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Chris Watts Full Polygraph Interview & Interrogation Part 1 — Transcript

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  1. 0:02[Music]
  2. 0:06sounds like
  3. 0:53no what I what I'm aware of all I'm
  4. 0:57aware
  5. 1:11back in here um one of the things we
  6. 1:13were talking about is as we mentioned
  7. 1:15yesterday okay knocking out the
  8. 1:17polygraph yeah um why don't we do that
  9. 1:20today why don't we do that now okay um
  10. 1:22get that out of the way when you're done
  11. 1:24um this is Tammy did you meet Tammy
  12. 1:25yesterday no only one this is Tammy hi
  13. 1:28CH how are you so then when we're done
  14. 1:30we'll um we'll figure out our game plan
  15. 1:32that I was talking about today um did
  16. 1:34your dad have availability to use the
  17. 1:36car if you're going to be here for like
  18. 1:37an hour or
  19. 1:39more can you drive oh he can drive yeah
  20. 1:44yeah okay and I'll go explain to him
  21. 1:45everything else going on okay he he will
  22. 1:47know where to go but oh okay well we can
  23. 1:50he knows how get to the house but if
  24. 1:51it's not ready you can't go in there but
  25. 1:52okay does he know how to use GPS on his
  26. 1:54phone or yeah but he wouldn't know like
  27. 1:56you know where else to go beside my
  28. 1:57house oh that's true just you know I
  29. 1:59mean I mean I can tell him if if get to
  30. 2:02go to my friend's house if okay I'm not
  31. 2:05sure like if I'm be here for an hour or
  32. 2:07like 4 hours you you want me to just go
  33. 2:09talk to him and let him know when the
  34. 2:10house is going to be ready and all that
  35. 2:11and when he can go cuz he can go grab a
  36. 2:13bite to eat or something right oh yeah
  37. 2:15like if there everything should be open
  38. 2:16by now around here okay yeah um I'm sure
  39. 2:20Lance at like 5:00 each those times so
  40. 2:23okay why don't we knock this out um I
  41. 2:25think it's the best thing to do to move
  42. 2:26past all of this um and then um I'll go
  43. 2:29talk to your Dad he'll have the keys
  44. 2:31everything will be good okay yeah you
  45. 2:33have his number you can call him when
  46. 2:35you're done there's like no signal in
  47. 2:37this place so that isn't it that's why I
  48. 2:38couldn't talk to you earlier yeah
  49. 2:42it between him and me we'll figure out
  50. 2:44how to communicate and get him where he
  51. 2:46needs to go okay I've been getting text
  52. 2:48messages from like a lot of news places
  53. 2:51okay I don't know really like you know I
  54. 2:53think that's part of maybe what we game
  55. 2:55plan today um I mean not not just here
  56. 2:58like today show before I don't like know
  57. 3:01what to do yeah well I think that you
  58. 3:05certainly can do whatever you need to or
  59. 3:06want to do um but I think that after
  60. 3:09this after we knock this out we get you
  61. 3:12know we get back to the team and we make
  62. 3:13a plan something getting different like
  63. 3:16advice like as far as like her mom said
  64. 3:18like if it's a kidnapping then I would
  65. 3:20she says not to talk to anybody yeah but
  66. 3:23like I'm like porn of what to do well I
  67. 3:27her mom told you not to talk yeah her
  68. 3:29mom said cuz she was advised by someone
  69. 3:31like a like police or detective there
  70. 3:33that like if he talks to the media it
  71. 3:35might oh to the media okay M I thought
  72. 3:38you were talking about to the
  73. 3:39point no like just the media in general
  74. 3:42likez it's gone I mean Today's show Good
  75. 3:44Morning America is trying to get a hold
  76. 3:45of me my parents friends I just
  77. 3:47sometimes we release details that you
  78. 3:48know maybe the public they want DET me I
  79. 3:50know that's I don't want to impede with
  80. 3:53what's going on here and put the things
  81. 3:55out because I've watched
  82. 3:56enough shows shows that say like all
  83. 3:59right don't put things out there before
  84. 4:02the police put because then you don't
  85. 4:03know if somebody really knows or if they
  86. 4:04just saw it on TV yeah well let's do
  87. 4:06this um I think while you're doing this
  88. 4:09it's going to be completely okay to
  89. 4:11ignore your phone and the media and
  90. 4:13everyone right okay so let's get this
  91. 4:15out of the way I think it'll really
  92. 4:17clear your mind a little bit right all
  93. 4:19right um so why don't we why don't we
  94. 4:22put a halt on the phone on texting
  95. 4:24people on Good Morning America all those
  96. 4:26I haven't responded Focus yeah focus on
  97. 4:30this let's knock it out and then let's
  98. 4:31talk okay all right all right all right
  99. 4:33you'll come in I'll go get you when
  100. 4:35we're done
  101. 4:36yeah thanks goad have a seat right here
  102. 4:39Chris sit on this yep I know it's I'll
  103. 4:42explain what that here in a little bit
  104. 4:43but you don't have to worry it's not on
  105. 4:45or anything right now it's not going to
  106. 4:47it's not going to buzz you or anything
  107. 4:49never I've never done this before I know
  108. 4:51a lot of people haven't had polygraphs
  109. 4:52before it's not like a normal thing that
  110. 4:54people go through um a lot of people
  111. 4:55like obviously in law enforcement and
  112. 4:57places like that they have to go through
  113. 4:58polygraphs for their job but other than
  114. 5:01that most people never take a polygraph
  115. 5:02in their entire life so yes I have like
  116. 5:04no idea like what to expect on yeah so
  117. 5:08how are you feeling today I'm sick to my
  118. 5:11stomach honestly like the first day I
  119. 5:13thought okay she was just somewhere sure
  120. 5:16and after yesterday all the activity at
  121. 5:18my house I was I didn't know it went to
  122. 5:22the Other Extreme that's I've just been
  123. 5:24like sick myself like that either
  124. 5:25somebody has her or she's in trouble and
  125. 5:27the kids are not safe either right right
  126. 5:30well and I think that's totally awesome
  127. 5:33that you're here today I mean I commend
  128. 5:35you we do this in all of our missing
  129. 5:36person cases so don't think that we're
  130. 5:38just singling you out like oh my gosh I
  131. 5:40want me to take a polygraph anytime you
  132. 5:42know someone was the last person to see
  133. 5:44people or you know there's it's a
  134. 5:46missing person case we start from the
  135. 5:47inside and we work out I mean that's
  136. 5:49pretty much what we do so I've done um
  137. 5:52polygraphs on the Jessica ritway case I
  138. 5:53don't know if you were here for that the
  139. 5:56name sounds familiar little girl that
  140. 5:57went missing in Westminster and yeah and
  141. 6:00then uh just the one that we had in
  142. 6:01Thorton um last year or the year before
  143. 6:04um so we do this all the time so don't
  144. 6:06please don't think that you're being
  145. 6:07single that like this is this is one way
  146. 6:09that um if you didn't have anything to
  147. 6:11do with it that we can let the
  148. 6:13investigators know the people that
  149. 6:14really do need to know that are looking
  150. 6:15for your wife and your little girls um
  151. 6:18to let them know like you know what
  152. 6:20don't focus on Chris Focus over here
  153. 6:22because obviously we've already cleared
  154. 6:24him he's good to go now focus on the
  155. 6:26real person that did something through
  156. 6:28this you know to to
  157. 6:30and um little girls so okay so I am my
  158. 6:34name is Tammy if you can call me Tammy
  159. 6:36I'm an agent with the Colorado Bureau of
  160. 6:38Investigation so it's a CBI it's kind of
  161. 6:40like the FBI but for Colorado um so we
  162. 6:44what our role is um just so you know is
  163. 6:46anytime a law enforcement agency or a
  164. 6:48district attorney's office or the
  165. 6:50governor needs assistance with a case
  166. 6:52they can call the CBI to come out and
  167. 6:54assist them so obviously in this you
  168. 6:56know type of case um they're calling in
  169. 6:59all the resources that they can which
  170. 7:01includes me um who works out of the
  171. 7:03Denver office and I also do polygraphs
  172. 7:05so they asked me if I would uh be
  173. 7:07willing to come here and chat with you
  174. 7:10and and hopefully get you cleared up and
  175. 7:12and on your way because it sounds like
  176. 7:14that's what you're here for and and
  177. 7:16that's awesome because that's mostly
  178. 7:18what people want to do is like dude
  179. 7:19you're not you're looking at the wrong
  180. 7:21person like I just want to show you I
  181. 7:22had nothing to do with this and then you
  182. 7:23guys can get on your way and you know do
  183. 7:25your investigation somewhere else so cuz
  184. 7:28that that helps us cuz we don't have to
  185. 7:30keep focusing on Chris does that make
  186. 7:31sense to you okay um this polygraph
  187. 7:34today is going to be recorded obviously
  188. 7:36it would be dumb if I didn't because
  189. 7:38what if at the end I said you said
  190. 7:40whatever and you really didn't say it
  191. 7:41obviously they could go back and look at
  192. 7:43the recording uh there's a camera right
  193. 7:45there there's also a backup digital
  194. 7:47recording that I'm doing fails me in the
  195. 7:49second I try and trusted it it always
  196. 7:51fails me so um so you said that um your
  197. 7:55cell phone is it off right now yeah that
  198. 7:58would be great
  199. 7:59because um we can't have anything like
  200. 8:01buzzing vibrating ringing that kind of
  201. 8:04stuff so um there's will take um at
  202. 8:07least a couple hours to do the polygraph
  203. 8:10just because it's a real structured type
  204. 8:11of interview process I have to go
  205. 8:13through a bunch of things with you um
  206. 8:15you're going to get the same polygraph
  207. 8:16that I give you know I gave someone last
  208. 8:18week so um it's very structured and we
  209. 8:22go you know in order and that kind of
  210. 8:23stuff and you're going to know the
  211. 8:25wording to all the questions that I'm
  212. 8:26going to ask you on the test um before
  213. 8:28we even take the graph so don't don't a
  214. 8:31lot of people come in here and they
  215. 8:32think oh they're just going to you know
  216. 8:33attach all these components to me and
  217. 8:35then just start asking me random
  218. 8:36questions that I've never heard before
  219. 8:38and of course I'm going to react to that
  220. 8:39that's not at all how po polygraph works
  221. 8:43yeah you're actually going to probably
  222. 8:43know more about polygraphs than anyone
  223. 8:46before you leave here today just because
  224. 8:47I explain everything to you and how
  225. 8:49everything works okay
  226. 8:52um obviously you're probably nervous
  227. 8:54about taking today's test honestly I
  228. 8:55would think something is wrong with you
  229. 8:56if you weren't nervous about coming in
  230. 8:58here to take a poly
  231. 9:00even if people are like I don't have
  232. 9:01anything to hide it is nerve-racking and
  233. 9:03I have taken tons of polys obviously in
  234. 9:06my training um I went to 10 weeks for
  235. 9:09training I've been a polygrapher about
  236. 9:10for about 5 years um I went to the best
  237. 9:13school in the country so I want you to
  238. 9:15have confidence in the fact that if you
  239. 9:17had nothing to do with this
  240. 9:18disappearance like we're going to find
  241. 9:19that out today okay I have the best
  242. 9:21training that they offer in the United
  243. 9:23States um I we use the most validated
  244. 9:26testing um that the way I'm going to ask
  245. 9:29you the question so believe me if you
  246. 9:31had nothing to do with this I will be
  247. 9:33able to show them that today okay so
  248. 9:35that should give you some confidence
  249. 9:36that um you know this just how like
  250. 9:39you're going to be cleared today if you
  251. 9:41had nothing to do with it okay um
  252. 9:44there's actually only you know
  253. 9:45nervousness or anxiety cannot cause you
  254. 9:47to fail a polygraph a lot of people
  255. 9:48think that too that if they're really
  256. 9:50nervous that it could cause them to fail
  257. 9:52um if that were the case no one would be
  258. 9:54allowed to take polygraphs because every
  259. 9:55single person is nervous or anxious
  260. 9:57about taking the polygraph okay I
  261. 9:58thought I thought worked on nervousness
  262. 10:01no there's actually only two ways you
  263. 10:03can fail a polygraph okay the first way
  264. 10:05would be if you fail to follow my
  265. 10:06instructions I'm going to give you a lot
  266. 10:08of instructions today about how to sit
  267. 10:09still how to answer questions things
  268. 10:11like that so if you fail to follow those
  269. 10:13instructions you will not pass today's
  270. 10:15test okay the second way would be if you
  271. 10:17choose to lie to me today lie to me
  272. 10:19today okay um obviously this is about
  273. 10:22100% truth um even if there's you know
  274. 10:25something that you didn't tell the
  275. 10:26investigators you know since Monday I
  276. 10:30guess is when you ended the police were
  277. 10:32involved if there's something that you
  278. 10:33didn't tell them since Monday like that
  279. 10:35is totally fine like I get it you know
  280. 10:37people aren't going to remember every
  281. 10:38single detail every time they talk to
  282. 10:40someone as long as you tell me what the
  283. 10:41truth is today you will have no problem
  284. 10:43with passing okay I promise you that and
  285. 10:46obviously I mean I hope that you know if
  286. 10:49you did have something to do with their
  287. 10:51disappearance um it would be really
  288. 10:53stupid for you to come in and take a
  289. 10:54polygraph today exactly right like it it
  290. 10:57would be really dumb like you should not
  291. 10:59be here right now sitting in this chair
  292. 11:01if you had anything to do with shanan
  293. 11:03and the little girl's disappearance okay
  294. 11:06okay and it's the left and Stella is
  295. 11:08that right yeah I'll call her cc2 CC
  296. 11:10okay okay if that comes up okay perfect
  297. 11:13so and I know very um very small amount
  298. 11:16about the case Okay um just because I
  299. 11:20want to know less about the case because
  300. 11:22I want you to be able to tell me about
  301. 11:23the case I don't want to have some
  302. 11:25preconceived notions about the case and
  303. 11:27that's why I don't want you to assume
  304. 11:28that I already details because you told
  305. 11:30detective s and so um you know that kind
  306. 11:33of stuff I want you to be able to tell
  307. 11:34me like you were telling someone for the
  308. 11:36very first time about what happen when
  309. 11:37we get into actually talking about what
  310. 11:39happened okay um obviously Chris you're
  311. 11:41not under arrest I have no plans on
  312. 11:44arresting you um at any point today if
  313. 11:46you decide you want to leave the door is
  314. 11:48right there there is a it locks Us in
  315. 11:51here yeah I saw that last night so
  316. 11:53there's a key in there now so you can um
  317. 11:56if you just turn the key it lets you out
  318. 11:59okay at any point today even after all
  319. 12:00these components are attached to you if
  320. 12:02you decide at that point you know what I
  321. 12:03don't want to take this polygraph I
  322. 12:05don't want to be here this is BS
  323. 12:06whatever that is completely fine just
  324. 12:08please allow me to unattach my
  325. 12:10components before you drag my $6,000
  326. 12:12instrument on the floor and run out of
  327. 12:14here um and it's kind of a little maze
  328. 12:16back here so I will show you the way out
  329. 12:18at any point if you decide you know what
  330. 12:20I don't want to take this polygraph I
  331. 12:21don't want to be here I don't want to do
  332. 12:22this that is completely fine the door
  333. 12:24does have to be shut for privacy just
  334. 12:26because um noise does affect the
  335. 12:28polygraph
  336. 12:29and um I will read you your rights today
  337. 12:32and that's just because the polygraph um
  338. 12:34components are pretty restrictive you
  339. 12:35know they go around your chest and stuff
  340. 12:37and you may feel at some point that
  341. 12:39you're not free to leave but like I said
  342. 12:40before at any point I will unattach all
  343. 12:42the components and and show you the way
  344. 12:44out if you decide even in the middle of
  345. 12:46the polygraph if you don't want to
  346. 12:47continue to take it okay so does that
  347. 12:49make sense to you yes okay so I'm going
  348. 12:51to give you kind of a road map of where
  349. 12:53we're going to go today just so you know
  350. 12:55what to expect and that kind of stuff
  351. 12:56okay so we're going to first start by
  352. 12:58going over a right conent form and
  353. 12:59that's that um Miranda rights form I'm
  354. 13:02sure you've heard of it you know you
  355. 13:03hear it on TV shows constantly most kids
  356. 13:06can recite their Miranda rake um we're
  357. 13:09going to go over that and again it's
  358. 13:10just so that you know you're free to
  359. 13:11leave and that um you're not under
  360. 13:13arrest okay and then we're going to do a
  361. 13:15consent form and that's just something
  362. 13:16that's required by my bosses to say that
  363. 13:18you're actually consenting to um the CDI
  364. 13:21doing a polygraph on you
  365. 13:23okay um the after that we do a
  366. 13:25biographical and a medical form um and
  367. 13:28that's basically to make sure that
  368. 13:30you're a suitable subject to take the
  369. 13:32actual polygraph I want to make sure
  370. 13:33that you didn't smoke you know 10s of
  371. 13:35weed you know that night before I wish
  372. 13:38that didn't normally happen but a lot of
  373. 13:40people smoke drugs before they come in
  374. 13:42here because they're really nervous and
  375. 13:43they're trying to calm themselves down
  376. 13:45some people take a lot of medication
  377. 13:47some people hear voices um all of those
  378. 13:49things are things that I cannot um
  379. 13:53conduct a polygraph on someone if if
  380. 13:55they have those things going on so I
  381. 13:57just need to make sure that none of that
  382. 13:58stuff is fting you you seem very lucid
  383. 14:00you're talking to me you're making sense
  384. 14:02you know you're not jittery you're not
  385. 14:04moving around that kind of stuff so I
  386. 14:06don't think we're going to have any
  387. 14:07issues but we just I want to bet all of
  388. 14:09that out and just kind of you know make
  389. 14:11sure that you had enough sleep and
  390. 14:12you're not I mean obviously no one's
  391. 14:14getting a lot of sleep um probably since
  392. 14:17Monday but um just so we can talk about
  393. 14:19all that okay okay um and then after
  394. 14:22that we're going to discuss the issue of
  395. 14:23why you're here okay I want to know
  396. 14:25everything you know and again I don't
  397. 14:26want you to assume that I already know
  398. 14:27something I want you to kind of start
  399. 14:29from the beginning and like telling
  400. 14:30someone maybe you know a friend that you
  401. 14:33hadn't talked to since any of this has
  402. 14:35happened and you're basically having to
  403. 14:36relay all the details of exactly what
  404. 14:38happened with shenan and the girls okay
  405. 14:42and then after that um we're actually
  406. 14:43going to take a bathroom break I'm going
  407. 14:45to let you take a break you can use the
  408. 14:47bathroom get something to drink that
  409. 14:48water there is for you if you need that
  410. 14:50at any point today and then you're going
  411. 14:51to come back in here I'm going to
  412. 14:53explain to you how and why the polygraph
  413. 14:54works again you're probably going to
  414. 14:56know more about polygraph than you even
  415. 14:57care to know before you leave here um
  416. 14:59I'm going to explain how it works and
  417. 15:01then uh we're going to go over the
  418. 15:02questions that are going to be on the
  419. 15:03test and like I said before you're going
  420. 15:05to know the words to every single
  421. 15:07question so it's not bad um and we're
  422. 15:09going to discuss that even before we
  423. 15:11even take the polygraph like what those
  424. 15:13questions mean and and just so you are
  425. 15:15completely clearing your mind when Tammy
  426. 15:18asked me this question this is exactly
  427. 15:19what she means this is exact exactly
  428. 15:21what she's asking and this is the answer
  429. 15:23that I have for that question um so
  430. 15:26we're going to go over those I get I let
  431. 15:28you practice answering them like two or
  432. 15:30three times so I mean we'll go through
  433. 15:31them repeatedly if you need me to go
  434. 15:33over them four or five times just you
  435. 15:35know before we actually take the test
  436. 15:37I'm more than happy to do that too I
  437. 15:39want you very comfortable with the
  438. 15:40questions and that you know what they
  439. 15:42mean and and how you're going to answer
  440. 15:44them okay um after that we're going to
  441. 15:46go um we're actually going to do a
  442. 15:48practice test and again that just lets
  443. 15:50me know that you're a suitable subject
  444. 15:51to take the actual polygraph and then
  445. 15:53after that we actually get into the
  446. 15:55actual testing so that's why it takes a
  447. 15:57long time is because there is a pretty
  448. 15:59big process that goes along with it work
  449. 16:04yeah so did you um you're not working
  450. 16:07today right no do you have a date that
  451. 16:09you're going back to work not at the
  452. 16:11moment
  453. 16:15no how long have you worked for anad
  454. 16:19Darko January
  455. 16:212015 so about 3 and 1/2 years almost
  456. 16:25yeah you like it there oh yeah yeah I
  457. 16:28worked for a covenant testing
  458. 16:29Technologies before that what was that
  459. 16:32that's a contract company for long gas
  460. 16:35before that I worked for Ford for 11
  461. 16:37years as a technician oh my goodness so
  462. 16:39does that translate into no it's
  463. 16:43mechanical I mean like I like to fix
  464. 16:46things and when I was like when I moved
  465. 16:50out here I worked at lont Ford okay and
  466. 16:53I moved I moved up pretty fast there but
  467. 16:55I hit that like kind of plateau that
  468. 16:57kind of just like I couldn't go got
  469. 16:59stagnant mhm and I was having this
  470. 17:01carple tunnel syndrome both my hands and
  471. 17:03I it was it was bad like I doing this
  472. 17:06like all day you know like it was it was
  473. 17:09bad yeah you still have that I don't
  474. 17:11even know can you get rid of Carpal like
  475. 17:12it was just the onset of it like it
  476. 17:14wasn't like full on have surgery type
  477. 17:16thing but like now it's like it's so
  478. 17:18much better I don't have yeah it doesn't
  479. 17:21have the like there's a lot of
  480. 17:23mechanical things you do in oil and gas
  481. 17:26but it was it's not as
  482. 17:29as the car industry is so are you and
  483. 17:32excuse my language are you a worker b or
  484. 17:34are you like a boss guy at the bit of
  485. 17:37both okay get your hands dirty too oh
  486. 17:40yeah oh yeah yeah like I'm a field
  487. 17:42coordinator right now for for the area I
  488. 17:45have uh six rout operators and two Rover
  489. 17:48operators so that's what we I'm kind of
  490. 17:51just over them right now and kind of we
  491. 17:53kind of game plan like what kind of we
  492. 17:55look on the computer on our well summary
  493. 17:57screen and kind of go from there to see
  494. 17:59what kind of problems we might have
  495. 18:00throughout the day sure and just kind of
  496. 18:02like this is what we need to do we need
  497. 18:03go here there there there okay got
  498. 18:06everybody's doing kind of the middle
  499. 18:07part of the day and everybody needs help
  500. 18:09and try to get everybody checked out by
  501. 18:11like 300 3:30 or something like that oh
  502. 18:13that's nice you you to work for yearly
  503. 18:15yeah we start for year like 6 6:30
  504. 18:17somewhere around there so super early oh
  505. 18:19you have to get there early cuz you just
  506. 18:20never know what could happen so that's
  507. 18:22true that is true so what do you have an
  508. 18:24ID on you Chris that I could see so I
  509. 18:27have the Biograph form has some like
  510. 18:30daughter's license numbers and that kind
  511. 18:31of stuff so I'll just keep this just for
  512. 18:33a second till I do the other
  513. 18:37form are you named after anyone no
  514. 18:41no my middle name is just my dad's
  515. 18:43middle name but other than that no
  516. 18:49okay if I mispronounce your wife's name
  517. 18:52please like
  518. 18:55correct just think of
  519. 18:57shenanigans shenan oh I like that okay I
  520. 19:00got it that's the way
  521. 19:02she she tells
  522. 19:05people does her family call her shenan
  523. 19:08um so the way they they spelled it it
  524. 19:10was like shenan like with an apostrophe
  525. 19:13but she just calls it
  526. 19:15shenan she was Nam after
  527. 19:18sh okay okay so is it b e l l a about
  528. 19:23Bell yes okay and celest is c l e s t
  529. 19:28perfect
  530. 19:30all with the same last name yes right
  531. 19:33okay so um Christ is that advisement and
  532. 19:35rights form this just says that um agent
  533. 19:38Tammy Lee says I'm an agent with the
  534. 19:39Colorado Bureau of Investigation and I
  535. 19:41wish to talk to you about obviously The
  536. 19:42Disappearance of uh shanan sorry see
  537. 19:46Bella and Celeste walk okay you have the
  538. 19:49right to remain silent anything you say
  539. 19:51can and will be used against you in a
  540. 19:52court of law you have the right to talk
  541. 19:53to a lawyer and to have him present with
  542. 19:55you while you're being questioned if you
  543. 19:57cannot afford to hire a lawyer one will
  544. 19:58be appointed to represent you before any
  545. 20:00questioning if you wish you can decide
  546. 20:02at any time to exercise these rights and
  547. 20:03not answer any questions or make any
  548. 20:05statements do you understand each of
  549. 20:06those rights that I read to you friend
  550. 20:08so I'll just have you write I guess when
  551. 20:10we get to that and then having those
  552. 20:11rights in mind you wish to talk to me
  553. 20:13now and obviously go through with the
  554. 20:14polygraph okay perfect so what I want
  555. 20:16you to do is go ahead and answer both of
  556. 20:17those as yeses if you still agree with
  557. 20:19that and then sign and date that
  558. 20:21signature line if you would
  559. 20:33have you always been a tar Hills fan yes
  560. 20:3615th it is Young my son is like a huge
  561. 20:39tar I don't even
  562. 20:41know why he likes them but maybe because
  563. 20:45the Nugget suck I don't know well GE
  564. 20:48Carl used to he used to coach here too
  565. 20:50and he was a Carolina guy oh he was yeah
  566. 20:52I didn't know that yeah do you go to any
  567. 20:55like do the Nuggets play C or c oh North
  568. 20:59Carolina is the that's the college oh
  569. 21:01College oh my gosh I'm sorry right
  570. 21:04okay I'm getting all my teams mix up
  571. 21:07you're
  572. 21:09right did you go to college now no I
  573. 21:11wish I did nice yeah where did you go to
  574. 21:14college I went to NASCAR Tech and it's
  575. 21:16in North Carolina as well NASCAR is the
  576. 21:19name of it it was a it was a mechanical
  577. 21:21school oh really yeah very cool it
  578. 21:23focused on regular automotive and then
  579. 21:26the NASCAR Fortune as well oh very cool
  580. 21:29learn a lot of stuff oh yeah is that
  581. 21:30like kind of elite mechanical school go
  582. 21:33it was it was part of the universal
  583. 21:34Technical Institute like it was part of
  584. 21:36their program plus from Nascar par plus
  585. 21:38I went to the Ford the fact program
  586. 21:40there as well so wow that's
  587. 21:46awesome do you have any other nicknames
  588. 21:48or anything that people call you it's
  589. 21:50Chris it's Chris some like just random
  590. 21:53ones at work
  591. 21:55just so like what oh some call me like
  592. 21:59Rainman cuzz like I when I go to the
  593. 22:02site or something like if I do it once
  594. 22:03I'll remember it and this is one of
  595. 22:06those one of those things like do you
  596. 22:08remember like phone numbers and license
  597. 22:10plates and well that stuff I don't I
  598. 22:12don't really pay attention to that stuff
  599. 22:13though was like when I was really young
  600. 22:15my grandma used to always quiz me on
  601. 22:16like uh state capitals like every day
  602. 22:19and like when I was waiting for my
  603. 22:20sister to come out from from middle
  604. 22:23school or stuff like that she she was
  605. 22:25always like just pinging stuff off my
  606. 22:27memory and it's just like everything
  607. 22:29that's I think that's how it built yeah
  608. 22:31for what it was and what it is no doubt
  609. 22:34so did your grandmother say that yeah my
  610. 22:36mom's mom is she still alive no she
  611. 22:39passed a few years
  612. 22:40ago was she pretty old mhm yeah yeah she
  613. 22:43was a good life yeah she was good were
  614. 22:46you close with your grandparents yeah I
  615. 22:48went over her house every morning every
  616. 22:50afternoon after school and helped her
  617. 22:52out nice being outside or stff from the
  618. 22:54inside and she always cooked me lunch
  619. 22:57some German food
  620. 23:00cels and goulash snit all kind of stuff
  621. 23:02like
  622. 23:03that my first husband was German so we
  623. 23:06had German CH I all the time and just
  624. 23:10German food MH
  625. 23:15it so Shan's um legal name is
  626. 23:20hypen I've never seen that way but
  627. 23:23that's the way her parents always said
  628. 23:26that's what that's how they did it okay
  629. 23:28and in the POS and
  630. 23:31then it's easier to say it when I spell
  631. 23:34it out but for keep point to say Shannon
  632. 23:37of course but there a lot of people call
  633. 23:38her Shannon oh yeah her parents
  634. 23:40sometimes call her
  635. 23:47Shannon have you talked to her parents
  636. 23:49all M yeah are they being pretty decent
  637. 23:51and good are they coming here I'm not
  638. 23:54sure yet who like my Dad's here your
  639. 23:57Dad's here is there any other there
  640. 23:58family members of yours coming not right
  641. 24:00now no my dad came out and just for
  642. 24:02support he just got here this morning
  643. 24:04that's nice what a nice
  644. 24:15D okay so this is that consent that my
  645. 24:18bosses require and this just says Agent
  646. 24:20tamy Lee has advised me that she's
  647. 24:21investigating the matter of obviously
  648. 24:23The Disappearance again of shenan Bella
  649. 24:25and CEST I he I say that to the best of
  650. 24:27my knowledge I'm physical and mental
  651. 24:29health I also state that no forced
  652. 24:31arrest or undo influence has been used
  653. 24:33against me and that I'm consenting to
  654. 24:34this polygraph interview on my own free
  655. 24:36will I understand that the result of
  656. 24:38this process will be released to
  657. 24:39obviously the federick police department
  658. 24:41the District Attorney's office and the
  659. 24:42FBI um it would be very silly for you to
  660. 24:45sit in here and take a polygraph if I
  661. 24:47couldn't release your results of
  662. 24:50hopefully passing to the people that
  663. 24:52need to know does that make sense to you
  664. 24:54and it says I hereby give my voluntary
  665. 24:55consent to undergo a polygraph interview
  666. 24:57and I understand this process is subject
  667. 24:59to both audio and video recording and
  668. 25:01monitoring which we had already talked
  669. 25:02about okay so if you agree with that
  670. 25:04consent if you just sign and date
  671. 25:12it so where did you say last thing I
  672. 25:15know that Nick and Amanda's house Nick
  673. 25:17Amanda how do you know them
  674. 25:20so Amanda used to be a director at
  675. 25:23Primrose School work um B Ando but then
  676. 25:27she she transferred to another place and
  677. 25:29shenan was getting her own Thrive and
  678. 25:33that's how they how they met she show
  679. 25:35the um Amanda's transferred to another
  680. 25:37Prim roach yeah okay so like shenan
  681. 25:41shenan couldn't like talk to them about
  682. 25:44Thrive to direct sales business like w
  683. 25:47rats like they they weren't allowed to
  684. 25:48like talk like you know outside like if
  685. 25:51their child goes there on something
  686. 25:52about the school rules or something like
  687. 25:54that so once she left she talked to her
  688. 25:56about Thrive and got and got her drive
  689. 25:59and then me and Nick started running
  690. 26:00together here and there and that's how
  691. 26:01we met so does she like is she like a
  692. 26:05what do they call them a downline from
  693. 26:07Shen okay so she's like one of the
  694. 26:09sellers
  695. 26:11that okay and I don't even understand
  696. 26:13Thrive I'll be honest with you like I'm
  697. 26:15even a chick and I don't understand what
  698. 26:17all that thve about it's vitamins and
  699. 26:20minerals and it's all plant-based non
  700. 26:22GMO stuff it's really like it's really
  701. 26:24healthy for you yeah do you do it yes oh
  702. 26:26you do okay that was 245 lb when I
  703. 26:29started no way how long ago is
  704. 26:33[Music]
  705. 26:35that5
  706. 26:36wow I've been doing it for a while oh my
  707. 26:39gosh so I think I the only thing I know
  708. 26:42about primy is like patches or something
  709. 26:44is that what that is well it's the three
  710. 26:46step you have like vitamin you have two
  711. 26:48capses you take when you wake up two
  712. 26:50pills okay and then you take a shape
  713. 26:52with water and throw on a
  714. 26:55patch you have a patch on right now no
  715. 26:57don't oh see what a patch look like it's
  716. 26:59just like a little square piece that
  717. 27:00just kind of goes on your skin and it's
  718. 27:02like absorbs like it opens like up your
  719. 27:05pores a little bit and the B is kind
  720. 27:06ofor like through your skin like time
  721. 27:08relas throughout the like can you tell
  722. 27:09you feel better when you have the patch
  723. 27:11on really
  724. 27:13yeah how much are patches just the
  725. 27:16patches themselves themselves uhhuh or
  726. 27:18do you are you supposed to do this in
  727. 27:19combination with all the other three
  728. 27:21steps that's what I call the three steps
  729. 27:24but like I feel like you could spell it
  730. 27:27uh you
  731. 27:28know she has me on the uh as like I
  732. 27:33signed up underneath her oh okay so like
  733. 27:35you know I'm part of her team oh okay
  734. 27:37but she kind of runs that part of it cuz
  735. 27:40she knows like I'm not the type of
  736. 27:42seller I'm not a seller I don't like not
  737. 27:44a Salesman yeah like I would like say
  738. 27:47too much she says about the product
  739. 27:49instead sometimes it's not so great
  740. 27:51because of this or yeah it's like I
  741. 27:53would just give out like too much
  742. 27:55information about the product instead of
  743. 27:56just having like them call
  744. 27:58do you sell it to any of the people that
  745. 28:00you work
  746. 28:01with there's one person that I work with
  747. 28:04that uses it who is that Troy Troy yeah
  748. 28:07he I think I heard that name Troy McCoy
  749. 28:09or something that's a funny name call
  750. 28:11him The Real McCoy The Real McCoy and I
  751. 28:14was like his parents like actually named
  752. 28:16him try
  753. 28:18McCoy super cute so he works for you is
  754. 28:22that right or was me field coordinator
  755. 28:25oh okay he's he's got a lot more
  756. 28:27experienced I do he worked in Kansas
  757. 28:30before you came here kind of showed you
  758. 28:31the ropes yeah he showed me a lot of all
  759. 28:34different things and I picked up a few
  760. 28:35things that he didn't know and just kind
  761. 28:37of like we worked together pretty well
  762. 28:39nice is this um the correct address for
  763. 28:42you yeah it
  764. 28:49be this is Troy mared yes oh yes so do
  765. 28:54your family hang out at all a few times
  766. 28:56yeah his kids are older oh okay
  767. 28:58like how old are they like 11 10 8 and 7
  768. 29:01oh okay somewhere around there there's
  769. 29:04four kids two two of them oh okay like a
  770. 29:08blended family
  771. 29:10yeah I think he met her when she had had
  772. 29:13two kids already oh yeah so what's your
  773. 29:17um sub security number for 241 okay 67
  774. 29:233387 and your cell phone
  775. 29:26910 309
  776. 29:341702 and how uh what's your date of
  777. 29:37birth
  778. 29:3951685 how old does that me each today
  779. 29:4333 and where were you born up in fille
  780. 29:46North Carolina how you spell fille f a y
  781. 29:50e TT e v i l l
  782. 29:54e you think say it though okay
  783. 30:00and this says you're 225 is that correct
  784. 30:03180
  785. 30:06okay was that a line on
  786. 30:09here what year was that that was 2014 no
  787. 30:13that was 25 225 then yeah gain more
  788. 30:17weight what what do you think made you
  789. 30:18gain weight then celest pregnancy oh
  790. 30:21really I gain more weight than she did
  791. 30:23you're a sympathetic eater when I went
  792. 30:27and got her oros I you on the way
  793. 30:29upstairs I'm not going to Li that
  794. 30:32happened a lot now can you do the Thrive
  795. 30:34stuff when you're pregnant is that safe
  796. 30:36for that yeah yeah cuz it's all natural
  797. 30:38or whatever certain there's different
  798. 30:41variant of the patches that she can't
  799. 30:43use because like some of it's for weight
  800. 30:46loss oh you don't want to lose weight
  801. 30:49while you're pregnant right or it's more
  802. 30:51like for fat loss and that's like they
  803. 30:53they recommend not using that type of
  804. 30:55hatch okay so as far as um growing up
  805. 30:58goes and I'm actually done with that
  806. 30:59pleas don't put that away thank you so
  807. 31:00much um who all was in your
  808. 31:04family who did you live with um my mom
  809. 31:07and dad my sister and your sister yeah
  810. 31:09so just two kids yes okay what's your
  811. 31:12sister's name
  812. 31:13Jamie have you um is Jamie coming or
  813. 31:16have you talked to Jamie I'll talk to
  814. 31:17Jamie and her husband yeah yeah how old
  815. 31:20is
  816. 31:21Jamie so she'll be 40 this year she's 39
  817. 31:25right now okay
  818. 31:28she was a little yeah she's seven years
  819. 31:30older
  820. 31:31yeah you were at home by yourself for a
  821. 31:33little while huh yeah we we only get
  822. 31:36close until I got like older because
  823. 31:37that was such a big age discrepancy mhm
  824. 31:41so so you get along with her well now in
  825. 31:43her husband do they have kids two two
  826. 31:46kids how old are their kids 10 and seven
  827. 31:4910 and seven do you get to see them very
  828. 31:51often or I just saw like when I was in
  829. 31:52North Carolina oh you did nice when were
  830. 31:55you in North Carolina so it was the AUST
  831. 31:58first is the
  832. 32:007th
  833. 32:04nice and how far did you get in school
  834. 32:07so I graduated from high school and I
  835. 32:09got through the NASCAR Tech program nice
  836. 32:12so you got a GED or an actual diploma so
  837. 32:15it's like a certificate I guess it's not
  838. 32:17really a diploma because it doesn't have
  839. 32:19like English math science there it's
  840. 32:20just strictly like mechanical no but
  841. 32:23through high school oh I got diploma you
  842. 32:25got diploma oh definitely
  843. 32:30and then you got a I'm sorry like a
  844. 32:32certificate from M Tech that I completed
  845. 32:34their programs I guess it can't be a
  846. 32:36degree without you know like English
  847. 32:37Math and Science and stuff like that did
  848. 32:38you always know that that's what you
  849. 32:40wanted to do as the Stu uh it was if I
  850. 32:43wanted if I could go back like I'd
  851. 32:45probably just use that more of like a
  852. 32:47hobby M and maybe like dive more into
  853. 32:50the technology part of it like cuz we
  854. 32:52had like an Academy of Applied
  855. 32:53technology when I was there in the in
  856. 32:56the high school I was in maybe going to
  857. 32:57more more the computer programming part
  858. 32:59of it because so are you like a pretty
  859. 33:01techy guy no I say techy but I
  860. 33:04understand like numbers and math a lot
  861. 33:06like that's like with uh working on
  862. 33:08these Wells there's a lot of programming
  863. 33:10a lot of setting up these Wells to make
  864. 33:12them run and like using the numbers the
  865. 33:14pressures to optimize the
  866. 33:16wells is something you already lost me
  867. 33:19like
  868. 33:20I I do that job that's why I helped Troy
  869. 33:23like he knows more of like the stuff
  870. 33:26that like 10 years ago
  871. 33:28and I know more about I've kind of like
  872. 33:29perhaps some more of the stuff that's
  873. 33:31happening right now sure and that's how
  874. 33:33like we kind of like work together he's
  875. 33:35like if you have to work on a pumping
  876. 33:36unit like like all right I'll help got I
  877. 33:39thought you work on like a normal well
  878. 33:41and setting up like the setting it up
  879. 33:43he's just like here you go MH like I
  880. 33:45will just watch but does that translate
  881. 33:47into like um like my husband is a techy
  882. 33:50guy in our family so like he sets up all
  883. 33:52our routers like he like when I get a
  884. 33:54new phone he sets up my phone for me
  885. 33:56just because he he has that brain that I
  886. 34:00don't have as far as being a techy
  887. 34:02person so are you kind of that person in
  888. 34:03your do that I can do that kind of stuff
  889. 34:06I can't like do code or anything like
  890. 34:08that you're not writing computer code no
  891. 34:10I can't one one that's all that kind of
  892. 34:13stuff right okay awesome so in your job
  893. 34:16now like what is your title so field
  894. 34:19coordinator field coordinator okay and
  895. 34:21you've done that for three and a half
  896. 34:24years or whatever so I was I was I was
  897. 34:26an operator like well it's it's the same
  898. 34:28like you're you're an operator you're
  899. 34:30operating Oil and Gas locations this leg
  900. 34:33I was an operator and I was a operator
  901. 34:35but SL Rover like I would be go around
  902. 34:37helping people and now I've went up to
  903. 34:39field coordinator it's like now I just
  904. 34:40kind of like tell people like this is
  905. 34:41where we need to go and like we need
  906. 34:44help let's go there so when did you
  907. 34:46actually get promoted to that when one
  908. 34:49of our other field coordinators he got
  909. 34:51went to a different group The H's group
  910. 34:53and other F according had to go out in
  911. 34:55Texas to help so me and Troy got elev up
  912. 34:59so that's what happened we're just kind
  913. 35:00of back filling we didn't know like if
  914. 35:02it was permanent or not and it turned
  915. 35:03out to be permanent so wow that's
  916. 35:05awesome so tell me about um like can you
  917. 35:08give me a synapsis of your childhood
  918. 35:10like what your parents did for a living
  919. 35:12you know my dad was a Parks manager for
  920. 35:15for dealership It's Kind where the cars
  921. 35:18things came from see it and my mom she
  922. 35:20was like a like a secretary
  923. 35:23and notary for use car use car
  924. 35:26dealership oh okay so like yeah she into
  925. 35:29it she full the cars too but like she
  926. 35:31was more a secretary notary and kind of
  927. 35:33she got on a couple different youth
  928. 35:34cargo ships my dad St at the same one
  929. 35:36changed the name a little changed names
  930. 35:39then he went to like a different one but
  931. 35:41same he did the same thing and he did
  932. 35:42like parts manager and bu shop manager
  933. 35:45and that's where he's still at now so
  934. 35:47how would you say you grew up as far as
  935. 35:49like um your family structure is were
  936. 35:51you guys religious was there a lot of
  937. 35:53discipline in the home you know like or
  938. 35:55who was the disciplinarian in the home
  939. 35:57gr so we went to church I would say not
  940. 36:00like every Sunday but pretty regularly
  941. 36:02you know and what church did you guys go
  942. 36:03to it was like First Baptist Church okay
  943. 36:06and I mean displine I was the quiet kid
  944. 36:09I was the you know I just kind of
  945. 36:12swalled her my sister was the rebellious
  946. 36:14one that always you know like I'm a good
  947. 36:16one it's like I
  948. 36:18never and my sister was the one that got
  949. 36:20in most of the that she she was the one
  950. 36:22that showed me like that's what I don't
  951. 36:24want to do right I wake up to my mom I
  952. 36:26sister said pretty much arguing every
  953. 36:28every morning that's all okay I like I
  954. 36:30don't want to wear this I want to wear
  955. 36:31that like okay you're like Mom what do
  956. 36:33you want me to wear I'll wear whatever
  957. 36:35you want going you know somewhere today
  958. 36:38right thing but yeah like I mean my dad
  959. 36:41he was a disciplinarian he was yeah what
  960. 36:44kind of discipline did you guys have in
  961. 36:45the home just I mean it wasn't like
  962. 36:47physical or anything like that it was
  963. 36:49just you know like just verbal like you
  964. 36:51know this is what you need to do and
  965. 36:53just follow that like if my dad Ever
  966. 36:55Raised emplo I knew that was like that
  967. 36:56was that was work oh okay I was like
  968. 36:59well about
  969. 37:05that we kind of now I'm not in the
  970. 37:07middle of the T no you're good good I
  971. 37:11have two phones too and it's hard to
  972. 37:12keep track of them yeah my work did that
  973. 37:15yeah yeah okay so you said your dad was
  974. 37:18a disciplinarian but he just I mean it
  975. 37:21was verbal like cuz like if voice UND do
  976. 37:23something was like okay that that's okay
  977. 37:27I'm good there like right did anyone
  978. 37:29struggle with like drug or alcohol abuse
  979. 37:32or anything like that in your family no
  980. 37:34I mean my Dad did at one point but it
  981. 37:36was like after I left like after I
  982. 37:39graduated everything and I just like cuz
  983. 37:41my sister she came she would leave and
  984. 37:43then she come back leave and come back
  985. 37:45leave and come back she never like like
  986. 37:47run away kind of thing like she would
  987. 37:49move like she went to East Carolina and
  988. 37:52that didn't work out so she came back
  989. 37:53home she moved to a different place and
  990. 37:55that didn't work out she came back home
  991. 37:57type
  992. 37:58and like when I left I was like I was on
  993. 38:01my own and I was like self-sufficient
  994. 38:03and I never came back and I think that
  995. 38:04hit him pretty
  996. 38:05hard has they expected you to come back
  997. 38:08you oh he he just he was used to me
  998. 38:09being around like I you know he's my
  999. 38:11hereo he my best friend your dad is yeah
  1000. 38:13yeah yeah so like that's where was
  1001. 38:16that's where I think that kind of hurt
  1002. 38:17him a little bit cuz like once I left I
  1003. 38:20you know I didn't move back so tell me
  1004. 38:22when did you so you're talking about for
  1005. 38:23college like as soon as you graduated
  1006. 38:25moved out so it's close to where you
  1007. 38:28guys live no like once I graduated high
  1008. 38:30school I moved to morisville North
  1009. 38:31Carolina that's about 2 hours away okay
  1010. 38:34and that's that's never I never I never
  1011. 38:37moved back I mean I came back to visit
  1012. 38:38but I never moved back okay so you go to
  1013. 38:42college uh is it four-year College 2ear
  1014. 38:44college and that program I finished
  1015. 38:46in 52
  1016. 38:49weeks so it was like a year and a half
  1017. 38:51almost dude okay oh actuallyit that's
  1018. 38:54like a 72 weeks sorry okay 72 weeks so
  1019. 38:57year and a half um and then where did
  1020. 38:59you go after that I worked at Morel Ford
  1021. 39:03and worked there for till
  1022. 39:062012 so that was like 2003 so when I was
  1023. 39:09going to Nar Tech and I was working
  1024. 39:10there as like a porter moving cars
  1025. 39:13around changing o here and there type
  1026. 39:15thing and then once I graduated they
  1027. 39:17moved me into more of a like a line Tech
  1028. 39:19as far as like actually fixing things
  1029. 39:21okay so from 2003 to 2012 I was there
  1030. 39:24and 2012 to 2014 I was a lont Ford okay
  1031. 39:27did you have like any High School
  1032. 39:28sweethearts or like girlfriends from
  1033. 39:31Nascar Tech or there's like there no
  1034. 39:34there's prob no girls at nasar imagine
  1035. 39:36there there was like a handful of
  1036. 39:38actually went there so no it was like
  1037. 39:40have any girlfriends ear after in high
  1038. 39:42school okay what about when you got done
  1039. 39:44with NASCAR C oh yeah like there
  1040. 39:46girlfriends like that from in morisville
  1041. 39:48in there nothing really serious nothing
  1042. 39:51serous yeah I'm met shenan in 2010 oh
  1043. 39:542010 yeah okay and how long did you guys
  1044. 39:56date before you got married I'm assuming
  1045. 39:58you're married yeah uh 2012 when we got
  1046. 40:00married okay dat a couple years mhm nice
  1047. 40:04did now did you live in morille she
  1048. 40:06lived in Belmont at the time so how did
  1049. 40:08you meet her through my cousin's wife
  1050. 40:12and her my cousin's wife and shanan they
  1051. 40:14knew each other from like like a from a
  1052. 40:17real shop that she ran that shanan ran
  1053. 40:20or the cousin's wife no shenan ran she
  1054. 40:22ran like three different stores like
  1055. 40:24Auto pars uh Wheels tires audio cu and
  1056. 40:27stuff my gosh you're just all in
  1057. 40:31that it's all like crazy um okay so
  1058. 40:36we're going to um I just got to ask you
  1059. 40:38some of the medical questions just to
  1060. 40:39make again sure that you're a suitable
  1061. 40:41subject and you said you've never taken
  1062. 40:42a
  1063. 40:44polygraph um how would you describe your
  1064. 40:46physical condition right now good for or
  1065. 40:47poor I'll say good good aome have you
  1066. 40:51had any major surgeries or injuries
  1067. 40:53within the last 6
  1068. 40:54months are you any in any Comfort right
  1069. 40:57now as far as like pain is like no not
  1070. 41:01really
  1071. 41:02okay you know maybe mental anguish or
  1072. 41:04whatever but
  1073. 41:07physical yeah obious you're now
  1074. 41:11pregnant have you eaten in the last 24
  1075. 41:13hours I had a pizza last night and
  1076. 41:16protein shake this morning that's it
  1077. 41:18okay what time did you have the pizza
  1078. 41:21right when I left here so it's like
  1079. 41:2311: okay and what time do you have the
  1080. 41:25protein shake
  1081. 41:28probably
  1082. 41:29about
  1083. 41:337:30 was that was all your three step
  1084. 41:36process mhm okay what time did you um go
  1085. 41:39to bed last
  1086. 41:41night probably about
  1087. 41:4312:30
  1088. 41:46okay and what time did you get
  1089. 41:49up probably about 5: and just kind of
  1090. 41:51looked at my phone okay and you you
  1091. 41:55shaded the other in
  1092. 41:58okay um and how would you rate your
  1093. 42:00sleep go Fair PO is there anything
  1094. 42:03became Po and
  1095. 42:04fair um I'll put it in the middle okay
  1096. 42:07okay we'll give you that
  1097. 42:09[Music]
  1098. 42:26box e
  1099. 43:22have you had any alcohol within the last
  1100. 43:2424 hours do you drink alcohol only with
  1101. 43:27like if I'm going out somewhere like
  1102. 43:29with friends coming over I don't care by
  1103. 43:31myself okay that's not I don't think
  1104. 43:34that really how often would you say that
  1105. 43:36you drink in a given week like how many
  1106. 43:38beverages would you have if I drink
  1107. 43:40something just be like one or two one or
  1108. 43:42two beers or I do no hard alcohol okay
  1109. 43:46um any legal or illegal drugs consumed
  1110. 43:48within the last 24 to 48 hours that
  1111. 43:51includes even cough medicine you know
  1112. 43:53anything like that so you just had um
  1113. 43:56vitamins with that right
  1114. 44:07okay all right so now we um Chris we're
  1115. 44:11going to discuss the reason why you're
  1116. 44:12here okay so now what I would like you
  1117. 44:14to do is again kind of treat me like um
  1118. 44:19you know someone that has no idea about
  1119. 44:21anything and that you actually have to
  1120. 44:23start from the entire beginning like
  1121. 44:25kind of start when um I would when you
  1122. 44:27met shenan just kind of explain your
  1123. 44:29relationship I guess just so I
  1124. 44:31understand it um as far as you know
  1125. 44:33meeting in 2010 and you know when the
  1126. 44:35kids came about and that kind of stuff
  1127. 44:37and then just bring me up to the point
  1128. 44:39of um you know yesterday okay if you
  1129. 44:42could all right so 2010 what we met we
  1130. 44:45met we met pretty much through Facebook
  1131. 44:49because of my cousin's wife and she like
  1132. 44:54recommended us as friends type thing and
  1133. 44:56that's how we kind of started talking
  1134. 44:58and our first date was at a movie
  1135. 45:00theater didn't really impress her much
  1136. 45:02cuz like I was like it was actually a
  1137. 45:03nice theater I didn't really know what I
  1138. 45:05was walking into as far as like walked
  1139. 45:06in and there was like a door man and he
  1140. 45:08was all dressed in the suit and I was in
  1141. 45:10camo shorts and DC shoes and I was like
  1142. 45:14yeah I was like okay hopefully I'm not
  1143. 45:16I'm very underdressed to this but like I
  1144. 45:19walk in I see her and she's all dressed
  1145. 45:20really nice and like she she told me
  1146. 45:23like like after the fact like man I hope
  1147. 45:25that's not
  1148. 45:27kind kind of deal like cuz like we know
  1149. 45:29each other look like but like I wasn't
  1150. 45:30really dressed for for what we were
  1151. 45:32doing then but on the second date I
  1152. 45:36actually made Mist again wearing the
  1153. 45:37same thing because I kind of forgot what
  1154. 45:40I wore but I went to a k Rock concert
  1155. 45:42and I think that's kind of where I I
  1156. 45:45wanted over because like we actually got
  1157. 45:47to like the actual concert and like
  1158. 45:50forgot our I forgot my ID so I couldn't
  1159. 45:53actually get in so I actually ran back
  1160. 45:55like 2 miles to the car and got and came
  1161. 45:57back and I was just like I mean I was
  1162. 45:59just like soaking wet I was just like it
  1163. 46:00was like middle of July August and like
  1164. 46:02South Carolina and humidity and
  1165. 46:04everything like that as on Army base so
  1166. 46:06I was just ran back got it and
  1167. 46:09everything like that and then I think it
  1168. 46:11our next date actually went to Beach and
  1169. 46:14like she had L well her lupus was really
  1170. 46:17like acting up in North Carolina so like
  1171. 46:20like she had like these flareups joint
  1172. 46:22pains all that kind of thing and we were
  1173. 46:24driving back like she laid on me pretty
  1174. 46:26much much the entire way back and I
  1175. 46:28think that's when like she realized
  1176. 46:30right this guy is actually pretty pretty
  1177. 46:33nice because like he didn't ask he
  1178. 46:34didn't tell me like get off my lap or
  1179. 46:37type thing like I just let her just rest
  1180. 46:39on me the entire way back it was like 2
  1181. 46:40and a half hour ride from mtle Beach to
  1182. 46:42Charlotte Belmont
  1183. 46:43area but yeah we just everything
  1184. 46:46flourished from there like in 2011 I I
  1185. 46:49proposed to her over an ocean beach like
  1186. 46:52that that was around our
  1187. 46:54anniversary and um did I brought out
  1188. 46:57there on the beach at night and I could
  1189. 46:59tell I mean she was extremely tired and
  1190. 47:00I was like I just want to do this I want
  1191. 47:02to do it like today and she knew like
  1192. 47:05like why are you so like persistently to
  1193. 47:07get me like out here right now I like oh
  1194. 47:09let's go out to the beach it's a nice
  1195. 47:11night post are on the beach said yes and
  1196. 47:13everybody was R ecstatic and everything
  1197. 47:16and she she loves she's very organized
  1198. 47:19she's like OCD about like organization
  1199. 47:22putting things like like you saw like
  1200. 47:23the pantry see everything was just like
  1201. 47:25named in a container all the way down
  1202. 47:28like it's very easy for if you just came
  1203. 47:30into our house you would you would know
  1204. 47:32what stuff was you would know like where
  1205. 47:35everything was it would be easy so like
  1206. 47:40everything was just she was planning the
  1207. 47:41way everything was great and then 2012
  1208. 47:44Su her here but she was planning the
  1209. 47:46wedding from here but everybody was back
  1210. 47:48in North Carolina but it was a guess you
  1211. 47:51call destination wedding if you want
  1212. 47:53because we fly back for that but we got
  1213. 47:55married and it's like the Double Tree
  1214. 47:59Hilton Hotel that was there it was like
  1215. 48:01in the it was in
  1216. 48:03November and it was underneath one of
  1217. 48:05big tents and everything was
  1218. 48:07beautiful and it went it was it was it
  1219. 48:09was amazing and we went to Merl Beach
  1220. 48:12for the for the honeymoon and then
  1221. 48:162013 in December 17th that's when B was
  1222. 48:19born like we've been trying for a while
  1223. 48:22and nothing was happening as far as
  1224. 48:24getting prayer and whatnot and she's
  1225. 48:27well the thing was she said so since
  1226. 48:29we're not getting since it's not
  1227. 48:31happening like I'm I'm going buy a
  1228. 48:32supercharger for your
  1229. 48:34car like okay and then it turned out
  1230. 48:37that weekend we can see Bella so know
  1231. 48:40the week she bought me a supercharger
  1232. 48:41for my
  1233. 48:42car take that back I'd already put it on
  1234. 48:46and it was actually like a special order
  1235. 48:48like part that was another dealership
  1236. 48:50okay stff like that so like it was it
  1237. 48:52was ironic that it happened that you
  1238. 48:54know like bought super charged from my
  1239. 48:56car and then that weekend she
  1240. 48:58Bella and then um Bella wases a gift I
  1241. 49:02mean she didn't think she she could give
  1242. 49:04her because of lupus and everything like
  1243. 49:06that like doctor said it could happen it
  1244. 49:08might not but it happened and it was it
  1245. 49:11was a blessing in disguise right there
  1246. 49:12it's was like oh my good just Savage you
  1247. 49:14know did she have normal pregnancies
  1248. 49:17it's the was Bella's normal Bella's was
  1249. 49:20a she had shoulder disposure when she
  1250. 49:22was born so like her should she was
  1251. 49:25turned oh turn yeah where like we had it
  1252. 49:29like P her out but she had a vinal birth
  1253. 49:32oh yeah wasn't around her neck anything
  1254. 49:35like that no okay nothing like that so B
  1255. 49:39was born December 17th
  1256. 49:412013 and Bella was she was a gift so
  1257. 49:44just go along with Bella and then around
  1258. 49:48CCE was born uh July 17th 2015 and we
  1259. 49:53had this whole little thing uh staged up
  1260. 49:55with Bella in the crib and a little
  1261. 49:57notice like she was there and it it
  1262. 49:59worked out pretty well cuz she was just
  1263. 50:00standing there crying like you know like
  1264. 50:02I don't want this type of thing you know
  1265. 50:04some one of those that went like viral
  1266. 50:06on Facebook so that's weird it would be
  1267. 50:09yours as she was sitting there crying
  1268. 50:11with a little fiction notice and she had
  1269. 50:13on she she recorded it it was really it
  1270. 50:15was an amazing day just to see that and
  1271. 50:17then she left she was she was I was
  1272. 50:22there like she had a midwife for this
  1273. 50:23one so like they actually had me like
  1274. 50:25are you can stand here like you know
  1275. 50:28catch her like but F came out like so
  1276. 50:31fast that like I barely had a chance to
  1277. 50:33go like this and they mov me out of the
  1278. 50:35way cuz she just like came
  1279. 50:36out so it was having Celeste I was a lot
  1280. 50:40better with Celeste because with Bella I
  1281. 50:42didn't really know like a lot like what
  1282. 50:44I should do what I could do how to calm
  1283. 50:47stuff like that like you know burp
  1284. 50:50swaddle everything like that like I
  1285. 50:52didn't know yeah I had like no idea I
  1286. 50:55just pretty much watched like all right
  1287. 50:56how you do this and then with Celeste it
  1288. 50:58was more ofy Bella kind of like she's a
  1289. 51:01mommy's girl then when CeCe was born you
  1290. 51:05care if it's CCE or all right when CeCe
  1291. 51:08was born it was more like all right I
  1292. 51:10know what I know how to change the DI
  1293. 51:11for I know how to do all this like like
  1294. 51:14I can I can do this I can help like a
  1295. 51:16lot more that's why C is more of a daddy
  1296. 51:18girl now like whenever she gets in
  1297. 51:21trouble it's just like she said Daddy Dy
  1298. 51:25and shean gets mad CU like all right
  1299. 51:27don't don't don't don't cuddle her when
  1300. 51:30she gets in trouble like she's in
  1301. 51:32trouble leave her alone like she just
  1302. 51:33Bella you know she just like hit like
  1303. 51:35don't you know don't go don't don't
  1304. 51:37don't don't cudle here that's where I'm
  1305. 51:40cudle here so it's like having them both
  1306. 51:43around is just like absolutely
  1307. 51:45absolutely amaz they're like two PS in a
  1308. 51:46p like Celeste is more than
  1309. 51:49rambunctious just like all out she
  1310. 51:52either goes or she's sleeping type thing
  1311. 51:54so she's always always getting in
  1312. 51:56trouble always like trying to find
  1313. 51:58something to climb jump off of like is
  1314. 52:00that like you or was that like shenan d
  1315. 52:03is more like me she's more of the calm
  1316. 52:05just like CE cautious type thing like
  1317. 52:08when CeCe I think fed off of a little
  1318. 52:11bit as far as like all right she's she's
  1319. 52:13she's my sister she's the younger one
  1320. 52:15she's or she's she's the youngest person
  1321. 52:17in here besides me type thing and she's
  1322. 52:20kind of fed up off off of her and some
  1323. 52:22of her friends that like you know came
  1324. 52:23over and that CeCe just kind of like
  1325. 52:26built that that attitude she was just
  1326. 52:29like yeah she was she was around bu just
  1327. 52:31little little bunchin like if I I show
  1328. 52:32you a picture but CL off but like when
  1329. 52:35she was on the plane coming back I mean
  1330. 52:37she just had just like this space like
  1331. 52:39like that like don't don't like keep she
  1332. 52:41was excited to be it was just like she
  1333. 52:44like being like you imagine a kid a
  1334. 52:47little kid in a plane in a seat like she
  1335. 52:50feels like she loves to move around she
  1336. 52:52doesn't like you know sitting in the
  1337. 52:53same spot mhm type thing and then um
  1338. 52:57when she told me about the third child
  1339. 53:00it was just like all right hope let's
  1340. 53:02see what we got now let see if we can
  1341. 53:04boy or girl I mean we're trying for a
  1342. 53:06boy
  1343. 53:07so now we're just like is it a boy we
  1344. 53:10haven't told anybody yet yeah it is oh
  1345. 53:12it is yeah can they find that out that
  1346. 53:14early or at 12 weeks they could find out
  1347. 53:19she had one ult sound
  1348. 53:23was last week let's see
  1349. 53:27yeah it was last week so found out it
  1350. 53:30was were you both there for oh nice yeah
  1351. 53:33so it was like right when we got back so
  1352. 53:35it was like gu went back 8 so it was
  1353. 53:37only the 8 that was a sound get my days
  1354. 53:40mixed up like now not sure what day it
  1355. 53:42is right
  1356. 53:43now 15th today I think about Monday
  1357. 53:46Tuesday Wednesday Sunday all that kind
  1358. 53:48of stuff but like yeah we haven't told
  1359. 53:49anybody yet so so both the girls were
  1360. 53:52born out here right yes okay was born a
  1361. 53:56Good
  1362. 53:57Samaritan um CCE was born at a
  1363. 54:02Vista did um Shan go through any like
  1364. 54:05push partum or anything like that with
  1365. 54:08either of them no
  1366. 54:10no I didn't see anything like that good
  1367. 54:13did she breastfeed yes both of them yes
  1368. 54:16okay very cool little longer than celest
  1369. 54:19so she was so Bella was how old when she
  1370. 54:23got pregnant with s
  1371. 54:24last so there about 19 months of before
  1372. 54:28okay like 10 months old yeah my
  1373. 54:31goodness yeah I know you like oh my go
  1374. 54:35no like we didn't know if if it could
  1375. 54:37happen again that's true so so were you
  1376. 54:39guys even using protection or you just
  1377. 54:40like it's not going to happen so it is
  1378. 54:43what it
  1379. 54:44is kind of thing very nice okay so keep
  1380. 54:47going from um after CEST was born so
  1381. 54:50after solest was born I mean we we kind
  1382. 54:52of thought I mean like we kind of see
  1383. 54:54how two kids went just that I mean they
  1384. 54:56just like rambunctious you know they're
  1385. 54:58just their s sister love and now they're
  1386. 55:01four and three that be five in December
  1387. 55:06so it's like if it happens it happens as
  1388. 55:08far as like having like she used
  1389. 55:09fertility of both bance l oh she did
  1390. 55:12yeah okay like this the third child now
  1391. 55:15it was she was on like no medication
  1392. 55:18nothing like that ver she just on Thrive
  1393. 55:20like she's Health she feels healthier
  1394. 55:21now mhm and then like with with the
  1395. 55:24Thrive she really thinks that like I
  1396. 55:26mean we only tried like twice and it
  1397. 55:29happened so she really thinks that it
  1398. 55:31was more of like being a healthier
  1399. 55:33person sometimes just having a stress
  1400. 55:35off like you know had my kids so this is
  1401. 55:38just a bonus you that definitely like
  1402. 55:42seems like a lot of women think oh you
  1403. 55:44know we can't get pregnant and they have
  1404. 55:45a baby and then they're you know they're
  1405. 55:47not worried about it anymore so then
  1406. 55:48they get pregnant again like oh I didn't
  1407. 55:50think it would happen again def yeah so
  1408. 55:53um tell me about after that so so just
  1409. 55:56like after we didn't think it would
  1410. 55:58actually happen so like we really think
  1411. 56:00like have being on like being a
  1412. 56:02healthier like lifestyle being healthier
  1413. 56:05really helped this like I mean only
  1414. 56:06really trying twice and boom and like it
  1415. 56:08happened so it's just been and when did
  1416. 56:10she find out she was pregnant I would
  1417. 56:13say it was
  1418. 56:14in probably first or second week
  1419. 56:17June okay it's not very long ago yeah
  1420. 56:20and she's about 14 15 weeks right now
  1421. 56:23okay so uh why don't you bring me up to
  1422. 56:26let's start why don't you start with
  1423. 56:28like
  1424. 56:32um if you guys went to North Carolina so
  1425. 56:34maybe just start for your from the trip
  1426. 56:36to North Carolina I guess you met her
  1427. 56:38there maybe for part of it is that right
  1428. 56:40yeah like she was
  1429. 56:41there so we got back from we went to a
  1430. 56:44Thrive trip in San Diego it was the end
  1431. 56:46of June okay and then I think it was
  1432. 56:49June 26 last when we came back here her
  1433. 56:52dad was watching the kids and then that
  1434. 56:55same like later on that day they flew to
  1435. 56:57North
  1436. 56:58Carolina okay so why don't you kind of
  1437. 57:00start there and just take me up until
  1438. 57:03yesterday okay and as detailed as he can
  1439. 57:06okay so like while they were in North
  1440. 57:08Carolina it was like they there to see
  1441. 57:10my family and obviously her family and
  1442. 57:13just kind of like cuz they haven't seen
  1443. 57:14the kids in a while as far as our kids
  1444. 57:17and um so they just there just she had a
  1445. 57:19couple things she wanted to do there as
  1446. 57:20far as like like meeting up with her
  1447. 57:22promoters and customers that she had a
  1448. 57:25bunch over there in North Carolina so
  1449. 57:26she was hoping that she could meet
  1450. 57:28everybody else over there and have like
  1451. 57:30her dad my her dad and mom and my mom
  1452. 57:33and dad like have fun sorry with kids MH
  1453. 57:37and three babysitters heck yeah
  1454. 57:39[Music]
  1455. 57:43know but yeah it was mainly like just a
  1456. 57:46a little family like little family
  1457. 57:48vacation for for them right now for them
  1458. 57:51on that trip just for everybody just to
  1459. 57:52see the girls and so us birthday was
  1460. 57:56during that in July 17th so they they
  1461. 57:58had a birthday party there with um with
  1462. 58:02like jumpy houses and stuff like that
  1463. 58:03and they FaceTime me during it so I
  1464. 58:05could see it they didn't have a birthday
  1465. 58:06party out here for her cuz it was you
  1466. 58:08know they got back it was in August so
  1467. 58:10right so yeah I got to FaceTime and
  1468. 58:13watch it all and it was pretty much just
  1469. 58:15hanging out with family the entire time
  1470. 58:17okay yeah and I was here just going to
  1471. 58:19work and working out and going running
  1472. 58:22and just keeping keeping the house up
  1473. 58:24and doing that and just I waited till my
  1474. 58:27flight was July
  1475. 58:2931st and I flew out there for a week and
  1476. 58:33I was I was I flew out there for week so
  1477. 58:35I can fly back with them so we went so
  1478. 58:37July 31st I got there stay at Mom and
  1479. 58:40Dad's house and the next day we drove to
  1480. 58:42the beach stay there for about four or 5
  1481. 58:45days it was a mer North mer Beach and we
  1482. 58:49first time the kids have seen the beach
  1483. 58:52so they ecstatic obviously seeing waves
  1484. 58:55being being the sand they love sand
  1485. 58:58Unfortunately they love sand cuz it's
  1486. 58:59just like you get him back you just got
  1487. 59:02shower them off cuz CC was so like into
  1488. 59:05the the beach that I mean her bathing
  1489. 59:07suit was just full of
  1490. 59:08seashells it was like okay let's just
  1491. 59:11get get all this off you rinse you off
  1492. 59:13please right but yeah it was it was an
  1493. 59:16awesome trip like just seeing them react
  1494. 59:18to the to the ocean and then we went to
  1495. 59:20like Broadway at the Beach it was aach
  1496. 59:23like an outdoor little mall and they got
  1497. 59:25to go in these like
  1498. 59:26little like when they strap you in a
  1499. 59:28harness and you get to jump and jump
  1500. 59:30like jump higher yeah and B they just
  1501. 59:33they love that they just love jumping
  1502. 59:35that high it was amazing nice yeah and
  1503. 59:39then um I got I went to see my grandma
  1504. 59:41my dad's mom she's in a nursing home so
  1505. 59:44like she's some days she remembers
  1506. 59:46people some days she doesn't and luckily
  1507. 59:49that day she did remember me so that was
  1508. 59:51that was really a good day to go in
  1509. 59:54there went in there with shenan kids and
  1510. 59:56obviously like they had already been in
  1511. 59:58there a few times while they were there
  1512. 59:59sure yeah and they were uh she lights up
  1513. 1:00:02when she sees the kids my I call her
  1514. 1:00:05mama that's what she always calls but
  1515. 1:00:07Mama but she let up when she sees the
  1516. 1:00:09kids and she remembered me and that was
  1517. 1:00:12great and my dad came picked me up and I
  1518. 1:00:14went over there and stay with my parents
  1519. 1:00:15for for a day and just kind of like hung
  1520. 1:00:17out with them saw my sister her husband
  1521. 1:00:20their kids had a cookout and everything
  1522. 1:00:22and it was awesome and then the next day
  1523. 1:00:25we I think it was the 7th yeah August
  1524. 1:00:287th yeah we went to her parents house
  1525. 1:00:30got everything packed up ready to go and
  1526. 1:00:33flew back
  1527. 1:00:34here and then got back on later on that
  1528. 1:00:38night in the seventh and then on the eth
  1529. 1:00:41I went back to work and
  1530. 1:00:43then on the 10th that's when shanan flew
  1531. 1:00:47out to Arizona with
  1532. 1:00:49Nicole and I had the kids from Friday
  1533. 1:00:52Saturday and Sunday and we went to a
  1534. 1:00:54full party on Saturday with the Jeremy
  1535. 1:00:57lindstrom's uh his son's turned four and
  1536. 1:01:01they had a little pool party and
  1537. 1:01:02everything over there or little mini
  1538. 1:01:03pool and it was water balloon fights it
  1539. 1:01:05was s at big time it was
  1540. 1:01:08great it was awesome that was awesome it
  1541. 1:01:10was just seeing their faces and seeing
  1542. 1:01:11how m i mean they didn't really play
  1543. 1:01:13with water balloons that much at all so
  1544. 1:01:16CC like she would come over she like she
  1545. 1:01:18put one right in my pocket and just
  1546. 1:01:20smacked it while I wasn't looking she's
  1547. 1:01:22a little trickster so it was that was
  1548. 1:01:25that was funny and drove home got back
  1549. 1:01:28home ate and it was a really awesome
  1550. 1:01:32day what happened after that so that was
  1551. 1:01:36that was on sun that
  1552. 1:01:38was that was on that Sunday so got the
  1553. 1:01:42kids back got them all showered up got
  1554. 1:01:44them to bed and just pretty much wait
  1555. 1:01:47waited around for here from shenan cuz
  1556. 1:01:49that was she was fly back that night and
  1557. 1:01:52her plane got delayed cuz like there's
  1558. 1:01:54like there's a lot of dust storms in
  1559. 1:01:56Arizona mhm and uh there was like
  1560. 1:01:58there's some other weather around that
  1561. 1:02:00was delaying flights getting in there
  1562. 1:02:01and they didn't have a crew that's why
  1563. 1:02:02it was it was delayed so her flight was
  1564. 1:02:05supposed to get in about 11: but it
  1565. 1:02:06didn't actually get until about
  1566. 1:02:082: so it was about like you just go into
  1567. 1:02:10this down yeah Okay cool so about 2:00
  1568. 1:02:14she came into bed like about 1:48 my
  1569. 1:02:16doorbell uh picked up that she came in
  1570. 1:02:18but at 2 a.m. that's when she came in
  1571. 1:02:21came into bed and about 4:00 that
  1572. 1:02:24morning so my alarm went off so that's I
  1573. 1:02:26usually get up get ready for work and
  1574. 1:02:27whatnot so I get up get dressed Chistmas
  1575. 1:02:31Eve deodorant all that kind of good I
  1576. 1:02:33take a shower cuz I worked out field but
  1577. 1:02:35like I'll take a shower when I get home
  1578. 1:02:37type thing and uh she told me the when
  1579. 1:02:40before she got in that like I want to
  1580. 1:02:42wake up you know like when you get up
  1581. 1:02:44just like take a shower to to airport
  1582. 1:02:45off me type thing so like I woke her up
  1583. 1:02:49about after I got ready and everything
  1584. 1:02:50and then we had to talk about like the
  1585. 1:02:53selling the house and about separation
  1586. 1:02:56and stuff like that like it was an
  1587. 1:02:59emotional conversation obviously we were
  1588. 1:03:01both crying and after we talked it was
  1589. 1:03:06she said she was going to take the kids
  1590. 1:03:08to a friend's house and I should be back
  1591. 1:03:09later on that day so it's like okay
  1592. 1:03:13that's fine so I went downstairs and
  1593. 1:03:15backed my lunch and put on the water jug
  1594. 1:03:19and got my computer and everything and
  1595. 1:03:21loaded my truck up and I went to work
  1596. 1:03:26and then I got once I got to work
  1597. 1:03:28started started working in about 7 740
  1598. 1:03:32or so I text her like hey you know I
  1599. 1:03:34heard from her I was like okay like I
  1600. 1:03:36didn't know where she was going like I
  1601. 1:03:38didn't know what friend's house she was
  1602. 1:03:39taking to or where she what what friends
  1603. 1:03:41she was going to with the kids so I was
  1604. 1:03:42like Hey know text me you know let me
  1605. 1:03:44know where where you went you took the
  1606. 1:03:46kids and I didn't hear from her like
  1607. 1:03:49it's normal for her not to respond to me
  1608. 1:03:51cuz like when she has her direct sales
  1609. 1:03:55direct sales people people like she'll
  1610. 1:03:57get back to them first because like that
  1611. 1:03:59that's what she
  1612. 1:04:00does so like it for her like not to
  1613. 1:04:03respond back to me that's that's
  1614. 1:04:05happened plenty of times before so um
  1615. 1:04:08continue working and I know like it's
  1616. 1:04:10about noon she had got back me like hey
  1617. 1:04:11you know call me like I've called her a
  1618. 1:04:13few I've called her once before that too
  1619. 1:04:16and then about 12:10 that's when I got a
  1620. 1:04:18door bell alarm on my phone saying
  1621. 1:04:20someone was at the front door and I was
  1622. 1:04:21in the
  1623. 1:04:22cold and uh so I called her and I was
  1624. 1:04:25like hey want going on so I got her from
  1625. 1:04:26shenan like all day no text no calls and
  1626. 1:04:28I'm like this is kind of strange so like
  1627. 1:04:31Nicole's at the front door and she okay
  1628. 1:04:33car's here I can see her shoes like cuz
  1629. 1:04:35we have this little little rectangular
  1630. 1:04:37Long window next to the door and she can
  1631. 1:04:39see her shoes right there and whatnot
  1632. 1:04:40she the GU something something's going
  1633. 1:04:42on so like she told me she was like all
  1634. 1:04:43right like I can't get a hold
  1635. 1:04:45something's going on that's when I came
  1636. 1:04:47home that's I start that's I left to
  1637. 1:04:49come home so um the Cole call me like
  1638. 1:04:52all right I'm just there going to the
  1639. 1:04:54police officer here when you get here
  1640. 1:04:55like okay like I was they couldn't get
  1641. 1:04:57in because the latch on the top door was
  1642. 1:05:00that's that's what we kind of put over
  1643. 1:05:01just to make sure like you know like if
  1644. 1:05:03the kids try to go out the front door
  1645. 1:05:05they can because that's there but the
  1646. 1:05:07keypad on the outside on the garage door
  1647. 1:05:09doesn't work so like they had to wait
  1648. 1:05:11until I got there I had the the garage
  1649. 1:05:13door opener I hit it went inside the
  1650. 1:05:16house and I mean cars there car Feats
  1651. 1:05:20are there purse is still there phone the
  1652. 1:05:23phone's on the couch like her wedding
  1653. 1:05:25ring on the
  1654. 1:05:26nightstand and it's like there's like no
  1655. 1:05:28sign of Bella Celeste or anywhere and
  1656. 1:05:32it's like the police forget what the
  1657. 1:05:34police officer's name was but he was
  1658. 1:05:35there and he was just once we found the
  1659. 1:05:37phone powered it up and all the text
  1660. 1:05:40messages like came through it's probably
  1661. 1:05:42everybody reaching out to her and
  1662. 1:05:43everything like hey what's going on like
  1663. 1:05:45you okay everything
  1664. 1:05:47good and there's just like there's
  1665. 1:05:49nothing there like it was just like it
  1666. 1:05:50was a ghost town and everything that was
  1667. 1:05:53there just didn't make sense as far as
  1668. 1:05:55was like why like what happened so we
  1669. 1:05:58started like reaching out to a bunch of
  1670. 1:06:00people any of your friends that like
  1671. 1:06:03anybody that had reached out already
  1672. 1:06:05that you know like had the car seat or
  1673. 1:06:07like had the kids in general nobody had
  1674. 1:06:09heard from her nobody
  1675. 1:06:11had I mean nobody had a clue like her
  1676. 1:06:14mom didn't had reached out to her my
  1677. 1:06:16parents I mean nothing was
  1678. 1:06:19there and the uh officer in bomb bomb
  1679. 1:06:24hover
  1680. 1:06:26detective I'm not sure if you know that
  1681. 1:06:27people are involved um yeah I can't
  1682. 1:06:30remember how to say oh yeah I think
  1683. 1:06:32detective B he he came and uh they're
  1684. 1:06:34all like you know take Taking questions
  1685. 1:06:36from me Nicole her son Nick that was
  1686. 1:06:38there and then uh went over to uh they
  1687. 1:06:41talked to my neighbor cuz he has a
  1688. 1:06:43camera facing like he picks up a few
  1689. 1:06:45different angles and whatnot and I
  1690. 1:06:48watched his video s down didn't see
  1691. 1:06:50anything as far as her leaving at
  1692. 1:06:52all so they're just like all right like
  1693. 1:06:55like
  1694. 1:06:56where like how like how this happened
  1695. 1:06:58like like there's no like video of her
  1696. 1:07:02like leading the front at
  1697. 1:07:04all so we're just we didn't know we're
  1698. 1:07:07just at a loss for words like all right
  1699. 1:07:08what where is she like she wouldn't just
  1700. 1:07:10leave everything here I giv the kid
  1701. 1:07:13medicine was still there and I was like
  1702. 1:07:15all right she needs
  1703. 1:07:17that just the only thing that was going
  1704. 1:07:18was really the kid blankets like
  1705. 1:07:20everything they slept with like you know
  1706. 1:07:22Celeste has like this B New York Yankees
  1707. 1:07:25blanket
  1708. 1:07:26and a little dinosaur and like a little
  1709. 1:07:29dog that that makes noises and turtle
  1710. 1:07:33and something a whole package and Bella
  1711. 1:07:37has two has two blankies but one was
  1712. 1:07:39still at the house the other one was
  1713. 1:07:40gone and she had a dinosaur and like a
  1714. 1:07:42little swan blanket her other little but
  1715. 1:07:45we we talked to the neighbor we looked
  1716. 1:07:48at other anybody else that maybe had had
  1717. 1:07:49camera somewhere but nothing was going
  1718. 1:07:51on they had other uh Community Services
  1719. 1:07:54like going into houses like like knock
  1720. 1:07:56have you like do you see anything like
  1721. 1:07:58you have a camera do you see anything
  1722. 1:08:00like
  1723. 1:08:01that and we just we had nothing at
  1724. 1:08:04all and it was just like all right so
  1725. 1:08:06I'm at this point I'm hoping all right
  1726. 1:08:08she's at a friend's house she's safe and
  1727. 1:08:11she's just like decompressing or like
  1728. 1:08:13she's just she's
  1729. 1:08:15safe but like that night like as I'm
  1730. 1:08:18like calling like hospitals and hotels
  1731. 1:08:20and it's like there's like there's
  1732. 1:08:21nothing like there's nothing there's
  1733. 1:08:24nothing there like no nobody's nobody's
  1734. 1:08:27had her check in no there's nothing at
  1735. 1:08:29all and then that was just traumatic
  1736. 1:08:31because like I had I had every light in
  1737. 1:08:34the house on just just in case like you
  1738. 1:08:36know like yeah I I went laate in bed but
  1739. 1:08:39I didn't sleep I was just sitting there
  1740. 1:08:41just like I had friends that came over
  1741. 1:08:43Nick and Amanda came over for a little
  1742. 1:08:44while and they showed support my friends
  1743. 1:08:46Dave and Jeremy came over they showed
  1744. 1:08:48support um she's friend Lauren came over
  1745. 1:08:51she so support another friend uh Melissa
  1746. 1:08:54came by that I didn't know she showed
  1747. 1:08:56support everybody just like I don't know
  1748. 1:08:58like why this happened or how this
  1749. 1:09:00happened but like I hope that she's okay
  1750. 1:09:03that thing MH and just like I was just
  1751. 1:09:05hoping that I would get that knock on
  1752. 1:09:07the door or a phone call or a text I
  1753. 1:09:10mean her phone they have her phone like
  1754. 1:09:12hopefully maybe it's a number I don't
  1755. 1:09:14know hopefully it's like you know like a
  1756. 1:09:17burner burner phone or some some kind of
  1757. 1:09:19some kind of like phone she bought and
  1758. 1:09:21she could just text me call me like hey
  1759. 1:09:23I'm okay something or just get a knock
  1760. 1:09:25on the door and then the kid just run in
  1761. 1:09:28and I was just like like it didn't
  1762. 1:09:30happen and when I was going through like
  1763. 1:09:33that night just like trying to just try
  1764. 1:09:36to process everything
  1765. 1:09:37like I miss like the kids like sitting
  1766. 1:09:40at the dinner table and like having to
  1767. 1:09:43tell them to eat their dinner and like I
  1768. 1:09:45missed them throwing their chicken
  1769. 1:09:46nuggets at me like I was when I went to
  1770. 1:09:49their rooms just kind of like you know
  1771. 1:09:51make the beds and it's like I wasn't
  1772. 1:09:55going to turn the rain machines on you
  1773. 1:09:56know like I wasn't like you know going
  1774. 1:09:58to read them a
  1775. 1:09:59book I wasn't going to like I wasn't
  1776. 1:10:02going to kiss them good night I wasn't
  1777. 1:10:03going to like you know do that that I
  1778. 1:10:05wasn't going to play in the playroom I
  1779. 1:10:06wasn't giving them like their nightly
  1780. 1:10:08snack like their nighttime snack I
  1781. 1:10:10wasn't you know giving their medicine I
  1782. 1:10:12wasn't you know getting them dress for
  1783. 1:10:13bed I all that like just it just hit me
  1784. 1:10:17it's like I'm not I'm not turning a
  1785. 1:10:19monitor on to watch them because they're
  1786. 1:10:21not here like where are they and then
  1787. 1:10:25night I was just like I didn't even want
  1788. 1:10:26to stay in the house that night but I
  1789. 1:10:28knew I I knew I had to just in case like
  1790. 1:10:31maybe they came home maybe they they
  1791. 1:10:33would come in that front door garage
  1792. 1:10:34door or something something would happen
  1793. 1:10:38but nothing happened that
  1794. 1:10:39night so I just just laid in bed and
  1795. 1:10:43took phone calls and text from all her
  1796. 1:10:45friends that were I couldn't sleep
  1797. 1:10:47either and just like just just asking
  1798. 1:10:50for prayers just asking prayers in
  1799. 1:10:52general just like these kids and are
  1800. 1:10:54going to come home they're going to come
  1801. 1:10:56home
  1802. 1:10:57safe then the next day little detective
  1803. 1:11:02he called me about 2: a.m. just saying
  1804. 1:11:03like they were going to do like the
  1805. 1:11:04missing person's report and I'll get
  1806. 1:11:07that all get that all
  1807. 1:11:09going but yeah it's like the next day
  1808. 1:11:12like when everything like started
  1809. 1:11:15happening as far as the news crews like
  1810. 1:11:18pulling in and
  1811. 1:11:20then all the can9 units and the drones
  1812. 1:11:23flying over my house it was just like at
  1813. 1:11:24all and like this is
  1814. 1:11:27not she's she's
  1815. 1:11:30not they think something
  1816. 1:11:33happened because all this all this right
  1817. 1:11:36here this means that okay my words fear
  1818. 1:11:40that's where this is going right now cuz
  1819. 1:11:42I thought she was just at somebody's
  1820. 1:11:44house and she was safe but
  1821. 1:11:47now just going that the other direction
  1822. 1:11:50with all this going on with the dogs
  1823. 1:11:52coming in with the news the news media
  1824. 1:11:54everything just it's kind of happening
  1825. 1:11:55it's like all this is this has gone to a
  1826. 1:11:58totally different totally different
  1827. 1:12:00direction and it's like I I was I was
  1828. 1:12:03when all my friends like were coming
  1829. 1:12:05over to give me some
  1830. 1:12:07support I knew that like all right like
  1831. 1:12:11I was happy all my friends just came
  1832. 1:12:12over to just support I didn't want to be
  1833. 1:12:13alone that fun time like this like
  1834. 1:12:15that's this is the time you don't want
  1835. 1:12:16to be alone at
  1836. 1:12:18all and my friends are supporting me all
  1837. 1:12:21through this and I just want to find
  1838. 1:12:23them I want them come home safe like
  1839. 1:12:26wherever they are I hope they are safe
  1840. 1:12:28and I really I really hope they can just
  1841. 1:12:31come
  1842. 1:12:32home at the FBI agent uh Graham he's
  1843. 1:12:37he's been really helpful I mean he
  1844. 1:12:39didn't tell me what lead they have for
  1845. 1:12:40today but I'm hoping that
  1846. 1:12:43it at least them coming home mhm cuz it
  1847. 1:12:48just being in that house and not being
  1848. 1:12:51able to tuck them
  1849. 1:12:52in it's just it it's it's heart rening
  1850. 1:12:55it's Earth shattering right now because
  1851. 1:12:57that's those are my
  1852. 1:12:59kids those are like like you made those
  1853. 1:13:02kids you know like do you have kids or
  1854. 1:13:04anything okay like three of them so like
  1855. 1:13:08just not being able to like you know
  1856. 1:13:11kiss them good night and saying I love
  1857. 1:13:14you Daddy or I miss you daddy or
  1858. 1:13:15something like that you know cuz they
  1859. 1:13:18were without me for 5
  1860. 1:13:20weeks and uh it was I got to FaceTime
  1861. 1:13:23him every night
  1862. 1:13:25and it was just not not being able to do
  1863. 1:13:28anything like knowing that they were
  1864. 1:13:31just here and not knowing where they are
  1865. 1:13:34now is it's it's a nightmare right
  1866. 1:13:39now so um thank you for explaining all
  1867. 1:13:42that to me um obviously I'm have more
  1868. 1:13:45questions so I may kind of piece it out
  1869. 1:13:48um just going back just so I understand
  1870. 1:13:50everything um and you you kept saying
  1871. 1:13:53that you thought she was at a friend
  1872. 1:13:54house do you still think she's at a
  1873. 1:13:56friend's house at this point I
  1874. 1:13:58don't because all this like everything
  1875. 1:14:01that's happened now so what does that
  1876. 1:14:02make you think of it just makes me feel
  1877. 1:14:05like either she vanished like she she's
  1878. 1:14:09had the kids and she's somewhere where
  1879. 1:14:12like maybe hopefully a hotel but I don't
  1880. 1:14:14think she's at a friend's house now
  1881. 1:14:15unless it's somebody I just don't know
  1882. 1:14:18like if it's somebody I don't know great
  1883. 1:14:19like I just want her to be safe but with
  1884. 1:14:22all with with FBI here with you know CBI
  1885. 1:14:25here with everything that's going on
  1886. 1:14:29like it makes me feel like all right
  1887. 1:14:31maybe somebody has her that's not that's
  1888. 1:14:34not keeping her
  1889. 1:14:36safe or something terrible has happened
  1890. 1:14:40and that is that's the
  1891. 1:14:42Nightmare and what would that terrible
  1892. 1:14:44thing
  1893. 1:14:45be if somebody hurt
  1894. 1:14:50them that's run into your mind
  1895. 1:14:53sometimes I don't
  1896. 1:14:56I I can't I don't want that to run
  1897. 1:14:59through my mind but it's it's running
  1898. 1:15:01through my mind that somebody has heard
  1899. 1:15:03them and that they are not
  1900. 1:15:06safe and I really want them to be safe I
  1901. 1:15:09want them to come home right and we want
  1902. 1:15:11them to come home
  1903. 1:15:13too um so let's let's kind of break it
  1904. 1:15:16down back to um when shanan went
  1905. 1:15:21to Arizona so what was she into Arizona
  1906. 1:15:24for thri local it's been down there with
  1907. 1:15:27some of the uh upline leaders okay so
  1908. 1:15:30she mostly women like you know other
  1909. 1:15:33people that work for her you know down
  1910. 1:15:35or down people people or upline people
  1911. 1:15:37and all that okay and they just you know
  1912. 1:15:39get fil their cup I guess for lack of a
  1913. 1:15:42better term so they get there and they
  1914. 1:15:44you know cheer them on and like you can
  1915. 1:15:46do more and whatever and I guess do they
  1916. 1:15:50teach them about new products yeah
  1917. 1:15:52there's a lot of training that goes
  1918. 1:15:53involved with like how to talk to people
  1919. 1:15:55and stuff like that and bring in more
  1920. 1:15:56people type thing like did did shenan
  1921. 1:15:58make a lot of money doing this yeah she
  1922. 1:16:00made she makes L much money than I do
  1923. 1:16:02really yeah and how much is that cuz I
  1924. 1:16:05don't know how much you weigh 6570 okay
  1925. 1:16:08she makes that much just th wow how many
  1926. 1:16:12people does she have underneath her
  1927. 1:16:16like people that have signed up
  1928. 1:16:18underneath her probably about
  1929. 1:16:20200 but like active people that promote
  1930. 1:16:22it it's I mean it's probably about about
  1931. 1:16:2550 or so but like she has her team does
  1932. 1:16:28about $80,000 a month in sales yeah is
  1933. 1:16:32crazy sorry about that um okay so she's
  1934. 1:16:35at this conference um and obviously even
  1935. 1:16:39before that like um you know you said
  1936. 1:16:42that you kind of talked about you know
  1937. 1:16:44separating or whatever when um she got
  1938. 1:16:46into bed or after you woke up yeah um
  1939. 1:16:50when did that start so in the five weeks
  1940. 1:16:54that we were
  1941. 1:16:55like when she was in North Carolina and
  1942. 1:16:57I was back here and when did she leave
  1943. 1:16:59for North Carolina what was that
  1944. 1:17:01date June
  1945. 1:17:0326 so the end of June yeah okay so she
  1946. 1:17:07leaves for in June and not when what
  1947. 1:17:10yeah yeah like being like when we were
  1948. 1:17:13talking and everything and texting and
  1949. 1:17:15calling each other like we could feel
  1950. 1:17:17like there was like that disconnect
  1951. 1:17:20there and like over that period of time
  1952. 1:17:23like it our conversations were shorter
  1953. 1:17:26text messages were a little bit less you
  1954. 1:17:27know like like more like emotional type
  1955. 1:17:30thing you know more love less
  1956. 1:17:31lovey-dovey type things so explain like
  1957. 1:17:34even before June was there any other
  1958. 1:17:37issues as far as your relationship goes
  1959. 1:17:39or I mean everyone goes through ups and
  1960. 1:17:40downs mean yeah I mean like like over a
  1961. 1:17:43year ago you know it's more of like you
  1962. 1:17:45know I could see that maybe W it wasn't
  1963. 1:17:47like as hot and heavy as as like you
  1964. 1:17:49know as it was when we first met you
  1965. 1:17:51know that spark and anything like that
  1966. 1:17:53but like you know like you know like you
  1967. 1:17:55said ups and downs marriages like you
  1968. 1:17:56know they have their lows and they have
  1969. 1:17:58their highs and like I was hoping that
  1970. 1:18:01we we can just like we could just like
  1971. 1:18:03it would just work itself out like it's
  1972. 1:18:05hard with babies and you know yeah I
  1973. 1:18:08mean yeah with when when a kids are
  1974. 1:18:09involved it's a little bit harder a lot
  1975. 1:18:11harder and just as far as like your time
  1976. 1:18:13away from your spouse and you know just
  1977. 1:18:15trying to make time for them and you
  1978. 1:18:18give them emotional attention and that
  1979. 1:18:20kind of stuff I know that kind of can
  1980. 1:18:21get strained did you feel that once you
  1981. 1:18:24started having kids or you know that
  1982. 1:18:27even before yeah we didn't like like go
  1983. 1:18:29out on dates really a whole lot after we
  1984. 1:18:30had kids cuz I mean we just you know
  1985. 1:18:32kids kids monopolize a lot of your time
  1986. 1:18:35like they take up a lot so it's like you
  1987. 1:18:36want to focus like r on kids all the
  1988. 1:18:38time and that's what we did we didn't
  1989. 1:18:41really focus on ourselves much and I
  1990. 1:18:43think that's where like I'm not going to
  1991. 1:18:45blame the kids for a disconnection or
  1992. 1:18:47anything but like yeah we focus like on
  1993. 1:18:49the kids like all the time but like and
  1994. 1:18:52then like as our relationship got longer
  1995. 1:18:54longer it was more of like like I could
  1996. 1:18:57feel that disconnect that was there like
  1997. 1:18:59we're really talk like we didn't have
  1998. 1:19:01those deep conversations anymore like
  1999. 1:19:03you know anything like
  2000. 1:19:05that but like that's that's when I kind
  2001. 1:19:07of all started and I was hoping that you
  2002. 1:19:08know maybe it just just work itself out
  2003. 1:19:11and being like when I those five weeks
  2004. 1:19:13when she was in North Carolina and I was
  2005. 1:19:15here like I could feel it more like tell
  2006. 1:19:18me about that what do you mean by that
  2007. 1:19:20so like you could feel like the
  2008. 1:19:21disconnect more like in the
  2009. 1:19:22conversations we were having and like it
  2010. 1:19:23were just short and like it felt like
  2011. 1:19:27you know like when we're texting each
  2012. 1:19:29other and nothing was the same as far as
  2013. 1:19:31that goes like calling each other
  2014. 1:19:32Nothing Was the Same and you could when
  2015. 1:19:35I got there that's when it all you can
  2016. 1:19:37kind of all like when we were talking it
  2017. 1:19:40was just nothing yeah tell me about that
  2018. 1:19:41like what did it seem like when you got
  2019. 1:19:43out there fin like when I got out there
  2020. 1:19:44it was just like you could feel like you
  2021. 1:19:46know get to the airport you know wrap
  2022. 1:19:48the kids like around they they come
  2023. 1:19:50running they come running through the
  2024. 1:19:52alarm and everything they running
  2025. 1:19:53through a place they couldn't even run
  2026. 1:19:54into and gave them big old hug and
  2027. 1:19:58everything and then like gave shenan a
  2028. 1:19:59hug and everything and just like you can
  2029. 1:20:01just feel it start from there like
  2030. 1:20:02everything just felt like
  2031. 1:20:05different kiss or anything we kissed
  2032. 1:20:07right then but like after that it was
  2033. 1:20:09just like every every night it was more
  2034. 1:20:11of like a we talked but it was like
  2035. 1:20:15mainly it was through
  2036. 1:20:17text like when you were there yeah yeah
  2037. 1:20:20cuz it was more like like whenever we
  2038. 1:20:22would talk about like how we were
  2039. 1:20:23feeling it was more of like we were just
  2040. 1:20:26text back and forth type of thing cuz
  2041. 1:20:28like that's how that's how we could get
  2042. 1:20:29our feelings more across cuz her M
  2043. 1:20:31everybody was still there like we
  2044. 1:20:32weren't really alone cuz her parents
  2045. 1:20:34were there so when did tell me about
  2046. 1:20:36like when did that first text you know
  2047. 1:20:38like what was that first text like as
  2048. 1:20:40far as like one of you you know deciding
  2049. 1:20:43to talk to the other one about maybe
  2050. 1:20:45separating or you know not feeling great
  2051. 1:20:47about your relationship or whatever like
  2052. 1:20:48who was that first person that sent that
  2053. 1:20:50text and what did that text look like it
  2054. 1:20:53was probably on her phone but so when I
  2055. 1:20:55got there it was July 31st went to the
  2056. 1:20:57beach August 1st and her dad was there
  2057. 1:21:00for a few days and then her mom came
  2058. 1:21:02down so they're we were never really
  2059. 1:21:04like alone with like alone together so
  2060. 1:21:07that's why some of our conversations
  2061. 1:21:09were through text as far as that goes so
  2062. 1:21:11why you're both there together you're
  2063. 1:21:12still texting about stuff and what what
  2064. 1:21:15were those texts about like what did
  2065. 1:21:16they say it's just kind of like you
  2066. 1:21:18know where is our relationship going
  2067. 1:21:21type thing like where like like if we're
  2068. 1:21:23bringing a third kid into this world
  2069. 1:21:25like like what's what's our relationship
  2070. 1:21:29going to look like like is it going to
  2071. 1:21:31be are we going to be are we going to
  2072. 1:21:34work this out or is this going to lead
  2073. 1:21:38to a separation is this going to lead to
  2074. 1:21:40where like we stay together and be civil
  2075. 1:21:42with the kids or are we going to be our
  2076. 1:21:45separate ways
  2077. 1:21:47and stuff like that and what was she
  2078. 1:21:50what was her reaction to all
  2079. 1:21:52that it was I mean a lot of it was
  2080. 1:21:55emotional it was a lot of crying it was
  2081. 1:21:57just like I'm not sure
  2082. 1:21:59like how to word that but it was more of
  2083. 1:22:02the what are we going to do like how are
  2084. 1:22:06we going to make can we how are we going
  2085. 1:22:08to make this work so your wife wanted to
  2086. 1:22:10make it work and we both wanted to see
  2087. 1:22:12like all right is this is this going to
  2088. 1:22:13make it work is this going to work like
  2089. 1:22:15are we still at that point in our
  2090. 1:22:18relationship where we're going to make
  2091. 1:22:20this
  2092. 1:22:21work so like when she went to when she
  2093. 1:22:24went to Arizona she confided in a bunch
  2094. 1:22:26of her friends as far as like what was
  2095. 1:22:28going on as far as like where our
  2096. 1:22:30relationship was and how do you know
  2097. 1:22:32that they well once once this
  2098. 1:22:34disappearance happened like I they KN
  2099. 1:22:36like I didn't know if they knew or not
  2100. 1:22:38they reached out to you and told you
  2101. 1:22:39that they knew well I told him like you
  2102. 1:22:41know we were you know going to go
  2103. 1:22:44through like with a separation and
  2104. 1:22:45everything like oh we we knew you guys
  2105. 1:22:47were having some issues there and
  2106. 1:22:50everything I'm like oh okay I didn't
  2107. 1:22:52know did they tell you what Chan had
  2108. 1:22:54said no I just said they just like they
  2109. 1:22:56saw her like and she her emotional state
  2110. 1:22:58it wasn't the same as far as like they
  2111. 1:23:01could tell something was like it was
  2112. 1:23:03different about her so in North Carolina
  2113. 1:23:04is that the first time you guys have
  2114. 1:23:06ever talked about maybe not being
  2115. 1:23:08together and maybe you know figuring out
  2116. 1:23:10life separately yeah okay and was that
  2117. 1:23:13more would you say you bringing it up to
  2118. 1:23:16her or her bring me bring it up to her
  2119. 1:23:18okay okay did she ask you why like why
  2120. 1:23:23now you know or oh yeah that kind of
  2121. 1:23:25stuff what what did you say back to her
  2122. 1:23:28yeah it was more of just like I didn't
  2123. 1:23:29feel that I didn't feel that connection
  2124. 1:23:31anymore like I like fell out a love kind
  2125. 1:23:34of thing or you describe it yeah it was
  2126. 1:23:36more of like I don't feel the same way
  2127. 1:23:39that I used to like I don't I don't
  2128. 1:23:42think we have that connection anymore to
  2129. 1:23:44where like I can just like be myself and
  2130. 1:23:47just like be everything that I need to
  2131. 1:23:49be for you right now and that's that's
  2132. 1:23:51how where I explain the
  2133. 1:23:54and she said
  2134. 1:23:56what she didn't like know really what to
  2135. 1:23:59say it was just like I I don't know I
  2136. 1:24:02didn't see it but it's like I want to
  2137. 1:24:05work on it and I want to see where this
  2138. 1:24:09can go like if we can fix it like like
  2139. 1:24:12either through a book or like counseling
  2140. 1:24:15or so after your conversation with her
  2141. 1:24:18it was your this is in North Carolina
  2142. 1:24:20right belief that you guys would try and
  2143. 1:24:22work on it together just to see if it
  2144. 1:24:25would kind of work or or just kind of
  2145. 1:24:26like see where this like like we'll take
  2146. 1:24:28this week like because it was an
  2147. 1:24:30emotional week just because of
  2148. 1:24:31everything we we were saying and like
  2149. 1:24:33what we were what we were thinking like
  2150. 1:24:36and all that especially bringing our kid
  2151. 1:24:37into the world it's like we want that
  2152. 1:24:40environment to be as like healthy as
  2153. 1:24:43possible sure did you guys I'm sorry
  2154. 1:24:46it's fre in here I'm pump this up a
  2155. 1:24:48little bit
  2156. 1:24:50um did you guys sleep in the same bed
  2157. 1:24:54you there in uh in North or North
  2158. 1:24:58Carolina yeah yeah like there's there
  2159. 1:25:00was a couple I slept in the kids' room
  2160. 1:25:02one time or slept in the kids' room one
  2161. 1:25:04time and slept on the couch another time
  2162. 1:25:07is it just because of the tension
  2163. 1:25:08there's there's a t there's tension in
  2164. 1:25:09there that's good and then when we got
  2165. 1:25:12here we got but when you're there like
  2166. 1:25:15did you guys have sex at all or no no
  2167. 1:25:18okay were you guys affectionate after
  2168. 1:25:20the kiss at the airport not really okay
  2169. 1:25:23that's where like that's where we could
  2170. 1:25:24feel like it wasn't like it wasn't
  2171. 1:25:26really there at that point in time okay
  2172. 1:25:29and up until the point where she left
  2173. 1:25:31was it you know affectionate
  2174. 1:25:35and no I mean what was your sex life
  2175. 1:25:37like I mean it was I mean the last time
  2176. 1:25:40we had sex was in like may like when the
  2177. 1:25:43kid was born or a kid was conceived so
  2178. 1:25:46that would have been in May been like
  2179. 1:25:49cuz she found out second week of June so
  2180. 1:25:52it would have been like May okay and was
  2181. 1:25:54there a um celebration or something that
  2182. 1:25:57you know did you guys go out did you
  2183. 1:25:59have a date did you no she got me a few
  2184. 1:26:02shirts that had like a you know um is
  2185. 1:26:06said like Dad code ficient of3 type
  2186. 1:26:09thing um she had a couple shirts in May
  2187. 1:26:11all one was a back rub type
  2188. 1:26:14thing but as far as when you had sex in
  2189. 1:26:17may like what was there something
  2190. 1:26:19special about that we we had you know
  2191. 1:26:22talked about like having like going
  2192. 1:26:24through pros and cons of having another
  2193. 1:26:26another child and but like we didn't
  2194. 1:26:28like have like a celebration like of
  2195. 1:26:31having sex so you guys like so you were
  2196. 1:26:33talking about maybe having another kid
  2197. 1:26:35and then you were actually trying that
  2198. 1:26:36night to have another kid yeah I think
  2199. 1:26:39after waited until she was like was like
  2200. 1:26:42when she was like ovulating type thing
  2201. 1:26:44was she keeping track of that she yeah
  2202. 1:26:45she always has that on her
  2203. 1:26:47own right it's like a like a cycle
  2204. 1:26:50tracker okay type thing and it tells you
  2205. 1:26:52okay so did you find that sex was more
  2206. 1:26:55like a job or did you really enjoy it
  2207. 1:26:58with your wife as far as I I never felt
  2208. 1:27:00like it was a task okay like even like
  2209. 1:27:03we're going to do it now cuz I need to
  2210. 1:27:04get pregnant whatever like no it it
  2211. 1:27:07wasn't like I mean whenever you're
  2212. 1:27:08trying to have a kid I mean you have to
  2213. 1:27:11like plan that part as far as that goes
  2214. 1:27:14sure because like you can't just like
  2215. 1:27:16you know have like every day or twice a
  2216. 1:27:18day like to get pregnant you have to
  2217. 1:27:20like once and then kind of wait two days
  2218. 1:27:22or something whatever the formula is is
  2219. 1:27:24like she said you have to wait like 2
  2220. 1:27:26days and then try again okay but that's
  2221. 1:27:28what that was okay so before that time
  2222. 1:27:32in May how often would you say that you
  2223. 1:27:34guys were having sex maybe
  2224. 1:27:37like once or twice a week okay so why do
  2225. 1:27:42you think it significantly stopped right
  2226. 1:27:44after she
  2227. 1:27:46conceived and me like it was that's kind
  2228. 1:27:51of hard to tell cuz we went through SP
  2229. 1:27:52little spurts where like maybe it wasn't
  2230. 1:27:54like once every every once or twice a
  2231. 1:27:58week like there was times we went like a
  2232. 1:28:00month or two like without without having
  2233. 1:28:03sex like sometimes like I would try and
  2234. 1:28:07that would you know she was tired or you
  2235. 1:28:09know something was going on like she was
  2236. 1:28:11just aggravated or something she was
  2237. 1:28:12like not tonight like type thing like I
  2238. 1:28:15was usually one to initiate it mhm like
  2239. 1:28:18but i' say most times it was like I was
  2240. 1:28:20shot down but that's I mean married life
  2241. 1:28:24honestly you just kept trying yeah like
  2242. 1:28:26you keep you try I mean like you never
  2243. 1:28:28stop trying cuz I mean that's I mean if
  2244. 1:28:31you felt like it was a job or task you
  2245. 1:28:33wouldn't drive mhm but like you know I I
  2246. 1:28:36enjoyed having having sex with her so I
  2247. 1:28:38mean okay it was as far as like um North
  2248. 1:28:43Carolina goes like when you guys kind of
  2249. 1:28:45broach the subject of maybe you know
  2250. 1:28:48separating or whatever um did she accuse
  2251. 1:28:52you of you know cuz I mean I think it
  2252. 1:28:54would be a normal wife's reaction to be
  2253. 1:28:55like who is it like you know like who's
  2254. 1:28:58the chick or whatever yeah I mean like
  2255. 1:28:59like that that kind of came up you know
  2256. 1:29:01like and I was just like you know that
  2257. 1:29:03would never happen like you know the
  2258. 1:29:05kind of guy I am like like we were at I
  2259. 1:29:07was at um one of my friends house Jing
  2260. 1:29:09me and he said like you know you're the
  2261. 1:29:10type of guy that I could send you with
  2262. 1:29:13my wife for a week and know nothing was
  2263. 1:29:15going to happen type thing like they
  2264. 1:29:17know people know the kind of person I am
  2265. 1:29:19solid guy yeah like I'm not the type of
  2266. 1:29:21guy that's just going to say all right
  2267. 1:29:23my wife's gone like who's the who's the
  2268. 1:29:26girl like I can find for this like five
  2269. 1:29:28weeks like no that's not me like I
  2270. 1:29:31respect my wife and she respects me like
  2271. 1:29:33she's I there's no anything that she
  2272. 1:29:35could she could like like if she's
  2273. 1:29:37somewhere safe right now like I don't
  2274. 1:29:40think would be with a guy I mean if it
  2275. 1:29:43is I'm fine like I want her to be safe I
  2276. 1:29:45want the kids back home if was with the
  2277. 1:29:47guy great come back home we'll talk
  2278. 1:29:49about all that later mhm but like I
  2279. 1:29:52never had engling she with would do the
  2280. 1:29:54same do anything to me you know so how
  2281. 1:29:56did that come up from her like what
  2282. 1:29:58exactly did she say to you because of
  2283. 1:30:00our like how like our text and calls
  2284. 1:30:03were getting like shorter and everything
  2285. 1:30:04like that like she like like are you
  2286. 1:30:07having I like no not having any Affair
  2287. 1:30:09like that is the last thing that should
  2288. 1:30:10be on your mind did she bring up any
  2289. 1:30:12other I guess in a woman's mind evidence
  2290. 1:30:15as far as you know why she would think
  2291. 1:30:18there would be someone else involved or
  2292. 1:30:19anything like that no it's just CU like
  2293. 1:30:21I was like whenever like do a call
  2294. 1:30:23sometimes I'd be out for run or I'd be
  2295. 1:30:24working out and she could tell like all
  2296. 1:30:26right you don't want to talk to me right
  2297. 1:30:28now let's just go work out type of thing
  2298. 1:30:30she like like when she was going I would
  2299. 1:30:33take that more time to kind of like you
  2300. 1:30:34know go like go run go work out cuz I
  2301. 1:30:37mean I had had time to do it type of
  2302. 1:30:40thing like I would always make time to
  2303. 1:30:41FaceTime with the kids and everything
  2304. 1:30:43when she would call like you know I
  2305. 1:30:44would always make time to do like
  2306. 1:30:46especially like when the kids are awake
  2307. 1:30:47and everything like that sure like she
  2308. 1:30:49like like like later on at night you
  2309. 1:30:51know like when I would just sun goes
  2310. 1:30:53down I'd go out for a run cuz it's less
  2311. 1:30:55hot hot
  2312. 1:30:56outside and would she accuse you of like
  2313. 1:30:58doing other stuff while you were not
  2314. 1:31:00answering your phone or oh no like she
  2315. 1:31:02was like you know she would asked me
  2316. 1:31:04like hey can you like do this for me
  2317. 1:31:07like can you find this like medication
  2318. 1:31:09send me a picture of
  2319. 1:31:10it can you like like find something at
  2320. 1:31:14the house I mean Little Things by that
  2321. 1:31:15she knew I was at the house so I mean
  2322. 1:31:18it's like um she had no reason to really
  2323. 1:31:21have that that fear in her head but
  2324. 1:31:23being away for you know that amount of
  2325. 1:31:26time and being pregnant and it's like
  2326. 1:31:29that's going to run through her mind has
  2327. 1:31:31she ever been away that long before no
  2328. 1:31:35okay you talk about you know her being
  2329. 1:31:36pregnant or whatever like how was she
  2330. 1:31:38different when she was pregnant that
  2331. 1:31:40when she wasn't pregnant well I guess
  2332. 1:31:42just you're just more more emotional in
  2333. 1:31:45general I just want to make
  2334. 1:31:48sure yeah okay um more emotional oh yeah
  2335. 1:31:52I mean that's that's normal I mean her
  2336. 1:31:54Cravings hadn't really changed or
  2337. 1:31:55anything like that but just like you
  2338. 1:31:57know just more emotional and everything
  2339. 1:31:59like that mhm would she kind of admit
  2340. 1:32:01that like I'm pregnant whatever well I
  2341. 1:32:04mean I guess she's like you know she's
  2342. 1:32:05just you know she's with her mom and she
  2343. 1:32:07gets really you know her mom's like
  2344. 1:32:10really like she's full Italian so like
  2345. 1:32:13she's always like you
  2346. 1:32:15know always just like gho about
  2347. 1:32:18everything and it makes sh like really
  2348. 1:32:20anxious sometimes and like you know like
  2349. 1:32:21it's it's a lot of stress being over
  2350. 1:32:24there with you know her family and my
  2351. 1:32:26family as far as like everybody you know
  2352. 1:32:28like she she's she's over there by
  2353. 1:32:29herself with the kids do you guys all
  2354. 1:32:31get along like just I mean yeah I mean
  2355. 1:32:34pretty civil for you said that you went
  2356. 1:32:36to your parents by yourself like was
  2357. 1:32:37there a reason why shenan and the girls
  2358. 1:32:39didn't go yeah because there was a there
  2359. 1:32:41was an incident where my mom had
  2360. 1:32:44something in the house that CC could was
  2361. 1:32:46kind of allergic to what was that it was
  2362. 1:32:49some ice cream and what what are your
  2363. 1:32:51kids sick with I guess CC IC to tree
  2364. 1:32:54nuts okay and um so not peanuts but like
  2365. 1:32:58my kids allergic to peanuts but not tree
  2366. 1:33:00nuts so yeah so peanuts is like a I
  2367. 1:33:03guess oh it's growing from the ground so
  2368. 1:33:05the Tre enough like pistachios and
  2369. 1:33:08cashews and stuff like that those the
  2370. 1:33:09good ones I know and kiwi kiwi is like
  2371. 1:33:13grown like I guess the spores have like
  2372. 1:33:16something that's related to tree nuts
  2373. 1:33:18found out out the hard way as well but
  2374. 1:33:20yeah like there was an incident where
  2375. 1:33:22she had something in the house
  2376. 1:33:24as far as it was it was ice cream that
  2377. 1:33:27CCE couldn't have and my one of my
  2378. 1:33:30sister's kids went and grabbed some she
  2379. 1:33:32was eating next to CC
  2380. 1:33:35and it was just a point where like
  2381. 1:33:38shenan said I they cannot come over here
  2382. 1:33:41again since I mean cuz CCE is the one
  2383. 1:33:44that kind of would lunge as she just
  2384. 1:33:46grab like I mean oh if my sister's get
  2385. 1:33:49at would happen so fast you wouldn't
  2386. 1:33:50even be able to you you know cuz I mean
  2387. 1:33:52like how we figured out tree nuts was an
  2388. 1:33:54issue it's cuz she had a little sliver
  2389. 1:33:56of a cashew one day a sliver and made it
  2390. 1:34:00react and her reactions got worse over
  2391. 1:34:04her her last panel was was a couple like
  2392. 1:34:07a month two months ago or something like
  2393. 1:34:09that and her reaction was a little bit
  2394. 1:34:11when they prick her back and
  2395. 1:34:12everything so like that that kind of
  2396. 1:34:15drove shenan to where like all right
  2397. 1:34:17they can't come over again if you're
  2398. 1:34:19going to have this in this house and
  2399. 1:34:20that kind of that's why that happened
  2400. 1:34:23when was that was that this during this
  2401. 1:34:24trip or was that from before it was
  2402. 1:34:26during that 5 weeks span okay yeah and
  2403. 1:34:29they hadn't seen the kids in like two
  2404. 1:34:31weeks when I got
  2405. 1:34:32there and shanan was like I they can't
  2406. 1:34:35come over they can't go over there right
  2407. 1:34:36now what did you think about that I was
  2408. 1:34:39I was hurt I was like you know I wanted
  2409. 1:34:41my one my parents to see their their
  2410. 1:34:43grandbabies you know like even if it's
  2411. 1:34:45just like the I mean it was we didn't
  2412. 1:34:47even even FaceTime so like like when I
  2413. 1:34:50went over there like I I wanted to bring
  2414. 1:34:52kids but like I respected her decision
  2415. 1:34:54like okay like if I if you want the kids
  2416. 1:34:57over there right now it's fine I just I
  2417. 1:34:58just need to see my parents like since
  2418. 1:34:59I'm here like I'm here for a week you
  2419. 1:35:01know I want to at least like go over
  2420. 1:35:03there give him a hug and see my sister
  2421. 1:35:06her husband their kid as well and just
  2422. 1:35:08kind of just say hey had little cookout
  2423. 1:35:10and just hung out do you know if shenan
  2424. 1:35:12told anyone in North Carolina about what
  2425. 1:35:14was going on oh I'm like I'm sure she
  2426. 1:35:17did who do you think she
  2427. 1:35:19told oh she probably told uh well
  2428. 1:35:22there's people here I know probably knew
  2429. 1:35:25Cassie probably knew but they they
  2430. 1:35:27Nicole lives here Cassie lives there
  2431. 1:35:29there's some of her good friends but
  2432. 1:35:31like would she have told any of her
  2433. 1:35:32family or friends in North Carolina I'm
  2434. 1:35:34not sure if her mom knew or not if that
  2435. 1:35:36was the case is she pretty close to her
  2436. 1:35:38mom oh yeah she is but I'm not sure if
  2437. 1:35:40she like like told her like the entire
  2438. 1:35:43like thing about the whole like P the
  2439. 1:35:45having something in the house all I just
  2440. 1:35:47mean um between you and her sorry the
  2441. 1:35:49separation oh so oh no like no she
  2442. 1:35:52didn't tell any of her family no and why
  2443. 1:35:54do you know she didn't do that cuz she
  2444. 1:35:56told me she like she's not going to tell
  2445. 1:35:57them like I knew she was confiding in a
  2446. 1:35:59few of her friends CU she told me that
  2447. 1:36:01cuz she had need somebody to talk to but
  2448. 1:36:02she didn't tell her mom or anything like
  2449. 1:36:05that
  2450. 1:36:06mhm do you guys go to church no not here
  2451. 1:36:10no you moved to Colorado the church like
  2452. 1:36:14we were talking about like you know
  2453. 1:36:15finding one for you know with the kids
  2454. 1:36:17and everything what about counseling did
  2455. 1:36:18you guys talk about counseling yeah yeah
  2456. 1:36:20when did you guys talk about that
  2457. 1:36:23that
  2458. 1:36:24was probably we got back from the seven
  2459. 1:36:28back to work from the eth so probably
  2460. 1:36:29about the eth or
  2461. 1:36:32so oh right before she left I guess she
  2462. 1:36:35left on the 10th is that right okay so
  2463. 1:36:37what did what came of that when you guys
  2464. 1:36:39talked about counseling it's like I
  2465. 1:36:40don't really think we really needed to
  2466. 1:36:42go to counseling so I've never like I
  2467. 1:36:43don't I mean anything that we were
  2468. 1:36:45saying to each other I felt like we
  2469. 1:36:46could just say it to each other and not
  2470. 1:36:48have to like you know go
  2471. 1:36:49to go to somewhere somebody's couch and
  2472. 1:36:52talk to them about it like she said like
  2473. 1:36:54a couple of her friends that that were
  2474. 1:36:56married have been counseling like once
  2475. 1:36:58or twice or three times and they're
  2476. 1:36:59still going type of thing like I didn't
  2477. 1:37:02feel like I really needed to but I mean
  2478. 1:37:05I was I mean I was open to the idea
  2479. 1:37:07because I thought like all right if if
  2480. 1:37:09she really really really like if this is
  2481. 1:37:12going to
  2482. 1:37:13work May maybe but like I really didn't
  2483. 1:37:16really want to do it just because like I
  2484. 1:37:18didn't think we needed to do that I
  2485. 1:37:20thought we could just like you
  2486. 1:37:21know let me just do it that way but it
  2487. 1:37:24the disconnection was there I didn't
  2488. 1:37:25feel like it was going to
  2489. 1:37:27help okay do you get back on the eth or
  2490. 1:37:307th on the 7th go back to work on the
  2491. 1:37:328th you went back to work on the eth
  2492. 1:37:34okay and what day is the eth like of the
  2493. 1:37:37week do you
  2494. 1:37:40remember 8 9 so it be a Wednesday it was
  2495. 1:37:43a Wednesday yeah okay cuz the 10th was a
  2496. 1:37:45Friday that's when she flew out okay and
  2497. 1:37:48then you worked how many days I worked
  2498. 1:37:51Wednesday and Thursday and then I was
  2499. 1:37:54off Friday because that's when she flew
  2500. 1:37:56out to Arizona okay so what tell me
  2501. 1:38:00about all the stuff you did on
  2502. 1:38:03Friday or how was it I guess before she
  2503. 1:38:05left like if you know did you take her
  2504. 1:38:07to the airport oh no Nicole picked her
  2505. 1:38:08up oh ni picked her up y okay what was
  2506. 1:38:11you the attitude like or what was the
  2507. 1:38:13relationship like when she left for
  2508. 1:38:15Arizona it was I mean we were just like
  2509. 1:38:18like we had talked about counseling and
  2510. 1:38:19everything and we knew what the uh what
  2511. 1:38:23the uh sex with the baby was we Wen
  2512. 1:38:25going to tell anybody until she got back
  2513. 1:38:27cuz Nicole knew Nicole was the one that
  2514. 1:38:29like prepped everything for like with
  2515. 1:38:30the bag and like couple things like pour
  2516. 1:38:33out a little fake fake champagne bottle
  2517. 1:38:35and
  2518. 1:38:36whatnot for which one for or the for the
  2519. 1:38:40for like like a gender reveal type
  2520. 1:38:42gender okay type thing like that okay so
  2521. 1:38:45like she she did all that for
  2522. 1:38:47us and um so Friday I mean I woke up
  2523. 1:38:50with the I waited for the kids to wake
  2524. 1:38:52up cuz she she left early that morning
  2525. 1:38:54Nicole came picked her up and she left
  2526. 1:38:56at the airport was it like Kiss Hug by
  2527. 1:39:00or was it kind of strained as far as it
  2528. 1:39:02it was a hug it was a hug yeah okay yeah
  2529. 1:39:05it was just like you know have a safe
  2530. 1:39:06flight and just let me know when you get
  2531. 1:39:08there and I'll send you pictures of the
  2532. 1:39:10kids like when like throughout the day
  2533. 1:39:12okay type thing okay so and then you
  2534. 1:39:15said I'm sorry that you waited till the
  2535. 1:39:16kids got up yeah like that's what we
  2536. 1:39:18usually do we just wait for the wait for
  2537. 1:39:20the kids to wake up so they wake us up
  2538. 1:39:23okay and Bella came in the room and she
  2539. 1:39:25just she usually just crawls in the bed
  2540. 1:39:26and just like just Falls right just
  2541. 1:39:28falls asleep next to us like when she
  2542. 1:39:30wakes up she doesn't just get up and
  2543. 1:39:31just go like CC does but as far as
  2544. 1:39:33Friday goes what exactly happened on
  2545. 1:39:35Friday so we're just pretty much hung
  2546. 1:39:37out the
  2547. 1:39:40house just just playing around just we
  2548. 1:39:42went to like grocery
  2549. 1:39:44store went to get my glasses got some
  2550. 1:39:49cracks in the
  2551. 1:39:50frame we went went to
  2552. 1:40:00Target we went to King Supers to pick up
  2553. 1:40:03the clicklist over
  2554. 1:40:05there I've never done that that was fun
  2555. 1:40:08to do that is that your first time doing
  2556. 1:40:10it or do you guys oh no she does it for
  2557. 1:40:12me all the time oh she does MHM very
  2558. 1:40:14cool yeah we just like we we have made
  2559. 1:40:17little day of it and everything and so
  2560. 1:40:19and I'm sorry do your kids go to
  2561. 1:40:20preschool or
  2562. 1:40:22daycare is that a preschool or a daycare
  2563. 1:40:25it's a little bit of both depending on
  2564. 1:40:26your age cuz like they have up to 6
  2565. 1:40:29months okay so what are your kids
  2566. 1:40:31considered in the preschool or in the
  2567. 1:40:34early celest is like early preschool
  2568. 1:40:37one early preschool one and Celeste or
  2569. 1:40:42Bella
  2570. 1:40:43is uh prek one so is it like you can
  2571. 1:40:46drop your kids off before school starts
  2572. 1:40:49like and they will like have a daycare
  2573. 1:40:51and then oh well it's like you go like
  2574. 1:40:53like they'll have like a room like like
  2575. 1:40:56sometimes they'll only have a few
  2576. 1:40:57teachers there at 6:30 6:30 in the
  2577. 1:40:59morning type thing oh okay you're right
  2578. 1:41:01and they combine most of the classes and
  2579. 1:41:03stuff because there's not that many kids
  2580. 1:41:05there so where is this Primrose at is
  2581. 1:41:07that in eie in eie yeah is there only
  2582. 1:41:09one there in
  2583. 1:41:11eie yeah I mean Primrose is like a chain
  2584. 1:41:13up the school but like there's another
  2585. 1:41:15one like in Thorton or something like
  2586. 1:41:16that but there's only one in E yeah
  2587. 1:41:19there was it was a teacher work day that
  2588. 1:41:20day so that's why they couldn't go
  2589. 1:41:21that's I was wondering I'm like so
  2590. 1:41:23Friday they would normally
  2591. 1:41:25go mhm okay they would normally go
  2592. 1:41:27that's why like I took that day off
  2593. 1:41:29because like you didn't have any daycare
  2594. 1:41:32cuz she was leaving so early and whatnot
  2595. 1:41:33but yeah we we just play around that day
  2596. 1:41:37and just like just I mean went to a
  2597. 1:41:38couple different places
  2598. 1:41:40and and do the kids go five days a week
  2599. 1:41:43there or how often did they go to oh
  2600. 1:41:46they yeah five days a week five days a
  2601. 1:41:47week and what is the normally time
  2602. 1:41:49normal time that they go from from like
  2603. 1:41:528
  2604. 1:41:53depending on when they kind of wake up
  2605. 1:41:55and get ready usually about 7:30 like 4
  2606. 1:41:587:30 to 4 yeah somewhere around there
  2607. 1:42:00and is this cuz um shenan is doing her
  2608. 1:42:03Thrive stuff and you're at work at the
  2609. 1:42:04oil field okay yeah it's like when
  2610. 1:42:07they're at school she can really
  2611. 1:42:08concentrate sure all that stuff right
  2612. 1:42:11now does she pretty much work from home
  2613. 1:42:13oh she work from anywhere but does she
  2614. 1:42:15normally work like from a computer at
  2615. 1:42:17home or she she just works from her
  2616. 1:42:19phone I mean she uses her computer but
  2617. 1:42:20she uses her phone mostly
  2618. 1:42:23me yeah I mean you can do anything from
  2619. 1:42:25those things it's crazy okay so you hang
  2620. 1:42:28out you guys are running errands Target
  2621. 1:42:30um grocery store that kind of stuff um
  2622. 1:42:32what time do you think you get home on
  2623. 1:42:35Friday probably
  2624. 1:42:41about I'd say probably about 430 or so
  2625. 1:42:45okay and do you guys do anything else
  2626. 1:42:46Friday night just normal things like you
  2627. 1:42:50know just getting ready for bed or have
  2628. 1:42:53dinner getting ready for bed type thing
  2629. 1:42:56okay did you talk to shenan that night
  2630. 1:42:59yeah yeah I'm pretty sure I did would
  2631. 1:43:02you have facetimed her with the girls or
  2632. 1:43:04oh no they when she's away and something
  2633. 1:43:07like that like we don't we don't
  2634. 1:43:08FaceTime the gr they would really react
  2635. 1:43:10to that oh cuz they'd be upset they'd be
  2636. 1:43:12upset yeah like Bella was asking a lot
  2637. 1:43:14about her okay so that she talk to them
  2638. 1:43:18like as far as on a phone call or no no
  2639. 1:43:20there was no contact between her and the
  2640. 1:43:22kids while she was gone just that's
  2641. 1:43:25normal like like like if she like like
  2642. 1:43:28last time there was a Thrive event that
  2643. 1:43:29was like she went to Canada and like it
  2644. 1:43:32was like do not talk to the girls like
  2645. 1:43:35they they would L like have like a
  2646. 1:43:37cryfest like you like I can't handle
  2647. 1:43:40that so well I mean she knows like like
  2648. 1:43:42it would really make her cry too mhm
  2649. 1:43:45okay it was to deal right so what time
  2650. 1:43:48do you think they go to bed on Friday
  2651. 1:43:49night
  2652. 1:43:53probably
  2653. 1:43:54about 9 NOA about 7:30 8:00 okay and
  2654. 1:43:59what did you do Friday night I went
  2655. 1:44:01downstairs and worked out and just kind
  2656. 1:44:04of chilled out around the house and so
  2657. 1:44:06your weight is in your basement yes okay
  2658. 1:44:10so you went and worked out and then what
  2659. 1:44:12how do you chill out like what do you
  2660. 1:44:13normally do Sports Center Sports Center
  2661. 1:44:15and just like there's a cool movie on to
  2662. 1:44:18watch or something like that and did you
  2663. 1:44:20have anyone over on Friday or any would
  2664. 1:44:23sto by or anything like that no okay and
  2665. 1:44:26then what happened Saturday morning
  2666. 1:44:29Saturday morning kind of the same thing
  2667. 1:44:32like
  2668. 1:44:34Bella Bella came in bed again like some
  2669. 1:44:36like when she wakes up she comes into
  2670. 1:44:38bed and just kind of lays next to me and
  2671. 1:44:40then just kind of waiting for cc to wake
  2672. 1:44:41up type thing and then I was going to go
  2673. 1:44:44to Costco that day but she said she just
  2674. 1:44:46do it when when she got back got back on
  2675. 1:44:49money to get some chicken or vegetables
  2676. 1:44:51and stuffff like that but I got most
  2677. 1:44:52everything from that clicklist the king
  2678. 1:44:54supers they was like hung out of the
  2679. 1:44:56house and played outside and before it
  2680. 1:44:59got too hot outside and just play in the
  2681. 1:45:02playroom and some things around the
  2682. 1:45:04house cuz it get so hot out there like
  2683. 1:45:05we couldn't go to the park because they
  2684. 1:45:06were doing like some drainage thing and
  2685. 1:45:08they had everything dug up and whenever
  2686. 1:45:10it does rain it just like puddles up
  2687. 1:45:12really high and it was just one of those
  2688. 1:45:14deals cuz you're were in a newer
  2689. 1:45:15neighborhood to that right
  2690. 1:45:18uh our house was built in 2013 oh okay
  2691. 1:45:21but there was already houses there I
  2692. 1:45:22think there was houses been there for a
  2693. 1:45:23little while oh okay mhm okay um so you
  2694. 1:45:28guys come in or you're hanging around
  2695. 1:45:30the house playing around the house so
  2696. 1:45:31what happens around dinner time so
  2697. 1:45:34McKenna or sorry Jeremy Lindstrom his
  2698. 1:45:37one of his daughters
  2699. 1:45:39McKenna uh watched the girls that night
  2700. 1:45:41I went to a Rockies game okay yeah who
  2701. 1:45:43you go the Rockies game with that was um
  2702. 1:45:46people from work and who did you go with
  2703. 1:45:49from work it was um so it was Co
  2704. 1:45:55and lot just cuz I don't know who these
  2705. 1:45:57people are oh yeah I was like Cody bah
  2706. 1:46:02and cuz it was a raffle that we had from
  2707. 1:46:04work oh okay so it was just it was a
  2708. 1:46:07work function but it was Cody bah and uh
  2709. 1:46:12Sam Sam Laro those two guys yeah okay so
  2710. 1:46:16just three of you guys went yeah yeah
  2711. 1:46:18and then I came home about 11 did they
  2712. 1:46:21win oh yeah was walk off free went home
  2713. 1:46:23running the bottom of the 9th nice so
  2714. 1:46:25this is Saturday night right Saturday
  2715. 1:46:27night so what time did you actually
  2716. 1:46:28leave to go to the Rockies game it was
  2717. 1:46:29like four 5:00 5:00 did the game start
  2718. 1:46:32at 7 or 6:10 610 stop and eat dinner or
  2719. 1:46:36yeah at a lazy dog at the lazy dog who
  2720. 1:46:38did you eat dinner with about the same
  2721. 1:46:40people oh okay yeah so got down there
  2722. 1:46:43the Rockies game came back about 11 or
  2723. 1:46:47so stopped by at the uh gas station next
  2724. 1:46:49to the house got some money from
  2725. 1:46:51McKenna gave it to her
  2726. 1:46:54what gas station is that uh the one
  2727. 1:46:56right by our house do you know what kind
  2728. 1:46:57it is or kico kco I think it's it's it's
  2729. 1:47:00next to a Pinocchio's Restaurant okay so
  2730. 1:47:04got is that ATM inside yes OB yeah okay
  2731. 1:47:08yeah so we got that um talk on the way
  2732. 1:47:10home from the Rockies game yeah did you
  2733. 1:47:13how did you get there and back with the
  2734. 1:47:16Alexis oh so did you pick up anyone on
  2735. 1:47:18the way did you give rides to anyone you
  2736. 1:47:21just met them down there yeah where were
  2737. 1:47:23your seats do you
  2738. 1:47:25remember it was on like the third
  2739. 1:47:27Baseline like good seats they're decent
  2740. 1:47:29first level kind like 10 rows up
  2741. 1:47:33probably or something like there nice it
  2742. 1:47:35was not too bad I how did you pay for
  2743. 1:47:36the raffle oh it was just like just
  2744. 1:47:38something to enter oh something to enter
  2745. 1:47:41in there but they always have something
  2746. 1:47:43like for a golf tournament I'm not a
  2747. 1:47:44golfer or anything like that but it was
  2748. 1:47:46just something to enter do you and your
  2749. 1:47:47like people you work with get together
  2750. 1:47:50every once in a while not I mean not not
  2751. 1:47:52mainly this is was just like a random
  2752. 1:47:53thing it was something I never went
  2753. 1:47:55anything so it was just like one of
  2754. 1:47:56those random things did you pick them to
  2755. 1:47:58go no they no I was I just I won that
  2756. 1:48:01one ticket all three of you won that
  2757. 1:48:03ticket yeah and did anyone else meet you
  2758. 1:48:05guys there from work or no no it was
  2759. 1:48:07just a random thing okay yeah but the um
  2760. 1:48:10when we got home I call shanan um I ask
  2761. 1:48:14how much to give McKenna and she was
  2762. 1:48:16like it's like I give her 60 you give
  2763. 1:48:17her 50 I like just give her 50 cuz like
  2764. 1:48:20okay want to overpay her I'm like okay I
  2765. 1:48:22get there and uh the expedition was
  2766. 1:48:25there I think that was that was Jeremy's
  2767. 1:48:28wife's car and uh I gave her the money
  2768. 1:48:32and girls were fine they were they ate
  2769. 1:48:34pizza that I order a pizza for him that
  2770. 1:48:36night for him like that and then then
  2771. 1:48:40after that I went inside went to bed and
  2772. 1:48:42then did it where the girls in bed oh
  2773. 1:48:44yeah yeah they were they were totally
  2774. 1:48:46passed out and was the mom there to help
  2775. 1:48:49McKenna or no I think she dropped off
  2776. 1:48:52the car I didn't see anybody in the car
  2777. 1:48:53when I pulled up oh McKenna can drive I
  2778. 1:48:56don't even know how old McKenna is she's
  2779. 1:48:57like she has her own car she had a Jeep
  2780. 1:48:59oh okay but they either I didn't see
  2781. 1:49:02anybody in the car as far as her mom was
  2782. 1:49:04but I think they dropped her car off so
  2783. 1:49:06like when I got home they could
  2784. 1:49:08just okay so and I hate to keep going
  2785. 1:49:11back to the rocket team but you were
  2786. 1:49:12with your co-workers there did you
  2787. 1:49:13mention to either of them about you know
  2788. 1:49:16issues that you having with your life or
  2789. 1:49:18anything like that are these not those
  2790. 1:49:19typ of people that you would talk to
  2791. 1:49:21like that no nothing like that that
  2792. 1:49:23nothing at all like that cuz like it's
  2793. 1:49:25that's personal type things I don't I
  2794. 1:49:27didn't want like people at work really
  2795. 1:49:29knowing like anything that I'm going
  2796. 1:49:30through mhm only person I really told my
  2797. 1:49:33foreman just because like you know if is
  2798. 1:49:36that who is that Luke Apple okay and
  2799. 1:49:38what did you tell him I just told him
  2800. 1:49:39like you know like I wanted him to be
  2801. 1:49:41aware like if if he felt like my mind
  2802. 1:49:43was not on task that like you know tell
  2803. 1:49:47me and just send me home type thing if
  2804. 1:49:49you cuz like at work when you're there
  2805. 1:49:52like you need to be because there's so
  2806. 1:49:53much pressure like
  2807. 1:49:55around I mean like I mean not like PR
  2808. 1:49:58like Wellhead pressure that kind of
  2809. 1:50:00pressure yeah you you stand in front of
  2810. 1:50:02like
  2811. 1:50:04a like a master valve or like a needle
  2812. 1:50:07valve that could be open or something
  2813. 1:50:08like
  2814. 1:50:09that so like you don't want to be like
  2815. 1:50:11100 lounds to kill
  2816. 1:50:13you but I mean like I work around stuff
  2817. 1:50:16that has like so did he ask you why
  2818. 1:50:18would your mind not be right I told him
  2819. 1:50:20like you know my wife and I you know
  2820. 1:50:22we're going through a few things right
  2821. 1:50:23now and that like you know separation
  2822. 1:50:26has been on the table like I want you to
  2823. 1:50:28know like I'm going to be my mind's
  2824. 1:50:30going to be on task and I want I wanted
  2825. 1:50:32him to know like you know if you see
  2826. 1:50:35like anything that I'm doing that you
  2827. 1:50:37don't like just let me know cuz I want
  2828. 1:50:41my foreman he's the one that's going to
  2829. 1:50:42like he's the one's ging my performance
  2830. 1:50:44reviews he's going to be he's my boss is
  2831. 1:50:46he out there when you're working and
  2832. 1:50:47stuff he's in the office mainly but he's
  2833. 1:50:50one of the foremen that likes to go out
  2834. 1:50:52to the field so he may see you out there
  2835. 1:50:54yeah oh yeah like he likes to like if he
  2836. 1:50:56has like meetings or whatnot like he
  2837. 1:50:58likes to or when when he's done with
  2838. 1:51:00meetings he likes to get out yeah so
  2839. 1:51:02what was his reaction to you when you
  2840. 1:51:03told him that he like just you know just
  2841. 1:51:06let me know if anything happens and like
  2842. 1:51:08you know like I'll I won't tell anybody
  2843. 1:51:11on the team or anything like our team
  2844. 1:51:13cuz like that's that's personal issues
  2845. 1:51:15so like you know I'll just keep me in a
  2846. 1:51:17loop okay Ty de and when you get home
  2847. 1:51:20from the rocky game both girls are in
  2848. 1:51:21their own bed oh always sleep in their
  2849. 1:51:23own bed oh yeah do they have separate
  2850. 1:51:25bedrooms yes Jo bathroom okay Jack Jack
  2851. 1:51:28and de okay so tell me about um Sunday
  2852. 1:51:30morning when you wake up so Sunday
  2853. 1:51:33morning we uh wake up like like normal
  2854. 1:51:36like
  2855. 1:51:37Bella actually goes into Cece's room and
  2856. 1:51:40wakes her up this time so it happens but
  2857. 1:51:44uh yeah so that happens and then we go
  2858. 1:51:47downstairs and watch buffal Guppies and
  2859. 1:51:49stuff like that and uh I put in bed a
  2860. 1:51:53little early that day
  2861. 1:51:55because Jeremy's son uh Kaden called
  2862. 1:51:59buddy he's uh turned 4 wait are you
  2863. 1:52:03talking about Sunday 9 already no it's
  2864. 1:52:05like Sunday afternoon oh you put him in
  2865. 1:52:07bed for a nap oh okay okay time yeah
  2866. 1:52:10they have a nap in the middle of the day
  2867. 1:52:12that's the best yeah yeah okay so they
  2868. 1:52:14um we go over there after a nap I wake
  2869. 1:52:17him up we go straight there what time is
  2870. 1:52:19that you
  2871. 1:52:20think so the part of at 1: I woke him
  2872. 1:52:23about 12:30 that deal did you guys have
  2873. 1:52:25a present for this little guy or how'd
  2874. 1:52:28you get the present oh we went to Target
  2875. 1:52:30that day I got him a little dinosaur car
  2876. 1:52:32okay so earlier before their n Target
  2877. 1:52:36okay when got the dinosaur car do you go
  2878. 1:52:38anywhere else besides
  2879. 1:52:40Target M okay no not that Sunday no okay
  2880. 1:52:45like as we got back it was about that
  2881. 1:52:47time and they had some for like that
  2882. 1:52:49little early launch I had some cold they
  2883. 1:52:50wanted cold pizza so that was their view
  2884. 1:52:53it was a left pizza left over from the
  2885. 1:52:54other night okay so they ate that and
  2886. 1:52:58they went took a
  2887. 1:52:59nap and then after that we went to
  2888. 1:53:02Jeremy's house and we gr there from like
  2889. 1:53:06115 to like probably 4:3 5:00 out there
  2890. 1:53:11it was like I didn't know it was going
  2891. 1:53:12to be like a water balloon like pool
  2892. 1:53:14thing that a little mini pool out there
  2893. 1:53:16water balloons and
  2894. 1:53:18everything what do you mean that like he
  2895. 1:53:20didn't bring SL I I no I didn't have SLS
  2896. 1:53:22shoes with me or anything like that so
  2897. 1:53:24like it was uh you just get their
  2898. 1:53:26clothes wet yeah okay time to they love
  2899. 1:53:29that oh oh see CeCe loves loves just
  2900. 1:53:32getting in the water Bella was more like
  2901. 1:53:34taking the water balloons out and just
  2902. 1:53:35like you know spraying them everywhere
  2903. 1:53:38type deal okay so you get home about
  2904. 1:53:41what time you think about 4:30 5:00 okay
  2905. 1:53:45so what happens after that um
  2906. 1:53:47immediately just put them in the shower
  2907. 1:53:49and try to wash them off cuz they had
  2908. 1:53:51you know sand and everything cuz they
  2909. 1:53:52had little sandbox over there like with
  2910. 1:53:53their
  2911. 1:53:55playground and uh so I just put them in
  2912. 1:53:57the shower immediately just wash them
  2913. 1:53:58off they can usually like wash their
  2914. 1:54:00hair by themselves and whatnot so so are
  2915. 1:54:02you in the shower with them I'm on the
  2916. 1:54:04outside on the outside yeah I'm just
  2917. 1:54:05like I let them kind of do their thing
  2918. 1:54:07and wash them up and everything and get
  2919. 1:54:09them dried off put some lotion on
  2920. 1:54:11pajamas go downstairs they we pizza
  2921. 1:54:13again so cold pizza what kind of pajamas
  2922. 1:54:17did you put on them uh just night gos
  2923. 1:54:19what do those look
  2924. 1:54:21like it's probably I think Celeste had
  2925. 1:54:25like a pink one with like
  2926. 1:54:27little like a drawing of like a bird or
  2927. 1:54:30something like that okay and uh
  2928. 1:54:35Bella it might have been one that said
  2929. 1:54:37like B on
  2930. 1:54:39it
  2931. 1:54:42or it was a multicolored one might had a
  2932. 1:54:45unicorn on it okay they had so many of
  2933. 1:54:46those M gos and is it a dress or they p
  2934. 1:54:49in no no no no it's like a dress like
  2935. 1:54:52yeah it just kind of like falls down to
  2936. 1:54:53their knee it's hot so they sleep hot
  2937. 1:54:55they sweat like crazy okay do they take
  2938. 1:54:57their their pajamas off at all during
  2939. 1:55:00the night no nor shei has a a nighttime
  2940. 1:55:04diaper she she a nighttime diaper but
  2941. 1:55:06she I mean as far as getting hot and
  2942. 1:55:08stuff they don't like strip their
  2943. 1:55:09clothes off in the middle of the night
  2944. 1:55:11because they get hot or anything no or
  2945. 1:55:13do they no they I've never seen them do
  2946. 1:55:15that unless they have pants on like if
  2947. 1:55:17they have like a like they like their
  2948. 1:55:19mermaid pajamas that have like a T-shirt
  2949. 1:55:21and pants they'll take that off the
  2950. 1:55:23shirt part the pants Oh the pants yeah
  2951. 1:55:25cuz they get so hot right so the
  2952. 1:55:29[Music]
  2953. 1:55:30uh I've never heard that yet that noise
  2954. 1:55:34that butt behind
  2955. 1:55:36you is that what was be no I just like
  2956. 1:55:39maybe it was like that getting hit or
  2957. 1:55:41something like that no I wasn't touching
  2958. 1:55:43it no in another room I they always have
  2959. 1:55:46that yeah I'll have that um okay so you
  2960. 1:55:49get them in their pajamas um feed him
  2961. 1:55:51dinner f FaceTime uh shannan's parents
  2962. 1:55:55so not shenan just her parents yeah her
  2963. 1:55:57parents perfect yeah so they uh they
  2964. 1:55:59FaceTime them for a little while and
  2965. 1:56:02after that they sit on their couch they
  2966. 1:56:04have a mini mouth one cc has a Minnie
  2967. 1:56:06moue couch and Bella has a Sophia the
  2968. 1:56:08First his couch and they chill there and
  2969. 1:56:10gave him a little snack and ceste has
  2970. 1:56:13some vanilla wafers Bella has some chips
  2971. 1:56:15and then they each wanted a switch after
  2972. 1:56:18they were done
  2973. 1:56:19so sorry uh Bella had the wait for after
  2974. 1:56:23that and see if she had some like cheit
  2975. 1:56:24or something like that
  2976. 1:56:27okay and then after that just brushed
  2977. 1:56:31her teeth and got them ready for bed and
  2978. 1:56:34they both use a potty and like they
  2979. 1:56:35normally
  2980. 1:56:36do and put them in bed okay do they
  2981. 1:56:39normally go to bed right away or well
  2982. 1:56:41they they lay in bed like they don't get
  2983. 1:56:43out like once the rain machines are on
  2984. 1:56:45and lights are out like Bella came out
  2985. 1:56:47twice that time just cuz she knew like
  2986. 1:56:50shanan was coming home like I told her
  2987. 1:56:51like right she'll be home Monday M type
  2988. 1:56:54thing cuz like Shan's not going to just
  2989. 1:56:56go in there and wake her up at like in
  2990. 1:56:57the middle of the night type thing so
  2991. 1:56:59like I told her should be her she knew
  2992. 1:57:01like you wake up yeah she knew like time
  2993. 1:57:03yet like she comes out like she home yet
  2994. 1:57:06like no baby just when you wake up okay
  2995. 1:57:08when you wake up okay about two about
  2996. 1:57:11two times she came out asking about that
  2997. 1:57:13but Celeste hasn't she hasn't done that
  2998. 1:57:16yet so as far as um you said you talked
  2999. 1:57:19to shenan at least one time to ask about
  3000. 1:57:21how much pay McKenna yeah did you talk
  3001. 1:57:23to shenan any other time oh yeah like
  3002. 1:57:26during the day Sunday okay and how was
  3003. 1:57:28that it was just fun just talking about
  3004. 1:57:30the kids and like you know texting back
  3005. 1:57:32and forth I don't have much signal over
  3006. 1:57:33at Jeremy's house there's like a dead
  3007. 1:57:35zone on e parkway over there somewhere
  3008. 1:57:37did you send her pictures of the kids
  3009. 1:57:39party and stuff like that okay and was
  3010. 1:57:41she was she happy about that was she I
  3011. 1:57:43miss I miss that type thing you know mm
  3012. 1:57:47yeah like I seen I said her pictures
  3013. 1:57:48while like while she was gone what about
  3014. 1:57:50like phone calls did you guys have any
  3015. 1:57:51phone
  3016. 1:57:52call yeah we have proba yeah we had a
  3017. 1:57:54few I couldn't call her over there cuz
  3018. 1:57:56it was bad signal area I barely get the
  3019. 1:57:58text messages
  3020. 1:58:00out you didn't call her at Jeremy CU
  3021. 1:58:02that your yeah I I couldn't but the
  3022. 1:58:04other time like Saturday night oh yeah
  3023. 1:58:06like everything yeah we just you know
  3024. 1:58:08talked that's how everything went and
  3025. 1:58:09everything like that and once I got him
  3026. 1:58:11home like on after the after the party
  3027. 1:58:14and got to bed and everything told you
  3028. 1:58:15know B was like she knows you're coming
  3029. 1:58:17home and she like she's ready and
  3030. 1:58:18everything and she was texting me like
  3031. 1:58:21about like cuz the power went out I
  3032. 1:58:22guess in Arizona because to the dust
  3033. 1:58:24storms and her friend Addy and Cindy
  3034. 1:58:27like they paid for dinner and stuff like
  3035. 1:58:28that
  3036. 1:58:29and um yeah Nicole and her were at the
  3037. 1:58:32airport and add's plane got delayed and
  3038. 1:58:36they're hoping theirs weren't getting
  3039. 1:58:37delayed but ended up getting delayed so
  3040. 1:58:39what like if you could have taken her
  3041. 1:58:41pulse then like how was she as far as
  3042. 1:58:44communicating with you was she you know
  3043. 1:58:46like same old shenan or was she still
  3044. 1:58:49kind of upset or I mean it's kind of
  3045. 1:58:52hard to tell through through that those
  3046. 1:58:54texts but like she was ready to get home
  3047. 1:58:56and see the girls just be home but as
  3048. 1:58:59far as her relationship with you how did
  3049. 1:59:01that feel to you I mean it it felt I
  3050. 1:59:03mean it felt like she did when she left
  3051. 1:59:05like it felt like you know like she was
  3052. 1:59:07like in that state of mind to where like
  3053. 1:59:11okay she decided to be home like maybe
  3054. 1:59:13she
  3055. 1:59:15like it's kind of hard to really to tell
  3056. 1:59:17but through a text but like she wanted
  3057. 1:59:19to get home and see us because she' been
  3058. 1:59:22she had been away like she when she Liv
  3059. 1:59:23in North Carolina for 6 weeks and then
  3060. 1:59:25she comes home for 2 days and goes to
  3061. 1:59:26Arizona like she only been home for like
  3062. 1:59:282 days and 6 and 1/2 week span so she
  3063. 1:59:32was just ready to be home be with us and
  3064. 1:59:34just kind of like just be around us
  3065. 1:59:37mhm
  3066. 1:59:39so what time was she originally supposed
  3067. 1:59:41to be home 11: 11: yeah okay um so
  3068. 1:59:45obviously that gets delayed till yeah
  3069. 1:59:46whenever yep uh she got home she didn't
  3070. 1:59:49get home till like 2: she didn't leave
  3071. 1:59:51there till like 11: I think they're an
  3072. 1:59:52hour behind Okay in Phoenix okay at this
  3073. 1:59:56time of year they don't did she text you
  3074. 1:59:57when she landed or I did you know no she
  3075. 2:00:00text me that it was delayed and I think
  3076. 2:00:02she texted me when she took off but she
  3077. 2:00:04didn't text me when she landed I just
  3078. 2:00:06felt her like get in bed okay and you
  3079. 2:00:09said that was around two you think and
  3080. 2:00:11you know there was a doorbell thing is
  3081. 2:00:13that what you said at 148 mhm it's
  3082. 2:00:15described the doorbell thing so it's got
  3083. 2:00:17like whenever like a proximity like she
  3084. 2:00:19walks up like a motion thing yeah okay
  3085. 2:00:22and now is that tied to like a home
  3086. 2:00:24security system or is it just a a single
  3087. 2:00:27doorbell thing the doorbell like records
  3088. 2:00:30it on to the uh our control panel so
  3089. 2:00:35it's all tied together yeah like garage
  3090. 2:00:37alarms yeah everything window whatever
  3091. 2:00:40well there's no windows but just like
  3092. 2:00:42there's a living room like motion thing
  3093. 2:00:44and a basement motion and like we have
  3094. 2:00:46uh open and shut uh sensors on the
  3095. 2:00:49basement door and the sliding rear slide
  3096. 2:00:52door and obviously the front door and
  3097. 2:00:55both garage doors so is it anytime
  3098. 2:00:57they're open or just if they're Next
  3099. 2:00:59stend Period of time so like uh if one
  3100. 2:01:02if the door is left open it after a
  3101. 2:01:04certain amount of time it'll say U the
  3102. 2:01:07front door at 2825 s of Trail has been
  3103. 2:01:10left open so did it alert you that she
  3104. 2:01:13was outside using the keypad to get in
  3105. 2:01:16when she got home or no it just it
  3106. 2:01:18picked her up walking up to the door and
  3107. 2:01:20did it alert you that
  3108. 2:01:22when I saw it the next morning it wasn't
  3109. 2:01:25enough that it woke you up no it's very
  3110. 2:01:28like a faint like type thing and what's
  3111. 2:01:31the living room one what's that for it's
  3112. 2:01:33just a motion detector like if like you
  3113. 2:01:35set alarm to away like you know nobody's
  3114. 2:01:37going to be in the house that's you know
  3115. 2:01:39stuff like that it'll pick that up and
  3116. 2:01:41set alarm off does it is it on when
  3117. 2:01:44you're home though no like we if you
  3118. 2:01:47said it to a away while you're home
  3119. 2:01:48you're just going to check the alarm
  3120. 2:01:50okay so you don't have any of those like
  3121. 2:01:52active I guess when you're well it's
  3122. 2:01:54it's always active but it's not set to
  3123. 2:01:56you can set the away and stay or
  3124. 2:01:58disarmed but it's still going to pick it
  3125. 2:02:00up oh okay like it'll like if you look
  3126. 2:02:02on my phone like go to the viven app
  3127. 2:02:04it'll show you like uh living room
  3128. 2:02:07motion detected so and I guess so just
  3129. 2:02:10for my own knowledge did you actually
  3130. 2:02:12look at that obviously when she went
  3131. 2:02:14missing and the girls did you look at
  3132. 2:02:16your living room alarms and that I mean
  3133. 2:02:18to see if there was stuff going on it
  3134. 2:02:20doesn't like cuz we had so many like
  3135. 2:02:23like doorbell trips cuz it was messing
  3136. 2:02:25up so much as far as like little things
  3137. 2:02:27setting it off it only I can only go to
  3138. 2:02:29the history so far so you don't pay for
  3139. 2:02:32the cloud storage for that no okay did
  3140. 2:02:35is that an option uh they had never
  3141. 2:02:37given it to me okay but like so how far
  3142. 2:02:39did it go
  3143. 2:02:41back this is I'm not sure how many like
  3144. 2:02:44different
  3145. 2:02:45like events that it can store like it'll
  3146. 2:02:48have notifications you can scroll a bell
  3147. 2:02:50it eventually just ends not sure how
  3148. 2:02:52long they'll actually keep it so when
  3149. 2:02:54you when this all happened did you look
  3150. 2:02:56on there and it like the only thing that
  3151. 2:02:58I saw that was really strange was that
  3152. 2:03:00uh when I left it said uh the garage do
  3153. 2:03:02stayed
  3154. 2:03:04open and no so if that was on there at
  3155. 2:03:085: whatever in the morning right
  3156. 2:03:11wouldn't the other stuff still be there
  3157. 2:03:12too that happened after like if there
  3158. 2:03:14was Motion in the living room or the
  3159. 2:03:16basement or whatever it should have been
  3160. 2:03:17the only thing there was like a basement
  3161. 2:03:20door left open and garage door left open
  3162. 2:03:23oh when was the basement door left open
  3163. 2:03:25it was about the same time 5:27 yeah it
  3164. 2:03:28was like it like wasin a
  3165. 2:03:33minute and then what was the other one
  3166. 2:03:35did you say that garage door left
  3167. 2:03:38open was the basement door open when you
  3168. 2:03:41went back not that I
  3169. 2:03:43remember like when I got there
  3170. 2:03:44everything was shut cross door shut
  3171. 2:03:46basement door
  3172. 2:03:48shut what like you go out to the
  3173. 2:03:51basement like the basement no oh it's a
  3174. 2:03:55garden level okay so there's like the
  3175. 2:03:58windows I mean it you can you can see
  3176. 2:03:59the backyard it's not like one of the
  3177. 2:04:01ones that's like a normal one where it's
  3178. 2:04:03like a
  3179. 2:04:03deep like a deep dive like where you you
  3180. 2:04:06have to look up to see like the the the
  3181. 2:04:08level of the grass so what's the
  3182. 2:04:10basement door then I guess oh so the
  3183. 2:04:12basement door is like when you walk in
  3184. 2:04:15the like you walk into the house through
  3185. 2:04:16the garage and then as you're walking to
  3186. 2:04:19the living room you take a right and
  3187. 2:04:20then that's the basement door that leads
  3188. 2:04:22down in the basement oh do that door
  3189. 2:04:25have an alarm that has a sensor that
  3190. 2:04:28tells you when it's open because you can
  3191. 2:04:30since a garden level basement the
  3192. 2:04:31windows I mean you could I mean you can
  3193. 2:04:34walk you can walk into like the the
  3194. 2:04:37backyard and you can open a window you
  3195. 2:04:39don't have to dip down you just open a
  3196. 2:04:42window and you can walk in type
  3197. 2:04:45thing so there's an alarm on
  3198. 2:04:48theor door because because like you
  3199. 2:04:51could I mean an intruder came in through
  3200. 2:04:52the window yeah like stuff like that
  3201. 2:04:55okay okay and that one went off too like
  3202. 2:04:58was that before the garage or after the
  3203. 2:05:00garage which one was first one was at
  3204. 2:05:02526 one was at 527 I think the 527 one
  3205. 2:05:06was the garage and the 526 was basement
  3206. 2:05:08left
  3207. 2:05:10open H you get those a lot or do you
  3208. 2:05:13guys do you guys even hang out in the
  3209. 2:05:14basement usually or I'm usually down
  3210. 2:05:17there just for like work out but I
  3211. 2:05:19didn't work out that morning so like I'm
  3212. 2:05:21it definitely wasn't open when I left
  3213. 2:05:26mhm okay sorry got off track um you're
  3214. 2:05:31fine
  3215. 2:05:33so she the the ring doorbell goes to
  3216. 2:05:37your phone like how do you get log into
  3217. 2:05:39that system your it's just an app it's
  3218. 2:05:41just an app what what is the app called
  3219. 2:05:44and does she have that app as well y
  3220. 2:05:46okay she said should be on the phone is
  3221. 2:05:48it your login is it her lo you guys have
  3222. 2:05:51oh it's her login y so is it her email
  3223. 2:05:54and password what is her email uh shenan
  3224. 2:05:57watch gmail.com okay do you know what
  3225. 2:05:59her password is for that it should be
  3226. 2:06:01like 428 4915 capital s overas w say
  3227. 2:06:05that one more time uh 428 4915 capital S
  3228. 2:06:09lowercase w okay is that what she uses
  3229. 2:06:11for other stuff or yes okay
  3230. 2:06:15yes her go-to password yeah it's a fult
  3231. 2:06:18number okay okay um um oh that makes
  3232. 2:06:22sense so it's a phone number not hers
  3233. 2:06:25but it's a phone number right okay so I
  3234. 2:06:28know like I have a ring door bell and
  3235. 2:06:30like our flag will shut it off sometimes
  3236. 2:06:31you know yeah that's why I I took my
  3237. 2:06:33flag down because like it kept like
  3238. 2:06:35after we had like the camera reset cuz
  3239. 2:06:37it wasn't working for a little bit it
  3240. 2:06:38was picking up I thought it was a flag
  3241. 2:06:41but like it wasn't it was like picking
  3242. 2:06:44up just like the tree moving around and
  3243. 2:06:47push like a like a branch or something
  3244. 2:06:49or the Shadow or like yeah I
  3245. 2:06:52that too so um have you is that the
  3246. 2:06:55system that was installed in the home
  3247. 2:06:56when you moved in or is that something
  3248. 2:06:58that you guys installed when did you
  3249. 2:07:00guys install
  3250. 2:07:02that I would guess two years ago two
  3251. 2:07:05years ago okay I think so are you
  3252. 2:07:07completely asleep when she gets home yes
  3253. 2:07:09do you hear her like I feel her I felt
  3254. 2:07:12her like get in but as far as like did
  3255. 2:07:14you um what she's putting away her
  3256. 2:07:17luggage you know like like me I'm crazy
  3257. 2:07:20about I need to unpack like the second I
  3258. 2:07:22get home no matter it was really late
  3259. 2:07:24but like I don't no you don't think she
  3260. 2:07:26was unpacking suitcases or whatever you
  3261. 2:07:28think she just like stairs her suitc is
  3262. 2:07:31still there okay yeah okay um so she
  3263. 2:07:36she's one that would wait till the next
  3264. 2:07:37morning when she woke up and her
  3265. 2:07:39suitcase thing okay do

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