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Change Your Brain: Neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Huberman | Rich Roll Podcast — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Hey everybody, welcome to the podcast.
  2. 0:02My guest today is Dr. Andrew Huberman.
  3. 0:05Andrew is a neuroscientist.
  4. 0:07He's a Neurobiology Professor at Stanford Medical School
  5. 0:11and McKnight Foundation and Pew Foundation Fellow
  6. 0:15and the founder of Huberman Lab, where he's involved
  7. 0:17in all kinds of really amazing breakthrough research
  8. 0:19on brain function, brain plasticity and brain regeneration.
  9. 0:24His work has been published in top journals like Nature.
  10. 0:27He's been featured in publications
  11. 0:29like Time, Scientific America and the BBC.
  12. 0:31And he's here today to discuss the brain,
  13. 0:34to discuss growth mindset, how to focus,
  14. 0:37how to navigate the stressful times and many other subjects.
  15. 0:42It's an incredible conversation.
  16. 0:43I think you guys are gonna enjoy it.
  17. 0:45I appreciate you watching
  18. 0:47make sure to hit that subscribe button
  19. 0:48and without further ado, this is me
  20. 0:51and Dr. Andrew Huberman.
  21. 1:00First of all, thanks for doing this.
  22. 1:01I appreciate you coming out.
  23. 1:03Yeah, my pleasure. Long time coming.
  24. 1:04I'm glad we're doing it in person-
  25. 1:05Likewise. And not remotely.
  26. 1:07And I think what I wanna do is start with your origin story,
  27. 1:14because you're a very,
  28. 1:15it's your path is very unlikely,
  29. 1:16your path to becoming a scientist.
  30. 1:19And I think it actually also kind of contextualizes
  31. 1:22some of the things that I wanna talk about with you today.
  32. 1:25So maybe start there.
  33. 1:26Sure, so on the one hand, you know,
  34. 1:30maybe I was faded to become a scientist.
  35. 1:33I guess the two things that are relevant there
  36. 1:36are I always loved animals
  37. 1:38and I've always been obsessed with animal behavior.
  38. 1:41Like just could watch Cousteau shows growing up, you know
  39. 1:45underwater life or animals hunting, animals doing anything.
  40. 1:50It's just so fascinating to me because I'm, I think even
  41. 1:53at a really young age, I've always just been intrigued
  42. 1:54in sort of what drives different animals to behave
  43. 1:57in the way they do and how body form matches to,
  44. 2:00I didn't know what it was,
  45. 2:01but brains and how that all works.
  46. 2:03So I've always been obsessed with animals.
  47. 2:07And then my dad's a scientist, so he's a physicist.
  48. 2:11It was really early in chaos theory.
  49. 2:13And so growing up in our home, you know, we had scientists
  50. 2:17over for dinner and graduate students would come over
  51. 2:20for barbecues and things like that.
  52. 2:21Is he a Stanford professor?
  53. 2:22Yeah, he was at Stanford.
  54. 2:24He was mostly at Xerox Park, which is kind of famous
  55. 2:27if you read the Steve Jobs book is for the, yeah.
  56. 2:29The development of the gooey interface
  57. 2:30the graphical user interface
  58. 2:32and sort of early days of the computer.
  59. 2:33So he had a lab there and he had a lab in applied physics
  60. 2:35at Stanford and something called symbolic systems
  61. 2:38which is a Stanford degree
  62. 2:39in kind of ecology and computation, that kind of thing.
  63. 2:42So I grew up in this family where science was very prominent
  64. 2:46and we had lots of discussions
  65. 2:49in our home that I would overhear
  66. 2:50and I didn't understand about physics and we'd spend summers
  67. 2:54at the Aspen Center for Physics, which was like-
  68. 2:56Good times. Yeah, so, you know,
  69. 2:58and we were, and to be clear, you know,
  70. 3:00you hear the word Aspen, you know,
  71. 3:01we were a middle-class family
  72. 3:03but they have this Aspen Center for Physics.
  73. 3:04So the Feynman, you know, Richard Feynman was there,
  74. 3:07Murray Gell-mann,
  75. 3:08like all these luminaries of physics, Peter Carruthers.
  76. 3:11And my dad was really good at telling me the stories
  77. 3:13about these guys and then I'd always wanna meet them.
  78. 3:16And it was mostly guys back then,
  79. 3:16there weren't many women in physics.
  80. 3:18So I, you know, I was kind of immersed in science
  81. 3:21from a young age, but right about age 13,
  82. 3:26my parents split up.
  83. 3:27And he moved overseas, he moved to Denmark
  84. 3:30and my mom was really struggling with the breakup
  85. 3:34and I wasn't in contact with him anymore.
  86. 3:36So I had this really unusual childhood where, you know,
  87. 3:40we didn't talk about sports, we talked about science,
  88. 3:42and I had this close relationship with science
  89. 3:43and the people around science
  90. 3:45but then all of a sudden the structure around family
  91. 3:48like instead of dinners together every night,
  92. 3:50it was just like me and my mom
  93. 3:52and I was an adolescent, I was hitting puberty.
  94. 3:54So, you know, there was bound to be some shifts
  95. 3:57in my world landscape and internal landscape anyway.
  96. 4:01But basically what happened was, I stopped
  97. 4:03really paying attention to school.
  98. 4:05And I got really heavily into skateboarding
  99. 4:07and the kind of punk rock music.
  100. 4:08And I found my pack or my community
  101. 4:12through like packing community of kids
  102. 4:14that also just were kind of parentless.
  103. 4:16So this was like late 80s, early 90s.
  104. 4:19And so at a pretty young age, I started taking the,
  105. 4:21I grew up in Palo Alto.
  106. 4:22I was actually born at Stanford Hospital.
  107. 4:25I started taking the seven F bus up to San Francisco
  108. 4:27and hanging around in Embarcadero.
  109. 4:29For the skateboarders out there, the Lizards,
  110. 4:31this is the the now famous EMB crowd.
  111. 4:35So this was the birth of a huge movement
  112. 4:38of skateboarders that became professionals.
  113. 4:40Like, so you'd see the young Danny Way
  114. 4:42would come through town and you had Rob Dyrdek.
  115. 4:45I remember when he came through.
  116. 4:47So all these names that eventually became popular
  117. 4:50during the kind of X games era and the,
  118. 4:53but at that time it was really underground.
  119. 4:54And so it was this pack of maybe a hundred guys
  120. 4:58and it was run like a little city and it was chaos.
  121. 5:01It was like there was fights,
  122. 5:03and there was drinking and there was lawlessness,
  123. 5:06there was also a lot of amazing skateboarding
  124. 5:08and there were a lot of amazing people.
  125. 5:09And there were some older guys,
  126. 5:12like one in particular, a very famous skateboarder,
  127. 5:15is this kid, Mike Carroll,
  128. 5:16his older brother was kind of like the older brother
  129. 5:18to everybody, kind of kept us all in check.
  130. 5:20So it had its own unique organization.
  131. 5:22And it's actually interesting
  132. 5:24'cause the same thing was happening at that time
  133. 5:25in Washington Square Park in New York,
  134. 5:27and at Love Park in Philadelphia, there were all these
  135. 5:30like communities of kids that were basically parentless.
  136. 5:33And so in that time I saw some interesting things.
  137. 5:35First of all, I learned what it was to be parentless.
  138. 5:37Growing up in Palo Alto,
  139. 5:39it was like soccer games and AYSO and you know,
  140. 5:42swim club and all of a sudden I realized, you know,
  141. 5:45I don't have to be home at any particular time,
  142. 5:47or, you know, none of these kids are going to school.
  143. 5:51And so we all, it was kind of a big group of truants.
  144. 5:54And it was interesting because it gave me a perspective
  145. 5:58that I had never had in Palo Alto.
  146. 6:00And I was drifting further and further away
  147. 6:02from any kind of academic rigor.
  148. 6:05I think I would go to school every once in a while.
  149. 6:08What's mom doing?
  150. 6:09Does she have any idea
  151. 6:10that you're going up to the city every day?
  152. 6:11So she was totally checked out.
  153. 6:13You know, I think she was just devastated
  154. 6:15by a bunch of things that were happening
  155. 6:17and she lapsed into a pretty serious depression.
  156. 6:20And then in that community, what was interesting is,
  157. 6:24I started seeing that, you know, some guys were clearly
  158. 6:26faded to becoming professional skateboarders.
  159. 6:28They were really good at it.
  160. 6:30I just wanna say for full disclosure,
  161. 6:31I was not particularly good.
  162. 6:32I kept getting injured.
  163. 6:34I just, I was not faded to be, you know, exceptional
  164. 6:38or very good at it, but I love the comradery
  165. 6:40and I love the community, but I also noticed that, you know,
  166. 6:43some people were drinking all day and other people got
  167. 6:46into hard drugs and people started to, you know,
  168. 6:49some of the dysfunction really started to show up.
  169. 6:51Yeah, the fracture.
  170. 6:52Yeah, the fracture. Begins.
  171. 6:54Exactly, and so,
  172. 6:56and I started seeing that, lot, a lot more violence.
  173. 7:00You know, people start getting their girlfriends pregnant.
  174. 7:02They didn't have money to support those kids.
  175. 7:03You know, it started becoming apparent to me
  176. 7:05that there was a lot of dysfunction
  177. 7:07as well as a lot of incredible people in that community.
  178. 7:10And so about that time, I got a girlfriend,
  179. 7:13and the other thing was I got removed from high school.
  180. 7:16So I went to kind of the famed/infamous high school
  181. 7:19in Palo Alto, Gunn High School.
  182. 7:20Oh, you went to Gunn.
  183. 7:21I went to Gunn, which is famous because it's the,
  184. 7:24one of the most academically rigorous schools
  185. 7:27in the country, maybe the planet,
  186. 7:29people moved to the area just to send their kids there.
  187. 7:32But it also has this very complicated reputations
  188. 7:35of the highest suicide rate of any school in the country.
  189. 7:38The New York Times has written about this.
  190. 7:40So, you know, I would come to school every once in a while
  191. 7:43but I could tell you far more about the curbs
  192. 7:44in the front of the Gunn High School parking lot
  193. 7:46than I could about anything that I learned at Gunn.
  194. 7:49So when they say they, you were removed,
  195. 7:51I mean, you got, you were expelled.
  196. 7:53No, I basically, they just said,
  197. 7:54you need to either start coming to school or, you know-
  198. 7:57You're done. Or you're done.
  199. 7:58So I got shifted to another high school
  200. 8:00and that was same story.
  201. 8:02It was just was, it was a mess, it just fell apart.
  202. 8:04And so at one point I was brought in, I have a kind
  203. 8:09of vague recollection of this, but I was brought in
  204. 8:10to have a discussion with a school counselor.
  205. 8:13And I don't think I've ever told this story before.
  206. 8:15And there was someone sitting in the corner,
  207. 8:18this guy was sitting in the corner
  208. 8:19and he didn't introduce himself.
  209. 8:21And pretty soon I realized when I was like,
  210. 8:23I think they're gonna take me away.
  211. 8:25Like I started realized, 'cause they realized my mom
  212. 8:27wasn't really able to control me.
  213. 8:29Wasn't really in a place to support me at that time.
  214. 8:34And that's what they did.
  215. 8:36They took me away.
  216. 8:37They took me into a place up the peninsula,
  217. 8:38which was not a jail and it wasn't a hospital.
  218. 8:42It was just sort of a place where they put kids
  219. 8:44that were- Like some kind of
  220. 8:45GV warehousing situation?
  221. 8:47Yeah, a lot of psychologists,
  222. 8:50lot of locks on doors, lot of,
  223. 8:52lot of kids that, there were 12 of us in there
  224. 8:55at any one time, it was locked down.
  225. 8:59And the first night there,
  226. 9:01I remember I had a roommate who was like really
  227. 9:03into cutting on himself, that kind of thing.
  228. 9:06And he told me, he was like, "Look, if you just
  229. 9:08do what they say here, you'll be outta here in like a month.
  230. 9:11And if you don't, you're gonna be here a very long time."
  231. 9:13And I remember being pretty frightened for the first time.
  232. 9:18And at that point I was like,
  233. 9:20oh my goodness, like, this is bad.
  234. 9:22You know, like, this is bad.
  235. 9:24I'm a long way. It's so hard for me
  236. 9:25to imagine. I know, I know.
  237. 9:27This given you know, who you are and what you do now.
  238. 9:30I know and you know, and it was literally like the kind
  239. 9:32of one phone call a day kind of thing.
  240. 9:34So actually I called I was skateboarding for a company
  241. 9:36in San Francisco.
  242. 9:37I think they put me on out of sympathy
  243. 9:39and I called this guy up and I said, "Look, I've, you know,
  244. 9:43they locked me up, I don't know what to do.
  245. 9:44Can you help me?"
  246. 9:45And he get, and I'll never forget,
  247. 9:47I wanna say his name because you're the most normal guy
  248. 9:49I know.
  249. 9:51Well, he's like-
  250. 9:52The least likely of that crowd.
  251. 9:54Exactly. For that to happen.
  252. 9:55So, in any event, I was permitted to go back to school
  253. 9:58eventually, provided that I went to therapy.
  254. 10:01And so I started going to weekly therapy
  255. 10:04which in the early 90s was kind of a weird thing.
  256. 10:07You would, wouldn't admit it to your friends
  257. 10:08but tweets skateboard around Stanford campus.
  258. 10:11I was doing my thing and then twice a week
  259. 10:13I would go in and see this therapist.
  260. 10:15He's a remarkable guy because A,
  261. 10:18he had deep training in the mind, right?
  262. 10:20And we started talking about what was going on.
  263. 10:22And he really picked up on the fact
  264. 10:24that there was essentially no structure,
  265. 10:25no home life for me, but that I had a strong drive,
  266. 10:29and I was really interested in learning.
  267. 10:31I mean, I was, I was enthusiastic and motivated enough to,
  268. 10:34you know, skateboard as hard as I could,
  269. 10:36even though I wasn't gonna go anywhere with it.
  270. 10:38So at that point, and the fact that I had a girlfriend,
  271. 10:41I started looking for something that I could do.
  272. 10:45And I started at one point
  273. 10:48I thought I'd join the fire service,
  274. 10:49'cause it seemed like the comradery was good.
  275. 10:51At that point, I started strengthening my body a bit
  276. 10:53because I didn't wanna keep getting hurt.
  277. 10:55So I started running, I started lifting weights,
  278. 10:57a football coach at Gunn actually turned me on to fitness.
  279. 11:01It's actually an interesting guy.
  280. 11:02He wrote the script for that movie "Mr. Mom,"
  281. 11:05Oh my God.
  282. 11:06Yeah, because his wife bet him
  283. 11:08that he couldn't do what she could do,
  284. 11:10which was stay home with the kids.
  285. 11:11And he was this big strong football coach.
  286. 11:13And so he made her a bet and he lost.
  287. 11:15And so he wrote that script Michael Keaton played the, yeah.
  288. 11:18So he taught me, he was like, look, you know
  289. 11:20you can't even do a pull up.
  290. 11:21You need to start doing your pull-ups and you start running
  291. 11:23you know, and he said, the fire service
  292. 11:25might be good for you.
  293. 11:26So, I was spinning out, but there were people
  294. 11:28that were willing to kind of, you know,
  295. 11:30point me in the right direction.
  296. 11:32So what ended up happening was my high school girlfriend
  297. 11:34went off to college and I didn't, you know,
  298. 11:38I didn't know what I was gonna do.
  299. 11:39So I actually went and I lived in the parking lot
  300. 11:41outside her dormitory. I just wanted to be near her.
  301. 11:44She was my family at that point.
  302. 11:46A college locally or?
  303. 11:47She was at UC Santa Barbara.
  304. 11:48So you just drove down and-
  305. 11:50I just drove down and I just camped out in the parking lot
  306. 11:52and people, and I was starting to get into some martial arts
  307. 11:56and Thai boxing then.
  308. 11:57So I think I was teaching some Thai boxing,
  309. 11:59self-defense stuff on campus and doing this kind of thing.
  310. 12:03And by the end of that year, I realized
  311. 12:05that I should probably apply to college.
  312. 12:07So I applied to UCSP and somehow I got in,
  313. 12:11Lord knows how I got in.
  314. 12:12I did, 'cause I did eventually graduate high school, barely.
  315. 12:16Got in, and then after a year I just completely flailed it.
  316. 12:20You know, I wasn't going to class.
  317. 12:21I was getting into fights, a lot of that kind of mischief
  318. 12:25and kind of wildness was still in me.
  319. 12:28And what ended up happening was,
  320. 12:31I got into a physical altercation on July 4th, 1994
  321. 12:35with like a bunch of guys.
  322. 12:37And at the end of that, I walked back to the place
  323. 12:40I was staying, and of course I wasn't paying rent
  324. 12:43because I had learned in those years,
  325. 12:44like you can just squat in an empty house.
  326. 12:46So, you know, it's Isla Vista California, you know?
  327. 12:47So I was really running wild and went back
  328. 12:51and just I realized I was like, this picture is really bad.
  329. 12:55You know, at some point,
  330. 12:56this isn't gonna be like a kid who had some problems,
  331. 12:58this is gonna be,
  332. 13:00truly. It's not cute anymore.
  333. 13:01It's not cute anymore And no one,
  334. 13:02no one's gonna make excuses about your upbringing
  335. 13:05or the lack of parenting.
  336. 13:07It just becomes, you just, you're gonna end up
  337. 13:10being a ward of the state.
  338. 13:11I mean, you were, it sounds like you were,
  339. 13:12you were almost a feral animal.
  340. 13:14Totally feral.
  341. 13:15Actually, and I have some close friends
  342. 13:19that's how they they referred to me, that feral.
  343. 13:21And it's funny even to this day, I mean,
  344. 13:24I'll get to where this eventually took me.
  345. 13:25But even to this day, when I go into a home
  346. 13:28where it's clearly like a loving home
  347. 13:30where there's kids are happy
  348. 13:32and there's good food and it's warm and cozy
  349. 13:34I always feel this thing like, wow, like amazing.
  350. 13:37Like I sort of wanna be adopted by them immediately,
  351. 13:40but you know, I'm 45 years old
  352. 13:42so that's not appropriate at this age.
  353. 13:43What's so interesting,
  354. 13:44I keep thinking about David Epstein's book "Range."
  355. 13:48Did you read this book?
  356. 13:49Which is basically this thesis
  357. 13:52that some of the most successful people are not,
  358. 13:56you know, we suspect that, you know,
  359. 13:58the great talents of the world across all disciplines
  360. 14:02are the people who discover their passion at an early age
  361. 14:05and practice it voraciously for many, many, many years.
  362. 14:08But in fact, it's people more like yourself,
  363. 14:11who've dabbled in all different kinds of things
  364. 14:14who end up being ultimately, you know,
  365. 14:16the most proficient at their selected skillset.
  366. 14:19And when I look at your experience,
  367. 14:22I see trauma, I see adventure,
  368. 14:25I see, you know, all these obstacles that you've had to face
  369. 14:28and overcome and manage on your own essentially, right?
  370. 14:31And all of those really informed perfectly
  371. 14:34the things that you're interested in
  372. 14:35and what you explore today in your lab.
  373. 14:38Yeah, it really did.
  374. 14:39You know, I think that I'm so grateful for those years.
  375. 14:42I wouldn't wish them on any kid,
  376. 14:44because I think having a secure, loving environment
  377. 14:46at home is so key.
  378. 14:47And, you know, I should say about a third of the kids
  379. 14:49that I grew up with in that environment,
  380. 14:51that whole skateboarding, punk rock culture,
  381. 14:52about a third have gone on to found companies
  382. 14:54or professional skateboarders,
  383. 14:56about a third just kind of drifted off
  384. 14:59and about a third are dead or incarcerated.
  385. 15:01You know, a huge number.
  386. 15:02And so there's real value in having a support system,
  387. 15:06that's clear, but it exposed me
  388. 15:08to all these things like addictions, schizophrenia, rage,
  389. 15:11like all these incredible elements.
  390. 15:13Like I was never really into drinking and drugs.
  391. 15:14I could drink or not drink.
  392. 15:16It just wasn't, I wasn't drawn to it, but other people
  393. 15:18they took one sip and it was like, that was their thing.
  394. 15:20It was like the magic elixir for them.
  395. 15:22And so, you know, I was observing what was happening.
  396. 15:26And then after that, you know, that July 4th '94 incident
  397. 15:29was, I realized this is it, you know, it's now or never.
  398. 15:33It really was one of those moments.
  399. 15:35You know, you hear about those moments
  400. 15:36but it was me realizing I'm living in this squat
  401. 15:39where I've got a pet ferret.
  402. 15:40My girlfriend's gone, she broke up with me.
  403. 15:42She was smart enough to break up with me, you know,
  404. 15:44I'm getting in fights, I'm working at a bagel shop.
  405. 15:47I'm barely making ends meet.
  406. 15:49And at that point I just made the decision.
  407. 15:50I just said, okay, look,
  408. 15:52I'm not gonna be a professional athlete.
  409. 15:55I think I'm pretty good at memorizing things.
  410. 15:58I think I have an interest in people,
  411. 16:01I'm going to just decide, I just decided to do school.
  412. 16:06I decided that was the, that was the track.
  413. 16:07And so like, some people pick the military
  414. 16:09because it's like, if you know what to expect
  415. 16:11at least in terms of the, you know,
  416. 16:13the passages that you're gonna go through.
  417. 16:16And for me that was school.
  418. 16:17And so I had decided, get back in school.
  419. 16:20I moved into a studio apartment by myself.
  420. 16:23I quit partying completely, I didn't go to parties.
  421. 16:25I got really serious about fitness.
  422. 16:28So I just started running and lifting weights and I studied.
  423. 16:32You went like Henry Rollins style.
  424. 16:34I did.
  425. 16:35Yeah.
  426. 16:37I did. It's a lot of self-awareness
  427. 16:38you know, I mean, people go into the military
  428. 16:39because on some level, I mean,
  429. 16:40some people do because they're, there's some yearning
  430. 16:42for having that structure imposed upon their lives.
  431. 16:45But you constructed that kind of structure for yourself.
  432. 16:51Yeah, I think I was really afraid.
  433. 16:53I think I was like, you know, and I and these days,
  434. 16:55you know, 'cause of my lab studies fear
  435. 16:57and I get into this whole thing around mindsets
  436. 16:59and people always ask me like,
  437. 17:00is it better to do something from a place of love or fear?
  438. 17:02Like depends.
  439. 17:03And at that point, fear was the best motivator for me.
  440. 17:06And I just basically worked like crazy.
  441. 17:10And it's interesting because I didn't have a mentor
  442. 17:14or someone to bring me to that.
  443. 17:15But once I started doing that, you know,
  444. 17:18there was one professor in particular who took note,
  445. 17:21he was like, "Oh, you know,
  446. 17:21you seem really interested in this stuff."
  447. 17:22And I was like, yeah, 'cause he was teaching me
  448. 17:24about depression, schizophrenia, neuro-chemicals.
  449. 17:27I thought, I was totally turned on
  450. 17:28by the world of neuroscience.
  451. 17:30It didn't, it wasn't even called neuroscience back then.
  452. 17:32But this one guy, Harry Carlisle
  453. 17:34he was teaching me about thermal regulation
  454. 17:36and how the brain works and how receptors
  455. 17:38in the skin relate to perceptions in the mind.
  456. 17:41And he also had a deep sensitivity to mental disease.
  457. 17:45And I'd seen a lot of that, you know,
  458. 17:47I'd seen a lot of depression and anxiety in my own family.
  459. 17:51I had had a friend commit suicide.
  460. 17:54Another friend becomes schizophrenic.
  461. 17:55I think he's still walking the mission district
  462. 17:57of San Francisco now.
  463. 17:59Seeing some friends become addicts.
  464. 18:00And so here was someone explaining that there's actually
  465. 18:04an underlying basis for this.
  466. 18:06And I just poured myself into it.
  467. 18:08Is that the same guy who, you know,
  468. 18:11would smoke underneath the vacuum hood and stuff like that?
  469. 18:14Like a bit of an (indistinct).
  470. 18:16Yeah, he was amazing.
  471. 18:17So he was a favorite teacher of many students,
  472. 18:20but if you could get into his lab
  473. 18:22then you were kind of one of the chosen ones I guess.
  474. 18:25He's like the perfect mentor at the perfect time for you.
  475. 18:28Yeah, so he used to drink coffee in lab
  476. 18:29which you're not supposed to do.
  477. 18:31He's just smoke cigarettes in lab in the fume hood.
  478. 18:34And they used to come and yell at him
  479. 18:35and he would do it anyway.
  480. 18:36And I thought, you know, this guy
  481. 18:38he doesn't even know what it is, but you know,
  482. 18:39he's a punk rocker and he doesn't even know.
  483. 18:41And so, you know,
  484. 18:43he gave me an opportunity to work in his lab.
  485. 18:44And at some point he told me, if you go to graduate school
  486. 18:47they'll actually pay you to do science.
  487. 18:49And what ended up happening at that point
  488. 18:51was I hit a brick wall because I was,
  489. 18:53I had a lot of resentment toward my dad.
  490. 18:55I felt, you know, here's my dad.
  491. 18:57He was a scientist, he had, you know,
  492. 18:58left us all this kind of thing.
  493. 19:00And I realized if I didn't do this,
  494. 19:02if I didn't take this opportunity,
  495. 19:04it was going to be the most foolish thing ever.
  496. 19:05You know, what am I gonna do to spite my, you know,
  497. 19:08my parents, you know, I was 20 years old at that point.
  498. 19:12So I just made the decision.
  499. 19:13I'm gonna get a PhD and become a professor.
  500. 19:16I'm going to get tenure and be like this guy, you know
  501. 19:19this guy who has looked like he had a pretty good life
  502. 19:21to me, and so that's pretty much how I spent the, you know
  503. 19:24the last 25 years of my life is doing experiments.
  504. 19:27It worked out.
  505. 19:28It worked out, is it, a lot of work,
  506. 19:30I mean, I didn't have the power of concentration.
  507. 19:32I hadn't read all the good books that Gunn High School
  508. 19:34students read growing up.
  509. 19:35I had to learn how to speak properly.
  510. 19:38I learned how to, learn how to think properly
  511. 19:41and really learn how to commit to something
  512. 19:44that was very linear and at times was very painful.
  513. 19:47And I went to some pretty extreme things.
  514. 19:49I, you know, I actually used to set a timer
  515. 19:53and I wouldn't allow myself to get out of the chair
  516. 19:55until I was, the timer went off.
  517. 19:57So, and I would experience extreme agitation
  518. 20:00but over time I got pretty good.
  519. 20:02And now I can do long stints of work without any breaks.
  520. 20:05And yeah, it worked out.
  521. 20:08It developed that neuroplasticity
  522. 20:10in your favor, ultimately.
  523. 20:12You're always a reader though, right?
  524. 20:14I loved books.
  525. 20:14So I would, you know, I would hide
  526. 20:17in the tower books section in the evenings
  527. 20:21and I would read everything about fitness, psychology,
  528. 20:25anything I could, I've always devoured information.
  529. 20:27My favorite book when I was a kid was the "Encyclopedia,"
  530. 20:29or the "Guinness Book of World Records."
  531. 20:31So I was like, when I was a little kid,
  532. 20:32I'd walk around the Aspen Center for Physics.
  533. 20:34And I would tell anyone, I didn't even ask them,
  534. 20:36if they want to hear about like the,
  535. 20:37what's the world's smallest ethereum mammal.
  536. 20:40You know, I would like, it could tell you all these facts
  537. 20:41that were kind of meaningless at the time,
  538. 20:43but I've always been fascinated
  539. 20:45by the inventory of different animals on the planet
  540. 20:48and their different behaviors.
  541. 20:49And so yeah, voracious reader and still now.
  542. 20:53I love, I love information.
  543. 20:55Well, as a neuroscientist, I mean,
  544. 20:58you're your own patient.
  545. 20:59I mean, the fact that you were able to, you know,
  546. 21:02turn your life around in such a dramatic fashion
  547. 21:05and do it essentially through sheer will and you know
  548. 21:08setting up practices that would feel you,
  549. 21:11you in that right direction,
  550. 21:12and then being available when those mentors
  551. 21:14showed up from the, from the, you know,
  552. 21:16the early therapist, sounds like that guy
  553. 21:19almost saved your life, right?
  554. 21:20He absolutely saved my life.
  555. 21:21He gave me the book, "Wherever You Go, There You Are"
  556. 21:24the Jon Kabat-Zinn book.
  557. 21:25And he said, no pressure, but if you can develop
  558. 21:28a mindfulness practice where you can sit still
  559. 21:31for like 10 minutes a day, it'll serve you very well.
  560. 21:34So I started doing that.
  561. 21:35Like he could've, he could've told me to hang out
  562. 21:37of a window by my ankles, I would have done it.
  563. 21:38I think there was a, there was a self preservation thing
  564. 21:41was kicking in for me.
  565. 21:43So I got very interested in mindfulness meditation.
  566. 21:45He also, it was, I think, quite smart in saying,
  567. 21:49look there's a whole world of psychedelic drugs
  568. 21:52that are powerful in influencing the mind.
  569. 21:55He said, "If you're going to explore those,
  570. 21:58wait until your brain has already developed,"
  571. 22:00which I think is a controversial statement in and of itself.
  572. 22:03He, so he actively discouraged me to go down that path,
  573. 22:09which I think was the right thing,
  574. 22:10given I was a minor, you know,
  575. 22:12and nowadays there's all this discussion now
  576. 22:14about psychedelics and their power.
  577. 22:15And I think they are very interesting compounds
  578. 22:17but he really steered me towards behavioral practices.
  579. 22:20Like what could I do each day from waking up
  580. 22:22to going to sleep that would serve my mental health
  581. 22:25and my productivity well.
  582. 22:27I owe him a tremendous amount.
  583. 22:29And especially because he wasn't just
  584. 22:31in the psychoanalytic theory,
  585. 22:33he also was like cognitive behavioral.
  586. 22:35He understood the power of practices
  587. 22:36not just discussing issues.
  588. 22:38Yeah, to begin a meditation practice at that age
  589. 22:41in the mid 90s, that's pretty radical.
  590. 22:45Yeah, I felt it was funny 'cause I thought
  591. 22:48if I didn't sit in the lotus position
  592. 22:50like I wasn't doing it properly, you know,
  593. 22:51back then there was all this stuff around,
  594. 22:53it was very mystical and in my family
  595. 22:55'cause my dad's very conservative
  596. 22:57and my mom was a little bit more of a free spirit.
  597. 23:00I was taught that anything that related to hippie culture
  598. 23:03was doomed to fail and cause problems.
  599. 23:05And then anything that was related
  600. 23:07to like conservative culture was faded
  601. 23:09to advance the progress of humanity.
  602. 23:11It turned out neither one was true, of course.
  603. 23:14So I, but I needed people to push me in those directions,
  604. 23:18lift weights, run, meditate,
  605. 23:21do your schoolwork, do your homework.
  606. 23:23And so I think I, you know, now I have a good relationship
  607. 23:26with my parents, but I think I had to go out
  608. 23:28into the world and find those, you know, sort of paternal
  609. 23:32and maternal figures because they weren't in my home.
  610. 23:35I needed to find those.
  611. 23:36Do you look back on your upbringing with gratitude?
  612. 23:40Like how do you reflect on that experience
  613. 23:42and how it informs how you think about what you do now?
  614. 23:46I'm immensely grateful for it because you know,
  615. 23:50where I'm at today is, you know, my lab works on a number
  616. 23:52of issues related, you know, sort of hardcore neurobiology
  617. 23:55of regenerating the brain, you know, trying to fix,
  618. 23:58basically cure blindness and repair visual systems,
  619. 24:01but also things related to, you know, fear, courage,
  620. 24:03mindset, stress, anxiety, trauma, et cetera.
  621. 24:06And the early seed of seeing how science is done,
  622. 24:10definitely gave me an advantage.
  623. 24:11I won't lie, you know, I seeing how scientists interact
  624. 24:15and behave and understanding that they are just people.
  625. 24:18'Cause a lot of what was discussed in my home was
  626. 24:20about the people, not just the science they do,
  627. 24:23that really gave me an advantage.
  628. 24:26And then seeing all that dysfunction and realizing
  629. 24:29that the human animal is amazing at making plans,
  630. 24:33at modifying its brain if it wants to, but the human brain
  631. 24:37and the human animal are also dreadfully bad
  632. 24:40at doing what's best for us.
  633. 24:43Because of this, what I think it comes down to is the fact
  634. 24:46that our reward systems are not designed
  635. 24:49for things that are just good for us.
  636. 24:51They're designed for things that optimize the progression
  637. 24:53of our species, but they're also, they will grab on to
  638. 24:57and ratchet into any behavior that makes us feel good.
  639. 25:01And so the human brain is really not optimized
  640. 25:05for making best choices.
  641. 25:07And so, those years of seeing all that.
  642. 25:09I could testify to that.
  643. 25:10Yeah, it's and it's, I wouldn't trade those years
  644. 25:14for anything.
  645. 25:15And I still have great friends in that community.
  646. 25:17I mean, I think, you know, any, had I joined
  647. 25:21a different community, I would have found the right people
  648. 25:23as well, but to be with a, you know, a huge pack
  649. 25:26of feral kids at that age
  650. 25:28and to see the function and dysfunction
  651. 25:31and also it was wild, it was a lot of fun.
  652. 25:33I can imagine. It was a lot of fun.
  653. 25:36That's a whole set of stories
  654. 25:37for another time. Did you see that movie,
  655. 25:38"Mid 90s?"
  656. 25:39"Mid 90s" and the movie "Kids", the Larry Clark movie.
  657. 25:42When I saw that movie, first of all, I had a lot
  658. 25:45of friends that were in that movie
  659. 25:45'cause he used actual skateboarders.
  660. 25:47In "Kids?"
  661. 25:48Yeah, I actually knew a couple of those kids
  662. 25:51and you know, it's a movie, but there are a lot of things
  663. 25:55about that movie they're very accurate.
  664. 25:57And when I saw that movie
  665. 25:58I was like, yeah, that's like right.
  666. 26:00Pretty much a day in the life in Washington Square Park.
  667. 26:02And you know, I mean it was a little extreme on some end
  668. 26:06but you didn't know where you're gonna end up each night.
  669. 26:08And that was a unique experience, you know?
  670. 26:10So yeah, and "Mid 90s" was really good.
  671. 26:13I think it captured the essence of what it is to be a kid
  672. 26:15that's just looking for some group of people to join.
  673. 26:20And skateboard is a unique sport because you get young kids
  674. 26:23and grown men and now women and girls do it as well.
  675. 26:26It didn't happen so much then, but now there are a lot
  676. 26:28of great, awesome skateboarders that are female
  677. 26:31but they're all hanging out together.
  678. 26:33You wouldn't find that in soccer.
  679. 26:34You're not gonna get little kids playing with grown men.
  680. 26:36So you get exposed to a lot 'cause everyone's
  681. 26:39at develop, different developmental stages.
  682. 26:41But yeah, it was an amazing thing.
  683. 26:43I wouldn't change it for anything.
  684. 26:44Cool, well, let's segue into talking about the brain
  685. 26:49and maybe we could start with, you know,
  686. 26:51how you think about the brain specifically?
  687. 26:53Like, what is the brain, what does it do?
  688. 26:55What does it not do?
  689. 26:56You know, it helps us survive.
  690. 26:58It's our portal into trying to make sense of the world.
  691. 27:02Like what's the starting point
  692. 27:04in the discussion around the brain?
  693. 27:06Yeah, so the brain and nervous system, which
  694. 27:10so it's like brain spinal cord connections
  695. 27:12with the body and back in.
  696. 27:13I don't distinguish between brain and mind.
  697. 27:15I think that's like an 80s discussion or earlier.
  698. 27:18And I think it would take us down the wrong track.
  699. 27:21So brain or mind to me is interchangeable.
  700. 27:24Mind, body, is kind of interchangeable
  701. 27:26because the brain is connected to the body
  702. 27:29and the body is connected to the brain, right?
  703. 27:30If I, you know, pinprick my hand and it hurts
  704. 27:33my brain registers it where it happens
  705. 27:35it's kind of an irrelevant discussion.
  706. 27:37I think we really need to just appreciate
  707. 27:38that the nervous system is designed
  708. 27:41to orchestrate all the processes in the body
  709. 27:43not just thinking and not just behavior
  710. 27:45and really can be divided into five things.
  711. 27:47So there's sensation and sensation is really bound
  712. 27:52or restricted by the receptors in the body.
  713. 27:54So receptors in the eye that perceive photons, light energy
  714. 27:58per se, receptors in the skin that perceive pressure
  715. 28:02you know, touch receptors, smell, taste, hearing, et cetera.
  716. 28:06And the interesting thing about sensation and the fact
  717. 28:08that the nervous system needs to pay attention
  718. 28:10to sensation is it's non-negotiable.
  719. 28:13The nervous system of humans is designed
  720. 28:14to extract physical phenomenon from the universe
  721. 28:17that are non-negotiable, photons of light.
  722. 28:19I can't see in the infrared with my eyes
  723. 28:22and I can't see ultraviolet light with my eyes.
  724. 28:24And I can't perceive that
  725. 28:26because I don't have the receptors for it.
  726. 28:28So, you know, other animals can perceive
  727. 28:31some of those things
  728. 28:32but that leads us to the next thing, which is perception
  729. 28:34which is which sensations are you paying attention to.
  730. 28:36So all the time you're sensing things like right now
  731. 28:39your feet are sensing the contact with your shoes,
  732. 28:41but you're not thinking about it until I say that.
  733. 28:43And then you shift your perception.
  734. 28:45So perception is like the spotlight.
  735. 28:47So the brain wants to constantly bring in sensation.
  736. 28:50It's non-negotiable what's coming in.
  737. 28:51It's just dependent on your environment
  738. 28:53Perception is negotiable, you can control that.
  739. 28:55'Cause I just said shoes
  740. 28:56and you thought about your feet and there you are.
  741. 29:00Then there are feelings which can be a little bit nebulous
  742. 29:03but feelings are a link between our emotion
  743. 29:06and generally invokes the body,
  744. 29:08sensations in the body and concepts in the mind
  745. 29:11and what those sensations are about.
  746. 29:12That's really what emotions are.
  747. 29:14Animals definitely experience them.
  748. 29:16I'm kind of appalled to think that 10 years ago
  749. 29:18people like, do animals have emotions?
  750. 29:20Of course they have emotions, right?
  751. 29:22Because those are bodily sensations merged
  752. 29:24with some perceptions, so of course they do.
  753. 29:27And then there's thoughts and thoughts are interesting
  754. 29:29because thoughts happen spontaneously.
  755. 29:31Think about like a web browser
  756. 29:32that's constantly giving you pop-ups
  757. 29:35but thoughts can also be deliberate.
  758. 29:36So you and I can decide right now that we're gonna think
  759. 29:39about a plan for something or we're gonna think
  760. 29:41about what's going on in the world.
  761. 29:43So thoughts happen spontaneously and they can be deliberate.
  762. 29:46And then the final thing is behaviors and actions.
  763. 29:49So the nervous system is responsible for sensation,
  764. 29:51perception, feelings, thoughts, and behaviors.
  765. 29:55And what's interesting,
  766. 29:56we start to think about that as you're like, okay
  767. 29:58that's a lot, but what is the nervous system
  768. 30:00really trying to accomplish?
  769. 30:02Like on any given day or at any moment,
  770. 30:04what's it trying to accomplish?
  771. 30:05And it's really trying to accomplish one thing
  772. 30:07which is to take perceptions of the outside world
  773. 30:11and merge those with perceptions of the inside world
  774. 30:14what we call interoception and to link those in a way
  775. 30:18that's operating on an environment in the appropriate way.
  776. 30:21So what do I mean by that?
  777. 30:22So if I'm feeling anxious,
  778. 30:24and I'm in a very calm environment, I'm gonna perceive
  779. 30:27that rapid heart rate and kind of feeling of agitation
  780. 30:29in my body as inappropriate for the moment, right?
  781. 30:33And my goal then as an organism is to adjust
  782. 30:36my level of what they call autonomic arousal
  783. 30:39or alertness down.
  784. 30:40If I'm in a great party or I'm at a wedding
  785. 30:43or it's a celebration or I'm at a protest or, you know,
  786. 30:47then I might feel that my level of alertness
  787. 30:50is appropriate for my environment.
  788. 30:51So the nervous system is in this constant,
  789. 30:53dynamic interaction with the outside world
  790. 30:56and trying to figure that out.
  791. 30:58One way and this can be kind of conceptualized
  792. 31:00is there's an emerging idea that's kind of interesting
  793. 31:03about impatience.
  794. 31:04So we've all had the feeling of being impatient.
  795. 31:07Some people are far more patient than others,
  796. 31:09but if you've ever been in line at the store
  797. 31:12and you feel like something's going very slowly, you know,
  798. 31:14the person in front of you is taking a long time,
  799. 31:16they're doing some returns, you're getting kind
  800. 31:17of impatient, maybe you're breathing in a mask,
  801. 31:19and you're like, ah, like you're, you know,
  802. 31:22what's the ideas that if you're getting a certain frequency
  803. 31:26of pulses from your body,
  804. 31:28and if those pulses are coming in quickly,
  805. 31:30like you're perceiving yourself that interoception quickly,
  806. 31:33it's like pulse, pulse, pulse, pulse.
  807. 31:35You're gonna be more geared
  808. 31:36towards your internal representation.
  809. 31:38And then you're seeing what's going on in the outside world.
  810. 31:41And it seems like it's going very slowly,
  811. 31:43but there are other times when you're in line at the store,
  812. 31:45someone's getting some returns and you're texting
  813. 31:47on your phone or you've had a great day,
  814. 31:48you've had a great run, your family's in great shape,
  815. 31:50and you're fine, why?
  816. 31:52Well, that frequency of those pulses, that interoception,
  817. 31:55is matched pretty well to your outside environment.
  818. 31:59And so impatience is really when your internal
  819. 32:03sort of metronome, tick, tick, tick, tick,
  820. 32:05is not matched well to the external environment.
  821. 32:09There are other times when you're feeling
  822. 32:11like your internal metronome is tick, tick, tick,
  823. 32:14and you've got a million things coming at you through email
  824. 32:17or texts, you've got a bunch of things and you're feeling
  825. 32:19overwhelmed and tired.
  826. 32:20Well, in either case there's nothing right or wrong
  827. 32:24it's just your body and your brain are trying to say
  828. 32:27what's going on in the outside world,
  829. 32:28and how well matched am I to it?
  830. 32:30Right.
  831. 32:31So if you think about some of the, sort of core practices
  832. 32:36of mindfulness and self-regulation of like focusing
  833. 32:39on breathing or focusing on, you know, state of mind,
  834. 32:43a lot of that is trying to bring more awareness
  835. 32:45to your internal state,
  836. 32:47but what our brain is normally doing when our eyes are open
  837. 32:51and we're interacting in the world
  838. 32:52is we're constantly trying to update our internal state
  839. 32:54to match external demands of the world.
  840. 32:57And this hearkens back to a, you know,
  841. 32:59like a really early design of all nervous systems
  842. 33:03which is how do you take an organism that needs
  843. 33:05certain things, food, water, mates, reproduction, shelter.
  844. 33:10How do you move that organism?
  845. 33:12How do you create a system that will do that
  846. 33:14in best relation to the environment?
  847. 33:16And so what mother nature has done is designed a system
  848. 33:20a series of systems.
  849. 33:22Let's just take agitation and stress for one,
  850. 33:24if an animal or a human is very thirsty
  851. 33:27you feel kind of agitated might get up
  852. 33:28and get a drink of water.
  853. 33:30If you're very thirsty,
  854. 33:31it can put you into a state of panic.
  855. 33:33If you're extremely thirsty and water is a limited resource
  856. 33:36you might even result the violence to get it
  857. 33:38or negotiation of some sort that you wouldn't
  858. 33:40if you were calmer.
  859. 33:41So the stress and agitation were designed
  860. 33:44to actually mobilize the body
  861. 33:46to take us into the direction of something that's adaptive.
  862. 33:49So you can start to see these kind of core elements
  863. 33:52of what the brain and nervous system do.
  864. 33:55Sensation, perception, feeling, thought, and action
  865. 33:57and this constant challenge
  866. 34:00of trying to match our internal state
  867. 34:02to the external real estate, the outside world.
  868. 34:04And you start to see that the sensations that we call stress
  869. 34:07or impatience or calm are really the result
  870. 34:11of those attempts that the nervous system
  871. 34:13is trying to perform.
  872. 34:16That's a lot to take in and super interesting.
  873. 34:20And it, you know, it's prompting in me this,
  874. 34:26you know, attempt to try to wrap my head around
  875. 34:29what within the brain is mutable, which is kind of, you know
  876. 34:33what your work is all about versus what is immutable
  877. 34:36like you were talking about thoughts
  878. 34:37like pop up windows on a browser.
  879. 34:40You know, some, sometimes our brains are just doing
  880. 34:43what they do and that there are things that we can do
  881. 34:45like mindfulness and breath work
  882. 34:47and the practices that you're talking about,
  883. 34:48hypnosis which is another thing that you're involved in
  884. 34:53to help, you know, help us like take better,
  885. 34:55manage better that process to kind of take the reins
  886. 35:00and be more in charge rather than be prey or victim
  887. 35:04to these kinds of things that just occur
  888. 35:07without our conscious awareness.
  889. 35:09Well, I think that, you know,
  890. 35:12in terms of value of understanding the nervous system
  891. 35:14and where it can be steered,
  892. 35:16it's absolutely clear that the nervous system can change
  893. 35:18in response to experience.
  894. 35:20So this thing we call neuroplasticity is really that,
  895. 35:23it's the brain's ability to modify itself
  896. 35:24in response to experience.
  897. 35:25And I think it's important to understand that from birth
  898. 35:28till about age 25, the brain is extremely malleable,
  899. 35:31in a kind of almost passive way where kids are exposed
  900. 35:34to things and the brain is just wiring up.
  901. 35:36I mean, the brain is designed to adjust itself,
  902. 35:39in order to be in concert with its surroundings
  903. 35:43and to optimize that just the way we described it
  904. 35:45a minute ago.
  905. 35:46Like a way that a child can learn a language
  906. 35:47very quickly- Or three languages.
  907. 35:48Play a guitar or something like that.
  908. 35:49Yeah, without an accent, you know,
  909. 35:51three languages without an accent, it's remarkable
  910. 35:53and try and do that after age 25, it's very challenging.
  911. 35:57And so the brain is basically designed to be customized
  912. 36:01in the early part of life,
  913. 36:03and then to implement those algorithms
  914. 36:05in that circuitry for the rest of your, of its life.
  915. 36:07And so the brain can change in adulthood
  916. 36:10and it can change provided that there's an emphasis
  917. 36:14on some perceptual event.
  918. 36:16So in other words, if you wanna change your brain
  919. 36:19as an adult, let's say you wanna be less anxious,
  920. 36:22you wanna learn a new language,
  921. 36:23you wanna be more functional in some way, presumably,
  922. 36:27the key thing is to bring focus
  923. 36:30to some particular perception
  924. 36:32of something that's happening during the learning process.
  925. 36:35And the reason for that is that
  926. 36:37there's a neurochemical system involving acetylcholine.
  927. 36:40And it comes from these two little nuclei
  928. 36:42down in the base of the brain called the nucleus basalis.
  929. 36:46All day long you're doing things in a reflexive way,
  930. 36:49but when you do something and you think about it
  931. 36:51very intensely, acetylcholine is released from basalis
  932. 36:55at the precise neurons that were involved in that behavior
  933. 36:58and it marks those for change
  934. 37:00during sleep or during deep rest later.
  935. 37:03So for people that wanna change their brain,
  936. 37:05the power of focus is really the entry point
  937. 37:08and the ability to access deep rest and sleep.
  938. 37:11Because most people don't realize this
  939. 37:13but neuroplasticity is triggered by intense focus,
  940. 37:16but neuroplasticity occurs during deep sleep and rest.
  941. 37:19And we can talk about how to optimize
  942. 37:21those different brain functions.
  943. 37:23One of the things that's really important
  944. 37:24also to think about how the brain works
  945. 37:25in terms of plasticity and all this stuff
  946. 37:27is what the brain really wants to do is also pass as much
  947. 37:31of what it does off to reflexive behavior as possible.
  948. 37:35So, when we're talking about focus
  949. 37:37I think it can get a little bit vague,
  950. 37:39but it might be useful to think about like
  951. 37:41what exactly is focus and what triggers plasticity?
  952. 37:45So the brain loves to be able to just do things,
  953. 37:47pick up coffee cups and drink and walk
  954. 37:50and talk and do things and not put much energy into it.
  955. 37:53When we decide to focus what the brain really does
  956. 37:56is it switches on a set of circuits
  957. 37:57then all the frontal cortex
  958. 37:59and nucleus basalis and some others
  959. 38:00and it's trying to understand duration,
  960. 38:03how long something's gonna last, path, what's gonna happen,
  961. 38:07and outcome, what ultimately is gonna happen.
  962. 38:09So duration, path and outcome.
  963. 38:11You know, the events of early 2020
  964. 38:14are a good example of this.
  965. 38:15One of the reasons why it's so exhausting to be alive
  966. 38:18in 2020, is because we are now having to pay attention
  967. 38:21to duration, path and outcome.
  968. 38:22How long is this thing gonna last?
  969. 38:24When are, you know, when are they gonna open up
  970. 38:26all businesses?
  971. 38:27Did I touch that door handle?
  972. 38:29Does it matter?
  973. 38:30You know, who are the experts?
  974. 38:32Are there any experts?
  975. 38:33You know, there are a lot of questions
  976. 38:34whereas normally, we can just move through life
  977. 38:37without having to do all that analysis.
  978. 38:39So if it's a simple example
  979. 38:41like trying to learn a new language or a new motor skill,
  980. 38:45or a new way of conceptualizing something,
  981. 38:47maybe somebody who's in a therapeutic process
  982. 38:49and they're trying to work through a trauma
  983. 38:50or something like that,
  984. 38:51duration, path and outcome is built
  985. 38:55into the networks of the brain.
  986. 38:56We can do that very easily, but it takes work.
  987. 38:58And it almost has a feeling
  988. 38:59of underlying agitation and frustration.
  989. 39:02And that's because of the circuits that turn on
  990. 39:05before acetylcholine are of the stress system.
  991. 39:08So when you or I decide we're gonna learn something
  992. 39:10and really dig in, norepinephrine which is adrenaline
  993. 39:14is secreted in the brainstem and in the body.
  994. 39:16And it brings about a state of alertness.
  995. 39:18Then our attention which is mostly a diffuse light
  996. 39:22is brought to a particular duration,
  997. 39:25path and outcome analysis.
  998. 39:26This would be thinking about what somebody is saying,
  999. 39:28what are they really trying to say?
  1000. 39:29A hard passage of reading, a hard, you know,
  1001. 39:32set of math problems, you know,
  1002. 39:34a challenging physical workout.
  1003. 39:36When you do that, these two systems have to work very hard
  1004. 39:39and the adult brain doesn't really wanna change
  1005. 39:42the algorithms they learned in childhood.
  1006. 39:44But if you do those two things,
  1007. 39:45you have alertness and focus, the acetylcholine
  1008. 39:49and the norepinephrine converge
  1009. 39:50to mark those synopsis for change.
  1010. 39:53And so, so the way to think about neuroplasticity
  1011. 39:56if one wants to change their brain is bring
  1012. 39:58about the most intense concentration you can to something.
  1013. 40:02And then later bring
  1014. 40:03about the least amount of concentration to that thing.
  1015. 40:06So I'll talk about that in a second,
  1016. 40:07but there were some studies that were done at Stanford
  1017. 40:10by a guy named Eric Knudsen that showed that plasticity
  1018. 40:14in the adult brain any age, can be as robust
  1019. 40:18as it is in childhood, as fast and as dramatic,
  1020. 40:22provided the focus is there and it's all contingent
  1021. 40:25on this acetylcholine molecule coming from nucleus basalis.
  1022. 40:28So you say, well, how do you do that?
  1023. 40:29How do you get it, you know?
  1024. 40:31Well, I've got friends that you nicorette thinking
  1025. 40:33that's gonna get them there
  1026. 40:34because nicorette is a nicotinic acetylcholine agonist
  1027. 40:38but that's gonna globally increase acetylcholine.
  1028. 40:41So I always tell them that's not the right approach.
  1029. 40:43The right approach is to bring as much focus
  1030. 40:45to a behavior or to a thought or to an action pattern
  1031. 40:49and there has to be a sense of urgency.
  1032. 40:52So what Knudsen lab showed and another lab at UCF
  1033. 40:55Mike Merzenich's lab showed is that
  1034. 40:57if there's a serious contingency, like in order
  1035. 41:00to get your ration of food each day,
  1036. 41:02you have to learn this thing.
  1037. 41:04The degree of plasticity is remarkable.
  1038. 41:07But if there isn't an incentive,
  1039. 41:09it just isn't gonna happen.
  1040. 41:11So the circuits in the brain that mother nature set up,
  1041. 41:14are designed to be anchored to a real need.
  1042. 41:16And people always say to me, well, should I do something
  1043. 41:19out of love and a real desire to learn,
  1044. 41:21or should it be out of fear, but either one works.
  1045. 41:24The sense of urgency is just acetylcholine.
  1046. 41:26It's norepinephrine, that's all it is.
  1047. 41:28It doesn't, the brain doesn't have a recognition
  1048. 41:31of whether or not something is pleasureful or not
  1049. 41:33until later.
  1050. 41:34Once you start accomplishing your goal,
  1051. 41:36the reward systems like dopamine start kicking in.
  1052. 41:39But I think if people are interested
  1053. 41:41in modifying their brain for the better, at least some,
  1054. 41:45you know, top contour understanding of how urgency
  1055. 41:47and focus must converge for that to happen can be useful.
  1056. 41:51Because I think there's a lot of attention paid
  1057. 41:54to whether or not something feels like flow
  1058. 41:56or whether or not it's see what I call
  1059. 41:57highly desirable states or whether or not you can,
  1060. 42:00you can eat a plant out of the ground
  1061. 42:02that will magically put your brain
  1062. 42:04into a state of plasticity.
  1063. 42:05And the answer is yes, such plants exist,
  1064. 42:08but what's missing is the focus component.
  1065. 42:10If that work is not done with a particular end goal in mind,
  1066. 42:14you'll get plasticity, but you'll get plasticity
  1067. 42:17in a kind of across the board,
  1068. 42:19it's like learning nine lang, learning a little bit
  1069. 42:21of nine languages all at once, is not gonna make you
  1070. 42:24speak coherently in any one of them.
  1071. 42:26So focus is the key.
  1072. 42:28Right, I mean, this idea of flow
  1073. 42:30is so much in the vernacular now.
  1074. 42:32And you know, my sense is that people
  1075. 42:36are trying to measure their level of engagement
  1076. 42:39against some sort of theoretical idea
  1077. 42:42of what it's like to be in that flow state.
  1078. 42:45And if they're not experiencing it,
  1079. 42:47they feel like they're doing it wrong
  1080. 42:49or they're, they feel guilty or they beat themselves up.
  1081. 42:53And for me, it's, a lot of it is just hard work.
  1082. 42:56Like right now, I'm trying to finish this book
  1083. 43:01and I should have been working
  1084. 43:02on this book for like the last nine months, right?
  1085. 43:05And I just couldn't, couldn't get it together.
  1086. 43:07Like it's a collaborative project.
  1087. 43:08So there's a lot of different people
  1088. 43:10that are involved in this,
  1089. 43:11and they've been working diligently sort of daily, you know
  1090. 43:14putting this thing together.
  1091. 43:16And I've just been focusing on the podcast
  1092. 43:19and been unable to immerse myself in this project
  1093. 43:22because I know from past book projects, when I go in,
  1094. 43:25I go all in, like the addict in me kicks in
  1095. 43:28and it's like, it just becomes my universe.
  1096. 43:30And I've been completely paralyzed from taking that on.
  1097. 43:35And so I've dithered away most of the quarantine
  1098. 43:38without being productive on this project.
  1099. 43:40And then about 10 days ago, we had a meeting,
  1100. 43:43and we established this deadline at, you know,
  1101. 43:46July 10th to turn this thing in.
  1102. 43:48And it was like a switch got flicked.
  1103. 43:50And I went all in and it's all I can think about now.
  1104. 43:52And in fact, everything else feels like extraneous
  1105. 43:56and a distraction.
  1106. 43:57I just wanna get back so I can focus on this thing.
  1107. 44:00And 10 days ago, I couldn't get myself into that position.
  1108. 44:04And it's made me think about like,
  1109. 44:06what is going on in my brain that, you know,
  1110. 44:09it's such a drastic state change.
  1111. 44:12And what did I do to switch that
  1112. 44:14while a deadline was imposed upon me and whatever happened
  1113. 44:17neuro-chemically with that set in motion
  1114. 44:20like a chain reaction of events that got me into the chair.
  1115. 44:24And once I began the project for me,
  1116. 44:27it's all about like momentum, right?
  1117. 44:29It's like, to start getting to the starting line
  1118. 44:32and beginning is so hard.
  1119. 44:34Like, I will just go forever without doing it.
  1120. 44:37And then I'm in, and then I'm all in 110%.
  1121. 44:40And I'm like, why can't I just,
  1122. 44:42why can't I be that person who just worked on it, you know
  1123. 44:44an hour and a half every day for the last three months?
  1124. 44:48Well, I can offer some potential explanations.
  1125. 44:51I can relate.
  1126. 44:52And none of it involves a flow state.
  1127. 44:54It's all hard.
  1128. 44:55Yeah, and you know, I'm friends with Steven Kotler
  1129. 44:57I think flow and I think the chicks in Mohali
  1130. 44:59who originated this thing of flow is really interesting.
  1131. 45:01But I say right now, the most we can say about flow
  1132. 45:05mechanistically is backwards it spells wolf.
  1133. 45:08We don't really understand flow.
  1134. 45:10Now people have come up with these theories.
  1135. 45:11It's like, you know, hypo hyper frontality.
  1136. 45:14I haven't seen the data and I'm not picking on anybody.
  1137. 45:17I'm putting that out there
  1138. 45:18as a prompt for people to discover this.
  1139. 45:20I think that, and to work on it.
  1140. 45:21I think it's a really interesting, highly desirable state
  1141. 45:24but I think we need to get comfortable as a culture
  1142. 45:28in trying to understand our species and how we work,
  1143. 45:31that the early stages of hard work
  1144. 45:34and focus are gonna feel like agitation,
  1145. 45:36stress and confusion, because that's the norepinephrine
  1146. 45:40and adrenaline system kicking in.
  1147. 45:42None of us would expect to walk into the gym
  1148. 45:45and do our PR lift, or, you know,
  1149. 45:48a performer go do something without warming up.
  1150. 45:51The brain also needs to warm up
  1151. 45:52and start to hone in which circuits are gonna be active.
  1152. 45:55And it's unreasonable for us to think,
  1153. 45:57"Oh I've got an hour, I'm gonna plop down
  1154. 45:59and write beautifully for an hour my best work."
  1155. 46:02We need to accept that there's a period
  1156. 46:03of agitation and stress that accompanies the dropping
  1157. 46:06into these highly concentrated states.
  1158. 46:09Now, in terms of the reward that accompanies the feeling
  1159. 46:13that we're funneling into that groove
  1160. 46:15of being productive in one regime
  1161. 46:18like for you writing this book,
  1162. 46:20the dopamine system is really important to understand.
  1163. 46:22So we've talked about norepinephrine kind of
  1164. 46:24gets you going, acetylcholine is the spotlight of attention.
  1165. 46:27The dopamine system is mother nature's hardwired,
  1166. 46:30ancient system in all animals
  1167. 46:32including humans to put us on the right path.
  1168. 46:36Now it's, a lot of people talk about dopamine
  1169. 46:39as this thing that you get when you publish the book
  1170. 46:42or when you get the book deal
  1171. 46:43or when something wonderful happens like your child's born.
  1172. 46:46And that's true, but dopamine's main role is to be released
  1173. 46:51anytime you achieve a milestone,
  1174. 46:53or you think you're on the right path.
  1175. 46:55And when the dopamine system is tethered
  1176. 46:58to a particular pattern of focus,
  1177. 46:59remember duration, path and outcome.
  1178. 47:01So it's like, okay, you sit down,
  1179. 47:02maybe you don't get much text out
  1180. 47:04but then the next day you get 800 words
  1181. 47:05of really solid text and you feel good, like I'm into this.
  1182. 47:09What does that dopamine system do?
  1183. 47:10The dopamine system takes the norepinephrine
  1184. 47:13which is normally rate limiting.
  1185. 47:15Like at some point there's so much norepinephrine
  1186. 47:18that you quit and we can talk about that.
  1187. 47:20It's actually the substrate for quitting,
  1188. 47:22dopamine can push that noradrenaline back down,
  1189. 47:26that adrenaline back down and give you more room,
  1190. 47:29more space to do duration, path and outcome work,
  1191. 47:31highly focused work.
  1192. 47:33And I'm making duration path outcomes
  1193. 47:34synonymous with highly focused work.
  1194. 47:36Why would this happen?
  1195. 47:37So let's think about an animal.
  1196. 47:38Let's think about a deer that wakes up and is thirsty
  1197. 47:43and it's wandering out looking for water.
  1198. 47:44That animal needs water.
  1199. 47:45It doesn't know that it needs water.
  1200. 47:47It experiences agitation the same way that a baby
  1201. 47:50feels agitation when it wants food
  1202. 47:52but it doesn't know it needs food.
  1203. 47:54It just feels agitation and cries
  1204. 47:56and a caretaker comes, hopefully.
  1205. 47:58That deer is now foraging for something that it needs.
  1206. 48:02And let's say it smells water,
  1207. 48:04'cause a deer can actually do that and arrives at a stream
  1208. 48:07and takes a sip of water, there's dopamine released then,
  1209. 48:10that puts it on a path to maybe a larger lake
  1210. 48:13or something of that sort, or to be able to go cheap food.
  1211. 48:15So when we are on the right path,
  1212. 48:18and we hit a milestone, dopamine is released
  1213. 48:21and it tends to tighten our focus more for that activity.
  1214. 48:25So the dopamine, this is why drugs of abuse
  1215. 48:28and why alcoholism and some process addictions,
  1216. 48:32which are behavioral addictions are so dangerous
  1217. 48:35because they, a lot of those drugs of abuse are dopamine.
  1218. 48:39So it becomes this cyclical loop where there's
  1219. 48:41no other behavior that can evoke the same level of release.
  1220. 48:45In fact, I sort of define addiction
  1221. 48:48as a progressive narrowing of the things
  1222. 48:50that bring you pleasure.
  1223. 48:51And I say that
  1224. 48:52because it really is the way that the dopamine system works.
  1225. 48:55Normally the dopamine system is designed to be generic.
  1226. 48:58It's designed to get me to do lots of things,
  1227. 49:00social quality, social interactions
  1228. 49:02you know, work, exercise, all those things,
  1229. 49:06just like the stress system is designed to get me
  1230. 49:08out of bed in the morning,
  1231. 49:08cortisol pulse is what gets me out of bed in the morning.
  1232. 49:11It's also what leads me to, or led me to pursue a career
  1233. 49:14in science out of fear, initially, and eventually pleasure.
  1234. 49:17So the dopamine system is tethered to those states of focus
  1235. 49:22and it's what mother nature designed
  1236. 49:24so that the neuroplasticity would occur
  1237. 49:26and you would want to continue those behaviors again
  1238. 49:29in the future.
  1239. 49:30That deer needs to know and remember
  1240. 49:32and create a memory, not just aware that stream is,
  1241. 49:35but the process of, oh, when I feel that agitation
  1242. 49:38I'm gonna get up and go down this particular path.
  1243. 49:41And so people think of the dopamine system
  1244. 49:44as this kind of like catch all for reward,
  1245. 49:46oh, you get likes on Instagram and it makes you feel good.
  1246. 49:49That's not really how it works.
  1247. 49:51And the important thing to understand
  1248. 49:53is when you start getting a convergence of norepinephrine
  1249. 49:56so that level of agitation
  1250. 49:58duration, path, outcome, acetylcholine, and dopamine,
  1251. 50:01now you're starting to wire in the behaviors
  1252. 50:03that make people really good at certain things.
  1253. 50:07Now in a functional view of this, so not addiction,
  1254. 50:10what this means is that for any of us,
  1255. 50:13success in any endeavor is very closely related
  1256. 50:16to how much focus we can bring to that endeavor.
  1257. 50:19And the reward system you start to realize
  1258. 50:21is entirely internal, no one's coming along
  1259. 50:24and cramming dopamine in your ear
  1260. 50:26or dripping it in your brain, it's all internal.
  1261. 50:29And this starts to bring us
  1262. 50:30into the kind of like discussion around mindsets.
  1263. 50:32Because, so my colleague Carol Dweck,
  1264. 50:34who popularized this thing, growth mindset,
  1265. 50:37it's and again, a very misunderstood concept.
  1266. 50:39It's the idea that we can change.
  1267. 50:41So that's built into that, but the discovery
  1268. 50:44of growth mindset was of these kids that actually
  1269. 50:46really enjoyed doing problem sets
  1270. 50:49that they knew they couldn't get, right?
  1271. 50:51But for them, they would get this like dopamine release
  1272. 50:53from just focusing on the problem.
  1273. 50:55They liked doing puzzles they couldn't get right.
  1274. 50:57It sounds crazy, but inevitably,
  1275. 50:59those kids are very good at puzzles
  1276. 51:00and very good at math and on these kinds of things.
  1277. 51:02So growth mindset is I believe,
  1278. 51:05if a certain neuroscience lens on growth mindset
  1279. 51:08would be that the agitation and stress that you feel
  1280. 51:11at the beginning of something
  1281. 51:13and when you're trying to lean into it
  1282. 51:13and you can't focus is just a recognized gate.
  1283. 51:16You have to pass that through that gate
  1284. 51:18to get to the focus component.
  1285. 51:20And then if you can reward the effort process
  1286. 51:23you really start to feel joy
  1287. 51:25and low levels of excitement in the effort process.
  1288. 51:29That's that buffering of adrenaline.
  1289. 51:31That's that feeling like, yes,
  1290. 51:33I've got a lot of adrenaline in my system
  1291. 51:34but I'm on the right path.
  1292. 51:36It feels good to walk up this hill, so to speak.
  1293. 51:40And when you start to bring those neural circuits together
  1294. 51:44you really start to create a whole set of circuits
  1295. 51:46that are designed to be exported to any behavior you want.
  1296. 51:50So if it's writing a book, great, if it's podcasting great,
  1297. 51:54if it's building a business great.
  1298. 51:56If it's, you know, building a terrific relationship, great
  1299. 51:59then the circuits that mother nature is designer
  1300. 52:01incredibly generic so that we could adapt
  1301. 52:04to whatever it is that we need to do.
  1302. 52:06And I think the misunderstanding
  1303. 52:07around how these circuits work,
  1304. 52:09has led to this idea that there's some secret entry point
  1305. 52:12maybe marked flow on the door
  1306. 52:14and there's a trampoline up to that door
  1307. 52:16and you just open that door and you're gonna be in it.
  1308. 52:18And nothing could be further from the truth.
  1309. 52:21And anyone who's done well in any career or athletic pursuit
  1310. 52:25knows this, but unfortunately there's a kind of obsession
  1311. 52:29with the idea that it's all supposed to feel good
  1312. 52:31and it does feel good but there's a whole staircase
  1313. 52:33in which it feels kind of lousy.
  1314. 52:35Yeah, I mean, the feel good aspect
  1315. 52:39of that experience is very subtle.
  1316. 52:41And I think, you know, in a kind of global way,
  1317. 52:44what you're talking about is falling in love
  1318. 52:46with the process.
  1319. 52:47Like you have to push this gate open, which might require
  1320. 52:50you know, more effort than you're comfortable with.
  1321. 52:52But once you push through, it is about, you know, that daily
  1322. 52:56the daily rigor and the tiny wins that you get from that,
  1323. 53:01rather than, you know, it's easy to, you know,
  1324. 53:04you set a goal, but that goal becomes very abstract, right?
  1325. 53:07And it's those tiny little things that you're getting done
  1326. 53:10every day that bring you that internal satisfaction
  1327. 53:13that are like calibrating that plasticity.
  1328. 53:15Is that what you're saying?
  1329. 53:16Yeah, absolutely.
  1330. 53:17And what's incredible is the extent to which the mind
  1331. 53:20and thoughts, remember earlier we were talking about
  1332. 53:22how thoughts are spontaneous.
  1333. 53:23You can't control them,
  1334. 53:24negative thoughts, traumatic thoughts, bad thoughts,
  1335. 53:27trying to suppress those is futile.
  1336. 53:29If there's one message I can send people
  1337. 53:30it's just don't even work at that,
  1338. 53:33but work at the process of introducing thoughts
  1339. 53:37as almost like you would introduce actions,
  1340. 53:39because we can introduce thoughts.
  1341. 53:41And, you know, Carol Dweck has talked about this,
  1342. 53:43that positive self-talk is not the same thing
  1343. 53:45as growth mindset, because positive self-talk
  1344. 53:47is almost always linked to the ultimate outcome.
  1345. 53:50If I'm losing badly in something,
  1346. 53:52and I tell myself, I'm doing great,
  1347. 53:54I know that I'm lying.
  1348. 53:55There's no dopamine release from that.
  1349. 53:58And you know, a lot of the self-help wellness culture
  1350. 54:01of the 80s and 90s was like, it's impossible
  1351. 54:02to be in a bad mood if you're smiling.
  1352. 54:04We won't have any depression on the planet if that's true.
  1353. 54:07There's probably some feedback
  1354. 54:08from the face to the brain, but it's not that simple.
  1355. 54:11But the idea that you can self reward
  1356. 54:14the effort process is extremely powerful,
  1357. 54:17because what it means is
  1358. 54:18that if you can recognize agitation, stress, and confusion
  1359. 54:21as an entry point to where you eventually wanna go,
  1360. 54:24I do think that just that even just mental recognition
  1361. 54:27can allow people to pass through it more easily.
  1362. 54:29They think they're doing something wrong
  1363. 54:31and then rewarding yourself when you achieve any milestone,
  1364. 54:33like, you know, running to a particular location
  1365. 54:36if you're trying to run a long distance
  1366. 54:38and then registering that as a partial win,
  1367. 54:42what we know is that the dopamine that's released
  1368. 54:44in response to that suppresses the total amount
  1369. 54:47of adrenaline and gives you more room, more time,
  1370. 54:51more energy to run in the running example.
  1371. 54:54And this is anchored in a real scientific result.
  1372. 54:57So last year there was a paper published
  1373. 55:00that essentially was asking why any human
  1374. 55:02or animal quits at any behavior.
  1375. 55:05Now, certain behaviors like I can't lift a car,
  1376. 55:07unless it's a very small car.
  1377. 55:08I can't lift a car, but if we're talking about running
  1378. 55:11or we're talking about long bouts of work, the question is,
  1379. 55:15why do we quit?
  1380. 55:16Like, what is that?
  1381. 55:17And it turns out that every time we exert effort,
  1382. 55:20a certain amount of noradrenaline in the brain is released,
  1383. 55:23and there's a sort of a counter in the brainstem.
  1384. 55:26And at some point enough noradrenaline is released
  1385. 55:29and it shuts down cognitive control, deliberate control
  1386. 55:32over the motor circuitry, and we quit, that's it.
  1387. 55:35But the thing that can restore those levels
  1388. 55:38or it can sort of reset those levels lower
  1389. 55:40and give us more gas, more mileage, is dopamine.
  1390. 55:42And it makes perfect sense because our species had to move
  1391. 55:46against very challenging things in nature
  1392. 55:49and in certain, so in culture at every stage
  1393. 55:53of our evolution including now,
  1394. 55:542020 is a good example of this.
  1395. 55:56And when a good example would be,
  1396. 55:59if you're really slogging it out and things are miserable,
  1397. 56:02just think like the worst family vacation,
  1398. 56:04everything's a disaster or a very hard physical event,
  1399. 56:09and someone cracks a joke,
  1400. 56:11you're almost immediately feel a sense of relief.
  1401. 56:14You see this in the team that wins the Super Bowl.
  1402. 56:16Both teams slogged it out.
  1403. 56:17You have to believe they were both at max effort
  1404. 56:19the entire game.
  1405. 56:20Look at the team that wins,
  1406. 56:22they have extra energy,
  1407. 56:23they're jumping all over the place.
  1408. 56:24So it can't be physical energy.
  1409. 56:26It can't be glycogen related.
  1410. 56:28It's not ketone related.
  1411. 56:29It's nothing in the body in that sense.
  1412. 56:32It's dopamine's ability to take that level
  1413. 56:34of norepinephrine and smack it back down.
  1414. 56:36And so we can learn this, right?
  1415. 56:39I mean, I think this is where there's real power
  1416. 56:41like in your story,
  1417. 56:43or the story that I'm familiar with from your book.
  1418. 56:45Like the ability to push through those pain points
  1419. 56:49is something that we really can export
  1420. 56:51to other aspects of life
  1421. 56:53because it's the same neuro-chemicals that are involved.
  1422. 56:55So when you get to a particular location
  1423. 56:57or maybe your, recall, you know, a portion where you're just
  1424. 57:01you're feeling lousy, you know, you're injured,
  1425. 57:03or you feel like you're hurt and you can reframe it mentally
  1426. 57:07and think I'm actually still on the ladder.
  1427. 57:09I'm still holding onto a wrong.
  1428. 57:11I know that at least that much, I'm still breathing.
  1429. 57:13I know that much.
  1430. 57:13And the lift that we get is not some psychological pump-up,
  1431. 57:17it's a neurochemical thing.
  1432. 57:19It's dopamine suppressing norepinephrine, and saying
  1433. 57:22you're on the right path, you can keep going.
  1434. 57:25It's a permission to keep going.
  1435. 57:27And we grant that permission to ourselves,
  1436. 57:29no one grants that permission to us.
  1437. 57:31I think one of the other kind of misconceptions
  1438. 57:34that we wanna dissolve is this idea
  1439. 57:36that external rewards can actually propel us
  1440. 57:39down long paths of success and high performance.
  1441. 57:44They can't.
  1442. 57:44It's internal rewards. No, that's a sustainable
  1443. 57:46fuel source.
  1444. 57:47Yeah. Yeah.
  1445. 57:48I have a friend from the SEAL team
  1446. 57:49and somebody asked us recently, we were giving a talk
  1447. 57:52and somebody said,
  1448. 57:53"How can I make sure that I continue to self reward,
  1449. 57:56and I'm not driven by these extra rewards?
  1450. 57:59How can I continue to have that drive?"
  1451. 58:02And his answer was very good.
  1452. 58:04He said, "Give away all the external rewards."
  1453. 58:06You know, now not everyone can afford to do that.
  1454. 58:09It's just about you and you.
  1455. 58:10It's just you and you.
  1456. 58:11And the more attach there's a famous Stanford study done
  1457. 58:14at being nursery school, probably not far where
  1458. 58:17from where you were in the dormitory,
  1459. 58:18there was a little nursery school in Escondido village.
  1460. 58:20And they did a study where they looked at kids
  1461. 58:22that like to playing during their recess,
  1462. 58:25it's all recess in nursery school, but they're drawing.
  1463. 58:28And they took the kids that really liked to draw.
  1464. 58:31And they started giving them little gold stars
  1465. 58:34on their drawings.
  1466. 58:35And then they liked the gold stars
  1467. 58:37for a kid that's an extrinsic reward.
  1468. 58:39And then they stopped doing that and the kids stop drawing.
  1469. 58:42They just, they associated the good feeling of doing it
  1470. 58:45with the external rewards.
  1471. 58:47We have to be very cautious about how much
  1472. 58:49of our internal dopamine we attach to external rewards,
  1473. 58:53if we wanna continue to grow
  1474. 58:55and pursue and focus and work hard.
  1475. 58:57If you just wanna get to someplace and cash in, then fine.
  1476. 59:01But most people find themselves in a pretty miserable place
  1477. 59:04because their dopamine was so attached to external rewards,
  1478. 59:07they need more and more of that.
  1479. 59:08Well, the why has to be deeper than that.
  1480. 59:11I mean, the thing that I kind of always default to
  1481. 59:14when I hit that breaking point or, you know
  1482. 59:16I'm training or I'm racing or whatever,
  1483. 59:18and I'm at that stage where it's just like,
  1484. 59:20I can't go any further,
  1485. 59:22the first thing I do is I reflect inward
  1486. 59:24on why I'm doing this to begin with, like, what is the,
  1487. 59:28you know what is the value system
  1488. 59:30that I'm trying to tap into?
  1489. 59:31What is it that I'm trying to express?
  1490. 59:33Like what got me to this point?
  1491. 59:34So it's a reminder, and then I just set,
  1492. 59:38like I just say, well, I'm just gonna get
  1493. 59:39to the next lamppost or I'm gonna, you know,
  1494. 59:42get to the next intersection or whatever it is.
  1495. 59:45I break it down into the tiny, I'll quit after that.
  1496. 59:47Like the more I can just root myself in the present moment
  1497. 59:51and distill it down into the tiniest of digestible chunks,
  1498. 59:57that's the only way I can, you know,
  1499. 59:59continue to move forward.
  1500. 1:00:01And I've learned over time that the more I do that, then
  1501. 1:00:04you know, suddenly I'll find myself
  1502. 1:00:06in a different mental, like it will shift, right?
  1503. 1:00:09Just because I feel that way in that moment
  1504. 1:00:12is not determinative
  1505. 1:00:13of how I'm gonna feel 10 minutes later.
  1506. 1:00:16Absolutely, there's an interesting process that occurs
  1507. 1:00:20when people start to realize that rewards are all internal
  1508. 1:00:24and what they start to do is they start linking
  1509. 1:00:26this duration, path, outcome thing,
  1510. 1:00:28to their internal rewards.
  1511. 1:00:30And so to put this simply one of the most powerful things
  1512. 1:00:33that any person can do is to learn to control
  1513. 1:00:37this idea of duration, path, and outcome
  1514. 1:00:39and attach an internal sense of reward
  1515. 1:00:42just that you're doing well to reward yourself mentally
  1516. 1:00:44just say, "I'm doing well, I'm actually on the right path."
  1517. 1:00:47To do that inside of the demands
  1518. 1:00:51that come from the external world.
  1519. 1:00:53The more often that we can self reward
  1520. 1:00:56some aspect of the process provided
  1521. 1:00:57it's in the right direction of what we're trying to achieve,
  1522. 1:01:01the more energy we're gonna have for that,
  1523. 1:01:03the more focus we're gonna have for that.
  1524. 1:01:04And remember that the reason I say energy,
  1525. 1:01:06I don't throw that around loosely is that limiting amount
  1526. 1:01:10of noradrenaline is constantly being kept at bay.
  1527. 1:01:13You literally keep buffering the quit response.
  1528. 1:01:16And so when people start realizing
  1529. 1:01:18that if they set the goals inside of the larger goal
  1530. 1:01:22and self reward each one of those
  1531. 1:01:24they essentially have an infinite amount of energy
  1532. 1:01:26to pursue those goals.
  1533. 1:01:28They have an infinite amount of focus to pursue those goals.
  1534. 1:01:31You see this most in the special operations community
  1535. 1:01:36and people that are selected essentially for this process.
  1536. 1:01:39It's one of the things that's been intriguing to me.
  1537. 1:01:40I have some friends from the SEAL teams
  1538. 1:01:42and I don't begin to really understand the real work
  1539. 1:01:45that they do deployed
  1540. 1:01:46'cause I've never done that kind of work
  1541. 1:01:47but I've always been intrigued
  1542. 1:01:48by the selection process,
  1543. 1:01:50the so-called BUD/S process, right?
  1544. 1:01:51Because carrying logs and getting in cold water
  1545. 1:01:54and all that, that's not really how the work is.
  1546. 1:01:58That's really not what the work is about.
  1547. 1:01:59So the selection process is interesting
  1548. 1:02:01because everyone shows up fit, motivated,
  1549. 1:02:04and convinced that they're not gonna quit.
  1550. 1:02:06I mean, I think like there might be a couple of days
  1551. 1:02:08you'll just show up to show up,
  1552. 1:02:09but everybody is absolutely convinced.
  1553. 1:02:11And then a very small subset of them make it through.
  1554. 1:02:15And I'd be willing to bet
  1555. 1:02:17that the ones that make it through,
  1556. 1:02:19of course they're gritty and resilient
  1557. 1:02:20but they all are essentially, right?
  1558. 1:02:22So that's necessary, but not sufficient, obviously,
  1559. 1:02:25otherwise they, everyone would make it through.
  1560. 1:02:27The people that make it through somehow
  1561. 1:02:29are able to tap into a process.
  1562. 1:02:31Maybe it's a reward process.
  1563. 1:02:33Maybe it's through self punishment,
  1564. 1:02:35maybe it's through self reward in the positive sense,
  1565. 1:02:38but they're able to control something
  1566. 1:02:40inside an environment that is not controlled by them.
  1567. 1:02:43It's controlled by the instructors.
  1568. 1:02:45And I've always been struck by the fact that in order to
  1569. 1:02:49to not in order to get through, you just have to not quit.
  1570. 1:02:53Remember people aren't being deselected.
  1571. 1:02:55They're not saying, get out of here,
  1572. 1:02:56you're not good enough, you're not,
  1573. 1:02:57people are deciding that for themselves.
  1574. 1:02:59And so it's interesting because it brings
  1575. 1:03:02about a real-world experiment of people who are quitting.
  1576. 1:03:05And I believe they're quitting because they can't manage
  1577. 1:03:08these neurotransmitters.
  1578. 1:03:09And the people, when I say manage,
  1579. 1:03:11I think that the people that get through
  1580. 1:03:13knowing some of these people quite well,
  1581. 1:03:15had an internal process
  1582. 1:03:17by which they could reward themselves
  1583. 1:03:19for doing something that might've just look trivial
  1584. 1:03:21to everybody else, but it gave them more gas, more energy.
  1585. 1:03:26And what's interesting is the process,
  1586. 1:03:27the kind of unconscious genius of the BUD/S process
  1587. 1:03:30is that they've picked two sensory events
  1588. 1:03:34that are across the board, challenging for everybody.
  1589. 1:03:38One is cold water, which is great, because it
  1590. 1:03:41most of the time it can't kill you, right?
  1591. 1:03:43It's not like heat, which can kill you.
  1592. 1:03:45It's cold water and sleep deprivation.
  1593. 1:03:49And so the ability to do these, like what I'm calling DPOs
  1594. 1:03:52this duration, path and outcome steps and procedures
  1595. 1:03:56is great on when you're rested, you know,
  1596. 1:03:59you know, when you have, when you're well fed, well slept,
  1597. 1:04:02you can do anything.
  1598. 1:04:03You can be in any hard conversation
  1599. 1:04:04you can work through anything.
  1600. 1:04:05So what they do is they start taking
  1601. 1:04:06the autonomic nervous system, which is these deep reserves
  1602. 1:04:10of the nervous system
  1603. 1:04:12that when our autonomic nervous system is off,
  1604. 1:04:15it starts making us pay more attention
  1605. 1:04:17to how we feel than the demands of the world around us.
  1606. 1:04:20Remember that basic challenge in the nervous system.
  1607. 1:04:23And so sleep deprivation is the best way
  1608. 1:04:26that you can pull somebody down from their ability
  1609. 1:04:29to analyze duration, path and outcome and reward themselves.
  1610. 1:04:33Sleep deprivation is the way
  1611. 1:04:35in which you essentially pull apart the nervous system
  1612. 1:04:38and the way that it wants to function
  1613. 1:04:39because it's very easy, again, rested to do all this.
  1614. 1:04:43But so what they do is they're sleep deprived people
  1615. 1:04:45they put them in cold water,
  1616. 1:04:46they're trying to get them more in touch
  1617. 1:04:48with the way that they feel inside than what they need to do
  1618. 1:04:51in response to the external demands.
  1619. 1:04:54Everyone I know that's made it through that process,
  1620. 1:04:56did it slightly differently
  1621. 1:04:58but I'll tell you how they didn't do it.
  1622. 1:05:00They didn't do it through sheer grit and determination.
  1623. 1:05:03They did it through attaching a sense of meaning.
  1624. 1:05:05They did it by micro slicing the day, or slicing the day
  1625. 1:05:10into a series of meals that they just needed to get to
  1626. 1:05:13and then rewarding themselves
  1627. 1:05:15for getting to that next milestone.
  1628. 1:05:17So they don't know, I mean, most of them,
  1629. 1:05:19you know, probably had very low concept
  1630. 1:05:21of dopamine and norepinephrine, but that's the process.
  1631. 1:05:23That's also the process
  1632. 1:05:24I think that allows someone to finish an ultra.
  1633. 1:05:26I've never run an ultra, but I think that process
  1634. 1:05:29of self reward is grit and resilience,
  1635. 1:05:32in a kind of neurochemical definition.
  1636. 1:05:35And I think it's the thing that anybody can tap into.
  1637. 1:05:38And I think it's, therefore, I think it's so key
  1638. 1:05:41because I think people think that it's just so key
  1639. 1:05:44that people understand, excuse me,
  1640. 1:05:45that these circuits are not unique
  1641. 1:05:48to people who run ultras or people that make it through
  1642. 1:05:52you know, stringent filter, special operations command.
  1643. 1:05:56These, it's the same thing
  1644. 1:05:57that anyone can do. It is interesting.
  1645. 1:05:59Yeah, the ultimate determinant
  1646. 1:06:01isn't your physical conditioning.
  1647. 1:06:03And yet that's what everybody focuses on.
  1648. 1:06:05It's what's going on in, you know,
  1649. 1:06:08internally, mentally, neuro-chemically
  1650. 1:06:10that's making the difference
  1651. 1:06:11and the people that are able to best calibrate that
  1652. 1:06:14and find these, you know, strategies for managing
  1653. 1:06:17are the ones that get through whether it is an ultra
  1654. 1:06:20or BUD/S and BUD/S is like this perfect,
  1655. 1:06:22it's almost like its own lab, right?
  1656. 1:06:24For studying human resilience in a certain respect
  1657. 1:06:27but you have actually taken some of these people
  1658. 1:06:30and tested them in your lab, including David Goggins, right?
  1659. 1:06:34So, what do you do when you, when these people visit you
  1660. 1:06:38and you're like, I'm gonna deconstruct you here,
  1661. 1:06:40figure out what makes you tick.
  1662. 1:06:42Yeah, so I had the good fortune of meeting David
  1663. 1:06:46at a consulting event a few years ago.
  1664. 1:06:48And I guess I should just say, David,
  1665. 1:06:52you probably know this already, but he is,
  1666. 1:06:54every bit is intense as he comes across.
  1667. 1:06:56Yeah, I mean,
  1668. 1:06:57what you see online. His private persona is-
  1669. 1:06:58Yeah it's exactly the same.
  1670. 1:06:59What you see is what you get.
  1671. 1:07:01Really wonderful and obviously extremely impressive
  1672. 1:07:04human being.
  1673. 1:07:07David anecdote, so the night before we had this event,
  1674. 1:07:11he came out to the lab.
  1675. 1:07:12My lab, we do, we study fear.
  1676. 1:07:14We study courage, we say resilience.
  1677. 1:07:15And we say the underlying neurochemical substrates
  1678. 1:07:18for those.
  1679. 1:07:19So we had a bunch of guys there,
  1680. 1:07:20a couple of team guys, some other folks, and we bring them
  1681. 1:07:25in this little room and we do virtual reality there.
  1682. 1:07:27And one of the things that we used to scare people
  1683. 1:07:30or to generate a sense of autonomic arousal
  1684. 1:07:32is this experience of diving with great white sharks.
  1685. 1:07:35Which of course, you're not in water,
  1686. 1:07:37you're in the laboratory, but it's very immersive.
  1687. 1:07:39And for people that are afraid of sharks,
  1688. 1:07:40it can be quite scary, not always,
  1689. 1:07:44but we also have heights, we have claustrophobia,
  1690. 1:07:46we got something where you can feel spiders
  1691. 1:07:48crawling all over your body, if you're an arachnophobe.
  1692. 1:07:51You know, if you have a pain point, we find it.
  1693. 1:07:53Do you spend time trying to figure out
  1694. 1:07:54what that pain point is?
  1695. 1:07:56We do and we do it through some very covert methodology
  1696. 1:08:00that involves AI and some fun tools.
  1697. 1:08:03A bunch of weird questions that, right, all right.
  1698. 1:08:06Let's just say this, from the moment you step
  1699. 1:08:08into our laboratory, we're studying you.
  1700. 1:08:10so the-
  1701. 1:08:12Now I know. And yeah, exactly.
  1702. 1:08:14So what was fun was, you know,
  1703. 1:08:15so I sort of explained what the platform was
  1704. 1:08:17and what we were gonna do.
  1705. 1:08:18And David said, he goes, "I don't like sharks."
  1706. 1:08:23And I was like, all right, well, and so then, you know,
  1707. 1:08:27this was not a typical experimental day in the lab.
  1708. 1:08:29So I just kind of, at one point I finished describing
  1709. 1:08:31what the tech is and how we're going to wire people in.
  1710. 1:08:33And then I said, "So who wants to go first?"
  1711. 1:08:36And he's like, I'll go.
  1712. 1:08:37Right, of course.
  1713. 1:08:38And what was funny to me at that moment
  1714. 1:08:39I realized this is interesting because he,
  1715. 1:08:42he was very explicit about the fact he didn't like sharks.
  1716. 1:08:43He was very explicit about the fact
  1717. 1:08:45that he was going to be first, you know, first man in.
  1718. 1:08:48I mean, it would be inappropriate
  1719. 1:08:50for me to describe his data, right?
  1720. 1:08:51And we didn't do a full-blown experiment
  1721. 1:08:53but what I can say is he's, whatever it is
  1722. 1:08:55that David has figured out how to do,
  1723. 1:08:57it clearly involves taking whatever adrenaline pulse
  1724. 1:09:01he feels and understanding something fundamental to biology
  1725. 1:09:04which is that adrenaline response was designed
  1726. 1:09:06to move us not to keep us stationary.
  1727. 1:09:09He uses behavior as the way to shift sensation,
  1728. 1:09:14perception, feelings, and thoughts.
  1729. 1:09:16He understands how to run that program
  1730. 1:09:18in the right direction.
  1731. 1:09:19Whereas most people, when they don't like what they feel,
  1732. 1:09:21they start negotiating sensation, which will never work.
  1733. 1:09:24They start trying to control their perception
  1734. 1:09:26which is hard, right?
  1735. 1:09:27They're like, I'm not gonna think about that
  1736. 1:09:29or I'll think about it differently.
  1737. 1:09:30Very hard to control the mind with the mind.
  1738. 1:09:32He knows that's a tough one.
  1739. 1:09:34Yeah.
  1740. 1:09:35Feelings, Lord knows what those are
  1741. 1:09:38and how to control them.
  1742. 1:09:38I mean, we'll eventually figure that out as a field,
  1743. 1:09:41but thoughts are complicated.
  1744. 1:09:43So he just goes immediately into action.
  1745. 1:09:45He goes forward towards it.
  1746. 1:09:46So when he says, just for clarity, when he says,
  1747. 1:09:50"I don't like sharks", he's basically saying
  1748. 1:09:52put me in the shark tank, like, he's cuing you to say
  1749. 1:09:54this is the thing I'm afraid of
  1750. 1:09:56and I'm gonna be the first one to volunteer
  1751. 1:09:58and I know you're gonna put me in the shark tank
  1752. 1:09:59if I tell you that, right?
  1753. 1:10:00Exactly, and I think, and I obviously can't speak for him,
  1754. 1:10:04but one of the things I think is very clear
  1755. 1:10:07is that he's tapped into this neuroplasticity process
  1756. 1:10:11through the door through the portal of agitation and stress,
  1757. 1:10:15he's figured out the, and this is really the holy grail
  1758. 1:10:18of neuroscience is how can I modify my brain?
  1759. 1:10:22Well, you modify it by placing yourself into discomfort
  1760. 1:10:25and using that as a propeller to move you into action.
  1761. 1:10:29And, you know, a couple of years later
  1762. 1:10:30when David was working on his book
  1763. 1:10:32and I heard the book was coming out,
  1764. 1:10:33I think I saw a pre-release announcement,
  1765. 1:10:35I texted him and I just said, look
  1766. 1:10:36"I'm really excited to see your book."
  1767. 1:10:39And he said, "Oh great, thank you.
  1768. 1:10:41You know, be great if you'd write something
  1769. 1:10:45like an endorsement."
  1770. 1:10:46I said, "Oh, I'd be honored to, I'm happy to."
  1771. 1:10:47And he said, "But I need it tonight."
  1772. 1:10:50And this was Saturday.
  1773. 1:10:51I think it was like 10:30 at night when I texted him.
  1774. 1:10:53So it's a great, well, I'd be happy to, I won't do it now.
  1775. 1:10:57He said, "I need it by midnight."
  1776. 1:10:58So I sit down and I start writing this thing
  1777. 1:11:00and these are short blurbs, but I kind of realized
  1778. 1:11:01that you know, you wanna get it right.
  1779. 1:11:03It's David and you know, my name's next to it.
  1780. 1:11:04And I wanna do do it justice.
  1781. 1:11:07So I'm sitting down, I'm working on the saying
  1782. 1:11:08and I texted him, "Look, I'm gonna be a few minutes late.
  1783. 1:11:10No problem, no problem."
  1784. 1:11:11Finally, I sent him the thing at like 12:30 at night
  1785. 1:11:13and he's like, "Aw, bro, thank you, thank you, thank you.
  1786. 1:11:15I promise I'll send you a copy of this and that."
  1787. 1:11:17And I was like, grateful, you know, thank you.
  1788. 1:11:18And then I realized that that time he was living in New York
  1789. 1:11:23and I said, "Wait a second, where are you?"
  1790. 1:11:25He said, "New York."
  1791. 1:11:26And I said, "It's 3:30 in the morning."
  1792. 1:11:30And he goes, "Yeah, I'm going running."
  1793. 1:11:32And I realized at that point, I was like, okay
  1794. 1:11:34you know, there's, it's undisputable.
  1795. 1:11:36You know this guy lives the persona
  1796. 1:11:38that he projects into the world.
  1797. 1:11:40And even that day, that consulting gig, you know,
  1798. 1:11:43there was a four o'clock lag
  1799. 1:11:44and he was like, no, let's keep going.
  1800. 1:11:46So he's figured something out.
  1801. 1:11:48And I think that his enormous popularity is it's earned,
  1802. 1:11:53because he's figured out that it really doesn't matter
  1803. 1:11:58if you come at something from a place of joy and love.
  1804. 1:12:00And that would be wonderful, but there's a whole other set
  1805. 1:12:04of ways to approach this, that involve slogging
  1806. 1:12:07through the discomfort, the doubts, the wish for things
  1807. 1:12:12to be different and starting with behavior.
  1808. 1:12:15And it's incredible 'cause if you think about sensation
  1809. 1:12:18perception, feeling, thought and behavior,
  1810. 1:12:20actually the way to control our nervous system
  1811. 1:12:23and feel the way we wanna feel is to run that backwards.
  1812. 1:12:27Behavior, thoughts.
  1813. 1:12:28So if you change your behavior, then generally
  1814. 1:12:30your thoughts, your feelings and your perceptions change.
  1815. 1:12:33And everyone tries to come at it from the other end,
  1816. 1:12:36but he's figured out through whatever process led him there
  1817. 1:12:39and incredible life circumstances, how to run it
  1818. 1:12:42in this direction of behavior first.
  1819. 1:12:44And I really think that if neuroscience has anything
  1820. 1:12:47to offer, it's some understanding of what the underlying
  1821. 1:12:51chemicals and neuro-circuits are, but the sooner
  1822. 1:12:54that the human animal, the human species can start
  1823. 1:12:57to understand that our feelings and our thoughts
  1824. 1:13:00and our memories and our all that is very complicated,
  1825. 1:13:03but that when behaviors are very concrete
  1826. 1:13:06and they are the control panel for the rest of it.
  1827. 1:13:11I don't wanna relegate feelings,
  1828. 1:13:12feelings are extremely important.
  1829. 1:13:14I don't wanna relegate perception,
  1830. 1:13:15they're extremely important, but when it comes to wanting
  1831. 1:13:18to shift the way that you function, to get better
  1832. 1:13:21or to perform better, or to show up better,
  1833. 1:13:24or to move away from things like addictive behaviors,
  1834. 1:13:27it's absolutely foolish for any of us, me included,
  1835. 1:13:31to think that we can do that by changing our thoughts first,
  1836. 1:13:34it's behavior first, thoughts, feelings
  1837. 1:13:37and perceptions follow.
  1838. 1:13:39Mood follows action.
  1839. 1:13:40Mood follows action.
  1840. 1:13:41This is like been my mantra forever.
  1841. 1:13:43And, you know, I swear by it.
  1842. 1:13:45And David's example illustrates that that act first
  1843. 1:13:49he's developed so much neuroplasticity that it's reflexive
  1844. 1:13:54for him to just move towards the hard thing
  1845. 1:13:56or the challenge or the discomfort, right?
  1846. 1:14:00And now the science establishes
  1847. 1:14:02that this is indeed the case.
  1848. 1:14:04And yet our programming, our default hard wiring is to,
  1849. 1:14:10you know, put us in this place where we want to ruminate
  1850. 1:14:12on all this stuff.
  1851. 1:14:13And wait until we feel like doing something before we do it
  1852. 1:14:16or check our motivations for it.
  1853. 1:14:18But anytime I'm in a funk or I wanna change my state,
  1854. 1:14:22I have to move forward.
  1855. 1:14:23I have to do something with my physical body in order
  1856. 1:14:26to shake things up and, you know,
  1857. 1:14:28rearrange whatever's going on mentally.
  1858. 1:14:31So, and it, and it works every time.
  1859. 1:14:35It works every time because the brain circuits
  1860. 1:14:37meaning sets of connections and chemicals
  1861. 1:14:39they're there from birth, they're there your whole life,
  1862. 1:14:41and they were designed for that.
  1863. 1:14:43So in 2018, a graduate student in my lab published a paper
  1864. 1:14:46in Nature, showing that in the face of a physical threat,
  1865. 1:14:50there are three options.
  1866. 1:14:51You can obviously freeze,
  1867. 1:14:53you can retreat, or you can move forward.
  1868. 1:14:56And the moving forward response actually triggers activation
  1869. 1:15:00of a connection in the brain to the dopamine circuitry
  1870. 1:15:02of the brain and makes it more likely
  1871. 1:15:05that you're gonna be able to move forward in the future.
  1872. 1:15:08Now, what was interesting to us was that,
  1873. 1:15:10not only is forward action rewarded at a neurochemical level
  1874. 1:15:15which then sets you up for more forward action
  1875. 1:15:17but the highest level of agitation and stress was associated
  1876. 1:15:21with moving forward, we always think, well,
  1877. 1:15:23if I just call myself enough, I'll be able to move forward.
  1878. 1:15:26But it's the exact opposite, you know?
  1879. 1:15:29And so people who are paralyzed in fear
  1880. 1:15:32or that have a hard time initiating, sometimes the key
  1881. 1:15:35is to raise the level of stress and agitation.
  1882. 1:15:37This is why deadlines are so effective.
  1883. 1:15:39This is why fear is so effective.
  1884. 1:15:41This is why that deer gets up out of its, you know,
  1885. 1:15:44nice little den and starts to move
  1886. 1:15:46because it feels a certain level of agitation.
  1887. 1:15:49If that agitation isn't high enough,
  1888. 1:15:50we will not move forward.
  1889. 1:15:51And so, especially in the U.S you know, we have a culture
  1890. 1:15:54in which stress has been created, you know, these ideas
  1891. 1:15:57around stress is that it's terrible for us.
  1892. 1:16:00When in fact stress is designed to move us forward
  1893. 1:16:03towards these action steps that are rewarded
  1894. 1:16:05which then move us forward and so on.
  1895. 1:16:08So what is the process of combating that, you know
  1896. 1:16:12monkey mind that is, you know,
  1897. 1:16:14running whatever narrative that's keeping you stuck.
  1898. 1:16:17Like, it's easy to say, like, just move
  1899. 1:16:18you gotta take the action.
  1900. 1:16:20But a lot of people still, despite understanding that,
  1901. 1:16:24intellectualizing that, are unable to, you know,
  1902. 1:16:28basically act as if.
  1903. 1:16:31Yeah, I think we're dealing with two general categories
  1904. 1:16:34of people who have problems with motivation and focus.
  1905. 1:16:37And I think we've failed to decide, excuse me,
  1906. 1:16:42I think we failed to describe the fact
  1907. 1:16:44that there are two groups and not one we think,
  1908. 1:16:47well I need to calm myself enough to move forward.
  1909. 1:16:49I think, and then other people say, well, no
  1910. 1:16:52you need to kind of ramp yourself up to move forward.
  1911. 1:16:54Here's the way I conceptualize it
  1912. 1:16:56based on the data that I'm aware of.
  1913. 1:16:58Some people are just hypo aroused.
  1914. 1:17:02They're just not motivated enough.
  1915. 1:17:04And those people would benefit greatly
  1916. 1:17:06from cultivating practices, like super oxygenated breathing.
  1917. 1:17:10So this is something along the lines
  1918. 1:17:11of like tummo type breathing, so rapid.
  1919. 1:17:14And we look at this and allow
  1920. 1:17:15we're actually running a human study on this now.
  1921. 1:17:17So 25 or 30 deep breaths through the nose and out
  1922. 1:17:20through the mouth, then exhaling the breath and holding,
  1923. 1:17:23learning to how to self generate adrenaline.
  1924. 1:17:26That's what you're doing when you're doing that.
  1925. 1:17:27Some version of the Wim Hof technique.
  1926. 1:17:30That's what that is.
  1927. 1:17:31Brian McKenzie talks about.
  1928. 1:17:33Right, an ice bath is doing the exact same thing,
  1929. 1:17:35stimulating adrenaline response.
  1930. 1:17:37It actually improves the immune system.
  1931. 1:17:39There's a published paper on this, releases adrenaline
  1932. 1:17:41which buffers the immune system against infection
  1933. 1:17:45but getting good at taking yourself from low,
  1934. 1:17:48low energy to higher energy
  1935. 1:17:51and then learning how to compress your focus.
  1936. 1:17:53And I'll talk about the focus thing in a minute.
  1937. 1:17:54Some people are so agitated, the monkey mind
  1938. 1:17:57they got too many things going on and they're thinking, okay
  1939. 1:17:59they're trying to sit down and write.
  1940. 1:18:00I suffer from this, and I'm feeling like, wait
  1941. 1:18:03I've also got this person I need to connect with.
  1942. 1:18:05And I'm kind of being drawn off course
  1943. 1:18:07by not being able to put the blinders on.
  1944. 1:18:09For people that have that issue,
  1945. 1:18:11I think learning how to calm the nervous system
  1946. 1:18:14is very powerful.
  1947. 1:18:15And the best way that I know how to do that is based
  1948. 1:18:17on two studies, one published in Nature, one published
  1949. 1:18:19in Cell Reports recently showing that physiological size
  1950. 1:18:23there's actually a thing in the literature
  1951. 1:18:25called physiological size, are one of the fastest ways
  1952. 1:18:28to bring our overall level of sub autonomic arousal down.
  1953. 1:18:32And a physiological sigh is a two inhales,
  1954. 1:18:35followed by an extended exhale.
  1955. 1:18:37So it's like, it's not just a deep breath.
  1956. 1:18:41It's two inhales followed by an exhale, okay?
  1957. 1:18:45And what that, what that does.
  1958. 1:18:46And this has been shown several times now in humans
  1959. 1:18:50and other species, as well is it dilates
  1960. 1:18:52the little sacks of the lungs and that second inhale
  1961. 1:18:55dilates them a little bit more,
  1962. 1:18:57and it pulls a little bit of carbon dioxide
  1963. 1:18:59out of the bloodstream so that when we exhale,
  1964. 1:19:01we offload the maximum amount of carbon dioxide
  1965. 1:19:03and it perfectly adjust the ratio of carbon dioxide
  1966. 1:19:06and oxygen in the bloodstream and lungs.
  1967. 1:19:08And sometimes it only takes one of these double
  1968. 1:19:10inhale exhale.
  1969. 1:19:11Sometimes somebody needs to do two or three,
  1970. 1:19:14but that's the fastest way
  1971. 1:19:15to bring the autonomic nervous system down.
  1972. 1:19:19A lot of people need such a tool because I think
  1973. 1:19:22we talk a lot about meditation and tools for calm
  1974. 1:19:25and, you know I can go to Esalen for a weekend
  1975. 1:19:27and get a massage, I'm gonna feel very good,
  1976. 1:19:29but then when I'm thrown back in real life
  1977. 1:19:30I need something that's gonna work in real time.
  1978. 1:19:33What I call a real time tool.
  1979. 1:19:35And most people don't know how to control
  1980. 1:19:36their autonomic nervous system because it's complicated.
  1981. 1:19:39I can't control my liver function.
  1982. 1:19:41I can eat that will calm me,
  1983. 1:19:42but that has complicated, you know, issues with it too
  1984. 1:19:46if I'm just eating to calm myself.
  1985. 1:19:48So the diaphragm is the one skeletal muscle organ
  1986. 1:19:53that was internally, right?
  1987. 1:19:55We've got obviously skeletal muscles
  1988. 1:19:56designed to move things.
  1989. 1:19:57It's a skeletal muscle organ, unlike the spleen, the liver,
  1990. 1:20:00the heart, et cetera
  1991. 1:20:01it was designed to be moved voluntarily.
  1992. 1:20:04And these physiological size are actually
  1993. 1:20:06occurring fairly regularly during sleep,
  1994. 1:20:09to adjust our levels of carbon dioxide and oxygen.
  1995. 1:20:13And there's a recent study showing that in claustrophobia
  1996. 1:20:16this is the breathing pattern that people default to,
  1997. 1:20:19to try and offload that carbon dioxide.
  1998. 1:20:22So, whereas there are a lot
  1999. 1:20:23of really interesting breathing techniques,
  2000. 1:20:25Wim Hof, Brian McKenzie does great work.
  2001. 1:20:27Patrick McHugh, you know, the Laird and Gabby, there're tons
  2002. 1:20:30of people doing really interesting things out there.
  2003. 1:20:33My lab has been focused on what are the neural circuits
  2004. 1:20:36that are designed to achieve particular states
  2005. 1:20:38that happen to impinge on and capture diaphragm function.
  2006. 1:20:42And so the reason I think breathing is so powerful
  2007. 1:20:45is that everyone has a diaphragm
  2008. 1:20:48and it's the immediate link to the body.
  2009. 1:20:50A lot's been made at the vagus nerve.
  2010. 1:20:51You know, oh, the vagus is the path
  2011. 1:20:53between the body and mind, but the vagus is very slow.
  2012. 1:20:56The vagus nerve calming is what you experience
  2013. 1:20:59when you eat a really rich carbohydrate-rich meal
  2014. 1:21:02or you've had a long day and you put your feet up
  2015. 1:21:05and you're finally relaxing.
  2016. 1:21:06It takes minutes to hours to kick in.
  2017. 1:21:09Whereas the diaphragm is real-time control
  2018. 1:21:12over your brain state.
  2019. 1:21:13So the brain knows what the body is doing
  2020. 1:21:16by how fast the diaphragm is moving.
  2021. 1:21:18It knows its overall activation state.
  2022. 1:21:20So when you breathe quickly
  2023. 1:21:21those 25 or 30 breaths, the brain says, oh, I must be alert.
  2024. 1:21:24I'm gonna start secreting some noradrenaline.
  2025. 1:21:26And when you breath slowly,
  2026. 1:21:28that level of noradrenaline drops down.
  2027. 1:21:30So it sounds so simple, but I think it's only in the last
  2028. 1:21:34two or three years that my lab and Mark Krasnow's lab
  2029. 1:21:37at Stanford and other labs elsewhere in the world
  2030. 1:21:39have started to identify the neurons
  2031. 1:21:41in the brain that are linked to breathing
  2032. 1:21:43and how those two things relate to one another.
  2033. 1:21:45And I think everybody should have a kit of tools
  2034. 1:21:49that they can use to bring themselves down
  2035. 1:21:51and ramp themselves up.
  2036. 1:21:53I'll just say one other thing about focus.
  2037. 1:21:55So when we're in a high alert state,
  2038. 1:21:57something very powerful happens
  2039. 1:21:59that I think partially explains your your ability now
  2040. 1:22:02to drop into this book writing.
  2041. 1:22:04When there's a certain amount of adrenaline in our system,
  2042. 1:22:06our pupils dilate,
  2043. 1:22:08remember the eyes are not connected to the brain.
  2044. 1:22:10Our eyes are actually two pieces of central nervous system.
  2045. 1:22:13They are two pieces of brain outside the skull
  2046. 1:22:16that were designed to control our overall arousal state.
  2047. 1:22:20And so we can talk about this as it relates to sleep
  2048. 1:22:22and sleep quality, but when I bring up the level
  2049. 1:22:25of adrenaline in my body through breathing, or let's say
  2050. 1:22:28I see a troubling text, or let's just say,
  2051. 1:22:30I just use a very Goggins-type-approach
  2052. 1:22:33and just figure out the most painful, inspiring for me
  2053. 1:22:37reason to do it, you know, it sounds vague,
  2054. 1:22:39'cause obviously David
  2055. 1:22:40I don't know what goes on in your head
  2056. 1:22:42but a tremendous respect for your ability to do this.
  2057. 1:22:44But he just ratchets himself out of that ditch
  2058. 1:22:46and puts himself in motion, the pupils dilate,
  2059. 1:22:50and when that happens,
  2060. 1:22:51our visual system actually enters something
  2061. 1:22:54that's a little bit more like portrait mode on our phone.
  2062. 1:22:56There's a process called accommodation
  2063. 1:22:58and your ability to focus on one thing visually
  2064. 1:23:02actually becomes better
  2065. 1:23:04and your ability to see everything else blurs away.
  2066. 1:23:07And that's the ability to just see that screen of text
  2067. 1:23:11or that if you were work on, you know, pad and paper
  2068. 1:23:13to just see that pad and paper.
  2069. 1:23:15And then as you start writing, what people don't realize is
  2070. 1:23:18that mental focus follows visual focus.
  2071. 1:23:22Now in blind people, it's slightly different,
  2072. 1:23:23it follows auditory focus, but in most people,
  2073. 1:23:28your visual focus as you bring that
  2074. 1:23:30into really sharp relief, that image of your book
  2075. 1:23:33and you stare at you're gonna feel some agitation
  2076. 1:23:35and your mind's gonna be jumping all over the place.
  2077. 1:23:37But if you wait just a couple minutes,
  2078. 1:23:39the rest of the world will disappear.
  2079. 1:23:41I think this is sort of like the flow state
  2080. 1:23:43people are looking for.
  2081. 1:23:44But remember the gate of entry is one of which
  2082. 1:23:46you have to wade through some sewage
  2083. 1:23:48before you can swim in clear water.
  2084. 1:23:50That's the way I always think about it.
  2085. 1:23:52But the visual focus is what brings the rest of the brain
  2086. 1:23:56into cognitive focus
  2087. 1:23:58and people in the martial arts understand this.
  2088. 1:24:01You've probably experienced this running when
  2089. 1:24:03you're feeling exhausted and you can just concentrate
  2090. 1:24:06on one milestone and get there.
  2091. 1:24:09You can almost bring that into like you
  2092. 1:24:12what you're doing is you're linking that
  2093. 1:24:13to the dopamine circuitry.
  2094. 1:24:14You're saying that thing is the milestone
  2095. 1:24:17not winning the race, not some other thing outside this,
  2096. 1:24:21this immediate environment, that thing.
  2097. 1:24:22And when you're able to start capturing
  2098. 1:24:24these peripheral circuits, meaning the body, the diaphragm,
  2099. 1:24:27the visual system, then you start getting past
  2100. 1:24:31this whole idea of mindsets
  2101. 1:24:32and it really becomes about the body setting the mind.
  2102. 1:24:35And this is where I think when you say action
  2103. 1:24:37leads the rest, right?
  2104. 1:24:40It's that's what you're saying is grounded
  2105. 1:24:43in real neuro biological data.
  2106. 1:24:47There's also a shift in your perception of time
  2107. 1:24:50when you're in that state, you know,
  2108. 1:24:51suddenly your relationship with time
  2109. 1:24:54becomes completely different.
  2110. 1:24:56So, I'm really glad you-
  2111. 1:24:58And I'm not like, you know,
  2112. 1:25:00it's easy to say it slows down or it speeds up,
  2113. 1:25:02to me it's neither.
  2114. 1:25:04You're in this weird liminal state
  2115. 1:25:06where it's almost like it doesn't exist.
  2116. 1:25:08It's not, it's not a relevant like vector in your,
  2117. 1:25:12in your emotional experience.
  2118. 1:25:15I'm really glad you brought this up
  2119. 1:25:16because one of my obsessions is time perception.
  2120. 1:25:19And, you know, having spent the last 20 years
  2121. 1:25:21or so studying the visual system
  2122. 1:25:22what you start to realize is that space,
  2123. 1:25:25meaning physical space, not outer space, but physical space
  2124. 1:25:28around you and your time perception are absolutely linked.
  2125. 1:25:33And when our focus is very narrow,
  2126. 1:25:36time starts to feel thin sliced.
  2127. 1:25:40So, you're right.
  2128. 1:25:41It's not that it's going fast or slow,
  2129. 1:25:44it's that you're perceiving more events per unit time.
  2130. 1:25:48So it's like a metronome that's going faster.
  2131. 1:25:51When our gaze is dilated,
  2132. 1:25:53so when we're relaxed, there's actually a,
  2133. 1:25:56what happens is the pupil kind of relaxes a bit.
  2134. 1:25:59It doesn't always get bigger or smaller
  2135. 1:26:00but what happens is when we're relaxed,
  2136. 1:26:02so if you view a horizon for instance,
  2137. 1:26:04or you go into what's called panoramic vision,
  2138. 1:26:06so even though I'm looking at you right now,
  2139. 1:26:08I can dilate my gaze without moving my head or eyes.
  2140. 1:26:10So I can see the corners of the room and the ceiling.
  2141. 1:26:12I can see myself in the environment, when we do that,
  2142. 1:26:15our perception of time broadens.
  2143. 1:26:18And we feel like we have more time.
  2144. 1:26:20And what we're doing when we do that focus
  2145. 1:26:23versus de-focus as I call it,
  2146. 1:26:24or focal vision versus panoramic vision is you're toggling
  2147. 1:26:28on and off the autonomic nervous system for alertness,
  2148. 1:26:31you're turning on and off that norepinephrine circuit.
  2149. 1:26:35And so it's conscious control over a brainstem circuit.
  2150. 1:26:38And this is why I don't like the phrase autonomic,
  2151. 1:26:40'cause that means automatic, it's a misnomer.
  2152. 1:26:42All the breathing I can control my autonomic nervous system.
  2153. 1:26:45I can breathe, I can control my autonomic nervous system,
  2154. 1:26:48I can eat a big meal.
  2155. 1:26:49I can control my autonomic nervous system,
  2156. 1:26:51I can focus or de-focus.
  2157. 1:26:53And if you really look at the realm of high-performance
  2158. 1:26:56what you start to realize is people who are very good
  2159. 1:26:59at their respective sport or career
  2160. 1:27:04or in the special operations community what they do,
  2161. 1:27:06are exceptionally good at turning it on and off
  2162. 1:27:09these systems.
  2163. 1:27:10So they're highly functional at achieving their milestones
  2164. 1:27:13but they're not spending out extra energy.
  2165. 1:27:16Because when you go into panoramic vision,
  2166. 1:27:18you start to uncouple the space time thing
  2167. 1:27:21and you get some rest and relaxation.
  2168. 1:27:24The way to think about this
  2169. 1:27:25as we go back to duration, path and outcome,
  2170. 1:27:27that's the most stringent high focus regime for the brain.
  2171. 1:27:30The way to get better
  2172. 1:27:32at duration, path, and outcome is to engage
  2173. 1:27:35in activities that are low duration, path, and outcome
  2174. 1:27:39where your brain is not in modes
  2175. 1:27:40of analyzing duration, path, and outcome.
  2176. 1:27:43What's the one phase of our life when we're not thinking
  2177. 1:27:47about duration, path, and outcome at all?
  2178. 1:27:49Sleep, and so the reason why
  2179. 1:27:54you can pull somebody's mind apart,
  2180. 1:27:56their ability to think rationally and analyze duration,
  2181. 1:27:59path and outcome by sleep depriving them, is because sleep
  2182. 1:28:03despite all its neurochemical complexity is really when
  2183. 1:28:07we restore our ability to analyze duration,
  2184. 1:28:10path and outcome. Now you think about BUD/S and you go
  2185. 1:28:12no wonder they're sleep deprived.
  2186. 1:28:14They're trying to figure out who has the ability to control
  2187. 1:28:17these mechanisms and who doesn't, most people fail.
  2188. 1:28:20So when I think about how to recover,
  2189. 1:28:23I've I actually don't think about recovery as its own thing.
  2190. 1:28:27I think about recovery as giving buoyancy
  2191. 1:28:30or improving my ability to focus.
  2192. 1:28:33So sleep is the turning off of these brain circuits
  2193. 1:28:38that are thinking about what's happening next.
  2194. 1:28:40So some people experience challenges in falling asleep,
  2195. 1:28:43they need to learn how to turn off thinking.
  2196. 1:28:45And there's actually a way to do this.
  2197. 1:28:46We're doing a study on this now, it relates to hypnosis.
  2198. 1:28:49That will be fun to talk about.
  2199. 1:28:51And we can, if you like, the other thing is that
  2200. 1:28:54just merely going into panoramic vision,
  2201. 1:28:57say between a meeting instead of looking at your phone,
  2202. 1:28:59more focal vision we're hard on your book.
  2203. 1:29:02Maybe you walk to the kitchen, just two seconds of,
  2204. 1:29:04what I call deliberate decompression, where you just kind of
  2205. 1:29:06let your mind go broader, will allow you to reset your focus
  2206. 1:29:11much more intensely when you return to that book
  2207. 1:29:13as opposed to if you'd looked at your phone
  2208. 1:29:15or engaged even in some other kind of deep duration,
  2209. 1:29:18path, outcome type function of the brain.
  2210. 1:29:22So when you start thinking about meditation,
  2211. 1:29:25it's also valuable because a lot of meditation
  2212. 1:29:27involves focusing on your breath.
  2213. 1:29:29I actually think a lot of people
  2214. 1:29:31are spending out this ability.
  2215. 1:29:33They're working too hard in the activities
  2216. 1:29:38that are designed to reset them.
  2217. 1:29:40So the two ways to reset yourself in wakefulness.
  2218. 1:29:43Being just very adamant about my meditation practice.
  2219. 1:29:46That's right.
  2220. 1:29:47Because it's an, it's a letting go.
  2221. 1:29:48It's not it's, you know, it's we're so programmed
  2222. 1:29:51to like force ourselves to do things
  2223. 1:29:53or to like dive in with intentionality.
  2224. 1:29:56But so much of this is more elusive than that.
  2225. 1:30:01I think that we can all do ourselves a great service
  2226. 1:30:04and perform much better in what we're doing
  2227. 1:30:08by taking little micro recoveries in the form of dilating
  2228. 1:30:11our gaze in between meetings, just for a second,
  2229. 1:30:14viewing a horizon is the best way to do it
  2230. 1:30:16because it naturally brings the eyes into de-focus.
  2231. 1:30:18We're doing this in VR because we can control
  2232. 1:30:20the visual environment completely.
  2233. 1:30:22When you go into this de-focus mode, you turn off
  2234. 1:30:25that brainstem circuit, you're conserving norepinephrine
  2235. 1:30:28for your next bout of focus in activity.
  2236. 1:30:30Otherwise you're spending it and the brain doesn't care
  2237. 1:30:33how you spend it.
  2238. 1:30:34Doesn't care if it's on Instagram, doesn't care
  2239. 1:30:36if it's watching the news, but learning how to de-focus
  2240. 1:30:40and then refocus very quickly can get you through a race
  2241. 1:30:43that you wouldn't otherwise have been able to get through.
  2242. 1:30:46It saves you energy and it builds energy.
  2243. 1:30:50The other thing is we talk a lot about sleep
  2244. 1:30:53and sleep is extremely important, but there are other modes
  2245. 1:30:56of, and brain states that can allow you to recover.
  2246. 1:30:58One of the ones that I'm a huge proponent of
  2247. 1:31:00and that my lab has been studying and other labs
  2248. 1:31:03are studying is what many people call yoga nidra,
  2249. 1:31:06where you-
  2250. 1:31:07I've done yoga nidra a lot.
  2251. 1:31:08It's a wonderful practice, you know, just lying down
  2252. 1:31:11and focusing enough of your attention
  2253. 1:31:13so that you don't fall asleep and enough of your attentions
  2254. 1:31:17on and moving it around
  2255. 1:31:18so that you're not really concentrating on any one thing.
  2256. 1:31:21I fall asleep every time.
  2257. 1:31:22I do too, yeah, I do too.
  2258. 1:31:25But what we know,
  2259. 1:31:26so I fundamentally disagree with respectfully though,
  2260. 1:31:29with the idea that we can't recover sleep that we've lost.
  2261. 1:31:32Because what are we really talking about there?
  2262. 1:31:34For me it's the ability to perform these duration,
  2263. 1:31:37path, outcome analysis.
  2264. 1:31:38So in my lab, we have people do a cognitive task
  2265. 1:31:40and then we place them into these very deep states
  2266. 1:31:43of relaxation through things
  2267. 1:31:44that are kind of like yoga nidra
  2268. 1:31:46and people can find yoga nidra scripts out there.
  2269. 1:31:47They're everywhere on YouTube, elsewhere,
  2270. 1:31:50or we have them do a hypnosis script.
  2271. 1:31:52Hypnosis is very similar, deep relaxation,
  2272. 1:31:55wandering sort of attention, fairly narrow context,
  2273. 1:32:00but it brings the brain into these unique states
  2274. 1:32:03where you're neither asleep nor awake.
  2275. 1:32:05And for people that have trouble falling asleep,
  2276. 1:32:08or trouble relaxing themselves, these kinds of practices
  2277. 1:32:11are extremely useful,
  2278. 1:32:13because they're really teaching you how to turn off
  2279. 1:32:16those modes of focus.
  2280. 1:32:17So, you know, we live in a stress society.
  2281. 1:32:19Some people are stressed 'cause they're overwhelmed
  2282. 1:32:21but other people are stressed because they just don't know
  2283. 1:32:23how to turn off their brain and fall asleep.
  2284. 1:32:25And so if you wanna learn how to turn off your brain
  2285. 1:32:28and fall asleep, these practices are immensely useful.
  2286. 1:32:31How do you practice hypnosis by yourself though?
  2287. 1:32:34So there's some scripts.
  2288. 1:32:35I would recommend people go to one of the scripts
  2289. 1:32:37on YouTube or there's some good ones I've never met him.
  2290. 1:32:40I don't have any relationship to him, but Michael Sealey,
  2291. 1:32:43S-E-A-L-E-Y, an Australian guy
  2292. 1:32:47has some really good hypnosis scripts.
  2293. 1:32:50And they're just audio programs?
  2294. 1:32:51Yeah, you just listen to them and these-
  2295. 1:32:53And he's not gonna make you walk off a cliff or anything.
  2296. 1:32:56No, so stage hypnosis is very different.
  2297. 1:32:58So I have a very close collaboration
  2298. 1:33:00with a guy named David Spiegel,
  2299. 1:33:01who's in our psychiatry department at Stanford.
  2300. 1:33:03We're now looking at how daily breathing exercises
  2301. 1:33:08can impact people's sleep and levels of stress.
  2302. 1:33:10He's done a lot of work on addiction and trauma
  2303. 1:33:12and pain management through hypnosis
  2304. 1:33:14and most all of hypnosis that's clinical
  2305. 1:33:17involves bringing one's state
  2306. 1:33:19into one of deeper relaxation, not full sleep.
  2307. 1:33:23And then thinking about some behavioral change
  2308. 1:33:25that one wants to make.
  2309. 1:33:26These are ancient practices, really.
  2310. 1:33:29And I think that they were developed
  2311. 1:33:30by people that understood that rewiring
  2312. 1:33:33of the brain requires focus and deep rest.
  2313. 1:33:37What's interesting about hypnosis is it brings
  2314. 1:33:39those two things together at the same moment.
  2315. 1:33:42So normally you'll work really hard
  2316. 1:33:43on something work really hard, then you'll sleep
  2317. 1:33:45and that's when the plasticity occurs.
  2318. 1:33:47But hypnosis likely accelerates that whole process
  2319. 1:33:50by having people enter a state of deep relaxation
  2320. 1:33:54and focus at the same time
  2321. 1:33:56and allows those circuits to reshape themselves.
  2322. 1:33:58And there's some published data
  2323. 1:33:59from David's lab to support that.
  2324. 1:34:01That's fascinating.
  2325. 1:34:02So I think these practices are really useful.
  2326. 1:34:04And I think that if you wanna get better at performing
  2327. 1:34:07everyone now knows thanks to Matt Walker's book
  2328. 1:34:09and others like "Sleep More, Sleep Better,"
  2329. 1:34:11but what if you have trouble sleeping,
  2330. 1:34:13well or falling asleep?
  2331. 1:34:14Well, we want to define what that is.
  2332. 1:34:16Some people have a hard time turning off their thoughts.
  2333. 1:34:19It's really hard, remember you can't do it.
  2334. 1:34:21What you can do is to learn to control
  2335. 1:34:24that perceptual window and distribute it so that your sense
  2336. 1:34:27of time starts to kind of drift off
  2337. 1:34:29and you end up in sleep more easily.
  2338. 1:34:30And it's a practice that most people find if they do it
  2339. 1:34:32for 10 minutes a day or so, they start sleeping
  2340. 1:34:35much better within a week or more.
  2341. 1:34:38And sometimes more, they sometimes people need
  2342. 1:34:40some other help, like not drinking caffeine
  2343. 1:34:42late in the day et cetera.
  2344. 1:34:43But that brain state of no duration,
  2345. 1:34:47path and outcome analysis is gonna be the most restorative
  2346. 1:34:50and you can get it in wakefulness too.
  2347. 1:34:51So taking a walk where you're just letting your mind go
  2348. 1:34:55is very powerful.
  2349. 1:34:56And the other thing that's powerful is optic flow.
  2350. 1:34:59So self-generated optic flow by walking, running,
  2351. 1:35:03or cycling shifts the brain into a state of relaxation
  2352. 1:35:08that's not seen when you're stationary.
  2353. 1:35:11This is well-described in the neuroscience literature
  2354. 1:35:13for some reasons not well-described
  2355. 1:35:15in the wellness literature, but it's a real thing.
  2356. 1:35:20When you move through space, you're active,
  2357. 1:35:23you're, there's a natural calming of the brain circuits
  2358. 1:35:25involved in threat and threat detection.
  2359. 1:35:27This is the basis for EMDR,
  2360. 1:35:29eye movement desensitization reprocessing,
  2361. 1:35:32the lateralized eye movements they have people do
  2362. 1:35:33in the clinic that on a goofy-looking thing
  2363. 1:35:35while they do counter trauma. I've heard you talk
  2364. 1:35:36about that, to overcome fear and trauma.
  2365. 1:35:39That lowers stress and the rationale is that
  2366. 1:35:43by coupling a low stress state, to the recall of the trauma
  2367. 1:35:48it's gonna allow people to reshape the relationship
  2368. 1:35:50to the trauma, to tolerate that discomfort.
  2369. 1:35:54And it, EMDR my clinical colleagues tell me
  2370. 1:35:57works best for fairly well-defined traumas.
  2371. 1:36:01It's not gonna be like my childhood or, you know
  2372. 1:36:04a whole series of events, but for single event traumas
  2373. 1:36:06or trauma that's repeated, but of the same sort,
  2374. 1:36:10it seems to work best.
  2375. 1:36:12It's not gonna work best to completely reshape
  2376. 1:36:14all relationships to all traumas,
  2377. 1:36:16but it does seem to be powerful
  2378. 1:36:18for a certain group of people.
  2379. 1:36:19So, basically an example would be if you got
  2380. 1:36:21into a car accident, and then you're afraid to get in a car
  2381. 1:36:23or something like that, right?
  2382. 1:36:24So you take this person and you submit them
  2383. 1:36:28to this therapy where they move their eyes
  2384. 1:36:31back and forth laterally, which seems absurd.
  2385. 1:36:33Seems goofy, right.
  2386. 1:36:35So this is supposed to help them
  2387. 1:36:37get over their fear or their blockage?
  2388. 1:36:39Yeah, so, okay.
  2389. 1:36:41So my lab studies vision and we study stress
  2390. 1:36:45and states of mind, and people used to talk
  2391. 1:36:47to me about EMDR and asked me about EMDR.
  2392. 1:36:49And I was like, this is crazy.
  2393. 1:36:50This sounds like a music genre.
  2394. 1:36:52This is absurd, right?
  2395. 1:36:53Or a drug.
  2396. 1:36:54Makes no sense, why would moving the eyes
  2397. 1:36:55from side to side, have any impact on states of mind?
  2398. 1:36:58That's ridiculous.
  2399. 1:37:00But then what happened was in 2018, 2019 and 2020,
  2400. 1:37:03five quality manuscripts came out in very good journals,
  2401. 1:37:07from groups that were studying eye movements,
  2402. 1:37:10not studying stress or trauma that found
  2403. 1:37:12that these lateralized eye movements not up and down,
  2404. 1:37:14but lateralized eye movements,
  2405. 1:37:16quiet the activity of the amygdala,
  2406. 1:37:18the limbic structure in the brain
  2407. 1:37:20that's primarily responsible for threat detection
  2408. 1:37:23and stress.
  2409. 1:37:25And I was like, oh my goodness
  2410. 1:37:27this thing might actually be real.
  2411. 1:37:29Then I started to dig into the backstory of this.
  2412. 1:37:31And there was a woman named Francine Shapiro
  2413. 1:37:34who came up with this idea, actually walking behind Stanford
  2414. 1:37:38in the Stanford Hills, she was a therapist.
  2415. 1:37:40And she figured she had this idea based on the fact that she
  2416. 1:37:43didn't feel as upset about certain things
  2417. 1:37:45when she was walking, that this might be useful.
  2418. 1:37:48And she was smart enough to know
  2419. 1:37:50that these lateralized eye movements
  2420. 1:37:51are what reflexively occur anytime we're in optic flow.
  2421. 1:37:54We don't realize it 'cause they're subconsciously generated
  2422. 1:37:56and they're very subtle,
  2423. 1:37:58but she realized she couldn't really take people walking
  2424. 1:38:00on their therapy sessions, I suppose she could,
  2425. 1:38:02but it's not really practical, it's raining, et cetera.
  2426. 1:38:05So what she decided to do
  2427. 1:38:06was to bring the eye movement component to the clinic
  2428. 1:38:09and have them move their eyes from side to side
  2429. 1:38:11while they would recount these traumas,
  2430. 1:38:13and people experienced tremendous benefit.
  2431. 1:38:16And in fact, now there's a lot of evidence to show
  2432. 1:38:19that these lateralized eye movements
  2433. 1:38:20really do quiet the stress of the nervous system
  2434. 1:38:23and allow people to continue to move forward.
  2435. 1:38:25This is probably all anchored.
  2436. 1:38:28I go back to that story of that deer that needs something.
  2437. 1:38:31And as it's feeling that agitation and gets up
  2438. 1:38:34and starts moving, the movement feeds back
  2439. 1:38:37onto the brain to quiet that stress and anxiety.
  2440. 1:38:39So it can be observant of its environment.
  2441. 1:38:42And that panoramic mode is what we are in
  2442. 1:38:46when we are in a position to be very situationally aware.
  2443. 1:38:51When we're stressed, we are gonna have, you know,
  2444. 1:38:53soda straw view of the world, right?
  2445. 1:38:56This relates directly to addiction
  2446. 1:38:58because I've spent some time at addition treatment clinics
  2447. 1:39:00and talking to people in that community.
  2448. 1:39:02And it's very clear that of course there are a huge number
  2449. 1:39:04of factors that play into why people become addicted
  2450. 1:39:07and relapse, et cetera.
  2451. 1:39:09But if you can get at people's ability
  2452. 1:39:11to control their anxiety,
  2453. 1:39:13and their feelings of peak states and happiness,
  2454. 1:39:16you don't guarantee, but you help reinforce the possibility
  2455. 1:39:22that they're gonna get sober and stay sober.
  2456. 1:39:25As an addict gets more tethered
  2457. 1:39:27to the idea that some substances, the thing they need,
  2458. 1:39:30the progressive narrowing
  2459. 1:39:31of the things that bring them pleasure
  2460. 1:39:33and everything else kind of falls away
  2461. 1:39:34like portrait mode on the phone,
  2462. 1:39:37they're essentially in a state of high stress
  2463. 1:39:39trying to meet that dopamine need all the time
  2464. 1:39:42and they don't see other possibilities.
  2465. 1:39:45The reason I mentioned not just stress
  2466. 1:39:47and treating stress to get at addiction
  2467. 1:39:50but also pleasure is that we've also seen this.
  2468. 1:39:52When do people relapse?
  2469. 1:39:53When they're feeling really good.
  2470. 1:39:55When they're feeling really lousy and stressed
  2471. 1:39:57and when they're feeling really good.
  2472. 1:39:58They've been sober for five years.
  2473. 1:40:00We hear about this in the news,
  2474. 1:40:01usually from celebrity examples,
  2475. 1:40:03people have been doing great,
  2476. 1:40:04all of a sudden they're back in treatment.
  2477. 1:40:06And you're like, what happened?
  2478. 1:40:07What happened was the dopamine circuit from other things
  2479. 1:40:10maybe a great life event or things are going well
  2480. 1:40:13or stress, the loss of a job, everything crashing,
  2481. 1:40:17puts our visual system
  2482. 1:40:18and the rest of our brain into a myopia.
  2483. 1:40:21We become near, we literally become near-sighted
  2484. 1:40:23and the dopamine system says
  2485. 1:40:26that's the only thing that's gonna get me
  2486. 1:40:28out of the mode that I'm in.
  2487. 1:40:29They literally don't see the other possibilities.
  2488. 1:40:31So some of the work that I'm starting
  2489. 1:40:33to get involved in now is to try
  2490. 1:40:35and inform the addiction treatment community,
  2491. 1:40:37the trauma community, that there are ways to use action
  2492. 1:40:41in the body to move people out of states of myopia,
  2493. 1:40:44near-sightedness.
  2494. 1:40:45And this is kind of a cognitive near-sightedness,
  2495. 1:40:48and allow them to start pursing
  2496. 1:40:51their time perception differently.
  2497. 1:40:53It hard, you know, it goes right back to time perception.
  2498. 1:40:56When an addict needs something,
  2499. 1:40:58their sense of time is fixed to the retrieval of that thing
  2500. 1:41:02or the, you know, reaching that thing.
  2501. 1:41:04And then when they can dilate their sense of time,
  2502. 1:41:06they realize they have time for other options,
  2503. 1:41:10but until you can dilate that,
  2504. 1:41:11there's really no chance, frankly.
  2505. 1:41:13You can't find a way in.
  2506. 1:41:14You can't find a way.
  2507. 1:41:15You can tell somebody you're gonna lose your kids,
  2508. 1:41:17and they'll do it anyway.
  2509. 1:41:18And that just tells us we need another route to it.
  2510. 1:41:21And so one of the things I think is powerful is to think
  2511. 1:41:23about how can we leverage the visual system?
  2512. 1:41:26How can we leverage the diaphragm system?
  2513. 1:41:29In the same way that you would tell a, you know,
  2514. 1:41:32somebody who's in, you know, has cancer
  2515. 1:41:34or needs a surgery of a certain sort,
  2516. 1:41:35like we need to leverage certain technologies.
  2517. 1:41:38Well, we need to leverage certain inborn technologies
  2518. 1:41:42of respiration and vision to be able to access states
  2519. 1:41:45of mind that will allow us to make better choices.
  2520. 1:41:47For the addict in that really near-sighted view fixated,
  2521. 1:41:51there is no other choice.
  2522. 1:41:52And I think those early years of skateboarding and being
  2523. 1:41:57you know, feral, it showed me that these, the people I knew
  2524. 1:42:00that became addicts and frankly, I know some adults
  2525. 1:42:02who have become addicts, even who have very quote-unquote
  2526. 1:42:05functional lives, it wasn't just them,
  2527. 1:42:08those people, you know, we like to think
  2528. 1:42:11they're making a bad choice and they had,
  2529. 1:42:14they're making a bad decision.
  2530. 1:42:16It's unclear to me whether or not they have a choice
  2531. 1:42:19in those highly myopic states of mind.
  2532. 1:42:22And so what we need to do is we need to dilate
  2533. 1:42:24their perception of the world around them.
  2534. 1:42:26We need to dilate their perception of time.
  2535. 1:42:28We need to learn.
  2536. 1:42:29They need to learn how to relax themselves
  2537. 1:42:31so they can actually see other options.
  2538. 1:42:34And it all relates to how the visual system
  2539. 1:42:37and the breathing system relate to autonomic function.
  2540. 1:42:39Addiction is the perfect sort of laboratory
  2541. 1:42:43to do this, and it's so important, I think,
  2542. 1:42:45because if it were simply the case that people just
  2543. 1:42:48needed family support and which they do, and they needed
  2544. 1:42:53you know, encouragement and they need discouragement
  2545. 1:42:56about making the wrong behaviors, then this,
  2546. 1:42:58we wouldn't even
  2547. 1:42:59be having this discussion. It's so much
  2548. 1:42:59more complicated than that.
  2549. 1:43:00It's so much more complicated.
  2550. 1:43:01I mean, the thing, I think all of those are,
  2551. 1:43:05you know, really powerful tools and important things
  2552. 1:43:07to look at with respect to the addict mentality
  2553. 1:43:11or that disposition.
  2554. 1:43:13There has to be a level of self-awareness in that addict
  2555. 1:43:16that the decision to pick up the drink or to use the drug
  2556. 1:43:20begins so far in advance of the actual behavior.
  2557. 1:43:25By the time they actually pick up that drink,
  2558. 1:43:27there's no getting in the way of that.
  2559. 1:43:29Like that decision has so much momentum
  2560. 1:43:32behind it that it's almost impossible to reverse.
  2561. 1:43:34So a breathing technique or any technique
  2562. 1:43:37at that juncture is unlikely to be successful.
  2563. 1:43:40So it's about recognizing, you know,
  2564. 1:43:43when that state is starting to shift in that direction
  2565. 1:43:46whether it's days or hours or weeks
  2566. 1:43:48before the behavior choice to intervene at a place in time
  2567. 1:43:53when you can actually have an impact.
  2568. 1:43:56I agree.
  2569. 1:43:57I think that it's always an uphill battle with addiction
  2570. 1:44:00at least at first, but even just given
  2571. 1:44:02that the numbers on relapse, you know, I think every
  2572. 1:44:05what was it that someone wants told me?
  2573. 1:44:07I don't know if this is actually true,
  2574. 1:44:09but for most people, but he said,
  2575. 1:44:11a recovered addict told me, you know, he
  2576. 1:44:13that everyday he tells himself, no matter how far I drive,
  2577. 1:44:16I'm always the same distance from the ditch, you know?
  2578. 1:44:19I mean, the addiction community has-
  2579. 1:44:20There's so many awesome.
  2580. 1:44:21There's so many great takeaways, yeah.
  2581. 1:44:23What's interesting is there's a, some verbiage
  2582. 1:44:29around the yoga community that is very valuable.
  2583. 1:44:32I can't recall it off the top of my head,
  2584. 1:44:35but they talk about the great support that one can get
  2585. 1:44:40from learning to access brain states of timelessness, sleep
  2586. 1:44:46being very restorative, wakeful, deliberate disengagement
  2587. 1:44:49being very restorative, maybe meditation,
  2588. 1:44:52maybe through yoga nidra, maybe through simple,
  2589. 1:44:54quick breathing techniques, but being able to dilate
  2590. 1:44:57and contract one sense of time and not being locked
  2591. 1:45:00to one kind of space-time regime, the ability to recognize
  2592. 1:45:06that I'm not seeing clearly
  2593. 1:45:08or I see what I see, but I don't know what I don't see,
  2594. 1:45:12the ability to introduce that understanding
  2595. 1:45:15for somebody can be very powerful.
  2596. 1:45:16And I think we need to give them tools
  2597. 1:45:18that they can look to very quickly.
  2598. 1:45:20I don't think we're ever gonna have a treatment
  2599. 1:45:22for addiction that's in the form of a pharmaceutical,
  2600. 1:45:24like one pill,
  2601. 1:45:25because if you start tapping
  2602. 1:45:26into the dopamine system itself,
  2603. 1:45:28you start degrading other aspects of life.
  2604. 1:45:30So I think one of the reasons why addiction treatment
  2605. 1:45:32is so complicated is that you need many elements,
  2606. 1:45:35but the elements that come from the person themselves
  2607. 1:45:38are ultimately the most important ones, of course.
  2608. 1:45:41And I think physiology and neuroscience does have some tools
  2609. 1:45:44that can lend support to that.
  2610. 1:45:45Yeah, yeah, it's interesting.
  2611. 1:45:47I mean, I think that every couple of years
  2612. 1:45:51you see new science emerge on addiction
  2613. 1:45:53and there's some new protocol and, you know
  2614. 1:45:5712 steps constantly getting thrown under the bus
  2615. 1:45:59and, you know, 12 steps, what got me sober,
  2616. 1:46:02and I'm very rooted in that community.
  2617. 1:46:06I remain open to other, you know, modalities and protocols
  2618. 1:46:09and super interested in seeing where all of this is going,
  2619. 1:46:14but I think it is important to appreciate how complex it is.
  2620. 1:46:17Like there's a trauma element to it.
  2621. 1:46:19There's a, you know, behavioral modification element to it.
  2622. 1:46:23There's an emotional, like how do you,
  2623. 1:46:25how do you find a way to anchor this person to a path
  2624. 1:46:28a life path that has meaning and purpose
  2625. 1:46:30and all of these things inform this complex, you know,
  2626. 1:46:34soup that's going on in their head, that's dictating
  2627. 1:46:37whether they're gonna pick up a drink or not?
  2628. 1:46:39Yeah, and you know and I love the neuroscience community
  2629. 1:46:42with, you know, it's been my family
  2630. 1:46:43and home for many years now.
  2631. 1:46:45And the people working on addiction are, you know,
  2632. 1:46:49motivated from the right place.
  2633. 1:46:50And they are, you know, working exceedingly hard.
  2634. 1:46:53There are a lot of data now that show,
  2635. 1:46:55you know, for instance, there are complete genetic changes
  2636. 1:46:58in the cells that can, you know,
  2637. 1:46:59and the pathways that control dopamine and reward.
  2638. 1:47:01And that's all wonderful to understand.
  2639. 1:47:03But meanwhile, I think there are enough tools out there
  2640. 1:47:06that they need to be aggregated in a way that's structured
  2641. 1:47:09and that addiction treatment communities can leverage.
  2642. 1:47:13One of the things that would be of great use
  2643. 1:47:14is the idea of a biomarker.
  2644. 1:47:16So you described that, you know,
  2645. 1:47:18and it's really a beautiful example of how when some,
  2646. 1:47:20early on you might be able to intervene,
  2647. 1:47:22but later it gets much harder.
  2648. 1:47:24We need biomarkers that are gonna tell us
  2649. 1:47:27for some people or their family, that somebody is at risk.
  2650. 1:47:30Some of you have biomarkers-
  2651. 1:47:31Some kind of whooped device, right?
  2652. 1:47:33Well, I think it's gonna come from once you know
  2653. 1:47:36how well somebody is regulating
  2654. 1:47:38their own autonomic nervous system,
  2655. 1:47:39you can predict pretty well whether or not
  2656. 1:47:43they're going to succeed or fail in making good decisions.
  2657. 1:47:47And so I do think a whoop type device
  2658. 1:47:49or other sensor device could be tremendously beneficial
  2659. 1:47:52in detecting and telling people
  2660. 1:47:56whether or not they are veering off course.
  2661. 1:47:58Right.
  2662. 1:47:59And I think-
  2663. 1:48:00It's getting very minority report though.
  2664. 1:48:01It is, I mean, I think machines are gonna help us
  2665. 1:48:04make a lot of decisions
  2666. 1:48:05that we're actually pretty poor at making.
  2667. 1:48:07But the simplest of those that we might see
  2668. 1:48:10in the next two or three years is saying, look,
  2669. 1:48:12you've been working extremely hard on your book.
  2670. 1:48:14You're doing very well, but you're gonna need an extra hour
  2671. 1:48:18of sleep, I mean,
  2672. 1:48:18that's essentially what it's doing for you, or-
  2673. 1:48:21In 12 hours you're gonna make a bad decision.
  2674. 1:48:23In 12 hours you're gonna make a bad decision.
  2675. 1:48:25or even cuing it, or insert might in there, right?
  2676. 1:48:29You might make a bad decision so that you're more aware
  2677. 1:48:31and you're gonna devote a little more mental energy
  2678. 1:48:33to the kinds of decisions you're making.
  2679. 1:48:35I think that as I pull a lot of all nighters and I still do
  2680. 1:48:39unfortunately in my career writing grants and so forth.
  2681. 1:48:42And I have this rule that I learned,
  2682. 1:48:44my gosh about 15 years ago which is I don't trust
  2683. 1:48:47any of my thinking that occurs between 3:00 AM and 7:00 AM
  2684. 1:48:51if I've been up all night, I just don't trust it,
  2685. 1:48:52because I start to think the world's falling apart.
  2686. 1:48:55I start thinking the word the is misspelled.
  2687. 1:48:58I mean, I really know I'm sleep deprived when words
  2688. 1:49:00like the look misspelled
  2689. 1:49:02and then I'm like, what's going on?
  2690. 1:49:04That's that duration, path, outcomes circuitry
  2691. 1:49:07starting to try and starting to fall apart.
  2692. 1:49:09So I think that that's an extreme example
  2693. 1:49:11but I think that short of having people buffer their lives
  2694. 1:49:14with tons of activities
  2695. 1:49:15and perfect nutrition and perfect social interactions,
  2696. 1:49:18people learning to control their autonomic nervous system,
  2697. 1:49:20I think is really the next step in our species evolution.
  2698. 1:49:25I really believe that what we are seeing now in the world
  2699. 1:49:30is a call to arms, if you will, or a request
  2700. 1:49:35from mother nature to have everybody learn
  2701. 1:49:38how to control their autonomic nervous system
  2702. 1:49:40a little bit better or ideally a lot better.
  2703. 1:49:43Yeah, it's absolutely critical, I think.
  2704. 1:49:45I mean, right now, you know, irrespective of what's going on
  2705. 1:49:49with the pandemic and the political climate,
  2706. 1:49:52and the protests and all the upheaval that we're seeing,
  2707. 1:49:55as a culture, we're experiencing an extraordinary poverty
  2708. 1:49:59of attention and focus.
  2709. 1:50:01We're so distracted by our devices.
  2710. 1:50:04We're more anxious and stressed
  2711. 1:50:05and depressed than we ever have been before.
  2712. 1:50:08This is not going in a good direction.
  2713. 1:50:11And to the extent that we can commandeer
  2714. 1:50:14a little bit more control over these things and understand
  2715. 1:50:17that we have some level of agency
  2716. 1:50:19and we can reverse this sort of automatic pattern
  2717. 1:50:25that we're on of just scrolling endlessly and, you know,
  2718. 1:50:29doing what we're doing that we know is not leading us
  2719. 1:50:31in a good direction is critical
  2720. 1:50:33if we're gonna find our way forward.
  2721. 1:50:34And to speak a little bit to what's going on right now,
  2722. 1:50:38I think, you know, and it's related,
  2723. 1:50:40and I'm interested in your thoughts on, you know,
  2724. 1:50:43the neuroscience that is, you know,
  2725. 1:50:47I think relevant to this is that we've lost the ability
  2726. 1:50:52to have civil discourse.
  2727. 1:50:54There's a real breakdown in communication right now,
  2728. 1:50:56culturally and socially, and it's fractured our society
  2729. 1:51:01and it's not good, right?
  2730. 1:51:04So what is going on neurologically
  2731. 1:51:07with human beings that are attaching themselves
  2732. 1:51:11and it's so self identifying with certain narratives
  2733. 1:51:14that it's polarizing our population and preventing us
  2734. 1:51:18from being able to just be together or united
  2735. 1:51:23or agree upon what is true and what is not true
  2736. 1:51:26and share a value system so that we can see our way
  2737. 1:51:30through the challenges that we're facing right now,
  2738. 1:51:33which many of which are an existential threat
  2739. 1:51:36to the future of humanity and the planet.
  2740. 1:51:39It's a huge problem, you articulated it beautifully.
  2741. 1:51:44And I think neuroscience can offer a couple of insights
  2742. 1:51:47into why it's happening
  2743. 1:51:49and perhaps what we might do about it.
  2744. 1:51:51So, one of the scientific results that I'm very intrigued by
  2745. 1:51:56is in the 1960s, a guy named Robert Heath recorded
  2746. 1:51:58from the human brain, there are people
  2747. 1:52:00you can't do this experiment nowadays,
  2748. 1:52:02but skull popped off, my neurosurgery friends tell me
  2749. 1:52:05that's no big deal, electrodes lower deep into the brain,
  2750. 1:52:10all over the brain and people can stimulate
  2751. 1:52:11wherever they want
  2752. 1:52:12and they just report what they're feeling.
  2753. 1:52:14So press one lever, they feel drunk.
  2754. 1:52:16They press another lever, they feel happy.
  2755. 1:52:18They press another lever, they feel sexually aroused.
  2756. 1:52:20And they're reporting all of this, right?
  2757. 1:52:22When was this done?
  2758. 1:52:23In the 1960s, the early 1960s.
  2759. 1:52:26Several times actually, and published twice
  2760. 1:52:29essentially the same data, different populations
  2761. 1:52:30in the journal science which is sort of our Super Bowl
  2762. 1:52:33science and nature cell, those are the big ones,
  2763. 1:52:35journals rep that is,
  2764. 1:52:37so the number one brain area that people want to stimulate.
  2765. 1:52:42They finally hit this lever where they go, oh, I like that.
  2766. 1:52:46And they just keep hitting that thing and hitting that thing
  2767. 1:52:48and hitting that thing, frustration and mild anger.
  2768. 1:52:53And I saw that result. That's the choice.
  2769. 1:52:55I could be drunk, I could be happy.
  2770. 1:52:57I could be, I'm gonna choose frustration and anger.
  2771. 1:53:00Exactly, it's, what that told us is it's clearly tapped
  2772. 1:53:03into the dopamine reward system.
  2773. 1:53:05It feels like a hit of dopamine to them,
  2774. 1:53:08more than anything else.
  2775. 1:53:09So, we need to put that on the shelf and keep it visible
  2776. 1:53:13as we kind of march into this sort of answer
  2777. 1:53:17to your question.
  2778. 1:53:19The other thing is an understanding that,
  2779. 1:53:21and there's some recent data on this
  2780. 1:53:22that are really impressive, not from my lab
  2781. 1:53:24but from another lab, which is that beliefs
  2782. 1:53:27and information that supports our prior beliefs,
  2783. 1:53:31also increases the activity of these reward systems.
  2784. 1:53:34So the more I see stuff that verifies what I already think
  2785. 1:53:37or feel that they are bad and they are good
  2786. 1:53:39or that we are good and they are bad,
  2787. 1:53:42the more dopamine and adrenaline is released into my system.
  2788. 1:53:46Which we now know from our discussion a few minutes ago,
  2789. 1:53:49changes the way I view the world.
  2790. 1:53:51It actually changes the way I view the world.
  2791. 1:53:53It means that I'm gonna see certain things
  2792. 1:53:54and not see others.
  2793. 1:53:55And this also relates to the auditory system.
  2794. 1:53:57I'm gonna hear certain things and not hear others.
  2795. 1:53:59The things that verify my beliefs
  2796. 1:54:01are I'm gonna feel rewarded for,
  2797. 1:54:03the things that are counter to my beliefs,
  2798. 1:54:06I'm not gonna be it's rewarded for.
  2799. 1:54:08So we have all these barricades
  2800. 1:54:10to empathy and to really listening
  2801. 1:54:13and to really hearing what the other side is trying to say.
  2802. 1:54:16And we have all these support networks
  2803. 1:54:18in our body and our brain
  2804. 1:54:20which are building a bigger and bigger divide.
  2805. 1:54:23Now that's all very depressing.
  2806. 1:54:25So the question is, what's the boat
  2807. 1:54:26that's gonna get us across that divide.
  2808. 1:54:29And I believe, and I am not just defaulting to this
  2809. 1:54:33'cause it's what my lab works on,
  2810. 1:54:34but I fundamentally believe
  2811. 1:54:36that the boat that's gonna get us to the other side
  2812. 1:54:39is our ability to control our internal state,
  2813. 1:54:43to be able to ratchet down our level of autonomic arousal,
  2814. 1:54:47just enough so that I can dilate not just my vision,
  2815. 1:54:50of what's happening in my immediate environment,
  2816. 1:54:52but I can dilate my cognition, my thinking,
  2817. 1:54:55to the possibility that there may be a kernel of value
  2818. 1:54:58in what somebody else is saying, even if it's about me,
  2819. 1:55:00and I don't like what I'm hearing.
  2820. 1:55:02Now, as somebody who spent time
  2821. 1:55:04in the addiction treatment community, you probably know,
  2822. 1:55:06this is a lot of what you get good at as you learn to move
  2823. 1:55:09through something that to you feels very good and you know
  2824. 1:55:15all the reasons why it would probably be good to change it,
  2825. 1:55:18but you know what you don't want to,
  2826. 1:55:20because it feels so good.
  2827. 1:55:22So we're talking about an addiction to entrenched thinking.
  2828. 1:55:25We're talking about an addiction and neurochemical systems
  2829. 1:55:28that support, lack of change my refusal to change,
  2830. 1:55:31and stubbornness.
  2831. 1:55:33And I actually think just like in, for the treatment
  2832. 1:55:35of addiction and trauma, the key is to get people to learn
  2833. 1:55:38to tolerate progressively higher levels of stress,
  2834. 1:55:42and maintain dilation of sensory experience,
  2835. 1:55:46of thought experience.
  2836. 1:55:47We've got to create some small little portals
  2837. 1:55:52through which information can come in.
  2838. 1:55:54A lot's been made of mirror neurons.
  2839. 1:55:56I hate to break it to the crowd, but the data in support
  2840. 1:55:59of mirror neurons in humans is not that impressive.
  2841. 1:56:02And now the mirror neuron people are gonna come after me,
  2842. 1:56:04but fine.
  2843. 1:56:05There are circuits in the brain
  2844. 1:56:08that control emotional contagion.
  2845. 1:56:10And those are what's powerful.
  2846. 1:56:12My ability to recruit you into stress is much more powerful,
  2847. 1:56:17than my ability to recruit you into empathy
  2848. 1:56:20for something good.
  2849. 1:56:21That's a well-established neuro-biological fact.
  2850. 1:56:23Or empathy for someone's perspective
  2851. 1:56:27that you know, that I'm fundamentally
  2852. 1:56:31going to disagree with.
  2853. 1:56:32Right, so I think there are three gates to getting there.
  2854. 1:56:35And by there, I think we're, you know,
  2855. 1:56:37I'm referring vaguely to the idea
  2856. 1:56:39that we need to increase our level of understanding
  2857. 1:56:42at least our level of discourse
  2858. 1:56:44so that we can hear other really hear other people's ideas,
  2859. 1:56:47even though we don't like the way it feels,
  2860. 1:56:49and we love the way that we feel.
  2861. 1:56:50This is one of the results, so we love the way we feel.
  2862. 1:56:53We don't like the way other people feel.
  2863. 1:56:54The first thing is to bring the level of urgency
  2864. 1:56:59that we feel internally down.
  2865. 1:57:00We need to learn to calm ourselves
  2866. 1:57:02in order to really have the information start to come in.
  2867. 1:57:05Now, the system right now, and people out there
  2868. 1:57:08everyone's in a frenzy and you can see it, our collect
  2869. 1:57:11the collective consciousness is kind of losing its mind.
  2870. 1:57:14It's kind of out of its mind.
  2871. 1:57:15We need to learn how to turn off those amygdala circuits.
  2872. 1:57:17So are we all gonna get together and do EMDR?
  2873. 1:57:19Probably not.
  2874. 1:57:20Are we all gonna get together and do breathing exercises?
  2875. 1:57:23Probably not, not at scale.
  2876. 1:57:25What we need to do is start to figure out how we can,
  2877. 1:57:29I think, especially for the next generation of kids,
  2878. 1:57:31how to teach them to regulate their nervous system,
  2879. 1:57:34so that they recognize that pulse of adrenaline
  2880. 1:57:37as placing them in a compromised position.
  2881. 1:57:40Like we have to leverage the idea that being able to hear
  2882. 1:57:43and listen, hinges on the ability to be calm.
  2883. 1:57:46So therefore the ability to be calm is crucial to hearing
  2884. 1:57:49and listening and hearing and listening is crucial
  2885. 1:57:52to our advancement as individuals and as groups.
  2886. 1:57:55The problem is everyone's been trying to do this backwards.
  2887. 1:57:58They've said we all have to get along.
  2888. 1:57:59We have to cancel, cancel culture.
  2889. 1:58:01We all have to, you know, listen to one another.
  2890. 1:58:04And I think, again, we have to start from the inside.
  2891. 1:58:06We have to teach it physiologically.
  2892. 1:58:09Now I don't have a master plan on how to do that,
  2893. 1:58:11but one of the reasons I'm here
  2894. 1:58:12and one of the reasons I'm teaching neuroscience
  2895. 1:58:15on Instagram and not just in my laboratory is,
  2896. 1:58:17until we can learn to regulate the self,
  2897. 1:58:20I don't think we're gonna get where we wanna go
  2898. 1:58:23as a culture.
  2899. 1:58:24I think it really does start
  2900. 1:58:26with our own individual ability to do that.
  2901. 1:58:29And so, you know,
  2902. 1:58:30David's a really good example for instance,
  2903. 1:58:33of somebody who learn how to deal with his own internal mess
  2904. 1:58:37and build something beautiful out of that.
  2905. 1:58:38And he continues to do that.
  2906. 1:58:40And everyone's got to find that process for themselves
  2907. 1:58:43and whether or not you have a perfect family,
  2908. 1:58:45or whether or not you consider yourself the most inclusive
  2909. 1:58:47and accepting person in the world or not,
  2910. 1:58:50everyone needs to learn how to do that for themselves.
  2911. 1:58:52And everyone thinks we do it pretty well,
  2912. 1:58:54but I think it's clear that none of us do it well enough.
  2913. 1:58:58So, autonomic arousal, autonomic arousal, autonomic control.
  2914. 1:59:01I think those are the entry points for addiction,
  2915. 1:59:04for trauma, and for really impact that hearing
  2916. 1:59:07and listening, and until we do that
  2917. 1:59:10I think our species is gonna continue to go
  2918. 1:59:12around this merry-go-round where every 50
  2919. 1:59:14or a hundred years we crash
  2920. 1:59:15right up against the same general set of issues,
  2921. 1:59:18only now social media has made it slightly more,
  2922. 1:59:21or a lot more complicated.
  2923. 1:59:22It's a little bit similar to what you were talking about
  2924. 1:59:26in terms of the seeking external validation,
  2925. 1:59:30versus finding it within yourself.
  2926. 1:59:31Like essentially the protocol,
  2927. 1:59:34the prescription that you just gave has a strain of Buddhism
  2928. 1:59:38in it, in the sense that the world's gonna change
  2929. 1:59:41when we change ourselves.
  2930. 1:59:42Like the best, most impactful way
  2931. 1:59:44that you can make a difference for the world,
  2932. 1:59:47is to focus on being the best version of yourself.
  2933. 1:59:49How can you comport yourself in a way
  2934. 1:59:53that allows you to be more receptive,
  2935. 1:59:56and objective and empathetic and able to listen and hear?
  2936. 2:00:00And I think that's true, it's a hundred percent true.
  2937. 2:00:04And then I think about the person losing their shit
  2938. 2:00:07and, you know, target or whatever
  2939. 2:00:09over the masks or whatever, you know,
  2940. 2:00:12insane video clip of the day,
  2941. 2:00:13I happened to see on social media.
  2942. 2:00:15And I think we're doomed, like,
  2943. 2:00:17is this person gonna do that?
  2944. 2:00:18No, I can't control that, I can only control myself.
  2945. 2:00:22And I worry that when the onus is on the individual
  2946. 2:00:26to solve the problem, that,
  2947. 2:00:30that we're not gonna find our way through it, right?
  2948. 2:00:32Like we obviously need organizational, institutional,
  2949. 2:00:35and systemic changes.
  2950. 2:00:36We need to change the way these social media platforms work,
  2951. 2:00:39the way in which we're delivered information
  2952. 2:00:41and the way in which we're siloed,
  2953. 2:00:44but I don't have any control over any of those things.
  2954. 2:00:47The only thing I have control over
  2955. 2:00:49is my own internal mechanism.
  2956. 2:00:53So what other choice do we have?
  2957. 2:00:54Well, I think we need people in positions of power
  2958. 2:00:56and leadership who are very good at internal control.
  2959. 2:00:59You know, I think emotions are great.
  2960. 2:01:02I experienced them often intensely, but-
  2961. 2:01:06Congratulations.
  2962. 2:01:07Thank you.
  2963. 2:01:09They're not always wonderful to experience,
  2964. 2:01:11but I think it's clear that the level of autonomic arousal
  2965. 2:01:15that's associated with emotion's either very high
  2966. 2:01:18or very low, very happy or very sad, very anxious
  2967. 2:01:21or very angry, clouds our judgment.
  2968. 2:01:26It's very clear and I think the sooner-
  2969. 2:01:28We give them too much credence too,
  2970. 2:01:30they're just feelings, man.
  2971. 2:01:31Like we don't have to allow them to overtake us
  2972. 2:01:34and monopolize everything that we do.
  2973. 2:01:37They were designed to push us
  2974. 2:01:38along certain behavioral paths,
  2975. 2:01:41but they've grown in importance in the last few years.
  2976. 2:01:46And, you know, we could get into a discussion about how,
  2977. 2:01:49you know, social media marketing are designed to capture
  2978. 2:01:52these very deep limbic aspects of ourselves,
  2979. 2:01:55and they are, but what's amazing is and important is
  2980. 2:01:58that everybody has a forebrain.
  2981. 2:02:01Some people, it seems it's more developed than others,
  2982. 2:02:03but everybody has one.
  2983. 2:02:05And we have this capacity for what we call top down control
  2984. 2:02:08which is the ability to intervene in our own feeling states
  2985. 2:02:12and our own action states and to set some rigor
  2986. 2:02:15and some real clear marks that we're out to achieve.
  2987. 2:02:20And I think it's gonna start with the generation
  2988. 2:02:23that's very plastic right now.
  2989. 2:02:25You know, most parents are afraid of stressing their kids
  2990. 2:02:29because they don't wanna, you know, again, I went
  2991. 2:02:31to a high school where kids literally at Gunn High School
  2992. 2:02:34in the last 10 years, kids have, you know,
  2993. 2:02:36there've been over a dozen, you know, train track suicides.
  2994. 2:02:39So those are kids that are committing suicide
  2995. 2:02:42for different reasons, but a lot of them
  2996. 2:02:43is 'cause they just feel too much pressure.
  2997. 2:02:46So obviously we can't, you know, we can't pressure kids
  2998. 2:02:49beyond their capacity to regulate.
  2999. 2:02:52But the idea that all of our internal state
  3000. 2:02:56should be driven by external things,
  3001. 2:02:58that's a foolish misstep also.
  3002. 2:03:00So, I think we need to operationalize
  3003. 2:03:03what we're gonna teach the next generation.
  3004. 2:03:05You know, maybe our generation isn't really rescueable,
  3005. 2:03:09but maybe the next generation is.
  3006. 2:03:10And if they understand that there's some concepts
  3007. 2:03:13that sound a little mushy, like gratitude,
  3008. 2:03:17or mindfulness or these kinds of things, but as long
  3009. 2:03:21as they understand that, for instance, gratitude,
  3010. 2:03:23which we didn't really touch on,
  3011. 2:03:25involves a whole other neurotransmitter reward system
  3012. 2:03:27in the brain, the serotonin system, which buffers us
  3013. 2:03:30against injury, it can improve wound repair,
  3014. 2:03:33it can allow us to lean back
  3015. 2:03:34into these high stress regimes, learning
  3016. 2:03:37and kids learning how to toggle their nervous system
  3017. 2:03:40back and forth between highly, you know,
  3018. 2:03:43duration, path, outcome focus states of trying to improve
  3019. 2:03:46and learn and then learning how to really relax
  3020. 2:03:49and chill out and enjoy and be socially connected,
  3021. 2:03:52because it will allow them to ratchet back in,
  3022. 2:03:54and focus with extreme depth.
  3023. 2:03:56I think in doing that,
  3024. 2:03:57we might not get every child to learn how to do that,
  3025. 2:04:00but if we can distribute that information widely enough
  3026. 2:04:04and there's so many brilliant examples
  3027. 2:04:05and beautiful example, yours, David's, many others
  3028. 2:04:08of people that have been able
  3029. 2:04:09to tap into those systems intuitively,
  3030. 2:04:11if we can get that information out there,
  3031. 2:04:14I really believe that at least a subset of those kids
  3032. 2:04:17will grow up to be the leaders that our species really needs
  3033. 2:04:21in order to get through this next filter.
  3034. 2:04:24And right now we're feeling the stringency of that filter.
  3035. 2:04:27And I think our level
  3036. 2:04:28of autonomic dysregulation as a species,
  3037. 2:04:31the fact that we're there, we're here right now says,
  3038. 2:04:35okay, here's the task.
  3039. 2:04:37Are you guys gonna figure yourselves out?
  3040. 2:04:39You got this forebrain, my dog doesn't have
  3041. 2:04:40the forebrain I've got, he can't figure it out,
  3042. 2:04:42but we can work this out.
  3043. 2:04:44And it'll involve technologies,
  3044. 2:04:45like devices to measure how we're doing,
  3045. 2:04:48maybe some machines to guide that,
  3046. 2:04:50that's a different discussion,
  3047. 2:04:51but I think it's entirely possible.
  3048. 2:04:54And I think that's the evolutionary pressure
  3049. 2:04:55that we're in right now.
  3050. 2:04:57And I think that the next generation,
  3051. 2:05:00if they can hear about it and learn about it,
  3052. 2:05:02is gonna meet that demand.
  3053. 2:05:03Our species has done it for every other demand.
  3054. 2:05:06I toggle back and forth between extreme optimism
  3055. 2:05:09and, you know, dystopian despair.
  3056. 2:05:12Because on the one hand, you know,
  3057. 2:05:14you described the experience of going to therapy
  3058. 2:05:18and you know, how that was kind of, you know,
  3059. 2:05:20novel at that time, but we're not in that place anymore.
  3060. 2:05:23And everybody's got a smartphone and there's, you know,
  3061. 2:05:26head space and calm and waking up
  3062. 2:05:28and all these incredible apps
  3063. 2:05:29and mindfulness is part of the mainstream modern vernacular.
  3064. 2:05:33Like these kids are growing up,
  3065. 2:05:35not only aware of these practices, but amenable
  3066. 2:05:41and you know, they're, it's being done in the households
  3067. 2:05:43in which they're being raised,
  3068. 2:05:45which I find to be, you know, that's an amazing thing.
  3069. 2:05:48I think there is a consciousness that is emerging
  3070. 2:05:52out of these young people that hopefully, you know,
  3071. 2:05:55we can rely on to solve some of these problems.
  3072. 2:05:57And then, you know, I just think about the endless scrolling
  3073. 2:06:00and the associated, you know, I'm just like,
  3074. 2:06:01oh yes, we're fucked.
  3075. 2:06:03Well, I think it's clear that most people, young or old,
  3076. 2:06:06are content to be passive consumers
  3077. 2:06:09and spend out their dopamine doing
  3078. 2:06:11essentially meaningless activities,
  3079. 2:06:13and consuming food and consuming air
  3080. 2:06:16and light that is basically damaging to themselves.
  3081. 2:06:18And they, I don't think they care.
  3082. 2:06:20I think there are species let's be fair, our species is-
  3083. 2:06:25Non-essential.
  3084. 2:06:26Well, no, no, I didn't say that.
  3085. 2:06:28our species, although sometimes I think it'd be interesting
  3086. 2:06:30if some other species ran the earth
  3087. 2:06:32but we're the curators of the planet.
  3088. 2:06:33So I think that our species is probably divided
  3089. 2:06:37into those that are really going to try
  3090. 2:06:39and maximize on this gift of neuroplasticity, right?
  3091. 2:06:42We're the only species that has neuro-plasticity
  3092. 2:06:44throughout the lifespan and that neuroplasticity
  3093. 2:06:48in childhood lasts as long as it does as a function
  3094. 2:06:50of our total lifespan, it's incredible.
  3095. 2:06:52So we were gifted this and I think some people leverage it
  3096. 2:06:55and take advantage of it and other people don't.
  3097. 2:06:58And I think we need to accept
  3098. 2:06:59that we're not gonna get everybody,
  3099. 2:07:01but what we need to do is attach the reward systems
  3100. 2:07:05of society, financial, socio-economic, et cetera
  3101. 2:07:08to the kinds of behaviors that are
  3102. 2:07:10is gonna give rise to people that can lead us
  3103. 2:07:13into the next hundred years, 200 years.
  3104. 2:07:15Now that is not saying, oh do away with monetary systems,
  3105. 2:07:18actually the opposite.
  3106. 2:07:20I think that once people start to realize
  3107. 2:07:21that you're high performing military elite, military
  3108. 2:07:26your high performing athlete,
  3109. 2:07:27your high performing academics,
  3110. 2:07:28you're high-performing business people,
  3111. 2:07:30they actually have practices that they use
  3112. 2:07:32to regulate themselves to in order to
  3113. 2:07:35not just perform better, but sleep better
  3114. 2:07:37and not just to sleep better, but to listen better,
  3115. 2:07:40not just listen better but incorporate ideas that allow them
  3116. 2:07:43into states of creativity and states of mind
  3117. 2:07:46that really lead to new and exciting ways
  3118. 2:07:49that humans can interact.
  3119. 2:07:51And the many people will just be consumers of everything
  3120. 2:07:53they produce.
  3121. 2:07:54Well, all of the, what's what's great about new media
  3122. 2:07:58is that we've democratized access to this information.
  3123. 2:08:02And we're able to realize that these people
  3124. 2:08:06are not just freaks of nature
  3125. 2:08:07but that they have a methodology,
  3126. 2:08:09and they've created this canon, this tool kit
  3127. 2:08:11and these practices are available to everybody.
  3128. 2:08:15And you have people like David who are explaining this
  3129. 2:08:18in very plain terms, that it is within your power
  3130. 2:08:22to take advantage of these things,
  3131. 2:08:23to take better control of your life.
  3132. 2:08:25And we've never seen anything like that before,
  3133. 2:08:27in the history of humanity.
  3134. 2:08:29And I think that, that, you know,
  3135. 2:08:31that bodes well for the empowerment of the next generation
  3136. 2:08:35as well.
  3137. 2:08:35I do too, I, as you can probably tell,
  3138. 2:08:37I'm optimistic, I have to be,
  3139. 2:08:40because otherwise I can't justify the work that we're doing
  3140. 2:08:43but I think that there's so much interest now
  3141. 2:08:47in psychology and the brain and the self
  3142. 2:08:49in physical fitness, which, you know,
  3143. 2:08:52I think it's fair to say is inextricably linked
  3144. 2:08:55to mental fitness.
  3145. 2:08:57And the fact that people are so curious
  3146. 2:09:00about what other people are doing
  3147. 2:09:01and what are the paths to success and you know,
  3148. 2:09:04what are the resources for trauma and addiction?
  3149. 2:09:06I think there's been a kind of swarm of information.
  3150. 2:09:09It's been hard to sort through,
  3151. 2:09:11but I think 2020 is our, you know, is our sort of call
  3152. 2:09:16I keep calling it a call to arms,
  3153. 2:09:17and I, 'cause I guess I do feel that way.
  3154. 2:09:19It's very serious, this is serious business
  3155. 2:09:22and this is the time for us and the next generation
  3156. 2:09:26to step up and, you know, and to lead people
  3157. 2:09:29toward a place where we can function better
  3158. 2:09:32and where the next generation
  3159. 2:09:33will reflexively function better.
  3160. 2:09:35That's that beauty of early childhood is that
  3161. 2:09:37if some of this stuff is taught and passed off,
  3162. 2:09:39it's not gonna be perfect, but there'll be a generation
  3163. 2:09:41of people coming up, that will naturally understand
  3164. 2:09:45stress and agitation is taking them off their game
  3165. 2:09:48and leading to bad decisions
  3166. 2:09:49and will make the appropriate adjustments.
  3167. 2:09:51And there are people that will that read David's book
  3168. 2:09:54and your book, and we'll see the possibility
  3169. 2:09:56of doing something differently with a terrible childhood
  3170. 2:10:00or a brutal addiction.
  3171. 2:10:02And, you know, I think we need more stories of success.
  3172. 2:10:07I think it's easy to look out there
  3173. 2:10:08and see all the things that are going wrong
  3174. 2:10:10and we need to keep paying attention to those,
  3175. 2:10:11but we need these beacons that draw people forward.
  3176. 2:10:15And I say that from a place of experience, I mean,
  3177. 2:10:17I used to have to find it in books in the bookshelf.
  3178. 2:10:19I, there was no online back then or in mentors and you know,
  3179. 2:10:22you have to forage, you know, I think kids,
  3180. 2:10:24they have to have that foraging capacity.
  3181. 2:10:26They can't just sit there and wait for it to rain on them
  3182. 2:10:29or for a parent to dump it on them.
  3183. 2:10:31But I trust that they're out there
  3184. 2:10:32and that they're gonna figure it out.
  3185. 2:10:34Just like you're doing on Instagram.
  3186. 2:10:35You're dropping these videos basically every day, right?
  3187. 2:10:38Like more or less little lessons on neuroscience.
  3188. 2:10:42I'm trying, I'm trying to show people
  3189. 2:10:44that I have a kind of no acronym rule.
  3190. 2:10:47So I don't like embedding things
  3191. 2:10:48in a lot of complex language.
  3192. 2:10:49Sometimes I have to use an acronym, but yeah,
  3193. 2:10:51teach people a little bit about how their brain works
  3194. 2:10:53how it interfaces with psychology.
  3195. 2:10:54Everyone's got different goals and purposes in the world
  3196. 2:10:57but you know, that scientists are normal people
  3197. 2:11:00and that hopefully science has something,
  3198. 2:11:02I think really science has something to offer,
  3199. 2:11:05but it's not gonna happen if I'm vaulted in my lab
  3200. 2:11:08where my papers are read by the 12 people that care enough
  3201. 2:11:10to read the papers start to finish.
  3202. 2:11:12So I'm doing it, there are others out there.
  3203. 2:11:15Of course, David St Clair is doing it,
  3204. 2:11:17(indistinct) doing it.
  3205. 2:11:18I'm trying to recruit more people
  3206. 2:11:20from the scientific community to do this.
  3207. 2:11:21I think it's our responsibility.
  3208. 2:11:23You paid for it, it's your tax dollars.
  3209. 2:11:26You know, there's a tremendous cost to doing science
  3210. 2:11:29that is not often discussed
  3211. 2:11:30but I don't really consider it an option.
  3212. 2:11:32I consider it my obligation and I'm gonna keep going.
  3213. 2:11:35Well, keep doing it, man.
  3214. 2:11:37I appreciate the work that you're doing.
  3215. 2:11:39I think it's really important work.
  3216. 2:11:40We need it now more than ever.
  3217. 2:11:42And it's cool that you're getting out there
  3218. 2:11:46and sharing your wisdom with everybody.
  3219. 2:11:48It's super empowering, so thanks man.
  3220. 2:11:50Appreciate it. Thank you.
  3221. 2:11:51Really appreciate the chance to be here.
  3222. 2:11:52If you're digging on Andrew
  3223. 2:11:55best way to find him is-
  3224. 2:11:59Huberman Lab. Instagram.
  3225. 2:12:00Yeah, Huberman Lab. Huberman Lab, cool.
  3226. 2:12:02All right, man.
  3227. 2:12:03Coming back, I made all these notes
  3228. 2:12:04all this stuff I wanted to talk to you about.
  3229. 2:12:06We got through like 10% of it, so
  3230. 2:12:08come by and talk to me again. My apologies.
  3231. 2:12:10I realize you're pretty verbose.
  3232. 2:12:11Yeah, I just was getting out of the way man,
  3233. 2:12:13to, you know, listen to what you have to say.
  3234. 2:12:16I appreciate it, thanks man.
  3235. 2:12:17Thank you.
  3236. 2:12:18Peace.

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