exactly WHAT TO SAY to SPEAK your DREAM LIFE into existence — Transcript
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- 0:00The words that are coming out of your
- 0:01mouth right now are building a life that
- 0:03you're going to be living, and I have
- 0:04been observing many of you speaking a
- 0:07life that you don't even want into
- 0:09existence. This needs to stop. Some of
- 0:11you are saying things like, "I can't
- 0:12afford this. I always attract the wrong
- 0:14people." Or even, "I just can't stick to
- 0:16anything." And you think that you're
- 0:17describing what's happening, but your
- 0:19brain doesn't know the difference
- 0:20between a description and a direction.
- 0:23Every time you're saying, "I am"
- 0:25followed by anything, that's an
- 0:27instruction to your nervous system. And
- 0:29the reticular activating system in your
- 0:31brain will start filtering your reality
- 0:32to match that instruction. Your behavior
- 0:35then starts to shift to prove that
- 0:37assumption of yours is correct. And then
- 0:39slowly and quietly, the words that
- 0:40you're continuing to repeat to yourself
- 0:42becomes the life that you live. This
- 0:44video is sponsored by Jump Speak, which
- 0:45actually ties perfectly into what we're
- 0:47talking about today, and I'm going to
- 0:48tell you why in a minute. It is also
- 0:50about the things that you're not saying,
- 0:52by the way. Things that we are not
- 0:53declaring to ourselves out loud because
- 0:55there is a specific version of yourself
- 0:57that you want to become, but it remains
- 0:59only in your head because you've never
- 1:00actually spoken it into existence
- 1:02because you're afraid of sounding
- 1:04delulu. Or you may be afraid of being
- 1:06someone that you're not just yet. Maybe
- 1:08you could journal it out or make a
- 1:10vision board, but you still won't speak
- 1:12it out loud. I'm telling you, just as
- 1:14much as saying the wrong things, silence
- 1:16also costs us more than we realize. My
- 1:18name is May, and I'm here to help you
- 1:19level up physically, mentally, and
- 1:21spiritually, and my community is called
- 1:23Stoic Angels. My angels and I are all
- 1:25about doing the deep inner work as well
- 1:27as building outward at the same time. So
- 1:29this topic is particularly exciting for
- 1:32me because I have two degrees in design
- 1:34and psychology. I have literally spoken
- 1:36my dream life into existence. So this is
- 1:39my realm. If you want to build with us,
- 1:41subscribe to my channel because I make
- 1:42videos like this every week. I have also
- 1:44made a free digital guide for you that
- 1:46contains everything that we talk about
- 1:47plus additional exercises that you can
- 1:49do that's not in this video. This guide
- 1:51is free, so go and download it if you
- 1:54haven't already. So So, me show you why
- 1:55this matters. We're not talking about
- 1:57literal magic, but more about the
- 1:58semantics and symbolism of it. I have
- 2:01also heard someone say that in video
- 2:02games, you can't cast spells,
- 2:04particularly magic spells, when you're
- 2:06being silenced, because when you speak,
- 2:08that's how you cast magic. And I find
- 2:10that to be so true, because in a lot of
- 2:12ways for me, life itself, like here on
- 2:14planet Earth, is already so magical.
- 2:17Some of you guys may not believe me,
- 2:19that maybe you think there's something
- 2:20out there better, and you want to ascend
- 2:22to like the 27th dimension or whatever,
- 2:24but I have to disagree. Right here on
- 2:26Earth, this is the planet of choice, and
- 2:28we get to choose what we say in order to
- 2:30bring forth the kind of reality that we
- 2:32want, and we get to do this practically.
- 2:35It is already there, inherently
- 2:37available to us. It's really that
- 2:39simple. And I am saying this as someone
- 2:41who has done a ton of research into
- 2:44esotericism and spirituality, and I have
- 2:46come to this conclusion, that while most
- 2:48non-human things want to have what we
- 2:50have to the point of trying to possess
- 2:52our bodies and whatnot, and I'm not even
- 2:54going to digress any further than that,
- 2:56the worst thing for us to do is to be
- 2:59ungrateful about being here, and having
- 3:02a physical body with a literal voice,
- 3:04and being able to experience our planet
- 3:07Earth, especially in the way that we
- 3:08can, in our physical experience, to
- 3:10communicate our dream lives into
- 3:12reality, because again, we can do this,
- 3:15because we're here. Now, the word
- 3:16spelling comes from the word spell, and
- 3:18the word grammar comes from grimoire,
- 3:20which is a book of spells. Language was
- 3:22never just meant for communication.
- 3:24Historically, across every culture,
- 3:26words were understood as acts of
- 3:29creation, where you give your word, you
- 3:31cast a sentence, and you voice your
- 3:34opinions and your choices. This isn't
- 3:36just about poetic etymology, but it is
- 3:38also hard neuroscience behind this, and
- 3:41why speaking the right things changes
- 3:43our lives. This is also the reason why,
- 3:45technically, not all thoughts are valid,
- 3:47especially for those of us who have
- 3:49intrusive thoughts. When you're thinking
- 3:51a thought silently, you're activating
- 3:53your prefrontal cortex. But then when
- 3:54you're speaking the same thought out
- 3:55loud, you're activating not just the
- 3:57prefrontal cortex, but also your motor
- 3:59cortex because your mouth is moving,
- 4:01your auditory complex because you're
- 4:02hearing yourself say it, and your
- 4:04Broca's area, which is responsible for
- 4:06language production. You go from one
- 4:08region to four regions. Your brain is
- 4:10literally processing all this
- 4:12information four times harder than when
- 4:14you say it out loud versus when you
- 4:16think it. This is why talking to
- 4:18yourself out loud isn't crazy. It's
- 4:19actually one of the most effective ways
- 4:21to rewire your brain. And I talk to
- 4:23myself all the time. My husband makes
- 4:25fun of me for it, but I really do. And
- 4:28no offense to him, my life changes way
- 4:30harder than his. Researchers at the
- 4:31University of Michigan found that people
- 4:33who refer to themselves in the third
- 4:35person using their name performed better
- 4:37under pressure and had lower anxiety.
- 4:39Instead of saying, "I got this," they
- 4:41would say their own name, "May, you got
- 4:43this." And that tiny change in your
- 4:44language created enough psychological
- 4:46distance to actually regulate your
- 4:47emotions better without suppressing it.
- 4:50And it goes deeper than just performance
- 4:51itself. There were these water crystal
- 4:53experiments done by Dr. Masaru Emoto
- 4:55that showed that when this water is
- 4:57exposed to positive spoken words, it
- 5:00actually forms symmetrical, beautiful
- 5:02crystals. While water exposed to
- 5:04negative words form chaotic, broken
- 5:06structures. Now, his methodology has
- 5:08been criticized scientifically, and I
- 5:11want to be transparent. This is not
- 5:12quite peer-reviewed in the traditional
- 5:14sense. But consider this, your body is
- 5:17roughly 60% water. And whether you're
- 5:18taking his findings literally or
- 5:21metaphorically, that principle still
- 5:22works with what we do know from
- 5:24neuroscience. The words you speak create
- 5:27measurable psychological and
- 5:28physiological changes in your body, and
- 5:30your cortisol levels shift, your heart
- 5:33rate changes, and your vagal tone
- 5:35responds to the emotional content of
- 5:37your own voice. You're not just
- 5:39describing your reality as you're
- 5:41speaking it, you're also prescribing it
- 5:43and experiencing it in real time. I had
- 5:46a coworker a while back named Javi who
- 5:49would beat himself down in third person
- 5:51and it would break my heart every time
- 5:52he said that. He would say things like,
- 5:54"Javi, you're so stupid. Javi, go on
- 5:56you." And I had to be like, "No, Javi,
- 5:59stop it." Because I cannot bear to hear
- 6:01him talk like that. And some of you guys
- 6:03do talk like this to yourself all the
- 6:05time and it breaks my heart, too. When
- 6:06you speaking negatively about yourself,
- 6:08you're not just bringing yourself down,
- 6:10you're also bringing other people down,
- 6:12people who care about you. So, if words
- 6:14are this powerful, then why do most
- 6:16people go through life narrating their
- 6:18struggles out loud saying things like,
- 6:20"I'm so exhausted. This always happens
- 6:21to me." or "I'm terrible at this." But
- 6:23they never say their desires out loud
- 6:26because speaking your dream life out
- 6:28feels dangerous and I get it. I used to
- 6:31be the same way. Like I would write my
- 6:33goals in journal all day long. I can
- 6:35make a Pinterest board and whatever,
- 6:37visualize things in my head. But in the
- 6:38moment I actually have to say it out
- 6:40like, "I'm going to build a brand that
- 6:42transforms people's lives. I'm going to
- 6:44have financial freedom and I'm going to
- 6:45travel the world and do work that I
- 6:47love." My throat would literally feel
- 6:50like it's starting to tighten up because
- 6:52saying it out loud means other people
- 6:54might actually hear it. And if they hear
- 6:56it and you don't achieve it, maybe that
- 6:59means you failed publicly. There's
- 7:01something in our nervous system that
- 7:03treats speaking a desire the same way
- 7:05that it treats exposing a vulnerability
- 7:08about ourselves. It feels very risky.
- 7:10So, instead we might stay quiet and
- 7:13remain small. But whether or not we do
- 7:15it, we're already speaking our lives
- 7:17into existence anyways. We're just doing
- 7:20it unconsciously. Every single time you
- 7:22say things like, "I'm not good enough."
- 7:23or "That's just how I am." These are
- 7:25declarations. You're casting spells on
- 7:27yourself all day long. The only question
- 7:29is whether you're going to do it on
- 7:31purpose or by accident. And I was so
- 7:34afraid of making mistakes, of saying the
- 7:36wrong things, of putting myself out
- 7:38there and looking stupid. This fear
- 7:40didn't just show up in my goals. It
- 7:42actually showed up everywhere in my
- 7:44life. It was permeating throughout
- 7:46everything. The same fear that kept me
- 7:48from even trying to learn a new language
- 7:50for years. I knew I wanted to learn and
- 7:53I was very interested, but the thought
- 7:55of opening my mouth and getting it wrong
- 7:57was enough to stop me from ever
- 7:59starting. And that's actually why my
- 8:00partnership with Jumpspeak feels
- 8:02personal to me because I'm done letting
- 8:04the fear of making mistakes stop me from
- 8:06learning new languages. Jumpspeak is a
- 8:08language app, but it's not like the ones
- 8:10that we've probably tried before where
- 8:12you're memorizing flashcards and like
- 8:13matching up words to pictures. Many of
- 8:15us know at this point that it doesn't
- 8:17actually help us speak the language.
- 8:19Jumpspeak gets you speaking from day
- 8:21one. Real conversations with an AI tutor
- 8:23that corrects you in real time. So
- 8:25you're actually speaking out loud and
- 8:27then it gives you instant feedback on
- 8:29the pronunciation, the grammar. The
- 8:31whole point of today's video is that
- 8:32declaring things is how we can start
- 8:34solidifying change for ourselves,
- 8:36especially with new languages. You don't
- 8:39learn to speak
- 8:40You have to practice in real life
- 8:42conversations, which involves being
- 8:44willing to sound imperfect at times.
- 8:46Jumpspeak is designed exactly for that.
- 8:48It's like having a native speaker
- 8:50available on demand who will role-play
- 8:52real conversations with you like
- 8:54ordering food or asking for directions
- 8:56and then it tells you how well you did.
- 8:58I'm learning Spanish because right now I
- 8:59live in Miami and it's almost the first
- 9:01language here and learning Spanish can
- 9:03actually unlock a whole new world for
- 9:05me. Vamos a tomar algo.
- 9:07>> Me parece bien.
- 9:08>> Esta noche verdad.
- 9:11>> Sí, estoy ocupado durante el día.
- 9:13>> Perfecto. And what I love is that the
- 9:15lessons are like 3 minutes. I do it
- 9:16during my morning routine before I start
- 9:18my day and over a million people are
- 9:20already using it and 78% of members feel
- 9:23more confident within 3 weeks, which
- 9:25tracks because once you actually start
- 9:26speaking out loud consistently, your
- 9:28confidence just builds. The first 200
- 9:31people that click my link or scan the
- 9:32code get 50% off and every new member
- 9:35gets a 100-day money-back guarantee. So
- 9:37it's completely risk-free for you to try
- 9:39for 100 days. So, try it out for
- 9:40yourself. Now, let's get practical. How
- 9:42do we speak our dreams into real life,
- 9:45exactly? I built a framework for this
- 9:47because I needed myself as well, and I
- 9:49need to remind myself. And I call this
- 9:51the speak method, and it's five changes
- 9:54that take your words from self-sabotage
- 9:56to self-creation. S, state what you
- 9:59want, never what you fear. Most people's
- 10:02inner monologue is organized around
- 10:04avoidance. I don't want to be broke. I
- 10:06don't want to be alone. I hope I don't
- 10:08mess this up. But the truth is, your
- 10:10subconscious mind does not process
- 10:12negation very well. So, when you're
- 10:14saying things like, "I don't want to be
- 10:16broke," your brain lights up the concept
- 10:18of broke and starts orienting around it.
- 10:21So, it becomes like an obsession around
- 10:24the word broke. And the more focused you
- 10:25are on something, the more you're
- 10:26creating more of it. Neurolinguistic
- 10:28research shows that suppression
- 10:29commands, like, "I don't think of a
- 10:31white bear," actually increases the
- 10:33frequency of that repressed thought.
- 10:35Your brain has to hold the concept
- 10:37active in order to monitor whether
- 10:39you're successfully avoiding it or not.
- 10:41So, instead of saying things like, "I
- 10:43don't want to be broke," you can say,
- 10:45"I'm building wealth." Instead of
- 10:46saying, "I don't want to be alone," say,
- 10:49"I'm attracting deeper and healthier
- 10:51love." And instead of saying, "I hope I
- 10:52don't mess this up," you say, "I'm
- 10:54prepared for this." Do you feel the
- 10:56difference? It's the same thing and the
- 10:58same desire, same wants, but completely
- 11:01different ways of speaking it into
- 11:03existence. P, present tense only. Your
- 11:05brain responds to language literally. If
- 11:08you're saying things like, "I will be
- 11:09confident," you're telling your brain
- 11:10that confidence is somewhere in the
- 11:12future. It's always coming. It's never
- 11:15here right now. Just like how the diet
- 11:17always starts tomorrow, but now we're no
- 11:19longer doing that. It already started.
- 11:21We're already doing it. We're done,
- 11:23basically. We're already done. "I am
- 11:25confident" tells your brain this is
- 11:27happening right now. Your reticular
- 11:30activating system, which is the filter
- 11:31in your brain that decides what you pay
- 11:33attention to, starts scanning for even
- 11:34more evidence to confirm whatever you're
- 11:37declaring in the present tense. So, say
- 11:39I am creative, and your brain starts
- 11:41noticing all the ways that you're
- 11:42already being creative. And when you're
- 11:44saying things like, "I will be creative
- 11:46someday," your brain files it away as,
- 11:49"You know what? This is not important
- 11:50right now. I'll deal with that later."
- 11:52So, someday you're going to be creative,
- 11:54but not today. The present tense is the
- 11:56spell, but the future tense is the wish
- 11:59unfulfilled. If you want something to
- 12:01come true right now, you better speak it
- 12:02in present tense. E, embody it when you
- 12:05say it. Most people, they will say
- 12:07words, but their body doesn't believe
- 12:09them. You're saying things like, "I am
- 12:10confident," while your whole body is
- 12:12hunched over, and your energy is just
- 12:14not feeling it. So, your body is sending
- 12:16a completely different signal through
- 12:17your words. And guess what wins that
- 12:19argument every time? It's your body. Amy
- 12:21Cuddy's original research at Harvard
- 12:23found that power posing, standing tall
- 12:25and taking up space with your chest open
- 12:28for just 2 minutes, made people feel
- 12:29significantly
- 12:30more powerful and confident. Now, I want
- 12:32to be transparent once again, because
- 12:34the actual hormonal specific claims in
- 12:36the original 2010 study has been
- 12:38challenged in replications. But, what
- 12:40still held up consistently across
- 12:42meta-analyses is the psychological
- 12:44effect. Your posture changes how
- 12:46powerful you're feeling, which changes
- 12:48what feels possible to you. Your body
- 12:51sends signals to your brain about what
- 12:53state you're in. So, when you speak your
- 12:55declarations out loud, you better stand
- 12:57up and put your shoulders back, speak
- 12:59from your chest, and your diaphragm, and
- 13:01not from your throat. If you can't
- 13:02remember all of these things, then
- 13:03basically use your stomach to talk.
- 13:06That's what I do. I will speak like
- 13:07this, and I sound like a tiny mouse when
- 13:09I do it. So, use your body in your
- 13:12speech, and let your body match the
- 13:14vibrations of the words. Some of you
- 13:15guys actually clown on me saying that
- 13:17like, "Oh my gosh, you speak like an
- 13:18Italian." But guess what? I speak with
- 13:20my entire physical body, and my mind,
- 13:23and my spirit. I speak with everything I
- 13:25got. So, maybe that's why you guys
- 13:27listen to me. A, attach emotion. A
- 13:29declaration without emotion is just a
- 13:32sentence. Your amygdala, which is the
- 13:34emotional processing center of your
- 13:35brain, it tags experiences and
- 13:37information with emotional weight. The
- 13:39stronger the emotion that's attached to
- 13:41a memory or a statement, the deeper it
- 13:44feels and then the more powerful it
- 13:46gets. This is why you remember where you
- 13:47were during a life-changing moment, but
- 13:49you can't even remember what you ate for
- 13:51lunch 2 days ago. Our emotions make
- 13:53everything else feel much more real and
- 13:56memorable. So, that when you speak your
- 13:57new reality, make sure to feel it. Don't
- 14:00just say, "I am abundant." Like, close
- 14:03your eyes and feel what it would feel
- 14:04like to check your bank account and to
- 14:07see more than enough and feel that
- 14:08relief in your body.
- 14:10Ah, feel the exhale and the spaciousness
- 14:13and just like release, you know, and
- 14:14then say it from that place. "I am
- 14:17abundance." [music]
- 14:18Like, you can go on vacation tomorrow
- 14:19and for the next 3 months. That emotion
- 14:22makes that declaration feel even more
- 14:24real to you and so much more powerful.
- 14:26K, keep it sacred. Not every declaration
- 14:30needs an audience. In fact, some of the
- 14:32most powerful spoken word you will ever
- 14:34do is when you do it alone on your own,
- 14:36in front of the mirror, on your own, on
- 14:38a walk, in your car. And there's a
- 14:40reason why so many spiritual and
- 14:42religious traditions emphasize spoken
- 14:45prayer, mantra, incantation, chanting
- 14:48done privately and repeatedly between
- 14:51you and between God or the universe.
- 14:53Repetition in a safe, contained space
- 14:56builds neural pathways without the
- 14:58interference of other people's doubt or
- 15:01their judgments. I'm not saying don't
- 15:02share your goals at all. I'm saying be
- 15:04intentional about who you share them
- 15:06with. Maybe don't even share it so
- 15:08early. Some dreams need to be spoken
- 15:10into existence privately before you're
- 15:13strong enough to survive public scrutiny
- 15:15and exposure. So, protect the frequency
- 15:18of your words like it matters because it
- 15:20does. Not everyone deserves to hear
- 15:22about your becoming. So, let me draw a
- 15:23line here because sometimes people
- 15:25conflate declarations versus
- 15:26affirmations and they're actually not
- 15:28the same thing. An affirmation is a
- 15:30statement that you want to come true.
- 15:32I'm rich. I'm beautiful. I'm love. And
- 15:35I'm not against affirmations at all. I
- 15:37love them and I've talked about them a
- 15:38lot on this channel. They are so
- 15:40powerful to me. But, research from the
- 15:41University of Waterloo found that for
- 15:43people with low self-esteem, repeating
- 15:45positive affirmations actually made them
- 15:47feel worse. Because if the gap between
- 15:49what you're saying and what you believe
- 15:51is too wide, then your brain registers
- 15:54it as a lie. And trying to lie to
- 15:56yourself creates cognitive dissonance,
- 15:58which creates more stress, not less. A
- 16:00declaration, however, is different. A
- 16:03declaration is actually a decision
- 16:05that's spoken out loud, and decisions
- 16:08are portals to a new state of mind. The
- 16:11declaration is the driver that takes you
- 16:14there. It's not just I hope this comes
- 16:16true for me someday, it's I have
- 16:17decided. That's who I'm becoming. So,
- 16:19the energy is very different. A
- 16:22declaration really announces your
- 16:24intention. So, think about it like this.
- 16:26When the country declares independence,
- 16:28it doesn't ask another country for
- 16:30permission. It says, "We are free now,
- 16:32starting now." And then it acts
- 16:34accordingly. So, here's how you bridge
- 16:36this gap. If affirmations feels like a
- 16:37lot to you, instead of saying, "I am
- 16:39rich," which your mind might reject,
- 16:40try, "I am becoming someone who builds
- 16:43wealth." Instead of saying, "I am
- 16:44confident," try, "I'm learning to trust
- 16:46myself more every day." So, these
- 16:48bridging declarations honor where you
- 16:51are while pointing towards where you're
- 16:53going. Your brain can accept them
- 16:55because they're actually true right now.
- 16:57You did decide that, that you're
- 16:58becoming, that you are learning. So,
- 17:00once your brain accepts that statement,
- 17:02it starts to build these neural pathways
- 17:04to support that. Now, are you guys ready
- 17:06to get even deeper? Because this is
- 17:08going to make everything make sense.
- 17:09Your words don't just reflect your
- 17:10identity, they actually construct it.
- 17:12So, every time you say, "I'm not a
- 17:14morning person," you are building the
- 17:16foundation for someone who can't wake up
- 17:17early. And every time you say, "I am bad
- 17:19with money," you are reinforcing a
- 17:21financial identity that will sabotage
- 17:23every budget and every savings plan and
- 17:25every investment opportunity that you
- 17:27come across. Because your behavior
- 17:29always snaps back to match your spoken I
- 17:32am identity. This is why people can
- 17:34learn about all the right strategies and
- 17:36read a ton of self-help books and still
- 17:38never change. Because that person that
- 17:40they are speaking themselves into is
- 17:42still the same person who created that
- 17:44problem in the first place. You're
- 17:46trying to build a new life with your old
- 17:48self and you're not willing to let go of
- 17:50that old self. Your words are the
- 17:51building blocks of that identity. So,
- 17:53one thing I noticed across every sport
- 17:56is how the greatest athletes talk about
- 17:58themselves. None of them are going to
- 18:00sit around and lament about how afraid
- 18:02they are of losing. They talk about
- 18:04mastering their craft. They talk about
- 18:06who they are becoming and how their
- 18:07younger self is so proud of them. Now,
- 18:09Michael Jordan wouldn't say things like,
- 18:11"I hope I don't miss." He actually said,
- 18:13"I have failed over and over again my
- 18:15life and that I succeed." He talked
- 18:17about his failure as his fuel and not
- 18:19who he is. The athletes who win
- 18:21consistently don't eliminate the fear of
- 18:24losing, but they focus their language on
- 18:26what they can control while getting
- 18:28better at what they do. This actually
- 18:30lowers the internal pressure because the
- 18:32mental spotlight isn't on whether they
- 18:34win or lose. Their spoken focus is on
- 18:37their mastery of their craft and not the
- 18:39outcome. You won't be focusing on your
- 18:41defeat when your words are constantly
- 18:43about improvement, no matter what. So,
- 18:46ask yourself right now and be so honest
- 18:49with yourself, what are the I am
- 18:51statements that you are most often
- 18:52repeating in your head? Those are your
- 18:54real declarations. And especially when
- 18:56you're speaking it out loud or typing it
- 18:58out loud or whatever, these are the
- 18:59spells that you're casting on yourself
- 19:01every single day. And maybe some of you
- 19:03guys may think that manifestation
- 19:04doesn't work, but that's because you
- 19:05don't really understand how it works. We
- 19:07are all doing it, no matter what we
- 19:09believe. So, try this. I want you to
- 19:11start speaking your future before
- 19:13there's even any evidence for it. For
- 19:14example, you can try saying, "I am a
- 19:17successful creator." before you even
- 19:18have a thousand followers. And I want
- 19:20you to try and say, "I am building
- 19:22something that matters." before you even
- 19:23have anything to show for it. The thing
- 19:25about creating transformation is the
- 19:27evidence always comes after the decision
- 19:30to start changing our identity, never
- 19:33before. You never get the proof first
- 19:36and then start believing. You always
- 19:38start believing first before the
- 19:40evidence can even catch up and
- 19:41eventually it does. I remember when I
- 19:43first started this channel, my first
- 19:45video had 20 views in 1 week and I said
- 19:47to myself, "I am helping other people
- 19:49transform their lives. If I can even
- 19:51help one person, I have done my job."
- 19:54And I felt kind of ridiculous saying
- 19:55that to myself. Like there wasn't even a
- 19:57comment or anything that I got. I got
- 19:59like two likes. One of them was me. That
- 20:02same video, I think, is now sitting at
- 20:04over a hundred thousand views. But back
- 20:06then, I didn't know that and I kept
- 20:08saying because I decided that was who I
- 20:11was becoming and those words started
- 20:13building these neural pathways in my
- 20:14brain that made me show up consistently
- 20:17enough for it to actually become true. I
- 20:19actually still leave my first video up
- 20:21on my channel to prove to myself and to
- 20:23you guys how far I have become and my
- 20:25intentions have always remained the
- 20:26same. And I have decided that ever since
- 20:28I started this channel, ever since I
- 20:30uploaded that first video, I was like,
- 20:31"I'm never taking it down." So that
- 20:33first brick that you lay on that
- 20:34foundation of change is the words that
- 20:37you choose to say over your life. I
- 20:39promise you if you keep practicing your
- 20:41declarations and start speaking more
- 20:42positivity to yourself, that version of
- 20:44yourself that exists 30 days from now
- 20:46will not be the same person standing in
- 20:48front of that mirror today because you
- 20:50will have spoken them into existence.
- 20:52Remember I made a digital guide for you
- 20:53that contains all the things that we
- 20:55have spoken about in this video plus
- 20:56additional exercises. So go and download
- 20:59that guide if you haven't already. Now
- 21:00comment below what your first
- 21:02declaration is. I want to read them and
- 21:04I want to witness you choosing yourself
- 21:05out loud. This is a safe space. You are
- 21:08anonymous. And if you want to go even
- 21:09deeper on identity transformation and
- 21:11the inner work that makes everything
- 21:13stick for good, my membership Stoic
- 21:15Angels 2.0 is opening up soon. The
- 21:18waitlist is in the description and
- 21:20that's where we do this practice
- 21:21together consistently with a community
- 21:23that also gets exactly what we're going
- 21:25through because we're all doing it
- 21:27together. As always, if nobody has told
- 21:29you this and if you don't believe in
- 21:30yourself, I believe in you, angel, and I
- 21:33will see you in the next video.
- 21:41>> [music]
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