Carl Jung – How to Find Your True Self — Transcript
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- 0:00[Music]
- 0:04have you ever felt like you are living a
- 0:06life that isn't really yours as if
- 0:09somehow you are following a script
- 0:11written by someone else parents teachers
- 0:15friends society and deep down something
- 0:19inside you is screaming that something
- 0:21is wrong you wake up every day put on
- 0:25the same mask as always fulfill your
- 0:28obligations into interact with people as
- 0:31if everything is fine but at some point
- 0:34when silence finally arrives that
- 0:37uncomfortable question
- 0:39arises who am I really Kung believed
- 0:43that this feeling of disconnection is
- 0:44not a coincidence on the contrary it is
- 0:48a symptom of a deep problem that almost
- 0:50no one has the courage to face most
- 0:53people go through their entire lives
- 0:54without ever knowing their true selves
- 0:58they limit themselves to living social
- 1:00roles manufactured identities and
- 1:03imposed
- 1:05expectations the worst part they believe
- 1:08that this is all there is they die
- 1:11without ever having known their own soul
- 1:14and now comes the most important
- 1:16question is this happening to
- 1:19you what you called self may not be you
- 1:24your personality your desires your
- 1:26beliefs how much of this is truly yours
- 1:29and how much which was placed there by
- 1:31others since childhood we have been
- 1:34conditioned to fit in to become
- 1:37acceptable to hide certain aspects of
- 1:39ourselves in order to be loved we create
- 1:43a mask or as Yung called it a Persona a
- 1:47social disguise that we use to protect
- 1:50ourselves but the more we wear this mask
- 1:53the further we drift away from our true
- 1:56selves and one day this mask becomes all
- 1:59all that is left of us but Jung warned
- 2:03us living disconnected from who we
- 2:05really are comes at a cost a cost paid
- 2:10with anguish dissatisfaction and a
- 2:13constant feeling that something is
- 2:16missing have you ever felt that no
- 2:18matter what you achieve there is still
- 2:21an
- 2:21emptiness as if something essential is
- 2:24always out of your reach this happens
- 2:27because what you truly need is not out
- 2:30there it is not in a better job in a
- 2:32perfect relationship or in the
- 2:34recognition of others it is within you
- 2:37buried under layers and layers of
- 2:39conditioning the big question is are you
- 2:42willing to dive into your own psyche and
- 2:46discover who you really are because this
- 2:49journey is not easy finding the true
- 2:51self requires you to confront everything
- 2:54that has been repressed forgotten or
- 2:57distorted over the years it means is
- 2:59looking Inward and facing parts of
- 3:02yourself that you might prefer to avoid
- 3:04but this is also the only way to free
- 3:07yourself in this video we will explore
- 3:10the journey that car Yung called
- 3:13individuation the process of becoming
- 3:15whole of integrating all parts of
- 3:18yourself and finally living according to
- 3:21your true Essence are you ready for this
- 3:24then let's
- 3:26begin since childhood you learned that
- 3:28to be accepted you needed to behave in
- 3:31certain ways perhaps you were taught to
- 3:34be polite not to speak too loudly not to
- 3:37show anger to please others or maybe you
- 3:40learned that you had to be strong all
- 3:42the time hide your weaknesses and appear
- 3:45confident even when you were filled with
- 3:47doubts
- 3:48inside unbeknownst to you you began to
- 3:51shape an identity that was not only
- 3:54yours but a reflection of what the world
- 3:57expected of you carong called this mask
- 4:01the Persona it is the face you present
- 4:05to the world the version of yourself
- 4:08that you constructed to fit in and don't
- 4:11be fooled we all have one if you have
- 4:15ever acted differently at work at home
- 4:18with friends or even on social media
- 4:21then you have already experienced the
- 4:23power of the Persona in your life is it
- 4:26useful yes without it we wouldn't be
- 4:29able to relate socially but there is a
- 4:32great danger when you completely
- 4:35identify with this mask you start to
- 4:37forget who you really
- 4:39are think for a moment how many times
- 4:43have you said or done something just to
- 4:46be accepted how many times have you
- 4:48hidden what you really thought out of
- 4:51fear of judgment how many times have you
- 4:53caught yourself smiling when inside you
- 4:56wanted to scream this happens because at
- 4:59some point the Persona stopped being
- 5:01just a role and began to dominate your
- 5:04existence you are no longer an authentic
- 5:07individual but a character playing a
- 5:09role who you didn't even consciously
- 5:11choose and here lies the problem the
- 5:14Persona cannot sustain your soul it can
- 5:17bring acceptance but not fulfillment it
- 5:20can guarantee compliments but not
- 5:23genuine
- 5:24happiness in the long run living solely
- 5:27through the Persona lead leads to an
- 5:30empty life where you feel that something
- 5:32essential is missing but you can't
- 5:35identify what it is and worse still the
- 5:39more you cling to this mask the further
- 5:41you drift from your true
- 5:44Essence but if the Persona is not your
- 5:47true self then who are you really to
- 5:51answer this question we need to look at
- 5:53the other side of the coin at the part
- 5:56of you that has been repressed and
- 5:58pushed into the
- 6:00unconscious Yung called this the Shadow
- 6:04and this is where the true quest for
- 6:06your true self begins but be careful
- 6:10what is hidden in the shadow is not
- 6:12always easy to face are you ready to
- 6:16discover then continue with me if this
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- 6:24channel thank you for your
- 6:27support if the persona is the mask you
- 6:30wear to be accepted then the shadow is
- 6:33everything you hide to avoid being
- 6:36rejected but here's the problem what you
- 6:39repress doesn't disappear on the
- 6:42contrary it gains strength in your
- 6:44unconscious operating in the shadows of
- 6:46your mind influencing your emotions your
- 6:50fears and even the choices you make in
- 6:53life without you realizing it Carl Yung
- 6:56described the shadow as the Hidden Side
- 6:59of the py
- 7:00composed of everything that has been
- 7:02repressed throughout life prohibited
- 7:05desires contained anger weaknesses you
- 7:09don't want to admit traumas you tried to
- 7:12forget and you know what's worse many of
- 7:16the things in your Shadow aren't even
- 7:18bad they are just parts of you that at
- 7:21some point someone said were
- 7:24unacceptable perhaps as a child you
- 7:27showed too much curiosity but but were
- 7:29called inconvenient and learned to stay
- 7:32quiet maybe you felt the urge to express
- 7:35anger but were taught that it was wrong
- 7:38and now you swallow your frustrations
- 7:41until they
- 7:43explode perhaps you showed sensitivity
- 7:46but Society convinced you it was
- 7:48weakness so you learned to hide your
- 7:51feelings all of this all the parts of
- 7:54you that were denied did not
- 7:57disappear they just hid in your Shadow
- 8:01waiting for the moment to emerge and
- 8:04they do emerge if you've ever had an
- 8:06outburst of anger and then regretted it
- 8:09felt Envy towards someone and tried to
- 8:12deny it to yourself or reacted
- 8:15excessively to criticism without
- 8:17understanding why then you have
- 8:19experienced Your Shadow taking control
- 8:22when we don't consciously deal with it
- 8:25it manifests in distorted ways
- 8:27sabotaging our relationships our careers
- 8:30our
- 8:32self-esteem but here's the truth that no
- 8:35one tells you your Shadow is not your
- 8:38enemy on the contrary it is where many
- 8:41of the most valuable aspects of your
- 8:43personality lie your creativity your
- 8:46authenticity your true
- 8:49strength you cannot be whole until you
- 8:52integrate this part of yourself and to
- 8:54do that you need to stop running away
- 8:57and start looking inward but how do you
- 9:00face something that has been repressed
- 9:02for so long how do you bring your Shadow
- 9:06into the light without letting it
- 9:09consume
- 9:10you the answer lies in a central concept
- 9:14of yian
- 9:15psychology the self or the true self and
- 9:19that is exactly what we are going to
- 9:22explore
- 9:23[Music]
- 9:24now if the Persona is the mask and the
- 9:28shadow is everything have repressed then
- 9:30the self the true self is what exists
- 9:34Beyond these layers it is the totality
- 9:37of your psyche the harmonious Fusion
- 9:40between who you truly are and who you
- 9:42show to the
- 9:44world Yung believed that the purpose of
- 9:46life was not simply to follow a path
- 9:48predefined by Society but rather to
- 9:51become whole to discover your true
- 9:53Essence and to live according to
- 9:56it this process of self-discovery and
- 9:59integration is what he called
- 10:02individuation but finding the self is
- 10:04not something that happens by chance it
- 10:07is not something that simply appears one
- 10:09day in front of you like a magical
- 10:11Epiphany the self does not reveal itself
- 10:14to those who are not willing to face the
- 10:17truth about themselves you need to
- 10:20actively seek it out and this Quest
- 10:22requires a deep journey within
- 10:25yourself it is a confrontation with
- 10:28everything you have been taught to hide
- 10:31a Reconciliation between your most
- 10:33authentic desires and the restrictions
- 10:36imposed by the outside
- 10:38world the greatest obstacle to finding
- 10:41the true self is
- 10:43fear fear of losing the identity you
- 10:46have built over the years fear of
- 10:49realizing that many of your choices were
- 10:51not truly yours fear of facing aspects
- 10:55of your personality that you have denied
- 10:57for so long this fear causes many people
- 11:01to never find the self they spend their
- 11:04entire lives clinging to the Persona
- 11:07pretending to be something they are not
- 11:09while their Shadow operates behind the
- 11:11scenes sabotaging their chances of
- 11:14genuine happiness but when you begin to
- 11:17integrate Your Shadow and question The
- 11:19Masks you wear something incredible
- 11:23happens you start to feel a kind of
- 11:25Freedom you have never experienced
- 11:28before you discover that you no longer
- 11:30need to pretend to be someone you are
- 11:32not you realize that you no longer need
- 11:35to please everyone you begin to act more
- 11:39authentically to make decisions that
- 11:41make sense to you and not just to meet
- 11:43the expectations of others and the most
- 11:46interesting part the closer you get to
- 11:49yourself the more life begins to make
- 11:51sense the anxieties and frustrations
- 11:55that once seemed inexplicable begin to
- 11:57have a clear roote you understand why
- 12:00certain patterns repeat why certain
- 12:02situations affect you so much why
- 12:04certain relationships never worked out
- 12:07you start to realize that throughout
- 12:10your life there was something inside you
- 12:13trying to show you the way but you were
- 12:16too busy trying to fit in to listen but
- 12:19there is an important detail the path to
- 12:22finding the self cannot be walked in
- 12:25isolation there is a fundamental element
- 12:27in this journey that many ignore the
- 12:30unconscious and the archetypes that
- 12:33shape the way we think feel and
- 12:37behave if you do not understand these
- 12:39hidden forces you will never be able to
- 12:42fully comprehend who you are and that is
- 12:47what we will explore
- 12:51next the human mind is not just what we
- 12:54see and consciously understand most of
- 12:58our psyche is hidden operating at a deep
- 13:01and invisible level Yung believed that
- 13:04to find the true self it is not enough
- 13:06to look at our rational thoughts and
- 13:08daily decisions we must dive into the
- 13:11depths of the unconscious for it is
- 13:13there that the hidden patterns that
- 13:15shape our identity are
- 13:18found but what exactly is in this
- 13:22unconscious Beyond Your Shadow Beyond
- 13:24repressed memories and unrecognized
- 13:27desires there is something even more
- 13:28fundamental m al
- 13:31archetypes Yung discovered that the
- 13:33human psyche is not a blank slate on the
- 13:37contrary we are born with universal
- 13:39mental structures patterns of thought
- 13:42behavior and emotion that are shared by
- 13:45all people regardless of culture or time
- 13:49he called this the collective
- 13:52unconscious and it is from this
- 13:54Collective unconscious that archetypes
- 13:57emerge primordial images that influence
- 14:00the way we perceive the world and
- 14:01ourselves if you have ever felt an
- 14:03inexplicable attraction to certain
- 14:05stories myths or symbols it is because
- 14:08archetypes are acting within you they
- 14:11appear in Fairy Tales movies religions
- 14:14and most importantly in your own dreams
- 14:18and behaviors for example the hero is an
- 14:21archetype present in virtually all
- 14:24cultures it represents one who faces
- 14:27challenges overcomes obst stacles and
- 14:30seeks
- 14:31transformation but there is also the
- 14:33wise one who symbolizes knowledge and
- 14:37introspection the rebel who challenges
- 14:40the rules and questions the system and
- 14:42the caregiver who lives to protect and
- 14:45serve others and the most interesting
- 14:48part you do not choose which archetypes
- 14:52influence your life they operate Within
- 14:55You Without your awareness the problem
- 14:58arises when when you identify only with
- 15:00one archetype and ignore the others if
- 15:03you only see yourself as the hero you
- 15:05may end up feeling pressured to always
- 15:07be strong unable to accept weaknesses or
- 15:11vulnerabilities if you live solely in
- 15:13the role of the caregiver you may spend
- 15:15your life putting others needs above
- 15:17your own forgetting about
- 15:19yourself finding the true self means
- 15:22balancing these archetypes recognizing
- 15:25which ones dominate your life and
- 15:27integrating those that have been
- 15:30neglected but how do these archetypes
- 15:32appear in your life the answer lies in
- 15:35your dreams your impulses the patterns
- 15:39that repeat without you understanding
- 15:41why and if you ignore them you will be
- 15:44ignoring essential parts of yourself
- 15:47that is why so many people feel lost
- 15:50they do not understand that there are
- 15:51invisible forces shaping their desires
- 15:54their decisions and even their
- 15:56existential crises but but here is the
- 15:59most important question if you do not
- 16:02become aware of these archetypes they
- 16:04control you they determine your
- 16:06behaviors your insecurities your
- 16:10relationships but if you recognize and
- 16:12integrate them you take control of your
- 16:15own narrative and that is precisely what
- 16:18differentiates those who find their true
- 16:20self from those who spend their entire
- 16:22lives trapped in automatic patterns but
- 16:26what if you ignore all of this what
- 16:29happens to someone who refuses to look
- 16:31at the unconscious who resists
- 16:33individuation and continues to live
- 16:35according to masks and
- 16:38Illusions the answer lies in the
- 16:41psychological suffering that accompanies
- 16:43those who flee from
- 16:45themselves and that is the danger of
- 16:48non-
- 16:49individuation which we will explore
- 16:53now what happens to someone who spends
- 16:56their life running away from themselves
- 16:59who ignores their own shadow lives
- 17:01imprisoned in a Persona and refuses to
- 17:04acknowledge the archetypes that shape
- 17:05their Destiny car Yung was clear
- 17:09avoiding the process of individuation
- 17:11does not keep us safe instead it
- 17:14condemns us to a fragmented existence
- 17:16filled with anxiety frustration and an
- 17:19emptiness that can never be filled by
- 17:21anything
- 17:23external many people believe that
- 17:25following society's rules and fitting
- 17:29into what is expected of them will
- 17:32guarantee a peaceful life but this
- 17:35Tranquility is merely
- 17:37superficial at some point something
- 17:40begins to go wrong it may manifest as
- 17:43emotional crisis with no apparent
- 17:45explanation feelings of dissatisfaction
- 17:48even when everything seems perfect or
- 17:51the emergence of psychosomatic
- 17:53illnesses the body and mind always find
- 17:56ways to alert us when we are straying
- 17:58too too far from our true nature non-
- 18:02individuation can also manifest through
- 18:05destructive
- 18:07patterns have you ever noticed how some
- 18:09people repeat the same mistakes
- 18:11throughout their lives how they enter
- 18:14abusive relationships sabotage their own
- 18:18achievements or live in a constant state
- 18:20of
- 18:22dissatisfaction this happens because
- 18:25when we do not deal with what is hidden
- 18:27within us we become prisoners of our own
- 18:31unconscious it finds ways to express
- 18:34itself even if it is through suffering
- 18:37another common symptom of non-
- 18:39individuation is the feeling that we are
- 18:41merely existing but not truly living
- 18:45this manifests in a monotonous routine
- 18:47in a life without purpose in a sense
- 18:50that we are just going with the flow
- 18:53without a clear
- 18:56Direction This is the reality for
- 18:59millions of people who have never
- 19:00questioned whether the life they lead is
- 19:03truly the life they chose they follow
- 19:07inherited patterns imposed beliefs and
- 19:10external expectations without ever
- 19:12stopping to ask does this really make me
- 19:15happy and the most dangerous of all
- 19:18resentment when a person ignores who
- 19:20they really are they inevitably feel
- 19:23anger but they do not always know where
- 19:25that anger comes from they may turn
- 19:28against others blaming the world the
- 19:31system their family or Society for their
- 19:35suffering or they may turn inward
- 19:39transforming into depression
- 19:41self-sabotage and a deep disconnection
- 19:44from their own
- 19:45existence but there's a way out there's
- 19:49a way to break this cycle and free
- 19:51oneself from this invisible prison the
- 19:54answer lies in the courage to face the
- 19:56truth to question one's own Illusions
- 19:59and to seek
- 20:02individuation this process is not easy
- 20:05it requires strength determination and
- 20:07the willingness to look within even when
- 20:10what we find is not pleasant and now we
- 20:13come to the crucial Point what does it
- 20:15mean in practice to be yourself what is
- 20:19it like to live without masks without
- 20:21repression without fear of external
- 20:24judgment what happens when you truly
- 20:27find your true self
- 20:29let's explore this in our
- 20:33conclusion finding your true self is not
- 20:36a destination but a process it is not
- 20:39something that happens overnight as if
- 20:42one day you simply wake up and know
- 20:44exactly who you are it is a journey that
- 20:48lasts a lifetime a path of discoveries
- 20:52deconstruction and
- 20:54reconstruction facing the shadows and
- 20:56freeing yourself from the masks that
- 20:58have been imposed on us and it is a path
- 21:02that few choose to walk most people
- 21:05prefer the safety of Conformity they
- 21:07cling to their personas because they
- 21:10believe that without them they would be
- 21:13rejected they avoid looking at their
- 21:15Shadows because they fear what they will
- 21:17find there they ignore the archetypes
- 21:20that guide their lives because they do
- 21:22not want to admit that they are not in
- 21:24control as much as they would
- 21:27like but this fear comes at a cost an
- 21:31empty existence lacking authenticity
- 21:34depth and real
- 21:36meaning Yung showed us that true Freedom
- 21:39lies not in fitting in but in becoming
- 21:42who we really
- 21:44are this means accepting your wholeness
- 21:48both your qualities and your flaws both
- 21:51your light and your
- 21:53Darkness it means taking control of your
- 21:55own life rather than being just a
- 21:58product of your environment culture and
- 22:01others
- 22:03expectations it means abandoning the
- 22:05role of puppet and becoming the author
- 22:07of your own
- 22:08story but this path requires courage
- 22:13courage to let go of the illusions that
- 22:15have been comfortable for so long
- 22:17courage to face your own fears and
- 22:21insecurities courage to accept that you
- 22:23may not be who you thought you were and
- 22:25that's okay because now you have the
- 22:28opportunity
- 22:29to become someone much greater much more
- 22:31authentic much more alive so I ask you
- 22:36are you ready for this challenge are you
- 22:38willing to question the stories you've
- 22:40been told about who you are to confront
- 22:42the parts of yourself that have been
- 22:45repressed to finally live according to
- 22:47your true
- 22:49Essence if something in this video made
- 22:52you reflect let me know in the comments
- 22:55what part impacted you the most have you
- 22:58ever felt like you were living an
- 23:00identity that wasn't really yours let's
- 23:04talk about it and don't stop here the
- 23:07next video is essential to deepen this
- 23:10journey and understand even more about
- 23:13the hidden mechanisms that shape your
- 23:15mind so keep watching because this
- 23:18discovery is just beginning
- 23:26[Music]
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