Dr Joe Dispenza: You MUST Do This Before 10am! — Transcript
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- 0:00Our research shows that your thoughts
- 0:01can make you sick. The question is if
- 0:03your thoughts can make you sick, can
- 0:04your thoughts make you well? That's
- 0:06absolutely possible and it's easy to
- 0:07learn. So, when you wake up in the
- 0:09morning Dr. Joe Dispenza Researcher and
- 0:13best-selling author One of the most
- 0:14sought-after speakers in the world
- 0:16All with the aim of helping people
- 0:17better understand and unlock the power
- 0:19of their mind.
- 0:21I'm concerned about human species. Why?
- 0:2375 to 90% of every person that goes to a
- 0:26healthcare facility goes because of
- 0:28psychological or emotional stress and it
- 0:30gets addictive to people. They need the
- 0:32bad relationship, the bad job in order
- 0:34to feel and there's so much research to
- 0:35show that when they analyze their life
- 0:37within some disturbing emotion, we saw
- 0:39that they were actually making the brain
- 0:41worse. But 50% of that story isn't even
- 0:43the truth. People are reliving a
- 0:45miserable life they never even had just
- 0:48to excuse themselves from changing. You
- 0:50can't wait for your wealth to feel
- 0:52success. You can't wait for your new
- 0:53relationship to feel love. But 95% of
- 0:56who we are by the age of 35 is
- 0:59programmed. Yeah, but there is a way to
- 1:01change. And so the model of change is
- 1:03breaking the habit of the old self and
- 1:05reinventing a new self. And if you teach
- 1:07people how to do that, in 7 days you can
- 1:09see very significant changes. So, try
- 1:11this out as an experiment. First thing
- 1:13you have to do is
- 1:15Dr. Joe, you're someone that's
- 1:16constantly doing research and developing
- 1:18new ideas about where humans are and the
- 1:20way the universe is. What are the
- 1:21beliefs in your head that you're too
- 1:22scared to share? Oh boy, I have I have a
- 1:25very strong belief that
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- 1:59to Joe.
- 2:0395% of who we are by the age of 35 is
- 2:06programmed.
- 2:08When I read that in your work, kind of
- 2:10hit me like a
- 2:11ton of bricks because I just turned 30.
- 2:15And if what you're saying there is true,
- 2:18without realizing it, there's a puppet
- 2:19master that sits above me that's calling
- 2:22the shots in a way that I don't think
- 2:23I've realized.
- 2:25Is that true?
- 2:27I think if we define a habit is a
- 2:30redundant set of automatic unconscious
- 2:33thoughts, behaviors, and emotions that's
- 2:36acquired through repetition. A habit is
- 2:39when you've done something so many times
- 2:41that your body now knows how to do it
- 2:43better than your conscious mind.
- 2:45Then it's programmed subconsciously.
- 2:48So, then when the body knows how to do
- 2:49it better than the conscious mind, then
- 2:52for the most part, the greatest habit we
- 2:53have to break is the habit of being
- 2:55ourselves, right? So, there's a
- 2:57principle in neuroscience that says that
- 2:59nerve cells that fire together wire
- 3:01together.
- 3:02If you keep thinking the same way, uh
- 3:05if you keep making the same choices, if
- 3:07you keep doing the same things, if you
- 3:09keep reproducing the same experiences
- 3:11and feeling the same emotions,
- 3:14your biology begins to become hardwired
- 3:17in a sense. It
- 3:19it becomes programmed.
- 3:21So, in order to change uh something, to
- 3:24arrive at a new vision of your future,
- 3:26if you were wanted to arrive at a new
- 3:28goal or new vision of your future,
- 3:31you'd have to change something about
- 3:32yourself in order to get there.
- 3:35And you'd have to change the way you
- 3:36think, the way you act, and the way you
- 3:38feel.
- 3:39When you begin to become conscious
- 3:42of those unconscious thoughts, so
- 3:44conscious that you don't let them slip
- 3:46by your awareness unnoticed or unchecked
- 3:48by you.
- 3:49If you catch yourself speaking in a
- 3:51limited way or
- 3:53um you're you become conscious that
- 3:56you're behaving in a certain way, in a
- 3:57habit,
- 3:59and if you can notice or pay attention
- 4:01to how you're feeling, then you're no
- 4:03longer the program. Now your
- 4:04consciousness observing the program.
- 4:06You're only unconscious when you're in
- 4:08the program and so to change then
- 4:11is to become so conscious that you don't
- 4:13don't go unconscious again. And in a
- 4:15sense, that is consciousness that is
- 4:18really the puppet master that really
- 4:20decides who we want to be.
- 4:23I think the biggest problem
- 4:25uh is that people lose their free will
- 4:28uh to a set of programs. And so their
- 4:30body is basically um programmed into a
- 4:33predictable future based on what they've
- 4:35done in the past. So, to change then, to
- 4:37change that habituation takes an
- 4:40enormous amount of energy
- 4:42and an enormous amount of awareness.
- 4:45Why is this
- 4:47operating system, this program,
- 4:49useful? Cuz I look at everything that I
- 4:51the way that I do and from doing this
- 4:53podcast and speaking to experts, I've
- 4:54stopped thinking that my body is against
- 4:56me. And I've stopped realize I've
- 4:58started to realize that there's a reason
- 4:59for these things. There's a reason for
- 5:01the habits and patterns and
- 5:04So, why is this useful? Because it seems
- 5:05to be working against me in so many
- 5:07ways.
- 5:08Well, um first of all,
- 5:10um
- 5:11when we
- 5:13when we look closely at uh certain
- 5:15habits, whether you um
- 5:18can ride a bicycle,
- 5:20whether you can speak a language,
- 5:22whether you can snowboard, when you
- 5:24first learn any of those things, it
- 5:26takes an enormous amount of conscious
- 5:29awareness to get your body to do what
- 5:31your mind is intending.
- 5:33But if you keep doing it over and over
- 5:35again, then the body begins to economize
- 5:38it in some way. And so, we have a lot of
- 5:41things that we can do automatically
- 5:43or unconsciously or subconsciously that
- 5:46allows us to multitask, to drive your
- 5:48car, to talk on the phone, to do several
- 5:51different things at the same time. So, a
- 5:53habit isn't a bad thing. They can work
- 5:56for you or they can work against you.
- 5:58The problem is is if you're
- 6:00as an example, complaining
- 6:02and blaming and making excuses and
- 6:04feeling sorry for yourself and judging
- 6:06other people and you practice that and
- 6:09you get really good at whatever you
- 6:10practice.
- 6:11You practice that enough times that
- 6:13you're unconscious to the fact that
- 6:15you're doing it.
- 6:16Um
- 6:18the moment you become conscious that you
- 6:19want to change that, uh you're going to
- 6:21be uncomfortable.
- 6:23Uh it's going to feel unfamiliar. It's
- 6:26going to feel some degree of
- 6:27uncertainty.
- 6:29You're leaving kind of familiar known
- 6:30territory and you're stepping into the
- 6:32unknown. And so, uh many people when
- 6:35they want to change a habit, um
- 6:38they have to be willing to be
- 6:39uncomfortable to do it. But habits can
- 6:41work for us. There's a lot of great
- 6:43habits that you and I both have that I
- 6:45would never want to change
- 6:47uh or would want to evolve in some way.
- 6:49But then there's a lot of habits that
- 6:51don't serve us and and so, a person
- 6:53really wants to set a vision of the
- 6:55future, whatever that is, and they just
- 6:58have to agree that in order to arrive at
- 6:59that vision, they have to change in
- 7:01order to get there.
- 7:02Someone said to me that there's a
- 7:03certain type of behavior pattern that we
- 7:06can't change. They said when we get
- 7:08trauma under the age of 10, things that
- 7:10happen at a very early age, some of
- 7:12those things cannot be changed. And then
- 7:14there's things that happen later in life
- 7:15that can be rewired and changed.
- 7:19Is that true? Are there some traumas,
- 7:22behavior patterns that just appear to be
- 7:23too stubborn and too resistant to
- 7:25change?
- 7:27If you ask me that question just a few
- 7:29years ago, I probably would have a
- 7:31different answer than I do today because
- 7:34if you look at a lot of the work uh
- 7:38that we're studying in terms of human
- 7:40change and human transformation,
- 7:42um
- 7:43we've seen people with really difficult
- 7:45pasts, really brutal pasts that
- 7:48were abused and traumatized at a very
- 7:50early age um and then
- 7:53repeated traumas that took place in
- 7:55people's lives
- 7:57and they had night terrors and uh
- 8:01they couldn't be in relationships. They
- 8:03had social anxiety. Uh they had a lot of
- 8:06health conditions.
- 8:07We've seen them completely change. Uh
- 8:10completely changed to be happy people
- 8:12again, to
- 8:13to free themselves from the past. And
- 8:16so,
- 8:18I would never put a limitation
- 8:21on change because I just don't think uh
- 8:24you can really predict that. I think
- 8:26many people that are learning how to
- 8:28change, uh they understand what they're
- 8:30doing and why they're doing it.
- 8:33And the how gets easier. I think
- 8:35for the most part, people can change all
- 8:37kinds of things. And when they do
- 8:38change,
- 8:39uh our research shows that their brain
- 8:41changes, their heart rate changes, their
- 8:44gene expression changes, there's
- 8:46thousands of metabolites that are being
- 8:48released into their
- 8:50bloodstream that weren't there prior. Uh
- 8:53there's a host of different changes that
- 8:55take place biologically that kind of
- 8:56support the person's transformation.
- 9:00Is there a specific transformation
- 9:03that sticks in your mind
- 9:06as being the most as the clearest
- 9:08evidence that you should never write off
- 9:11um someone's ability to transform?
- 9:14Wow. Um
- 9:17I'm so pleased to tell you that uh my
- 9:20beliefs have been challenged
- 9:23uh just in the last 2 years in
- 9:25witnessing
- 9:27so many different changes in people's
- 9:29health that I I never knew was even
- 9:31possible.
- 9:33Uh
- 9:34you know, everything from
- 9:36stage four cancers that were
- 9:39in a very progressed state that
- 9:41metastasized to
- 9:43organs and tissues and bones in the
- 9:44body, a complete reversal
- 9:47in uh that
- 9:49in that health condition. Not once, not
- 9:50twice, not three times.
- 9:52Uh we've seen it many times.
- 9:55Uh we've seen people that were blind, uh
- 9:57that have been deaf, that
- 10:00that have ALS, that have lupus, that
- 10:04have MS, that have Parkinson's disease,
- 10:07that have spinal cord injuries, that
- 10:09have strokes,
- 10:11PTSD,
- 10:13myasthenia gravis, cystic fibrosis,
- 10:15muscular dystrophy.
- 10:17Uh, we had a woman that had her thyroid
- 10:20removed, surgically removed, and I know
- 10:24this is difficult even for me to accept.
- 10:27Uh, and grew a new thyroid back. You
- 10:29know, we have the medical evidence for
- 10:31that. So, I don't know any longer what
- 10:34the limit is. I think there's something
- 10:37really cool happening in the world when
- 10:40uh, people believe in themselves.
- 10:42And when you believe in yourself, you
- 10:43have to believe in possibility.
- 10:46When you believe in possibility, you
- 10:47have to believe in yourself. So,
- 10:49uh, when somebody
- 10:52uh, has the opportunity, and I think a
- 10:54story
- 10:55is
- 10:57uh, and there's no there's everybody
- 10:58loves a story. There's nothing better
- 11:00than a story, and
- 11:01when someone stands on a stage in front
- 11:03of 2,000 people
- 11:05and talks about their
- 11:08um, journey to heal themselves from a
- 11:11chronic health condition,
- 11:13and they it's not
- 11:16um, always pretty. They lose things.
- 11:20They lose family. They sometimes lose
- 11:23their careers. They get sick before they
- 11:24get better. And And you see this
- 11:27person's persistence, and you see that
- 11:29they were not doing the work, uh, their
- 11:32inward work to heal. They were doing the
- 11:34work to change.
- 11:36And if they understood, if they truly
- 11:37changed that their biology should
- 11:39change, and they were
- 11:41um, uncompromising every day in showing
- 11:44up for themselves and staying conscious
- 11:46of their unconscious self, and and then
- 11:49reprogrammed themselves in some way.
- 11:51When they tell that story, it's the
- 11:53four-minute mile. It's somebody breaking
- 11:56through a level of consciousness or
- 11:58unconsciousness in the collective
- 12:00that's observing
- 12:03the example of truth.
- 12:06They're actually relating with that
- 12:08person
- 12:09in a way that causes them to examine
- 12:12possibility differently.
- 12:14And when you become conscious of a new
- 12:16possibility, a change in consciousness
- 12:18is a change in awareness, right? So, now
- 12:21it's in the collective, and lo and
- 12:23behold, it's not uncommon. We just had
- 12:25this happen
- 12:27in our week-long event in Denver just a
- 12:29little over a week ago, 2 weeks ago.
- 12:33And we had six people stand up out of a
- 12:35wheelchair at by the end of the event.
- 12:37Now, I wasn't expecting that, but one
- 12:41uh,
- 12:42person that had MS in the middle of the
- 12:44week had a very profound experience,
- 12:46very profound experience.
- 12:48And a professional athlete, NFL football
- 12:51player, and um,
- 12:52stood up, and he stood up for the
- 12:55audience. And
- 12:56when he stood up, he said, "I thought I
- 12:58was going to a yoga retreat. I thought
- 13:00my brother was taking me to a yoga
- 13:01retreat. I had no idea what we were
- 13:03doing here."
- 13:04And then he said, "I just I just never
- 13:07loved myself."
- 13:08And it was his act of change that
- 13:12somehow
- 13:14changed his health condition. He somehow
- 13:16up-regulated
- 13:17genes in different ways, suppressed the
- 13:20genes for MS, and somehow he was more
- 13:22mobile, he was walking
- 13:24by the end of the event, and he was the
- 13:28magic number one. And when everybody saw
- 13:32that, and they crowd the audience was
- 13:34excited, we started seeing other people
- 13:37have a similar experience. Now, that
- 13:39possibility is becoming more of a
- 13:40reality for people.
- 13:42So, I would always I never limit what
- 13:45could actually happen, but I can tell
- 13:47you that what an amazing time right now
- 13:50uh, to witness people really doing the
- 13:53uncommon.
- 13:55When you recited that story, I could see
- 13:56the emotion in your face as you say it.
- 13:59And I can only imagine with the
- 14:01information that you have and the
- 14:02beliefs you have about healing, change,
- 14:04transformation,
- 14:06the sense of urgency you must carry, and
- 14:08the sense of like responsibility almost,
- 14:11I guess you must carry.
- 14:12Knowing knowing what's possible. Yeah,
- 14:14well, um, um,
- 14:16it I I do feel responsible for always
- 14:19keeping the information based in science
- 14:22and as pure as possible.
- 14:24I feel it's really important to do the
- 14:26research that we're doing. I mean, we've
- 14:28we've studied so much from a scientific
- 14:31standpoint the process of change and the
- 14:33process of transformation and what
- 14:36meditation actually
- 14:37can do for a person in terms of their
- 14:40biology and and some of the changes that
- 14:42we're seeing just in 7 days. Um, my
- 14:45responsibility really is to give people
- 14:47my greatest understanding of the truth
- 14:50and numerous opportunities to experience
- 14:52it, nothing more. You know, there's a
- 14:55way to inspire people into possibility.
- 14:59And so, they we combine different models
- 15:03of science, whether it's quantum physics
- 15:05or neuroscience or neuroendocrinology or
- 15:08psychoneuroimmunology, the mind-body
- 15:10connection, epigenetics,
- 15:12electromagnetism,
- 15:13all of these sciences allow people to
- 15:16understand themselves better. And if
- 15:18knowledge is power, knowledge about
- 15:20yourself is self-empowerment, and you
- 15:21can empower people to do something with
- 15:23it.
- 15:24So, the more you understand what you're
- 15:27doing in the process of change, the more
- 15:29you understand why you're doing it, as I
- 15:31said, the how gets easier.
- 15:33So,
- 15:34we now know that if you give people
- 15:36sound scientific information, and that
- 15:38is the contemporary language of
- 15:39mysticism,
- 15:41and they can learn that information,
- 15:42they're basically making new circuits in
- 15:44their brain. That's what learning is.
- 15:45Learning is forging new synaptic
- 15:47connections. But if you don't review
- 15:49what you learn, if you don't repeat it,
- 15:51it's so much easier to forget it than to
- 15:52remember it. So, you got to repeat it
- 15:54over and over again. So,
- 15:55we allow people in our workshops to then
- 15:57begin to turn and teach it back to
- 16:00somebody. They have to really explain
- 16:02it. If they can't explain it, it's not
- 16:04wired in their brain, and they're going
- 16:05to
- 16:06something's going to be left to
- 16:07conjecture, to superstition, to dogma,
- 16:09to spirituality, and and that's not
- 16:12that's not the result we want. We want
- 16:14them to use science as that model, and
- 16:17if they can explain that model and
- 16:19remind themselves what they've learned,
- 16:22reproduce the same level of mind, nerve
- 16:24cells that fire together wire together.
- 16:26So, they begin to install the
- 16:27neurological hardware in their brain
- 16:30by teaching others. Yeah, exactly. So,
- 16:33that they are prepared for an
- 16:34experience.
- 16:35So then, if that information is
- 16:38installed in their brain, that
- 16:39philosophy, that theory,
- 16:41uh, that knowledge and information, and
- 16:43now they can remember it, and they have
- 16:45that model of understanding,
- 16:48and they understand what they're doing
- 16:49and why they're doing it. If we can set
- 16:51up the conditions in the environment and
- 16:53give them the proper instruction,
- 16:56if they can get their behaviors to match
- 16:57their intentions,
- 16:59they get their actions equal to their
- 17:01thoughts. If they can get their mind and
- 17:02body working together,
- 17:04they're going to have a new experience.
- 17:05Now, experience enriches circuitry in
- 17:08the brain. That's what experiences does.
- 17:10The moment those neurons begin to string
- 17:12in the place, though, another part of
- 17:14the brain makes a chemical, and that
- 17:16chemical is called a feeling or an
- 17:18emotion. And the moment you feel
- 17:20unlimited, the moment you feel grateful,
- 17:22the moment you feel empowered, the
- 17:23moment you feel whole,
- 17:26now you're teaching your body chemically
- 17:29to understand what your mind has
- 17:30intellectually understood. The
- 17:32information is just not in the brain
- 17:33now. The information now is literally in
- 17:35the body. And now you're embodying the
- 17:37truth
- 17:38of that knowledge, of that philosophy,
- 17:40of that theory.
- 17:42So then, you're teaching your body and
- 17:44and instructing your body chemically to
- 17:46understand what your mind has
- 17:47intellectually understood. Okay? So
- 17:50then, that information that's coming as
- 17:52a new experience is changing your
- 17:54biology in some way, and we've actually
- 17:56shown this.
- 17:58So then, if you've done it once,
- 18:00then it means you should be able to do
- 18:02it again.
- 18:03And the idea is to be able to repeat an
- 18:05experience. And if you can repeat it
- 18:08over and over again, both neurologically
- 18:10and chemically, neurochemically, you can
- 18:13condition your mind and body to begin to
- 18:15work as one. And when you can do it so
- 18:17many times that your body now knows how
- 18:19to do it better than your conscious
- 18:20mind, it's innate in you. So, I want to
- 18:22map out this process so that I make sure
- 18:25I understand it.
- 18:27Starts with the neurology,
- 18:29which I I I I heard is uh,
- 18:32a thought which you then ingrain in your
- 18:34mind by teaching it to someone else. Is
- 18:36that accurate?
- 18:37Well, first thing you have to do is you
- 18:38got to give people information.
- 18:40Yeah, interesting.
- 18:40And science is probably the closest to
- 18:43the truth in terms of information.
- 18:45And so, when your brain is exposed to
- 18:47information and you're present and
- 18:50you're paying attention, that neurons
- 18:52begin to connect. That's what learning
- 18:54is. Learning is forging new synaptic
- 18:56connections.
- 18:58The Nobel Prize research, Kandel in the
- 19:00year 2000, his the researcher said that
- 19:03if you learned one bit of information
- 19:06and you paid attention that information
- 19:08for about an hour,
- 19:10he would double the number of
- 19:11connections in your brain as a result of
- 19:14your interaction with that information.
- 19:16But if you don't review it, if you don't
- 19:18repeat it, if you don't think about it,
- 19:20the circuits prune apart, right? So, if
- 19:22learning is making new synaptic
- 19:24connections, then remembering is
- 19:25maintaining and sustaining them. So,
- 19:27it's so much easier to forget this
- 19:29information than to remember it. So, you
- 19:30learn it. Once I got a person's head
- 19:33nodding, then they turn the person next
- 19:35to them and say, "Let me try this out.
- 19:36Let me try this out. Let me see if I can
- 19:37repeat it." And so, between the two of
- 19:39them, they exchange that information,
- 19:41and they start to build the model of
- 19:43understanding. "Ah, I understand. I got
- 19:44that. Okay." Then we advance the
- 19:46information a bit more, and they they're
- 19:48adding new stitches into the
- 19:49three-dimensional tapestry of their gray
- 19:51matter, and they have to remind
- 19:53themselves what they've learned,
- 19:55reproduce that same level of mind. Mind
- 19:57is the brain in action.
- 19:59As you install those neurological
- 20:00circuits in your brain then, now you're
- 20:02prepared.
- 20:03It's the forerunner to the experience.
- 20:05You're prepared for the experience. So,
- 20:07give the proper instruction, get your
- 20:08body involved, get involved in the
- 20:10process.
- 20:11The experience then causes the circuits
- 20:13to become more enriched. That's what
- 20:14experience does.
- 20:16And then it makes a chemical, and that
- 20:17chemical's called a feeling or an
- 20:19emotion. And the stronger the emotion
- 20:21you feel from the experience, the more
- 20:22you remember it. And what is that
- 20:23experience?
- 20:25What can
- 20:25Abundance, health, wholeness, a mystical
- 20:28experience, success, a new relationship,
- 20:32a new career.
- 20:34Um
- 20:35a new life.
- 20:37Whatever the person's Whatever Whatever
- 20:38that vision
- 20:40that person wants to arrive at in the
- 20:42future.
- 20:43And to actually go from the thought of
- 20:46that vision to the actual experience of
- 20:48it. And the distance between that
- 20:50thought and that experience is called
- 20:51time.
- 20:53So, if we can teach people to shorten
- 20:54the distance between the thought of what
- 20:56they want and the experience of having
- 20:58it,
- 20:59um then they they start believing more
- 21:00that they're the creator of their life.
- 21:03What would you say to somebody that
- 21:04doesn't think thoughts matter that much?
- 21:06I would say 95%
- 21:08of the world plus, or maybe more, 99% of
- 21:11the world plus, sees thoughts as
- 21:12something that we are
- 21:15you know, it's my head talking.
- 21:16It's me talking in my head.
- 21:18And as long as I don't act on those
- 21:20thoughts, they're inconsequential.
- 21:22I would I would say then that's their
- 21:24truth.
- 21:25Is it their truth? I don't know.
- 21:28But for me, my thoughts do matter. I
- 21:30think every thought that you have makes
- 21:31a chemical.
- 21:33And you can have thoughts that make you
- 21:34feel good and thoughts that make you
- 21:36feel bad.
- 21:37And and I think that if 90%
- 21:41of the thoughts that we think are the
- 21:43same thoughts as the day before,
- 21:46the same thoughts lead to the same
- 21:47choices. The same choices lead to the
- 21:50same behaviors, the same behaviors will
- 21:52create the same experiences.
- 21:54And the same experiences produce the
- 21:56very same emotions, and those same
- 21:57emotions influence a person's very same
- 21:59thoughts and their biology, their
- 22:01neuro-circuitry, their neurochemistry,
- 22:03their hormones, and even their gene
- 22:05expression stays the same because
- 22:06they're staying the same. There's
- 22:08nothing wrong with that.
- 22:10But I do think that if you think
- 22:12differently and you learn new
- 22:13information and you have new thoughts,
- 22:15if you can make new choices and
- 22:18demonstrate new behaviors and create new
- 22:20experiences and arrive at new goals and
- 22:22feel new emotions, I would say that's
- 22:23evolution.
- 22:25And I think that people really really
- 22:27secretly believe in themselves on some
- 22:29level. And and I think
- 22:31being defined by a vision of the future
- 22:33or really always always dreaming of
- 22:36another great experience,
- 22:38I think is a great reason to wake up in
- 22:40the morning.
- 22:41I've had lots of conversations with very
- 22:42smart people on this podcast from
- 22:44multiple disciplines, you know,
- 22:45psychiatrists, psychologists, athletes,
- 22:47health practitioners. And they've given
- 22:49me such great advice on, which is
- 22:52irrefutable scientific advice from so
- 22:53many areas of my life. And for some
- 22:55reason, there's still areas of my life
- 22:57that I still can't act upon that advice.
- 22:59And I think probably for most of my
- 23:00listeners who've had great advice on
- 23:02this podcast, and they think, yes,
- 23:03that's who I want to be. I have an
- 23:05intention to stop eating sugar at 1:00
- 23:071:00 a.m. at night, or I have an
- 23:08intention to become organized or to be
- 23:10this kind of friend or partner.
- 23:12They have the information.
- 23:14Right.
- 23:15What There's something stood in the way
- 23:16of me doing something about that
- 23:17information on a regular basis. Yeah.
- 23:20Well, I can give you a few answers for
- 23:22that. Unfortunately,
- 23:24it normally takes a crisis, Yeah.
- 23:26trauma, disease, diagnosis, betrayal,
- 23:30loss. A person has to reach that lowest
- 23:34denominator
- 23:36where nothing's making that feeling go
- 23:38away. Has to. Well, not they don't have
- 23:41to, but this is human This is the human
- 23:42condition. This is the moment where they
- 23:45don't feel like returning the texts.
- 23:47They don't feel like going to dinner and
- 23:49seeing the same people. They don't feel
- 23:51like um
- 23:53watching the same television show any
- 23:55longer. The sports car, the wardrobe,
- 23:58the None of that is making this feeling
- 24:00go away. This is
- 24:02a moment of reckoning for the soul.
- 24:05And this is really when you could
- 24:06actually see yourself
- 24:09through the eyes of someone else cuz you
- 24:11don't feel like yourself anymore. And
- 24:13that's the moment where people begin to
- 24:15change. They can see how they've been
- 24:17thinking. They can notice how they've
- 24:18been acting. They can pay attention or
- 24:21become aware of how they've been feeling
- 24:23for the last 20 years.
- 24:25And that that idea in in neuroscience is
- 24:27called metacognition. That's the moment
- 24:30you're no longer the program. Now,
- 24:32what we believe and what we've seen and
- 24:35what I think is much better approach is
- 24:39um being defined by a vision of the
- 24:40future. And if you understood
- 24:43that you could actually elevate your
- 24:45state without anyone or anything every
- 24:49single day,
- 24:50and hold whatever that intention of your
- 24:52future is. And it takes a coherent brain
- 24:55to do that.
- 24:57And feel the emotion of your future
- 25:01before it happens.
- 25:03That is, you know, you can't wait for
- 25:04your wealth to feel success. You can't
- 25:07or abundance. You can't wait for your
- 25:09new relationship to feel love. You can't
- 25:11wait for the mystical experience to feel
- 25:13whole or your healing to feel whole or
- 25:15grateful. That's kind of
- 25:17the old model of reality of cause and
- 25:19effect, waiting for something out there
- 25:22to change, to take away this emptiness,
- 25:24this lack that I feel in here.
- 25:26If you teach people then they could
- 25:27elevate their state, and we teach that
- 25:29model through meditation.
- 25:31And they can combine that clear
- 25:33intention with an elevated emotion and
- 25:34teach them how to make that heart of
- 25:36theirs more coherent.
- 25:40If they do that properly then, they'll
- 25:42live their life feeling like
- 25:45their future has already happened. Now,
- 25:47from that elevated state, instead of
- 25:50that self-limited state, they can become
- 25:52as conscious
- 25:54of that unconscious self as they could
- 25:56if they were at that limited state. And
- 25:58and being defined by that vision of the
- 26:00future,
- 26:02getting up every day inspired by it, and
- 26:04not letting any person, any
- 26:06circumstance, anything in our life
- 26:09remove us from that vision, that would
- 26:11be a day well lived. So then,
- 26:13most people then they have that vision
- 26:15of the future,
- 26:17but they give up on that vision because
- 26:19in order for them to arrive at that
- 26:21vision, they have to do something. They
- 26:23have to think differently. They have to
- 26:24act differently. They have to feel
- 26:26differently.
- 26:27And it's so much easier to make the same
- 26:29choice every single day. And the hardest
- 26:31part
- 26:32about change is not making the same
- 26:35choice as you did the day before.
- 26:37And the moment you decide to make a
- 26:39different choice,
- 26:40you're going to feel uncomfortable cuz
- 26:43you're stepping from the known into the
- 26:45unknown.
- 26:46So, some people would rather cling to
- 26:48their self-pity
- 26:50than take a chance and possibility.
- 26:52They'd rather tell the story of their
- 26:54past
- 26:55instead of telling the story of their
- 26:57future. They'd rather believe in their
- 26:59past instead of believe in their future.
- 27:02Uh it's so much more important though to
- 27:03romance your future instead of romance
- 27:06your past. And I think if people
- 27:07understood that they could actually
- 27:10arrive at it.
- 27:12I think many people have done this
- 27:14already in their life. I think everybody
- 27:16at least once in their life has done
- 27:18something great. And when they
- 27:21did something great, they just made up
- 27:22their mind.
- 27:23And they made a decision in that moment
- 27:26to do something or to change with such
- 27:28firm intention
- 27:30that the amplitude of energy in making
- 27:33that choice
- 27:34caused their body to respond to their
- 27:36mind.
- 27:37That the choice that they were making to
- 27:39change became a moment in time that they
- 27:41would never forget.
- 27:43And the stronger the emotion they felt
- 27:45in order to change, the more they
- 27:46remembered the choice.
- 27:48And we could say then that they're
- 27:49giving their body a taste
- 27:52of the future emotionally. And they're
- 27:54literally aligning to that destiny.
- 27:57We discovered that if you keep doing
- 27:59that every day,
- 28:01somehow you arrive at that destiny, and
- 28:02your biology will literally begin to
- 28:05change to look like you're living in a
- 28:06different life.
- 28:08What are some of the biggest myths
- 28:09relating to
- 28:11behavior change and
- 28:13I guess character and personality
- 28:14change, um
- 28:16that hold people back?
- 28:21Our probably belief.
- 28:23I think in so many ways that a belief is
- 28:25a
- 28:26unconscious process. A belief is a
- 28:28thought you keep thinking over and over
- 28:30again
- 28:31until it's hardwired in your brain.
- 28:34And most beliefs are based on past
- 28:36experiences.
- 28:38And so, many people have a belief about
- 28:41something that has to change
- 28:43in order for them to arrive at a new
- 28:46place in their life.
- 28:48And what we discovered a lot of times
- 28:50with people in this work is that
- 28:53they they
- 28:54when they Say for example, they were
- 28:56healing themselves of a health
- 28:57condition.
- 29:00Sometimes they would
- 29:02do their meditations three times in one
- 29:04day. And I asked them, "Why three
- 29:06times?" And they said, "Because I
- 29:08stopped believing.
- 29:10Uh and when I caught myself no longer
- 29:12believing in it, I had to sit down and
- 29:14change my belief again."
- 29:16In other words, they had to get up
- 29:17believing more in their future instead
- 29:19of believing less in it. And they have
- 29:21to change their state of being to do
- 29:22that.
- 29:24So, I think that
- 29:25that's a limitation. I also think that
- 29:27unconsciously we're always waiting for
- 29:30something out there in our life to
- 29:32change so that we can change or feel the
- 29:34relief of the lack of what we don't
- 29:36have.
- 29:38And I do think that's kind of a limited
- 29:40model of reality. I think when you start
- 29:42changing inside of you and you start
- 29:44seeing the changes happening outside of
- 29:46you, you go from being a victim in your
- 29:48life to being a creator of your life.
- 29:50And And I think that when that occurs,
- 29:53then all of a sudden it's no longer a
- 29:54have to.
- 29:56It's something that you want to do. You
- 29:58don't You actually don't want the magic
- 29:59to end in your life. So now you become a
- 30:02work in progress by investing in
- 30:04yourself.
- 30:05And when you invest in yourself, you
- 30:06invest in your future. So there is
- 30:09probably a chronic disbelief
- 30:12that many of us have that we're not
- 30:15creators of our life. Uh And the only
- 30:18when we get the parking space or
- 30:20something good happens to us, do we
- 30:22believe that we're the creator of our
- 30:24life? But imagine a world where
- 30:26everybody actually took responsibility
- 30:29in being the creator of their life and
- 30:30no longer the victim of their life. I
- 30:32think we would see a dramatic shift in
- 30:34consciousness. That makes people feel
- 30:36uncomfortable. This idea of personal
- 30:38responsibility. It's quite a It's almost
- 30:40become quite a controversial
- 30:42controversial idea.
- 30:43The idea that we are the creator of our
- 30:45lives because then I have to accept
- 30:47responsibility for all the bad things
- 30:48that happened. Dave dumped me. I got
- 30:49fired from work.
- 30:51Uh someone bumped into my car and it
- 30:53hurt my neck.
- 30:54Well, maybe maybe that happened by
- 30:57default.
- 30:59Maybe that happened by not creating.
- 31:02Maybe you were just left to the
- 31:03randomness
- 31:05of reality that
- 31:07that maybe you're not creating.
- 31:10And the fact that you're not creating,
- 31:11you're you're left to the effects of
- 31:14your environment actually controlling
- 31:17you, controlling your feelings and
- 31:19thoughts. And By creating, what do you
- 31:21mean by creating? Is it Well, well, if
- 31:23you
- 31:24If you woke up every morning and you
- 31:26truly made time to think like this,
- 31:29okay.
- 31:30If my personality creates my personal
- 31:33reality,
- 31:34and my personality is made of how I
- 31:36think,
- 31:37how I act, and how I feel.
- 31:39If I want to create a new personal
- 31:41reality, a new life,
- 31:44I'm going to have to change my
- 31:45personality. And most people try to
- 31:47create a new reality, a new personal
- 31:49reality, as the same personality, and it
- 31:51doesn't work. We literally have to
- 31:53become someone else. So if you said,
- 31:55okay,
- 31:57let me not default
- 31:59and go unconscious to that 95% of who I
- 32:02am that's programmed. Let me become so
- 32:04conscious of the way I think. Let me
- 32:07become so aware of how I'm going to act
- 32:08today. Let me decide what emotions keep
- 32:11me connected to my past and bring me to
- 32:13a lower level of lower level of energy.
- 32:15Let me not
- 32:17go unconscious.
- 32:19And then if you said, okay,
- 32:21if a belief is just a thought I keep
- 32:22thinking over and over again, what
- 32:24thoughts do I want to fire and wire in
- 32:26my brain? And with attention and with
- 32:29intention
- 32:30to begin to familiarize yourself with a
- 32:33new way of thinking. Meditation means to
- 32:35become familiar with.
- 32:38If you keep firing and wiring those
- 32:40circuits, you're going to begin to
- 32:41install the hardware. Repeat it enough
- 32:43times and it becomes a software program.
- 32:45That could be the new voice in your head
- 32:47that says, "I can. It is possible."
- 32:50If you said, okay,
- 32:52when did I fall from grace yesterday?
- 32:54When did I When did I lose it? Oh my
- 32:55gosh, it was with at work, with my
- 32:58co-workers, with my ex, with my enemy,
- 33:00with the news, with traffic.
- 33:04Acting this way is not going to make me
- 33:06happy.
- 33:07If I had another opportunity, another
- 33:09opportunity, how would I do it?
- 33:12If you could close your eyes and
- 33:14rehearse in your mind mentally how you
- 33:17were going to behave in certain
- 33:18situations,
- 33:19I'll give you a specific one.
- 33:21Anyone. So I'll give you the specific
- 33:23one where
- 33:24late late at night, on occasion, I've
- 33:27eaten things that I really regret
- 33:29eating. Al- Also, another one that I'm
- 33:30I'm trying to work hard on is I can be
- 33:32very messy
- 33:34with when I travel. So my my hotel room
- 33:36can look like a mess, and I don't like
- 33:38that about myself. And I don't know why
- 33:39I do it, but it's almost like you talk
- 33:41about being unconscious. I'm clearly not
- 33:43thinking about it. But that's part of
- 33:45the problem. And it's the same with the
- 33:46bloody sugar at midnight.
- 33:49Eating ordering things that are
- 33:51and then feeling instant guilt 10
- 33:53seconds after I've put it in my mouth.
- 33:55Well, that Well,
- 33:56it may be that on some level
- 34:01Well, you could actually be addicted to
- 34:03the guilt and not to the sugar.
- 34:07And so you you return to the same
- 34:10emotional state
- 34:12that allows that action to reoccur. So
- 34:16if you said, let me decide
- 34:19how I am going to act, what I'm not
- 34:21going to do, and you rehearsed it, the
- 34:23research on mental rehearsal says your
- 34:26brain will look like you already did it.
- 34:28That you'll be so present, the brain
- 34:30won't know the difference between what
- 34:32you're imagining and what is real. The
- 34:34brain will begin to change to look like
- 34:36the experience has already happened.
- 34:37Now, you're priming your brain for that
- 34:40behavior. Keep rehearsing it. Rehearsing
- 34:42it how? So give me Well,
- 34:45So I play
- 34:45Mentally Mentally rehearsing Mental
- 34:47rehearsal is one of these great ideas in
- 34:49neuroscience where you can actually
- 34:51install circuits in your brain, right?
- 34:52So everybody has done this.
- 34:55Musicians do it. They're playing a song
- 34:57in their mind all the time. Athletes do
- 34:59it. They're always going over their
- 35:01moves. Uh dancers do it. Actors do it.
- 35:04Uh so many people rehearse mentally what
- 35:07they're about to do. And when they do
- 35:09that, they actually prime their brain.
- 35:11They actually can change their brain
- 35:13and change their body just by thought
- 35:15alone.
- 35:15Physiologically changes.
- 35:17Physiologically change. You can take a
- 35:18group of people
- 35:20that never played the piano before
- 35:22and divide them into two different
- 35:24groups and do functional brain scans on
- 35:26both groups. One group,
- 35:28they'll come for 2 hours a day for 5
- 35:30days and they'll practice these
- 35:32one-handed scales and chords. Now, you
- 35:35learn something new, you make new
- 35:36connections in your brain. You get some
- 35:38instruction, you get your body involved.
- 35:40When you get your body involved, you're
- 35:41going to have an experience. You pay
- 35:43attention to what you're doing and you
- 35:44repeat it over and over again. Nerve
- 35:46cells that fire together wire together.
- 35:48You're going to begin to install new
- 35:49circuits in the opposite side of your
- 35:51brain. That's That's common.
- 35:54You do the scan at the end, you see
- 35:55those actual physical changes. You take
- 35:57those people the other group and you ask
- 35:59them to close their eyes without lifting
- 36:01a finger.
- 36:02Have them mentally rehearse those scales
- 36:04and chords, and at the end of 5 days,
- 36:07they grow the same amount of circuits in
- 36:08their brain as the people who actually
- 36:10physically demonstrated the act. In
- 36:12other words, they were so present with
- 36:14what they were doing, the brain did not
- 36:16know the difference between the real
- 36:18life experience and what they were
- 36:19imagining. The brain was physically
- 36:21changing to look like they already
- 36:23experienced it. They already did it.
- 36:25So now, you take those people
- 36:28never played the piano before, they've
- 36:29just been mentally rehearsing for 2
- 36:31hours a day for 5 days. You set them in
- 36:32front of a piano, and they could
- 36:34actually play those scales and chords.
- 36:36Why? Cuz they primed their brain for
- 36:38that behavior.
- 36:39So then if you're going to prime your
- 36:41brain for a new behavior, whether you're
- 36:43the CEO of a company,
- 36:45whether you're a parent,
- 36:47uh whether you're learning something,
- 36:50the more you rehearse it mentally, the
- 36:52more you prime your brain and body for
- 36:54the act. So you could actually practice
- 36:57rehearsing how you're going to change in
- 36:59your life. And if you keep doing it
- 37:01enough times, your behaviors will match
- 37:03your intentions automatically because
- 37:05you have the mind installed to do it. If
- 37:06you don't have the mind installed to do
- 37:08it, you'll go back to the same past
- 37:09behavior. So I play through that
- 37:11scenario of making the decision
- 37:15differently. Exactly. And rehearse it in
- 37:17your mind until it feels right. Do you
- 37:19feel like I could actually do that? And
- 37:21go from start to finish without losing
- 37:23your attention.
- 37:24And so that it gets easier each time you
- 37:26do it. It makes sense then you're you'll
- 37:28you'll actually do it. And then then if
- 37:29you said, okay,
- 37:32enough of this guilt.
- 37:34I've I've felt enough of it. I don't
- 37:36like feeling that way. I could actually
- 37:39break the conditioning of that emotion
- 37:41in my body. Can I
- 37:43condition my body? Can I teach my body
- 37:45to feel something differently? What
- 37:47would be the feeling that I want to feel
- 37:49if I was able to do it? Would it be
- 37:51worth? Would it be self-love? Would it
- 37:53be freedom? Would it be joy? Let me
- 37:56teach my body emotionally
- 37:58what a future could actually feel like
- 38:00before it happens.
- 38:02If you keep doing it over and over
- 38:03again, you're going to start making more
- 38:04of those chemicals, and it's become
- 38:06easier for you to do it. It's going to
- 38:07become familiar to you. And that's
- 38:09exactly what meditation is, to become
- 38:12familiar with an old self, to know
- 38:13thyself. Become so conscious of that
- 38:16unconscious self that you don't go
- 38:17unconscious to that self. And how many
- 38:20times do we have to forget
- 38:22until we stop forgetting and start
- 38:23remembering? That's the moment of
- 38:24change.
- 38:26What thoughts do I want to fire and wire
- 38:28in my brain? Let me become familiar with
- 38:29those. What behaviors do I want to
- 38:31demonstrate? What would greatness do?
- 38:33What would love do?
- 38:35And actually rehearse a greater a
- 38:37greater way. Rehearse it enough times so
- 38:39that you could actually step into that
- 38:41footprint. Teach your body emotionally
- 38:43that there's another way to feel and do
- 38:45it over and over again. It'll become
- 38:46familiar to you. And so the model of
- 38:49change is unlearning and relearning.
- 38:51It's breaking the habit of the old self
- 38:53and reinventing a new self. It's pruning
- 38:55synaptic connections and sprouting new
- 38:57connections. It's unfiring and unwiring,
- 38:59refiring and rewiring, deprogramming and
- 39:02reprogramming, losing your mind and
- 39:04creating a new one, unmemorizing
- 39:06emotions that have been stored in the
- 39:08body and then reconditioning the body to
- 39:09a new mind, to a new emotion. Turns out
- 39:12if you teach people how to do that,
- 39:14in 7 days you can see very profound
- 39:16biological changes if they immerse
- 39:18themselves into the experience. And what
- 39:20do these biological changes look like?
- 39:23Well, um so we run week-long events um
- 39:27around the world. And I think it's so
- 39:30important to do events uh in person with
- 39:33community.
- 39:35Uh because it's a flock. It's a herd.
- 39:37It's a school. Um
- 39:38it's a collective.
- 39:40And so uh that exact process in 7 days,
- 39:44uh we take people through a very
- 39:46immersive experience. And we do
- 39:49functional brain scans or fMRIs or
- 39:52quantitative EEGs before they start the
- 39:54event and then we at the end of 7 days
- 39:57we look at their brains
- 39:58at the end of 7 days and there are
- 40:00dramatic changes
- 40:01in the way their brain works, very
- 40:03significant changes.
- 40:05Some of them are really outstanding
- 40:06changes.
- 40:08We
- 40:08put teach people how to create more
- 40:11heart coherence. When you feel anger,
- 40:12when you feel frustration, when you feel
- 40:14impatience, when you feel resentment,
- 40:17your heart beats out of order. When you
- 40:18feel gratitude, when you have kindness
- 40:20and care,
- 40:22when you feel love for life, your heart
- 40:23beats in more orderly fashion. You can
- 40:25actually train somebody to get good at
- 40:27feeling that way and we we use that and
- 40:30we see people at the end of 7 days be
- 40:32able to regulate their heart much better
- 40:34and it's a function of really how soon
- 40:37or how slow we age.
- 40:39We take a blood and we measure 2,882
- 40:43different metabolites in in a person's
- 40:46blood.
- 40:47And at the end of 7 days we measure
- 40:49again and
- 40:51I can tell you that if you're a novice
- 40:53meditator,
- 40:55really never meditated before, kind of
- 40:57your first event,
- 40:59and you go through that 7-day process,
- 41:01at the end of 7 days, there's so many
- 41:04biological changes that are taking place
- 41:06in the
- 41:07collective, in the community, not just
- 41:09one, not just to the majority of people
- 41:11and I mean a significant majority of
- 41:13people
- 41:14suggesting that their body literally is
- 41:16living in a new environment and in a new
- 41:18life. And there are chemicals
- 41:20in their bloodstream in terms of
- 41:22information
- 41:24that wasn't there prior to the event. In
- 41:26other words,
- 41:28some way without taking any drug,
- 41:31without any taking any exogenous
- 41:32substance,
- 41:34um,
- 41:35without changing their diet, without
- 41:37changing their lifestyle in any other
- 41:38way except going through this process,
- 41:40eating the same foods that they
- 41:41typically eat,
- 41:43that at the end of 7 days there's
- 41:45chemistry, there's biology that suggests
- 41:48that somehow their biology is changing
- 41:50significantly.
- 41:52Um, we measure gene expression.
- 41:55Uh, I can tell you that you can change
- 41:56your gene expression in 7 days.
- 41:59Um, we measure microbiome and um, once
- 42:02again, 7 days there are dramatic changes
- 42:05in the microbiome uh, and the mind
- 42:07somehow is making significant and and
- 42:10effective changes in our in our body.
- 42:12So, um, our research is pretty
- 42:15outstanding because
- 42:16um,
- 42:17a 7-day
- 42:19uh, intervention uh,
- 42:21that's producing these effects. Uh,
- 42:23there's there's not a whole lot of drugs
- 42:25that that are as effective.
- 42:27And we've discovered that
- 42:30the nervous system makes a pharmacy of
- 42:32chemicals right now that works better
- 42:34than any drug. That's what we've
- 42:35discovered and it's all within you.
- 42:40I am a fixer
- 42:43in my friendship groups. And what I mean
- 42:45by that is I'm someone who probably
- 42:46over-involves them themselves in trying
- 42:49to help friends change stuff. Which
- 42:51gift and a curse.
- 42:53Often times a curse.
- 42:55But um, I often get because I love
- 42:57someone and they're close to me and I
- 42:59want the best for them,
- 43:00when when I see that they are
- 43:02experiencing a recurring pattern of
- 43:04behavior or habit um, that is causing
- 43:07them unhappiness, loneliness, to miss
- 43:10the goals they have in their life of
- 43:11becoming a, you know, a husband or a
- 43:13wife or a partner, whatever it might be,
- 43:15I have a growing sense of um,
- 43:17frustration.
- 43:18Cuz and I and then that sometimes exerts
- 43:20it it's
- 43:22that sometimes manifests itself as
- 43:23trying to, you know, fix and help and
- 43:25give advice and change them. You must
- 43:27experience
- 43:29that in a different way. You're much
- 43:30smarter than me. You must experience
- 43:32that in a different way when you meet
- 43:33people that you can see are having these
- 43:35recurring patterns of behavior.
- 43:37And when you see that in them,
- 43:39has there any has there any ever been
- 43:41frustration on your part? Have you ever
- 43:44been frustrated that change hasn't
- 43:45happened in someone that you loved? God,
- 43:47you know, I think it's I think it's such
- 43:50a noble act to change and I and I
- 43:53understand how hard it is to change.
- 43:55Uh, I understand that process. So,
- 43:59I think the greatest thing that I could
- 44:00ever do for someone is to show them what
- 44:02change looks like. It's so much more
- 44:04profound than anything that I could ever
- 44:06say.
- 44:07Um,
- 44:09and I would never offer my opinion to
- 44:12them. I would love them unconditionally
- 44:14because I would maybe see a part of
- 44:15myself
- 44:17uh, that I've changed and I understand
- 44:19how hard it is to change or or I
- 44:22understand that they'll they're going to
- 44:23have their moment uh, when they're ready
- 44:25to change. And so I think it's I think
- 44:28it's really interesting because what
- 44:30I've learned over the years is that no
- 44:32new information
- 44:34can enter the nervous system that's not
- 44:36equal to the person's emotional state.
- 44:38You can give them
- 44:40the answer, the right answer to the
- 44:42problem and they won't hear it cuz it's
- 44:45not relevant equal to the emotion that
- 44:48they're experiencing.
- 44:50What we've learned is that
- 44:52you take people and just say 7 days,
- 44:54just cross the river of change. Go from
- 44:56the old self to the new self, immerse
- 44:58yourself fully into it,
- 45:00break free from the chains of those
- 45:02emotions that keep you anchored to the
- 45:03past, overcome those habits and
- 45:05behaviors that keep you programmed into
- 45:07a predictable future,
- 45:09um, overcome um,
- 45:12all those aspects of your beliefs that
- 45:14keep you stuck in a certain state in
- 45:16terms of how you're thinking and those
- 45:17hardwired perceptions.
- 45:197 days, break free and and normally the
- 45:23person has the answer
- 45:24uh, to their own question. I think
- 45:26that's when it becomes really relevant,
- 45:29when you have your own insight, your own
- 45:30epiphany, when it's your own truth cuz
- 45:32you've you've worked to get beyond it.
- 45:36People when they analyze themselves or
- 45:38analyze their life within some
- 45:40disturbing emotion, when we looked at
- 45:42the real-time brain scans, we saw that
- 45:44they were actually making their brain
- 45:46worse.
- 45:47They were driving their brain further
- 45:48out of balance, overthinking,
- 45:50over-analyzing.
- 45:52Uh, and so,
- 45:54when you analyze something within an
- 45:56emotion, an emotion is a is a record of
- 45:58the past. So, you're thinking in the
- 46:00past, the solution could never be there.
- 46:02Free the person from that emotion and of
- 46:04course they they see they they see it
- 46:07from a greater level of consciousness.
- 46:12For all those people listening right now
- 46:13that are like me that try and fix
- 46:17because of through I mean through what
- 46:18they think of as love, I may maybe be
- 46:20doing it for other reasons, but
- 46:23what what could they do to be a better
- 46:25ally or friend or partner to that
- 46:27individual? But based on everything
- 46:29you've said that maybe they need their
- 46:31own moment or, you know,
- 46:33their emotional system isn't in
- 46:34regulation with their information.
- 46:36God, anytime we we're going to do
- 46:38anybody a great service is to help them
- 46:41out of their emotional state. I mean,
- 46:42it's not a lecture that's going to help
- 46:44them. Come on, let's go do something.
- 46:45Come on, let's go. Just get them doing
- 46:47something, just breaking themselves out
- 46:49of that state. It's not like the answer,
- 46:51it's they you they have to change their
- 46:53state to get the answer. So,
- 46:55if I were to do anything,
- 46:57I would want to help them shorten their
- 46:59emotional reaction to get them get
- 47:00beyond the emotion. Whatever that is and
- 47:02I wouldn't be a lecture, it would be
- 47:04something fun that we did or something
- 47:05unusual that we did or just trying
- 47:07something. Just let's just do something.
- 47:11And I think I think showing people what
- 47:13what what love looks like, show them
- 47:15what joy looks like, show them what
- 47:16happiness looks like. I think I think
- 47:19people notice that. I think I think they
- 47:21pay attention to that. It gives them
- 47:22permission
- 47:24uh, to do the same.
- 47:26So,
- 47:27um,
- 47:28maybe just show up as um,
- 47:31the person you would want to be around
- 47:33if you were feeling that way.
- 47:37When you look at the state of the world
- 47:38at the moment and the direction of
- 47:40travel, the trajectory of,
- 47:42you know, technology and the way we're
- 47:43living our lives and the decisions we're
- 47:45making at a collective level,
- 47:47what are the things that most concern
- 47:49you?
- 47:51What I always ask myself is it getting
- 47:52better or is it getting worse, you know?
- 47:55And I I think um,
- 47:57in my lifetime I don't think I've ever
- 48:00experienced the world
- 48:02as it is today, just with so many
- 48:04variations of so many things.
- 48:07Uh,
- 48:08and I question the information that I'm
- 48:11receiving.
- 48:13Uh, and I think that we need some type
- 48:15of intervention as a species. We need we
- 48:19we need a change.
- 48:20We need an intervention in some way.
- 48:24You question the information you're
- 48:25receiving from where and what kind of
- 48:26interven- intervention are you
- 48:28suggesting? I just don't know that the
- 48:30information that I that I am exposed to
- 48:32or information that people are exposed
- 48:34to is the truth. Uh, I just question
- 48:37that these days. And and there because
- 48:39you can you can get so many you can get
- 48:41so many degrees of it and so many
- 48:43and I and I don't know if it's
- 48:46uh, based in altruism, you know, for the
- 48:48for the goodness of human beings or or
- 48:51for self-interests and I and I think
- 48:53that's a I think people are waking up
- 48:56more to the understanding that something
- 48:59has to change, you know, for us to
- 49:01really survive as a species.
- 49:03And what are the symptoms of
- 49:06the cultural disease that you're talking
- 49:09about? What are they?
- 49:10A lack of connection.
- 49:13Uh, you know,
- 49:14you know, we're in 3D reality, you know,
- 49:16connecting, communing, cooperating, uh,
- 49:20uh,
- 49:21uh, creating. I think those are things
- 49:23that um,
- 49:25I think if you keep people in survival
- 49:27and you keep them in fear and you keep
- 49:28them at war and you keep them angry and
- 49:30you keep them in pain and you keep them
- 49:33confused and you can control their
- 49:35attention um,
- 49:36by controlling their emotions.
- 49:39Um
- 49:40I think I think
- 49:42we're going to you know
- 49:44we may not make it you know as as a
- 49:46species.
- 49:47But I think that when people truly come
- 49:50together in in in an elevated state, I
- 49:55think it's collective networks of
- 49:57observers that determine reality.
- 50:00And I don't think it's the number of
- 50:01people. I think it's the most coherent
- 50:03in heart and brain that begin to produce
- 50:06effects.
- 50:07So the coming of
- 50:09a new consciousness has to be a
- 50:12collective. It's not one person.
- 50:15It's a collective group of people and
- 50:17and I believe that you get enough people
- 50:20collectively coming together that we can
- 50:22hopefully uh
- 50:24uh steer it in a different direction.
- 50:25Hopefully. Yeah.
- 50:28How about you?
- 50:29Are you optimistic?
- 50:31I am. I'm optimistic because I think
- 50:33people by nature
- 50:36are good.
- 50:37I think there's goodness in human beings
- 50:38and
- 50:39I have the privilege of traveling around
- 50:41the world and I see that and it
- 50:43transcends countries and cultures and
- 50:46races and gender. It transcends diet. It
- 50:48transcends all that stuff.
- 50:50Uh it's just when people are happy with
- 50:52themselves and in love with life. Um I
- 50:55think I think their natural tendency is
- 50:57to give and I think we're wired to do
- 50:59that when we're not in survival.
- 51:02When we're not in survival. When you use
- 51:03this word survival
- 51:05are you talking about the the fight or
- 51:07flight state that we um
- 51:10many of us live in? Yeah. I would say I
- 51:12would say that living in stress is
- 51:14living in survival and stress is when
- 51:16your brain and body are knocked out of
- 51:17homeostasis.
- 51:19Stress is when your brain and body are
- 51:21knocked out of balance. The stress
- 51:22response is what the body innately does
- 51:24to return itself back to balance.
- 51:27The problem is is that if you keep
- 51:29turning on that fight or flight system,
- 51:31you keep turning on that emergency
- 51:32system
- 51:34um it will actually cause people to stay
- 51:36out of balance and that imbalance
- 51:37becomes the new balance.
- 51:39And they're headed for some type of
- 51:40disease, some type of breakdown. No
- 51:42organism can tolerate emergency mode for
- 51:45an extended period of time and when
- 51:47you're in survival and that primitive
- 51:48system is switched on
- 51:50it's really about the self.
- 51:52Uh when you're in survival, you have to
- 51:53take care of yourself. So
- 51:55um the emotions of anger and hostility
- 51:59and aggression and competition and
- 52:01frustration and resentment
- 52:03and envy and jealousy and insecurity and
- 52:05fear and anxiety and hopelessness and
- 52:07powerlessness and depression and pain
- 52:09and suffering guilt and shame are all
- 52:11derived
- 52:12from the hormones of stress and
- 52:13psychology calls them normal human
- 52:15states of consciousness. Those are
- 52:17altered states of consciousness. And
- 52:19when we're in that state, when we're
- 52:21living in survival
- 52:23we experience separation. We we divide
- 52:26in in in a lot of ways.
- 52:28And so there's biology that goes along
- 52:31with that and
- 52:32that the hormones of stress heighten the
- 52:34senses and cause us to become
- 52:36materialists and and now when we're in
- 52:38lack or separation, we force outcomes.
- 52:41We control outcomes. We fight for
- 52:42outcomes. We compete for outcomes. We
- 52:45manipulate outcomes. In a lot of ways we
- 52:48we turn into a more of a primitive self.
- 52:49So
- 52:51it's hard
- 52:52um
- 52:53to change that especially when you don't
- 52:56have enough money
- 52:58or you just lost your job or you just
- 53:00ended a relationship or
- 53:04your best friend passed, uh it's really
- 53:06hard um to move beyond those emotional
- 53:09states.
- 53:10Um and so I think that that teaching
- 53:13people um
- 53:15how to change those emotional states and
- 53:16move out of those are really important
- 53:18and and
- 53:19um
- 53:2075 to 90% of every person that goes to a
- 53:23healthcare facility in the western world
- 53:25goes in because of psychological or
- 53:28emotional stress. That's eight or nine
- 53:29out of 10.
- 53:31And and emotional stress and
- 53:32psychological stress are the ones that
- 53:33tend to be the most harmful.
- 53:35Because if it's not T-Rex that's chasing
- 53:37you, but it's your coworker in the next
- 53:39cubicle, what was once very adaptive
- 53:42becomes very maladaptive.
- 53:44And and the rush of those adrenal
- 53:47hormones
- 53:49become kind of addictive to people.
- 53:52And they use the problems, they use the
- 53:54conditions in their life to reaffirm
- 53:56their addiction to that emotion. They
- 53:57need their enemy to feel hatred. And and
- 54:00if their enemy died, they'd they'd still
- 54:02feel hatred or they'd find another one.
- 54:05Uh they need the bad relationship. They
- 54:08need the bad job in order to feel and
- 54:10that's why it's hard to change and
- 54:12people become addicted to the life they
- 54:14don't even like.
- 54:16And so if you can turn on the stress
- 54:18response just by thought alone, by
- 54:20thinking about your problems, then
- 54:21that's the truth
- 54:22you can become addicted to your own
- 54:23thoughts.
- 54:25And if the long-term effects of the
- 54:26hormones of stress push the genetic
- 54:28buttons that create disease your
- 54:30thoughts can make you sick.
- 54:33And then the question is if your
- 54:34thoughts can make you sick, can your
- 54:35thoughts make you well? And we're
- 54:36actually discovering that that's
- 54:38absolutely possible.
- 54:40So then
- 54:41teaching people then a little bit about
- 54:43how to manage their emotional state and
- 54:45to self-regulate I think is a great gift
- 54:47for people because when they begin to
- 54:51break an addiction to any emotion or the
- 54:54conditioning of any emotion, there's
- 54:56going to be cravings that go on just
- 54:57like just like any addict there, you
- 54:59know, and and you've many people
- 55:01overdose and many people have bad trips
- 55:04and
- 55:05and so when they start changing and the
- 55:08body's craving uh those familiar
- 55:10emotions, the body starts signaling the
- 55:13brain, you know, of memories or to think
- 55:16certain ways and to make certain
- 55:17choices, do certain things, crave
- 55:19certain experiences just to feel that
- 55:21same emotion. And people say, well
- 55:24this feels right.
- 55:25No, that feels familiar. That really
- 55:27feels familiar. And and many people will
- 55:30tell the story
- 55:32of why they feel that way based on some
- 55:34past experience and it's usually not in
- 55:37the recent past. It's usually many years
- 55:39ago. Like a toxic relationship Whatever
- 55:41that is. And so
- 55:44they're basically saying I had an event
- 55:46in my life and since that event I'm
- 55:48still living by the same emotion and I
- 55:49haven't been able to change.
- 55:52And they'll tell the story of that past
- 55:54and in psychology, the latest research
- 55:56on memory shows that 50% of that story
- 55:59isn't even the truth.
- 56:01They're they're they're making it up
- 56:03because they don't have the same brain
- 56:04as they had then. And so then people
- 56:07people are reliving a miserable life
- 56:09they never even had just to excuse
- 56:11themselves from changing.
- 56:14And they embellish the stories so that
- 56:16it sounds really hard to change.
- 56:18So what is it what is that point then
- 56:21for a person when they say
- 56:23the only person
- 56:26that this emotion of hatred or anger
- 56:28frustration or resentment, the only
- 56:30person that this is hurting is me.
- 56:34Because those those chemicals are down
- 56:36regulating genes and creating disease
- 56:39and a person finally really realizes
- 56:41that and they really decide to change.
- 56:44When they overcome the emotion
- 56:47the memory without the emotion is called
- 56:48wisdom and that's the name of the game
- 56:50in three-dimensional reality. Now
- 56:52they're ready for a new experience.
- 56:54It's not it's not reliving the past. You
- 56:56don't need to. You don't need to talk
- 56:57about it. All you need to do is overcome
- 56:59the emotion. When you overcome the
- 57:00emotion, you're free from the past.
- 57:02You can see it from a greater level of
- 57:04consciousness and that's when a person
- 57:05so many times in when they truly change,
- 57:08they'll say this. We've seen it over and
- 57:09over again.
- 57:11They reach that point where they finally
- 57:12break through and they and some of them
- 57:14have had some really difficult past.
- 57:16They'll say, I would not want to change
- 57:18one thing in my past because it brought
- 57:21me to this moment. That's the moment the
- 57:24past no longer exists. And they can look
- 57:26at their betrayers
- 57:28and see it with all had to happen for
- 57:30that moment and now they're they're
- 57:32free. They they no longer belong to the
- 57:34past. They belong to the future.
- 57:37I've never heard the concept or idea of
- 57:38being addicted to a negative emotion.
- 57:40People talk to me about being addicted
- 57:42to dopamine and pleasure and
- 57:44sh you know, and all those things and
- 57:46you know, like masturbation and
- 57:48sugar and but the thought of being
- 57:50addicted to a negative emotion is what
- 57:52you said to me earlier about the guilt.
- 57:53Well, well, think about this.
- 57:57What do people do when they when they
- 57:59feel an emotion?
- 58:01What do they do? They rely on something
- 58:04outside of them
- 58:06to make that emotion go away. So whether
- 58:08it's
- 58:09the masturbation or the pornography or
- 58:12the gambling or the shopping or the
- 58:14sugar or the whatever, it's all because
- 58:16they're trying to make that feeling go
- 58:18away and they're using something outside
- 58:20of them. So then
- 58:21there is some emotion that the person is
- 58:24regulating. That's why they're doing
- 58:26that. They're doing that, right? So
- 58:28so change the emotional state and it
- 58:30makes sense then the need to do it
- 58:32diminishes.
- 58:35Which is not
- 58:37doesn't seem to be very easy to do.
- 58:39Change my emotional state. Well, again,
- 58:41I think um
- 58:45if you if you understood
- 58:47what you were doing and why you were
- 58:48doing it, just like learning anything,
- 58:50if you if you understood a formula
- 58:52I think it wouldn't be as hard as you
- 58:54think it is.
- 58:55I mean because there is a way to change.
- 58:59And step one in that process of change
- 59:01is new information. Always.
- 59:03It's the forerunner to any experience.
- 59:07Without the information, we doubt
- 59:10that it's possible.
- 59:12And again, that the information and the
- 59:15science removes the doubt.
- 59:20I've I was doing some research recently
- 59:22about um why people change their beliefs
- 59:25and why they don't change their beliefs
- 59:26and some beliefs they're more
- 59:27susceptible to take on some information
- 59:29they're more they're susceptible to take
- 59:31on. One of the things I read about was
- 59:33when they believe the source. Yeah.
- 59:35Another thing I read about was when they
- 59:36when it's good news. So, if in studies
- 59:38where they say to someone you're more
- 59:40attractive according to the public than
- 59:41you believed, they're likely to shift
- 59:44rather than finding out they're less
- 59:45attractive. And also things like health,
- 59:46you're more healthy than you thought you
- 59:47were genetically, they're more likely to
- 59:49shift a belief. The nature of our
- 59:51beliefs and the nature of belief change,
- 59:53um
- 59:53I I was writing in in in my book about
- 59:56how um
- 59:58looking in the mirror and telling
- 1:00:00yourself something, like some of the
- 1:00:02sort of modern-day manifestation
- 1:00:04community belief, doesn't seem to work.
- 1:00:06Just looking in the mirror and telling
- 1:00:07myself that I'm beautiful and rich and
- 1:00:10successful and powerful doesn't seem to
- 1:00:12be an effective way to cause actual
- 1:00:14belief change.
- 1:00:16Do you agree or disagree with this idea
- 1:00:18that you can look in the mirror and say
- 1:00:19something to yourself?
- 1:00:21When when we study belief and the change
- 1:00:25in belief,
- 1:00:27uh I want I'll answer it on two levels,
- 1:00:29Stephen. The first level is that in
- 1:00:31order for a person to change a belief or
- 1:00:33perception about themselves and their
- 1:00:35life,
- 1:00:37majority of those people made a decision
- 1:00:39with such firm intention that the
- 1:00:41amplitude of that decision carried a
- 1:00:44level of energy that was greater than
- 1:00:46the hardwired programs in their brain
- 1:00:48and the emotional conditioning their
- 1:00:49body. As I said earlier, their body
- 1:00:51literally responded to their mind. The
- 1:00:54choice that they were making
- 1:00:56became a moment in time they would never
- 1:00:58forget. They'll tell you where they
- 1:00:59were, what time of day it was, who they
- 1:01:01were with when they made up their mind
- 1:01:03to change. It became a long-term memory.
- 1:01:05And the stronger the emotion we feel,
- 1:01:07the more altered we are inside of us,
- 1:01:09the more we remember that choice.
- 1:01:10That's why we need pain sometimes.
- 1:01:12That's when you said when you painted
- 1:01:14yourself into a corner and you said,
- 1:01:15"This is it.
- 1:01:17I don't care how I feel, body.
- 1:01:21I don't care how long it takes, time. I
- 1:01:23don't care what people think. I don't
- 1:01:25care what's going on in my life,
- 1:01:26environment. I'm going to do this." And
- 1:01:29you made up your mind the moment you
- 1:01:30felt that emotion, you were aligning to
- 1:01:32a new future and to change
- 1:01:34is to be greater than your body, to be
- 1:01:36greater than your environment, and to be
- 1:01:37greater than time.
- 1:01:39And so,
- 1:01:41when a person comes out of their resting
- 1:01:42state,
- 1:01:43because your body is trillions of cells,
- 1:01:4770 trillion cells, and they're all
- 1:01:48spying on your brain.
- 1:01:50And if you were sitting there and and
- 1:01:51you said, "Nine out of 10 times, I'm
- 1:01:55going to fake standing up. One time, I'm
- 1:01:57actually going to stand up." Before you
- 1:01:59ever made that conscious decision, your
- 1:02:01body is so precognitive, it already
- 1:02:03knows when you're going to stand up cuz
- 1:02:05it's got to release a certain amount of
- 1:02:07adrenaline so the same volume of your
- 1:02:09blood goes to your brain.
- 1:02:11So, if you're sitting on the couch with
- 1:02:12the remote control and you got your cell
- 1:02:15phone here and your iPad here and your
- 1:02:17computer here and your dog here and your
- 1:02:19beer here and the big TV there
- 1:02:21and you're eating your popcorn and and
- 1:02:23you say, "You know, I I think um
- 1:02:27I'm going to change tomorrow."
- 1:02:29You What do you think your precognitive
- 1:02:30body's going to say? Relax, he's lying
- 1:02:33again. He's not He's not willing to He's
- 1:02:36not willing to signal the body it's time
- 1:02:38to ride, you know, it's not There's no
- 1:02:40signal to the body.
- 1:02:42And so, making that choice to change
- 1:02:46your state of being with a clear
- 1:02:47intention and elevated emotion actually
- 1:02:50changes your state to believe in that
- 1:02:52future more than you believe in your
- 1:02:54past. Keep it up. Keep doing it. That's
- 1:02:56a big explosion in the field. That's
- 1:02:58important. That's a change in energy.
- 1:03:00And nobody changes until they change
- 1:03:02their energy. And when they change their
- 1:03:03energy, they change their life. So, then
- 1:03:05you make up your mind to do that and all
- 1:03:07of a sudden, you have that
- 1:03:08synchronicity. You have that
- 1:03:10serendipity. You have that coincidence.
- 1:03:11And all of a sudden, you're saying,
- 1:03:13"Hey, that worked. Something I did
- 1:03:14inside of me produced an effect outside
- 1:03:17of me. I'm going to pay attention to
- 1:03:18what I did. I'm going to do it again.
- 1:03:19I'll try it again. Let's the experiment
- 1:03:21continue." You do it again and then you
- 1:03:23say, "Well, when did I stop
- 1:03:24disbelieving? Oh my god, I was stopped
- 1:03:26disbelieving when I ran into that
- 1:03:27person. We had that conversation and I'm
- 1:03:29like, "God,
- 1:03:30I returned back to my old belief again.
- 1:03:32Okay. Next time that happens, that I'm
- 1:03:34going to This is what I'll do." And you
- 1:03:35rehearse it in. So, your evolution
- 1:03:39in your belief in self it changes as
- 1:03:41well. So, then
- 1:03:43so many people, second point, will
- 1:03:46actually say this, "You know, I read the
- 1:03:49philosophy. I understand the knowledge.
- 1:03:51I understand what it means to change. I
- 1:03:52understand the power of meditation. I
- 1:03:54saw the testimonials. I saw people heal.
- 1:03:57I believe it's the truth.
- 1:03:58I just didn't believe it could work for
- 1:04:00me. This is a big moment. This is a
- 1:04:03moment where you step out of the
- 1:04:04bleachers and you got to get on the
- 1:04:05playing field.
- 1:04:07That's the person who says, "If this
- 1:04:09works and I believe it it works, I got
- 1:04:11to prove it to myself. I got to actually
- 1:04:14I got to actually prove it to myself
- 1:04:16that I believe that it could work for
- 1:04:17me."
- 1:04:19And some of them show up every day for a
- 1:04:21year and never miss their work. Never
- 1:04:23miss their meditation. A whole year in
- 1:04:26changing from the old self to the new
- 1:04:27self. They were doing their meditations
- 1:04:29to change, not to heal.
- 1:04:31They were doing their meditations to
- 1:04:32change and when they changed, they
- 1:04:34healed. They did their meditations
- 1:04:35sometimes three times a day because they
- 1:04:37stopped believing. They start
- 1:04:39disbelieving and they were like, "I
- 1:04:40defaulted. Why? Cuz I'm feeling the
- 1:04:43emotion of my past. Some stray thought,
- 1:04:45some response to someone or something
- 1:04:47caused me to feel it and I forgot. I'm
- 1:04:49back to the emotion that's familiar and
- 1:04:51I can't believe in that future. I'm
- 1:04:53believing in my past. Let me sit down
- 1:04:55and change my state of being again and
- 1:04:57get up believing in my future again."
- 1:04:59And sometimes they had to do it
- 1:05:01three times in one day. And when they
- 1:05:03understood
- 1:05:05that's the environment that signals the
- 1:05:07gene, that's epigenetics,
- 1:05:09and the end product of an experience in
- 1:05:10the environment is an emotion and it is,
- 1:05:14you could actually signal genes ahead of
- 1:05:16the environment by changing your
- 1:05:17emotional state. They were doing it with
- 1:05:19that intention.
- 1:05:21And when you assign meaning to the act,
- 1:05:23you get a greater outcome and you turn
- 1:05:24on the prefrontal cortex and now your
- 1:05:26biology literally begins to change. And
- 1:05:28we have data that suggests by just
- 1:05:31having the intention to make certain
- 1:05:33genes,
- 1:05:34to make certain proteins or uh signal
- 1:05:36certain genes and make certain proteins.
- 1:05:38Just having the intention literally
- 1:05:40begins to cause the body to make those
- 1:05:42chemicals.
- 1:05:45And what causes relapse in those
- 1:05:47moments?
- 1:05:48Cuz I've had multiple moments of where I
- 1:05:50thought behavior change had been
- 1:05:51established and I managed to conduct a
- 1:05:53new habit cycle and new behavior,
- 1:05:56favorable and you know, intended
- 1:05:58behavior for a period. And then
- 1:05:59something happens in my life
- 1:06:02almost subconsciously,
- 1:06:04seamlessly.
- 1:06:05Seamlessly, and I'm back Yeah.
- 1:06:07to all the old circuitry.
- 1:06:08You went unconscious. You went
- 1:06:10unconscious and normally
- 1:06:12it's unconscious to some thought
- 1:06:15or some response
- 1:06:18in your environment. You see someone or
- 1:06:20you do something or you have some
- 1:06:22interaction in your outer world and the
- 1:06:24moment you have that interaction, you
- 1:06:26you causes you to feel a certain way and
- 1:06:28you return back to to the past,
- 1:06:31basically. The the emotion is the past.
- 1:06:33And that the body is actually living in
- 1:06:36the past. It's so objective, it doesn't
- 1:06:38know the difference.
- 1:06:40It doesn't know the difference between
- 1:06:41the real-life experience that's creating
- 1:06:42that emotion and the emotion that
- 1:06:44person's living by every day. It's
- 1:06:46believing it's in the same past
- 1:06:47experience again. And it will behave in
- 1:06:50the past and it will think in the past.
- 1:06:51Subconsciously. Subconsciously.
- 1:06:53Seamlessly. So, I could for for example,
- 1:06:56if going to
- 1:06:57I don't know, let's say France. I had a
- 1:07:00traumatic experience in France when I
- 1:07:01was 10 years old, let's just say. And
- 1:07:03then I go to France when I'm 30 years
- 1:07:04old and I get back to I just start
- 1:07:06eating junk food,
- 1:07:08for example.
- 1:07:10And I don't know why. I've like fallen
- 1:07:11out of my gym habit and I'm eating junk
- 1:07:12food. That
- 1:07:14Theoretically, that could be my
- 1:07:15subconscious that
- 1:07:16um
- 1:07:18falling back into a is experiencing that
- 1:07:20survival without me knowing knowing it?
- 1:07:22Yes. So, so if to change is to be
- 1:07:25greater than your environment, to be
- 1:07:27greater than your body, and to be
- 1:07:28greater than time,
- 1:07:30then your neocortex, your thinking
- 1:07:32brain, is a reflection of everything you
- 1:07:34know in your life. It's an artifact of
- 1:07:36the past. It's a record repository of
- 1:07:39everything you've learned and
- 1:07:40experienced to this date. And you have a
- 1:07:42neurological network for everything
- 1:07:44known in your environment. Your parents,
- 1:07:47your friends, your car, your computer,
- 1:07:49every object, every person, everything
- 1:07:50you have a neurological network for your
- 1:07:52identity as your body, from your past,
- 1:07:55for your ambitions in your future. Your
- 1:07:57brain is reflection of everything that's
- 1:07:59known.
- 1:08:00And because you've experienced all these
- 1:08:02elements in your environment, there's an
- 1:08:03emotion associated with it. So, you have
- 1:08:05an emotion associated with certain
- 1:08:06people, different emotions associated
- 1:08:08with other people, different emotions
- 1:08:10associated with other objects and things
- 1:08:12and other places and time.
- 1:08:14So, then
- 1:08:16there's so much research to show that
- 1:08:18when you put a person in the same
- 1:08:20environment and they see the same people
- 1:08:22and they go to the same places and they
- 1:08:23do the same things at the exact same
- 1:08:25time, it's no longer their personality
- 1:08:27is creating their personal reality.
- 1:08:29Their personal reality is creating their
- 1:08:31personality. Their environment is
- 1:08:33controlling unconsciously or
- 1:08:36subconsciously the way they're thinking
- 1:08:38and the way they're feeling. So, when
- 1:08:40they see their co-worker, when they see
- 1:08:42their friend, when they see their
- 1:08:43parents, they're seeing their parents,
- 1:08:45their friends, their co-workers in their
- 1:08:47neurological network as a memory of the
- 1:08:50past. And because every one of those
- 1:08:52people has an emotion associated with
- 1:08:54it, they start feeling the emotion
- 1:08:56that's connected to them and now their
- 1:08:58state of being then is returning back to
- 1:09:00the past. So, then to change then is to
- 1:09:02be greater
- 1:09:04than your environment, to think, act,
- 1:09:07and feel differently in the same
- 1:09:09conditions in your life. That's called
- 1:09:10change.
- 1:09:12And how does How would I do that wake
- 1:09:15from you know,
- 1:09:17I walk in and I see my parents,
- 1:09:19mom, dad, dog, house where I grew up in.
- 1:09:22Is there something that I do in that
- 1:09:24moment before that moment, when I woke
- 1:09:26up that morning, to make sure that I
- 1:09:27didn't slip off into the unconscious
- 1:09:29um memory and then for and therefore get
- 1:09:31the sort of unconscious feelings about
- 1:09:34that experience. Well, whatever it is
- 1:09:36that you want. If it's If it's
- 1:09:38overeating, I don't know. I'm making
- 1:09:39stuff up. If it's
- 1:09:41some emotional button that you have with
- 1:09:43your family
- 1:09:44and and you don't want to feel that way.
- 1:09:46Yeah, I would rehearse that. If I If I
- 1:09:48didn't want to have that. If If you have
- 1:09:49a great If you're in I mean, I go to
- 1:09:51when I would go to my parents' home when
- 1:09:53I when I got older
- 1:09:55it was all most of the associations were
- 1:09:57so fond for me. Just being at home and
- 1:09:59being with my parents and remembering
- 1:10:01where I grew up. It was always fun for
- 1:10:02me. And and coming back and seeing how
- 1:10:04much I changed in coming back and seeing
- 1:10:07the the life that I lived at one point
- 1:10:08you know, one point in in my timeline.
- 1:10:11So, if it's something that you truly
- 1:10:13want to change, you're going to remind
- 1:10:14yourself
- 1:10:16how you're not going to think. You're
- 1:10:18going to You're going to remind yourself
- 1:10:20how you're not going to act. You're
- 1:10:22going to remind yourself how you're not
- 1:10:23going to feel and you got to remind
- 1:10:25yourself enough times so you don't
- 1:10:27forget cuz the moment you forget, you go
- 1:10:28unconscious. Then you're going to remind
- 1:10:30yourself how you are going to think.
- 1:10:32You're going to remind yourself what
- 1:10:33you're going to do and rehearse it in
- 1:10:35your mind. And you're going to remind
- 1:10:36yourself what feeling you want to stay
- 1:10:39in the entire time so you don't default
- 1:10:41back to the old self. If you practice
- 1:10:43that, I guarantee you'll make some
- 1:10:45progress. If you lose it nothing wrong.
- 1:10:48Tomorrow's another day. You got another
- 1:10:50You got another chance and we just get
- 1:10:52really good at whatever we practice.
- 1:10:54So, then when you return back into your
- 1:10:56life and you say, "Okay
- 1:10:59no person
- 1:11:01no place
- 1:11:02no thing, no object, no circumstance, no
- 1:11:05pain, no craving
- 1:11:08is going to cause me to move from this
- 1:11:09state today. I guarantee you
- 1:11:12if you're able to maintain that modified
- 1:11:14state of mind and body your entire day
- 1:11:16something unusual happen and will come
- 1:11:19in a way that you least expect.
- 1:11:22That surprises you and leaves no doubt
- 1:11:24that what you're doing inside of you is
- 1:11:27producing some effect outside of you.
- 1:11:29And the moment you see the feedback in
- 1:11:31your environment as a result of your
- 1:11:32internal change you're going to pay
- 1:11:34attention and do it again and you're
- 1:11:35going to start believing, "God, did I
- 1:11:37really create that? Did that really
- 1:11:39happen because of how I changed?" That's
- 1:11:41when the game really begins to become
- 1:11:43exciting.
- 1:11:44Practice.
- 1:11:45Practice. I've been at it a long time.
- 1:11:49I can tell.
- 1:11:50Practice. Yeah. Um people hear that they
- 1:11:53go
- 1:11:54Joe, how long?
- 1:11:55How much practice?
- 1:11:57You know, are you talking about a
- 1:11:58I've got to I've got to do this for
- 1:11:59three, four, five years or
- 1:12:01you know, and and that practice, what
- 1:12:03does that look like practically
- 1:12:06for someone like me who hears everything
- 1:12:08you've just said and wants to make
- 1:12:09changes in key areas of my life?
- 1:12:11Okay, so
- 1:12:14there's two times when the door to the
- 1:12:15subconscious mind opens up. When you
- 1:12:17wake up in the morning cuz your brain
- 1:12:19waves are going from delta to theta to
- 1:12:21alpha to beta
- 1:12:22and when you go to bed at night, you go
- 1:12:23from beta to alpha to theta to delta and
- 1:12:26you slip through that scale pretty
- 1:12:27quickly in the morning and the evening.
- 1:12:30But your brain waves start to change
- 1:12:31during those times and and one of the
- 1:12:33features, one of the important elements
- 1:12:35of meditation is to get beyond the
- 1:12:37analytical mind.
- 1:12:39And what separates the conscious mind
- 1:12:40from the subconscious mind is the
- 1:12:42analytical mind. So, 5% as we said is
- 1:12:45our conscious mind, 95% is programmed
- 1:12:47subconsciously. And if you're going to
- 1:12:49try to change yourself with your
- 1:12:51conscious mind, you're outside the
- 1:12:52operating system.
- 1:12:54So, then you got to learn how to change
- 1:12:55your brain waves, slow them down
- 1:12:58get beyond the analytical mind and enter
- 1:13:01the operating system where you can
- 1:13:02rewrite a program, where you can make
- 1:13:04those changes. And so
- 1:13:06learn how to do that, practice learn how
- 1:13:09to do that.
- 1:13:10And again, it's not a big deal. It's
- 1:13:12easy to learn.
- 1:13:14And then once you can slow your brain
- 1:13:16waves down and you're more suggestible
- 1:13:18to what you're thinking, now you can
- 1:13:19reprogram. You can't do with your
- 1:13:21conscious mind. You can say, "I'm
- 1:13:22healthy. I'm healthy. I'm wealthy. I'm
- 1:13:23wealthy. I'm unlimited. I'm unlimited.
- 1:13:26I'm happy. I'm happy. I'm whole. I'm
- 1:13:27whole." And your body's saying, "No,
- 1:13:29you're not, dude. You're miserable.
- 1:13:31You're unhappy." That thought never
- 1:13:32makes it past the brain stem to reach
- 1:13:34the body, right? So
- 1:13:37it's important for us to in the morning
- 1:13:39or the evening
- 1:13:40instead of reaching for our cell phone
- 1:13:42as the first thing as a habit that we do
- 1:13:45and checking our texts and our WhatsApp
- 1:13:47and our Telegram and our social media
- 1:13:49and our Instagram and our Twitter and
- 1:13:51and Facebook and whatever else people
- 1:13:54do, their emails, they get connected to
- 1:13:56everything known in their life. Before
- 1:13:57you start that try this out as an
- 1:13:59experiment. Before you start your day,
- 1:14:02instead of falling into that redundant
- 1:14:04habit
- 1:14:05you know, go on autopilot, just say,
- 1:14:06"Okay if the change is to be greater
- 1:14:08than my body, to be greater than my
- 1:14:10environment, be greater than time
- 1:14:12and and the environment's so seductive
- 1:14:15and my body's craving certain emotions
- 1:14:17and it's programmed to get up and do
- 1:14:19things, I'm going to sit my body down.
- 1:14:21I'm going to
- 1:14:21tame the animal here. And when I'm ready
- 1:14:24to get up, we're going to get up, not
- 1:14:26when it's tired or when it wants to go.
- 1:14:29You could literally go inward and forget
- 1:14:32about your outer world. No longer think
- 1:14:34about anything out there.
- 1:14:36If you could lose track of the familiar
- 1:14:40past or the predictable future and fall
- 1:14:42into the present moment. And if you were
- 1:14:44sitting there in silence aware of
- 1:14:46nothing but you
- 1:14:48and you said, "Okay, what is
- 1:14:50the greatest expression of myself I can
- 1:14:52be today?"
- 1:14:54And do that exact process. Let me write
- 1:14:56down two thoughts that are not going to
- 1:14:58slip by my awareness unnoticed by me
- 1:15:01today. Two memories, whatever it is.
- 1:15:03What are two behaviors I want to change
- 1:15:05today? Let me stay conscious of them and
- 1:15:07not go unconscious to them today.
- 1:15:10Even if it means how I speak.
- 1:15:13What are two emotions
- 1:15:15that I live by every day that I can
- 1:15:16literally change. I want to become
- 1:15:18conscious of what they feel like in my
- 1:15:19body. I want to catch them the moment I
- 1:15:21start feeling them. Let me review them
- 1:15:23over and over again
- 1:15:24enough times so I don't go unconscious.
- 1:15:26Okay, now I'm conscious of my
- 1:15:28unconscious, that 95%.
- 1:15:30How do I want to think? How would
- 1:15:32greatness think today? Let me review it.
- 1:15:33Let me repeat it. Let me remember how I
- 1:15:36am going to think. Let me remember how I
- 1:15:37am going to think.
- 1:15:39Let me remember how I'm going to behave
- 1:15:41here when I'm How am I going to act
- 1:15:43here? Let me rehearse a change I want to
- 1:15:45make in the certain circumstance.
- 1:15:48Let me think about how I do want to feel
- 1:15:50today. Let me open my heart to life
- 1:15:51again. Let me feel kindness and care and
- 1:15:54love and gratitude and appreciation. Let
- 1:15:56me Let me just bring up that feeling.
- 1:15:58Let me feel it with my heart. Let me
- 1:15:59keep bringing it up so I can bring it up
- 1:16:02enough times. I want to get so good
- 1:16:04at bringing up this feeling with my eyes
- 1:16:05closed I can do it with my eyes open.
- 1:16:08You practice that and you not make a
- 1:16:10decision to not get up until you feel
- 1:16:12that emotion.
- 1:16:14And then ask yourself, "Can I stay in
- 1:16:15this state my entire day?"
- 1:16:18And if you can't and you go unconscious,
- 1:16:20ask yourself at the end of the day,
- 1:16:22"How'd I do?
- 1:16:23Where'd I go unconscious? Okay, tomorrow
- 1:16:25morning, new day, new lifetime. Let me
- 1:16:27go again. Let me try again." And it's
- 1:16:29the practice, it's the repetition that
- 1:16:32causes the change. Now, here's
- 1:16:34the beauty behind this because all of a
- 1:16:35sudden when those synchronicities start
- 1:16:37to happen, when the coincidences start
- 1:16:39to happen, it's no longer a have to.
- 1:16:42It's no longer, "Oh jeez, I got to go
- 1:16:43create my life." It's not like that.
- 1:16:45It's like the magic is happening you
- 1:16:47don't want it to end. Like you you you
- 1:16:49realize that you are actually creating
- 1:16:51outcomes in your life and now you're not
- 1:16:53you're you're you're you're you're
- 1:16:54wanting to do the work because you want
- 1:16:57the magic to continue in your life and
- 1:16:58that's kind of what I'm super proud of
- 1:17:00it with our community. We're doers, you
- 1:17:02know, we they do the work not because
- 1:17:04they have to, because they love all the
- 1:17:06changes that happen in their life as a
- 1:17:08result of it, whether it's a mystical
- 1:17:09experience, a transcendental moment, you
- 1:17:11know, a great opportunity in their life.
- 1:17:14They're like, "Wow, I I I somehow had a
- 1:17:17hand in creating this." And so the
- 1:17:20so the excitement of life, the adventure
- 1:17:22of life, the unknown becomes the becomes
- 1:17:25the quest.
- 1:17:28I'm so so I got to admit, I'm one of
- 1:17:30those people that wakes up in the
- 1:17:31morning and then just gets dragged
- 1:17:33dragged off
- 1:17:35out of the bed
- 1:17:36by my phone and notifications and off
- 1:17:38into my day totally unconscious.
- 1:17:41And there's been so many things that I
- 1:17:43reflect on in my life and go, "Man, I
- 1:17:45just really want to
- 1:17:47I'll get home at the end of the day and
- 1:17:48I'll look at certain instances where I
- 1:17:50responded in certain ways and go, "Man,
- 1:17:51I hate that about myself."
- 1:17:53And I really want to change that.
- 1:17:55And it happens again the next day and I
- 1:17:58go come home and I think, "Man, I hate
- 1:17:59that about myself and I really want to
- 1:18:00change that." And it happens the next
- 1:18:03day. And it's been happening for 2
- 1:18:04years.
- 1:18:09When do you want to change that?
- 1:18:12When you're ready to change that, you
- 1:18:13will.
- 1:18:14When you're when it's becomes boring and
- 1:18:15it becomes predictable. I don't want to
- 1:18:17have to wait for a crisis or you know,
- 1:18:19cuz
- 1:18:20Well, now that you know, you can't not
- 1:18:22know. Yeah, I know. Yeah.
- 1:18:24Now that you know, you can't not know.
- 1:18:25And on some level
- 1:18:28you may have a belief that you think
- 1:18:30this is hard.
- 1:18:32Yeah, I do. Yeah, yeah. Cuz I've
- 1:18:33struggled with it. Yeah, yeah. And it's
- 1:18:34just like
- 1:18:36uh
- 1:18:36what
- 1:18:37you going learning snowboarding and
- 1:18:39never taking a lesson, right? It's going
- 1:18:41to be like it's going to be tenuous.
- 1:18:43It's going to be challenging. It's going
- 1:18:44to be difficult.
- 1:18:46Put your time in learn how to do it and
- 1:18:48it gets easier as you do it. It's just
- 1:18:50like you just you just have to learn the
- 1:18:52formula. There's a formula that we've
- 1:18:53discovered that it it's it's actually
- 1:18:56enjoyable when you do it right.
- 1:18:58And you actually like it. People want to
- 1:19:00do more of it because it feels so good
- 1:19:02and
- 1:19:03I mean, we see you look at the
- 1:19:05the HRV measurements with our community,
- 1:19:07look at our brain scans. These are
- 1:19:09people that they're not faking ecstasy.
- 1:19:12They're not faking it. Their brain is at
- 1:19:13such a a level of arousal.
- 1:19:16And the arousal's not pain. The
- 1:19:18arousal's not
- 1:19:19fear. The arousal's not aggression or
- 1:19:22anger. the arousal is ecstasy. The brain
- 1:19:24is going in this heightened state.
- 1:19:26They're making a connection to something
- 1:19:28really big. And that feels really good.
- 1:19:30And when they realize that they've hit
- 1:19:32something really big and it's not coming
- 1:19:34from anyone or anything outside of them,
- 1:19:37they stop looking for it out there and
- 1:19:38they realize it's been within them the
- 1:19:40whole time. I think I think
- 1:19:42so many people
- 1:19:43want so many things in their life, but
- 1:19:45what we really want is wholeness.
- 1:19:47Cuz when you have wholeness, you can't
- 1:19:49want. How could you want when you're
- 1:19:50whole? You only want when you're in
- 1:19:52lack.
- 1:19:53When there's brain and heart coherence,
- 1:19:55um
- 1:19:55there's a level of wholeness that takes
- 1:19:57place
- 1:19:58where a person is no longer interested
- 1:20:00in separation or lack. They feel like
- 1:20:02they have everything they want. That's a
- 1:20:03great place to be in.
- 1:20:05And we've discovered that the more
- 1:20:07relaxed you are in your heart,
- 1:20:09the more awake you are in your brain.
- 1:20:11It's relaxed in the heart and awake in
- 1:20:13the brain, and we teach that. People
- 1:20:15actually can get good at doing that.
- 1:20:17I really want to talk to you about this
- 1:20:18brain coherence and this heart
- 1:20:19coherence. Um I have to
- 1:20:22close off on that morning
- 1:20:24routine thing by asking you exactly what
- 1:20:26did you do this morning? Ooh.
- 1:20:29This morning.
- 1:20:31Uh I was up probably around uh
- 1:20:354:30.
- 1:20:36Yeah.
- 1:20:37Why? Because there's nobody that can
- 1:20:39bother me at that time.
- 1:20:41There's no
- 1:20:44emails, there's no texts, there's
- 1:20:46there's no there's my it's my time. What
- 1:20:48time were you in bed?
- 1:20:50Um probably between uh 10:00 and 11:00.
- 1:20:54Okay.
- 1:20:55So that's not enough sleep for you, huh?
- 1:20:58Well,
- 1:20:59no, that is. I think I I actually
- 1:21:00measure my sleep, so I
- 1:21:02and I look at it every day. That's part
- 1:21:03of the reason I'm dragging out of bed,
- 1:21:04but Yeah, for me 4:00 in the morning,
- 1:21:065:00 in the morning is a really great
- 1:21:07time. I just I I've just conditioned my
- 1:21:09body that way.
- 1:21:11Um that's the time. And and I I spend a
- 1:21:14little time
- 1:21:15uh remembering what I'm doing. What am I
- 1:21:17doing? What are you doing
- 1:21:19in this meditation? Why are you doing
- 1:21:20this meditation? What are you about to
- 1:21:22do? I like to
- 1:21:24just get myself
- 1:21:25in my think box. Organizing what am I
- 1:21:27not going to think about, what am I
- 1:21:29going to stay away from, what am I not
- 1:21:30going to do uh in my meditation. Let me
- 1:21:32review that. What I am what am I going
- 1:21:33to do?
- 1:21:35When I get that all worked out, then I
- 1:21:36get in my play box. In my play box,
- 1:21:38there's no thinking. I've got all the
- 1:21:39thinking done in my think box. In my
- 1:21:41play box, it's really about me changing
- 1:21:43my state.
- 1:21:44And so um I allow for 2 hours every
- 1:21:47morning. Doesn't mean I always take it
- 1:21:49uh or need it, let me say that, but I
- 1:21:51allow for 2 hours. Sometimes I like to
- 1:21:53just get my mind
- 1:21:54straight, and then
- 1:21:56uh I do the work. And I do the work and
- 1:21:58and
- 1:21:59uh I like to get to that point where
- 1:22:02when I'm done, I feel
- 1:22:03like something changed. Do the work.
- 1:22:05Yeah.
- 1:22:07What does the work look like?
- 1:22:09It's meditation. Yeah.
- 1:22:11It's finding the present moment. It's
- 1:22:13getting into the unknown. It's getting
- 1:22:15beyond myself, disconnecting from my
- 1:22:17body, getting beyond
- 1:22:19any thought of anyone or anything,
- 1:22:21getting beyond time, moving beyond space
- 1:22:23and time.
- 1:22:25Turns out when you focus on nothing,
- 1:22:27there are so many amazing things that
- 1:22:28happen to your brain. I've seen the
- 1:22:30scans over and over again.
- 1:22:33What have you seen in the scans?
- 1:22:36Well, there's this thing in the brain
- 1:22:37called modularity.
- 1:22:40And when we're living uh by the hormones
- 1:22:42of stress, and stress is when you can't
- 1:22:45predict something,
- 1:22:46when you can't control something, or you
- 1:22:48have the perception that something's
- 1:22:49going to get worse. You switch on that
- 1:22:51fight or flight nervous system, and the
- 1:22:53rush of those chemicals
- 1:22:55causes us to become alert, to become
- 1:22:57aroused. And we narrow our focus
- 1:23:00on the material world. And so when
- 1:23:02you're not able to control everything in
- 1:23:04your life and you can't predict
- 1:23:05everything in your life,
- 1:23:06you start shifting your attention to
- 1:23:08everyone and everything, every person,
- 1:23:09every object, every place. We've all had
- 1:23:11that experience when we're under stress.
- 1:23:13And
- 1:23:14every one of those people, those
- 1:23:15objects, those things, those places has
- 1:23:17a neurological network in the brain. So
- 1:23:19like a lightning storm in the clouds,
- 1:23:21the brain begins to fire out of order,
- 1:23:23very incoherently. It becomes modulated
- 1:23:26or compartmentalized.
- 1:23:28It's a house divided against itself, and
- 1:23:30those individual compartments don't talk
- 1:23:32to the rest of the brain. And we tend to
- 1:23:34get overfocused. You never notice when
- 1:23:37you're under stress, you're obsessing
- 1:23:38about something, you're overfocusing
- 1:23:40about something, you're overthinking
- 1:23:41something, you're overanalyzing. You're
- 1:23:43driving your brain higher and higher
- 1:23:45into higher states of arousal, high beta
- 1:23:47brain wave patterns.
- 1:23:50We discovered that if you teach a person
- 1:23:51to go from a narrow focus on something
- 1:23:53physical, something material,
- 1:23:55and broaden their focus, open their
- 1:23:58awareness, and put their attention on
- 1:23:59space, on nothing,
- 1:24:01and create what's called a divergent
- 1:24:03focus,
- 1:24:04the act of sensing and no longer
- 1:24:06analyzing, thinking, begins to slow the
- 1:24:09brain waves down from that beta brain
- 1:24:12wave state to a low level beta, and then
- 1:24:14all of a sudden to alpha.
- 1:24:15If they keep doing it, sensing space
- 1:24:18tends to cause those different
- 1:24:20compartments that were modulated or
- 1:24:22divided to begin to synchronize.
- 1:24:25And what syncs in the brain actually
- 1:24:26links in the brain. So the brain starts
- 1:24:28firing in a more holistic state. In
- 1:24:30other words, every single area of the
- 1:24:32brain is resonating at the same
- 1:24:35frequency. And now the brain is
- 1:24:36functioning as one neurological network
- 1:24:39instead of individuals. That kind of
- 1:24:41holism, that kind of
- 1:24:43order feels really good. It feels really
- 1:24:46good.
- 1:24:47And so people practice slowing the brain
- 1:24:50waves down not only to get beyond the
- 1:24:51analytical mind,
- 1:24:53but to cause the brain to fire in a more
- 1:24:55coherent way. And if we're going to have
- 1:24:57a clear intention
- 1:24:59about what we want, the more coherent
- 1:25:00the brain, the clearer the intention. So
- 1:25:03we've seen in 7 days, even in 4 days,
- 1:25:06these dramatic changes in the levels of
- 1:25:09coherence and order that take place in
- 1:25:11the brain. The brain's firing in a more
- 1:25:13holistic state. That's when the person
- 1:25:15notices
- 1:25:16a change in their anxiety, in their
- 1:25:17depression, in their PS PTSD, whatever
- 1:25:20it is. There's more order in the brain.
- 1:25:22And and
- 1:25:23uh the act of focusing on nothing and
- 1:25:25opening your awareness to space
- 1:25:27creates that kind of amazing change. Did
- 1:25:30you set an intention this morning? I
- 1:25:31did.
- 1:25:33Can you tell me what it is? Ooh.
- 1:25:36Um I want to be relaxed and awake. I
- 1:25:38want to be present with everything that
- 1:25:39I do.
- 1:25:40Um I want to stay in my heart the entire
- 1:25:43day.
- 1:25:44And um I want to be inspired by, you
- 1:25:46know, the idea of helping people change.
- 1:25:50Do you struggle? I do. Yeah. What do you
- 1:25:52struggle with?
- 1:25:54Wow. Um I run a lot of different
- 1:25:58aspects of my company. I have
- 1:26:01uh events side. Uh we have a product
- 1:26:03side. We have corporate consulting. We
- 1:26:05have 250 corporate trainers.
- 1:26:08Uh we have a vitamin uh company uh
- 1:26:11called BioCentropy. We work with uh
- 1:26:13remote coherence healers uh that
- 1:26:16actually are we do research and they're
- 1:26:18remotely changing people's health. We
- 1:26:21have a huge research team with
- 1:26:22University of California, San Diego.
- 1:26:25Uh we have a lot of players on the team.
- 1:26:27We have um
- 1:26:28uh nonprofits.
- 1:26:30Uh
- 1:26:31What else we have? Um
- 1:26:33We have a Inner Health Coalition for
- 1:26:35physicians and and doctors and health
- 1:26:37care practitioners around the world that
- 1:26:39want to teach a different model. So I
- 1:26:40have a lot of different things that I
- 1:26:42have my hand in.
- 1:26:44Um
- 1:26:45And I think you know, I'm creative by
- 1:26:47nature.
- 1:26:48And I like to be creative. And sometimes
- 1:26:51I have a lot of obligations
- 1:26:53in terms of making decisions for 2026,
- 1:26:57uh decisions about things that I need to
- 1:26:58do,
- 1:26:59uh documentaries, whatever it is. And
- 1:27:02and I think I struggle with not having
- 1:27:05wanting more time for being creative.
- 1:27:08Uh and that's kind of the fun part of my
- 1:27:09job, whether
- 1:27:11I look at the data, I see the research,
- 1:27:13and then I go, "Oh my god, I want to do
- 1:27:14a meditation. Now I understand how to do
- 1:27:16this meditation or teach this better."
- 1:27:19All the information that we're gathering
- 1:27:21in our research is to teach
- 1:27:22transformation better. That's why I want
- 1:27:24to close the gap between knowledge and
- 1:27:25experience.
- 1:27:27So it's we have billions of data points,
- 1:27:30and it's a lot of time to look through
- 1:27:33all that and to learn about it. Uh but
- 1:27:35if I would if I would choose to do
- 1:27:37something, I would love to study the
- 1:27:39research more, love to
- 1:27:41uh do more teach um
- 1:27:43um
- 1:27:44create more meditations, you know, uh
- 1:27:46teach some more unique courses. Uh and
- 1:27:49so I I think I I think one of my
- 1:27:50challenges really is to is to be able to
- 1:27:54stay creative with everything I have
- 1:27:56going on in my life. I think everyone
- 1:27:58that's a high achiever
- 1:28:00always wishes they could pause time.
- 1:28:03I think um
- 1:28:05we're we're at such a level of growth
- 1:28:07right now to just
- 1:28:09uh
- 1:28:10uh globally.
- 1:28:12I mean, our events sell out in 10
- 1:28:13minutes, you know,
- 1:28:14uh 5, 10 minutes. And and we have a
- 1:28:17waiting list of
- 1:28:18sometimes 10,000 people. Well, that's a
- 1:28:20problem. You know, that's a
- 1:28:22And and I won't give up doing um live
- 1:28:24events, you know, I think it's I won't
- 1:28:27do it online. I think it's there's
- 1:28:29something special that happens
- 1:28:31uh in community.
- 1:28:33And so I've never met someone who is
- 1:28:37so mission driven and doing so well in
- 1:28:39this department that also
- 1:28:43isn't paying a personal cost
- 1:28:45for the mission in some regard or
- 1:28:47capacity.
- 1:28:48Well, I I think I've learned a few
- 1:28:49things over the years about that.
- 1:28:53And I think one of the great things,
- 1:28:55number one, is I have an amazing team. I
- 1:28:58mean, I'm nothing
- 1:28:59without my team.
- 1:29:01Uh and they're creatives, and they're
- 1:29:03cool, and they're
- 1:29:05emotionally intelligent, and they
- 1:29:07they're not nine-to-fivers. They share
- 1:29:09the same mission
- 1:29:10with me. They they see the same vision.
- 1:29:12They they do it for the same reason.
- 1:29:14Somehow they're part of that that change
- 1:29:16and transformation.
- 1:29:18Um
- 1:29:19So, my team um
- 1:29:21is able to allow me to do something
- 1:29:22really really unique and that is to
- 1:29:25focus on focus on what I love to do more
- 1:29:27than anything else. So, uh my team is
- 1:29:31super super huge help for me. So, I I I
- 1:29:33think that it's an important element.
- 1:29:35The other thing that I work on, I think
- 1:29:37every day of my life, is
- 1:29:40uh to be the example of everything that
- 1:29:41I teach. I I mean, that's important for
- 1:29:43me because
- 1:29:45uh uh
- 1:29:46I want to be I want to be in the game
- 1:29:48with everybody. So, when I see
- 1:29:50transformation, when I see miracles,
- 1:29:52when I see healings, when I see change,
- 1:29:54when I see
- 1:29:55poor people become rich, whatever that
- 1:29:57is,
- 1:29:58and I'm a part of that, I think it's
- 1:30:00really it humbles me. Yeah, it really
- 1:30:02makes me more humble in seeing what's
- 1:30:05possible for human beings. And And so, I
- 1:30:07never want this work to be about me. I
- 1:30:09want it to be about you. I want it to be
- 1:30:11I want to celebrate your story. Uh you
- 1:30:13know, I
- 1:30:15I want I want to I want to be there for
- 1:30:17that person when they open their eyes
- 1:30:18and were blind and they're seeing for
- 1:30:19the first time. I want to be right
- 1:30:21there.
- 1:30:21I want to be there. I want to remember
- 1:30:23that moment and the and and her joy.
- 1:30:26Um so,
- 1:30:29for me I I work on on being the example
- 1:30:32in every way that I can. And and and it
- 1:30:35sometimes it requires um
- 1:30:37a lot you know, extra time to do that.
- 1:30:39Yeah.
- 1:30:42What is What is the What is the um And
- 1:30:44then this is an interesting use of
- 1:30:46phrase cuz I'm saying the word cost as
- 1:30:47if as if as if it's a negative, but I
- 1:30:50just I think everyone that's leading a
- 1:30:52mission, whatever that might be, and
- 1:30:53they're really dedicated to that mission
- 1:30:55in the way that you are flying around
- 1:30:56the world,
- 1:30:57continuing to do it in person where most
- 1:30:59people you know, everyone knows you
- 1:31:00could just do it online and you'd
- 1:31:01probably make more money, to be honest.
- 1:31:03You know, there's people that just have
- 1:31:04moved online post-pandemic. You're
- 1:31:08you're giving a level of dedication and
- 1:31:09personal investment into this mission
- 1:31:12that must
- 1:31:13Well, I assume it must come at a
- 1:31:15personal cost to some degree.
- 1:31:18Um you make sacrifices. Um you have to
- 1:31:21sacrifice uh relationships at time, you
- 1:31:24know, sometimes you can't be where you
- 1:31:25want to be. Um
- 1:31:27but I think that the people in my life
- 1:31:29that love me understand my mission
- 1:31:32uh and and they respect that.
- 1:31:34Uh sometimes I'm on six different time
- 1:31:37zones in 4 weeks and and that's a lot
- 1:31:39for my body, you know, but
- 1:31:42um
- 1:31:43God, watching somebody on the stage just
- 1:31:45the other day tell the story of how she
- 1:31:48overcame trigeminal neuralgia in one
- 1:31:50moment in the event. She wanted someone
- 1:31:51to chop her head off. That's how much
- 1:31:53pain she had in her face for years.
- 1:31:55One moment. She said, "I have no pain.
- 1:31:58That's the first time I've not had pain
- 1:31:59in years."
- 1:32:01Uh to me, like
- 1:32:03that's worth all the lost luggage,
- 1:32:05the missed flights, uh
- 1:32:07uh the jet lag. That to me is worth more
- 1:32:10than all the gold in the world. I mean,
- 1:32:12I don't know. It's just so so uncommon
- 1:32:14and yet something in me didn't us
- 1:32:16wakes up. Something wakes up in us
- 1:32:19uh when we see that. We We We forgot.
- 1:32:22We forgot and somehow we remember. So,
- 1:32:26um you ask my staff, what is the
- 1:32:27greatest part of their job, they'll tell
- 1:32:29you being a part of transformation.
- 1:32:31Being a part of it.
- 1:32:32Being a part of that. So,
- 1:32:34there is a cost um
- 1:32:37always uh
- 1:32:39uh and at the same time I really I
- 1:32:41really work on
- 1:32:42uh figuring out ways to do things
- 1:32:44better. I mean,
- 1:32:45uh I think that's one of the things I
- 1:32:46love about myself is just learning
- 1:32:49learning from my experience, learning
- 1:32:51from my past, and the experience is the
- 1:32:53greatest professor. And And just saying,
- 1:32:55"Okay, if I had another opportunity, how
- 1:32:57could we do it differently? How could we
- 1:32:59serve better? You know, how can we make
- 1:33:01it easier? What can we do differently?"
- 1:33:03And And again, I just have a great team
- 1:33:05that's super committed to whether
- 1:33:07they're running events, whether they're
- 1:33:09creating logos, whether they're doing a
- 1:33:11brand, whether they're managing the
- 1:33:12website, whatever they're you know,
- 1:33:14running the composing music with me for
- 1:33:16meditations,
- 1:33:18uh or doing research. We just have a
- 1:33:20really people that share that same
- 1:33:22mission. And And I think um
- 1:33:25changing individuals one by one to
- 1:33:27somehow make a change in the world.
- 1:33:29Being a part of that's pretty cool.
- 1:33:31Was there a conscious moment in your
- 1:33:32life that sent you
- 1:33:34more so in this direction?
- 1:33:36Um sure. I I mean, I got run over by a
- 1:33:38truck in a triathlon in 1986 in Palm
- 1:33:41Springs,
- 1:33:43uh California. And um
- 1:33:46I broke six vertebrae in my spine. And I
- 1:33:48had uh bone fragments on my spinal cord
- 1:33:50and I had the neural arch of T8 uh
- 1:33:53compressing on the cord. So,
- 1:33:55uh typical
- 1:33:57uh
- 1:33:58prognosis for that, you know, is is uh
- 1:34:02Harrington rod surgery. They They put
- 1:34:03these long stainless steel rods in your
- 1:34:05spine. So, in my case, it would be from
- 1:34:07the base of my neck to the base of my
- 1:34:09spine. Stabilize the entire spine.
- 1:34:12And um
- 1:34:14I just had four opinions from four of
- 1:34:16the leading surgeons in Southern
- 1:34:17California and I was
- 1:34:19in my 20s and I just I just couldn't
- 1:34:22imagine myself living
- 1:34:24on you know, addictive medications or
- 1:34:26not being able to do
- 1:34:28whatever I love to do physically.
- 1:34:30So, I decided not to have the surgery. I
- 1:34:32just went against the the the opinions
- 1:34:34of
- 1:34:35the experts and I just thought maybe
- 1:34:37there's a way that my my mind could heal
- 1:34:39my body.
- 1:34:40And so, um
- 1:34:42that started my journey and it somehow
- 1:34:43it worked. So, I've been spending the
- 1:34:45rest of my life studying that.
- 1:34:47Had that not happened, do you think you
- 1:34:48would have gone in a in a different
- 1:34:50direction in life?
- 1:34:50Sure, absolutely.
- 1:34:52Absolutely. Yeah.
- 1:34:54What if the worst thing that happened to
- 1:34:55you was the best thing that happened to
- 1:34:56you?
- 1:34:57I don't know.
- 1:35:00And that starts this this you create
- 1:35:02this belief in your mind that you can
- 1:35:03heal yourself using your mind.
- 1:35:05Well, it was kind of crazy because um I
- 1:35:07think when you're faced with crisis,
- 1:35:09like I in the situation like this, we
- 1:35:12tend to focus on the worst thing that
- 1:35:13could happen instead of the best thing
- 1:35:14that could happen.
- 1:35:15And that's cuz of the hormones of stress
- 1:35:17and emergency. You always prepare for
- 1:35:19the worst. Better chances of survival if
- 1:35:21you think about the worst. So,
- 1:35:23it took an enormous amount of energy for
- 1:35:26me to stop that. To stop thinking that
- 1:35:29way and stop feeling that way. 6 and 1/2
- 1:35:31weeks of
- 1:35:32a dark night of the soul, I would say.
- 1:35:34Cuz I couldn't get my brain to do what I
- 1:35:36wanted it to do. Even though I
- 1:35:37theoretically and understood it, I just
- 1:35:40kept defaulting. And uh
- 1:35:42I spent hours and finally I was able to
- 1:35:45to kind of get control over it. And then
- 1:35:47as soon as I started noticing
- 1:35:49uh some changes in my body, that's when
- 1:35:51I That's when I just the moment I
- 1:35:53started feeling my limbs again, the
- 1:35:55moment I started noticing I was moving a
- 1:35:57little better,
- 1:35:59I knew somehow I was having an effect
- 1:36:01and that's that's the moment it all
- 1:36:02changed for me.
- 1:36:06Running all these businesses, Joe, and
- 1:36:08you have such an empire of businesses
- 1:36:10and projects and people and teams all
- 1:36:11over the world.
- 1:36:13How have you managed your relationship
- 1:36:15with technology? Cuz technology's
- 1:36:17omnipresent in my life. Yeah. And that's
- 1:36:19why I say I get dragged out of bed by
- 1:36:20it. Steven, I never planned on doing any
- 1:36:23of this. I never I never planned on
- 1:36:25doing any of this. I mean, all the
- 1:36:28corporate stuff just came out of a few
- 1:36:30lectures because
- 1:36:32there were CEOs and presidents of
- 1:36:33companies that urged me to create a
- 1:36:35model for change for companies and
- 1:36:37organizations. I never wanted to do
- 1:36:38that. I never wanted to do
- 1:36:41Inner Health Coalition with doctors.
- 1:36:42Just our community. There's an emergent
- 1:36:44consciousness that says, "Please do
- 1:36:46that." You know, so we're we're working
- 1:36:49on
- 1:36:50uh in the same vein of the same mission,
- 1:36:54giving people our community, listening
- 1:36:56to our community, and creating, you
- 1:36:58know, more of that for people. I don't
- 1:37:00have I don't have any difficulty if it's
- 1:37:03part of the mission to do any of those
- 1:37:05things. I think it's uh
- 1:37:08I think it
- 1:37:09if I were just doing my events,
- 1:37:12uh and and that's it. And we could just
- 1:37:14do that. My life would be
- 1:37:16a whole lot simpler. But all these other
- 1:37:19things that we're doing now in terms of
- 1:37:21They They also bear a lot of fruit. I
- 1:37:22mean, the research that we're doing
- 1:37:24right now is is
- 1:37:27I can say right now, Steven, that
- 1:37:30what we're doing is no longer
- 1:37:31pseudoscience. I can say that now. It's
- 1:37:33no longer pseudoscience.
- 1:37:35I can say that in 7 days,
- 1:37:38your body can make a
- 1:37:40pharmacy of chemicals that work better
- 1:37:42than any drug. I can tell you that one
- 1:37:44intervention
- 1:37:46called meditation can change a host of
- 1:37:47different health conditions. There's no
- 1:37:49drug that does that.
- 1:37:51So, if I weigh those
- 1:37:54all those different things that I have
- 1:37:55to
- 1:37:56evolve uh
- 1:37:58in some way against the effects it's
- 1:38:01producing, it's always for me worth the
- 1:38:02effort.
- 1:38:03Are you happy? Yeah. What does that
- 1:38:06mean?
- 1:38:07Um that I don't need anyone or anything
- 1:38:09to make me happy.
- 1:38:13That's your definition of happiness.
- 1:38:15I think yeah. I mean, if you have a kind
- 1:38:16of a freedom of expression without any
- 1:38:19real limitation in your in your
- 1:38:21comfortable with you and your and you
- 1:38:22love what you're doing and
- 1:38:25you feel good about it, and sure. I
- 1:38:26mean, I'm always in the river of change.
- 1:38:28I'm always looking for blind spots. I'm
- 1:38:29always working
- 1:38:31on evolving who I am. I always want to
- 1:38:33be I always want to evolve my
- 1:38:35experience. I always want to look to see
- 1:38:36if it serves me.
- 1:38:38Uh so,
- 1:38:39um
- 1:38:41Do you have sad days?
- 1:38:43I have I have days where I'm
- 1:38:44overwhelmed.
- 1:38:46By just just everything.
- 1:38:48And what's what are the symptoms of that
- 1:38:49overwhelm?
- 1:38:50Um it takes me a little bit to focus my
- 1:38:52attention again. Just too many things I
- 1:38:54have to think about. So, I have to
- 1:38:56take a little time and get get centered
- 1:38:58and organized.
- 1:39:00But do I have sad days? I don't know.
- 1:39:01Sad, I don't really
- 1:39:04know sad, but
- 1:39:05uh kind of uh days where I'm
- 1:39:08um
- 1:39:12kind of kind of introspective
- 1:39:14uh
- 1:39:16needing much emotion. Yeah, I I have
- 1:39:18those days. Yeah.
- 1:39:20If this were to be your last day on
- 1:39:21earth, Joe.
- 1:39:22Wow.
- 1:39:24And there was
- 1:39:26just a central message
- 1:39:28that the millions of people that could
- 1:39:30be listening right now
- 1:39:32you felt that they needed to hear.
- 1:39:34That would serve them the best and serve
- 1:39:36us collectively the best.
- 1:39:39What might that central message be?
- 1:39:41It's important for people to believe in
- 1:39:43themselves. I think it's
- 1:39:45really important for people to remember
- 1:39:47that they're the creators on some level.
- 1:39:49And they have a hand in creating in
- 1:39:51their life.
- 1:39:52And that
- 1:39:54uh
- 1:39:55possibility is something that they
- 1:39:58should always keep their mind open to. I
- 1:40:00think
- 1:40:01that we're greater than we think. We're
- 1:40:03more powerful than we know, more
- 1:40:04unlimited
- 1:40:05than we could ever dream.
- 1:40:09Do you realize how many people you've
- 1:40:10helped?
- 1:40:12Um gosh, I don't know. I don't know.
- 1:40:14Maybe.
- 1:40:17You must be moved by the feedback you
- 1:40:19get because I was reading through
- 1:40:21testimonials and messages and all the
- 1:40:23top comments and stuff and it's really
- 1:40:25really profound stuff.
- 1:40:27You know, and I it's hard to imagine a
- 1:40:29world where that
- 1:40:31that doesn't touch, you know.
- 1:40:33It it it
- 1:40:34Sit with you. For better or for worse,
- 1:40:35you know. You know, people stop me a lot
- 1:40:36of times and I'll be somewhere and
- 1:40:38they'll say, "Hey, I I know you hear
- 1:40:40this a lot but
- 1:40:41um you you really helped me or you
- 1:40:42really changed my life." And I always
- 1:40:44say to them, "I never I never get tired
- 1:40:46of of the story."
- 1:40:47Uh it's the feedback for me that uh
- 1:40:50uh inspires me to keep doing what I'm
- 1:40:52doing. So, I love the stories. I I love
- 1:40:55those I love to hear them and it uh it
- 1:40:58challenges many times my own belief
- 1:41:00about what's possible. So, um
- 1:41:03yeah, I think I I I'm I love to
- 1:41:06celebrate that with people. If this next
- 1:41:08chapter of your life is successful,
- 1:41:11if we sit here 10 years from now and you
- 1:41:12say, "Steve, that was a
- 1:41:14fantastic decade
- 1:41:16for you."
- 1:41:17What would have happened in that decade
- 1:41:18for you to say that? Gosh.
- 1:41:20Um we would publish a lot of papers that
- 1:41:23show um how powerful people really are.
- 1:41:26Um we would have our own research center
- 1:41:29where we could do even further studies
- 1:41:31on cancer, on uh all different chronic
- 1:41:34health conditions.
- 1:41:36Uh we we're studying the effects of
- 1:41:38healing on others and we have really
- 1:41:40profound data on that as well.
- 1:41:43Um
- 1:41:44I think that the conversation in in
- 1:41:47health care and medicine could change on
- 1:41:50some level. I mean, the conversations
- 1:41:53that I'm having with researchers and
- 1:41:55physicians are not the same
- 1:41:56conversations I was having just 2 years
- 1:41:58ago, especially when they look at our
- 1:42:00data, they they kind of fall out of
- 1:42:02their chair. I mean, it's
- 1:42:04I mean, as an example, a drug study
- 1:42:07is about 25% causality. One in four
- 1:42:09responds and it's usually
- 1:42:12you know,
- 1:42:1360 days, 90 days, a year before you see
- 1:42:15a change.
- 1:42:17Our data is between 75 and 85%
- 1:42:21causality. That means
- 1:42:22uh eight out of 10 people are getting a
- 1:42:24response and they're not taking
- 1:42:26anything, no exogenous substance. In
- 1:42:28other words,
- 1:42:30their their nervous system is producing
- 1:42:32a pharmacy of chemicals that works
- 1:42:33better than any drug, right? So, I think
- 1:42:36the conversation around emotional
- 1:42:39regulation
- 1:42:40and emotional health uh could change.
- 1:42:43That's something that I'm interested in.
- 1:42:46I think meditation could be something
- 1:42:47that is a a way of life for more people
- 1:42:50to
- 1:42:51to be healthier and to be happier and to
- 1:42:54be more whole.
- 1:42:55Uh
- 1:42:56I mean, when I started this journey,
- 1:42:58even you couldn't even say meditation in
- 1:43:00public. You couldn't even couldn't say
- 1:43:01it in certain organizations,
- 1:43:03corporations, government agencies. It
- 1:43:05was not allowed, right? Now it's sexy.
- 1:43:07Now it's cool, right?
- 1:43:09Um so,
- 1:43:11demystifying
- 1:43:14uh that process because there's so many
- 1:43:17colloquialisms and slangs and idioms
- 1:43:20that have to do with meditation.
- 1:43:22Demystifying that process, you know, we
- 1:43:23don't teach any traditional
- 1:43:26meditation. We don't teach anything
- 1:43:28that's based on culture or religion. We
- 1:43:30we teach meditation based on the data we
- 1:43:32see, based on the brain scans, based on
- 1:43:34the HRVs, based on the data that we're
- 1:43:36collecting. We know the we know the
- 1:43:38words now. We know the music. We know
- 1:43:40the timing. We know a lot of things
- 1:43:43uh
- 1:43:44in terms of transformation that has
- 1:43:45helped us
- 1:43:46in so many ways. So,
- 1:43:48What do you think's going to become sexy
- 1:43:50in 10 years from now that's not sexy
- 1:43:51now, like meditation?
- 1:43:52God, I hope it's not AI.
- 1:43:55I hope it's not I hope it's not AI. I
- 1:43:57hope it's
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- 1:46:19Much of your work is now trying to bring
- 1:46:20bring people together in 3D.
- 1:46:23And I saw this um as I was on your
- 1:46:25website earlier on today. I was looking
- 1:46:27at some of your upcoming initiatives.
- 1:46:29One in particular was this walk that
- 1:46:31you're doing,
- 1:46:33which I found really really interesting.
- 1:46:35Um this is the first ever global walk
- 1:46:37that will take place on Saturday,
- 1:46:38September the 23rd, 2023
- 1:46:42this year.
- 1:46:43Um all the details are at
- 1:46:44walkforthe.world.
- 1:46:45So, www.walkforthe.world.
- 1:46:50And I was reading about why you're doing
- 1:46:52this. And the words community came up.
- 1:46:55The words illusion of separation came
- 1:46:57up.
- 1:46:57Yeah. I think, you know, if you study
- 1:47:00the peace gathering projects that have
- 1:47:02been done, peer-reviewed articles
- 1:47:04of peace gathering projects, when people
- 1:47:06come into a community, they meditate on
- 1:47:08peace, a city, the crime rates go down,
- 1:47:11violence goes down, car crashes, car
- 1:47:13accidents go down, economic growth goes
- 1:47:15up. Somehow there's a change in the in
- 1:47:18the collective.
- 1:47:19But when the meditation ends and the
- 1:47:22peace gathering project ends, the crime
- 1:47:24rate returns back to the same that you
- 1:47:26know, the car accidents and the violence
- 1:47:28return back to the same ceiling value as
- 1:47:30it was before.
- 1:47:33It's not enough to just
- 1:47:35uh pray. It's time to be the prayer,
- 1:47:37right? So, walking meditation we do in
- 1:47:40our community and we do a lot of them
- 1:47:41because you got to be able to walk as
- 1:47:43it. You got to be able to do it with
- 1:47:44your eyes open. Doing it with your eyes
- 1:47:46closed is a practice so you can do it
- 1:47:48with your eyes open so you can
- 1:47:48demonstrate it. Demonstrate peace.
- 1:47:50Demonstrate love. Demonstrate um
- 1:47:53change for the world.
- 1:47:55And so, uh the walking meditation is
- 1:47:57four types of meditations. There's
- 1:47:59seated meditation. We do a lot of that
- 1:48:01and that's traditional.
- 1:48:02There's a standing and a walking
- 1:48:04meditation and there's a lying down
- 1:48:05meditation and we teach all of those.
- 1:48:07But the standing and walking meditation
- 1:48:08is a great way to stand up for the
- 1:48:10world.
- 1:48:12And decide if I change and enough of us
- 1:48:14change, we could actually change the
- 1:48:16world. So,
- 1:48:17the meditation starts with our eyes
- 1:48:19closed, standing up with our eyes closed
- 1:48:21and getting into an altered state.
- 1:48:23Music changes, we open our eyes and we
- 1:48:25walk as that change. We embody that
- 1:48:27change. We live that change. We think
- 1:48:29about what we're going to leave behind
- 1:48:31for a new world. What what what if I
- 1:48:33change? What would be Could I Am I part
- 1:48:36of the whole? Could I affect the whole?
- 1:48:38And so, person walks for a period of
- 1:48:40time, they stop again, they close their
- 1:48:42eyes, they recalibrate, they get back in
- 1:48:44that feeling, they open their eyes and
- 1:48:45they walk again. And so,
- 1:48:47walking meditation is a great way for
- 1:48:49uh thousands and thousands of people
- 1:48:51from around the world to walk for change
- 1:48:54in the world. And and and
- 1:48:57we have such compelling data about
- 1:48:59collective networks of observers with
- 1:49:01brain and heart coherence that somehow
- 1:49:04when you have a random event generator
- 1:49:05in our
- 1:49:07in our ballrooms.
- 1:49:08And people
- 1:49:10change their state and they have an
- 1:49:11intention.
- 1:49:14That random events become less random
- 1:49:15and more intentional. In other words,
- 1:49:17a machine that's programmed to
- 1:49:20toss a coin a thousand times a second,
- 1:49:23multiple times a second.
- 1:49:24The more you toss a coin, the more
- 1:49:26you're going to get 50/50, right? So, if
- 1:49:28you if you have a machine in the room
- 1:49:30and and nobody's in the room, you see
- 1:49:32just kind of this line stay right around
- 1:49:33the 50/50 mark. But, when you fill that
- 1:49:35room with people
- 1:49:37and they change their state and they
- 1:49:38have an intention, all of a sudden you
- 1:49:40see that line break way out of normal.
- 1:49:42And a programmed machine that's normally
- 1:49:45flipping zeros and ones starts behaving
- 1:49:47very differently. It tells us that
- 1:49:49collective networks begin to determine
- 1:49:51reality. And it's not the number of
- 1:49:53people, it's not the amount of energy.
- 1:49:55You got to have entropic energy. It's
- 1:49:56the most most coherent group of people.
- 1:49:59So, if we come together on one day, and
- 1:50:02this will be one of many walks,
- 1:50:05you leave everything behind.
- 1:50:08Bring your family, bring your friends,
- 1:50:10bring your coworkers, bring your
- 1:50:11neighbors. You never have to have done a
- 1:50:13meditation before. We'll We'll guide
- 1:50:16people through it.
- 1:50:18Uh we'll give them the MP3 file.
- 1:50:20And um we have just over 800 or 900
- 1:50:25cities now from around the world uh that
- 1:50:28are have from people from around the
- 1:50:29world that are participating. And the
- 1:50:31numbers are growing. So, we don't know
- 1:50:33where it'll go, but it's our first uh
- 1:50:35attempt to just say if we just can move
- 1:50:37the needle 1°,
- 1:50:40and off that trajectory, off that
- 1:50:42timeline, just in another timeline,
- 1:50:44uh then it served its purpose. So, so um
- 1:50:47yeah, we're excited about it. It's the
- 1:50:48first one, and hopefully we'll do uh
- 1:50:50some more. I'll put all the details
- 1:50:52below, wherever you're listening to
- 1:50:53this, so you can check it out. Is it I
- 1:50:55was wondering as you were speaking, Joe,
- 1:50:56I was asking myself,
- 1:50:58you're someone that's constantly doing
- 1:50:59research and developing new ideas and
- 1:51:01hypotheses about the world and the way
- 1:51:03humans are and the way the universe is.
- 1:51:05Do there exist beliefs in your head
- 1:51:08that you're too scared to share?
- 1:51:11You mean beliefs that I have that that
- 1:51:14are from experience?
- 1:51:16Or beliefs that I have that I'm that are
- 1:51:18conjecturous?
- 1:51:20Either.
- 1:51:21Both.
- 1:51:22Yeah, I I I have a very strong belief
- 1:51:24that that um
- 1:51:26the probability of us seeing the truth
- 1:51:28in reality is zero.
- 1:51:30I think that we perceive less than 1% of
- 1:51:33reality. The
- 1:51:35brain is missing out on a lot of data.
- 1:51:39And I think that we should never exclude
- 1:51:41ourselves
- 1:51:43from the unknown. You know, I think
- 1:51:44there's a whole part of the unknown self
- 1:51:46that that we're unaware of that that I
- 1:51:48that I think exists beyond linear uh
- 1:51:51time and space.
- 1:51:53And I and I do believe that that it's
- 1:51:55real. And you don't know what that is?
- 1:51:58Oh, I do, yeah. Yeah, I think it's a
- 1:52:00realm beyond space and time that that I
- 1:52:02think
- 1:52:03uh you know, your eye right now is
- 1:52:06perceiving a very small spectrum of
- 1:52:08frequency. The visible light is a very
- 1:52:11tiny slice in the electromagnetic uh
- 1:52:14spectrum.
- 1:52:15And that visible light, red, orange,
- 1:52:17yellow, uh blue, green, indigo, violet,
- 1:52:20is is actually
- 1:52:22uh bouncing off of the slowest and most
- 1:52:24stable form of energy called matter. And
- 1:52:27that gives us this perception of
- 1:52:29separation, right?
- 1:52:31Well, that small spectrum is less than
- 1:52:331% of what we actually can perceive. So,
- 1:52:36I think that our senses plug us into
- 1:52:39reality, into three-dimensional reality,
- 1:52:41but I think there are realities that
- 1:52:43exist beyond space and time that we're
- 1:52:46unaware of.
- 1:52:47That we can tap into? Yeah. Yeah, I do.
- 1:52:49And I think there are latent systems in
- 1:52:51the brain
- 1:52:52that once activated allows the brain to
- 1:52:55transduce that energy, that frequency
- 1:52:57into profound uh information. Do
- 1:53:00psychedelics drug drugs work in in that
- 1:53:03in that way? I think psychedelics uh
- 1:53:05give a person a perception of reality
- 1:53:08that's beyond three-dimensional reality.
- 1:53:11We're discovering that the
- 1:53:13nervous system makes its own pharmacy
- 1:53:15of psychedelics. In fact, we have really
- 1:53:19recent data that shows that
- 1:53:21um
- 1:53:22many people that have a mystical
- 1:53:23experience in our work that have fMRIs
- 1:53:27uh look like they're on psilocybin.
- 1:53:29Mhm.
- 1:53:30Yeah.
- 1:53:31And yet your nervous system's making
- 1:53:33that that that uh
- 1:53:35natural chemical
- 1:53:37endogenously.
- 1:53:40And how are those mystical ex-
- 1:53:41experiences triggered? I'll give you the
- 1:53:44short version. Mhm.
- 1:53:45Um
- 1:53:46there's a tiny little gland in the back
- 1:53:48of your brain called the pineal gland.
- 1:53:50And the pineal gland has tiny little
- 1:53:52crystals inside of it that are stacked
- 1:53:54up on top of each other, rhombohedron in
- 1:53:56shape.
- 1:53:57And that little tiny uh gland acts like
- 1:54:00a radio receiver for electromagnetic
- 1:54:02frequencies. And when those crystals
- 1:54:05become
- 1:54:06can become activated, uh like a radio
- 1:54:09receiver, they can pick up frequencies
- 1:54:12that are beyond your senses, the
- 1:54:13quantum.
- 1:54:14And they can transduce It's called a
- 1:54:16transducer. It can transduce that
- 1:54:18frequency, like a TV antenna,
- 1:54:21into profound imagery.
- 1:54:23A very full-on sensory experience
- 1:54:25without your senses.
- 1:54:27Interesting.
- 1:54:29Explains a lot.
- 1:54:32Explains a lot. My girlfriend always
- 1:54:33talks to me about the pineal gland and
- 1:54:34DMT and
- 1:54:36you know, and the power of everything
- 1:54:37you've just described.
- 1:54:41I just want to remain open-minded
- 1:54:43because being closed-minded at any point
- 1:54:46in my life is not conducive with
- 1:54:48progress and growth.
- 1:54:50So, my my um desire in doing this
- 1:54:53podcast generally is just to learn from
- 1:54:55people that have new perspectives on the
- 1:54:57nature of the world and to remain
- 1:55:01humble in the fact that I know very
- 1:55:02little.
- 1:55:04So, what you said at the end there about
- 1:55:05us knowing almost knowing zero about the
- 1:55:07nature of true reality, whatever that
- 1:55:08might mean,
- 1:55:09I do believe.
- 1:55:11I do believe that I know very little
- 1:55:12about the true nature of reality, and my
- 1:55:13senses have deceived me, whether it's in
- 1:55:15psychedelic states or other states. So,
- 1:55:17I'm very aware how the fragility of this
- 1:55:19experience or
- 1:55:21you know, whether truth is what I think
- 1:55:22it is.
- 1:55:24Yeah. Well, um
- 1:55:26I think it only takes one mystical
- 1:55:28moment, one transcendental moment, uh
- 1:55:30for us to realize that um
- 1:55:32we're missing out on a little bit of
- 1:55:34reality.
- 1:55:36We have a closing tradition on this
- 1:55:37podcast where the last guest leaves a
- 1:55:38question for the next guest without
- 1:55:40knowing who they're leaving a question
- 1:55:42for.
- 1:55:44If you were made
- 1:55:45president
- 1:55:46Oh, boy. of this country
- 1:55:49and you had to implement laws that would
- 1:55:51make our lives better,
- 1:55:54Wow.
- 1:55:55what would you do and why?
- 1:56:02Wow, where do we start?
- 1:56:08Oh, boy. Um
- 1:56:11well, um
- 1:56:13I would consider education uh to be a
- 1:56:16much bigger priority
- 1:56:17for
- 1:56:18uh both people that teach,
- 1:56:21uh that they're rewarded in a in a
- 1:56:23better way, and the educational system
- 1:56:26to be uh
- 1:56:27more Socratic and more stimulating for
- 1:56:30uh people to question and and and to
- 1:56:33have healthy debates, I think.
- 1:56:35That's great. Um
- 1:56:37I would consider looking at the medical
- 1:56:39model a little bit more and really look
- 1:56:41to see if health care is really
- 1:56:43uh
- 1:56:44helping people in this country. Uh uh
- 1:56:47I would find ways to
- 1:56:49uh
- 1:56:50unify
- 1:56:52uh
- 1:56:53uh different
- 1:56:55uh
- 1:56:55sex or or different uh
- 1:56:58uh organizations or bring them together,
- 1:57:01bring them to the middle in some way. I
- 1:57:02I I think
- 1:57:05uh
- 1:57:06standing up for principles
- 1:57:08uh instead of politics is is a really
- 1:57:11healthy thing to do.
- 1:57:13Uh I'd probably try to figure out a way
- 1:57:16to reduce the debt,
- 1:57:18to end war, uh to find ways that we
- 1:57:20could coexist with other countries. Um
- 1:57:24I'd certainly think a lot about uh
- 1:57:25artificial intelligence and decide if it
- 1:57:27was uh really really healthy for human
- 1:57:30beings.
- 1:57:32Um
- 1:57:33I I would uh encourage in many ways uh
- 1:57:37different religions to come together and
- 1:57:38and find ways to to um to get along.
- 1:57:42Um
- 1:57:44I would
- 1:57:45spend a lot of time with regenerative
- 1:57:46agriculture and bringing life back to
- 1:57:49the soil and back to the earth
- 1:57:51uh
- 1:57:52and figure out ways to help the
- 1:57:55the oceans and species that are passing
- 1:57:59uh and and to address uh healthy food.
- 1:58:02Uh food that is good for people that
- 1:58:04that is medicine for people.
- 1:58:06Joe, thank you for your work, and thank
- 1:58:08you on behalf of all the people, the
- 1:58:09millions of people who are all around
- 1:58:10the world that you're clearly helping
- 1:58:12without really even knowing it. Um
- 1:58:15I've never seen such profound
- 1:58:16testimonials in any, you know, in
- 1:58:18anything I've ever seen. And also, the
- 1:58:20reason why I actually have this on the
- 1:58:21table isn't because you asked to promote
- 1:58:23me. I think your team actually said I
- 1:58:24didn't need to put it on the table, but
- 1:58:25it's because one of our members of our
- 1:58:27team um
- 1:58:28their elderly relative has been going
- 1:58:30through a lot of a lot of pain and
- 1:58:32struggle in their lives.
- 1:58:33Um and they read your book and it really
- 1:58:36really helped them this week. Ah, that's
- 1:58:37great.
- 1:58:38So, they asked if they could you could
- 1:58:39get if I could get it signed on behalf
- 1:58:40of them.
- 1:58:41Absolutely. Which I think is a testament
- 1:58:43to
- 1:58:44to the impact you're having on people.
- 1:58:45So, thank you so much, Joe. It's an
- 1:58:47honor. No, thank you, Steven, for all
- 1:58:48the work you do, also. I appreciate it.
- 1:58:53It's funny, every year around this time
- 1:58:55of year, for whatever reason, I go on a
- 1:58:56little bit of a psychological shift. And
- 1:58:58that psychological shift, I think, is
- 1:58:59somewhat inspired by summer, but it's
- 1:59:01also inspired by the fact that I want to
- 1:59:05feel strong in this season of life. And
- 1:59:07as I age, strength training is my number
- 1:59:09one form of training. And the question
- 1:59:10becomes, how do you build muscle and how
- 1:59:12do you become strong in terms of
- 1:59:14supplementation? And this is where
- 1:59:16Huel's nutritionally complete protein
- 1:59:18product is my best friend. For a couple
- 1:59:21of reasons. One, it tastes better than
- 1:59:23any protein product I've ever tried.
- 1:59:25Two, in terms of the nutritionally
- 1:59:26complete aspect, it has the vitamin and
- 1:59:28minerals you need. It's about 100
- 1:59:30calories, so it's incredibly light. But,
- 1:59:32it also packs over 20 g of protein into
- 1:59:35every serving. Try the salted caramel
- 1:59:37flavor. It is
- 1:59:39the bomb.
- 1:59:40And let me know how you get on.
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