Doomscrolling is a Curse. Here's How to Replace it with Witchcraft. — Transcript
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- 0:00"Tonight I will finally cleanse the
- 0:01house." I said, but what I actually
- 0:03ended up doing for hours on end was, you
- 0:06guessed it, doom scrolling. Sound
- 0:08familiar? In today's day and age, where
- 0:10social media apps are literally designed
- 0:12to make us addicted, and where our
- 0:14attention spans have shrunk to that of a
- 0:17goldfish, more and more people are
- 0:19replacing their hobbies with doom
- 0:21scrolling, even if they regret it
- 0:23afterwards. It's empty entertainment. It
- 0:25is bombarding us with dopamine, and more
- 0:28often than not, we would be way better
- 0:30off engaging in an actual hobby. Doom
- 0:32scrolling infringes on all of our
- 0:35hobbies and lifestyles, and witchcraft
- 0:37is no exception. Instead of actually
- 0:40practicing, we end up scrolling on
- 0:44or on Witchstagram for hours on end,
- 0:47which gives us the false feeling of
- 0:49engaging with our craft, even though
- 0:51we're actually just consuming content.
- 0:53If you want to get rid of this addiction
- 0:55and replace some of your doom scrolling
- 0:56with actual witchcraft practice, then
- 0:58this video is for you. Additionally to
- 1:00my last video on reviving your
- 1:01witchcraft practice if you are in a
- 1:03slump, in this video we are going to
- 1:06talk about how you can replace your doom
- 1:08scrolling with witchcraft. I will look
- 1:09at this from a couple of different
- 1:11angles, because I believe that there are
- 1:13different reasons for why we end up doom
- 1:15scrolling, and that depends on the
- 1:17person and also the situation. So,
- 1:20there's not really a one-size-fits-all
- 1:21solution to this problem.
- 1:23But, before we hop into this, hi, my
- 1:26name is Benter, and welcome or welcome
- 1:27back to Between Fog and Fen, where every
- 1:29Wednesday we talk about all things
- 1:30witchcraft, folk magic, folklore, and
- 1:32Norse paganism.
- 1:36>> [music]
- 1:40>> All right, so to start things off, as I
- 1:42already said, I do not believe that
- 1:43there is a one-size-fits-all solution to
- 1:46doom scrolling, because different people
- 1:47doom scroll for different reasons, and
- 1:50also in different situations. We really
- 1:52have to look at why we are doom
- 1:54scrolling in the first place to be able
- 1:57to solve the doom scrolling problem. So,
- 1:59I first of all try to identify a couple
- 2:02of different reasons why people end up
- 2:03doom scrolling. This is most probably
- 2:05not a complete list because I am most
- 2:08probably blissfully unaware of some of
- 2:10the reasons why some people might be
- 2:12doom scrolling, but this list stems
- 2:14first and foremost, of course, from my
- 2:16own experience also as a neurodivergent
- 2:19person with ADHD. So, if you have ADHD,
- 2:22then you will probably find yourself in
- 2:24this list, but it not only stems from my
- 2:26own experience, but also the experience
- 2:28of other people I talked to and also of
- 2:31other content creators whose content I
- 2:34watched. So, in the end, the list of
- 2:36reasons for doom scrolling that I came
- 2:38up with is first fear of missing out or
- 2:41wanting to stay up to date with what's
- 2:43happening in the world or what's
- 2:45happening in an online community,
- 2:46something like that. Next up, we have
- 2:48emotional avoidance. [music] So, that
- 2:50can be trying to avoid any kind of
- 2:52uncomfortable feeling. For a lot of
- 2:54people, this will be boredom, of course,
- 2:56but it could also be the feeling of
- 2:58being overwhelmed with a situation,
- 3:00anxiety, sadness, anger. There are so
- 3:03many uncomfortable feelings and a lot of
- 3:05people are feeling a lot of
- 3:06uncomfortable feelings at the moment,
- 3:08understandably. So, a lot of people are
- 3:10trying to avoid these feelings. What
- 3:12adults do nowadays if we feel
- 3:14uncomfortable, if we feel sad or bored
- 3:17or just dysregulated, [music] then we
- 3:19reach for our phones and we start doom
- 3:20scrolling and that kind of calms us down
- 3:23and it gives us nice feelings instead of
- 3:25the uncomfortable feelings that we might
- 3:27be feeling at the moment. Next up, we
- 3:29have decision fatigue. That was a big
- 3:32reason for me. You get home from work,
- 3:34you eat [music] dinner, and then after
- 3:35dinner, you're sitting on the couch
- 3:37thinking, "Okay, now I want to do
- 3:39something, but what will I do? I don't
- 3:41know what to do. I feel overwhelmed by
- 3:44making a decision on what to do right
- 3:46now." So, a lot of times, I wanted to do
- 3:48something witchcraft related, but I
- 3:50couldn't really come up with something
- 3:52to do. I couldn't decide. I knew that
- 3:54there were a million things that I could
- 3:56have done, but I had to make a decision.
- 3:57And for some reason, I was so
- 3:59overwhelmed by that decision. So, I just
- 4:01ended up taking up my phone, avoiding
- 4:03the decision, and doomscrolling. And
- 4:06then, 2 hours were gone, and I had done
- 4:08nothing. I had just doomscrolled, and
- 4:10then I went to bed. So, decision fatigue
- 4:13for me was a big one. Next up, we have
- 4:15uh struggling with task switching. I
- 4:17have, for example, a problem with task
- 4:19switching. Eating dinner, one task, and
- 4:21I need to switch to another task. For
- 4:23me, it takes a lot of energy to switch
- 4:25from task A to task B. And it doesn't
- 4:28necessarily have to be something I don't
- 4:31like to do, you know? Of course,
- 4:32everyone wants to delay cleaning the
- 4:35apartment or washing the dishes or
- 4:37something uncomfortable that they need
- 4:39to do. But, I also had this problem of
- 4:42switching from task A to task B if task
- 4:44B was something I was actually looking
- 4:46forward to. So, in general, switching
- 4:48from one state or one task to another,
- 4:52that's also something that a lot of
- 4:53people struggle with. And then, they
- 4:55reach for their phone to kind of buffer,
- 4:57you know? It's I always imagine it like
- 4:59Netflix buffering when there is a loss
- 5:02of internet connection. You want to kind
- 5:04of avoid and delay what you are going to
- 5:06do, so you end up reaching for your
- 5:08phone. And because we know how addictive
- 5:10social media is, you don't do it for
- 5:12like 5 minutes, but you end up doing it
- 5:14for 2 hours. Next up, for a lot of
- 5:15neurodivergent people, especially people
- 5:17with ADHD, in general, a need for
- 5:20stimulation. Anyone who has a corporate
- 5:22job, who works from home a lot of times,
- 5:26knows the moment when you sit during a
- 5:28meeting that could have been an email,
- 5:29and you are bored as [ __ ] You can't
- 5:31really focus on it because it's boring,
- 5:34and you need some stimulation, so you
- 5:35want to reach for something. And what we
- 5:38always have on hand is our phone. So,
- 5:40then we sit on the meeting with our
- 5:42camera turned off, and we doomscroll
- 5:44because, honestly, we don't really have
- 5:45to focus on the meeting. It could have
- 5:47been an email, nobody [ __ ] cares if
- 5:49we pay attention. We could have also
- 5:50reached for something else, but the
- 5:52phone is usually what we have on hand
- 5:54and what gives us stimulation and
- 5:55especially dopamine while we're
- 5:57scrolling. So, that's also a big thing,
- 6:00especially for neurodivergent people. We
- 6:02need stimulation, so we end up
- 6:04doomscrolling because it gives us a lot
- 6:06of dopamine. That's what [music] it's
- 6:07designed to do because that's what makes
- 6:10us addicted. And then, the last reason
- 6:11that I see people talk about a lot isn't
- 6:14necessarily my problem anymore at least,
- 6:17but general exhaustion. Sadly, there are
- 6:19quite a lot of people at the moment who
- 6:21work two or three jobs or simply someone
- 6:24who has children and is taking care of
- 6:27them. Maybe they are the sole caretaker
- 6:30of that person. Maybe they're taking
- 6:32care of parents or grandparents, or
- 6:34there's just any other reason why they
- 6:36are insanely busy and just don't have a
- 6:39lot of energy at the end of the day. So,
- 6:41a lot of people in that situation think
- 6:42to themselves, you know, "I don't really
- 6:44have the energy to do anything." What is
- 6:46again always available and doesn't
- 6:48require any over energy is
- 6:50doomscrolling. So, a lot of people when
- 6:53they are extremely exhausted and they
- 6:55sit at home by the end of the day, they
- 6:58feel like they don't have any energy to
- 6:59do anything else but doomscrolling.
- 7:01Those are the reasons that I personally
- 7:03identified. Again, this might not be a
- 7:05complete list, but now that we have
- 7:07identified the reasons why we are
- 7:09doomscrolling, we can look at how we can
- 7:12replace that with witchcraft [music]
- 7:14instead. First of all, though, I want to
- 7:16recommend something that is entirely
- 7:18non-witchy and also not sponsored. I
- 7:21wish. I wish they would sponsor me. If
- 7:23you want to sponsor me, hook me up. Just
- 7:24a genuine recommendation because it
- 7:26saves my [ __ ] life from
- 7:29doomscrolling, and that's Brick. I feel
- 7:31like everyone and their mom is currently
- 7:32talking about Brick, but it's this tiny
- 7:34little device that you tap your phone to
- 7:37to [music] brick your phone to basically
- 7:40block a couple of the apps that you
- 7:41don't want to have access to and then
- 7:43you can only unbrick your device if you
- 7:46again tap it to the little brick. You
- 7:49literally have to go there to do it. I
- 7:52first of all thought this won't do
- 7:54anything for me because I'm not that
- 7:56lazy, but turns out I am that lazy. In
- 7:58the beginning I used to keep the brick
- 8:00downstairs, brick my phone and then go
- 8:02upstairs to go to sleep. So then I had
- 8:04like half an hour or an hour before bed
- 8:06that I had my phone bricked and then in
- 8:07the morning I could not first thing in
- 8:10the morning reach for my phone and
- 8:12doomscroll on social media, which I used
- 8:14to do because my phone is now bricked
- 8:16and I can only unbrick it by going
- 8:18downstairs to the kitchen. This really
- 8:20helped me in the evening before bed and
- 8:22for the mornings and also during
- 8:25meetings and things like that. I can
- 8:26just brick my phone then I go into a
- 8:28meeting and I am way more focused
- 8:30because I cannot doomscroll. So again,
- 8:33this is not witchy at all, but it's just
- 8:34a genuine recommendation. It for me
- 8:36personally, it really, really works. But
- 8:38now let's look at how to replace
- 8:41doomscrolling with witchcraft.
- 8:44First of all, we're looking at decision
- 8:46fatigue. So as already explained, this
- 8:49can look like you after dinner sitting
- 8:52on the couch, not really being able to
- 8:56decide what to do with yourself [music]
- 8:58next. You know you want to do something.
- 9:01You want to do something witchy maybe
- 9:03even, but you cannot decide for the life
- 9:05of you. So what you end up doing is
- 9:07doomscrolling to kind of delay the
- 9:10decision or to avoid the uncomfortable
- 9:12feeling of not being able to make the
- 9:14decision. What I personally see as the
- 9:16solution to this problem is to
- 9:18completely eradicate the need for making
- 9:22a decision. If you don't have to make a
- 9:24decision, there is no need for
- 9:25doomscrolling in the situation because
- 9:27you already know what to do. And this
- 9:29can be achieved in multiple different
- 9:30ways. First of all, I already made a
- 9:32video on my personal witchy task jar.
- 9:35This is still such a dumb name, but I
- 9:37don't know which name to give it that
- 9:39sounds better. But this is my personal
- 9:41witchy task jar that I made to solve
- 9:43this specific problem. So, it is
- 9:45literally just let's just say a bottle
- 9:48like this, a little glass bottle, and it
- 9:50contains a couple of slips of paper that
- 9:54contain a tiny little witchy task that I
- 9:57can do in a pinch. Divination,
- 9:59meditation, researching a plant,
- 10:01researching a deity,
- 10:03>> [music]
- 10:03>> communicating with a spirit, anything
- 10:05that I can really do anytime without any
- 10:07preparation or any specific material.
- 10:09And I made this task jar so that
- 10:11whenever I want to do something, but I
- 10:14feel this decision fatigue, I can just
- 10:16reach for the jar, take out a little
- 10:18piece of paper, read what's in it, and
- 10:21then do that thing without even thinking
- 10:23about it. So, that way I don't have to
- 10:25make a decision. But of course, there
- 10:27are other solutions as well. One thing
- 10:29that I could see work pretty well is to
- 10:31make a witchy curriculum for yourself.
- 10:33It's kind of like a little class that
- 10:36you make for yourself. So, you pick a
- 10:38topic that you want to learn about or
- 10:40that you maybe want to get better at,
- 10:42and then you give yourself things to do
- 10:46and things to learn, and you make
- 10:48yourself your own little curriculum. And
- 10:50I think in this situation it would work
- 10:52because you can simply look at the
- 10:54curriculum and you know what to do. You
- 10:56already prepared this curriculum
- 10:57beforehand, so in the moment where you
- 10:59want to do something, but usually
- 11:01decision fatigue would arise, you can
- 11:03just look at the curriculum and you know
- 11:04exactly what to do. But what you could
- 11:06also do if you don't feel like preparing
- 11:08a full-on curriculum would be of course
- 11:10to join some kind of online class, not
- 11:14necessarily live classes, but
- 11:16pre-recorded classes. So, that way
- 11:18whenever you want to do something, you
- 11:19can just watch the next class and do
- 11:21something that revolves around that
- 11:23course, or you simply dedicate specific
- 11:26days, and this will work specifically
- 11:27well for you if you like routines. You
- 11:29could dedicate specific [music]
- 11:31weekdays, for example, for specific
- 11:33things. Every Monday in the evening, I
- 11:36do some divination. Every Tuesday in the
- 11:39evenings, I learn about painful
- 11:42workings. Every Wednesday, I cast a
- 11:46little spell for my business. And every
- 11:49Thursday, I do a little money working or
- 11:53I learn something about a plant that can
- 11:56be used for money workings, you know?
- 11:57You can dedicate specific days so that
- 11:59when day comes and you have time in the
- 12:02evening, you don't even have to think
- 12:04about it because you know exactly what
- 12:06to do on the specific day.
- 12:10Okay, and now let's look at reason
- 12:11number two for why you might be doom
- 12:13scrolling. And that is issues with task
- 12:16switching. It's kind of similar to
- 12:18decision fatigue, but it arises in
- 12:20general when you're switching from task
- 12:22A to task B or from state A to state B.
- 12:25It could also be something like going
- 12:27from being clothed and dry to hopping to
- 12:29the shower or being wet, you know?
- 12:31People struggle with something like that
- 12:32as well. Anything where you switch from
- 12:35A to B and you struggle with that. To
- 12:36solve this problem, of course, we need
- 12:39something else than the decision fatigue
- 12:41problem because deciding on what to do
- 12:43isn't the problem here. The problem is
- 12:44that we're uncomfortable switching a
- 12:46task. And you want to soothe yourself
- 12:48and give yourself a little bit of time
- 12:50before you switch from A to B. You just
- 12:52need something small that you can do to
- 12:55buffer, basically. Something very small
- 12:58that gives you a little bit of time
- 13:00between switching tasks. This could be
- 13:02something very, very small, something
- 13:04very simple like a tiny little
- 13:06meditation. Even just closing your eyes
- 13:10and focusing on your breathing for 1 or
- 13:122 minutes. That is already better than
- 13:14doom scrolling and that will give you
- 13:16some practice with meditation. But it
- 13:18could also be something like breathwork.
- 13:21And also bonus points, meditation and
- 13:22breathwork can actually give you energy
- 13:24to switch to task B, so that's great. It
- 13:28could also be a little divination
- 13:30session if [music] you feel comfortable
- 13:33doing something like a one-card tarot
- 13:35pull or something like that. Just like,
- 13:37for example, praying, like a tiny little
- 13:40prayer that you can focus on for a
- 13:42couple of minutes, or something like
- 13:45reading one story in a folklore
- 13:48collection, for example, or learning one
- 13:51fact about a local plant or a local
- 13:53animal. You know, anything very small
- 13:56that you can do in a pinch when you're
- 13:58struggling switching from task A to task
- 14:00B. And even better if you either have
- 14:04the thing you need on hand because
- 14:06that's why we reach for our phone
- 14:08usually, or if it's something you don't
- 14:10even need any tools for because if you
- 14:12have to go get something, then that can
- 14:15be a little bit of a struggle. But to
- 14:16avoid that, we can also identify places
- 14:19where we usually struggle with task
- 14:21switching. So, for me, that's always the
- 14:24couch, you know, switching from having
- 14:25dinner and watching TV and then
- 14:27switching to doing something else.
- 14:29That's usually where I struggle. So, I
- 14:30could, for example, put a book of
- 14:32folklore there or a book about plants,
- 14:34whatever you want to use, like whatever
- 14:37tool you want to use in that situation,
- 14:39you could put it wherever you usually
- 14:42struggling with task switching. So, that
- 14:44could really help.
- 14:46All right, and that brings us to reason
- 14:48number three for doomscrolling. And that
- 14:51is emotional avoidance. So, as I already
- 14:54said, this could be avoiding boredom. A
- 14:56lot of times, this is boredom, but also
- 14:58anything else that is uncomfortable like
- 15:01sadness or grief or anger, any kind of
- 15:05emotion that is uncomfortable that you
- 15:08currently don't want to feel at the
- 15:09moment where the world kind of feels
- 15:12like it's very [ __ ] up. A lot of
- 15:14people are dealing with a lot of sadness
- 15:16and grief and anger and all of these
- 15:18uncomfortable emotions all the time. And
- 15:21um, lot of times, what we do is we reach
- 15:24for our phones and we doomscroll social
- 15:26media because it kind of soothes us, it
- 15:29calms us down. Sometimes it makes us
- 15:31laugh or we see a cute animal, you know?
- 15:33So, we're kind of avoiding feeling any
- 15:36emotion that we don't want to feel by
- 15:39bombarding ourselves with all of these
- 15:41different emotions that social media can
- 15:43bring up. And to find a solution to this
- 15:45problem or to find something witchy to
- 15:48do instead of doomscrolling in that
- 15:49situation, you kind of first of all have
- 15:52to identify what you're actually wanting
- 15:55to distract yourself from because that
- 15:57also influences what can help you in
- 16:00that situation instead of doomscrolling.
- 16:02Because if you want to avoid boredom,
- 16:04okay, that's easy. You can do whatever
- 16:06is exciting to you. But if you're trying
- 16:08to avoid, for example, anger or grief,
- 16:10this might require something else. While
- 16:12if you're trying to avoid boredom, you
- 16:15could, of course, meditate. Um, maybe
- 16:17meditation might not be the best thing
- 16:20to do for you if you are currently being
- 16:22very, very sad. So, here it really
- 16:24depends on what you're trying to avoid.
- 16:26The thing with emotional avoidance is
- 16:27that we have to catch it. [music]
- 16:29So, we have to kind of be aware of what
- 16:31we're doing when we're doing it. One
- 16:33thing that I feel helps with that is app
- 16:36blockers, which are already available
- 16:39just natively within iOS, for example.
- 16:42So, you don't have to get like an
- 16:43additional app for that or anything.
- 16:45But, um, what these app blockers do
- 16:47isn't necessarily that they're actually
- 16:49holding you from using the app because
- 16:51you can just click them away and then
- 16:53you can continue using the app. But they
- 16:54do kind of disrupt this [music]
- 16:56automatic pattern. They give you this
- 16:58extra second to kind of think about,
- 17:00"Why do I actually want to doomscroll
- 17:02right now? Why do I feel like I need to
- 17:04access Instagram right now or TikTok or
- 17:06Facebook or whatever apps you're using?
- 17:08Why do I feel like I need to do this
- 17:10right now? Am I trying to avoid boredom?
- 17:12Am I trying to avoid sadness or is it
- 17:14something completely different?" And
- 17:15once you are aware of what it actually
- 17:17is that you're seeking, you can then do
- 17:20something else that gives you what you
- 17:22need instead of doom scrolling. So, if
- 17:24for example, you are trying to avoid
- 17:25boredom, then I kind of feel like that
- 17:27is pretty easy because if you're bored,
- 17:30just do anything else. Just do anything
- 17:33else, even if it's just a very, very low
- 17:35energy thing to do, which I will talk
- 17:37about later as well. Or if it's
- 17:40something that you're currently very
- 17:41passionate about, you know, if it's just
- 17:42boredom, then you can do whatever.
- 17:45Whatever it is that distracts you from
- 17:47your boredom that isn't doom scrolling.
- 17:49But if it is something else, something
- 17:51like sadness or grief or anger or
- 17:53whatever kind of uncomfortable feeling,
- 17:55at least whenever that's the case for
- 17:57me, what I need is I need distraction. I
- 18:00need something that takes my focus off
- 18:02of that feeling because that is what I
- 18:04want from doom scrolling. So, if I want
- 18:06to replace that, I need something that
- 18:08gives me exactly that. One thing that I
- 18:10would, for example, do is I would try to
- 18:12engage my brain in something. I would
- 18:13try to learn something. I would either
- 18:16try to learn about a new plant or
- 18:19folklore, an entirely new occult
- 18:21tradition that I have not a clue about.
- 18:24I would try to learn about anything,
- 18:27basically. Anything because that really
- 18:30engages my brain, and when I'm trying to
- 18:32learn something and when I get into it,
- 18:34I'm not focusing on anything else. I'm
- 18:36focusing on what I'm learning. So, I
- 18:38feel like that would be a good way to
- 18:40avoid any kind of uncomfortable feeling.
- 18:42Even though maybe you shouldn't even
- 18:43avoid it. Maybe it would be healthy to
- 18:45actually feel it, but that's not what
- 18:47this video is about. For some people,
- 18:49reading a witchy book might also work.
- 18:51For other people, this will maybe not be
- 18:54engaging enough for your brain, so try
- 18:56it and see if that works or not. What
- 18:58always helps for me personally is going
- 19:01outside and engaging with the local
- 19:03spirit. That always improves my mood a
- 19:06lot. But again, do whatever helps you
- 19:09personally because going out for a walk
- 19:12might [music] not be distracting enough
- 19:14for you. So, again, try it. It might
- 19:16help and it might not. Something else
- 19:19that might be distracting enough for you
- 19:21if something like reading or going
- 19:23outside and engaging with local spirits
- 19:25isn't good enough might be something
- 19:27like gardening. And yes, that is a
- 19:31witchy task, especially if you if you
- 19:33have a witchy herb garden or something,
- 19:35you know, engaging with these plants,
- 19:36trying to take care of them, trying to
- 19:38research what you want to plant next,
- 19:41anything like that. If you do have a
- 19:42garden, that might be nice. Or you could
- 19:44also do some kitchen magic. You could
- 19:47cook something or bake something. And
- 19:49bonus points if you make something that
- 19:52gives you what you are seeking. So, not
- 19:54only are you distracting yourself from
- 19:55what you're feeling, but if you're for
- 19:57example trying to avoid a feeling of
- 19:59sadness for example, you could make
- 20:01something, you could for example bake
- 20:02cookies or something, and you could bake
- 20:04with some herbs for example or some
- 20:07other ingredients that you associate
- 20:09with joy and with happiness. Or if you
- 20:12are trying to avoid a feeling of anger,
- 20:14then you could for example use any kind
- 20:16of ingredients that are calming to you.
- 20:19So, that way not only are you
- 20:20distracting your brain in the moment
- 20:22from the emotion that you're trying to
- 20:24avoid, but also you are making something
- 20:27that actually counteracts those
- 20:29feelings. Kitchen witchcraft might be
- 20:31very very good for this purpose. But
- 20:33honestly, it could be anything. You
- 20:35could cleanse the house if that is
- 20:37distracting for you. You could clean or
- 20:40redecorate your altar. You could make an
- 20:42incense blend or try to formulate an
- 20:45oil. You could come up with an
- 20:48incantation for something, you know, you
- 20:50could basically do anything that
- 20:53distracts you enough. And what is
- 20:55distracting enough, that will differ
- 20:57from person to person.
- 21:00So, let's look at reason number four.
- 21:03And that is specifically for my ADHD
- 21:05girlies, and that is needing stimulation
- 21:09or needing a dopamine kick. For me,
- 21:11that's for example, especially the case
- 21:13at work. A lot of times when I'm waiting
- 21:15for my code to compile, I'm a software
- 21:18developer, when I'm waiting for my code
- 21:20to compile or I'm waiting for someone to
- 21:23review my code or I'm sitting in a
- 21:24meeting that could have been an email. I
- 21:26do have to be kind of engaged and
- 21:28focused, but I don't have enough
- 21:30stimulation to be focused. So, in those
- 21:32moments I need something. So, for
- 21:35example, what I used to do a lot, which
- 21:37luckily I don't do anymore, was for
- 21:39example, when I was sitting in meetings
- 21:41and I knew it was kind of a podcast
- 21:44meeting, you know, I didn't have to
- 21:45engaged in it. I just had to consume it
- 21:48and it was enough to listen to it. Then
- 21:50I would doom scroll.
- 21:51I wouldn't necessarily watch TikToks or
- 21:53anything like that, but I would still
- 21:54doom scroll, read something, look at
- 21:56other people's stories, things like
- 21:57that. To just have something to do,
- 21:59something that stimulates me enough so
- 22:01that I can kind of focus more on the
- 22:03meeting because ADHD people need a
- 22:06specific amount of stimulation to be
- 22:08able to focus. So, that's why we do
- 22:10things like that. And a lot of times we
- 22:12just doom scroll for stimulation and for
- 22:15no other reason than stimulation and a
- 22:17dopamine kick. Again, that is something
- 22:19you have to kind of be aware of in the
- 22:21moment. You have to realize why you are
- 22:24in the need for doom scrolling right now
- 22:26so that you can interject it. For
- 22:27stimulation, that is kind of tricky
- 22:30because if you're looking for
- 22:31stimulation from doom scrolling, you
- 22:33need to replace it with something that
- 22:34gives you dopamine, something that gives
- 22:36you stimulation. So, it really depends
- 22:39on what gives you dopamine and
- 22:40stimulation. One thing that works really
- 22:43well for me is any kind of magical fiber
- 22:45arts. For example, um I do cross stitch
- 22:48embroidery and cross stitch embroidery
- 22:50for me, because it is so repetitive,
- 22:53but it still gives my fingers something
- 22:55to do and something and it gives me
- 22:57something to focus on. It is such an
- 22:59amazing stimulating, like perfectly
- 23:02amount of stimulation which you think to
- 23:04do. I could just chant an incantation
- 23:06while I'm doing it. I could focus on
- 23:09weaving the energy into my embroidery. I
- 23:11could do something like knot work when
- 23:14I'm embroidering. So, there is a lot of
- 23:16ways to turn your fiber arts into magic.
- 23:19So, for me, any kind of magical fiber
- 23:22art is perfect. I do cross stitch
- 23:24embroidery, but you could also be
- 23:25crocheting or knitting or spinning or
- 23:30really whatever you want to do. And then
- 23:31just turn that into a magical act.
- 23:34Something else that kind of resembles a
- 23:36stimming toy could also be prayer beads.
- 23:39So, you could actually work through some
- 23:41kind of prayer beads and say a prayer
- 23:44while you're doing that. There are so
- 23:46many different ways to work with prayer
- 23:47beads. That could be something that
- 23:49works for you because again you have
- 23:50something to do with your hands. And
- 23:52apart from these two things, I think
- 23:54anything that can be done very quickly
- 23:56and that gives you kind of a feeling of
- 23:59having finished something. Because
- 24:01finishing projects gives you dopamine.
- 24:03Like it gives you this this kick that
- 24:05you're seeking. So, not only are you
- 24:07doing something new and that's the same
- 24:09thing with doom scrolling. You're always
- 24:11seeing something new. Whenever you
- 24:12scroll, you're seeing something new and
- 24:14you're finishing something and all of
- 24:15that gives you a dopamine kick. So, if
- 24:17you want to replace that with something
- 24:18magical, you can use a simple, very fast
- 24:22witchy task that you can finish in a
- 24:24short period of time so that you're
- 24:27doing something new and you're getting
- 24:28dopamine from that, but also you're
- 24:29finishing something and that also gives
- 24:32you dopamine. So, I'm thinking about
- 24:33something like applying a magical oil,
- 24:37burning some incense with an incantation
- 24:39for example, creating a sigil or bind
- 24:42rune, or if you already have one that
- 24:44works for you, using that, burning it.
- 24:47You know, anything short and sweet like
- 24:49that. And something else that could also
- 24:50give you this novelty dopamine kick is
- 24:53rearranging or redecorating any kind of
- 24:56altars. Of course, this takes a little
- 24:57bit longer. If that gives you a kick,
- 25:00and for me personally, it always does,
- 25:03then [music]
- 25:03cleaning, redecorating, rearranging
- 25:06altar spaces, that can be very, very
- 25:09helpful.
- 25:11Now, reason number five, [music]
- 25:13FOMO.
- 25:14The fear of missing out, or more so kind
- 25:18of wanting to keep up to date with
- 25:20what's happening in the community or
- 25:21with the people, you know. So, when it
- 25:23comes to witchcraft, then often times
- 25:25people feel like they have to be on
- 25:26social media so that they are up to date
- 25:29on what's happening in the online
- 25:30witchcraft community. I feel like this
- 25:32is one that is actually kind of hard to
- 25:34replace with witchcraft practices
- 25:37because it's not like you're avoiding
- 25:39something, but you're actually seeking
- 25:41the online community, and it just leads
- 25:44to you doom scrolling because you want
- 25:46to know what's like trendy or whatever.
- 25:48But, what I kind of feel like is
- 25:51sometimes it's not actually wanting to
- 25:54keep up to date with the community, but
- 25:56what's hidden beneath all of that is the
- 25:59sense of novelty, to learn something
- 26:01new, or to learn about a new trend, or
- 26:04the new spell that everyone is casting,
- 26:05you know. Something like that could also
- 26:07be beneath the feeling of FOMO. So, you
- 26:11actually should kind of reflect on if
- 26:13it's actually wanting to know what's
- 26:15going on in the online community, or if
- 26:16it's more of a thing of "Oh, I want
- 26:18novelty, you know, my own practice feels
- 26:20a little bit stale and boring right now,
- 26:22so I need someone else's input to make
- 26:25my practice feel more interesting right
- 26:28now." There's nothing wrong with like
- 26:30going on Instagram, Discord, Facebook,
- 26:32or wherever your community is, and
- 26:34actually engaging with the community.
- 26:36The thing is only that often times we
- 26:38end up doom scrolling, and it gives us
- 26:40the feeling of engaging with community,
- 26:42but we're actually just consuming, and
- 26:44we're not actually engaging with anyone
- 26:46at all. So, there's nothing wrong with
- 26:48going on social media to chat with other
- 26:50people. The issue is if you start doom
- 26:52scrolling and you kind of you're
- 26:53replacing the actual community with doom
- 26:56scrolling instead. So, you know what I'm
- 26:57trying to get at here is that trying to
- 27:00seek community online in itself not a
- 27:03problem, but you have to be aware that
- 27:05scrolling on which talk or Instagram
- 27:07reels is not giving you community and
- 27:10keeping up with the trends on which talk
- 27:12or whatever, that's not necessary. Like
- 27:15you don't you don't have to do that.
- 27:17There is nothing you are missing out on
- 27:19if you're not up-to-date on the newest
- 27:22trend. And if you are actually seeking
- 27:24community, then first of all, try to
- 27:27seek community somewhere where you don't
- 27:30run the risk of doom scrolling. So,
- 27:32maybe avoid things like Instagram or
- 27:35TikTok or YouTube for community and more
- 27:38so go on things like Discord where you
- 27:42don't run the risk of doom scrolling
- 27:44videos that much because that's usually
- 27:46where the harshest traps are waiting.
- 27:50But, I feel like Discord for example is
- 27:53way better because you're literally
- 27:54engaging with community there, but you
- 27:56don't run the risk of just doom
- 27:58scrolling there because whatever do you
- 28:00want to doom scroll on Discord? If that
- 28:02is something that is possible where you
- 28:04live, of course, look for in-person
- 28:07community also because in-person
- 28:10community is usually more fulfilling
- 28:13than online community. For me, where I
- 28:15live right now, not very possible, but
- 28:18uh if you are living in a bigger city
- 28:20especially if you live in the UK or in
- 28:21the US or Canada, then that is
- 28:24>> [music]
- 28:24>> probably possible. If what you're
- 28:26actually seeking here is not actually
- 28:28the community part, but more the novelty
- 28:31part, then maybe instead of doom
- 28:33scrolling, try to check in with the
- 28:36otherworldly local community that you
- 28:38have. Try to check in with your spirits
- 28:40or with your deities and see what's
- 28:41going on with them. Or alternatively,
- 28:44check in what's going on with you by
- 28:47doing some divination that can also be
- 28:50something that gives you some novelty.
- 28:53All right, but now let's get to the last
- 28:56reason for doom scrolling, number six,
- 28:58and that is a general exhaustion. So,
- 29:01again, if you are a person who works
- 29:03multiple jobs or a person who maybe is a
- 29:06single parent or maybe you're
- 29:08additionally to your job, you're taking
- 29:10care of your parents or your
- 29:12grandparents or anyone else or whatever.
- 29:15You're maybe volunteering a lot
- 29:17alongside your normal day job or
- 29:20whatever it might be. But for some
- 29:22reason, you end up with a lack of energy
- 29:25in the evening because you have a lot to
- 29:27do and you're very, very busy. In which
- 29:29case, often times people end up doom
- 29:32scrolling because they feel like it's
- 29:34the only thing that they have energy
- 29:36for. Luckily, there are a lot of
- 29:38witchcraft practices that require very
- 29:41little energy. I actually already made a
- 29:44video on that topic and there are also a
- 29:46lot of different videos on this topic
- 29:49out on YouTube. A million of them. So,
- 29:52there is a lot of ideas that you can get
- 29:54from other creators as well alongside my
- 29:56video. But here are already some ideas
- 29:59for low energy practices that you can do
- 30:02instead of doom scrolling. First of all,
- 30:04and that's one of my favorites is making
- 30:06amulets, talismans, spell [music] bags,
- 30:10spell bottles, anything like that. You
- 30:12really only have to spend a lot of
- 30:14energy on once and then afterwards, you
- 30:17can use them very, very easily because
- 30:20you just take them
- 30:21and you wear [music] them and that's
- 30:23about it. So, those are definitely
- 30:26something that I really, really like to
- 30:28do because it's such a very, very easy
- 30:31way of bringing some magic into your
- 30:33day. Similarly to that is also using
- 30:36sprays and oils for example. If you make
- 30:40a couple of oils or you just buy a
- 30:42couple of oils. If you don't have the
- 30:44energy or the time to make oils, it's
- 30:46not a problem. If you are interested,
- 30:48then I actually have a video on that, a
- 30:49full guide, but if you don't have the
- 30:51energy or the time or the interest
- 30:54[music] to make them yourself, you can
- 30:55just buy magical oils. There are so many
- 30:57shops that make them. You can get them
- 30:59for different intentions, and whatever
- 31:01you need that day, especially if you
- 31:03need like energy or motivation or
- 31:05anything like that, you can apply a
- 31:06magical oil or use a spray or burn an
- 31:10incense. That requires very little
- 31:12energy, very little time, but it's
- 31:14something so small, yet so effectual.
- 31:17Again, I will bring kitchen witchcraft
- 31:19in here as well, simply because you have
- 31:23to cook either way. So, if you already
- 31:26have to cook, you have to spend energy
- 31:27and time on that, why not just pour a
- 31:30little bit of your witchcraft into that
- 31:32as well? That way, you're kind of
- 31:33merging what you have to do, because
- 31:36cooking is essential, you have to make
- 31:38food. Why not just merge that with
- 31:41witchcraft? Use specific ingredients for
- 31:44specific purposes, or make a specific
- 31:46dish with a specific intention, or weave
- 31:49your energy into it, ask the spirits for
- 31:52help or to bless your meal. Whatever you
- 31:54want to do, there are a million
- 31:56different ways to do kitchen witchcraft,
- 31:57but I kind of feel like if you don't
- 31:59have a lot of energy or time, then
- 32:02kitchen witchcraft or things like
- 32:04enchanting teas or coffees or any kind
- 32:06of beverage, for example, it's a perfect
- 32:08solution, because again, you have to do
- 32:10it either way. You have to feed yourself
- 32:12and your family, so you can kind of
- 32:13combine those two things. Something that
- 32:15has really become an essential for me is
- 32:18very, very short and easy morning or
- 32:21evening meditations, and maybe some
- 32:22divination if you have the time.
- 32:24Meditation or breath work or anything
- 32:27like that is something that not only
- 32:29grounds you a lot, but it can also give
- 32:31you a lot of energy for the day. So,
- 32:33while yes, you might be very tired in
- 32:35the evening, by doing some meditation
- 32:37and maybe some breath work, you can
- 32:39actually gain some energy by doing it.
- 32:42So, yes, you have to get yourself to do
- 32:43it, but maybe if you do it a couple of
- 32:46times, you will feel that afterwards
- 32:48you're actually more energetic. So, for
- 32:50some people this will work, for some
- 32:52people this won't because they will fall
- 32:54asleep or something. So, totally depends
- 32:56on the person, but my personal
- 32:57experience tells me that meditation
- 32:59actually gives me a lot of energy
- 33:01because first of all it grounds me for
- 33:02the entire day if I do it in the morning
- 33:05or just in between, maybe on a lunch
- 33:06break or something, and it also gives me
- 33:09energy. Something else that is very low
- 33:11energy and consumes very little time is
- 33:14working with sigils and bind runes. It
- 33:16could be drawing them on something like
- 33:18your windows or your doors for
- 33:20protection or something and then
- 33:21charging them. It could be drawing them
- 33:24on a piece of paper, charging them,
- 33:26burning them, you know, anything you can
- 33:28do with them. I feel like it is very
- 33:30quick and easy magic, and even if you
- 33:32don't have the energy or the desire to
- 33:36make them yourself, there are a lot of
- 33:39sigils and bind runes that you can find
- 33:41online that you can simply use. And then
- 33:43of course, there are also workings that
- 33:45actually take longer, but that you're
- 33:48doing only like 5 or 10 minutes at a
- 33:51time. So, maybe something like working a
- 33:54big 7 or 9-day candle, you know, that
- 33:57you simply light for 5 or 10 minutes
- 33:59every evening and say a little prayer,
- 34:01working a money bowl or any kind of bowl
- 34:04spell kind of intention, doesn't have to
- 34:06be a money bowl. Spells like that that
- 34:09work [music] because you're working them
- 34:11regularly. So, you don't have to spend
- 34:14like 1 or 2 hours every day on those
- 34:16kinds of spells, but just like 5 or 10
- 34:17minutes every day or even just [music]
- 34:19once a week really. A lot of people work
- 34:21their money bowl, for example, once a
- 34:23week on a specific day. So, it doesn't
- 34:25just have to be a one-off spell that is
- 34:28quick and easy. You can also do longer
- 34:30workings that only take a tiny little
- 34:33bit of time and energy out of your day.
- 34:36All right, and that being said, those
- 34:38were my ideas for how you can replace
- 34:40doom scrolling with witchcraft. I really
- 34:43hope that this helped someone because I
- 34:46recently replaced a lot of my doom
- 34:48scrolling with a lot of hobbies and
- 34:49witchcraft and I've never felt better.
- 34:51Honestly, I reduced my screen time from
- 34:53like 4 hours to 1 and 1/2 hours a day.
- 34:56It was one of the best things I ever
- 34:58did. So, I really hope that some of
- 35:00these tips are helping you. Again, if
- 35:03you have recognized an additional reason
- 35:04for why you are doom scrolling that I
- 35:06did not include on my list then tell me
- 35:08in the comments. Again, I hope you like
- 35:10this video. If you did, make sure to
- 35:11subscribe, give a thumbs up, ring the
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- 35:33in another video. Bye.
- 35:35>> [music]
- 35:44[music]
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