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Cathryn Mellender- Chandler Halderson's Girlfriend- Part One Interview — Transcript

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  1. 0:02one two three
  2. 0:06okay oh there's a Pooh Bear all right
  3. 0:09you can play with it
  4. 0:11don't twist my arm all right
  5. 0:15oh
  6. 0:17it's right over there if you wanna
  7. 0:19I can grab it okay I want to hit you
  8. 0:21with the Pooh bear oh please don't thank
  9. 0:23you
  10. 2:23foreign
  11. 3:21foreign
  12. 3:51oh
  13. 6:15account
  14. 6:54hmm
  15. 7:30how's it going I'm just gonna give you
  16. 7:32an extra one of these okay okay thank
  17. 7:33you yep
  18. 7:34thank you
  19. 8:41thank you
  20. 8:57sorry
  21. 10:24foreign
  22. 11:46oh
  23. 11:56foreign
  24. 12:00good
  25. 13:11foreign
  26. 14:33foreign
  27. 15:39like look at this
  28. 15:43that was the one like in the 90s so I
  29. 15:45don't know but like I thought this was
  30. 15:4770s
  31. 15:55for kids and
  32. 15:56stuff you know keep it kind of colorful
  33. 16:00I need to be more colorful than us
  34. 16:04this looks like it was around when my
  35. 16:05grandpa was around oh yeah right that's
  36. 16:07exactly
  37. 16:23Chandler's parents their colors were
  38. 16:25like green I think but it's okay
  39. 16:27it's my chance of my dream is probably
  40. 16:30like that blue green you know like the
  41. 16:33velvety green yeah it was also my mom's
  42. 16:35wearing colors too
  43. 16:36all I have left for my plates I need
  44. 16:38them all the way to me
  45. 16:40because they can shoot the cow s but I
  46. 16:41just had like
  47. 16:56three
  48. 17:02hmm
  49. 17:05color any color you can have is a
  50. 17:07different shade of weight
  51. 17:09and so you know
  52. 17:21I was using Pooh bear as a pillow for a
  53. 17:23while yeah
  54. 17:24are they just talking to Chandler first
  55. 17:26or something I don't know
  56. 17:31hope his parents are okay wait
  57. 17:35like his mom's like
  58. 17:40about it every Chandler only tells me
  59. 17:42things but like
  60. 17:44yeah
  61. 17:46when we were there we were like fingers
  62. 17:48crossed we're just at the casino blowing
  63. 17:49money having fun living life
  64. 17:52oh yeah that would be nice
  65. 17:56the other night the other night and got
  66. 17:58like 600 her and her fiance did they go
  67. 18:01with one here like oceans
  68. 18:05oh no there's a whole chunk right
  69. 18:06outside
  70. 18:15my mom one-on-one machine twice I think
  71. 18:17same one yeah
  72. 18:58foreign
  73. 20:28foreign
  74. 21:15foreign
  75. 21:38foreign
  76. 22:40hello how are you very tired how are you
  77. 22:43hi so this is George he's one of my
  78. 22:46partners hi Anthony the one that you
  79. 22:48spoke with me yesterday he's off today
  80. 22:50so you get George
  81. 22:52I don't know if you're hungry about your
  82. 22:53two cookies is there
  83. 22:55one has chocolate one doesn't okay
  84. 22:58are you really if I eat it I'll just
  85. 22:59projectile vomit oh please don't there's
  86. 23:02a there's like I'm too emotional and
  87. 23:04also moment so I think I know one
  88. 23:06sprinkles but you know what I can put
  89. 23:07them here if you want it you want it
  90. 23:08that one has chocolate this one this one
  91. 23:11oh I was like uh
  92. 23:17oh and then here's your phone oh because
  93. 23:19yesterday it was just so fabulous with
  94. 23:22all of your time stamps on Instagram or
  95. 23:24um Snapchat so
  96. 23:28there you go
  97. 23:31how was work
  98. 23:33I was there for 30 minutes and then
  99. 23:35literally you can go oh how come
  100. 23:39I'm a very emotional person you
  101. 23:42always worried so I like cried a little
  102. 23:43bit like when someone walks with me like
  103. 23:45hey are you okay I'm like
  104. 23:49and then like I talked to my pharmacist
  105. 23:51and she was
  106. 23:54if you put some groceries took it to
  107. 23:55Chandler and cooked him some food
  108. 23:57because he wasn't eating well
  109. 23:59oh how come
  110. 24:02America's got his parents
  111. 24:05okay I can't eat well when I'm nervous
  112. 24:07so okay
  113. 24:09nibble with the cookie baby steps I'm
  114. 24:12sure there's some chocolate in there
  115. 24:13yeah make sure the police aren't trying
  116. 24:16to poison me
  117. 24:17no we're not
  118. 24:20I don't want to be just warnings
  119. 24:24have you heard anything about his
  120. 24:26parents
  121. 24:27no did you know if his brother made us a
  122. 24:30cabin yet I don't know no he's on his
  123. 24:32way up
  124. 24:34called me when I was in the car okay how
  125. 24:37are you guys going up there no
  126. 24:39um in the car of like the Lisa's car oh
  127. 24:42yeah yeah because they're hoping they
  128. 24:44could uh make sure the garage door like
  129. 24:47to get into the house was unlocked so
  130. 24:49people can be with a dog
  131. 24:51because I thought just Chandler would
  132. 24:52come down here if they needed so I was
  133. 24:54there to watch them
  134. 24:55how is he supposed to get to the cabin
  135. 24:56you know
  136. 24:58um he left her in like
  137. 24:59a little after two I believe and I think
  138. 25:02it's around a four hour drive
  139. 25:05okay five or six yeah
  140. 25:08you don't want you guys to go with or uh
  141. 25:11all the dogs yeah
  142. 25:14the dog and his fiancee was going with
  143. 25:16him so
  144. 25:17my mom has the same shoes
  145. 25:19clothes
  146. 25:20yeah they're super comfy uh
  147. 25:25because they're nice well yesterday I
  148. 25:27was wearing my tennis shoes and then I
  149. 25:28was like these are actually more comfy
  150. 25:29so
  151. 25:31I just don't know what today will bring
  152. 25:32so
  153. 25:36so
  154. 25:37some of it is going to be repeat I just
  155. 25:39want to make sure that I'm really
  156. 25:41understanding
  157. 25:42everything so again give me your
  158. 25:45timeline from Thursday
  159. 25:49I worked um
  160. 25:51that's when Chandler told me I think it
  161. 25:53was Thursday that his parents were going
  162. 25:55on up to the cabin
  163. 25:58um with some friends so he was going to
  164. 26:00be at the house with the dogs by himself
  165. 26:01all weekend
  166. 26:04um
  167. 26:06went to sleep woke up
  168. 26:08got ready for work went to work
  169. 26:11um
  170. 26:13I we planned that I was gonna go over
  171. 26:15there
  172. 26:16and spend the night
  173. 26:18um just hang out with him and the dogs
  174. 26:21because you know there's fireworks and
  175. 26:22Rizzo's very scared of dogs and so dogs
  176. 26:26okay fireworks yeah
  177. 26:30um
  178. 26:33but before that I had to stop at two
  179. 26:36different targets
  180. 26:38to do some grocery pickups unless it was
  181. 26:40Friday yeah
  182. 26:42um I stopped at Hilldale
  183. 26:45my apartment
  184. 26:47then I went to I don't know what time
  185. 26:50you stopped your whole deal
  186. 26:53got off at 5
  187. 26:5930. yeah anytime traffic and stuff yeah
  188. 27:06store away
  189. 27:08um
  190. 27:10um
  191. 27:12then I went to my apartment grabbed
  192. 27:14clothes and then I grabbed a bunch so I
  193. 27:16could do dirty laundry at my mom's house
  194. 27:18because
  195. 27:19it would be fun
  196. 27:23would be some um
  197. 27:26East Target went to my mom's house
  198. 27:30so do you not live with your mom
  199. 27:33what apartment oh I didn't know that I
  200. 27:36mentioned it yesterday the chef vlogger
  201. 27:38no that's my mom's house okay so then
  202. 27:41what is your address
  203. 27:43um
  204. 27:45110 North Bedford Street it's called
  205. 27:48Lark at Cole it's only like a tablet
  206. 27:50from
  207. 27:53April to July 29th so I won't be there
  208. 27:56longer I'm just gonna go back to my
  209. 27:57mom's place clear department number or
  210. 27:59that one uh 321.
  211. 28:01here
  212. 28:03all my roommates are on the basketball
  213. 28:05team for UW in a way yeah uh lovisa
  214. 28:10Lexi and Tara lovisa is from Sweden and
  215. 28:14she is 6'3
  216. 28:16how do you get out of those girls
  217. 28:18you know anyone what's up what just got
  218. 28:20lucky yeah that's cool the girls have a
  219. 28:23lot from played for the tennis team I
  220. 28:25used to play tennis tonight
  221. 28:27that's how we connected
  222. 28:32I'm sorry you said you went to East
  223. 28:33Target that you went from Hilldale East
  224. 28:34Target
  225. 28:36no from Hilldale to apartment to grab
  226. 28:38dirty clothes and clothes
  227. 28:41to East to my mom's house
  228. 28:44to grab the
  229. 28:47hydrogen peroxide and the Swiffer
  230. 28:49because Chandler broke the glass of the
  231. 28:52fireplace that day and cut his toe so he
  232. 28:54had wanted to clean that and then clean
  233. 28:56up the glass and blood
  234. 28:59oh no no
  235. 29:03we had burgers for dinner because you
  236. 29:04made me burgers because he burned his
  237. 29:06hands on the grill
  238. 29:09Dale apartment to get dirty clothes to
  239. 29:13use Target to get the Swiffer no no I'm
  240. 29:15supposed to get this with her mom's
  241. 29:16gonna get this way first then then East
  242. 29:24third attack
  243. 29:28um
  244. 29:31so then to Chandler's
  245. 29:34and then
  246. 29:36I was there and then I left
  247. 29:39in the morning because he wanted to do
  248. 29:41chores and then
  249. 29:43I know what time I around what time I
  250. 29:45was home
  251. 29:46it's a picture
  252. 29:48do you know what the chores were
  253. 29:50like what does that mean chores like his
  254. 29:52family usually gives him a housework
  255. 29:54like
  256. 29:55you know the grass outside the front of
  257. 29:56this house usually has to take that to
  258. 29:58the dump
  259. 30:00um probably
  260. 30:01make sure all the remaining glasses up
  261. 30:04you know do his laundry do you know
  262. 30:07where did he go to the dump
  263. 30:09I think he said he went but it was
  264. 30:10closed or that they were just closed I
  265. 30:13don't know if he
  266. 30:16and then
  267. 30:22so on your um Snapchat do you manually
  268. 30:26enter your location or is it just
  269. 30:28through your whenever you open SnapChat
  270. 30:30it has your location
  271. 30:33unless you turn it off okay
  272. 30:35and so Alan Saturday
  273. 30:39I was with my dog at 8 53 A.M
  274. 30:44so did you see
  275. 30:46um the fireplace
  276. 30:47what did it look like
  277. 30:52it's broken it was like one pain I think
  278. 30:56left side
  279. 31:02um
  280. 31:05and did you see like the blood in the
  281. 31:07glass was that all picked up it was
  282. 31:10pretty much all picked up except like a
  283. 31:11little bit of glass was still there
  284. 31:13um
  285. 31:14honestly I didn't see like a lot of
  286. 31:16blood but
  287. 31:18probably because
  288. 31:20it was only a cut on his big toe okay
  289. 31:25who was by the fireplace I assume the
  290. 31:27blood was by the fireplace
  291. 31:29I think so and I like see it you know oh
  292. 31:33you didn't see the blood no oh okay
  293. 31:40where do you like go in the house
  294. 31:44like where do you normally like hang out
  295. 31:46with Chandler
  296. 31:48all the floors like his bedroom that
  297. 31:50night we were mostly just in the living
  298. 31:51room
  299. 31:52so there the bathroom
  300. 31:55to the kitchen
  301. 31:58second living room his room
  302. 32:02like I just don't go over his parents
  303. 32:04remember the spare bedroom
  304. 32:06and I think
  305. 32:08Friday night
  306. 32:12you know I didn't shower Friday night I
  307. 32:14showered
  308. 32:18so Friday night dinner
  309. 32:20slept in the couches
  310. 32:23so we could be with the dogs
  311. 32:27woke up went to my mom's house to be
  312. 32:28with my dogs and because they do the
  313. 32:30chores
  314. 32:31came over around like
  315. 32:34lunch ish time like noon I believe
  316. 32:3811 noon time
  317. 32:41um
  318. 32:44we hung out watched Daybreak on Netflix
  319. 32:47because we started that Friday night
  320. 32:49watched it
  321. 32:51then he left around like
  322. 32:54before five so maybe like
  323. 32:59boom
  324. 33:01wait three almost four took before five
  325. 33:05like
  326. 33:08um no
  327. 33:10I straighten my hair
  328. 33:13my takes about 20 minutes
  329. 33:15Chandler was gone I also did my eyebrows
  330. 33:18so that's about another 10 minutes the
  331. 33:21eyeliner and everything
  332. 33:23I'd be like
  333. 33:25420 at the latest that's probably when
  334. 33:26you left
  335. 33:29and Sunday Saturday
  336. 33:33so you were getting ready at your house
  337. 33:35because we went out with rose remember
  338. 33:37Rose and my brother well we as in me and
  339. 33:40my brother went with Rose Chandler was
  340. 33:42saddest house
  341. 33:44um
  342. 33:44so did you guys meet up at your house or
  343. 33:46mom's house my mom's house okay okay
  344. 33:48when I say our house I need my mom's
  345. 33:50house okay I just wanted to make sure
  346. 33:53um
  347. 33:56and then Rose got there around five and
  348. 33:58then we went
  349. 33:59it's not really like relevant to the
  350. 34:01story but like we went got sent you
  351. 34:03downtown
  352. 34:03to
  353. 34:05to strong on the score
  354. 34:07close we walked down to Ian's went from
  355. 34:09Ian's to the
  356. 34:12fireworks show I have the picture of my
  357. 34:13ticket I'm trying to remember the name
  358. 34:15of it
  359. 34:17I was at the one at um business
  360. 34:20the foods lights at the isthmus
  361. 34:25being ticket
  362. 34:26how was it
  363. 34:30it was like a 20-minute show they they
  364. 34:32said it was supposed to start at 8 30.
  365. 34:34we sat there till like 9 30 9 45 before
  366. 34:37it went off I heard it was lame yeah sat
  367. 34:40there like I feel like my butt still
  368. 34:43bruised because we sat there on like
  369. 34:467 35
  370. 34:49he sat there for like two hours
  371. 34:51um bleachers not fun
  372. 34:53then we went home
  373. 34:56woke up
  374. 34:59um Rose and I went to Starbucks and
  375. 35:02Panera to pick up bagels and coffee
  376. 35:05um
  377. 35:06Sunday now
  378. 35:08a home went to Mom's your mom's yes okay
  379. 35:13um
  380. 35:17slept there yes okay
  381. 35:19oh
  382. 35:22um
  383. 35:23so
  384. 35:25in the morning for like Starbucks or
  385. 35:27like the fireworks show the whole
  386. 35:29shebang so okay so Friday what were you
  387. 35:32driving Friday my red Subaru which is
  388. 35:34under my mom's name Dolce Islander
  389. 35:38you know the um plates
  390. 35:44v-e-r
  391. 35:50I don't know the numbers okay I know
  392. 35:51it's b-e-r but if you look inside you
  393. 35:54can see dog toys on the like
  394. 35:56Jewels thing
  395. 35:58for my dogs but
  396. 36:01um so that and then when it was like
  397. 36:04going downtown to get sencha it was
  398. 36:08um my brother's car which is a
  399. 36:11Mazda black
  400. 36:16I don't know his plate numbers
  401. 36:20and then
  402. 36:23when we went to get Starbucks and then
  403. 36:25the Panera my Subaru again red Subaru
  404. 36:28Forester 2012.
  405. 36:38that was Sunday right that you went to
  406. 36:41get to Starbucks and Panera
  407. 36:44what time do you think that was at
  408. 36:47warning
  409. 36:49I think you might have a screenshot of
  410. 36:50my receipt
  411. 36:54I went to a Starbucks once and then they
  412. 36:56said they never got my order I didn't
  413. 36:58have like the receipt so
  414. 37:03um
  415. 37:04what um Starbucks did you go to
  416. 37:06East Side one the one by the East Town
  417. 37:08Mall okay
  418. 37:12I had Stars so it was free
  419. 37:16they stopped doing the birthday ones did
  420. 37:18they that's evil so my order for Panera
  421. 37:21was ready at 9 43 of the time set in the
  422. 37:24corner says 9 33 A.M
  423. 37:28cool
  424. 37:33um
  425. 37:35and then
  426. 37:37we went back
  427. 37:39hung out like had breakfast
  428. 37:42Chandler got there around like
  429. 37:50Maybe
  430. 37:52the area between 12 and one ish because
  431. 37:57I remember
  432. 37:59let me check my call logs because he
  433. 38:01facetimed us while we were in Ross Dress
  434. 38:03for Less
  435. 38:06getting these shoes popping out with
  436. 38:08such a bad shoes
  437. 38:10chunky dad shoes
  438. 38:12Chandler approved
  439. 38:18and I remember our call dropped many
  440. 38:20times
  441. 38:22because there is no signal in there
  442. 38:33your song following right just you and
  443. 38:34Rose went to get Starbucks and Panera
  444. 38:36yep and then when we like yes just her
  445. 38:40and I my brother stayed home because he
  446. 38:42was smoking ribs
  447. 38:46so then
  448. 38:47[Music]
  449. 38:48um
  450. 38:48Saturday night the Chandler spend the
  451. 38:50night with you at the house nope he was
  452. 38:51at his house so he went home yeah okay
  453. 38:54okay
  454. 38:57and then
  455. 38:59we were at like wrong
  456. 39:05I think
  457. 39:11112 is what I'm thinking 112 yes
  458. 39:18um because
  459. 39:22I'm trying to look Pizza together
  460. 39:30yeah and then I think we were like
  461. 39:34we're in Marshalls when he gave me a
  462. 39:36call he was sleeping I think
  463. 39:41because when he arrived
  464. 39:43he was there for like we were all there
  465. 39:45for a little bit and then Rose wanted to
  466. 39:47go to Ross
  467. 39:48and so Chandler stayed in my room to
  468. 39:50take a nap
  469. 39:52oh his legs
  470. 39:54so he could
  471. 39:56which is fair
  472. 39:58and so
  473. 40:00we went from Ross
  474. 40:03picture of my receipt from Marshalls
  475. 40:08which is what I took in the car before
  476. 40:10we went back to the house
  477. 40:13um
  478. 40:15and that was taken at 2 14 pm
  479. 40:23that was from where Marshalls Marshalls
  480. 40:25I love it please me too they had like
  481. 40:28Calvin Klein stuff in so I have cop
  482. 40:31I forgot
  483. 40:33and drink a bottle of water
  484. 40:35you drink bottled water yeah that was
  485. 40:36really hard you gotta go to the bathroom
  486. 40:37oh I went before okay it's literally
  487. 40:40right there
  488. 40:41just let us know you can go thank you I
  489. 40:43will not pee on your couches okay I
  490. 40:45appreciate that who would not appreciate
  491. 40:47that
  492. 40:49I don't want to disappointed there you
  493. 40:51go Marshalls yes and then
  494. 40:55from there
  495. 40:56um
  496. 41:00back to the house
  497. 41:01and then so we were kind of like running
  498. 41:04behind because like they're supposed to
  499. 41:06be like around 3 30. and so like
  500. 41:07Chandler and I
  501. 41:09um
  502. 41:11we
  503. 41:13got in my car so he could go we drove to
  504. 41:18his house so we could let the dogs out
  505. 41:21um I think I forgot to mention that to
  506. 41:22you that we went to Windsor to take his
  507. 41:23dogs out
  508. 41:24and then
  509. 41:31anything well 214 was on the way back to
  510. 41:35Mark or from Marshalls on the car yeah
  511. 41:37Ross parking lot because we walked to
  512. 41:39Marshall
  513. 41:41so our house is maybe like um 10 minute
  514. 41:43try
  515. 41:49drawings
  516. 41:59but
  517. 42:01like we were
  518. 42:16can I check my I might have a quick trip
  519. 42:19receipt because I went to Quick Trip
  520. 42:21when we left his house
  521. 42:25you guys want Quick Trip you went to the
  522. 42:27one by the roundabouts
  523. 42:35uh Windsor Road exit quick trip
  524. 42:37so that's QuikTrip all by itself kind of
  525. 42:39yeah
  526. 42:56David's Bridal
  527. 43:03canes I do not save my receipt
  528. 43:06um
  529. 43:07but I know we got gas
  530. 43:15and then from there we went
  531. 43:21and then I have a video of us by the
  532. 43:23pool at the farm
  533. 43:27after we had dinner I think can you make
  534. 43:30dinner at 3 30.
  535. 43:38it looks good you made crab salad
  536. 43:44um
  537. 43:48yes on the 4th 5 30 P.M
  538. 43:51that is Chandler cleaning the bikes on
  539. 43:54the pool
  540. 43:59and the girls Rose
  541. 44:02why was he wearing a long sleeve shirt
  542. 44:03wasn't it like an idea oh he wears long
  543. 44:06sleeve shirts
  544. 44:07like oh
  545. 44:08he doesn't like t-shirt
  546. 44:16what time is that video
  547. 44:245 30. I'm gonna approach all right
  548. 44:27you're fine
  549. 44:28it says right there at the top
  550. 44:36and then
  551. 44:39we left around 6 30 because he had to be
  552. 44:42home before 8 to feed the dogs their
  553. 44:44dinner
  554. 44:45and so we left around 6 30 and probably
  555. 44:48got to like the my mom's house
  556. 44:53I threw up
  557. 44:55um there's a garbage or a bathroom
  558. 44:58I think it'll look really sucks if I
  559. 45:00stand up and run out of here I'm not
  560. 45:03trying to get tackled I'm not going to
  561. 45:05tackle you you can go over here too oh
  562. 45:09you're good okay
  563. 45:11so you left around 6 30 because Chandler
  564. 45:14needed to feed the dogs yes did you stay
  565. 45:17on Sunday at his house or did you go
  566. 45:20okay I stayed with him but
  567. 45:22um when we first got to my mom's house
  568. 45:24he left right away to go straight to his
  569. 45:26house to feed the dogs I got my wet
  570. 45:28clothes out of the like a washer because
  571. 45:31I was gonna dry my clothes there
  572. 45:34and
  573. 45:35um
  574. 45:36so I did that packed everything I needed
  575. 45:38went to his place he threw everything in
  576. 45:41the dryer which
  577. 45:44to hang it so like we took time to like
  578. 45:46pull stuff out and hang it and then we
  579. 45:49went to
  580. 45:50um his mom's co-workers house Dan and he
  581. 45:54did some fireworks in the street and we
  582. 45:56did that for like maybe an hour and then
  583. 45:58went back took a shower
  584. 46:02um I blew dry my hair
  585. 46:06went back to his house and then
  586. 46:10went to bed around like 12 in the
  587. 46:13morning because you know fireworks going
  588. 46:15off Rizzo's jumping on everything you're
  589. 46:18working crying
  590. 46:23are we stopping on Sunday are we going
  591. 46:25on until Tuesday keep on going all right
  592. 46:27keep on trucking so I'm doing good so
  593. 46:30finally let you keep going
  594. 46:37[Music]
  595. 46:39Sunday woke up
  596. 46:41got ready
  597. 46:43Sunday or Monday Monday sorry
  598. 46:47left around
  599. 46:507 40 because I took a picture at 7 33 of
  600. 46:54us
  601. 46:55is he sleeping no he was awake oh he
  602. 46:58just rests his eyes along
  603. 47:02um
  604. 47:04Anna's alone sleep again
  605. 47:07and
  606. 47:08then I went to work I don't know if you
  607. 47:10want to see a picture of me at my job
  608. 47:11because I took a picture
  609. 47:13in the Hazardous section
  610. 47:15being the Hazardous medication
  611. 47:18let me see that why do you look what
  612. 47:20shirt do you have on Billy eilish yeah
  613. 47:22it was a sweater over a black T-shirt
  614. 47:25he looks super pumped
  615. 47:27up oh hazardous is so fun
  616. 47:35so what time was that picture
  617. 47:379 16 a.m 9 16 A.M
  618. 47:43and then
  619. 47:45after work
  620. 47:47I I'm trying to get done with work
  621. 47:50so I was working 8 30 to 5. yeah that's
  622. 47:54the Hazardous shift we do a rotating
  623. 47:56schedule
  624. 47:58um get a lunch break
  625. 48:00yeah it's a long day
  626. 48:01you get a 30 minute lunch break okay 15
  627. 48:03minute break if I choose
  628. 48:06take it take a break
  629. 48:09we don't have time
  630. 48:12um
  631. 48:14from there I went to my mom's house
  632. 48:20um
  633. 48:22because
  634. 48:24Chandler went to the farm
  635. 48:26because
  636. 48:27um my mom's fiance lets him walk in the
  637. 48:30pool because that's one of the things we
  638. 48:31did Sunday because it helped stretch out
  639. 48:33his lights make him feel better
  640. 48:35stretch his legs
  641. 48:37okay
  642. 48:38because he has some like
  643. 48:43numbness that's the word
  644. 48:45and then from his fall he had a couple
  645. 48:48weeks back
  646. 48:49and
  647. 48:51um
  648. 48:51so from there he came out from my house
  649. 48:55before that I went to McDonald's
  650. 48:58so he probably got to my house around
  651. 49:00like
  652. 49:017 10 because he'd like be there because
  653. 49:03I was in a McDonald's line but there's a
  654. 49:05guy screaming at someone in the window
  655. 49:07and I took a video of it at the
  656. 49:09McDonald's
  657. 49:117 14.
  658. 49:16wow
  659. 49:18that was at Milwaukee Street right yeah
  660. 49:20the one your friend liked a lot
  661. 49:24um
  662. 49:26and then
  663. 49:28he ate and then left
  664. 49:31then you say it is for yourself I stayed
  665. 49:32at my mom's house
  666. 49:34well God went to work
  667. 49:37picture of
  668. 49:38what time did he get to your house on
  669. 49:40Monday to use the pool
  670. 49:42on the farm
  671. 49:45let me check my call records
  672. 49:57um so I called him around 502 when I got
  673. 49:59off work and I got into my car and I
  674. 50:02think he was starting to drive at that
  675. 50:04time
  676. 50:06um Drive
  677. 50:08from Windsor to the farm farm
  678. 50:12okay
  679. 50:14that's really sweet cookie
  680. 50:18um you hate it huh I didn't make it so
  681. 50:25there's that and then
  682. 50:29I called my mom and the farm
  683. 50:32because they weren't answering his calls
  684. 50:37I think I finally got a hold of my mom
  685. 50:39and then my friend
  686. 50:41and then
  687. 50:50hmm
  688. 50:54yeah he was around there it's
  689. 50:57seven
  690. 50:58or five he might have been close
  691. 51:03because we have a cold 705 that last
  692. 51:09message
  693. 51:11and then
  694. 51:14you left and then Tuesday I woke up went
  695. 51:16to work
  696. 51:18um went back to my mom's house because
  697. 51:20he wanted to come over and I was gonna
  698. 51:22cook his pork chops boy mom changed
  699. 51:23everyone's mind because she really
  700. 51:24wanted Buffalo Wild Wings
  701. 51:26because the thing we do with Chandler is
  702. 51:27buy one get one and we do two orders
  703. 51:29that
  704. 51:35um so we did that
  705. 51:37and then Chandler watched Legally Blonde
  706. 51:39with us and I remember there was a storm
  707. 51:41happening
  708. 51:44so you went to Mom's after work
  709. 51:48it's easy because it's like
  710. 51:50halfway between the apartment and his
  711. 51:52house okay so from moms then we went to
  712. 51:55the farm
  713. 51:58right is that what you said no on Monday
  714. 52:01he went from the farm to Mom's house and
  715. 52:03then Tuesday we didn't go to the farm
  716. 52:06okay so Tuesday you were at Mom's house
  717. 52:09Tuesday at Mom's house Chandler was he
  718. 52:11there already he wasn't there before I
  719. 52:13got there
  720. 52:14what time did Chandler get there
  721. 52:29maybe like
  722. 52:31six
  723. 52:38I think six
  724. 52:40and then
  725. 52:42there was a storm happening while he was
  726. 52:44there
  727. 52:45at 802. so he probably left like
  728. 52:49later like maybe 8 30s when he left
  729. 52:59okay yeah I think that's probably about
  730. 53:01right
  731. 53:03videos from
  732. 53:06that he was in the bathroom at that
  733. 53:09at that point I remember because it
  734. 53:10takes like 20 minutes in the bathroom
  735. 53:19and then we hung out yesterday
  736. 53:23wasn't I
  737. 53:25did you go over to Chandler's on
  738. 53:26Wednesday no we hung out I know but did
  739. 53:29after you and I had our Epic no I went
  740. 53:32to my friend Danny's
  741. 53:35um I told you how I went to hang out
  742. 53:37with Danny his girlfriend Abigail works
  743. 53:39at David's Bridal so I met them there
  744. 53:42um
  745. 53:43and then we went and got dinner at
  746. 53:46Guadalajara
  747. 53:48it's close to downtown
  748. 53:50and then we went back to their condo and
  749. 53:52I stayed on their futon because they
  750. 53:53didn't think it was a good idea for me
  751. 53:54to
  752. 53:55go to my apartment and just lay there
  753. 53:57alone
  754. 53:59um
  755. 54:00none
  756. 54:02let's work today for only 30 minutes
  757. 54:06finally 30.
  758. 54:12okay I'm an emotional person because
  759. 54:13that's what you're crying about
  760. 54:15my boyfriend's parents are missing like
  761. 54:17I I think it's more concerning if I
  762. 54:20wasn't concerned I'm a very emotional
  763. 54:22person like I cry enough for both of us
  764. 54:24is like what I like to say sure
  765. 54:26like
  766. 54:28it's like
  767. 54:29I hang out with the family often you
  768. 54:31know
  769. 54:35there was parents they're important like
  770. 54:39hang out with them we play Mario Kart
  771. 54:41his mom makes the toad sound every time
  772. 54:42she selects toad no Yoshi the Yoshi's
  773. 54:45round
  774. 54:47that's exactly how she does it
  775. 54:52loose every time but like
  776. 54:57like I don't I don't I just don't
  777. 54:59understand how you could
  778. 55:01and like be worried
  779. 55:03or emotional I know I mean that's why
  780. 55:06we're here we're worried yeah
  781. 55:10yeah it is his house Chandler been
  782. 55:14like I said he's not really he expresses
  783. 55:17it in a different way
  784. 55:20it's not like
  785. 55:22the biggest metal person but like
  786. 55:26I guess like when I look at him it's
  787. 55:28different when other people look at him
  788. 55:29like I can tell it's really hard on him
  789. 55:32like
  790. 55:34he just sits there and Associates and
  791. 55:36like
  792. 55:37paces and like
  793. 55:41you know just sits there you're like
  794. 55:43wearing my parents like a shell and like
  795. 55:46when his brother was over like
  796. 55:49what was that
  797. 55:51they left around like today yeah
  798. 55:54yeah before they went
  799. 55:56to tattoo-age they're like
  800. 55:58by the time I always go like he's
  801. 56:00following his big brother around
  802. 56:02like subtle things like most people have
  803. 56:04noticed but like I'm dating him for a
  804. 56:06while
  805. 56:07what was um well what was Michelle doing
  806. 56:09there at the house just looking around
  807. 56:11the house looking for anything Chandler
  808. 56:14grabbing the spare key to go to the
  809. 56:16cabin or keys that Chandler founded is
  810. 56:18that car that they think are their keys
  811. 56:20to the cabin
  812. 56:26they talked for a while
  813. 56:28Chandler told them about his light
  814. 56:30numbness and how he's been going to the
  815. 56:31farm and like doing circles in the pool
  816. 56:33to like help with that like PT
  817. 56:38I mean how I've been stretching them and
  818. 56:41so he was following his brother around
  819. 56:43the house today just casing upset
  820. 56:48in his own way you know
  821. 56:51like just showing his his brother like
  822. 56:54hey like maybe like in their dressers I
  823. 56:57didn't find anything but like do you
  824. 56:58know what this meal
  825. 57:00pretty much I stayed on the couch and I
  826. 57:01didn't want to like
  827. 57:04intrude in a way like I've only been
  828. 57:06dating him for almost two years and like
  829. 57:09his fiancee's been dating him
  830. 57:11for like six you know like
  831. 57:15what did he start using the pool to work
  832. 57:17his legs out has it been going on for a
  833. 57:19while no someday should be Sunday yeah
  834. 57:22because he was in his Breeze until
  835. 57:23Thursday
  836. 57:27his parents really
  837. 57:41I'm sorry I think you're gonna have
  838. 57:42something
  839. 57:44no I I think you did already so
  840. 57:51hydrated that's what I hear
  841. 57:56so his brother is there today he leaves
  842. 57:58to
  843. 58:03what does Chandler want to do does he
  844. 58:05want to stay in Madison does he want to
  845. 58:07go up to the cabin and help his brother
  846. 58:09what's his
  847. 58:10what's he thinking I asked him that when
  848. 58:13I was on the couch I was like why why
  849. 58:15don't we go up to the cabin because like
  850. 58:16his fiancee and him were gone is like
  851. 58:18well I can't drive I'm like well I
  852. 58:24I could cut up he's like but I don't
  853. 58:27know if they need me in Madison for
  854. 58:28questions which clearly you guys did
  855. 58:31and like and I also need to be with the
  856. 58:34dogs
  857. 58:35and he's like and you need to be with
  858. 58:37the dogs because
  859. 58:39you know
  860. 58:40they they have a harder time with
  861. 58:42Caitlyn because she's not around the
  862. 58:44past much
  863. 58:45so
  864. 58:49that was his reasoning
  865. 58:51before Mitch came I cooked them pork
  866. 58:53chops and like brussels sprouts
  867. 58:57after that
  868. 59:01um
  869. 59:02before Mitch came we showered and then
  870. 59:05Mitch came and then he left and then I
  871. 59:07think he went to his neighbors to see if
  872. 59:09they had like
  873. 59:11any like a ring camera and if there's
  874. 59:13like 40 footage that might have caught
  875. 59:14the car and they said they already
  876. 59:16handed over to the police when he came
  877. 59:17back and I was in the backyard playing
  878. 59:19frisbee with the dogs
  879. 59:21and then we went inside and watched New
  880. 59:23Girl
  881. 59:25and then he saw the police outside he
  882. 59:27said hey I'm gonna go talk to them to
  883. 59:28ask if I can still get my mail in the in
  884. 59:30the mail because I guess there was like
  885. 59:33a ticket saying no mail or something
  886. 59:34like that
  887. 59:38no I don't know anything about that
  888. 59:42that's weird
  889. 59:46how was he when he came back from the
  890. 59:47neighbor's house after checking for the
  891. 59:49ring
  892. 59:54I guess a little relieved that they had
  893. 59:55a camera
  894. 59:57like
  895. 59:59his parents okay
  896. 1:00:03you know every son's like my parents
  897. 1:00:05annoying me but like there's parents
  898. 1:00:08do dinners all
  899. 1:00:10the time like every holiday they're
  900. 1:00:12doing a dinner
  901. 1:00:13Father's Day Mother's Day they're all
  902. 1:00:15together like Easter they don't really
  903. 1:00:18even celebrate Easter that much but
  904. 1:00:21parents make sure they have yeast for
  905. 1:00:23everyone
  906. 1:00:24um
  907. 1:00:25like
  908. 1:00:28so he has a good relationship with Mom
  909. 1:00:30and Dad
  910. 1:00:32he's introverted and like doesn't want
  911. 1:00:34to hang out with his parents he'd rather
  912. 1:00:36video game on his computer
  913. 1:00:39sure
  914. 1:00:40and we play board games he's like more
  915. 1:00:43reserved you know like
  916. 1:00:46not like shouting out jokes but like he
  917. 1:00:49you know has one-liners in there
  918. 1:00:52sure as they call them
  919. 1:00:55um
  920. 1:00:57like
  921. 1:00:58pee fishes in his backyard with his dad
  922. 1:01:01that's why one of the reasons why I
  923. 1:01:03bought the house so they could fish in
  924. 1:01:04the backyard
  925. 1:01:09it's a good relationship nothing no
  926. 1:01:12problems that you know of between the
  927. 1:01:13three of them
  928. 1:01:15I mean he owed the money but he paid
  929. 1:01:18them back I told you that already
  930. 1:01:21um and that's why I was allowed over
  931. 1:01:22during the weekend but other than that
  932. 1:01:26that's like the whole
  933. 1:01:28I've really seen a big problem with them
  934. 1:01:30I guess so what did Chandler so Chandler
  935. 1:01:32said he you said he called you Thursday
  936. 1:01:34to let you know like hey my parents are
  937. 1:01:36going to the cabin I'm gonna be home
  938. 1:01:39alone with the dogs I think he snapped
  939. 1:01:41me that and then like we facetimed later
  940. 1:01:43okay
  941. 1:01:45he snapped you that you know like
  942. 1:01:48Snapchat yep no no I get it I just don't
  943. 1:01:51know I'm not a snapper
  944. 1:01:55what time is he snapping that I'm
  945. 1:01:57telling you snap you that do you
  946. 1:01:58remember ish
  947. 1:01:59guesstimate after five no I was off work
  948. 1:02:04last week I know five I closed I was
  949. 1:02:07room temp shipping okay
  950. 1:02:10all right
  951. 1:02:12so before you said
  952. 1:02:15um that the dogs the
  953. 1:02:17the dogs are more comfortable with you
  954. 1:02:19than Mitch's okay fiance Caitlyn just
  955. 1:02:23because you're around more yeah I'm like
  956. 1:02:26I'm there almost all the time like
  957. 1:02:29I hang out with him and his parents like
  958. 1:02:32like I told you how like I wasn't over
  959. 1:02:35for like two weeks pretty much but like
  960. 1:02:36I was still there having root beer
  961. 1:02:38floats with them that one time
  962. 1:02:40like I cooked them Mexican traditional
  963. 1:02:43food before because my mom's an
  964. 1:02:44immigrant
  965. 1:02:45like
  966. 1:02:47I'm just there often if I'm not there
  967. 1:02:49he's hanging out with me and like maybe
  968. 1:02:52we won't hang out like
  969. 1:02:55it's very variant it depends on like if
  970. 1:02:58we're doing stuff with our families or
  971. 1:03:00if we have other plans but
  972. 1:03:02like like I said I played Mario Kart
  973. 1:03:04with his mom and dad
  974. 1:03:06um
  975. 1:03:08hang out with them sometimes just have
  976. 1:03:10dinner with them
  977. 1:03:12so what was the whole two week thing why
  978. 1:03:14weren't you allowed without owing money
  979. 1:03:16thing so did he how did that come about
  980. 1:03:19why was that a big deal because I
  981. 1:03:21thought yesterday you said that he's old
  982. 1:03:24for like rent and Christmas presents and
  983. 1:03:27stuff like that so why was it that was
  984. 1:03:29two weeks yeah because like he was
  985. 1:03:31working uh for American Family at the
  986. 1:03:33time
  987. 1:03:34and like they just there was like
  988. 1:03:36problems with HR and how they weren't
  989. 1:03:38like paying him and like it was like
  990. 1:03:40they sent it in the mail sent it to like
  991. 1:03:42not his address so he was like please
  992. 1:03:44cancel that check and he like tried
  993. 1:03:46getting them to like deposit it and then
  994. 1:03:48at that point they owed him like a
  995. 1:03:50couple thousand dollars because they
  996. 1:03:51were so far behind and then I guess the
  997. 1:03:54company that they sent money through was
  998. 1:03:55like this doesn't seem legit they
  999. 1:03:57thought it was a scam and so his parents
  1000. 1:03:59were like
  1001. 1:04:01you got to give us that money because we
  1002. 1:04:02know you have money
  1003. 1:04:05and so
  1004. 1:04:07then he paid them
  1005. 1:04:09it was just those two weeks that are
  1006. 1:04:11like you had like strict
  1007. 1:04:14okay which is weird because like
  1008. 1:04:16his mom's like don't be spending money
  1009. 1:04:18because you owe us money but they're not
  1010. 1:04:19ever like really
  1011. 1:04:22he said it wasn't really his mom as more
  1012. 1:04:24of his dad like on him but his dad's
  1013. 1:04:26also an accountant so I understand she
  1014. 1:04:28okay with y'all
  1015. 1:04:30I appreciate that
  1016. 1:04:37so for the two weeks was that when he
  1017. 1:04:39hurt his back when he fell yeah it
  1018. 1:04:42pretty much started like right after he
  1019. 1:04:43fell
  1020. 1:04:44because like
  1021. 1:04:48they can just say cat can't come over
  1022. 1:04:50it was a part of like the recovery and
  1023. 1:04:52like hey you pay us back
  1024. 1:04:56because he had to
  1025. 1:04:57he fell down the stairs he just had
  1026. 1:04:59twice bruised his ribs had to wear like
  1027. 1:05:01a neck brace they were obviously
  1028. 1:05:02concerned and didn't want him doing a
  1029. 1:05:04lot
  1030. 1:05:05so
  1031. 1:05:06I think his dad was I don't know I think
  1032. 1:05:09I don't know if he drove him to the
  1033. 1:05:11hospital or
  1034. 1:05:13um
  1035. 1:05:14called an ambulance I think I have a
  1036. 1:05:16picture of them together there
  1037. 1:05:19sorry my brother's calling me
  1038. 1:05:36he was asking what's happening because I
  1039. 1:05:38told them I had to go downtown for
  1040. 1:05:39questions and he's a cop in St Louis so
  1041. 1:05:41he's like
  1042. 1:05:42I'm gonna kill my sister
  1043. 1:05:50because she was texting me about it that
  1044. 1:05:52day
  1045. 1:05:55do you know when he fell
  1046. 1:05:57yes June 17th after before 1 42 because
  1047. 1:06:01that's
  1048. 1:06:09he was just going on the stairs and fell
  1049. 1:06:10he
  1050. 1:06:17Ard yeah classic yeah
  1051. 1:06:21and so
  1052. 1:06:23here he is in all of Glory
  1053. 1:06:27um
  1054. 1:06:32yeah and then like the day before that I
  1055. 1:06:35was having problems because I had like a
  1056. 1:06:37tailbone cyst and and so Wednesday I was
  1057. 1:06:39over at the house and it's taking care
  1058. 1:06:42of me
  1059. 1:06:43and then he fell Thursday and I went to
  1060. 1:06:45Urgent Care again Friday to get it
  1061. 1:06:47drained
  1062. 1:06:51it's not recommended no it sounds
  1063. 1:06:53horrible
  1064. 1:06:55hmm I could barely walk evenly down
  1065. 1:07:02that was
  1066. 1:07:04what which Thursday was that so
  1067. 1:07:07the 17th is a Thursday so the 18th she
  1068. 1:07:12got her cyst drained yes
  1069. 1:07:15a calendar and then the 16th is the
  1070. 1:07:19Wednesday I went to Urgent Care and he
  1071. 1:07:21was taking care of me
  1072. 1:07:31so I'm gonna ask you a weird question
  1073. 1:07:32with him falling he probably was going
  1074. 1:07:34on the computer but any kind of violence
  1075. 1:07:36in the house
  1076. 1:07:38no
  1077. 1:07:39his dad was downstairs at his computer
  1078. 1:07:42he was telling me about like hearing
  1079. 1:07:44Chandler fall he was like that's not my
  1080. 1:07:46computer it didn't sound bad
  1081. 1:07:48like I got up to like check after a
  1082. 1:07:50while and like he was on the floor and I
  1083. 1:07:51was like
  1084. 1:07:53okay Mr Alderson sure yeah
  1085. 1:07:58he hasn't said anything about it
  1086. 1:08:00afterwards like hey I really
  1087. 1:08:02like
  1088. 1:08:04I didn't I didn't just slip on my socks
  1089. 1:08:07I actually you know Chandler's clumsy
  1090. 1:08:10okay it is not the first time he has
  1091. 1:08:12founded
  1092. 1:08:13he needs like a Life Alert on the
  1093. 1:08:15certain things okay
  1094. 1:08:17I've seen him one of his many Falls
  1095. 1:08:20just the
  1096. 1:08:21he really likes the socks okay
  1097. 1:08:24facts and long sleeves yeah
  1098. 1:08:27it's gonna take a weird
  1099. 1:08:30with his 11.5 shoes yeah with the
  1100. 1:08:33flippers from swimming
  1101. 1:08:37um did he borrow your car at all
  1102. 1:08:40this weekend
  1103. 1:08:44not that I recall he just drove his
  1104. 1:08:45dad's car which is also a Subaru I think
  1105. 1:08:48it's a crash track
  1106. 1:08:50so before he said he couldn't go up to
  1107. 1:08:52the cabin because he couldn't drive but
  1108. 1:08:55he's been driving all weekend
  1109. 1:08:57it's a four-hour drive though okay
  1110. 1:08:59that's different okay
  1111. 1:09:0130 minute at most drive to my house
  1112. 1:09:05like I would drive I drove all of us to
  1113. 1:09:07the farm
  1114. 1:09:08so what's his thought process why can't
  1115. 1:09:09he drive is it just the numbness okay
  1116. 1:09:13like it's risk he doesn't want to crash
  1117. 1:09:14the car okay sure oh my
  1118. 1:09:17conscious on other drivers like okay if
  1119. 1:09:20something were to happen he hits another
  1120. 1:09:21car I don't think he'd live with us okay
  1121. 1:09:24it's a medical reason basically
  1122. 1:09:25basically pretty much yeah
  1123. 1:09:29how did his doctor's appointment go on
  1124. 1:09:32Monday or Tuesday not the Monday okay
  1125. 1:09:36not the best
  1126. 1:09:38I told him like
  1127. 1:09:40a
  1128. 1:09:41the stuttering will go away but like the
  1129. 1:09:44numbness is gonna like stay
  1130. 1:09:46you know because like he hit his head
  1131. 1:09:48twice they said like the numbness was
  1132. 1:09:49from like
  1133. 1:09:50like anything
  1134. 1:09:51and
  1135. 1:09:54that's when he talked to his HR and he
  1136. 1:09:56was like I had to be honest with them
  1137. 1:09:57and that's how he lost the SpaceX job
  1138. 1:10:05may I go pee yeah
  1139. 1:10:08should I leave my phone you can do
  1140. 1:10:10whatever you need to you know where the
  1141. 1:10:12bathroom is right down home right or
  1142. 1:10:14like right there
  1143. 1:15:03foreign
  1144. 1:15:12foreign
  1145. 1:16:20foreign
  1146. 1:16:48oh you're fine
  1147. 1:16:50I wasn't able to run today
  1148. 1:16:53so your mom is requesting that you just
  1149. 1:16:57kind of give her a call like let her
  1150. 1:16:59know that you're safe I text her when I
  1151. 1:17:01was in the bathroom oh you work okay
  1152. 1:17:03Center eight two texts okay she evacue
  1153. 1:17:06no okay so yeah if you want to call Mom
  1154. 1:17:09you're totally welcome to
  1155. 1:17:11just I know your mom is probably worried
  1156. 1:17:14sick
  1157. 1:17:15[Music]
  1158. 1:17:18okay she's gonna just cry at me for a
  1159. 1:17:21couple hours he'll be here for a bit I'm
  1160. 1:17:23it's up to you I mean I sent her a text
  1161. 1:17:25and I also texted my brother to let him
  1162. 1:17:27know where
  1163. 1:17:30the one that's a cop
  1164. 1:17:32in St Louis okay so you St Louis
  1165. 1:17:35Missouri
  1166. 1:17:36I know where it is
  1167. 1:17:39I don't know sometimes people say like
  1168. 1:17:41Milwaukee but they're in the suburbs or
  1169. 1:17:42something so I don't know if he's in The
  1170. 1:17:44Burbs
  1171. 1:17:45before the city the suburbs or the city
  1172. 1:17:47city it's cool what does he do
  1173. 1:17:51huh well I didn't know if like he was on
  1174. 1:17:53patrol cop if he was like in the schools
  1175. 1:17:56you know like I think
  1176. 1:17:58drives around
  1177. 1:18:00takes calls like his partner got shot
  1178. 1:18:03the other day yeah
  1179. 1:18:07how long has it been a cop down there
  1180. 1:18:09March oh wow yeah
  1181. 1:18:13oh yeah I have like
  1182. 1:18:15he sent me texts it was like first week
  1183. 1:18:17I don't know if you want to hear it
  1184. 1:18:20that's my mom
  1185. 1:18:21she answered yeah no I was just in her
  1186. 1:18:24text
  1187. 1:18:26geez well since March yeah so you just
  1188. 1:18:30finished the academy assume um and it
  1189. 1:18:33was extended because of like
  1190. 1:18:36um covid so you just got on the street
  1191. 1:18:42[Music]
  1192. 1:18:46you want to be in St Louis
  1193. 1:18:48why yeah
  1194. 1:18:51he eventually wants to come back to
  1195. 1:18:52Madison and who's more experienced to
  1196. 1:18:54cop in St Louis back in Madison
  1197. 1:18:57that's true Resume Builder Big Time yeah
  1198. 1:19:03all right
  1199. 1:19:05so let's go back to pre-fall
  1200. 1:19:09for approval pre-fall so how is
  1201. 1:19:12Chandler's demeanor before the fall
  1202. 1:19:16versus now
  1203. 1:19:18I mean
  1204. 1:19:20upbeat you know
  1205. 1:19:22excited to be working for SpaceX
  1206. 1:19:26like super
  1207. 1:19:28like Mitch got he found out he had
  1208. 1:19:30diabetes like he went to the emergency
  1209. 1:19:32room like the Friday before Chandler
  1210. 1:19:35fell and I got my tailbone
  1211. 1:19:37blood sugar was like dangerously High
  1212. 1:19:39you know
  1213. 1:19:41and then like they released them from
  1214. 1:19:42the hospital that
  1215. 1:19:44Sunday
  1216. 1:19:46and so like he was worried about that
  1217. 1:19:47because like you know his brother
  1218. 1:19:49could have died got diagnosed with
  1219. 1:19:51diabetes super late
  1220. 1:19:53so really worried around that time and
  1221. 1:19:55stressed and like
  1222. 1:19:58you know
  1223. 1:20:01I don't think a person has a set of
  1224. 1:20:03motion every day
  1225. 1:20:05just
  1226. 1:20:09you know
  1227. 1:20:11gaming
  1228. 1:20:13he does this thing where like he
  1229. 1:20:16screen shares his video game with me
  1230. 1:20:19while I go to sleep
  1231. 1:20:20so I can go to sleep easier and he just
  1232. 1:20:22like explains the game and talks it out
  1233. 1:20:24and like just to help me fall asleep
  1234. 1:20:27what game tarkov
  1235. 1:20:30escape from turkoff
  1236. 1:20:33I have no idea what that is
  1237. 1:20:35okay
  1238. 1:20:37um
  1239. 1:20:40so that was going fine like
  1240. 1:20:43weekend before his friend drove up from
  1241. 1:20:45Kansas to visit him
  1242. 1:20:54how is his um childhood
  1243. 1:20:59have you ever talk to you about it
  1244. 1:21:02I mean he grew up
  1245. 1:21:05think until like elementary school he
  1246. 1:21:07was in Madison
  1247. 1:21:08then they went to Sheboygan area by
  1248. 1:21:13Plymouth
  1249. 1:21:14went to blooms high school went to
  1250. 1:21:16States for swimming
  1251. 1:21:18um swimming since a kid that's why he
  1252. 1:21:20has flipper feet
  1253. 1:21:22did soccer his mom has five photo album
  1254. 1:21:25of each kid
  1255. 1:21:27um mom was a stay-at-home mom so she
  1256. 1:21:29drove them to every swim meet every
  1257. 1:21:31soccer game every school event she was
  1258. 1:21:34there
  1259. 1:21:35helped me the t-shirts and the Flyers
  1260. 1:21:41Eagle Scout Boy Scout
  1261. 1:21:45went to prom with Miss Wisconsin
  1262. 1:21:50popular kid
  1263. 1:21:54any um hunting
  1264. 1:21:57but you know
  1265. 1:21:58or thinking hunting like maybe Boy
  1266. 1:22:01Scouts okay he was a lifeguard
  1267. 1:22:04um
  1268. 1:22:05he was a boy scout like leader Camp
  1269. 1:22:08leader
  1270. 1:22:11he would play Taps at funerals
  1271. 1:22:14whatever that
  1272. 1:22:16Google
  1273. 1:22:19I think so it's not the one with buttons
  1274. 1:22:21yeah yeah
  1275. 1:22:24you play Taps for them
  1276. 1:22:26um
  1277. 1:22:29and that was all through Boy Scouts
  1278. 1:22:31I think he might have done that through
  1279. 1:22:33band he did
  1280. 1:22:34I have the funniest photo of him from
  1281. 1:22:36high school
  1282. 1:22:37they have like you know how some
  1283. 1:22:39supplies Jazz fans he driven band
  1284. 1:22:42and so they made them wear lederhoses
  1285. 1:22:49this is one of the many photos in his
  1286. 1:22:51photo album Jamie Chandler
  1287. 1:22:54toddler like early Chandler
  1288. 1:22:59um Chandler with glasses because he
  1289. 1:23:01roasts me for wearing bifocals
  1290. 1:23:04um the worst contacts that I'm a
  1291. 1:23:06swimming yeah
  1292. 1:23:08um
  1293. 1:23:11I'm trying to find
  1294. 1:23:24it's really funny and I really want to
  1295. 1:23:25find it
  1296. 1:23:30call this later hosen Chandler
  1297. 1:23:32nice
  1298. 1:23:35this is him at one of his swim meets
  1299. 1:23:46I think he was on my calendar Society or
  1300. 1:23:48something in high school
  1301. 1:23:50very
  1302. 1:23:53he was cogsworth and Beauty and the
  1303. 1:23:55Beast in Middle School
  1304. 1:23:56oh really yeah his mom's also showed me
  1305. 1:23:59the video
  1306. 1:24:00she promised
  1307. 1:24:02got holder to it there you go
  1308. 1:24:07um did he ever talk about like how I was
  1309. 1:24:10punished
  1310. 1:24:12did he get a lot of time out spankings
  1311. 1:24:16hmm
  1312. 1:24:33so I'm trying to remember if he
  1313. 1:24:34mentioned it you're fine
  1314. 1:24:39I think like
  1315. 1:24:42maybe he would just study at the table
  1316. 1:24:44and his dad would help any like get
  1317. 1:24:46yelled at if he got too many wrong or
  1318. 1:24:48something like that
  1319. 1:24:50um
  1320. 1:24:54so you mentioned that he was Honor
  1321. 1:24:56Society very active dad would yell if he
  1322. 1:24:59got to me wrong was there a lot of
  1323. 1:25:00pressure on him
  1324. 1:25:02I guess what about now
  1325. 1:25:10I think it's like normal apparent
  1326. 1:25:11pressure like they just want him to be
  1327. 1:25:12the best person he can be okay if you
  1328. 1:25:15don't see anything like abnormal like
  1329. 1:25:16he's not like Jesus my parents do
  1330. 1:25:20I mean his ideals at McDonald's
  1331. 1:25:21drive-through workers a lot
  1332. 1:25:24Mike
  1333. 1:25:26whenever his mom gets home she always
  1334. 1:25:28wants to know about his day how's your
  1335. 1:25:30day going Chandler go sit in his room on
  1336. 1:25:33his bed like while he's doing something
  1337. 1:25:35I was like hi Mom
  1338. 1:25:38he'll cut them dinner often because he's
  1339. 1:25:39a really good cook he cooks for me too
  1340. 1:25:43like just not grilling just not good at
  1341. 1:25:46grilling no it's never used that I think
  1342. 1:25:48that was the third time he said he used
  1343. 1:25:49that girl why didn't you just tell me
  1344. 1:25:51you've never grilled before
  1345. 1:25:53but he can like make a shrimp scampi out
  1346. 1:25:56of scratch hmm
  1347. 1:25:58that's what he needs he can make it
  1348. 1:26:09I guess they're on him for like yeah you
  1349. 1:26:11got to help us with housework you got
  1350. 1:26:12any chores but he like lives with them
  1351. 1:26:14so
  1352. 1:26:16it's fair yeah
  1353. 1:26:18yeah helping out around the house like a
  1354. 1:26:20normal child
  1355. 1:26:23do they have a pickup truck
  1356. 1:26:26pickup truck well you mentioned earlier
  1357. 1:26:28that he would do chores like going to
  1358. 1:26:29the dump oh but with that in the
  1359. 1:26:31Volkswagen or his dad's um Forester it's
  1360. 1:26:34not it might be a cross track okay but
  1361. 1:26:38they just put what they need in the cars
  1362. 1:26:40that they have they don't have a trailer
  1363. 1:26:41or anything
  1364. 1:26:50I'm not sure I'm not really involved in
  1365. 1:26:52those chores okay
  1366. 1:27:01Saturday Saturday yeah
  1367. 1:27:03holiday weekend so yeah
  1368. 1:27:07do you know does he go to the dump in
  1369. 1:27:09Madison
  1370. 1:27:13maybe the DeForest one because they live
  1371. 1:27:15in Windsor to Forest okay
  1372. 1:27:18um his dad usually goes to Minnesota's
  1373. 1:27:20mom they usually make a trip out of it
  1374. 1:27:22stop by quick trip on the way home grab
  1375. 1:27:23soda his mom really likes QuikTrip
  1376. 1:27:26there's a lot of people that love
  1377. 1:27:27QuikTrip she has an obsession like
  1378. 1:27:31when I tell you like if okay there's
  1379. 1:27:33like I think it was around like
  1380. 1:27:35Thanksgiving when Mitch and Caitlin were
  1381. 1:27:37leaving the next day
  1382. 1:27:39she like looked at she's like
  1383. 1:27:41my babies are gone and I'm like I'm
  1384. 1:27:43sorry and like before then I told you
  1385. 1:27:45I'm like if your mom asked to go on a
  1386. 1:27:47quick trip rum you have to say yes she's
  1387. 1:27:49like do you guys want to go to Quick
  1388. 1:27:50Trip and I was like
  1389. 1:27:51he's like okay
  1390. 1:27:54because he get distracted
  1391. 1:27:56often yeah she goes there for soda she
  1392. 1:27:58goes there for snacks she even looked at
  1393. 1:28:00their meat section because in case she
  1394. 1:28:02couldn't get it's my mom
  1395. 1:28:05hi Mom
  1396. 1:28:08yeah I'm with Liz and George George
  1397. 1:28:16I'm fine Mom
  1398. 1:28:18they're just asking questions I'm not
  1399. 1:28:20I'm not being interrogated right no just
  1400. 1:28:22asking me questions asking questions so
  1401. 1:28:24I can leave whenever I want to
  1402. 1:28:30I'm fine
  1403. 1:28:35I'm not mad
  1404. 1:28:39I'm tired yes
  1405. 1:28:45but I'd rather answer their questions so
  1406. 1:28:47they can help find Mr and Mrs holderson
  1407. 1:28:49I think that's a little more important
  1408. 1:28:50than a nap
  1409. 1:28:52well if I'm here now I can answer
  1410. 1:28:54questions now
  1411. 1:29:00love you too Mom
  1412. 1:29:04my car said Chandlers
  1413. 1:29:09no they took us in squad cars
  1414. 1:29:16yeah
  1415. 1:29:17I met Lisa you remember when I was in
  1416. 1:29:19Steel Magnolia as the play
  1417. 1:29:22so this cop was also in Steel Magnolias
  1418. 1:29:25twice because she was a theater major
  1419. 1:29:30yeah she was the pregnant hairdresser
  1420. 1:29:34and then Shelby the girl who dies sorry
  1421. 1:29:36for the spoilers
  1422. 1:29:46yeah and they she's heard of Grandpa
  1423. 1:29:49John
  1424. 1:29:52yeah
  1425. 1:29:55um they also gave me a cookie one had
  1426. 1:29:57chocolate so they tried to poison me at
  1427. 1:29:59some point
  1428. 1:30:00my mom knows now George
  1429. 1:30:03tell Mom I did not let you eat the
  1430. 1:30:05cookie
  1431. 1:30:06okay Mom I love you
  1432. 1:30:09I think so
  1433. 1:30:12I don't think you should find a
  1434. 1:30:14detective she said she's Mexican and she
  1435. 1:30:16can throw a chancla very well
  1436. 1:30:19okay I love you Mom
  1437. 1:30:25I'm proud
  1438. 1:30:27I think the plan is Chandler and I are
  1439. 1:30:29gonna get dinner
  1440. 1:30:32mm-hmm
  1441. 1:30:34if not like I'll probably cook or it's
  1442. 1:30:37getting pretty late so we don't want to
  1443. 1:30:39go to the farm for food
  1444. 1:30:44I know but it's late and we don't want
  1445. 1:30:45to drive through the dark it's a deer
  1446. 1:30:47season
  1447. 1:30:49okay I gotta I'm Gonna Let You
  1448. 1:30:53I'm probably gonna stay with Chandler
  1449. 1:30:54mom
  1450. 1:30:59no
  1451. 1:31:05yeah my pharmacists know the situation
  1452. 1:31:08and they said if I'm not going to be
  1453. 1:31:09able to work there's no point of me
  1454. 1:31:12being there
  1455. 1:31:13not like a mean way like a i I'd
  1456. 1:31:15probably take care of myself
  1457. 1:31:22I am
  1458. 1:31:24[Music]
  1459. 1:31:25I am
  1460. 1:31:27okay love you love you okay love you too
  1461. 1:31:30okay bye love you
  1462. 1:31:33foreign
  1463. 1:31:42she's mom
  1464. 1:31:44it's pretty much the exact same way yeah
  1465. 1:31:47yeah
  1466. 1:31:48we talk about my mom's dog muffin we
  1467. 1:31:50were talking about how it looks like an
  1468. 1:31:51ewok oh really yeah
  1469. 1:31:54yeah
  1470. 1:31:57so obviously you're a big strawberries
  1471. 1:31:59fan
  1472. 1:32:00there's a family like I collect the
  1473. 1:32:02action figures do you I have the limited
  1474. 1:32:04edition of YouTubes like I love Star
  1475. 1:32:05Wars
  1476. 1:32:06do you like the new one the Mandalorian
  1477. 1:32:08oh the Mandalorian yes
  1478. 1:32:11sequels
  1479. 1:32:14um
  1480. 1:32:15I don't know anything about
  1481. 1:32:18my Star Wars movie ever I thought you
  1482. 1:32:21were just talking no there's people that
  1483. 1:32:24in my house that are obsessed with it so
  1484. 1:32:26I
  1485. 1:32:27thought all about the Mandalorian and
  1486. 1:32:29the I thought it was a baby Yoda but I
  1487. 1:32:31guess it's not Yoda
  1488. 1:32:33same species named grogu yeah see
  1489. 1:32:35there's a muffin my mom's dog
  1490. 1:32:38this is pretty much Miss holderson I
  1491. 1:32:40just talking about how he looks like any
  1492. 1:32:41walk
  1493. 1:32:43it does
  1494. 1:32:46um
  1495. 1:32:48and this is from when his friend from
  1496. 1:32:51Kansas visited on
  1497. 1:32:53on the 12th this is a photo with his dad
  1498. 1:32:56Smith Chandler and myself breakfast
  1499. 1:33:00his mom took it his mom's more of the
  1500. 1:33:02picture taker than being in photos but
  1501. 1:33:05sure
  1502. 1:33:11so how after the fall then
  1503. 1:33:13did he stay the same upbeat and happy
  1504. 1:33:15all the time or do you think there's a
  1505. 1:33:16little bit of a change I mean he was
  1506. 1:33:18tired he hit his head like
  1507. 1:33:23sad because like
  1508. 1:33:25infected obviously states that someone
  1509. 1:33:27he wanted to be down there in Florida
  1510. 1:33:31sure
  1511. 1:33:34have an emotional stuff
  1512. 1:33:36and um
  1513. 1:33:39like he obviously lost his job on Monday
  1514. 1:33:41so it's like he's doing his best
  1515. 1:33:44to work up to going and like showing you
  1516. 1:33:46can still work for him but
  1517. 1:33:51it's just hard fell down didn't want to
  1518. 1:33:53lose his job
  1519. 1:33:57straight up
  1520. 1:33:58I like
  1521. 1:34:00still face time talk
  1522. 1:34:02laugh at jokes
  1523. 1:34:04not like
  1524. 1:34:06I hate life
  1525. 1:34:09everyone burned you know yeah
  1526. 1:34:12not like a switch like Jeffrey Dahmer
  1527. 1:34:15yeah yeah
  1528. 1:34:18tell me about Florida
  1529. 1:34:20so that's where SpaceX was that's where
  1530. 1:34:22he was supposed to go
  1531. 1:34:24what was the plan
  1532. 1:34:27go down there
  1533. 1:34:29YouTube
  1534. 1:34:31okay so what did that mean
  1535. 1:34:34because obviously your job here so did
  1536. 1:34:36you have a job lined up we're just gonna
  1537. 1:34:39transfer to uh
  1538. 1:34:41I'm not trying to say FU but like Fu
  1539. 1:34:43Florida University because they also
  1540. 1:34:45have a pharmacy school down there
  1541. 1:34:51so I'm getting Facebook notifications
  1542. 1:34:52because people are reposting the Dane
  1543. 1:34:54County Sheriff's like notice about them
  1544. 1:34:57and
  1545. 1:34:58we've just been messaging people and
  1546. 1:35:01like
  1547. 1:35:01people have been noticing they're like
  1548. 1:35:03hey are you guys okay and we're just
  1549. 1:35:04telling them repost or tell people sure
  1550. 1:35:08um
  1551. 1:35:09yeah
  1552. 1:35:10okay she's gonna go down there did you
  1553. 1:35:12guys have like everything lined up like
  1554. 1:35:15when were you supposed to
  1555. 1:35:18um
  1556. 1:35:18he was supposed to leave the Saturday
  1557. 1:35:21of the Fall so happened on Thursday
  1558. 1:35:24Friday supposedly Saturday morning
  1559. 1:35:27and then
  1560. 1:35:29I was gonna leave at the end or middle
  1561. 1:35:31of August because
  1562. 1:35:33I want to be here for my birthday oh
  1563. 1:35:35it's a big one
  1564. 1:35:38Gonna Get Crunk
  1565. 1:35:48oh shoot what's wrong it broke oh
  1566. 1:35:53my heart Okay so
  1567. 1:35:57did you guys have like a place that you
  1568. 1:35:59were gonna like did you have everything
  1569. 1:36:01kind of figured out
  1570. 1:36:03where are we gonna stay
  1571. 1:36:04just like apartment building in
  1572. 1:36:06Titusville okay did he like already sign
  1573. 1:36:08the lease and stuff
  1574. 1:36:10I think so
  1575. 1:36:14you say tight as hell okay Titusville
  1576. 1:36:16Florida that were the
  1577. 1:36:19Space Center
  1578. 1:36:21the schools in Orlando but it's like an
  1579. 1:36:23hour drive from Orlando and from how
  1580. 1:36:25we're driving nothing
  1581. 1:36:27not down there it's not nope
  1582. 1:36:29especially they can go like 90. like
  1583. 1:36:32normal like that's like the 55 here yeah
  1584. 1:36:36like
  1585. 1:36:38excited like
  1586. 1:36:41he wants to save up for a boat because
  1587. 1:36:42he loves fishing
  1588. 1:36:49want to get a year pass at Disney
  1589. 1:36:52go to Universal
  1590. 1:36:55so like obviously it's like hard after
  1591. 1:36:58like finding out like oh that's probably
  1592. 1:37:00jeopardized and then it was so
  1593. 1:37:06is he being interviewed too or is he
  1594. 1:37:08done all right honestly I'm with you so
  1595. 1:37:11I don't know
  1596. 1:37:12you have my attention
  1597. 1:37:14so there you go
  1598. 1:37:16oh there you go
  1599. 1:37:19didn't even have time to change my fuzzy
  1600. 1:37:21socks Ah that's all right they look like
  1601. 1:37:23they're so cozy
  1602. 1:37:26wedding you can take your shoes off
  1603. 1:37:28if they don't knock it it's not gonna be
  1604. 1:37:31good for the room all right then we'll
  1605. 1:37:33just leave them on I appreciate that
  1606. 1:37:36all right so yesterday when we talked
  1607. 1:37:40um you said that you showered with him
  1608. 1:37:43Sunday
  1609. 1:37:45to save the environment save the
  1610. 1:37:47environment was there any other day that
  1611. 1:37:49you showered together today safe
  1612. 1:37:51environment okay we wash each other's
  1613. 1:37:53hair you know
  1614. 1:37:55okay so you showered Sunday I could talk
  1615. 1:38:00today which is Thursday yeah
  1616. 1:38:05um
  1617. 1:38:07and so yesterday you said or yeah
  1618. 1:38:10yesterday you said that your sex life is
  1619. 1:38:12pretty normal you know he's whatever
  1620. 1:38:14yeah we talk about everything that we do
  1621. 1:38:16beforehand like
  1622. 1:38:18something makes us upset we're like oh
  1623. 1:38:20um let's not do that and they're like
  1624. 1:38:22okay like
  1625. 1:38:26doesn't hit me
  1626. 1:38:28like if I was like slap me he would like
  1627. 1:38:32okay like that's something he's not
  1628. 1:38:33comfortable with Okay
  1629. 1:38:35um
  1630. 1:38:38um super personal
  1631. 1:38:39um have you guys had sex this weekend
  1632. 1:38:55maybe once Sunday
  1633. 1:38:58okay
  1634. 1:39:00but you're not sure
  1635. 1:39:02yeah it was but I know it was once okay
  1636. 1:39:05yeah
  1637. 1:39:06yeah so one time this weekend
  1638. 1:39:08is that pretty normal
  1639. 1:39:11we usually do it more but like you know
  1640. 1:39:13we are busy okay like tired
  1641. 1:39:19not gonna do it today as a parent
  1642. 1:39:21like
  1643. 1:39:25heels upset Monday Tuesday we're with my
  1644. 1:39:28family
  1645. 1:39:30why was he upset on Monday
  1646. 1:39:33because he lost the job okay
  1647. 1:39:41this Sunday
  1648. 1:39:53and Friday and Friday and Friday yeah
  1649. 1:40:25yeah I don't think it was Sunday it was
  1650. 1:40:26probably just Friday because they got
  1651. 1:40:27light-headed at the end of it
  1652. 1:40:31like he's having a hard time
  1653. 1:40:34shaking his head too much and his lights
  1654. 1:40:36are like really tired okay
  1655. 1:40:40um so you said that normally you guys
  1656. 1:40:42said you have sex more but it was a busy
  1657. 1:40:44weekend busy weekend like he got
  1658. 1:40:46lightheaded that one time and his legs
  1659. 1:40:48were numb like not gonna force him
  1660. 1:40:53are you guys normally like what is your
  1661. 1:40:55normal sex life I guess are you pretty
  1662. 1:40:58like every time you see each other yeah
  1663. 1:41:00like within reason of her like hanging
  1664. 1:41:03out with our families obviously not
  1665. 1:41:05gonna go sneak off
  1666. 1:41:07but usually every time we hang out maybe
  1667. 1:41:10once or twice okay
  1668. 1:41:12and then
  1669. 1:41:14um
  1670. 1:41:15what was the sex life and or sex like on
  1671. 1:41:18Friday
  1672. 1:41:20is it normal normal other than him being
  1673. 1:41:23like
  1674. 1:41:24you know
  1675. 1:41:27Saudi and like
  1676. 1:41:36okay
  1677. 1:41:39normal duration or did everything get
  1678. 1:41:41cut short
  1679. 1:41:43normal duration okay
  1680. 1:41:52thank you
  1681. 1:41:54I was gonna try and shoot it but I
  1682. 1:41:57didn't want to embarrass myself
  1683. 1:42:04um so you've been at the house during
  1684. 1:42:06the renovations obviously there's a lot
  1685. 1:42:10going on at the house
  1686. 1:42:11what is um what does this smell like in
  1687. 1:42:14the house
  1688. 1:42:16dog
  1689. 1:42:19like when they were working on the
  1690. 1:42:21basement wall
  1691. 1:42:24s the okay no
  1692. 1:42:27um
  1693. 1:42:28there's a fiery smell on Friday because
  1694. 1:42:30when he broke the
  1695. 1:42:33when
  1696. 1:42:35this thing on the fireplace like ash
  1697. 1:42:38was like an exposed yeah okay
  1698. 1:42:45any other thing that you smell or
  1699. 1:42:47remember smelling
  1700. 1:42:51Ash I was like it smells like a fire
  1701. 1:42:54so maybe by extension grilling okay
  1702. 1:43:06so before you said that there's no air
  1703. 1:43:08conditioning was only in love kitchen so
  1704. 1:43:12was that on during the weekend I thought
  1705. 1:43:15you were there
  1706. 1:43:18no windows were open fans were on okay
  1707. 1:43:21he like if the dogs are really
  1708. 1:43:23struggling like he'll turn it on for him
  1709. 1:43:25and they lay underneath it because you
  1710. 1:43:26know they're Border Collies long hairs
  1711. 1:43:28so
  1712. 1:43:29they love rolling in the snow so it's
  1713. 1:43:32Summer's hungry
  1714. 1:43:34um
  1715. 1:43:36so but during the weekend
  1716. 1:43:38mostly open window and fans okay
  1717. 1:43:41I didn't know if that changed with the
  1718. 1:43:43Fourth of July weekend
  1719. 1:43:45um
  1720. 1:43:47like when the fireworks are getting too
  1721. 1:43:49loud we've just closed the window but
  1722. 1:43:51leave fans on
  1723. 1:43:54today was literally the coldest it's
  1724. 1:43:56been since like winter for me there
  1725. 1:43:59because it's been a chilly day he had
  1726. 1:44:01all the windows going
  1727. 1:44:02and like all the fans on to try and blow
  1728. 1:44:04it all in okay yeah
  1729. 1:44:07has he been helping with the renovation
  1730. 1:44:09project at all
  1731. 1:44:10he's done anything recently there
  1732. 1:44:15um
  1733. 1:44:17like mostly just artwork like
  1734. 1:44:21I think he helped plant their new cherry
  1735. 1:44:22tree
  1736. 1:44:24um but he doesn't help like rip down
  1737. 1:44:25walls or carpet or anything like that
  1738. 1:44:28uh
  1739. 1:44:31not recently but I recall like when
  1740. 1:44:34their bathroom was under construction he
  1741. 1:44:36helped put down the like heating floor
  1742. 1:44:38tile stuff
  1743. 1:44:42might have helped with the basement
  1744. 1:44:45I know once they collected nails for his
  1745. 1:44:48dad for something
  1746. 1:44:50and then they brought it to the dump
  1747. 1:44:54they went to the dump
  1748. 1:44:58um
  1749. 1:44:59yeah because
  1750. 1:45:02he because I was having a hard time
  1751. 1:45:04sitting down and like driving obviously
  1752. 1:45:06he drove my car and his parents followed
  1753. 1:45:08us and then picked them up
  1754. 1:45:12on Wednesday
  1755. 1:45:14uh when I when they were taking care of
  1756. 1:45:16me because the Urgent Care thing the
  1757. 1:45:18sale dentist oh okay yeah so a couple
  1758. 1:45:20weeks back okay I just want to make sure
  1759. 1:45:22I'm understanding you so that's that's
  1760. 1:45:24the last time they went to the town so
  1761. 1:45:25the Wednesday before like that you went
  1762. 1:45:28to the ER because of the CIS Urgent Care
  1763. 1:45:30yeah okay so that was the Wednesday
  1764. 1:45:31night like yesterday Wednesday or the
  1765. 1:45:34Wednesday before like on the first or
  1766. 1:45:35whatever okay thank you for clarifying I
  1767. 1:45:38just want to make sure that I'm
  1768. 1:45:39understanding this yeah sorry all right
  1769. 1:45:41you're good
  1770. 1:45:42yeah that was the last time I recalled
  1771. 1:45:44them talking about going to the dump but
  1772. 1:45:46they go like quite often okay
  1773. 1:45:50do they have a dumpster outside or they
  1774. 1:45:52just take it all put in the car drive it
  1775. 1:45:54okay do a quick trip on the way home
  1776. 1:45:58I'm so sorry I feel like I seem like I
  1777. 1:46:00have Bad Manners
  1778. 1:46:05um this is
  1779. 1:46:07Chandler talk about any um firearms that
  1780. 1:46:09he has
  1781. 1:46:13his friend did gift him one okay what is
  1782. 1:46:16that
  1783. 1:46:19called
  1784. 1:46:23you know when
  1785. 1:46:24he visited oh from Kansas yes okay
  1786. 1:46:30but other than that his parents they
  1787. 1:46:33have like a safe with other guns
  1788. 1:46:36because he used to be on the shooting
  1789. 1:46:38team in college
  1790. 1:46:45Platteville that's the name started with
  1791. 1:46:47a B
  1792. 1:46:53the gun that he gets it was it like a
  1793. 1:46:55handgun or something you hold like a
  1794. 1:46:57rifle
  1795. 1:46:58like a rifle his friend's in the
  1796. 1:47:01military so oh wow
  1797. 1:47:04do you know a friend's name
  1798. 1:47:06Smith
  1799. 1:47:08it's his last name
  1800. 1:47:10his first name
  1801. 1:47:11you know what branch
  1802. 1:47:14army army yeah Kansas you said
  1803. 1:47:19everything from
  1804. 1:47:25foreign
  1805. 1:47:28so he was on a shooting team for
  1806. 1:47:30Platteville yeah it was like I don't
  1807. 1:47:32know she was a club or something might
  1808. 1:47:34have been a club for Platteville High
  1809. 1:47:36School Platteville College okay
  1810. 1:47:38he went to Plymouth High School
  1811. 1:47:44where did he go to Platteville College
  1812. 1:47:46um
  1813. 1:47:48graduated high school in 2016 so we
  1814. 1:47:50assumed 2016 full
  1815. 1:47:54I'm not sure
  1816. 1:47:56did he get his four-year there
  1817. 1:47:59I think he did two years there okay he
  1818. 1:48:01like had scholarships from like swimming
  1819. 1:48:03and stuff and I think he did a little
  1820. 1:48:04bit of water polo there
  1821. 1:48:06not sure
  1822. 1:48:13did he swim there
  1823. 1:48:15water balloon
  1824. 1:48:16but not swimming I don't know if he swam
  1825. 1:48:24do you know is his the gun that he was
  1826. 1:48:26gifted is that in the gun safe with all
  1827. 1:48:29of his parents
  1828. 1:48:32might be have you seen the gun like when
  1829. 1:48:35he got it okay
  1830. 1:48:38how do you describe it
  1831. 1:48:40one
  1832. 1:48:41black I think
  1833. 1:48:44they look like an army gun like with the
  1834. 1:48:46carry yeah
  1835. 1:48:48like when I'm 16 ish
  1836. 1:48:52I'm going like
  1837. 1:48:55two things just you don't have any
  1838. 1:48:57pictures of the gun
  1839. 1:48:59I didn't know if Chandler like took
  1840. 1:49:01pictures of like he's not like I'm a gun
  1841. 1:49:03owner
  1842. 1:49:04you know he's not like a kind of like
  1843. 1:49:06the rifles cops carry
  1844. 1:49:08similar to that with the magazine
  1845. 1:49:09underneath
  1846. 1:49:11no all we have in the pharmacy
  1847. 1:49:15but it's not that no okay
  1848. 1:49:22do you know if it was like a
  1849. 1:49:25military issued gun or just one of
  1850. 1:49:27Smith's guns that he was like Hey I
  1851. 1:49:30don't need this yeah okay just an extra
  1852. 1:49:32gun okay
  1853. 1:49:36I've gifted it to him okay any reason
  1854. 1:49:38why
  1855. 1:49:41I didn't know if Chandler was like hey I
  1856. 1:49:43like want a bed or I've been talking
  1857. 1:49:45about going trap shooting
  1858. 1:49:49like
  1859. 1:49:55I don't recall a bet or something okay I
  1860. 1:49:58think he just Smith showed us like
  1861. 1:50:03open
  1862. 1:50:06they're game together a lot so
  1863. 1:50:10to see game on Discord
  1864. 1:50:12well discord's a chatting app but when
  1865. 1:50:15he's gaming is he on Discord sometimes
  1866. 1:50:17okay he sometimes doesn't log in okay
  1867. 1:50:24the other guns in the safe what do they
  1868. 1:50:25look like have you ever seen them no no
  1869. 1:50:27parents keep them pretty locked up we're
  1870. 1:50:30at their bedroom or I don't know
  1871. 1:50:34um another question about Smith when
  1872. 1:50:36Smith came to visit did he drive up or
  1873. 1:50:38did he fly do you remember the vehicle
  1874. 1:50:42okay like
  1875. 1:50:43see tiger
  1876. 1:50:46silver
  1877. 1:50:47kind of like
  1878. 1:50:51played with really loud country music
  1879. 1:50:56like a SUV type vehicle or car
  1880. 1:51:01yes it is the long white ones
  1881. 1:51:03like we take the butt off
  1882. 1:51:07I don't know like the Scions
  1883. 1:51:10I don't know cars like maybe like
  1884. 1:51:12my Forester but like a little taller
  1885. 1:51:16silver and like more boxy looking okay
  1886. 1:51:27are you friends with Smith on in like
  1887. 1:51:28any social media at all
  1888. 1:51:39why are you so tired today did you not
  1889. 1:51:41sleep last night I was with my friends
  1890. 1:51:43okay please say it until like 12 a.m
  1891. 1:51:46play Katan okay I don't know if you
  1892. 1:51:48played because um
  1893. 1:51:50no sport game
  1894. 1:51:53um we got dinner and then we played
  1895. 1:51:55baton
  1896. 1:51:58so
  1897. 1:52:00when did he when did Chandler start
  1898. 1:52:02showing concern for his parents not
  1899. 1:52:04being back
  1900. 1:52:07like
  1901. 1:52:08Monday Monday yeah
  1902. 1:52:11like
  1903. 1:52:12it's unusual to not get text messages
  1904. 1:52:14from his mom
  1905. 1:52:16or his like Dad kind of like his dad
  1906. 1:52:19will send pictures of the cabin
  1907. 1:52:23um
  1908. 1:52:23where like his mom will text him updates
  1909. 1:52:26or something like
  1910. 1:52:28Bart caught a fish sent a picture apart
  1911. 1:52:32so they went to the cabin on
  1912. 1:52:34Friday morning is that right I think so
  1913. 1:52:36yeah they sent him any updates during
  1914. 1:52:37the weekend
  1915. 1:52:39I thought it was Saturday they sent a
  1916. 1:52:41text but he said it was Sunday
  1917. 1:52:45I thought it was Saturday sure he said
  1918. 1:52:48Sunday so why was he concerned on Monday
  1919. 1:52:50if he just got the text yesterday or the
  1920. 1:52:53day before
  1921. 1:52:54supposed to live on Monday night
  1922. 1:52:55experience are usually like on time but
  1923. 1:52:58like okay
  1924. 1:52:59it was like a
  1925. 1:53:00they'll be back you know
  1926. 1:53:03and then like they're supposed to be
  1927. 1:53:04back early Tuesday morning if they
  1928. 1:53:06didn't make it back Monday night
  1929. 1:53:08and it's like his dad's very punctual
  1930. 1:53:15his mom was supposed to work Tuesday
  1931. 1:53:18okay
  1932. 1:53:20but Monday y'all went to the farm he
  1933. 1:53:23went to the farm okay
  1934. 1:53:25uh he went to my house after I didn't go
  1935. 1:53:27to the front with him okay but he talked
  1936. 1:53:30with my mom and her fiance
  1937. 1:53:37okay
  1938. 1:53:39so how did you find out
  1939. 1:53:40that the parents were
  1940. 1:53:43not that they were late did he tell him
  1941. 1:53:46yeah we text like all the time or
  1942. 1:53:48SnapChat all the time not really text
  1943. 1:53:51and it's like the entire weekend I'm
  1944. 1:53:54like hey did you hear from your mom did
  1945. 1:53:55your mom text you because like I'm so
  1946. 1:53:57used to her texting him like while we're
  1947. 1:53:59hanging out or while she's away you know
  1948. 1:54:02and he's like no but like maybe the
  1949. 1:54:04self-service is bad it's a busy weekend
  1950. 1:54:06they're all probably using like one
  1951. 1:54:07Tower
  1952. 1:54:09for yeah and then like
  1953. 1:54:12if you hear from your mom
  1954. 1:54:15it's like no not yet it's fine it's
  1955. 1:54:17probably busy you know with their
  1956. 1:54:19friends
  1957. 1:54:22I guess like in a way like
  1958. 1:54:27you know like it'll be okay
  1959. 1:54:32type of thing like they'll talk to us
  1960. 1:54:34when they can
  1961. 1:54:36sure
  1962. 1:54:37um
  1963. 1:54:38and then like
  1964. 1:54:40and I was like Hey like
  1965. 1:54:42if you heard from them he's like no not
  1966. 1:54:44yet and like okay well has metered from
  1967. 1:54:46them
  1968. 1:54:47he's like I don't know I'm like
  1969. 1:54:49um okay well you should maybe ask me
  1970. 1:54:51she's like I don't want to make him
  1971. 1:54:52worry and I'm like well even just ask
  1972. 1:54:54like hey his mom sent you pictures of
  1973. 1:54:56the cabin or anything you know
  1974. 1:54:59because like Mitch has this whole
  1975. 1:55:00diabetes thing and like just had an
  1976. 1:55:03attack the Father's Day brunch thing we
  1977. 1:55:05did
  1978. 1:55:06because Mom is really concerned so I
  1979. 1:55:09knew she would be texting him
  1980. 1:55:15and then like
  1981. 1:55:17Tuesday it was like
  1982. 1:55:20still haven't heard anything and he's
  1983. 1:55:21like yeah no I'm gonna go to the police
  1984. 1:55:24tomorrow
  1985. 1:55:28went to the police on Wednesday
  1986. 1:55:30like
  1987. 1:55:35I've been trying to call them yeah he
  1988. 1:55:38tried to call them like he called his
  1989. 1:55:40mom in front of me at one point and went
  1990. 1:55:41straight to voicemail do you know what
  1991. 1:55:43day that was
  1992. 1:55:45just sometime this weekend
  1993. 1:55:47okay
  1994. 1:55:50because it's like have you tried to call
  1995. 1:55:51your mom and he was like yeah
  1996. 1:55:53and like he just opened it and called
  1997. 1:55:56her again in front of me he's like it
  1998. 1:55:57just go straight to voicemail it's like
  1999. 1:55:58busy
  2000. 1:56:01assume that I was like dead or something
  2001. 1:56:03you know
  2002. 1:56:05I'm pretty well charged I believe
  2003. 1:56:08she like steps away from it to like
  2004. 1:56:10clean or like do something but like
  2005. 1:56:12she doesn't take too long to respond
  2006. 1:56:14unless she's working
  2007. 1:56:16was that his idea to go to the police or
  2008. 1:56:18someone encouraged him to do that
  2009. 1:56:21I was like
  2010. 1:56:23I don't know if like he brought it up
  2011. 1:56:25first
  2012. 1:56:29I was like you have to go to the police
  2013. 1:56:32both like your parents
  2014. 1:56:34instead of yeah
  2015. 1:56:36it was his idea
  2016. 1:56:39but I was like have you heard from that
  2017. 1:56:40have you heard from them you know yeah
  2018. 1:56:44like I said it's so unusual to not hear
  2019. 1:56:46from his mom
  2020. 1:56:48did you guys look around the house for
  2021. 1:56:49any kind of
  2022. 1:56:51notes that they may have left or did you
  2023. 1:56:53go into their rooms or the only note
  2024. 1:56:55they left was Chandler's like insurance
  2025. 1:56:57cards and like Pam's number on the table
  2026. 1:57:00because he has his employment on Monday
  2027. 1:57:09and
  2028. 1:57:10did you go to their bedroom at all did
  2029. 1:57:11it seem like clean clean the door was
  2030. 1:57:14open I don't go in but
  2031. 1:57:16the bed was made
  2032. 1:57:18Chandler put their laundry on their
  2033. 1:57:19bodies like I should probably fold their
  2034. 1:57:21laundry so when they get back they'll be
  2035. 1:57:23happy you know sure they like Lee does
  2036. 1:57:26little stuff like that you know I think
  2037. 1:57:28it makes any parent happy when their kid
  2038. 1:57:29folds their clothes for them while
  2039. 1:57:30they're gone
  2040. 1:57:31I do it for my mom sometimes
  2041. 1:57:39um
  2042. 1:57:40gone we come knocking obviously you
  2043. 1:57:45makes the report
  2044. 1:57:47um
  2045. 1:57:49did he say I'm happy that we were at
  2046. 1:57:51least helping try to find his parents
  2047. 1:57:54yeah
  2048. 1:57:55like he talked to you when we first came
  2049. 1:57:57here like he was like do you have any
  2050. 1:57:59news like yeah like I text him through
  2051. 1:58:01he's like there's they haven't heard
  2052. 1:58:02anything like the cabin zombie like
  2053. 1:58:05he want we were talking after vegetal
  2054. 1:58:08left like
  2055. 1:58:09hey Danny's like because my friend
  2056. 1:58:11Danny's mom died of cancer you know his
  2057. 1:58:13mom's sick so
  2058. 1:58:15he's like you know his mom probably took
  2059. 1:58:18that money and they're going to live
  2060. 1:58:19life you know going to the casinos
  2061. 1:58:20winning big and like
  2062. 1:58:23you know having fun and Chandler's like
  2063. 1:58:25yeah they're like they're at the casino
  2064. 1:58:27they're like having such a good time
  2065. 1:58:28like they're racking up that money you
  2066. 1:58:29gotta stay there so they blow it all
  2067. 1:58:31it's like yes yeah you know they're just
  2068. 1:58:33at the casino living life he's like Yep
  2069. 1:58:35they're just winning
  2070. 1:58:36you know trying to stay positive
  2071. 1:58:39talk about what they're probably doing
  2072. 1:58:40like
  2073. 1:58:42did they have any problems with anybody
  2074. 1:58:44the hauler sends yeah
  2075. 1:58:47you gotta ask not that I'm aware of
  2076. 1:58:50the only thing I heard is like
  2077. 1:58:54Christa doesn't miss holderson doesn't
  2078. 1:58:56always get along with her boss you know
  2079. 1:58:59but it doesn't always doesn't mean all
  2080. 1:59:02the time like
  2081. 1:59:04she made him like a gumball out of his
  2082. 1:59:06head for his Christmas present
  2083. 1:59:10a gumball machine because he always has
  2084. 1:59:12like nuts they got a bag of nuts and
  2085. 1:59:15like a gumball machine and it was like a
  2086. 1:59:17Mr Hollis in a Miss hollison project to
  2087. 1:59:19make it look like him okay so it was
  2088. 1:59:21dispense and that's on his desk
  2089. 1:59:24all right like
  2090. 1:59:29maybe the McDonald's workers his dad
  2091. 1:59:31would yell at through the
  2092. 1:59:33speaker or something okay
  2093. 1:59:36how was um Chandler this weekend was he
  2094. 1:59:39sleeping and Eden and
  2095. 1:59:42like she ate while up until Sunday
  2096. 1:59:47because like
  2097. 1:59:49you know
  2098. 1:59:50just
  2099. 1:59:52emotional Monday but like I made him eat
  2100. 1:59:54and then like did a needle Tuesday
  2101. 1:59:57because he was worried except the wings
  2102. 1:59:58we got him
  2103. 2:00:00and I made sure you took leftovers with
  2104. 2:00:02him so we could have something to eat
  2105. 2:00:04he said he had a peanut butter fold over
  2106. 2:00:06yesterday and like his Dan and Mary
  2107. 2:00:09bought him like a pizza so he could eat
  2108. 2:00:10but he's really worried he's having a
  2109. 2:00:12hard time
  2110. 2:00:14me um
  2111. 2:00:18you don't think he had anything to do
  2112. 2:00:19with his mom and dad being
  2113. 2:00:23unheard from yeah
  2114. 2:00:25I just yeah
  2115. 2:00:28all my friends I've talked to they're
  2116. 2:00:30like no not Chandler no
  2117. 2:00:33like
  2118. 2:00:36that'd be
  2119. 2:00:38crazy
  2120. 2:00:39sorry I sound very monotone right now
  2121. 2:00:41but like
  2122. 2:00:42snow
  2123. 2:00:44are you no
  2124. 2:00:46um
  2125. 2:00:47no no not a mean boy in his body
  2126. 2:00:50well
  2127. 2:00:52everyone has a mean bone
  2128. 2:00:56they even said Mother Teresa was a dick
  2129. 2:00:58sometimes like
  2130. 2:01:00but I just don't see him killing Mr Mrs
  2131. 2:01:03halderson like
  2132. 2:01:05he had SpaceX like why would he
  2133. 2:01:07jeopardize something he like would dream
  2134. 2:01:09of you know like there's parents
  2135. 2:01:13for Christmas they got him and his
  2136. 2:01:14brother matching tool sets like come on
  2137. 2:01:20he cooks dinner for them they have root
  2138. 2:01:22beer floats together they played
  2139. 2:01:24Mario Kart whenever his parents want to
  2140. 2:01:26like
  2141. 2:01:29and his brother Mitchell you think
  2142. 2:01:30Mitchell yeah he's
  2143. 2:01:33a leaf in the Wind
  2144. 2:01:38even if he tried they could just like
  2145. 2:01:39push him over and he'd like break
  2146. 2:01:42no
  2147. 2:01:47no any friends or relatives that they've
  2148. 2:01:49been having problems with that you can
  2149. 2:01:51think of no
  2150. 2:01:52no I mean Miss hulderson didn't really
  2151. 2:01:55like Mr holders inside of the family but
  2152. 2:01:57they're also like Republican
  2153. 2:01:58conservative and she's like very
  2154. 2:02:01Democrat
  2155. 2:02:02so
  2156. 2:02:04I I just
  2157. 2:02:07I just can't see someone killing them
  2158. 2:02:09like that's the thing like
  2159. 2:02:14like I thought like maybe they got into
  2160. 2:02:15a car accident like maybe their cars on
  2161. 2:02:17the side of the road like
  2162. 2:02:18I even thought like maybe that happened
  2163. 2:02:20and someone took them to the hospital
  2164. 2:02:22and they're just Jane and John Doe
  2165. 2:02:24like
  2166. 2:02:26if someone killed them would have to be
  2167. 2:02:28someone they like didn't know
  2168. 2:02:30like I just can't see them like
  2169. 2:02:33owing a loan shark money and then like
  2170. 2:02:36them getting them or like having
  2171. 2:02:38problems with the mob you know
  2172. 2:02:40they're just not that type of people
  2173. 2:02:42like
  2174. 2:02:44can't see someone killing them
  2175. 2:02:46I imagine you and Chandler had this
  2176. 2:02:48conversation like like all the what is
  2177. 2:02:51like car accident car I don't I didn't
  2178. 2:02:53bring up the car accident to him
  2179. 2:02:55I think our main thing was
  2180. 2:02:58they're off throwing money everywhere we
  2181. 2:03:02don't talk about other stuff he hasn't
  2182. 2:03:04had that concern that something else
  2183. 2:03:05could have happened
  2184. 2:03:06I don't think he wants to think about
  2185. 2:03:08that
  2186. 2:03:09like he's obviously worried like they're
  2187. 2:03:11not at the cabin sorry I'm emotional
  2188. 2:03:13you're fine and it's like
  2189. 2:03:15no one wants to think that
  2190. 2:03:19like
  2191. 2:03:20you can see himself just saying
  2192. 2:03:23they're like blowing all the money
  2193. 2:03:25they're just trying to live life
  2194. 2:03:27they went like and extended their
  2195. 2:03:28vacation somewhere
  2196. 2:03:30like
  2197. 2:03:31no one wants to think anything happened
  2198. 2:03:33to them and like
  2199. 2:03:39like we have to talk about other
  2200. 2:03:40alternates we're like What would happen
  2201. 2:03:42if something happened to his parents I
  2202. 2:03:44just don't even think he wants to think
  2203. 2:03:45about it
  2204. 2:03:49okay
  2205. 2:03:50want some paper towel or anything
  2206. 2:03:51Kleenex yes please someone getting you
  2207. 2:03:53some thank you
  2208. 2:03:56I swear
  2209. 2:04:01I know I don't even know the last time
  2210. 2:04:04we cleaned in here there's honestly like
  2211. 2:04:06a layer of dust up here you'll see so
  2212. 2:04:08that could be the contributing factor
  2213. 2:04:11uh Lisa and I were talking about how it
  2214. 2:04:13looks like it's from the 90s in here oh
  2215. 2:04:14yeah it definitely is I thought it was
  2216. 2:04:1670s colors but I I almost said I'm
  2217. 2:04:18around in the 90s
  2218. 2:04:20I want to say this is probably like the
  2219. 2:04:2390s 80s like vibe
  2220. 2:04:26it's probably like straight out of
  2221. 2:04:28someone like living room thank you
  2222. 2:04:39sorry I didn't mean to upset you
  2223. 2:04:41mean you're an upset me like like I said
  2224. 2:04:44I think it's more concerning if I wasn't
  2225. 2:04:45emotional yeah I was like
  2226. 2:04:48no nothing bad happened to them
  2227. 2:04:51I think that'd be a little more
  2228. 2:04:52concerning you know yeah
  2229. 2:04:55do you cry in front of Chandler
  2230. 2:04:57they cry in front of everyone okay I'm
  2231. 2:05:00emotional but mostly French
  2232. 2:05:03does has he cried
  2233. 2:05:06like
  2234. 2:05:08he doesn't cry in front of people like
  2235. 2:05:09he told me one day he cried
  2236. 2:05:14usually one and gets his cry out and
  2237. 2:05:16he's like if I come over
  2238. 2:05:19like
  2239. 2:05:21and I cry don't break up with me I'm
  2240. 2:05:23like
  2241. 2:05:24stupid reason to break up over someone
  2242. 2:05:25you know being erased on his dad who
  2243. 2:05:28doesn't really show emotion it's like a
  2244. 2:05:29don't
  2245. 2:05:30type of thing
  2246. 2:05:32you know
  2247. 2:05:34no offense but
  2248. 2:05:37man I get it sorry George it's okay
  2249. 2:05:44did you know if your mucus is green that
  2250. 2:05:46means you might be
  2251. 2:05:48please remove the screen it was a what
  2252. 2:05:52so I don't know your answer yeah
  2253. 2:05:56so what was Chandler upset about on
  2254. 2:05:58Monday that doctor's appointment the
  2255. 2:06:00doctor's appointment and losing the job
  2256. 2:06:03I'm sure on top of it
  2257. 2:06:06his mom now
  2258. 2:06:09but she did text him on Sunday so how
  2259. 2:06:12did he like how was his demeanor on
  2260. 2:06:14Sunday
  2261. 2:06:16having fun like
  2262. 2:06:19walk around the pool enjoying food
  2263. 2:06:20chatting okay talking with my mom and
  2264. 2:06:23his girlfriend
  2265. 2:06:25playing with the dogs like
  2266. 2:06:27we brought the dogs with us and they
  2267. 2:06:28love running around the farm his dogs no
  2268. 2:06:31your dogs yes okay
  2269. 2:06:33his dogs cannot handle being in a car oh
  2270. 2:06:36okay like Rizzo has to wear a diaper a
  2271. 2:06:39Thundershirt someone has to be like
  2272. 2:06:40holding her
  2273. 2:06:43oh wow like when we were there they're
  2274. 2:06:46like because Mitch was calling the
  2275. 2:06:49family friend to like come over
  2276. 2:06:51I mean they're like can't like a
  2277. 2:06:52neighbor just come take them over to
  2278. 2:06:53their house like no they cannot leave
  2279. 2:06:55the house okay they can go in the
  2280. 2:06:57backyard of the front yard but any other
  2281. 2:06:58setting is gonna be too much
  2282. 2:07:00and Rizzo might like she lunges at
  2283. 2:07:02people and like barks at you but like
  2284. 2:07:04she won't bite you but it looks like
  2285. 2:07:06she's gonna bite you
  2286. 2:07:07like I want the officers obviously about
  2287. 2:07:10that but like
  2288. 2:07:13you know I I've seen a cop shoot a dog
  2289. 2:07:15so
  2290. 2:07:18it just I don't want them to move the
  2291. 2:07:21dogs okay
  2292. 2:07:26do you know when he got the text message
  2293. 2:07:29right it wasn't a call I I think it was
  2294. 2:07:31yeah I believe okay I thought it was
  2295. 2:07:34Saturday he said it was Sunday okay but
  2296. 2:07:39I don't know
  2297. 2:07:42saying that they got to the lake
  2298. 2:07:44so after the text message he was
  2299. 2:07:48enjoying the festivities like talking
  2300. 2:07:51with people yeah in the pool did he
  2301. 2:07:54appear to be happy since he got the text
  2302. 2:07:56message
  2303. 2:07:58yeah okay
  2304. 2:08:00parents texting me okay you were with
  2305. 2:08:02him when you got the text
  2306. 2:08:04I believe so yeah
  2307. 2:08:05you were with him I believe so yeah okay
  2308. 2:08:10no snapchats of that
  2309. 2:08:13okay I think I remember him like saying
  2310. 2:08:16it to me you know you know
  2311. 2:08:18I know it's just Sunday
  2312. 2:08:21when you were at the farm you think I
  2313. 2:08:23think at the farm okay
  2314. 2:08:25um we called Mitchell on Sunday at the
  2315. 2:08:27house
  2316. 2:08:33any reason for his parents uh
  2317. 2:08:36take off and Bash
  2318. 2:08:38it's mom being sick
  2319. 2:08:40that's all I could think
  2320. 2:08:41like I said I can't see them running
  2321. 2:08:43from a lone shark or one of my friends
  2322. 2:08:45was like maybe they robbed a bank in the
  2323. 2:08:4670s and like their person they were
  2324. 2:08:49doing it with was like Hey we're gonna
  2325. 2:08:51get caught let's leave like yeah I mean
  2326. 2:08:53sometimes people are like I want to get
  2327. 2:08:54out of here they have a couple other
  2328. 2:08:56family members help them you know plan
  2329. 2:08:58their disappearance
  2330. 2:09:00so he obviously didn't want you to hold
  2331. 2:09:04on to anything or get rid of anything
  2332. 2:09:05that were his parents or anything no no
  2333. 2:09:09like
  2334. 2:09:11like I said the policy you can't hold
  2335. 2:09:13this or get rid of this no no
  2336. 2:09:21he's very like
  2337. 2:09:24even when he had his apartment and like
  2338. 2:09:26I wandered into one of his roommates
  2339. 2:09:28rooms once he's like no you don't belong
  2340. 2:09:29there you don't go there like that's not
  2341. 2:09:31your space like I've never been in his
  2342. 2:09:33parents room I've never been in like the
  2343. 2:09:34guest bedroom like
  2344. 2:09:37he's like that's not our space you don't
  2345. 2:09:39go in it
  2346. 2:09:40doesn't take her touches parents things
  2347. 2:09:44like except when trying to find clues
  2348. 2:09:46for you guys
  2349. 2:09:49you know sure wouldn't give me anything
  2350. 2:09:51of his parents like run away with
  2351. 2:09:54you know I'd be like why
  2352. 2:10:00I borrowed his mom's hair dryer Sunday
  2353. 2:10:01to dry my hair but that's it
  2354. 2:10:05but it's still there I left it
  2355. 2:10:08you're fine we're not worried about a
  2356. 2:10:10hair dryer and
  2357. 2:10:12bigger things to worry about
  2358. 2:10:14okay
  2359. 2:10:16quick break do you have to use bathroom
  2360. 2:10:18again you good
  2361. 2:10:21you want to make any calls or
  2362. 2:10:24make any calls or
  2363. 2:10:28my friend in Berlin Germany probably
  2364. 2:10:29thinks I'm dead Berlin Germany yeah her
  2365. 2:10:33name is Kira van Sutton she was an
  2366. 2:10:34exchange student in my junior year
  2367. 2:10:37oh no it's seven she's sleeping
  2368. 2:10:47you make me step out for a sec
  2369. 2:10:49unless you're gonna throw shade then I
  2370. 2:10:52prefer to put on my face no we should
  2371. 2:10:54definitely do it in front of you like
  2372. 2:10:55that's just the tick first thing she
  2373. 2:10:58ain't in front of the face of course
  2374. 2:10:59totally honest
  2375. 2:11:01oh Jesus
  2376. 2:12:59foreign
  2377. 2:14:03foreign
  2378. 2:15:21foreign
  2379. 2:19:14foreign
  2380. 2:22:16thank you
  2381. 2:23:44foreign
  2382. 2:23:49foreign

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