Beyin Yorulur mu? - Olmaz Öyle Saçma Beyin - Dr. Kerem Dündar - B05 — Transcript
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- 0:03Hello, Kerem.
- 0:04Hello, İlker.
- 0:05How are you?
- 0:06I'm great, honestly. I feel like a
- 0:07million bucks, but I also feel like I
- 0:08need a vacation.
- 0:09Yeah. You're so sweet. I think everyone
- 0:11feels the need for a vacation. İlker,
- 0:13does the brain actually get tired?
- 0:15Bravo. That's one of the good questions
- 0:16, I think. The brain is an organ that
- 0:17gets very tired,
- 0:18but it is also an organ that never
- 0:19stops. I think we need to resolve this
- 0:21paradox now. Otherwise, we'll start
- 0:22questioning the necessity of a vacation
- 0:24too much. The brain works a lot and can
- 0:26never stop.
- 0:27Why? Doesn't it stop when we sleep at
- 0:28night? It doesn't even stop when you
- 0:29sleep at night. On the contrary, there
- 0:31are moments when it works much harder.
- 0:33There is actually an activity we
- 0:34observe in functional MRI called
- 0:35background activity. It's as if the
- 0:37brain is focusing on something. That
- 0:39region gets activated. The visual area
- 0:41activates, but other parts are working
- 0:42too, and so on. I mean, everything in
- 0:44the universe is constantly moving, but
- 0:46there's action in some places, right? I
- 0:48mean, social life continues constantly,
- 0:49but there is much more concentration in
- 0:51some places. Let's say there is a
- 0:52summit somewhere right now. Planes are
- 0:54landing and taking off there. Security
- 0:55guards are moving around more. But life
- 0:57is actually continuing everywhere.
- 0:59Information processing itself is like a
- 1:01routine thing. As our professor Türker
- 1:03often mentions,
- 1:04Who is Professor Türker?
- 1:05Türker Kılıç. A brain surgeon and
- 1:07one of the distinguished scientists
- 1:08raised by our precious country. That
- 1:10information theory he always talks
- 1:11about. We are talking about something
- 1:12that is constantly processing
- 1:13information. Now, processing
- 1:14information doesn't actually tire us
- 1:16out.
- 1:16On the contrary, isn't neural activity
- 1:18a beneficial thing? Neural activity is
- 1:20already essential. When we say neural
- 1:22activity, we mean the activities of the
- 1:23nervous system and cells. Let's not get
- 1:25scolded for this right away. I mean,
- 1:26foreign terminology was being used. I
- 1:29suppose everyone has learned about
- 1:30neurons, but there are many studies
- 1:32showing that experience-oriented new
- 1:34experiences trigger neural activity,
- 1:36increase synaptic binding, enhance
- 1:38interaction between synapses, or make
- 1:39us experts by thickening those
- 1:41connections. So, that's why neuronal
- 1:43activity is valuable. But there are
- 1:45some things, for example, overthinking,
- 1:47right? I mean, this is also neural...
- 1:48I know that very well.
- 1:49This is also neural activity. This
- 1:51means we need to distinguish this
- 1:53cognitively, intentionally. Let's
- 1:55translate "cognitive" that way as well.
- 1:57We need to distinguish some things
- 1:58intentionally. Some things are things
- 2:00we do without even being aware of them.
- 2:02We have nothing to do with those.
- 2:04Background activity is that hype. Do
- 2:05you mean things like breathing?
- 2:07Breathing is just like that. Our brain
- 2:09is in a state of constantly breathing
- 2:10as well. Breathing, for example, is
- 2:12very interesting. Sometimes it's done
- 2:14consciously, sometimes unconsciously.
- 2:16While almost all organs in the body are
- 2:18autonomous, we can control our lungs,
- 2:19but our lungs can sometimes continue
- 2:21even outside our control. So, it's
- 2:23something like this. How you breathe is
- 2:25actually important, but just because we
- 2:28gave you the authority to train on how
- 2:31to breathe doesn't mean you'll be
- 2:33deprived of it when you forget to
- 2:35breathe. So, the brain actually has
- 2:37exactly this kind of effect. In other
- 2:39words, the brain is very similar to a
- 2:40lung in this sense. It works both
- 2:42voluntarily and involuntarily. If you
- 2:44don't use your lungs voluntarily. Just
- 2:47like when we close our mouth and say, "
- 2:48I'm going to take shallow breaths now,
- 2:50I'll breathe very lightly," if that
- 2:52puts us in a difficult spot, voluntary
- 2:53actions in the brain can also put us in
- 2:55a bind. At the very top of these is,
- 2:57for instance, following an emotion
- 2:58wherever it leads. Now, emotion is a
- 3:00very interesting mechanism.
- 3:01But if you say that, I’ll ask, "What
- 3:03is emotion?"
- 3:04Good.
- 3:04What is emotion? What is a feeling?
- 3:06This subject often gets confused.
- 3:07Okay. Super. Intuition, for example,
- 3:09right? These things are always nested
- 3:10within one another. Let’s put it this
- 3:11way. The human brain has software
- 3:14levels. Thinking is not the first
- 3:16software level of the human brain. I
- 3:18mean, we don't start life by thinking.
- 3:20Actually, we don't even start by
- 3:22feeling. We start life by believing. We
- 3:24talked about this before. What did we
- 3:26say belief was there? Belief provided
- 3:27something to hold onto. It was such a
- 3:29blind faith that perhaps we can never
- 3:31experience it like that again
- 3:32throughout our lives. At the level of
- 3:34faith, you know.
- 3:35Believe in what?
- 3:35Have faith in what? That your mother is
- 3:37the most valuable living being for you,
- 3:38or that this woman will feed you very
- 3:40well.
- 3:40I would actually call that an
- 3:41assumption rather than faith.
- 3:42Bravo. So, the thing that separates
- 3:44assumption from faith. In one, you
- 3:46think you know. In the other, you are
- 3:48suspicious because you don't know. A
- 3:50human believing their mother is the
- 3:52most important living being is actually
- 3:53a fundamental condition of life when
- 3:55you look at it. Because when a human
- 3:58comes from the womb, where they were
- 3:59like a whole, into the outside world,
- 4:01they hold onto something. That is why I
- 4:03call the first software of the brain "
- 4:05belief." In the next stage, the brain's
- 4:07most important ability is realized. The
- 4:09brain can make comparisons. Is it this
- 4:11or that? Is it this or that? And we
- 4:13actually encode the outside world
- 4:15digitally.
- 4:16We say one or zero.
- 4:17Bravo. One or zero. But we aren't
- 4:19satisfied with just that one or zero. I
- 4:20mean, it's not just that something
- 4:21makes us cry or laugh; there's also "it
- 4:23makes me a little sad.""It doesn't make
- 4:25me that happy," and so on. We slowly
- 4:27start to diversify those ones and zeros
- 4:30. Meaning, we start to increase the
- 4:32resolution in between. And then,
- 4:34something more complex called "thought"
- 4:36follows. The brain accompanies this in
- 4:38terms of hardware, too. So, the
- 4:39hardware grows somewhere as well. From
- 4:41the brainstem to the limbic system,
- 4:42from the limbic system to the frontal
- 4:43lobe. These are actually just data
- 4:44processing when you look at it. That's
- 4:46why we referred to Professor Türker.
- 4:48That information processing actually
- 4:50never changes. Only the level of the
- 4:51information we process changes.
- 4:53But look, for example, there is Alper
- 4:54Hasanoğlu. You know, in our psychiatry
- 4:55department.
- 4:56Alper. Yes. He loves...
- 4:56He gets very annoyed by those computer
- 4:58analogies, for instance.
- 4:59We say, "Honestly, this isn't a
- 5:00computer analogy." Because computers
- 5:02are thought to only process information
- 5:04, this is perceived as an analogy. When
- 5:07we start saying "everything processes
- 5:09information," we stop that limited
- 5:10analogy—the one Alper is suspicious
- 5:12of and uncomfortable with—from being
- 5:13just an analogy.
- 5:15It becomes the reality itself.
- 5:16Bravo, we position it as reality, the
- 5:18very truth itself. That's why I don't
- 5:20like the computer analogy for the brain
- 5:21at all.
- 5:21Because, for example, the thing you
- 5:23call a sperm is actually something that
- 5:24transmits information.
- 5:25Of course, my dear, and what kind of
- 5:26information is in a sperm? I mean, a
- 5:27sperm might be the most effective and
- 5:29mobile USB device. It's going to be
- 5:31analyzed regardless.
- 5:32In the same way, the female egg......
- 5:34I personally think it also has the
- 5:36authority to make decisions. As if the
- 5:38sperm only carries information.
- 5:39Anyway, you were talking about levels.
- 5:41While talking about levels, this part
- 5:42about processing emotions is exactly
- 5:44the part where we are hedonistic
- 5:46creatures. I like this, so let me move
- 5:48towards it. I don't like this, so let
- 5:50me not move towards it. Look,
- 5:51self-consciousness actually starts to
- 5:53kick in here slowly. Meaning, I am
- 5:55different from the world outside. We
- 5:57describe self-consciousness as if it's
- 5:58something very spectacular. Since we
- 6:01have a defensive stance about being
- 6:02conscious creatures and feel valuable
- 6:04in this regard, this might actually be
- 6:05something we need to deal with. I mean,
- 6:08this is much better. Let's say all of
- 6:10modern physics has proven this today,
- 6:12and all philosophers are now forcing
- 6:14their brains to think this way. Because
- 6:16we are accustomed to it. We are subject
- 6:18to a physical understanding that is not
- 6:19supported by our knowledge, perspective
- 6:21, and empirical observation. Erkcan
- 6:22already explains that very well. And in
- 6:25return, how can philosophers
- 6:26reinterpret these things with a new
- 6:29perspective, getting rid of what we
- 6:31struggle to experience or what we
- 6:33mistakenly experience in our current
- 6:35framework? That's when such things come
- 6:38to the agenda. Actually, emotion,
- 6:40sensing, etc., create a feeling as if
- 6:41they are primitive things because they
- 6:43exist beforehand. No, it turns out it's
- 6:45not that primitive. We are actually
- 6:47deprived of an area we are very
- 6:48experienced in while trying something
- 6:50new. I mean, when thought comes into
- 6:52play, is there a possibility that we
- 6:53are eliminating or keeping something as
- 6:55powerful as emotion in the background?
- 6:57I didn't quite understand that part. Is
- 6:58what you call emotion an orientation,
- 6:59then? I mean...
- 7:00I haven't explained that part yet,
- 7:01you're right. That's why you are very
- 7:03right. Some things had a good, positive
- 7:05effect on me. Some things had a bad,
- 7:08negative effect on me. And I don't have
- 7:11much of this in my higher systems yet.
- 7:14We observe this a lot, especially
- 7:16starting from the age of 2, which is
- 7:17the maturation period of the brain; I
- 7:19feel this with my whole body: I felt
- 7:21good about this, so I approached it, my
- 7:22muscles relaxed and loosened. My blood
- 7:25vessels dilated. The sugar that needed
- 7:27to be pumped through the blood
- 7:28decreased. My blood pressure dropped.
- 7:30Look, notice that even when describing
- 7:32such a relaxed state, we call this
- 7:33parasympathetic activity. And we call
- 7:36the other side sympathetic activity.
- 7:38The terminology for this that is very
- 7:39famous these days is the vagus nerve.
- 7:41Vagal activation. Like vagal therapy.
- 7:44Now we are rediscovering it as humanity
- 7:46. We had experienced this during
- 7:48childhood. Perhaps people in primitive
- 7:49times were already living like this all
- 7:51the time. They were in much more
- 7:53interaction with the world they lived
- 7:55in than we are.
- 7:56By the way, the system you're
- 7:57describing also resembles AI. You know,
- 7:59this or that, it's similar to the
- 8:01training of AI.
- 8:03The training of the algorithm is
- 8:04similar to this. It is already a very
- 8:06algorithmic thing. That's why the
- 8:08answer cannot be yes or no when it
- 8:10comes to emotions. But, for instance,
- 8:12you might be a sadomasochist. You take
- 8:14pleasure in suffering. I wonder, how
- 8:15does that deviation occur?
- 8:16Nice. Okay. Let’s talk about that,
- 8:18for example. Great. Before the holiday,
- 8:20everyone should learn what they are
- 8:21fetishistic or psychopathic about.
- 8:23I mean, I asked for a reason. So, not
- 8:24everyone is the same.
- 8:25Of course not. Because something else
- 8:26is at work. I’m about to explain that
- 8:27. I believed in some things. Then, at
- 8:29the intermediate stage, I started to
- 8:30distinguish them with emotions. I want
- 8:32some things, I don't want others. I
- 8:34take a position with my whole body to
- 8:36approach what I want. I take another
- 8:38position with my body to move away from
- 8:40what I don't want, and my body is
- 8:41constantly preparing for this. This is
- 8:43called sympathetic fight or
- 8:45parasympathetic relief, relaxation, and
- 8:47staying in those states. If you notice,
- 8:49there’s something very dichotomous
- 8:51and digital there. But this is also
- 8:53something that can be improved. It’s
- 8:55not entirely black or white. For
- 8:57instance, I think it’s something that
- 8:58can be separated. It’s not very high
- 9:00resolution, but I’m not sure if
- 9:01it’s sufficient. Look, a lot of
- 9:03living things get by with this. You and
- 9:05I, for example, can have a very
- 9:06emotional communication. We walk
- 9:07together, we make progress together, we
- 9:08accomplish things together, and so on.
- 9:10But of course, these aren't enough for
- 9:11the civilization we’ve built today.
- 9:14Or let me put it this way: the current
- 9:16nature is not complex enough for a
- 9:17creature that goes beyond this. So what
- 9:20do we do? We start to get suspicious.
- 9:22We start asking questions. And that is
- 9:24the question. I approach this, but does
- 9:26it really do me good? That question
- 9:29moves us to the next step. This is
- 9:32called thought. Thought is something
- 9:34that emerged after experience. We
- 9:36already experience life first.
- 9:38You mention tabula rasa.
- 9:39Tabula rasa is a very philosophical
- 9:41definition, and I think it greatly
- 9:42improves our world of ideas. I don’t
- 9:44think it’s like that right now. I am
- 9:45aware that there is transmission in
- 9:47many directions. There is both
- 9:48biological transmission and a very
- 9:49serious social transmission. By social
- 9:51transmission, I don’t just mean
- 9:53learning. A person is shaped a lot by
- 9:55bumping into many things without even
- 9:57realizing it. I don’t think it’s a
- 10:00blank slate, but I also don’t think
- 10:01it’s as complicated as it is in
- 10:03adulthood. Our language of emotions—I
- 10:06value this a lot. This is a language,
- 10:08if you look at it. I mean...
- 10:10Yes. Even if we had never learned to
- 10:12speak or think after this, we would
- 10:14still feel things, and there are
- 10:15already examples of this in society.
- 10:17Even in individuals who couldn't speak
- 10:19or have intellectual disabilities, we
- 10:21can still clearly feel their affect.
- 10:23They can easily convey their emotions,
- 10:24and isn't that actually through that
- 10:26language? They communicate very closely
- 10:27with their families. They communicate
- 10:28with people who are in intense contact
- 10:30with them. They can both understand and
- 10:31make themselves understood. So, this
- 10:32must be a language.
- 10:33By the way, regarding the mix-up, I
- 10:34want to say something. I am very
- 10:36interested in Wittgenstein.
- 10:38Yes.
- 10:38Actually, without language, there would
- 10:40be no thought. Starting from our
- 10:42conversation, Wittgenstein's point that
- 10:44the limit of my language is the limit
- 10:46of my world is deeply related to my
- 10:47power of expression. What exactly is
- 10:50the minimum level of my communication
- 10:51skills, and how much of it would
- 10:53actually be enough for us? We don't
- 10:54know this. We opened the floodgates to
- 10:56this. I mean, the gates of hell have
- 10:58been opened. Speaking is truly a good
- 10:59thing, but was there really a need to
- 11:01speak this much? Now, this world of
- 11:02thought is very valuable, but as you
- 11:04can see, it is very complex. Now, here
- 11:06is the risk. Thought independent of
- 11:08emotions, and thought content that
- 11:11disregards emotions. I say this because
- 11:13it is a problem we are facing quite
- 11:14often with artificial intelligence. For
- 11:16instance, I work with the business
- 11:17world, you know, and they are surprised
- 11:19now that companies are hiring
- 11:21philosophers, neuroscientists, and
- 11:22behavioral scientists. Honestly, we
- 11:24have been working on this with
- 11:25companies for 10 years. This was
- 11:26already a problem for organizations
- 11:28anyway. But now, artificial
- 11:29intelligence—which we assume speaks
- 11:31very well and today speaks better than
- 11:3390%of society—is involved. We want
- 11:34emotion to be infused into that speech.
- 11:36Actually, we always think of emotion as
- 11:38something else, but emotion is also a
- 11:40language of its own. So, we use two
- 11:42languages to complement each other. I
- 11:44am telling you something, and at the
- 11:45same time, I am embedding emotion into
- 11:46it. Actually, that is another language.
- 11:48It runs in parallel. So, being able to
- 11:49speak that language well is very
- 11:51valuable.
- 11:51But isn't emotion something misleading?
- 11:53I mean, for example, a guy commits a
- 11:54murder and says, "I was overcome by my
- 11:55emotions." So, isn't that something
- 11:57that should actually be kept under
- 11:58control?
- 11:59Very good, very good question. If a
- 12:01person is going to progress in a
- 12:02positive direction, being overcome by
- 12:04emotions is a very useful thing. Then
- 12:06there is a lot of flow. Then there is
- 12:07passion. Boundless creativity can
- 12:10emerge. But the opposite of such a
- 12:11powerful thing is, of course, just as
- 12:13destructive and negative. A person's
- 12:15risk-taking threshold is very important
- 12:17there. Now, the question you asked
- 12:18shows that you are someone who likes to
- 12:20keep their risk-taking threshold a bit
- 12:21lower. But we, as a society, must
- 12:23consider this. When we ask whether
- 12:27thoughts, emotions, or beliefs are more
- 12:29important for managing the masses, the
- 12:32answer is that the deeper a language is
- 12:34, the harder it is for the brain to
- 12:36escape its influence. That is why
- 12:40communication based on beliefs is
- 12:42always very sharp. It is also very
- 12:44sharp if used in a positive direction,
- 12:46which many leaders throughout history
- 12:47have experienced.
- 12:48Let's remind ourselves of something.
- 12:49You are using "belief" in a broad sense
- 12:51. Not Islam or Christianity.
- 12:52Of course. Belief as the brain's tool
- 12:54for holding on.
- 12:55It comes down to what Harari calls a
- 12:57story.
- 12:57Therefore, a story is more of a place
- 12:59between our beliefs and our emotions.
- 13:01The thing being told does not have to
- 13:02be logical. I mean, we say "once upon a
- 13:05time,""long ago." When we hear that
- 13:08Cinderella's carriage was a pumpkin,
- 13:10nobody says, "What is this nonsense?"
- 13:12Nobody abandoned the story right there.
- 13:13Do you see? In reality, it was not
- 13:15something suitable for our ideas, our
- 13:16minds, or our daily life practices.
- 13:18The suspension of disbelief. It exists
- 13:20in cinema, too, you know. The
- 13:21suspension of disbelief. Especially in
- 13:22these futuristic works. Now, when this
- 13:25disbelief is suspended, Ilker, if there
- 13:27is knowledge there, the person might
- 13:28not even engage with the part that
- 13:30would make them question it. That is
- 13:32why faith at that level is important
- 13:34here. We already talked about that. But
- 13:36emotion also corresponds a lot to this
- 13:38in daily life. Because when you first
- 13:40make contact with a person in daily
- 13:41life, you don't ask, "Brother, what are
- 13:42the things that connect you to this
- 13:44life?" and so on. You don't have a
- 13:45conversation with that level of detail.
- 13:46As our relationships become more
- 13:48superficial, the power of beliefs is
- 13:50transferred to emotions there. Because
- 13:53I have known you for, look, how many
- 13:54years. I like you a lot, too. We chat
- 13:56every time I come over. We keep up with
- 13:57each other and such, but for example, I
- 13:59don't need to dig into the beliefs that
- 14:01Ilker holds onto in life and so on.
- 14:02Meaning, we might not even feel the
- 14:04need for that. Because we are people
- 14:05who linger a lot at the thought level.
- 14:08Maybe we like each other from there
- 14:09through emotion. Now, if it's someone
- 14:11you don't like—even if they were the
- 14:13greatest scholar—I won't give
- 14:14examples, just say it while it's just
- 14:15us. With a person I like, even if their
- 14:17ideas are absurd, there is a tolerance
- 14:19there. So, it means that the
- 14:21idea-emotion combination is something
- 14:23we use more in daily life. The
- 14:25belief-emotion combination is something
- 14:27we use more in fanaticism and the like.
- 14:29So, what do we do?
- 14:30Believing that Fenerbahçe is the best
- 14:31team, for example.
- 14:32I mean, for instance, isn't it like
- 14:33this? It is.
- 14:34That is an illusion, of course; belief
- 14:36is an illusion. Everyone's mother is
- 14:38the best person in the world. We cannot
- 14:39live without these illusions. Then we
- 14:41would have psychological problems.
- 14:43Because the entire psyche is something
- 14:45built upon that. Or it's something that
- 14:47clings to it if it exists. Some believe
- 14:48it exists and cling to it. When we
- 14:49believe it is being constructed, it
- 14:51grows as we build a relationship with
- 14:52it.
- 14:52So, should I understand it this way?
- 14:54You see thought as the lowest level—
- 14:55or the highest, but at the same time,
- 14:57the most insignificant level.
- 14:58For instance, because it is the most
- 15:00fragile, it is something new and
- 15:01inexperienced. Humanity's experience
- 15:02with belief is vast, while the
- 15:04experience with emotions is slightly
- 15:06less, though still quite large. But
- 15:07experience with thought is scarce, if
- 15:09you notice. That is why many people
- 15:10emerge who can sing emotional,
- 15:11arabesque songs, but not that many
- 15:12philosophers can emerge. I mean, that
- 15:14is the reason for it. Because we have a
- 15:16lot of influence over one another when
- 15:17it comes to affecting our emotions. But
- 15:19the ability of someone to transform the
- 15:20thoughts of others—especially if
- 15:22it’s going to affect societal
- 15:23thoughts, right? We attribute it to
- 15:25something like, "That guy became a
- 15:26philosopher." Very good philosophers
- 15:28hold onto both thought and emotion. We
- 15:30start to experience something
- 15:31completely different there. I think
- 15:33there are good philosophers in history.
- 15:35They are very good at thought and very
- 15:37skillful at clashing these thoughts
- 15:38with other philosophers. And then there
- 15:40are those who hold onto emotion. I
- 15:41think those are the ones who become
- 15:42those things. They become milestones. I
- 15:44evaluate the issue of faith completely
- 15:45separately. I think they become
- 15:46something else entirely. They start
- 15:48becoming much more spiritual leaders
- 15:49and so on. It is not easy for that
- 15:51leadership to exist solely on a hollow
- 15:54belief. But the leader is under the
- 15:55obligation to descend to the
- 15:57consciousness level of their followers.
- 15:58That is why, in fact, the philosophical
- 16:00skill is very high, the intellectual
- 16:01world is very good, and access to
- 16:03emotions is very high. It is possible
- 16:05to manage very large masses by telling
- 16:06very simple things at the level of
- 16:07belief. Like this, for example. I mean,
- 16:103-5 stories can sweep across the whole
- 16:12world, or other examples of spiritual
- 16:13leaders can be given.
- 16:15There is a risk in what you are saying,
- 16:16of course. The risk of leaning towards
- 16:18anti-intellectualism. I mean, the idea
- 16:20that thought is not actually that
- 16:22important, and that internal emotions
- 16:24and feelings—in quotes—are more
- 16:26important, is a bit dangerous. I
- 16:28understand you.
- 16:29Yes, exactly. It is very easy to make
- 16:31an anti-intellectual defense after such
- 16:33information. That is exactly where I
- 16:35stand as well. I mean, if I weren't a
- 16:37scientist, if I were just someone who
- 16:39is nature-friendly, having some
- 16:40education of my own but not caring
- 16:42about it at all, more
- 16:43experience-oriented, then it would be
- 16:45as you say. That is exactly why those
- 16:47people feel the need for intellectual
- 16:49reduction after a point. Because their
- 16:51daily practices serve no purpose for
- 16:52them, and they are living a life that
- 16:54is very enjoyable and comfortable
- 16:55without it, as if it were the life
- 16:57promised to humans, as if it were what
- 16:58God intended. So, that is why there
- 17:00seems to be no intellectual need here.
- 17:02I agree with that completely. We always
- 17:04need to add a disclaimer right there.
- 17:06If thought is not added to it, then we
- 17:08have no chance of experiencing the
- 17:10development, change, and much-praised,
- 17:11advertised things that we have achieved
- 17:13today, but which I believe is
- 17:15transformation. I think the real
- 17:17trigger for that transformation today
- 17:19is thought. I mean, thought definitely
- 17:22has a triggering power.
- 17:23You could also call it an idea.
- 17:25Bravo. An idea isn't exactly a product
- 17:26of thought anyway. Emotion and feeling
- 17:28are also very close to each other. I
- 17:29mean, maybe we communicate with emotion
- 17:31. A feeling is the name of the data
- 17:33coming to us. These are parts of that
- 17:35ecosystem there. I think thought and
- 17:36idea have exactly that kind of
- 17:38relationship. That is why I say it is
- 17:39about understanding some subjects
- 17:41partially. Humans are very skilled
- 17:43beings. And that is why being singular
- 17:45is very troublesome. I mean, alone,
- 17:48from where I see, at least two people
- 17:50—humans see nearly 180 degrees on
- 17:53average. If two people face each other,
- 17:55we can start seeing 360 degrees. I mean
- 17:57, that possibility is there now. That
- 17:59is why, I think, that duality of coming
- 18:02together is called 'tawhid' in divine
- 18:04fields. There is such a risk in that
- 18:06singularity of the human. Either we
- 18:08follow thought, saying this is the
- 18:10highest level, casting aside
- 18:11fundamental, extraordinary things, or
- 18:13on the other hand, when we follow that
- 18:15idea or thought, the interaction breaks
- 18:17down. We are creatures that survive
- 18:19through interaction. That is why
- 18:21something like this was not selected in
- 18:22evolution. Meaning, it didn't happen
- 18:23like, "let the thinkers survive and the
- 18:25suitable ones go." So, these must also
- 18:27be a part of this process already. But
- 18:29on the contrary, the thinkers were not
- 18:31eliminated either. There is something
- 18:32like this in history. It is often
- 18:33mentioned in evolutionary biology. The
- 18:34brain grew significantly at one point.
- 18:35The reason for it was unknown. Yes. It
- 18:37is said that it was meat and such.
- 18:38Yes. Meat is said to be the reason for
- 18:40the brain's current growth as well. We
- 18:41have a gastronomic side. Our fondness
- 18:43for food is perhaps also evolutionary.
- 18:45Of course, being able to consume
- 18:46protein. That is why it is said that
- 18:48because we cook over fire, we can
- 18:50consume more protein when it is cooked.
- 18:52Actually, there is plant protein there
- 18:53as well. These are assumptions, of
- 18:54course, but I think they are very
- 18:55interesting assumptions. The subject of
- 18:57evolutionary biology and evolutionary
- 18:58gastronomy are all worth reading about.
- 19:00There is this idea of a step backward
- 19:02in the whole process, suggesting the
- 19:03brain grew a bit too much and didn't
- 19:05really need to grow that large. Two
- 19:07main reasons are cited for this. The
- 19:09first is that it consumes a lot of
- 19:11energy; currently, the brain consumes a
- 19:12quarter of our energy, or one out of
- 19:14every four bites. Even though it is 2%
- 19:15of the body.
- 19:16So, Professor, would I lose weight if I
- 19:18thought a lot? Thinking a lot doesn't
- 19:19necessarily make our brain work harder.
- 19:21I was just joking, but anyway.
- 19:23Well, I think it's a good joke. Do you
- 19:24know who actually loses the most weight
- 19:26? Those who are very indecisive, stuck
- 19:28in the middle, and don't know what to
- 19:29do. The brain consumes a lot of energy
- 19:30then. Because that is the only time
- 19:32energy consumption increases. Of course
- 19:33, would this be enough to lose weight?
- 19:34Because it depends on how quickly you
- 19:36close the caloric deficit it creates. I
- 19:38mean, the biggest problem with weight
- 19:40today isn't that the body can't lose it
- 19:41. It is that we can very quickly regain
- 19:43the caloric deficit we created between
- 19:45yesterday and today. Access to food has
- 19:47become very easy.
- 19:48Yes. Both access to food is easy and
- 19:49the available foods, the industrial
- 19:51ingredients, are very caloric.
- 19:52High-calorie ingredients.
- 19:53So it consumes energy, right?
- 19:54It consumes energy. That was the first
- 19:56one, İlkar. The second is that the
- 19:58larger the brain, the longer and more
- 20:00intensive parental care it needs. By
- 20:03size, I mean the brain-to-body ratio.
- 20:04We don't have the largest brain. As
- 20:06you'd appreciate, whales have brains
- 20:07weighing about 9 kilos, but...
- 20:08but the ratio to the body...
- 20:09We have the largest brain relative to
- 20:12the body, and while upright chimpanzees
- 20:14need parental care for up to 10 years,
- 20:17I suspect that if our brain mass
- 20:19increased by another 10%—assuming it
- 20:21grew from the frontal lobe—our need
- 20:23for parental care might reach our 30s.
- 20:26And for some people, it already does.
- 20:27Well, their problem lies more with
- 20:30their parents. Biology has done its
- 20:32best, but if parents don't provide the
- 20:34experiential space needed by biology,
- 20:36that frontal lobe doesn't develop. You
- 20:38end up hanging around your parents more
- 20:40to take advantage of their frontal lobe
- 20:41. But on the other hand, there is
- 20:42another necessity. When a brain is more
- 20:44developed, its problem-solving ability
- 20:47increases. Meaning, its intelligence
- 20:48increases. But like any intelligence,
- 20:50the ability to create problems also
- 20:51increases. When people are smarter,
- 20:54they need more mentoring. We have
- 20:56increased the time we spend exposing a
- 20:58smarter brain to a more experienced
- 21:00brain in order for it to survive in
- 21:01this life. And I think this is a very
- 21:04important point that shouldn't be
- 21:05overlooked. I mean, this is one of the
- 21:07optimum points. We can also add a third
- 21:09speculation. The third one is this.
- 21:11When we started thinking this much and
- 21:13became this intelligent, would our
- 21:15communication be as good? If I
- 21:18understood everything about you, knew
- 21:19everything about you, saw your back,
- 21:20and you saw my back, would we be able
- 21:22to be such good friends?
- 21:23There would be no need for us to talk.
- 21:24Yeah. There would be no need for us to
- 21:26talk. Besides, there might not even be
- 21:27a need for what we would say if we did
- 21:28talk. Because we have a different kind
- 21:29of expectation. Can we fall in love
- 21:31just by being this intelligent? The
- 21:33problem of not being able to fall in
- 21:34love is also obvious. I mean, when you
- 21:35can't fall in love, when you can't
- 21:36build good relationships, when you
- 21:37can't experience that passion, right?
- 21:39It's a huge problem in terms of the
- 21:40continuity of the lineage. Could we
- 21:41fall in love, I wonder? Like, I'm
- 21:42looking for someone who matches my
- 21:44intellect. That, you know, everyone,
- 21:45especially in the white-collar
- 21:47community that I hear among friends so
- 21:48often, "I can't choose, teach, our
- 21:50criteria have increased, teach," and so
- 21:52on. I think this is also a problem.
- 21:53Thought has such a drawback. That's why
- 21:56perhaps a healthy zone for a person at
- 21:58this stage is a version of a questioned
- 22:01life that can be lived without ignoring
- 22:03emotions. That's why the door of
- 22:05emotion is very important. In child
- 22:06development, we tell parents that in
- 22:08kindergarten, you should talk to your
- 22:10child. Because the child is
- 22:11experiencing the outside world for the
- 22:12first time. They come home, and so on.
- 22:13You say to them, "How was school?" Is
- 22:15this a university student? I mean, what
- 22:16are you going to ask the child? What
- 22:17happened at school? What caught your
- 22:19attention the most, and how did you
- 22:20feel at that moment? What do you think
- 22:22your friend felt? What do you think
- 22:23your teacher felt? You told this. What
- 22:25did I feel? You told this. I felt this.
- 22:27What did you feel? Like that. Look, you
- 22:29need to talk to a child through that
- 22:30language. That's one of the problems of
- 22:32this century. You know, there was
- 22:33something called "neuron, my dear." I
- 22:35mean, even a rural mother, the best
- 22:36parent, would ask, "What are you
- 22:38feeling?" That, "Mom, I felt sad, I
- 22:39felt happy," and the child would answer
- 22:41their mother accordingly. Instead of
- 22:42just sitting down and saying, "Ayşe's
- 22:44mother did this," there would be a
- 22:45sharing based more on feelings. This
- 22:47was developing our language of feelings
- 22:49, İlker. Right now, unfortunately, our
- 22:50language of feelings remains a bit
- 22:52buried. I think one of the methods of
- 22:54developing it is definitely close
- 22:55relationships.
- 22:56Therapists are very ambitious about
- 22:58this. Bravo to therapists. What I like
- 23:01most in therapy, and which we sometimes
- 23:03tease about among therapist friends, is
- 23:05that some therapy methods start
- 23:07specifically with "What do you feel?"
- 23:09They even pause like this. You know.
- 23:11How did this make you feel?
- 23:12What did this make you feel, and so on.
- 23:13If that language isn't very common, if
- 23:15a person isn't very used to this
- 23:16questioning in their daily life,
- 23:18sometimes they don't even know what
- 23:19they are feeling.
- 23:20And it can also seem very effeminate.
- 23:21Yeah. Yes. Now, it's also related to
- 23:24being emotional, isn't it? Crying when
- 23:26seeing something, etc. Are you an
- 23:27emotional person, by the way?
- 23:28They claim so, but some also say I am
- 23:30completely emotionless. I don't know.
- 23:32There is a borderline situation.
- 23:33I am in favor of keeping my emotions
- 23:34under control.
- 23:35Let's talk about that, too. I am an
- 23:36emotional person, for example.
- 23:37Sometimes, while watching a movie or
- 23:39something, I get into these antique
- 23:40things, meaning affect is at the
- 23:41forefront. I don't know if one should
- 23:43control this or not, but I enjoy it. So
- 23:46, contact with emotion first of all
- 23:47increases experience in that area.
- 23:49Being emotional all the time could be
- 23:50something else. That could also be a
- 23:52mood disorder. It might necessarily
- 23:54require psychiatric treatment or
- 23:55psychological support. But asking each
- 23:57other "what are you feeling" from as
- 23:59early an age as possible, and caring
- 24:01about what they feel. Because "what are
- 24:03you feeling?" It actually strengthens
- 24:05that language. Like, if the person
- 24:06opposite is English, I would understand
- 24:07them better if I knew English. The
- 24:08person opposite has a feeling. I wonder
- 24:10if we would understand each other
- 24:11better if I knew that feeling? It
- 24:12creates a necessity like that. The
- 24:14essential thing for us is not emotion
- 24:16control related to controlling this. It
- 24:19is impulse control. This is one of the
- 24:22interesting topics now. What we call an
- 24:24impulse is the trigger for behavior.
- 24:26Behaving is a very difficult thing, I
- 24:27mean. Come on, I mean, let's behave,
- 24:29let's take action. Of course, in the
- 24:32modern age, those procrastination
- 24:33illnesses and such stem from the
- 24:34frailty of those mechanisms. But if
- 24:36this becomes too extreme, then it could
- 24:38be an impulse control disorder, or
- 24:39things we call attention-deficit
- 24:41hyperactivity disorder. But actually,
- 24:42at the beginning of childhood, we are
- 24:44generally in act-act-act mode until a
- 24:46certain age, and then at some point,
- 24:47it's like, "act but you can't do that
- 24:49while your mother is here,""you can't
- 24:51do that here,""you can't do that in
- 24:52public," right? We shouldn't do
- 24:54everything that comes to mind. The
- 24:55place we call "what comes to mind" is
- 24:56those impulses. The limbic system is
- 24:58constantly pumping. For example, right
- 25:00now, as you sit there, the urge to just
- 25:02get up comes to you. You're standing
- 25:04there, like, "let me shake this
- 25:05microphone," you know, there are those
- 25:07annoying types who walk around and
- 25:08immediately touch things, that's the
- 25:09impulse, but some people—we call them
- 25:11adults. Adults can control their
- 25:13impulses. I mean, the person we call an
- 25:15adult is actually a person who can
- 25:17control their impulses. Now I'm going
- 25:19to tell you something very interesting.
- 25:20One of our impulses is this: the urge
- 25:21to constantly jump from my belief to my
- 25:23emotion, from my emotion to my thought,
- 25:25from my thought to my emotion, and from
- 25:26my emotion to my belief.
- 25:27That's overthinking.
- 25:28Nice. Then that topic of overthinking
- 25:31evolves into an endless loop. That is
- 25:34the mechanism within overthinking. I
- 25:35think of something, it makes me
- 25:36emotional. Emotions bring out new
- 25:38thoughts. Those thoughts trigger some
- 25:40of my beliefs, and so on. Within myself
- 25:42, of course, it's more accurate to call
- 25:43those that know no bounds. These are
- 25:45now heading toward a psychiatric
- 25:46illness. These are a group of neurotic
- 25:47illnesses. These are not
- 25:49hardware-related disorders. The patient
- 25:50is not seeing something that isn't
- 25:51there. Their ability to assess reality
- 25:53is not impaired. They know too. That's
- 25:54why saying "don't worry about it" and
- 25:55such isn't very useful, is it? After a
- 25:57certain level, there needs to be
- 25:58something structured for this.
- 26:00Schizophrenia is not like that though,
- 26:01right?
- 26:01Not at all, of course. Schizophrenia is
- 26:03definite, yes. Structural autism is not
- 26:04like that. Let's call it
- 26:06hardware-related, let's call it
- 26:07structural. They have their own
- 26:08justifications too. There is actually a
- 26:10price for the function that our
- 26:12existing hardware tries to exhibit.
- 26:14There is a price for being conscious.
- 26:16There is also a price for having a mind
- 26:18. The price of being conscious, I mean,
- 26:20the price of being in contact with that
- 26:21existing consciousness, of having
- 26:23self-consciousness, is psychosis, of
- 26:24course. I mean, it's
- 26:26Yes. I mean, we might lose touch with
- 26:29reality, getting lost within and the
- 26:30price of having a mind—I mean, of
- 26:32having an executive function—well,
- 26:34there might be errors here. That's
- 26:36neurosis right there. I mean,
- 26:37well, can a person go into extreme
- 26:39neurosis, then into psychosis, and then
- 26:41structurally break themselves? I mean,
- 26:43it's said there are very exceptional
- 26:45cases of this, but it's never something
- 26:47we can prove.
- 26:48Or it could be said for certain drugs.
- 26:50Yes. Some drugs can cause hardware
- 26:52issues. Absolutely, narcotics trigger
- 26:54psychosis. They can cause psychosis. We
- 26:55say that a person cannot do this to
- 26:57themselves. We reassure people about
- 26:59this. If there's anyone claiming it
- 27:01exists or if such situations arise,
- 27:02then the assumption that there's an
- 27:03underlying cause is much more appealing
- 27:05. Because these things can be hidden or
- 27:07tolerated during certain periods. Since
- 27:08they won't all be of the same intensity
- 27:10, there is an underlying basis.
- 27:11Something like "this kid read too many
- 27:12books and lost his mind" is not
- 27:14something to be afraid of. Let's be at
- 27:15ease about that.
- 27:16Correct. Therefore, I was going to tie
- 27:17it back to the beginning. It came from
- 27:18exhaustion.
- 27:19Yes. Yes. Let's move on to vacation.
- 27:21Is it possible to tire the brain out
- 27:22and break it?
- 27:23It's possible to tire and break it, but
- 27:24not every breakdown is psychosis. So,
- 27:25let's not evolve into psychosis. It is
- 27:27possible to disrupt the brain's flow of
- 27:29thought. For example, overthinking is
- 27:31possible. Staying sleep-deprived. I
- 27:32mean, it's possible to disrupt the
- 27:33brain's ability to switch from one mode
- 27:35to another. Damaging our memory. These
- 27:38can be broken due to wrong practices in
- 27:40our daily lives. Now, you and I will
- 27:43talk about memory, sleep, and such in
- 27:45future episodes. Because we want to
- 27:47discuss them in detail as well. Because
- 27:48we've received great feedback about
- 27:50that. Let's state it in general terms.
- 27:51First of all, what we call emotion is
- 27:53temporary. The most important vacation
- 27:55a person can give themselves. Is the
- 27:58time they spend waiting for an emotion
- 28:01to pass when it arises. Then there is
- 28:03no emotional abuse. Ah, sometimes we
- 28:06all want to get carried away by an
- 28:07emotion—like something we love—and
- 28:09we want to follow it. I accept that,
- 28:11but if we make this a habit, it becomes
- 28:13a control issue. Well,
- 28:14to give an example, is it like this?
- 28:15An anger comes. A sadness comes. We
- 28:18wait. We experienced something, we wait
- 28:20. I think this waiting is the most
- 28:22important vacation a person can give
- 28:23themselves. That's one. Second, look,
- 28:25I'll tell you something interesting.
- 28:26Being able to wait within a thought.
- 28:30Our most intellectual vacation. If I
- 28:31wait for an emotion to pass when it
- 28:33comes, that's a vacation. If I wait for
- 28:35a thought to brew within that thought,
- 28:37that's a vacation. Because a thought is
- 28:39something that needs to be matured. An
- 28:40emotion is not like that. You see,
- 28:41emotion is actually effective but it's
- 28:43a superficial language. Thought seems
- 28:45to have relatively less impact, but as
- 28:47it deepens, it's a language we can use
- 28:50more effectively by incorporating the
- 28:52others. Also, I'll suggest one more
- 28:54vacation. When we experience a belief
- 28:57conflict, holding onto the knowledge
- 28:59that beliefs can change—that's also a
- 29:02very important vacation. Our brain has
- 29:04three vacations. Beliefs can change. An
- 29:07emotion can pass, a thought needs to
- 29:10brew. All of these require a vacation.
- 29:12That is what I call a vacation. You
- 29:13always tell me, Kerem, that you don't
- 29:14really like vacations and such. And for
- 29:16years, I've been telling myself, "Well,
- 29:17I don't really like vacations." Because
- 29:19when we think of vacation, our minds
- 29:21immediately go to five-star hotels,
- 29:22all-inclusive buffets, and things like
- 29:24that, so understandably, people might
- 29:26not enjoy such a routine, but if this
- 29:27vacation is offered throughout the day
- 29:30actually, doing something else might
- 29:32just be a vacation. That's a bit of
- 29:33what you're saying. Stepping out of the
- 29:34routine
- 29:35I don't think that's the kind of
- 29:37vacation we are asking for. Sometimes,
- 29:40being rooted, or routines, are actually
- 29:42a very good vacation too. People can
- 29:44sometimes rest in routine as well.
- 29:46You rest there.
- 29:46I mean. Yes. I mean, it doesn't have to
- 29:48be like "I have to do something
- 29:49completely different," but I'm sure
- 29:51doing something else has value too. I
- 29:53think it's necessary for transformation
- 29:54. It's not necessary for resting, but
- 29:56for transforming, it is. So, let's call
- 29:58it a real vacation, a transformative
- 29:59vacation. I hadn't thought of it, but
- 30:01let's make it up here. Yes, let's call
- 30:02this a transformative vacation. Let's
- 30:04call the others restorative vacations.
- 30:06We try to experience both together at
- 30:08an all-inclusive hotel. We want both to
- 30:09transform and to rest. Those two might
- 30:11not go well together. Our assumption in
- 30:13transformative vacations is trying
- 30:15something new. I think those vacations
- 30:17definitely require restorative rest at
- 30:19the end. I mean, a real transformative
- 30:22vacation must be very tiring. Because a
- 30:24new experience means something that our
- 30:26existing brain potential isn't enough
- 30:28for. So, what do we need to do? We will
- 30:30activate new neurons. We will activate
- 30:32new pathways. We will thicken some
- 30:34pathways. This is an exhausting thing.
- 30:35That's why it's beneficial for those
- 30:37things we call transformative vacations
- 30:39to be tiring. But not everyone might
- 30:40have the means for such a vacation.
- 30:42Waiting for a certain time of the year
- 30:44for this might not be appropriate
- 30:45either. Having a perception of vacation
- 30:48through new experiences in one's daily
- 30:50life. For example, I came here today
- 30:51with something else in mind. I always
- 30:52look at it like this. There is a
- 30:53constant update here as well.
- 30:55It is constantly changing.
- 30:56Yes. Yes. Your understanding of a
- 30:58transformative vacation has already
- 30:59been moved into the company. When this
- 31:02is so separated, employees waiting for
- 31:04a vacation, people waiting to rest—
- 31:07then I think it contradicts the
- 31:09sustainability of the current universe
- 31:11model we are experiencing, the fact
- 31:14that every moment is very meaningful.
- 31:17This disrupts the existing meaning.
- 31:19Meaning doesn't become a homogeneous
- 31:20thing; it causes us to experience a
- 31:22non-homogeneous life where some parts
- 31:24of our lives are full of meaning and
- 31:26others are very meaningless. Instead of
- 31:28evaluating it that way, sometimes I
- 31:29will pause, sometimes I will wait for
- 31:31it to brew, sometimes I will wait for
- 31:33it to pass, sometimes I will have
- 31:34patience for its changeability—that
- 31:36knowledge. These seem to me like things
- 31:39we can experience at any moment anyway.
- 31:41Let's include the transformative
- 31:42experience in this too. I am going to
- 31:44give a romantic example now. Taxi
- 31:46drivers are always the example for this
- 31:47. They might have a headache too.
- 31:48I was once stuck with the taxi driver
- 31:50example.
- 31:51Is that so? Then let's overcome that
- 31:53wretched fate and switch the example.
- 31:54Going and chatting with a taxi driver,
- 31:56for instance, can be a completely
- 31:57different experience. Because a new
- 31:59person and that completely different
- 32:00experience can have a transformative
- 32:01quality in your life.
- 32:02I mean, it won't happen 90%of the time,
- 32:04but it could.
- 32:04You hold such an endearing prejudice
- 32:06against our local shopkeepers; it's
- 32:08very sweet. Actually, I’m going to
- 32:10add a caveat here. I believe everyone
- 32:13possesses knowledge that could
- 32:14transform us, but do we open ourselves
- 32:16to the knowledge we have that could
- 32:18transform them? This is called having a
- 32:20conversation. Now, being able to hold a
- 32:23good conversation might be the best
- 32:25vacation tool a person can provide for
- 32:27themselves.
- 32:28Actually, instead of "sohbet," the word
- 32:29"muhabbet"
- 32:30is lovely. I liked "muhabbet" too. I
- 32:32call this "sohbet." I mean, muhabbet,
- 32:33sohbet.
- 32:34I separate the two. Yes.
- 32:35Tell me your distinction. Let me know
- 32:37which side I fall on.
- 32:38Yeah. "Muhabbet" feels like something
- 32:40closer. It’s something open in the
- 32:41sense you mean.
- 32:42Muhabbet is more heart-to-heart.
- 32:43Oruç Aruoba used to call this "
- 32:45murmuring."
- 32:46Like small talk? In English?
- 32:49Not to defeat the other side or to
- 32:51prove one's existence, but to truly
- 32:53talk and share.
- 32:55Yes. Then, let’s commemorate our dear
- 32:57Oruç teacher. If he says so, let it be
- 32:59a signal for us, too. One could call it
- 33:02something very soul-to-soul. Right now,
- 33:04we are talking about this as if it's
- 33:05very brain-oriented. I, too, admit I
- 33:07have evaluated it that way for years.
- 33:09This is what I am discovering now. This
- 33:11is much more experiential knowledge. We
- 33:13aren't ignoring our brains. Our brain
- 33:14is certainly part of the process.
- 33:16Because the brain increases the quality
- 33:18of that communication. And sometimes it
- 33:19ruins its quality. Perhaps the
- 33:21investment that needs to be made in the
- 33:23brain should be at a level that
- 33:24increases the quality of our
- 33:25conversations. If our thought content
- 33:28is at a level that increases the
- 33:30fluidity of our chats and "muhabbets"
- 33:33as you say, I think any kind of
- 33:35thinking might actually enhance human
- 33:37interaction. Experiencing life not just
- 33:40through our emotions, but through
- 33:42something we've thought through with
- 33:44our minds, will undoubtedly be richer.
- 33:47However, this has a learning process.
- 33:49Meaning
- 33:49our teacher is talking about a
- 33:50different kind of vacation concept. Of
- 33:52course, of course. When we say "let's
- 33:53take our brains on vacation," it’s a
- 33:55distinction like going to a five-star
- 33:57hotel or a boutique hotel in Göcek. I
- 33:58think that’s not bad either.
- 34:00Sometimes I crave the other side, you
- 34:02know, all-inclusive and such. Since my
- 34:03life has been accompanied by intense
- 34:05conversations, ever since I started
- 34:06going to those places, I’ve preferred
- 34:08boutique-style as much as possible. But
- 34:10we shouldn't forget that this is
- 34:11marketing. Let’s talk about marketing
- 34:13. At the risk of getting beaten up.
- 34:15Marketing finds the places you desire
- 34:18and where you’ll feel good. It
- 34:20immediately categorizes you as a
- 34:22customer. That’s why I won’t say
- 34:24those who go to five-star hotels are
- 34:25good, or the others are something else,
- 34:26or the others are very intellectual,
- 34:27and so on. Everyone has a marketer or
- 34:30an ad agency, and I can't feel
- 34:32comfortable saying, "I am the organic
- 34:34consumer customer corresponding to that
- 34:36." I mean, I say, "Someone is
- 34:38definitely courting me there right now.
- 34:39" I might even be spending too much
- 34:41money. Because I’m asking for special
- 34:42service.
- 34:43Anyway, let me ask something. It’s
- 34:44hard to answer, but it’s possible to
- 34:46be mistaken in thought. Most of the
- 34:48time, you are mistaken in your thoughts
- 34:49. You even move forward by making
- 34:50mistakes, right? But there is no being
- 34:52mistaken in emotion, I suppose. Could
- 34:53there be?
- 34:53I don’t agree with that. I think
- 34:55there is a lot of delusion in emotions.
- 34:56But it feels real. Or rather, the
- 34:58effects it creates in you are real.
- 35:01But let's state something accurate now.
- 35:03For instance, let's exaggerate this a
- 35:04bit so everyone understands. Take panic
- 35:06attacks, for example. Under normal
- 35:08circumstances, nothing will happen to
- 35:09them. They think if they cross the
- 35:11bridge, they will die. For example, the
- 35:121 million people who cross that bridge
- 35:14aren't a reference for them. They say,
- 35:16"I will be the 1,000,001 st."
- 35:18And they think, "I will be the one,
- 35:19I'll fall and make the news," and they
- 35:21get very emotional. They get angry,
- 35:23scared, panicked, feel a fear of death,
- 35:25and so on. We can't call these
- 35:26realistic now. We all have a more
- 35:28diluted version of this. That's why it
- 35:30wouldn't seem absurd to me to say that
- 35:32thoughts evolved because emotions are
- 35:34in need of such control. I mean, we
- 35:37could say the combination of emotion
- 35:39and thought is better than thought
- 35:40alone, and better than emotion alone.
- 35:43So, Professor, what should we do?
- 35:44Should we go on vacation? I mean,
- 35:45I think, especially with the holiday
- 35:47season approaching, for those going on
- 35:49vacation, let's definitely look at
- 35:51these, let's think about them. Because
- 35:53for a vacation to be a vacation, it
- 35:54must contain these qualities.
- 35:56Experiences where we develop insight or
- 35:59transform, but also moments where we
- 36:02don't shy away from just waiting or
- 36:05stopping. A vacation taken with the
- 36:07body will not replace a vacation within
- 36:09the mind. That's why I say let's keep
- 36:12talking about resting the mind.
- 36:15Like Csikszentmihalyi's flow, when I'm
- 36:17in flow, I'm actually resting. And as
- 36:19you said, you don't necessarily need to
- 36:21go somewhere for that.
- 36:22Ilker, shall I tell you something?
- 36:23Let's measure it together. Truly, most
- 36:25people who go on vacation might not be
- 36:27resting at all, in that sense. I'm not
- 36:29talking about physical fatigue. No
- 36:32place where our mind doesn't rest can
- 36:34be a place where our body resting makes
- 36:35us happy and peaceful. So, our
- 36:39understanding of vacation here
- 36:40shouldn't be nonsensical; it needs to
- 36:41be about a mental vacation. We've
- 36:44talked about a nervous system vacation.
- 36:45One last thing. Does social media tire
- 36:48the brain more? I mean, is the human of
- 36:50today mentally more tired than the one
- 36:5230 years ago? Excessive stimuli
- 36:54definitely tire our brains out a lot.
- 36:56But this excessive stimulus, for
- 36:57example, you like playing the drums.
- 36:59There is excessive stimulus there, too.
- 37:00I mean, the stimuli were wild there as
- 37:02well. If there is harmony there, then
- 37:04that excessive stimulus doesn't become
- 37:06"excessive" for you. Because it hits
- 37:09the right keys.
- 37:10A forest is also an excessive stimulus.
- 37:12But when we go to the forest, we don't
- 37:14get hammered like we do on social media
- 37:15. That's why I think there is a problem
- 37:17with imbalance there. Since you are a
- 37:20part of this balance, a balance you are
- 37:21included in, I don't think we have a
- 37:23problem with excessive stimuli. It can
- 37:26be richer, which might be good for a
- 37:27person. But social media is an
- 37:29unbalanced stimulus. We are constantly
- 37:31in motion. Things are constantly
- 37:33changing before our eyes, and these are
- 37:35things that are very relevant to us. We
- 37:37have a phone in our hand that
- 37:39constantly provokes, harasses, and
- 37:40defines us by looking at our likes and
- 37:42unlikes, and it feels as if we are
- 37:44under its surveillance. This feeling is
- 37:47already very exhausting.
- 37:48Then let's make a suggestion to our
- 37:49viewers. Close this video. Close
- 37:52YouTube. Turn off your phone and take a
- 37:54digital detox for a while, as is
- 37:55happening all over the world and in our
- 37:57country too—which I get invited to
- 37:58from time to time. Professor, we have a
- 38:01digital detox camp. You have shares in
- 38:02it, too.
- 38:02I did that camp in Silivri, Professor.
- 38:05You got it for free, of course, that's
- 38:08why.
- 38:08Jokes aside, it did me good.
- 38:10We have built a world where a digital
- 38:12detox has become a luxury. What is
- 38:14right or wrong is a separate
- 38:16conversation, but that's why one should
- 38:18make the most of that luxury when
- 38:20accessible. We should just say this
- 38:22video is over, close it, and go.
- 38:23I think it's time to say goodbye.
- 38:24See you.
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