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Best 30 Minute Investment: (L)earning Christ- Habits That B.L.E.S.S, Part 3 — Transcript

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  1. 0:00All right, good morning to everyone and
  2. 0:02welcome to the well here at STSA. So
  3. 0:05great to see all of you here on this
  4. 0:07beautiful feast day of extra hour of
  5. 0:09sleep, the greatest day of the entire
  6. 0:11year if you ask me, in my opinion. And
  7. 0:14we're also those welcome to also those
  8. 0:16who are joining us on the other side of
  9. 0:17the camera, our friends in Leesburg, as
  10. 0:19well as all the network of churches that
  11. 0:20are streaming us here today. We are in
  12. 0:23part three of a series called habits
  13. 0:26that bless. And the whole purpose of
  14. 0:28this series, something that you and I
  15. 0:30know all too well, is that this pace of
  16. 0:32the life that's around us, the pace of
  17. 0:35the hurry, the busy, the distraction, we
  18. 0:37are pushing back against that in this
  19. 0:39series. Because what we've agreed from
  20. 0:41the very start is that the rush, the
  21. 0:43hurry, like our goal is not just to get
  22. 0:46through life, our goal is to live a
  23. 0:48meaningful life, a purposeful life. Our
  24. 0:52goal is to find the ability to have the
  25. 0:54ability to be able to connect deeply
  26. 0:58with God and one another.
  27. 1:01To be able to focus and be present when
  28. 1:03it matters most.
  29. 1:05And the number one enemy of all those
  30. 1:06things is the rush and the busy and the
  31. 1:08distraction. Because what we agreed is
  32. 1:10the faster we move through life, the
  33. 1:11more superficial our lives become. The
  34. 1:13faster we move through life, the more
  35. 1:15superficial our lives become. Repeat
  36. 1:17after me, the faster we move through
  37. 1:19life,
  38. 1:21the more superficial our lives become.
  39. 1:26The number one enemy of a meaningful
  40. 1:27life is not the devil.
  41. 1:30It's not the TV. It's not your phone.
  42. 1:32It's not AI. It's not the news. It's not
  43. 1:35the president or the It's not none of
  44. 1:37those things. The number one enemy of
  45. 1:39you living a meaningful life is the
  46. 1:42pace,
  47. 1:43the busy, the hurry, the distraction.
  48. 1:48And the worst part is that especially in
  49. 1:50the time that we live in in the area
  50. 1:52that we live in, not only do we not see
  51. 1:54it as a danger, we actually like let's
  52. 1:57to honest. We talked about this in the
  53. 1:59first week. We view busyness as a badge
  54. 2:02of honor.
  55. 2:03We love saying how busy we are, how it's
  56. 2:05a busy time of year, how we got so many
  57. 2:07meetings, and it's just a heck I can't
  58. 2:09tell you the number of text messages
  59. 2:11that I get when I say, "Hey, hey, I
  60. 2:12haven't seen you in a while. I missed
  61. 2:13you." It's a hectic time. Okay, it can't
  62. 2:15always be a hectic time. If it's a
  63. 2:17hectic time all the time, then you're
  64. 2:18just a hectic person. Like, it's not a
  65. 2:20hectic time. You're just a chaotic
  66. 2:22person. You're a chaotic family. You
  67. 2:24have no boundaries and no priorities if
  68. 2:26it's always chaos and it's always busy.
  69. 2:29The worst part is we see it as a badge
  70. 2:31of honor.
  71. 2:32Oh, I'm so busy. I'm moving going from
  72. 2:34here to there. My calendar is so full.
  73. 2:36And you know what? I'll tell you an
  74. 2:37area, I got to be honest right here, no
  75. 2:39one be offended, one area that I see
  76. 2:41this so obviously today, and it's it's a
  77. 2:44blind spot for so many of us is parents.
  78. 2:47With our children.
  79. 2:49It's Oh, my my my it's just a busy time
  80. 2:51with the kids. I don't have time for
  81. 2:52that. Where's my kid takes, you know,
  82. 2:54French class on Mondays and then piano
  83. 2:56on Tuesdays, and then I got travel
  84. 2:58soccer, this and that. And then, you
  85. 3:00know, got a underwater basket weaving
  86. 3:02degree. Like, whatever it may be. Like,
  87. 3:05I I I
  88. 3:06And we think it's the we think more is
  89. 3:08better.
  90. 3:09And we think the faster we go, the
  91. 3:11quicker we get to
  92. 3:14We don't even know where we're going,
  93. 3:15but we know we're going to be there
  94. 3:15first. We know we're we're IN A RUSH TO
  95. 3:18GET wherever there may be.
  96. 3:21And the Gold series is to push back and
  97. 3:23say no.
  98. 3:25I reject a superficial life.
  99. 3:28Raise your hand if you're with me. Say,
  100. 3:29"I reject a superficial life." Raise
  101. 3:30your hand. Who rejects a superficial
  102. 3:32life? I reject a superficial life. I
  103. 3:34don't want a superficial life. I want a
  104. 3:35meaningful life. I want meaningful
  105. 3:37connection with my children. I don't
  106. 3:39want them just to be in a million
  107. 3:40activities. I'd rather one or two with
  108. 3:42meaning. I want a meaning I want to be
  109. 3:44able to pray. I want to be able to stand
  110. 3:46in front of God and not after 2 seconds
  111. 3:48I've lost my focus. I want to be able to
  112. 3:50come to church without having check my
  113. 3:51phone. I want to be able to have a
  114. 3:53meaningful conversation with my spouse,
  115. 3:55take a walk with my spouse. And if I
  116. 3:56don't have time to do those things, and
  117. 3:58I'm too busy to those do those things,
  118. 4:00come on.
  119. 4:01The superficiality, the busyness. No, we
  120. 4:04reject it. We got to be intentional. And
  121. 4:06that's why what we're doing in this
  122. 4:07series is we are looking at five habits
  123. 4:10that all of them take time. They take
  124. 4:13time, but they are habits that going to
  125. 4:15lead us towards an intentional,
  126. 4:18meaningful, deep, connected life. So,
  127. 4:21they're worth the time.
  128. 4:22They're worth setting aside some of the
  129. 4:24other busyness cuz we say we're taking a
  130. 4:26step back, no matter what age you are.
  131. 4:27If you're 25 or 35 or 45 or 55, doesn't
  132. 4:31matter. Whatever age you are, we're
  133. 4:32looking at it and we're saying, "I don't
  134. 4:34want to just be on the escalator of
  135. 4:36life. I don't want to be just on the
  136. 4:37merry-go-round of life. I want to be
  137. 4:39intentional. And why I want to be I want
  138. 4:41to do things that have meaning. So,
  139. 4:43we're looking at five habits, and we're
  140. 4:45calling them habits that bless cuz it's
  141. 4:46an acronym, but it's also has meaning.
  142. 4:48That if you do these habits, I guarantee
  143. 4:50you your life will be a blessed life.
  144. 4:55The first week,
  145. 4:56last week's the habit number one. I
  146. 4:58heard great stories about people
  147. 5:01blessing others. Life groups blessing
  148. 5:04others. Okay, I heard things about
  149. 5:06people sending encouraging notes and
  150. 5:08encouraging text messages. And every
  151. 5:10single person told me that the response
  152. 5:12was, "You can't believe the perfect
  153. 5:14timing of that. How I needed to hear
  154. 5:16that today." I If I I'm telling you, I
  155. 5:17heard 10 times something like that. I
  156. 5:20know several I want to ask for a show of
  157. 5:21hands, but I know several volunteer
  158. 5:23teams that were blessed this week. Okay,
  159. 5:26where certain life groups like my
  160. 5:28particular life group said there's a
  161. 5:29certain team in the church that they
  162. 5:31feel is un-
  163. 5:33uh unappreciated. So, they said, "We're
  164. 5:34going to bless that week." And I know
  165. 5:36and you know there was lots of hugs this
  166. 5:38week after last week. I know there was
  167. 5:40lots of hugs. And I saw people Actually,
  168. 5:42some people taught me about a few more
  169. 5:44types of hugs that I didn't talk about
  170. 5:45last week. So, I'll incorporate that
  171. 5:47into the curriculum next time that we do
  172. 5:49this.
  173. 5:51I even heard, this is true, in case you
  174. 5:54see the I even heard a story
  175. 5:57about a teenager
  176. 5:59doing the dishes at home.
  177. 6:02Can you believe that?
  178. 6:04Can you believe that?
  179. 6:06People, we see we may not listen to but
  180. 6:09a teenager went and did dishes at home.
  181. 6:11The parents were going to call the
  182. 6:12police but they said to call me instead.
  183. 6:15I'll show you how much the blessing
  184. 6:17spread. The blessings were everywhere
  185. 6:19including I told you guys last week no
  186. 6:22one is allowed to bless me. That doesn't
  187. 6:23count. I feel the most blessed and I
  188. 6:25everyone encouraged me and I get more
  189. 6:27support than anyone on the planet. So I
  190. 6:29said no one is allowed to bless me.
  191. 6:31But some nice people decided to bless me
  192. 6:34and bless my home last night.
  193. 6:36I went to Vespers last night in Leesburg
  194. 6:38and I came home.
  195. 6:41And this is what I saw at my house.
  196. 6:44That's toilet paper ladies and
  197. 6:46gentlemen. My house got
  198. 6:49TP'd.
  199. 6:51I guess this is what happens when you go
  200. 6:53to Vespers like a good priest and then
  201. 6:54you don't have the candy out for the
  202. 6:56kids on Halloween. The kids came and
  203. 6:58blessed my home so I was very
  204. 7:01appreciative of that wonderful blessing.
  205. 7:05Other than this blessing
  206. 7:09I think and you agree with me that
  207. 7:11nothing is better than when we take time
  208. 7:14to appreciate one another, to love one
  209. 7:16another, to encourage one another. As a
  210. 7:18father like you as parents there's
  211. 7:20nothing you want more than to see your
  212. 7:21children loving each other and caring
  213. 7:23about each other. I feel that same way
  214. 7:25as a priest and I know God looks down on
  215. 7:26us and says the same thing.
  216. 7:28So because that was so great we don't
  217. 7:31want that just to be a one week thing.
  218. 7:32You agree you want that to keep going.
  219. 7:35So here's what we're going to do.
  220. 7:36I want you right now. I want everyone to
  221. 7:38turn to their neighbor. Turn to two
  222. 7:40neighbors. High five someone and say I'm
  223. 7:42glad you're in church today. Let's go.
  224. 7:44High five two people. Say I'm glad
  225. 7:45you're in church today. High five. There
  226. 7:47you go. There you go. I like it. High
  227. 7:49fives all around. Very good. Very good.
  228. 7:53All right. I love it. THAT'S HOW YOU DO
  229. 7:55CHURCH LADIES AND GENTLEMEN. I LOVE IT.
  230. 7:57OKAY, look at me again. Stop that now.
  231. 7:58Look at me. Stop talking at each other.
  232. 8:00Look at me. Look at me. Look at me.
  233. 8:02Okay?
  234. 8:03Last thing I gave you hugs today made
  235. 8:04easier with the high fives.
  236. 8:07That's how you do church, ladies and
  237. 8:09gentlemen. The easiest way to receive a
  238. 8:11blessing is to give a blessing. The
  239. 8:14easiest way to receive a blessing, which
  240. 8:16we all want, is to give a blessing. And
  241. 8:17my hope and my prayer is that this is
  242. 8:19not was not just a one-week thing. The
  243. 8:21whole point is I don't want to just be
  244. 8:23blessed for one week. I want to keep
  245. 8:25that going. So, we're going to move on
  246. 8:26to habit number two. But, we're going to
  247. 8:28keep this one going. We're going to
  248. 8:30continue to keep the principle in mind
  249. 8:32that it is more blessed to give than to
  250. 8:33receive. That the generous soul will
  251. 8:35always be made rich. We're going to keep
  252. 8:36that in mind. That we want to be
  253. 8:38blessed, we will bless others. Sound
  254. 8:40good? Now, we're going to go to habit
  255. 8:41number two.
  256. 8:43Habit number two is the opposite end of
  257. 8:44the spectrum.
  258. 8:48Habit number two has nothing to do with
  259. 8:50anyone else except yourself.
  260. 8:53Habit number one was care about others,
  261. 8:55love others, encourage others, be a
  262. 8:57blessing to others. Habit number two is
  263. 8:59100% selfish.
  264. 9:02100% just you.
  265. 9:04But, I believe that without this habit,
  266. 9:06you cannot be like Christ.
  267. 9:09Because if you look at the life of
  268. 9:10Christ, Christ was always blessing
  269. 9:13others, always caring about others. He
  270. 9:16was healing people, he was preaching, he
  271. 9:18was washing feet. He was always for
  272. 9:20others. But, he wasn't always for
  273. 9:22others.
  274. 9:23If you look carefully at the gospels,
  275. 9:25what you will see is that Jesus would be
  276. 9:28out with the multitudes. And then what
  277. 9:30would he do after that?
  278. 9:32He would retreat and be alone.
  279. 9:35And then he would preach in front of the
  280. 9:37masses.
  281. 9:39And then he would take time to be with
  282. 9:40his heavenly father with no one else
  283. 9:42around.
  284. 9:43If you study the gospels, you will see
  285. 9:45that Jesus was constantly playing this
  286. 9:47game. With the crowds, alone. With the
  287. 9:50people, retreat. He was constantly doing
  288. 9:52this. And what we're going to do,
  289. 9:55habit number two, is the same thing. And
  290. 9:57the L for us stands for learn Christ.
  291. 10:01Learn Christ. Now, this is an expression
  292. 10:05that we don't hear much today. You hear
  293. 10:07it in the Bible. Saint Paul at one point
  294. 10:08says, "You have not so learned Christ."
  295. 10:10It was actually a common expression in
  296. 10:12the early church.
  297. 10:14We think of the early church, we always
  298. 10:17think of like Pentecost Sunday where
  299. 10:19Peter preached, 3,000 people repented
  300. 10:23and joined and were baptized and we're
  301. 10:24like, "That's great. They heard, they
  302. 10:26accepted, they were baptized, and they
  303. 10:28were done."
  304. 10:31The truth is there was much more to
  305. 10:33being a Christian in the early church
  306. 10:35than just being baptized, just accepting
  307. 10:37and believing and being baptized. There
  308. 10:39was this whole idea of growth,
  309. 10:42of maturing, of yes, it was great come
  310. 10:45as you are, but you should not leave as
  311. 10:47you came.
  312. 10:49That was that was the way in the early
  313. 10:50church.
  314. 10:52And we want to incorporate that into our
  315. 10:54lives as well. Believe is great, accept
  316. 10:56is great, being born is great.
  317. 11:00But if there's no growing up and there's
  318. 11:02no maturing and there's no deepening,
  319. 11:06then we're in a problem.
  320. 11:07Second Peter chapter 3, verse 17 and 18,
  321. 11:10Saint Peter says this, "You therefore,
  322. 11:11beloved, beware." And whatever the Bible
  323. 11:14says beware, we should
  324. 11:17beware.
  325. 11:19"Beware, lest you fall from your own
  326. 11:21steadfastness being led away with the
  327. 11:23error of the wicked. Beware lest you
  328. 11:25fall by being led away." Okay, what what
  329. 11:27What do we do? We don't want to fall. He
  330. 11:29says number number He says right after.
  331. 11:31He says, "But grow in the grace and
  332. 11:33knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus
  333. 11:35Christ." How do I protect myself from
  334. 11:37falling away?
  335. 11:39Is by growing closer. Like the best
  336. 11:41defense is always a good offense. How do
  337. 11:42I protect myself from growing away from
  338. 11:45my wife? By growing in my love for my
  339. 11:47wife. How do I protect myself from just
  340. 11:49being a spiritual infant and falling
  341. 11:52away? By deepening my faith. And that's
  342. 11:54the expression called learning Christ.
  343. 11:57Again, let's go back to the early
  344. 11:58church. When Christians When people
  345. 12:00would join Christianity in the early
  346. 12:01church, they would go through a process.
  347. 12:03It was Yes, it was like they would they
  348. 12:05would preach and some people would
  349. 12:06repent and be baptized and believe and
  350. 12:08that was great. But the usual process
  351. 12:11was when someone wanted to learn about
  352. 12:13the faith and become part of the church,
  353. 12:15they would go through a process called
  354. 12:17catechism. Okay, we here in this church
  355. 12:19call it membership group, same concept.
  356. 12:21The idea of of learning what it is that
  357. 12:24you're joining. And the way they would
  358. 12:26do it was they would take a period of 40
  359. 12:28days. It was during Lent. That's
  360. 12:29actually where the original Lent fast
  361. 12:31came from. It was a fast for the people
  362. 12:33who were joining the church and the rest
  363. 12:34of the church would fast with them
  364. 12:36because we were one body.
  365. 12:37So, people would join the church by
  366. 12:39going through this 40-day period of
  367. 12:42learning Christ. Now, when I say 40
  368. 12:45days, you're thinking like today, you're
  369. 12:47like, "Wow, 40 days? It was probably
  370. 12:49like an hour class every night from like
  371. 12:517:00 to 8:00 or something like that."
  372. 12:53And maybe you like you missed a few here
  373. 12:54and there. Probably there was like a
  374. 12:55Zoom option something. No, no, no, no,
  375. 12:57no. It wasn't 40 days. It wasn't 40
  376. 12:59hours. It was 40 days of all day every
  377. 13:01day.
  378. 13:02What they would do during those 40 days,
  379. 13:03they would not only learn the entire
  380. 13:04faith, they would learn the entire
  381. 13:06Bible.
  382. 13:07They would teach or read the entire
  383. 13:09Bible. Now, with that said, the Bible
  384. 13:11they had isn't the same as the Bible we
  385. 13:13have. They didn't have the New
  386. 13:14Testament, they had the Old Testament.
  387. 13:15BUT THE OLD TESTAMENT'S LIKE 75% OF IT.
  388. 13:17SO, COME ON. In 40 days, they learned
  389. 13:20the whole Bible. Some of us, there's no
  390. 13:21judgment here. Some of us in 40 years,
  391. 13:24we haven't read the whole Bible.
  392. 13:26They in 40 days.
  393. 13:29But [clears throat] they did that. They
  394. 13:30were coming to church every day for
  395. 13:32teaching, for prayers, for learning
  396. 13:35Christ, and for understanding what it is
  397. 13:37that they're joining.
  398. 13:38Compare that to the path that most of us
  399. 13:43took to get here today. And again, I'm
  400. 13:45not judging anyone. But most of us, we
  401. 13:47were born into the faith.
  402. 13:49We did nothing to be here.
  403. 13:51The most that we have, like if I say,
  404. 13:53"Your education in the faith." Most of
  405. 13:55us
  406. 13:56Most of us would point to Sunday school,
  407. 13:5845 minutes
  408. 14:00a week that we skipped every now and
  409. 14:02then, okay? And most of the 45 minutes
  410. 14:04for me was Uncle Girgis chasing me
  411. 14:05around the parking lot to get me going
  412. 14:07in the class.
  413. 14:08SO, COMPARE THAT WHAT WE had when we
  414. 14:11don't remember anything compared to what
  415. 14:13they had. And now I come to us and I
  416. 14:16say, "Okay, guys, to be a member of the
  417. 14:17church, got to go through membership.
  418. 14:19IT'S A SIX I DON'T NEED MEMBERSHIP." Uh
  419. 14:21we do this thing called ancient faith
  420. 14:23class. We like to learn. No, no, no, I
  421. 14:24ALREADY I ALREADY KNOW THAT STUFF. I I
  422. 14:26was born INTO THIS. I KNOW. I KNOW GOD
  423. 14:29GOOD, DEVIL BAD. LIKE THAT'S IT, YOU
  424. 14:31KNOW, JESUS, SAINT MARY, HEAVEN, HELL.
  425. 14:33Like I already know this stuff. YEAH,
  426. 14:35GIVE THAT TO THE PEOPLE OFF the street,
  427. 14:37the losers who just walk in who don't
  428. 14:39know as much as me.
  429. 14:43Is the goal of life
  430. 14:45is the goal to be born spiritually?
  431. 14:49Parents, is your goal to have children
  432. 14:51born of you and that's it? Have a baby,
  433. 14:54throw them on the side, hope it turns
  434. 14:56out well?
  435. 14:57Like a child that is born that doesn't
  436. 14:59grow is a tragedy. Like goo goo ga ga at
  437. 15:02age two or one or six, I don't know,
  438. 15:05whatever at whatever is fine. At age 16,
  439. 15:08it's a tragedy. It means there's like a
  440. 15:10real sickness.
  441. 15:14And I think the same is true
  442. 15:15spiritually.
  443. 15:17What's your goal spiritually? Be honest,
  444. 15:18no one's judging. You just between you
  445. 15:20and you.
  446. 15:21Is your goal bare minimum?
  447. 15:24Is your goal just I know the bare
  448. 15:26minimum and I like I understand the
  449. 15:28faith, I read the creed, read the book,
  450. 15:31signed the dotted line, I'm good to go?
  451. 15:34Or is your goal to learn Christ and to
  452. 15:36grow deeper?
  453. 15:38Let's say it a slightly different way.
  454. 15:41There's a difference between knowing
  455. 15:43information
  456. 15:44and knowing a person.
  457. 15:47Knowing information is not the same as
  458. 15:49knowing a person. Information is
  459. 15:51limited. So, therefore, I can say like
  460. 15:55if Christianity was just information,
  461. 15:57here is a book, read it, I give you a
  462. 16:00test, you're good to go. You know the
  463. 16:03information.
  464. 16:04How about compare that to a person like
  465. 16:08my wife, for example? Could I like let's
  466. 16:11say we started dating, you know, me and
  467. 16:13Mary Ann back in the stone ages, okay?
  468. 16:15We started dating and I'm getting to
  469. 16:16know her and I'm asking questions, you
  470. 16:17know, what you you you know, you're born
  471. 16:20and
  472. 16:21like how many kids and like what's your
  473. 16:23fears and LIKE ALL THOSE FUNNY THINGS
  474. 16:24THAT YOU ASK EACH OTHER in the dating.
  475. 16:26And then I get to the point I'm like,
  476. 16:27"Okay, I'm good. I know Mary Anne. Let's
  477. 16:30get married and I'm good now."
  478. 16:32Married people, when we got married, WE
  479. 16:35KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THE PERSON. WE
  480. 16:36THOUGHT WE DID.
  481. 16:38We thought we did, but we DIDN'T LEARN
  482. 16:39NOTHING. I'M MARRIED 25 YEARS AND EVERY
  483. 16:41DAY I'm discovering new things about my
  484. 16:43wife.
  485. 16:44Great things, of course.
  486. 16:46Spectacular things.
  487. 16:49But it's new.
  488. 16:51And if that's with a person like Mary
  489. 16:53Anne, how about a person like Christ?
  490. 16:57Christ is not information. Christ is a
  491. 16:59person. It's a relationship.
  492. 17:01Relationships are dynamic. They are
  493. 17:04constantly growing. And if they're not,
  494. 17:06they're dying.
  495. 17:08Relationship needs constant investment.
  496. 17:10NOT LIKE, "YEAH, YEAH, Mary Anne, we got
  497. 17:13all this stuff cleared in 2001. Like I
  498. 17:14learned everything. LIKE STOP TALKING."
  499. 17:16LIKE THAT DOES NOT HOW IT WORKS.
  500. 17:18I'm learning new and she's learning new
  501. 17:19and with the same thing. So you and your
  502. 17:21relationship with God, yes, you were
  503. 17:23born.
  504. 17:24Yes, you accepted.
  505. 17:26YES, YOU'VE PASSED THE TEST OF
  506. 17:28membership group.
  507. 17:30That's it.
  508. 17:31You're done?
  509. 17:35Let me ask you a question.
  510. 17:38Are you growing up or just growing old?
  511. 17:42Are you growing up?
  512. 17:44Or just growing old?
  513. 17:45I know you're growing old.
  514. 17:47Your hairline says it.
  515. 17:52But are you growing up? AND BEFORE YOU
  516. 17:55RUSH TO SAY, "NO, I'M GROWING UP." OKAY,
  517. 17:56I got a question for you. Again, you're
  518. 17:58not asked to answer to me. Like I don't
  519. 17:59know you. Like it's between you and you.
  520. 18:01How are you more spiritually mature
  521. 18:02today than you were a year ago?
  522. 18:07And what's your plan that a year from
  523. 18:08now you'll be even more spiritually
  524. 18:09mature than you are today?
  525. 18:11Cuz if the answer is
  526. 18:13I go to church and there's nothing else,
  527. 18:19a baby who doesn't mature is tragic. A
  528. 18:21Christian who doesn't mature is just as
  529. 18:24tragic, if you ask me.
  530. 18:26So, that's what this is all about. Learn
  531. 18:27Christ means that we want to be more
  532. 18:29than just believe and accept and glory
  533. 18:32be to God forever. Amen. And the reason
  534. 18:34why this is so important, I'm going to
  535. 18:35take a step back to come back a step
  536. 18:37forward here. The reason why it's so
  537. 18:39important that we have this discussion,
  538. 18:41because there is something you need to
  539. 18:42know this about yourself. I don't know
  540. 18:44you. I don't know everyone watching
  541. 18:45this. I don't know who you are. I don't
  542. 18:46know your story. But, I know something
  543. 18:48about you. I know there's one area. I
  544. 18:50don't know all your gifts and talents,
  545. 18:51but I know one area you are very
  546. 18:53talented in. You are very gifted in.
  547. 18:55That every single one of us on this
  548. 18:57planet is gifted in the area of
  549. 18:59self-deception.
  550. 19:00You know what self-deception is, right?
  551. 19:02It's selling yourself an idea that isn't
  552. 19:05actually true. And every single one of
  553. 19:07us is able to CONVINCE OURSELVES. YOU
  554. 19:09MAY NOT BE ABLE TO CONVINCE A SOUL ON
  555. 19:11THE PLANET of anything, but there's one
  556. 19:13sucker. You see him every day in the
  557. 19:15mirror that is perfect perfectly
  558. 19:18perfectly able to convince that person.
  559. 19:21And I'll prove it to you.
  560. 19:23Every single one of us, no show of hands
  561. 19:25here, cuz it could get awkward.
  562. 19:27Every one of us
  563. 19:28knows at least one person
  564. 19:31who suffers from self-deception.
  565. 19:34Like, do you know? And again, don't look
  566. 19:35around. Don't elbow. Don't point.
  567. 19:37Nothing.
  568. 19:38Do you know someone
  569. 19:40who thinks that they're funny, but
  570. 19:43they're not?
  571. 19:46No one should be pointing at me.
  572. 19:49Do you know someone who thinks they can
  573. 19:51sing,
  574. 19:52but they can't?
  575. 19:54Do you know someone
  576. 19:56who thinks they're always right?
  577. 20:00Mhm, the married people like that one.
  578. 20:03The married people like that one.
  579. 20:05How about this one? I got you over here.
  580. 20:07Do you know someone who thinks their kid
  581. 20:09is an angel?
  582. 20:11And you're like, "Yeah, if you count the
  583. 20:12fallen ones like Lucifer."
  584. 20:17Every one of us. So, look here. If you
  585. 20:20know someone self-deceived, and you do,
  586. 20:21and you do, and you do, and you do, and
  587. 20:23you do, and you do, AND EVERY SINGLE
  588. 20:24PERSON KNOWS SOMEONE WHO SELF-DECEIVED.
  589. 20:26ARE YOU NO, it's not me.
  590. 20:28LIKE THE MATH THE COME ON. IF EVERY ONE
  591. 20:30OF US KNOWS SOMEONE, BUT NONE OF US
  592. 20:31THINK IT'S US, COME ON. AT SOME POINT IT
  593. 20:34COULD BE US.
  594. 20:37PEW RESEARCH, A COMPANY that uh does
  595. 20:39like surveys for Christians and
  596. 20:40churches,
  597. 20:43asked people,
  598. 20:44this was an anonymous survey,
  599. 20:47how often you attend church.
  600. 20:49I'm sorry. Uh how often I'm sorry. Do
  601. 20:51you attend church weekly? Do you attend
  602. 20:53church weekly? And 50% of the people,
  603. 20:55roughly, said they attend church weekly.
  604. 20:57Now, weekly is not a vague term. Weekly
  605. 20:59means what?
  606. 21:01Once a week.
  607. 21:02So, it's not IT'S NOT THERE'S NO GRAY
  608. 21:04AREA.
  609. 21:05Did you know the truth? Like they asked
  610. 21:07people, and then they asked people to
  611. 21:08track, and this was anonymous, SO
  612. 21:09THERE'S NO THERE'S NO LYING in this.
  613. 21:12They asked them, how often do you attend
  614. 21:13church? How often do you think you
  615. 21:14attend church? Half the people said they
  616. 21:16attend weekly. The truth? 20% attend
  617. 21:19weekly.
  618. 21:2020%. So, less than half that said they
  619. 21:22attend weekly, when they actually looked
  620. 21:24at it, and they actually tracked it over
  621. 21:26the course of 3 months, they didn't
  622. 21:27attend weekly. Much less than that.
  623. 21:29How often do you read the Bible?
  624. 21:31A third, which I think is sad even that
  625. 21:34it's this, but a third of Christians
  626. 21:36said they read the Bible four or more
  627. 21:38times per week.
  628. 21:40A third of Christians,
  629. 21:42actually it was 31%, but I'm making them
  630. 21:44even rounding up because
  631. 21:45a third of Christians said they read the
  632. 21:47Bible four or more times per week. The
  633. 21:49actual number was less than 15%.
  634. 21:52that actually read the Bible four or
  635. 21:53more times per week. We convince
  636. 21:56ourselves. We convince ourselves, all of
  637. 21:58us.
  638. 22:00If I asked you, is faith a priority?
  639. 22:01Yes.
  640. 22:03My faith? Absolutely. My religion? Of
  641. 22:05course. THE CHURCH? 100%. I GOT NOTHING
  642. 22:09IN LIFE OTHER THAN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH
  643. 22:11GOD. WE CONVINCE OURSELVES THAT.
  644. 22:15But do you invest in your relationship
  645. 22:16with God?
  646. 22:19Where are you invested?
  647. 22:20Is it just
  648. 22:22like you Is you know what this is? This
  649. 22:24is the man, sorry men. This is the
  650. 22:26husband, the father.
  651. 22:28God, family, and then work. That's my
  652. 22:31priority. God one, family two, and then
  653. 22:33work. And then you work 100 hours a
  654. 22:35week.
  655. 22:36Never spending time with his family,
  656. 22:37never spending TIME IN PRAYER. GOD ONE,
  657. 22:39FAMILY TWO, WORK THREE. OKAY, you can
  658. 22:41say that all you want.
  659. 22:43But if you're not invested in God,
  660. 22:45you're not invested in your family, all
  661. 22:47your time is invested in work, like come
  662. 22:48on.
  663. 22:51Don't confuse.
  664. 22:52>> [clears throat]
  665. 22:53>> Don't confuse, please, please, please.
  666. 22:55Don't confuse accepting Christ with
  667. 22:56investing in Christ. They're not the
  668. 22:58same thing.
  669. 23:00Don't confuse I believe, I accept with I
  670. 23:03am invested. And I'm putting in time and
  671. 23:06energy and effort in deepening.
  672. 23:09Investing and accepting are not the
  673. 23:11same. If I asked who is accepting,
  674. 23:13everyone will raise their hand.
  675. 23:15But then if I ask you, where are you
  676. 23:17invested?
  677. 23:19That might be a little bit more
  678. 23:20challenging.
  679. 23:21You know I think of here that struggled
  680. 23:23with this information versus a person.
  681. 23:25I think of the Pharisees.
  682. 23:27In case you haven't read the Bible, the
  683. 23:28Pharisees, they're the bad guys in the
  684. 23:30Bible.
  685. 23:31And we look at them as they're the worst
  686. 23:33of the worst. But you realize that if
  687. 23:35you were alive during the biblical
  688. 23:37times, you would not have said that. The
  689. 23:39Pharisees were the top of the top. They
  690. 23:42were the ones that were respected. They
  691. 23:43were the ones that knew the Bible better
  692. 23:45than anyone. They were the teachers,
  693. 23:46they would memorize the Bible. It was a
  694. 23:48very strict requirement to be a
  695. 23:50Pharisee. So we look at them and say,
  696. 23:52"Bad guys, you stink, you're not as
  697. 23:54smart as us. Haha." No, no, no, no.
  698. 23:56Pharisees were up here. Like the
  699. 23:58Pharisees were the ones
  700. 24:01that accepted God,
  701. 24:02that knew the scriptures, that memorized
  702. 24:05not verses, but memorized books. LIKE,
  703. 24:08IF YOU'RE DOING BIBLE TRIVIA, YOU'RE
  704. 24:10CHOOSING THEM. LIKE THEY'RE CRUSHING it
  705. 24:11in Bible trivia.
  706. 24:15But they missed Jesus.
  707. 24:19They missed him.
  708. 24:20They didn't miss him because he was far
  709. 24:21away and they couldn't get to him.
  710. 24:24They missed him like right there.
  711. 24:26Couldn't see him. Right in front of
  712. 24:28their face.
  713. 24:30How?
  714. 24:32If you look at the Pharisees,
  715. 24:35they started great, they're born into
  716. 24:38it, okay? They have the knowledge, they
  717. 24:40have the heritage, but they never went
  718. 24:43beyond information
  719. 24:45and going to a person. In other words,
  720. 24:48Pharisees would be tempted to say,
  721. 24:51"I know the Bible.
  722. 24:53I know God.
  723. 24:56I don't need I don't need to learn
  724. 24:57anything else.
  725. 25:00I already know everything there is to
  726. 25:01know. Find me someone who knows as much
  727. 25:03as me."
  728. 25:05And that, ladies and gentlemen, that's
  729. 25:06called complacency.
  730. 25:08Because then here comes Jesus.
  731. 25:10As he always does, he turns things
  732. 25:12upside down. "I have new ideas." We
  733. 25:14don't want new ideas. We already know
  734. 25:15all our information. "I have new
  735. 25:17concept. I want to renew your mind. I
  736. 25:20want to flip things. I want first to be
  737. 25:21last and last to be first. I want die to
  738. 25:23be life and life to be die." They're
  739. 25:25like, "No, no, no, no, no, no."
  740. 25:27"We know our information. WE PASSED THE
  741. 25:29TEST. WE TEACH THE TEST. WE TEACH the
  742. 25:31stuff.
  743. 25:32We don't need to learn anymore. We're
  744. 25:34good."
  745. 25:36They relied on what they knew in the
  746. 25:37past
  747. 25:38versus what Christ was trying to teach
  748. 25:40them today. They stopped learning
  749. 25:43because of that,
  750. 25:44they missed
  751. 25:46everything.
  752. 25:47They didn't miss a little.
  753. 25:49They missed everything. Jesus said it
  754. 25:51this way in John chapter 5.
  755. 25:53Scary verse. He says, "You search the
  756. 25:56scriptures, for in them you think
  757. 25:59you think you have eternal life, and
  758. 26:01these are they which testify of me, but
  759. 26:03you are not willing to come to me that
  760. 26:06you may have life." It's a scary verse,
  761. 26:09ladies and gentlemen.
  762. 26:10Saying, "You know everything.
  763. 26:12You believe, you accept, you teach.
  764. 26:14You're the top of the top, but I'm right
  765. 26:17in front of you. And I'm trying to tell
  766. 26:19you you're wrong, or there's more, or
  767. 26:22there's new.
  768. 26:23I'm trying to tell you that that
  769. 26:25relationship with me is is infinite.
  770. 26:27Just like a relationship with any person
  771. 26:28never stops learning."
  772. 26:31But say I'm good.
  773. 26:34You know the problem with the Pharisees
  774. 26:36and the problem that we have a lot of
  775. 26:37times as well is we don't understand the
  776. 26:39goal. What's the goal? If I were to ask
  777. 26:40you, what's the goal of this Like why do
  778. 26:42you go to church? Why do you pray? Why
  779. 26:44do you read the Bible? Like why do you
  780. 26:46do any of these things? And truthfully
  781. 26:47most of us don't know the answer to
  782. 26:48that. Like when I was younger, I would
  783. 26:50have said I do those things because my
  784. 26:52goal is, you know, just to be good and
  785. 26:55like I feel like if I go to church and
  786. 26:56pray enough then like on judgement day
  787. 26:58God would be like, "Yeah, I recognize
  788. 27:00him. He's on the list. Bring him in."
  789. 27:02Most of us that's how we think. But did
  790. 27:04you know that there actually is a goal
  791. 27:06for why you should pray that's more than
  792. 27:08just be on the list to get in the party
  793. 27:10in heaven? That there's actually a
  794. 27:11purpose of why you should read the
  795. 27:13Bible? There's a purpose of why you
  796. 27:15should forgive your enemy? There's
  797. 27:16actually a purpose, something that
  798. 27:17you're driving towards? I'll give you
  799. 27:19two verses and you tell me what the
  800. 27:20purpose is. John chapter 8 verse 29. For
  801. 27:22whom he foreknew, he also predestined to
  802. 27:25be conformed to the image of his son.
  803. 27:27Say image of his son.
  804. 27:29That he might be the firstborn among
  805. 27:31many brethren. Next verse from 2
  806. 27:33Corinthians chapter 3 verse 18 says,
  807. 27:35"But we all with unveiled face beholding
  808. 27:37as in a mirror the glory of the Lord are
  809. 27:39being transformed into the same image."
  810. 27:42Say transformed into the same image.
  811. 27:47From glory to glory. What is the purpose
  812. 27:49of everything that we do? What is the
  813. 27:51purpose of prayer? What is the purpose
  814. 27:53of loving our neighbor? What is the
  815. 27:54purpose of going the second mile? What
  816. 27:56is the purpose of turning the turning
  817. 27:58our cheek? What is the purpose? The
  818. 27:59purpose is
  819. 28:01the image of Christ.
  820. 28:03That's the purpose.
  821. 28:05That's why we do what we do.
  822. 28:07That's why we do everything that we do.
  823. 28:08Because the image of Christ, look at
  824. 28:10that as the North Star. That's the top
  825. 28:12of the mountain. And all of us, it
  826. 28:13doesn't matter where we're coming from.
  827. 28:15Okay, we're Limitless Acceptancy here at
  828. 28:16SCCA. It doesn't matter where you're
  829. 28:17coming from or where Doesn't matter
  830. 28:18where you start on the mountain. IT
  831. 28:19DOESN'T MATTER. THAT'S where we're
  832. 28:20going.
  833. 28:21All of us. You're here, you're here,
  834. 28:23you're here. It doesn't matter. As long
  835. 28:24as we're going in that direction, that's
  836. 28:25all that matters. Image of Christ. Our
  837. 28:27goal is to talk as Christ spoke. Talk as
  838. 28:30he talked. Think as he thought. The goal
  839. 28:33is to treat our mom the way he treated
  840. 28:35his mom. The goal is TO TREAT OUR
  841. 28:36ENEMIES AND THOSE WHO SLANDER US AND
  842. 28:39THOSE WHO GOSSIP ABOUT US THE WAY HE
  843. 28:41TREATED PEOPLE who gossip about him.
  844. 28:43That's the goal of everything that we
  845. 28:43do. The goal is to is to stress the way
  846. 28:45he was stressed. Trust the way he
  847. 28:47trusted. To deal WITH MONEY THE WAY HE
  848. 28:49DEALT WITH MONEY. THAT'S THE GOAL. AND I
  849. 28:51LOOK AT THAT GOAL AND COME ON, IS THAT
  850. 28:53EASY?
  851. 28:54LIKE THAT'S A LIFETIME. THAT'S A
  852. 28:56LIFETIME OF INVESTMENT.
  853. 28:58YOU THINK YOU CAN GET THERE BY just I
  854. 29:01believe?
  855. 29:03BY JUST LIKE, YEAH, LIKE YOU WANT TO be
  856. 29:06doctor or lawyer or whatever you want to
  857. 29:08be.
  858. 29:10Okay.
  859. 29:11I don't want to do any work, but I
  860. 29:12really believe
  861. 29:14in doctors.
  862. 29:16I really believe I believe that I will
  863. 29:18be a doctor. I DON'T HAVE TO CRACK A
  864. 29:20BOOK OR GO TO A CLASS, BUT I believe
  865. 29:23with all my heart that one day I'll be a
  866. 29:24doctor. Will you be a doctor?
  867. 29:27You'll never be a doctor.
  868. 29:28I mean, I BELIEVE WITH ALL MY HEART I
  869. 29:30SHOULD BE in the NBA, okay? But here I
  870. 29:32am, I'm on my like plan B for my career.
  871. 29:34So because
  872. 29:35because belief is not enough.
  873. 29:40If you can't accomplish
  874. 29:42any earthly goal without being invested,
  875. 29:47what makes you think that you can
  876. 29:48accomplish Christ
  877. 29:51without being invested?
  878. 29:53Without putting in some effort.
  879. 29:57>> [clears throat]
  880. 29:59>> We have turned Christianity
  881. 30:02into something passive.
  882. 30:05Where we think the goal is just to
  883. 30:07accept the teachings, to believe in
  884. 30:10them, sign the dotted line,
  885. 30:13and coast through life.
  886. 30:14That's never ever
  887. 30:17how the church taught it.
  888. 30:19It's we believe, we accept,
  889. 30:23and then we start the journey up the
  890. 30:25mountain to become like Christ.
  891. 30:27We learn Christ, we grow into Christ, we
  892. 30:30mature, sometimes we fall, but that's
  893. 30:32the goal of life
  894. 30:33is to grow into Christ.
  895. 30:36It's the difference between
  896. 30:38believing in medicine
  897. 30:41versus becoming a doctor.
  898. 30:44The goal is not to believe in medicine.
  899. 30:47The goal is to put in the investment to
  900. 30:49become a doctor. And the same is true
  901. 30:50when it comes to our faith. Give you one
  902. 30:52more verse. Ephesians chapter 4, verse
  903. 30:5414 through 15. Says, "We should no
  904. 30:56longer be children, tossed to and fro
  905. 30:58and carried about by every wind of
  906. 30:59doctrine, by the trickery of men and the
  907. 31:01cunning craftiness and deceitful
  908. 31:02plotting." And again, parents, this is
  909. 31:04easy for us. We don't want our kids to
  910. 31:05be immature forever. Like just thrown
  911. 31:07around here and there. So, what we need
  912. 31:08to do? We need to grow up. Grow up in
  913. 31:12all things into him who is the head,
  914. 31:13Christ. Grow up. That's our message for
  915. 31:16today is grow up. Now,
  916. 31:19how practically?
  917. 31:22How practically are we going to do this?
  918. 31:25There's lots of different ways. So, I'm
  919. 31:27not telling you I'm going to talk about
  920. 31:28just one way that we're going to like
  921. 31:30the challenge for this week. And for me,
  922. 31:32this is by far by far the number one
  923. 31:35indicator of my I'm trying to figure out
  924. 31:38the right word zeal
  925. 31:40or my enthusiasm
  926. 31:42or my like where I'm at. Okay? It's not
  927. 31:45the only habit that matters cuz there's
  928. 31:46lots like I always come to church every
  929. 31:48Sunday. So, that like go to church on
  930. 31:50Sunday, read your Bible every day,
  931. 31:53tithing, fasting, like those are like
  932. 31:55the So, those I'm not saying against
  933. 31:58those. Those are important. Those are
  934. 31:59foundation. But to me, I can do those
  935. 32:01and kind of be on autopilot. Like my
  936. 32:03tithe comes out of my bank. It doesn't
  937. 32:05even like I don't even think about it. I
  938. 32:06go to church every Sunday cuz I'd
  939. 32:07probably lose my job if I stopped going
  940. 32:09to church on Sundays.
  941. 32:11So, I can do those on autopilot. But
  942. 32:12there's one habit for me that like
  943. 32:16takes the investment and shows it's like
  944. 32:19the barometer of where my heart is at
  945. 32:21more than anything else.
  946. 32:24And it's the opposite of hurry.
  947. 32:27You can't do this if you're hurried. In
  948. 32:30a rush You can't do what I'm about to
  949. 32:32say if you're in a rush. And most of
  950. 32:34you, especially you young ones, I'm
  951. 32:35going to put it up here on the screen in
  952. 32:37a little bit what the challenge is. And
  953. 32:38some of you are going to say like,
  954. 32:40that's not real. Like that's like from
  955. 32:42like World War II people used to do
  956. 32:43that. Like people don't do that stuff
  957. 32:44now. But I'm going to show you how you
  958. 32:46can do stuff that people in World War II
  959. 32:47used to do as well.
  960. 32:49I want to show you a cartoon
  961. 32:51that I think perfectly illustrates it's
  962. 32:53a great cartoon.
  963. 32:55The habit is is called reading. And for
  964. 32:57you youngsters, it's how people install
  965. 32:59new software into their brains.
  966. 33:02I loved it when I saw this.
  967. 33:04Cuz I think that's how we would have to
  968. 33:05talk to a question none of you here.
  969. 33:07You're sophisticated. I always say the
  970. 33:08the crowd at the Well is a very
  971. 33:09sophisticated. Okay? But the heathen who
  972. 33:12are outside those doors.
  973. 33:14That's how we have to speak to them.
  974. 33:16It's like, why would you read when you
  975. 33:18could listen?
  976. 33:19Why would you read when you could
  977. 33:21scroll? Why would you read when you can
  978. 33:23just watch?
  979. 33:25And the answer is, that's how you put
  980. 33:27software into your brains.
  981. 33:31>> [clears throat]
  982. 33:31>> For me, this is the secret sauce for me.
  983. 33:34This is the key. This is how I stay
  984. 33:36fresh.
  985. 33:37Reading.
  986. 33:39This is how so many times people say
  987. 33:40like, your sermons, like where did you
  988. 33:41come up with that idea? And the answer
  989. 33:42is, 90% of the sermons that I preach
  990. 33:45come from stuff that I read. Like an
  991. 33:47idea or like a book that led to this And
  992. 33:49actually this series is based on a book
  993. 33:51that I read, you know, I don't remember
  994. 33:53when it was, about this idea of habits
  995. 33:55that we need to incorporate to keep
  996. 33:56ourselves fresh and whatever it may be.
  997. 33:58I have a certain friend who I've known
  998. 34:00for
  999. 34:01probably 20-something years. And every
  1000. 34:03time I see this friend, we have this
  1001. 34:05like thing that we always ask each
  1002. 34:07other, what are you reading now?
  1003. 34:09What are you reading now?
  1004. 34:11And the answer, like if I got nothing,
  1005. 34:14that judges me. Like that that's like
  1006. 34:16our thing with each other. Like what are
  1007. 34:17you reading now? And when I'm like, oh,
  1008. 34:19I just read this, and I'm sharing and
  1009. 34:20I'm like, you know what I mean? Or
  1010. 34:21sometimes I'm like, you know, just going
  1011. 34:23through one of those It's
  1012. 34:25whatever excuse, it's because I'm
  1013. 34:26stagnant. So we always hold each other
  1014. 34:28that what are you reading right now? And
  1015. 34:30I love to hear from him. And I know if
  1016. 34:31I'm going to see him, he's going to ask
  1017. 34:33me that. So I need to read something,
  1018. 34:34okay?
  1019. 34:38But it's not just me
  1020. 34:40that finds
  1021. 34:42joy in reading.
  1022. 34:44St. Paul was an avid reader as well.
  1023. 34:46This is 2 Timothy chapter 4, the end. In
  1024. 34:49case you don't know, 2 Timothy was one
  1025. 34:51of the last epistles that St. Paul wrote
  1026. 34:53to his disciple Timothy as he was dying,
  1027. 34:56or he not he would be eventually was
  1028. 34:57killed, but he as far as he knew he was
  1029. 34:59in a pri- he was in a prison on a death
  1030. 35:01sentence. He's probably never going to
  1031. 35:02get out of this. So, this is the end of
  1032. 35:03his life.
  1033. 35:05And he says to Timothy, "Be diligent to
  1034. 35:06come quick to come to me quickly. For
  1035. 35:08Demas has forsaken me, having loved this
  1036. 35:10present world and has departed for
  1037. 35:12Thessalonica, Crescens for Galatia,
  1038. 35:14Titus for Dalmatia." So, basically, at
  1039. 35:17the end of St. Paul's life, like St.
  1040. 35:18Paul started so many churches and so
  1041. 35:20many followers. He's like he's the best.
  1042. 35:21But, you know at the end of his life,
  1043. 35:23everyone forsook him.
  1044. 35:25And everyone left him. And they're like,
  1045. 35:26"Oh, the old man's lost it." Or, you
  1046. 35:28know, whatever it may be. And everyone
  1047. 35:29And he was just That's why at the end
  1048. 35:30he's like, "Timothy, I'm kind of lonely
  1049. 35:32here. So, if you don't mind to come
  1050. 35:33visit me cuz everyone else And he
  1051. 35:35doesn't say the masses have left me. He
  1052. 35:36names them. Like there was like three.
  1053. 35:38Those three are gone. So, you feel for
  1054. 35:39St. Paul. But, look what he says after
  1055. 35:40that. He says, "Only Luke is with me.
  1056. 35:43Get Mark and bring him with you, for he
  1057. 35:44is useful to me for ministry. And take
  1058. 35:46Aquila I have sent to Ephesus." Now,
  1059. 35:48here's the part I want.
  1060. 35:49Listen to what he says. "When you come,
  1061. 35:51bring the cloak that I left with Carpus
  1062. 35:54at Troas when you come.
  1063. 35:56And the books, especially the
  1064. 35:59parchments."
  1065. 36:01So, St. Paul abandoned in prison, number
  1066. 36:04one request is, "I miss people. I miss
  1067. 36:07my son." That makes total sense to us.
  1068. 36:10Number two, he says, "When you come,
  1069. 36:12bring a cloak." Meaning what?
  1070. 36:15Yeah, it's cold in here. Don't don't
  1071. 36:16over-spiritualize things. Like it's
  1072. 36:17cold. It's a Roman prison. Like they
  1073. 36:19probably didn't have heat back in
  1074. 36:21[laughter] the day. And they didn't
  1075. 36:22care, but they just threw him in the
  1076. 36:23prison AND LET HIM DIE. SO, HE'S LIKE,
  1077. 36:24"I'M COLD." LIKE HE WAS A NORMAL PERSON.
  1078. 36:26HE WASN'T SUPERMAN. I'm cold.
  1079. 36:30What does a lonely, cold, dying person
  1080. 36:34What's your third request?
  1081. 36:36Bring me the books.
  1082. 36:38Bring me the books.
  1083. 36:41I read this and I say to myself, "St.
  1084. 36:43Paul, avid reader, bring me the books.
  1085. 36:46Bring me the books. No wonder
  1086. 36:49No wonder St. Paul was so MATURE
  1087. 36:52SPIRITUALLY. NO WONDER he could say, "I
  1088. 36:55can do all things through Christ who
  1089. 36:57STRENGTHENS ME." NO WONDER he could say,
  1090. 36:59"I have learned in whatever state I am
  1091. 37:01to be content." No wonder he could talk
  1092. 37:03about THE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL
  1093. 37:05UNDERSTANDING. NO WONDER HE COULD SAY,
  1094. 37:07"REJOICE in the Lord always. Again, I
  1095. 37:09SAY LIKE NO WONDER HE HAD SUCH DEPTH. NO
  1096. 37:12WONDER HE TRUSTED GOD SO MUCH. IT'S NOT
  1097. 37:14MAGIC. THE PEOPLE WHO TRUST GOD, it's
  1098. 37:16not magic. THE PEOPLE WHO ARE CLOSE TO
  1099. 37:18GOD, IT'S NOT A GIMMICK. IT'S NOT LIKE
  1100. 37:20THEY WERE JUST BORN THAT WAY. The people
  1101. 37:22who are close to God are there because
  1102. 37:24they invested in getting close to God.
  1103. 37:27And here's our challenge for this week.
  1104. 37:28It's to learn Christ
  1105. 37:30and it is to spend 30 to 45 minutes
  1106. 37:33reading.
  1107. 37:34And you say 30 to 45 minutes reading,
  1108. 37:37LIKE IN A YEAR?
  1109. 37:40NO.
  1110. 37:41IN A WEEK.
  1111. 37:43And I promise you, especially you young
  1112. 37:45people who haven't read a book, I
  1113. 37:46promise you can do it.
  1114. 37:48Your brain won't explode. I promise you.
  1115. 37:51Like the
  1116. 37:52What should I read? That's the first
  1117. 37:53thing people What should I read? And the
  1118. 37:54answer is, I don't care what you read.
  1119. 37:56IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU READ.
  1120. 37:57PICK UP ANY BOOK. THE GOAL ISN'T THE
  1121. 37:58INFORMATION. The goal is the habit.
  1122. 38:00The goal So, READ A BOOK ON PRAYER.
  1123. 38:03READ A BOOK Read a book about lives of
  1124. 38:05saints or lives of missionaries. Read a
  1125. 38:07commentary on like I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU
  1126. 38:09READ BECAUSE THE GOAL IS NOT get this
  1127. 38:11information, learn it, and then go back
  1128. 38:13to your miserable life after. The goal
  1129. 38:14is getting the habit of every week, at a
  1130. 38:17minimum, 30 minutes, at a minimum.
  1131. 38:22Turn off the phone.
  1132. 38:23Shut the TV.
  1133. 38:27And spend time investing in your
  1134. 38:29relationship with Christ.
  1135. 38:33We all know the benefits of reading.
  1136. 38:35Give you some statistics. 30 minutes a
  1137. 38:37day reading, they say, can reduce
  1138. 38:38mortality rate by 17%.
  1139. 38:4217%.
  1140. 38:44Reading 30 minutes a day will reduce
  1141. 38:46your chance of getting dementia or
  1142. 38:48Alzheimer's by, watch this, 23%.
  1143. 38:5230 minutes a day. Keep that brain in
  1144. 38:54action. And I'm not here to talk about
  1145. 38:56your brain. I'm here to talk about your
  1146. 38:57soul. What reading is, for me and for
  1147. 39:00you, reading is the equivalent of a date
  1148. 39:03night with your spouse.
  1149. 39:05Like, if your relationship, like all
  1150. 39:07relationships, I said they get stale,
  1151. 39:08they get like they need constant
  1152. 39:10investment. That's what reading is.
  1153. 39:12Reading is a time to say to others,
  1154. 39:13"Excuse me, I need to be with my
  1155. 39:15beloved. I need to spend time, just me
  1156. 39:18and him, just getting to know him, just
  1157. 39:20hearing from him what he's teaching me."
  1158. 39:23Reading is our way of learning Christ.
  1159. 39:27And I'm not judging anyone.
  1160. 39:28But I know I put that up on the screen,
  1161. 39:3030 to 45 minutes.
  1162. 39:32And I know
  1163. 39:34I got no time. I got no Father Anthony,
  1164. 39:36I got no time. I got no time. IT'S A
  1165. 39:38BUSY. AND MY KIDS, and and work, and
  1166. 39:42whatever it may be. Come on now. Come on
  1167. 39:44now. Like let's be honest. Again, the
  1168. 39:45self-deceptions, uh uh uh.
  1169. 39:48We think nothing
  1170. 39:50of spending two or three hours scrolling
  1171. 39:51on Instagram. We think nothing of that
  1172. 39:53day.
  1173. 39:54We think nothing of spending two hours
  1174. 39:55on Instagram scrolling, and 30 minutes I
  1175. 39:57got no time.
  1176. 39:58LIKE, YOU HAD TIME. NETFLIX. YOU WEREN'T
  1177. 40:01IN A RUSH WHEN YOU FINISHED EPISODE
  1178. 40:03SEVEN, AND THEN THAT LITTLE COUNTDOWN,
  1179. 40:05YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? NEXT EPISODE
  1180. 40:06START. YOU WEREN'T IN A RUSH THERE.
  1181. 40:08YOU WEREN'T IN A RUSH. YOU HAD PLENTY OF
  1182. 40:09TIME. AND THEN YOU WAIT UNTIL YOU WAIT
  1183. 40:10UNTIL GOD WANTED IT. YOU KNOW WHAT I
  1184. 40:11mean?
  1185. 40:14Parents,
  1186. 40:15you got time TO DRIVE YOUR KIDS ALL
  1187. 40:17AROUND NORTHERN Virginia for 17
  1188. 40:20activities per week.
  1189. 40:22And you don't got time to spend 15, 20
  1190. 40:25minutes, or sorry, 30 to 45 minutes in
  1191. 40:27the Bible? COME ON. LIKE, YOU DO THAT.
  1192. 40:30YOU FOLLOW THE NEWS. WE'RE LIKE YOU
  1193. 40:32DON'T HAVE NO PROBLEM FINDING TIME
  1194. 40:33THERE. You do those things. I'm saying
  1195. 40:36this out of love. I promise I'm saying
  1196. 40:37it out of love.
  1197. 40:38You do those things, and then you wonder
  1198. 40:40why your faith is weak?
  1199. 40:43Like, you spend no time invested in
  1200. 40:44Christ, and then you wonder why you
  1201. 40:46can't pray?
  1202. 40:48You wonder why you're so stressed?
  1203. 40:50You wonder why your home is so chaotic?
  1204. 40:53Like you wonder why that there's such a
  1205. 40:55negative spirit, a grumbling, a
  1206. 40:57complaining. WHERE'S THE JOY? WHERE'S
  1207. 40:59the peace? WHERE WHY IS THERE SO MUCH
  1208. 41:01FEAR? LIKE YOU WONDER?
  1209. 41:04NETFLIX ISN'T GOING TO GIVE YOU FAITH.
  1210. 41:07YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GROW IN JOY FROM
  1211. 41:09INSTAGRAM. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO FIND
  1212. 41:11PEACE FROM THE NEWS.
  1213. 41:17WE INVEST nothing in our spiritual life
  1214. 41:19and then wonder why we're not spiritual
  1215. 41:20giants.
  1216. 41:23I have a statistic right here, which
  1217. 41:24this is true cuz I I know this to be
  1218. 41:26true in my own life. Did you know that
  1219. 41:28if you spent 20 minutes a day reading
  1220. 41:31the Bible, you can finish the entire
  1221. 41:32Bible in a year.
  1222. 41:35The entire Bible in a year 20 minutes.
  1223. 41:37That is
  1224. 41:39Like think about your favorite episode
  1225. 41:41or whatever. Should be about 45 minutes.
  1226. 41:43That means if you gave up one episode,
  1227. 41:46one episode of whatever nonsense, you
  1228. 41:49could READ THE ENTIRE BIBLE twice in one
  1229. 41:52year.
  1230. 41:53That's that's that's shameful for us.
  1231. 41:57Parents, in the time of one kid's
  1232. 42:00practice or lesson or whatever it may
  1233. 42:02be,
  1234. 42:03you could read the Bible with your
  1235. 42:05children, pray the obey with your
  1236. 42:07children, and still have time for a game
  1237. 42:08of Scrabble
  1238. 42:11and quality time with them.
  1239. 42:13>> [snorts]
  1240. 42:13>> The problem isn't no time.
  1241. 42:15The problem, if you ask me,
  1242. 42:18problem is two things. Number one is
  1243. 42:20FOMO,
  1244. 42:22which is a real thing, which we look at
  1245. 42:23and say, "No, FOMO, that's for the
  1246. 42:25kids." No, no, no, FOMO is not for the
  1247. 42:26kids. It's for the adults with our
  1248. 42:27parents. No, if my kid isn't in 17
  1249. 42:29activities, they're going to be behind.
  1250. 42:31BECAUSE HOW MY KID ONLY KNOWS THREE
  1251. 42:32LANGUAGES. HE'S IN FIRST GRADE. HE
  1252. 42:34DOESN'T KNOW FOUR HE ONLY KNOWS THREE
  1253. 42:35LANGUAGES. HE'S BEHIND. HE HE CAN PLAY
  1254. 42:37SOCCER AND TENNIS AND BASKETBALL, BUT HE
  1255. 42:39DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO SWIM AND SCUBA DIVE.
  1256. 42:40LIKE HE'S GOING TO BE BEHIND. NO, JUNIOR
  1257. 42:42WILL BE OKAY. Junior will be okay. He's
  1258. 42:44not that talented. Trust me. Like he's
  1259. 42:45not going anywhere.
  1260. 42:49It's FOMO that our life will be behind
  1261. 42:52if we don't get that promotion or WE
  1262. 42:54DON'T GET THAT HOUSE OR WE DON'T HAVE
  1263. 42:55THAT WHATEVER IT MAY BE. THAT'S one
  1264. 42:57aspect. And the other one is
  1265. 42:58self-deception. And it's the two working
  1266. 43:00together because I'm afraid of what I'm
  1267. 43:01going to miss out on here. But when it
  1268. 43:03comes to my spirit, Father Anthony, I am
  1269. 43:07good.
  1270. 43:08I'm good.
  1271. 43:09I go to church every week, mostly.
  1272. 43:12I know all the right answers. I'm good.
  1273. 43:14Be careful. I promise you I promise you
  1274. 43:16I promise you. Be careful. This is a
  1275. 43:19priority.
  1276. 43:20When was the last time you sat down,
  1277. 43:23phones off, screens off, kids off,
  1278. 43:27and just sat down and read a book? Not
  1279. 43:30listen to a sermon.
  1280. 43:32NOT A PODCAST. BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHY?
  1281. 43:34BECAUSE THOSE are still passive.
  1282. 43:37The The difference between reading a
  1283. 43:38book for yourself and listening to a
  1284. 43:40sermon, listening to a sermon is like or
  1285. 43:42especially when we watch a sermon, is
  1286. 43:44the equivalent of looking at like here I
  1287. 43:46am giving my my my my my stuff for for
  1288. 43:49you. It's the equivalent of watching
  1289. 43:51another person date his wife versus
  1290. 43:53actually going on a date with your own.
  1291. 43:55LIKE LOOKING AT PICTURES OF OTHER
  1292. 43:56PEOPLE'S DATES. So like and I'm I'm I'm
  1293. 43:58good. I I looked at all the No, no, no,
  1294. 44:00no, no. I'm telling you, sit down with
  1295. 44:01your Bible. Or sit down with your Bible,
  1296. 44:03with a spiritual book. Because Bible,
  1297. 44:05you're already doing that. So it's not
  1298. 44:06Bible or a book. You should be doing
  1299. 44:08Bible. That's That's foundational.
  1300. 44:11But spend some time.
  1301. 44:12Read a book.
  1302. 44:14Last verse.
  1303. 44:15In case you're still not convinced.
  1304. 44:17First Corinthians chapter 13 verse 11. I
  1305. 44:19know your time is tight, but listen to
  1306. 44:20this. When I was a child, I spoke as a
  1307. 44:23child. I understood as a child. I
  1308. 44:26thought as a child. All makes sense,
  1309. 44:28age-appropriate. But St. Paul says,
  1310. 44:29"When I became a man, I put away
  1311. 44:32childish things."
  1312. 44:35Making excuses is a childish thing.
  1313. 44:39Expecting results with no investment,
  1314. 44:42that's a childish thing. That's what
  1315. 44:46children are immature. They expect
  1316. 44:47something for nothing. But come on,
  1317. 44:50you're better than that. You know that
  1318. 44:52if you want to reach that mountain IMAGE
  1319. 44:54CHRIST, YOU KNOW IT'S GOING to take some
  1320. 44:56investment.
  1321. 44:57And what I'm saying this week, let's
  1322. 44:59agree together that investment is 30 to
  1323. 45:0245 minutes of reading.
  1324. 45:06And I promise you
  1325. 45:07I promise you. Okay, last week I did the
  1326. 45:09blessed thing and I said I want to hear
  1327. 45:11feedback and I got lots of text messages
  1328. 45:13and emails and I loved it loved it loved
  1329. 45:15it. I know I didn't respond to every one
  1330. 45:16of them, but it encouraged me so much.
  1331. 45:19Nothing makes a father happier than to
  1332. 45:21see his children loving each other. It
  1333. 45:23was the best week in the history of SCSA
  1334. 45:25as far as I'm concerned. Like I said,
  1335. 45:26we're going to do it every year somehow.
  1336. 45:27We're going to make up a holiday for it.
  1337. 45:28Maybe it'll be the holiday of daylight
  1338. 45:29savings. Whatever it may be. I don't
  1339. 45:30know.
  1340. 45:32I want to hear the same thing this week.
  1341. 45:34I want to hear you tell me I did what
  1342. 45:36you said, Father Anthony. I left church
  1343. 45:38on Sunday. I hated your guts.
  1344. 45:40I didn't want to do it. I said I don't
  1345. 45:42have time to do it, but I forced myself
  1346. 45:44to do it. Tell me how it went.
  1347. 45:47You know, usually when I when I finish
  1348. 45:49my talk here at The Well, I usually try
  1349. 45:51to end with something upbeat and
  1350. 45:53positive and I always try to I call it
  1351. 45:56like the imagine if section of my
  1352. 45:57sermon. Imagine if like like like we
  1353. 46:00talk about prayer. Imagine if we all
  1354. 46:02prayed. Imagine what it could do for
  1355. 46:03your life. Imagine if we all read the
  1356. 46:05like imagine if imagine if imagine if.
  1357. 46:07Well, today I have an imagine if, but on
  1358. 46:09the negative side.
  1359. 46:11Imagine if you don't invest in Christ.
  1360. 46:14Imagine if you say, you know what? I'm
  1361. 46:16good as is.
  1362. 46:18Status quo. I'm not going to learn
  1363. 46:20anything new.
  1364. 46:21I'm not going to spend any time
  1365. 46:22one-on-one. Like I'm good. I'm going to
  1366. 46:24do the kids thing. I'm going to do the
  1367. 46:26work thing. I'm going to do the the cars
  1368. 46:28thing. But you know what? I'm good here.
  1369. 46:32Imagine your faith never grows.
  1370. 46:36Imagine your strength
  1371. 46:37stays the same or declines. Imagine you
  1372. 46:40never find peace
  1373. 46:42or joy.
  1374. 46:43Like one thing that you and I both know
  1375. 46:45is that wherever your life is today, it
  1376. 46:47isn't getting easier.
  1377. 46:50It's only going to get harder. So my
  1378. 46:52question to you
  1379. 46:54is what are you doing to be prepared for
  1380. 46:56those challenges that are inevitably in
  1381. 46:58front of you? How are you strengthening
  1382. 47:00your faith? How are you growing closer
  1383. 47:02to God into that image?
  1384. 47:04This is our chance, ladies and
  1385. 47:06gentlemen. This is our chance not just
  1386. 47:08to grow older, but to grow up. And I
  1387. 47:10promise you, you will not regret it.
  1388. 47:14Let's stand together for a prayer.
  1389. 47:18>> [clears throat]
  1390. 47:18>> In the name of the Father, and the Son,
  1391. 47:20and the Holy Spirit, one God. Amen.
  1392. 47:23Heavenly Father, we thank you, Lord,
  1393. 47:25for this message that you gave us today,
  1394. 47:27Lord, that you love us so much, and you
  1395. 47:29desire so much for us. This is not what
  1396. 47:31you want from us, Lord, but what you
  1397. 47:33want for us.
  1398. 47:34So, please, God, help us. Give us the
  1399. 47:37the the strength, and the courage, and
  1400. 47:39the discipline to be able to set aside
  1401. 47:4230 to 45 minutes this week to just
  1402. 47:44invest in our relationship with you.
  1403. 47:46You, Lord, are worth so much more than
  1404. 47:4930 to 45 minutes. It's embarrassing to
  1405. 47:50even say that, Lord. But, help us to be
  1406. 47:53able to carve that time out, Lord. And I
  1407. 47:55know whatever we sacrificed, you will
  1408. 47:57more than make up for in terms of the
  1409. 47:59depth and connection with you.
  1410. 48:01We pray this in the name of your son,
  1411. 48:02Jesus Christ, with the intercessions and
  1412. 48:04prayers of all your saints. Hear us as
  1413. 48:05we pray thankfully. Our Father, who art
  1414. 48:08in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy
  1415. 48:11kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth
  1416. 48:13as it is in heaven. Give us this day our
  1417. 48:15daily bread, and forgive us our
  1418. 48:17trespasses, as we forgive those who
  1419. 48:19trespass against us. And lead us not
  1420. 48:22into temptation, but deliver us from the
  1421. 48:24evil one. In Christ Jesus, our Lord, for
  1422. 48:26thine is the kingdom, the power, and the
  1423. 48:28glory forever. Amen.
  1424. 48:30Have a great week, everyone. We'll see
  1425. 48:31you next Sunday.

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