English Podcast For Learning English | Social Media And Mental Health | English Leap Podcast — Transcript
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- 0:00Englishly podcast
- 0:02from Speak English with Class.
- 0:05Hello everyone and welcome back to the
- 0:07Englishly podcast. I'm Jennifer here
- 0:10with my fantastic co-host, Daniel.
- 0:13Hey there, listeners.
- 0:14Today's episode is a big one. We're
- 0:16tackling a topic that's a part of all
- 0:18our lives, social media.
- 0:21And the title of today's episode says it
- 0:22all, how social media destroys your
- 0:25life.
- 0:26We'll be looking at why social media is
- 0:27so addictive and how it might be
- 0:29affecting us in ways we don't even
- 0:31realize.
- 0:31Mhm.
- 0:33That's right.
- 0:34We're talking about everything from why
- 0:36we can't stop scrolling to how social
- 0:38media can impact our self-esteem and
- 0:40mental health.
- 0:42So, if you've ever found yourself
- 0:43wondering why you're glued to your
- 0:45phone, or why you feel down after
- 0:47scrolling through Instagram, this
- 0:49episode is for you.
- 0:51Jennifer, let's get real for a second.
- 0:53Have you ever been on your phone
- 0:54planning to check one little thing and
- 0:56suddenly it's been like an hour and
- 0:59you're deep in some random video about,
- 1:01I don't know, how to make pottery?
- 1:03Oh, absolutely.
- 1:05It's like I go in to check one thing and
- 1:08before I know it, I'm watching baby
- 1:10goats jumping around.
- 1:12It's like,
- 1:13where did the time go?
- 1:15Social media has this magical ability to
- 1:16make us lose track of time.
- 1:19Exactly.
- 1:21I can't tell you how many times I've
- 1:22said, "I'll just be a minute."
- 1:24only to end up watching videos of,
- 1:26get this, people organizing their
- 1:28closets.
- 1:30Which by the way, my closet looks
- 1:31nothing like those.
- 1:33But I keep watching anyway, it's
- 1:34addictive.
- 1:35Uh-huh. It is. And here's the crazy
- 1:38part. Science actually explains why this
- 1:41happens.
- 1:43Social media apps are designed to keep
- 1:44us coming back for more.
- 1:46It's all about those little hits of
- 1:48dopamine we get every time we see
- 1:49something we like or get a new
- 1:51notification.
- 1:52Mhm. And dopamine, for anyone who
- 1:54doesn't know, is that feel-good chemical
- 1:57in our brains.
- 1:59It's what makes us feel happy or
- 2:00excited. And it's the same chemical
- 2:02that's released when we eat chocolate,
- 2:04win a game, or laugh at a great joke.
- 2:07So, every time we get a notification,
- 2:09our brain says, "Ooh, that feels nice.
- 2:12Let's do it again."
- 2:13Exactly.
- 2:15And the more we get that feeling, the
- 2:17more we want it.
- 2:18It's a bit like a video game. Each like
- 2:21or comment is a tiny reward that keeps
- 2:24us playing.
- 2:25And before we know it, we're hooked.
- 2:28Which is wild, right?
- 2:30Because we're not playing a game or
- 2:31eating chocolate. We're just scrolling.
- 2:35But our brains can't tell the
- 2:36difference.
- 2:37They just know they want that next hit
- 2:39of dopamine.
- 2:40Yes.
- 2:41And that's what makes it so hard to put
- 2:43our phones down. We get trapped in a
- 2:46cycle of constantly checking for those
- 2:48little rewards, even when we know we
- 2:50should probably stop.
- 2:51Mhm.
- 2:52Oh, and just before we go deeper into
- 2:54the topic, we have a free PDF for this
- 2:57episode.
- 2:58It's full of key points, useful phrases,
- 3:00and vocabulary.
- 3:02So, if you'd like to follow along or
- 3:04review later, check the description for
- 3:06the download link.
- 3:08Yes, it's perfect for anyone who wants
- 3:10to take notes or needs a reminder of
- 3:12what we discussed today.
- 3:13All right, let's get into it. There's a
- 3:15lot to cover.
- 3:17So, let's start with why social media is
- 3:19so addictive.
- 3:21We touched on dopamine, but there's more
- 3:23to it.
- 3:24It's also about instant gratification.
- 3:27That feeling of getting something
- 3:28quickly without much effort.
- 3:30Think about it.
- 3:32You post a photo, and within seconds you
- 3:34might have likes or comments.
- 3:37Right.
- 3:38And let's be honest, that instant
- 3:40feedback feels good.
- 3:42You don't have to wait or work hard to
- 3:43feel appreciated. It's like, post a
- 3:46photo, get a like, feel happy.
- 3:48Simple, right?
- 3:50But it's also kind of dangerous.
- 3:52Exactly, because it teaches our brains
- 3:54to crave those quick rewards.
- 3:57It's a bit like eating junk food. It
- 3:59tastes good in the moment, but it's not
- 4:01exactly good for us.
- 4:03And over time, we start to rely on
- 4:05social media for that instant happiness.
- 4:08And the scary part? It makes other
- 4:10things in life feel slow or boring.
- 4:13Like waiting in line or reading a book
- 4:15doesn't give us that quick dopamine hit.
- 4:17So, our brains are like, "This isn't as
- 4:19fun."
- 4:20Yes, it can actually change how we see
- 4:22other activities.
- 4:24We start feeling like if it's not fast
- 4:26or instantly rewarding, it's not worth
- 4:28it.
- 4:29And that can really mess with our
- 4:30patience and focus.
- 4:31Mhm. And speaking of focus, social media
- 4:34can seriously mess with our attention
- 4:36span.
- 4:37Have you ever noticed how short videos
- 4:39keep getting shorter?
- 4:41First, we had YouTube with long videos,
- 4:43then came Instagram with shorter ones,
- 4:45and now TikTok has quick 10-second
- 4:47videos that loop.
- 4:49Yes. And our brains start to get used to
- 4:52that fast pace.
- 4:53We go from one video to the next, and
- 4:56suddenly, sitting through a 30-minute
- 4:58documentary feels like running a
- 5:00marathon.
- 5:01So true.
- 5:03I've tried to read a book sometimes, and
- 5:05my brain's just like, "Come on, where's
- 5:07the action? Where's the excitement?"
- 5:10It's like we're training ourselves to
- 5:11want constant entertainment.
- 5:13Uh-huh. And that's not good for things
- 5:15like studying, working, or even just
- 5:17enjoying quiet moments.
- 5:20Our attention spans get shorter, and our
- 5:22ability to focus on one thing for a long
- 5:25time decreases.
- 5:27It's like social media has rewired our
- 5:29brains to be impatient.
- 5:31Exactly.
- 5:32And when we can't focus, it affects our
- 5:34productivity, our learning, and even our
- 5:37relationships.
- 5:39Suddenly, real conversations seem slow
- 5:41or boring, because we're used to that
- 5:43quick pace.
- 5:44Now, let's talk about the comparison
- 5:46trap.
- 5:47Social media is full of perfect
- 5:48pictures, vacations, fancy food, happy
- 5:51families, and even though we know it's
- 5:54not the full story, it's hard not to
- 5:56compare.
- 5:57Yes.
- 5:58It's like you see someone's beach photo
- 6:00and suddenly your own life feels kind of
- 6:02dull.
- 6:03You start thinking, "Why am I not doing
- 6:05that? Why don't I have that?"
- 6:07And it's even worse because people
- 6:08usually only post the best parts of
- 6:10their lives.
- 6:12We don't see the struggles, the boring
- 6:14days, or the challenges.
- 6:16So, we end up comparing our whole lives
- 6:18to someone's highlight reel.
- 6:20It's like seeing a movie trailer, all
- 6:22the exciting parts, but none of the
- 6:23behind-the-scenes work.
- 6:25And when we compare ourselves, it's easy
- 6:27to feel like we're falling behind.
- 6:29Exactly.
- 6:31And that can lead to feelings of
- 6:33jealousy, sadness, and even depression.
- 6:36We start to think everyone else has it
- 6:38better, but really, we're all just
- 6:40seeing the surface.
- 6:41And then there's the effect on our
- 6:43relationships.
- 6:44Have you ever noticed people sitting
- 6:45together, but everyone's on their phone?
- 6:48It's like we're together, but not
- 6:49actually together.
- 6:51Yes.
- 6:52It's kind of funny, but also kind of
- 6:54sad.
- 6:55We're so busy checking in on people who
- 6:57aren't there that we miss the people who
- 6:59are.
- 7:00And it's true. Studies show that being
- 7:02on our phones all the time can actually
- 7:04make us feel more isolated.
- 7:07We're connected to hundreds of people
- 7:08online, but it can make us forget to
- 7:10build strong, real-life connections.
- 7:13Uh-huh. Right. And over time, this can
- 7:17lead to feelings of loneliness, even
- 7:19when we're surrounded by people.
- 7:21It's like social media tricks us into
- 7:23thinking we're connected, but it's not
- 7:25the same as real, face-to-face
- 7:28interaction.
- 7:29Mhm.
- 7:30And finally, let's talk about the impact
- 7:32on mental health.
- 7:33Spending hours on social media has been
- 7:35linked to anxiety, depression, and low
- 7:38self-esteem.
- 7:39It's especially tough when we're
- 7:41constantly comparing ourselves to
- 7:42others.
- 7:43Yes, when we look to social media for
- 7:46validation, it can really mess with our
- 7:48self-worth.
- 7:49We start to think that if we don't get
- 7:51enough likes or comments, we're not good
- 7:53enough.
- 7:54It's like our value is based on numbers
- 7:56instead of who we are.
- 7:58And it's easy to fall into that mindset,
- 8:00right?
- 8:01One day you get a lot of likes and you
- 8:03feel great.
- 8:04The next day, not as much and suddenly
- 8:06you're questioning yourself.
- 8:08Exactly.
- 8:09And over time, this can lead to bigger
- 8:11issues like anxiety or depression
- 8:14because we're relying on something
- 8:15external to feel good about ourselves.
- 8:18It's a dangerous cycle.
- 8:19Well, that was quite a deep dive into
- 8:21the effects of social media. It really
- 8:23gives us a lot to think about.
- 8:25Absolutely.
- 8:27And for those of you listening who want
- 8:28to get a better grasp on the vocabulary
- 8:30we discussed, we've got you covered.
- 8:33Yes, it's time for our vocabulary
- 8:34breakdown with Charlotte.
- 8:36She'll go over some of the key words and
- 8:38phrases from today's episode to help you
- 8:40understand them better and put them into
- 8:41practice.
- 8:43Take it away, Charlotte.
- 8:45Hello listeners. It's Charlotte here
- 8:47with some important vocabulary and
- 8:48phrases from today's episode. Let's dive
- 8:51in and explore these words to help you
- 8:53understand and use them better.
- 8:57Addiction.
- 8:59Meaning, a strong, often harmful need to
- 9:02keep doing something repeatedly.
- 9:05Example, video games can sometimes lead
- 9:08to addiction, making it hard for people
- 9:10to stop playing.
- 9:13Instant gratification. Meaning, the
- 9:16desire to experience pleasure or
- 9:18satisfaction immediately, without delay.
- 9:22Example, shopping online can offer
- 9:25instant gratification as you can buy
- 9:27things with just one click.
- 9:31Dopamine. Meaning, a chemical in the
- 9:34brain that makes us feel happy or
- 9:36excited. Often released when we
- 9:38experience something enjoyable.
- 9:41Example, eating chocolate releases
- 9:44dopamine in the brain, making us feel
- 9:46pleasure.
- 9:48Attention span, meaning the amount of
- 9:51time someone can focus on one thing
- 9:54without becoming distracted.
- 9:56Example, reading a book requires a
- 9:59longer attention span than watching
- 10:01short videos.
- 10:04Comparison trap, meaning the habit of
- 10:07comparing oneself to others,
- 10:09often leading to feelings of jealousy or
- 10:12inadequacy.
- 10:14Example, falling into the comparison
- 10:16trap can make people feel like they're
- 10:18not achieving enough.
- 10:21Self-worth, meaning the sense of one's
- 10:25own value or worth as a person.
- 10:28Example, it's important to build
- 10:30self-worth from within rather than
- 10:33relying on others' opinions.
- 10:36Validation,
- 10:38meaning the need for approval or
- 10:40recognition from others to feel good
- 10:42about oneself.
- 10:44Example, many people seek validation
- 10:47through compliments, but true confidence
- 10:50comes from within.
- 10:52Face-to-face interaction, meaning direct
- 10:56in-person communication between people.
- 10:59Example, face-to-face interaction helps
- 11:02people connect on a deeper level than
- 11:05texting.
- 11:07Isolation, meaning the state of feeling
- 11:10alone or separated from others.
- 11:13Example, working from home can sometimes
- 11:17lead to feelings of isolation.
- 11:20Mindful, meaning being aware and
- 11:24thoughtful about one's actions and
- 11:26feelings.
- 11:27Example, being mindful of our words can
- 11:30help us communicate more kindly and
- 11:33effectively.
- 11:35That's it for today's vocabulary. Try
- 11:37using these words in sentences this week
- 11:39to make them more familiar. Remember,
- 11:42being mindful of how social media
- 11:44affects us can help us make better
- 11:46choices. Good luck and keep practicing.
- 11:49Thank you so much, Charlotte. These
- 11:51vocabulary tips are always so helpful.
- 11:54Yes, thank you, Charlotte. It makes
- 11:56understanding these topics a whole lot
- 11:57easier.
- 11:58Wow, that was a lot to unpack. I hope
- 12:01this episode gives everyone something to
- 12:03think about.
- 12:04Social media can be a powerful tool, but
- 12:06it's important to be mindful of how it
- 12:08affects us.
- 12:09Yes, it's all about balance. Social
- 12:11media isn't all bad, but knowing how it
- 12:14affects us can help us make healthier
- 12:15choices.
- 12:17We hope this episode was helpful and
- 12:18gave you some insights.
- 12:20Thank you, everyone, for joining us
- 12:21today. Don't forget to download the PDF
- 12:24with all the key points and vocabulary
- 12:26from today's episode. You'll find the
- 12:28link in the description.
- 12:30And remember, a little break from social
- 12:31media might be just what you need. Take
- 12:34care and thank you for listening.
- 12:37Goodbye for now and remember, don't let
- 12:39social media control you. Be in control.
- 12:45Your progress doesn't end here.
- 12:47To continue advancing your English
- 12:48skills, click on the next video or
- 12:50explore the additional videos we've
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