Didn’t Glow Up This Summer? Here’s Why It Doesn’t Matter🙂‍↔️💖 (pep talk) — Transcript

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1. 0:00You need that. That is what truly shapes
2. 0:02you. The second you decide, I'm
3. 0:04committing to myself
4. 0:07to be the best version that I can be.
5. 0:10You will become invincible.
6. 0:13So, you've probably clicked on this
7. 0:14video because you
8. 0:17don't feel pretty. You want to manifest
9. 0:19a glow up. You want to be stunning. You
10. 0:23want to look into the mirror and not
11. 0:24hate yourself. If that sounds like you,
12. 0:27then this is the video for you. Feel
13. 0:29free to stick around if you don't know
14. 0:32me. My name is Anna. On here I talk
15. 0:34about all things mindsets, spirality,
16. 0:37subliminals, glowing up, glow up
17. 0:39culture, just being confident,
18. 0:43stepping into your true authenticity to
19. 0:46attract anything you want to have. The
20. 0:48list gets longer every time I say this
21. 0:50intro. Yeah, this is what we talk about
22. 0:52around here. This video isn't planned as
23. 0:54well. Like I just sat down and I'm like,
24. 0:56guess I'll just record something now.
25. 0:58So, welcome. I had received a few
26. 1:01messages over on Tik Tok, which inspired
27. 1:04me to do this video just from like young
28. 1:07girls talking about being insecure and
29. 1:10getting bullied in school or whatever.
30. 1:13I'm not going to say any names now, so
31. 1:15don't don't get scared. But this is
32. 1:17basically what we will be talking about
33. 1:19today because I was bullied once when I
34. 1:22was still a little baby and that really
35. 1:24took a toll on my mental health and
36. 1:26therefore I manifested my glow up
37. 1:28because I was sick and tired of just
38. 1:32feeling ugly, not feeling cute, like not
39. 1:35being confident, not being able to fully
40. 1:37stand in my power because I thought that
41. 1:39I would never fit in, that people would
42. 1:41never like me for who I was because I
43. 1:43was loud. I was like obnoxious when I
44. 1:46was young. I was always wearing like
45. 1:47super big earrings and stuff. Let's just
46. 1:49say I was my own person from a very
47. 1:51young age on. I'm also an only child. So
48. 1:54my parents also brought me up in a way
49. 1:55where I was free to express myself
50. 1:58because I never had anyone that I was
51. 2:00being compared to luckily. But when I
52. 2:03like got to know the other kids and
53. 2:07everything, it was really really tough.
54. 2:10And also with my interests that I had
55. 2:14for instance I had my first YouTube
56. 2:16channel when I was like 13 14 and people
57. 2:19used to make fun of that in school and
58. 2:21just I thought that expressing myself
59. 2:24authentic authentically oh my god I
60. 2:27can't talk again authentically was
61. 2:30something that was not good for anyone
62. 2:34especially for myself. If you've been
63. 2:36following me for a while, you probably
64. 2:38know the story of when CO rolled around
65. 2:40and I made the promise to myself that I
66. 2:43would re-enter school after everything
67. 2:46was over and not be the same person that
68. 2:48I was. And that really happened. I
69. 2:51already talked about that in my glowing
70. 2:54up with subliminals video. Um, which you
71. 2:56can check out over here, I think, like
72. 2:59on here. Um, I will link it there if you
73. 3:02haven't seen it already. But um I
74. 3:04thought I would just go a bit more into
75. 3:06detail about that, especially with the
76. 3:08whole raising like the phoenix from the
77. 3:10ashes thing with bullying and just
78. 3:13deciding to step into your own power.
79. 3:15And just a little pep talk for you guys
80. 3:17if you want to manifest a glow up like I
81. 3:21did. First off, let me just say that
82. 3:23glowup culture is a scam.
83. 3:26It's a scam. You will not
84. 3:30wake up one day and be like, I'm gonna
85. 3:32invest 24 hours and a bunch of money
86. 3:35into glowing up, doing my nails, doing a
87. 3:37spray tan, getting my teeth fixed,
88. 3:39getting fillers injected into my lips,
89. 3:42and dying my hair blonde. That is not
90. 3:45what a glow-up is. This is something
91. 3:46that I feel like if no one is there to
92. 3:49tell you that, you will fall into the
93. 3:51trap of that glow up scam that I'm
94. 3:55talking about. I'm also a victim of
95. 3:58consuming countless glow-up videos on
96. 4:00YouTube. They are really inspiring and
97. 4:02they are really fun, but that's just all
98. 4:04they are. They are fun to watch. They
99. 4:07are interesting to watch. And I
100. 4:08personally just love seeing the before
101. 4:10and after of people when they like had
102. 4:13gotten into a slump and then they get
103. 4:14out of it and all of a sudden they're
104. 4:16like super hot again. You don't need
105. 4:18that in order for you to get a glow up.
106. 4:20You do not need that. Let me just say
107. 4:24the reason why you glow up is probably
108. 4:27the most important thing. And when I see
109. 4:29people online glowing up and just
110. 4:32advertising that as well as like, oh my
111. 4:34god, I glowed up before summer break was
112. 4:37over or whatever, I always start to
113. 4:40think like, okay, what is the reason
114. 4:41that you wanted to glow up in the first
115. 4:43place? And for me, I always had this
116. 4:45thing, and I also already talked about
117. 4:47this in one of my last videos, but I
118. 4:49always had this thing where I was like,
119. 4:50"Okay, summer break was my time to glow
120. 4:53up, to change how I look, to just come
121. 4:56back better." Because in Germany, we
122. 4:58always have like 6 weeks of summer break
123. 5:00where we're off school and then we get
124. 5:03back to school and then for like only a
125. 5:05couple weeks and then we have like fall
126. 5:07break again and then we are off for
127. 5:10another couple weeks. Whenever summer
128. 5:12break rolled around, I was like, "Oh my
129. 5:14god, I'm going to be a whole new
130. 5:16person." So, I was always obsessed just
131. 5:18with the idea of optimizing who I am in
132. 5:21a very, very short period of time. When
133. 5:23it really clicked for me was when I
134. 5:25realized that this is just a quick fix
135. 5:28and I actually need to commit fulltime
136. 5:31to me
137. 5:33glowing up and growing into the person
138. 5:36that I am today. As I said, this is when
139. 5:39I made the promise to myself when CO
140. 5:41hit. I was like, I'm solely going to
141. 5:44focus on me. I'm going to ignore the
142. 5:46rest of the world and I'm like going to
143. 5:48work on myself hardcore. And this is
144. 5:51what caused my glow up. This is how like
145. 5:54those were the action steps that I took
146. 5:55in order for me to glow up and to find
147. 5:58who I really wanted to be. This is also
148. 6:00the thing that I want you guys to take
149. 6:03away from this video. if you're in
150. 6:04school and I I've noticed that a lot of
151. 6:09people that are into manifestation and
152. 6:11just all of that and especially global
153. 6:14culture are still very very young. I'm
154. 6:1621 years old and I've been through all
155. 6:19of that. I mean my frontal lobe isn't
156. 6:21fully developed yet, but I think we're
157. 6:22like on a good path to that. Um, coming
158. 6:25from someone who has gone through all of
159. 6:27those things so many times already in my
160. 6:29life, in school especially, let me just
161. 6:32say it doesn't matter what you're doing
162. 6:34in school because once you're out of
163. 6:36school, you will be a completely
164. 6:37different person anyway. You will be a
165. 6:39completely different person. You will
166. 6:41re-evaluate everything that you did. You
167. 6:43will literally like everything you once
168. 6:46thought was desirable or you did that to
169. 6:50fit in, you will let go of that and
170. 6:53transform entirely. If you knew me from
171. 6:55school back then, I'm a completely
172. 6:57different person now. Like literally,
173. 6:59life shapes you in a way where you
174. 7:01become unrecognizable from when you were
175. 7:04in school. If you're still in school and
176. 7:06if you're like around 15 to 17, let's
177. 7:09say, that's probably the worst phase of
178. 7:12this. It doesn't matter. So, take all
179. 7:15your focus inward if you want, if you
180. 7:17feel ready for this journey and work on
181. 7:20yourself privately.
182. 7:23Don't let anyone know the people in
183. 7:25school that you look up to, they are not
184. 7:27your friends. They will never be your
185. 7:28friends and you should not be looking up
186. 7:31to them unless there are like truly
187. 7:33amazing people that are super inspiring
188. 7:35because like me for instance at my
189. 7:36school there was this drummer guy and he
190. 7:38was he had super long hair and he was
191. 7:40like super metal and that was so [ __ ]
192. 7:43cool. That was not my style but I always
193. 7:45looked up to him because he was just
194. 7:46doing his thing. Unless it's those kind
195. 7:48of people do not look up to anyone in
196. 7:50school because we are literally when
197. 7:52we're at that age, we don't know what
198. 7:53the [ __ ] we're doing. You don't know
199. 7:55what you're doing and other people also
200. 7:57don't know what the [ __ ] they're doing.
201. 7:58I also remember I had this one girl in
202. 8:00school and I always thought that she was
203. 8:02so pretty and I was literally eventually
204. 8:04she left our school but I I literally
205. 8:06started to copy her style and this was
206. 8:10one of my glow up phases that I had
207. 8:12where I was like, "Oh my god, I'm going
208. 8:13to look exactly like this girl." Well,
209. 8:14she was super quiet and super shy, I
210. 8:17think, but she was literally
211. 8:19the way she just carried herself was she
212. 8:22just was like one of the popular girls
213. 8:23at school and I was like, "Oh my god, I
214. 8:25wanted to be so bad." Like I this is I
215. 8:28need to be this. So, I started dressing
216. 8:31like her and I started like doing a lot
217. 8:34more makeup. I wore fake lashes to
218. 8:36school every single day and now like my
219. 8:38makeup is rather natural. I only do a
220. 8:41couple things. I'm not even wearing
221. 8:42foundation. But I used to do like a full
222. 8:44face of makeup before school every
223. 8:46single morning. It took me an hour
224. 8:48always. I would wake up at 5:00 to do my
225. 8:50full face of makeup. I had full glam on.
226. 8:52I was also the girl who wore heel to
227. 8:54boots to school. You don't need to do
228. 8:57all that. I don't regret doing that
229. 8:59because it definitely shaped the person
230. 9:00that I am today internally. But you do
231. 9:05not need to do all that in order for you
232. 9:06to glow up. So what I really want you to
233. 9:08do is to just take your focus inward and
234. 9:11build the foundations of the person that
235. 9:14you are going to be in your future. If
236. 9:15you already start being this young and
237. 9:18starting with this manifestation mindset
238. 9:20work, self-development work, you have a
239. 9:22huge advantage. And I always tell people
240. 9:25that when they ask me and they're like,
241. 9:26"Hey, Anna, I'm getting bullied at
242. 9:28school. Like, what do I do?"
243. 9:31just you're already so aware of all the
244. 9:35things that you can do in this lifetime
245. 9:37purely because you're obviously over
246. 9:39here watching my content. So I assume
247. 9:42that this is the bubble that you're in,
248. 9:44which is great. Like the younger you are
249. 9:47in this space, the better it is because
250. 9:49especially when you're going through
251. 9:50puberty, your mind is so easily
252. 9:53shapable. It's literally like clay. Like
253. 9:56you can mold it just however you want.
254. 9:59This is what we want. This is so Oh my
255. 10:00god. And I get so excited when I see
256. 10:02people this young in the space and I
257. 10:04always want to pro protect them from
258. 10:06like the toxic energy that we sometimes
259. 10:08have within this like manifestation
260. 10:10community and everything. When you
261. 10:12utilize it right this work you are so
262. 10:16many steps ahead of all the other people
263. 10:18that are bullying you that are being
264. 10:20mean to you that are making fun of you
265. 10:22or whatever. You are so many steps ahead
266. 10:25because you already realize the power
267. 10:27that you hold. And while we are young,
268. 10:30we are changing literally on a daily
269. 10:33basis.
270. 10:34And you can use that for your own good.
271. 10:38You can be like, "Oh my god, today I
272. 10:40want to experiment this and today I want
273. 10:41to shift into this person." Because at
274. 10:43the end of the day, it's [ __ ] school.
275. 10:44No one gives a [ __ ] We are children.
276. 10:47No one gives a [ __ ] I'm blessed to say
277. 10:50that I grew up in a time where social
278. 10:52media wasn't a huge thing. And I cannot
279. 10:54imagine how it is nowadays being a teen,
280. 10:57but literally
281. 11:00stay off of Instagram unless you're
282. 11:02consuming like inspirational content.
283. 11:04Don't let Tik Tok trends influence you
284. 11:06into thinking you need a 14step Korean
285. 11:09skincare routine. You don't. Focus on
286. 11:11yourself. Learn what feels good for you.
287. 11:14Learn what feels good for your body.
288. 11:16Nourish your body and appreciate the
289. 11:18changes that you're going through. And
290. 11:20with each phase that you're going
291. 11:22through within your life and we go
292. 11:24through phases especially in pub puberty
293. 11:27utilize each phase and really
294. 11:29re-evaluate your vision that you have
295. 11:31for yourself like make vision boards
296. 11:33start scripting start writing down your
297. 11:36goals what you want even if they like
298. 11:38they are not set in stone I've changed
299. 11:40my path and my goals and my vision board
300. 11:42so many times again and I still do
301. 11:44because as I as I grow older of course
302. 11:48like my vision gets more refined and
303. 11:50more detailed and I'm like, "Oh, this is
304. 11:52what I want. This is what I don't want."
305. 11:54Especially like with relationships,
306. 11:55friendships,
307. 11:57career-wise, you will change so many
308. 11:59times. But when you take this time to
309. 12:02focus on you and to be like, "Hey, this
310. 12:04is great. Actually, like going through
311. 12:05so many changes is amazing. I can use
312. 12:08that to my advantage." You are so many
313. 12:11steps ahead. Oh my god, this is really
314. 12:13what I wish I could have told my younger
315. 12:16self when I had those down faces where I
316. 12:18was like, "Oh my god, I need to hide
317. 12:20behind this mask and like, oh my god,
318. 12:23this is I want to be like this super
319. 12:27chic person who's like, "Oh my god, I'm
320. 12:30so quiet." Like, when that's not really
321. 12:31what I am. I'm loud. Like, I'm I'm a
322. 12:34Sagittarius
323. 12:35and a Leo rising. I'm not quiet. I'm
324. 12:38here to be seen. And if you're anything
325. 12:40like me and you are here to be seen, do
326. 12:43not let others dim your light. Do not
327. 12:45let other others dim your light. And
328. 12:46this is how you will glow up. You will
329. 12:49manifest a glow when you truly step into
330. 12:51your authenticity and you own that and
331. 12:53you're proud of that. And it takes time
332. 12:55to grow into being proud of who you tr
333. 12:58truly are. But once you get there,
334. 13:00you're invincible. And especially when
335. 13:02you're young and you're getting into
336. 13:03this work, you will be invincible when
337. 13:05you're like in your early 20s. Like my
338. 13:07confidence has developed to a point
339. 13:10right now where I can say nothing can
340. 13:13really shake me. I've been through a
341. 13:15bunch of [ __ ] It was hard and I did
342. 13:18fall onto my face a million times. You
343. 13:22need that. That is what truly shapes
344. 13:24you. The second you decide I'm
345. 13:26committing to myself
346. 13:29to be the best version that I can be,
347. 13:32you will become invincible.
348. 13:34You will manifest the glow up. The glow
349. 13:36up is not getting eyelash extensions,
350. 13:38getting brow elimination, getting
351. 13:43I don't know, like a whole new wardrobe
352. 13:45because it's trendy right now. That is
353. 13:47not what a glow up is. A glow up comes
354. 13:49from the inside out. And I always say
355. 13:51that and I'm going to get that to do
356. 13:52eventually on my [ __ ] forehead. As
357. 13:55within, so without. You cannot glow up
358. 13:57if you're not shaping your soul. If
359. 13:59you're not fine-tuning what's already
360. 14:02there, that will reflect outwardly.
361. 14:06Okay, you still with me? This is all
362. 14:08over the place, I know, but stay with
363. 14:10me. This is important. This Sit down,
364. 14:13take out your notepad. This is
365. 14:15important. As long as you commit to the
366. 14:17inner work, you will shine. You will be
367. 14:20beautiful. You will be magnetic. You
368. 14:22will literally be magnetic. You don't
369. 14:24need their approval.
370. 14:26You don't need their approval and their
371. 14:28permission to shine. You will shine so
372. 14:31bright that they need to put on their
373. 14:33sunglasses. It would be so cool if I had
374. 14:35my sunglasses on my head right now, but
375. 14:36those are just my blue light glasses.
376. 14:38But they will need to put on sunglasses
377. 14:40because you're shining so [ __ ]
378. 14:41bright. And you will also shine bright
379. 14:42to let everyone around you shine. Not to
380. 14:45put the shadow on them because you're so
381. 14:47big and you're so amazing. No, that's
382. 14:48not what we want. We don't want to be
383. 14:50big and amazing to put shadow on other
384. 14:52people. We want to be big and amazing
385. 14:54and shine so bright so that everyone
386. 14:56around us can shine as well. That is how
387. 14:58we glow up. That is literally how we
388. 15:01glow up. If you realize the power that
389. 15:03you hold within yourself, you will
390. 15:06become unstoppable. And it doesn't
391. 15:08matter what people at school say. It
392. 15:09doesn't matter what your peers say. It
393. 15:12doesn't [ __ ] matter.
394. 15:14You own your truth. And don't let anyone
395. 15:18shake that from you. No one.
396. 15:21No one. Oh my god. I don't even know
397. 15:24where this just came from. I thought
398. 15:26just like that. This is what I want to
399. 15:28say cuz that message that I got on Tik
400. 15:30Tok really inspired me and it really
401. 15:31touched me. And if you're seeing this,
402. 15:33I'm sending so much love your way. If
403. 15:36anyone is start struggling with
404. 15:38anything, let me know either down in the
405. 15:40comments or just on Instagram. I've
406. 15:42linked my Instagram down below or on Tik
407. 15:44Tok. Reach out wherever, however you
408. 15:46want, and I'll try my best to collect
409. 15:49some some wisdom for you that I can just
410. 15:51share with you individually. This just
411. 15:53brought me to relive my whole high
412. 15:55school time that I didn't think about in
413. 15:59ages. A little therapy session for both
414. 16:01of us right now. If you resonate with my
415. 16:03energy, I would be happy if you
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428. 16:32growing, it may be difficult.
429. 16:35But I love to provide free guidance. So
430. 16:37if there's anything you're struggling
431. 16:38with, I need to put a disclaimer that
432. 16:41I'm not a therapist by any means. I'm
433. 16:43just a friend. But I would love for you
434. 16:47to reach out if there's anything that
435. 16:48you're struggling with. I'm sending so
436. 16:49much love and light wherever you are. I
437. 16:51love you guys so so much and I hope this
438. 16:54message resonated with you today.
439. 16:57Bye.