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Episode 13: Understanding Stimming: An Occupational Therapist's Insight | FREE ABA CEU — Transcript

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  1. 0:00welcome back to the blossoming together
  2. 0:01podcast as you guys can tell my voice
  3. 0:04I'm losing it I lost it in Bali swinging
  4. 0:06on the swings but today we're going to
  5. 0:09be talking about stemming we have a
  6. 0:11guest speaker on but before we introduce
  7. 0:13her let's go over our objectives
  8. 0:15objective one participants will be able
  9. 0:17to identify the purpose of stemming for
  10. 0:19individuals with higher sensory
  11. 0:21processing needs and objective two
  12. 0:24participants will be able to discuss and
  13. 0:26apply ethical considerations in
  14. 0:27addressing stemming behaviors and
  15. 0:29understand when it is appropriate to
  16. 0:31Target or not Target stemming behaviors
  17. 0:34all right Amy
  18. 0:35welcome so Amy you're a lead right like
  19. 0:38a lead OT yes I'm the lead OT here at
  20. 0:41Blossom Novi wow and how long have you
  21. 0:43been in that role um a little bit over a
  22. 0:45year now um I started at Blossom this is
  23. 0:48my first position out of OT school so
  24. 0:50actually today is exactly 3 and a half
  25. 0:52years since I started congrats thank you
  26. 0:56that's amazing do you have any questions
  27. 0:58for Amy yeah can you tell us about like
  28. 1:01where you got your education for your OT
  29. 1:03program so I actually did my
  30. 1:05undergraduate at Michigan State
  31. 1:07University in kinesiology and then I
  32. 1:09went to Grand Valley State University
  33. 1:11for my masters in occupational therapy
  34. 1:13wait I went there for my undergrad Grand
  35. 1:15Val so really I didn't know that I don't
  36. 1:17know why I didn't know
  37. 1:19went but what really introduced you to
  38. 1:23the OT world and how did you decide that
  39. 1:25that's what you wanted to pursue yeah so
  40. 1:27I always knew I wanted to work with
  41. 1:28children and I was going more like the
  42. 1:30elementary education route and then I
  43. 1:33took a few classes in undergrad I'm like
  44. 1:35I cannot do a full classroom of students
  45. 1:38overwhelming but then through some
  46. 1:39personal experiences some family members
  47. 1:41went through occupational therapy and I
  48. 1:44just thought it was just so amazing to
  49. 1:46see how individuals can help others
  50. 1:49regain their functional Independence
  51. 1:51yeah so I just thought why not combine
  52. 1:53the two and work with children as an
  53. 1:54occupational therapist I love it it's
  54. 1:56amazing well I'm glad you found the
  55. 1:58field cuz you've helped so many indiv
  56. 1:59idual and so many kids and you've taught
  57. 2:01us so much so we're excited to dive into
  58. 2:04this topic so we're going to be talking
  59. 2:05about stemming something I know about
  60. 2:08stemming is it's a self stimulat
  61. 2:10stimulatory behavior that refers to
  62. 2:12repetitive movements or sounds that
  63. 2:14individuals use to engage in to really
  64. 2:18like regulate themselves or their
  65. 2:19sensory experiences do you have anything
  66. 2:21to add to that cuz I bet you got a
  67. 2:23better definition than me yeah can you
  68. 2:24tell us a little bit about like what
  69. 2:25stemming is in general yeah so just like
  70. 2:27as you mentioned um stemming is
  71. 2:29competitive actions or sounds that
  72. 2:31individuals engage in to regulate their
  73. 2:33sensory and emotional experiences so
  74. 2:36stemming can be part of any of the
  75. 2:38sensory system so vestibular you might
  76. 2:41think of like children who like to
  77. 2:42rockot um proception like even some head
  78. 2:46hitting tactile stems feeling different
  79. 2:48surfaces or having to feel hair thr hair
  80. 2:52um even visual just watching objects or
  81. 2:55rearranging objects um old factory so
  82. 2:58our sense of smell some KS or
  83. 3:01individuals have to keep smelling
  84. 3:03specific things like they stem on that
  85. 3:05SC of it um and then gustatory so our
  86. 3:08sense of taste so if we see individuals
  87. 3:11who have to keep tasting the same thing
  88. 3:12or licking objects ah so stems can
  89. 3:15Encompass a single sensory system or a
  90. 3:18bunch of sensory systems together at the
  91. 3:20same time okay so that kind of leads
  92. 3:22into like my next question so we kind of
  93. 3:26talk about like stemming in ABA it kind
  94. 3:28of was formerly thought of as like
  95. 3:29steming was just a behavior or something
  96. 3:31to correct but can you actually tell us
  97. 3:34why individuals engage in stemming yes
  98. 3:37so there are a lot of underlying factors
  99. 3:39why individuals may stem but the first
  100. 3:42thing I want to mention is not only
  101. 3:44autistic individuals or neurode diverg
  102. 3:47individuals engage in stemming everyone
  103. 3:49stems to some capacity so just for
  104. 3:51examples to bring it into context so I
  105. 3:54know I like to pce around when I'm
  106. 3:56talking on the phone um I do that too
  107. 3:59people who like to nail bite that's a
  108. 4:00form of stemming if you listen to the
  109. 4:02same song over and over so me when I
  110. 4:04listen to Taylor Swift That's stemming
  111. 4:07because it's the repetitive action oh my
  112. 4:10gosh that's why I listen to the same
  113. 4:11song like five times in a row on my
  114. 4:13drive in to work yes that makes so much
  115. 4:15sense so that's like the first thing we
  116. 4:17want to make sure that we understand
  117. 4:18that everyone stems and it just might
  118. 4:20look different for different individuals
  119. 4:22yeah but some underlying purposes
  120. 4:24sensory processing so individuals who
  121. 4:27have sensory processing differences they
  122. 4:30may engage in stemming to modulate your
  123. 4:32sensory experiences so just think about
  124. 4:35if we're in an over stimulate
  125. 4:36environment and sensory overload yeah we
  126. 4:39might stem to help regulate ourselves to
  127. 4:41bring us down to an optimal learning
  128. 4:43State can you talk a little bit about
  129. 4:45like sensory overload and what that
  130. 4:46would look like with a learner
  131. 4:48especially for like some of our bcbas
  132. 4:49who don't have a chance to work with OTS
  133. 4:51or necessarily like know to look for
  134. 4:52that kind of like Behavior yeah so it
  135. 4:55all comes down to sensory modulation so
  136. 4:57I like to use an example called like the
  137. 4:59sensory cup so just think you have like
  138. 5:01a regular plastic cup and there's a line
  139. 5:04in the middle of the cup and that's
  140. 5:05what's called the optimal learning line
  141. 5:07so everyone takes an sensory input
  142. 5:09through their daily activities so all
  143. 5:11the sites we see smells um we smell
  144. 5:15everything we hear and then also sensory
  145. 5:17input is in form of like changes in
  146. 5:19routines small demands small upsets
  147. 5:22through our day so all those sensory
  148. 5:24inputs fill up our sensory cup okay and
  149. 5:27we have to be kind of we're would assume
  150. 5:30we're at that line right in the middle
  151. 5:31our ideal that's our ideal state so for
  152. 5:34a lot of our Learners they keep getting
  153. 5:36all the sensory input in and they cop
  154. 5:38fills up to the point where they don't
  155. 5:40know how to regulate themselves so like
  156. 5:42you and I may know like oh if I'm
  157. 5:43overwhelmed I need to leave this room or
  158. 5:45take a break okay then we can um empty
  159. 5:48out the cup to some capacity to help us
  160. 5:50reach that state but for some of our
  161. 5:52Learners who have more um more robust
  162. 5:55sensory preferences we need help to
  163. 5:58support them to bring them down because
  164. 6:00then we might have our cups spill over
  165. 6:02essentially and that could lead to
  166. 6:03sensory meltdowns so I like to think
  167. 6:06especially in the environment here you
  168. 6:08know if you're in a big noisy
  169. 6:09environment there's lots of kids running
  170. 6:11around um making lots of sounds there's
  171. 6:14so much visual input it can be so hard
  172. 6:17for an individual to focus on things
  173. 6:19within that over stimulating environment
  174. 6:21yeah so that's when they may stem so
  175. 6:23then they can help them Focus to
  176. 6:25whatever they're doing and to work
  177. 6:27through the deregulating environment I
  178. 6:29really like that example and I feel like
  179. 6:31even for our like you said ourselves our
  180. 6:33cup gets full all the time and depending
  181. 6:35on the day you know we might not we
  182. 6:38might not need it right but then some
  183. 6:39days we've had like different
  184. 6:41experiences like you were late getting
  185. 6:43out of the door and then maybe in the
  186. 6:45car like you spilled everything on
  187. 6:46yourself and then somebody cut me off
  188. 6:49and I thought I was going to get into an
  189. 6:50accident so now just adding and adding
  190. 6:52onto my cup the same with our Learners
  191. 6:54we don't know what kind of day they had
  192. 6:55before they got to us sometimes too
  193. 6:57that's the underlying component don't
  194. 6:59know what goes on at home before we get
  195. 7:01to work with them and I know we were
  196. 7:03talking before we're talking about how
  197. 7:05traffic has been so terrible so I know
  198. 7:07that throws out my day when I'm stuck in
  199. 7:08traffic absolutely and that overfills my
  200. 7:11cup at some points too but on the other
  201. 7:13hand sometimes if children are in an
  202. 7:16environment where there's not a lot of
  203. 7:17stimulation going on they need to
  204. 7:20upregulate themselves so that they can
  205. 7:22reach optimal learning line and
  206. 7:24effectively participate in their day so
  207. 7:26that's when you might also see simming
  208. 7:28so they can provide the up regulating
  209. 7:30response this is something that I never
  210. 7:32took into consideration I always like I
  211. 7:34always looked at the overlo yeah the
  212. 7:36over stimulation and like the almost
  213. 7:38like the disregulation in that sense and
  214. 7:40it was hard for me to understand it with
  215. 7:41some of those kids who um like
  216. 7:43considered more mellow or just like
  217. 7:45chill like I didn't realize that they
  218. 7:47might need more sensory input to like
  219. 7:49upregulate them right so sensory
  220. 7:53processing is definitely one of the
  221. 7:54biggest components underlying simy but
  222. 7:56there are so many other things I'll
  223. 7:57touch on too so so for example um
  224. 8:01emotional regulation and also
  225. 8:03self-expression and communication so um
  226. 8:07when children exper or adults experience
  227. 8:09intense emotions so like excitement or
  228. 8:12if they're feeling anxious or stressed
  229. 8:15we might see an increase in stemming to
  230. 8:17help regulate those emotions okay can
  231. 8:20you give maybe an example of this one
  232. 8:22yeah so I'm just trying to think I have
  233. 8:24one learner that I work with right now
  234. 8:27um if we watch the marble run the visual
  235. 8:29stimul of watching the Marvel go around
  236. 8:31and round we get a lot of flapping we
  237. 8:34getting excited because it's something
  238. 8:36that's so meaningful to them to watch it
  239. 8:38and excites them that we're just so
  240. 8:40excited and I'll join in this stem and
  241. 8:41just to share that Joy with them so
  242. 8:43that's something you might see um help
  243. 8:46with the emotional piece with that you
  244. 8:48feel like you see it sometimes when
  245. 8:49someone is like sad or upset or
  246. 8:51frustrated as well yes I feel like that
  247. 8:54was really hard for me to understand too
  248. 8:55cuz I I always heard like happy hands
  249. 8:58but never like the opposite right so
  250. 9:01really any intense emotion and we know
  251. 9:04neurode Divergent individuals as well as
  252. 9:06neurotypical individuals can experience
  253. 9:09emotions on so many different levels
  254. 9:11yeah so whenever we're just trying to
  255. 9:13help regulate those emotions or express
  256. 9:15it that's when we may see some more
  257. 9:16stemming okay yeah thank you for like
  258. 9:19breaking that down with the emotions and
  259. 9:21then you also said the communication and
  260. 9:23self expression self- expression so
  261. 9:26especially for um autistic individuals
  262. 9:29where it might be a little bit harder to
  263. 9:30express themselves verbally or
  264. 9:32non-verbally they can express themselves
  265. 9:34through stems it helps um communicate
  266. 9:37with others and also to indicate what
  267. 9:39their interests are so we see how they
  268. 9:41stem like oh this is something that's
  269. 9:44like important to you and you're trying
  270. 9:45to show something to me so it just helps
  271. 9:47with that communication piece right and
  272. 9:49I like to think of it like you know we
  273. 9:51say like all behavior is a form of
  274. 9:53communication so we need to look at like
  275. 9:55the stems and what they're trying to
  276. 9:57communicate to us I feel like that's
  277. 9:59very important right absolutely could
  278. 10:02like an example of a learner trying to
  279. 10:05communicate through stem be like when
  280. 10:07they're repeatedly covering their ears
  281. 10:08and tapping their ears like maybe
  282. 10:10they're trying to communicate that
  283. 10:11something's too loud or like the
  284. 10:12environment is too loud for them it
  285. 10:15could be part of that too and it could
  286. 10:16also just be a general auditory so when
  287. 10:18kids cover and uncover the ears because
  288. 10:21like trying to modulate or see if like
  289. 10:22the environment sounds different for
  290. 10:24them but that could definitely be part
  291. 10:26of communicating like oh maybe I need to
  292. 10:28go find another environment get some
  293. 10:30headphones yeah that makes sense I want
  294. 10:32to take a quick pause for our first code
  295. 10:34word today code word one for your cus is
  296. 10:38hair twirling nice all right and then
  297. 10:40getting right back into it I know when
  298. 10:42we were talking we also discussed
  299. 10:43another reason individuals might stem is
  300. 10:46for that cognitive focus and the
  301. 10:47engagement could you share a little bit
  302. 10:49more about that yes so um research has
  303. 10:51found that engaging and repetitive
  304. 10:53actions promotes a regulating and
  305. 10:56organizing response in the brain so when
  306. 10:58our brain is nice and organized it's
  307. 11:00easier to learn and process information
  308. 11:03and it just helps us with that overall
  309. 11:04regulation and able to actively problem
  310. 11:06solve through different situations in
  311. 11:08our day I was just thinking about like
  312. 11:11the um like self soothing and stress
  313. 11:13relief portion that I think you and I
  314. 11:14have talked about in the past could you
  315. 11:15talk a little bit about that yes so it
  316. 11:18also goes down to the sensory modulation
  317. 11:21piece yeah but with self soothing
  318. 11:23stemming just provides a sense of safety
  319. 11:26comfortability and predictability and
  320. 11:28allow our neurode Divergent Learners
  321. 11:30they need that predictability and
  322. 11:32routine yeah so it just provides that
  323. 11:35soothing comfort for them so if you're
  324. 11:36dealing with stressful situations or
  325. 11:39challenging or new unfamiliar situations
  326. 11:41it just helps them cope with it oh okay
  327. 11:44that makes a lot of sense really good to
  328. 11:45know we kind of discussed like what
  329. 11:47stemming is what function the function
  330. 11:51it serves I to kind of talk about and
  331. 11:53get your Insight onto why it is harmful
  332. 11:55to stop stemming Behavior yes so there
  333. 11:59are are many um components to this as
  334. 12:01well but the first thing I want to touch
  335. 12:03on is blocking or stopping siming
  336. 12:07Behavior really just takes away a source
  337. 12:10of autonomy for individuals and it can
  338. 12:12cause increased stress um increased
  339. 12:15anxiety and can impact their ability to
  340. 12:18focus throughout the day because we
  341. 12:20talked about like how stemi helps with
  342. 12:23regulation emotional expression and
  343. 12:26overall cognitive processing mhh well
  344. 12:28I'm thinking like you were talking about
  345. 12:30the cups say like our cups really filled
  346. 12:31up and we want to get back down we're
  347. 12:34trying really hard we're engaging our
  348. 12:36stems try to get down there but imagine
  349. 12:38like someone's there and like stopping
  350. 12:40you that's like if I was trying to leave
  351. 12:42the room cuz like like say like curon
  352. 12:45smelled really bad today like she didn't
  353. 12:46have any deodorant on and like she
  354. 12:48smells bad and I'm like okay like I
  355. 12:50can't stand it anymore I'm going to
  356. 12:51throw up and I'm trying to leave the
  357. 12:52room and you were like no right so
  358. 12:55that's why I wanted to touch too so to
  359. 12:58go off of that so let's say an
  360. 12:59individual sensory cup is spilling up
  361. 13:02but they're able to identify oh I'm
  362. 13:04about to spill over so I need to
  363. 13:06regulate myself you the stemming so if
  364. 13:09someone were to say like no you can't do
  365. 13:10that or we're blocking that stem they
  366. 13:13don't know how else to regulate
  367. 13:14themselves so that increases the um cup
  368. 13:17and that's when they're going to spill
  369. 13:18over and the frustrating part about it
  370. 13:21is like we a lot of us focus a lot on
  371. 13:24like building those self self-regulation
  372. 13:26te like techniques for our kids and like
  373. 13:28promoting that and we're when we block
  374. 13:30it we're stopping them from that
  375. 13:32self-regulation technique that they then
  376. 13:34even trying to remember like this is
  377. 13:36like you said this is something they
  378. 13:38have developed and we can let them
  379. 13:40engage in this it's yeah so for example
  380. 13:44that blocking the stemming so their cup
  381. 13:46is spilling over then they're seeking
  382. 13:49out we have to understand that there's a
  383. 13:51reason behind every time that we're
  384. 13:53stemming so they're seeking out some
  385. 13:54kind of input they're trying to
  386. 13:55communicate with us so blocking it we
  387. 13:59get disregulated and then they don't
  388. 14:02know what else to do we might see an
  389. 14:03increase in harmful stemming or we might
  390. 14:05see they're looking for something to
  391. 14:07replace it with looking for something to
  392. 14:09replace it and then you might see some
  393. 14:10self-injurious behaviors because then we
  394. 14:13in the sensory overload we don't know
  395. 14:14how to regulate ourselves when our
  396. 14:16source of Regulation is taken away from
  397. 14:19us yeah now of course there are times
  398. 14:22that we do have to redirect stemming so
  399. 14:25this is if the stemming is going to hurt
  400. 14:27the individual themselves or someone
  401. 14:29else in the environment but like I said
  402. 14:31we have to respect and honor that there
  403. 14:33is a reason and we need to help support
  404. 14:35them with the input yeah you feel like
  405. 14:37if you were say like you had to you know
  406. 14:40block a stem say it was like headbanging
  407. 14:42on something really hard you like would
  408. 14:44also replace it with something else
  409. 14:46right that would give them the same kind
  410. 14:47of input yes so that's a great example
  411. 14:50so if you have your learner banging
  412. 14:52their head against the wall for the stem
  413. 14:54of course you want to dve away from them
  414. 14:55wall but an alternative is to provide
  415. 14:57them with a pillow so they still give
  416. 14:59them the opportunity to hit their head
  417. 15:01but just in a much more safer context
  418. 15:03and I feel like that the example with a
  419. 15:05pillow like you're not moving them
  420. 15:07either to like a different Spa like you
  421. 15:08are still allowing them to be where
  422. 15:10they're at respecting them in that way
  423. 15:12as well yes and then talking about this
  424. 15:15kind of reminds me there was this one
  425. 15:17time like you were there as well we had
  426. 15:19a learner that I was was Tech on at that
  427. 15:22point and he used to Pace back and forth
  428. 15:24all the time and it was to a point where
  429. 15:27like you know we understand yet but the
  430. 15:30BCB on the case was like oh like we need
  431. 15:32to redirect it so that we can provide
  432. 15:34like these different opportunities for
  433. 15:35him and you really put your foot down
  434. 15:37you were like no this is a stem and you
  435. 15:39explained it to us but even then like we
  436. 15:41took some data like be if we stopped it
  437. 15:44versus if we didn't stop it and we saw
  438. 15:46that all of the other behaviors during
  439. 15:48the day went down once we allowed him to
  440. 15:51Pace back and forth yeah right that was
  441. 15:54a
  442. 15:55wonderful just to see how everything
  443. 15:57decreased but it's a wonderful
  444. 15:59opportunity for all of us of how we're
  445. 16:00working as a multidisiplinary team to
  446. 16:03help support our client right and I
  447. 16:04appreciate like you were also like okay
  448. 16:06how can I show you so like that's when
  449. 16:09we were like okay let's take data cuz
  450. 16:10you know bcb's love data like take the
  451. 16:13data and see that it does work yeah how
  452. 16:16helpful it is for the kid yeah and um I
  453. 16:19do have some other points quickly about
  454. 16:22the um effects of blacking stiming yes
  455. 16:24so there's such a significant impact on
  456. 16:27self-esteem and it's so wonderful now
  457. 16:29that we have so many autistic adults who
  458. 16:31are sharing their lip experiences and
  459. 16:33insight of their experiences of having
  460. 16:36their Sims blocked and how it impacted
  461. 16:38them yeah but something that's really
  462. 16:40coming out is with blocking a Sim
  463. 16:43there's increased masking going yes and
  464. 16:45as we know when we're we're masking
  465. 16:47we're trying to fit in with what's like
  466. 16:49expected the societal standards yes
  467. 16:52there's some significant impacts on
  468. 16:54increased anxiety um depression later on
  469. 16:59and just a decreased self awareness and
  470. 17:02individuals are coming out saying I
  471. 17:03didn't know who I was until I was in my
  472. 17:05later adulthood because I was told I
  473. 17:07should not be doing this they were
  474. 17:09expected to change who they were you
  475. 17:11know and what they what they knew to be
  476. 17:13like their self-
  477. 17:15expression and with the masking it just
  478. 17:17takes so much energy and it can lead to
  479. 17:19autistic
  480. 17:20burnout and that's just not being their
  481. 17:23authentic selves yeah what is autistic
  482. 17:26burnout I've heard that a little bit
  483. 17:28like I've seen it on social media I
  484. 17:29haven't heard it a lot like in our field
  485. 17:31yet so artistic burnout I'll just touch
  486. 17:33on it quickly because like also
  487. 17:34something for another episode on it um
  488. 17:38but it's just essentially a state of
  489. 17:40burnout and decreased motivation to
  490. 17:43engage in daily activities because
  491. 17:45there's so much pressure so think of
  492. 17:47like kids who are in therapy for so long
  493. 17:49trying to um engage your daily Tas or
  494. 17:52just like so many demands and we might
  495. 17:54see more connection seeking behaviors um
  496. 17:59they have decreased motivation to do
  497. 18:01things they just want time and space
  498. 18:03it's different than occupational burnout
  499. 18:05but it's also the same in the terms that
  500. 18:08like we just need to have time to be
  501. 18:10ourselves and regulate and not have so
  502. 18:12many demands day kind of like I'm I'm
  503. 18:16done taking the mask off because I need
  504. 18:19time to be my true self yeah I like that
  505. 18:22thank you for sharing that yeah of
  506. 18:23course were there any other harmful like
  507. 18:25effects of blocking stre me that you
  508. 18:27wanted to touch on yes I just wanted to
  509. 18:29um emphasize the fact that stemming
  510. 18:31provides opportunities for individuals
  511. 18:33to be their true authentic selves and
  512. 18:35feel safe so trying to force steming or
  513. 18:38taking away from them takes away their
  514. 18:40autonomy
  515. 18:42self-expression and the ability to self-
  516. 18:44regulate themselves that's why it's so
  517. 18:47so important to be able to respect
  518. 18:50individual choices regarding stain and
  519. 18:52that promotes the self advocacy and
  520. 18:54autonomy for the
  521. 18:56individual yeah thank you for sharing
  522. 18:58that and kind of bringing awareness we
  523. 19:01come from a field that I was trained
  524. 19:04before I came um to work at Blossom like
  525. 19:06I was trained on blocking stemming and I
  526. 19:09wasn't really aware of I didn't think
  527. 19:11about it from an OT standpoint I really
  528. 19:12had no OT knowledge at all so I I've
  529. 19:15just learned like it's a behavior and we
  530. 19:16have to block it so that we can teach
  531. 19:18them other things um so it's it just
  532. 19:21makes me happy it sucks yeah but I feel
  533. 19:23like I wasn't necessarily trained to
  534. 19:24block it but if like say like at when I
  535. 19:28was a te technician a lot of times like
  536. 19:29it wasn't at Blossom but lot of times
  537. 19:31when someone was engaging in a stem say
  538. 19:33like once we brought them to the table
  539. 19:34to do some work we're like okay now we
  540. 19:36have to block cuz now we need to get
  541. 19:37their attention get them working which
  542. 19:40sucks because ABA has so like I feel
  543. 19:43like historically ABA has focus on
  544. 19:45eliminating stiming behaviors like you
  545. 19:46talked about a little bit but because
  546. 19:49they were viewed as disruptive and some
  547. 19:51strategies or things people did were
  548. 19:54like I wanted to kind of talk to you
  549. 19:55about that and you kind of give us your
  550. 19:57input on I probably
  551. 19:59sucks no and we want to talk to like our
  552. 20:01field as well you know our audience is
  553. 20:03primarily bcbas right now and just like
  554. 20:06if maybe they're education LED them this
  555. 20:07way these are some of the strategies you
  556. 20:09might be using um and like here are some
  557. 20:11Alternatives that we want to provide
  558. 20:13yeah so the first one was Extinction so
  559. 20:16what a lot of people were doing or some
  560. 20:18people are continuing to do are if say
  561. 20:21someone was engaging in a stem say like
  562. 20:23an example was like hand flapping so if
  563. 20:26someone was engaging hand flapping what
  564. 20:28they would do is they would put it on
  565. 20:29extinction that means they would block
  566. 20:30every single attempt and like really the
  567. 20:33unless it was specified to give
  568. 20:35redirection to something else that's all
  569. 20:37it would be just blocking it making sure
  570. 20:39they got no reinforcement for so yeah I
  571. 20:40was going to explain to Amy like
  572. 20:41Extinction is no longer providing
  573. 20:43reinforcement to a behavior that was
  574. 20:45once reinforced so and the thought was
  575. 20:48that the stem was um like it was
  576. 20:51self-reinforcing which it is now that we
  577. 20:54like hear about it so blocking it like
  578. 20:56not allowing them to do it prevented the
  579. 20:58reinforcement So It ultimately should
  580. 21:01extinguish the behavior but as you kind
  581. 21:03of shared as well once we were doing
  582. 21:05there you know maybe replacing it with
  583. 21:07other stems that might not have been as
  584. 21:10safe or were you know causing it was
  585. 21:12causing more anxiety more stress to
  586. 21:14their lives and leading to that masking
  587. 21:16that you were talking about yeah yeah um
  588. 21:19do you have any questions on it no I
  589. 21:21just kind of wanted to bring up another
  590. 21:23topic that has to do with all this um so
  591. 21:26this could be another conversation too
  592. 21:28but I know if you guys have heard of the
  593. 21:29monot tropism no no so monot tropism is
  594. 21:33a thinking and processing pattern that a
  595. 21:35lot of individuals not only neurod
  596. 21:37Divergent but neurotypical as well um
  597. 21:40how they interpret and process and
  598. 21:42engage in their daily routines so that's
  599. 21:45when we might see they have like a deep
  600. 21:46focus on one activity at hand and it can
  601. 21:49be very disregulated to try to redirect
  602. 21:53them so there's something called The
  603. 21:54Flow State which goes with this mot
  604. 21:56tropism and the flow is the complete
  605. 21:59immersion in the task and activity okay
  606. 22:02so we might think of it I used to think
  607. 22:03of it until I learned about this is like
  608. 22:05they're hyperfocus on something but it's
  609. 22:08really they're all their sensory systems
  610. 22:11are working to engage in something
  611. 22:13that's regulating for them and they're
  612. 22:15in this state of flow where we may think
  613. 22:17they're not attending to us and in a
  614. 22:20sense it might be true because they're
  615. 22:21so completely focused on the task you're
  616. 22:23engaging with and it promotes self um
  617. 22:26self-awareness well-being and it also
  618. 22:29just makes them happy and part of
  619. 22:32repetitive actions helps achieve that
  620. 22:34flow state so steming a lot of times
  621. 22:36when our kids are stemming they're in
  622. 22:38that flow State and it's like they're
  623. 22:40just feeling very themselves and
  624. 22:42authentic so to hear about like the
  625. 22:44extinction of it when we're trying to
  626. 22:46take that away we're not giving the kids
  627. 22:47opportunity to reach their Flow State
  628. 22:49for regulation and to complete and focus
  629. 22:51on tasks yeah it's sad and I have used
  630. 22:56like Extinction in the past and I've had
  631. 22:57you know when I was under like the
  632. 22:59practice of other bcbas so it's like I'm
  633. 23:01glad we're trying to make changes
  634. 23:02towards other strategies that's really
  635. 23:04like what we wanted to use as platform
  636. 23:06was like you know as a field we are
  637. 23:08moving towards like accepting
  638. 23:11individuals and respecting their
  639. 23:12autonomy so we wanted to neur firming
  640. 23:15when provide everyone to knowled with
  641. 23:17the knowledge to understand why it's
  642. 23:19important not to block these things yeah
  643. 23:22exactly and that leads me into there's
  644. 23:24another strategy it's called Rd or
  645. 23:26response Interruption and Direction um
  646. 23:30so this is very similar to Extinction
  647. 23:31where we like block the um behavior in
  648. 23:34the moment so it's like if they were to
  649. 23:36engage in like you said hand flapping we
  650. 23:37would immediately block it and some
  651. 23:39people would say like safe hands or show
  652. 23:40me quiet hands um but then replace it
  653. 23:43and redirect it too and this is like
  654. 23:45where I like the research shows it's
  655. 23:47like a more acceptable behavior um so
  656. 23:51for those listening Kristen what oh air
  657. 23:53quot air
  658. 23:54quot sorry yes um and that's kind of
  659. 23:58what the thought was was to like
  660. 23:59redirect it so it could be more
  661. 24:00acceptable and give them an alternative
  662. 24:02Behavior to engage in which it sounds
  663. 24:04like in ABA we kind of thought of it it
  664. 24:05was like in theory it was kind of we
  665. 24:08were leaning towards the right thing but
  666. 24:09it's they were well intentioned maybe
  667. 24:12but but it's still blocking the learner
  668. 24:14from getting access to what they were
  669. 24:16needing in that moment another strategy
  670. 24:18people have used in the past or people
  671. 24:20continue to use is differential
  672. 24:22reinforcement so meaning providing
  673. 24:24reinforcement for the Alternatives that
  674. 24:27are happening so anytime they aren't
  675. 24:29maybe engaging in that stemming Behavior
  676. 24:31providing reinforcement and then the
  677. 24:33last one is functional communication
  678. 24:35training if you want to touch on that
  679. 24:36real quick yeah um I think this was used
  680. 24:38a lot for um like Vocal Stems and it's
  681. 24:41even used like to help the learner like
  682. 24:43meet their needs that's what I feel like
  683. 24:45I hear the most with so yeah like
  684. 24:47advocate for their own needs so say like
  685. 24:48it's really loud in a room and we see
  686. 24:50them like engaging within the covering
  687. 24:52yours like having them request for like
  688. 24:54headphones is something I've seen a lot
  689. 24:57and this is something that think I still
  690. 24:59incorporate into my practice now because
  691. 25:01it's like I'm trying to help them
  692. 25:03provide me like with what they need like
  693. 25:06as um like a vocal and like man what do
  694. 25:10you like what do you think about that do
  695. 25:11you feel like that's acceptable or would
  696. 25:13you do the
  697. 25:15same um a lot of times from the sensory
  698. 25:18and OT perspective if I do see that I
  699. 25:20may just offer the sensory supports of
  700. 25:24necessarily like manding or requesting
  701. 25:26it especially if we are in over
  702. 25:28stimulating environment it might be hard
  703. 25:30to access that Language Center in our
  704. 25:31brain my just provide the model that's
  705. 25:34what I was thinking yeah like I tend to
  706. 25:35like model for the like oh it's loud or
  707. 25:38um need some headphones need some help
  708. 25:40yeah no yeah I agree with that as well
  709. 25:43but I just know sometimes it's harder
  710. 25:44when we are in like that state or even
  711. 25:46to like follow the model might be
  712. 25:47sometimes difficult when we are
  713. 25:49disregulated so I think there's
  714. 25:51different ways we can help support the
  715. 25:52Learners there and I think about this
  716. 25:54like um I think you and I had worked on
  717. 25:55a learner where they had um some
  718. 25:57behaviors in they were in like not quite
  719. 25:59an opal learning State they might be
  720. 26:00like tantruming laying on the floor and
  721. 26:03um you had mentioned you're like oh you
  722. 26:05guys are kind of talking a lot during
  723. 26:06the behavior like we were trying to
  724. 26:08model and help communicate for them and
  725. 26:09I was like oh but I'm just trying to
  726. 26:11help and you're like yeah but it might
  727. 26:12be best right now to hold space and
  728. 26:14allow them the time to like feel their
  729. 26:17feelings and then model in when they're
  730. 26:18in a learning State absolutely I think
  731. 26:21of it like say like I had a really bad
  732. 26:23day and I get home and I'm crying and
  733. 26:25then like my husband's like what's wrong
  734. 26:28what can I do for you you need help like
  735. 26:31my husband does the fix it he like
  736. 26:33provides me all these stres like I don't
  737. 26:35want to hear it right now that's not
  738. 26:36what I want right now like just I want
  739. 26:37to sit here and just like raw on the
  740. 26:41couch be mad yeah I want to be upset
  741. 26:44about it like this is my time but then
  742. 26:46like maybe when I'm feeling a little
  743. 26:47better I might want like okay like can I
  744. 26:50have a hug yes and that's a great
  745. 26:53example to apply it to your own lives to
  746. 26:55put this into practice like cuz I'm the
  747. 26:57same way too like I'm over WS it's been
  748. 26:58a long day I just need my me time I need
  749. 27:01my space and then after I have some time
  750. 27:03then I'll socialize with others or like
  751. 27:05connect with others maybe maybe if
  752. 27:08you're ready maybe if I'm ready but yeah
  753. 27:11that's such a great perspective to take
  754. 27:13on it because we need to apply it to our
  755. 27:15own lives to understand how it can help
  756. 27:17support our Learners I think as like
  757. 27:19therapists or people in these positions
  758. 27:21where we're like you know we're actively
  759. 27:23trying to help someone it feels like
  760. 27:25sometimes when we're telling someone to
  761. 27:26like hold space like if feels like I've
  762. 27:28hear a lot of tech like it feels like
  763. 27:29I'm doing nothing but like remembering
  764. 27:32that it's not doing nothing that like it
  765. 27:35is very beneficial yeah so beneficial
  766. 27:37and holding space yes it sometimes it
  767. 27:39feels like I'm just sitting here
  768. 27:41lowering my AFF just being with them but
  769. 27:44that's a connection that so many people
  770. 27:46need during dysregulating times yeah so
  771. 27:49that's therapeutic in itself can you
  772. 27:51talk about like what our body
  773. 27:52positioning might look like while
  774. 27:53holding space cuz I don't want people
  775. 27:55who might be listening to think that
  776. 27:56we're just standing there with our arms
  777. 27:57crossed and like just not looking at the
  778. 27:59learner like what does holding space
  779. 28:00really look like so holding space it
  780. 28:02really just depends on the situation at
  781. 28:04hand but a lot of times in my practice I
  782. 28:07will actually get down to the floor a
  783. 28:09lot of times there kids are on the floor
  784. 28:10so I'm just saying that um I will get
  785. 28:12down to the individual's level provide
  786. 28:14some increased space um but then I'll
  787. 28:17just model using like I can't really put
  788. 28:20this auditorily but um model just having
  789. 28:22a calm effect and just presenting myself
  790. 28:25like understanding a lot of times I'm
  791. 28:27not talking it's just my and every so
  792. 28:30often I'll say okay I'm here for you or
  793. 28:33like I'll just model some deep breathing
  794. 28:35just to kind of help pass on like that
  795. 28:37calming sensation to the individual not
  796. 28:40putting any demands on them you know I
  797. 28:43remembering that even to like you know
  798. 28:44sometimes I feel like if someone's upset
  799. 28:46like trying to put my hand on them that
  800. 28:48might be too much at that moment too
  801. 28:50just if they want it like I I'll put my
  802. 28:53hand out like if you're ready like you
  803. 28:55can show me I think lately something
  804. 28:57I've been doing is holding my hands open
  805. 28:59and out towards the learner but while
  806. 29:00still providing them like quite a few
  807. 29:02feet of space if they need it like so an
  808. 29:04open position right open position and
  809. 29:06then it puts it on aarn to reach out
  810. 29:09when they're ready yeah because yes if
  811. 29:11we like reach out or try to provide hugs
  812. 29:13or compression at that time that might
  813. 29:15be enough to spell our cup back over
  814. 29:17again when we're trying to deescalate
  815. 29:19ourselves yeah I think so too so we
  816. 29:21talked a little bit about like that abas
  817. 29:24um like we're really shifting towards
  818. 29:26accepting like um and person centered
  819. 29:28approach and just really neuro affirming
  820. 29:30for our Learners um I think that
  821. 29:32stimming is often it's really
  822. 29:34misinterpreted as a socially in
  823. 29:36appropriate behavior um especially in
  824. 29:38ABA like from kind of the education that
  825. 29:39I received on it but like Amy said
  826. 29:41everybody engages in stemming so I just
  827. 29:44wanted to talk a little bit about like
  828. 29:45youer and like user what do you do as
  829. 29:47like some of your stems some of my stems
  830. 29:49is like I'll bite things like I'll bite
  831. 29:51like pens my
  832. 29:54nails even like I haven't I haven't done
  833. 29:56it in a while but like I used to like
  834. 29:58chew on like my clothes like the my
  835. 30:00clothing that was some of my stems yeah
  836. 30:03I tap my foot a lot or like when I'm
  837. 30:05really thinking like my husband would
  838. 30:06always ask like my foot would be like
  839. 30:07moving on the bed like back and forth
  840. 30:10and he's like okaying the foot swinging
  841. 30:12a lot too but I feel like my feet don't
  842. 30:14touch the floor cuz I'm very short and I
  843. 30:16feel like like then I'm like oh like
  844. 30:17swinging back s but it makes me feel
  845. 30:19better you know um and then I um like
  846. 30:22pick my lip sometimes like if I'm
  847. 30:24overwhelmed like I like if I'm anxious I
  848. 30:26pick my lip some of your stems so I
  849. 30:29definitely I cannot like sit down when
  850. 30:31I'm having a FaceTime or a phone call I
  851. 30:33have to be moving walking around yeah um
  852. 30:36I tend to listen to the same songs onat
  853. 30:39I we talked about that a little bit big
  854. 30:41Swifty I'm a big Swifty so shout out to
  855. 30:43Taylor Swift I hope you listen to
  856. 30:45this but yeah those are like some of my
  857. 30:48major Sims but I know a lot of times too
  858. 30:51I also like if I'm anxious or
  859. 30:53overwhelmed like I'll just start like
  860. 30:54tapping my shoulders really yeah it's I
  861. 30:57never really thought of as system before
  862. 30:58until like I really got into this world
  863. 31:00of learning about um stems and sensory
  864. 31:03processing I'm like oh I do that all the
  865. 31:05time there's nothing wrong with it it's
  866. 31:07regulating for yeah it's just what you
  867. 31:08do and exactly and so I think like the
  868. 31:11point that we're trying to get across
  869. 31:13for like our ABA field is really just
  870. 31:16promoting acceptance and inclusivity in
  871. 31:17our field and then I wanted to kind of
  872. 31:19talk about like how we can do this like
  873. 31:21we've talked about why it's harmful
  874. 31:24really like what's we what people have
  875. 31:26done in the past like histor
  876. 31:28like what we can do moving forward as
  877. 31:30well so one thing is like as like
  878. 31:32especially if you're a bcba in a center
  879. 31:34or in a clinic or in home and you don't
  880. 31:37have access to an OT you can still
  881. 31:39advocate for your learner to receive
  882. 31:42like the supports they might need to
  883. 31:44like help them with their sensory needs
  884. 31:46in that moment so I know like here we
  885. 31:48are lucky we have like dim lights and
  886. 31:50stuff like that what are some other
  887. 31:52things you feel like people can advocate
  888. 31:54for um just free access to stemy and I
  889. 31:58think the biggest piece there is that
  890. 31:59education of why it is
  891. 32:02important um and also just really
  892. 32:04touching on the mental health impacts of
  893. 32:07trying to Blain I think it's so
  894. 32:10important just that General awareness
  895. 32:12and really allow it just remembering
  896. 32:14it's a natural behavior it's a natural
  897. 32:16it's a natural something that need to be
  898. 32:18fixed yes nothing that needs to be fixed
  899. 32:20it's a natural expression of an
  900. 32:22individual's neurology and you know we
  901. 32:25need to celebrate and encourage stemming
  902. 32:27MH to be their authentic selves yeah you
  903. 32:30have anything to add to that yeah I
  904. 32:32think that it's just um there as a field
  905. 32:36and many different people even parents I
  906. 32:38hear like want to that's a hard one that
  907. 32:40we might talk about a little bit more
  908. 32:41yeah we'll go into it a little bit later
  909. 32:43but I think that it's because we're
  910. 32:45unaware and like none of us are ever
  911. 32:47trying to harm the children we're
  912. 32:48working with we're all in this field
  913. 32:50because we like love the population we
  914. 32:52work with we want to help them so
  915. 32:53nobody's doing this like with like in
  916. 32:56Bad Intentions um so bringing awareness
  917. 32:58to it I think is such a good point all
  918. 33:00right let's yes I wanted to talk and we
  919. 33:02talk you mentioned about it briefly um
  920. 33:05but as bcbas there might be times when
  921. 33:07we do need to Target stemming um some
  922. 33:10things that I think of like you said are
  923. 33:11like when there's harmful behaviors
  924. 33:13towards self or others um and then
  925. 33:15another thing that we'll touch on a
  926. 33:16little bit too um is like when it in
  927. 33:19interferes with learning opportunities
  928. 33:22so especially like in the education
  929. 33:23setting or like when they're um like
  930. 33:25maybe in school and things like that and
  931. 33:27then another one is like the functional
  932. 33:29impairment if it's like the stemming
  933. 33:31behaviors interfering with their daily
  934. 33:32living tasks yeah right um so something
  935. 33:36that we want to note before we get into
  936. 33:38is like rather than attempting to
  937. 33:39extinguish the stemming alog together we
  938. 33:41can explore alternative strategies for
  939. 33:43like kind of you noted like alternative
  940. 33:45things that they can do to engage in to
  941. 33:47meet that same sensory need that they
  942. 33:49might be attempting to get at all right
  943. 33:51so let's kind of start with the safety
  944. 33:53concerns so if the stemming Behavior
  945. 33:55poses a safety risk to an individual or
  946. 33:57others such as self-injures Behavior
  947. 34:00like severe headbanging some other do
  948. 34:02you have any other ones that are coming
  949. 34:04to your mind um or hurting others so
  950. 34:07like even like kicking um like your feet
  951. 34:09I know some Learners like kick or like
  952. 34:12bite and head biting is a big one I feel
  953. 34:14like I've had a lot of Learners that
  954. 34:16bite themselves very hard or will
  955. 34:18attempt to bite someone else very hard
  956. 34:20when they are stemming but this might be
  957. 34:22an instance where it's necessary to
  958. 34:25address stemming you have any
  959. 34:26suggestions on like what you would
  960. 34:28replace it with or strategies to use in
  961. 34:31those moments yeah so it really just
  962. 34:33depends on the stem but thinking about
  963. 34:36like kicking um provide like I If
  964. 34:39there's like therapy balls available or
  965. 34:41provide like a safer thing for someone
  966. 34:43to kick into um for biting there are
  967. 34:46like chewy options you can present so
  968. 34:49for biting could be like oral sensory
  969. 34:52seeking or could also be they looking
  970. 34:53for that's so important to collaborate
  971. 34:56like if you like like you don't have it
  972. 34:59tell like recommend like the learner
  973. 35:01receives OT Services get on a weight
  974. 35:04list and that's like what's super
  975. 35:06important too and even if you don't have
  976. 35:07OT at your clinic listening to this um
  977. 35:12you can do a simple Google search just
  978. 35:13to learn about the sensory system so we
  979. 35:16have eight sensory systems but when
  980. 35:18working if you do have an OT clinic or
  981. 35:20someone you collaborate with it's
  982. 35:21important to collaborate to learn about
  983. 35:23why like why you're saying different T
  984. 35:25systems that are impacted with with the
  985. 35:28Sims or like what they're trying to seek
  986. 35:29out at that time so it just provides a
  987. 35:32better understanding of like okay these
  988. 35:34are these are the child's sensory needs
  989. 35:37then we can collaborate on ways to help
  990. 35:38support the needs right that makes sense
  991. 35:41I like that yeah I agree I want to take
  992. 35:43a quick pause for our second code word
  993. 35:45today for our cus is nail
  994. 35:48biting is there anything else you wanted
  995. 35:50to touch on with that no I think we're
  996. 35:52good to go in with the interfering with
  997. 35:54learning yes so I wanted to talk a
  998. 35:55little bit about like the interfering
  999. 35:56with learning opportunities and when it
  1000. 35:59might be um necessary to um provide
  1001. 36:01those Alternatives that we were talking
  1002. 36:03about um so if the stem Behavior
  1003. 36:05significantly interferes with the
  1004. 36:07individual's ability to engage in
  1005. 36:08learning activities I know you and I
  1006. 36:10worked with a shared client um who they
  1007. 36:14engaged in they like had a tube like
  1008. 36:16what I don't know what they're called a
  1009. 36:18pop tube and he really loved it and he
  1010. 36:20shook it in front of his um face
  1011. 36:22visually and really enjoyed the like
  1012. 36:24visual component of it um but he really
  1013. 36:26would engage in all day and it would
  1014. 36:28really um it regulated him and he
  1015. 36:30enjoyed it a lot but we struggled to
  1016. 36:33find times to do work like any time that
  1017. 36:36we would sit to do work he wouldn't um
  1018. 36:38be able to focus on like anything that
  1019. 36:40we asked him or communicated to him so
  1020. 36:42you and I worked together on like we had
  1021. 36:45to like remove it just during that like
  1022. 36:47learning opportunity but instead of
  1023. 36:48completely removing it from them and
  1024. 36:50like taking it from them almost like
  1025. 36:52aggressively like having to like have a
  1026. 36:53power struggle we like removed it and we
  1027. 36:55put it on the table in front of him so
  1028. 36:56that he knows it's still his access we
  1029. 36:59were just um like removing it for the
  1030. 37:01task and he still had free access to it
  1031. 37:03at any other point during the day yes so
  1032. 37:06that's important if they are steming on
  1033. 37:07an object instead of completely taking
  1034. 37:10away like you mentioned Kiren you still
  1035. 37:12want to keep it in their visual field
  1036. 37:14yeah and why do we do this to help
  1037. 37:16alleviate anxiety because stemming is so
  1038. 37:20self-regulating and self soothing that
  1039. 37:22if that object is taken away the child
  1040. 37:25may have no idea where they can find it
  1041. 37:26if
  1042. 37:28it because it's so caling for them so we
  1043. 37:30want to be able to provide them the
  1044. 37:32access to it so even if we're doing a
  1045. 37:34task and they do like 30 seconds of a
  1046. 37:36task and then I need to S on it again by
  1047. 37:38all means please do that we need to give
  1048. 37:40them like those small breaks breaks yes
  1049. 37:42sensory breaks especially if we're
  1050. 37:44having them do seated work and it's not
  1051. 37:46necessarily something that's
  1052. 37:47intrinsically motivating or engaging
  1053. 37:49yeah then we're going need extra support
  1054. 37:51to regulate ourselves so it might take
  1055. 37:54longer to complete task which is totally
  1056. 37:56fine because we're still supporting the
  1057. 37:58learner's best entrance
  1058. 37:59ands and this is something to consider
  1059. 38:01too when like you guys are like still
  1060. 38:03working towards um building that skill
  1061. 38:06like if it's outside of their skill set
  1062. 38:07to sit at a table for imagine how hard
  1063. 38:10it is to learn a new skill like you
  1064. 38:11might need that regulation it's so hard
  1065. 38:15yeah so yeah really taking that into
  1066. 38:17consideration um and it's also with like
  1067. 38:19if it's impacting um social
  1068. 38:21opportunities as well like if they are
  1069. 38:23unable to really interact with peers
  1070. 38:25because they're stemming con stantly um
  1071. 38:28help helping them find like alternative
  1072. 38:30ways to engage in that what do you re
  1073. 38:32like that one's a hard one how you what
  1074. 38:35do what you do in that situation oh that
  1075. 38:37is a hard question I'm going to need to
  1076. 38:39think about
  1077. 38:40that um but I think it's also important
  1078. 38:44just to like even if they don't want to
  1079. 38:47if they don't want to respect that of
  1080. 38:49course we want to promote pure
  1081. 38:51socialization that's such an important
  1082. 38:52part of our well-beings but that also
  1083. 38:55increase anxiety for IND especially if
  1084. 38:57they're monotropic thinkers and
  1085. 38:59processors and they need to focus on one
  1086. 39:01thing at a time M that we just need to
  1087. 39:04respect that but also like if we are
  1088. 39:06Stan like encourage other peers to like
  1089. 39:09join them in their s and enter their
  1090. 39:12world especially if you have like a peer
  1091. 39:13that would be like is able to like you
  1092. 39:16know I know we would say like if you're
  1093. 39:17working on conversations or like
  1094. 39:19greetings you want to do it with a peer
  1095. 39:21that would reciprocate back trying to
  1096. 39:23find a peer that would also reciprocate
  1097. 39:25back when we're introducing those social
  1098. 39:26opportun for them yes very important I
  1099. 39:29feel like and I think this kind of goes
  1100. 39:31back to what you're were saying like I
  1101. 39:32think you were talking about a learner
  1102. 39:34who is engaging in happy hands when very
  1103. 39:36excited so you joined them um to like
  1104. 39:39share that Joy yes and I think that when
  1105. 39:41we model it especially with other
  1106. 39:42Learners in the environment like
  1107. 39:44expressing to the other Learners that no
  1108. 39:47our friend is so happy this is how
  1109. 39:48they're showing they're happy and like
  1110. 39:51if they want to join sometimes they will
  1111. 39:53it's a good time to do that and just to
  1112. 39:55note on that too so sometimes like we
  1113. 39:57may think they're happy but we don't
  1114. 39:59actually know how they're truly thinking
  1115. 40:01so I like to label body cues like oh
  1116. 40:03their hands are flapping there's a smile
  1117. 40:04on their face they may be feeling happy
  1118. 40:08because I don't want to assume that I
  1119. 40:09know how they're truly feeling on the
  1120. 40:10inside that's a good point I really like
  1121. 40:12that thank you all right and then the
  1122. 40:13next one we're talking about kind of was
  1123. 40:15the functional impairment so if the
  1124. 40:17stemming behavior is causing functional
  1125. 40:19impairment or limiting the individual's
  1126. 40:21ability to participate in daily living
  1127. 40:23activities pursue personal goals or
  1128. 40:25maintain relationships was kind of where
  1129. 40:28I was going with this do you have any
  1130. 40:29thoughts about like what we would do in
  1131. 40:31this situation or have you guys ever had
  1132. 40:33the situation come up I feel like this
  1133. 40:35comes up a lot with like our older I
  1134. 40:37think about this a lot with like eating
  1135. 40:39um like if they're struggling to eat or
  1136. 40:42like they can't brush their teeth
  1137. 40:43because they enjoy like stemming with
  1138. 40:45the toothbrush and like helping parents
  1139. 40:47navigate those situations of like their
  1140. 40:48daily living skills can I just give a
  1141. 40:50second toothbrush and then like no that
  1142. 40:53is a that's a strategy I recommend
  1143. 40:55before give them one to hold on to and
  1144. 40:56stem want to engage in that task um but
  1145. 41:00what I also find to be encouraging too
  1146. 41:02and kind of helps at times is just to
  1147. 41:05label what you're about to do so you're
  1148. 41:07going to say okay we're going to you
  1149. 41:09know have free access we're going to
  1150. 41:10play with our toothbrush
  1151. 41:12for however many minutes or seconds and
  1152. 41:15then we're going to take a small break
  1153. 41:16we're going to brush our teeth so give
  1154. 41:18me preparation because I think a lot of
  1155. 41:21times we underestimate our individuals
  1156. 41:25receptive language so giving that
  1157. 41:27prepared time simple first then first
  1158. 41:30we're going to do this but still like
  1159. 41:32okay I see that we're you're engaging in
  1160. 41:34this and it looks like it's fun for you
  1161. 41:37we're going to take a small break so
  1162. 41:38would you give like a countdown do you
  1163. 41:40feel like like okay three or even 10
  1164. 41:42like if it's something like 10 8 then
  1165. 41:44take it away yeah um a countdown or
  1166. 41:47sometimes I use like a timer on my phone
  1167. 41:49and then like sometimes like that timer
  1168. 41:51the sound like um divides their
  1169. 41:53attention like oh something's happening
  1170. 41:55like our timer went off now I know can
  1171. 41:58complete this task and I know I would
  1172. 41:59give this toothbrush right back to them
  1173. 42:01yeah it becomes Bast and I feel like
  1174. 42:03something after talking about it is like
  1175. 42:05maybe trying to have them put their own
  1176. 42:08like instead of blocking like okay like
  1177. 42:10can you like show me like hands to your
  1178. 42:12side really quick and then we'll go do
  1179. 42:14or whatever rather than like removing
  1180. 42:16the from them like set it let's set it
  1181. 42:18down yeah I would definitely say like
  1182. 42:19let's set it down like I want to resp
  1183. 42:21their aony I don't want to take things
  1184. 42:23away from and I feel like people even
  1185. 42:25like P like as a mom like let me just do
  1186. 42:26it for you right like you know like
  1187. 42:29respecting like okay like even if it
  1188. 42:31takes a little bit longer let our
  1189. 42:33learner do it yeah and that's important
  1190. 42:35too with everything that we're talking
  1191. 42:37about too our Learners need increased
  1192. 42:39processing time and time to complete
  1193. 42:42tasks so that's like another part of
  1194. 42:43like holding space or just preparing
  1195. 42:45ourselves that we might not do things
  1196. 42:47quickly we just need to regulate and
  1197. 42:49give them that time to process yeah MH I
  1198. 42:52think so too like going with that like
  1199. 42:55with the um increased time
  1200. 42:58um a lot of families like really really
  1201. 43:00struggle with some of the stemming and
  1202. 43:03they ask us like a lot of times like
  1203. 43:04that's one of the main goals is like oh
  1204. 43:05can you eliminate this um and it's
  1205. 43:08because a lot of times they might not
  1206. 43:09like have the time to navigate it or
  1207. 43:11there's just barriers so when we are um
  1208. 43:14like working with parents how would you
  1209. 43:17go about that like if you were if I were
  1210. 43:19to ask you to join a parent meeting with
  1211. 43:20me um to help address like their learner
  1212. 43:23engages in a lot of stemming and they
  1213. 43:25really want to like eliminate it
  1214. 43:27how would you start that conversation
  1215. 43:29with the
  1216. 43:30family yes so I think it' be very
  1217. 43:33similar to this podcast today just um
  1218. 43:36explaining the underlying reasons for
  1219. 43:38stemming and that we need it to support
  1220. 43:40our engagement in daily life we need it
  1221. 43:42for
  1222. 43:43regulation and just talk about how
  1223. 43:46harmful it can be to block that simming
  1224. 43:49and I know that may not be they really
  1225. 43:51receptive may not be what parents want
  1226. 43:52to hear but it's so important to provide
  1227. 43:54that education and if we need to provide
  1228. 43:57research like to support that to help
  1229. 43:59them understand this is how your child
  1230. 44:02perceives life how they go through their
  1231. 44:03daily life there's nothing wrong with it
  1232. 44:05we need to embrace it and enjoy it with
  1233. 44:07them and I think that's one of the other
  1234. 44:09things like as like people in this field
  1235. 44:12like we should be like talking to
  1236. 44:15parents and not like I feel like before
  1237. 44:17a lot of parents I have had this sorry
  1238. 44:20rep I had a lot of I've had a lot of
  1239. 44:22parents come to me and they say like
  1240. 44:23they think like therapy's going to like
  1241. 44:26fix yes all of like these autistic
  1242. 44:28traits but telling like this is not what
  1243. 44:30therapy is for it's really to help them
  1244. 44:33Reach different Milestones learn new
  1245. 44:35skills we're not here to change the
  1246. 44:37individuals like autistic traits and
  1247. 44:40like being firm in that being very firm
  1248. 44:43you know recognizing the individuals
  1249. 44:45perfect the way that they are we're not
  1250. 44:47trying to change them there's nothing to
  1251. 44:49change it's more how can we support them
  1252. 44:52to engage in their daily life while
  1253. 44:54meeting their sensory needs and
  1254. 44:55preferences I feel like once you have
  1255. 44:57that like behind you and you're ready to
  1256. 45:00like you can face it a lot easier yeah
  1257. 45:02you know yeah yeah like the
  1258. 45:04understanding and the other thing too
  1259. 45:06like that you mentioned was just like
  1260. 45:09really emphasizing excuse me the
  1261. 45:12importance of like their emotional
  1262. 45:14well-being through their stem and like I
  1263. 45:16know parents they just want the best for
  1264. 45:18their child they want them to be happy
  1265. 45:20like with my daughter I'm like oh my God
  1266. 45:21I'll do anything to make her happy and
  1267. 45:24so just really emphasizing the
  1268. 45:26importance like that the stem has on
  1269. 45:28their mental health even reminding them
  1270. 45:30like okay if we maybe like we like we
  1271. 45:32stop it every time they're just going to
  1272. 45:33replace it something we may not want or
  1273. 45:36something that's self- inous as well and
  1274. 45:39reminding them like if we take this away
  1275. 45:41like this is what's going to might
  1276. 45:43happen something we can do as well right
  1277. 45:46I think so too and then also like if
  1278. 45:48you're just a BCB like you're a bcba
  1279. 45:51like trying to get an OT in because
  1280. 45:53they're able to explain that a lot
  1281. 45:55better they can share what like each
  1282. 45:57stem what the purpose of each stem is on
  1283. 46:00a deeper level and if you don't you can
  1284. 46:03even share like the functions like well
  1285. 46:05we see like once this happens like like
  1286. 46:09behaviors go down or something like that
  1287. 46:11yeah and even like I think you mentioned
  1288. 46:13it before thinking about these stems um
  1289. 46:15from a data perspective like looking at
  1290. 46:18the data when you're blocking the stems
  1291. 46:19versus when you're not like there are
  1292. 46:21ways to address it behaviorally that
  1293. 46:23don't include blocking or eliminating
  1294. 46:25the stem um we are so lucky we have the
  1295. 46:28opportunity to work alongside OTS and
  1296. 46:30like I talk to OTS multiple times a day
  1297. 46:33some bcbas don't have that opportunity
  1298. 46:35so a strategy that Amy mentioned earlier
  1299. 46:37was to um just like Google what did you
  1300. 46:40suggest Googling I forgot um sensor
  1301. 46:42integration sensory processing sensory
  1302. 46:45systems and you know there are like
  1303. 46:47simple ceu courses for all professionals
  1304. 46:50just to learn more about sensory but um
  1305. 46:52like this one a re a website I really
  1306. 46:55recommend it's the star instit for
  1307. 46:57sensory processing there's so much
  1308. 47:00knowledge on there so many different
  1309. 47:02resources and it's very digestible so
  1310. 47:04heing sensory terminology can be
  1311. 47:06overwhelming but they really break it
  1312. 47:08down
  1313. 47:11into term L terms yes thank you I feel
  1314. 47:14like that's important too when like
  1315. 47:15talking to parents or talking to
  1316. 47:17caregivers is like explaining it on that
  1317. 47:20kind of level like yeah the easy way
  1318. 47:22easy to digest way yeah and I wanted to
  1319. 47:25touch on like when like yes we can
  1320. 47:27Google and like learn a lot about the um
  1321. 47:30OT needs but be cautious don't Implement
  1322. 47:34strategies without consultation of an OT
  1323. 47:37does you can gain more knowledge on like
  1324. 47:38the sensory needs that your child may be
  1325. 47:41having but before implementing anything
  1326. 47:43always consult with an OT because
  1327. 47:45because we don't have the answer to
  1328. 47:46everything yeah we have the best
  1329. 47:47interest at heart but we we might not be
  1330. 47:48doing it correctly right right are there
  1331. 47:51any other points you wanted to make with
  1332. 47:54collaboration I think we touched on them
  1333. 47:56all
  1334. 47:57just being very open and receptive to
  1335. 47:59learning about other
  1336. 48:00people's disciplines what our knowledge
  1337. 48:03based and what we're trained in and just
  1338. 48:05really working together to make the
  1339. 48:07experience as beneficial for the child
  1340. 48:09as we can yeah and of course that also
  1341. 48:12includes parents as well so just having
  1342. 48:14those open conversations and the
  1343. 48:16education piece yeah all right so one
  1344. 48:19other question I had I know we're
  1345. 48:21talking about like a little bit of like
  1346. 48:22the collaboration do you feel like
  1347. 48:24you've ever had a bad experience like
  1348. 48:27collaborating with a bcba that's like
  1349. 48:29say maybe like doesn't want to implement
  1350. 48:32like any of the strategies youest a
  1351. 48:34resistance to it so I wouldn't say I had
  1352. 48:37a bad experience but I would say I was
  1353. 48:39met with initial hesitation of why would
  1354. 48:42we freely allow the kid to STM all day
  1355. 48:45so that's when I had to like pull out my
  1356. 48:47resources and research and just educate
  1357. 48:50on the importance of swimming and then
  1358. 48:53the bcba was actively willing to try it
  1359. 48:55out like hey like we're trying to help
  1360. 48:57this kid in any way we can let's try
  1361. 48:58anything and see if it helps and then we
  1362. 49:01did see some success and it's just the
  1363. 49:02client that you were talking about
  1364. 49:03earlier um he wanted to like run back
  1365. 49:05and forth MH and I feel like that that
  1366. 49:08like that situation actually the time we
  1367. 49:10took the data it lasted like one or two
  1368. 49:12weeks it wasn't like something we agreed
  1369. 49:14upon like within a day or two days even
  1370. 49:17took a little while right yes and then I
  1371. 49:20think once the client was understanding
  1372. 49:23oh like I'm allowed to keep doing this
  1373. 49:25no one's going to stop me then we see
  1374. 49:27like the decrease and the other
  1375. 49:28behaviors may not necessarily want to
  1376. 49:30see that increase in yeah so it does
  1377. 49:32take a while for the child to like adapt
  1378. 49:34to it as well just being able to do what
  1379. 49:36they need to yeah I think something with
  1380. 49:38collaboration like when I first I think
  1381. 49:40I've noted before um I wasn't always a
  1382. 49:42bcba here and I came from a clinic where
  1383. 49:44I um was never really taught to
  1384. 49:46collaborate so when I initially came um
  1385. 49:48to Blossom something that really
  1386. 49:49benefited me when working with other
  1387. 49:51disciplines was I would ask to join OT
  1388. 49:54sessions I'm like okay I hear what
  1389. 49:55you're saying but I can't understand how
  1390. 49:57to implement it when working on the stem
  1391. 49:59or especially even just imitating the
  1392. 50:01stem I'm like wait how are you doing
  1393. 50:02that what does it look like in your
  1394. 50:03sessions so I would just join um and
  1395. 50:06just really observe and kind of figure
  1396. 50:07out what you guys were doing and try and
  1397. 50:09replicate it in our sessions to see if
  1398. 50:10it would work with my technicians as
  1399. 50:12well another this was like another shirt
  1400. 50:14CLI I had with Amy but we talked about
  1401. 50:16his stem was like moving like dropping
  1402. 50:19things in front of his eye and we talked
  1403. 50:21about like other play sequences we could
  1404. 50:23do that in so we could find a way to
  1405. 50:25like pair with them like see those
  1406. 50:27engaged Smiles cuz it was really hard to
  1407. 50:30motivate him to do a lot of tasks so
  1408. 50:33once we kind of like even figured that
  1409. 50:35out we came up with so many play
  1410. 50:36strategies for him and then we were able
  1411. 50:38to see like that engagement with him as
  1412. 50:40well I think that's a good point to note
  1413. 50:42it's like incorporating the stem into
  1414. 50:43play especially visual stems and things
  1415. 50:46like that like there are ways to
  1416. 50:48replicate it to help them enjoy other
  1417. 50:50activities you compare it as we talk
  1418. 50:51about in ABA like the visual tactile the
  1419. 50:55PO receptive those are all so easily
  1420. 50:58able to be incorporated into play and
  1421. 51:00like you mentioned once the client sees
  1422. 51:02that we're joining them it's like wow
  1423. 51:04they understand me get they want to
  1424. 51:06engage with me and then we see so much
  1425. 51:08more increased joyful engagement and
  1426. 51:11just that General understanding of like
  1427. 51:12their resp me for who I am and who I
  1428. 51:14need to be and also sometimes the visual
  1429. 51:16sys once I see it I'm like this is like
  1430. 51:18I can see what they see
  1431. 51:21like say like it's like a ball like
  1432. 51:23moving down like up and down their face
  1433. 51:24but if you do it you see like it's weird
  1434. 51:28to say but once you see it from their
  1435. 51:30perspective it really does open up a lot
  1436. 51:33cuz you're like well we can do this in
  1437. 51:34so many ways like let's get like balls
  1438. 51:36and out in front of us or like the sand
  1439. 51:38in front of our faces the same exact
  1440. 51:40thing yeah I had a professor and when we
  1441. 51:42were like discussing stems and in school
  1442. 51:44they were like just replicate the stem
  1443. 51:46that your learner is engaging in just so
  1444. 51:48you can kind of see and get a sense of
  1445. 51:49what they're understanding from it and
  1446. 51:51feeling with it so like I remember when
  1447. 51:54I was a student my one one of my
  1448. 51:55Learners they did like side eye so they
  1449. 51:57would the corner but then they would
  1450. 51:59look at a toy through it and I'm like oh
  1451. 52:01wow that is kind of cool like look it's
  1452. 52:02like there's double now it's just like
  1453. 52:05really see what they're enjoying from it
  1454. 52:07and help them enjoy it more well thank
  1455. 52:09you so much for like your Insight on
  1456. 52:11collaboration it's a big component that
  1457. 52:13like user and I like to harp on it's our
  1458. 52:15number one topic I feel like um quick
  1459. 52:18break for our third code word is tapping
  1460. 52:22all right and then on that note like
  1461. 52:24that's all the info we had for today
  1462. 52:26we'd love to have Amy on again she
  1463. 52:28mentioned a few things that she'd love
  1464. 52:30to talk about a little bit more but
  1465. 52:31until next time we'll talk to you later
  1466. 52:34see you
  1467. 52:36bye all right guys thank you so much for
  1468. 52:38listening please don't forget to like
  1469. 52:40And subscribe and if you want your ceu
  1470. 52:42credits go to our website at Blossom
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