Before You Stay in an Unhappy Marriage for Your Children, Watch This! — Transcript

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1. 0:00If a man is no longer happy in his
2. 0:02marriage, but he stays because of his
3. 0:04children,
4. 0:05>> [music]
5. 0:05>> do you think he's doing the right thing?
6. 0:07>> Before I answer that,
7. 0:09let me ask [music] you, too.
8. 0:11If you were in a marriage where you felt
9. 0:12unloved, would you stay for your
10. 0:13children?
11. 0:15Even though I know most of you may be
12. 0:16the problem, I'm sure your answer would
13. 0:18be, "Hell no, I'll choose my happiness."
14. 0:20And honestly, I believe men should have
15. 0:22that same right. [music] If your wife
16. 0:23constantly disrespects you, tries to
17. 0:25control you, and makes you feel
18. 0:26worthless in your own home,
19. 0:28>> [music]
20. 0:28>> why should you keep suffering just
21. 0:29because you're a man? Because of
22. 0:30situations like this, some men are dying
23. 0:32inside silently, while others are
24. 0:34fighting battles nobody knows about. I'm
25. 0:35speaking from experience. When a man is
26. 0:37constantly disrespected, belittled, and
27. 0:39treated like he has no value by the
28. 0:41woman he loves, it can slowly destroy
29. 0:43his confidence and affect his mental
30. 0:44health. You expect him to go through
31. 0:46this every day all for the sake of the
32. 0:48children? Now, listen to this. As a man,
33. 0:50if your marriage is destroying your
34. 0:51peace and self-worth, you deserve to ask
35. 0:53yourself whether staying is really the
36. 0:55best choice. Because sometimes, why are
37. 0:57women encouraged to choose their
38. 0:58happiness, while men are expected to
39. 1:00stay and suffer in silence?
40. 1:02>> [music]
41. 1:03>> This is your life. You don't have to
42. 1:05destroy yourself trying to satisfy
43. 1:06society's expectations.
44. 1:09>> But wait, you're making it sound so easy
45. 1:10to just walk away. What about the
46. 1:12children who have to live with the
47. 1:13consequences? You might find your peace,
48. 1:15but what if your children are the ones
49. 1:17who suffer?
50. 1:17>> [music]
51. 1:18>> That's exactly my point. Everybody talks
52. 1:20about what happens to the children when
53. 1:21their parents separate, but who talks
54. 1:23about what happens to children [music]
55. 1:25who grow up watching their father being
56. 1:27disrespected, unhappy, and emotionally
57. 1:29broken every single day? You [music]
58. 1:31think staying together automatically
59. 1:33means giving your children a happy home?
60. 1:35Children don't just listen to [music]
61. 1:36what you tell them about love. They
62. 1:37watch how you treat each other, and
63. 1:39sometimes, the marriage you're trying so
64. 1:40hard to save becomes the very thing
65. 1:42teaching them the [music] wrong lessons
66. 1:44about love. I'm not saying every unhappy
67. 1:46marriage should end. I'm saying children
68. 1:48deserve peace, and so do fathers.
69. 1:50>> [music]
70. 1:50>> Because what good is keeping the family
71. 1:52under one roof if the man inside that
72. 1:53house is slowly losing himself?