COCKY Feminist CHALLENGES Ben Shapiro on Consent — It Goes WRONG — Transcript
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- 0:00Feminists told men for years that sex is
- 0:02just consent, nothing more. Then
- 0:04Hollywood blew up and suddenly
- 0:06everyone's shocked. Ben Shapiro just
- 0:09walked into this debate and exposed the
- 0:10contradiction in about 30 seconds. If
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- 0:20>> Do you think that women who voted for
- 0:22Hillary, women who have strongly
- 0:23supported the feminist movement and
- 0:25supported the left are feeling
- 0:26disenfranchised given the current
- 0:28climate of sexual brutality and
- 0:29oppression brought to light in Hollywood
- 0:31recently?
- 0:32>> Um so the the left So the question of
- 0:35what the left is doing about this, do
- 0:36they feel disenfranchised? Uh no, I
- 0:38think they're just going to blame the
- 0:39same people they always blame because
- 0:40we're all in our own little bubbles.
- 0:42Should they feel disenfranchised? 100%
- 0:45because in a society that treats sex as
- 0:47transactional
- 0:48in a society that basically reduces sex
- 0:51to any sort just a physical transaction
- 0:54that is based solely on consent, it
- 0:55makes it very difficult to explain why
- 0:57it is that the casting couch in
- 0:58Hollywood is bad per se.
- 1:00Right, there's actually like feminist
- 1:01theory says that it's bad because of
- 1:03power imbalances. But the sort of
- 1:04libertarian culture of the left suggests
- 1:07that power imbalance doesn't have
- 1:08anything to do with it. If I feel like
- 1:09trading my body for a part in a movie,
- 1:11well, that's my business. And if you say
- 1:13differently, then you're slut-shaming
- 1:14me. Right, so that's Well, you can't
- 1:16really have it both ways. Either it's
- 1:18bad or it's not bad. And if we are going
- 1:20to fight sexual harassment and sexual
- 1:22assault, it seems to me that we have to
- 1:23do a couple of things. One, we have to
- 1:25reinvest sex with value beyond just a
- 1:27physical transaction. It's not just two
- 1:29people who are getting each other's
- 1:30rocks off. It actually means something
- 1:32beyond that. There's a relationship
- 1:33that's attached to it.
- 1:35And beyond that, I think that we need to
- 1:37reinculcate in men themselves not just
- 1:40the teach men not to rape routine. Like
- 1:42again, it's such a weird concept. Like
- 1:43when I was 11, my dad didn't sit me down
- 1:45and say, "Son, don't rape people."
- 1:50Like if you have to teach your child
- 1:51that, my guess is that you got a bigger
- 1:52problem than that on your hands.
- 1:54Um
- 1:56What my dad taught me was to be a
- 1:57gentleman and to treat women with
- 1:59respect. And that has to do with being a
- 2:01gentleman and recognizing differences in
- 2:02sex roles. Because one of the things
- 2:04that's happened is the traditional
- 2:05masculinity, the idea that it is a man's
- 2:07job to protect women. This is one of our
- 2:09jobs as human beings, as men, to protect
- 2:11women. The feminist movement doesn't
- 2:12like that. Well, then you can't blame us
- 2:14for not protecting women if you don't
- 2:16want us to protect women.
- 2:17Like I want to protect women. I think
- 2:19men should protect women. I think one of
- 2:20the reasons God put man on earth is to
- 2:22protect women.
- 2:23Okay, well, then it is incumbent on me
- 2:25to protect women. But if you're telling
- 2:26me that I can't even open a door for a
- 2:28woman because this is somehow an offense
- 2:29to her honor. And then if I say that
- 2:31it's man's job to protect women, that
- 2:33this is somehow reinforcing gender
- 2:35stereotypes, then don't come whining to
- 2:36me when bad stuff happens.
- 2:38Because the the answer to bad behavior
- 2:39is good behavior. The answer to vice is
- 2:42virtue. The answer to vice isn't just
- 2:44yelling and and hashtagging crap.
- 2:46Anybody who suggests to you that there
- 2:48is such a thing, for example, as a
- 2:49pregnant male is not a doctor, they're
- 2:51an activist.
- 2:52>> Do you believe you're right about trans
- 2:53people given the American Psychological
- 2:55Association, American Medical
- 2:56Association, American Psychoanalytic
- 2:58Association, I can go on for about five
- 3:00more associations
- 3:02that are very prominent and govern the
- 3:05the existing like health
- 3:07health government or
- 3:09health industries within
- 3:12like the major Western countries. Um
- 3:16And all of these associations have
- 3:17multiple thousands of doctors,
- 3:19sociologists, psychologists and with
- 3:21PhDs in their respective fields backing
- 3:23the idea that sex and gender are
- 3:25different, effectively gaining the
- 3:27medical consensus for sex and gender
- 3:29being two different concepts, yet you
- 3:31have a
- 3:31different opinion.
- 3:33>> Okay, so sex and gender are two
- 3:35different concepts, but gender is tied
- 3:37to biology. So, one of the big problems
- 3:39that that you see in sort of the the
- 3:41argument in favor of trans rights is
- 3:42this notion that gender and sex are
- 3:44completely separable. They're not
- 3:45completely separable. If they are
- 3:46completely separable, then this means
- 3:48that identifying people by their
- 3:49subjective gender really has no
- 3:51relevance as to whether they are male or
- 3:53female. Male and female are biological
- 3:55terms. So, using terminology like male
- 3:57and female to describe a self-describe a
- 3:59self-perception of of maleness or
- 4:02femaleness is a sort of bizarre way of
- 4:04arguing whether a thing is a man or
- 4:06woman. So, here is my question. It's an
- 4:07argument that my friend Matt Walsh likes
- 4:09to make. What is a woman? Define what a
- 4:11woman is without reference to the word
- 4:12woman, please.
- 4:14>> Um so, this is actually a logical
- 4:16fallacy called a red herring. You're
- 4:18asking me a question indifferent or um
- 4:21in order to actually challenge my
- 4:23question without actually answering my
- 4:25>> it really is not. I'm saying that
- 4:26biology I'm agreeing with you that the
- 4:29notion of gender, which is
- 4:30effeminateness or masculinity, can be
- 4:33different from biology in the sense that
- 4:35biology is just pure male or pure
- 4:37female. But to suggest that there is
- 4:38such a thing as an effeminate male is
- 4:39not to suggest that an effeminate male
- 4:41is now a woman.
- 4:42Transgenderism makes the argument that
- 4:44if you believe that you are a woman, you
- 4:46are therefore a woman. Or if you believe
- 4:47that you are a man, you are therefore a
- 4:49man.
- 4:50I disagree with this. There are
- 4:51objective measures as to whether you're
- 4:52a man or a woman. There are objective
- 4:53measures as to whether you're a male or
- 4:54female. You're a There There certainly
- 4:56is a spectrum when when with regard to
- 4:58effeminateness versus masculinity.
- 5:00That's certainly true, but that does not
- 5:01change the underlying sexual dichotomy
- 5:03that is the basis for all human
- 5:04reproduction.
- 5:06Yeah, you can
- 5:07>> Um right. So, this dichotomy is a false
- 5:09dichotomy that isn't supported by any of
- 5:11the medical associations that I just
- 5:13named off. None of the medical
- 5:14associations that I just named off would
- 5:16actually support the uh idea that um
- 5:20gender is biological. This is something
- 5:22that's completely untrue within every
- 5:23single like medical consensus.
- 5:25>> Uh well then, I will just say that
- 5:27anyone who suggests that gender has no
- 5:28reference whatsoever to biology, it's
- 5:30not connected in any way to biology, is
- 5:32just full of Because if you if if
- 5:33the and and the reason I
- 5:36And
- 5:37>> [applause]
- 5:38>> And the re And the reason that I say
- 5:40>> Then you Then you classi- Then you
- 5:42actually just disagree with medical
- 5:44consensus within the Western world.
- 5:45>> I disagree with the false medical
- 5:47consensus driven by politically driven
- 5:49quote unquote doctors. If any doctor
- 5:51denies to me that there is a dichotomy
- 5:53between male and female, a sexual
- 5:55dichotomy between male and female, they
- 5:56are ignorant and they are letting their
- 5:58politics get in the way of their
- 5:59science. Anybody who suggests to you
- 6:01that there is such a thing for example
- 6:02as a pregnant male is not a doctor, they
- 6:04are an activist.
- 6:07>> [applause]
- 6:13>> I'm very glad that none of these
- 6:15opinions are actually accepted in
- 6:17academia and haven't been for over 70
- 6:19years since this year on Twitter.
- 6:20>> okay. So, the notion that they haven't
- 6:21been accepted for over 70 years is a
- 6:23bizarre one considering they were
- 6:24accepted until about 5 minutes ago. And
- 6:26the basic idea that male and female do
- 6:28not exist runs counter to all mammalian
- 6:30biology, all of it, not just human. Are
- 6:32we to suggest that gender and and sex
- 6:34are different in walruses? How does this
- 6:36work exactly? Like
- 6:38are they different in bears? Anytime you
- 6:40have a anytime you have all mammalian
- 6:42reproduction is rooted in the idea that
- 6:44there's a sexual dichotomy between male
- 6:45and female. To obscure that with all
- 6:47sorts of semantic word games about how
- 6:49you feel subjectively has no bearing on
- 6:51whether male and female are categories
- 6:53that exist. And if you're trying to
- 6:54define male and female with reference to
- 6:56any subjective category that cannot be
- 6:58identified by any metric whatsoever
- 7:00other than how you feel today, I
- 7:02challenge whether that is scientific or
- 7:03whether that is merely a self-perception
- 7:05that is being guided by a political
- 7:07agenda.
- 7:07>> What's going on everybody? Today we're
- 7:09reacting to a clip that's lighting up
- 7:11the internet and it starts with a loaded
- 7:14question. Should women who backed
- 7:16Hillary and fought for the feminist
- 7:17movement feel let down right now?
- 7:20Ben's first answer is no. They'll blame
- 7:23the same people they always blame
- 7:25because everyone lives in their own
- 7:27little bubble. Fair enough. But should
- 7:29they feel let down 100%? Here's why. If
- 7:33your culture says sex is a transaction,
- 7:36if it's just two people in a signed
- 7:37permission slip, then you've got a
- 7:39problem. You can't explain why the
- 7:41casting couch is wrong. Feminist theory
- 7:44says it's wrong because of the power
- 7:45imbalance.
- 7:46Great, but the libertarian wing of the
- 7:49left says power has nothing to do with
- 7:51it. If I want to trade my body for a
- 7:53movie role, that's my business and if
- 7:55you disagree, you're slut-shaming me.
- 7:58So, which is it? You can't have both.
- 8:01Either it's wrong or it isn't.
- 8:04Ben says if we're serious about fighting
- 8:06harassment and assault, we have to do
- 8:08two things. First, put value back into
- 8:11sex. It's not just two people getting
- 8:13each other's rocks off. It means
- 8:15something. There's a relationship
- 8:17attached to it. Second, we have to build
- 8:19character in men. Not through the teach
- 8:22men not to rape routine. Think about how
- 8:24strange that is. When Ben was 11, his
- 8:27dad didn't sit him down and say, "Son,
- 8:30don't rape people." If you have to teach
- 8:32your kid that, you've got a much bigger
- 8:34problem. His dad taught him to be a
- 8:36gentleman, to treat women with respect.
- 8:39To understand that men and women have
- 8:41different roles and here's where he
- 8:43lands the punch. Traditional masculinity
- 8:46says it's a man's job to protect women.
- 8:48The feminist movement hated that. So, he
- 8:50says, "Fine, you can't blame men for
- 8:52failing to protect women when you spent
- 8:54years telling us we're not allowed to."
- 8:56Open a door and it's an insult to her
- 8:58honor. Say men should protect women and
- 9:01you're reinforcing stereotypes. Then
- 9:03don't come complaining when things go
- 9:04wrong.
- 9:06The answer to bad behavior is good
- 9:07behavior. The answer to vice is virtue.
- 9:10It is not hashtags and yelling.
- 9:13Now the clip shifts gears and it gets
- 9:15even more intense.
- 9:17Ben gets hit with the big one. Why do
- 9:19you disagree with the major medical
- 9:21associations when it comes to gender?
- 9:24Watch how he handles it. He doesn't deny
- 9:27that sex and gender are different ideas.
- 9:30He says a man can be effeminate and
- 9:31still be a man. Masculinity and
- 9:34femininity are a spectrum, but that
- 9:36doesn't touch the male-female divide
- 9:38that all human reproduction is built on.
- 9:41His opponent keeps repeating that the
- 9:43associations say otherwise. Credentials,
- 9:45credentials, credentials.
- 9:47Ben says that's a consensus driven by
- 9:50politics and that any doctor who denies
- 9:52the male-female divide is letting
- 9:54politics override science.
- 9:57Then he asks the question that stops the
- 9:59room cold. Are sex and gender different
- 10:01in walruses? In bears? Every mammal on
- 10:05Earth reproduces through male and
- 10:06female. You can bury that under semantic
- 10:09games, but it doesn't make it disappear.
- 10:12And he closes with a challenge. If you
- 10:14define male and female by a feeling you
- 10:16can't measure, a feeling that could
- 10:18change by tomorrow, is that science? Or
- 10:21is it self-perception steered by a
- 10:22political agenda?
- 10:24Here's what I noticed. Ben answers every
- 10:27question head-on. The other side keeps
- 10:29retreating to authority and avoiding the
- 10:32premise. And in a debate, that tells you
- 10:34plenty. So, where do you stand? Did Ben
- 10:38nail it? Or did he miss the mark? Drop
- 10:40your take in the comments. Hit subscribe
- 10:43and I'll see you in the next one.
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