Felicity Keith: The Language of Desire Awesome Webinar — Transcript

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1. 0:06and so we have to be willing to take
2. 0:07that first step and I know like I
3. 0:10mentioned you know I get in trouble with
4. 0:11my girlfriends and we talk about this
5. 0:13and they'll like but this you know this
6. 0:15program you wrote It's all about us
7. 0:17having to do the work and we have to
8. 0:18figure it out we have to be the ones to
9. 0:20initiate all the step and I'm like well
10. 0:22yeah I mean here's your choice you can
11. 0:24stay where you're at you know resentful
12. 0:27frustrated unfulfilled knowing that you
13. 0:29know
14. 0:30what you want but you know you're not
15. 0:31quite there yet and you're expecting you
16. 0:34know magically it's just going to happen
17. 0:36or you can be make yourself a little bit
18. 0:39vulnerable let go of those resentments
19. 0:41and just try this and see what happens
20. 0:45so um right you know I think the proof
21. 0:48is in the in the pudding when people
22. 0:49have like oh fine I'm gonna try it just
23. 0:51to prove you wrong my friend you know
24. 0:53try these things and they're like oh my
25. 0:55God this is so amazing and it it might
26. 0:58sound like it's work you know um at the
27. 1:01beginning but really it's not and it's
28. 1:02so much fun um so the to talk just a
29. 1:06little bit about the nitty-gritty of
30. 1:08what language of Desire is initially um
31. 1:12when we were thinking about this um one
32. 1:15of the things as far as marketing was
33. 1:17well maybe it could be really focusing
34. 1:19on talking dirty that's something we
35. 1:20know that men really enjoy and it's
36. 1:22something that a lot of women aren't
37. 1:23comfortable with um but it evolved and
38. 1:26it evolved from my own personal
39. 1:28experience I had to be will willing to
40. 1:30put it all out there and I do I share a
41. 1:32lot of stuff that's happened to me it's
42. 1:36like some of it's really funny and some
43. 1:38of it's you know it's like oh but um
44. 1:40like I hope my mom you know doesn't buy
45. 1:43and read the whole entire
46. 1:46thing anyhow um what I cover the the
47. 1:50foundation of the program like I
48. 1:51mentioned is um really empowering um you
49. 1:56as a woman to get in touch with your own
50. 1:59brand of of sexiness and it doesn't have
51. 2:01to be what you see on TV or what you
52. 2:03think you're supposed to be it's really
53. 2:05getting to that level of understanding
54. 2:07yourself and um I tailor everything in
55. 2:10the program I mean it goes from romantic
56. 2:13to runchy I mean I will preface that I
57. 2:15mean there's some pretty explicit
58. 2:16language in it but that's just to show
59. 2:18you the Spectrum you don't have to you
60. 2:21know talk a certain way in order to
61. 2:24achieve these results you don't have to
62. 2:26um try things that you're not
63. 2:28comfortable with and that's a big
64. 2:30piece of it is learning your own
65. 2:33boundaries and then if you get to the
66. 2:35point where as you move through the
67. 2:36program um so the first step is
68. 2:38understand yourself the Second Step um
69. 2:40is where I teach a lot more I go way
70. 2:43more in depth about the brain chemistry
71. 2:45and men's sex drives and there's tools
72. 2:47for you to start to uncover what's true
73. 2:49for your partner because this
74. 2:50presentation is you know obviously more
75. 2:53on the the broad generalizations but in
76. 2:55the program you learn what's true for
77. 2:57your specific guy um um and that's where
78. 3:00a lot of the value really is um and then
79. 3:03you move from that into these really fun
80. 3:05techniques and it really is to bring
81. 3:08play and fun back to your sex life and
82. 3:10it's super creative and they teach you
83. 3:13how to like let's say he has a fantas so
84. 3:16you've got to that place where you're
85. 3:17now discussing this stuff and he says oh
86. 3:20this idea really turns me on and it's
87. 3:22like some of you are going like no I
88. 3:24can't like it's not it's crossing a
89. 3:26downer for me I can't do that and so I
90. 3:28don't say oh no you have to to keep them
91. 3:30happy that's a bunch of bull it's okay
92. 3:33so this is what you want to experience
93. 3:36here's where I'm at how can we figure
94. 3:38out and it's tapping into his
95. 3:40imagination tapping into the five senses
96. 3:43it's a lot of it is sensuality uh visual
97. 3:46cues and other triggers that you can use
98. 3:49that can
99. 3:50recreate these you know really in-depth
100. 3:53fantasies in a way that's still honoring
101. 3:55your boundaries and um and you know
102. 3:59you're both having fun at the same time
103. 4:01because a lot of the other programs that
104. 4:02are out there honestly um they're not I
105. 4:06don't know they're they're not coming
106. 4:07from that standpoint of coaching women
107. 4:09to be empowered in having their own
108. 4:12boundaries um but at the same time you
109. 4:14know understanding where you might push
110. 4:17it a little bit and and that's part of
111. 4:19that I think is the thrill of having a
112. 4:21really exciting sex life is pushing
113. 4:23yourself right to the edge and then you
114. 4:25might discover oh my gosh this is really
115. 4:28fun and I want to try it again or you
116. 4:30know so uh really that's the program in
117. 4:33the nutshell yeah and it's really really
118. 4:36fantastic and like I said that's exactly
119. 4:38what I loved about it is just that it's
120. 4:41it's empowering it's exactly what you
121. 4:43said about um you know the other
122. 4:45programs I'll say it flatly it's just
123. 4:47you know it's not this you have to do
124. 4:49this in order to get him excited it's
125. 4:51not about that you know you have to have
126. 4:54your everybody has their own boundaries
127. 4:56and you know you have to be you have to
128. 4:58just know yourself to know where you
129. 5:01need to stop and um Coming somewhere in
130. 5:04the middle so that you know you do have
131. 5:06an exciting sex life with your partner
132. 5:08so that you're both good with it so
133. 5:11that's what I really love yeah I I
134. 5:13really really loved it FY I thought it
135. 5:14was really great so um and actually you
136. 5:17know one of our questions was kind of
137. 5:19about that actually um do you want to go
138. 5:21into the questions now yeah let's go for
139. 5:23it yeah okay um so I just I'm sorry
140. 5:28there are so many questions here I just
141. 5:29want need to find it um oh okay so here
142. 5:32it says um I'm way too self-conscious to
143. 5:34dirty talk whenever I've tried I just
144. 5:37feel like I'm being someone other than
145. 5:38myself how can I get more comfortable
146. 5:40with it that is a great question and
147. 5:43that's actually true for I mean it was
148. 5:46true for me at one point in time and um
149. 5:49and I thought I was pretty good like
150. 5:50with the texting and stuff and then you
151. 5:53know and it's in the video where I share
152. 5:55this really awkward experience I had and
153. 5:57I'm like you know I was kind of like
154. 5:59Dearing headlights and so um again the
155. 6:03difference with this program is there's
156. 6:04a lot of coaching and I um give you
157. 6:07exercises where you actually practice
158. 6:09and some of it you're going to feel
159. 6:10ridiculous when you're doing it right
160. 6:12right but it's you know it's sort of
161. 6:14getting comfortable with saying these
162. 6:17different words because you can read
163. 6:18them and you might have a little like o
164. 6:20you know that's that's a little naughty
165. 6:22um and it's different to actually get it
166. 6:24out of your mouth and say it right and
167. 6:26so I kind of work you in baby steps of
168. 6:29uh taking advantage of Technology um
169. 6:32that's key and um working towards being
170. 6:35able to face Toof face um say things and
171. 6:39and again it doesn't have to be explicit
172. 6:42to be sexy um there's you know I have a
173. 6:46whole lesson on inuendo and how do you
174. 6:49um trigger things there's a in fact
175. 6:51there's a technique called uh Pavlov's
176. 6:54erection where I share a story The the
177. 6:58naughty word the totally explicit
178. 7:01naughty word that I could say to my
179. 7:03boyfriend to make him like it was funny
180. 7:06I mean I I tortured them with that but
181. 7:09the word was
182. 7:10pillow pillow pillow that doesn't mean
183. 7:13anything sexual to any of you listening
184. 7:16to this but I explained in the program
185. 7:18how this came to be this very highly
186. 7:21charged word and so there's um you know
187. 7:24to answer the question there's all sorts
188. 7:27of ways so it doesn't have to just be
189. 7:29what you what you already think dirty
190. 7:31talk is right okay that's really great
191. 7:36um there was another question that I
192. 7:39think that you saw that you wanted to
193. 7:42address do you know which one it is it
194. 7:44was the one about uh what do men think
195. 7:47if you sleep with them on the first date
196. 7:49oh yes yes okay um yes so um yes so
197. 7:54that's actually the entire question what
198. 7:56do yeah what do men think of women that
199. 7:58sleep with them on the first date
200. 8:00exactly and you know the answer is it
201. 8:03depends on the guy right you know it um
202. 8:06Michael F says this a lot that and it's
203. 8:09true that um sleeping with somebody it's
204. 8:12not going to make him fall in love with
205. 8:14you it it'll probably just enhance the
206. 8:16feeling that was already there so if he
207. 8:19was already falling in love with you
208. 8:21then it definitely could you know
209. 8:23amplify that but if he's like well you
210. 8:25know she's she's good for tonight you
211. 8:28know um
212. 8:30then you know that's it's not going to
213. 8:32really change his mind and so the trick
214. 8:34is and this is what I you know tell
215. 8:36women when when I hear this question and
216. 8:38they don't know is you know the longer
217. 8:40you know somebody before you're
218. 8:42physically intimate the more chance that
219. 8:44you have to develop that emotional
220. 8:47connection so that you know after you
221. 8:48sleep together you're gonna still talk
222. 8:50to him you know the next day or the day
223. 8:52after right because I think that's the
224. 8:54big fear is oh if I give it up too soon
225. 8:57then he's going to think of me as being
226. 8:59being [ __ ] and he's not going to want
227. 9:01me and he's going to dump me and the
228. 9:03truth is I mean I know people who a one
229. 9:07night St turned into a long-term
230. 9:09relationship um personally um the man I
231. 9:13married and had two kids with we slip
232. 9:15together on our second date so you know
233. 9:19there's no magic timeline that's going
234. 9:20to guarantee um but what I tell women is
235. 9:23just use this litness test if you are
236. 9:26deciding and I don't think there's
237. 9:28anything wrong with being empower in
238. 9:29your sexuality when you're dating to say
239. 9:32you know what I want to have sex with
240. 9:34this person but before you do that know
241. 9:37that you can't use sex to to manipulate
242. 9:40an end result sleeping with him doesn't
243. 9:42guarantee you anything um and so you
244. 9:45have to ask yourself in this moment
245. 9:47right here right now if I decide to um
246. 9:50you know go with how I'm feeling
247. 9:52physically and and fall to bed on the
248. 9:54first date am I okay with never hearing
249. 9:57from him again right and if the answer
250. 9:59is know and you're going to feel like
251. 10:00you were taken advantage of or you were
252. 10:02used or he was you know um sugar coating
253. 10:07things and talking about a future
254. 10:08because really you don't know if there's
255. 10:10a future there why would you even know
256. 10:11after a first date that you want a
257. 10:12future with somebody you don't you don't
258. 10:14know them um and so that's the winess
259. 10:17test you know if you sleep with them are
260. 10:18you okay with is this a choice I'm
261. 10:20making because I want this rather than
262. 10:23I'm doing this because I hope he's going
263. 10:24to become my boyfriend like totally
264. 10:26different mindset right right and a guy
265. 10:29isn't you know some guys might go God
266. 10:31you know she did that with me in a first
267. 10:33date she must do it with everybody but
268. 10:34not every gu's gonna think that you just
269. 10:36don't
270. 10:37know you don't you don't know each other
271. 10:40um and really the sex tends to get
272. 10:43better the more you do know somebody you
273. 10:44know when you have an idea of what
274. 10:46they're interested in you already have
275. 10:48some emotional intimacy building um
276. 10:51because then the trust factor is a
277. 10:53little bit deeper already and you know
278. 10:56it but it it's not to say that you can't
279. 10:58have an amazing when they stand that's
280. 11:00totally mindblowing either
281. 11:02so that's a really good answer it was a
282. 11:04very good
283. 11:05answer all right so I'm going to go on
284. 11:07to the next question because we have
285. 11:08quite a few and we don't have very much
286. 11:10time left so um the next one is I am a
287. 11:1357y year young woman that is on fire all
288. 11:17I hear I know right all I hear from my
289. 11:20women friends is that the men our age
290. 11:22and younger can't seem to get it up or
291. 11:25keep it up diabetes drinking high blood
292. 11:27pressure depression Etc what is
293. 11:31happening well um interestingly enough
294. 11:36um in one of the bonus programs that's
295. 11:39available I I spent some time talking
296. 11:41about erectile
297. 11:43dysfunction um and you know again going
298. 11:46back to the notion that you know women
299. 11:49we equate his erection with being
300. 11:51aroused and being turned on and Desiring
301. 11:54us and you know it happens to every guy
302. 11:58at some point in time he's going to
303. 12:02desperately want to have sex and his
304. 12:05body is not going to cooperate and the
305. 12:08worst thing that you can do in that
306. 12:10moment is take it
307. 12:13personally um or be
308. 12:16critical um because can you imagine like
309. 12:18for women you know we don't like our
310. 12:21bodies I mean obviously it's way better
311. 12:23when we're turned on but we know that
312. 12:24like sometimes like whether it's a
313. 12:26hormonal imbalance it could be a diet
314. 12:28related thing sometimes medication
315. 12:30interferes with our ability to you know
316. 12:32our self-lubricating function that
317. 12:35doesn't mean we're not turned on and for
318. 12:37us we can still have sex because we can
319. 12:40just grab some lube and we can fix the
320. 12:43problem right then and there and be
321. 12:44ready to go and so you know again from
322. 12:46that standpoint of seeking to understand
323. 12:48just imagine for a moment how
324. 12:51frustrating and how vulnerable he must
325. 12:55feel if he's not able to get it up m-hm
326. 13:00and so that's where being creative comes
327. 13:03into play where there's all sorts of
328. 13:05other ways that you can be sexual that
329. 13:07don't involve intercourse like most of
330. 13:10us when we hear the word sex we think it
331. 13:11means intercourse um but there's so many
332. 13:15other things on the menu uh that you can
333. 13:17do that are wonderful and that feel good
334. 13:21um and you know having a conversation
335. 13:24and saying okay this this I want to be
336. 13:27able to have intercourse with you I
337. 13:29pretty much guarantee he wants to do it
338. 13:31too so you talk about it and you know
339. 13:33right now we live in a time where
340. 13:35there's the little blue pill and there's
341. 13:36other you know medications that um are
342. 13:40possible that make it possible for him
343. 13:41to you know be able to perform sexually
344. 13:46um because when it is like a chronic
345. 13:47illness or some other you know Health
346. 13:50thing um it can totally affect his
347. 13:53ability to have an erection but it
348. 13:54doesn't affect his uh desire for you and
349. 13:57how attracted he is to you
350. 14:00right exactly okay all right that's
351. 14:02great um let's go to the next one the
352. 14:05next question um it is okay so my
353. 14:10boyfriend of sex six years sex I got sex
354. 14:12on the
355. 14:12mind yeah go figure um so my boyfriend
356. 14:16of six years and I have different
357. 14:18amounts of sexual desire I am 49 a 49y
358. 14:21old woman and he is 52 his desire level
359. 14:24is much lower than mine it wasn't like
360. 14:26this in the beginning at first we
361. 14:28matched each other
362. 14:29what is uh what in the world can I do to
363. 14:31satisfy myself sexually and entice him
364. 14:33or meet him
365. 14:36halfway that's a really good question
366. 14:38and not just sound like
367. 14:40um like a used car sales person but by
368. 14:44the program because actually you know I
369. 14:46think it goes back to you could ask
370. 14:48yourself you know are there assumptions
371. 14:50that I'm making about um you know his
372. 14:54like he should want to have sex like all
373. 14:56the time right but he's showing you you
374. 14:58know his lito has has shifted and again
375. 15:02that could be you know we naturally have
376. 15:04abs and flows to our lito and our sex
377. 15:07drive um and so there could be that at
378. 15:11play um it could also you know like you
379. 15:14said Gia that you know what shows up in
380. 15:16our sex lives can be a reflection of the
381. 15:18relationship as a whole so are there any
382. 15:21you know frustrations or resentments or
383. 15:22other things happening that need to be
384. 15:25talked about honestly um but you know
385. 15:28sometimes it's um and going back to the
386. 15:31brain chemistry thing which is a little
387. 15:32bit different than men's sexual
388. 15:34psychology because we all have brains
389. 15:35and our brains tend to respond the same
390. 15:37way so um I talk about this a lot where
391. 15:41uh the chemical dopamine it's the
392. 15:44pleasure chemical and there's all sorts
393. 15:46of little easy easy ways that you can
394. 15:49trigger dopamine so what happens over
395. 15:51time is if sex becomes
396. 15:54routine we don't get that big flood of
397. 15:57dopamine and then when we don't get big
398. 15:59flood of dopamine the the secondary
399. 16:01horor that comes into place is the
400. 16:02oxytocin and women tend to have more
401. 16:05oxytocin in their systems than men do um
402. 16:07but men haven't um and so less dopamine
403. 16:12then there's less oxytocin and then that
404. 16:14means both people's liido tends to get
405. 16:16diminished now for women if you're you
406. 16:19know par menopausal or menopausal um you
407. 16:23you might see a really big High um surge
408. 16:25in your sex drive which is normal um a
409. 16:28lot of women experienced that and like
410. 16:29you know our question before I'm a 57y
411. 16:32old young woman on fire like that's
412. 16:33awesome I love hearing that um so it
413. 16:36could be just a a a difference in you
414. 16:39know hormone levels due to your age and
415. 16:41what's happening in your bodies at the
416. 16:42time but there are ways that you can um
417. 16:46introduce uh novelty which is something
418. 16:48new and surprise so a something you
419. 16:52could do that's um out of the ordinary
420. 16:54if you're not already doing this send
421. 16:55them a text in the middle of the day
422. 16:58like totally out of the blue and just
423. 17:00say I'm thinking about or I can't stop
424. 17:02thinking about dot dot dot and you'll
425. 17:05probably think you're going to say you
426. 17:06know what I need to get some milk on the
427. 17:09way home or something you know really
428. 17:10like boring like that and you say either
429. 17:14you know how hot you look this morning
430. 17:15getting out of the shower or or you
431. 17:18bring up something from the past like
432. 17:19that time you know we were so hot for
433. 17:22each other and we couldn't wait to get
434. 17:24home when we did it in the car like
435. 17:26something you know that is going to let
436. 17:29him know you're thinking about him in a
437. 17:30really sexual way and you're turned on
438. 17:32by him and you desire him just that
439. 17:36little simple thing will cause a jolt in
440. 17:40your relationship and so that's a really
441. 17:42easy place to start
442. 17:45right okay that's awesome um I think
443. 17:49yeah I think we have a time for a couple
444. 17:50more questions so um I'll just get right
445. 17:52to the next one so oh this is a really
446. 17:55good one Felicity um I'm a single mom
447. 17:57and I want to get back to to dating but
448. 17:59I don't feel sexy right now I feel
449. 18:01mostly tired and overwhelmed with
450. 18:03everything I have to do each day any
451. 18:05advice for getting my mojo
452. 18:08back yeah um that's a tough one and
453. 18:12personally I've actually been in that
454. 18:13experience in that
455. 18:15situation where um you know just the the
456. 18:20overwhelming amount of things that I
457. 18:22needed to do in any given day you know
458. 18:24especially when my kids were younger and
459. 18:27after my marriage kind of fell apart and
460. 18:30I was trying to make my way um you know
461. 18:33managing them managing my career keeping
462. 18:35a household running without the benefit
463. 18:37of you know having a partner that was
464. 18:39here every day my um father my kids is
465. 18:42amazing by the way we have an amazing
466. 18:44relationship so when I say single mom I
467. 18:46kind of feel bad because you know he's
468. 18:48very much in the picture um however I
469. 18:51can definitely relate to that you know
470. 18:53feeling um just not sexy because I'm
471. 18:56just freaking tired and um and it's one
472. 19:00of those things you kind of have to
473. 19:02decide like you're going to get back up
474. 19:03on that pony and even if you're not um
475. 19:07having sex like if you are single and
476. 19:10you're not even dating it um simple
477. 19:12things like I made a commitment to
478. 19:14myself that I even and I actually had a
479. 19:17period of my life where I intentionally
480. 19:20was selib it for two and a half years
481. 19:22and I made a commitment to myself I'm
482. 19:24doing this because I had you know I
483. 19:25wanted to um kind of break some old
484. 19:29patterns in my relationships but I said
485. 19:31I'm going to shave my legs every single
486. 19:34day and I'm going to wear cute panties
487. 19:36every single day even if I'm wearing
488. 19:38ugly sweats and I have no makeup on I'm
489. 19:41still gonna do things that I know nobody
490. 19:45else knows but I know that if you know
491. 19:48Brad Pit were to walk through the door
492. 19:51you know I'd be ready to go and it and
493. 19:53it was a mindset thing and so those are
494. 19:56some simple ways um and making that
495. 19:58decision to jump back into dating um
496. 20:00when you're a single mom I mean there's
497. 20:02a lot of things to consider but that
498. 20:04first step of starting to feel sexy
499. 20:07again those are things you can do
500. 20:08without you know it doesn't it's not
501. 20:11ring on attention from a man to feel
502. 20:13sexy you know um do things that you
503. 20:16enjoy and actually the um one of the
504. 20:18bonus programs that's being offered with
505. 20:20language of Desire is called the sensual
506. 20:23tsunami and there's um it goes into
507. 20:27incredible amounts of detail tell about
508. 20:29being sensual which is something totally
509. 20:31different than being sexual um and it's
510. 20:34doing things that make you feel good and
511. 20:37celebrating um you know all the things
512. 20:39that there are to enjoy in life and it's
513. 20:41it's so highly correlated to our sex
514. 20:44lives our sex drives and how we feel
515. 20:46about
516. 20:47ourselves yes very much so and taking
517. 20:50care of yourself and just doing exactly
518. 20:53what you you described before just
519. 20:55shaving your legs every day putting on
520. 20:57nice uh underwear you know lingerie
521. 21:00wearing it under your everyday clothes
522. 21:02you know thing doing things for yourself
523. 21:04that you know you're doing makes you
524. 21:06feel completely different and so when
525. 21:09you're taking care of yourself um that's
526. 21:11what's making you feel good about
527. 21:13yourself and and sexier in in the whole
528. 21:15process so it's really important
529. 21:17definitely all right sorry no but it's
530. 21:20not though yeah it's not it makes such a
531. 21:22huge difference yeah absolutely
532. 21:25absolutely um okay so let me just give
533. 21:28you another question here um this is an
534. 21:31interesting question
535. 21:32actually um is it true that women are
536. 21:34more likely to cheat because of our
537. 21:36Primal need to find the Perfect
538. 21:40Mate very interesting that is a very
539. 21:43interesting
540. 21:44question
541. 21:47um you know I in fact I actually just
542. 21:51wrote an article on digital romance
543. 21:53about cheat you know if you could cheat
544. 21:55proof your
545. 21:56relationship um and
546. 21:59statistically the the numbers you know
547. 22:02in terms of is it more men that are
548. 22:04cheating versus women it's actually
549. 22:06quite
550. 22:06even um you know when you when you look
551. 22:09at you the people who are willing to
552. 22:11admit anyways that they've been
553. 22:13unfaithful um but I think the the the
554. 22:17the drive for that is different um with
555. 22:21men a lot of times it's because they
556. 22:24don't feel respected and validated at
557. 22:26home and the thr of a new woman throwing
558. 22:30at herself at him sexually um that can
559. 22:33be a huge trigger for for a man to want
560. 22:35to cheat um for women a lot of times
561. 22:39it's not getting that emotional
562. 22:41connection and again it could be also a
563. 22:43sexual connection if you are in a
564. 22:46relationship where your sex life is
565. 22:48mediocre because maybe he's just not a
566. 22:51super amazing lover and you haven't been
567. 22:54um brave enough to say exactly what it
568. 22:57is that you want
569. 22:59um and so it sometimes people think it's
570. 23:01easier to seek that outside of the
571. 23:03relationship and I'll tell you it's um
572. 23:07it's way easier to find somebody to have
573. 23:08amazing sex with than it is to find
574. 23:10somebody you want to build a life with
575. 23:12absolutely and so sometimes it's you
576. 23:15know that that the thrill of getting
577. 23:17caught the thrill of doing something
578. 23:18naughty the thrill of um somebody new
579. 23:22that all of that it's like it's dopamine
580. 23:24like firing off like crazy and so you
581. 23:26get in this you know um you you feel
582. 23:29good even though you probably feel
583. 23:31horrible about the fact that you're if
584. 23:32you're married you're breaking a vow and
585. 23:34you're you know deceiving your partner
586. 23:36and all this stuff but there's this
587. 23:38flood of of feel-good chemicals
588. 23:40happening at the same time that it's
589. 23:41almost like you get addicted to it um
590. 23:44but going back to the original
591. 23:45question you know I don't know I mean I
592. 23:48guess it depends on the age of the woman
593. 23:50um if you're past childbearing age um
594. 23:54you know the baby Shop's closed down
595. 23:55obviously that is not going to be a
596. 23:58reason you know maybe possibly
597. 24:01subconsciously but you know I kind of I
598. 24:04I kind of don't know um and you know and
599. 24:07not every woman wants to have kids
600. 24:09either right um so I think you know
601. 24:12there's it isn't that these things that
602. 24:13are wired on our brains are so dominant
603. 24:16that we don't have control I mean we
604. 24:17have free will so exactly um but that's
605. 24:21a really interesting question I actually
606. 24:22want to maybe do a little bit of
607. 24:24research on that and see if I can you
608. 24:26know if anyone's um you know made that
609. 24:29connection I don't know I haven't heard
610. 24:31that though and everything that I've
611. 24:32read right people I've talked to so a
612. 24:36great question though yes it was it
613. 24:38actually was um so we've actually
614. 24:40wrapped up our hour here which kind of
615. 24:43stinks because I'm having a really great
616. 24:47time I think we will I think we will and
617. 24:50you know it's so wonderful I think that
618. 24:53um you know we didn't we didn't get to
619. 24:55all of your questions I'm so sorry about
620. 24:57that and I think if we we got to all of
621. 24:59them we'd be here for the next two hours
622. 25:01for sure and thank you so much everybody
623. 25:03for submitting the questions they they
624. 25:05they were really really great um but we
625. 25:08unfortunately don't have any more time
626. 25:10so we're going to have to shut it
627. 25:13down and um thank you so much ficity
628. 25:17first of all for being here with us it
629. 25:19was so great of you to be here and um it
630. 25:22was just so amazingly informative and
631. 25:25fun thank you you're welcome this was a
632. 25:28lot lot of fun I love uh seeing the
633. 25:30questions would it be possible um I mean
634. 25:33if people wanted to ask the questions on
635. 25:36the Facebook page and we yes absolutely
636. 25:39absolutely yes so if you'd like your
637. 25:41questions answered then please just
638. 25:43inbox me on LSI on the Facebook page and
639. 25:47I'll definitely get those questions over
640. 25:48to Felicity um and we'll get them
641. 25:50answered for you for sure and um yeah
642. 25:53and anything else that you want to ask
643. 25:56if you want to give us your feedback
644. 25:58which is so so important um please inbox
645. 26:01me or um or email me um you've got my
646. 26:05email on the on the um the email that
647. 26:08you actually got for this webinar so
648. 26:11either way is absolutely fine um your
649. 26:13feedback is really important to us
650. 26:15because we want to be able to give you
651. 26:17so many more things of Great Value that
652. 26:19will help you so um yes please do please
653. 26:23do and thank you so much everyone for
654. 26:27showing up being here it's it's really
655. 26:29been a pleasure and I hope that we can
656. 26:31do this again sometime yeah yeah
657. 26:36yeah yes absolutely like I know I know
658. 26:41and um and I I really just have to say
659. 26:44that I really did love your program I
660. 26:46know I've said this so many times over
661. 26:47and over again but you know when I'm
662. 26:49excited about something I I really am
663. 26:52excited about it because I don't get
664. 26:53excited about a lot of things I mean
665. 26:55it's just there's just so much junk out
666. 26:58there
667. 26:58and um and I loved language of Desire so
668. 27:02good for you congratulations on writing
669. 27:04a really phenomenal program and um and I
670. 27:08think yeah I think everybody will enjoy
671. 27:09it so um so that that's wonderful and if
672. 27:12you do if any of you are interested in
673. 27:14the program just so you know the links
674. 27:17are up on the in the chat box there um
675. 27:20there's a video uh version and then
676. 27:22there's a a letter version that you can
677. 27:23just read but we've also got the links
678. 27:26on our website ii.com which I'm sure all
679. 27:28of you are familiar with and um and I
680. 27:32actually published Felicity one of
681. 27:34felicity's Articles today um on on the
682. 27:37Facebook page so you can take a look
683. 27:39there as well um yeah the the article
684. 27:41that I posted today was about his
685. 27:43erogenous Zone hello yes yes it was a
686. 27:47good article too yes yes exactly it's
687. 27:49not what you think it's not what people
688. 27:51would normally think but um but that's
689. 27:53what the the great thing is about the
690. 27:55great thing is about this whole program
691. 27:57is that it it it shatters a lot of myths
692. 27:59and it really gets down to what
693. 28:03seduction and desire and intimacy is all
694. 28:06about and um I think a lot of people are
695. 28:08misguided and not to their fault because
696. 28:12we get a lot of messages that are really
697. 28:14quite wrong so um so it was wonderful
698. 28:17yeah it was wonderful so okay I'm going
699. 28:19to wrap it up here thank you everyone
700. 28:22again for coming and thank you again
701. 28:24Felicity for being here with us it was
702. 28:26wonderful to have you here great thank
703. 28:28you so much