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  1. 0:00one of the things we were talking about
  2. 0:01is as we mentioned yesterday
  3. 0:04knocking out of the polygraph yeah um
  4. 0:07why don't we do that today I want to do
  5. 0:09that now okay um I'll get that out of
  6. 0:11the way when you're done
  7. 0:12this is Tammy YouTube yesterday
  8. 0:16when we're done we'll um
  9. 0:19we'll figure out our game plan that I
  10. 0:20was talking about today all right did
  11. 0:22your dad have availability to use the
  12. 0:24car if you're going to be here for like
  13. 0:25an hour or more
  14. 0:55you want me to just go talk to him and
  15. 0:57let him know when the house is going to
  16. 0:58be ready and all that and when he can go
  17. 1:00because you can go grab a bite to eat or
  18. 1:01something right
  19. 1:03everything should be open by now around
  20. 1:05here so okay yeah
  21. 1:07um
  22. 1:08each of those times so okay why don't we
  23. 1:12knock this out um I think it's the best
  24. 1:13thing to do to move past all of this
  25. 1:16um and then um I'll go talk to your dad
  26. 1:18he'll have the keys everything will be
  27. 1:19good okay yeah and you have this number
  28. 1:22if you can call them when you're done
  29. 1:23there's like no signal on this place so
  30. 1:25how bad is that that's why I couldn't
  31. 1:26talk to you earlier like yes
  32. 1:30between him and me we'll figure out how
  33. 1:33to communicate and get him where he's
  34. 1:35doing I've been getting text messages
  35. 1:36from like a lot of news places okay I
  36. 1:39don't know really like
  37. 1:41you know I think that's part of maybe
  38. 1:42what we game plan today
  39. 1:44um I mean not not just here like
  40. 1:46today so important I don't like know
  41. 1:49yeah well I think that
  42. 1:52you certainly can do whatever you need
  43. 1:54to or want to do but I think that after
  44. 1:57this after we knock this out we get we
  45. 1:59know we get back to the team and we make
  46. 2:01a plan okay so we get different like
  47. 2:03advice like as far as like her mom says
  48. 2:06like if it's a kidnapping then I would
  49. 2:08she says not to talk to anybody yeah but
  50. 2:11like I like porn of what to do well turn
  51. 2:15around until you not to talk yeah her
  52. 2:17mom's saying because she was advised by
  53. 2:18someone like a police or a detective
  54. 2:21there that like if he talks to the media
  55. 2:22it might oh to the media okay that
  56. 2:26you're talking about oh no no no no no
  57. 2:28no like this
  58. 2:30I mean Today's show Good Morning America
  59. 2:32is trying to get a hold of me and my
  60. 2:33parents friends sometimes we release
  61. 2:35details that you know maybe
  62. 2:37I know I want to impede with what's
  63. 2:41going on here and put things out because
  64. 2:43I've watched enough
  65. 2:45challenge shows I say like all right
  66. 2:47don't put things out there before the
  67. 2:50police begin and you don't know if
  68. 2:51somebody really knows or if they just
  69. 2:52saw it on TV yeah well let's do this um
  70. 2:55I think while you're doing this it's
  71. 2:57going to be completely okay to ignore
  72. 2:59your phone and the media and everyone
  73. 3:01right okay so let's get this out of the
  74. 3:03way I think it'll really clear your mind
  75. 3:05a little bit right all right um so why
  76. 3:08don't we why don't we
  77. 3:10put a halt on the phone on texting
  78. 3:12people on Good Morning America all those
  79. 3:14times
  80. 3:16yeah focus on that let's knock it out
  81. 3:18and they must talk right all right all
  82. 3:20right all right you'll come in I'll go
  83. 3:22get you when we're done yeah okay
  84. 3:25I'm gonna have a seat right here Chris
  85. 3:27sit on this yep I know if I'll explain
  86. 3:30with that again here in a little bit but
  87. 3:31you don't have to worry it's not on or
  88. 3:33anything right now it's not gonna it's
  89. 3:34not gonna buzz you or anything
  90. 3:36I've never done this before I know a lot
  91. 3:39of people haven't had polygraphs before
  92. 3:40it's not like a normal thing that people
  93. 3:42go through a lot of people like
  94. 3:43obviously in law enforcement
  95. 3:46through polygraphs for their job but
  96. 3:48other than that most people never take a
  97. 3:50polygraph in their entire life so yes I
  98. 3:52have like no idea like what to
  99. 3:54expect time yeah so how are you feeling
  100. 3:57today
  101. 3:58I'm sick to my stomach honestly like the
  102. 4:01first day I thought okay she was just
  103. 4:03somewhere sure and after yesterday all
  104. 4:05the activity at my house I was I didn't
  105. 4:08know it went to the Other Extreme I was
  106. 4:11I've just been like fixing myself like
  107. 4:13that see if somebody has her or she's in
  108. 4:14trouble and the kids are not safe either
  109. 4:16right right well and I think that's
  110. 4:19totally awesome that you're here today I
  111. 4:22mean I commend you we do this in all of
  112. 4:24our machine person cases so don't think
  113. 4:25that we're just singling you out like oh
  114. 4:27my gosh they want me to take a polygraph
  115. 4:29anytime you know someone was the last
  116. 4:31person to see people or you know there's
  117. 4:33it's a missing person case we start from
  118. 4:35the inside and we work out I mean that's
  119. 4:37pretty much what we do so I've done
  120. 4:39polygraphs on the Jessica ripway case I
  121. 4:41don't know if you were here for that the
  122. 4:44name sounds familiar girl that went
  123. 4:45Michigan yeah
  124. 4:47and then uh just the one that we had in
  125. 4:49Thornton last year or the year before so
  126. 4:53we do this all the time so don't please
  127. 4:54don't think that you're being female
  128. 4:55badly this is this is one way that if
  129. 4:58you didn't have anything to do with it
  130. 4:59that we can let the investigators know
  131. 5:01the people that really do need to know
  132. 5:03that are looking for your wife and your
  133. 5:04little girl
  134. 5:06um to let them know like you know what
  135. 5:07don't focus on Chris Focus over here
  136. 5:10because obviously we've already cleared
  137. 5:12him he's good to go now focus on the
  138. 5:14real person that did something through
  139. 5:15this yeah
  140. 5:17and then a little girl so okay so I am
  141. 5:21my name is Tammy if you can call me
  142. 5:24Tammy I'm an agent with the Colorado
  143. 5:25Bureau of Investigation so it's a PBI
  144. 5:27it's kind of like the FBI vote for
  145. 5:29Colorado
  146. 5:30so we what our role is just so you know
  147. 5:34is anytime a law enforcement agency or a
  148. 5:36district attorney's office or the
  149. 5:38governor needs assistance with the case
  150. 5:40they can call the CBI to come out and
  151. 5:42assist them so obviously in this you
  152. 5:44know type of case they're calling in all
  153. 5:47the resources that they can which
  154. 5:49includes me who works out of the Denver
  155. 5:51office and I also do polygraphs so they
  156. 5:54asked me if I would be willing to come
  157. 5:56here and chat with you and and hopefully
  158. 5:58get you cleared up and and on your way
  159. 6:00because it sounds like that's what
  160. 6:02you're here for and and that's awesome
  161. 6:04because that's mostly what people want
  162. 6:06to do is like dude you're gonna you'll
  163. 6:08be the wrong person like I just want to
  164. 6:10show you I had nothing to do with this
  165. 6:11and then you guys can get on your way
  166. 6:12and you know do your investigation
  167. 6:14somewhere else because that helps us
  168. 6:17because then we don't have to keep
  169. 6:18focusing on Chris because that makes
  170. 6:19sense okay this polygraph today is going
  171. 6:22to be recorded obviously it would be
  172. 6:24done if I didn't because what if at the
  173. 6:26end I said you said whatever and you
  174. 6:28really didn't say it obviously they
  175. 6:30could go back and look at the recording
  176. 6:31there's a camera right there and I'm
  177. 6:34also a backup digital recording that I'm
  178. 6:36doing
  179. 6:43just fail to me the second I try and
  180. 6:45trusted it it always fails me so
  181. 6:48um she said that um your cell phone is
  182. 6:51it off right now yeah
  183. 6:53that would be great because we can't
  184. 6:56have anything like funding vibrating
  185. 6:57reading that kind of stuff so
  186. 7:00um this will take at least a couple
  187. 7:03hours to the polygraph just because it's
  188. 7:05a real structured type of interview
  189. 7:07process I have to go through a bunch of
  190. 7:09things with you you're going to get the
  191. 7:11same polygraph that I give you know I
  192. 7:13gave someone last week so
  193. 7:15um
  194. 7:15very structured and we go you know in
  195. 7:17order and that kind of stuff and you're
  196. 7:19going to know the wording to all the
  197. 7:21questions I'm going to ask you on the
  198. 7:22test before we even take the polygraph
  199. 7:24so don't don't a lot of people come in
  200. 7:26here and they think oh they're just
  201. 7:28going to you know attach all these
  202. 7:29components to me and then just start
  203. 7:30asking me random questions that I've
  204. 7:32never heard before and of course I'm
  205. 7:33going to react to that that's not at all
  206. 7:35how tall is polygraph works yeah you're
  207. 7:38actually going to probably know more
  208. 7:39about polygraphs than anyone before you
  209. 7:41leave here today just because I explain
  210. 7:43everything to you and how everything
  211. 7:44works okay
  212. 7:46um
  213. 7:47obviously you're probably nervous about
  214. 7:49taking today's test honestly I would
  215. 7:50think something is wrong with you if you
  216. 7:52weren't nervous about coming in here to
  217. 7:54take a photograph even if you
  218. 7:56people are hyped it is nerve-wracking
  219. 7:58what I have taken
  220. 8:00tons of photographs obviously in my
  221. 8:01training I went to 10 weeks for training
  222. 8:04I've been a photographer about for about
  223. 8:06five years I went to the best school in
  224. 8:09the country so I want you to have
  225. 8:10confidence in the fact that you had
  226. 8:12nothing to do with this disappearance
  227. 8:13like we're going to find that out today
  228. 8:15okay I have the best training that they
  229. 8:17offer in the United States
  230. 8:19we use the most validated testing that
  231. 8:23the way I'm going to ask you the
  232. 8:24question so believe me if you had
  233. 8:26nothing to do with this I will be able
  234. 8:28to show them that today okay so that
  235. 8:30should give you some confidence but um
  236. 8:32you know if you've helped like you're
  237. 8:34going to be cleared today if you have
  238. 8:36nothing to do with it okay so
  239. 8:38um there's actually only you know
  240. 8:40nervousness or anxiety cannot cause you
  241. 8:42to stay on the polygraph a lot of people
  242. 8:43think that
  243. 8:45that if they're really nervous that it
  244. 8:46could cause them to fail if that were
  245. 8:48the case no one would be allowed to take
  246. 8:49polygraphs because every single person
  247. 8:51that's nervous or anxious about taking
  248. 8:52the polygraph okay that's how it worked
  249. 8:54on nervousness
  250. 8:56there's actually only two ways you can
  251. 8:58fail a polygraph okay the first wave
  252. 9:00would be if you fail to follow my
  253. 9:02instructions I'm going to give you a lot
  254. 9:03of instructions today about how to sit
  255. 9:05still how to answer questions things
  256. 9:06like that so if you fail to follow those
  257. 9:08instructions you will not pass today's
  258. 9:09test okay the second way would be if you
  259. 9:12choose to lie to me today lie to me
  260. 9:14today okay obviously this is about 100
  261. 9:17truth even if there's you know something
  262. 9:20that you didn't tell the investigators
  263. 9:22you know since Monday I guess is when
  264. 9:25you ended up and the police were
  265. 9:27involved is there something that you
  266. 9:28didn't tell them since Monday like that
  267. 9:30is totally fine like I get it you know
  268. 9:32people aren't going to remember every
  269. 9:33single detail every time they talk to
  270. 9:35someone as long as you tell me what the
  271. 9:36truth is today you will have no problem
  272. 9:38with passing okay I'm gonna promise you
  273. 9:40that
  274. 9:41and obviously I mean I hope that you
  275. 9:44know if you did have something to do
  276. 9:45with their disappearance
  277. 9:47um it would be really stupid for you to
  278. 9:49come in and take a polygraph today
  279. 9:50exactly right like it would be really
  280. 9:53dumb like you should not be here right
  281. 9:55now sitting in this chair if you had
  282. 9:56anything to do with shenan and the
  283. 9:58little girls disappearance okay okay
  284. 10:01and it's for less than Stella is that
  285. 10:03right yeah I'll call her CC too CC okay
  286. 10:06okay if that comes up okay perfect so
  287. 10:08and I know very
  288. 10:10um very small amount about the case Okay
  289. 10:14um just because I want to know less
  290. 10:16about the case because I want you to be
  291. 10:18able to tell me about the case I don't
  292. 10:19want to have some pretty conceived
  293. 10:20Notions about the case and that's why I
  294. 10:23don't want you to assume that I already
  295. 10:24know details because you told detectives
  296. 10:26from Latrell um
  297. 10:27stuff I want you to be able to tell me
  298. 10:30like you were telling someone for the
  299. 10:31very first time about what happened
  300. 10:32actually talking about what happened
  301. 10:34okay
  302. 10:36um obviously Chris you're not under
  303. 10:37arrest I had no plans on arresting you
  304. 10:39at any point today if you decide you
  305. 10:42want to leave the door is right there
  306. 10:43there is a it locked us in here oh no
  307. 10:47yeah I saw that last night so there's a
  308. 10:49key in there now so you can um if you
  309. 10:52just turn the key it lets you out okay
  310. 10:54at any point today even after all these
  311. 10:55components are attached to you if you
  312. 10:57decide at that point you know what I
  313. 10:59don't want to take this polygraph I
  314. 11:00don't want to be here this is BS
  315. 11:01whatever that is completely fine just
  316. 11:03please allow me to unattach my
  317. 11:05components before you drag my six
  318. 11:06thousand dollar instrument on the floor
  319. 11:08and run out of here
  320. 11:10um and it's kind of a little maze back
  321. 11:12here so I will show you the layout at
  322. 11:13any point if you decide you want I don't
  323. 11:15want to take this following up I don't
  324. 11:16want to be here I don't want to do this
  325. 11:17that is completely fine the door does
  326. 11:19have to be shut for privacy just because
  327. 11:21noise does affect the polygraph and I
  328. 11:25will read you your rights today and
  329. 11:27that's just because the polygraph
  330. 11:28components are pretty restrictive you
  331. 11:30know they go around your chest and stuff
  332. 11:32and you may feel at some point that
  333. 11:34you're not free to leave but like I said
  334. 11:35before at any point how unattached out
  335. 11:37of influences and show you the way out
  336. 11:39if you decide even in the middle of the
  337. 11:41polygraph if you don't want to continue
  338. 11:42to take it okay so does that make sense
  339. 11:44to you yes okay so I'm going to give you
  340. 11:47kind of a road map of where we're going
  341. 11:48to go today so you know what to expect
  342. 11:50and that kind of stuff okay so we're
  343. 11:52going to first start by going over a
  344. 11:53right to consent form and that's that
  345. 11:55Miranda rights form I'm sure you've
  346. 11:57heard of it you know you hear
  347. 11:59um TV shows constantly most kids can
  348. 12:01recite their Miranda rights we're going
  349. 12:04to go over that and again it's just so
  350. 12:05that you know you're free to leave and
  351. 12:07that you're not under arrest okay and
  352. 12:09then we're going to do a consent form
  353. 12:10and that's just something that's
  354. 12:11required by my bosses to say that you're
  355. 12:13actually confronting to the CBI doing
  356. 12:16the polygraph on you okay
  357. 12:19um the after that we do a biographical
  358. 12:21in the medical form
  359. 12:23um and that's basically to make sure
  360. 12:25that you're a suitable subject to take
  361. 12:27the actual polygraph I want to make sure
  362. 12:28that you didn't smoke you know the weed
  363. 12:31you know the night before I wish that
  364. 12:33didn't normally happen but a lot of
  365. 12:35people smoke drugs before they come in
  366. 12:37here because they're really nervous and
  367. 12:38they're trying to calm themselves down
  368. 12:40some people take a lot of meditation
  369. 12:41some people hear voices all of those
  370. 12:44things are things that I cannot
  371. 12:47conduct a polygraph on someone if if
  372. 12:50they have those things going on so I
  373. 12:52just need to make sure that none of that
  374. 12:53stuff is affecting you you seem very
  375. 12:55lucid you're talking to me you're making
  376. 12:57sense you know you're not jittery you're
  377. 12:59not moving around that kind of stuff so
  378. 13:01I don't think we're gonna have any
  379. 13:02issues but we just I want to bet all of
  380. 13:04that out and just kind of you know make
  381. 13:06sure that you're in the sleep and you're
  382. 13:08not I mean obviously no one's getting a
  383. 13:10lot of sleep
  384. 13:11um probably since Monday but um just so
  385. 13:14we can talk about all that okay
  386. 13:16and then after that we're going to
  387. 13:17discuss the issue why you're here okay I
  388. 13:19want to know everything you know and
  389. 13:21again I don't want you to assume that I
  390. 13:22already know something I want you to
  391. 13:24kind of start from the beginning and
  392. 13:25like telling someone maybe you know
  393. 13:27friends that you hadn't talked to you
  394. 13:29since any of this has happened and
  395. 13:30you're basically having to relay all the
  396. 13:32details of exactly what happened with
  397. 13:35shenan and the girls okay
  398. 13:36and then after that we're actually going
  399. 13:38to take a bathroom break I'm going to
  400. 13:40let you take a break you can you can use
  401. 13:41the bathroom get something to drink that
  402. 13:43water there is for you if you think that
  403. 13:45at any point today and then you're going
  404. 13:46to come back in here I'm going to
  405. 13:48explain to you how and why the polygraph
  406. 13:49works again you're probably going to
  407. 13:51know more about polygraph than you even
  408. 13:52care to go before you leave here I'm
  409. 13:54interesting how it works and then we're
  410. 13:56going to go over the questions that are
  411. 13:57going to be on the test
  412. 13:59and like I said before you're going to
  413. 14:00know the words to every single question
  414. 14:02so it's not bad and we're going to
  415. 14:04discuss that
  416. 14:05before we even take the polygraph like
  417. 14:07what those questions mean and and just
  418. 14:10so you are completely clear in your mind
  419. 14:12when Tammy asked me this question this
  420. 14:14is exactly what she means this is an
  421. 14:15exact exactly what she's asking and this
  422. 14:18is the answer that I have for that
  423. 14:19question
  424. 14:20um so we're going to go over those I get
  425. 14:23I let you practice answering them like
  426. 14:24two or three times so and then we'll go
  427. 14:26through them repeatedly if you need me
  428. 14:28to go around four or five times just you
  429. 14:30know before we actually take the test
  430. 14:32I'm more than happy to do that too I
  431. 14:34want you very comfortable with the
  432. 14:35questions and that you know what they
  433. 14:37mean and how you're going to answer them
  434. 14:39okay
  435. 14:40um after that we're going to go we're
  436. 14:42actually going to do a practice test and
  437. 14:44again that just lets me know that you're
  438. 14:46suitable subject take the actual
  439. 14:47polygraph and then after that we
  440. 14:49actually get into the actual testing
  441. 14:50work out that's why it takes a long time
  442. 14:53is because there is a pretty big process
  443. 14:55that goes along with it yeah
  444. 15:00so did you um you're not working today
  445. 15:02right no do you have a date that you're
  446. 15:04going back to work not at the moment no
  447. 15:11how long have you worked for Anadarko
  448. 15:14January 2015.
  449. 15:17so about three and a half years almost
  450. 15:19yeah do you like it there oh yeah yeah I
  451. 15:23worked for a covenant testing
  452. 15:24Technologies before that what is that
  453. 15:27person that's a contract company for oil
  454. 15:29and gas before that I worked for Ford
  455. 15:31for 11 years of the technician oh my
  456. 15:34goodness so does that translate into no
  457. 15:37it's mechanical I mean like I like to
  458. 15:41fix things and
  459. 15:43when I was like when I moved out here I
  460. 15:46worked at Walmart okay and I moved I
  461. 15:49moved up pretty fast there but I had
  462. 15:51like kind of plateau over that kind of
  463. 15:52just like I couldn't go get stagnant and
  464. 15:55I was having this carpal tunnel syndrome
  465. 15:57on both my hands and
  466. 15:59and it was bad like I'm doing this like
  467. 16:01all day you know like it was it was bad
  468. 16:04yeah so I still have that I don't even
  469. 16:06know can you get rid of purple oh like
  470. 16:07it was just the offset of it like it
  471. 16:09wasn't like full-on you'd have surgery
  472. 16:11type thing but like now it's like it's
  473. 16:13so much better
  474. 16:15yeah it doesn't have to paint like
  475. 16:17there's a lot of mechanical things you
  476. 16:18do in oil and gas
  477. 16:21but it was
  478. 16:22it's not as repetitive as the car
  479. 16:25industry is so are you an excuse my
  480. 16:28language are you a worker bee or are you
  481. 16:30like a boss guy absolutely okay
  482. 16:34oh yeah oh yeah yeah like a I'm a kill
  483. 16:37coordinator right now for for the area
  484. 16:40I have uh six round operators and two
  485. 16:43Rover operators so that's what we uh
  486. 16:46kind of just over them right now and
  487. 16:47kind of we kind of game plan like what
  488. 16:50kind of we look on the computer on our
  489. 16:51little summary screen and kind of go
  490. 16:54from there to see what kind of problems
  491. 16:55we might have throughout the day sure
  492. 16:56and just kind of like how this is what
  493. 16:57we need to do when you go here there
  494. 16:59there
  495. 17:05everybody checked out by like three
  496. 17:07three Thirty or something like that oh
  497. 17:08that's nice
  498. 17:10for you're like six six thirties
  499. 17:12somewhere around there so it's super
  500. 17:13early oh yeah
  501. 17:15I don't know what's gonna happen so
  502. 17:17that's true that's true so what do you
  503. 17:19have an idea on you Chris that I could
  504. 17:21see
  505. 17:22the biographical form has some
  506. 17:25some like driver license numbers and
  507. 17:26that kind of stuff so I'll just keep
  508. 17:28this just for a second
  509. 17:29shall I do the other form
  510. 17:33are you named after anyone no no
  511. 17:37my middle name just my dad's middle name
  512. 17:38but other than that no okay
  513. 17:45if I mispronounce your wife's name
  514. 17:47please like correctly okay
  515. 17:50just think of shenanigans
  516. 17:53I mean oh I like that okay I got it
  517. 17:56that's the way she
  518. 17:58she tells people
  519. 18:01does her family call her she mean
  520. 18:03um so the way they they spelled it it
  521. 18:05was like Shannon like with an apostrophe
  522. 18:08but she just called it
  523. 18:10she was named after Sean
  524. 18:13is that nice okay oh yeah so
  525. 18:16is it b-e-l-l-a for both spell yes okay
  526. 18:20and so that's the c e l e s t e perfect
  527. 18:25all with the same last name yes right
  528. 18:27okay so um Christmas is that advice
  529. 18:30minor race form this just says that um
  530. 18:32agent Tammy Lee She's I'm an agent with
  531. 18:34the Colorado Bureau of Investigation and
  532. 18:36I wish to talk to you about automated
  533. 18:37disappearances
  534. 18:41Bella and Celeste Watts okay you have
  535. 18:44the right to remain silent anything you
  536. 18:46say Canon will be used against you in a
  537. 18:47court of law you have the right to talk
  538. 18:49to a lawyer and to have a present with
  539. 18:50you while you're being questioned if you
  540. 18:52cannot afford to hire a lawyer one will
  541. 18:53be appointed to represent you before any
  542. 18:55questioning if you wish you can decide
  543. 18:57at any time to exercise these rights and
  544. 18:58not answer any questions or make any
  545. 19:00statements do you understand each of
  546. 19:01those rights where they read to you
  547. 19:03friends so I'll just have you write a
  548. 19:04yes when we get to that and then having
  549. 19:06those rights in mind do you wish to talk
  550. 19:07to me now and obviously go through with
  551. 19:09the polygraph okay perfect so what I
  552. 19:11want you to do is go ahead and answer
  553. 19:12both of those as yeses if you still
  554. 19:14agree with that and then sign and date
  555. 19:15that signature line if you would
  556. 19:28have you always been a Tar Heels fan yes
  557. 19:3015. it is yeah
  558. 19:33my son is a huge Target I don't even
  559. 19:36know
  560. 19:37why he likes them but many kids does not
  561. 19:40get stuck
  562. 19:43used to coach here too and you were the
  563. 19:45Carolina guy I didn't know that yeah
  564. 19:49do you go to any like do the package
  565. 19:51place
  566. 19:53oh no North Carolina that's the uh
  567. 19:55College oh College oh my gosh I'm sorry
  568. 19:57sorry
  569. 19:59I'm getting all my team to mix up you're
  570. 20:02right
  571. 20:17very cool it focused on regular
  572. 20:20automotive and then the NASCAR portion
  573. 20:22as well oh very cool oh yeah is that
  574. 20:25like kind of a leaked mechanical school
  575. 20:28it was part of the universal Technical
  576. 20:30Institute like it was part of their
  577. 20:31program plus the NASCAR part so I went
  578. 20:33to the tour the back program there as
  579. 20:35well so how it's awesome
  580. 20:42do you have any other nicknames or
  581. 20:44anything that people call you it's Chris
  582. 20:45it's Chris
  583. 20:47the light just random ones at work just
  584. 20:49doesn't make a case
  585. 20:51like what oh some Call Me Like Rain Man
  586. 20:54because like I when I go to a site or
  587. 20:57something like if I do it once I'll
  588. 20:59remember it and this is one of those one
  589. 21:02of those things like do you remember
  590. 21:03like phone numbers and license plates
  591. 21:07of that stuff so it was like when I was
  592. 21:09really young when my grandma used to
  593. 21:11always quiz me on like uh state capitals
  594. 21:13like every day and like when I was
  595. 21:15waiting for my sister to come out from
  596. 21:17from middle school or stuff like that
  597. 21:19she was always like just hanging stuff
  598. 21:21off my memory and it's just like
  599. 21:23everything that's something that's how
  600. 21:25it built yeah what it was and what it is
  601. 21:29so as your grandmother said that yeah
  602. 21:32is she still alive no she passed a few
  603. 21:34years ago
  604. 21:36was she pretty old yeah yeah she was
  605. 21:39such a good night yeah she was good were
  606. 21:41you close with your grandparents yeah I
  607. 21:43went over your house every morning every
  608. 21:45afternoon at school and helped her out
  609. 21:47nice being outside or stuff on the
  610. 21:49outside and she always
  611. 21:51cooked me lunch some German food
  612. 21:54Colonels and goulash schnitzel that kind
  613. 21:57of stuff like that
  614. 21:59my first husband was German so we had
  615. 22:01German sausages
  616. 22:11so shenan's legal name is hyphenated
  617. 22:16I've never seen her written that way but
  618. 22:18that's the way her parents always said
  619. 22:20that's what I thought they did it and
  620. 22:23then
  621. 22:27Peter was saying it when I spell it out
  622. 22:29but first then we keep wanting to say
  623. 22:32Shannon of course but I did a lot of
  624. 22:33people call her Shannon her parents
  625. 22:35sometimes collection
  626. 22:43have you talked to her parents at all
  627. 22:44yeah are they being pretty decent and
  628. 22:46good are they coming here I'm not sure
  629. 22:49yet so like my guys here your dad here
  630. 22:52is there any other family members of
  631. 22:54yours coming not right now that was my
  632. 22:56guy came out and this is for support he
  633. 22:58just got here this morning what a nice
  634. 23:00dude
  635. 23:11okay so this is that content that my
  636. 23:13bosses require and this just says agency
  637. 23:15has advised me that she's investigated a
  638. 23:17matter of obviously that this appearance
  639. 23:19again of shenan Bella and Celeste I
  640. 23:21heard me show you that to the best of my
  641. 23:22knowledge I'm a good physical and mental
  642. 23:24health I also state that no Force
  643. 23:26director undue influence has been used
  644. 23:28against me and then I'm contenting to
  645. 23:30this polygraph interview on my own free
  646. 23:31will I understand that the results for
  647. 23:33this process will be released too
  648. 23:34obviously the Frederick Police
  649. 23:36Department the District Attorney's
  650. 23:37office and the FBI it would be very
  651. 23:39chilly for you to sit in here and take a
  652. 23:41polygraph if I couldn't release your
  653. 23:43result of hopefully passing to the
  654. 23:46people that need to know does that make
  655. 23:48sense to you and it says I hereby give
  656. 23:50my voluntary content to undergo a
  657. 23:51polygraph interview and I understand
  658. 23:53that this process is subject to both
  659. 23:54audio and video recording and monitoring
  660. 23:56which we had already talked about okay
  661. 23:58so if you agree with that consent and
  662. 24:00you just find and date it
  663. 24:08so where did you stay last night because
  664. 24:10I know that I can Amanda's house
  665. 24:12how do you know that so
  666. 24:16Amanda used to be a director at Primrose
  667. 24:19schoolwork Bell and tishago but then she
  668. 24:22she transferred to another place and
  669. 24:24shenan was getting her own Drive
  670. 24:27and that's how they how they met she so
  671. 24:30the Amanda's transferred to another
  672. 24:32Primrose yeah okay so like Jeanette
  673. 24:35Jeanette couldn't like
  674. 24:38talk to them about Thrive the direct
  675. 24:40sales business like while they're at
  676. 24:42like they were allowed to like talk like
  677. 24:44you know outside like if their
  678. 24:46childhoods are done with the school
  679. 24:48rules or something like that so once she
  680. 24:50left she talked to her about Thrive and
  681. 24:52got and got her own drive and then me
  682. 24:54and Nick started running together here
  683. 24:56and there and that's how we met so does
  684. 24:57she like is she like a
  685. 24:59what do they call them a downline from
  686. 25:02children's okay so she's like one of the
  687. 25:04sellers that yeah yeah yeah okay and I
  688. 25:08don't even understand threats I'll be
  689. 25:09honest with you like I'm a good chick
  690. 25:11and I don't understand what all of that
  691. 25:12to write so that was fun
  692. 25:14minerals and all plant-based non-GMO
  693. 25:18stuff it's really like it's really
  694. 25:19healthy for you yeah do you do it yeah
  695. 25:21no you do okay that was 245 pounds I
  696. 25:24started no way how long ago was that
  697. 25:292015
  698. 25:35so
  699. 25:37I'm trying with like patches or
  700. 25:39something is that what that is well it's
  701. 25:41a three-step you know I like vitamins
  702. 25:42you have two capsules you take when you
  703. 25:45wake up two pills okay and then you take
  704. 25:47a shave with water and throw on a patch
  705. 25:50yeah right now no no I don't know if you
  706. 25:53want a patch look like that's just like
  707. 25:54a little square piece that just kind of
  708. 25:56goes on just again it's like absorbs
  709. 25:58like it opens like up your pores a
  710. 26:00little bit and the buttons kind of abort
  711. 26:02like through your skin like time release
  712. 26:03throughout it's like can you tend to
  713. 26:04feel better when you have the patch on
  714. 26:06really yeah
  715. 26:08see how much are tattoos just the
  716. 26:11message himself
  717. 26:13are you very supposed to do this in
  718. 26:15combination with all the other three
  719. 26:16steps oh that's what I call the three
  720. 26:18steps but like I feel like you could
  721. 26:20sell it
  722. 26:22um
  723. 26:26as like I signed up underneath her oh
  724. 26:29okay so like you know I'm part of her
  725. 26:31team okay but she kind of runs that part
  726. 26:34of it because she knows like I'm not the
  727. 26:37type of seller I'm not a seller yeah
  728. 26:39salesman yeah like I would like say too
  729. 26:42much he says about the product
  730. 26:44sometimes it's not so great because of
  731. 26:47this or yeah it's like I would give out
  732. 26:49like too much information about the
  733. 26:51product instead of just having like them
  734. 26:52call her do you sell it to any of the
  735. 26:55people that you work with
  736. 26:57there's one person that I work with that
  737. 26:59uses it tell me that Troy Troy yeah
  738. 27:08McCoy
  739. 27:11[Music]
  740. 27:14super cute
  741. 27:15so he works for you is that right yeah
  742. 27:19oh okay
  743. 27:23he worked in Kansas before he came here
  744. 27:26kind of showed you the ropes yeah he
  745. 27:28showed me a lot of all different things
  746. 27:29and I picked up a few things that he
  747. 27:31didn't know and just got like we worked
  748. 27:33together pretty well thanks is this um
  749. 27:36the correct address for you yeah
  750. 27:44this is Troy Mary yes I mean
  751. 27:48so do your families hang out at home a
  752. 27:50few times yeah his kids are older
  753. 27:55[Music]
  754. 28:01oh okay like a blended family yeah
  755. 28:07I think he met her when she had
  756. 28:08kids already yeah
  757. 28:11so what's your social security number
  758. 28:13241 okay
  759. 28:14so
  760. 28:163387
  761. 28:1810.
  762. 28:21309
  763. 28:23-1702
  764. 28:30and so uh what's your date of birth 5 16
  765. 28:3385
  766. 28:3533.
  767. 28:39so where were you born and there you go
  768. 28:41North Carolina how do you spell female
  769. 28:43f-a-y-e-t-t-e-b-i
  770. 28:49you can stay at it though okay
  771. 28:55and this shows you're 225
  772. 28:57correct
  773. 29:02okay is that a lion here
  774. 29:04what year was that yeah it's 2014. no
  775. 29:08I'll switch about five to twenty five
  776. 29:10then okay yeah I'm getting some more
  777. 29:12weight what what do you think being
  778. 29:13you've gain weight then Celeste
  779. 29:15pregnancy oh really I gained my wedding
  780. 29:18she did you get a stripped aesthetic
  781. 29:19eaters when I went and got her Oreos I
  782. 29:23put you on the way upstairs
  783. 29:26that happens a lot now can you do the
  784. 29:29Thrive stuff when you're pregnant you
  785. 29:31have space for them yes yes because it's
  786. 29:33all natural or whatever okay there's a
  787. 29:35lot of different variants of the patches
  788. 29:37that she can't use
  789. 29:39because like some of this for weight
  790. 29:41loss oh if you don't want to lose weight
  791. 29:43while you're pregnant right or it's more
  792. 29:46like for fat loss and that's like great
  793. 29:48they recommend not using that type of
  794. 29:50Ash okay so as far as um growing up goes
  795. 29:53and I'm actually done with that because
  796. 29:56um who all live in your family
  797. 30:00who do you live with uh my mom and dad
  798. 30:02my sister and your sister okay just two
  799. 30:05kids yes okay what's your sister's name
  800. 30:09have you um is Jamie coming or have you
  801. 30:11talked to Jamie I'll talk to Jeremy and
  802. 30:13her husband yeah
  803. 30:14how old is Jamie
  804. 30:17so she'll be 40 this year okay
  805. 30:23she's seven years older than me yeah
  806. 30:27if you're at home by yourself from a
  807. 30:29while huh yeah we don't really get close
  808. 30:31until I got like older because I was
  809. 30:33such a big
  810. 30:34age discrepancy so so you get along with
  811. 30:37her well now with her husband do they
  812. 30:39have kids two two kids how old are their
  813. 30:42kids ten and seven do you get your two
  814. 30:45things very often I just saw them like
  815. 30:47when I was in North Carolina
  816. 30:49when were you in North Carolina so it
  817. 30:52was the August 1st is seventh
  818. 30:55nice
  819. 30:59and how far did you get in school
  820. 31:02so I graduated from high school and I
  821. 31:04got through the NASCAR Tech program nice
  822. 31:07so you've got a GED or an actual diploma
  823. 31:10so it's like a certificate like this
  824. 31:12it's not really a diploma because it
  825. 31:13doesn't have like English math science
  826. 31:15there it's just strictly like a
  827. 31:16mechanical no but through high school oh
  828. 31:19yeah definitely
  829. 31:21[Music]
  830. 31:25and then you gotta I'm sorry like a
  831. 31:27certificate from the master attack that
  832. 31:28I completed their programs like I guess
  833. 31:30it can't be a degree without you know
  834. 31:31like English Math and Science and stuff
  835. 31:33did you always know that that's what you
  836. 31:35wanted to do with the question uh it was
  837. 31:37if I wanted if I could go back like I'd
  838. 31:40probably just use that more but like a
  839. 31:42hobby and maybe like dive more into the
  840. 31:45technology part of it like because we
  841. 31:47had like an Academy of Applied
  842. 31:48technology when I was there in the
  843. 31:50increasing what I was in maybe going to
  844. 31:52more of the computer programming part of
  845. 31:54it so are you like a pretty techy guy
  846. 31:57well I'll say techie but I understand
  847. 31:59like numbers and math a lot like that's
  848. 32:01like with uh working on these Wells
  849. 32:03there's a lot of programming a lot of
  850. 32:06setting up as well as to make them run
  851. 32:08and like using the numbers the pressures
  852. 32:10to optimize the wells
  853. 32:21I don't think and I know more about I've
  854. 32:24kind of like perhaps the more the stuff
  855. 32:26that's happening right now sure and
  856. 32:28that's how like we kind of like work
  857. 32:29together he's like if he has to work on
  858. 32:31pumping in it like like all right
  859. 32:34that's why you're working on like a
  860. 32:35normal well and setting up like the
  861. 32:37setting it up he's just like here you go
  862. 32:39like I will just watch but does that
  863. 32:42translate into like um
  864. 32:44like my husband is a taking guy in our
  865. 32:46family so like he sets up all our
  866. 32:48routers like he like when I get a new
  867. 32:50phone he sets up my phone for me just
  868. 32:51because he understood he has that brain
  869. 32:54that I don't have so that's where I was
  870. 32:56being a technique person so are you kind
  871. 32:58of that person
  872. 32:59I can do that kind of stuff I can't like
  873. 33:02do code or anything right yeah right
  874. 33:04computer code
  875. 33:07that kind of stuff right okay
  876. 33:09awesome so in your job now like what is
  877. 33:12your title social coordinator a sales
  878. 33:15coordinator okay
  879. 33:16and you've done that for three and a
  880. 33:19half years or whatever so I was I was an
  881. 33:21operator I was like well it's the same
  882. 33:23like you're you're an operator you're
  883. 33:25operating Oil and Gas locations this is
  884. 33:28I was The Operators and it was the
  885. 33:29operator but slash Rover like I would go
  886. 33:32around helping people and now I've went
  887. 33:34off the field coordinator it's like no I
  888. 33:35just kind of like tell people like this
  889. 33:36is where we're gonna go and
  890. 33:38like we need help let's go there so when
  891. 33:40did you actually get promoted to that
  892. 33:42when
  893. 33:44one of our other field coordinators you
  894. 33:46got went to a different group the hdos
  895. 33:48group and our other so according how to
  896. 33:50get out in Texas to help so me and Troy
  897. 33:51got elevated up
  898. 33:53something that happened we're just kind
  899. 33:55of backfilling we had no electric it was
  900. 33:57permanent or not and it turned out to be
  901. 33:59permanent so wow that's awesome so tell
  902. 34:02me about um like can you give me a
  903. 34:03synopsis of your childhood like what
  904. 34:06your parents did for a living you know
  905. 34:07pretty much my dad was a parts manager
  906. 34:10for Ford dealership okay
  907. 34:13and my mom she was like a like a
  908. 34:16secretary and
  909. 34:19there's notary for a used car you
  910. 34:21started oh okay so like yeah she sold
  911. 34:25the cars too but like she was more on
  912. 34:26the secretary notary and kind of did she
  913. 34:28passed on a couple different used car
  914. 34:29dealerships my dad stayed at the same
  915. 34:31one changed the name a little bit
  916. 34:33changed names then he went to like a
  917. 34:35different
  918. 34:35thing he did the same thing and he did
  919. 34:37like parts manager and body shop manager
  920. 34:39and that's where he's still at now so
  921. 34:42how did you see you grew up as far as
  922. 34:43like um your family structure is were
  923. 34:46you guys religious was there a lot of
  924. 34:48discipline in the home you know like or
  925. 34:50who was the disciplinarian in the home
  926. 34:52so like we went to church I would say
  927. 34:54not like every Sunday but pretty
  928. 34:56regularly you know in what church did
  929. 34:58you basically it was like First Baptist
  930. 35:00Church okay and I mean this one I was
  931. 35:03the quiet kid I was the you know I just
  932. 35:06kind of
  933. 35:07my sister was a rebellious woman that
  934. 35:10always knew like I'm a good morning
  935. 35:13and my sister was the one I got and most
  936. 35:16of the that she she was the one that
  937. 35:17showed me like I don't want to do right
  938. 35:20I wake up to my mom assistant pretty
  939. 35:22much arguing every everyone yeah okay
  940. 35:25they're like I don't want to wear this I
  941. 35:26want to wear that
  942. 35:27so you're like uh Mom what do you want
  943. 35:29me to wear or whatever you want
  944. 35:33to start today right that's the best
  945. 35:34thing but yeah like
  946. 35:36my dad he was
  947. 35:39just what kind of discipline did you
  948. 35:40guys have in the home just I mean it
  949. 35:42wasn't like physical or anything like
  950. 35:43that it was just you know like just
  951. 35:45verbal like you know this is what you
  952. 35:47need to do and just follow that like if
  953. 35:49my dad ever raised his voice under that
  954. 35:51was like that was that was my work phone
  955. 35:53sir oh okay I was like
  956. 36:02okay
  957. 36:03no you're good
  958. 36:05because I have two phones too and it's
  959. 36:07hard to keep track of themselves yeah
  960. 36:09yeah okay so you think that was a
  961. 36:14disciplinarian but yeah it's I mean it
  962. 36:16was horrible like because like it's been
  963. 36:17a resource I knew something was like
  964. 36:19okay okay I'm good there like right did
  965. 36:24anyone struggle with like drug or
  966. 36:26alcohol abuse or anything like that in
  967. 36:28your family no I mean my Dad did at one
  968. 36:31point but it was like after I left like
  969. 36:33after I graduated everything and I just
  970. 36:36like because my sister she came she was
  971. 36:38bees and then she'd come back we even
  972. 36:39come back we even come back she's never
  973. 36:41like like run away like just gonna move
  974. 36:44like she went to East Carolina and that
  975. 36:47didn't work out so she came back home
  976. 36:49she moved to a different place and that
  977. 36:50didn't work out she came back home type
  978. 36:52thing and like when I left I was like
  979. 36:56it's like self-sufficient and I never
  980. 36:58came back and I think that hit him
  981. 37:00pretty hard
  982. 37:01so they expected you to come back oh he
  983. 37:03just he was used to me being around like
  984. 37:05you know he's my hero with my best
  985. 37:07friend you're dead yeah
  986. 37:09yeah so like that's where it was
  987. 37:11that's what I think that kind of hurt
  988. 37:12him a little bit because like once I
  989. 37:14left I you know I didn't move back so
  990. 37:16tell me when did you so you're talking
  991. 37:18about for college like as soon as you
  992. 37:20graduated you just moved out so if
  993. 37:22NASCAR close to where you guys live like
  994. 37:23no like once I'd rather have to move to
  995. 37:25Mooresville North Carolina that's about
  996. 37:27two hours away okay and that's that's
  997. 37:30where it is I've never moved back I mean
  998. 37:33I came back to visit not to never moved
  999. 37:35back okay so you go to college is a
  1000. 37:38four-year College two-year College yeah
  1001. 37:40that program I finished in
  1002. 37:4352 weeks
  1003. 37:45so it was like a year and a half almost
  1004. 37:47two okay
  1005. 37:49two weeks sorry okay so a year and a
  1006. 37:52half
  1007. 37:54um and then where did you go after that
  1008. 37:55I worked at Marshall Ford
  1009. 37:58and worked there for until 2012 so that
  1010. 38:02was like 2003. that's when I was going
  1011. 38:04to NASCAR Tech and I was working there
  1012. 38:06at like a quarter moving cars around and
  1013. 38:09changing the world here in that type
  1014. 38:10thing and then once I graduated they
  1015. 38:12moved me into more of a like a line text
  1016. 38:14as far as like actually fixing things
  1017. 38:15okay so awesome 2003 to 2012 I was there
  1018. 38:18in 20 the 2014 as a mama Ford okay did
  1019. 38:22you have like any High School
  1020. 38:23sweethearts or like girlfriends from
  1021. 38:26Nascar Tech or there's like no there's
  1022. 38:29probably no girls imagine but it was
  1023. 38:32there's like a handful of those actually
  1024. 38:34went there so now that was like that
  1025. 38:35happening any girlfriends earlier After
  1026. 38:37High School okay what about when you got
  1027. 38:39done with NASCAR attacks other
  1028. 38:41girlfriends like that from in
  1029. 38:43Mooresville in there so nothing really
  1030. 38:45serious nothing serious yeah I met him
  1031. 38:48in 2010. what's 2010 yeah okay and how
  1032. 38:51long do you guys date before you got
  1033. 38:52married
  1034. 38:54uh 20
  1035. 38:5720s
  1036. 38:58now does she live in Morrisville she
  1037. 39:01lives in Belmont
  1038. 39:07or
  1039. 39:09and they knew each other from like
  1040. 39:11from my mobile shop that she ran
  1041. 39:14or the question she ran like three
  1042. 39:17different stores like Auto Parts uh
  1043. 39:20Wheels tires audio custom stuff
  1044. 39:23oh my gosh you're just all in that oh
  1045. 39:27it's all like crazy
  1046. 39:30um okay so we're gonna
  1047. 39:32um I'm just gonna ask you some of the
  1048. 39:34medical questions just to make again
  1049. 39:35sure about your suitable subject and you
  1050. 39:37said you've never taken a polygraph
  1051. 39:40um how would you describe yourself as a
  1052. 39:41condition right now good for your poor
  1053. 39:43okay good good okay so have you had any
  1054. 39:46major surgeries or injuries within the
  1055. 39:48last six months
  1056. 39:50are you any in any discomfort right now
  1057. 39:53as far as like pain is like yeah
  1058. 39:58you know maybe mental anguish or
  1059. 40:00whatever but just like yeah
  1060. 40:03yeah you're not pregnant
  1061. 40:06have you eaten in the last 24 hours
  1062. 40:10pizza last night and protein shakes this
  1063. 40:12morning so so okay what time did you
  1064. 40:14have the pizza
  1065. 40:16so right when I left here so it's like
  1066. 40:1711.
  1067. 40:19I don't know what time you have the
  1068. 40:20protein shake
  1069. 40:22probably about
  1070. 40:257 30.
  1071. 40:30later process
  1072. 40:33did you go to bed last night
  1073. 40:36about 12 30. okay
  1074. 40:42and what time do you get up
  1075. 40:44probably about five and just kind of
  1076. 40:46looked at my phone
  1077. 40:49you say that the other in the end of
  1078. 40:52them okay
  1079. 40:54um and how would you rate your sleep
  1080. 40:55State Fair report
  1081. 40:57is there anything came forward
  1082. 41:01um I'll put it in the middle okay okay
  1083. 41:02we'll give you that buck
  1084. 42:17have you had any alcohol within the last
  1085. 42:1924 hours
  1086. 42:20do you drink alcohol well it was like
  1087. 42:23it's been going out somewhere like with
  1088. 42:25friends coming over I don't care about
  1089. 42:26myself okay so it's not I don't think
  1090. 42:29that's the least how often do would you
  1091. 42:30say that you drink in a given week like
  1092. 42:33how many beverages would you have if I
  1093. 42:35drink something just be like one or two
  1094. 42:36one or two beers
  1095. 42:38no hard alcohol okay
  1096. 42:41um any legal or illegal drug species
  1097. 42:43within the last 24 or 48 hours that
  1098. 42:46include even cough medicine you know
  1099. 42:49so you just had um vitamins is that
  1100. 42:52right okay
  1101. 43:03so now we um Chris we're going to
  1102. 43:06discuss the reason why you're here okay
  1103. 43:08so now what I would like you to do is
  1104. 43:11again kind of treat me like
  1105. 43:13um you know someone that has no idea
  1106. 43:16about anything and that you actually
  1107. 43:17have to start from the entire beginning
  1108. 43:19like kind of start when I would say when
  1109. 43:22you met chenanne just kind of explain
  1110. 43:24your relationship I guess just so I
  1111. 43:26understand it as far as you know meeting
  1112. 43:28in 2010 and you know when the kids came
  1113. 43:31about and that kind of stuff and then
  1114. 43:32just bring me up to the point of
  1115. 43:35um you know yesterday well that's pretty
  1116. 43:37good all right so the 2010 we
  1117. 43:42and that pretty much through Facebook
  1118. 43:44because of my cousin's wife
  1119. 43:48and she like recommended us as friends
  1120. 43:50type thing and that's how we kind of
  1121. 43:51started talking
  1122. 43:52and our first date was at a movie
  1123. 43:55theater didn't really impress her much
  1124. 43:57because like I was like it was actually
  1125. 43:58a nice theater I didn't really know what
  1126. 44:00I was walking into as far as I could
  1127. 44:01walk in and there was like a doorman and
  1128. 44:03he was all dressed in the suit and I was
  1129. 44:04in camo shorts and
  1130. 44:07DC shoes and I was like yeah I was like
  1131. 44:10okay hopefully I'm not I'm very
  1132. 44:12underdressed for this
  1133. 44:13but like I walk in I see her and she's
  1134. 44:15all dressed really nice and you know she
  1135. 44:17told me like like after the fact like
  1136. 44:19now that's nice
  1137. 44:21I kind of feel like because like we know
  1138. 44:24each other look like so like I wasn't
  1139. 44:25really just for what we were doing then
  1140. 44:28but
  1141. 44:29on the second date I actually made an
  1142. 44:31mistake again we're in the same thing
  1143. 44:33because I kind of forgot what I worked
  1144. 44:35but when it's okay to rock concert and
  1145. 44:38like I think that's kind of where I went
  1146. 44:39I want it over because like we actually
  1147. 44:42got to like the actual concert and like
  1148. 44:45forgot all right I forgot my ID so I
  1149. 44:48couldn't actually get in so I actually
  1150. 44:49ran back like two miles to the car and
  1151. 44:51got it and came back and I was just like
  1152. 44:53I mean I was just like soaking wet I was
  1153. 44:55just like it was like middle of July
  1154. 44:56August from like South Carolina and
  1155. 44:58humidity and everything like that is an
  1156. 45:00army base so I was just I ran back got
  1157. 45:03it and
  1158. 45:04everything like that and then I think it
  1159. 45:06was our next stage restaurant in Myrtle
  1160. 45:08Beach
  1161. 45:08and like she has well her lupus was
  1162. 45:12really like acting up in North Carolina
  1163. 45:15so like like she like these flare-ups
  1164. 45:17joint pains all that kind of thing and
  1165. 45:19we were driving back like she laid on me
  1166. 45:21pretty much the entire way back and I
  1167. 45:23think that's when like she realized why
  1168. 45:26this guy's actually pretty pretty nice
  1169. 45:28because like he didn't ask he didn't
  1170. 45:30tell me like how to get off my laughter
  1171. 45:32type thing like I just let her just
  1172. 45:33wrestling entire way back it was like
  1173. 45:35two and a half hour ride from Myrtle
  1174. 45:36Beach to Charlotte to the Belmont area
  1175. 45:40everything as far as from there like in
  1176. 45:432011 I proposed to her over in Ocean
  1177. 45:46Isle Beach like that that was around our
  1178. 45:49anniversary
  1179. 45:50and um I did a run weather on the beach
  1180. 45:52at night and I was telling me she was
  1181. 45:55extremely tired and I was like I just
  1182. 45:56want to do this today and she can do
  1183. 46:00like like
  1184. 46:01persistently get me like out here right
  1185. 46:03now I was like oh I just let's go out to
  1186. 46:05the beach it's a nice night supposed to
  1187. 46:07run the beach said yes and everybody was
  1188. 46:10static and everything and she she loves
  1189. 46:13she's very organized he's like otd about
  1190. 46:15like organizations but things like that
  1191. 46:18you saw like the pantry to everything
  1192. 46:20was just like I mean in a container all
  1193. 46:22the way down like it's very easy for if
  1194. 46:24you just came into our house
  1195. 46:26you would you know what stuff was you
  1196. 46:28would know like
  1197. 46:30where everything was it would be easy
  1198. 46:33so like
  1199. 46:35everything was just planning and what
  1200. 46:37everything was great and then 2012 sewer
  1201. 46:40here she was planning the wedding from
  1202. 46:42here because everybody was back in North
  1203. 46:44Carolina but it was a yep she called
  1204. 46:47destination wedding if you want because
  1205. 46:48I'd fly back for that
  1206. 46:50but we got married and it's like this
  1207. 46:52Double Tree Hilton Hotel that was there
  1208. 46:55it was like in their Court it was in
  1209. 46:57November
  1210. 46:59and it was underneath one of those big
  1211. 47:01tents and everything was beautiful
  1212. 47:03and it was it was it was it was amazing
  1213. 47:05and it went to Myrtle Beach for the for
  1214. 47:08the honeymoon
  1215. 47:09and then
  1216. 47:102013 in December 17th that's when Bella
  1217. 47:14was born like we've been trying for a
  1218. 47:16while and
  1219. 47:17nothing was happening as far as getting
  1220. 47:19pregnant or whatnot and she's full was
  1221. 47:23she said so this is not going to press
  1222. 47:25this is not happening like
  1223. 47:27um by superchargers for your car
  1224. 47:29okay and then it turned out that weekend
  1225. 47:32we can see Bella
  1226. 47:34so we she bought me a supercharger for
  1227. 47:36my car
  1228. 47:37take that back
  1229. 47:40I also I feel like a special order like
  1230. 47:43part of the Endo dealership
  1231. 47:45like that so like it was it was ironic
  1232. 47:48that it happened that
  1233. 47:49that bought a superchargers in my car
  1234. 47:51and then that would be good
  1235. 47:54and then um Bell which is a gift I mean
  1236. 47:57she didn't think she could she could get
  1237. 47:59pregnant because of the lupus and
  1238. 48:00everything like that like the doctor
  1239. 48:01said it could happen it might not but
  1240. 48:04it happened and it was it was a blessing
  1241. 48:06in these guys right there was like oh my
  1242. 48:07God it's a Savage you know
  1243. 48:09so like does she have normal pregnancies
  1244. 48:14was a [ __ ] shoulder dystocia when she
  1245. 48:17was born
  1246. 48:19I never ever
  1247. 48:21yeah it's more like that
  1248. 48:29[Music]
  1249. 48:31nothing like that so Bella was born
  1250. 48:34December 17 2013.
  1251. 48:37and those she was a guest so just go
  1252. 48:40along with Bella and then
  1253. 48:42around and CeCe was born this uh July 17
  1254. 48:462015 and we had this whole little things
  1255. 48:49uh staged up about in the Caribbean a
  1256. 48:51little eviction notice
  1257. 48:52like she was there and it worked out
  1258. 48:54pretty well because she was just
  1259. 48:55standing there crying like you know like
  1260. 48:57I don't want this type of thing you know
  1261. 48:59someone else that went like viral on
  1262. 49:01Facebook so that's weird it would be
  1263. 49:03yours
  1264. 49:05you just been crying with a little
  1265. 49:06eviction notice and she got it so yeah
  1266. 49:08she recorded it and it was really it was
  1267. 49:11an amazing day just to see that and then
  1268. 49:13she Celeste she was she was I was there
  1269. 49:17like she had a midwife for this one so
  1270. 49:19like they actually had me like are you
  1271. 49:21can stand here like you know
  1272. 49:24came out like so fast that like I barely
  1273. 49:28had a chance to go like this and they
  1274. 49:29moved me out of the way because she just
  1275. 49:30like
  1276. 49:32yeah so it was I haven't thought I was I
  1277. 49:35lost better with Celeste because with
  1278. 49:36Bella I didn't really know like a lot
  1279. 49:39like what I should do what I could do
  1280. 49:41how to calm stuff like that like you
  1281. 49:43know burps swaddle everything like that
  1282. 49:46like you know yes I had like no idea I
  1283. 49:50just pretty much watched like all right
  1284. 49:51how do you do this and then with Celeste
  1285. 49:53it was more like that's why I fella kind
  1286. 49:55of like she's a mommy's girl
  1287. 49:57then when CeCe was born
  1288. 49:59did you care if it's easier all right
  1289. 50:02when CeCe was born it was more like all
  1290. 50:05right I know what I know a change of
  1291. 50:06time for I know how to do all this
  1292. 50:08really happens like I can I can do this
  1293. 50:10I can help like a lot
  1294. 50:12that's why I teach use more of a value
  1295. 50:13as well now like whenever she gets in
  1296. 50:16trouble it's just like she said
  1297. 50:19and she now gets mad because like all
  1298. 50:22right
  1299. 50:24cuddle her for when she gets in trouble
  1300. 50:26like she's in trouble like she just bit
  1301. 50:28Bella you know she just like hit no like
  1302. 50:30don't you know don't go don't don't cut
  1303. 50:33don't cuddle here that's the word collar
  1304. 50:36so that's like having them both around
  1305. 50:38is just like absolutely absolutely
  1306. 50:40amazing they're like two peas in a pot
  1307. 50:42like oh Celeste is more than
  1308. 50:43rambunctious
  1309. 50:44just like all out she either goes or
  1310. 50:48she's sleeping
  1311. 50:49so she's always always gets in trouble
  1312. 50:51always like trying to find someone to
  1313. 50:53climb jump off of like is that like you
  1314. 50:55or is that like shenan
  1315. 50:57that was more like me she's more of the
  1316. 50:59calm just like she's cautious type thing
  1317. 51:02like when Sushi I think set off a Bella
  1318. 51:05a little bit as far as like all right
  1319. 51:07she's she's my sister she's the younger
  1320. 51:10one she's or she's she's the youngest
  1321. 51:12person in here besides me type thing and
  1322. 51:15she's kind of set up off of her and some
  1323. 51:17of her friends that like you know came
  1324. 51:18over
  1325. 51:19and that Seafood just kind of like built
  1326. 51:22that that attitude she was just like
  1327. 51:24yeah she was she's around boxes
  1328. 51:26I'll show you a picture of it but like
  1329. 51:30when she's on the plane coming back I
  1330. 51:32mean she just had just like this space
  1331. 51:33like like that like so I don't like if
  1332. 51:36she was excited oh yeah it was just like
  1333. 51:39[ __ ] like being like
  1334. 51:40you can imagine a kid a little kid in a
  1335. 51:43plane and a seat like she feels like she
  1336. 51:46doesn't move around she doesn't like you
  1337. 51:48know sitting in the same spot type thing
  1338. 51:51and then um
  1339. 51:52then told me about the third child it
  1340. 51:55was just like her hopeless to see what
  1341. 51:57we got now see if we can for a girl I
  1342. 52:00mean we're trying for a boy so
  1343. 52:03now it's just like is it the point yeah
  1344. 52:07let me find that out that early or uh 12
  1345. 52:12weeks they could find out that she has
  1346. 52:14one
  1347. 52:15ultrasound was
  1348. 52:18last week
  1349. 52:20let's see
  1350. 52:22yeah it was last week so I found out
  1351. 52:25were you both therapists yes oh nice
  1352. 52:27yeah so it was like right when we got
  1353. 52:29back so it was like this guy went back
  1354. 52:32so it was only eight so I wasn't
  1355. 52:33interested on it
  1356. 52:36what day it is right now
  1357. 52:38March 15th today good thing about Monday
  1358. 52:41Tuesday Wednesday Sunday when all that
  1359. 52:43kind of stuff so like yeah we haven't
  1360. 52:44told anybody yet so
  1361. 52:46both the girls were born out here right
  1362. 52:49yes okay yeah I was born a Good
  1363. 52:51Samaritan
  1364. 52:53um since she was born this
  1365. 52:58did um go through any like postpartum or
  1366. 53:02anything like that with either of them
  1367. 53:03no no
  1368. 53:06I didn't see anything like that does she
  1369. 53:08breastfeed yes both of them yes
  1370. 53:11a little longer than Celeste so she was
  1371. 53:15so Bella was how old when she got
  1372. 53:18pregnant with
  1373. 53:20her left so they're about 19 months
  1374. 53:22apart
  1375. 53:32so
  1376. 53:37it is what it is
  1377. 53:39kind of thing
  1378. 53:41okay so keep going from after the left
  1379. 53:44was born
  1380. 53:45Dr Celeste was born I mean we we kind of
  1381. 53:47fought me like we kind of see how two
  1382. 53:49kids went just I mean they're just like
  1383. 53:51rambunctious you know they're just their
  1384. 53:53sister love and now they're four and
  1385. 53:57three that will be
  1386. 53:58five in December
  1387. 54:00so it was like if it happens it happens
  1388. 54:03as far as like having like cheese
  1389. 54:04fertility drugs on both balance lost oh
  1390. 54:06[ __ ] yeah okay like this the third child
  1391. 54:10now it was choose on like no matter
  1392. 54:13kick that versus the song Thrive like
  1393. 54:15she's helping she feels healthier now
  1394. 54:17and then like with with the Thrive she
  1395. 54:20really thinks that like I mean we only
  1396. 54:21tried like twice
  1397. 54:23and a half
  1398. 54:24so she really thinks that it was more
  1399. 54:26like being a healthier person
  1400. 54:29sometimes just having to stress off like
  1401. 54:31you know have my kids so this is just a
  1402. 54:33bonus oh yeah yeah I could definitely
  1403. 54:36like
  1404. 54:37it seems like a lot of women think oh or
  1405. 54:39you know we can't get pregnant and they
  1406. 54:40have a baby and then I you know they're
  1407. 54:42not worried about it anymore so I'm
  1408. 54:43gonna get pregnant again they're like oh
  1409. 54:45anything would happen again so yeah so
  1410. 54:48um tell me about after that so this is
  1411. 54:51like after we didn't think it would have
  1412. 54:53actually happened so like we really
  1413. 54:55think that I have being on like being a
  1414. 54:57healthier like lifestyle being healthier
  1415. 54:59really helped this like I mean always
  1416. 55:01really trying twice and the woman like
  1417. 55:03to happen so it's just been and when did
  1418. 55:05she find out she was pregnant
  1419. 55:07I would say it was in
  1420. 55:10all right first or second of June
  1421. 55:13okay it's not very long ago yeah and
  1422. 55:16she's about 14 15 weeks right now okay
  1423. 55:19so uh why don't you bring me up to let's
  1424. 55:22start why don't you start with like
  1425. 55:24um
  1426. 55:27if you guys went to North Carolina so
  1427. 55:29maybe just start for your from the trip
  1428. 55:31to North Carolina I guess you met her
  1429. 55:33there maybe from front of it is that
  1430. 55:34right yeah she was there
  1431. 55:37so we got back from we went to the drive
  1432. 55:39trip in San Diego it was like end of
  1433. 55:42June okay and then I think it was June
  1434. 55:4526th last time we came back here her dad
  1435. 55:47was watching the kids
  1436. 55:49and then that same like later on that
  1437. 55:51day they flew to North Carolina
  1438. 55:54okay so why don't you kind of start
  1439. 55:56there and just take me up until
  1440. 55:58yesterday okay and so detailed as you
  1441. 56:01can
  1442. 56:02so well they're in North Carolina it was
  1443. 56:04like they're there to see my family and
  1444. 56:06obviously her family and just kind of
  1445. 56:08like because they haven't seen the kids
  1446. 56:09in a while as far as our kids
  1447. 56:11and um so they're just there just she
  1448. 56:14had a couple things she wanted to do
  1449. 56:15there as far as like like meeting up
  1450. 56:17with her promoters and customers up she
  1451. 56:19had a bunch over there in North Carolina
  1452. 56:21so she was hoping that she could meet
  1453. 56:23everybody else over there and have like
  1454. 56:25her dad my her dad and mom and my mom
  1455. 56:28and dad might have fun so with kids
  1456. 56:39but yeah it was mainly like just a
  1457. 56:41little family like little family
  1458. 56:43vacation for for them right now for them
  1459. 56:46on that trip just for everybody just to
  1460. 56:48see the girls
  1461. 56:49Angela's birthday was during that in
  1462. 56:52July 17th so which they had a birthday
  1463. 56:54party there
  1464. 56:55with um like jumpy houses and stuff like
  1465. 56:58that and they FaceTime me during it so I
  1466. 57:00could see it and have a birthday party
  1467. 57:02out here for her because it was you know
  1468. 57:03when we got back it was in August so
  1469. 57:05right
  1470. 57:06so but yeah I got to FaceTime and watch
  1471. 57:08it all and it was pretty much just
  1472. 57:10hanging out with family the entire time
  1473. 57:11okay yeah and obviously you're just
  1474. 57:14going to work and working out and going
  1475. 57:16running and
  1476. 57:17just keeping
  1477. 57:19house up and doing that and just I
  1478. 57:21waited till my flight was July 31st
  1479. 57:25and I flew out there for a week and I
  1480. 57:28was off I flew out there for weeks so I
  1481. 57:30could fly back with them
  1482. 57:31so we went so July 31st I got there
  1483. 57:34instead of mom and dad's house the next
  1484. 57:36day we go to the beach stay there for
  1485. 57:39about
  1486. 57:40four or five days it was a North Myrtle
  1487. 57:42Beach
  1488. 57:43and we will first time the kids have
  1489. 57:45seen the beach so they're ecstatic
  1490. 57:48obviously seeing waves being being in
  1491. 57:51the sand they love sand
  1492. 57:52unfortunately I love sand because it's
  1493. 57:54just like you get it back you just got
  1494. 57:57some shower them up because PC was so
  1495. 57:59like into the the beach that means her
  1496. 58:01bathing suit was full of seashells
  1497. 58:04it looks like okay let's just get this
  1498. 58:06get all this off we need to rinse you
  1499. 58:07off please right
  1500. 58:09but yeah it was it was an awesome trip
  1501. 58:11like just seeing them react to the to
  1502. 58:14the ocean and then we went to like
  1503. 58:15Broadway at the Beach it was a like
  1504. 58:18outdoor little Mall
  1505. 58:19and they got to go in these like little
  1506. 58:22strapped in a harness and he gets to
  1507. 58:24jump and jump like jump higher yeah and
  1508. 58:27balance less they just they love that
  1509. 58:29they just love jumping that high it was
  1510. 58:31amazing nice yeah
  1511. 58:33and then um I got I went to see my
  1512. 58:36grandma my dad's mom she was in a
  1513. 58:38nursing home so it was like she's
  1514. 58:40someday she remembers people some babies
  1515. 58:42doesn't and luckily that day she did
  1516. 58:45remember me so that was that was really
  1517. 58:46a good day to go in there and went in
  1518. 58:50there with shenan and the kids and
  1519. 58:51obviously like date art and then there a
  1520. 58:53few times while they're there yeah and
  1521. 58:56they were uh she lights up when she sees
  1522. 58:58other kids mama
  1523. 59:01that's what she always calls but uh she
  1524. 59:03light ups it up and she sees your kids
  1525. 59:04and she remembered me and that was great
  1526. 59:07yeah and my dad came picked me up and I
  1527. 59:09went over there and stayed with my
  1528. 59:10parents for for a day and just kind of
  1529. 59:12like hung out with them saw my sister
  1530. 59:14her husband their kids have a cookout
  1531. 59:17everything and it was awesome
  1532. 59:19and then the next day we it was seven
  1533. 59:22yeah August 7th yeah we went to her
  1534. 59:25parents house and everything packed up
  1535. 59:26ready to go and
  1536. 59:28so back here
  1537. 59:30and then got back on later on that night
  1538. 59:34in the seventh
  1539. 59:35and then the eighth I went back to work
  1540. 59:37and then
  1541. 59:39on the 10th that's when shenando flew
  1542. 59:42out to Arizona with uh Nicole
  1543. 59:45and I have the kids from Friday Saturday
  1544. 59:48and Sunday and we went to a pool party
  1545. 59:50on Saturday but the Jeremy lindstrom's
  1546. 59:52uh
  1547. 59:53his sons turned four
  1548. 59:56and hello pool party and everything over
  1549. 59:57there we're all mini pool and water
  1550. 1:00:00balloon fights it was that epic time it
  1551. 1:00:02was great
  1552. 1:00:04it was awesome that was awesome it was
  1553. 1:00:05just seeing their faces and seeing how
  1554. 1:00:07much I mean they didn't even played with
  1555. 1:00:09water balloons that much at all so
  1556. 1:00:11CT like she would come over she like she
  1557. 1:00:13put them right in my pocket and she just
  1558. 1:00:15smacked it so I wasn't looking to do a
  1559. 1:00:18little trickster so it was
  1560. 1:00:20funny and drove home got back home ate
  1561. 1:00:24and it was a really awesome day
  1562. 1:00:30so that was that was on fun that was
  1563. 1:00:34that was on that Sunday
  1564. 1:00:36so got a kid back I'm all showed up I
  1565. 1:00:39got on the bed and it's pretty much
  1566. 1:00:41waited around for air functioning
  1567. 1:00:44because that was to fly back that night
  1568. 1:00:46and her plane got delayed because like
  1569. 1:00:49there's like there's a lot of dust
  1570. 1:00:50storms in Arizona
  1571. 1:00:52and uh there's like there's some other
  1572. 1:00:54weather around that was the lane flights
  1573. 1:00:55getting in there and they didn't have a
  1574. 1:00:57crew that's why it was it was delayed so
  1575. 1:00:59her flight was supposed to get around 11
  1576. 1:01:00but it didn't actually get until about
  1577. 1:01:02two
  1578. 1:01:03so it was about like you're gonna just
  1579. 1:01:05go into this now yeah Okay cool so it's
  1580. 1:01:08about two o'clock came into bed like
  1581. 1:01:10about 1 48 my doorbell uh picked up that
  1582. 1:01:13she came in but at 2 am that's when she
  1583. 1:01:15came in she came in the bed
  1584. 1:01:17and uh four o'clock got more answer my
  1585. 1:01:19alarm went off so that's why I usually
  1586. 1:01:21get up get ready for work and whatnot so
  1587. 1:01:23again I'll get dressed recipes deodorant
  1588. 1:01:27all that kind of I don't just take a
  1589. 1:01:28shower it's not working I'll be able to
  1590. 1:01:30feel but like I'll take a shower when I
  1591. 1:01:31get home
  1592. 1:01:32type thing and uh she told me the when
  1593. 1:01:35before she got in that like I want to
  1594. 1:01:37wake up you know like when you get up
  1595. 1:01:39just so I can take a shower and get the
  1596. 1:01:40airport off any type of thing
  1597. 1:01:42so like I woke her up after I got ready
  1598. 1:01:45and everything and then we had talks
  1599. 1:01:47about like uh
  1600. 1:01:48selling the house and about separation
  1601. 1:01:51and stuff like that like
  1602. 1:01:53it was an emotional conversation
  1603. 1:01:55obviously we were both crying and after
  1604. 1:01:59we talked it was
  1605. 1:02:01she said she's going to take the kids to
  1606. 1:02:03a friend's house and I should be back
  1607. 1:02:04later on that day
  1608. 1:02:05so it's like okay
  1609. 1:02:07that's fine so I went downstairs and
  1610. 1:02:10back in a lunch and
  1611. 1:02:12put on the water jug and get on my
  1612. 1:02:15computer and everything and loaded my
  1613. 1:02:17truck up and
  1614. 1:02:18I went to work
  1615. 1:02:21and then I got once I got to work
  1616. 1:02:23started started working in about seven
  1617. 1:02:26seven four years so that's my tax figure
  1618. 1:02:28like I didn't know I heard from her I
  1619. 1:02:30was like okay like I know where she's
  1620. 1:02:31going
  1621. 1:02:32like I know a friend's house she was
  1622. 1:02:34taken to or where she what what friends
  1623. 1:02:36she was going to with the kids so I was
  1624. 1:02:37like hey you know text me no let me know
  1625. 1:02:39where where you went through the kids
  1626. 1:02:42and I didn't hear from her thanks it's
  1627. 1:02:44normal for her not to respond to me
  1628. 1:02:46because like when she has her direct
  1629. 1:02:48sales direct sales people like she'll
  1630. 1:02:52get back to them first because like that
  1631. 1:02:54that's what she does
  1632. 1:02:56so like for her like not to respond back
  1633. 1:02:59to me that's about me plenty of times
  1634. 1:03:01before so um continue working in a
  1635. 1:03:04military exercise noon she hasn't got
  1636. 1:03:06back to me like hey you know call me
  1637. 1:03:07like I'll call her too I follow her once
  1638. 1:03:09before that too and then about 12 10
  1639. 1:03:12that's when I got a door bell alarm on
  1640. 1:03:14my phone saying someone was at the front
  1641. 1:03:16door and I was cold
  1642. 1:03:19and I was like hey what's going on so I
  1643. 1:03:21got her information like all day no tags
  1644. 1:03:23no calls no like this is kind of strange
  1645. 1:03:25so like Nicole was at the front door and
  1646. 1:03:27just okay your car is here I can see
  1647. 1:03:29your shoes like because we have this
  1648. 1:03:30little little rectangular Long window
  1649. 1:03:32next to the door
  1650. 1:03:34and she can see her she was right there
  1651. 1:03:35and whatnot so the guy has something
  1652. 1:03:36something going on so it's like she told
  1653. 1:03:38me she was like all right like I can't
  1654. 1:03:40get a holder or something going on
  1655. 1:03:41that's when I came home that's not
  1656. 1:03:43starting that's not allowed to come home
  1657. 1:03:45so um Nicole Coleman's like all right
  1658. 1:03:48I'm just basically the police officer
  1659. 1:03:50here when you get here like okay like I
  1660. 1:03:51was I couldn't get in because the latch
  1661. 1:03:53from the top door was that's what we
  1662. 1:03:56kind of put over just to make sure like
  1663. 1:03:57you know like if the kids try to go out
  1664. 1:03:59the front door they can because that's
  1665. 1:04:00fair
  1666. 1:04:01put the keypad on the outside of the
  1667. 1:04:03garage door doesn't work so like they
  1668. 1:04:05had to wait until I got there and had
  1669. 1:04:07the garage door opener it is we went and
  1670. 1:04:10found the house
  1671. 1:04:11and I mean cars there car seats are
  1672. 1:04:15there
  1673. 1:04:16purse is still there phone the phone's
  1674. 1:04:18on the couch like her wedding ring
  1675. 1:04:20sitting on the nightstand
  1676. 1:04:22it's like there's like no sign of Bella
  1677. 1:04:24Celeste or anywhere
  1678. 1:04:27it's like the police officers of the
  1679. 1:04:29police officer's name was but he was
  1680. 1:04:30there and there was just once we found
  1681. 1:04:32someone powered it up
  1682. 1:04:34and all the text messages like came
  1683. 1:04:36through as far as everybody was reaching
  1684. 1:04:38out to her and everything like hey
  1685. 1:04:39what's going on like we're okay
  1686. 1:04:40everything good
  1687. 1:04:42and there's just like there's nothing
  1688. 1:04:44there like it was just like it really
  1689. 1:04:45goes down
  1690. 1:04:47and everything that was there just
  1691. 1:04:49didn't make sense as far as like why
  1692. 1:04:51like what happened
  1693. 1:04:53so it's not like reaching out to a bunch
  1694. 1:04:54of people
  1695. 1:04:56any of your friends that like anybody
  1696. 1:04:58that has reached out already that you
  1697. 1:05:00know like had a car seat or like a very
  1698. 1:05:02kind of kid in general and nobody heard
  1699. 1:05:05from her nobody uh
  1700. 1:05:07I mean nobody had a clue like her mom
  1701. 1:05:09had reached out to her and my parents
  1702. 1:05:12I mean nothing was there
  1703. 1:05:15and the uh the officers that bomb bomb
  1704. 1:05:19over
  1705. 1:05:21detected I'm not sure if you know that
  1706. 1:05:22people are involved
  1707. 1:05:24um yeah I can't
  1708. 1:05:25really oh yeah I think that detective he
  1709. 1:05:28came and uh they're all like you know
  1710. 1:05:30taking questions from me Nicole her son
  1711. 1:05:33Victor's there and then uh we went over
  1712. 1:05:35to uh they talked to my neighbor because
  1713. 1:05:37he has a camera facing he picks up a few
  1714. 1:05:40different angles and whatnot
  1715. 1:05:42and uh watch this video surveillance to
  1716. 1:05:45see anything as far as her leaving at
  1717. 1:05:47all
  1718. 1:05:48so they're just like all right like like
  1719. 1:05:50where like how like how this happened
  1720. 1:05:53like like there's no like
  1721. 1:05:56video of her like leading the front at
  1722. 1:05:58all
  1723. 1:06:00so we're just we didn't know we were
  1724. 1:06:02just at loss for words like all right
  1725. 1:06:03where is he like she wouldn't mislead
  1726. 1:06:05everything here
  1727. 1:06:07his medicine was still there
  1728. 1:06:09and those like artists need that
  1729. 1:06:12or just the only female has gone was
  1730. 1:06:14really the kids like everything they
  1731. 1:06:16slept with like you know Celeste has
  1732. 1:06:18like this New York Yankees blanket and a
  1733. 1:06:21little dinosaur and like a little dog
  1734. 1:06:24that
  1735. 1:06:25that makes noises and a turtle and
  1736. 1:06:28something that is a whole package and
  1737. 1:06:31Bella has two has two black keys but one
  1738. 1:06:34was still at the house the other one was
  1739. 1:06:35gone and she had the dinosaur and like a
  1740. 1:06:37little swan blanket for a little but we
  1741. 1:06:41were we talked to the neighbor and we
  1742. 1:06:42looked out at anybody else that maybe
  1743. 1:06:44had that camera somewhere but nothing
  1744. 1:06:45was going on they had other community
  1745. 1:06:48services like go into houses like like
  1746. 1:06:51knock out you like to see anything like
  1747. 1:06:53you have a camera do you see anything
  1748. 1:06:55like that
  1749. 1:06:57yeah we just we had nothing at all
  1750. 1:06:59and it was just like all right so I'm at
  1751. 1:07:02this point I'm hoping right she's at a
  1752. 1:07:04friend's house
  1753. 1:07:05she's safe and she's just like
  1754. 1:07:07decompressing her like she's just she's
  1755. 1:07:10safe
  1756. 1:07:11felt like that night like as I'm like
  1757. 1:07:13calling like hospitals and hotels and
  1758. 1:07:15it's like there's like there's nothing
  1759. 1:07:17like
  1760. 1:07:18it's nothing there's nothing there like
  1761. 1:07:20nobody's nobody's had her check in you
  1762. 1:07:23know what there's nothing at all
  1763. 1:07:25and then that was just dramatic because
  1764. 1:07:27like
  1765. 1:07:28I had I had every line in the house on
  1766. 1:07:30just just in case like you know like
  1767. 1:07:32yeah I went laid in bed but I didn't
  1768. 1:07:34sleep I was just sitting there it was
  1769. 1:07:36like I had friends that came over Nick
  1770. 1:07:38and Amanda came over for a little while
  1771. 1:07:39and they showed support my friends Dave
  1772. 1:07:41and Jeremy came over they showed support
  1773. 1:07:44uh she answered Lauren came over to
  1774. 1:07:46support another friend uh Melissa came
  1775. 1:07:49by that I didn't know that she's so
  1776. 1:07:51support and everybody's just like I
  1777. 1:07:53don't know like why this happened or how
  1778. 1:07:55this happened but like
  1779. 1:07:56I hope that she's okay type thing and
  1780. 1:08:00just like I was just hoping that I would
  1781. 1:08:01get that knocked on the door or a phone
  1782. 1:08:04call or a text I mean her phone I mean
  1783. 1:08:06they have her phone like hopefully maybe
  1784. 1:08:08it's a number I don't know
  1785. 1:08:09hopefully it's like you know like a
  1786. 1:08:12burner phone or some some kind of some
  1787. 1:08:14kind of like funky box you could just
  1788. 1:08:17text me and call me like hey I'm okay
  1789. 1:08:19something or just get a knock on a door
  1790. 1:08:21and then the kids is running
  1791. 1:08:23and I was like like it didn't happen and
  1792. 1:08:25when I was
  1793. 1:08:27going through like that night just like
  1794. 1:08:29trying to she's trying to process
  1795. 1:08:31everything like
  1796. 1:08:33I miss like the kids like sitting at the
  1797. 1:08:36dinner table and like
  1798. 1:08:37I have to tell them to eat their dinner
  1799. 1:08:39and
  1800. 1:08:40like I miss them throwing a chicken
  1801. 1:08:42nuggets at me like I was when I went to
  1802. 1:08:44their rooms
  1803. 1:08:45just kind of like you know make the beds
  1804. 1:08:48it's like I wasn't gonna turn the ring
  1805. 1:08:51machines on you know like I wasn't like
  1806. 1:08:52you know gonna read them a book
  1807. 1:08:55I wasn't gonna like I wasn't gonna kiss
  1808. 1:08:57him good night I wasn't gonna like you
  1809. 1:08:59know do that that was gonna play in the
  1810. 1:09:01playroom I wasn't giving them like their
  1811. 1:09:03nighties not like their nighttime snack
  1812. 1:09:04I wasn't you know giving their medicine
  1813. 1:09:07I wasn't you know getting a dress for
  1814. 1:09:08bed and how all that like just it just
  1815. 1:09:11hit me
  1816. 1:09:12it's like I'm not I'm not trying to
  1817. 1:09:14monitor on to watch them because they're
  1818. 1:09:16not here it's like where are they
  1819. 1:09:19and then I was just like I didn't even
  1820. 1:09:21want to stay in the house that night but
  1821. 1:09:22I knew I knew I had to just in case like
  1822. 1:09:25maybe they came home maybe they they
  1823. 1:09:27would come in that front door garage
  1824. 1:09:29door or something
  1825. 1:09:31something would happen
  1826. 1:09:33but nothing happened at night
  1827. 1:09:35so I just laid in bed and took phone
  1828. 1:09:39calls and text from all our friends that
  1829. 1:09:41were I couldn't sleep either and just
  1830. 1:09:43like just
  1831. 1:09:45asking for prayers asking prayers in
  1832. 1:09:47general just like these kids and are
  1833. 1:09:49gonna come home they're gonna come home
  1834. 1:09:51safe
  1835. 1:09:53and the next day
  1836. 1:09:55well detective he called me about 2 A.M
  1837. 1:09:58just saying okay we're gonna do like a
  1838. 1:09:59missing persons report and
  1839. 1:10:01I'll do that I'll get that all going
  1840. 1:10:04there
  1841. 1:10:05but yeah it's like the next day like
  1842. 1:10:08when everything like started happening
  1843. 1:10:10as far as
  1844. 1:10:12the news crew is like pulling in and
  1845. 1:10:14then
  1846. 1:10:15all the canine units and the drones
  1847. 1:10:18flying over my house so it was just like
  1848. 1:10:19it all said in like this is not
  1849. 1:10:23she's she's not
  1850. 1:10:26making something happened
  1851. 1:10:28because all this all this right here
  1852. 1:10:31this means that okay my worst fear
  1853. 1:10:35that's where this is going right now
  1854. 1:10:37because I thought she was just at
  1855. 1:10:38somebody's house and she was safe
  1856. 1:10:41but now
  1857. 1:10:43it's going down the other direction with
  1858. 1:10:45all this going around with the dogs
  1859. 1:10:47coming in with the news
  1860. 1:10:49the news media everything just kind of
  1861. 1:10:50happening it's like all right this is
  1862. 1:10:51this has gone to a totally different
  1863. 1:10:53totally different direction
  1864. 1:10:56and it's like I was I was when all my
  1865. 1:10:59friends like were coming over to give me
  1866. 1:11:00some support
  1867. 1:11:03I knew that like
  1868. 1:11:04all right like I was happy all my
  1869. 1:11:07friends came over to support I didn't
  1870. 1:11:08want to be alone at that point in time
  1871. 1:11:09like this like that's this is the time
  1872. 1:11:11you don't want to be alone at all
  1873. 1:11:14and my friends are supporting me all
  1874. 1:11:16through this and
  1875. 1:11:17I just want to find them
  1876. 1:11:19I want them to come home safe like
  1877. 1:11:21wherever they are I hope they are safe
  1878. 1:11:23they're really I really hope they can
  1879. 1:11:26just come home
  1880. 1:11:28at the FBI agent uh Graham
  1881. 1:11:32he's he's been really helpful I mean he
  1882. 1:11:34didn't tell me what league they have for
  1883. 1:11:35today but I'm hoping that it
  1884. 1:11:39at least I'm coming home
  1885. 1:11:41because it just
  1886. 1:11:44being in the house and not being able to
  1887. 1:11:46tuck them in
  1888. 1:11:48it's just it's it's heart-wrenching it's
  1889. 1:11:51very shattering right now because that's
  1890. 1:11:53those are my kids
  1891. 1:11:55those are like like you made those kids
  1892. 1:11:57you know like how do you have kids or
  1893. 1:11:59anything you guys like do you know so
  1894. 1:12:02like
  1895. 1:12:03just
  1896. 1:12:04not being able to like you know kiss
  1897. 1:12:06them unite and
  1898. 1:12:08saying I love your daddy or I miss you
  1899. 1:12:10daddy or something like that
  1900. 1:12:12you know because they were without me
  1901. 1:12:13for five weeks
  1902. 1:12:16and uh it was I got to FaceTime him
  1903. 1:12:18every night
  1904. 1:12:20it was just
  1905. 1:12:22not not being able to do anything like
  1906. 1:12:24knowing that
  1907. 1:12:25they were just here and not knowing
  1908. 1:12:28where they are now
  1909. 1:12:30is it's a nightmare right now
  1910. 1:12:34so
  1911. 1:12:36um thank you for explaining all that to
  1912. 1:12:38me um obviously I have more questions so
  1913. 1:12:41I may kind of piece it out um just going
  1914. 1:12:43back to shall I understand everything
  1915. 1:12:47um and you you kept saying that you
  1916. 1:12:49thought she was at a friend's house do
  1917. 1:12:50you still think she's at a friend's
  1918. 1:12:51house at this point at all
  1919. 1:12:54because all this like everything that's
  1920. 1:12:56happened now so what does that make you
  1921. 1:12:58think of
  1922. 1:12:59it just makes me feel like either she
  1923. 1:13:02vanished like she she's had the kids and
  1924. 1:13:05she's somewhere where like maybe
  1925. 1:13:08hopefully a hotel but I don't think
  1926. 1:13:10she's at a friend's house now unless
  1927. 1:13:11it's somebody I just don't know
  1928. 1:13:12like for somebody I don't know great
  1929. 1:13:14like I just want her to be safe
  1930. 1:13:17but with all FBI here with you know CBI
  1931. 1:13:20here with everything that's going on
  1932. 1:13:22like
  1933. 1:13:24it makes me feel like all right maybe
  1934. 1:13:26somebody has her that's not that's not
  1935. 1:13:30keeping her safe
  1936. 1:13:32or something terrible to happen
  1937. 1:13:34and that is that's the nightmare
  1938. 1:13:38and what was that terrible thing be
  1939. 1:13:41and somebody hurt them
  1940. 1:13:46that run into your mind sometimes
  1941. 1:13:52I can't I don't want that around through
  1942. 1:13:54my mind but it's
  1943. 1:13:56it's running through my mind that
  1944. 1:13:57somebody has heard them
  1945. 1:13:59and that they are not safe
  1946. 1:14:02I don't really want them to be safe I
  1947. 1:14:04want them to go home right we want them
  1948. 1:14:07to come home too
  1949. 1:14:09um so glitch let's kind of break it down
  1950. 1:14:12back to
  1951. 1:14:13um
  1952. 1:14:14when shananne went to
  1953. 1:14:17Arizona so what was she in there Arizona
  1954. 1:14:19for Thrive local oh yeah I've been down
  1955. 1:14:22there with some of the upline leaders
  1956. 1:14:24okay so she mostly women like you know
  1957. 1:14:27other people that work for her you know
  1958. 1:14:29download people people are blind people
  1959. 1:14:32and all that okay and they just you know
  1960. 1:14:34get fill their cup I guess for lack of a
  1961. 1:14:37better term when they get there and they
  1962. 1:14:39you know cheer them on and like you can
  1963. 1:14:41get more and whatever and
  1964. 1:14:44I guess do they teach them about new
  1965. 1:14:46products yeah although there's a lot of
  1966. 1:14:47training videos involved whether like
  1967. 1:14:49how to talk to people and stuff like
  1968. 1:14:50that and bring in more people type
  1969. 1:14:51things like did shanan make a lot of
  1970. 1:14:53money doing this yes
  1971. 1:14:57really yeah and how much is that because
  1972. 1:15:00I don't know how much you weighs about
  1973. 1:15:0265 70. okay did she make that much right
  1974. 1:15:05wow
  1975. 1:15:07how many people does she have underneath
  1976. 1:15:09her
  1977. 1:15:10like
  1978. 1:15:12people that signed up underneath it are
  1979. 1:15:14probably about 200.
  1980. 1:15:16but like active people that promote it
  1981. 1:15:18it's I mean it's probably about 50 or so
  1982. 1:15:20but like she has her team does about 80
  1983. 1:15:24000 a month in sales yeah that's crazy
  1984. 1:15:28sorry about that
  1985. 1:15:29um okay so she's at this conference um
  1986. 1:15:33see even before that like
  1987. 1:15:35um
  1988. 1:15:36you know you said that you've kind of
  1989. 1:15:38talked about you know separating or
  1990. 1:15:40whatever when she got into bed or after
  1991. 1:15:43you woke up
  1992. 1:15:44um
  1993. 1:15:45when did that start
  1994. 1:15:47well in the five weeks that we were like
  1995. 1:15:51when she was in North Carolina and I was
  1996. 1:15:52back here and when did she leave for
  1997. 1:15:54North Carolina what was that date
  1998. 1:15:57June 26th to the end of June yeah okay
  1999. 1:16:01so she leaves for in June and not when
  2000. 1:16:05yeah yeah like being
  2001. 1:16:07but when we were talking and everything
  2002. 1:16:09and texting and calling each other like
  2003. 1:16:11we could feel like there was like that
  2004. 1:16:14disconnect there and like over that
  2005. 1:16:17period of time like it our conversations
  2006. 1:16:20were shorter text messages were a little
  2007. 1:16:22bit less you know like
  2008. 1:16:23like more like emotional type thing you
  2009. 1:16:25know more a little bit less lovey-dovey
  2010. 1:16:27type things so explain like even
  2011. 1:16:30even was there any other issue
  2012. 1:16:35issue after eruption now yeah I mean
  2013. 1:16:37like like over a year ago you know it's
  2014. 1:16:39more of like you know I could see that
  2015. 1:16:41maybe or it wasn't like as hot and heavy
  2016. 1:16:43as as like you know as it was when we
  2017. 1:16:45first met you know that spark and
  2018. 1:16:47everything like that
  2019. 1:16:48but like you know like you know like you
  2020. 1:16:50study ups and downs marriages like you
  2021. 1:16:52know they have their roles and they have
  2022. 1:16:53their eyes
  2023. 1:16:54and I also hoping that we we can just
  2024. 1:16:56like we could just like it would just
  2025. 1:16:59work itself out like this is hard with
  2026. 1:17:01babies and you know yeah I mean yeah
  2027. 1:17:03when when the kids are involved a little
  2028. 1:17:05bit harder a lot harder and just as far
  2029. 1:17:07as like your time away from your spouse
  2030. 1:17:10and you know just trying to make time
  2031. 1:17:12for them and you know give them
  2032. 1:17:13emotional attention and that kind of
  2033. 1:17:15stuff I know that I kind of can get
  2034. 1:17:17strained did you feel that once you
  2035. 1:17:19started having kids or
  2036. 1:17:22yeah we didn't like like go on dates
  2037. 1:17:24really a whole lot after we had kids
  2038. 1:17:26because I mean we'll just you know kids
  2039. 1:17:28kids monopolize a lot of their time like
  2040. 1:17:30you take up a lot so it's like you want
  2041. 1:17:32to focus like right on your kids all the
  2042. 1:17:33time
  2043. 1:17:34and that's what we did and we really
  2044. 1:17:36focus on ourselves much I think that's
  2045. 1:17:38where like I'm not gonna blame the kids
  2046. 1:17:41for a disconnection or anything but like
  2047. 1:17:43yeah we focus like on the kids like all
  2048. 1:17:45the time
  2049. 1:17:46but like and then like as our
  2050. 1:17:48relationship got longer and longer it
  2051. 1:17:50was more like like I could feel that
  2052. 1:17:52disconnect that was there like when I
  2053. 1:17:54talk like we didn't have those deep
  2054. 1:17:56conversations anymore like you know
  2055. 1:17:58anything like that
  2056. 1:18:00but like that's that's when it kind of
  2057. 1:18:02all started and I was hoping that you
  2058. 1:18:04know maybe it just just worked itself
  2059. 1:18:05out and being like we're not those five
  2060. 1:18:08weeks when she was in North Carolina and
  2061. 1:18:10I was here like I could feel it more
  2062. 1:18:12like tell me about that what do you mean
  2063. 1:18:14by that so like you could feel like the
  2064. 1:18:16disconnect more like in the
  2065. 1:18:17conversations we were having and like
  2066. 1:18:18they were just short and like
  2067. 1:18:21it felt like you know like we were
  2068. 1:18:23texting each other and nothing was the
  2069. 1:18:25same as far as that goes like calling
  2070. 1:18:27each other Nothing Was the Same
  2071. 1:18:29and you can when I got there definitely
  2072. 1:18:32all you can kind of all like when we
  2073. 1:18:34were talking it was just nothing I'll
  2074. 1:18:36tell you about that like what does it
  2075. 1:18:37seem like when you got out there like
  2076. 1:18:39when I got out there it was just like
  2077. 1:18:40you could feel like you know get to the
  2078. 1:18:42airport you know just wrap the kids like
  2079. 1:18:44around maybe if they come running they
  2080. 1:18:46come running through the alarm and
  2081. 1:18:48everything they'd run into a place I
  2082. 1:18:49couldn't even run into and you know
  2083. 1:18:52digital hog and everything and then like
  2084. 1:18:54engagement a hug and everything and just
  2085. 1:18:56like you can just feel it start from
  2086. 1:18:57there like everything just felt like
  2087. 1:18:58different
  2088. 1:19:02right then but like after that it was
  2089. 1:19:04just like every day every night it was
  2090. 1:19:06more of like a
  2091. 1:19:08we talked but it was like mainly it was
  2092. 1:19:11through text
  2093. 1:19:12like not when you were there
  2094. 1:19:14yeah yeah because it was more like like
  2095. 1:19:16whenever we would talk about like power
  2096. 1:19:18feeling it was more of like we were just
  2097. 1:19:21text back and forth type of thing
  2098. 1:19:22because like that's all that's how we
  2099. 1:19:24could get our feelings more across
  2100. 1:19:25because Vermont everybody was still
  2101. 1:19:26there like we weren't really alone
  2102. 1:19:28because her parents were there
  2103. 1:19:30so when you tell me about like when did
  2104. 1:19:32that first text you know like what was
  2105. 1:19:34that first text like as far as like one
  2106. 1:19:36of you you know deciding to talk to the
  2107. 1:19:39other one about maybe separating or you
  2108. 1:19:41know not feeling great about your
  2109. 1:19:42relationship or whatever like who was
  2110. 1:19:44that first person that said that text
  2111. 1:19:46and what did that text look like it'll
  2112. 1:19:48stop you on our phone but it was so when
  2113. 1:19:50I got there it was July 31st went to the
  2114. 1:19:53beach August 1st and her dad was there
  2115. 1:19:55for a few days and her mom came down so
  2116. 1:19:57they were they were never really like
  2117. 1:19:59alone with like alone together so that's
  2118. 1:20:02why some of our conversations were
  2119. 1:20:04through text as far as that goes so why
  2120. 1:20:06you're both there together
  2121. 1:20:08and what what were those texts about
  2122. 1:20:11like what did they say it's kind of like
  2123. 1:20:12you know
  2124. 1:20:14where is our relationship going that
  2125. 1:20:16thing like where like like we're
  2126. 1:20:19bringing a third kid into this world
  2127. 1:20:20like
  2128. 1:20:21like
  2129. 1:20:22what's what's our relationship going to
  2130. 1:20:24look like like is it gonna be are we
  2131. 1:20:27gonna be
  2132. 1:20:29are we going to work this out
  2133. 1:20:31or is this going to lead to a separation
  2134. 1:20:34is this going to lead to where like we
  2135. 1:20:36stay together and be civil with the kids
  2136. 1:20:38or are we gonna be our separate ways and
  2137. 1:20:43stuff like that okay what was she what
  2138. 1:20:45was her reaction to all that
  2139. 1:20:48it was I mean a lot of it was emotional
  2140. 1:20:51it was a lot of crying it was just like
  2141. 1:20:53I'm not sure like
  2142. 1:20:55how to word that but it was more of a
  2143. 1:20:58what are we going to do like
  2144. 1:21:01how are we going to make can we how are
  2145. 1:21:03we going to make this work so your wife
  2146. 1:21:04wanted to make it work we both wanted to
  2147. 1:21:07see like all right is this going to make
  2148. 1:21:09it work is this going to work like are
  2149. 1:21:10we still at that point in our
  2150. 1:21:13relationship where we're going to make
  2151. 1:21:15this work
  2152. 1:21:17so like when she went to when she went
  2153. 1:21:20to Arizona so you can find it in a bunch
  2154. 1:21:21of her friends as far as like what was
  2155. 1:21:23going on
  2156. 1:21:24as far as like where our relationship
  2157. 1:21:26was and how do you know that yeah what's
  2158. 1:21:28once The Disappearance happened like
  2159. 1:21:30that like I didn't know if they knew or
  2160. 1:21:33not they reached out to you and told you
  2161. 1:21:35the thing well I told him like you know
  2162. 1:21:37we were you know
  2163. 1:21:38going to go through like with a
  2164. 1:21:39separation and everything like oh we
  2165. 1:21:41know you guys were
  2166. 1:21:43having some issues there and everything
  2167. 1:21:45like oh okay I didn't know did they tell
  2168. 1:21:48you what Chan had said no they said they
  2169. 1:21:51just like they saw her like into her
  2170. 1:21:53emotional state it wasn't the same as
  2171. 1:21:55far as like
  2172. 1:21:56they could tell if something was like it
  2173. 1:21:58was different about her so in North
  2174. 1:21:59Carolina is that the first time you guys
  2175. 1:22:01have ever talked about maybe not being
  2176. 1:22:03together and maybe you know figuring out
  2177. 1:22:05life separately yeah okay and was that
  2178. 1:22:09more would you say you bringing it up to
  2179. 1:22:11her or her okay
  2180. 1:22:15did she ask you why like why now you
  2181. 1:22:18know
  2182. 1:22:20what what did you say back to her yeah
  2183. 1:22:23it was more of just like I didn't feel
  2184. 1:22:25that I didn't feel that connection
  2185. 1:22:26anymore like I like fell at a love kind
  2186. 1:22:29of thing or oh yeah yeah it was more of
  2187. 1:22:32like I don't feel the same way that I
  2188. 1:22:35used to like I don't
  2189. 1:22:37I don't think we have that connection
  2190. 1:22:38anymore we're like I can just like be
  2191. 1:22:41myself and just like be everything that
  2192. 1:22:44I need to be for you right now and
  2193. 1:22:46that's that's not where I explained it
  2194. 1:22:48to her
  2195. 1:22:49and she said what
  2196. 1:22:52she didn't like know really what to say
  2197. 1:22:54or just like I I don't know I didn't see
  2198. 1:22:58it but it's like I want to work on it
  2199. 1:23:01and I wanna
  2200. 1:23:03see where this can go like if we can fix
  2201. 1:23:06it like
  2202. 1:23:07like you know through a book or like
  2203. 1:23:09counseling or
  2204. 1:23:11so after your conversation with her it
  2205. 1:23:13was your this is in North Carolina right
  2206. 1:23:15the belief that you guys would try and
  2207. 1:23:17work on it together just to see if it
  2208. 1:23:20would kind of work or just kind of like
  2209. 1:23:22see where this like like will take this
  2210. 1:23:23week like because it was an emotional
  2211. 1:23:25week just because of everything we were
  2212. 1:23:27saying and like what we were what we
  2213. 1:23:29were thinking like and all that
  2214. 1:23:31especially bringing another kid into the
  2215. 1:23:33world
  2216. 1:23:34it's like we want that environment to be
  2217. 1:23:36as like healthy as possible sure
  2218. 1:23:40do you guys I'm sorry for being here I
  2219. 1:23:42might as well pump this up a little bit
  2220. 1:23:44um
  2221. 1:23:46did you guys sleep in the same bed
  2222. 1:23:50and uh
  2223. 1:23:52and milk or North Carolina yeah yeah
  2224. 1:23:54like there's there's a couple I slept in
  2225. 1:23:56the kids room one time or slept in the
  2226. 1:23:58kids room one time
  2227. 1:24:00and I slept on the couch another time is
  2228. 1:24:02it just because of the attention it was
  2229. 1:24:03a thought there was a there's tension in
  2230. 1:24:05there and then when we got here
  2231. 1:24:08but when you're there like did you guys
  2232. 1:24:10have sex at all or no no okay were you
  2233. 1:24:14guys affectionate after the kiss at the
  2234. 1:24:16airport not really okay that's right
  2235. 1:24:18that's where we could feel like it
  2236. 1:24:20wasn't like
  2237. 1:24:21it wasn't really there at that point in
  2238. 1:24:23time
  2239. 1:24:23okay and up until the point where she
  2240. 1:24:25left was it you know affectionate and
  2241. 1:24:30you know I mean what was your sex life
  2242. 1:24:32like
  2243. 1:24:33I mean it was I mean last time we had
  2244. 1:24:36sex was in like may like when the kid
  2245. 1:24:38was born our kid was conceived so that
  2246. 1:24:42would have been in me that would have
  2247. 1:24:43been like because she found out exactly
  2248. 1:24:46a week of June so it had been like May
  2249. 1:24:49and was there a
  2250. 1:24:50celebration or something that you know
  2251. 1:24:53you're gonna go out do you have a date
  2252. 1:24:55I'll show you after a few shirts but you
  2253. 1:24:58know it had like a you know
  2254. 1:25:00um is it like that coefficient of three
  2255. 1:25:03type thing
  2256. 1:25:05um she had a couple shirts made all of
  2257. 1:25:06one of them was a back rub type thing
  2258. 1:25:09but if
  2259. 1:25:12if like what was there something special
  2260. 1:25:14about that we had you know talked about
  2261. 1:25:17like having like going through pros and
  2262. 1:25:20cons of having another another child
  2263. 1:25:22and but like we didn't like have like a
  2264. 1:25:24celebration like of having surgery so
  2265. 1:25:27you guys like so you were talking about
  2266. 1:25:28maybe having another kid yeah and then
  2267. 1:25:30you were actually trying that night to
  2268. 1:25:32have another kid yeah I think I have
  2269. 1:25:34people waited until she was like
  2270. 1:25:36it was like when she was like ovulating
  2271. 1:25:38next thing was she keeping track of that
  2272. 1:25:40yeah she always has that one LCD right
  2273. 1:25:43like a cycle tracker okay type thing and
  2274. 1:25:46it tells you okay so did you find that
  2275. 1:25:49sex was more like a job or did you
  2276. 1:25:52really enjoy it with your wife as far as
  2277. 1:25:54well I I never felt like it was a task
  2278. 1:25:56okay like even like we're gonna do it
  2279. 1:25:58now because I need to get pregnant
  2280. 1:26:00whatever no like no it wasn't like I
  2281. 1:26:02mean whenever you're trying to
  2282. 1:26:04have a kid I mean you have to like plan
  2283. 1:26:07that part
  2284. 1:26:08as far as that goes because like you
  2285. 1:26:10can't just like you know have like every
  2286. 1:26:12day or twice a day like to get pregnant
  2287. 1:26:14you have to like once and then kind of
  2288. 1:26:16wait two days or so whatever the formula
  2289. 1:26:19is I think she said you have to wait
  2290. 1:26:21like two days and then try again okay
  2291. 1:26:23but that's what that was okay so before
  2292. 1:26:26that time in May how often would you say
  2293. 1:26:29that you guys were having sex
  2294. 1:26:31maybe like
  2295. 1:26:33once or twice a week okay
  2296. 1:26:36so why do you think it significantly
  2297. 1:26:38stopped right after she conceived
  2298. 1:26:43it was
  2299. 1:26:45kind of harm stuff because we went
  2300. 1:26:47through spark little Spurs where like
  2301. 1:26:48maybe it wasn't like at once every well
  2302. 1:26:51every well once or twice a week like
  2303. 1:26:54there's times we went like a month or
  2304. 1:26:55two like
  2305. 1:26:56without without having sex like and
  2306. 1:27:00sometimes like I would try and that
  2307. 1:27:02would you know if she was tired or you
  2308. 1:27:04know something was going on like she was
  2309. 1:27:06just aggravated or something she was
  2310. 1:27:07like I know not tonight like type thing
  2311. 1:27:09like I was usually the one to initiate
  2312. 1:27:11it like but I'd say most times it was
  2313. 1:27:15like I was shot down but
  2314. 1:27:17that's me
  2315. 1:27:19married life honestly we just kept
  2316. 1:27:21trying yeah you try I mean like you
  2317. 1:27:23never stop trying because I mean that's
  2318. 1:27:25I mean if you felt like it was a job or
  2319. 1:27:27a task you wouldn't drive but like you
  2320. 1:27:30know I I enjoyed having having sex with
  2321. 1:27:33her so I mean it was as far as like
  2322. 1:27:37um
  2323. 1:27:38North Carolina goes like when you guys
  2324. 1:27:40kind of approach the subject of maybe
  2325. 1:27:42you know separating or whatever
  2326. 1:27:45um did she accuse you of you know
  2327. 1:27:48because I mean I think it'd be normal
  2328. 1:27:49why she reacts to be like who is it like
  2329. 1:27:52you know like the chick or whatever yeah
  2330. 1:27:54I mean like that that kind of came up
  2331. 1:27:56you know like I was just like you know
  2332. 1:27:58that would never happen like you know
  2333. 1:28:00the kind of guy I am like you like we
  2334. 1:28:02were at all that um one of my friends
  2335. 1:28:04house Jeremy and he said like you know
  2336. 1:28:05you're the type of guy that I could send
  2337. 1:28:07you with my wife for a week and no
  2338. 1:28:09nothing was gonna happen type thing like
  2339. 1:28:12they know people know the kind of person
  2340. 1:28:13I am the solid guy yeah like I'm not the
  2341. 1:28:16type of guy that's just gonna say all
  2342. 1:28:18right my wife's gone like who's then
  2343. 1:28:20who's the girl like I didn't find for
  2344. 1:28:23like five weeks like no that's not me
  2345. 1:28:25it's like I respect my wife and she
  2346. 1:28:27respects me like she's I there's no
  2347. 1:28:30anything that she could she could like
  2348. 1:28:32like if she's somewhere safe right now
  2349. 1:28:33like I don't think it would be with a
  2350. 1:28:37guy I mean if it is I'm fine like I
  2351. 1:28:40wanted to say I want the kids back home
  2352. 1:28:41if it was with the guy great I'll come
  2353. 1:28:43back home we'll talk about that later
  2354. 1:28:46but like I never had inkling she would
  2355. 1:28:49do the thing do anything to me you know
  2356. 1:28:51so how did that come up from her like
  2357. 1:28:52what exactly did she say to you because
  2358. 1:28:55of our like how like our texts and calls
  2359. 1:28:58were getting like shorter and everything
  2360. 1:28:59like that like just like like are you
  2361. 1:29:02having something no not having an affair
  2362. 1:29:04like that is the last thing that should
  2363. 1:29:05be on your mind you should bring up any
  2364. 1:29:07other I guess in a woman's mind evidence
  2365. 1:29:10as far as you know why she would think
  2366. 1:29:13there would be someone else involved or
  2367. 1:29:14anything like that no it's just gonna
  2368. 1:29:16like I was like whenever like she would
  2369. 1:29:18call sometimes I'd be out for a run or
  2370. 1:29:19I'd be working out and she could tell
  2371. 1:29:21like all right you don't want to talk to
  2372. 1:29:23me right now let's just go work out type
  2373. 1:29:25things like
  2374. 1:29:26like when she was gone I would take that
  2375. 1:29:28more time to kind of like you know go
  2376. 1:29:30like go run go work out because I mean I
  2377. 1:29:33had had time to do it type of thing like
  2378. 1:29:36I would always make time to FaceTime
  2379. 1:29:37with the kids and everything when she
  2380. 1:29:38would call like you know I would always
  2381. 1:29:39make time to do this like especially
  2382. 1:29:41like when the kids are awake and
  2383. 1:29:42everything like that sure likes you like
  2384. 1:29:45like later on at night you know like
  2385. 1:29:46when I would just sun goes down I go out
  2386. 1:29:48for a run because hot outside
  2387. 1:29:52and what she accuse you of like doing
  2388. 1:29:54other stuff while you're not answering
  2389. 1:29:56your phone or oh no like she was like
  2390. 1:29:58you know she would ask me like hey can
  2391. 1:30:00you like do this for me like can you
  2392. 1:30:02find this like medication send me a
  2393. 1:30:04picture of it
  2394. 1:30:06can you like like find something at the
  2395. 1:30:09hell I mean a little thing by that she
  2396. 1:30:11knew it was a house
  2397. 1:30:12so I mean it's like
  2398. 1:30:14um and she had no reason to really have
  2399. 1:30:16that
  2400. 1:30:17that fear in her head but being away for
  2401. 1:30:19you know
  2402. 1:30:20that amount of time and being pregnant
  2403. 1:30:23and like that's going to run through her
  2404. 1:30:25mind
  2405. 1:30:26you ever been away that long before
  2406. 1:30:29okay you talk about you know her being
  2407. 1:30:31pregnant or whatever like how was she
  2408. 1:30:33different when she was pregnant than
  2409. 1:30:35when she wasn't pregnant
  2410. 1:30:36well I guess it's just you're just more
  2411. 1:30:38more emotional in general
  2412. 1:30:41I just want to make sure
  2413. 1:30:44okay
  2414. 1:30:46um more emotional oh yeah I mean that's
  2415. 1:30:48that's normal I mean her Cravings hadn't
  2416. 1:30:50really changed or anything like that but
  2417. 1:30:51just like you know I'm just more
  2418. 1:30:52emotional and everything like that would
  2419. 1:30:55she kind of admit that like oh yes I'm
  2420. 1:30:58pregnant whatever well I mean I guess
  2421. 1:30:59she's like you know she's just you know
  2422. 1:31:01she's with her mom and she gets really
  2423. 1:31:04you know her mom's like really like
  2424. 1:31:06she's full Italian so like she's always
  2425. 1:31:09like you know
  2426. 1:31:11oh it's just a film hoe about everything
  2427. 1:31:13and it makes you Nelly really anxious
  2428. 1:31:15sometimes and like you know like it's
  2429. 1:31:17it's a lot of stress being over there
  2430. 1:31:19with you know
  2431. 1:31:20her family and my family as far as like
  2432. 1:31:22everybody you know like she's over she's
  2433. 1:31:24over there by herself with the kids do
  2434. 1:31:26you guys all get along like like I mean
  2435. 1:31:28yeah I mean pretty civil right so that
  2436. 1:31:31you went to your parents by yourself
  2437. 1:31:32like was there a reason why shenan and
  2438. 1:31:34the girls didn't go yeah because there
  2439. 1:31:36was a there was an incident where my mom
  2440. 1:31:39had something in the house that CeCe
  2441. 1:31:40could was kind of allergic to what was
  2442. 1:31:43that it was some ice cream
  2443. 1:31:47is allergic to tree nuts okay and um so
  2444. 1:31:52not peanuts but like my kids allergic to
  2445. 1:31:54peanuts but not tree nuts so yeah so
  2446. 1:31:56peanuts is like uh
  2447. 1:31:58I guess always growing from the ground
  2448. 1:32:00so the tree nuts like pistachios and
  2449. 1:32:02cashews and stuff like that these are
  2450. 1:32:04the good ones
  2451. 1:32:06I know and kiwi kiwis like grown like I
  2452. 1:32:09guess the spores have like something
  2453. 1:32:11that related to tree nuts found out the
  2454. 1:32:13hard way as well
  2455. 1:32:15but yeah like there is an incident where
  2456. 1:32:17she had something in the house as far as
  2457. 1:32:20it was it was ice cream that he could
  2458. 1:32:22have and my one of my sister's kids went
  2459. 1:32:26and grabbed some and she was eaten next
  2460. 1:32:28to Cece and
  2461. 1:32:30it was just a point where like men said
  2462. 1:32:33I they cannot come over here again
  2463. 1:32:37since I mean because CC's the one that
  2464. 1:32:39kind of would lunge that's so you just
  2465. 1:32:41grab like I mean if my sisters get up it
  2466. 1:32:45would happen so fast you wouldn't even
  2467. 1:32:46build no because I mean like how he
  2468. 1:32:48figured out the tree nuts was an issue
  2469. 1:32:50is because she could have a little
  2470. 1:32:51sliver of a cashew on that sliver
  2471. 1:32:54and made a react
  2472. 1:32:56and her reactions gotten worse over her
  2473. 1:32:59last panel was was a couple like a month
  2474. 1:33:03two months ago or something like that
  2475. 1:33:04and her reaction was a little bit when
  2476. 1:33:06they break her back and everything
  2477. 1:33:08so like that that kind of drove shenan
  2478. 1:33:11to where like all right they can't come
  2479. 1:33:13over again if you're gonna have this in
  2480. 1:33:15this house and that kind of that's why
  2481. 1:33:17that happened I wouldn't watch that we
  2482. 1:33:19got this during this trip or was that
  2483. 1:33:20from before that five weeks then okay
  2484. 1:33:22yeah and they hadn't seen the kids in
  2485. 1:33:25like two weeks when I got there
  2486. 1:33:28and she knows like I think they can't
  2487. 1:33:30come over they can't go over there right
  2488. 1:33:31now what did you think about that
  2489. 1:33:33I was I was hurt I was like you know I
  2490. 1:33:36wanted my one of my parents to see their
  2491. 1:33:37their grandbabies you know like even if
  2492. 1:33:40it's just like the I mean it was we
  2493. 1:33:42didn't even they can even FaceTime
  2494. 1:33:44so like like when I went over there like
  2495. 1:33:46I wanted to bring the kids but like I
  2496. 1:33:48respected her decision like okay like if
  2497. 1:33:50like if you want the kids over there now
  2498. 1:33:52it's fine I just need to see my parents
  2499. 1:33:54like since I'm here like I'm here for a
  2500. 1:33:56week you know I want to at least like go
  2501. 1:33:58over there give them a hug and see my
  2502. 1:34:01sister her husband their kid as well and
  2503. 1:34:03just kind of just say hey hello cookout
  2504. 1:34:05do you know shenan told anyone in North
  2505. 1:34:08Carolina about what was going on
  2506. 1:34:10honestly I'm sure she did who do you
  2507. 1:34:13think she told
  2508. 1:34:14oh she probably told uh well there's
  2509. 1:34:17people here I know Nicole probably knew
  2510. 1:34:19you know Kathy probably knew but they
  2511. 1:34:22they called us here cats lives in there
  2512. 1:34:24there's some of her good friends but
  2513. 1:34:25like what she would she hold any of her
  2514. 1:34:27family or friends in North Carolina
  2515. 1:34:29I'm not sure if her mom knew or not if
  2516. 1:34:31that was the case
  2517. 1:34:33oh yeah I'm not sure if she like
  2518. 1:34:36I told her like the entire like thing
  2519. 1:34:38about the whole like paint the having
  2520. 1:34:40something in the house all right I just
  2521. 1:34:42mean um between you and her sorry the
  2522. 1:34:44separation oh not right now she didn't
  2523. 1:34:47tell any of her family no and why do you
  2524. 1:34:49know she didn't do that because she told
  2525. 1:34:51me it's like she's not going to tell him
  2526. 1:34:53like I knew she was confiding in a few
  2527. 1:34:55of her friends because she told me that
  2528. 1:34:56because she didn't need someone to talk
  2529. 1:34:57to but she didn't tell her mom or
  2530. 1:34:59anything like that
  2531. 1:35:02do you guys go to church no not here no
  2532. 1:35:05oh yeah
  2533. 1:35:08like we were talking about like you know
  2534. 1:35:10finding one for you know with the kids
  2535. 1:35:12and everything what about counseling did
  2536. 1:35:13you guys talk about counseling yeah yeah
  2537. 1:35:15when did you guys talk about that
  2538. 1:35:18that was
  2539. 1:35:20probably we got back from back to
  2540. 1:35:23Brooklyn age so it was probably about
  2541. 1:35:25that eighth or so
  2542. 1:35:28oh right before she left yeah because
  2543. 1:35:30she left on the tens is that right yeah
  2544. 1:35:31okay so what did what came of that when
  2545. 1:35:34you guys talked about counseling Council
  2546. 1:35:35it's like I don't really think we really
  2547. 1:35:36needed to go to counseling so I'm never
  2548. 1:35:38like I don't I mean anything that we
  2549. 1:35:40were saying to each other I felt like we
  2550. 1:35:41could just say to each other and not
  2551. 1:35:43have to like you know go to
  2552. 1:35:45go to somewhere from somebody's couch
  2553. 1:35:47and blocking them about it but like she
  2554. 1:35:49said like a couple of her friends that
  2555. 1:35:50that were married have been to
  2556. 1:35:52counseling like once or twice or three
  2557. 1:35:54times and they're still going type of
  2558. 1:35:56thing like I didn't feel like really
  2559. 1:35:58needed to but I mean I was I mean I was
  2560. 1:36:01open to the idea because
  2561. 1:36:03I thought like all right if if she
  2562. 1:36:05really really like if this is gonna work
  2563. 1:36:09maybe but like I really didn't really
  2564. 1:36:11want to do it just because like I didn't
  2565. 1:36:13think we needed to do that thought we
  2566. 1:36:15could just like you know
  2567. 1:36:17and we just do it that way but the
  2568. 1:36:19disconnection was there I didn't feel
  2569. 1:36:21like it was gonna help
  2570. 1:36:24[Music]
  2571. 1:36:26so I'm gonna go back to work on the
  2572. 1:36:28eight but you went back to work on the
  2573. 1:36:29eighth okay and what day is that Eve
  2574. 1:36:31like it's a week do you remember
  2575. 1:36:42and then you were how many days
  2576. 1:36:45I worked Wednesday and Thursday and then
  2577. 1:36:48I was off Friday because that's when she
  2578. 1:36:51flew out
  2579. 1:36:54so what tell me about all the stuff you
  2580. 1:36:56did on Friday
  2581. 1:36:58or how was it I guess before she left
  2582. 1:37:00like if you know did you take her to the
  2583. 1:37:02airport oh no Nicole picked her up
  2584. 1:37:05what was the attitude like or what was
  2585. 1:37:07the relationship like when she left for
  2586. 1:37:10Arizona it was I mean we were just like
  2587. 1:37:13we had talked about counseling and
  2588. 1:37:15everything and we knew what the uh what
  2589. 1:37:18the sex of the baby was we aren't going
  2590. 1:37:20to tell anybody until she got back
  2591. 1:37:22because Nicole knew the coolest one they
  2592. 1:37:24like prepped everything for like with
  2593. 1:37:26the bag and like a couple things like
  2594. 1:37:28pour out a little fake champagne bottle
  2595. 1:37:30and whatnot
  2596. 1:37:32for which ones or the further for like a
  2597. 1:37:35gender reveal okay type thing like that
  2598. 1:37:39okay so like she she did all that for us
  2599. 1:37:43and um so Friday I mean I woke up with
  2600. 1:37:45the whole way for the kids to wake up
  2601. 1:37:47because she she left pretty early that
  2602. 1:37:49morning Nicole can't pick her up and she
  2603. 1:37:51left to the airport was it like Kiss
  2604. 1:37:53hugs fine or was it kind of strange as
  2605. 1:37:57far as it was a dog it was a hug yeah
  2606. 1:37:59okay
  2607. 1:38:00okay yeah I was just like you know how
  2608. 1:38:01to say flight and just let me know when
  2609. 1:38:03you get there and I'll send you pictures
  2610. 1:38:05of the kids like when like throughout
  2611. 1:38:06the day okay that thing okay so and then
  2612. 1:38:10you said I'm sorry that you waited till
  2613. 1:38:12the kids got up yeah absolutely usually
  2614. 1:38:14do we just wait for the wait for the
  2615. 1:38:16kids to wake up so they wake us up okay
  2616. 1:38:18and Bella came in the room and she just
  2617. 1:38:20usually just crawls into bed and just
  2618. 1:38:22like just Falls right and just falls
  2619. 1:38:24asleep next to us like when she wakes up
  2620. 1:38:25she doesn't just get up and just go
  2621. 1:38:27let's see she does but as far as Friday
  2622. 1:38:28goes what exactly happened on Friday
  2623. 1:38:31so we're just pretty much coming out
  2624. 1:38:33around the house
  2625. 1:38:35just just playing around just we went to
  2626. 1:38:38a grocery store
  2627. 1:38:40I went to
  2628. 1:38:43get my glasses got some cracks in the
  2629. 1:38:45frame
  2630. 1:38:46we went
  2631. 1:38:48to targets
  2632. 1:38:56we went to King Supers to pick up the
  2633. 1:38:58click list over there
  2634. 1:39:02it was fun
  2635. 1:39:06he does it for me all the time
  2636. 1:39:09very cool yeah I mean just like we we
  2637. 1:39:12had made a little day of it and
  2638. 1:39:13everything and so and I'm sorry do your
  2639. 1:39:15kids go to preschool or daycare
  2640. 1:39:18is that a preschool or a daycare it's a
  2641. 1:39:21little bit about the thing on your age
  2642. 1:39:22because like they have up to six months
  2643. 1:39:24okay so what are your kids considered
  2644. 1:39:28um early celestes like early preschool
  2645. 1:39:31one
  2646. 1:39:33other preschool one and Celeste or Bella
  2647. 1:39:37is
  2648. 1:39:39uh Pre-K one so is it like you can drop
  2649. 1:39:42your kids off before school starts like
  2650. 1:39:44and then you will like oh you can have a
  2651. 1:39:46daycare and then oh yes well it's like
  2652. 1:39:47you go into like like they'll have like
  2653. 1:39:50a room like like sometimes they'll only
  2654. 1:39:52have a few teachers there at 6 30 6 30
  2655. 1:39:54in the morning type thing okay you're
  2656. 1:39:56right and they combine most of the
  2657. 1:39:58classes and stuff
  2658. 1:40:02in Erie yeah is there only one there in
  2659. 1:40:05here
  2660. 1:40:06yeah I mean Primrose is like a chain of
  2661. 1:40:09the school but like I said there's
  2662. 1:40:10another one like in Thornton or
  2663. 1:40:11something like that and but there's only
  2664. 1:40:13one in Erie yeah there was a teacher at
  2665. 1:40:15work day that day so that's why they
  2666. 1:40:16couldn't go that's what I was wondering
  2667. 1:40:17I'm like so Friday they wouldn't
  2668. 1:40:18normally go
  2669. 1:40:20okay they would normally go out so I
  2670. 1:40:23like I took that day off because like
  2671. 1:40:25you didn't have any daycare because she
  2672. 1:40:27was leaving so early and whatnot but
  2673. 1:40:28yeah we
  2674. 1:40:29we just played around that day
  2675. 1:40:31and just like just I mean we took a
  2676. 1:40:34couple different places and
  2677. 1:40:36and the kids go find days a week there
  2678. 1:40:38or how often do they go to oh thanks
  2679. 1:40:41yeah five days a week on days a week and
  2680. 1:40:43what is the normally time normal time
  2681. 1:40:44that they go from
  2682. 1:40:46like
  2683. 1:40:48um
  2684. 1:40:48depending on when they kind of wake up
  2685. 1:40:50and get rid of usually by 7 30 like four
  2686. 1:40:52seven thirty to four yeah something
  2687. 1:40:54around there and it is because um shenan
  2688. 1:40:57is doing her thriving stuff and you're
  2689. 1:40:59at work at the oil field okay yeah it's
  2690. 1:41:02like when they're at school she can
  2691. 1:41:03really concentrate sure all that stuff
  2692. 1:41:06right now does she pretty much work from
  2693. 1:41:07home
  2694. 1:41:09but does she normally work like from a
  2695. 1:41:12computer at home or is she she just
  2696. 1:41:13works for her phone I mean she uses a
  2697. 1:41:15computer but she uses her phone mostly
  2698. 1:41:17yeah maybe yeah I mean you can do
  2699. 1:41:19anything from those things
  2700. 1:41:21okay so you hang out you guys are
  2701. 1:41:24running errands Target
  2702. 1:41:26um grocery store that kind of stuff um
  2703. 1:41:28what time do you think you get home on
  2704. 1:41:29Friday
  2705. 1:41:31probably about
  2706. 1:41:37I would say probably about four or three
  2707. 1:41:39or so okay and you guys do anything else
  2708. 1:41:42Friday night
  2709. 1:41:43and just normal things like you know
  2710. 1:41:46it's getting ready for bed or have
  2711. 1:41:48dinner
  2712. 1:41:49getting ready for bed type thing
  2713. 1:41:56would you have a FaceTime there with the
  2714. 1:41:58girls or I know when she's away and
  2715. 1:42:01stuff like that like we don't we don't
  2716. 1:42:03say something today you really react to
  2717. 1:42:05that oh because they'd be upset they'd
  2718. 1:42:07be upset yeah like Bella was asking a
  2719. 1:42:09lot about her okay so did she talk to
  2720. 1:42:12them
  2721. 1:42:13like as far as on a phone call or no no
  2722. 1:42:15there's no contact between her and the
  2723. 1:42:17kids while she was gone
  2724. 1:42:20like like if she like like last time
  2725. 1:42:23under the Thrive event that was like she
  2726. 1:42:25went to Canada and like it was like we
  2727. 1:42:28do not talk to the girls like they they
  2728. 1:42:30would they're like have like a cry Fest
  2729. 1:42:32like
  2730. 1:42:33yeah like I can't handle that well I
  2731. 1:42:36mean she knows like it would really make
  2732. 1:42:38her cry too
  2733. 1:42:40okay right so what time do you think
  2734. 1:42:47probably about
  2735. 1:42:51no about 7 30 o'clock okay and what did
  2736. 1:42:54you do for anything I went downstairs
  2737. 1:42:56and worked out and
  2738. 1:42:58it's kind of chilled out about the house
  2739. 1:43:00and
  2740. 1:43:01to your weight is in your basement
  2741. 1:43:04yes okay if you went and worked out and
  2742. 1:43:06then how do you chill out like what do
  2743. 1:43:08you normally do board Center Sports
  2744. 1:43:10Center and just like there's a cool
  2745. 1:43:12movie on to watch or something like that
  2746. 1:43:14and
  2747. 1:43:15did you have anyone over on Friday or
  2748. 1:43:21and then what happened Saturday morning
  2749. 1:43:24Saturday morning kind of the same thing
  2750. 1:43:27like Bella
  2751. 1:43:29by looking in bed again like some like
  2752. 1:43:32when she wakes up she comes into bed and
  2753. 1:43:34just kind of lays next to me and then
  2754. 1:43:35kind of waiting for CeCe to wake up
  2755. 1:43:37type thing and then I was going to go to
  2756. 1:43:39Costco that day but since I should just
  2757. 1:43:42do it when she got back and go back on
  2758. 1:43:44Monday get some chicken or vegetables
  2759. 1:43:46and stuff like that I got most of
  2760. 1:43:47everything from that clicklist the King
  2761. 1:43:49Soopers everybody hung out of the house
  2762. 1:43:51and
  2763. 1:43:52played outside and before it got too hot
  2764. 1:43:55outside
  2765. 1:43:56and just play in the playroom and do
  2766. 1:43:58some things around the house because it
  2767. 1:43:59gets so hot out there like we couldn't
  2768. 1:44:00go to the park because they were doing
  2769. 1:44:02like some drainage thing and they had
  2770. 1:44:03everything dug up and
  2771. 1:44:05whatever it does rain it just like pulls
  2772. 1:44:07up really high and it was just one of
  2773. 1:44:09those deals because you're in a newer
  2774. 1:44:10neighborhood is that right uh
  2775. 1:44:14our house was built in 2013. okay but
  2776. 1:44:16there was already houses there I think
  2777. 1:44:17those houses have been there for a
  2778. 1:44:18little while oh okay
  2779. 1:44:21um so will you guys come in or you're
  2780. 1:44:24hanging around the house playing around
  2781. 1:44:25the house so what happens around dinner
  2782. 1:44:27time
  2783. 1:44:28so McKenna all right sorry Jeremy
  2784. 1:44:30Lindstrom his one of his daughters
  2785. 1:44:33McKenna uh watched the girls that night
  2786. 1:44:36I went to a Rockies game
  2787. 1:44:38yeah
  2788. 1:44:39I was um people from work and who did
  2789. 1:44:43you go with from work it was um so it
  2790. 1:44:47was Cody
  2791. 1:44:49and yeah just because I don't know how
  2792. 1:44:52you still are oh yeah I was like Cody
  2793. 1:44:54Bourgeois and
  2794. 1:44:57that's because there was a raffle we had
  2795. 1:44:59some work okay so it was it was a work
  2796. 1:45:02function but it was Cody Bourgeois and
  2797. 1:45:06uh Sam
  2798. 1:45:08Sam LaRue those two guys yeah so I'm
  2799. 1:45:12sorry if you guys want yeah yeah and
  2800. 1:45:13then I came home about 11 did you win oh
  2801. 1:45:17yeah I was walking off three one home
  2802. 1:45:19run and then bottom of the knife nice so
  2803. 1:45:20this is Saturday night right Saturday
  2804. 1:45:22night so what time did you actually
  2805. 1:45:23leave to go to the Rockies game it was
  2806. 1:45:24like four five o'clock five o'clocked at
  2807. 1:45:27the game start at seven or six ten six
  2808. 1:45:29ten yeah I got a bath and eat dinner or
  2809. 1:45:31yeah the latest dog or the lazy dog so
  2810. 1:45:33did you eat dinner with not same people
  2811. 1:45:35okay yeah so got down there the Rockies
  2812. 1:45:39game came back
  2813. 1:45:41about 11 or so stop by at the uh gas
  2814. 1:45:44station next to the house got some money
  2815. 1:45:45from McKenna
  2816. 1:45:46gave it to her
  2817. 1:45:48what gas station is that uh the one
  2818. 1:45:51right by our house you know what kind it
  2819. 1:45:52is
  2820. 1:45:53I think is this uh it's next to a
  2821. 1:45:56Pinocchio's Restaurant okay
  2822. 1:46:00yeah okay
  2823. 1:46:02yeah so we've got that uh Fox channel on
  2824. 1:46:05the way home
  2825. 1:46:06from the Rockies game yeah did you how
  2826. 1:46:09did you get there and back with the
  2827. 1:46:11Lexus so did you pick up anyone on the
  2828. 1:46:14way do you give rides to anyone you just
  2829. 1:46:16met them down there yeah
  2830. 1:46:18where were your seats do you remember
  2831. 1:46:20that wasn't like the third Baseline is
  2832. 1:46:23that good team there's Lisa first level
  2833. 1:46:25uh like
  2834. 1:46:2710 rows up probably some other nice it
  2835. 1:46:30was not too bad how did you pay for the
  2836. 1:46:32raffle oh it was just like this time to
  2837. 1:46:34enter oh something to enter in there but
  2838. 1:46:37they always have something like for a
  2839. 1:46:38golf tournament I'm not a golfer or
  2840. 1:46:40anything like that but it was just
  2841. 1:46:41something dancer do you and your like
  2842. 1:46:43people you work with get them together
  2843. 1:46:44every once in a while not I mean not not
  2844. 1:46:47mainly this was just like a random thing
  2845. 1:46:49it was something I never won anything so
  2846. 1:46:51it was just like one of those random
  2847. 1:46:52things did you pick them to go
  2848. 1:46:59anyone else meet you guys are from work
  2849. 1:47:01or no no it was just a random thing yeah
  2850. 1:47:04but the um when we got home I'll call it
  2851. 1:47:07shanan
  2852. 1:47:08um they asked you how much to give him a
  2853. 1:47:10cannon and she was like it's like don't
  2854. 1:47:12give her 60 degree or 50 it's like just
  2855. 1:47:13give her 50 because like okay you don't
  2856. 1:47:15want to overpayer I'm like okay if I get
  2857. 1:47:17there and uh
  2858. 1:47:19the expedition was there I think that
  2859. 1:47:22was that was Jeremy's white star
  2860. 1:47:25and uh I gave her the money and girls
  2861. 1:47:28were fine they were a pizza that I
  2862. 1:47:30ordered pizza for him that night for him
  2863. 1:47:32like that
  2864. 1:47:34and then then after that I went inside I
  2865. 1:47:36went to bed
  2866. 1:47:37and then did it were the girls in bed oh
  2867. 1:47:39yeah yeah they were they were totally
  2868. 1:47:41passed out
  2869. 1:47:42and wish the mom there to help McKenna
  2870. 1:47:44or no I think she dropped off the car
  2871. 1:47:47because I didn't see anybody in the car
  2872. 1:47:48when I pulled up
  2873. 1:47:56either I didn't see anybody in the car
  2874. 1:47:58as far as her mom was but I think just
  2875. 1:48:00dropped her car off so like when I got
  2876. 1:48:01home like it just
  2877. 1:48:04okay so and I need to keep going back to
  2878. 1:48:06the market scene but you were with your
  2879. 1:48:07co-workers there did you mention to
  2880. 1:48:09either of them about
  2881. 1:48:10you know issues that you're having a
  2882. 1:48:13life or anything like that or at least
  2883. 1:48:14not those type of people that you would
  2884. 1:48:15talk to like that no okay nothing like
  2885. 1:48:17that nothing at all like that because
  2886. 1:48:19like it's as personal type of things I
  2887. 1:48:22don't I didn't want like people at work
  2888. 1:48:23really knowing like anything that I'm
  2889. 1:48:25going through only person I really told
  2890. 1:48:28is my foreman just because like you know
  2891. 1:48:30if is that who is that Luke Apple okay
  2892. 1:48:33and what did you tell him I just told
  2893. 1:48:34him like you know like I wanted him to
  2894. 1:48:36be aware like if if he felt like my mind
  2895. 1:48:38was not on task
  2896. 1:48:40that like you know tell me and just send
  2897. 1:48:43me home type thing because like at work
  2898. 1:48:46when you're there like you need to be
  2899. 1:48:48because there's so much pressure like
  2900. 1:48:50around
  2901. 1:48:51I mean like I mean not like well head
  2902. 1:48:54pressure yeah that kind of dangerous
  2903. 1:48:56yeah you stand in front of like a
  2904. 1:48:59like a master valve or like a needle
  2905. 1:49:02valve that could be open or something
  2906. 1:49:03like that
  2907. 1:49:05so like you don't want to be like 100
  2908. 1:49:07pounds to kill you
  2909. 1:49:09but I mean like if I work around stuff
  2910. 1:49:11that has like so did he ask you why
  2911. 1:49:13would your mind not be right I told him
  2912. 1:49:15like you know my wife and I are you know
  2913. 1:49:17we're going through a few things right
  2914. 1:49:18now and that like you know separation
  2915. 1:49:21has been on the table like I want you to
  2916. 1:49:23know like I'm gonna be my mind's gonna
  2917. 1:49:25be on task and I want I wanted him to
  2918. 1:49:27know like you know
  2919. 1:49:29if you see like anything that I'm doing
  2920. 1:49:31that you don't like just let me know
  2921. 1:49:35My foreman he's the one that's gonna
  2922. 1:49:37like he's the one feeding my performance
  2923. 1:49:39reviews he's gonna be he's my boss is he
  2924. 1:49:41out there when you're working and stuff
  2925. 1:49:43he's in the office mainly but he's one
  2926. 1:49:45of the foreman that likes to go out to
  2927. 1:49:47the field because he may see you out
  2928. 1:49:49there yeah oh yeah like he likes to like
  2929. 1:49:51if he had like meetings or whatnot like
  2930. 1:49:53he likes to
  2931. 1:49:54or when he's done with meetings he'll
  2932. 1:49:56actually get out yeah so what was his
  2933. 1:49:58reaction to you when you told him that
  2934. 1:49:59he's like it's you know just let me know
  2935. 1:50:01if anything happens and like
  2936. 1:50:03you know like I'll
  2937. 1:50:05I'll tell you about on the team or
  2938. 1:50:07anything like our team because I guess
  2939. 1:50:09that's a personal issue so like you know
  2940. 1:50:10I'll
  2941. 1:50:12keep me in the loop okay thank you and
  2942. 1:50:14when you get home from the Rockies game
  2943. 1:50:15both girls are in their own bed own beds
  2944. 1:50:17oh yeah
  2945. 1:50:20the bedroom yes
  2946. 1:50:20[Music]
  2947. 1:50:22okay so tell me about um Sunday morning
  2948. 1:50:25when you wake up so Sunday morning we uh
  2949. 1:50:30like like normally like Bella
  2950. 1:50:33actually goes into Cece's room and wakes
  2951. 1:50:35her up this time so it happens
  2952. 1:50:39but uh yeah so that happens and then we
  2953. 1:50:42go downstairs and watch Bubble Guppies
  2954. 1:50:44and stuff like that
  2955. 1:50:46and uh I put a little early that day
  2956. 1:50:49because
  2957. 1:50:50Jeremy's son Kaden called buddy
  2958. 1:50:55he's uh turned four wait are you talking
  2959. 1:50:58about 29 already no it's like Sunday
  2960. 1:51:01afternoon oh you put them in bed for a
  2961. 1:51:03nap oh okay okay yeah they have a nap in
  2962. 1:51:06the middle of the day that's the best
  2963. 1:51:08yeah okay so they um we go over there
  2964. 1:51:11after that I wake them up it goes
  2965. 1:51:13straight there what time is that using
  2966. 1:51:16that you think so it was a part of the
  2967. 1:51:17one I woke him about 12 30. I do you
  2968. 1:51:20guys have a present for this little guy
  2969. 1:51:22yeah and how did you get the present oh
  2970. 1:51:24we've been a Target that day and I got
  2971. 1:51:26him a little down so far okay
  2972. 1:51:28so earlier before their naps yeah Target
  2973. 1:51:30yeah
  2974. 1:51:32do you go anywhere else besides Target
  2975. 1:51:36yeah
  2976. 1:51:37okay not that Sunday no okay like as we
  2977. 1:51:40got back it was about that time and they
  2978. 1:51:42had some for like that little early
  2979. 1:51:44lunch had some cold they wanted cold
  2980. 1:51:46pizza
  2981. 1:51:47so that was their deal it was a lot of
  2982. 1:51:49pizza left over from the other night
  2983. 1:51:50okay so uh bay that and they went third
  2984. 1:51:54and math
  2985. 1:51:55and then after that we went to Jeremy's
  2986. 1:51:58house and we're over there for like 1 15
  2987. 1:52:02to like probably 4 35 o'clock
  2988. 1:52:06it was like I didn't know it was going
  2989. 1:52:08to be like a water balloon like pool
  2990. 1:52:09thing that little mini pool out there
  2991. 1:52:11water balloons and everything
  2992. 1:52:15about it no I didn't have swimsuits of
  2993. 1:52:17water shoes with me or anything like
  2994. 1:52:18that I feel like it was uh yeah yeah
  2995. 1:52:22okay I love that oh see see she loves
  2996. 1:52:26loves just getting in the water Bella
  2997. 1:52:28was more like taking the water balloons
  2998. 1:52:30out and just like you know spraying them
  2999. 1:52:32everywhere type deal okay so you you get
  3000. 1:52:35home about what time you think about 4
  3001. 1:52:3835 o'clock okay so what happens after
  3002. 1:52:41that
  3003. 1:52:42um immediately just put in the shower
  3004. 1:52:44and try to wash them off because they
  3005. 1:52:46had you know sand and everything because
  3006. 1:52:47they had a little sandbox over there
  3007. 1:52:48like with their playground
  3008. 1:52:50and uh so I just put them in the shower
  3009. 1:52:52immediately just wash them off they can
  3010. 1:52:54usually like wash their hair by
  3011. 1:52:55themselves
  3012. 1:52:56and whatnot so are you in the shower
  3013. 1:52:58with him I'm on the outside on the
  3014. 1:53:00outside yeah I'm just like I let them
  3015. 1:53:01kind of do their thing and wash them up
  3016. 1:53:03and everything and get them to write off
  3017. 1:53:05this lotion on our pajamas go downstairs
  3018. 1:53:07they wanted pizza again so a couple
  3019. 1:53:09Pizza
  3020. 1:53:11what kind of pajamas did you put on them
  3021. 1:53:13nightgowns
  3022. 1:53:14what does those look like
  3023. 1:53:17probably I think Celeste had like a pink
  3024. 1:53:20one with like little
  3025. 1:53:23like a drawing of like a bird or
  3026. 1:53:25something like that okay
  3027. 1:53:27and uh Bella
  3028. 1:53:31and it might have been one that said
  3029. 1:53:32like believe on it
  3030. 1:53:35or
  3031. 1:53:38as a multi-colored one might have a
  3032. 1:53:40unicorn on it they have so many of those
  3033. 1:53:42Knockouts is it a dress or are they no
  3034. 1:53:45no no no it's like a dress yeah it just
  3035. 1:53:47kind of like falls down underneath it's
  3036. 1:53:49hot so they sleep hot they sweat like
  3037. 1:53:51crazy okay do they check their their
  3038. 1:53:53pajamas off at all during the night
  3039. 1:53:56she has a nighttime diaper
  3040. 1:54:00digital nighttime diaper that can I mean
  3041. 1:54:02as far as getting hot and stuff they
  3042. 1:54:04don't like strip their clothes off and
  3043. 1:54:05roll than I eat because they get hot or
  3044. 1:54:07anything no or do you think nothing I've
  3045. 1:54:09never seen to do that I'm unless they
  3046. 1:54:11have pants on like if they have like a
  3047. 1:54:13like they'll be like their mermaid
  3048. 1:54:14pajamas that has like a T-shirt and
  3049. 1:54:16pants they'll take that off the shirt
  3050. 1:54:18part the pants all the pants yeah
  3051. 1:54:20because it gets a lot right
  3052. 1:54:22so the uh
  3053. 1:54:26I've never heard that yet
  3054. 1:54:30[ __ ] just is that what it was baby no I
  3055. 1:54:33was just like maybe it was like the
  3056. 1:54:35basket and hit or something like that no
  3057. 1:54:37I wasn't touching it no there's another
  3058. 1:54:39room they always have that yeah they'll
  3059. 1:54:42have that
  3060. 1:54:43um okay so you get them in their pajamas
  3061. 1:54:46um
  3062. 1:54:46FaceTime uh transparents
  3063. 1:54:50it's a nice man there's her parents yeah
  3064. 1:54:52her parents yeah so they uh they
  3065. 1:54:54FaceTime them for a little while and
  3066. 1:54:57after that they sit on the couch they'll
  3067. 1:54:59have a Minnie Mouse and one DC has a
  3068. 1:55:01Minnie Mouse couch and Bella has a Sofia
  3069. 1:55:03the first couch and they chill there and
  3070. 1:55:05getting a little snack and
  3071. 1:55:07Celeste doesn't blow away for his Bell
  3072. 1:55:09to have some chips and then they each
  3073. 1:55:11wanted the switch after they were done
  3074. 1:55:13so
  3075. 1:55:14sorry uh Bella had them in the Wafers
  3076. 1:55:17after that and she had some like
  3077. 1:55:19Cheez-Its or something like that okay
  3078. 1:55:22and then after that let's brush your
  3079. 1:55:27teeth and
  3080. 1:55:28got him ready for bed and they're both
  3081. 1:55:29used to potty and like they normally do
  3082. 1:55:32and put them in bed
  3083. 1:55:34okay do I normally go to bed right away
  3084. 1:55:35or oh they lay in bed like they don't
  3085. 1:55:38get out like once the rain machines are
  3086. 1:55:40on and lights are out like Bella came
  3087. 1:55:42out twice that time just because she
  3088. 1:55:44knew like shenan was coming home it's
  3089. 1:55:46like I told her like all right she'll be
  3090. 1:55:47home Monday type thing because like
  3091. 1:55:49Shannon's not gonna just go in there and
  3092. 1:55:51wake her up at like in the middle of the
  3093. 1:55:52night type thing
  3094. 1:56:01when you wake up okay when you wake up
  3095. 1:56:04okay about two or about two times she
  3096. 1:56:06came out asking about that but it's last
  3097. 1:56:09time
  3098. 1:56:10she hasn't done that yet so as far as
  3099. 1:56:13um said he talked to shiny and at least
  3100. 1:56:15one time to ask about how much to pay
  3101. 1:56:17McKenna yeah did you talk to shenan any
  3102. 1:56:20other time oh yeah like during the day
  3103. 1:56:22Sunday okay how was that oh this is fine
  3104. 1:56:25I was talking about the kids and like
  3105. 1:56:26you know texting back and forth I don't
  3106. 1:56:28have much signal over Jeremy's house
  3107. 1:56:29there's like a dead zone on Erie Parkway
  3108. 1:56:31over there somewhere
  3109. 1:56:39you know
  3110. 1:56:41yeah but like I should know I'll show
  3111. 1:56:43the pictures while like while she was
  3112. 1:56:44gone what about like phone calls did you
  3113. 1:56:46guys have any phone calls
  3114. 1:56:48yeah
  3115. 1:56:49I couldn't call her over there because
  3116. 1:56:51it was bad signal area I barely get the
  3117. 1:56:53text messages out
  3118. 1:56:56but yeah you didn't call her at Jeremy
  3119. 1:56:57is that what you're saying yeah I
  3120. 1:56:58couldn't because but the other time like
  3121. 1:57:00Saturday night oh yeah like everything
  3122. 1:57:02yeah we're just you know talking after
  3123. 1:57:04everything went and everything like that
  3124. 1:57:05and once I got him home like um after
  3125. 1:57:08the after the party and got into bed and
  3126. 1:57:10everything until you know about this
  3127. 1:57:11like she knows you're coming home and
  3128. 1:57:13she's like she's ready and everything
  3129. 1:57:14and she was texting me like about like
  3130. 1:57:16this the power went out I guess in
  3131. 1:57:18Arizona goes to the dust storms and her
  3132. 1:57:21friend uh Addie and Cindy like they paid
  3133. 1:57:22for dinner and stuff like that and
  3134. 1:57:25um yeah Nicole and her were at the
  3135. 1:57:27airport and at his plane got delayed and
  3136. 1:57:31they're hoping there's ringing delayed
  3137. 1:57:32but ended up getting delayed
  3138. 1:57:34so what like if you could have taken her
  3139. 1:57:36pulse then like how was she as far as
  3140. 1:57:39communicating with you or she you know
  3141. 1:57:41like same old shenan or was she still
  3142. 1:57:44kind of upset or I mean it's kind of
  3143. 1:57:47hard to tell through that those texts
  3144. 1:57:49but like she was ready to get home and
  3145. 1:57:51see the girls just be home but as far as
  3146. 1:57:54her relationship with you how did that
  3147. 1:57:56feel to you I mean it felt I mean I felt
  3148. 1:57:59like she did when she left like it felt
  3149. 1:58:01like you know like
  3150. 1:58:02she was like in that state of mind where
  3151. 1:58:05like okay she decided to be home like
  3152. 1:58:08maybe she was like
  3153. 1:58:11it's kind of hard to really tell but
  3154. 1:58:12through text but like she wanted to get
  3155. 1:58:15home and see us because she had been
  3156. 1:58:17away like she when she was in North
  3157. 1:58:19Carolina for six weeks and then she
  3158. 1:58:20comes home for two days and goes to
  3159. 1:58:22Arizona like she only been home for like
  3160. 1:58:23two days and uh
  3161. 1:58:26six and a half weeks fan so she's just
  3162. 1:58:28ready to be home be with us and just
  3163. 1:58:29kind of like just be around us
  3164. 1:58:33so
  3165. 1:58:34what time was she originally supposed to
  3166. 1:58:36be home 11 11 yeah okay
  3167. 1:58:39okay
  3168. 1:58:39um so obviously that gets delayed until
  3169. 1:58:41yeah whenever yep she got home she
  3170. 1:58:44didn't get home till like two she didn't
  3171. 1:58:46leave there to like 11. I think they're
  3172. 1:58:47an hour behind Okay in Phoenix okay okay
  3173. 1:58:51at this time of year because she text
  3174. 1:58:52you when she landed or I mean you know
  3175. 1:58:54no she texted me that it was delayed and
  3176. 1:58:57I think she texted me when she took
  3177. 1:58:58office she didn't text me when she
  3178. 1:59:00landed I mean I just felt her like get
  3179. 1:59:02into bed okay and he said that was
  3180. 1:59:04around too and you know there was a
  3181. 1:59:07doorbell thing is that what you said
  3182. 1:59:08yeah 148 it described the doorbell thing
  3183. 1:59:11so it's got like whatever like a
  3184. 1:59:13proximity like she walks up
  3185. 1:59:15make a motion thing yeah okay and now is
  3186. 1:59:18that tied to like a home security system
  3187. 1:59:20or is it just a single doorbell thing
  3188. 1:59:23that doorbell like records it on
  3189. 1:59:26to the uh our control panel
  3190. 1:59:29so it's all tied together yeah like
  3191. 1:59:32garage alarms yeah everything yeah
  3192. 1:59:34Windows whatever there's no windows but
  3193. 1:59:37just like okay there's a living room
  3194. 1:59:38like motion thing and a basement motion
  3195. 1:59:40and like we have a open and shut sensors
  3196. 1:59:44on the basement door and the sliding or
  3197. 1:59:46sliding door
  3198. 1:59:48and obviously the front door and both
  3199. 1:59:50garage doors so is it anytime they're
  3200. 1:59:52open or just if there's something
  3201. 1:59:54period of time so like uh if once at the
  3202. 1:59:58door is left open after a certain amount
  3203. 2:00:00of time it'll say uh the front door at
  3204. 2:00:0328.25 Saratoga trails and left open
  3205. 2:00:06so did it alert you that she was outside
  3206. 2:00:09using the keypad to get in when she got
  3207. 2:00:11home or no it just picked her up walking
  3208. 2:00:14up the door and did it alert you back
  3209. 2:00:17when I saw the next morning it wasn't
  3210. 2:00:20enough that it woke you up oh no no it's
  3211. 2:00:23very like a faint like
  3212. 2:00:25what's the living room one what's that
  3213. 2:00:27for that's just a motion detector like
  3214. 2:00:29if like you set alarm to away like you
  3215. 2:00:32know nobody's gonna be in the house
  3216. 2:00:33that's you know stuff like that it'll
  3217. 2:00:35take that up and set alarm off does it
  3218. 2:00:38is it on when you're home though
  3219. 2:00:41no like we said to a way while you're
  3220. 2:00:43home you're just going to check the
  3221. 2:00:44alarm okay so you don't have any of
  3222. 2:00:46those like active I guess when you're
  3223. 2:00:48well it's it's always active but it's
  3224. 2:00:51not set to you can set it away and stay
  3225. 2:00:53or disarmed but it's still going to pick
  3226. 2:00:55it up oh okay but you know like if you
  3227. 2:00:57look on my phone like you go to the
  3228. 2:00:59Vivint app it'll show you
  3229. 2:01:01like uh living room motions isn't
  3230. 2:01:03detected so and I guess so just for my
  3231. 2:01:05own knowledge did you actually look at
  3232. 2:01:07that obviously when she went missing and
  3233. 2:01:10the girl did you look at your living
  3234. 2:01:12room alarms and that I mean to see if
  3235. 2:01:14there was stuff going on no it doesn't
  3236. 2:01:16like once because we had so many like
  3237. 2:01:18like doorbell trips because it was
  3238. 2:01:20messing up so much as far as like little
  3239. 2:01:22things setting off it only I can only go
  3240. 2:01:24to the history so far
  3241. 2:01:26so you don't pay for the cloud storage
  3242. 2:01:28for that no okay is that an option I had
  3243. 2:01:32never given it to me okay but like so
  3244. 2:01:34how far does it go back
  3245. 2:01:37this is I'm not sure how many like
  3246. 2:01:39different like
  3247. 2:01:41events that you can store like it'll
  3248. 2:01:43have notifications you can scroll Bell
  3249. 2:01:45eventually just ends
  3250. 2:01:46not sure how long it'll actually keep it
  3251. 2:01:48so when you when this all happened did
  3252. 2:01:50you look on there and it's like the only
  3253. 2:01:52thing that I saw that was really strange
  3254. 2:01:54was that uh when I left it said uh the
  3255. 2:01:57garage door stayed open
  3256. 2:02:00and no so if that was on there at five
  3257. 2:02:04whatever in the morning right
  3258. 2:02:06wouldn't the other stuff still be there
  3259. 2:02:07too that happened after like if there
  3260. 2:02:09was Motion in the living room or the
  3261. 2:02:11basement or whatever it should have been
  3262. 2:02:13the only thing there was like a basement
  3263. 2:02:14door left open and garage door left open
  3264. 2:02:18oh what about the basement door left
  3265. 2:02:20open it was about the same time 527 yeah
  3266. 2:02:23it was like like within a minute
  3267. 2:02:29and then what was the other one did you
  3268. 2:02:31say that garage door that's open
  3269. 2:02:34was the basement door open when you went
  3270. 2:02:36back not that I remember
  3271. 2:02:39like when I got there everything was
  3272. 2:02:40shot crossed over shot facing door shut
  3273. 2:02:44but like
  3274. 2:02:47the basement
  3275. 2:02:50that's a garden level okay so there's
  3276. 2:02:52like the windows I mean you can you can
  3277. 2:02:55see the backyard it's not like one of
  3278. 2:02:56the ones that's like a normal one where
  3279. 2:02:58it's like a deep
  3280. 2:02:59like a deep dive like where you can you
  3281. 2:03:01have to look up to see like the the
  3282. 2:03:03level of the grass what's the basement
  3283. 2:03:05door then I guess
  3284. 2:03:07oh so the basement door is so like when
  3285. 2:03:10you walk in the group like you walk into
  3286. 2:03:11the house through the garage and then as
  3287. 2:03:14you're walking to the living room you
  3288. 2:03:15take a right and then that's the
  3289. 2:03:16basement door that leads down in the
  3290. 2:03:17basement
  3291. 2:03:18oh so that door have an alarm that has a
  3292. 2:03:22sensor it tells you when it's open
  3293. 2:03:24because you can
  3294. 2:03:25simply the garden level basement the
  3295. 2:03:27windows I mean you could I mean you can
  3296. 2:03:29walk you can walk into the like the the
  3297. 2:03:32backyard and you can open a Windows and
  3298. 2:03:34you don't have to dip down you just open
  3299. 2:03:36a window and you can walk in type thing
  3300. 2:03:41so there's an alarm on the yeah because
  3301. 2:03:44like you could I mean if an intruder
  3302. 2:03:47came in yeah through the window yeah
  3303. 2:03:48like stuff like that okay okay
  3304. 2:03:51and that one went off too like was that
  3305. 2:03:54before the garage or after the garage
  3306. 2:03:56one was a 5.6 ones at 527. I think the
  3307. 2:04:0052700 was the garage and the 526 was the
  3308. 2:04:03basement left open
  3309. 2:04:07is it a lot or do you guys do you guys
  3310. 2:04:09even hang out in the basement usually or
  3311. 2:04:11I'm usually down there just to like work
  3312. 2:04:13out but I didn't work out that morning
  3313. 2:04:15so like I'm it definitely wasn't open
  3314. 2:04:18when I left
  3315. 2:04:21okay
  3316. 2:04:23sorry I'm off track um so
  3317. 2:04:29she did the ring doorbell
  3318. 2:04:31to grow to your phone like how do you
  3319. 2:04:33log into that system you're just gonna
  3320. 2:04:36have it's just not what what is the app
  3321. 2:04:38called and does she have that app as
  3322. 2:04:40well okay she said should be on the
  3323. 2:04:43phone is it your login does it hurt
  3324. 2:04:46login so is it her email and what is her
  3325. 2:04:51email uh she now watch at gmail.com okay
  3326. 2:04:54do you know what her password is for
  3327. 2:04:55that it should be like four two eight
  3328. 2:04:57four nine one five Capital One
  3329. 2:05:03428-4915 capitalize lowercase w okay is
  3330. 2:05:06that what she uses for other stuff or
  3331. 2:05:08yes okay yes
  3332. 2:05:10or go to password yeah it's a font
  3333. 2:05:13number okay okay
  3334. 2:05:19first book that's a phone number right
  3335. 2:05:21okay so I know like I have a ring
  3336. 2:05:24doorbell and like our flag will shut it
  3337. 2:05:26off sometimes you know yeah because
  3338. 2:05:29because like after we had like the
  3339. 2:05:31camera reset because it wasn't working
  3340. 2:05:32for a little bit it was picking up I
  3341. 2:05:34thought it was the flag but like it
  3342. 2:05:37wasn't
  3343. 2:05:38it was like picking up just like the
  3344. 2:05:40tree moving around and push like a like
  3345. 2:05:43a branch or something just Shadow or
  3346. 2:05:45something like yeah I feel like here as
  3347. 2:05:48well
  3348. 2:05:49um have you is that the system that was
  3349. 2:05:51installed in the home when you moved in
  3350. 2:05:52or did that something that you guys were
  3351. 2:05:54just installed when did you guys install
  3352. 2:05:56that
  3353. 2:05:58I would guess two years ago two years
  3354. 2:06:00ago I think so are you completely asleep
  3355. 2:06:03when she gets home yes do you hear her
  3356. 2:06:05like okay I felt her like get in but as
  3357. 2:06:08far as like you
  3358. 2:06:10um was she putting away her luggage you
  3359. 2:06:13know like like me I'm crazy about I need
  3360. 2:06:16to unpack like the second I get home no
  3361. 2:06:18matter really late but well no you don't
  3362. 2:06:21think she was unpacking suitcases or
  3363. 2:06:23whatever you think she just like
  3364. 2:06:25first okay still there okay yeah okay
  3365. 2:06:30um so she she's one that would wait
  3366. 2:06:32until the next morning when she woke up
  3367. 2:06:33and yeah
  3368. 2:06:36at some point in time yeah okay
  3369. 2:06:39so
  3370. 2:06:41um
  3371. 2:06:42you said the next thing you know is her
  3372. 2:06:43getting into bed with you is that right
  3373. 2:06:45I felt pretty good but we didn't say
  3374. 2:06:47anything because I guess I just kind of
  3375. 2:06:48felt it okay do you know if she was on
  3376. 2:06:51her phone or like how any of that works
  3377. 2:06:53I'll I'll think she was an honor phone
  3378. 2:06:55like
  3379. 2:06:57it was really late so what is her
  3380. 2:06:59routine for when she comes to bed like
  3381. 2:07:02before she gets into bed I know it's
  3382. 2:07:03kind of weird because she was coming
  3383. 2:07:04from the airport but like on a normal
  3384. 2:07:06night like does she brush her teeth and
  3385. 2:07:08take our makeup off or like give me back
  3386. 2:07:10yeah so normally it's like I feel so
  3387. 2:07:13brush your teeth she have some makeup
  3388. 2:07:15remover like a rag and she'll do all
  3389. 2:07:17that he'll take her the balance which is
  3390. 2:07:19like a something to help like stomach
  3391. 2:07:22you know help everything it's like I
  3392. 2:07:25don't think I can relax with it but it's
  3393. 2:07:26something like that
  3394. 2:07:28uh yeah she'll go through she'll do that
  3395. 2:07:30and then
  3396. 2:07:34pretty much it and then she'll lay in
  3397. 2:07:36bed and she'll text people call people
  3398. 2:07:38like if she needs to as far as like
  3399. 2:07:40anybody and promoter customer
  3400. 2:07:42any mind either does he charge her phone
  3401. 2:07:46next to the bed
  3402. 2:07:48what about I heard she had an Apple
  3403. 2:07:49Watch is that right yeah did she charge
  3404. 2:07:52does she charge her Apple watch every
  3405. 2:07:53night the Charger's sitting right there
  3406. 2:07:55next to it but does she do it every
  3407. 2:07:57night or does she wait till it it's
  3408. 2:07:59almost dead I should use it every night
  3409. 2:08:01every night she doesn't sleep with her
  3410. 2:08:02Apple watch out does she sleep with
  3411. 2:08:04anything else on
  3412. 2:08:06usually a T-shirt and
  3413. 2:08:09underwear that's it underwear yeah okay
  3414. 2:08:12what about that night do you remember or
  3415. 2:08:14that morning I should say I think it was
  3416. 2:08:17a t-shirt
  3417. 2:08:18I think the T-shirt underwear but yeah
  3418. 2:08:20that's pretty it gets so hot in the
  3419. 2:08:21house we've had issues where the top the
  3420. 2:08:25AC for the top level has been like
  3421. 2:08:26cutting out so it just felt hotter
  3422. 2:08:28upstairs usually okay so like I'm out of
  3423. 2:08:31sleeping boxers and like I know that you
  3424. 2:08:33know she we're both like furnaces so
  3425. 2:08:35like we're in bed so
  3426. 2:08:38so a t-shirt underwear like do you know
  3427. 2:08:40that or are you just asking
  3428. 2:08:42okay did you see her like outside I just
  3429. 2:08:46saw her like
  3430. 2:08:47you know
  3431. 2:08:48the gear up because when like my
  3432. 2:08:51thoughts are crawl into bed
  3433. 2:08:53was there hugging or pissing or anything
  3434. 2:08:56else that went on when she got into bed
  3435. 2:08:58no I just I just I just felt feel it
  3436. 2:09:00getting to bed
  3437. 2:09:02where is your like how do you sleep I
  3438. 2:09:04sleep like like facing the wall I
  3439. 2:09:07decided to bed do you sleep on so I'm on
  3440. 2:09:10like if this is the bed I'm on the right
  3441. 2:09:11side she's on the left side so I'm
  3442. 2:09:13usually like this I'm using my back or
  3443. 2:09:15side I'm not a stomach sleeper or
  3444. 2:09:17anything
  3445. 2:09:17okay to your back is to her basically
  3446. 2:09:20that's what I got off that kind of
  3447. 2:09:21filter because that bed is except for
  3448. 2:09:23feeding bed but like it's it sucks I
  3449. 2:09:26could feel her
  3450. 2:09:27get into bed okay
  3451. 2:09:29and then
  3452. 2:09:31um as far as like jewelry you just take
  3453. 2:09:33off jewelry and enough she wears jewelry
  3454. 2:09:36I don't think she wears the wedding ring
  3455. 2:09:39do you wear that to bed
  3456. 2:09:41the only thing like only time she ever
  3457. 2:09:42takes it off is to color her hair the
  3458. 2:09:45color her hair
  3459. 2:09:46just she keeps it now was she
  3460. 2:09:48has she has she stopped wearing it at
  3461. 2:09:51all because of you know you guys going
  3462. 2:09:53through your hard time or anything like
  3463. 2:09:55that she wore to Arizona yeah okay
  3464. 2:09:59okay
  3465. 2:10:01um
  3466. 2:10:02so because I think was her ring left in
  3467. 2:10:05the house yes was that unusual or like
  3468. 2:10:09you found that to be awesome yeah she
  3469. 2:10:11cuttered her hair and be in the bathroom
  3470. 2:10:13and then she put it right back on did
  3471. 2:10:15you see any
  3472. 2:10:16um evidence that she colored her hair
  3473. 2:10:18like to no because she just started her
  3474. 2:10:19hair the week before okay because there
  3475. 2:10:21I think
  3476. 2:10:22her her mom and her they're gonna do it
  3477. 2:10:24because her mom's a hairdresser okay so
  3478. 2:10:27so she does it with her mom or well she
  3479. 2:10:29was gonna do it because her mom's a
  3480. 2:10:30hairdresser is there but I think she
  3481. 2:10:31just colored it on her own okay
  3482. 2:10:35made her change her hair to a different
  3483. 2:10:37color like to you know disguise herself
  3484. 2:10:39like did you get any
  3485. 2:10:41I mean like most of the time she likes
  3486. 2:10:43to keep her hair black
  3487. 2:10:45so okay
  3488. 2:10:48um
  3489. 2:10:50so
  3490. 2:10:52she gets into bed you feel her get into
  3491. 2:10:54bed and then is there a conversation
  3492. 2:10:57you know when she gets into bed no like
  3493. 2:11:00it's we just I'll wait till I get up
  3494. 2:11:03okay and then you get up at four you're
  3495. 2:11:05ready to stop yep and then what happens
  3496. 2:11:07after that that's when uh she talked
  3497. 2:11:10that she had told me the night before
  3498. 2:11:11like you know when I get home I wanna
  3499. 2:11:13want to get up so I can get this airport
  3500. 2:11:15off and take a shower you know tell me
  3501. 2:11:17what that means well let's get the
  3502. 2:11:19airport off of me you know like stuff is
  3503. 2:11:21saying like she didn't want to just you
  3504. 2:11:23know
  3505. 2:11:23get in that light and top in the shower
  3506. 2:11:26and stuff like that so you just want to
  3507. 2:11:27go to sleep so like she wanted to get up
  3508. 2:11:29like when I got up so she could take a
  3509. 2:11:31shower she wanted to get up in two hours
  3510. 2:11:35she thought that like she'd be home at
  3511. 2:11:3711 but that wasn't the case oh so she
  3512. 2:11:40did she tell you that when she used to
  3513. 2:11:42be home in a lot yeah but did you think
  3514. 2:11:43still like maybe she still wants to get
  3515. 2:11:45up and I just I felt if I assume like I
  3516. 2:11:50know I'm just you know it's not gonna be
  3517. 2:11:52in trouble why did you wake me up
  3518. 2:11:54I've I've done that many times and I
  3519. 2:11:56learned that you have to just do what
  3520. 2:12:00she says okay so when it comes to that
  3521. 2:12:02because it's just I don't want a bigger
  3522. 2:12:04man so okay so
  3523. 2:12:07um
  3524. 2:12:09she ends up you wake her up how do you
  3525. 2:12:11wake her up I just like you know like I
  3526. 2:12:14know it's like not to like you know you
  3527. 2:12:16know go like that you know it's kind of
  3528. 2:12:17like rubber shoulder it's kind of like
  3529. 2:12:20really lightly because she'll give me
  3530. 2:12:21the alligator eye like one eye open one
  3531. 2:12:24eye shut type thing and like look at me
  3532. 2:12:25like what the hell are you doing type
  3533. 2:12:26thing well I can just kind of like
  3534. 2:12:28rubber like rub her head just a little
  3535. 2:12:29bit just kind of wake her up like slowly
  3536. 2:12:32not where it's like jolting her or
  3537. 2:12:34anything like that and that's all over
  3538. 2:12:36up so are you outside the bed when
  3539. 2:12:38you're doing that I slid back into bed
  3540. 2:12:39if you're in bed doing that yeah like on
  3541. 2:12:42top yeah okay
  3542. 2:12:44um so I'm in my work clothes and
  3543. 2:12:45everything like that okay and what does
  3544. 2:12:47she say
  3545. 2:12:48she's like uh it's an actor like hey you
  3546. 2:12:50want to wake up take a shower and she's
  3547. 2:12:52like ah yeah I'll do it something like
  3548. 2:12:54that and I I told her like can we like
  3549. 2:12:56can we talk a little bit and she was
  3550. 2:12:57like yes and stop like was she groggy at
  3551. 2:13:00all or was she not in the shoes she was
  3552. 2:13:02pretty
  3553. 2:13:09you know
  3554. 2:13:11we need to sell this house like we need
  3555. 2:13:14to
  3556. 2:13:15downsize we need to get something to
  3557. 2:13:17where we're not it's like it's not
  3558. 2:13:19strapped so much
  3559. 2:13:21because I mean the house I mean you're
  3560. 2:13:22paying like
  3561. 2:13:23I mean can I go now unless we're paying
  3562. 2:13:26a month for the house it was like 2 700
  3563. 2:13:27bucks a month
  3564. 2:13:29and that's that's that's that's a lot
  3565. 2:13:31and I mean with the kids school like it
  3566. 2:13:34was a lot so I was like all right if we
  3567. 2:13:37can like sell the house like she had
  3568. 2:13:38already contacted the realtor like the
  3569. 2:13:40week before through an email
  3570. 2:13:42so like the realtor already kind of new
  3571. 2:13:45about like that we were interested in
  3572. 2:13:47buying the house
  3573. 2:13:49like how long have you lived in that
  3574. 2:13:50house 2013. okay so you may 2015. okay
  3575. 2:13:55so like that I went through that and
  3576. 2:13:57actually like I was you know maybe just
  3577. 2:13:59get something smaller like bright and
  3578. 2:14:02North Glen I mean somewhere that's
  3579. 2:14:05cheaper I mean I know nothing's cheap
  3580. 2:14:06right now
  3581. 2:14:07for just something but like I told her
  3582. 2:14:09you know like and told her about what I
  3583. 2:14:12was feeling like I didn't want to text
  3584. 2:14:13her I didn't want to call her about like
  3585. 2:14:14a separation like like really like
  3586. 2:14:17I wanted to be face to face while
  3587. 2:14:18they're talking about that
  3588. 2:14:20and so tell me how that conversation
  3589. 2:14:22went it was just about like I just don't
  3590. 2:14:25feel the connection anymore
  3591. 2:14:26and that like how we're how we were
  3592. 2:14:29together like it just wasn't working
  3593. 2:14:31anymore and that like the love that we
  3594. 2:14:34had in the beginning I don't feel that
  3595. 2:14:37anymore and that I mean she she said you
  3596. 2:14:40know like that's more just just crying
  3597. 2:14:42and emotional and it was was he mad at
  3598. 2:14:45all
  3599. 2:14:46I mean being crying crying like she was
  3600. 2:14:49crying like I was I mean yeah I mean she
  3601. 2:14:52was upset
  3602. 2:14:53but I mean it was it was it comes with
  3603. 2:14:55that kind of conversation
  3604. 2:14:57like I didn't she accused you of
  3605. 2:15:00anything I mean being a woman I mean
  3606. 2:15:02she's like is there somebody else I'm
  3607. 2:15:04like no there's nobody else I mean this
  3608. 2:15:06is this is me talking to you about this
  3609. 2:15:09isn't it like somebody came into my life
  3610. 2:15:11and took me from you this is you know me
  3611. 2:15:14talking to you
  3612. 2:15:16this is just me it's like there's no
  3613. 2:15:19outside influence coming from this like
  3614. 2:15:21this is what it's going to this is this
  3615. 2:15:24is how I feel did she seem like she
  3616. 2:15:26believed that well I thought it was
  3617. 2:15:28nobody else yeah she I mean
  3618. 2:15:31I believe her when you know like if I
  3619. 2:15:34believe that she would never have like
  3620. 2:15:36an affair on me and
  3621. 2:15:38she knows I wouldn't do that to her
  3622. 2:15:41like we've like I mean we've talked
  3623. 2:15:43about that before like many times like
  3624. 2:15:45did you ever accuse you of that in the
  3625. 2:15:47past no
  3626. 2:15:48is she ever like suspected like anyone
  3627. 2:15:50else that you're close to like way way
  3628. 2:15:53way early in our relationship like you
  3629. 2:15:55know when
  3630. 2:15:56when we first got together and I was
  3631. 2:15:58still getting that message from people
  3632. 2:15:59without girls that I was friends with
  3633. 2:16:01and she asked questions and like stuff
  3634. 2:16:03like that like who's that like how you
  3635. 2:16:04know her like and I were just like I
  3636. 2:16:07would just like you know
  3637. 2:16:08not talking them anymore just like ease
  3638. 2:16:10her mind type thing was she like a
  3639. 2:16:13jealous person that would you know look
  3640. 2:16:15through your phone or and she had full
  3641. 2:16:17access to my phone I know but did she
  3642. 2:16:19I'm seriously I mean if she used my
  3643. 2:16:22phone for Facebook or like Thrive or
  3644. 2:16:26and she said
  3645. 2:16:27yeah because she like she would she
  3646. 2:16:30would run like
  3647. 2:16:31like that's from the Thrive stuff
  3648. 2:16:33through me
  3649. 2:16:35like she would like make a post for me
  3650. 2:16:37or something like that well
  3651. 2:16:40stuff like that did you do that as well
  3652. 2:16:42like
  3653. 2:16:45like the only reason I log in on
  3654. 2:16:47Facebook like the last two days is to
  3655. 2:16:49show the cops like like other pictures
  3656. 2:16:51and stuff like that or show like the
  3657. 2:16:53news crew a picture or something like
  3658. 2:16:55that okay because she had she had a lot
  3659. 2:16:57she had it on my phone as well she could
  3660. 2:16:59just like log in there too if like she
  3661. 2:17:02did it because like sometimes her phone
  3662. 2:17:03messed up and she just used my phone and
  3663. 2:17:05his phone was right there and then hers
  3664. 2:17:07was on yours as well is that right
  3665. 2:17:10no she just used mine no but as far as
  3666. 2:17:12UV oh yeah yeah she can toggle back and
  3667. 2:17:14forth okay okay actually just log out of
  3668. 2:17:16hers and go into yeah it was just it was
  3669. 2:17:18one of those things like she knew I
  3670. 2:17:19couldn't sell
  3671. 2:17:21a few hours yeah like she would just use
  3672. 2:17:24like any friends that I had and just
  3673. 2:17:27went from there okay
  3674. 2:17:29how's the conversation with her like how
  3675. 2:17:31long did it last what'd you say
  3676. 2:17:34like so like from 4 15 to just like
  3677. 2:17:39closer to like five
  3678. 2:17:41and I guess I'm a little
  3679. 2:17:44you were telling her out let's sell the
  3680. 2:17:46house and get a house like cheaper and
  3681. 2:17:48bright well just like I wanted to sell
  3682. 2:17:49the house just like so we can get like
  3683. 2:17:52if we do separate
  3684. 2:17:54like we'd have like some money to
  3685. 2:17:57ourselves and we could like like if I
  3686. 2:18:00was hoping she would stay here like
  3687. 2:18:02because she had told me before like you
  3688. 2:18:04know if we did separate like she
  3689. 2:18:06couldn't afford Liquor on her own and
  3690. 2:18:08she said neither could I
  3691. 2:18:09was just like you know like if I give it
  3692. 2:18:12a shot like whatever money that we get
  3693. 2:18:13from the house like you know you weren't
  3694. 2:18:15talking about you
  3695. 2:18:18guys
  3696. 2:18:20like we can
  3697. 2:18:23we can go like we can we can have some
  3698. 2:18:26money left over like and
  3699. 2:18:29have be close to each other tell me
  3700. 2:18:32about
  3701. 2:18:32um I know it sucks having to sit in here
  3702. 2:18:35and talk to each other
  3703. 2:18:38um
  3704. 2:18:39tell me about your financial situation I
  3705. 2:18:41know twenty seven hundred dollars is a
  3706. 2:18:43lot for uh house payment yeah I mean how
  3707. 2:18:46much were you paying for at primrose
  3708. 2:18:48I think last year we paid like twenty
  3709. 2:18:50five thousand dollars
  3710. 2:18:57I think it's closer to like 500 and some
  3711. 2:19:00dollars a week
  3712. 2:19:01okay that's a lot
  3713. 2:19:07what other bills do you guys have there
  3714. 2:19:09uh surgeries from Genesis next surgery
  3715. 2:19:13that's what happened to her name a disc
  3716. 2:19:16that was compression down there was like
  3717. 2:19:18nothing like there's no like fluid that
  3718. 2:19:20like the spinal cord with the fluid the
  3719. 2:19:22support it was it was just going on bone
  3720. 2:19:25and sure yeah she has a scar like right
  3721. 2:19:26here did she have insurance when that
  3722. 2:19:28happened what okay yeah it was like over
  3723. 2:19:32a hundred thousand dollars surgery so
  3724. 2:19:33how much you guys will have left to pay
  3725. 2:19:35on that she covered all the finances as
  3726. 2:19:38far as like that how long ago was that
  3727. 2:19:40that surgery it was last
  3728. 2:19:45no
  3729. 2:19:49earlier this I could look on my phone
  3730. 2:19:53um
  3731. 2:19:54I thought it was last
  3732. 2:19:55yeah it was last year because I remember
  3733. 2:19:57Christina from Hawaii came to help and
  3734. 2:20:01it was during football season okay so I
  3735. 2:20:04think it was last August September
  3736. 2:20:06October somewhere around there okay
  3737. 2:20:09so fairly recently yeah okay so what
  3738. 2:20:12other big
  3739. 2:20:14uh on cc's
  3740. 2:20:20for eoe because she had acid reflux okay
  3741. 2:20:24and uh allergy testing and
  3742. 2:20:27Fifi had a clogged tear duct
  3743. 2:20:31and uh
  3744. 2:20:33yeah uh tubes in their ears and their
  3745. 2:20:36adenoids removed oh goodness
  3746. 2:20:39so there's that
  3747. 2:20:41yeah that was that that what medication
  3748. 2:20:43are they on are they on some medication
  3749. 2:20:45um they have inhalers for like
  3750. 2:20:48um for they were going through like like
  3751. 2:20:51they said it was like child asthma but I
  3752. 2:20:54couldn't call it asthma because they're
  3753. 2:20:55so young so they would have like a
  3754. 2:20:57little inhaler that albuterol inhaler
  3755. 2:20:58there
  3756. 2:21:00and see if you have Singulair
  3757. 2:21:03which was for allergies like
  3758. 2:21:06um and Bella or enthusiastic result too
  3759. 2:21:09for the acid reflux
  3760. 2:21:13that's the stuff that you'd give them at
  3761. 2:21:15night pretty much all my Brazil I just
  3762. 2:21:17kind of give gives you that
  3763. 2:21:19when uh just throughout the day like 30
  3764. 2:21:21minutes before she eats if that's just I
  3765. 2:21:23gotta remember like somewhere in there
  3766. 2:21:24and sing when I give it to her at night
  3767. 2:21:25okay okay
  3768. 2:21:28um so what are the big bills do you have
  3769. 2:21:30I think that was mainly what we've had
  3770. 2:21:32in some credit card bills how much do
  3771. 2:21:34you think you owe on credit cards total
  3772. 2:21:38so you're just like a random guess
  3773. 2:21:45I'm gonna guess about eight to ten
  3774. 2:21:47thousand
  3775. 2:21:48I'm that's I have like you don't do the
  3776. 2:21:51finances no because I mean yeah because
  3777. 2:21:54since she knew like like from when she
  3778. 2:21:56met me like
  3779. 2:21:57the one stupid thing that I did was that
  3780. 2:22:00I sold my four-wheeler for last night
  3781. 2:22:01and I then I owed on it and she just
  3782. 2:22:04like the stupidest thing I've ever heard
  3783. 2:22:06or never touched on science I'm like
  3784. 2:22:08okay I can deal with that right what
  3785. 2:22:10about like car payments and stuff
  3786. 2:22:13was paid for by the bill
  3787. 2:22:15what's that the car was paid for about
  3788. 2:22:17their eyes was that Lavell is a company
  3789. 2:22:19that drives the product Oh so she's if
  3790. 2:22:22you if you're
  3791. 2:22:24team sells over 12 000 a month they give
  3792. 2:22:27you a car bonus
  3793. 2:22:29oh yeah so they pay the bills the car
  3794. 2:22:32bill yeah they give you 800 bucks a
  3795. 2:22:34month
  3796. 2:22:35you drive to the car I have a family
  3797. 2:22:37card
  3798. 2:22:38very nice
  3799. 2:22:40wow
  3800. 2:22:41strike thing is kind of crazy
  3801. 2:22:44okay so what about any other bills or
  3802. 2:22:46any other symmetry in the surgeries and
  3803. 2:22:49the kids uh low operations
  3804. 2:22:53and credit cards
  3805. 2:22:55in the house just like utilities
  3806. 2:22:59stuff like that and we we did solve for
  3807. 2:23:01bankruptcy like two years ago just
  3808. 2:23:03because of everything that was like on
  3809. 2:23:04our plate and how much was discharged in
  3810. 2:23:07that bankruptcy
  3811. 2:23:08I am not sure
  3812. 2:23:13it includes you know cars and yeah not
  3813. 2:23:17Cars was a part of it because
  3814. 2:23:19because she was uh she was supposed to
  3815. 2:23:21know at that point in time
  3816. 2:23:23I think it was it was mainly like a lot
  3817. 2:23:25of like
  3818. 2:23:26maybe furniture that we owed on
  3819. 2:23:29um just everything that is hard to put
  3820. 2:23:32even a ballpark number honestly because
  3821. 2:23:34it wasn't medical like medical Bank
  3822. 2:23:36seems different than just normal Banker
  3823. 2:23:37thing so that kind of that was touched
  3824. 2:23:40and the house it was still you know it
  3825. 2:23:42wasn't part of it either no
  3826. 2:23:45so just like anything else that was like
  3827. 2:23:47like outstanding or pending
  3828. 2:23:50but I I couldn't even put a ballpark I
  3829. 2:23:53really don't know
  3830. 2:23:54I'm sorry about that oh it's okay that's
  3831. 2:23:56okay so how would you like classify your
  3832. 2:23:59financial situation
  3833. 2:24:02I mean with with everything that we have
  3834. 2:24:04going on I mean like with when the kids
  3835. 2:24:06like
  3836. 2:24:07go back when they're when they're going
  3837. 2:24:09back to school it was it'd probably be
  3838. 2:24:11like pretty much like check to check if
  3839. 2:24:13you know because most like she had taken
  3840. 2:24:16out a loan on my 401k as well to catch
  3841. 2:24:18up with the house payments
  3842. 2:24:20okay so how much did she take out
  3843. 2:24:25ten thousand okay you want to watch that
  3844. 2:24:28all right so
  3845. 2:24:31I'm gonna say five months ago
  3846. 2:24:34I'm just ballpark in that okay but just
  3847. 2:24:37because we were like almost three months
  3848. 2:24:38behind okay was it so was it close to
  3849. 2:24:41being repossessed or were you guys not
  3850. 2:24:43like we had a letter from Chase
  3851. 2:24:45that's who the lender's from
  3852. 2:24:49what did how did she feel about the
  3853. 2:24:52situation you guys are in I mean she was
  3854. 2:24:54stressed out about it I mean that's why
  3855. 2:24:56we took the 401K loan out and that was
  3856. 2:24:58the match we could do and just put it
  3857. 2:25:00all towards the house and like get
  3858. 2:25:02caught up
  3859. 2:25:03so are you current right now
  3860. 2:25:06I just got paid August
  3861. 2:25:12tomorrow okay
  3862. 2:25:16um
  3863. 2:25:17and who
  3864. 2:25:18do you guys get health insurance through
  3865. 2:25:20your job yeah if you're not Healthcare
  3866. 2:25:21okay how much do you pay for that each
  3867. 2:25:24month
  3868. 2:25:25I think it's like three fifty something
  3869. 2:25:28oh every two every two weeks
  3870. 2:25:32350. I think it's better I'm trying to
  3871. 2:25:35think that 700 a month it's
  3872. 2:25:39uh look at my last pay stuff but maybe
  3873. 2:25:41it's like 500 something a month
  3874. 2:25:44so I'm trying to think like I'm like all
  3875. 2:25:46the deductions that we have coming out
  3876. 2:25:47for like me plus spouse and child type
  3877. 2:25:51thing so they don't they don't classify
  3878. 2:25:54it as like you know like if you have
  3879. 2:25:55another child it goes up it's just like
  3880. 2:25:57you know
  3881. 2:25:58U plus spouse plus child for family yeah
  3882. 2:26:01yeah okay I think it's it's every two
  3883. 2:26:04weeks kind of paid bi-weekly so I have
  3884. 2:26:07to look at my last check but I think
  3885. 2:26:09it's about
  3886. 2:26:11maybe it's like five something a month
  3887. 2:26:13okay
  3888. 2:26:14so that's health insurance what about
  3889. 2:26:16life insurance do you guys have any life
  3890. 2:26:18insurance yes yeah I got a
  3891. 2:26:21one for
  3892. 2:26:22schnann through work and then one for
  3893. 2:26:25both kids through work
  3894. 2:26:27I think balance list is like a 20 000
  3895. 2:26:30one
  3896. 2:26:31I think that doesn't actually could do
  3897. 2:26:3320 000 a piece yeah I think that's what
  3898. 2:26:35it is you know yeah and like I think
  3899. 2:26:39shenando's is like 50 or 100 so that
  3900. 2:26:42doesn't actually do
  3901. 2:26:43okay do you guys have any like other
  3902. 2:26:45place life insurance for them either I
  3903. 2:26:47think that has like like her own and I
  3904. 2:26:49have my own type thing okay how much do
  3905. 2:26:51you have on you no clue
  3906. 2:26:54why why wouldn't you know what what you
  3907. 2:27:00because like uh I think um the person
  3908. 2:27:03who introduced us uh my cousin's wife
  3909. 2:27:06she did like insurance I think she did
  3910. 2:27:08it through her okay what's her name
  3911. 2:27:10again uh her name's Nick Nicole because
  3912. 2:27:14they're not together anymore uh Nicole
  3913. 2:27:16Kennedy Nicole Kennedy yeah oh they're
  3914. 2:27:18not they're not married anymore is she
  3915. 2:27:20are you guys still close with her or
  3916. 2:27:22like would you talk no I don't think
  3917. 2:27:23they have to stand in her [ __ ] now
  3918. 2:27:24they just haven't fallen out there's
  3919. 2:27:27nothing about like like her old boss and
  3920. 2:27:29like some like and money things as far
  3921. 2:27:32as like him and some like it was
  3922. 2:27:36something I didn't know about I'm
  3923. 2:27:37starting today embezzling yeah okay like
  3924. 2:27:39the he was the boss was embezzling or
  3925. 2:27:42did they ask you shanana I think it was
  3926. 2:27:44the other way around but I had like no
  3927. 2:27:46like really detailed about it and it was
  3928. 2:27:49just like one was saying one thing one
  3929. 2:27:51saying the other
  3930. 2:27:52I'm just like I just want to make sure
  3931. 2:27:55I'm not getting as much stuff yeah the
  3932. 2:27:57boss may be a maybe accused shenanas and
  3933. 2:28:00battling money yeah and how long ago
  3934. 2:28:02would that have been well that was like
  3935. 2:28:04right before I met her like 2010 yeah
  3936. 2:28:07okay and where was she working was she
  3937. 2:28:09working at that like her boss like her
  3938. 2:28:12boss was the one that owned all the
  3939. 2:28:13wheel shops
  3940. 2:28:14and I think Nicole Daniel has a gator I
  3941. 2:28:17mean if she was she did insurance at
  3942. 2:28:19that point in time
  3943. 2:28:20and
  3944. 2:28:22so whatever
  3945. 2:28:25happens they're they're they're still
  3946. 2:28:27good friends
  3947. 2:28:28the boss and your wife yeah okay he's
  3948. 2:28:31actually he's like putting everything on
  3949. 2:28:33Facebook like everybody he has contacts
  3950. 2:28:35all around the world
  3951. 2:28:37so they're still like yeah as she's
  3952. 2:28:39trying to get them on Thrive and all
  3953. 2:28:41that kind of stuff I think he actually
  3954. 2:28:42uses it but not right but he uses it
  3955. 2:28:44okay
  3956. 2:28:47um and then you said
  3957. 2:28:49Nicole and shanann have enough falling
  3958. 2:28:52out because of that that's okay there's
  3959. 2:28:54there's like there's so many nicoles
  3960. 2:28:56there's Nicole's there's Nicks there I
  3961. 2:28:57don't want to get all this like mixed up
  3962. 2:28:59so yeah okay but you don't talk to
  3963. 2:29:02Nicole Kennedy either I haven't talked
  3964. 2:29:03to her in years she didn't reach out to
  3965. 2:29:05you after all this happened or anything
  3966. 2:29:07like that no so do you have any idea
  3967. 2:29:09like what policy shenan would have
  3968. 2:29:12gotten on you like how big it would have
  3969. 2:29:14been or
  3970. 2:29:15you probably know what you're worth oh I
  3971. 2:29:19know I have like a dismemberment thing
  3972. 2:29:20at work if I get dismembered like 250
  3973. 2:29:23000 or something like that but as far as
  3974. 2:29:25like anything outside of work I'm I'm no
  3975. 2:29:28sh no clue about a dollar amount
  3976. 2:29:30I know she set all that up okay
  3977. 2:29:33for her and you yeah okay did you ever
  3978. 2:29:36help her with that at all
  3979. 2:29:38right she she handles all that like
  3980. 2:29:40she's like she always did books at the
  3981. 2:29:43jobs like at the wheel stores and
  3982. 2:29:45everything like that and she was really
  3983. 2:29:47good at it I mean she's I mean she's
  3984. 2:29:50great with mine so solution yeah okay as
  3985. 2:29:53she knows exactly like I I don't need to
  3986. 2:29:55pay this right now I can pay all this
  3987. 2:29:56and I can continue to like where where
  3988. 2:29:58to get the outer money yeah
  3989. 2:30:02right now yeah and she knew what the
  3990. 2:30:04priorities were so so how were you
  3991. 2:30:08um like how are you right this moment
  3992. 2:30:10with your financial situation like do
  3993. 2:30:12you have money open on credit cards
  3994. 2:30:14money in the bank like that kind of
  3995. 2:30:15stuff yeah like uh so I think in Chase
  3996. 2:30:18we have like maybe like 2 000 in there
  3997. 2:30:21in USA probably about 1500. is are those
  3998. 2:30:24checking accounts are those just
  3999. 2:30:25checking checking okay
  4000. 2:30:28because credit cards like most ones I
  4001. 2:30:31I've used credit cards I know they're
  4002. 2:30:33like pretty much like she pays the
  4003. 2:30:35minimum on it so like I don't use them
  4004. 2:30:36like maxed out probably more than likely
  4005. 2:30:39I mean if they're within shirt with the
  4006. 2:30:40entrance and interest payments and
  4007. 2:30:44whatnot just pay the minimum they don't
  4008. 2:30:45go down much but like
  4009. 2:30:47I don't like Capital One maybe has like
  4010. 2:30:49a hundred bucks left to spend on it or
  4011. 2:30:52something like that
  4012. 2:30:53and like they credit one and the other
  4013. 2:30:56couple ones I got them like I know those
  4014. 2:30:58probably
  4015. 2:30:59don't have much on them so I don't even
  4016. 2:31:00use them
  4017. 2:31:02so when you're um talking to Cheyenne
  4018. 2:31:05obviously in the bed about you know your
  4019. 2:31:07financial situation and that you think
  4020. 2:31:09you should separate and that kind of
  4021. 2:31:11stuff like does she ever like act out
  4022. 2:31:12against you like you know being pissed
  4023. 2:31:15off like slap you know what no I
  4024. 2:31:18couldn't no it's not my financial
  4025. 2:31:19situation in general no no like like
  4026. 2:31:22that morning when you guys were talking
  4027. 2:31:24in bed and she's crying and upset like
  4028. 2:31:26does she act out oh no we've never like
  4029. 2:31:29raised the hand to each other struck
  4030. 2:31:30each other like
  4031. 2:31:33yell at each other like it's like when
  4032. 2:31:37we talk it's pretty civil I mean there's
  4033. 2:31:41no she didn't raise a hand she didn't
  4034. 2:31:42yell if she was doing that
  4035. 2:31:45oh
  4036. 2:31:47no definitely not
  4037. 2:31:48so when is
  4038. 2:31:53so it's about almost about five
  4039. 2:31:56okay so about 45 minutes yeah that's
  4040. 2:31:58like irritated okay and then she tells
  4041. 2:32:01you I'm taking the kids to a friend's
  4042. 2:32:02house but I'll be back later yeah and
  4043. 2:32:04she didn't tell you what friend that it
  4044. 2:32:05was or did she that's why I was very big
  4045. 2:32:07and that's why I texted her later to say
  4046. 2:32:09like hey like if you could tell me where
  4047. 2:32:11you went and where the kids up like
  4048. 2:32:13redificated like yeah
  4049. 2:32:15like no okay and then
  4050. 2:32:19get out of bed yeah so I could go
  4051. 2:32:22downstairs and pack my lunch
  4052. 2:32:25make a protein shake down that took a
  4053. 2:32:28lot of jug up get my computer get my
  4054. 2:32:29book bag
  4055. 2:32:31and put some more Tools in my truck
  4056. 2:32:33and
  4057. 2:32:35yeah and your truck is where at this
  4058. 2:32:36time over on the corner of the house
  4059. 2:32:39yeah it's over on the west side and
  4060. 2:32:42that's where you normally park the truck
  4061. 2:32:44might be a bear across street where the
  4062. 2:32:46neighbors is over there because I had a
  4063. 2:32:48Parker over there because someone
  4064. 2:32:49there's somebody going through their
  4065. 2:32:50garages and cars parked on the outside
  4066. 2:32:53like stealing stuff like in your
  4067. 2:32:55neighborhood
  4068. 2:32:56Frederick and then our neighborhood
  4069. 2:32:58there's like three or four nights in a
  4070. 2:33:00row like they found somebody
  4071. 2:33:02like um on cameras are you saying you
  4072. 2:33:05parked the the truck a little closer to
  4073. 2:33:07your house or well like sometimes I was
  4074. 2:33:10parking on on the neighbor's side for
  4075. 2:33:11his camera phases oh just so they can
  4076. 2:33:13touch it just like it like it's my my
  4077. 2:33:16goal on the camera doesn't reach that
  4078. 2:33:17far okay
  4079. 2:33:20okay where angle is like if you looked
  4080. 2:33:22at the surveillance video he told me
  4081. 2:33:23where to park it oh he did yeah so that
  4082. 2:33:25it could watch it yeah okay he told me
  4083. 2:33:27to park it like right I didn't want to
  4084. 2:33:29park in front of the driveway because I
  4085. 2:33:30want somebody's back into it like his
  4086. 2:33:32life or somebody didn't forgot like oh
  4087. 2:33:33there's not usually a truck there or
  4088. 2:33:35something like that they want some just
  4089. 2:33:37back into it sure so tell me that
  4090. 2:33:39morning exactly what you did with your
  4091. 2:33:41truck and yeah so I got in my truck
  4092. 2:33:43pull forward back up to my garage so I
  4093. 2:33:46can get everything in because since it
  4094. 2:33:48was over the weekend like at everything
  4095. 2:33:50already inside like I want to just give
  4096. 2:33:52I have my big clear container and my
  4097. 2:33:54O-rings and like my headphones or my ear
  4098. 2:33:56earbuds and everything like that and I
  4099. 2:33:59had to get a couple like uh combination
  4100. 2:34:01wrenches opening wrenches for my toolbox
  4101. 2:34:03I knew like I was gonna rebuild some
  4102. 2:34:04stuff a stuffing box that day or helping
  4103. 2:34:06Troy do that and Cody and uh Melissa and
  4104. 2:34:10Chad we're gonna be out there too so I
  4105. 2:34:12had to get some opening wrenches and
  4106. 2:34:14stuff like that out of my own toolbox
  4107. 2:34:16because that works better than the ones
  4108. 2:34:17like because they're for longer more to
  4109. 2:34:20work on them so get all that threw it in
  4110. 2:34:22my truck and are you talking about you
  4111. 2:34:24threw stuff in the back of your truck or
  4112. 2:34:25the passenger I got two big clear
  4113. 2:34:28containers in there I can't keep things
  4114. 2:34:30organized
  4115. 2:34:31so like I like if I have somebody riding
  4116. 2:34:33with me like if I was like a ride along
  4117. 2:34:34or something like because I do trainees
  4118. 2:34:36every once in a while so then they they
  4119. 2:34:38can have their stuff in there too so I
  4120. 2:34:40can just slice up over move it and just
  4121. 2:34:42like they can just jump into okay
  4122. 2:34:46so
  4123. 2:34:48so you load all that stuff up and then
  4124. 2:34:50like how long do you think that takes
  4125. 2:34:52you to do that
  4126. 2:34:54product remember okay so then 515 to
  4127. 2:34:57like 5 25 or so okay and are you
  4128. 2:35:00actually backed into the garage or just
  4129. 2:35:02in the driveway
  4130. 2:35:03back then goes like not really back into
  4131. 2:35:06the garage because her car was sitting
  4132. 2:35:07in the garage
  4133. 2:35:08so how far in the garage do you think
  4134. 2:35:10you were core or the way a quarter of
  4135. 2:35:12the way well
  4136. 2:35:14okay
  4137. 2:35:18is it a big truck anyway it's F250 okay
  4138. 2:35:21yeah it won't fit in the garage because
  4139. 2:35:24it's too long so okay
  4140. 2:35:27um
  4141. 2:35:27do you little that uh stuff up and then
  4142. 2:35:29what do you do from there what
  4143. 2:35:32get in the truck and
  4144. 2:35:34pull forward or hit the button for the
  4145. 2:35:37garage door to close and drive drive off
  4146. 2:35:40so how often do you actually take your
  4147. 2:35:42tools out and put them in the garage or
  4148. 2:35:44in the house or wherever you put them
  4149. 2:35:45take that container out you can do it
  4150. 2:35:46like that one solid on the Friday like I
  4151. 2:35:48got everything done like get it in there
  4152. 2:35:50get it was that normal that you would
  4153. 2:35:52take it out on Friday and then that
  4154. 2:35:53Monday when you go to work you would
  4155. 2:35:55back your truck in and load your stuff
  4156. 2:35:56in I mean but that's pretty cool for me
  4157. 2:35:58that's a normal thing routine that you
  4158. 2:36:00do okay just because you don't want to
  4159. 2:36:02leave it out there for the weekend yeah
  4160. 2:36:04because that's especially if it's
  4161. 2:36:06somebody like Ryan or like going around
  4162. 2:36:08trying to steal stuff out of like trucks
  4163. 2:36:10or things and uh but during the week you
  4164. 2:36:13at least throw the camera or something
  4165. 2:36:15or yeah like I'm usually pretty up all
  4166. 2:36:17right well like like
  4167. 2:36:18back it in on one side where like if
  4168. 2:36:21somebody had to go up to my truck
  4169. 2:36:23maybe my doorbell camera will get it
  4170. 2:36:25okay okay just something like that just
  4171. 2:36:28I'm trying to be like proactive about it
  4172. 2:36:30sure so um you end up pulling out you
  4173. 2:36:33put do you put the garage door down yeah
  4174. 2:36:36it's open give me an idea of the route
  4175. 2:36:39that you take to work because I don't
  4176. 2:36:40know this area and how you get to work
  4177. 2:36:43and stuff like it seems like you kind of
  4178. 2:36:44work out in the middle
  4179. 2:36:45so yeah like what's the route you took
  4180. 2:36:47so like that you have like 52 oh Highway
  4181. 2:36:5152. and then go out to like while on top
  4182. 2:36:55so start from like your driveway like
  4183. 2:36:58what streets you're on
  4184. 2:37:00unless you get right out to 50. oh I'm
  4185. 2:37:02kind of like uh Saratoga Trail and then
  4186. 2:37:06Windham Hill Parkway and just tell me
  4187. 2:37:08right through left that you're going
  4188. 2:37:09okay so Saratoga Trail it's like a right
  4189. 2:37:11Windham Hill Parkway
  4190. 2:37:13uh roundabout take a right on pattern
  4191. 2:37:16seven
  4192. 2:37:18I think it last counter if it's two
  4193. 2:37:21take 52 and this morning I went out to
  4194. 2:37:24uh went off the location so for down 52
  4195. 2:37:27uh East
  4196. 2:37:29onto I-76 out to
  4197. 2:37:32I don't know that or after Rogen and out
  4198. 2:37:35to a ranch sorry Ranch I don't know it's
  4199. 2:37:38like 380 kind of like 386 or something
  4200. 2:37:40like that do you have like a GPS that
  4201. 2:37:42gets you there okay oh no well the I
  4202. 2:37:45knew I knew the way out there my whole
  4203. 2:37:48area like I know where everything is do
  4204. 2:37:50you have a truck
  4205. 2:37:52Garmin or whatever no no like it's just
  4206. 2:37:55one that like tractor speeding and like
  4207. 2:37:58heartbreaking and stuff like that oh
  4208. 2:37:59like your employer yeah oh okay stuff
  4209. 2:38:03like that but as far as like one oh no
  4210. 2:38:05like on my phone or on my work phone
  4211. 2:38:07there's like a well Navigator type thing
  4212. 2:38:11like if you like if I was going to a
  4213. 2:38:13spot
  4214. 2:38:14like out of my area type thing like I
  4215. 2:38:17could use it for that but usually I can
  4216. 2:38:18just like tap it in my computer on the
  4217. 2:38:20directory and I can look up County Road
  4218. 2:38:22like intersections and I can get there
  4219. 2:38:23that way but all the ones I have in our
  4220. 2:38:25area like from County Road 22
  4221. 2:38:29um South that's our area all the way
  4222. 2:38:32like to the airport okay so like I've
  4223. 2:38:35been to pretty much every single one of
  4224. 2:38:36them so like they somebody says that I'm
  4225. 2:38:38at the Thomason 21 16 like okay I know
  4226. 2:38:41where that's at or someone tells me I'm
  4227. 2:38:43at or you know I'm at the Richie casting
  4228. 2:38:45the number one I know where that's at
  4229. 2:38:46someone building up the Mars 28c I know
  4230. 2:38:48where that's at and yeah so this one you
  4231. 2:38:51went to what which Wells did you go to
  4232. 2:38:53when you were going to the 3319 February
  4233. 2:38:5611 29 survey 10 29 36 29. so which one
  4234. 2:39:01did you go to First
  4235. 2:39:04there uh they showed up afterwards like
  4236. 2:39:07Troy showed up Melissa Chad showed up
  4237. 2:39:10and uh Cody was up at 10 29. and I know
  4238. 2:39:14Troy's last name McCoy Melissa Parish
  4239. 2:39:17John McNeil
  4240. 2:39:19Cody Roberts he was out on the ranch as
  4241. 2:39:22well but he wasn't at that one yet okay
  4242. 2:39:24okay so you get out there about what
  4243. 2:39:26time you think
  4244. 2:39:28all right well 6 45 or so okay and you
  4245. 2:39:34at that point in time because Cody had
  4246. 2:39:35Cody Roberts he had reported that he had
  4247. 2:39:38a leaking line out there
  4248. 2:39:40on the back pressure line on the notice
  4249. 2:39:43that makes sense but a back pressure
  4250. 2:39:44line going up to the tank and there was
  4251. 2:39:47a uh there's a spot on the ground like a
  4252. 2:39:50wet spot like a like oil was leaking
  4253. 2:39:51okay so he said like it just kind of
  4254. 2:39:54happened on Friday and I was and Troy
  4255. 2:39:56told me about it I told my dad you know
  4256. 2:39:59did you go right there with him of
  4257. 2:40:01trying to help him fix that or Friday I
  4258. 2:40:03was gonna work no I mean but Monday
  4259. 2:40:05morning because it wasn't like he was
  4260. 2:40:06going to meet me out there but he
  4261. 2:40:07decided to go that 10 29 first to uh
  4262. 2:40:11check on that pump unit get it trying to
  4263. 2:40:13stroke up trying to see it feel like get
  4264. 2:40:15some pump action down the hole okay so
  4265. 2:40:17you're at 6 45 at um 3 19 and where
  4266. 2:40:22you're like what time does your do your
  4267. 2:40:24other people show up probably about I'm
  4268. 2:40:27going to say about 7 15 7 30 from around
  4269. 2:40:30there and I'm like I'm trying to
  4270. 2:40:31pressure test the line to see if I can
  4271. 2:40:33find a leak did they see you like I mean
  4272. 2:40:35there's like trucks out there and you're
  4273. 2:40:37out there are you having conversation
  4274. 2:40:39yeah oh yeah everybody's out there like
  4275. 2:40:40the word pressure definitely line we're
  4276. 2:40:42digging that line down a little bit so
  4277. 2:40:44you can see something spraying out and
  4278. 2:40:46so why aren't I guess I'm why are they
  4279. 2:40:48not there when you're there they might
  4280. 2:40:49get office first most of the time like
  4281. 2:40:51they either go the office first you
  4282. 2:40:53always feel the first one or two okay
  4283. 2:40:54like we have a couple guys that start
  4284. 2:40:55out in the field some people start out
  4285. 2:40:57in the office I just knew he had a leak
  4286. 2:40:58there over the weekend I was just like
  4287. 2:41:00all right let's see what this is or I
  4288. 2:41:01don't want this like game like somewhere
  4289. 2:41:03where it's gonna get so big that it's
  4290. 2:41:05gonna be like all right I've got like a
  4291. 2:41:07health stage environmental issue on our
  4292. 2:41:08hands back there
  4293. 2:41:10okay
  4294. 2:41:12um and as far as you leaving at 5 30 and
  4295. 2:41:14getting to your place at you know 6 45
  4296. 2:41:16is that normal like you would normally
  4297. 2:41:18obviously between 5 30 and six o'clock
  4298. 2:41:20somewhere around there okay I just knew
  4299. 2:41:22it's taking a while to get out there I
  4300. 2:41:24want to be out like but we usually like
  4301. 2:41:25to start at work at like 6 30. okay so
  4302. 2:41:28like if I'm going to the office I'll
  4303. 2:41:30leave like 5 50 or so did you pick up
  4304. 2:41:32anyone on the way or something anyway
  4305. 2:41:34like at the convenience store gas
  4306. 2:41:36station any stops
  4307. 2:41:39no on the way out there no okay if you
  4308. 2:41:42go straight out there all of a sudden
  4309. 2:41:43the co-workers start showing up around 7
  4310. 2:41:4515 7 30 and then how long are you at
  4311. 2:41:48that well
  4312. 2:41:51probably till because we're at that 10
  4313. 2:41:5429 like for most of the day
  4314. 2:41:57I know at the 10 29 we were probably
  4315. 2:41:58there at 11.
  4316. 2:42:01because we were there or probably nearly
  4317. 2:42:04about 10 o'clock we were there
  4318. 2:42:06but
  4319. 2:42:07it's at that one location probably about
  4320. 2:42:09an hour
  4321. 2:42:13trying to get because we had to dig out
  4322. 2:42:14that line right where it was leaking
  4323. 2:42:15right where like because when the pipe
  4324. 2:42:17comes out of the ground it was leaking
  4325. 2:42:19like maybe like a foot underneath it and
  4326. 2:42:22what happened like really like something
  4327. 2:42:23like eight through a corroded the pipe
  4328. 2:42:25and when we're pressure testing the line
  4329. 2:42:27up to a certain up to a certain PSI we
  4330. 2:42:30finally got up to a certain Phi or and
  4331. 2:42:32just started this like bubbling oil out
  4332. 2:42:34of the ground
  4333. 2:42:35and it was I don't know anything about
  4334. 2:42:37that that sounds bad I can show you a
  4335. 2:42:39picture
  4336. 2:42:41that doesn't sound like that's how it's
  4337. 2:42:43supposed to work so okay so 11 o'clock
  4338. 2:42:46you're 10 29. yeah I hit the other two
  4339. 2:42:49locations that's always about in between
  4340. 2:42:51because the 1029 were there for the rest
  4341. 2:42:53of the day until I left so 319 till when
  4342. 2:42:56do you think
  4343. 2:42:59Pop It Up by eight eight a.m and then
  4344. 2:43:02you go to which well I stop by at 6 29
  4345. 2:43:04but I wasn't there for very long for
  4346. 2:43:06like 30 minutes or so because I had some
  4347. 2:43:07whip checks that maybe that because that
  4348. 2:43:10will had we were getting ready to turn
  4349. 2:43:11back on but it was missing two parts at
  4350. 2:43:13the well ahead added I thought I had two
  4351. 2:43:15whip checks only had one so I was like
  4352. 2:43:17oh
  4353. 2:43:18who was at that one yeah
  4354. 2:43:20and then the next model number is what
  4355. 2:43:22the 11 29 I don't go over there to see
  4356. 2:43:24if it was ready to run it wasn't so what
  4357. 2:43:26time do you think you got there
  4358. 2:43:30for about nine nothing and then you were
  4359. 2:43:33there until 11 is everything no I was
  4360. 2:43:35there until almost about probably about
  4361. 2:43:3710 oh 10. okay yeah and then where did
  4362. 2:43:40you go after 11 29.
  4363. 2:43:50yeah and then you were at 10 29 from 10
  4364. 2:43:54o'clock so it's a lot left until like
  4365. 2:43:56two o'clock or until one o'clock when I
  4366. 2:43:59left so one o'clock okay yeah because we
  4367. 2:44:01were there for a while we had to replace
  4368. 2:44:02stuffing box rubbers and take everything
  4369. 2:44:04apart because the rods were getting so
  4370. 2:44:06hot
  4371. 2:44:0729. that would have been Cody Roberts
  4372. 2:44:10Tom McNeil Melissa Parish told McCoy
  4373. 2:44:13those are awesome you guys are all kind
  4374. 2:44:15of just pop around yeah on that day we
  4375. 2:44:18did because Melissa parishes one of our
  4376. 2:44:20green hats as attorney
  4377. 2:44:22and uh it was Cody's route and Chad is
  4378. 2:44:25another one of our field coronaries
  4379. 2:44:26along with Troy okay
  4380. 2:44:27they were kind of showing her the ropes
  4381. 2:44:29and then yeah okay
  4382. 2:44:32okay anyone else of your co-workers or
  4383. 2:44:34anyone else out there nope would anyone
  4384. 2:44:37else have seen you either on the way out
  4385. 2:44:39there or
  4386. 2:44:41um
  4387. 2:44:42out there when you're no
  4388. 2:44:44like no I had to stop anywhere like I
  4389. 2:44:46just uh anyone did you you know anything
  4390. 2:44:50like that that you can remember I know
  4391. 2:44:52it's early in the morning
  4392. 2:44:53may I called a few people like while I
  4393. 2:44:56was out there but for some reason like
  4394. 2:44:58it
  4395. 2:45:00you know like when you call somebody and
  4396. 2:45:02it just like it just says like
  4397. 2:45:04connecting or whatever it's doing and it
  4398. 2:45:06doesn't like start to actually ring
  4399. 2:45:07until the second started to come up like
  4400. 2:45:09one two oh right it just kept like
  4401. 2:45:12said dialing or something who are you
  4402. 2:45:14trying to call like I was trying to call
  4403. 2:45:16Cody Roberts I'm trying to call uh Troy
  4404. 2:45:19and Chad
  4405. 2:45:20and none of those went through no they
  4406. 2:45:22were trying to call me and said the
  4407. 2:45:23number you have dialed cannot be
  4408. 2:45:25completed as dialed or something like
  4409. 2:45:27that okay did you make any other phone
  4410. 2:45:29calls
  4411. 2:45:32like I texted him
  4412. 2:45:34um
  4413. 2:45:39and then I uh I got a hold of Luke I
  4414. 2:45:43think if I got either from this phone or
  4415. 2:45:44this phone and told him like Hey I'm out
  4416. 2:45:46here
  4417. 2:45:47like a phone call yeah okay yeah
  4418. 2:45:50and why did YouTube is that normally
  4419. 2:45:52even wow it sounds good because uh I
  4420. 2:45:55think uh Troy or Chad feeling like yeah
  4421. 2:45:56we were trying to get a hold of you
  4422. 2:46:12as far as like because sometimes you got
  4423. 2:46:14like a radio tower here and there it
  4424. 2:46:15just knocks out everything okay and you
  4425. 2:46:18said you tried earlier that you tried to
  4426. 2:46:20call shenan is that right that's
  4427. 2:46:21actually like 7 40. all right
  4428. 2:46:24uh you text her when 7 40 in the morning
  4429. 2:46:27okay
  4430. 2:46:28and then did you ever try and call her
  4431. 2:46:31during the day no okay I'm not sure what
  4432. 2:46:33time is that I can't get that far in my
  4433. 2:46:35phone now
  4434. 2:46:40I just won the voicemail okay okay and
  4435. 2:46:44then uh did you call anyone else
  4436. 2:46:48do you call the police department
  4437. 2:46:51Nicole like everything oh like from like
  4438. 2:46:54right after I couldn't get all over yeah
  4439. 2:46:56so like at 12 12 I have a texture or I
  4440. 2:47:00called her again and at 12 I texted her
  4441. 2:47:03again okay call me
  4442. 2:47:04and then
  4443. 2:47:06at 12 10 that's when Nicole showed up at
  4444. 2:47:08the house so I got I got a alert saying
  4445. 2:47:11the doorbell detected a visitor and
  4446. 2:47:13that's when I called her about 12 times
  4447. 2:47:15what's going on
  4448. 2:47:17and she said that you know Sharon hasn't
  4449. 2:47:18uh got a hold of anybody or answered
  4450. 2:47:21anybody for today so she got home so
  4451. 2:47:24okay yeah like or or just like looking
  4452. 2:47:28at she said the house or the shoes were
  4453. 2:47:32laying next to the door
  4454. 2:47:33and the car was still in the garage
  4455. 2:47:35isn't that weird the shoes thing why did
  4456. 2:47:37you bring out the shoes thing well I
  4457. 2:47:38guess you could see him sitting right
  4458. 2:47:39there I mean that's the ones like she
  4459. 2:47:42was wearing I guess uh in the airport oh
  4460. 2:47:45okay just the one she wears like she has
  4461. 2:47:48a couple different flip-flops that she
  4462. 2:47:50wears but those are I think those are
  4463. 2:47:51the ones you probably wore from the
  4464. 2:47:52airport because they were sitting next
  4465. 2:47:54to the door did you find any of her
  4466. 2:47:55shoes missing she has an old Shoe Closet
  4467. 2:47:58she wouldn't know if there were some
  4468. 2:48:00there's something that goes up the wall
  4469. 2:48:02okay
  4470. 2:48:05um I thought I heard something maybe you
  4471. 2:48:07called
  4472. 2:48:08um Primrose or yeah
  4473. 2:48:11I don't know what time that was I asked
  4474. 2:48:14if the kids were there oh okay was there
  4475. 2:48:16any other conversation you had with them
  4476. 2:48:17or well I just told them like if the uh
  4477. 2:48:19that we're more likely going to be
  4478. 2:48:21putting the house up for sale and that
  4479. 2:48:24like I'm not sure if they're gonna be
  4480. 2:48:25like like because it might not be in the
  4481. 2:48:27area anymore but I wanted the kids was
  4482. 2:48:29back on the waiting list if we're not
  4483. 2:48:30going to be there sure
  4484. 2:48:33um I know like at our daycare they
  4485. 2:48:35charge on Mondays for the week is that
  4486. 2:48:37how Primrose works or how do they do it
  4487. 2:48:39yeah because like that was gonna be the
  4488. 2:48:41first day back okay yeah and they want
  4489. 2:48:43to charge your card or whatever 500
  4490. 2:48:45bucks or when they showed up yeah
  4491. 2:48:53no that's like all them just to see like
  4492. 2:48:55if they were there or not because she
  4493. 2:48:56said gonna take the kids to a friend's
  4494. 2:48:57house I'm just like okay that's why I
  4495. 2:49:00call it like maybe like maybe she ended
  4496. 2:49:02up taking them there no but I know okay
  4497. 2:49:06uh any other phone calls to anyone else
  4498. 2:49:12other than Nicole like when she's out of
  4499. 2:49:14the house
  4500. 2:49:15that was pretty much it yeah okay
  4501. 2:49:18and then you can get a hold of articles
  4502. 2:49:20there and then that starts that whole
  4503. 2:49:22process where you end up driving home is
  4504. 2:49:25that right did you call anyone on the
  4505. 2:49:26way home or call anyone that's on the
  4506. 2:49:28way home I called Luke the love no like
  4507. 2:49:31I am going home I can't find shenan or
  4508. 2:49:33the kids don't know where they are
  4509. 2:49:34things okay this this might be anything
  4510. 2:49:37okay it seems like a pretty cool box
  4511. 2:49:39yeah
  4512. 2:49:42understanding I should say
  4513. 2:49:44um okay so what you're driving home
  4514. 2:49:47you're calling Luke did you call anyone
  4515. 2:49:49else text anyone else
  4516. 2:49:51what route did you take to get home
  4517. 2:49:54oh the same one like I-76 West
  4518. 2:49:58and then
  4519. 2:50:0152 West and then took down okay that's
  4520. 2:50:05pretty much 76 to 52. how big is this
  4521. 2:50:08area this ranch or whatever that you
  4522. 2:50:10guys are working on
  4523. 2:50:15I mean we're not the only operator out
  4524. 2:50:17there there's like verdad there's Lost
  4525. 2:50:19Creek there's the door area that you're
  4526. 2:50:22responsible for where the wells are on
  4527. 2:50:24like so that one
  4528. 2:50:28are square mileage
  4529. 2:50:31maybe 10 to 20.
  4530. 2:50:33square miles like as far as width goes I
  4531. 2:50:36could like yeah I mean it's it's it's
  4532. 2:50:38it's huge and that would be just your
  4533. 2:50:40responsibility that's that's our areas
  4534. 2:50:43that's Cody's route
  4535. 2:50:46okay
  4536. 2:50:47so we have six round operators they all
  4537. 2:50:49have individual routes so what else is
  4538. 2:50:51on this
  4539. 2:50:53one a cattle cattle watching lots of
  4540. 2:50:56cattle and cheap okay and lots of like
  4541. 2:50:58little irrigation like uh spots where
  4542. 2:51:02they eat and trees and sunflowers and
  4543. 2:51:05lots and lots so like when you're
  4544. 2:51:07driving out to the Wells is there
  4545. 2:51:08actually a road that you guys made or is
  4546. 2:51:09it it's it's full sometimes is the road
  4547. 2:51:12when the cows and everything get on it
  4548. 2:51:15gets really soft and really like like
  4549. 2:51:17shake your truck type thing
  4550. 2:51:19[Music]
  4551. 2:51:21as far as your truck goes um obviously
  4552. 2:51:23the work truck are you allowed to have
  4553. 2:51:26other people in your truck
  4554. 2:51:28like as far as civilians like your wife
  4555. 2:51:29your kids and anything like that they
  4556. 2:51:31played in my truck a few times because
  4557. 2:51:33they always Daddy's truck you know like
  4558. 2:51:34they played in there a few times and
  4559. 2:51:36whatnot what about shenan has she ever
  4560. 2:51:38ridden in your truck before not to work
  4561. 2:51:40but she's been at it before because it's
  4562. 2:51:42like just seeing what all I had in there
  4563. 2:51:44and everything like that what I take to
  4564. 2:51:45work and stuff like that yeah she's been
  4565. 2:51:47there before okay
  4566. 2:51:48oh like we aren't around allowed to like
  4567. 2:51:51take civilians like places in it but
  4568. 2:51:53other Anadarko employees or like when I
  4569. 2:51:55have a trainee and stuff like that like
  4570. 2:51:57they ride with me okay and yeah okay
  4571. 2:52:02um so you get home and obviously you
  4572. 2:52:04said you open the garage door and go
  4573. 2:52:07through the house tell me all the things
  4574. 2:52:08that seemed odd about the way the house
  4575. 2:52:10looks
  4576. 2:52:11and so it's odd it was well the car
  4577. 2:52:15being in there with the car seats I was
  4578. 2:52:17odd
  4579. 2:52:18the purse wallet still being there phone
  4580. 2:52:22oh the phone's a big thing for me and
  4581. 2:52:25that's still there does she seem like
  4582. 2:52:27she was pretty attached to her phone
  4583. 2:52:28well everybody knows she is
  4584. 2:52:30she's very attached to it okay
  4585. 2:52:35and the kids imagine
  4586. 2:52:38those are the odd things what about her
  4587. 2:52:40meds does she imagine that she would
  4588. 2:52:41take
  4589. 2:52:42only one she takes
  4590. 2:52:45regularly as Imitrex and that was not
  4591. 2:52:47there
  4592. 2:52:48like the medicine she had in her purse
  4593. 2:52:50was for nausea not Imitrex
  4594. 2:52:52for migraines
  4595. 2:52:55and that was gone that was not in
  4596. 2:52:56Reverse like the one that they said was
  4597. 2:52:58there for that's always interesting no
  4598. 2:53:00it was like for Naja once I read it okay
  4599. 2:53:03as far as do you think it could have
  4600. 2:53:05been in her luggage that she left there
  4601. 2:53:07or
  4602. 2:53:08I'm not sure it would have been in her
  4603. 2:53:10purse okay did you go through her
  4604. 2:53:12luggage like looking for clues or I
  4605. 2:53:14didn't go through a luggage dip
  4606. 2:53:16I like their hernitrary stuff she sucks
  4607. 2:53:19to have that like
  4608. 2:53:21you know it's
  4609. 2:53:22with enhanced grasped these are the kids
  4610. 2:53:25beds were like pulled back or how were
  4611. 2:53:28the kids beds they weren't made they
  4612. 2:53:29weren't made no nothing okay is that
  4613. 2:53:31normal very normal for the morning yeah
  4614. 2:53:34okay yeah they just like throw
  4615. 2:53:36everything and just like get out of bed
  4616. 2:53:38and what was your event what did it look
  4617. 2:53:39like oh the sheets were off of it
  4618. 2:53:42yeah like most of the time when she gets
  4619. 2:53:44out of like she she gets home from like
  4620. 2:53:46a flight or something she gets in the
  4621. 2:53:48bed like from the airport she's gonna
  4622. 2:53:49wash the sheets the next day
  4623. 2:53:51so that's what I thought when I got home
  4624. 2:53:53because she had woke up and yeah yeah
  4625. 2:53:56okay
  4626. 2:53:59or though she's in on the bed now or no
  4627. 2:54:02I don't think so
  4628. 2:54:04are they still in the piles or whatever
  4629. 2:54:06like
  4630. 2:54:10like I watched I watched everything and
  4631. 2:54:12I put uh different sheets on there
  4632. 2:54:15so where are the cheeks oh you wash
  4633. 2:54:17those sheets did you put them away in
  4634. 2:54:18the closet or something
  4635. 2:54:21it should either be like right on the
  4636. 2:54:23pile on the ground or something like
  4637. 2:54:25that right there in the bedroom yeah
  4638. 2:54:26okay
  4639. 2:54:28so I so you watch the sheets that were
  4640. 2:54:30on the bed are you left them there or
  4641. 2:54:31just put on new sheets so I put on me
  4642. 2:54:33like I uh I wash those sheets
  4643. 2:54:36I'll watch these are on there and they
  4644. 2:54:38should still be in the room oh clean
  4645. 2:54:40like yeah in a pile yeah okay okay yeah
  4646. 2:54:43but I put like ones that were in the
  4647. 2:54:45closet
  4648. 2:54:46in there
  4649. 2:54:48ones that were already cleaned like I
  4650. 2:54:49already I wanted to just make the bed
  4651. 2:54:51anyways okay so the bed's made now oh
  4652. 2:54:54yeah definitely so when you slept on the
  4653. 2:54:57bed for Monday night and had a new
  4654. 2:54:58sheets from you changing it or so Monday
  4655. 2:55:01yeah like when I slept there Monday
  4656. 2:55:04night yeah there was new shoots on there
  4657. 2:55:05okay because the bed was already
  4658. 2:55:07stripped yeah
  4659. 2:55:08anything else that was odd I never said
  4660. 2:55:11there was some things missing from the
  4661. 2:55:12kids's rooms
  4662. 2:55:15what do you think about that
  4663. 2:55:18I mean that's what they kids always take
  4664. 2:55:20with them
  4665. 2:55:21it's like even to go like if you like
  4666. 2:55:23everyone if like like CCC wants that
  4667. 2:55:26Yankee blanket and Bella like wants her
  4668. 2:55:28blankie especially if she feels like
  4669. 2:55:31like you know retailer like like we've
  4670. 2:55:33had the house now she's getting old
  4671. 2:55:34enough
  4672. 2:55:35but like if you're going to Target or
  4673. 2:55:37run errands like are they taking their
  4674. 2:55:39stuff with them uh bellatal what was PC
  4675. 2:55:42definitely will have that Yankee blanket
  4676. 2:55:44and sometimes she wants her little that
  4677. 2:55:45like that dog that like makes cooling
  4678. 2:55:48sounds and whatnot okay and that's gone
  4679. 2:55:50you said right yeah yeah but Bella's
  4680. 2:55:52cat's still there
  4681. 2:55:54but she is attached to the cat and see
  4682. 2:55:57if he wants to the dog
  4683. 2:55:59not as much not as much
  4684. 2:56:02anything else missing weird
  4685. 2:56:07what about
  4686. 2:56:09um the pajamas that they were in that
  4687. 2:56:11you put them in after they shot the
  4688. 2:56:12nightgowns or whatever are those at the
  4689. 2:56:14house I didn't see those I mean they're
  4690. 2:56:16still like there's like dirty laundry in
  4691. 2:56:18there from the kids okay
  4692. 2:56:20but like I didn't see those in per se
  4693. 2:56:26not the ones I described to you okay
  4694. 2:56:30okay
  4695. 2:56:32um so obviously you know you've had a
  4696. 2:56:34lot of time to think about this stuff
  4697. 2:56:36and
  4698. 2:56:37um just talking to me like what are your
  4699. 2:56:40thoughts like what are you thinking
  4700. 2:56:41right now as far as you know what's
  4701. 2:56:43happened or
  4702. 2:56:45like the first thing I thought she was
  4703. 2:56:47with somebody
  4704. 2:56:49I thought you know like you know she's
  4705. 2:56:51at a friend's house and she's just
  4706. 2:56:54decompressing whatnot
  4707. 2:56:57but I now like that for like yesterday
  4708. 2:57:00and now today it's it's
  4709. 2:57:03I feel like she's not safe so like
  4710. 2:57:05either she is in trouble or somebody is
  4711. 2:57:08hurt her and the kids and
  4712. 2:57:10we can't find them we don't know where
  4713. 2:57:11they are
  4714. 2:57:12so if I ask you on the polygraph test if
  4715. 2:57:15you physically caused
  4716. 2:57:17shenan's disappearance can you pass that
  4717. 2:57:20yes question what do you think I mean by
  4718. 2:57:22that when I'm asking you if you're
  4719. 2:57:24physically caused shenan's disappearance
  4720. 2:57:27if I what does that mean to you
  4721. 2:57:29if you ask me that like I feel like
  4722. 2:57:32you're asking me did I have anything to
  4723. 2:57:34do with it myself or did I help somebody
  4724. 2:57:36do it and I had no part in any of that I
  4725. 2:57:40know it's totally awful to think about
  4726. 2:57:42but what are ways because I need to make
  4727. 2:57:46sure that you know what I'm talking
  4728. 2:57:47about what are ways that you can make
  4729. 2:57:49someone disappear
  4730. 2:57:52yeah
  4731. 2:57:54I mean like as you talk about like what
  4732. 2:57:56I've seen like on the movies or like how
  4733. 2:57:58you like how people if you read about
  4734. 2:58:01other people I mean
  4735. 2:58:03you hire somebody it's like a Hitman
  4736. 2:58:05yeah I mean that's I mean yeah I'm just
  4737. 2:58:07being honest that's what I want that's
  4738. 2:58:09what I want because I want you to go
  4739. 2:58:10through all of these scenarios in your
  4740. 2:58:12head because I want you to know for sure
  4741. 2:58:14what I'm talking about when I say that
  4742. 2:58:16you know asking you if you physically
  4743. 2:58:17caused her disappearance okay like you
  4744. 2:58:20would hire somebody or you'd have a
  4745. 2:58:22somebody know that
  4746. 2:58:25that would do it I mean it's like I
  4747. 2:58:28don't I mean it's hard it's a hard
  4748. 2:58:29question and I noticed that's a hard
  4749. 2:58:31question to answer right because I I
  4750. 2:58:34didn't I had nothing to do with this
  4751. 2:58:36disappearance so like I don't even want
  4752. 2:58:38to think about like
  4753. 2:58:40if if you're asking me like how I would
  4754. 2:58:42do it it's like I know anyone like how
  4755. 2:58:45would how would anyone College someone
  4756. 2:58:46else's disappearance I mean you would
  4757. 2:58:52someone's disappearance by murdering
  4758. 2:58:54them do you agree with that yes so what
  4759. 2:58:57different physical ways could you cause
  4760. 2:58:58someone's disappearance through murder
  4761. 2:59:01you could stab someone shoot someone
  4762. 2:59:05hit him with a blown object
  4763. 2:59:09um
  4764. 2:59:12also there I mean
  4765. 2:59:14I use a weapon of like Gunner or knife I
  4766. 2:59:17mean okay
  4767. 2:59:19you could
  4768. 2:59:26someone
  4769. 2:59:31strangle from work thanks a lot
  4770. 2:59:34all that kind of things I mean
  4771. 2:59:36it's hard to even think about that kind
  4772. 2:59:37of stuff right now so you could strangle
  4773. 2:59:40someone you could drown someone yeah
  4774. 2:59:43from death
  4775. 2:59:45to burn someone alive
  4776. 2:59:49um what other wishes
  4777. 2:59:52can you think of
  4778. 2:59:54um
  4779. 2:59:56as far as like
  4780. 2:59:59lure him into a trap I guess so what do
  4781. 3:00:03you mean what like you know like have
  4782. 3:00:05somebody waiting like around the corner
  4783. 3:00:07and like you know not even sure of
  4784. 3:00:09actually that happened to my car up
  4785. 3:00:11means something like that sure
  4786. 3:00:13um
  4787. 3:00:15like I want to say about the same thing
  4788. 3:00:17there but
  4789. 3:00:20um you could kidnap them and take them
  4790. 3:00:22and
  4791. 3:00:23watch them up in a basement somewhere or
  4792. 3:00:26you know what I mean they they could
  4793. 3:00:27still be alive but you're like torturing
  4794. 3:00:31so you can I like to take them somewhere
  4795. 3:00:33towards for them and let them sit there
  4796. 3:00:34without food or water
  4797. 3:00:36or even kidnap them and leave them
  4798. 3:00:38somewhere that they are you know they're
  4799. 3:00:41not being tortured isn't it yeah just
  4800. 3:00:44that they can't get out and you know I'm
  4801. 3:00:46sure they've disappeared because you've
  4802. 3:00:48not allowed them to
  4803. 3:00:50come back into society and have people
  4804. 3:00:52see them does that make sense yeah okay
  4805. 3:00:54what other ways could you make someone
  4806. 3:00:56disappear
  4807. 3:01:00poison
  4808. 3:01:01okay
  4809. 3:01:02yeah
  4810. 3:01:05um
  4811. 3:01:16sorry I know
  4812. 3:01:23like well actually this thing I ever
  4813. 3:01:25said that
  4814. 3:01:26which one I can beat somebody I guess
  4815. 3:01:28too that's why like to the point where
  4816. 3:01:30they're unconscious and
  4817. 3:01:32they're in a coma sure
  4818. 3:01:35um
  4819. 3:01:38so if I ask you that question on the
  4820. 3:01:40test Chris are you gonna have any issue
  4821. 3:01:42with that about yourself
  4822. 3:01:44[Music]
  4823. 3:01:45yeah like that would be a way it could
  4824. 3:01:48cause someone's disappearance okay I
  4825. 3:01:49know I can definitely like I can pass it
  4826. 3:01:51I mean I can murder them if you kidnap
  4827. 3:01:53them you can take it to another country
  4828. 3:01:54you could you know bury him in your
  4829. 3:01:56backyard you can even do a million
  4830. 3:01:58things yeah as far as trying to conceal
  4831. 3:02:02them yeah right so that no one could
  4832. 3:02:04find them yes because at this point
  4833. 3:02:06she's gone and the girls are gone like
  4834. 3:02:08we don't know where they're at right
  4835. 3:02:11um so we're assuming the worst but
  4836. 3:02:15hoping the best you know what I mean I
  4837. 3:02:17think that you're kind of in that spot
  4838. 3:02:18too so if I ask you that question if you
  4839. 3:02:21physically caused her disappearance so
  4840. 3:02:23when I say physically const I say it
  4841. 3:02:26that way because I don't want you to
  4842. 3:02:27feel everyone has guilt right and I
  4843. 3:02:30don't want you to feel like you know
  4844. 3:02:32what I
  4845. 3:02:34um
  4846. 3:02:34I told her that I didn't want to be with
  4847. 3:02:36her anymore so I probably caused her
  4848. 3:02:38disappearance because she obviously took
  4849. 3:02:40off with the girls and because of what I
  4850. 3:02:42told her that I knew certainly that's
  4851. 3:02:44that's why I feel like a jackass right
  4852. 3:02:46now right so when I ask you the question
  4853. 3:02:48on the couch I'm not asking you about
  4854. 3:02:49guilt I'm not asking you about did you
  4855. 3:02:52make her feel so horrible that she ended
  4856. 3:02:53up leaving I'm saying that you were the
  4857. 3:02:55one that physically caused her to
  4858. 3:02:58disappear either by murder kidnapping
  4859. 3:03:01you know all those other things that we
  4860. 3:03:02went through okay the Oriental list you
  4861. 3:03:04want me to list all those like no no no
  4862. 3:03:06I'm just gonna say no that question okay
  4863. 3:03:08when I ask you if you physically cause
  4864. 3:03:10shenan's disappearance okay your answer
  4865. 3:03:12should be what no right so do you have
  4866. 3:03:14any issues on at all or have any
  4867. 3:03:17question about what I would mean when I
  4868. 3:03:18was like total life I just like going
  4869. 3:03:21through all those uh
  4870. 3:03:23there's a lot to really think about
  4871. 3:03:24right but they're trying to figure out
  4872. 3:03:27like yeah that was
  4873. 3:03:30it's a lot but it's very simple because
  4874. 3:03:32if you didn't have anything to do
  4875. 3:03:34physically with her disappearance maybe
  4876. 3:03:35you pissed her off to the point that she
  4877. 3:03:37ended up taking off with the kids or
  4878. 3:03:39maybe she became suicidal and you know
  4879. 3:03:42lost herself somewhere that we just
  4880. 3:03:44haven't found her yet like I feel like
  4881. 3:03:45emotionally responsible but I didn't
  4882. 3:03:47physically hurt her exactly that's the
  4883. 3:03:49kids right and that's what that's what I
  4884. 3:03:51want to ask you about okay okay just
  4885. 3:03:54physically causing her disappearance and
  4886. 3:03:56you were the one directly I'm going to
  4887. 3:03:58ask you about shenan okay um I think we
  4888. 3:04:00can all assume that
  4889. 3:04:01um wherever shenan is the little girls
  4890. 3:04:04are so I'm just going to ask you about
  4891. 3:04:06shenan and since Luke the kids with it
  4892. 3:04:08though right what's that that's
  4893. 3:04:09something the kids with it though too
  4894. 3:04:11like everything's just got like because
  4895. 3:04:12like when the FBI is a vagina said he
  4896. 3:04:14asked about a lot about the kids but
  4897. 3:04:16like he was looping Shenanigans with it
  4898. 3:04:19too sure so I want to know about shenan
  4899. 3:04:21okay I'm going to ask you this test
  4900. 3:04:22about shenan okay okay like I said
  4901. 3:04:24obviously as investigators we can kind
  4902. 3:04:27of assume that they're all together
  4903. 3:04:29somewhere
  4904. 3:04:30um but I'm going to ask you on a touch
  4905. 3:04:32about your hand okay specifically okay
  4906. 3:04:34the next question I was going to ask you
  4907. 3:04:36was
  4908. 3:04:37um are you lying about the last time you
  4909. 3:04:38saw
  4910. 3:04:39no I want to describe the last time that
  4911. 3:04:43you saw her last time I saw her she was
  4912. 3:04:44in bed after I talked to her okay alive
  4913. 3:04:48oh laying in bed like she just
  4914. 3:04:51physically laid in bed okay was she
  4915. 3:04:53crying still was she saying anything was
  4916. 3:04:55she she had just told me she was gonna
  4917. 3:04:57go to a friend's house with the kids to
  4918. 3:04:59be back later and that was the last time
  4919. 3:05:01I saw her so describe what she looked
  4920. 3:05:03like was she like on her back on her
  4921. 3:05:05side on her side on her right side could
  4922. 3:05:08you see her face yes okay what does her
  4923. 3:05:10face look like she said mascara that
  4924. 3:05:12kind of running down a little bit okay
  4925. 3:05:14and then she didn't take her makeup off
  4926. 3:05:16before she went to bed that night okay
  4927. 3:05:18obviously because
  4928. 3:05:19so to your knowledge
  4929. 3:05:21um that is that's the last time that's
  4930. 3:05:23the last time you would have seen her
  4931. 3:05:24yes
  4932. 3:05:26in the monitor as it was like honestly
  4933. 3:05:29if someone you know you know we have to
  4934. 3:05:32talk about worst case scenarios
  4935. 3:05:34um you know if for some reason you
  4936. 3:05:36murdered her that would not have been
  4937. 3:05:38the last time you saw her do you agree
  4938. 3:05:40with that I agree with that okay
  4939. 3:05:41photography she's not in the house and
  4940. 3:05:43if she got murdered in the house she
  4941. 3:05:45obviously got out of the house somehow
  4942. 3:05:46yeah you know what I mean so at some
  4943. 3:05:48point the person if they did hurt her or
  4944. 3:05:50murder her they would have saw her again
  4945. 3:05:53she was laying in the bed crying or you
  4946. 3:05:56know with her mascara running down or
  4947. 3:05:58whatever do you agree with that I hear
  4948. 3:05:59that okay
  4949. 3:06:01um the last question I want to ask you
  4950. 3:06:02is if you know where shenan is now I do
  4951. 3:06:05not okay obviously um you know you've
  4952. 3:06:07talked to the police you've helped with
  4953. 3:06:10them as a person investigation so this
  4954. 3:06:12would be more like
  4955. 3:06:13um you know maybe Shannon did call you
  4956. 3:06:15you know a couple nights ago and like
  4957. 3:06:17dude just don't tell them like I just
  4958. 3:06:18can't handle this right now like I just
  4959. 3:06:20need to get away like just you know keep
  4960. 3:06:22it on the down low whatever maybe she
  4961. 3:06:24told you that maybe if you were a person
  4962. 3:06:26that murdered her you obviously dumped
  4963. 3:06:29her body somewhere or had someone else
  4964. 3:06:30help you dump her body you would know
  4965. 3:06:33where that site was or where that place
  4966. 3:06:35was does that make sense to you so again
  4967. 3:06:37asking you if you know where she is now
  4968. 3:06:40it's the last thing you saw her was when
  4969. 3:06:41she was laying in bed when she was alive
  4970. 3:06:43and kind of having makeup run down her
  4971. 3:06:45face
  4972. 3:06:46um obviously that wouldn't be you
  4973. 3:06:48wouldn't know where she is right because
  4974. 3:06:50obviously right now we can't find her
  4975. 3:06:51does that make sense to you do all those
  4976. 3:06:53questions make sense to you so what what
  4977. 3:06:56would you answer to all of those
  4978. 3:06:57questions like I had nothing do with
  4979. 3:07:01what's going on right now I did not
  4980. 3:07:03physically harm her okay I did the last
  4981. 3:07:06time I saw her
  4982. 3:07:08was in bed
  4983. 3:07:10laying on her side with some mascara on
  4984. 3:07:13her face after we had a conversation
  4985. 3:07:16and I do not know where she is right now
  4986. 3:07:19okay that was good yeah okay so you
  4987. 3:07:22nailed them perfectly
  4988. 3:07:24um
  4989. 3:07:25who do you think would have hurt shenan
  4990. 3:07:27and the girl
  4991. 3:07:29like who do you think would have done
  4992. 3:07:31something to them honestly it was like
  4993. 3:07:33we've exhausted like every option that
  4994. 3:07:35we have of people that know like even if
  4995. 3:07:37it's kind of crazy like what is your one
  4996. 3:07:39go-to like thought about
  4997. 3:07:43what could have happened
  4998. 3:07:45that it's somebody I don't know and I
  4999. 3:07:48don't know who they are or what they're
  5000. 3:07:50about and that they have her and the
  5001. 3:07:52kids and that
  5002. 3:07:53they're not safe right now and that
  5003. 3:07:56they've been physically hurt
  5004. 3:07:59so obviously like I said we kind of have
  5005. 3:08:01to expect the worst and hope for the
  5006. 3:08:04best
  5007. 3:08:05um if we do end up finding your wife and
  5008. 3:08:08your two girls murdered what do you
  5009. 3:08:11think should happen to that person that
  5010. 3:08:12would have done that
  5011. 3:08:15the first possible okay
  5012. 3:08:18like what
  5013. 3:08:19and it's
  5014. 3:08:21either going to be like life in prison
  5015. 3:08:22or the death penalty isn't it that's the
  5016. 3:08:25only two things you really can do
  5017. 3:08:28but that's only being really is that
  5018. 3:08:30that's the only penalty you have I mean
  5019. 3:08:32there's some people are like well
  5020. 3:08:33obviously that person's really screwed
  5021. 3:08:35up and maybe they deserve some you know
  5022. 3:08:39I just know because it's my
  5023. 3:08:42my wife and my kids so like from a
  5024. 3:08:44mutual perspective they might be
  5025. 3:08:45different that's my wife and kids
  5026. 3:08:51do you know anything else about
  5027. 3:08:53me is there anything you haven't told
  5028. 3:08:54detectives that you want to share with
  5029. 3:08:56us today
  5030. 3:09:00every option of trying to reach out to
  5031. 3:09:02friends and family that may have seen
  5032. 3:09:04her or heard from her
  5033. 3:09:07so it's like
  5034. 3:09:09we have like nothing really else to like
  5035. 3:09:12go off of right now as far as like who
  5036. 3:09:14could have her
  5037. 3:09:17or where she could be okay
  5038. 3:09:19okay
  5039. 3:09:21um
  5040. 3:09:22I'm gonna have you take a bathroom break
  5041. 3:09:24because we've been in here quite a while
  5042. 3:09:25I get one as well
  5043. 3:09:28um let me find out which bathroom you're
  5044. 3:09:30on Facebook to use hopefully one of them
  5045. 3:09:32will come in here and help us figure out
  5046. 3:09:34which bathroom and then we're going to
  5047. 3:09:35come back in here and then again I'm
  5048. 3:09:37going to tell you how and why the
  5049. 3:09:38polygraph works and we're just going to
  5050. 3:09:39get kind of into the testing yeah that's
  5051. 3:09:41cool with you okay did you already know
  5052. 3:09:43what the questions are that I care about
  5053. 3:09:44so okay
  5054. 3:09:49real quick
  5055. 3:09:59yes why don't you um I'll just figure
  5056. 3:10:01out to the lobby and then I'll try to
  5057. 3:10:03sit right there real quick and then I'll
  5058. 3:10:04come grab you so is this here oh you can
  5059. 3:10:06take it with you whatever
  5060. 3:10:07you throw in your pockets wow
  5061. 3:11:15foreign
  5062. 3:12:48thank you
  5063. 3:13:58all right
  5064. 3:14:13now
  5065. 3:14:16[Music]
  5066. 3:15:00come on
  5067. 3:15:04how's it going
  5068. 3:16:08to Gatorade are you sure yeah I figured
  5069. 3:16:11you maybe you want to try them uh it's
  5070. 3:16:13water oh maybe
  5071. 3:16:16okay
  5072. 3:16:18do you want a Mountain Dew oh no no I'm
  5073. 3:16:20doing it like
  5074. 3:16:24years well don't start now all right
  5075. 3:16:28you have any bad habits
  5076. 3:16:31uh I used to like Oreos and Zoe or my my
  5077. 3:16:34go-to during the pregnancy yeah
  5078. 3:16:38what kind of sausages you like out there
  5079. 3:16:42everyone at work makes fun of me for
  5080. 3:16:45drinking it no like my favorite was like
  5081. 3:16:47the Baja Blast Mountain Dew oh see I
  5082. 3:16:49didn't like that because don't they
  5083. 3:16:51still have that at it Taco Bell Taco
  5084. 3:16:52Bell that's where it was
  5085. 3:16:54[Music]
  5086. 3:16:57is my go-to
  5087. 3:17:06there's no surprises and that kind of
  5088. 3:17:08stuff okay
  5089. 3:17:09am I allows like breathe like during
  5090. 3:17:11this yeah I'll explain all of that to
  5091. 3:17:13you it's
  5092. 3:17:15it's you're obviously still a person and
  5093. 3:17:16you still have functions that have to go
  5094. 3:17:18on for you to be alive so yeah if you
  5095. 3:17:21have to you'll be able to breathe and we
  5096. 3:17:23just don't want you to move a bunch
  5097. 3:17:25during the test and I'll explain that to
  5098. 3:17:26you and it's for a very short periods of
  5099. 3:17:28time and I have no doubt being a healthy
  5100. 3:17:30guy like you are that you'll have no
  5101. 3:17:32problem doing that correct okay
  5102. 3:17:36foreign
  5103. 3:17:43boys up to like 85 year old men that are
  5104. 3:17:47able to sit still just during the
  5105. 3:17:48polygraph so okay I have no doubt
  5106. 3:17:50someone like you is more than able to
  5107. 3:17:53sit still okay okay so we're gonna go
  5108. 3:17:55over the questions that are gonna be on
  5109. 3:17:56the test like I said I'm going to tell
  5110. 3:17:58you every single question there's not a
  5111. 3:17:59question I'm just going to add you know
  5112. 3:18:01for the thrill of it or anything like
  5113. 3:18:03that you're going to know all the work
  5114. 3:18:04so the first question that's going to be
  5115. 3:18:06on the test is going to be regarding
  5116. 3:18:07shenan's disappearance do you intend to
  5117. 3:18:10answer all the questions truthfully yes
  5118. 3:18:13and you're only going to get to answer
  5119. 3:18:14yes or no to these questions okay
  5120. 3:18:17so it's easy because you know you
  5121. 3:18:20there should be no question in your mind
  5122. 3:18:22whether you need to answer yes or no to
  5123. 3:18:24the questions okay
  5124. 3:18:26um so the first uh relevant question
  5125. 3:18:27that I'm going to ask
  5126. 3:18:29um that we had already gone over is
  5127. 3:18:30going to be did you physically caution's
  5128. 3:18:33disappearance no
  5129. 3:18:35you're lying about the last time you saw
  5130. 3:18:38shanan no
  5131. 3:18:40and I'm saying her name right now yep
  5132. 3:18:42right okay and then do you know where
  5133. 3:18:43shanann is now no okay so those are the
  5134. 3:18:46three that we'd already discussed before
  5135. 3:18:47right so physically causing someone's
  5136. 3:18:50disappearances either you know obviously
  5137. 3:18:52harming them to the point where they you
  5138. 3:18:54know are either dead or can no longer
  5139. 3:18:57um function out you know maybe you left
  5140. 3:18:58them for dead you know in some field
  5141. 3:19:00somewhere or something like that
  5142. 3:19:02um so maybe they weren't actually
  5143. 3:19:04deceased but you know that you would
  5144. 3:19:06have been the direct cause of their
  5145. 3:19:07disappearance okay does that make sense
  5146. 3:19:09yeah okay
  5147. 3:19:10and then obviously lying about the last
  5148. 3:19:13thing we saw that would be because maybe
  5149. 3:19:15you helped someone or you did it
  5150. 3:19:17yourself or something like that and then
  5151. 3:19:18you hoped dispose of them or put them
  5152. 3:19:20somewhere lock them off somewhere or
  5153. 3:19:22whatever okay just and then uh
  5154. 3:19:25knowing where she is now and again that
  5155. 3:19:27was either some kind of direct knowledge
  5156. 3:19:29like you either saw it you did it you
  5157. 3:19:31know where you put them or someone told
  5158. 3:19:34you where they are or something like
  5159. 3:19:35that or if shenan called you and said
  5160. 3:19:37this is where I'm at but you haven't
  5161. 3:19:38told the police that that kind of stuff
  5162. 3:19:40okay
  5163. 3:19:41does that make sense to make sure okay
  5164. 3:19:44you're going to be taking what's called
  5165. 3:19:45a directed lie polygraph so what that
  5166. 3:19:48means is they're going to be test
  5167. 3:19:49questions on the test where I want you
  5168. 3:19:50to lie
  5169. 3:19:52because I want to see what your body
  5170. 3:19:53looks like when you tell a lie on the
  5171. 3:19:55test okay I know it seems kind of weird
  5172. 3:19:57but you're gonna know which questions
  5173. 3:19:58these are and they're going to be easy
  5174. 3:20:00to answer so it's going to be like
  5175. 3:20:03um they're all going to start with
  5176. 3:20:04before 2018. so this first one is before
  5177. 3:20:072018. did you ever lose your temper with
  5178. 3:20:10someone you cared about
  5179. 3:20:11we've all lost our temper with someone
  5180. 3:20:13we've cared about in our life so I want
  5181. 3:20:15you to think about you don't have to
  5182. 3:20:16tell me what it is but I want you to
  5183. 3:20:18actually have that moment in your mind
  5184. 3:20:20when you actually lost your temper with
  5185. 3:20:22someone you cared about
  5186. 3:20:23okay whether it was a shenan whether
  5187. 3:20:25it's with your parents whether it was
  5188. 3:20:27with your children I mean it could be
  5189. 3:20:28with anyone but it was just trying to
  5190. 3:20:30say no to that one yes so you're gonna
  5191. 3:20:33actually lie to that question since we
  5192. 3:20:34all have locks for temper with someone
  5193. 3:20:36we've cared about before so I'm going to
  5194. 3:20:38say before 2018 did you ever lose your
  5195. 3:20:40temper with someone you cared about and
  5196. 3:20:42you're going to say no because you're
  5197. 3:20:44telling us why awesome the next one of
  5198. 3:20:47those because there's only three of
  5199. 3:20:48those the next one's going to be before
  5200. 3:20:502018 remember it's all going to start
  5201. 3:20:52with that before 2018. if you ever hear
  5202. 3:20:54that on the test that is your clue to go
  5203. 3:20:56crap this is a question I have to lie to
  5204. 3:20:58on the test okay okay so this one's
  5205. 3:21:01going to be before 2018 did you ever say
  5206. 3:21:03anything out of anger to a loved one
  5207. 3:21:06it's gonna be
  5208. 3:21:07well we've all fished something out of
  5209. 3:21:09anger to a loved one but I want you to
  5210. 3:21:11take a minute and actually think of a
  5211. 3:21:13time when you've actually said something
  5212. 3:21:15out of anger to a loved one
  5213. 3:21:17you have something in your head
  5214. 3:21:20yeah okay and I want you to actually
  5215. 3:21:22think of that when you answer those
  5216. 3:21:24questions on the test okay so again
  5217. 3:21:26before 2018 did you ever see anything
  5218. 3:21:28out of anger to a loved one you're gonna
  5219. 3:21:30say because you're telling us all right
  5220. 3:21:32awesome the last one is before 2018 have
  5221. 3:21:35you ever wanted to hurt someone to get
  5222. 3:21:37even with them not that you actually
  5223. 3:21:39hurt them but that maybe they pissed you
  5224. 3:21:41off so bad you know that you were like
  5225. 3:21:43oh I can I can punch that guy in the
  5226. 3:21:44face right now or you know whatever not
  5227. 3:21:46that you actually ended up even hurting
  5228. 3:21:48anyone but that you ever thought about
  5229. 3:21:50hurting someone to get even with them so
  5230. 3:21:52I want you to take a moment and think
  5231. 3:21:54about our time
  5232. 3:21:55and just make sure that you do have
  5233. 3:21:57something in your head
  5234. 3:22:03is that it so when I ask you this
  5235. 3:22:06question on the test before 2018 have
  5236. 3:22:08you ever wanted to hurt someone to be
  5237. 3:22:09even with them you're gonna say no
  5238. 3:22:11because you're telling us why awesome
  5239. 3:22:14the next questions or that are what we
  5240. 3:22:16call known truth questions they're going
  5241. 3:22:18to be really easy to answer so it's
  5242. 3:22:19going to be is your first name
  5243. 3:22:21Christopher yeah
  5244. 3:22:23good were you born in 1985 yes are you
  5245. 3:22:26now in the state of Colorado yes are you
  5246. 3:22:29now sitting down yes are the lights on
  5247. 3:22:31in this room yes do you understand that
  5248. 3:22:34I will only ask you the questions we
  5249. 3:22:36have discussed
  5250. 3:22:37that's the last question okay so we just
  5251. 3:22:40went through every single question on
  5252. 3:22:41the test
  5253. 3:22:42okay so the only questions that you'll
  5254. 3:22:44hear come out of my mouth okay so let me
  5255. 3:22:47go through those one more time and you
  5256. 3:22:48just say yes or no how you would answer
  5257. 3:22:50them on the test okay okay
  5258. 3:22:52regarding shenan's disappearance do you
  5259. 3:22:55intend to answer all the questions
  5260. 3:22:56truthfully yes
  5261. 3:22:59uh did you physically caution answer to
  5262. 3:23:01parents no
  5263. 3:23:02are you lying about the last time you
  5264. 3:23:04saw [ __ ] in no
  5265. 3:23:06do you know where shenan is now
  5266. 3:23:10before 2018 did you ever lose your
  5267. 3:23:13temper with someone you cared about
  5268. 3:23:15no
  5269. 3:23:16before 2018 did you ever see anything
  5270. 3:23:18out of anger to a loved one
  5271. 3:23:21no
  5272. 3:23:22before 2018 have you ever wanted to hurt
  5273. 3:23:24someone to get even with them no
  5274. 3:23:27okay is your first name Christopher
  5275. 3:23:29yes
  5276. 3:23:30were you born in 1985 yes are you now in
  5277. 3:23:34the state of Colorado yes are you now
  5278. 3:23:37sitting down yes are the lights down in
  5279. 3:23:39this room yes do you understand that
  5280. 3:23:42it'll only ask you the questions that we
  5281. 3:23:44have discussed yes
  5282. 3:23:46okay that's it
  5283. 3:23:48any of those questions give you any
  5284. 3:23:49heartburn or make you go wow
  5285. 3:23:53I'll just lie my heart because I'm still
  5286. 3:23:56like nerd like there's this whole like
  5287. 3:23:58right right and this is not a like
  5288. 3:24:00process that where you shouldn't be
  5289. 3:24:02nervous so that is to be expected that's
  5290. 3:24:05totally fine and like I told you before
  5291. 3:24:06that's not going to cause you to fail
  5292. 3:24:08the test or anything like that because
  5293. 3:24:09no one would take the test if that's
  5294. 3:24:11what it went off of okay okay that's
  5295. 3:24:14just this is what I feel right now so
  5296. 3:24:16it's like I don't know like did you do
  5297. 3:24:18any research on polygraph no like that
  5298. 3:24:20okay no like I don't
  5299. 3:24:22all I know is like when I when I see it
  5300. 3:24:24on TV all I see is like you know this
  5301. 3:24:27right here and then like that like that
  5302. 3:24:30looks like but you just dozed off your
  5303. 3:24:32heart rate or what what does it do yeah
  5304. 3:24:34and I'll explain all those components
  5305. 3:24:36that I'm gonna
  5306. 3:24:37like I mean I came in here in my heart
  5307. 3:24:39is going to a million miles a minute and
  5308. 3:24:41it's as it stops yeah so and you'll
  5309. 3:24:44notice too that um the second
  5310. 3:24:48the second I put all the components on
  5311. 3:24:50you that's when it really feels like oh
  5312. 3:24:52[ __ ] just got real like that's just
  5313. 3:24:54everyone has that oh [ __ ] moment right
  5314. 3:24:56when everything gets attached because
  5315. 3:24:58then you're like oh crap so I promise I
  5316. 3:25:02I will get you through this okay
  5317. 3:25:05can you get one bag
  5318. 3:25:12have you um ever been pulled over before
  5319. 3:25:14yes
  5320. 3:25:18oh I bet you're pulled over a lot
  5321. 3:25:22okay so I kind of explained polygraph in
  5322. 3:25:25a way that makes the most sense to me so
  5323. 3:25:27I'm I just assume it makes the most
  5324. 3:25:28sense to other people okay so just bear
  5325. 3:25:30with me I like to ask people
  5326. 3:25:33um about a time that they got pulled
  5327. 3:25:35over you know
  5328. 3:25:36um and how they felt when they realized
  5329. 3:25:38they were getting pulled over by the
  5330. 3:25:39police you know that moment when you're
  5331. 3:25:41crushing a hill you see a cop on the
  5332. 3:25:43side of the road or
  5333. 3:25:45um you know go around a corner there's a
  5334. 3:25:46cop there or all of a sudden you should
  5335. 3:25:48bring some flashing the 1900 every
  5336. 3:25:49mirror and I usually ask people I'm like
  5337. 3:25:51just describe how you felt when you
  5338. 3:25:52realize you're getting pulled over by
  5339. 3:25:54the police it's kind of right right now
  5340. 3:25:56I feel you know most people have the
  5341. 3:25:58heart beating out of the chest they kind
  5342. 3:25:59of start hyperventilating some people
  5343. 3:26:01get mad some people get sad well all the
  5344. 3:26:04things that are happening inside your
  5345. 3:26:05body when you realize you're getting
  5346. 3:26:06pulled over by the police or actually
  5347. 3:26:08being regulated by your autonomic
  5348. 3:26:09nervous system okay
  5349. 3:26:12it kind of sounds like automatic because
  5350. 3:26:14that's basically what it is whenever
  5351. 3:26:15your brain senses that you're in a
  5352. 3:26:16stressful or threatening situation it
  5353. 3:26:18automatically kicks in these
  5354. 3:26:20physiological changes inside your body
  5355. 3:26:21because it thinks it needs to help keep
  5356. 3:26:23you alive okay have you heard a fight
  5357. 3:26:25flight or freeze before so excuse me
  5358. 3:26:28Chris you're walking in the woods you
  5359. 3:26:29hear a bear growl you're going to fight
  5360. 3:26:31the berry in the freezer you're going to
  5361. 3:26:32run away that's kind of your brain going
  5362. 3:26:34you're going to overload right now you
  5363. 3:26:35can't really process what's happening so
  5364. 3:26:37I'm going to give you three options to
  5365. 3:26:38help keep you alive okay so a lot of
  5366. 3:26:40people are like what the hell does that
  5367. 3:26:42have to do with telling a lie well I'm
  5368. 3:26:44sure you would agree from a very young
  5369. 3:26:45age your father taught you you know that
  5370. 3:26:48Toronto lie cheaters feel would you
  5371. 3:26:50agree with that and that there's
  5372. 3:26:52consequences when you lie to your still
  5373. 3:26:54would you agree with that so if I ask
  5374. 3:26:56you a question Chris and I say did you
  5375. 3:26:58do whatever and the word no comes down
  5376. 3:27:00to your mouth your brain will
  5377. 3:27:02automatically sensitize and stressful or
  5378. 3:27:04threatening situation because it knows
  5379. 3:27:06there's consequences with that lie you
  5380. 3:27:07just told the severity of it it really
  5381. 3:27:09doesn't matter to your brain I mean you
  5382. 3:27:11could get grounded Friday a or you could
  5383. 3:27:13spend the rest of your life in prison
  5384. 3:27:14your brain really can't really
  5385. 3:27:16differentiate between the severity of
  5386. 3:27:17the consequence it just knows holy cow
  5387. 3:27:19you told a lie there's consequences with
  5388. 3:27:21those lies and it starts those same
  5389. 3:27:23physiological changes inside your body
  5390. 3:27:25okay the same things that were happening
  5391. 3:27:26when you heard the bear grow on the
  5392. 3:27:27woods and the same things that were
  5393. 3:27:29happening when you realized you were
  5394. 3:27:30getting pulled over by the police okay
  5395. 3:27:31so the awesome thing about the polygraph
  5396. 3:27:33is I get to measure what's going on
  5397. 3:27:34inside your body when you're answering
  5398. 3:27:36questions on the test okay and I do that
  5399. 3:27:38by attaching these components to you
  5400. 3:27:41okay in order to explain those here in
  5401. 3:27:44just a minute and I've already told you
  5402. 3:27:46on the touch like you're gonna have
  5403. 3:27:47questions on the test where I know
  5404. 3:27:48you're telling a truth like is your name
  5405. 3:27:50Chris first name Christopher and I have
  5406. 3:27:52questions on the touch where I know
  5407. 3:27:53you're telling a lie about hurting never
  5408. 3:27:55saying anything hurt a loved one or you
  5409. 3:27:57know those types of questions
  5410. 3:27:59so I get to see what your body looks
  5411. 3:28:01like on the inside when I know you're
  5412. 3:28:02telling a truth and I know you're
  5413. 3:28:03telling a lie and then I get to compare
  5414. 3:28:05that to the relevant questions about the
  5415. 3:28:08um if you've physically caution ants
  5416. 3:28:09disappearance if you're lying about the
  5417. 3:28:12last thing you saw and if you know where
  5418. 3:28:13she is now and I need to compare those
  5419. 3:28:15to those questions does that make sense
  5420. 3:28:16to you yeah I feel like I felt I don't
  5421. 3:28:19know his uh the heart the heartbeat
  5422. 3:28:21thing that's the only thing that I
  5423. 3:28:22thought it was measured measured off of
  5424. 3:28:24no and just so you know like a lot of
  5425. 3:28:25people are like well my heart's beating
  5426. 3:28:27out of my chest you are your own
  5427. 3:28:29Baseline like I'm not comparing you
  5428. 3:28:31against the guy I did last week or you
  5429. 3:28:34know someone I did 10 months ago so if
  5430. 3:28:37your heartbeat is up here that's just
  5431. 3:28:40where you're at like that's your
  5432. 3:28:42Baseline for me today okay and then when
  5433. 3:28:44you react you're just going to react up
  5434. 3:28:46here someone who's a little more calm or
  5435. 3:28:48you know maybe they you know they're
  5436. 3:28:50don't you know the heart's obviously not
  5437. 3:28:51beating as fast they're going to be
  5438. 3:28:53their Baseline is maybe going to be down
  5439. 3:28:54here but they're going to have that same
  5440. 3:28:56reaction does that make sense so you're
  5441. 3:28:58supposed to have the same reaction
  5442. 3:28:59you're just going to have different bass
  5443. 3:29:01lines okay so I'm going to explain to
  5444. 3:29:03you the components as I'm putting them
  5445. 3:29:04on because I think it makes the most
  5446. 3:29:05sense but I do need to kind of move your
  5447. 3:29:06chair a little bit and I'm going to
  5448. 3:29:08actually have you can I can we set these
  5449. 3:29:11down on the floor like this is that cool
  5450. 3:29:15I'm gonna move your water just a little
  5451. 3:29:17bit
  5452. 3:29:18just because I'm going to put your arm
  5453. 3:29:19up here
  5454. 3:29:25and you can have a feedback okay so the
  5455. 3:29:27first thing that we're going to put on
  5456. 3:29:29Chris is
  5457. 3:29:31these are called pneumograph tubes okay
  5458. 3:29:34the blue one's going to go kind of down
  5459. 3:29:36by
  5460. 3:29:37[Music]
  5461. 3:29:39bites okay these are going to measure
  5462. 3:29:40involuntary movements in your chest
  5463. 3:29:42cavity during the test okay so what I
  5464. 3:29:44need you to do is put your hands
  5465. 3:29:45together like a diving in a swimming
  5466. 3:29:46pool put your wrist on top of your head
  5467. 3:29:49on top of your head sure that's okay and
  5468. 3:29:51then just lean forward slightly so your
  5469. 3:29:53backs off the back of the chair perfect
  5470. 3:29:55so I'm going to try not to laugh here in
  5471. 3:29:57the face
  5472. 3:30:02and if any time like this feels too
  5473. 3:30:04tight or whatever just let me know okay
  5474. 3:30:05and I can adjust it for you
  5475. 3:30:08pretty skinny though so I want to make
  5476. 3:30:11sure it's not gonna fall down too far
  5477. 3:30:12can you put your hands up I'm going to
  5478. 3:30:14do the silver one
  5479. 3:30:28I feel like it's two days okay okay
  5480. 3:30:33foreign
  5481. 3:30:40[Music]
  5482. 3:30:44blood pressure cuff you would find in a
  5483. 3:30:46doctor's office obviously they're trying
  5484. 3:30:48to get your blood pressure when you're
  5485. 3:30:49in there I use this to measure the rate
  5486. 3:30:51of blood flow through your body during
  5487. 3:30:53the test and we've actually found it's
  5488. 3:30:55much more we get a much better reading
  5489. 3:30:58if we put it on your calf instead of
  5490. 3:30:59your arms or are you okay if you put it
  5491. 3:31:01on your tab so just go and put that leg
  5492. 3:31:03just so far straight up in the air for
  5493. 3:31:05me
  5494. 3:31:16okay go ahead and put it down the only
  5495. 3:31:18thing about doing it on the calf is we
  5496. 3:31:20just have to make sure we don't step on
  5497. 3:31:21it and it doesn't rub I guess we're back
  5498. 3:31:22which I think you'll be fine just make
  5499. 3:31:25sure we don't step on the cord okay and
  5500. 3:31:27then the last thing we use these are
  5501. 3:31:29called electrodermal activity activity
  5502. 3:31:31place in layman's terms are just going
  5503. 3:31:33to measure your sweat kind of activity
  5504. 3:31:34during the test okay so that's why I
  5505. 3:31:37need your arm
  5506. 3:31:39maybe
  5507. 3:31:41um
  5508. 3:31:42let's just scare you back just his head
  5509. 3:31:45so
  5510. 3:31:46foreign
  5511. 3:32:14and with these um like during the test
  5512. 3:32:16the important thing about those is that
  5513. 3:32:18we just want to just kind of leave your
  5514. 3:32:20hand kind of dead on the table we don't
  5515. 3:32:22want to push down we don't want to pull
  5516. 3:32:24up anything like that so all you're
  5517. 3:32:25you're just going to be completely flat
  5518. 3:32:27on the table and just kind of let your
  5519. 3:32:28arm go lip and your hand go live okay
  5520. 3:32:30during the testing okay right now you
  5521. 3:32:33can move around you can do what you put
  5522. 3:32:35it in your lap whatever it's not going
  5523. 3:32:36to hurt it if you want
  5524. 3:32:39some more water
  5525. 3:32:41I'll be okay
  5526. 3:32:48most of the math work
  5527. 3:32:52[Music]
  5528. 3:32:56does is obviously uh detect motion and
  5529. 3:32:59then movement in your body so that's how
  5530. 3:33:02important it will be that you remain
  5531. 3:33:03completely still during the testing
  5532. 3:33:05um if you move your little toe I mean as
  5533. 3:33:08you know it's lifting weights and stuff
  5534. 3:33:09everything happens from your core you
  5535. 3:33:11move your little toe obviously it's
  5536. 3:33:13going to register on my on my feet pad
  5537. 3:33:15so it's very very sensitive so that's
  5538. 3:33:17how important it's going to be that you
  5539. 3:33:19will make completely still sure okay
  5540. 3:33:20it'll probably give me the most position
  5541. 3:33:22I can because yeah
  5542. 3:33:26make sure you just flat when you can get
  5543. 3:33:28it so we're going to go over uh practice
  5544. 3:33:30test like this like I can read and
  5545. 3:33:32everything is good okay okay we're good
  5546. 3:33:34I just want to make sure but it's kind
  5547. 3:33:36of sideways actually oops try not to
  5548. 3:33:39check in a little bit
  5549. 3:33:41there we go
  5550. 3:33:46it's kind of cockeyed there a little bit
  5551. 3:33:49better for your shirt is that too tight
  5552. 3:33:50now it's tighter but
  5553. 3:33:53yeah
  5554. 3:33:56we're good you sure yeah this is tight
  5555. 3:33:58but it's good
  5556. 3:34:01so we're going to go over a pre-tash
  5557. 3:34:03mask and then I'll explain how I need
  5558. 3:34:05you to see the fill and all that and
  5559. 3:34:06then we'll get into the actual testing
  5560. 3:34:07okay so this is what we call
  5561. 3:34:10a directed live practice test okay and
  5562. 3:34:13I'm going to
  5563. 3:34:15my chair over here
  5564. 3:34:23[Music]
  5565. 3:34:24so obviously a direct delay practice
  5566. 3:34:26test kind of gives you a indication that
  5567. 3:34:28I probably want you to lie on the
  5568. 3:34:30practice test right
  5569. 3:34:31I don't want you to lie yet I will tell
  5570. 3:34:33you what at that point that I want you
  5571. 3:34:35to lie okay
  5572. 3:34:37how many numbers do you see on this
  5573. 3:34:38piece of paper four which one's
  5574. 3:34:40mentioning three I want you to write the
  5575. 3:34:43number three on the line where it's
  5576. 3:34:44missing okay okay and you can use your
  5577. 3:34:46right or your left hand are you
  5578. 3:34:48right-handed or left-handed right okay
  5579. 3:34:50I'll just
  5580. 3:34:54sounds pretty good okay
  5581. 3:34:57so this is the directive life practice
  5582. 3:34:59test so what that means is I'm going to
  5583. 3:35:01ask you if you wrote every single number
  5584. 3:35:03on this piece of paper okay I want you
  5585. 3:35:07to be truthful to all the numbers but I
  5586. 3:35:09want you to lie because when I asked you
  5587. 3:35:10if you wrote the number three because
  5588. 3:35:12you really did write the number three
  5589. 3:35:13but I want you to say no that you did
  5590. 3:35:14not I want you to lie to me okay
  5591. 3:35:17so let's practice it regarding that
  5592. 3:35:19number you wrote on the piece of paper
  5593. 3:35:20did you write the number one
  5594. 3:35:23no did you write the number two
  5595. 3:35:26no good did yours number three
  5596. 3:35:29yes no no you're lying to that one
  5597. 3:35:33that's okay all right did you write the
  5598. 3:35:35number four no did you write the number
  5599. 3:35:37five no okay so let's do that try that
  5600. 3:35:39one more time okay regarding the number
  5601. 3:35:40of the piece of paper did you write the
  5602. 3:35:42number one no did you write the number
  5603. 3:35:44two no did you write the number three no
  5604. 3:35:50number five no good so in essence you're
  5605. 3:35:52saying no to every single number that I
  5606. 3:35:54asked you about if you wrote but
  5607. 3:35:56obviously you're lying when you say you
  5608. 3:35:57didn't write the grocery because we just
  5609. 3:35:59both watched you right the number three
  5610. 3:36:00okay that makes sense to you
  5611. 3:36:03okay so during the touch thing I'm Gonna
  5612. 3:36:04Leave This right here you need to look
  5613. 3:36:06in the area of this clipboard you can't
  5614. 3:36:08look side to side up down wherever Chris
  5615. 3:36:10wants to look you don't have to fix it
  5616. 3:36:12on the number three but you're gonna be
  5617. 3:36:13looking basically in this General
  5618. 3:36:18they completely still there's no
  5619. 3:36:20coughing belting sneezing sniffling
  5620. 3:36:22anything like that during the test okay
  5621. 3:36:24just breathe it what's that just
  5622. 3:36:26breathing just yes I Need You to Breathe
  5623. 3:36:29yeah so it keeps you alive yeah
  5624. 3:36:32um so
  5625. 3:36:34you need to remain a lot of people are
  5626. 3:36:35like well I didn't know how to beat the
  5627. 3:36:36like statue you pretty much have to be
  5628. 3:36:38stealing the statue like I said it's for
  5629. 3:36:39a very short periods of time I will um
  5630. 3:36:42if for some reason I have to give you an
  5631. 3:36:44instruction during the test like maybe
  5632. 3:36:45you're moving your little finger and you
  5633. 3:36:47don't even notice it because it's kind
  5634. 3:36:49of like a little thing that you're doing
  5635. 3:36:50and you don't really realize you're
  5636. 3:36:51doing it
  5637. 3:36:52just fix whatever I've asked you to fix
  5638. 3:36:55and do not go oh my gosh I'm sorry do
  5639. 3:36:57not apologize do not move do not do
  5640. 3:37:00anything I'll know already that you feel
  5641. 3:37:02horrible about what you just did I just
  5642. 3:37:04don't need you to acknowledge it okay I
  5643. 3:37:07just need you to actually fix whatever I
  5644. 3:37:08should fix like see you just picked up
  5645. 3:37:10your little your finger over there if I
  5646. 3:37:11say don't move your finger I don't need
  5647. 3:37:13you to go I'm so sorry yes
  5648. 3:37:17exactly so and that's totally fine I'm
  5649. 3:37:19just saying if I if I point something
  5650. 3:37:20out like that just ever just stop what
  5651. 3:37:22do whatever I'm asking you
  5652. 3:37:24to drive to you
  5653. 3:37:26um during the test you cannot look at me
  5654. 3:37:28I will be staring at you just to make
  5655. 3:37:30sure all the components are staying
  5656. 3:37:31where they're supposed to I know it
  5657. 3:37:33feels super creepy to have someone
  5658. 3:37:34staring at you when you can't stare back
  5659. 3:37:36that's fine but that's just kind of the
  5660. 3:37:38name of the game today okay okay do you
  5661. 3:37:40have any questions
  5662. 3:37:42you know like I'll try to sneeze her for
  5663. 3:37:45anything like that yeah or anything like
  5664. 3:37:49this can you put your whole hand on it
  5665. 3:37:53on this is that cartoon no that's when I
  5666. 3:37:56try to come get in that way yeah no
  5667. 3:37:59you're good if you could just stick your
  5668. 3:38:00whole hand on theirs or so I could see
  5669. 3:38:02it that'd be perfect
  5670. 3:38:03um there's no talking during the test
  5671. 3:38:05the only talking used to do is to say
  5672. 3:38:07yes or no
  5673. 3:38:09um
  5674. 3:38:11sometimes people have a problem can you
  5675. 3:38:13look at me right oh sorry
  5676. 3:38:17that's okay so when I ask you a question
  5677. 3:38:20and a lot of people have you know an
  5678. 3:38:22automatic reaction to go yes no they
  5679. 3:38:25move their head so just be conscious
  5680. 3:38:27about the fact that your whole body
  5681. 3:38:29including your head needs to be
  5682. 3:38:30completely still the only movement
  5683. 3:38:32that's actually going to happen from
  5684. 3:38:33your body is your mouth open to say yes
  5685. 3:38:35or no but your head should stay still
  5686. 3:38:37so try it so if I tell you you know if I
  5687. 3:38:40have to give you an instruction like
  5688. 3:38:41stop nodding your head or something like
  5689. 3:38:42that just stop and open your mouth and
  5690. 3:38:45say the word instead of moving your head
  5691. 3:38:46okay does that make sense and I like I
  5692. 3:38:48said I know most people don't do that on
  5693. 3:38:50purpose and they're not realizing that
  5694. 3:38:52they're doing it until I point it out to
  5695. 3:38:53them so if I do that just
  5696. 3:38:56except for me okay okay
  5697. 3:38:58there is no air in your cuff right now I
  5698. 3:39:01will over inflate your cuff when we
  5699. 3:39:03start it'll feel like your leg's going
  5700. 3:39:04to fall off for just a brief second and
  5701. 3:39:06then I let almost all the air out and I
  5702. 3:39:08pump it up about halfway and that just
  5703. 3:39:10gets all the air bubbles out for me and
  5704. 3:39:11gives me a nice clean reading on the
  5705. 3:39:13chart okay
  5706. 3:39:15do you have any questions
  5707. 3:39:17that's that's it so make sure that also
  5708. 3:39:20that I ask the question in its entirety
  5709. 3:39:23before you answer
  5710. 3:39:25okay
  5711. 3:39:27um especially with the numbers people
  5712. 3:39:28already know what numbers coming next so
  5713. 3:39:30sometimes I'll say did you write the
  5714. 3:39:31number no and they cut me off there has
  5715. 3:39:33to be a delineation between the time I
  5716. 3:39:35and the question and the time you answer
  5717. 3:39:37so just make sure that you're not doing
  5718. 3:39:39that for me okay
  5719. 3:39:41so give me one second I have to
  5720. 3:39:44make a file name here
  5721. 3:40:13for your birthday one more time uh 5 16
  5722. 3:40:1685.
  5723. 3:40:24so I will tell you when the test is
  5724. 3:40:26going to begin and then I will tell you
  5725. 3:40:27when the touch is going to end don't
  5726. 3:40:29move in between that time and then I
  5727. 3:40:30will tell you at the end when it's okay
  5728. 3:40:32for you to move around and relax okay
  5729. 3:40:34okay so just stay totally like you are
  5730. 3:40:37until I tell you that it's okay okay
  5731. 3:40:42don't bother you with it no I'm just
  5732. 3:40:44trying to keep I'm like stretching my
  5733. 3:40:46fingers out yeah don't just like
  5734. 3:40:47seriously just kind of like like your
  5735. 3:40:49hand is on your lap just lay your hand
  5736. 3:40:51right there yeah leave it allowed to you
  5737. 3:40:53need to be at least flat though right I
  5738. 3:40:55mean it just just like lay on the table
  5739. 3:41:02it's fine
  5740. 3:41:06and again you're going to be looking
  5741. 3:41:11just make sure you don't move okay okay
  5742. 3:41:53the test is about to begin please remain
  5743. 3:41:55still
  5744. 3:42:13regarding what number you are on the
  5745. 3:42:15piece of paper did you write the number
  5746. 3:42:16one no
  5747. 3:42:40did you write the number two
  5748. 3:42:42oh
  5749. 3:43:08did you write the number three no
  5750. 3:43:35did you write the number four no
  5751. 3:44:01did you write the number five no
  5752. 3:44:27this portion of the test is complete
  5753. 3:44:29please remain still I take the
  5754. 3:44:31instrument out of operation
  5755. 3:44:39so you can relax
  5756. 3:44:41and feel
  5757. 3:44:44you did great
  5758. 3:44:46you remember to lie and everything that
  5759. 3:44:48was awesome that was
  5760. 3:44:51so you obviously are a really bad liar I
  5761. 3:44:54have people told you that before like
  5762. 3:44:56the second you tell a lie like they
  5763. 3:44:57could tell like on your face but
  5764. 3:44:59because we're striking Eli to the number
  5765. 3:45:01three like I don't know if you heard me
  5766. 3:45:02clicking but I didn't like turned down
  5767. 3:45:04the sensitivities because you were
  5768. 3:45:05starting to go off the page so that is
  5769. 3:45:07what I need to see as a calligrapher
  5770. 3:45:09because that tells me that you know
  5771. 3:45:11what's wrong to tell a lie and you're
  5772. 3:45:13actually having a significant reaction
  5773. 3:45:15when you lie so that is awesome so thank
  5774. 3:45:17you for being a proper buyer no that's a
  5775. 3:45:20good thing that's a good thing we don't
  5776. 3:45:21want to be good liars so thank you for
  5777. 3:45:24being a horrible liar and that just
  5778. 3:45:26shows me that you know obviously on the
  5779. 3:45:27test when we're asking you know
  5780. 3:45:28significant stuff about your wife if
  5781. 3:45:31you're lying to that it's going to be
  5782. 3:45:32even 10 times more I have to Amplified
  5783. 3:45:33so I appreciate that I appreciate that
  5784. 3:45:37very much more than you know so
  5785. 3:45:39that was awesome so let me get the
  5786. 3:45:42questions to the test up if you want to
  5787. 3:45:44take a drink of your water just to kind
  5788. 3:45:46of never mind you're good no okay so
  5789. 3:45:50um do you have any other questions about
  5790. 3:45:52the questions of the test
  5791. 3:45:54so we're going to ask these such a
  5792. 3:45:57questions we have to ask them at least
  5793. 3:45:58three times so we call them charts so we
  5794. 3:46:01have to do at least three charts
  5795. 3:46:03um
  5796. 3:46:05we can do up to five charts depending on
  5797. 3:46:08you know if you're not giving any good
  5798. 3:46:09data for some reason or you're moving or
  5799. 3:46:12something like that we could do up to
  5800. 3:46:13five charts okay so hopefully we'll get
  5801. 3:46:15them done in three that's what my hope
  5802. 3:46:16is and I I imagine we will get them done
  5803. 3:46:20in three so okay and the coolest thing
  5804. 3:46:23about this is right now there's only one
  5805. 3:46:25person in this room that knows what the
  5806. 3:46:27truth is in about five minutes there's
  5807. 3:46:29going to be two of us so that's the
  5808. 3:46:31coolest part okay and then let's go
  5809. 3:46:33share that with them out there okay
  5810. 3:46:36so do you you don't have any other
  5811. 3:46:37questions or anything no
  5812. 3:46:47before we start oh well
  5813. 3:47:04my heart rate off this off the scales
  5814. 3:47:11okay
  5815. 3:47:15no problem
  5816. 3:47:17okay can you let me know when you're
  5817. 3:47:19ready to begin during this part of the
  5818. 3:47:21test I want you to focus on the back of
  5819. 3:47:23the chair okay not looking up down side
  5820. 3:47:26to side anything like that was I doing
  5821. 3:47:29that nope you did great you but
  5822. 3:47:31obviously the clipboard has gone now so
  5823. 3:47:33your area of focus is going to be like
  5824. 3:47:35in this area okay yeah don't like focus
  5825. 3:47:39on something so intense that you end up
  5826. 3:47:42you know kind of going cross-eyed like
  5827. 3:47:44so don't just make sure you don't do
  5828. 3:47:46that okay just kind of look at look
  5829. 3:47:47around like right in that area Okay do
  5830. 3:47:50you remember those questions that you
  5831. 3:47:51have to lie to
  5832. 3:47:52uh and before 2018 right and you
  5833. 3:47:56remember you're going to tell a lie to
  5834. 3:47:58those questions yes yes I know I'm going
  5835. 3:48:01to say no to anything that says before
  5836. 3:48:032018. there's regards to before 2018
  5837. 3:48:05right and you're going to think about
  5838. 3:48:07the lives yeah right yeah after you
  5839. 3:48:11after you ask the full question yes yep
  5840. 3:48:13perfect
  5841. 3:48:15all right you ready
  5842. 3:48:16let's do it okay
  5843. 3:48:21thank you
  5844. 3:48:44so
  5845. 3:48:57the test is about to begin please remain
  5846. 3:48:59still
  5847. 3:49:26do you understand I will only ask you
  5848. 3:49:28the questions we have discussed
  5849. 3:49:30yes
  5850. 3:49:52regarding shenan's disappearance do you
  5851. 3:49:55intend to answer all of the questions
  5852. 3:49:56truthfully yes
  5853. 3:50:20is your first name Christopher yes
  5854. 3:50:27pretty normal
  5855. 3:51:01before 2018 did you ever lose your
  5856. 3:51:03temper with someone you cared about
  5857. 3:51:05no
  5858. 3:51:28did you physically cause shenan's
  5859. 3:51:30disappearance no
  5860. 3:51:47foreign
  5861. 3:51:54were you born in 1985
  5862. 3:51:56yes
  5863. 3:52:27before 2018 did you ever see anything
  5864. 3:52:30out of anger to a loved one no
  5865. 3:52:56are you lying about the last time you
  5866. 3:52:57saw Chanel No
  5867. 3:53:22are you now in the state of Colorado yes
  5868. 3:53:59before 2018 have you ever wanted to hurt
  5869. 3:54:01someone to be even with them no
  5870. 3:54:31do you know where shenan is now no
  5871. 3:54:58which portion of the test is complete
  5872. 3:54:59please make sure I take the instrument
  5873. 3:55:01out of operation
  5874. 3:55:08yeah
  5875. 3:55:11how do you feel
  5876. 3:55:12horrible
  5877. 3:55:14yeah this is trying to look at something
  5878. 3:55:17without nothing there
  5879. 3:55:19the chair thing yeah yeah I know it gets
  5880. 3:55:22kind of weird like that's why I always
  5881. 3:55:23tell people not sure nothing
  5882. 3:55:26must be trying to keep everything still
  5883. 3:55:29do you feel like you're in a good
  5884. 3:55:31position right now
  5885. 3:55:33I feel like it's okay
  5886. 3:55:35okay she's not used to this
  5887. 3:55:39questions
  5888. 3:55:41basically causing Chinese disappearance
  5889. 3:55:43is there anything that you are like I
  5890. 3:55:46don't like how that question's you know
  5891. 3:55:48worded maybe you know no does it cause
  5892. 3:55:50you or you know exactly what I'm talking
  5893. 3:55:52about
  5894. 3:55:53yeah like um
  5895. 3:55:56I'm there okay and as far as um the last
  5896. 3:55:59time you shower you know talked about in
  5897. 3:56:01the basement when you saw her makeup
  5898. 3:56:02coming on your face and then if you know
  5899. 3:56:05where she is now having direct knowledge
  5900. 3:56:07of where she would be at this moment
  5901. 3:56:09okay okay
  5902. 3:56:11so do you want to take some drink water
  5903. 3:56:14or are you ready to start it's like a
  5904. 3:56:16church
  5905. 3:56:21you probably want that Mountain Dew now
  5906. 3:56:23don't you
  5907. 3:56:25[Music]
  5908. 3:56:41think everything like stable yeah
  5909. 3:56:44you feel good like that yep
  5910. 3:56:53ready
  5911. 3:56:55yeah
  5912. 3:57:00during this test on the watch test
  5913. 3:57:02um you're breathing really funky so
  5914. 3:57:04please just try and do normal breaths
  5915. 3:57:06okay we can't have deep breaths or no
  5916. 3:57:09deep breath okay sorry so that's okay
  5917. 3:57:11just breathe as normal as possible okay
  5918. 3:57:12yeah
  5919. 3:57:18all right you ready yep
  5920. 3:57:22you're bothering me
  5921. 3:57:24on the way right okay
  5922. 3:57:28so we're gonna get started so stay still
  5923. 3:57:58the test is about to begin please remain
  5924. 3:58:00still
  5925. 3:58:24foreign
  5926. 3:58:27do you understand that I only ask you
  5927. 3:58:29the questions we have discussed
  5928. 3:58:53regarding shenan's disappearance do you
  5929. 3:58:55intend to answer all the questions
  5930. 3:58:57truthfully yes
  5931. 3:59:19are you now in the state of Colorado yes
  5932. 3:59:46before 2018 have you ever wanted to hurt
  5933. 3:59:48someone to get even with them no
  5934. 4:00:24are you lying about the last time you
  5935. 4:00:26saw [ __ ] in no
  5936. 4:00:51is your first name Christopher yes
  5937. 4:01:17before 2018 did you ever lose your
  5938. 4:01:19temper wish for what you cared about no
  5939. 4:01:56do you know where shanana is now no
  5940. 4:02:23were you born in 1985 yes
  5941. 4:02:58before 2018 did you ever see anything
  5942. 4:03:01out of anger to a loved one no
  5943. 4:03:33it's pretty normal
  5944. 4:03:42did you physically cause shenan's
  5945. 4:03:44disappearance no
  5946. 4:03:52foreign
  5947. 4:04:11out of operation
  5948. 4:04:19relax
  5949. 4:04:21I think we should be able to get into
  5950. 4:04:23one more chart but I really need your
  5951. 4:04:25breathing to be normal or like um
  5952. 4:04:28that's okay like sometimes I feel like
  5953. 4:04:31I'm not breathing enough I'm like uh
  5954. 4:04:34try that I don't want to do that so yeah
  5955. 4:04:37yeah I just need it as normal
  5956. 4:04:39responsible or not so I fluctuated okay
  5957. 4:04:43sorry about that that's okay I just want
  5958. 4:04:46to be able to get it done for you in one
  5959. 4:04:47more chart instead of doing three more
  5960. 4:04:50so yeah
  5961. 4:04:53I know you don't want that
  5962. 4:05:05okay I know I sound like a broken record
  5963. 4:05:07but I have to ask you again any issues
  5964. 4:05:09with those questions on the test
  5965. 4:05:11you know exactly what I mean when I ask
  5966. 4:05:13about physically causing your
  5967. 4:05:14disappearance last time you saw shanan
  5968. 4:05:17and
  5969. 4:05:19um if you know where she is now okay
  5970. 4:05:21no question about those no okay
  5971. 4:05:28so good yep
  5972. 4:05:33I can't do it we're gonna get started
  5973. 4:05:34let's stay still
  5974. 4:05:55keeping free through the nose or
  5975. 4:05:57breathing through the mouth matters it
  5976. 4:05:59doesn't matter if it's crazy normal
  5977. 4:06:09it's cool
  5978. 4:06:28we're touching about to begin social
  5979. 4:06:30media still
  5980. 4:06:37do you understand I will only ask you
  5981. 4:06:39the questions we have discussed
  5982. 4:06:53it's pretty normal
  5983. 4:07:11regarding cheman's disappearance do you
  5984. 4:07:13intend to answer all the questions
  5985. 4:07:14truthfully yes
  5986. 4:07:37were you born in 1985 yes
  5987. 4:08:05before 2018 did you ever see anything
  5988. 4:08:08out of anger to a loved one yes
  5989. 4:08:42do you know where shenan is now no
  5990. 4:09:04thank you
  5991. 4:09:11are you now in the state of Colorado yes
  5992. 4:09:37before 2018 have you ever wanted to hurt
  5993. 4:09:40someone to get even with them no
  5994. 4:10:06did you physically cause shenan's
  5995. 4:10:08disappearance no
  5996. 4:10:14thank you
  5997. 4:10:36it's your first name Christopher
  5998. 4:10:38yes
  5999. 4:11:04before 2018 did you ever lose your
  6000. 4:11:07temper with someone you cared about no
  6001. 4:11:42are you lying about the last time you
  6002. 4:11:44saw shanan oh
  6003. 4:12:10portion of the test is complete please
  6004. 4:12:11remain still I take the instrument out
  6005. 4:12:13of operation
  6006. 4:12:20all right how'd you feel
  6007. 4:12:22the same as all of it I think it was
  6008. 4:12:25effective everything all right oh yeah
  6009. 4:12:30it's kind of hard to relax I know I get
  6010. 4:12:33it
  6011. 4:12:35kind of stick that link straight up for
  6012. 4:12:37me
  6013. 4:12:38I just feel like my feet like sweating
  6014. 4:12:41through my right can you have a
  6015. 4:12:43flip-flops on
  6016. 4:12:45I'm a hot person can you put your arms
  6017. 4:12:48up like you had them before for me
  6018. 4:12:51perfect
  6019. 4:13:08so I need to um go grade this okay so
  6020. 4:13:13um
  6021. 4:13:14do you need to use the rest of or
  6022. 4:13:16anything again I'm good right now okay
  6023. 4:13:21[Music]
  6024. 4:13:30all right
  6025. 4:13:36I'll be right back okay I'm gonna take
  6026. 4:13:38one another thing with me okay are you
  6027. 4:13:40good with your water you want another
  6028. 4:13:41one yeah
  6029. 4:13:42[Music]
  6030. 4:13:46thank you
  6031. 4:14:58I really told you about technology and
  6032. 4:15:01it appear to say so
  6033. 4:15:03I'm gonna grab my power cord real quick
  6034. 4:15:07do any crackers or anything no I'm fine
  6035. 4:15:09are you sure
  6036. 4:17:10foreign
  6037. 4:18:01up
  6038. 4:18:32here
  6039. 4:19:42okay
  6040. 4:20:10foreign
  6041. 4:22:48thank you
  6042. 4:23:04foreign
  6043. 4:25:11thank you
  6044. 4:26:01thank you
  6045. 4:27:58foreign
  6046. 4:28:42foreign
  6047. 4:29:58all right
  6048. 4:31:03thank you
  6049. 4:33:30foreign
  6050. 4:34:20okay
  6051. 4:35:19foreign
  6052. 4:36:16foreign
  6053. 4:37:23foreign
  6054. 4:37:31foreign
  6055. 4:40:07foreign
  6056. 4:40:16thank you
  6057. 4:40:44foreign
  6058. 4:42:11foreign
  6059. 4:42:27[Music]
  6060. 4:42:57[Music]
  6061. 4:43:14[Music]
  6062. 4:43:20foreign
  6063. 4:43:51[Music]
  6064. 4:44:00[Music]
  6065. 4:44:05okay
  6066. 4:44:10did she know you were coming in here
  6067. 4:44:12today no who knew you were coming in
  6068. 4:44:15Nick and Mannix I was at their house and
  6069. 4:44:18my uh my dad okay
  6070. 4:44:21what'd your dad say about it
  6071. 4:44:23so just do you know do what they ask
  6072. 4:44:28this
  6073. 4:44:31ass like whatever whatever questions
  6074. 4:44:33they have just ask just do what they ask
  6075. 4:44:42oh my God they're adorable they're only
  6076. 4:44:46bigger than I thought I think I saw a
  6077. 4:44:48picture of them on the news and they
  6078. 4:44:49were much tinier which
  6079. 4:44:52I don't know okay that was that that was
  6080. 4:44:55like no no this is I was just here oh it
  6081. 4:44:57was yeah oh they looked so much smaller
  6082. 4:45:10thank you
  6083. 4:45:16oh there's no trash can in here oh
  6084. 4:45:19that's okay I'll take them out do you
  6085. 4:45:20want another one oh no that's fine okay
  6086. 4:45:26okay I'm just gonna grab that pad that
  6087. 4:45:28you're sitting on okay throw that
  6088. 4:45:33all right
  6089. 4:45:34well I didn't try to turn my phone on as
  6090. 4:45:36I can go to service in here I know oh my
  6091. 4:45:39work phone yes because it's Verizon
  6092. 4:45:42T's like dead
  6093. 4:45:45over here at least we're getting stuff
  6094. 4:45:47from work like you need to be doing this
  6095. 4:45:49for that no just everybody's checked out
  6096. 4:45:52now of course for the day like did they
  6097. 4:45:55tell you that we have a GroupMe app oh
  6098. 4:45:59uh-huh so I know like I usually sign a
  6099. 4:46:01text about 1 30 so everybody's doing
  6100. 4:46:04at about 2 30 the Domino's starts to
  6101. 4:46:06fall people start to check out and
  6102. 4:46:07everything there's always like
  6103. 4:46:09there's always that one person that's
  6104. 4:46:10like you know like all right do I check
  6105. 4:46:12out now or wait I don't get the first
  6106. 4:46:14one of these and all that kind of stuff
  6107. 4:46:15so do they feel bad if they're the first
  6108. 4:46:17ones to leave uh one of the guys usually
  6109. 4:46:20does but there's always one guy that
  6110. 4:46:22likes to stay and trying to testify over
  6111. 4:46:25time too right
  6112. 4:46:28anyway
  6113. 4:46:30so they've uh
  6114. 4:46:36they've um they've been very uh
  6115. 4:46:40supportive good like there was a
  6116. 4:46:43then that lets you know that that's the
  6117. 4:46:46place you should be working
  6118. 4:46:47you know yeah
  6119. 4:46:49[Applause]
  6120. 4:46:52[Music]
  6121. 4:46:55I think someone talked to Luke and he
  6122. 4:46:58was like you know what family first
  6123. 4:46:59whatever so it makes you feel good you
  6124. 4:47:02know that there's classes out there that
  6125. 4:47:03are like that yeah because you don't
  6126. 4:47:05always find them
  6127. 4:47:08foreign
  6128. 4:47:32[Music]
  6129. 4:47:36no thank you
  6130. 4:48:39so
  6131. 4:49:17[Music]
  6132. 4:50:19thank you
  6133. 4:50:23foreign
  6134. 4:51:01[Applause]
  6135. 4:51:55foreign
  6136. 4:52:01[Music]
  6137. 4:52:13[Music]
  6138. 4:52:38[Music]
  6139. 4:52:51okay
  6140. 4:52:52well that's a good one
  6141. 4:53:03[Applause]
  6142. 4:54:38stop me
  6143. 4:54:58[Applause]
  6144. 4:55:13got it
  6145. 4:55:38and my fella
  6146. 4:56:04so pretty
  6147. 4:56:18come on
  6148. 4:56:49[Music]
  6149. 4:57:10you're going like others like you know
  6150. 4:57:59foreign
  6151. 4:58:54[Music]
  6152. 4:59:28foreign
  6153. 5:00:52thank you
  6154. 5:01:47foreign
  6155. 5:05:47foreign
  6156. 5:06:27foreign
  6157. 5:06:34foreign

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