Do This BEFORE You Take Her To Bed — Transcript

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1. 0:00Do this before you take any woman to
2. 0:02bed. I'm Erica Angelo and I can tell you
3. 0:05that this mistake is why after you've
4. 0:08charmed her pants off and she's like,
5. 0:11"Not interested. I don't feel the
6. 0:13connection.
7. 0:15I have a headache." You've heard it all,
8. 0:17but I'm going to tell you what mistake
9. 0:19you're making and how you and I are
10. 0:21going to fix this by the end of this
11. 0:23video. Before I even get into this, I
12. 0:25have a big favor to ask you. I need you
13. 0:28to do me a huge thing. When you finish
14. 0:30this video, please promise [music] me.
15. 0:32In fact, if you do this, just say,
16. 0:34"Erica, I got you." in the comment
17. 0:35section. Will you please forward this
18. 0:38video or one of your favorite videos of
19. 0:40mine to one friend. The reason why I ask
20. 0:43you to do this is because since YouTube
21. 0:45has demonetized my channel, if you've
22. 0:47noticed, my views have gone down to like
23. 0:49a thousand. That's crazy. Same content.
24. 0:53The only thing is algorithms not pushing
25. 0:55my work anymore because they're not
26. 0:58making money off me. But if you want to
27. 1:01keep supporting me, if you want me to
28. 1:03keep showing up here, I ask you to do
29. 1:05that one favor. Just share one of my
30. 1:07videos to one of your friends and let's
31. 1:09hope that they come and join us. So,
32. 1:11here's the thing. I know it gets really
33. 1:12frustrating because listen, we all have
34. 1:15needs. One you need to know as a man,
35. 1:16it's okay to have needs in the bedroom.
36. 1:18I know that for men who have been
37. 1:20married, their women start shaming them
38. 1:22like, "Why do you so want this?" Or
39. 1:23you're dating a woman and she wants you
40. 1:26want to get intimate. Some women can
41. 1:28make you feel shameful about wanting to
42. 1:30be intimate. a bunch of crock of [ __ ]
43. 1:32because we all need intimacy. We all
44. 1:35need our bodies to have that fulfillment
45. 1:38in the bedroom and there's nothing wrong
46. 1:40with that. It's beautiful and it's holy.
47. 1:42But if you keep getting pushed back
48. 1:44after you feel like you've done
49. 1:45everything as a man to really charm her,
50. 1:48to really be there for her, to really
51. 1:49seduce her and you're like, "Erica, I
52. 1:51have the right intentions." and she just
53. 1:53doesn't want to come to the bedroom with
54. 1:55me. What the hell is happening? Well,
55. 1:57you and I are going to fix this because
56. 1:59when you do this, she will want to go to
57. 2:02the bedroom with you. Here's the thing.
58. 2:04When a man thinks of the bedroom, you
59. 2:06think as a man, right? You think about
60. 2:08the physicality of like what I want to
61. 2:10do to her, what I want to do to her
62. 2:12body. A lot of you guys have loved my
63. 2:13courses like tongue magic and erotic
64. 2:16power positions and squirting and all
65. 2:19those amazing things. And listen, those
66. 2:20things are exciting to do to a woman's
67. 2:23body. It's very exciting. She enjoys it,
68. 2:26but there's something that needs to
69. 2:27happen for us emotionally before we ever
70. 2:31get to the bedroom. And more than
71. 2:32emotionally is we need to feel safe with
72. 2:35you. And you may have heard that a
73. 2:36million times and people may say that a
74. 2:38million times, but you're like, "How the
75. 2:39hell do I do that, Erica?" And that's
76. 2:40why I'm here. I make this work very
77. 2:43practically for you. And so, this is
78. 2:45what you're going to do. Most women, if
79. 2:47you're into beautiful women, most
80. 2:49beautiful women get so annoyed when a
81. 2:52man just focuses on her outside looks.
82. 2:55But you're like, "What the hell else am
83. 2:56I supposed to say?" In fact, this even
84. 2:57happened to me one time. One night I was
85. 2:59at a gala in Monaco and there's a woman
86. 3:01and she looked just like me, strange.
87. 3:03And I said, "Wow, you're so beautiful. I
88. 3:06can't get over how beautiful you are."
89. 3:07And she goes, "Well, I've I've got a lot
90. 3:09going on on the inside, too." And I
91. 3:11thought that was super interesting that
92. 3:12she deflected to that. But the reality
93. 3:14is most women get used to men who are
94. 3:17just focused on the outside. But aha,
95. 3:19I'm going to show you a trick. And if
96. 3:21you can do this before the bedroom, it's
97. 3:23going to make her feel seen, it's going
98. 3:25to make her feel special and important.
99. 3:27But most importantly, it is going to
100. 3:30make her feel safe, like she can
101. 3:32subconsciously trust you. And when she
102. 3:34trusts you, then she goes to the bedroom
103. 3:37with you. Now, I created my date night
104. 3:39pleasure bundle for all of you men who
105. 3:41spend countless dollars on dates with
106. 3:43your woman and it goes nowhere and you
107. 3:46never get the intimacy time after the
108. 3:48date. Go get that date night pleasure
109. 3:49bundle. It's in the comment section,
110. 3:51it's in the description, and it's going
111. 3:53to walk you through exactly what to do
112. 3:55from the morning to the evening so that
113. 3:57she wants to go to the bed to make love
114. 3:59to you as you both deserve. So, how do
115. 4:02you make her feel special? How do you
116. 4:04make her feel important to you? It goes
117. 4:06like this. I want you to see something
118. 4:08about her, either something she said
119. 4:10that is important to her, a quality that
120. 4:13you have noticed about her that makes
121. 4:14her special, the reason why you want to
122. 4:16connect with her is because there's
123. 4:17something that separates her from most
124. 4:19women. Sure, there are lots of women,
125. 4:21beautiful, they talk, they wear the
126. 4:23right clothes, but then you talk to
127. 4:25them, you start to connect with them,
128. 4:26and then they give you that ick. You're
129. 4:27just like, "Ugh, she's beautiful on the
130. 4:29outside, but man, the more I get to know
131. 4:31her, maybe she's thick in the head,
132. 4:33maybe she's self-centered, maybe she
133. 4:35just talks about herself, and I'm not
134. 4:37into this woman." But now, the woman
135. 4:39that you're pursuing, what is it? Help,
136. 4:42let's think about this right now. I want
137. 4:43to help you think about that. What is it
138. 4:45about her, specifically her, that sets
139. 4:49her apart from all the other women? And
140. 4:51that is what you want to start
141. 4:53communicating to her. And you're like,
142. 4:55"Erica, this just seems so
143. 4:56counterintuitive." It does as a man, but
144. 4:58that's why you're getting advice from a
145. 5:00woman cuz I want to make it super simple
146. 5:02about what we need to feel in our body,
147. 5:04what goes through our head, all of those
148. 5:05things that finally make us feel
149. 5:07comfortable enough to where we want to
150. 5:09end up in the bedroom taking [music]
151. 5:10your glorious shaft below. So, find that
152. 5:14one thing. What is it about her that
153. 5:16sets her away apart from all other
154. 5:18women? I got this from a book, it was
155. 5:21called um Captivating, a Christian book
156. 5:23for women, and they say that a woman has
157. 5:27three questions that she needs answered,
158. 5:29and that is, "Do you see me? Am I
159. 5:31pretty? And do I have a beauty that is
160. 5:33all my own?" When you can speak to that
161. 5:35special side of her, that special part
162. 5:38that of her that stands [music] out to
163. 5:40you, when you're able to articulate that
164. 5:43to her before you go to dinner, before
165. 5:45you guys even get intimate, when you let
166. 5:47her know that you truly see her, that
167. 5:50you adore her, that this is what you
168. 5:52admire about her, and you communicate
169. 5:56that, you articulate that to her, what
170. 5:58sets her apart from all other women. And
171. 6:01you tell her that, and you give it to
172. 6:02her in bite-sizes. So, maybe [music]
173. 6:04there's a big picture of like, you are
174. 6:06super kind. And so, you start giving her
175. 6:08examples of where she's kind. Like, for
176. 6:10example, when we were at Starbucks, and
177. 6:12the way that you genuinely connected
178. 6:14with the lady taking our order. It's
179. 6:16finding little stories to show her that
180. 6:18you're not just spewing out words to
181. 6:21her, but that you're actually being
182. 6:22sincere. Here's the thing, when you can
183. 6:24communicate that to her before you take
184. 6:26her to the bedroom, makes her feel
185. 6:28special. What does that do for her body
186. 6:30physically, [music] sexually? What it
187. 6:32does is whatever chain is around her
188. 6:34body that goes, "Nope, not having sex
189. 6:37with him. He is not going to get the
190. 6:38goodies. Not getting the goodies."
191. 6:40Whatever it is that is holding her back,
192. 6:42when you say the those things, when you
193. 6:45speak to what you adore about her, it
194. 6:47unlocks something inside of her. Those
195. 6:49chains come off, and guess what? She
196. 6:51gets to tap into her body. Let's get it
197. 6:55on. Oh, baby, baby, baby, baby. Yeah,
198. 6:59she starts getting the feels for you.
199. 7:02Then, she wants to
200. 7:04Somebody's rocking knocking the boots.
201. 7:07Ooh, that's right. That's when she wants
202. 7:10to go to the bedroom. So, listen, if
203. 7:12you're that guy who spent so much money
204. 7:13on dates, and you never get the nookie,
205. 7:15there's no intimacy to be had. [music]
206. 7:17Please, let me help you out. Get that
207. 7:19date night pleasure bundle, cuz I made
208. 7:20it specifically for men just like you.
209. 7:22So, if you like this video, subscribe.
210. 7:24And yes, in the comment section, if you
211. 7:26sent this video to a [music] friend
212. 7:28who's never seen my work, let me know in
213. 7:30the comment section. I want to
214. 7:31personally thank you for doing that.
215. 7:33Listen, I love you. I have your back.
216. 7:35[music] I am here in your corner. I'll
217. 7:36see you in my next video.
218. 7:38Take care.