Contest Queen Helene Hadsell Tells How She Used "The Secret" - 4 — Transcript

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1. 0:00[Music]
2. 0:05these are books here that you can get at
3. 0:09any one of the stores walm might might
4. 0:12be an example and I made my own and then
5. 0:15down here it was I put their names and
6. 0:19started
7. 0:21out with a I would
8. 0:24say past things in that I felt that
9. 0:27would be uplifting and then all always
10. 0:30refer to when you're in a real real down
11. 0:34thinking mood read the deserada and then
12. 0:37points toart so my first question on uh
13. 0:41the first part on how to become a winner
14. 0:44in your process is about selecting it
15. 0:47now do you think a lot of people do not
16. 0:51get what they want out of life because
17. 0:53they don't know what they
18. 0:55want this is true yeahuh yeah some
19. 0:58people uh go with the tide or they're
20. 1:02limited on on a church
21. 1:05Dogma that if you want something uh it's
22. 1:10the work of the devil and you're not you
23. 1:12don't deserve it a lot of it depends on
24. 1:16what your background was what culture
25. 1:19you came from what was your upbringing
26. 1:22and uh you have to spend maybe like I
27. 1:25said yesterday from 1 to 7 you're
28. 1:29subjected to your parents Concepts and
29. 1:32things from that point on you have to
30. 1:34make your and then you're then you go in
31. 1:37and you're peers I mean you know that's
32. 1:40important uh when is it that you can
33. 1:42really say I want to be
34. 1:45myself and that's when you decide what
35. 1:49is it that you want we're always
36. 1:51influenced that's a given and so after
37. 1:55your influence what direction do you
38. 1:57want to go what's important to you the
39. 2:00second one is about
40. 2:02projecting uh and is projecting just a
41. 2:06form of visualization and uh yes yes
42. 2:09you're
43. 2:10projecting you have projected now uh
44. 2:14what is it that you want so now you're
45. 2:16going to project it someplace and
46. 2:18projecting would be to see it to see it
47. 2:22to visualize it to make a little
48. 2:24scenario of it uh some in some cases if
49. 2:28you say I can't
50. 2:30visualize I teach them how to
51. 2:32visualize and uh that is just I give him
52. 2:35an orange and I said you see the orange
53. 2:38and then see the orange okay see the sun
54. 2:41kissed on the orange now close your eyes
55. 2:45and see the
56. 2:47orange I said that's as simple as it is
57. 2:50because I'm say I can't visualize but
58. 2:53you can it's a mental thing and so when
59. 2:56you are projecting it you are
60. 2:58visualizing it and visualizing it means
61. 3:02putting it in a situation like a car
62. 3:05you're sitting in the car you smell new
63. 3:08car color of the car standing by the car
64. 3:11that's visualization and you're always
65. 3:14in that picture it's all about expecting
66. 3:17it what does that really mean is it like
67. 3:20how do you expect
68. 3:22something how do I expect something it's
69. 3:25a given you just uh know it's coming
70. 3:30never doubt it if uh something comes to
71. 3:33your mind or you and don't tell anybody
72. 3:37because when you tell people they have a
73. 3:40negative condemnation and they say what
74. 3:43makes her think she's going to win that
75. 3:46now in my case because I won everything
76. 3:49it was to my advantage because they'd
77. 3:52say she's going to win it and so they
78. 3:54gave me more energy but if you are
79. 3:57surrounded by negative people then I
80. 4:00would not tell anybody I would keep it
81. 4:03to myself and I would expect it I know
82. 4:06it would come and then if I got
83. 4:09disappointed and this is very common I
84. 4:12would say no there's just there's no
85. 4:15failure there's a delay in
86. 4:17results and then continue to do that
87. 4:20because sometime things that you are
88. 4:23expecting uh take a little longer than
89. 4:26you
90. 4:27anticipated now uh all that makes a lot
91. 4:30of sense but a lot of people will still
92. 4:33have that nagging doubt they will say
93. 4:36I've tried it uh but I'm not successful
94. 4:40I'm not getting what I want out of life
95. 4:42I'm still not a winner what do you say
96. 4:45to those people that have listened to
97. 4:47everything you have just said but then
98. 4:49come back and say I'm still not where I
99. 4:52want I'm still not getting what I want
100. 4:54okay what you shared with me the one
101. 4:58thing when they say this I'm trying to
102. 5:01do this I said honey you can try and try
103. 5:05and try the rest of your life that to me
104. 5:08is negative what you you take try out of
105. 5:12your vocabulary it's coming it's coming
106. 5:15and that's it trying means you keep on
107. 5:20trying that's
108. 5:22negative I never try I do
109. 5:25something very very cool do you have any
110. 5:27other follow question about that
111. 5:30um you don't ever try you
112. 5:33do
113. 5:36now hold on I just said Mike a followup
114. 5:39question this should be in your voice
115. 5:40though because everyone else is in your
116. 5:41voice but what is a good way of building
117. 5:43up your degree
118. 5:44of um oh yeah no in the beginning it's
119. 5:48hard to expect no I think that's an
120. 5:51excellent yeah so to somebody that is
121. 5:54just learning how to become a winner how
122. 5:56to use the system to get what they want
123. 5:59would you recommend that they start with
124. 6:01smaller easier contests does that even
125. 6:04exist is there yeah how how do you
126. 6:07recommend you get started with this uh
127. 6:11if you are especially if you have not
128. 6:13been a winner before okay uh it all
129. 6:16depends on the
130. 6:18individual if they think small then they
131. 6:21get small things and if this makes you
132. 6:24feel comfortable then start out uh I
133. 6:28started out with an outboard motor that
134. 6:31was the thing then I went back to just
135. 6:34bicycles and roller skates and footballs
136. 6:38and little stuff that the made the kids
137. 6:41Happy And then all of a sudden when we
138. 6:44had a decision uh let's let's project
139. 6:47for somebody to uh to pay for our
140. 6:51vacation every year so we never paid for
141. 6:55our vacation so we went to uh dude
142. 6:58ranches to New York to Europe uh to
143. 7:02Disney World
144. 7:03twice and so those were leading up to it
145. 7:07well then as you win you I I guess you'd
146. 7:10say you get more
147. 7:12confidence so if the individual feels
148. 7:15like hey that sounds
149. 7:17overwhelming I think I'm just going to
150. 7:19project for something small then do it
151. 7:23and then build up to it every person is
152. 7:26different and so that's what you do I
153. 7:29mean I just happened my husband happened
154. 7:32wanted an outboard motor and that was
155. 7:34the first thing that I thought of okay
156. 7:36we'll win it for what technique do you
157. 7:39recommend to overcome negative thinking
158. 7:42as you mentioned a lot of people
159. 7:43especially in their first seven years uh
160. 7:47are conditioned in a way that they need
161. 7:49to unlearn or remember what's the best
162. 7:52way to start doing that okay fortunately
163. 7:56today there are very there's quite a
164. 7:59number of books The Power of Positive
165. 8:02Thinking is one you are what you think
166. 8:06Proverbs and uh what there's a magazine
167. 8:09now a national magazine and it's called
168. 8:13Woman's World and it comes out once a
169. 8:16week that is the most
170. 8:19powerful
171. 8:21positive uh book that is available today
172. 8:24for anybody even my son reads it and in
173. 8:28this book
174. 8:30uh on every uh every other page their
175. 8:33thoughts for the day that are very very
176. 8:35powerful on love on protection on energy
177. 8:41every everything they have it may be
178. 8:46repetitious but it's uplifting so we
179. 8:49look forward to that book every time I
180. 8:52get it I give it to my daughter-in-law
181. 8:54I'd have a copy here but it's Woman's
182. 8:57World and I can't say enough about that
183. 9:01and you have also mentioned earlier
184. 9:03today the Law of Attraction which is
185. 9:06very similar or identical to the system
186. 9:09that you talked about a long time ago is
187. 9:12there a difference between the law of
188. 9:13attraction is there something specific
189. 9:16uh uh that people uh should do to
190. 9:19activate it or is it everything that you
191. 9:21already mentioned in your four-step
192. 9:23process I don't think it's anything new
193. 9:26or anything different uh the law of
194. 9:29attraction is
195. 9:31desire the minute that you desire
196. 9:35something what you're doing you're
197. 9:37coning up energy and and then you're
198. 9:40projecting out energy and so that's it's
199. 9:44not a big secret but many people don't
200. 9:46realize how powerful thinking is so
201. 9:51desire is a criteria what one of the
202. 9:54things that you mentioned just now is
203. 9:56that desire is related to energy and
204. 9:58everything is energy and vibrations and
205. 10:01the more energy you send out the more
206. 10:04comes back so what specific technique
207. 10:07would you recommend for somebody to
208. 10:08raise their energy because it sounds
209. 10:11like it's all related to how much energy
210. 10:14a person can send out that's a very good
211. 10:18good question because one it it follows
212. 10:22desire you have a desire and if it's a
213. 10:26positive desire and it can be negative
214. 10:28too
215. 10:29but how much time are you spending on
216. 10:34that how many how often are you thinking
217. 10:37about it thought becomes things and
218. 10:41another thing that I need to point out
219. 10:44and that is when you do something with
220. 10:47emotion
221. 10:49emotion brings it faster draws it faster
222. 10:53to you emotion is uh well what you do an
223. 10:58emotion and you can watch a person when
224. 11:01they cry or when they sad or when they
225. 11:05curse and when they get angry they're
226. 11:08angry the motion is
227. 11:10intense and usually when they get very
228. 11:13very angry and then something happens
229. 11:16because they're so angry that they don't
230. 11:19lose they lose the fact that they're
231. 11:22working with an instrument that could be
232. 11:25and cut their hand off or something this
233. 11:27is energy and I think there is a
234. 11:30statistic on it more accidents in this
235. 11:33entire world are caused when somebody is
236. 11:36really enraged in Anger energy
237. 11:40anger because then they they don't look
238. 11:43at anything else they're so caught up in
239. 11:46anger and so when you are projecting and
240. 11:50you have energy like I said you can even
241. 11:53taste it you can smell it and that's
242. 11:56energy going into a are with the new
243. 12:00smell that's a perfect example of using
244. 12:06this more more energy because now you're
245. 12:09experiencing it see we're touchy Fey
246. 12:12smelly people I mean that brings on more
247. 12:16energy for us so if you have the
248. 12:20opportunity especially if you want a car
249. 12:23or a new house you go into a new house
250. 12:26and you can smell the new house because
251. 12:29the lumber is still exposed and so that
252. 12:33would be more effective or you if you
253. 12:36find an old house get into it and roam
254. 12:39around and this is my place that's how I
255. 12:42chose when we were working going in
256. 12:45different areas when my husband was
257. 12:47traveling I would go to rent a place I
258. 12:50would go in and my husband said check it
259. 12:53out and I would go through the house
260. 12:56this doesn't smell good and I'd leave
261. 12:59so you become I mean there are all those
262. 13:02little things that you have at your
263. 13:05disposal that you can utilize and so
264. 13:09this is energy this is energy direct to
265. 13:13it with emotion thank you another
266. 13:15question that I have is that uh
267. 13:18especially the positive thinking part
268. 13:20all starts in your mind now a lot of
269. 13:23people have a negative mind uh how do
270. 13:27you get how do you just suddenly cancel
271. 13:30that uh and I'm asking that because a
272. 13:32lot of people uh that I've talked to
273. 13:34they Contin they just say they are not
274. 13:36even the master of their own mind how do
275. 13:39you become the master of your own
276. 13:41mind desire nobody can do it for you you
277. 13:46can point it out and Dr Murphy had a
278. 13:49good saying uh after I met him and he
279. 13:52send me his books and I would when I
280. 13:55called him I said Murphy I said you have
281. 13:58have all he sent about 13 books I said
282. 14:02you say the same thing over and over and
283. 14:04over again you say the same anecdotes
284. 14:07can't you think of something different
285. 14:09and he roared with laughter and you know
286. 14:12what he told me he said you know
287. 14:15something if they read it 42 times it
288. 14:19may sink in and they'll get
289. 14:22it I think that's profound because
290. 14:27sometimes you have to read it over over
291. 14:29and over and over again until you say oh
292. 14:31this makes sense then you change nobody
293. 14:35can change for you you can't tell people
294. 14:37to change you can't tell people you're
295. 14:39too negative nothing is going to happen
296. 14:41to you they don't believe it until you
297. 14:45give them something and they look at it
298. 14:47and might have to read it 42 times and
299. 14:51then they'll get it okay hopefully you
300. 14:53don't have to read it 42 times but
301. 14:55Murphy was the one that said it I call
302. 14:58it Murphy M's law now another question
303. 15:00that I have is after you had mastered
304. 15:03this the how to attract anything you
305. 15:06want always you then went on to study
306. 15:09the silver method now what was it that
307. 15:12led you to why did you continue uh
308. 15:15studying and what was it specifically
309. 15:18about the silver method uh that why did
310. 15:20you choose to learn it because you
311. 15:22already were a master of your domain why
312. 15:26did you continue specifically with the
313. 15:28silver method I guess I told you that
314. 15:31earlier because when I first met Jose I
315. 15:34was very impressed with him I wanted to
316. 15:37know more about it and then when I went
317. 15:40into the program as it is today and
318. 15:44learned techniques things I didn't
319. 15:46really know uh when you're reading that
320. 15:49chart brain how the brain functioned
321. 15:54valuable fantastic information but the
322. 15:57information
323. 15:59uh when you can when you can change
324. 16:02energy and you can stop the bleeding uh
325. 16:06this was profound where else would I've
326. 16:08ever gotten that technique and so that's
327. 16:11why I was so grateful for it and I
328. 16:14became his PR just because he impressed
329. 16:18me with the knowledge he had and was
330. 16:21sharing it with
331. 16:23everybody wonderful one it was a
332. 16:25completely uplifting experience for for
333. 16:32me uh life is a life is either a daring
334. 16:36Adventure or nothing and I guess that's
335. 16:39been been my philosophy in contesting
336. 16:42and then all of a sudden I I win
337. 16:45everything I possibly could win or want
338. 16:49and then I'm bored so what's
339. 16:52next that's when I got serious serious
340. 16:57about what makes me tick click and get
341. 16:59sick what makes you get that way why are
342. 17:02you that way why are people different I
343. 17:05I got so intense inquisitive about that
344. 17:10then I started on a whole new world of
345. 17:15of
346. 17:22researching