42under the same roof as the child she is
  445. 16:45targeting. And of course, she is
  446. 16:47incredibly inappropriate with boy A in
  447. 16:50his own home, not in front of boy A's
  448. 16:52mom, of course. And boy A's mom had no
  449. 16:55idea that she had opened up her home to
  450. 16:57a predator who was making inappropriate
  451. 17:00sexual advances towards her 13-year-old
  452. 17:02child. And it just makes it so much
  453. 17:04worse that she has infiltrated boy A's
  454. 17:06home, where he's supposed to feel safe.
  455. 17:09And things go on like this. And it's not
  456. 17:11that difficult to guess, but things get
  457. 17:14worse. It doesn't take long for things
  458. 17:16to now reach the next level. Because one
  459. 17:18day, boy A was sat at home on his
  460. 17:20computer. This was in 2004, the era
  461. 17:24before smartphones. Social had only
  462. 17:27really just started to become popular.
  463. 17:30Kids used to sit on their computer. They
  464. 17:32used to dial up to the internet. And
  465. 17:34they used to log on to things like MSN
  466. 17:37Messenger to talk to their friends.
  467. 17:39MySpace was only just becoming a thing.
  468. 17:41And people's mobile phones didn't have
  469. 17:43the internet. They didn't have
  470. 17:45smartphones. They used to just use
  471. 17:47mobile phones to text one another. And I
  472. 17:49can still hear the internet dial-up
  473. 17:51sound right now. I can hear it.
  474. 17:56So, on this evening, boy A was on his
  475. 17:58computer. He was hanging out with his
  476. 18:00friend Justin. And they were chatting to
  477. 18:02other friends on the internet, probably
  478. 18:04using MSN. And this is when boy A
  479. 18:07receives a message from Ms. Rogers. Now,
  480. 18:10the timeline is not completely clear at
  481. 18:12this point, because I think Ms. Rogers,
  482. 18:15Pamela, had moved out of boy A's home at
  483. 18:17this point, which is why she's
  484. 18:19contacting him over message and not
  485. 18:21talking to him in person. But again, I
  486. 18:23could be wrong. She could just be in
  487. 18:24another room messaging him on the
  488. 18:26internet. But anyway, what does the
  489. 18:28message say that Pamela has sent boy A?
  490. 18:31The message simply says, "I think you're
  491. 18:34cute." That was it. And even that alone
  492. 18:36is inappropriate for a teacher to be
  493. 18:38sending their student. So, boy A and his
  494. 18:40friend Justin are just there. They're
  495. 18:43laughing. They think that this is all
  496. 18:44funny. I mean, they're children. They're
  497. 18:46not grasping the gravity of this
  498. 18:48situation and what Pamela is doing.
  499. 18:51Because Pamela, let's just put it plain
  500. 18:53and clear, she is grooming boy A. So,
  501. 18:55boy A and his friend Justin, they're
  502. 18:57joking around. They're laughing. They
  503. 18:58think that the whole thing is funny. And
  504. 19:00boy A says to his friend, "What should I
  505. 19:02write back?" And eventually, they decide
  506. 19:04to write back, "I think you're hot." And
  507. 19:07the flirtatious messages now continue
  508. 19:09from here until eventually, Pamela
  509. 19:12invites boy A around to her apartment,
  510. 19:14which is why I am assuming that Pamela
  511. 19:16no longer lives with boy A because she
  512. 19:18has her own apartment. So, when boy A is
  513. 19:20at the apartment, this is when Pamela
  514. 19:22says to boy A that she wants to have sex
  515. 19:25with him. And boy A was not insinuating
  516. 19:28at all that this is what he wanted to
  517. 19:29do. I mean, he's 13. He's a child. It
  518. 19:32doesn't even matter if he was the one
  519. 19:34saying this. He's a child, and it
  520. 19:35doesn't matter. But boy A, he thought
  521. 19:37that he was just having some fun, just
  522. 19:40flirting with a teacher. He had never
  523. 19:42had sex. I mean, he's only 13. He was
  524. 19:44completely inexperienced in sexual
  525. 19:46relationships and the dynamics involved.
  526. 19:49And Pamela is completely taking
  527. 19:50advantage of him. And it has been
  528. 19:52reported that boy A was apparently
  529. 19:54excited about the prospect of having sex
  530. 19:57with Pamela, but like I've already said,
  531. 19:59it doesn't matter. He's only 13. He's a
  532. 20:02minor. He cannot give consent to this.
  533. 20:04And you've also got to realize that he
  534. 20:06has been groomed into believing this,
  535. 20:09into believing that this is okay, that
  536. 20:11this is normal and healthy, which it
  537. 20:13categorically is not. However, Pamela
  538. 20:16goes ahead with her plan anyway. She
  539. 20:18lures this 13-year-old boy over to her
  540. 20:21apartment, where she rapes him for the
  541. 20:23first time. And I say rape because it
  542. 20:25doesn't even matter if it was consensual
  543. 20:27because boy A is 13, a minor, a child.
  544. 20:31He can't consent. But things don't stop
  545. 20:33there, because from that moment on,
  546. 20:35Pamela sexually assaulted boy A on
  547. 20:38multiple occasions. She continues to
  548. 20:41invite him over to her apartment. And
  549. 20:43according to legal documents, all sorts
  550. 20:45of sexual acts occurred when they were
  551. 20:47in her apartment, such as penetration
  552. 20:50with fingers, oral sex, and vaginal
  553. 20:52penetration. But the sex didn't only
  554. 20:54occur in Pamela's apartment. No, it
  555. 20:57happened in multiple locations. Pamela
  556. 20:59also assaulted boy A in her car after
  557. 21:02school. She also raped boy A on school
  558. 21:06property. And I just don't know how she
  559. 21:08was so bold to do that. And she's not
  560. 21:10the first predator that has been a
  561. 21:11school teacher to do that. And I just
  562. 21:12don't understand. How are they so bold
  563. 21:15to sexually assault children on school
  564. 21:16property where anybody could walk in and
  565. 21:19see? So, according to legal reports,
  566. 21:20Pamela assaulted boy A in classrooms, in
  567. 21:23the locker room. She even raped boy A in
  568. 21:26the large school gym.
  569. 21:29And again, I'm like, how was she so bold
  570. 21:31to do that? And she obviously did get
  571. 21:33away with it, for now anyway. But
  572. 21:35something else just so sick and twisted
  573. 21:37is that Pamela came up with different
  574. 21:39ideas on how she could get access to boy
  575. 21:42A's home again. So, we already know that
  576. 21:44Pamela lived there for a short period of
  577. 21:46time. Well, now Pamela makes up any
  578. 21:49excuse to stay there again. So, she says
  579. 21:52to boy A's mom, "Oh, my heating has
  580. 21:55stopped working in my apartment, or my
  581. 21:57water has been turned off." And boy A's
  582. 22:00mom, because she saw Pamela as someone
  583. 22:02she could trust, she saw her as a
  584. 22:04friend, and Pamela had already lived
  585. 22:06there for a short period of time, boy
  586. 22:08A's mom said, "Oh, don't worry, you can
  587. 22:10just stay in my home." And boy A's mom
  588. 22:13would give Pamela the guest bedroom for
  589. 22:15the evening. And in the middle of the
  590. 22:17night, Pamela would get up and sexually
  591. 22:19assault boy A in his own home, when his
  592. 22:22mom is home. And I just feel so sorry
  593. 22:26for the mom of boy A because she just
  594. 22:28thought that she was doing a good deed.
  595. 22:30She thought that she could trust Pamela.
  596. 22:32She did not think Pamela was a sexual
  597. 22:34predator that was preying on her son.
  598. 22:36And Pamela is just completely abusing
  599. 22:39that trust, taking advantage of it by
  600. 22:41trying to get more access to the home,
  601. 22:43and raping boy A in his own bedroom
  602. 22:45without his mom knowing, in the same
  603. 22:47house as his mom. Apparently, boy A also
  604. 22:50had a girlfriend that was the same age
  605. 22:53as him at this point, so a fellow
  606. 22:5513-year-old girl. Boy A actually breaks
  607. 22:57up with this 13-year-old girl, and this
  608. 23:0013-year-old girl has no idea why. But
  609. 23:03boy A broke up with his girlfriend
  610. 23:05because he thought that he was in a
  611. 23:07relationship with Miss Pamela Rogers.
  612. 23:10Pamela and boy A are now spending so
  613. 23:12much time together outside of school
  614. 23:14hours. Pamela would apparently, quote,
  615. 23:17follow him around night and day. And she
  616. 23:20would call him five to six times every
  617. 23:23single day. She was so obsessed. She's
  618. 23:26basically stalking him as well as
  619. 23:28grooming and assaulting him. They would
  620. 23:30also be seen hanging out in the town,
  621. 23:32going for long romantic walks. And
  622. 23:35again, I'm just like, what the actual
  623. 23:38hell? Why is she being so out in the
  624. 23:40open about it? She really does think
  625. 23:42that she can get away with this? Because
  626. 23:44I don't know this for sure, but I can
  627. 23:45guarantee you people saw them together.
  628. 23:47Miss Rogers would also walk boy A home
  629. 23:50after school. She would attend all of
  630. 23:52his basketball games. She would be there
  631. 23:55in the front row, cheering him on. And
  632. 23:57it's just like all of this added
  633. 23:58together, this is just so creepy, so
  634. 24:01inappropriate. And this is just what
  635. 24:03she's doing out in the open, let alone
  636. 24:05what she's doing behind closed doors.
  637. 24:07But despite all of this creepy,
  638. 24:09inappropriate behavior, no one raised
  639. 24:11the red flag. No one reported what Miss
  640. 24:14Rogers was doing, at least not yet,
  641. 24:17anyway. So, right now, the relationship
  642. 24:20continues. There was even a time when
  643. 24:23boy A's friend, Justin, remember Justin?
  644. 24:25Well, Justin saw Pamela and boy A
  645. 24:28together, and he went up to speak to
  646. 24:30them. And this is when Pamela revealed
  647. 24:32to Justin that they were in a
  648. 24:34relationship, that they were having sex.
  649. 24:37Yeah, Pamela has just revealed that to
  650. 24:39Justin. She is now essentially bragging
  651. 24:41to another teenager that she's having
  652. 24:44sex with another teenager. She told
  653. 24:46Justin that herself and boy A had
  654. 24:48recently had sex in the school gym. And
  655. 24:50it is speculated that Pamela was
  656. 24:53actually saying all of this to Justin
  657. 24:55because she actually had her eyes set on
  658. 24:57Justin as well. Sexually assaulting one
  659. 24:59child was not enough for her. She had
  660. 25:02her eyes on the next victim. However,
  661. 25:04thankfully, she wouldn't be able to do
  662. 25:06this because things are soon about to
  663. 25:09catch up to Miss Rogers. And this is
  664. 25:11thankfully where we get to Pamela's
  665. 25:13downfall. Because we now get to February
  666. 25:16of 2005,
  667. 25:18which is 3 months after Pamela started
  668. 25:21abusing boy A initially. But obviously,
  669. 25:23probably went on for a lot longer than
  670. 25:25that because she was grooming him. And
  671. 25:26over those 3 months, Pamela had sexually
  672. 25:29assaulted boy A on a number of
  673. 25:31occasions, in a number of different
  674. 25:33locations, in a number of different
  675. 25:35ways. Well, this is when someone finally
  676. 25:38decided to report her. And we don't know
  677. 25:40who reported her. It was an anonymous
  678. 25:42tip. It may have even been Justin. It
  679. 25:44may have even been boy A himself. We
  680. 25:46just don't know. But to be honest, it
  681. 25:48could have been any number of people
  682. 25:49because Pamela wasn't exactly her
  683. 25:52relationship with boy A. But on the 4th
  684. 25:55of February, Pamela Rogers was arrested.
  685. 25:58And she was charged with 15 counts of
  686. 26:00sexual battery by an authority figure,
  687. 26:02and 13 counts of statutory rape.
  688. 26:07Wow, 13 times she raped boy A. I just
  689. 26:10can't believe that she raped him that
  690. 26:12many times. And there possibly was more
  691. 26:14rapes than that. Over a 3-month period
  692. 26:17as well. What she put that boy through.
  693. 26:19She's absolutely disgusting. So, she was
  694. 26:21taken into custody, but unfortunately,
  695. 26:23she was given bail. And this was a
  696. 26:26massive story. And as usual, because
  697. 26:29Pamela was seen as attractive, a lot of
  698. 26:31people paid attention to this story. And
  699. 26:34this is obviously 2005. Tabloid
  700. 26:36newspapers and magazines were a big deal
  701. 26:38back then, and Pamela's picture was
  702. 26:41splashed all over them. This case
  703. 26:43actually made national news. Raising her
  704. 26:46right hand just months after raising a
  705. 26:48firestorm, 28-year-old Pamela Rogers
  706. 26:51could barely respond.
  707. 26:52>> And this next thing makes me so, so
  708. 26:55angry because people actually debated
  709. 26:58whether Pamela had done anything wrong.
  710. 27:02I just like
  711. 27:04I literally want to scream. People
  712. 27:06actually thought, "Oh, well, she's an
  713. 27:08attractive teacher. He's a 13-year-old
  714. 27:11boy. He was asking to have sex. He
  715. 27:13wanted it. Oh, he's so lucky. Is this
  716. 27:16even a crime? I mean, he was
  717. 27:18consenting." And that makes me want to
  718. 27:20scream. She is a child sexual predator.
  719. 27:23It doesn't matter her gender. It doesn't
  720. 27:25matter what she looks like. And it
  721. 27:28doesn't matter who her victim is and how
  722. 27:30old they are. If they are a minor, all
  723. 27:32that matters is that she is an adult and
  724. 27:34he is a child. It is that black and
  725. 27:37white. On top of that, she was also a
  726. 27:39teacher. She was in a position of power.
  727. 27:41And she raped a student on multiple
  728. 27:44occasions. And people are really
  729. 27:46debating
  730. 27:48whether she did anything wrong?
  731. 27:51No. No. No. No. Following the news
  732. 27:54breaking, boy A was pulled out of
  733. 27:57school. Clearly, it had affected him.
  734. 28:00Boy A's mom said that he was
  735. 28:02traumatized, which of course he would
  736. 28:04have been, and that he would return to
  737. 28:06school when he was mentally ready. Boy
  738. 28:09A's mom also made comments about how
  739. 28:11betrayed she felt, about how she opened
  740. 28:14up her home to Pamela, and she betrayed
  741. 28:16her trust in the most vile way. And
  742. 28:18Pamela is facing 28 criminal charges.
  743. 28:22She is told that she could be facing up
  744. 28:24to 100 years in prison, which is
  745. 28:27obviously a very heavy sentence, a
  746. 28:29sentence that she deserves, but that is
  747. 28:31a long time in prison. And Pamela
  748. 28:33doesn't want to go to prison for that
  749. 28:35long. So, she makes a plea deal. And
  750. 28:37Pamela pleads no contest to four of the
  751. 28:40counts, which basically means that she
  752. 28:42doesn't plead guilty, but she accepts
  753. 28:44that there is enough evidence against
  754. 28:46her to convict her. She entered her
  755. 28:48courtroom plea. I can't talk. No
  756. 28:50contest. No contest, sorry. And the
  757. 28:52other 24 charges were dropped.
  758. 28:58And I'm like,
  759. 29:00why? Like, why? Why were so many
  760. 29:03dropped? But um
  761. 29:05that's not the worst thing. No, no, no,
  762. 29:07because four counts of sexual assault
  763. 29:10against a minor, that should still give
  764. 29:11you a very lengthy prison sentence. But
  765. 29:14not in Pamela's case, no. She was given
  766. 29:17a prison sentence of nine months.
  767. 29:21Nine months.
  768. 29:23Nine months for raping a child on
  769. 29:26multiple occasions. I just don't even
  770. 29:30have any words. That is a ridiculously
  771. 29:33short prison sentence. And then after
  772. 29:35she served that, she would be on a
  773. 29:377-year probation. And the terms of her
  774. 29:40probation was that she had to surrender
  775. 29:42her teaching certificate, so she could
  776. 29:45never teach again. She would have to be
  777. 29:47on the sex offenders register for life,
  778. 29:50and the probation also prevented her
  779. 29:52from profiting in any way from this case
  780. 29:54through book deals or movie deals. And
  781. 29:56the reason she was given such a light
  782. 29:58prison sentence and she was able to make
  783. 30:00a plea deal is because the prosecution
  784. 30:03didn't think that male jurors would find
  785. 30:06her guilty because they wouldn't view
  786. 30:08this very attractive 28-year-old woman
  787. 30:11as a criminal, as a sexual predator.
  788. 30:13They thought that male jurors would
  789. 30:15think that the victim wasn't harmed and
  790. 30:17that he got lucky.
  791. 30:21So, Pamela goes to prison for 9 months.
  792. 30:24And the sheriff of the jail actually
  793. 30:27described Pamela to a local newspaper as
  794. 30:30absolutely gorgeous and a beautiful
  795. 30:33girl.
  796. 30:35Wow.
  797. 30:36Wow. And she actually only served 6
  798. 30:39months in prison before she was let out
  799. 30:41for good behavior. And on the day that
  800. 30:44she walked free, she was sent a basket
  801. 30:47of roses from a male admirer.
  802. 30:53This is a joke. Her sentence, the way
  803. 30:55she's being treated and talked about,
  804. 30:56it's a joke. She's raped a child. Why
  805. 30:59are we praising her? Why are we sending
  806. 31:02her flowers? And you would think, after
  807. 31:04serving
  808. 31:06even only 6 months in prison after she
  809. 31:08got caught, you would think that she
  810. 31:10would have changed her ways. But no,
  811. 31:13Pamela did not learn a single thing in
  812. 31:15prison because just days after she's
  813. 31:18released from prison, Pamela violates
  814. 31:21her probation already. And how does she
  815. 31:23do this? Well, she gets in touch with
  816. 31:26boy I again. Now, she wasn't allowed to
  817. 31:29use her own cell phone to do this, so
  818. 31:31she borrowed her own dad's mobile phone
  819. 31:34to get in contact with boy I as if she
  820. 31:37thought that she would get away with it.
  821. 31:38And this is when she starts sending nude
  822. 31:41selfies of herself to boy I again.
  823. 31:45I just want to pull my hair out. This is
  824. 31:47just days after she walked out of
  825. 31:49prison. And she is still assaulting boy
  826. 31:52I, trying to lure him back in, still
  827. 31:54grooming him. She also sends videos of
  828. 31:57herself performing sex acts on herself.
  829. 32:00Pamela also creates a MySpace page just
  830. 32:03so she can contact boy I. And on her
  831. 32:06MySpace page, she had a ton of photos of
  832. 32:09herself in bikinis, in underwear. She
  833. 32:11was sending hundreds of messages to boy
  834. 32:13I on MySpace even though she's on
  835. 32:15probation. And in these messages, she's
  836. 32:17basically begging a 13-year-old boy to
  837. 32:20stay in a relationship with her. She
  838. 32:23would say, quote, "Do you still love me?
  839. 32:25Are you still waiting for me? Or do you
  840. 32:28want me to move on with my life? I miss
  841. 32:29you so much. I wish I could talk to
  842. 32:31you." She even got jealous of boy I
  843. 32:33speaking to girls his own age. She would
  844. 32:36say, "I thought you said you got over
  845. 32:37that girl this past summer. What am I to
  846. 32:40believe? Am I supposed to wait while
  847. 32:41you're doing that? No lies." And it is
  848. 32:44just absolutely insane. She is just
  849. 32:46living in this sick and twisted world
  850. 32:50where she thinks that herself and boy I
  851. 32:53can be together forever. She would also
  852. 32:55send videos to boy I of her dancing
  853. 32:58around in just her underwear. And these
  854. 33:00videos actually did make their way
  855. 33:02online, and you can still see them
  856. 33:04online to this very day. And when you
  857. 33:05know that behind these videos is a grown
  858. 33:08woman trying to groom a child, it is
  859. 33:11just sickening. Pamela then also started
  860. 33:14harassing boy I's family, asking them to
  861. 33:16allow her to start seeing him again. She
  862. 33:19started contacting boy I's sister,
  863. 33:21trying to manipulate herself back into
  864. 33:24boy I's life. But thankfully, her sick
  865. 33:28and twisted antics would come to an end.
  866. 33:31And Pamela was once again arrested for
  867. 33:34violating her probation. And it's just
  868. 33:36ridiculous. Violating her parole is an
  869. 33:39understatement. She was trying to
  870. 33:41assault the victim again. It's like you
  871. 33:44should have just sent her to prison for
  872. 33:46the time that she deserved. So, Pamela
  873. 33:48ends up back in court. And there is
  874. 33:50actually a video online where she speaks
  875. 33:53to the court and
  876. 33:55it's ridiculous. She's there crying as
  877. 33:57if she's the victim. She's trying to act
  878. 34:00all sweet and innocent. She's trying to
  879. 34:02act like what she did, like it's not
  880. 34:04really that much of a big deal. I don't
  881. 34:06I don't know what I was thinking, and
  882. 34:08it's clear that I wasn't thinking.
  883. 34:13I was blinded by my emotions,
  884. 34:17that [snorts] I am ashamed [laughter]
  885. 34:18that I had.
  886. 34:20>> [clears throat]
  887. 34:21>> And it's obvious that
  888. 34:23that I need help to resolve those
  889. 34:24issues.
  890. 34:27I'm so sorry
  891. 34:29to all the people
  892. 34:31that I have affected
  893. 34:33and hurt.
  894. 34:35>> [snorts]
  895. 34:36>> I have embarrassed and devastated my
  896. 34:39family.
  897. 34:42>> [snorts]
  898. 34:43>> And I have embarrassed my friends.
  899. 34:45>> [laughter]
  900. 34:46>> What I did was wrong.
  901. 34:49And I am deeply
  902. 34:51in regret of everything.
  903. 34:54>> [laughter]
  904. 34:54>> I'm sorry to everyone.
  905. 34:56I've lost my career. And And it was more
  906. 34:59than just a career to me. It was my
  907. 35:00life. And it was what made me happy. She
  908. 35:02was also given a psychological
  909. 35:04evaluation before this sentencing
  910. 35:07hearing. And it is said that she was
  911. 35:08suffering from something called magical
  912. 35:12thinking, which I have never heard of
  913. 35:13before, but apparently, she was stuck in
  914. 35:16a childlike state and that her thinking
  915. 35:18was very immature. It is said that she
  916. 35:20viewed herself as a child and that she
  917. 35:23wrote in childish handwriting. She
  918. 35:25actually kept a prison diary and she
  919. 35:28wrote boy I's name like repeatedly on
  920. 35:30this diary with hearts all around his
  921. 35:33name. She also picked out baby names for
  922. 35:36their children that they were going to
  923. 35:38have in the future. She also wrote her
  924. 35:39name over and over again, Pamela and
  925. 35:42then boy I's last name as if they had
  926. 35:44got married. Which, yeah, all of that,
  927. 35:47everything that she wrote in that diary
  928. 35:48is very childlike. But that still
  929. 35:50doesn't excuse what she did. I don't
  930. 35:53bloody care. She still raped a child
  931. 35:55multiple times. And her analysis also
  932. 35:57concluded that Pamela was a sex addict.
  933. 36:00And again, that still doesn't excuse her
  934. 36:02behavior. The analysis also concluded
  935. 36:04that she was possibly suffering from
  936. 36:06PTSD from an event in her childhood. And
  937. 36:09there is speculation that maybe she was
  938. 36:11sexually abused because shockingly,
  939. 36:14Pamela's brother was also arrested for
  940. 36:17sexually assaulting a minor. So, yeah,
  941. 36:20both siblings have gone on to sexually
  942. 36:22assault children. So then, because
  943. 36:23Pamela had violated her probation, she
  944. 36:26was ordered to serve the rest of her
  945. 36:28sentence, which was 7 years in prison,
  946. 36:30and she was given two extra years on top
  947. 36:33of that. So, yeah, she got 9 years in
  948. 36:36prison for raping a child multiple
  949. 36:38times. That is still not long enough.
  950. 36:40So, that was the case of Pamela Rogers.
  951. 36:42She is now nearly 50 years old. She's
  952. 36:45obviously served her prison sentence, so
  953. 36:46she's no longer in prison. And in my
  954. 36:48opinion, she should still be in prison.
  955. 36:50But the reporting on today's case was so
  956. 36:53infuriating, I wanted to scream, pull my
  957. 36:56hair out. I saw so many excuses being
  958. 36:58made for her. And it simply boiled down
  959. 37:01to the fact that she was an attractive
  960. 37:02young woman. Treating her with such
  961. 37:04double standards. I mean, she was 27, 28
  962. 37:07when she was raping a 13-year-old child.
  963. 37:10What would people say if it was a
  964. 37:1227-year-old man raping a 13-year-old
  965. 37:14girl? I think that they would view that
  966. 37:16very differently. But at the end of the
  967. 37:17day, Pamela is still a sexual predator.
  968. 37:20But I saw so many people glorifying what
  969. 37:22she did. I actually saw comments from
  970. 37:25grown men saying that they wish that
  971. 37:27they had a teacher like her and that
  972. 37:29they wish that that teacher had raped
  973. 37:33them. That they wish that they were
  974. 37:34sexually abused by a hot teacher. I just
  975. 37:37couldn't believe it. Why are there
  976. 37:39people out there that glorify and
  977. 37:41romanticize female predators just
  978. 37:45because of the way they look? It's
  979. 37:47despicable. Boy I would have been
  980. 37:49traumatized by what happened to him. How
  981. 37:52can anyone wish that that happened to
  982. 37:54them? But boy I is now an adult and
  983. 37:56obviously, his details have been kept
  984. 37:58private, so I don't know how he is
  985. 38:00doing, but I just hope that he is doing
  986. 38:02well. And I just hope that boy I and his
  987. 38:04mom, the rest of his family managed to
  988. 38:06work through this because what happened
  989. 38:08to boy I should not be celebrated or
  990. 38:10glorified or romanticized. It was sexual
  991. 38:14assault, point blank. So, that brings us
  992. 38:16to the end of today's case. As always,
  993. 38:18let me know your thoughts, theories, and
  994. 38:20opinions. And don't forget to leave me
  995. 38:21your case suggestions in the comments
  996. 38:23down below because I always want to know
  997. 38:25what you want to hear next. Thank you
  998. 38:26again to HelloFresh for sponsoring
  999. 38:27today's video, and I'll see you all in
  1000. 38:29my next one. Bye.

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