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0:05[Music]
0:14the book this is a book called
0:21understanding social problems and it was
0:25him we had one of our women's race guys
0:28on the East Coast he was taking college
0:30class and he got really upset
0:32this was the textbook and he wanted us
0:35to do something about it okay we'll take
0:37on an educational system next week right
0:40anyway so I ordered up the book okay
0:43let's see what he's talking about very
0:46interesting stuff so this is I'm not
0:49sure if it's a social studies class or
0:51an anthropology anthropology class but
0:53something like that okay understanding
0:55social problems and it's interesting
0:58they have a section in here in domestic
1:00violence and it'll partner violence and
1:01abuse and it's one of our issues hotspot
1:04issues and so let's just go through a
1:07few things okay there's globally one
1:10woman in every three has been subjected
1:11to violence at an apartment in intimate
1:14relationship from the United Nations
1:16Development Program mm well one in three
1:22that means that every two girlfriends
1:25you know you know when that's been
1:26abused right I don't you don't and maybe
1:32they don't talk about it what a surprise
1:34hmm actually it probably didn't happen
1:38just like it didn't happen one in six
1:40men they're abused it they expand the
1:43definition
1:43hmm well they don't talk about here is
1:47what's the definition of abuse mm-hmm so
1:50but it leaves you with the impression
1:51what's your impression like somebody got
1:54beat up right mm-hmm badly made me put
1:56in the hospital maybe perhaps right
1:58mm-hmm well talk about well maybe the
2:00definition of abuse includes though
2:03being screamed at ones
2:07love you I'm Glenn and scream at men
2:11okay but it's not discussed was the
2:14impression leaves correct okay in the
2:17United States most acts of intimate
2:18partner violence parenthesis 85 percent
2:21of committed against women what what any
2:24five percent a committee this books 2011
2:27how can that be how can it possibly be
2:31that this is in this book when that has
2:33been disproven more times than I've
2:35climbed those steps going out to the
2:38parking lot how can this be when the
2:42evidence is so easy to find how can this
2:45be when dr. Martin fever district
2:49compiled the bibliography the biggest
2:51bibliography in the world of scientific
2:53research about abused men which shows
2:55this is not true how can this possibly
2:57be when there's no evidence based that
3:01on the internet available to everybody
3:04project by John Hummel and some the
3:06leading researchers in the entire world
3:08on domestic violence has compiled the
3:10biggest composite research on DV
3:13anywhere on the planet which shows this
3:15is not even close to being true how can
3:17it be this is in a book 2011 how can it
3:22be so what's the motivation however 23%
3:28of men have experienced physical sexual
3:30or psychological interpersonal
3:32interpersonal violence compared the 21
3:359% it was women excuse me where'd that
3:40come from
3:40I've never even heard that number
3:42anywhere mm-hmm I mean I'm on the DV
3:45council I mean I've been doing this
3:46stuff for a long time I've never heard
3:47this anywhere where'd it come from comes
3:50from National Center in injury
3:51prevention and control 2006 Wow
3:54do you realize if you went to the CDC
3:56this is very interesting I can remember
3:57in terms of this book to a few years ago
4:01I wish I could find this yes I got some
4:03email and it was one of the like the
4:05famous majority or something list and
4:08when women said we have to get control
4:10the CDC we have to get control of CDC
4:12and of course I just passed the flaked
4:15it out didn't thinking
4:16Adame what it was and I haven't been
4:19able to find the email but if you went
4:21the CDC website three years ago you will
4:24find charts that show about who commits
4:28most of child abuse and it's you guys
4:30not us really well we're not even close
4:33mothers what makes sense if you think
4:36about it you know then we've got
4:38fatherless homes and just make sense
4:40right but the safest place for kids are
4:43in a home with their biological father
4:44that's the safest place for a kid
4:46also safest place for the mother
4:49although the feminist bill would have II
4:51believe it's the most dangerous place
4:53men were football Sunday mmm you've
4:55heard that one most dangerous place to
4:57be is a woman in their own home on foot
5:01bolts on Super Bowl Sunday
5:02that was a Sheila Kuehl myth it's been
5:04dispelled by christina hoff sommers and
5:06every times why it's just lies one well
5:09one lie after another one missing said
5:11when the exaggeration after night when
5:14women saw their male partners these
5:16assaults tend to be actor retaliation of
5:18source of stuff to fit what self-defense
5:22that's been disproven so many times like
5:24that once again the stair analogy i mean
5:26it's that's absolute garbage absolute
5:30garbage well most women get seriously
5:33injured in domestic violence situations
5:34when they attack the mail first hmm
5:38fact okay that's just keeps going on and
5:43on and on through the whole book okay or
5:45through this whole section now
5:47understand that this is for young
5:49college kids so this is what we're
5:52teaching them in school and why would
5:54you have any reason to disbelieve your
5:56instructor right okay I figured this was
5:59gonna happen I read this I didn't have a
6:00big problem with it but then I got over
6:02here and this was kind of interesting
6:05the effects of intimate partner violence
6:08and abuse each year in the partner
6:10violence results of about 2 million
6:11injuries and 1,300 death nationwide
6:14really how come we're not talking about
6:18men and women anywhere we're just
6:21talking about death more than 3/4 of the
6:23murder victims killed by the inner
6:24partner are women hmm
6:27how many is that by the way I gotta tell
6:29you that very many matter of fact in our
6:33society with three hundred and thirty
6:34seven million people in United States of
6:36America there's only about 1400 violent
6:38deaths criminal violent deaths of women
6:41a year hmm for all reasons horrible but
6:47not significantly huge right so this
6:52goes on and on and on and then what gets
6:54down here battering also interferes with
6:56women's employment Wow doesn't interfere
6:58with men's employment right I mean if
7:02you were a battered man do you think you
7:04would you go to work every day and they
7:07makes fine it's no problem coming home
7:09some abusers prohibit their partners
7:11from work really yeah that's true other
7:13abuse deliberately undermine women's
7:16employment by depriving them of
7:17transport just women just women I guess
7:21that never happens to a guy harassing
7:23that guy never gets harassed at work
7:25turning off alarm call that serious
7:27turning off a wall clocks making them
7:29late meeting them before a job interview
7:30but only women their happiness to a guy
7:39most people would not even pick this up
7:42I see the significance I think somebody
7:48mentioned the word brainwashing early on
7:51how subtle can it get so then I say
7:56what's the motivation who are the
7:59editors of this book who had to approve
8:03these passages wouldn't that make an
8:08interesting film I don't have a clue I
8:13really don't have a clue but certainly
8:16somebody controlled this text it is
8:21written it is written as if it were
8:24written by a radical feminist or
8:27somebody on the San Diego domestic
8:29violence council perhaps you know
8:31there's no difference in this whole
8:32passage really toward men as if they'd
8:34simply don't count
8:36I usually when a passage in here it
8:39talks
8:40how about there are shelters for women
8:43and children nah man that's accurate
8:51yeah doesn't make any sense to you guys
8:54thank you it does that you understand
8:56this to wait at me you have to
8:58understand though that you know I've
9:00grown up with the feminist ideology in
9:03all my books yeah and I am just the
9:06point and I'm a woman and the largest
9:10group of feminists are women my age it's
9:13a growing movement because of the young
9:15women's movement oh that's interesting
9:17when any you know majority isn't in
9:20younger generations it's a growing
9:22movement so it's very difficult for me
9:26to wrap my brain around this because you
9:29know that's the book book I would be
9:31ready
9:31exactly so just give me a second cuz I'm
9:37overwhelmed with how much information
9:39you just kick I mean I would if I were
9:41you I'd be so pissed about being lied to
9:43I would be so angry I couldn't even like
9:46that would be totally beside myself you
9:49know and I don't want my children my
9:51grandchildren to learn this crap because
9:54that's exactly what it is and
9:57unfortunately it comes from well-meaning
9:58people you know I can remember a couple
10:01of times standing over a domestic
10:02violence counselor I used to go wearing
10:04my t-shirts a feminist lies make bad
10:06laws it man they'd look at me like oh my
10:08god you're hairy again oh my god you
10:11know I'd wear this when prosecute false
10:13accusers there we had a situation when
10:16they first opened up the Family Justice
10:17Center they had a 40-hour volunteer
10:19training that was gonna go volunteer
10:20right yeah I'm pretty good at working
10:22with people I've interviewed thousands
10:23I've only not help them and so I'd wear
10:26my t-shirts
10:27Gail's Trek came in you know she's
10:29teaches one of the law schools and she
10:31was a big mucky-muck in a TV world TV
10:32industry one day she comes through with
10:35a group of judges from Czechoslovakia
10:39all women except one guy and there's
10:44like 12 us in this training she herds
10:46them all in to show him the new Family
10:47Justice that was beautiful facility
10:50she goes around the world room
10:52introducing everybody and every time she
10:53gets to me she skips me
10:56and she finally gets it she can't go
10:59anywhere I'm the last guy and so she's
11:01gonna saying this is this is this is
11:05this is Harry Crouch he's what he's with
11:10this national he's a men's rights
11:12advocate and she can barely get it out
11:15and all of a sudden from the middle is
11:18group this guy stands up on his tippy
11:21toes in his arm shoes like this is the
11:24Pete's and he goes right Jess
11:28yes the room just cracked out the point
11:32I'm trying to make here I went to lunch
11:35with the women because they knew they
11:39knew women could be abusive all by
11:42themselves if I went to lunch for the
11:45guys I was shunned why is it with you
11:51Harry
11:52bad-mouthing women you know women aren't
11:55violent us you need to accept that
11:58excuse me that's what they wants you to
12:03believe in nothing they wants you to
12:04believe it I think some of its inherent
12:06in the way we're raised you know don't
12:09hit your sister well that makes sense
12:12but if Johnny gets out line you just
12:15kicked the crap out that doesn't make
12:16sense you know they're gonna teach
12:21non-violence you I teach non-violence to
12:23both it's not gender-specific
12:25you don't make up lies you don't need to
12:29blame one party or another you just need
12:31to say violence inappropriate you know
12:37whoever hits whoever is gonna there's
12:39gonna be a consequence stay California
12:44you may understand you may remember that
12:46we've had some difficulty with our
12:48correctional institution isn't
12:49overcrowding mm-hmm matter of fact we
12:52were put under federal oversight right
12:54and we were ordered to reduce the
12:56population of our prison so what's the
12:58first thing we did do you remember
13:02kind of more lenient on women we opened
13:05the doors to Prettyman in prison and we
13:09let women out of prison my men but we
13:11let women out of prison some of whom had
13:13done exactly what men had done and
13:14weren't prison for now why would we do
13:17that do you know that England as we
13:21speak right now there's legislation
13:23that's being pushed over there to
13:25completely do away with women and our
13:27print female prisons because they're
13:30figuring out a way to excuse all
13:32aberrant behavior in women excuse me
13:40does her need for am is rice movement I
13:43don't know you tell me does that make
13:45sense
13:46it doesn't make any sense to me why
13:48would you do that does it make any sense
13:50to in Alaska we call this Barnard
13:53divorce if you got caught in bed with
13:55somebody else a shotgun was nearby and
13:57took care of the deal everybody in town
13:59kind of understood that okay let's get
14:01on with it you know nowadays the whole
14:04the way it is you know we've got the
14:06battered spouse syndrome thirteen abuse
14:09excuses for women in court none for men
14:11the battered spouse in court the
14:14battered skip to the spouse abuse well I
14:16I didn't mean to shoot him 67 times but
14:20my finger got stuck on the trigger when
14:22he was sleeping you know that's because
14:24I've been abused for all these years
14:26okay now let's not be facetious about it
14:29is there a real dynamic where somebody
14:31can be abused seriously abused and get
14:33caught up in the dynamic and not leave
14:35absolutely absolutely
14:38it's a nightmare absolute freakin
14:40nightmare okay but should that be some
14:43justification for murdering somebody
14:46sure
14:50everyone really I mean if they really
14:54can't leave and they feel like that's
14:55our only way out yeah okay what if we're
14:58gonna die
14:59what if roles are reversed I think the
15:02same I mean what makes sense wouldn't it
15:04if they're if they think they're
15:07protecting their life I have any Colvin
15:10genderless you know do you remember the
15:13Rihanna's situation how she was abused
15:17by James brat got beat Bobby we got beat
15:21up in the car man that was fascinating
15:24they were truly fascinating and I'm not
15:27saying this guy's a saint you know he's
15:29driving a car and she's kicking the crap
15:31out of him that's what went down that's
15:34what it was rude initially reported in
15:35the news and he slugged her he lost it
15:38in Peter up within 24 hours
15:42man that woman's the famous machine it
15:45just came together and wrapped its arms
15:50around Rihanna and said man do we have
15:53an opportunity here and they fired up
15:57Oprah Winfrey and everybody else and off
16:00to the red off to the races we went it's
16:18unconscionable what's interesting
16:22and the subtlety of discrimination if
16:26you will you'll have women in a lot of
16:31the reality shows you know or on TV
16:34shows so stuff that gets perpetuated
16:38we're a little laugh about what Elena
16:41bought each other that's right I ever
16:43found my husband and you know with
16:45another woman I cut off his being in
16:47everyone jokes about haha sure and there
16:50isn't any public outrage when this joke
16:55keeps being perpetuated so if we reverse
16:59it and say a man cut off his wife's
17:02breasts or terrific it's horrific it
17:06sliced her you know down there and stuff
17:08and then it's it's an ongoing joke in
17:12our media and pop culture even if you've
17:18been abused for years and years and
17:21we're not outraged because that's what
17:26they teach you
17:27I don't teaching me outraged about
17:31injustice anywhere unless the injustice
17:34is gender specific
17:35I think that's outrageous you know i
17:42I've literally worked with thousands of
17:44felons
17:45I mean I've interviewed thousands of
17:46them I have interviewed baby bouncers
17:49acid throwers murderers muggers serial
17:51killers bank robbers you name it I've
17:53been in a Cell with him and I've talked
17:54to him right there are some horrible
17:58people out there but bang I mean
18:01injustice injustice you pay the price
18:03for whatever your behavior should be and
18:05I shouldn't be gender specific I murders
18:07and murder as a murder thought the
18:09mitigating circumstance yeah that's why
18:12they're called mitigating circumstances
18:14but they shouldn't be gender specific
18:16either should not be thirteen abuse
18:18excuses for women and unforgotten says
18:20absurd is crazy most recent study out of
18:25Harvard shows that seventy percent of
18:26domestic violence one on one is
18:29perpetrated by you guys not us and the
18:33more we learn about intimate partner
18:35violence
18:35the more that becomes clear in in dating
18:39violence on college campuses man we're
18:42not even close
18:43how do you define violence ah well once
18:48again it's the definition isn't it so
18:51whatever definition they want to use we
18:53got some pamphlets out here you're
18:54welcome to take a look at that stuff
18:55there's a guy in the East Coast that's a
18:57really good work
18:57Richard remember the names he's retired
19:01police lieutenant written a couple books
19:03teaches about domestic violence on a
19:05couple colleges I think of his name
19:08you're really a great guy and he started
19:11looking at instance of interpersonal and
19:15personal violence between students on
19:18college campuses he started discovering
19:21some of these things to the point being
19:24a lot of what we believe a lot of what
19:25we taught our taught isn't what really
19:27is and so some of the things that are
19:31being taught oh like the CDC I didn't
19:33finish something with a CDC so three
19:35years ago if you were ago the CDC
19:37website he could find charts and would
19:38show this it would show how abusive
19:40mothers were in stepdads and biological
19:43fathers and who did what to whom how
19:45many times no more the charts are gone
19:49now you go to CDC and looking they're
19:52all gender inclusive they don't talk
19:54about who does what the most huh
19:58it's just parents or non-biological
20:00parent sir and why is that
20:02who's that control the White House we've
20:05got the White House Council on women and
20:06girls in who they have lateral Authority
20:10in each department the United States
20:11government including the CDC and that
20:14thought process this thought process is
20:19now being institutionalized top-down and
20:24anything that suggests women should be
20:26responsible for their own actions is
20:28simply disappearing and it what's
20:30increasing is making things that make it
20:33easier to vilify criminalize mend
20:37hence the Department of Education order
20:42to college campuses
20:44I was okay I have a hard time of
20:49statistics because you didn't find
20:52statistics on either side to support you
20:55know and granted who knows if they're
20:57made up statistics are true studies but
21:00you can find statistics to support
21:02either side and that's what you know the
21:04feminists are using oh we're going to
21:06use the one in four women are sexually
21:08assaulted in their lifetime and so this
21:10is what we're Mystik with the answer is
21:11easy what's that
21:13the answer is easy that that comes from
21:16a study conducted by whom miss magazine
21:18ms ms period magazine commissioned that
21:22study well I I started googling to find
21:27out what statistics I could find and and
21:30I feel like correct me if I'm wrong I
21:32feel like the CDC is really the most
21:34reputable statistics you can find do you
21:37think you think and just like a couple
21:40days ago I looked up semester violence
21:43on the CDC and it said eighty-three
21:45percent women and the rest men are
21:49victims of domestic well then if you
21:50have to question that because there's so
21:54much country I just try to explain that
21:56they got control the CDC the CDC's to be
22:01extraordinary reputable organization you
22:05could Bank by it we used to use their
22:08numbers I don't use them anymore there
22:12are other authorities you can go to
22:15study after study after study
22:17hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of
22:19not just one or two hundreds and
22:21hundreds and her
22:22it's easy Martin fever look up Martin
22:25fever domestic violence mom you should
22:27go interview the guys right up there in
22:29Cal State Long Beach
22:31it wasn't CNM right no he's a
22:35common-sense guy he's a political
22:36science professor who maintains the
22:39largest bibliography research on abused
22:41me in on the planning thanks guy
22:46just like that so what do you do I still
22:50feel like because his he focuses on
22:52men's issues so isn't that the
22:54equivalent of a news magazine doing a
22:56study there's a big difference between
22:58an unscientific one unscientific study
23:02from MS magazine in almost 2,500
23:07academic papers and research studies
23:09from social scientists there's a big
23:12difference and if you were to put them
23:14on a scale which way which way do you
23:16think that scale would wait and when you
23:19put a study from MS magazine well they
23:22probably had scientists doing this
23:24actually I didn't go back and look at
23:25Teresa they did it they just it's how
23:27they put the questions together do you
23:29realize a lot of the women in that study
23:30who said they had been raped went back
23:32to live either date the man that
23:34supposedly raped them and a lot of a by
23:37their own admission didn't even know was
23:38rape hmm I mean read the history on this
23:42that's ridiculous it's not it's just
23:44ridiculous and this is yeah this is what
23:48they do over and over and over and over
23:50again first they try to identify a
23:54problem and one doesn't exist they
23:55create it okay now we create it we have
23:58to substantiate it so the work what
24:00we're gonna do is we're going to cause a
24:02controversial study to take place and
24:04we're the ones are gonna conduct it and
24:07we have predefined outcomes we're really
24:09not interested the truth what we want to
24:10do is substantiate our position and once
24:13we've substantiate our position we'll
24:15bring in the media and we'll sell it to
24:17the media and the media will take it out
24:19the public and make people believe it to
24:21be true
24:24over and over and you can find the
24:29methodology in rules for radicals which
24:33is a guidebook that these people some of
24:37them use you can see it's written down
24:39there so here's how you do it boom boom
24:42boom boom I could do is open the page
24:45and go down and read their read them
24:49take what you want in my book case it's
24:51nothing you know though they'll tell you
24:54if they don't keep it a secret
24:58they just know most of us are stupid
25:03yeah
25:05the mass majority just eats up whatever
25:07mainstream media it's awesome most of us
25:10are good people we have things to do we
25:14want to play baseball you know I want to
25:17take my daughter to the dance I want to
25:20make sure I get that second job paycheck
25:24from there I again do a little something
25:26extra for the family we got to fix that
25:28four wheel when we go the Ripper got put
25:31some food on the table I don't have time
25:33for this crap
25:34I don't know what you're talking about I
25:35don't care what you're talking about
25:38doesn't doesn't impact me but when it
25:42does what does I can tell you why you
25:46guys are here and I can tell you I don't
25:50think you mean no I'll tell you why
25:52you're here is because this stuff we're
25:54talking about now has touched adversely
25:58touched in one way or another everybody
26:01in this country everybody and maybe
26:05didn't come up and bite you directly on
26:07his arm but maybe it's a neighbor or a
26:10friend or relative somebody you know
26:15sudden you looked at there's something
26:17right here something right here just
26:20that dunce doesn't pass the smell test
26:23anymore
26:24right for the longest period of time
26:27before it adversely impacted everybody
26:29directly or indirectly they got away
26:32with a lot and I've been hesitant not to
26:36go somewhere I still try not to go there
26:41go there it's all too controversial
26:46well I'm Madison I'm not a historian I'm
26:50I'm a political scientist I
26:54really don't want to go there I mean
26:56there's other motivations for this
26:57movement
26:58aside from enlightenment and oppression
27:03do you feel oppressed it's hard to say
27:08really
27:09Wow do you feel oppressed no you shut
27:16that door okay
27:17has anybody ever applied for a job and
27:21said you're not being hired for your
27:22woman or when I grew up most my bosses
27:28were female I think everyone has their
27:33own experiences probably so right and
27:35that's why personally for me it's hard
27:39to understand the men's movement because
27:40I haven't walked in your noses shoes
27:43well like I said not sure about the MS
27:45movement part but unfortunately there's
27:49just so much misinformation going back
27:50and forth yeah I was bringing back
27:52what's the motivation you know if you
27:55come back and say what's the motivation
27:56you can't find an altruistic reason for
27:58you can't find truth I think we're in
28:02trouble because then there's something
28:03else something sinister is afoot and
28:07then you have to ask what is that why is
28:09it and how do we fix that because it's
28:11like you know I'll write a route to a
28:13plant pretty soon it's gonna kill
28:15something and you really have to kind of
28:17dig it out root it out I don't care
28:20whether it's a man being a jerk or a
28:22woman being a jerk is inconsequential to
28:24me okay we have to stop stop the jerk
28:28yet so that's what we have to stop okay
28:30so if you want but labels I don't put
28:32labels on it I don't think labels
28:34particularly help myself matter of fact
28:37I think labels detract from solutions
28:41because then it becomes shame blame and
28:43guilt where do those concepts come from
28:45Duluth power and control will you guys
28:47know about that mm-hmm I gave you a copy
28:50no in 1977 I think about you crazy women
28:53up in Duluth Minnesota figured out their
28:55the solution to domestic violence and it
28:57was all about patriarchy and all about
29:00men
29:01and it's a Bluth power of a drill
29:03because men are all about power and
29:06control of course not you ladies you
29:09guys you don't control anything you have
29:11no power
29:12you're just sweet and innocent all
29:13things okay so on this power no control
29:17wheels divided up and all these things
29:18you know about who does this and who
29:20does that blah blah blah of course it's
29:22all men tambien the entire domestic
29:27violence industry was founded on that I
29:29think it's still 37 or 32 states the
29:31United States that by law they have to
29:33use the Duluth model for batterer
29:35intervention programs and it's all shame
29:37blaming guilt driven if you're a man and
29:40you walk in you must admit you did it
29:42upfront or you're in denial there's no
29:44debate there's no discussion there's no
29:45possibility that you could be falsely
29:47accused the criminal justice system
29:49could have made a mistake
29:50none whatsoever you are in a state you
29:52know I'll and you will complete that
29:54course right when I go to jail you will
29:58be re-engineered frightening yes I think
30:05it's terrifying absolutely terrifying
30:12that we allow such stuff to happen in
30:15this country I thought that was Russia
30:19maybe I've got him confused how can you
30:24do that oh and this happens before
30:26there's been any criminal charges whoa
30:28huh yeah I mean there's oh they're not
30:32gonna be any file probably I mean that's
30:34actually coming from a silikal Family
30:36Court not Criminal Court they can they
30:37can do that Wow do they have these same
30:42programs for women
30:43oh they don't how's that possible we
30:49don't need to rename reengineer women
30:51free I guess all you guys are just
30:53perfect mothers and I never have issues
30:56and it's just uh it's just us guys it's
31:01just us guys so book up here written by
31:05a mr. Geffner who i think president of
31:10the lion university violinist blah blah
31:14blah graduate program whatever the hell
31:15it is nice guy nice guy
31:19yeah so he caught authored this book
31:22about a batterer intervention programs
31:24for women
31:24oh the recognition that there might be
31:26an abusive woman holy moly moly
31:29and you read the introduction and how
31:32does it start out laymen men
31:34unbelievable if the program is for men
31:39it starts out laymen men with the
31:41programs for women his starts out laymen
31:42meant excuse me what I do you know I
31:49don't know about Danielle but I didn't
31:51do it I don't know where you came in I
31:53didn't do it you know I'm trying to help
31:55people not be violent how is that
31:58constructive how is that yeah I was a
32:01constructive until that one whole gender
32:03escape routes responsibility for the
32:05actions by blaming them on somebody else
32:07and yet you look at the other gender and
32:10say you're responsible for everything
32:12and you need to accept responsibility
32:13for it even if you didn't do it I'm
32:17sorry but if that's what it takes town
32:19men's rights movement maybe we need one
32:21because that's just so nonsensically
32:24crazies
32:25for me it doesn't compute and we have a
32:28whole industry out there do you you
32:31rising years and years ago there was
32:34Susan Steinmetz
32:36was the first a woman first academic to
32:43come out with a scientific paper I
32:46showed this is suggested that perhaps
32:49more women abused men then verse event
32:52horizon hello man do you think she was I
32:55had to go to the Salem witch trials I
32:59mean the academics burned her at the
33:01stake
33:03they made bomb threats against her tried
33:06to get her thrown out of the university
33:07tried to get her tenure denied she
33:10actually left academia for a few years
33:12until she came back in and joined the
33:14national study the first national study
33:16on the other partner of violence every
33:17conduct and all three of those
33:19researchers were threatened with death
33:23threats
33:26there are even meetings when they were
33:28making presentations and other social
33:30sciences stood up and said there's no
33:31such thing as an abusive woman what and
33:36what planet did you follow up if I can
33:38stores the spaceship let's find it and
33:40round them all back up shut the door
33:42put some dynamite under it off into
33:45space they go how can people with PhDs
33:49possibly take that position it's the
33:51most asinine on his face it's absolutely
33:55ridiculous no calm no person who thinks
34:01objectively to any degree whatsoever
34:04could possibly arrive at that conclusion
34:10you tell me why don't we need a minister
34:12a moment I like this one well you're
34:16just trying to take away all the gains
34:18made back what I'm trying to taking it
34:22where the gains made by what you think I
34:24can do that I mean do I have that power
34:27really I don't think so and why would I
34:33want to do that well it's gonna cost me
34:36more money it's gonna take more of my
34:38time you know I want you guys doing what
34:40you want to do just don't bug me all
34:42right
34:43contribute be happy have a great life
34:46show your kids where your family love
34:49your husband love the men in your life
34:53be a person be human let me be a person
34:56let me be let's get along you know I
35:00mean who the hell do you think you are
35:02'ln I'm supposed to give you some
35:03special consideration because you don't
35:06have a penis what you don't give me any
35:09because I do remember the husband yeah
35:14didn't understand what he goes through
35:15the stress the pressures every day
35:17because we suck it up
35:20we suck it up the guy worked with two
35:23days ago in 19 years and abuse assist
35:25you in a woman's crazy she's a
35:27narcissist he's a megalomaniac she's a
35:29control freak she takes no
35:32responsibility for anything ever ever on
35:35earth happens in the household it's
35:36always his fault always no matter what
35:39it is
35:39all she does is go to nurses and spend
35:42all his money buying clothes she never
35:43wears she's corrupted her daughters and
35:48her son turned children away from this
35:52guy and all he does is work his ass off
35:55excuse me
35:57why do we need a men's rights movement
35:59you tell me maybe because we don't have
36:03that right now people when I say we
36:07don't have any people so excute I
36:08thought you men had all the rights well
36:10show me if you can show it to me I'll
36:14wear it you know but I'm not buying it
36:18you know people have not showed it to me
36:20why aren't the prison is full of men
36:22because they were aggressive interview
36:24really hmm
36:26yeah well that's true a lot of us for
36:28failing to pay child support well are
36:29all deadbeats that's where they belong
36:30well do you realize that women who were
36:32similarly situated are more likely not
36:35to pay child support than men how come
36:36we don't look at that because you don't
36:40have a penis it's as simple as that it's
36:44not even complicated I mean I can go on
36:49and on and on he wanted examples how
36:51many examples do you want
36:53how about Obama care do you realize it
36:56young man you have to provide insurance
36:58under Obama care have to pay for
37:00paternity maternity insurance in case
37:04they get pregnant I guess maybe there's
37:07something going on in Washington even we
37:09don't know about yet you know maybe I'll
37:14wake up tomorrow and I'll have twins in
37:16my stomach or something now why is that
37:19what's the motivation okay how come a
37:22women won't step up and take oh they use
37:2480% of the health services in the United
37:27States of America eighty percent so
37:31while I keep reaping into our pocket
37:34okay you're not reaching in your pocket
37:37to pay for mine right so why what's the
37:43motivation I think it all goes back to
37:46warn disenfranchised and then
37:48disempowerment more men you can extract
37:52from a family the more men you can
37:54criminalize for the weakest offense
37:56here's the example I'm in the military
38:01I'm a career military person I've been
38:02in eighteen years the only thing I want
38:04to do is put in my thirty I've been to
38:06work five times been on so many
38:08deployments I've been shot I've got the
38:10medals I'm all these things and I'm in
38:13this situation I'm falsely accused of
38:15domestic violence I can't even have a
38:17gun and they yanked my security
38:18clearance the military no longer wants
38:23to deal with me because down a problem
38:25so now I'm going to be kicked out the
38:28family court doesn't give a [ __ ] the
38:31family courts gonna say you still need
38:33to pay child support you're gonna still
38:34need to pay Alan I can't I no longer
38:36have a job my career was taken away from
38:38me because I was falsely accused and I
38:40don't care that's not our issue I don't
38:45care that's not our issue when you do
38:48things like that you expand definitions
38:50of domestic violence or crime where you
38:51can criminalize almost anybody for
38:53anything and then you criminalize
38:55something like I'm getting a temporary
38:57restraining order which has a purpose
38:59and that purpose should only be to keep
39:00cardis a park so there's no injury you
39:03don't criminalize the act of the
39:05issuance of restraining order but
39:06they've done that why have they done
39:07that because now it creates a record and
39:11who are restraining orders most often
39:12issued against the man not the woman
39:14right so now we've criminalized another
39:16man for doing what nothing doing
39:19absolutely nothing
39:20we've criminalized him maybe we need
39:24them as rights movement maybe that's a
39:27reason I mean an investor a smuggler you
39:31add them all up so what happens so we're
39:34disenfranchising we're disempowering why
39:36are we disenfranchising and
39:37disempowering men what's the motivation
39:40what do you think the motivation might
39:42be because men have all the power and
39:45control because we're so evil because if
39:50you walk out that door everything you
39:52see was has been built by a man what's
39:58our contribution does that mean women
40:01don't have value
40:02that's ridiculous of course you guys
40:05have value you know or we wouldn't get
40:07in trouble so much guys okay we're all
40:12on the same boat we just don't seem to
40:17respect each other for who we are and
40:20there's something sinister there's some
40:23sinister aspect of our culture some
40:25sinister as something sick something
40:27malignant something horrific ly
40:31destructive that hasn't even come close
40:35to tearing us apart yet but we're
40:37getting there and if we don't change
40:39something radically and do it soon we're
40:43gonna be in D
40:44crap and I think that's exactly what
40:47some of these people want and that's
40:52where I don't want to go because that's
40:54not the one way stepping out of men's
40:55rights or or gender issues okay buddy
41:02you want to talk about the inequities I
41:03can go on for days I think we should
41:09take a break
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