Everything You Need to Know About Being a Femboy — Transcript

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1. 0:00You do not want to be a femboy. No, I'm
2. 0:02joking. A lot of you actually do. Every
3. 0:04day I get asked so many questions about
4. 0:07being a femboy and it's getting
5. 0:08ridiculous. So, here it is. In this
6. 0:11video, I'm going to be discussing stuff
7. 0:12that could help you if you're a
8. 0:13beginner, if you're intermediate, or
9. 0:15you're an expert femboy. Everybody can
10. 0:16learn something from this video cuz I'm
11. 0:18spilling out everything I know. All
12. 0:20right, let's get started.
13. 0:22All right, the most frequently asked
14. 0:24femboy question
15. 0:26that I usually get relates to fashion.
16. 0:28My advice for fashion is to just start
17. 0:30off simple. Don't listen to people on
18. 0:32the internet talking about Amazon
19. 0:33Basics outfits.
20. 0:35Um it's really easy to style with. It's
21. 0:37affordable for almost any budget and you
22. 0:40can build off of those pieces to make
23. 0:42more complex outfits. The more comfy you
24. 0:45get with fashion, the easier it'll be.
25. 0:47So, just experiment. Take some time to
26. 0:50research different styles. Who knows?
27. 0:52You might find something new that piques
28. 0:53your interest. Some good styles to start
29. 0:56with though are like goth, pastel,
30. 0:58kawaii, and casual. Also, make sure you
31. 1:00don't spend too much money when you're
32. 1:01shopping for stuff. One thing I like to
33. 1:03do if I see something I like, I'll add
34. 1:05it to my wish list and I'll wait until
35. 1:08I've thought it through before I buy
36. 1:09anything. I ask myself, "How often do I
37. 1:11see myself wearing this? Is this a piece
38. 1:14that is going to stay in my wardrobe or
39. 1:16am I just going to get rid of it?" I try
40. 1:17to see what I can style that piece with
41. 1:20and if it will look good. If you're
42. 1:22unsure about it, do yourself a favor and
43. 1:24just stay away from it. As tempting as
44. 1:26it could be, trust me, the amount of
45. 1:28times that I've bought something and
46. 1:30barely wore it is insane. Also,
47. 1:32shameless plug, check out the merch
48. 1:34website. Um I make merch. A lot of
49. 1:36people don't know. The merch that I make
50. 1:38is like just kind of cute and it's stuff
51. 1:39that you can wear outside and you won't
52. 1:40get beat up. I don't make too much off
53. 1:42of it. I keep the prices low so that you
54. 1:44guys can get it. Also, be sure to check
55. 1:46out any paws. They're super comfy, they
56. 1:48fit really well, and they look amazing.
57. 1:50You can find the links to both of those
58. 1:51in the description.
59. 1:53Okay, skin care. I just do the basics,
60. 1:55you know, face wash, moisturizing,
61. 1:58exfoliating, stuff like that. I also use
62. 2:00a service that ships all the products to
63. 2:03me every month, so I just use those.
64. 2:05But, I definitely would suggest doing
65. 2:07some research to see what products work
66. 2:09best with your skin if you want to take
67. 2:11it more seriously though. And then that
68. 2:13also kind of leads into makeup. I don't
69. 2:15really do makeup um like at all. I hate
70. 2:19doing my own makeup, especially around
71. 2:20the eyes. I get I get weird about it.
72. 2:23I can see myself doing some nail polish
73. 2:25though. But, yeah, I usually just style
74. 2:27my hair and call it a day.
75. 2:28All right, next is voice training.
76. 2:30Um I don't do voice training or anything
77. 2:32because I just use my natural voice all
78. 2:34the time. Lately, I've been getting a
79. 2:36lot of people on stream that say like,
80. 2:38"Oh, your voice is so soothing."
81. 2:40Or "Oh, this is great to have on in the
82. 2:42background." And if that's how people
83. 2:44feel, then that's good enough for me. I
84. 2:45don't care. Me personally, I don't like
85. 2:47hearing my voice, but hey, whatever.
86. 2:49I know it's important to others,
87. 2:51especially in the trans community. So, I
88. 2:53would recommend finding a vocal coach or
89. 2:55just looking up videos on YouTube that
90. 2:57can help you get started with voice
91. 2:59training if you're interested in
92. 3:01sounding more feminine.
93. 3:03Okay, diet and exercise. I'm not a
94. 3:05fitness guru, so please take the section
95. 3:07with a grain of salt. Everybody's
96. 3:09different, and what works for me might
97. 3:11not work for you. So, keep that in mind.
98. 3:13I know I'm this cute thick uh you know,
99. 3:16femboy VTuber on the internet, but I'm
100. 3:18also cute and thick in real life.
101. 3:20I eat a lot of junk food, and then I
102. 3:22just go to the gym like crazy. I'm in
103. 3:24the gym all the time. I have a Planet
104. 3:26Fitness membership, and I'm in there at
105. 3:28least four to five days a week. I know
106. 3:30everybody might not have access to the
107. 3:32gym,
108. 3:33but if you are kind of looking to get
109. 3:35started at the gym, I would definitely
110. 3:37recommend Planet Fitness because it's
111. 3:38like a little cheaper if you're in
112. 3:40America. I don't know if you guys have
113. 3:41that overseas, let me know.
114. 3:43I don't really have a set routine either
115. 3:45nowadays because my IRL job has me
116. 3:48running around for like 10 hours a day.
117. 3:50So, now I just do whatever I feel like
118. 3:51doing. I've kind of learned that like as
119. 3:53long as I'm moving,
120. 3:55that's all that I need to really do. But
121. 3:57when I was in my prime, I would do
122. 3:59what's called a 3-day split. You go in
123. 4:01the gym for like 3 days and you target
124. 4:03certain muscle groups depending on what
125. 4:04day it is. You can look up stuff like
126. 4:06that on the internet as well. Mainly
127. 4:08nowadays though, I do upper body because
128. 4:11you know, leg day is going to kill me if
129. 4:12I'm running around. Like I do a lot of
130. 4:14curls, I do a lot of lifts, I do a lot
131. 4:17of
132. 4:17push-ups, stuff like that. And then I
133. 4:19also do cardio. I'm kind of lazy though,
134. 4:22so I just like walking on the treadmill
135. 4:24on an incline for like an hour playing
136. 4:26games on my phone. What games you might
137. 4:28ask? If you really must know, Slay the
138. 4:30Spire one because two isn't on there
139. 4:32yet, but um
140. 4:34yeah. Also, Moist Critical did a video
141. 4:36one time about exercise and I strongly
142. 4:39recommend you watch it because it pretty
143. 4:41much tells you how to get into the habit
144. 4:42of exercising. I think it's really good.
145. 4:45I 100% recommend that video for anyone
146. 4:47that's trying to get started with their
147. 4:48fitness journey. I would suggest looking
148. 4:50up videos on how to do certain
149. 4:52exercises. I would stay away from the
150. 4:54ones that are like, "Get abs in 10
151. 4:56minutes."
152. 4:57Bro, those are all fake. They're usually
153. 4:59bogus, but genuinely the most important
154. 5:02piece of advice that I have for any of
155. 5:04you watching this video
156. 5:05is to make sure that you are
157. 5:07consistently exercising. It doesn't have
158. 5:09to be the gym.
159. 5:11It doesn't have to be lifting weights,
160. 5:12it doesn't have to be, you know, doing
161. 5:14cardio, cardio, cardio, right? But just
162. 5:16make sure you at least take an hour out
163. 5:19of your day and dedicate that towards
164. 5:21moving. It's really easy nowadays to
165. 5:23just be at the computer and then boom,
166. 5:25your day is gone. I genuinely love
167. 5:27exercising and I think it's so important
168. 5:29for not only your body, but your mind as
169. 5:32well. So make sure you're out there and
170. 5:34you're moving around. That's so
171. 5:35important.
172. 5:37Here are some dos and don'ts if you're a
173. 5:39fanboy on the internet. This one's going
174. 5:41to get a little heavy, so be warned,
175. 5:42okay? First and foremost, protect your
176. 5:45personal information. That's very
177. 5:46self-explanatory and you should be doing
178. 5:48that all the time anyways.
179. 5:50The internet is a very scary place for
180. 5:52femboys. Unfortunately, most femboys
181. 5:54just get sexualized on the internet and
182. 5:56there's nothing really we could do about
183. 5:57it. If you're a femboy and you don't
184. 5:59want to be sexualized, I'd recommend not
185. 6:01posting pictures of yourself online
186. 6:03[music] or especially in public Discord
187. 6:05servers. I know that one's kind of
188. 6:06common sense, but you never know who's
189. 6:08watching you and you don't know what
190. 6:10their intentions are. People out there
191. 6:11are weird and will try to be
192. 6:13your friend, but in actuality, they just
193. 6:16want something from you, whatever it may
194. 6:17be. That's why in my Discord server,
195. 6:19it's a rule that you can't post selfies
196. 6:21in any of the text channels. I know
197. 6:23we'll get femboys that are like, "Bro,
198. 6:24why?" Trying to protect you, that's why.
199. 6:27It's fine to post femboy pics online,
200. 6:29but just make sure that you don't do too
201. 6:30much, so to speak, if you catch my
202. 6:33drift. One thing that's common that
203. 6:35inspires a lot of people to become
204. 6:36femboys is they'll see femboy pictures
205. 6:38online and they perform really well, but
206. 6:40the majority of them don't as well. You
207. 6:42also have to remember that. If you're
208. 6:43just looking for numbers, I would not
209. 6:45recommend it, even a little bit. I would
210. 6:48not recommend it because if you post
211. 6:50something that you put a lot of effort
212. 6:52into and it doesn't get the numbers that
213. 6:53you want, it's going to sting a little
214. 6:55bit. Coming from experience, I used to
215. 6:56care, but now I don't. It's very
216. 6:58important to keep in mind that social
217. 7:00media can be addicting and can
218. 7:02definitely mess with your mental health.
219. 7:04One thing that I've been doing for a
220. 7:05while that's good for me is to just kind
221. 7:07of cater my feed to stuff that I like
222. 7:09instead of just femboys. My feed is like
223. 7:1199% cats and I love it. Look at it. It's
224. 7:15amazing. But you'll notice I don't see
225. 7:17any femboy pics. Why is that? So I don't
226. 7:20subconsciously compare myself to them.
227. 7:22That can be horrible for your mental
228. 7:24health, [music] especially if you have
229. 7:25body dysmorphia like I do. I also
230. 7:28stopped posting my femboy pics as
231. 7:29frequently on my socials because I
232. 7:31wanted to grow as a streamer instead of
233. 7:33just growing as a cute femboy. I post
234. 7:35something every once in a while, but
235. 7:37it's very rarely nowadays. And I still
236. 7:39take pictures, don't get me wrong. But
237. 7:41nowadays, I just kind of post them on
238. 7:42Ko-fi. That way, I at least make some
239. 7:44type of money off of it. This section is
240. 7:46going to be for the beginner femboys,
241. 7:47okay? So, listen up. If you are going to
242. 7:50be a femboy, please, for the love of
243. 7:52God, just be safe for work and cute
244. 7:55before you do anything not safe for
245. 7:56work, if you're going that route. Bro,
246. 7:58take it from me.
247. 8:00Being desirable and sexually appealing
248. 8:02is cool and all, but you feel like
249. 8:04you're just an object after a while. As
250. 8:06someone who was originally in the not
251. 8:08safe for work space, I can tell you that
252. 8:10it was not for me. I felt like I cannot
253. 8:12be myself, and I was only getting
254. 8:14attention because of my looks. It was
255. 8:16mentally damaging, and in hindsight, I
256. 8:19really wish that I didn't go that route.
257. 8:21I can say that now I'm in a way better
258. 8:24spot. I stopped doing all the not safe
259. 8:25for work stuff. I have a loving
260. 8:27community that I've been building, and I
261. 8:28interact with all the time. They
262. 8:30understand me, they respect me, and I
263. 8:33don't think I would've had such an
264. 8:35amazing community if I was still not
265. 8:36safe for work. It was kind of a lapse in
266. 8:38judgment, and I didn't even do it for
267. 8:41that long, either, but it's still out
268. 8:44there, which is scary. Digital footprint
269. 8:46is real, okay? So, keep that in mind
270. 8:48before you just go posting willy-nilly.
271. 8:50Okay. Now, we're going to talk about
272. 8:52being yourself.
273. 8:54Please, please, please, please, for the
274. 8:56love of God, do not be a pick-me femboy.
275. 9:00These are the worst femboys. I'm sorry.
276. 9:03If you're a pick-me femboy, off.
277. 9:05Don't talk to me. I don't care. We do
278. 9:06not care. I look at pick-me femboys like
279. 9:08door-to-door salesmen. Like, what the
280. 9:09do you want, bro? Get away from me,
281. 9:11man. I don't want you here. Why are you
282. 9:12at my door? Go away. Believe it or not,
283. 9:14a good majority of femboys are actually
284. 9:16straight. They just like dressing in a
285. 9:17feminine way to explore their feminine
286. 9:19side. But, that shouldn't change who you
287. 9:21are as a person, or how you present
288. 9:24yourself on the internet. I feel like
289. 9:26the people that are themselves and don't
290. 9:29let people put them in a box are like my
291. 9:31favorite people. I also love when people
292. 9:34aren't like trying to grab my attention.
293. 9:36If you stand out, I'll see it. But if
294. 9:38you're blending in with everybody else
295. 9:40and then you're like, "Oh blah blah blah
296. 9:41blah blah blah." That's how you turn
297. 9:42into a pick me, so don't do that. If you
298. 9:43think something's cool, do that. If
299. 9:45you're a little more chill or whatever,
300. 9:46just be chill. Whatever you do, you can
301. 9:48always figure out a way to insert
302. 9:50yourself into being a femboy.
303. 9:52Authenticity is key when it comes to
304. 9:55expressing yourself. That's the biggest
305. 9:57thing, and you can't express yourself if
306. 9:59you're larping as someone else.
307. 10:01You're just larping.
308. 10:02You're role-playing. Now, if you want to
309. 10:04do that, there's definitely a place for
310. 10:05you on the internet, but it ain't around
311. 10:08me, I'll tell you that. Pick mes and the
312. 10:11larpers, they tend to piss me off the
313. 10:13most, personally. If you want to stand
314. 10:16out, just be you. You don't have to be a
315. 10:18stereotypical femboy in order to feel
316. 10:20validated as one. That's it.
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