Big Sister Advice: How i manifested my dream life. — Transcript

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1. 0:00Don't listen to anybody who says that's
2. 0:03[music] unrealistic. You can have your
3. 0:06dream life.
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11. 1:31>> Good afternoon, everyone. Um getting off
12. 1:35to a great start to this video. I wanted
13. 1:37to go get a coffee. That was the purpose
14. 1:39of that whole montage, but I didn't time
15. 1:42it well, and the coffee shop just shut.
16. 1:45So, that is the universe telling me not
17. 1:47to have a coffee in the afternoon
18. 1:48because I won't be able to sleep
19. 1:49tonight. So, Stanley it is, but we're
20. 1:53about to film the highly requested
21. 1:56video.
22. 1:57So, go get yourself a snack, go get
23. 2:00yourself a drink. I talk, so we might be
24. 2:03here for a while.
25. 2:05But yeah, I wanted to get a drink with
26. 2:06you guys, but we've got my Stanley here.
27. 2:09So, as you can see
28. 2:12by the title, the topic of today's video
29. 2:15is how to manifest your dream life. I
30. 2:19have been getting a lot of questions on
31. 2:22my manifestation techniques and things
32. 2:26that I do because
33. 2:28in the past couple of months, I've had
34. 2:31so many dreams and goals manifest for
35. 2:35me.
36. 2:36For example, I was able to go on my
37. 2:39dream trip to Disneyland, Hawaii, Vegas,
38. 2:43Tokyo.
39. 2:45I paid for all of my half with
40. 2:48money I have made from doing social
41. 2:50media. I haven't really said that on
42. 2:52here, but that was a huge
43. 2:55goal. Like to be able to say that I paid
44. 2:58for my dream trip with just making
45. 3:00videos.
46. 3:01Um and then while I was in Tokyo, I had
47. 3:04my dream proposal to my dream man in
48. 3:07front of the Disneyland castle. Jermaine
49. 3:10proposed to me, and I had not even told
50. 3:13him that that was my dream proposal
51. 3:15since I was a little girl. He obviously
52. 3:18just assumed.
53. 3:20Soon after that trip, I moved out. I
54. 3:23need to move my seat up.
55. 3:26>> [laughter]
56. 3:27>> Um and then soon after the trip, we got
57. 3:30back, and we moved out into
58. 3:34my dream suburb that I actually
59. 3:37manifested back in
60. 3:392019 2020. It was during COVID. I
61. 3:42remember I was doing a lot of
62. 3:43manifestation, and I wrote this suburb
63. 3:45down in my journal. I'll go into it more
64. 3:48later.
65. 3:50Um
66. 3:50and now I live in my dream suburb in the
67. 3:54perfect first home.
68. 3:57And then I manifested my dream car this
69. 4:00year is the car I'm sitting in right
70. 4:02now. And I'm also sitting out the front
71. 4:04of my house. So, sorry if you see a lot
72. 4:06of cars and stuff go bye, but I wanted
73. 4:09to make this video sitting in my dream
74. 4:11car cuz it just felt so
75. 4:13full circle.
76. 4:15Um
77. 4:16I feel like I'm forgetting like so many
78. 4:18things, but I feel like those are the
79. 4:20main
80. 4:22big things, but I think I'll be able to
81. 4:24get into everything cuz I just decided
82. 4:26the way I'm going to do this video
83. 4:29is kind of just reflecting
84. 4:32on my life and the things that I
85. 4:34changed, the things that I did that then
86. 4:38were able to make my goals and dreams
87. 4:40manifest. I'm not going to sit here and
88. 4:42shove down your throats like you need to
89. 4:44do this, you need to that, you should be
90. 4:46doing this cuz I do not like when
91. 4:48creators make videos like that telling
92. 4:50you what you have to do. This is
93. 4:53not what you have to do. This is just my
94. 4:59opinion and stuff. I also Yeah, don't
95. 5:01like I don't like shoving beliefs down
96. 5:03people's throats either. If you have
97. 5:05different beliefs, religions, anything,
98. 5:08um
99. 5:09everyone can believe in whatever they
100. 5:11want to believe. We all know that
101. 5:14there's a something higher than us,
102. 5:16whether you call it God, the universe,
103. 5:18whatever you call it. We all know that
104. 5:20there's something out there that's very
105. 5:22a big powerful energy that's able to
106. 5:25help us manifest stuff. So,
107. 5:28before anyone jumps into the comments,
108. 5:30we're not doing that. We're not doing
109. 5:31the whole you need to believe this, you
110. 5:33need to believe that. This is just
111. 5:36kind of my story and just telling you
112. 5:39guys my reflections and things to give
113. 5:43you guys like big sister advice right
114. 5:45now. Maybe I should title
115. 5:48Maybe I should title the video big
116. 5:49sister advice.
117. 5:51Cuz this is the type of stuff I'll be
118. 5:53telling like my little sister and stuff.
119. 5:55So,
120. 5:57I guess I haven't really like scripted
121. 6:00Well, I haven't scripted this video at
122. 6:02all. I've kind of just
123. 6:04had a couple of thoughts of how I want
124. 6:06to do this, but yeah. So,
125. 6:09starting with how I was brought up, I
126. 6:13had an amazing childhood that was filled
127. 6:15with magic and Disney and princesses and
128. 6:18Barbie. As you can tell by the way I am
129. 6:21now,
130. 6:22um I loved my childhood so much. I think
131. 6:24that's why I love the early 2000s style
132. 6:28and everything. I just really really am
133. 6:31nostalgic for my childhood. I wasn't
134. 6:33rich or I wasn't poor.
135. 6:36Um
136. 6:36came from a very humble childhood. I
137. 6:39wasn't fed everything on a silver spoon,
138. 6:42basically. Like I knew that
139. 6:45in my adulthood, I wanted to Oh my god.
140. 6:52Okay.
141. 6:53I just saw like a little
142. 6:55blue bird.
143. 6:58And sorry, I'm like going to be like
144. 7:00Katherine right now being so spiritual,
145. 7:02but um my great-grandma
146. 7:06passed away recently, and we all see a
147. 7:08blue bird as a sign of a
148. 7:11And a blue bird just flew past. Okay.
149. 7:14Getting back to things.
150. 7:16Um
151. 7:19I
152. 7:20have always been ambitious since being a
153. 7:22kid. Um
154. 7:24I've talked about it many times before,
155. 7:26but I started YouTube when I was like 10
156. 7:28or 11 making videos with my sister and
157. 7:30my cousin. And I watched YouTube so much
158. 7:34growing up and knew that that was
159. 7:36something I would want to do in my adult
160. 7:39years is becoming big YouTuber. So, I've
161. 7:42always never given up on that dream.
162. 7:45Um
163. 7:47and I've always I think maybe
164. 7:49being brought up with Disney, I've
165. 7:51always believed in following your dreams
166. 7:53and
167. 7:54like having your fairy tale.
168. 7:57Um no matter what people told me because
169. 7:59I have been told so many times that I'm
170. 8:02not being realistic and I'm off with the
171. 8:04fairies and I'm like, you know, but
172. 8:07don't listen to that, guys. Don't listen
173. 8:09to it when people tell you that. That is
174. 8:12secret number one.
175. 8:14Um
176. 8:15Yeah, so that's kind of a little little
177. 8:16background on my childhood. And then in
178. 8:19my teenage years,
179. 8:21I tend to not talk about my teenage
180. 8:23years too much because I really lost
181. 8:25myself in high school.
182. 8:27Um
183. 8:30Like I always felt so
184. 8:33different and awkward and
185. 8:35like weird as a kid.
186. 8:38Um
187. 8:39that I really wanted to fit in when it
188. 8:41came to high school. So, I then like,
189. 8:43you know,
190. 8:44bought the shoes that everyone wears,
191. 8:46bought the bag that everyone has, bought
192. 8:48the laptop that everyone has. Like just
193. 8:49really tried to fit in and I
194. 8:52reflect on those years of like, oh wow,
195. 8:53I was not being myself. But that is
196. 8:57totally fine. It's totally natural. If
197. 8:58you're in your teenage years right now
198. 9:00and you're feeling that way a bit,
199. 9:02that is so normal. I feel like every
200. 9:04teenager goes through it. You're really
201. 9:05just in this
202. 9:07transitional phase of life that's just
203. 9:09like
204. 9:10necessary to your story and your
205. 9:12character building.
206. 9:14Um
207. 9:15cuz going through that, I really
208. 9:17realized how I was losing myself.
209. 9:20Um
210. 9:22And then yeah, towards the end of high
211. 9:23school, I was really like, okay, as soon
212. 9:25as I'm graduating, I'm like focusing on
213. 9:28getting back to what I really want to do
214. 9:30with my life. I want to
215. 9:32be a YouTuber and um create videos.
216. 9:36I have
217. 9:39I have always pictured a big future for
218. 9:42myself. I don't think I've ever sat
219. 9:44there and
220. 9:45imagined my future to be like
221. 9:48typical or normal.
222. 9:50Um
223. 9:51which is so funny. Like even when I
224. 9:53would play Sims growing up, that was
225. 9:55like one of my favorite games to play
226. 9:56because I really was just like
227. 9:58manifesting on Sims. Like I'd build my
228. 10:00big dream house and have like a big
229. 10:03career and stuff. I never would like you
230. 10:06know,
231. 10:07like I would always aim high and I know
232. 10:10I think everyone does that with Sims as
233. 10:12well, but I was so obsessed with that
234. 10:14game and also when I met Jermaine,
235. 10:17I got him hooked on it as well and we
236. 10:18were kind of like
237. 10:20doing that stuff like manifesting
238. 10:21together. So when I got out of high
239. 10:23school and I was like
240. 10:27originally going to go to uni and study
241. 10:29dance teaching cuz I also grew up
242. 10:31dancing side note.
243. 10:33Um I really felt like that wasn't the
244. 10:37path I was supposed to be going down and
245. 10:39I
246. 10:40did that for a whole year, cried every
247. 10:43single day to my mom being like, this is
248. 10:44not what I pictured for my life. I don't
249. 10:46want to dance teach as much as I love
250. 10:49dancing. I didn't want to
251. 10:51spend all my nights and weekends and
252. 10:54things like devoted to a dance studio.
253. 10:56It is a very like you have to choose
254. 10:58that for your life and be so passionate
255. 11:00about it.
256. 11:01Dance was just kind of my backup plan I
257. 11:05think and I always felt in my head I was
258. 11:07like, no, I really really want to do
259. 11:09YouTube or I want to start my own
260. 11:11business or like I've always wanted to
261. 11:15be like super creative and ambitious.
262. 11:19And so then mom finally let me drop out
263. 11:21of uni after a year and I started my own
264. 11:25business with my sister and I started my
265. 11:28own YouTube channel. So my very first
266. 11:30YouTube video is my Halloween party in
267. 11:332020 which I think I had finished my uni
268. 11:36year by then and I was like, I'm diving
269. 11:39into it. We had a big Halloween party so
270. 11:42I could vlog it all cuz I had done
271. 11:44YouTube when I was little and I was
272. 11:45getting embarrassed and stuff at school,
273. 11:48you know, trying to fit in, trying to be
274. 11:49cool. So I like had removed it, but then
275. 11:52yeah. [clears throat] So it was the year
276. 11:53after I graduated I was like, no, this
277. 11:56is always what I've wanted to do. I'm
278. 11:57not going to change myself, not going to
279. 11:59get embarrassed. Kind of in that same
280. 12:02year of 2020 when it was COVID, that's
281. 12:04when I was really starting to get into
282. 12:07spirituality. Like I mean, I've always
283. 12:09grown up around it with my mom and my
284. 12:11auntie. They're both very spiritual,
285. 12:13both doing tarot cards and yoga in the
286. 12:16lounge room and had crystals and things.
287. 12:18Like 2020, this is where I'm starting to
288. 12:22manifest and really throw myself into
289. 12:25wanting my dream life. I remember I made
290. 12:28my first vision board that year as well.
291. 12:30I'll try and insert a photo of it if I
292. 12:32have one, but it'd be interesting to
293. 12:34look back at that vision board as well.
294. 12:36Um I even noticed I remember on that old
295. 12:39vision board I have a picture of a
296. 12:42Tuscan house on there before there was
297. 12:45any like Tuscan kind of trend cuz I know
298. 12:48some people
299. 12:49have been like, oh, she's just jumping
300. 12:52on the trend kind of thing. I'm like,
301. 12:53no, no, no, I've always always adored
302. 12:57that aesthetic before it had a name.
303. 13:00Um and you can tell it's an old 2020
304. 13:03vision board because right in the center
305. 13:05is the Ace Family engagement on there.
306. 13:09I would not have put that on there now
307. 13:11because that would just like
308. 13:13not be good. So yeah, that's in the
309. 13:16center of my vision board. But hey, I
310. 13:18got my dream proposal. Warning for
311. 13:22anyone who is starting to manifest. Like
312. 13:25this was my very first time really
313. 13:28getting into journaling like my
314. 13:30spiritual journey kind of thing. I did
315. 13:33not expect everything to blow up and
316. 13:36fall apart all at once once I had
317. 13:39started that journey because
318. 13:43you might think, oh my god, this is not
319. 13:46working. Like everything is going to
320. 13:47now. Everything is
321. 13:51like blowing up. I'm further away from
322. 13:54my dreams than I thought. Um no, that is
323. 14:00the universe, God, whoever you want to
324. 14:02call the big power of energy the big
325. 14:05energy.
326. 14:06Um
327. 14:09That is making way for your dream life.
328. 14:12Like when I started manifesting, I had
329. 14:15massive messy breakup with my
330. 14:20ex-boyfriend.
331. 14:21Um I
332. 14:23had to move houses like three times or
333. 14:26something. My parents split up. Um
334. 14:31I was going through all that like
335. 14:33quitting uni and like all this career
336. 14:35jumble like not knowing what I'm doing
337. 14:38with my life. I actually went through
338. 14:40like five months of depression then in
339. 14:43the beginning of 2021. Like this was all
340. 14:46starting to happen yeah, like beginning
341. 14:48of 2021. It was not fun at the time. I
342. 14:53was like really like, what the hell is
343. 14:55going on? Just everything was happening
344. 14:57at once. And then
345. 15:00I stuck to it.
346. 15:03I didn't give up hope. I remember
347. 15:05I slept with a little note on my bedside
348. 15:08table that I woke up to every morning
349. 15:10that said, everything is going to be
350. 15:12okay.
351. 15:14That like makes me so emotional when I
352. 15:16think about that now cuz I remember
353. 15:17waking up every morning and seeing that
354. 15:19little note on my bedside table and like
355. 15:21really being like, oh god. Like it's so
356. 15:23hard to believe that right now, but
357. 15:25everything's going to be okay.
358. 15:27Everything's going to be okay.
359. 15:28Um and then I yeah, kept sticking to my
360. 15:34journaling everything.
361. 15:35Um try really trying to stay positive,
362. 15:39really, really trying to look at the
363. 15:40positive side of things. Doing I was
364. 15:43really like getting back into my comfort
365. 15:46things like watching my favorite movies,
366. 15:50eating my favorite food, like even like
367. 15:52working out and doing things that like
368. 15:54focusing on myself. Like I know a lot of
369. 15:57people that go through breakups saying
370. 15:58like, I need to focus on myself and then
371. 16:00they
372. 16:01focus on everyone but themselves.
373. 16:04You really need to draw in and focus on
374. 16:07yourself during that time because then
375. 16:09by the end of 2021, manifestations were
376. 16:12starting to come true. Like I met
377. 16:15Jermaine literally five months later.
378. 16:19So that was by October 2021 I met
379. 16:22Jermaine. I hadn't really gone out
380. 16:25during that whole period and then my
381. 16:27best friend Natasha like
382. 16:30forced me. She was like, get up. We're
383. 16:32going to a boat party in the Gold Coast
384. 16:34and like, come on, let's go. And I I was
385. 16:36like, you know what? I'm not going to
386. 16:37say no cuz this feels like
387. 16:40you know, it's aligning. She's obviously
388. 16:43asking me to go out for a reason. I'm
389. 16:45just going to go. So we go out, we go to
390. 16:47the boat party. I had a really fun time
391. 16:49just like finally just like letting
392. 16:51loose, dancing, singing. I was on a real
393. 16:54high. Oh yeah, and we went to Cali Beach
394. 16:56for the first time and I just felt so
395. 16:59happy for the first time in a long time.
396. 17:01Like I remember just feeling so happy
397. 17:04that day already and I hadn't even met
398. 17:06Jermaine yet. I was just like
399. 17:09I loved being in the Gold Coast I think
400. 17:11cuz at that point I still lived in
401. 17:12Brisbane. I really connect with the Gold
402. 17:14Coast. Um
403. 17:17So I was just really happy on a high and
404. 17:20then we just decided to go out clubbing
405. 17:22which wasn't a part of the original
406. 17:24plans. And we went into the night club
407. 17:26Havana. Whoever is like
408. 17:29knows the Gold Coast clubs. We went into
409. 17:31that night club and that's where I met
410. 17:33Jermaine and he just stood out to any
411. 17:36other guy I've ever met before.
412. 17:38And I knew like even though I just got
413. 17:41out of relationship five months ago,
414. 17:44I knew I couldn't let him go. Like I
415. 17:47couldn't let him slide cuz I was like,
416. 17:49oh my gosh, no, he's literally my dream
417. 17:51man and why would I be like, oh, I just
418. 17:54got out of a relationship. I don't want
419. 17:55to be single. No, if you meet the one,
420. 17:57you meet the one. And like I was just on
421. 17:59such a high after meeting him as well.
422. 18:01Literally I think a week later we then
423. 18:05moved into the most beautiful house.
424. 18:07Like my parents had just split up so we
425. 18:10decided to put money together with my
426. 18:12grandparents and move into one big house
427. 18:14all together. And oh my gosh, that house
428. 18:17got us through such a hard time. Like it
429. 18:20was so nice living at that house. Um
430. 18:24Yeah, so then we lived there for a while
431. 18:28and then my mom who is also on her
432. 18:30manifestation journey met her dream man
433. 18:32as well and she's also engaged and
434. 18:34getting married this year. So that's
435. 18:36crazy as well. We kind of just went on
436. 18:38this journey together. Yeah, when she
437. 18:40met him then she wanted to buy a house
438. 18:42with him which then if you've been
439. 18:44following along with my YouTube for
440. 18:46years, that's why we moved again after
441. 18:48that house. Then
442. 18:50I was like still a little bit lost. Like
443. 18:54my social media and stuff had taken off
444. 18:56like after high school and that like
445. 18:57with
446. 18:58um YouTube was a little bit slower, but
447. 19:00TikTok really went, you know? And TikTok
448. 19:03was never a part of the plan. That was
449. 19:05like like I always wanted to be a
450. 19:06YouTuber, but TikTok didn't exist back
451. 19:08then. So when TikTok came along, that
452. 19:11really assisted me in becoming a
453. 19:13YouTuber. Like a lot of people find me
454. 19:15on TikTok now. So it's funny how the
455. 19:18universe works in those ways as well. If
456. 19:20it wasn't for TikTok, like my life could
457. 19:23be so different right now. So then I was
458. 19:25still a little bit stuck career wise cuz
459. 19:30we don't have
460. 19:31monetization on TikTok in Australia. So
461. 19:34I couldn't really rely on anything like
462. 19:36that. It would only be YouTube and I'm
463. 19:38still not making like income on YouTube.
464. 19:42I'm making nice little bits of extra
465. 19:44money. Um so I still needed a job. So I
466. 19:49actually in 2022
467. 19:51then got a job working as a lifeguard at
468. 19:55Wet'n'Wild. Um
469. 19:57So, yeah, that was my first job and I
470. 19:59think I've never really said that on
471. 20:00here. I don't know.
472. 20:02>> [snorts]
473. 20:02>> But, it's funny because I didn't think
474. 20:05like I was like this is so like
475. 20:07off my path, right? Like, this is so
476. 20:10random. I'm becoming a lifeguard. But,
477. 20:12you know what? I was obsessed with
478. 20:13Pamela Anderson at the time, still am.
479. 20:15Um so, I was like I'm having my Pam
480. 20:18moment. I'm lifeguarding. Like, it's
481. 20:20going to be fun memories and it really
482. 20:22was. Like, I'll never forget that short
483. 20:25time working at Wet'n'Wild lifeguarding
484. 20:28all summer. Like,
485. 20:29it's good memories to look back on. But,
486. 20:32anyways, leading from that, cuz it was
487. 20:34only a summer contract, I needed a new
488. 20:36job after that. So, then I was like
489. 20:39really stuck again and then another
490. 20:41lifeguard position opened up. Um I might
491. 20:44as well say it cuz I don't work there
492. 20:46anymore. Um but, I loved this place so
493. 20:48much. If you guys know the Redcliffe
494. 20:50Dolphins, um where that stadium is,
495. 20:53there is Dolphins Fitness and Aquatic,
496. 20:56which is a gym and a pool and I was
497. 20:58lifeguarding at the pool there.
498. 21:00Um
499. 21:02So, that lifeguard job at Wet'n'Wild led
500. 21:05me to Dolphins lifeguarding there, which
501. 21:07then they gave me the opportunity to do
502. 21:09front desk there. And then they gave me
503. 21:12the opportunity to start doing their
504. 21:13social media there.
505. 21:15So, it kind of like led me back to that
506. 21:18path of social media, which is so crazy
507. 21:22because if I hadn't have lifeguarded at
508. 21:24Wet'n'Wild, I wouldn't have got that
509. 21:25Redcliffe job.
510. 21:27Um
511. 21:28and then it just led me back to social
512. 21:31media. So, then I was doing social media
513. 21:33for them and then obviously I wanted to
514. 21:35make the move here to the Gold Coast. Um
515. 21:39So, I needed to start looking at jobs in
516. 21:41the Gold Coast rather than Redcliffe cuz
517. 21:42that's where
518. 21:44used to live. So, then I'm not going to
519. 21:46say where I work now. Just I like to be
520. 21:49aware of safety stuff, but a
521. 21:52amazing job popped up in the Gold Coast,
522. 21:55which is around the corner from
523. 21:58um my dream suburb where I live now and
524. 22:01it's like
525. 22:03it's the perfect job for me, you guys. I
526. 22:05do social media for them full-time along
527. 22:09with like other marketing, digital
528. 22:10marketing, website, all of that kind of
529. 22:13stuff. My literal things that I actually
530. 22:17can bring to the table, like my
531. 22:18knowledge that I can bring to the table.
532. 22:20And it's for like a family resort by the
533. 22:23theme parks. Like,
534. 22:25you guys know how much I love Disney and
535. 22:27Disneyland and stuff. It is like the
536. 22:29Aussie version of working at like the
537. 22:32Disneyland hotel. Like, I love working
538. 22:35there so much. So, that's another thing
539. 22:37that happened for me end of last year. I
540. 22:39got that job, which is like
541. 22:42So, I work full-time there and then I do
542. 22:45my own social media on top of that as
543. 22:47well.
544. 22:48Um cuz I'll always want that stable
545. 22:51income.
546. 22:53I'm not going to just rely on social
547. 22:55media. I like having it as extra money
548. 22:57rather than just like
549. 22:59relying on it.
550. 23:01Cuz that would be scary not knowing if
551. 23:03you're going to like get a brand deal,
552. 23:05get enough views or like, you know, I
553. 23:07just I don't think I could put myself in
554. 23:09that position unless it's like super
555. 23:10stable like I'll
556. 23:12have my own business kind of thing. Not
557. 23:14long after getting that job, um
558. 23:17I moved in with Germain, who I think I
559. 23:20forgot this part of the story. Since I
560. 23:23met him in the Gold Coast in the Gold
561. 23:25Coast clubs and I was living in North
562. 23:26Brisbane like near Redcliffe,
563. 23:28um we did like medium distance
564. 23:32relationship for like 4 years. So, we
565. 23:35were driving back and forth like over uh
566. 23:37it was about an hour. About an hour
567. 23:39drive to each other's houses.
568. 23:42And so, yeah, when we got back from that
569. 23:44trip um last year, we were like
570. 23:48been together for a whole month and
571. 23:49we're like we cannot not live together
572. 23:52anymore. I don't like doing this hour
573. 23:53drive. Like, it's been 4 years. I can't
574. 23:56do it anymore.
575. 23:57So, that's when we started
576. 23:59wanting to move out together and that's
577. 24:00when I started looking at the job and
578. 24:03I think I explained this already. I
579. 24:04moved in with him, who lived South
580. 24:07Brisbane, so that I could start this new
581. 24:10job. So, thankfully that's how that
582. 24:12whole job transfer thing worked because
583. 24:15a lot of people do ask like when you
584. 24:17move to a different city, what what are
585. 24:19you supposed to do? And I was just lucky
586. 24:21to have Germain living not too far away
587. 24:23from my new job. So, moved in with him
588. 24:26and then we started applying for places
589. 24:27and I do have some vlogs like kind of
590. 24:30showing more of that process. And then
591. 24:32we applied for this place,
592. 24:34which
593. 24:36I was so nervous that we weren't going
594. 24:38to get it cuz I just fell in love with
595. 24:40it so much. But, then we got it.
596. 24:42So,
597. 24:44that's another thing that's like come
598. 24:46true.
599. 24:47Um
600. 24:49And then yeah, and I just made the video
601. 24:51recently about getting my dream car,
602. 24:54which just aligned for me as well. Like,
603. 24:56just everything just lined up. But, that
604. 24:59is kind of like bits and pieces of story
605. 25:02of like the journey. But, I want to talk
606. 25:05about now more of the how.
607. 25:09This is like
608. 25:11what I have done to not just, you know,
609. 25:15journal and do all of those things. What
610. 25:18I think has changed in me
611. 25:21that has made my life change.
612. 25:24And I know a lot of people say it, but
613. 25:26I'm going to go into it more. Lift your
614. 25:28vibration.
615. 25:30Lift it. Lift your vibration.
616. 25:33Like, you need to be on that high
617. 25:35frequency. Like, that day that I met
618. 25:37Germain, you know how I was saying I was
619. 25:39so happy, I was dancing, I was just like
620. 25:42finally so happy after a 5-month-long
621. 25:44like depression,
622. 25:46I was on a high frequency and I feel
623. 25:48like you line up with things that are on
624. 25:51your frequency and the universe then
625. 25:54let me meet Germain that night. Like,
626. 25:55it's so interesting when I think about
627. 25:58how important frequency is because
628. 26:02in high school things were going wrong
629. 26:04for me because I was really on a low
630. 26:05frequency. I was hanging around people
631. 26:08that were very gossip orientated
632. 26:12and um
633. 26:13listening to
634. 26:16You know the type of music you listen to
635. 26:18in high school. Oh my god, in 2016,
636. 26:192017, it was like
637. 26:22I hate the song. I can't even sing it. I
638. 26:24don't want to be alive. Oh my god, why
639. 26:27was I listening to that? Listening to
640. 26:29the most depressor music. Like, really
641. 26:31that's so like low vibrational. For some
642. 26:34reason I got into horror movies during
643. 26:36high school. I would watch horror movies
644. 26:39and I'm sitting here wondering why
645. 26:41everything was so chaotic, why I'm
646. 26:44really trying to make sure my camera's
647. 26:46not going to die. When I look back at
648. 26:47that time in my life, everything I was
649. 26:49doing was so like low vibrational. I was
650. 26:52very negative as well, very like
651. 26:55I didn't have much self-love. Like, I
652. 26:58was like I hate [gasps] myself. I'm so
653. 27:00awkward. I'm so ugly. Blah blah blah.
654. 27:02Like, I think I had to go through that
655. 27:04to learn from it. So, I'm not saying
656. 27:07like you're a teenager right now and
657. 27:10you're going through that stuff, you're
658. 27:11not going to be able to change it
659. 27:12overnight. You But, right now this is
660. 27:14the time to reflect on it and be like,
661. 27:15"Wow, I am talking to myself like that."
662. 27:18Or I am, you know, surrounding myself
663. 27:21with such low vibrational people, music,
664. 27:25movies, everything.
665. 27:27Um so, now if you've noticed what my
666. 27:29life is like now,
667. 27:31I watch Disney movies all the time.
668. 27:35Like, that is my comfort thing. I watch
669. 27:37so much Disney movies, which the
670. 27:40the storyline in all of those movies are
671. 27:42like going for your dreams and dreams
672. 27:44coming true. Especially, oh my god,
673. 27:46Princess and the Frog. I love that movie
674. 27:49so much. Cinderella,
675. 27:52Aladdin, Hercules. They're like
676. 27:55the ones that I feel like I go back to a
677. 27:57lot.
678. 27:58Um even then the soundtracks in those
679. 28:01movies. Like, if you hear me and Germain
680. 28:04in the mornings when when we wake up, we
681. 28:06sing the song from Princess and the
682. 28:08Frog. That's like, "Blue skies and
683. 28:10sunshine guaranteed." Like, that is our
684. 28:12morning jam.
685. 28:14And I feel like that song is just such a
686. 28:17high vibration. Like, we love just
687. 28:19singing that song around the house. All
688. 28:21the songs in like Disney movies and I
689. 28:23actually listen to Disney music a lot.
690. 28:25Not to expose myself. In my car, if I
691. 28:28have my roof on, it's cuz I'm listening
692. 28:30to Disney music and it's blasting and I
693. 28:32don't want to be
694. 28:33>> [laughter]
695. 28:33>> driving around like, "Blue skies and
696. 28:35sunshine."
697. 28:36But, even then if I'm not listening to
698. 28:38Disney music, I always pick the high
699. 28:40vibration music. Like, bit of like
700. 28:44Britney Spears, like thing like music
701. 28:47that makes me feel good, feel like a
702. 28:49baddie. I never never listen to sad
703. 28:53music and stuff. Like, I know some
704. 28:55people are going to be like, "Oh, cuz
705. 28:56they love like Olivia Rodrigo." And all
706. 28:59of that and there's nothing wrong with
707. 29:01like loving her music and stuff. But,
708. 29:03try not to like surrender yourself to
709. 29:07that style of music
710. 29:09um because even when you're singing the
711. 29:11words and stuff, you're actually like
712. 29:12saying affirmations out loud. Like,
713. 29:16just be wary. Like, I've just become
714. 29:18more conscious about what I am
715. 29:21consuming. Like, music, movies,
716. 29:23environment. Like, the environment I'm
717. 29:26in right now in my dream suburb, I'm
718. 29:28like surrounding myself with palm trees
719. 29:31and the weather in the Gold Coast is
720. 29:33always like sunny. Like,
721. 29:36I think just everything keeps like
722. 29:38aligning and being on the same
723. 29:40frequency. I think another thing that
724. 29:43like some people might say is um
725. 29:48being out of touch or something is
726. 29:51trying not to
727. 29:53drown yourself in like negative
728. 29:56things that are going on in the world.
729. 29:58It's okay to be aware.
730. 29:59I saw a thing on TikTok that was like,
731. 30:02"Be in your own bubble."
732. 30:04Um you can be aware of stuff that's
733. 30:05going on outside the bubble, but don't
734. 30:07let it burst your bubble. Don't let it
735. 30:09come into your bubble.
736. 30:11Like I I know what's going on in the
737. 30:13world, but I
738. 30:16can't let it consume me
739. 30:19because
740. 30:21it's like a lot of low-frequency energy.
741. 30:24So, you kind of have to be like There's
742. 30:26this meme of like Giselle from um
743. 30:30Enchanted, and I feel like that is so
744. 30:32me. Like just popping in to see what's
745. 30:34going on in the real world. Like a lot
746. 30:36of people won't like this one, but
747. 30:38because it it does sound a bit out of
748. 30:40touch, but I'm just Once again, I'm
749. 30:43saying what I've been doing. I stopped
750. 30:46like getting so anxious and stuff about
751. 30:49things that are out of my control.
752. 30:51Literally, can also compare to like Joy
753. 30:55from Inside Out, how she's just so like
754. 30:59you know, she does not like being sad or
755. 31:02anything like that. Like if something
756. 31:03happens, like, "Oh, it's raining
757. 31:05outside. We wanted to go to the beach.
758. 31:06Yay, we can stay in and watch movies
759. 31:08instead."
760. 31:10Like I know that probably sounds crazy
761. 31:12to be like that all the time, but I
762. 31:13think I've just become like that a bit
763. 31:15more naturally because I've just trained
764. 31:18my brain to be so like
765. 31:20Disney-vibe and like high vibration and
766. 31:23positive and like a ray of sunshine is
767. 31:26like what I try to like train my brain
768. 31:28to be in. Now, even like when I wake up
769. 31:30in the mornings, I'm always in a happy
770. 31:32mood. Like And I used to wake up in the
771. 31:33mornings like dreading the day, and I
772. 31:35just don't feel like that anymore. So,
773. 31:38obviously, what I'm doing is working and
774. 31:40it's helping me be on that high
775. 31:43frequency and
776. 31:45manifest all my dreams. A few other
777. 31:48things
778. 31:49Gratitude is always always always going
779. 31:52to be one of them. Literally, I've never
780. 31:55gone a day without like even right now,
781. 31:58I'm just staring outside my window being
782. 31:59like
783. 32:01I can't believe I manifested this place.
784. 32:04Like I can't believe I live here. Like
785. 32:06I'm so grateful every single day. I
786. 32:09never ever take anything for granted,
787. 32:11and I think the universe will reward you
788. 32:14if you are grateful for everything you
789. 32:17have right now.
790. 32:19It'll keep bringing more, you know?
791. 32:22Rather than just being on that Yes, I
792. 32:25have all this now, but I want more. I
793. 32:26want more. I want more. Like you have to
794. 32:28really sit with what you already have as
795. 32:30well. It's starting to get a little bit
796. 32:32darker outside. So, I'm trying my best
797. 32:34to wrap this up. I can really talk. I'm
798. 32:36a yapper. Another thing I've been
799. 32:38working on, if you guys know, I deal
800. 32:39with anxiety, and I know there's a lot
801. 32:42of you guys on here as well that deal
802. 32:44with anxiety, and I love that my videos
803. 32:47help you guys so much. When I read those
804. 32:49comments, I'm like
805. 32:50Ah, feels so good to
806. 32:53you know, help others that deal with the
807. 32:55same things that I deal with.
808. 32:57Um
809. 32:58So,
810. 33:00calming my nervous system has been a
811. 33:02huge huge one for me that like my
812. 33:06anxiety can sometimes disrupt that high
813. 33:08frequency and high vibrations. So, I try
814. 33:11my best to calm my nervous system by
815. 33:14doing things that are simple and
816. 33:16comforting to me. Like cuddling my
817. 33:19teddies, watching a Disney movie. I
818. 33:22think I really retreat back to
819. 33:25all the things I loved in childhood.
820. 33:28Um
821. 33:29Which people might say is like babyish
822. 33:32or immature, but I actually think it is
823. 33:35more mature
824. 33:36than someone who says it's babyish
825. 33:39because I have the maturity to
826. 33:41understand
827. 33:42that healing your inner child is so
828. 33:45important, and I'm not embarrassed to be
829. 33:49uncool or like
830. 33:52like hide my emotions and stuff. Like
831. 33:54when I'm aware that, you know, I'm
832. 33:56having some anxiety, I will go get my
833. 33:58teddies. I'll go put on my comfort
834. 34:00Disney movie or Aquamarine or H2O
835. 34:05and have like a comfort blanket,
836. 34:07slippers. Like I really baby myself.
837. 34:11I've noticed that as well. Or like if
838. 34:13I've had a bad day, I'll buy myself a
839. 34:14Starbucks or a cupcake or something, but
840. 34:16it's important to do those things
841. 34:19cuz it immediately does like calm your
842. 34:21nervous system. And I don't put a price
843. 34:23tag on happiness and um
844. 34:27being kind to yourself and treating
845. 34:29yourself. Like sometimes that little bit
846. 34:33of money, that little $3 you spent on on
847. 34:35a coffee will change your whole mood and
848. 34:39reshift your day, you know? Last thing,
849. 34:42which I think is the most important
850. 34:44thing is don't listen to anybody who
851. 34:48says, "That's unrealistic."
852. 34:51You can have your dream life. And I'm
853. 34:55believing that more and more every day
854. 34:57with all of these goals and things that
855. 34:59I've had
856. 35:01happening for me, coming true. [music]
857. 35:04There's so many more that I'm aiming
858. 35:06towards, and I believe they're going to
859. 35:09happen, and I know they're going to
860. 35:11happen because
861. 35:12look at everything [music] else that has
862. 35:14happened. It's like why not keep going?
863. 35:16Why not Why not think like cuz back like
864. 35:205 years ago or something, I'd be like
865. 35:22blown away by my life right now, but I
866. 35:24also would not have [music] been like
867. 35:26Oh my god, no, that's not true. That
868. 35:27didn't happen to me because I've always
869. 35:29believed my life would go this way.
870. 35:32And it [music] is. It's going this way,
871. 35:34and I'm never going to stop believing.
872. 35:38No matter what people tell you. Like
873. 35:40people are going to tell you like, "Be
874. 35:41realistic. [music] That's impossible.
875. 35:43That can't happen." You know, try to
876. 35:46limit [music] yourself. Like, "No, you
877. 35:48should go down this path cuz it's easier
878. 35:51cuz it's more convenient." [music]
879. 35:53If you have big dreams and big goals, go
880. 35:57for them. [music] It's not unrealistic.
881. 35:59You can have your dream life. You can,
882. 36:02and you have to really
883. 36:04>> [music]
884. 36:04>> change your mind to having that. Picture
885. 36:06your ideal life. Stop picturing like a
886. 36:09life that you think you could possibly
887. 36:12have if you just, [music] you know,
888. 36:14stick to whatever.
889. 36:16Scrap it. Think of your ideal life.
890. 36:19>> [music]
891. 36:19>> Your ideal house. Your ideal car. Your
892. 36:22ideal job. Your ideal partner. Your
893. 36:24ideal family. Your ideal mindset every
894. 36:27day in the morning. How you feel.
895. 36:31What you can smell.
896. 36:32What you can hear. What you can see
897. 36:34outside your window. Palm trees.
898. 36:37Visualize it. And
899. 36:40like own it. Like
900. 36:43you have one life. Why not have your
901. 36:46dream life? Why not go for it? Oh, and
902. 36:48your mind is magic. I just thought of
903. 36:50this as I came into the house, but your
904. 36:52mind is magic. Say that over and over
905. 36:55again. Your mind is magic. My mind is
906. 36:57magic.
907. 36:59Everything I think comes true. My mind
908. 37:01is magic. And yes, if things start to go
909. 37:03wrong when you first start believing
910. 37:05this way,
911. 37:07the way my camera just died when I was
912. 37:08about to finish the video. But if things
913. 37:10start to go wrong when you start this
914. 37:12journey, just understand that it is your
915. 37:17It is the universe shifting you onto the
916. 37:18path to have that dream life. You might
917. 37:21lose your job. You might have your
918. 37:24boyfriend break up with you or
919. 37:24something. It's because they're not a
920. 37:26part of that dream life or that isn't a
921. 37:28part of your dream life. Even if you
922. 37:30don't see it in that moment, you're
923. 37:32being realigned to something better to
924. 37:35be on that path for your dream life.
925. 37:38So, just remember that.
926. 37:40And once again, this is all just things
927. 37:43that I've done or I'm doing.
928. 37:45Um and this is just my big sister advice
929. 37:48to you guys.
930. 37:50And I think I've yapped for a solid
931. 37:52amount of time. So, I'll let you guys
932. 37:55go. I'll let you be. Have a good night.
933. 37:57Oh, have a good morning. And I love you
934. 37:59guys for being here. Thank you so much,
935. 38:02and I'll see you guys in my next video.
936. 38:05Bye.