Episode 13: Understanding Stimming: An Occupational Therapist's Insight | FREE ABA CEU — Transcript
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- 0:00welcome back to the blossoming together
- 0:01podcast as you guys can tell my voice
- 0:04I'm losing it I lost it in Bali swinging
- 0:06on the swings but today we're going to
- 0:09be talking about stemming we have a
- 0:11guest speaker on but before we introduce
- 0:13her let's go over our objectives
- 0:15objective one participants will be able
- 0:17to identify the purpose of stemming for
- 0:19individuals with higher sensory
- 0:21processing needs and objective two
- 0:24participants will be able to discuss and
- 0:26apply ethical considerations in
- 0:27addressing stemming behaviors and
- 0:29understand when it is appropriate to
- 0:31Target or not Target stemming behaviors
- 0:34all right Amy
- 0:35welcome so Amy you're a lead right like
- 0:38a lead OT yes I'm the lead OT here at
- 0:41Blossom Novi wow and how long have you
- 0:43been in that role um a little bit over a
- 0:45year now um I started at Blossom this is
- 0:48my first position out of OT school so
- 0:50actually today is exactly 3 and a half
- 0:52years since I started congrats thank you
- 0:56that's amazing do you have any questions
- 0:58for Amy yeah can you tell us about like
- 1:01where you got your education for your OT
- 1:03program so I actually did my
- 1:05undergraduate at Michigan State
- 1:07University in kinesiology and then I
- 1:09went to Grand Valley State University
- 1:11for my masters in occupational therapy
- 1:13wait I went there for my undergrad Grand
- 1:15Val so really I didn't know that I don't
- 1:17know why I didn't know
- 1:19went but what really introduced you to
- 1:23the OT world and how did you decide that
- 1:25that's what you wanted to pursue yeah so
- 1:27I always knew I wanted to work with
- 1:28children and I was going more like the
- 1:30elementary education route and then I
- 1:33took a few classes in undergrad I'm like
- 1:35I cannot do a full classroom of students
- 1:38overwhelming but then through some
- 1:39personal experiences some family members
- 1:41went through occupational therapy and I
- 1:44just thought it was just so amazing to
- 1:46see how individuals can help others
- 1:49regain their functional Independence
- 1:51yeah so I just thought why not combine
- 1:53the two and work with children as an
- 1:54occupational therapist I love it it's
- 1:56amazing well I'm glad you found the
- 1:58field cuz you've helped so many indiv
- 1:59idual and so many kids and you've taught
- 2:01us so much so we're excited to dive into
- 2:04this topic so we're going to be talking
- 2:05about stemming something I know about
- 2:08stemming is it's a self stimulat
- 2:10stimulatory behavior that refers to
- 2:12repetitive movements or sounds that
- 2:14individuals use to engage in to really
- 2:18like regulate themselves or their
- 2:19sensory experiences do you have anything
- 2:21to add to that cuz I bet you got a
- 2:23better definition than me yeah can you
- 2:24tell us a little bit about like what
- 2:25stemming is in general yeah so just like
- 2:27as you mentioned um stemming is
- 2:29competitive actions or sounds that
- 2:31individuals engage in to regulate their
- 2:33sensory and emotional experiences so
- 2:36stemming can be part of any of the
- 2:38sensory system so vestibular you might
- 2:41think of like children who like to
- 2:42rockot um proception like even some head
- 2:46hitting tactile stems feeling different
- 2:48surfaces or having to feel hair thr hair
- 2:52um even visual just watching objects or
- 2:55rearranging objects um old factory so
- 2:58our sense of smell some KS or
- 3:01individuals have to keep smelling
- 3:03specific things like they stem on that
- 3:05SC of it um and then gustatory so our
- 3:08sense of taste so if we see individuals
- 3:11who have to keep tasting the same thing
- 3:12or licking objects ah so stems can
- 3:15Encompass a single sensory system or a
- 3:18bunch of sensory systems together at the
- 3:20same time okay so that kind of leads
- 3:22into like my next question so we kind of
- 3:26talk about like stemming in ABA it kind
- 3:28of was formerly thought of as like
- 3:29steming was just a behavior or something
- 3:31to correct but can you actually tell us
- 3:34why individuals engage in stemming yes
- 3:37so there are a lot of underlying factors
- 3:39why individuals may stem but the first
- 3:42thing I want to mention is not only
- 3:44autistic individuals or neurode diverg
- 3:47individuals engage in stemming everyone
- 3:49stems to some capacity so just for
- 3:51examples to bring it into context so I
- 3:54know I like to pce around when I'm
- 3:56talking on the phone um I do that too
- 3:59people who like to nail bite that's a
- 4:00form of stemming if you listen to the
- 4:02same song over and over so me when I
- 4:04listen to Taylor Swift That's stemming
- 4:07because it's the repetitive action oh my
- 4:10gosh that's why I listen to the same
- 4:11song like five times in a row on my
- 4:13drive in to work yes that makes so much
- 4:15sense so that's like the first thing we
- 4:17want to make sure that we understand
- 4:18that everyone stems and it just might
- 4:20look different for different individuals
- 4:22yeah but some underlying purposes
- 4:24sensory processing so individuals who
- 4:27have sensory processing differences they
- 4:30may engage in stemming to modulate your
- 4:32sensory experiences so just think about
- 4:35if we're in an over stimulate
- 4:36environment and sensory overload yeah we
- 4:39might stem to help regulate ourselves to
- 4:41bring us down to an optimal learning
- 4:43State can you talk a little bit about
- 4:45like sensory overload and what that
- 4:46would look like with a learner
- 4:48especially for like some of our bcbas
- 4:49who don't have a chance to work with OTS
- 4:51or necessarily like know to look for
- 4:52that kind of like Behavior yeah so it
- 4:55all comes down to sensory modulation so
- 4:57I like to use an example called like the
- 4:59sensory cup so just think you have like
- 5:01a regular plastic cup and there's a line
- 5:04in the middle of the cup and that's
- 5:05what's called the optimal learning line
- 5:07so everyone takes an sensory input
- 5:09through their daily activities so all
- 5:11the sites we see smells um we smell
- 5:15everything we hear and then also sensory
- 5:17input is in form of like changes in
- 5:19routines small demands small upsets
- 5:22through our day so all those sensory
- 5:24inputs fill up our sensory cup okay and
- 5:27we have to be kind of we're would assume
- 5:30we're at that line right in the middle
- 5:31our ideal that's our ideal state so for
- 5:34a lot of our Learners they keep getting
- 5:36all the sensory input in and they cop
- 5:38fills up to the point where they don't
- 5:40know how to regulate themselves so like
- 5:42you and I may know like oh if I'm
- 5:43overwhelmed I need to leave this room or
- 5:45take a break okay then we can um empty
- 5:48out the cup to some capacity to help us
- 5:50reach that state but for some of our
- 5:52Learners who have more um more robust
- 5:55sensory preferences we need help to
- 5:58support them to bring them down because
- 6:00then we might have our cups spill over
- 6:02essentially and that could lead to
- 6:03sensory meltdowns so I like to think
- 6:06especially in the environment here you
- 6:08know if you're in a big noisy
- 6:09environment there's lots of kids running
- 6:11around um making lots of sounds there's
- 6:14so much visual input it can be so hard
- 6:17for an individual to focus on things
- 6:19within that over stimulating environment
- 6:21yeah so that's when they may stem so
- 6:23then they can help them Focus to
- 6:25whatever they're doing and to work
- 6:27through the deregulating environment I
- 6:29really like that example and I feel like
- 6:31even for our like you said ourselves our
- 6:33cup gets full all the time and depending
- 6:35on the day you know we might not we
- 6:38might not need it right but then some
- 6:39days we've had like different
- 6:41experiences like you were late getting
- 6:43out of the door and then maybe in the
- 6:45car like you spilled everything on
- 6:46yourself and then somebody cut me off
- 6:49and I thought I was going to get into an
- 6:50accident so now just adding and adding
- 6:52onto my cup the same with our Learners
- 6:54we don't know what kind of day they had
- 6:55before they got to us sometimes too
- 6:57that's the underlying component don't
- 6:59know what goes on at home before we get
- 7:01to work with them and I know we were
- 7:03talking before we're talking about how
- 7:05traffic has been so terrible so I know
- 7:07that throws out my day when I'm stuck in
- 7:08traffic absolutely and that overfills my
- 7:11cup at some points too but on the other
- 7:13hand sometimes if children are in an
- 7:16environment where there's not a lot of
- 7:17stimulation going on they need to
- 7:20upregulate themselves so that they can
- 7:22reach optimal learning line and
- 7:24effectively participate in their day so
- 7:26that's when you might also see simming
- 7:28so they can provide the up regulating
- 7:30response this is something that I never
- 7:32took into consideration I always like I
- 7:34always looked at the overlo yeah the
- 7:36over stimulation and like the almost
- 7:38like the disregulation in that sense and
- 7:40it was hard for me to understand it with
- 7:41some of those kids who um like
- 7:43considered more mellow or just like
- 7:45chill like I didn't realize that they
- 7:47might need more sensory input to like
- 7:49upregulate them right so sensory
- 7:53processing is definitely one of the
- 7:54biggest components underlying simy but
- 7:56there are so many other things I'll
- 7:57touch on too so so for example um
- 8:01emotional regulation and also
- 8:03self-expression and communication so um
- 8:07when children exper or adults experience
- 8:09intense emotions so like excitement or
- 8:12if they're feeling anxious or stressed
- 8:15we might see an increase in stemming to
- 8:17help regulate those emotions okay can
- 8:20you give maybe an example of this one
- 8:22yeah so I'm just trying to think I have
- 8:24one learner that I work with right now
- 8:27um if we watch the marble run the visual
- 8:29stimul of watching the Marvel go around
- 8:31and round we get a lot of flapping we
- 8:34getting excited because it's something
- 8:36that's so meaningful to them to watch it
- 8:38and excites them that we're just so
- 8:40excited and I'll join in this stem and
- 8:41just to share that Joy with them so
- 8:43that's something you might see um help
- 8:46with the emotional piece with that you
- 8:48feel like you see it sometimes when
- 8:49someone is like sad or upset or
- 8:51frustrated as well yes I feel like that
- 8:54was really hard for me to understand too
- 8:55cuz I I always heard like happy hands
- 8:58but never like the opposite right so
- 9:01really any intense emotion and we know
- 9:04neurode Divergent individuals as well as
- 9:06neurotypical individuals can experience
- 9:09emotions on so many different levels
- 9:11yeah so whenever we're just trying to
- 9:13help regulate those emotions or express
- 9:15it that's when we may see some more
- 9:16stemming okay yeah thank you for like
- 9:19breaking that down with the emotions and
- 9:21then you also said the communication and
- 9:23self expression self- expression so
- 9:26especially for um autistic individuals
- 9:29where it might be a little bit harder to
- 9:30express themselves verbally or
- 9:32non-verbally they can express themselves
- 9:34through stems it helps um communicate
- 9:37with others and also to indicate what
- 9:39their interests are so we see how they
- 9:41stem like oh this is something that's
- 9:44like important to you and you're trying
- 9:45to show something to me so it just helps
- 9:47with that communication piece right and
- 9:49I like to think of it like you know we
- 9:51say like all behavior is a form of
- 9:53communication so we need to look at like
- 9:55the stems and what they're trying to
- 9:57communicate to us I feel like that's
- 9:59very important right absolutely could
- 10:02like an example of a learner trying to
- 10:05communicate through stem be like when
- 10:07they're repeatedly covering their ears
- 10:08and tapping their ears like maybe
- 10:10they're trying to communicate that
- 10:11something's too loud or like the
- 10:12environment is too loud for them it
- 10:15could be part of that too and it could
- 10:16also just be a general auditory so when
- 10:18kids cover and uncover the ears because
- 10:21like trying to modulate or see if like
- 10:22the environment sounds different for
- 10:24them but that could definitely be part
- 10:26of communicating like oh maybe I need to
- 10:28go find another environment get some
- 10:30headphones yeah that makes sense I want
- 10:32to take a quick pause for our first code
- 10:34word today code word one for your cus is
- 10:38hair twirling nice all right and then
- 10:40getting right back into it I know when
- 10:42we were talking we also discussed
- 10:43another reason individuals might stem is
- 10:46for that cognitive focus and the
- 10:47engagement could you share a little bit
- 10:49more about that yes so um research has
- 10:51found that engaging and repetitive
- 10:53actions promotes a regulating and
- 10:56organizing response in the brain so when
- 10:58our brain is nice and organized it's
- 11:00easier to learn and process information
- 11:03and it just helps us with that overall
- 11:04regulation and able to actively problem
- 11:06solve through different situations in
- 11:08our day I was just thinking about like
- 11:11the um like self soothing and stress
- 11:13relief portion that I think you and I
- 11:14have talked about in the past could you
- 11:15talk a little bit about that yes so it
- 11:18also goes down to the sensory modulation
- 11:21piece yeah but with self soothing
- 11:23stemming just provides a sense of safety
- 11:26comfortability and predictability and
- 11:28allow our neurode Divergent Learners
- 11:30they need that predictability and
- 11:32routine yeah so it just provides that
- 11:35soothing comfort for them so if you're
- 11:36dealing with stressful situations or
- 11:39challenging or new unfamiliar situations
- 11:41it just helps them cope with it oh okay
- 11:44that makes a lot of sense really good to
- 11:45know we kind of discussed like what
- 11:47stemming is what function the function
- 11:51it serves I to kind of talk about and
- 11:53get your Insight onto why it is harmful
- 11:55to stop stemming Behavior yes so there
- 11:59are are many um components to this as
- 12:01well but the first thing I want to touch
- 12:03on is blocking or stopping siming
- 12:07Behavior really just takes away a source
- 12:10of autonomy for individuals and it can
- 12:12cause increased stress um increased
- 12:15anxiety and can impact their ability to
- 12:18focus throughout the day because we
- 12:20talked about like how stemi helps with
- 12:23regulation emotional expression and
- 12:26overall cognitive processing mhh well
- 12:28I'm thinking like you were talking about
- 12:30the cups say like our cups really filled
- 12:31up and we want to get back down we're
- 12:34trying really hard we're engaging our
- 12:36stems try to get down there but imagine
- 12:38like someone's there and like stopping
- 12:40you that's like if I was trying to leave
- 12:42the room cuz like like say like curon
- 12:45smelled really bad today like she didn't
- 12:46have any deodorant on and like she
- 12:48smells bad and I'm like okay like I
- 12:50can't stand it anymore I'm going to
- 12:51throw up and I'm trying to leave the
- 12:52room and you were like no right so
- 12:55that's why I wanted to touch too so to
- 12:58go off of that so let's say an
- 12:59individual sensory cup is spilling up
- 13:02but they're able to identify oh I'm
- 13:04about to spill over so I need to
- 13:06regulate myself you the stemming so if
- 13:09someone were to say like no you can't do
- 13:10that or we're blocking that stem they
- 13:13don't know how else to regulate
- 13:14themselves so that increases the um cup
- 13:17and that's when they're going to spill
- 13:18over and the frustrating part about it
- 13:21is like we a lot of us focus a lot on
- 13:24like building those self self-regulation
- 13:26te like techniques for our kids and like
- 13:28promoting that and we're when we block
- 13:30it we're stopping them from that
- 13:32self-regulation technique that they then
- 13:34even trying to remember like this is
- 13:36like you said this is something they
- 13:38have developed and we can let them
- 13:40engage in this it's yeah so for example
- 13:44that blocking the stemming so their cup
- 13:46is spilling over then they're seeking
- 13:49out we have to understand that there's a
- 13:51reason behind every time that we're
- 13:53stemming so they're seeking out some
- 13:54kind of input they're trying to
- 13:55communicate with us so blocking it we
- 13:59get disregulated and then they don't
- 14:02know what else to do we might see an
- 14:03increase in harmful stemming or we might
- 14:05see they're looking for something to
- 14:07replace it with looking for something to
- 14:09replace it and then you might see some
- 14:10self-injurious behaviors because then we
- 14:13in the sensory overload we don't know
- 14:14how to regulate ourselves when our
- 14:16source of Regulation is taken away from
- 14:19us yeah now of course there are times
- 14:22that we do have to redirect stemming so
- 14:25this is if the stemming is going to hurt
- 14:27the individual themselves or someone
- 14:29else in the environment but like I said
- 14:31we have to respect and honor that there
- 14:33is a reason and we need to help support
- 14:35them with the input yeah you feel like
- 14:37if you were say like you had to you know
- 14:40block a stem say it was like headbanging
- 14:42on something really hard you like would
- 14:44also replace it with something else
- 14:46right that would give them the same kind
- 14:47of input yes so that's a great example
- 14:50so if you have your learner banging
- 14:52their head against the wall for the stem
- 14:54of course you want to dve away from them
- 14:55wall but an alternative is to provide
- 14:57them with a pillow so they still give
- 14:59them the opportunity to hit their head
- 15:01but just in a much more safer context
- 15:03and I feel like that the example with a
- 15:05pillow like you're not moving them
- 15:07either to like a different Spa like you
- 15:08are still allowing them to be where
- 15:10they're at respecting them in that way
- 15:12as well yes and then talking about this
- 15:15kind of reminds me there was this one
- 15:17time like you were there as well we had
- 15:19a learner that I was was Tech on at that
- 15:22point and he used to Pace back and forth
- 15:24all the time and it was to a point where
- 15:27like you know we understand yet but the
- 15:30BCB on the case was like oh like we need
- 15:32to redirect it so that we can provide
- 15:34like these different opportunities for
- 15:35him and you really put your foot down
- 15:37you were like no this is a stem and you
- 15:39explained it to us but even then like we
- 15:41took some data like be if we stopped it
- 15:44versus if we didn't stop it and we saw
- 15:46that all of the other behaviors during
- 15:48the day went down once we allowed him to
- 15:51Pace back and forth yeah right that was
- 15:54a
- 15:55wonderful just to see how everything
- 15:57decreased but it's a wonderful
- 15:59opportunity for all of us of how we're
- 16:00working as a multidisiplinary team to
- 16:03help support our client right and I
- 16:04appreciate like you were also like okay
- 16:06how can I show you so like that's when
- 16:09we were like okay let's take data cuz
- 16:10you know bcb's love data like take the
- 16:13data and see that it does work yeah how
- 16:16helpful it is for the kid yeah and um I
- 16:19do have some other points quickly about
- 16:22the um effects of blacking stiming yes
- 16:24so there's such a significant impact on
- 16:27self-esteem and it's so wonderful now
- 16:29that we have so many autistic adults who
- 16:31are sharing their lip experiences and
- 16:33insight of their experiences of having
- 16:36their Sims blocked and how it impacted
- 16:38them yeah but something that's really
- 16:40coming out is with blocking a Sim
- 16:43there's increased masking going yes and
- 16:45as we know when we're we're masking
- 16:47we're trying to fit in with what's like
- 16:49expected the societal standards yes
- 16:52there's some significant impacts on
- 16:54increased anxiety um depression later on
- 16:59and just a decreased self awareness and
- 17:02individuals are coming out saying I
- 17:03didn't know who I was until I was in my
- 17:05later adulthood because I was told I
- 17:07should not be doing this they were
- 17:09expected to change who they were you
- 17:11know and what they what they knew to be
- 17:13like their self-
- 17:15expression and with the masking it just
- 17:17takes so much energy and it can lead to
- 17:19autistic
- 17:20burnout and that's just not being their
- 17:23authentic selves yeah what is autistic
- 17:26burnout I've heard that a little bit
- 17:28like I've seen it on social media I
- 17:29haven't heard it a lot like in our field
- 17:31yet so artistic burnout I'll just touch
- 17:33on it quickly because like also
- 17:34something for another episode on it um
- 17:38but it's just essentially a state of
- 17:40burnout and decreased motivation to
- 17:43engage in daily activities because
- 17:45there's so much pressure so think of
- 17:47like kids who are in therapy for so long
- 17:49trying to um engage your daily Tas or
- 17:52just like so many demands and we might
- 17:54see more connection seeking behaviors um
- 17:59they have decreased motivation to do
- 18:01things they just want time and space
- 18:03it's different than occupational burnout
- 18:05but it's also the same in the terms that
- 18:08like we just need to have time to be
- 18:10ourselves and regulate and not have so
- 18:12many demands day kind of like I'm I'm
- 18:16done taking the mask off because I need
- 18:19time to be my true self yeah I like that
- 18:22thank you for sharing that yeah of
- 18:23course were there any other harmful like
- 18:25effects of blocking stre me that you
- 18:27wanted to touch on yes I just wanted to
- 18:29um emphasize the fact that stemming
- 18:31provides opportunities for individuals
- 18:33to be their true authentic selves and
- 18:35feel safe so trying to force steming or
- 18:38taking away from them takes away their
- 18:40autonomy
- 18:42self-expression and the ability to self-
- 18:44regulate themselves that's why it's so
- 18:47so important to be able to respect
- 18:50individual choices regarding stain and
- 18:52that promotes the self advocacy and
- 18:54autonomy for the
- 18:56individual yeah thank you for sharing
- 18:58that and kind of bringing awareness we
- 19:01come from a field that I was trained
- 19:04before I came um to work at Blossom like
- 19:06I was trained on blocking stemming and I
- 19:09wasn't really aware of I didn't think
- 19:11about it from an OT standpoint I really
- 19:12had no OT knowledge at all so I I've
- 19:15just learned like it's a behavior and we
- 19:16have to block it so that we can teach
- 19:18them other things um so it's it just
- 19:21makes me happy it sucks yeah but I feel
- 19:23like I wasn't necessarily trained to
- 19:24block it but if like say like at when I
- 19:28was a te technician a lot of times like
- 19:29it wasn't at Blossom but lot of times
- 19:31when someone was engaging in a stem say
- 19:33like once we brought them to the table
- 19:34to do some work we're like okay now we
- 19:36have to block cuz now we need to get
- 19:37their attention get them working which
- 19:40sucks because ABA has so like I feel
- 19:43like historically ABA has focus on
- 19:45eliminating stiming behaviors like you
- 19:46talked about a little bit but because
- 19:49they were viewed as disruptive and some
- 19:51strategies or things people did were
- 19:54like I wanted to kind of talk to you
- 19:55about that and you kind of give us your
- 19:57input on I probably
- 19:59sucks no and we want to talk to like our
- 20:01field as well you know our audience is
- 20:03primarily bcbas right now and just like
- 20:06if maybe they're education LED them this
- 20:07way these are some of the strategies you
- 20:09might be using um and like here are some
- 20:11Alternatives that we want to provide
- 20:13yeah so the first one was Extinction so
- 20:16what a lot of people were doing or some
- 20:18people are continuing to do are if say
- 20:21someone was engaging in a stem say like
- 20:23an example was like hand flapping so if
- 20:26someone was engaging hand flapping what
- 20:28they would do is they would put it on
- 20:29extinction that means they would block
- 20:30every single attempt and like really the
- 20:33unless it was specified to give
- 20:35redirection to something else that's all
- 20:37it would be just blocking it making sure
- 20:39they got no reinforcement for so yeah I
- 20:40was going to explain to Amy like
- 20:41Extinction is no longer providing
- 20:43reinforcement to a behavior that was
- 20:45once reinforced so and the thought was
- 20:48that the stem was um like it was
- 20:51self-reinforcing which it is now that we
- 20:54like hear about it so blocking it like
- 20:56not allowing them to do it prevented the
- 20:58reinforcement So It ultimately should
- 21:01extinguish the behavior but as you kind
- 21:03of shared as well once we were doing
- 21:05there you know maybe replacing it with
- 21:07other stems that might not have been as
- 21:10safe or were you know causing it was
- 21:12causing more anxiety more stress to
- 21:14their lives and leading to that masking
- 21:16that you were talking about yeah yeah um
- 21:19do you have any questions on it no I
- 21:21just kind of wanted to bring up another
- 21:23topic that has to do with all this um so
- 21:26this could be another conversation too
- 21:28but I know if you guys have heard of the
- 21:29monot tropism no no so monot tropism is
- 21:33a thinking and processing pattern that a
- 21:35lot of individuals not only neurod
- 21:37Divergent but neurotypical as well um
- 21:40how they interpret and process and
- 21:42engage in their daily routines so that's
- 21:45when we might see they have like a deep
- 21:46focus on one activity at hand and it can
- 21:49be very disregulated to try to redirect
- 21:53them so there's something called The
- 21:54Flow State which goes with this mot
- 21:56tropism and the flow is the complete
- 21:59immersion in the task and activity okay
- 22:02so we might think of it I used to think
- 22:03of it until I learned about this is like
- 22:05they're hyperfocus on something but it's
- 22:08really they're all their sensory systems
- 22:11are working to engage in something
- 22:13that's regulating for them and they're
- 22:15in this state of flow where we may think
- 22:17they're not attending to us and in a
- 22:20sense it might be true because they're
- 22:21so completely focused on the task you're
- 22:23engaging with and it promotes self um
- 22:26self-awareness well-being and it also
- 22:29just makes them happy and part of
- 22:32repetitive actions helps achieve that
- 22:34flow state so steming a lot of times
- 22:36when our kids are stemming they're in
- 22:38that flow State and it's like they're
- 22:40just feeling very themselves and
- 22:42authentic so to hear about like the
- 22:44extinction of it when we're trying to
- 22:46take that away we're not giving the kids
- 22:47opportunity to reach their Flow State
- 22:49for regulation and to complete and focus
- 22:51on tasks yeah it's sad and I have used
- 22:56like Extinction in the past and I've had
- 22:57you know when I was under like the
- 22:59practice of other bcbas so it's like I'm
- 23:01glad we're trying to make changes
- 23:02towards other strategies that's really
- 23:04like what we wanted to use as platform
- 23:06was like you know as a field we are
- 23:08moving towards like accepting
- 23:11individuals and respecting their
- 23:12autonomy so we wanted to neur firming
- 23:15when provide everyone to knowled with
- 23:17the knowledge to understand why it's
- 23:19important not to block these things yeah
- 23:22exactly and that leads me into there's
- 23:24another strategy it's called Rd or
- 23:26response Interruption and Direction um
- 23:30so this is very similar to Extinction
- 23:31where we like block the um behavior in
- 23:34the moment so it's like if they were to
- 23:36engage in like you said hand flapping we
- 23:37would immediately block it and some
- 23:39people would say like safe hands or show
- 23:40me quiet hands um but then replace it
- 23:43and redirect it too and this is like
- 23:45where I like the research shows it's
- 23:47like a more acceptable behavior um so
- 23:51for those listening Kristen what oh air
- 23:53quot air
- 23:54quot sorry yes um and that's kind of
- 23:58what the thought was was to like
- 23:59redirect it so it could be more
- 24:00acceptable and give them an alternative
- 24:02Behavior to engage in which it sounds
- 24:04like in ABA we kind of thought of it it
- 24:05was like in theory it was kind of we
- 24:08were leaning towards the right thing but
- 24:09it's they were well intentioned maybe
- 24:12but but it's still blocking the learner
- 24:14from getting access to what they were
- 24:16needing in that moment another strategy
- 24:18people have used in the past or people
- 24:20continue to use is differential
- 24:22reinforcement so meaning providing
- 24:24reinforcement for the Alternatives that
- 24:27are happening so anytime they aren't
- 24:29maybe engaging in that stemming Behavior
- 24:31providing reinforcement and then the
- 24:33last one is functional communication
- 24:35training if you want to touch on that
- 24:36real quick yeah um I think this was used
- 24:38a lot for um like Vocal Stems and it's
- 24:41even used like to help the learner like
- 24:43meet their needs that's what I feel like
- 24:45I hear the most with so yeah like
- 24:47advocate for their own needs so say like
- 24:48it's really loud in a room and we see
- 24:50them like engaging within the covering
- 24:52yours like having them request for like
- 24:54headphones is something I've seen a lot
- 24:57and this is something that think I still
- 24:59incorporate into my practice now because
- 25:01it's like I'm trying to help them
- 25:03provide me like with what they need like
- 25:06as um like a vocal and like man what do
- 25:10you like what do you think about that do
- 25:11you feel like that's acceptable or would
- 25:13you do the
- 25:15same um a lot of times from the sensory
- 25:18and OT perspective if I do see that I
- 25:20may just offer the sensory supports of
- 25:24necessarily like manding or requesting
- 25:26it especially if we are in over
- 25:28stimulating environment it might be hard
- 25:30to access that Language Center in our
- 25:31brain my just provide the model that's
- 25:34what I was thinking yeah like I tend to
- 25:35like model for the like oh it's loud or
- 25:38um need some headphones need some help
- 25:40yeah no yeah I agree with that as well
- 25:43but I just know sometimes it's harder
- 25:44when we are in like that state or even
- 25:46to like follow the model might be
- 25:47sometimes difficult when we are
- 25:49disregulated so I think there's
- 25:51different ways we can help support the
- 25:52Learners there and I think about this
- 25:54like um I think you and I had worked on
- 25:55a learner where they had um some
- 25:57behaviors in they were in like not quite
- 25:59an opal learning State they might be
- 26:00like tantruming laying on the floor and
- 26:03um you had mentioned you're like oh you
- 26:05guys are kind of talking a lot during
- 26:06the behavior like we were trying to
- 26:08model and help communicate for them and
- 26:09I was like oh but I'm just trying to
- 26:11help and you're like yeah but it might
- 26:12be best right now to hold space and
- 26:14allow them the time to like feel their
- 26:17feelings and then model in when they're
- 26:18in a learning State absolutely I think
- 26:21of it like say like I had a really bad
- 26:23day and I get home and I'm crying and
- 26:25then like my husband's like what's wrong
- 26:28what can I do for you you need help like
- 26:31my husband does the fix it he like
- 26:33provides me all these stres like I don't
- 26:35want to hear it right now that's not
- 26:36what I want right now like just I want
- 26:37to sit here and just like raw on the
- 26:41couch be mad yeah I want to be upset
- 26:44about it like this is my time but then
- 26:46like maybe when I'm feeling a little
- 26:47better I might want like okay like can I
- 26:50have a hug yes and that's a great
- 26:53example to apply it to your own lives to
- 26:55put this into practice like cuz I'm the
- 26:57same way too like I'm over WS it's been
- 26:58a long day I just need my me time I need
- 27:01my space and then after I have some time
- 27:03then I'll socialize with others or like
- 27:05connect with others maybe maybe if
- 27:08you're ready maybe if I'm ready but yeah
- 27:11that's such a great perspective to take
- 27:13on it because we need to apply it to our
- 27:15own lives to understand how it can help
- 27:17support our Learners I think as like
- 27:19therapists or people in these positions
- 27:21where we're like you know we're actively
- 27:23trying to help someone it feels like
- 27:25sometimes when we're telling someone to
- 27:26like hold space like if feels like I've
- 27:28hear a lot of tech like it feels like
- 27:29I'm doing nothing but like remembering
- 27:32that it's not doing nothing that like it
- 27:35is very beneficial yeah so beneficial
- 27:37and holding space yes it sometimes it
- 27:39feels like I'm just sitting here
- 27:41lowering my AFF just being with them but
- 27:44that's a connection that so many people
- 27:46need during dysregulating times yeah so
- 27:49that's therapeutic in itself can you
- 27:51talk about like what our body
- 27:52positioning might look like while
- 27:53holding space cuz I don't want people
- 27:55who might be listening to think that
- 27:56we're just standing there with our arms
- 27:57crossed and like just not looking at the
- 27:59learner like what does holding space
- 28:00really look like so holding space it
- 28:02really just depends on the situation at
- 28:04hand but a lot of times in my practice I
- 28:07will actually get down to the floor a
- 28:09lot of times there kids are on the floor
- 28:10so I'm just saying that um I will get
- 28:12down to the individual's level provide
- 28:14some increased space um but then I'll
- 28:17just model using like I can't really put
- 28:20this auditorily but um model just having
- 28:22a calm effect and just presenting myself
- 28:25like understanding a lot of times I'm
- 28:27not talking it's just my and every so
- 28:30often I'll say okay I'm here for you or
- 28:33like I'll just model some deep breathing
- 28:35just to kind of help pass on like that
- 28:37calming sensation to the individual not
- 28:40putting any demands on them you know I
- 28:43remembering that even to like you know
- 28:44sometimes I feel like if someone's upset
- 28:46like trying to put my hand on them that
- 28:48might be too much at that moment too
- 28:50just if they want it like I I'll put my
- 28:53hand out like if you're ready like you
- 28:55can show me I think lately something
- 28:57I've been doing is holding my hands open
- 28:59and out towards the learner but while
- 29:00still providing them like quite a few
- 29:02feet of space if they need it like so an
- 29:04open position right open position and
- 29:06then it puts it on aarn to reach out
- 29:09when they're ready yeah because yes if
- 29:11we like reach out or try to provide hugs
- 29:13or compression at that time that might
- 29:15be enough to spell our cup back over
- 29:17again when we're trying to deescalate
- 29:19ourselves yeah I think so too so we
- 29:21talked a little bit about like that abas
- 29:24um like we're really shifting towards
- 29:26accepting like um and person centered
- 29:28approach and just really neuro affirming
- 29:30for our Learners um I think that
- 29:32stimming is often it's really
- 29:34misinterpreted as a socially in
- 29:36appropriate behavior um especially in
- 29:38ABA like from kind of the education that
- 29:39I received on it but like Amy said
- 29:41everybody engages in stemming so I just
- 29:44wanted to talk a little bit about like
- 29:45youer and like user what do you do as
- 29:47like some of your stems some of my stems
- 29:49is like I'll bite things like I'll bite
- 29:51like pens my
- 29:54nails even like I haven't I haven't done
- 29:56it in a while but like I used to like
- 29:58chew on like my clothes like the my
- 30:00clothing that was some of my stems yeah
- 30:03I tap my foot a lot or like when I'm
- 30:05really thinking like my husband would
- 30:06always ask like my foot would be like
- 30:07moving on the bed like back and forth
- 30:10and he's like okaying the foot swinging
- 30:12a lot too but I feel like my feet don't
- 30:14touch the floor cuz I'm very short and I
- 30:16feel like like then I'm like oh like
- 30:17swinging back s but it makes me feel
- 30:19better you know um and then I um like
- 30:22pick my lip sometimes like if I'm
- 30:24overwhelmed like I like if I'm anxious I
- 30:26pick my lip some of your stems so I
- 30:29definitely I cannot like sit down when
- 30:31I'm having a FaceTime or a phone call I
- 30:33have to be moving walking around yeah um
- 30:36I tend to listen to the same songs onat
- 30:39I we talked about that a little bit big
- 30:41Swifty I'm a big Swifty so shout out to
- 30:43Taylor Swift I hope you listen to
- 30:45this but yeah those are like some of my
- 30:48major Sims but I know a lot of times too
- 30:51I also like if I'm anxious or
- 30:53overwhelmed like I'll just start like
- 30:54tapping my shoulders really yeah it's I
- 30:57never really thought of as system before
- 30:58until like I really got into this world
- 31:00of learning about um stems and sensory
- 31:03processing I'm like oh I do that all the
- 31:05time there's nothing wrong with it it's
- 31:07regulating for yeah it's just what you
- 31:08do and exactly and so I think like the
- 31:11point that we're trying to get across
- 31:13for like our ABA field is really just
- 31:16promoting acceptance and inclusivity in
- 31:17our field and then I wanted to kind of
- 31:19talk about like how we can do this like
- 31:21we've talked about why it's harmful
- 31:24really like what's we what people have
- 31:26done in the past like histor
- 31:28like what we can do moving forward as
- 31:30well so one thing is like as like
- 31:32especially if you're a bcba in a center
- 31:34or in a clinic or in home and you don't
- 31:37have access to an OT you can still
- 31:39advocate for your learner to receive
- 31:42like the supports they might need to
- 31:44like help them with their sensory needs
- 31:46in that moment so I know like here we
- 31:48are lucky we have like dim lights and
- 31:50stuff like that what are some other
- 31:52things you feel like people can advocate
- 31:54for um just free access to stemy and I
- 31:58think the biggest piece there is that
- 31:59education of why it is
- 32:02important um and also just really
- 32:04touching on the mental health impacts of
- 32:07trying to Blain I think it's so
- 32:10important just that General awareness
- 32:12and really allow it just remembering
- 32:14it's a natural behavior it's a natural
- 32:16it's a natural something that need to be
- 32:18fixed yes nothing that needs to be fixed
- 32:20it's a natural expression of an
- 32:22individual's neurology and you know we
- 32:25need to celebrate and encourage stemming
- 32:27MH to be their authentic selves yeah you
- 32:30have anything to add to that yeah I
- 32:32think that it's just um there as a field
- 32:36and many different people even parents I
- 32:38hear like want to that's a hard one that
- 32:40we might talk about a little bit more
- 32:41yeah we'll go into it a little bit later
- 32:43but I think that it's because we're
- 32:45unaware and like none of us are ever
- 32:47trying to harm the children we're
- 32:48working with we're all in this field
- 32:50because we like love the population we
- 32:52work with we want to help them so
- 32:53nobody's doing this like with like in
- 32:56Bad Intentions um so bringing awareness
- 32:58to it I think is such a good point all
- 33:00right let's yes I wanted to talk and we
- 33:02talk you mentioned about it briefly um
- 33:05but as bcbas there might be times when
- 33:07we do need to Target stemming um some
- 33:10things that I think of like you said are
- 33:11like when there's harmful behaviors
- 33:13towards self or others um and then
- 33:15another thing that we'll touch on a
- 33:16little bit too um is like when it in
- 33:19interferes with learning opportunities
- 33:22so especially like in the education
- 33:23setting or like when they're um like
- 33:25maybe in school and things like that and
- 33:27then another one is like the functional
- 33:29impairment if it's like the stemming
- 33:31behaviors interfering with their daily
- 33:32living tasks yeah right um so something
- 33:36that we want to note before we get into
- 33:38is like rather than attempting to
- 33:39extinguish the stemming alog together we
- 33:41can explore alternative strategies for
- 33:43like kind of you noted like alternative
- 33:45things that they can do to engage in to
- 33:47meet that same sensory need that they
- 33:49might be attempting to get at all right
- 33:51so let's kind of start with the safety
- 33:53concerns so if the stemming Behavior
- 33:55poses a safety risk to an individual or
- 33:57others such as self-injures Behavior
- 34:00like severe headbanging some other do
- 34:02you have any other ones that are coming
- 34:04to your mind um or hurting others so
- 34:07like even like kicking um like your feet
- 34:09I know some Learners like kick or like
- 34:12bite and head biting is a big one I feel
- 34:14like I've had a lot of Learners that
- 34:16bite themselves very hard or will
- 34:18attempt to bite someone else very hard
- 34:20when they are stemming but this might be
- 34:22an instance where it's necessary to
- 34:25address stemming you have any
- 34:26suggestions on like what you would
- 34:28replace it with or strategies to use in
- 34:31those moments yeah so it really just
- 34:33depends on the stem but thinking about
- 34:36like kicking um provide like I If
- 34:39there's like therapy balls available or
- 34:41provide like a safer thing for someone
- 34:43to kick into um for biting there are
- 34:46like chewy options you can present so
- 34:49for biting could be like oral sensory
- 34:52seeking or could also be they looking
- 34:53for that's so important to collaborate
- 34:56like if you like like you don't have it
- 34:59tell like recommend like the learner
- 35:01receives OT Services get on a weight
- 35:04list and that's like what's super
- 35:06important too and even if you don't have
- 35:07OT at your clinic listening to this um
- 35:12you can do a simple Google search just
- 35:13to learn about the sensory system so we
- 35:16have eight sensory systems but when
- 35:18working if you do have an OT clinic or
- 35:20someone you collaborate with it's
- 35:21important to collaborate to learn about
- 35:23why like why you're saying different T
- 35:25systems that are impacted with with the
- 35:28Sims or like what they're trying to seek
- 35:29out at that time so it just provides a
- 35:32better understanding of like okay these
- 35:34are these are the child's sensory needs
- 35:37then we can collaborate on ways to help
- 35:38support the needs right that makes sense
- 35:41I like that yeah I agree I want to take
- 35:43a quick pause for our second code word
- 35:45today for our cus is nail
- 35:48biting is there anything else you wanted
- 35:50to touch on with that no I think we're
- 35:52good to go in with the interfering with
- 35:54learning yes so I wanted to talk a
- 35:55little bit about like the interfering
- 35:56with learning opportunities and when it
- 35:59might be um necessary to um provide
- 36:01those Alternatives that we were talking
- 36:03about um so if the stem Behavior
- 36:05significantly interferes with the
- 36:07individual's ability to engage in
- 36:08learning activities I know you and I
- 36:10worked with a shared client um who they
- 36:14engaged in they like had a tube like
- 36:16what I don't know what they're called a
- 36:18pop tube and he really loved it and he
- 36:20shook it in front of his um face
- 36:22visually and really enjoyed the like
- 36:24visual component of it um but he really
- 36:26would engage in all day and it would
- 36:28really um it regulated him and he
- 36:30enjoyed it a lot but we struggled to
- 36:33find times to do work like any time that
- 36:36we would sit to do work he wouldn't um
- 36:38be able to focus on like anything that
- 36:40we asked him or communicated to him so
- 36:42you and I worked together on like we had
- 36:45to like remove it just during that like
- 36:47learning opportunity but instead of
- 36:48completely removing it from them and
- 36:50like taking it from them almost like
- 36:52aggressively like having to like have a
- 36:53power struggle we like removed it and we
- 36:55put it on the table in front of him so
- 36:56that he knows it's still his access we
- 36:59were just um like removing it for the
- 37:01task and he still had free access to it
- 37:03at any other point during the day yes so
- 37:06that's important if they are steming on
- 37:07an object instead of completely taking
- 37:10away like you mentioned Kiren you still
- 37:12want to keep it in their visual field
- 37:14yeah and why do we do this to help
- 37:16alleviate anxiety because stemming is so
- 37:20self-regulating and self soothing that
- 37:22if that object is taken away the child
- 37:25may have no idea where they can find it
- 37:26if
- 37:28it because it's so caling for them so we
- 37:30want to be able to provide them the
- 37:32access to it so even if we're doing a
- 37:34task and they do like 30 seconds of a
- 37:36task and then I need to S on it again by
- 37:38all means please do that we need to give
- 37:40them like those small breaks breaks yes
- 37:42sensory breaks especially if we're
- 37:44having them do seated work and it's not
- 37:46necessarily something that's
- 37:47intrinsically motivating or engaging
- 37:49yeah then we're going need extra support
- 37:51to regulate ourselves so it might take
- 37:54longer to complete task which is totally
- 37:56fine because we're still supporting the
- 37:58learner's best entrance
- 37:59ands and this is something to consider
- 38:01too when like you guys are like still
- 38:03working towards um building that skill
- 38:06like if it's outside of their skill set
- 38:07to sit at a table for imagine how hard
- 38:10it is to learn a new skill like you
- 38:11might need that regulation it's so hard
- 38:15yeah so yeah really taking that into
- 38:17consideration um and it's also with like
- 38:19if it's impacting um social
- 38:21opportunities as well like if they are
- 38:23unable to really interact with peers
- 38:25because they're stemming con stantly um
- 38:28help helping them find like alternative
- 38:30ways to engage in that what do you re
- 38:32like that one's a hard one how you what
- 38:35do what you do in that situation oh that
- 38:37is a hard question I'm going to need to
- 38:39think about
- 38:40that um but I think it's also important
- 38:44just to like even if they don't want to
- 38:47if they don't want to respect that of
- 38:49course we want to promote pure
- 38:51socialization that's such an important
- 38:52part of our well-beings but that also
- 38:55increase anxiety for IND especially if
- 38:57they're monotropic thinkers and
- 38:59processors and they need to focus on one
- 39:01thing at a time M that we just need to
- 39:04respect that but also like if we are
- 39:06Stan like encourage other peers to like
- 39:09join them in their s and enter their
- 39:12world especially if you have like a peer
- 39:13that would be like is able to like you
- 39:16know I know we would say like if you're
- 39:17working on conversations or like
- 39:19greetings you want to do it with a peer
- 39:21that would reciprocate back trying to
- 39:23find a peer that would also reciprocate
- 39:25back when we're introducing those social
- 39:26opportun for them yes very important I
- 39:29feel like and I think this kind of goes
- 39:31back to what you're were saying like I
- 39:32think you were talking about a learner
- 39:34who is engaging in happy hands when very
- 39:36excited so you joined them um to like
- 39:39share that Joy yes and I think that when
- 39:41we model it especially with other
- 39:42Learners in the environment like
- 39:44expressing to the other Learners that no
- 39:47our friend is so happy this is how
- 39:48they're showing they're happy and like
- 39:51if they want to join sometimes they will
- 39:53it's a good time to do that and just to
- 39:55note on that too so sometimes like we
- 39:57may think they're happy but we don't
- 39:59actually know how they're truly thinking
- 40:01so I like to label body cues like oh
- 40:03their hands are flapping there's a smile
- 40:04on their face they may be feeling happy
- 40:08because I don't want to assume that I
- 40:09know how they're truly feeling on the
- 40:10inside that's a good point I really like
- 40:12that thank you all right and then the
- 40:13next one we're talking about kind of was
- 40:15the functional impairment so if the
- 40:17stemming behavior is causing functional
- 40:19impairment or limiting the individual's
- 40:21ability to participate in daily living
- 40:23activities pursue personal goals or
- 40:25maintain relationships was kind of where
- 40:28I was going with this do you have any
- 40:29thoughts about like what we would do in
- 40:31this situation or have you guys ever had
- 40:33the situation come up I feel like this
- 40:35comes up a lot with like our older I
- 40:37think about this a lot with like eating
- 40:39um like if they're struggling to eat or
- 40:42like they can't brush their teeth
- 40:43because they enjoy like stemming with
- 40:45the toothbrush and like helping parents
- 40:47navigate those situations of like their
- 40:48daily living skills can I just give a
- 40:50second toothbrush and then like no that
- 40:53is a that's a strategy I recommend
- 40:55before give them one to hold on to and
- 40:56stem want to engage in that task um but
- 41:00what I also find to be encouraging too
- 41:02and kind of helps at times is just to
- 41:05label what you're about to do so you're
- 41:07going to say okay we're going to you
- 41:09know have free access we're going to
- 41:10play with our toothbrush
- 41:12for however many minutes or seconds and
- 41:15then we're going to take a small break
- 41:16we're going to brush our teeth so give
- 41:18me preparation because I think a lot of
- 41:21times we underestimate our individuals
- 41:25receptive language so giving that
- 41:27prepared time simple first then first
- 41:30we're going to do this but still like
- 41:32okay I see that we're you're engaging in
- 41:34this and it looks like it's fun for you
- 41:37we're going to take a small break so
- 41:38would you give like a countdown do you
- 41:40feel like like okay three or even 10
- 41:42like if it's something like 10 8 then
- 41:44take it away yeah um a countdown or
- 41:47sometimes I use like a timer on my phone
- 41:49and then like sometimes like that timer
- 41:51the sound like um divides their
- 41:53attention like oh something's happening
- 41:55like our timer went off now I know can
- 41:58complete this task and I know I would
- 41:59give this toothbrush right back to them
- 42:01yeah it becomes Bast and I feel like
- 42:03something after talking about it is like
- 42:05maybe trying to have them put their own
- 42:08like instead of blocking like okay like
- 42:10can you like show me like hands to your
- 42:12side really quick and then we'll go do
- 42:14or whatever rather than like removing
- 42:16the from them like set it let's set it
- 42:18down yeah I would definitely say like
- 42:19let's set it down like I want to resp
- 42:21their aony I don't want to take things
- 42:23away from and I feel like people even
- 42:25like P like as a mom like let me just do
- 42:26it for you right like you know like
- 42:29respecting like okay like even if it
- 42:31takes a little bit longer let our
- 42:33learner do it yeah and that's important
- 42:35too with everything that we're talking
- 42:37about too our Learners need increased
- 42:39processing time and time to complete
- 42:42tasks so that's like another part of
- 42:43like holding space or just preparing
- 42:45ourselves that we might not do things
- 42:47quickly we just need to regulate and
- 42:49give them that time to process yeah MH I
- 42:52think so too like going with that like
- 42:55with the um increased time
- 42:58um a lot of families like really really
- 43:00struggle with some of the stemming and
- 43:03they ask us like a lot of times like
- 43:04that's one of the main goals is like oh
- 43:05can you eliminate this um and it's
- 43:08because a lot of times they might not
- 43:09like have the time to navigate it or
- 43:11there's just barriers so when we are um
- 43:14like working with parents how would you
- 43:17go about that like if you were if I were
- 43:19to ask you to join a parent meeting with
- 43:20me um to help address like their learner
- 43:23engages in a lot of stemming and they
- 43:25really want to like eliminate it
- 43:27how would you start that conversation
- 43:29with the
- 43:30family yes so I think it' be very
- 43:33similar to this podcast today just um
- 43:36explaining the underlying reasons for
- 43:38stemming and that we need it to support
- 43:40our engagement in daily life we need it
- 43:42for
- 43:43regulation and just talk about how
- 43:46harmful it can be to block that simming
- 43:49and I know that may not be they really
- 43:51receptive may not be what parents want
- 43:52to hear but it's so important to provide
- 43:54that education and if we need to provide
- 43:57research like to support that to help
- 43:59them understand this is how your child
- 44:02perceives life how they go through their
- 44:03daily life there's nothing wrong with it
- 44:05we need to embrace it and enjoy it with
- 44:07them and I think that's one of the other
- 44:09things like as like people in this field
- 44:12like we should be like talking to
- 44:15parents and not like I feel like before
- 44:17a lot of parents I have had this sorry
- 44:20rep I had a lot of I've had a lot of
- 44:22parents come to me and they say like
- 44:23they think like therapy's going to like
- 44:26fix yes all of like these autistic
- 44:28traits but telling like this is not what
- 44:30therapy is for it's really to help them
- 44:33Reach different Milestones learn new
- 44:35skills we're not here to change the
- 44:37individuals like autistic traits and
- 44:40like being firm in that being very firm
- 44:43you know recognizing the individuals
- 44:45perfect the way that they are we're not
- 44:47trying to change them there's nothing to
- 44:49change it's more how can we support them
- 44:52to engage in their daily life while
- 44:54meeting their sensory needs and
- 44:55preferences I feel like once you have
- 44:57that like behind you and you're ready to
- 45:00like you can face it a lot easier yeah
- 45:02you know yeah yeah like the
- 45:04understanding and the other thing too
- 45:06like that you mentioned was just like
- 45:09really emphasizing excuse me the
- 45:12importance of like their emotional
- 45:14well-being through their stem and like I
- 45:16know parents they just want the best for
- 45:18their child they want them to be happy
- 45:20like with my daughter I'm like oh my God
- 45:21I'll do anything to make her happy and
- 45:24so just really emphasizing the
- 45:26importance like that the stem has on
- 45:28their mental health even reminding them
- 45:30like okay if we maybe like we like we
- 45:32stop it every time they're just going to
- 45:33replace it something we may not want or
- 45:36something that's self- inous as well and
- 45:39reminding them like if we take this away
- 45:41like this is what's going to might
- 45:43happen something we can do as well right
- 45:46I think so too and then also like if
- 45:48you're just a BCB like you're a bcba
- 45:51like trying to get an OT in because
- 45:53they're able to explain that a lot
- 45:55better they can share what like each
- 45:57stem what the purpose of each stem is on
- 46:00a deeper level and if you don't you can
- 46:03even share like the functions like well
- 46:05we see like once this happens like like
- 46:09behaviors go down or something like that
- 46:11yeah and even like I think you mentioned
- 46:13it before thinking about these stems um
- 46:15from a data perspective like looking at
- 46:18the data when you're blocking the stems
- 46:19versus when you're not like there are
- 46:21ways to address it behaviorally that
- 46:23don't include blocking or eliminating
- 46:25the stem um we are so lucky we have the
- 46:28opportunity to work alongside OTS and
- 46:30like I talk to OTS multiple times a day
- 46:33some bcbas don't have that opportunity
- 46:35so a strategy that Amy mentioned earlier
- 46:37was to um just like Google what did you
- 46:40suggest Googling I forgot um sensor
- 46:42integration sensory processing sensory
- 46:45systems and you know there are like
- 46:47simple ceu courses for all professionals
- 46:50just to learn more about sensory but um
- 46:52like this one a re a website I really
- 46:55recommend it's the star instit for
- 46:57sensory processing there's so much
- 47:00knowledge on there so many different
- 47:02resources and it's very digestible so
- 47:04heing sensory terminology can be
- 47:06overwhelming but they really break it
- 47:08down
- 47:11into term L terms yes thank you I feel
- 47:14like that's important too when like
- 47:15talking to parents or talking to
- 47:17caregivers is like explaining it on that
- 47:20kind of level like yeah the easy way
- 47:22easy to digest way yeah and I wanted to
- 47:25touch on like when like yes we can
- 47:27Google and like learn a lot about the um
- 47:30OT needs but be cautious don't Implement
- 47:34strategies without consultation of an OT
- 47:37does you can gain more knowledge on like
- 47:38the sensory needs that your child may be
- 47:41having but before implementing anything
- 47:43always consult with an OT because
- 47:45because we don't have the answer to
- 47:46everything yeah we have the best
- 47:47interest at heart but we we might not be
- 47:48doing it correctly right right are there
- 47:51any other points you wanted to make with
- 47:54collaboration I think we touched on them
- 47:56all
- 47:57just being very open and receptive to
- 47:59learning about other
- 48:00people's disciplines what our knowledge
- 48:03based and what we're trained in and just
- 48:05really working together to make the
- 48:07experience as beneficial for the child
- 48:09as we can yeah and of course that also
- 48:12includes parents as well so just having
- 48:14those open conversations and the
- 48:16education piece yeah all right so one
- 48:19other question I had I know we're
- 48:21talking about like a little bit of like
- 48:22the collaboration do you feel like
- 48:24you've ever had a bad experience like
- 48:27collaborating with a bcba that's like
- 48:29say maybe like doesn't want to implement
- 48:32like any of the strategies youest a
- 48:34resistance to it so I wouldn't say I had
- 48:37a bad experience but I would say I was
- 48:39met with initial hesitation of why would
- 48:42we freely allow the kid to STM all day
- 48:45so that's when I had to like pull out my
- 48:47resources and research and just educate
- 48:50on the importance of swimming and then
- 48:53the bcba was actively willing to try it
- 48:55out like hey like we're trying to help
- 48:57this kid in any way we can let's try
- 48:58anything and see if it helps and then we
- 49:01did see some success and it's just the
- 49:02client that you were talking about
- 49:03earlier um he wanted to like run back
- 49:05and forth MH and I feel like that that
- 49:08like that situation actually the time we
- 49:10took the data it lasted like one or two
- 49:12weeks it wasn't like something we agreed
- 49:14upon like within a day or two days even
- 49:17took a little while right yes and then I
- 49:20think once the client was understanding
- 49:23oh like I'm allowed to keep doing this
- 49:25no one's going to stop me then we see
- 49:27like the decrease and the other
- 49:28behaviors may not necessarily want to
- 49:30see that increase in yeah so it does
- 49:32take a while for the child to like adapt
- 49:34to it as well just being able to do what
- 49:36they need to yeah I think something with
- 49:38collaboration like when I first I think
- 49:40I've noted before um I wasn't always a
- 49:42bcba here and I came from a clinic where
- 49:44I um was never really taught to
- 49:46collaborate so when I initially came um
- 49:48to Blossom something that really
- 49:49benefited me when working with other
- 49:51disciplines was I would ask to join OT
- 49:54sessions I'm like okay I hear what
- 49:55you're saying but I can't understand how
- 49:57to implement it when working on the stem
- 49:59or especially even just imitating the
- 50:01stem I'm like wait how are you doing
- 50:02that what does it look like in your
- 50:03sessions so I would just join um and
- 50:06just really observe and kind of figure
- 50:07out what you guys were doing and try and
- 50:09replicate it in our sessions to see if
- 50:10it would work with my technicians as
- 50:12well another this was like another shirt
- 50:14CLI I had with Amy but we talked about
- 50:16his stem was like moving like dropping
- 50:19things in front of his eye and we talked
- 50:21about like other play sequences we could
- 50:23do that in so we could find a way to
- 50:25like pair with them like see those
- 50:27engaged Smiles cuz it was really hard to
- 50:30motivate him to do a lot of tasks so
- 50:33once we kind of like even figured that
- 50:35out we came up with so many play
- 50:36strategies for him and then we were able
- 50:38to see like that engagement with him as
- 50:40well I think that's a good point to note
- 50:42it's like incorporating the stem into
- 50:43play especially visual stems and things
- 50:46like that like there are ways to
- 50:48replicate it to help them enjoy other
- 50:50activities you compare it as we talk
- 50:51about in ABA like the visual tactile the
- 50:55PO receptive those are all so easily
- 50:58able to be incorporated into play and
- 51:00like you mentioned once the client sees
- 51:02that we're joining them it's like wow
- 51:04they understand me get they want to
- 51:06engage with me and then we see so much
- 51:08more increased joyful engagement and
- 51:11just that General understanding of like
- 51:12their resp me for who I am and who I
- 51:14need to be and also sometimes the visual
- 51:16sys once I see it I'm like this is like
- 51:18I can see what they see
- 51:21like say like it's like a ball like
- 51:23moving down like up and down their face
- 51:24but if you do it you see like it's weird
- 51:28to say but once you see it from their
- 51:30perspective it really does open up a lot
- 51:33cuz you're like well we can do this in
- 51:34so many ways like let's get like balls
- 51:36and out in front of us or like the sand
- 51:38in front of our faces the same exact
- 51:40thing yeah I had a professor and when we
- 51:42were like discussing stems and in school
- 51:44they were like just replicate the stem
- 51:46that your learner is engaging in just so
- 51:48you can kind of see and get a sense of
- 51:49what they're understanding from it and
- 51:51feeling with it so like I remember when
- 51:54I was a student my one one of my
- 51:55Learners they did like side eye so they
- 51:57would the corner but then they would
- 51:59look at a toy through it and I'm like oh
- 52:01wow that is kind of cool like look it's
- 52:02like there's double now it's just like
- 52:05really see what they're enjoying from it
- 52:07and help them enjoy it more well thank
- 52:09you so much for like your Insight on
- 52:11collaboration it's a big component that
- 52:13like user and I like to harp on it's our
- 52:15number one topic I feel like um quick
- 52:18break for our third code word is tapping
- 52:22all right and then on that note like
- 52:24that's all the info we had for today
- 52:26we'd love to have Amy on again she
- 52:28mentioned a few things that she'd love
- 52:30to talk about a little bit more but
- 52:31until next time we'll talk to you later
- 52:34see you
- 52:36bye all right guys thank you so much for
- 52:38listening please don't forget to like
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- 52:42credits go to our website at Blossom
- 52:43children.com talk to you later see you
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