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Carl Jung – How to Find Your True Self — Transcript

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  1. 0:00[Music]
  2. 0:04have you ever felt like you are living a
  3. 0:06life that isn't really yours as if
  4. 0:09somehow you are following a script
  5. 0:11written by someone else parents teachers
  6. 0:15friends society and deep down something
  7. 0:19inside you is screaming that something
  8. 0:21is wrong you wake up every day put on
  9. 0:25the same mask as always fulfill your
  10. 0:28obligations into interact with people as
  11. 0:31if everything is fine but at some point
  12. 0:34when silence finally arrives that
  13. 0:37uncomfortable question
  14. 0:39arises who am I really Kung believed
  15. 0:43that this feeling of disconnection is
  16. 0:44not a coincidence on the contrary it is
  17. 0:48a symptom of a deep problem that almost
  18. 0:50no one has the courage to face most
  19. 0:53people go through their entire lives
  20. 0:54without ever knowing their true selves
  21. 0:58they limit themselves to living social
  22. 1:00roles manufactured identities and
  23. 1:03imposed
  24. 1:05expectations the worst part they believe
  25. 1:08that this is all there is they die
  26. 1:11without ever having known their own soul
  27. 1:14and now comes the most important
  28. 1:16question is this happening to
  29. 1:19you what you called self may not be you
  30. 1:24your personality your desires your
  31. 1:26beliefs how much of this is truly yours
  32. 1:29and how much which was placed there by
  33. 1:31others since childhood we have been
  34. 1:34conditioned to fit in to become
  35. 1:37acceptable to hide certain aspects of
  36. 1:39ourselves in order to be loved we create
  37. 1:43a mask or as Yung called it a Persona a
  38. 1:47social disguise that we use to protect
  39. 1:50ourselves but the more we wear this mask
  40. 1:53the further we drift away from our true
  41. 1:56selves and one day this mask becomes all
  42. 1:59all that is left of us but Jung warned
  43. 2:03us living disconnected from who we
  44. 2:05really are comes at a cost a cost paid
  45. 2:10with anguish dissatisfaction and a
  46. 2:13constant feeling that something is
  47. 2:16missing have you ever felt that no
  48. 2:18matter what you achieve there is still
  49. 2:21an
  50. 2:21emptiness as if something essential is
  51. 2:24always out of your reach this happens
  52. 2:27because what you truly need is not out
  53. 2:30there it is not in a better job in a
  54. 2:32perfect relationship or in the
  55. 2:34recognition of others it is within you
  56. 2:37buried under layers and layers of
  57. 2:39conditioning the big question is are you
  58. 2:42willing to dive into your own psyche and
  59. 2:46discover who you really are because this
  60. 2:49journey is not easy finding the true
  61. 2:51self requires you to confront everything
  62. 2:54that has been repressed forgotten or
  63. 2:57distorted over the years it means is
  64. 2:59looking Inward and facing parts of
  65. 3:02yourself that you might prefer to avoid
  66. 3:04but this is also the only way to free
  67. 3:07yourself in this video we will explore
  68. 3:10the journey that car Yung called
  69. 3:13individuation the process of becoming
  70. 3:15whole of integrating all parts of
  71. 3:18yourself and finally living according to
  72. 3:21your true Essence are you ready for this
  73. 3:24then let's
  74. 3:26begin since childhood you learned that
  75. 3:28to be accepted you needed to behave in
  76. 3:31certain ways perhaps you were taught to
  77. 3:34be polite not to speak too loudly not to
  78. 3:37show anger to please others or maybe you
  79. 3:40learned that you had to be strong all
  80. 3:42the time hide your weaknesses and appear
  81. 3:45confident even when you were filled with
  82. 3:47doubts
  83. 3:48inside unbeknownst to you you began to
  84. 3:51shape an identity that was not only
  85. 3:54yours but a reflection of what the world
  86. 3:57expected of you carong called this mask
  87. 4:01the Persona it is the face you present
  88. 4:05to the world the version of yourself
  89. 4:08that you constructed to fit in and don't
  90. 4:11be fooled we all have one if you have
  91. 4:15ever acted differently at work at home
  92. 4:18with friends or even on social media
  93. 4:21then you have already experienced the
  94. 4:23power of the Persona in your life is it
  95. 4:26useful yes without it we wouldn't be
  96. 4:29able to relate socially but there is a
  97. 4:32great danger when you completely
  98. 4:35identify with this mask you start to
  99. 4:37forget who you really
  100. 4:39are think for a moment how many times
  101. 4:43have you said or done something just to
  102. 4:46be accepted how many times have you
  103. 4:48hidden what you really thought out of
  104. 4:51fear of judgment how many times have you
  105. 4:53caught yourself smiling when inside you
  106. 4:56wanted to scream this happens because at
  107. 4:59some point the Persona stopped being
  108. 5:01just a role and began to dominate your
  109. 5:04existence you are no longer an authentic
  110. 5:07individual but a character playing a
  111. 5:09role who you didn't even consciously
  112. 5:11choose and here lies the problem the
  113. 5:14Persona cannot sustain your soul it can
  114. 5:17bring acceptance but not fulfillment it
  115. 5:20can guarantee compliments but not
  116. 5:23genuine
  117. 5:24happiness in the long run living solely
  118. 5:27through the Persona lead leads to an
  119. 5:30empty life where you feel that something
  120. 5:32essential is missing but you can't
  121. 5:35identify what it is and worse still the
  122. 5:39more you cling to this mask the further
  123. 5:41you drift from your true
  124. 5:44Essence but if the Persona is not your
  125. 5:47true self then who are you really to
  126. 5:51answer this question we need to look at
  127. 5:53the other side of the coin at the part
  128. 5:56of you that has been repressed and
  129. 5:58pushed into the
  130. 6:00unconscious Yung called this the Shadow
  131. 6:04and this is where the true quest for
  132. 6:06your true self begins but be careful
  133. 6:10what is hidden in the shadow is not
  134. 6:12always easy to face are you ready to
  135. 6:16discover then continue with me if this
  136. 6:19content is making sense to you click the
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  138. 6:24channel thank you for your
  139. 6:27support if the persona is the mask you
  140. 6:30wear to be accepted then the shadow is
  141. 6:33everything you hide to avoid being
  142. 6:36rejected but here's the problem what you
  143. 6:39repress doesn't disappear on the
  144. 6:42contrary it gains strength in your
  145. 6:44unconscious operating in the shadows of
  146. 6:46your mind influencing your emotions your
  147. 6:50fears and even the choices you make in
  148. 6:53life without you realizing it Carl Yung
  149. 6:56described the shadow as the Hidden Side
  150. 6:59of the py
  151. 7:00composed of everything that has been
  152. 7:02repressed throughout life prohibited
  153. 7:05desires contained anger weaknesses you
  154. 7:09don't want to admit traumas you tried to
  155. 7:12forget and you know what's worse many of
  156. 7:16the things in your Shadow aren't even
  157. 7:18bad they are just parts of you that at
  158. 7:21some point someone said were
  159. 7:24unacceptable perhaps as a child you
  160. 7:27showed too much curiosity but but were
  161. 7:29called inconvenient and learned to stay
  162. 7:32quiet maybe you felt the urge to express
  163. 7:35anger but were taught that it was wrong
  164. 7:38and now you swallow your frustrations
  165. 7:41until they
  166. 7:43explode perhaps you showed sensitivity
  167. 7:46but Society convinced you it was
  168. 7:48weakness so you learned to hide your
  169. 7:51feelings all of this all the parts of
  170. 7:54you that were denied did not
  171. 7:57disappear they just hid in your Shadow
  172. 8:01waiting for the moment to emerge and
  173. 8:04they do emerge if you've ever had an
  174. 8:06outburst of anger and then regretted it
  175. 8:09felt Envy towards someone and tried to
  176. 8:12deny it to yourself or reacted
  177. 8:15excessively to criticism without
  178. 8:17understanding why then you have
  179. 8:19experienced Your Shadow taking control
  180. 8:22when we don't consciously deal with it
  181. 8:25it manifests in distorted ways
  182. 8:27sabotaging our relationships our careers
  183. 8:30our
  184. 8:32self-esteem but here's the truth that no
  185. 8:35one tells you your Shadow is not your
  186. 8:38enemy on the contrary it is where many
  187. 8:41of the most valuable aspects of your
  188. 8:43personality lie your creativity your
  189. 8:46authenticity your true
  190. 8:49strength you cannot be whole until you
  191. 8:52integrate this part of yourself and to
  192. 8:54do that you need to stop running away
  193. 8:57and start looking inward but how do you
  194. 9:00face something that has been repressed
  195. 9:02for so long how do you bring your Shadow
  196. 9:06into the light without letting it
  197. 9:09consume
  198. 9:10you the answer lies in a central concept
  199. 9:14of yian
  200. 9:15psychology the self or the true self and
  201. 9:19that is exactly what we are going to
  202. 9:22explore
  203. 9:23[Music]
  204. 9:24now if the Persona is the mask and the
  205. 9:28shadow is everything have repressed then
  206. 9:30the self the true self is what exists
  207. 9:34Beyond these layers it is the totality
  208. 9:37of your psyche the harmonious Fusion
  209. 9:40between who you truly are and who you
  210. 9:42show to the
  211. 9:44world Yung believed that the purpose of
  212. 9:46life was not simply to follow a path
  213. 9:48predefined by Society but rather to
  214. 9:51become whole to discover your true
  215. 9:53Essence and to live according to
  216. 9:56it this process of self-discovery and
  217. 9:59integration is what he called
  218. 10:02individuation but finding the self is
  219. 10:04not something that happens by chance it
  220. 10:07is not something that simply appears one
  221. 10:09day in front of you like a magical
  222. 10:11Epiphany the self does not reveal itself
  223. 10:14to those who are not willing to face the
  224. 10:17truth about themselves you need to
  225. 10:20actively seek it out and this Quest
  226. 10:22requires a deep journey within
  227. 10:25yourself it is a confrontation with
  228. 10:28everything you have been taught to hide
  229. 10:31a Reconciliation between your most
  230. 10:33authentic desires and the restrictions
  231. 10:36imposed by the outside
  232. 10:38world the greatest obstacle to finding
  233. 10:41the true self is
  234. 10:43fear fear of losing the identity you
  235. 10:46have built over the years fear of
  236. 10:49realizing that many of your choices were
  237. 10:51not truly yours fear of facing aspects
  238. 10:55of your personality that you have denied
  239. 10:57for so long this fear causes many people
  240. 11:01to never find the self they spend their
  241. 11:04entire lives clinging to the Persona
  242. 11:07pretending to be something they are not
  243. 11:09while their Shadow operates behind the
  244. 11:11scenes sabotaging their chances of
  245. 11:14genuine happiness but when you begin to
  246. 11:17integrate Your Shadow and question The
  247. 11:19Masks you wear something incredible
  248. 11:23happens you start to feel a kind of
  249. 11:25Freedom you have never experienced
  250. 11:28before you discover that you no longer
  251. 11:30need to pretend to be someone you are
  252. 11:32not you realize that you no longer need
  253. 11:35to please everyone you begin to act more
  254. 11:39authentically to make decisions that
  255. 11:41make sense to you and not just to meet
  256. 11:43the expectations of others and the most
  257. 11:46interesting part the closer you get to
  258. 11:49yourself the more life begins to make
  259. 11:51sense the anxieties and frustrations
  260. 11:55that once seemed inexplicable begin to
  261. 11:57have a clear roote you understand why
  262. 12:00certain patterns repeat why certain
  263. 12:02situations affect you so much why
  264. 12:04certain relationships never worked out
  265. 12:07you start to realize that throughout
  266. 12:10your life there was something inside you
  267. 12:13trying to show you the way but you were
  268. 12:16too busy trying to fit in to listen but
  269. 12:19there is an important detail the path to
  270. 12:22finding the self cannot be walked in
  271. 12:25isolation there is a fundamental element
  272. 12:27in this journey that many ignore the
  273. 12:30unconscious and the archetypes that
  274. 12:33shape the way we think feel and
  275. 12:37behave if you do not understand these
  276. 12:39hidden forces you will never be able to
  277. 12:42fully comprehend who you are and that is
  278. 12:47what we will explore
  279. 12:51next the human mind is not just what we
  280. 12:54see and consciously understand most of
  281. 12:58our psyche is hidden operating at a deep
  282. 13:01and invisible level Yung believed that
  283. 13:04to find the true self it is not enough
  284. 13:06to look at our rational thoughts and
  285. 13:08daily decisions we must dive into the
  286. 13:11depths of the unconscious for it is
  287. 13:13there that the hidden patterns that
  288. 13:15shape our identity are
  289. 13:18found but what exactly is in this
  290. 13:22unconscious Beyond Your Shadow Beyond
  291. 13:24repressed memories and unrecognized
  292. 13:27desires there is something even more
  293. 13:28fundamental m al
  294. 13:31archetypes Yung discovered that the
  295. 13:33human psyche is not a blank slate on the
  296. 13:37contrary we are born with universal
  297. 13:39mental structures patterns of thought
  298. 13:42behavior and emotion that are shared by
  299. 13:45all people regardless of culture or time
  300. 13:49he called this the collective
  301. 13:52unconscious and it is from this
  302. 13:54Collective unconscious that archetypes
  303. 13:57emerge primordial images that influence
  304. 14:00the way we perceive the world and
  305. 14:01ourselves if you have ever felt an
  306. 14:03inexplicable attraction to certain
  307. 14:05stories myths or symbols it is because
  308. 14:08archetypes are acting within you they
  309. 14:11appear in Fairy Tales movies religions
  310. 14:14and most importantly in your own dreams
  311. 14:18and behaviors for example the hero is an
  312. 14:21archetype present in virtually all
  313. 14:24cultures it represents one who faces
  314. 14:27challenges overcomes obst stacles and
  315. 14:30seeks
  316. 14:31transformation but there is also the
  317. 14:33wise one who symbolizes knowledge and
  318. 14:37introspection the rebel who challenges
  319. 14:40the rules and questions the system and
  320. 14:42the caregiver who lives to protect and
  321. 14:45serve others and the most interesting
  322. 14:48part you do not choose which archetypes
  323. 14:52influence your life they operate Within
  324. 14:55You Without your awareness the problem
  325. 14:58arises when when you identify only with
  326. 15:00one archetype and ignore the others if
  327. 15:03you only see yourself as the hero you
  328. 15:05may end up feeling pressured to always
  329. 15:07be strong unable to accept weaknesses or
  330. 15:11vulnerabilities if you live solely in
  331. 15:13the role of the caregiver you may spend
  332. 15:15your life putting others needs above
  333. 15:17your own forgetting about
  334. 15:19yourself finding the true self means
  335. 15:22balancing these archetypes recognizing
  336. 15:25which ones dominate your life and
  337. 15:27integrating those that have been
  338. 15:30neglected but how do these archetypes
  339. 15:32appear in your life the answer lies in
  340. 15:35your dreams your impulses the patterns
  341. 15:39that repeat without you understanding
  342. 15:41why and if you ignore them you will be
  343. 15:44ignoring essential parts of yourself
  344. 15:47that is why so many people feel lost
  345. 15:50they do not understand that there are
  346. 15:51invisible forces shaping their desires
  347. 15:54their decisions and even their
  348. 15:56existential crises but but here is the
  349. 15:59most important question if you do not
  350. 16:02become aware of these archetypes they
  351. 16:04control you they determine your
  352. 16:06behaviors your insecurities your
  353. 16:10relationships but if you recognize and
  354. 16:12integrate them you take control of your
  355. 16:15own narrative and that is precisely what
  356. 16:18differentiates those who find their true
  357. 16:20self from those who spend their entire
  358. 16:22lives trapped in automatic patterns but
  359. 16:26what if you ignore all of this what
  360. 16:29happens to someone who refuses to look
  361. 16:31at the unconscious who resists
  362. 16:33individuation and continues to live
  363. 16:35according to masks and
  364. 16:38Illusions the answer lies in the
  365. 16:41psychological suffering that accompanies
  366. 16:43those who flee from
  367. 16:45themselves and that is the danger of
  368. 16:48non-
  369. 16:49individuation which we will explore
  370. 16:53now what happens to someone who spends
  371. 16:56their life running away from themselves
  372. 16:59who ignores their own shadow lives
  373. 17:01imprisoned in a Persona and refuses to
  374. 17:04acknowledge the archetypes that shape
  375. 17:05their Destiny car Yung was clear
  376. 17:09avoiding the process of individuation
  377. 17:11does not keep us safe instead it
  378. 17:14condemns us to a fragmented existence
  379. 17:16filled with anxiety frustration and an
  380. 17:19emptiness that can never be filled by
  381. 17:21anything
  382. 17:23external many people believe that
  383. 17:25following society's rules and fitting
  384. 17:29into what is expected of them will
  385. 17:32guarantee a peaceful life but this
  386. 17:35Tranquility is merely
  387. 17:37superficial at some point something
  388. 17:40begins to go wrong it may manifest as
  389. 17:43emotional crisis with no apparent
  390. 17:45explanation feelings of dissatisfaction
  391. 17:48even when everything seems perfect or
  392. 17:51the emergence of psychosomatic
  393. 17:53illnesses the body and mind always find
  394. 17:56ways to alert us when we are straying
  395. 17:58too too far from our true nature non-
  396. 18:02individuation can also manifest through
  397. 18:05destructive
  398. 18:07patterns have you ever noticed how some
  399. 18:09people repeat the same mistakes
  400. 18:11throughout their lives how they enter
  401. 18:14abusive relationships sabotage their own
  402. 18:18achievements or live in a constant state
  403. 18:20of
  404. 18:22dissatisfaction this happens because
  405. 18:25when we do not deal with what is hidden
  406. 18:27within us we become prisoners of our own
  407. 18:31unconscious it finds ways to express
  408. 18:34itself even if it is through suffering
  409. 18:37another common symptom of non-
  410. 18:39individuation is the feeling that we are
  411. 18:41merely existing but not truly living
  412. 18:45this manifests in a monotonous routine
  413. 18:47in a life without purpose in a sense
  414. 18:50that we are just going with the flow
  415. 18:53without a clear
  416. 18:56Direction This is the reality for
  417. 18:59millions of people who have never
  418. 19:00questioned whether the life they lead is
  419. 19:03truly the life they chose they follow
  420. 19:07inherited patterns imposed beliefs and
  421. 19:10external expectations without ever
  422. 19:12stopping to ask does this really make me
  423. 19:15happy and the most dangerous of all
  424. 19:18resentment when a person ignores who
  425. 19:20they really are they inevitably feel
  426. 19:23anger but they do not always know where
  427. 19:25that anger comes from they may turn
  428. 19:28against others blaming the world the
  429. 19:31system their family or Society for their
  430. 19:35suffering or they may turn inward
  431. 19:39transforming into depression
  432. 19:41self-sabotage and a deep disconnection
  433. 19:44from their own
  434. 19:45existence but there's a way out there's
  435. 19:49a way to break this cycle and free
  436. 19:51oneself from this invisible prison the
  437. 19:54answer lies in the courage to face the
  438. 19:56truth to question one's own Illusions
  439. 19:59and to seek
  440. 20:02individuation this process is not easy
  441. 20:05it requires strength determination and
  442. 20:07the willingness to look within even when
  443. 20:10what we find is not pleasant and now we
  444. 20:13come to the crucial Point what does it
  445. 20:15mean in practice to be yourself what is
  446. 20:19it like to live without masks without
  447. 20:21repression without fear of external
  448. 20:24judgment what happens when you truly
  449. 20:27find your true self
  450. 20:29let's explore this in our
  451. 20:33conclusion finding your true self is not
  452. 20:36a destination but a process it is not
  453. 20:39something that happens overnight as if
  454. 20:42one day you simply wake up and know
  455. 20:44exactly who you are it is a journey that
  456. 20:48lasts a lifetime a path of discoveries
  457. 20:52deconstruction and
  458. 20:54reconstruction facing the shadows and
  459. 20:56freeing yourself from the masks that
  460. 20:58have been imposed on us and it is a path
  461. 21:02that few choose to walk most people
  462. 21:05prefer the safety of Conformity they
  463. 21:07cling to their personas because they
  464. 21:10believe that without them they would be
  465. 21:13rejected they avoid looking at their
  466. 21:15Shadows because they fear what they will
  467. 21:17find there they ignore the archetypes
  468. 21:20that guide their lives because they do
  469. 21:22not want to admit that they are not in
  470. 21:24control as much as they would
  471. 21:27like but this fear comes at a cost an
  472. 21:31empty existence lacking authenticity
  473. 21:34depth and real
  474. 21:36meaning Yung showed us that true Freedom
  475. 21:39lies not in fitting in but in becoming
  476. 21:42who we really
  477. 21:44are this means accepting your wholeness
  478. 21:48both your qualities and your flaws both
  479. 21:51your light and your
  480. 21:53Darkness it means taking control of your
  481. 21:55own life rather than being just a
  482. 21:58product of your environment culture and
  483. 22:01others
  484. 22:03expectations it means abandoning the
  485. 22:05role of puppet and becoming the author
  486. 22:07of your own
  487. 22:08story but this path requires courage
  488. 22:13courage to let go of the illusions that
  489. 22:15have been comfortable for so long
  490. 22:17courage to face your own fears and
  491. 22:21insecurities courage to accept that you
  492. 22:23may not be who you thought you were and
  493. 22:25that's okay because now you have the
  494. 22:28opportunity
  495. 22:29to become someone much greater much more
  496. 22:31authentic much more alive so I ask you
  497. 22:36are you ready for this challenge are you
  498. 22:38willing to question the stories you've
  499. 22:40been told about who you are to confront
  500. 22:42the parts of yourself that have been
  501. 22:45repressed to finally live according to
  502. 22:47your true
  503. 22:49Essence if something in this video made
  504. 22:52you reflect let me know in the comments
  505. 22:55what part impacted you the most have you
  506. 22:58ever felt like you were living an
  507. 23:00identity that wasn't really yours let's
  508. 23:04talk about it and don't stop here the
  509. 23:07next video is essential to deepen this
  510. 23:10journey and understand even more about
  511. 23:13the hidden mechanisms that shape your
  512. 23:15mind so keep watching because this
  513. 23:18discovery is just beginning
  514. 23:26[Music]

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