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Be Careful of These Manipulative People | Khutbah By Nouman Ali Khan — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Allah now describes something happening
  2. 0:01deep inside ourselves, inside each
  3. 0:03person, inside me, inside you.
  4. 0:09Don't end up following feelings, empty
  5. 0:12feelings, that keep you from being fair.
  6. 0:16And this idea is your feelings get in
  7. 0:18the way and say this person deserves
  8. 0:20less because I don't like them.
  9. 0:22This person said this this this and
  10. 0:23therefore they should not have as much
  11. 0:24as this person or the other person.
  12. 0:26Or implicitly, you know, for example,
  13. 0:28there's a father who loves one of his
  14. 0:30sons and is kind of annoyed with the
  15. 0:31other son.
  16. 0:32And time comes for inheritance and he
  17. 0:34kind of
  18. 0:36you know, favors one son over the other.
  19. 0:38The feeling got in the way.
  20. 0:40The feeling got This one used to massage
  21. 0:42my feet even when he was a teenager.
  22. 0:44This one was talking back to me. He
  23. 0:45should not get the a piece of the This
  24. 0:47one gets the BMW, this one gets the 1987
  25. 0:50Hyundai.
  26. 0:51Right? That's cuz they both got a car,
  27. 0:53so you know. No, no, no. Your your
  28. 0:56feelings cannot get in the way of being
  29. 0:58fair.
  30. 1:00Your feelings cannot allow you to be
  31. 1:01biased one way or the other.
  32. 1:43What kind of heavy heavy Muhammad
  33. 1:45Sallallahu alaihi wasallam
  34. 1:47What in a shuttle aboard
  35. 1:49in a cooler
  36. 1:51and better What could I be that dollar
  37. 1:53or could I be that in the north?
  38. 1:56You call Allah as you wish you can tell
  39. 1:58me to clean my body and I call you to be
  40. 1:59like
  41. 2:39In my last uh khutbah, I spoke about the
  42. 2:42opening phrase of ayah 135 of Surat
  43. 2:44An-Nisa. I'll summarize that for you.
  44. 2:47Those of you who claim to believe become
  45. 2:49or be those that keep standing up for
  46. 2:52justice or stay keep standing up with
  47. 2:55justice by their side.
  48. 2:57Witnesses being witnesses only for
  49. 3:00Allah.
  50. 3:01Some easy takeaways that you can
  51. 3:03remember from this ayah will be or this
  52. 3:05part of the ayah will be that Allah
  53. 3:06wants us to not just be fair, but become
  54. 3:10people, completely transform ourselves,
  55. 3:13that every opportunity we rise up and
  56. 3:15stand for what is right over and over
  57. 3:17again. And it's not just in things that
  58. 3:20have to do with the outside world. It
  59. 3:22has to do with things inside our
  60. 3:23families, inside our homes. Because this
  61. 3:25ayah 135 in Surat An-Nisa is coming
  62. 3:28after a long series of ayat that deal
  63. 3:30with political issues in Medina, but
  64. 3:33they also deal with family issues.
  65. 3:35And then Allah mentions justice. So,
  66. 3:37there's justice in politics, and there's
  67. 3:39also justice in the family. And he
  68. 3:41combines both of them in this ayah now.
  69. 3:43And tells believers you have to keep
  70. 3:45standing up for justice every time there
  71. 3:47is an injustice happening between
  72. 3:48husband and wife, parents and children,
  73. 3:50inheritance matter, money dispute,
  74. 3:52whatever the dispute is, you have to
  75. 3:54stand by justice for Allah's sake. Now,
  76. 3:56why why even mention
  77. 3:58be witnesses for Allah's sake, shuhada'a
  78. 4:00lillah? Why not just say, be fair for
  79. 4:02Allah's sake?
  80. 4:03The shuhada'a, the the mention of the
  81. 4:05word witnesses is to tell us something
  82. 4:07very key about justice. Justice does not
  83. 4:09work without testimony.
  84. 4:11One of the most fundamental aspects of
  85. 4:13justice is testimony, is witness.
  86. 4:16And when someone gives witness, they can
  87. 4:18be influenced. They can be influenced by
  88. 4:20their anger.
  89. 4:21So, or they could be influenced by their
  90. 4:22emotions. One of my teachers is a great
  91. 4:24inspiration to me. Uh
  92. 4:26She doesn't like me to mention her name,
  93. 4:28but she's a I study under her uh in
  94. 4:30Istanbul
  95. 4:32uh at a university.
  96. 4:33And she was mentioning that one time
  97. 4:34there was at the university there was a
  98. 4:36dispute among teachers.
  99. 4:38Something happened. Somebody some
  100. 4:39teacher got angry at another teacher and
  101. 4:41they said something.
  102. 4:43And
  103. 4:44she was the director of the program, so
  104. 4:45she wanted to know what happened. So,
  105. 4:47she called all the staff that witnessed
  106. 4:48it, right? And so, tell me what
  107. 4:50happened. And they start telling her
  108. 4:53what happened, but some people came in
  109. 4:55and said, "Oh, it was terrible. I just I
  110. 4:57felt so terrified and it was so unusual.
  111. 4:59And it it
  112. 5:00And she says, "No, no, I didn't ask you
  113. 5:02how you felt. I asked you what
  114. 5:03happened."
  115. 5:05Right? So, now what they're testifying,
  116. 5:06but they're mixing the testimony with a
  117. 5:08lot of their emotions, their
  118. 5:09experiences, how they felt. I can't
  119. 5:11believe this person said that. I can't I
  120. 5:14can't believe they raised their voice
  121. 5:15this much. Those things are your
  122. 5:17opinions.
  123. 5:18And you may be entitled to your opinion,
  124. 5:21but
  125. 5:21testimony has nothing to do with your
  126. 5:24opinion. Testimony is who said what,
  127. 5:26what did they say,
  128. 5:28and what did you what did you recall?
  129. 5:30When you start mixing that in with your
  130. 5:32emotions, the emotions that we have,
  131. 5:34they go up and down. When you're
  132. 5:35stressed out, you feel a certain way.
  133. 5:37When you're angry, you feel a certain
  134. 5:38way. You could say something and you
  135. 5:39don't remember that you said it.
  136. 5:42Other people even testify to She asked
  137. 5:44them, "What happened?" "I I don't know.
  138. 5:46It was so I can't remember anything.
  139. 5:49Okay, then you're not a credible
  140. 5:50witness.
  141. 5:51Right? So, the idea of witness is really
  142. 5:54important in testimony. And in in
  143. 5:56justice, you can't have justice without
  144. 5:59accurate testimony. And testimony
  145. 6:02can be corrupted easily.
  146. 6:04It can be corrupted, like I said, by
  147. 6:05anger. It can be corrupted by fear.
  148. 6:07Somebody could intimidate a witness, you
  149. 6:09better not say anything.
  150. 6:10Or you better testify falsely. Somebody
  151. 6:12could be thinking, if I testify, I'll
  152. 6:14lose my job.
  153. 6:16If I testify, my father will disown me.
  154. 6:18If I testify, I'll be humiliated. If I
  155. 6:20tell the truth of what happened, they're
  156. 6:21not going to be my friend anymore.
  157. 6:23Everybody's going to block me. I'm going
  158. 6:24to lose my position. I'm going to be
  159. 6:26humiliated in this society. Now, I'm
  160. 6:28never going to get invited over to their
  161. 6:29house again. Etc. etc. etc.
  162. 6:32Meaning, if you're going to stand up for
  163. 6:33justice, you're going to lose somebody.
  164. 6:36So, Allah says, shuhada'a lillahi.
  165. 6:38Be witnesses
  166. 6:40for Allah. And that for Allah means
  167. 6:43against someone else.
  168. 6:45Because for Allah means that if I was
  169. 6:47going to testify for my father's sake,
  170. 6:50to make sure that my father doesn't get
  171. 6:52upset, then it's not for Allah anymore.
  172. 6:54But if I testified for Allah's sake,
  173. 6:55it's very possible my dad might get very
  174. 6:57angry.
  175. 6:58It's very possible my employer that
  176. 7:00might get very angry. It's very possible
  177. 7:01all my friends that decided to give the
  178. 7:04same false testimony, and I decided not
  179. 7:06to go with them, and I was there, too.
  180. 7:09I don't go with them. They all I lose a
  181. 7:10I lose that circle. They're no longer my
  182. 7:12friend.
  183. 7:13It's very possible that they next time
  184. 7:15they testify against me.
  185. 7:17They And so, I'm bringing a world of
  186. 7:19trouble on myself when I testify for
  187. 7:22justice.
  188. 7:24Shuhada'a lillahi.
  189. 7:26Now, Allah adds, this is the opening.
  190. 7:27This is what I talked about in some
  191. 7:29detail last time. Walau ala anfusikum.
  192. 7:32Now, Allah says, and you better get up
  193. 7:34every time and speak what the truth is
  194. 7:37in whatever situation, personal, family,
  195. 7:40business, friends, political, whatever
  196. 7:42situation, even
  197. 7:45if that testimony goes against
  198. 7:48yourselves.
  199. 7:50This means a few things. What does it
  200. 7:51mean it goes against yourself? It might
  201. 7:53mean that you did something wrong and
  202. 7:54you're testifying here, I messed up.
  203. 7:57I said that I shouldn't have said that.
  204. 7:58Meaning you're admitting your fault.
  205. 8:00That's one of the meanings, that's
  206. 8:01obvious.
  207. 8:02Another meaning is even if it's not
  208. 8:04against your own mistake,
  209. 8:06but you testifying is going to bring
  210. 8:08harm to you.
  211. 8:10You will testify and it will go against
  212. 8:12you in some way.
  213. 8:13You testify and now you made a new enemy
  214. 8:16that you didn't want. That enemy is
  215. 8:17dangerous. He's already hurt a lot of
  216. 8:19other people. She's already hurt a lot
  217. 8:20of other people. And you by correctly
  218. 8:22testifying have turned her or his
  219. 8:25rageful eyes towards you.
  220. 8:27So you brought harm upon yourself. Allah
  221. 8:29says, "Even if it brings harm upon
  222. 8:30yourself, testify."
  223. 8:35Even if your testimony harms or goes
  224. 8:38against both parents.
  225. 8:40So one meaning of that is maybe the two
  226. 8:42parents, by the way, all human beings
  227. 8:45are flawed.
  228. 8:46All human being Nobody's perfect. You
  229. 8:48know what that also means? Shocker, no
  230. 8:50parents are perfect.
  231. 8:52You know, in the end, we have in Islam
  232. 8:55the highest respect for our parents, but
  233. 8:58that does not give them the rank of
  234. 9:00angels. They're also human beings.
  235. 9:02They can also have greed. They can also
  236. 9:04have jealousy. They can also have
  237. 9:05injustice. Somebody's father is also a
  238. 9:07thief.
  239. 9:09Somebody's mother is also testifying
  240. 9:10falsely. Somebody's father and mother
  241. 9:12also doing riba. These evil things are
  242. 9:14happening by somebody's father and
  243. 9:15somebody's mother also.
  244. 9:17And now if you have to testify against
  245. 9:19the evil that's happening, sometimes you
  246. 9:21might even have to testify against both
  247. 9:22parents.
  248. 9:24Or against the will of the parents.
  249. 9:26Parents come and say, "Hey, I know you
  250. 9:28saw what happened. I know you want to
  251. 9:29speak up, but I'm telling you as your
  252. 9:31father and I'm telling you as your
  253. 9:33mother, don't get involved."
  254. 9:36That's not your problem. Don't just this
  255. 9:37shut up.
  256. 9:38Listen to your parents. Don't say
  257. 9:40anything.
  258. 9:41We don't talk about that. That's If you
  259. 9:43speak about that, it's going to make us
  260. 9:44look bad in the family.
  261. 9:46Et cetera, et cetera.
  262. 9:48I will walidain, even if the parents are
  263. 9:50putting pressure on you not to speak up.
  264. 9:53Even if the it goes and eventually even
  265. 9:55harms the parents in some way. If it's
  266. 9:57the right testimony for the sake of
  267. 9:59Allah, nobody gets in the way.
  268. 10:05There's no possibility of obeying any
  269. 10:06any of Allah's creation when it come if
  270. 10:09you have to disobey the creator to do
  271. 10:10it. And what's the what's the obedience
  272. 10:12of Allah here? Testifying truthfully.
  273. 10:15Speaking of the truth when you know the
  274. 10:16truth.
  275. 10:21wal aqrabin, and then the closest
  276. 10:23relatives.
  277. 10:24And some of you might say that's easy. I
  278. 10:25don't like my close relatives anyway.
  279. 10:27I'll easily testify against them.
  280. 10:29Right.
  281. 10:30The problem here is the Arabs, for them,
  282. 10:33the close relatives were the tribe.
  283. 10:35And the tribe was your identity. It was
  284. 10:37your security. It was your lifeline.
  285. 10:40Somebody might take your head off, and
  286. 10:42then they realize you're from that
  287. 10:43tribe, might spare you.
  288. 10:45That was your security net.
  289. 10:47That was the thing that buffered you.
  290. 10:49That was your passport. That was your
  291. 10:50citizenship.
  292. 10:51So, al aqrabin is broader than just your
  293. 10:53family.
  294. 10:54It has deeper meaning.
  295. 10:56Today it might be that the your buffer,
  296. 10:58your security buffer, might be something
  297. 11:01that you lose your job security.
  298. 11:03You might lose your place in the in the
  299. 11:05in the family business or something. Aw
  300. 11:07al aqrabin.
  301. 11:08Then Allah says in yakun ghaniyan aw
  302. 11:10faqiran.
  303. 11:12Stop. Don't don't get in the way of the
  304. 11:14correct testimony thinking about whether
  305. 11:16the person you're testifying against or
  306. 11:18the speak that the the thing you're
  307. 11:19going to say, is it going to harm
  308. 11:21someone rich or is it going to harm
  309. 11:22someone poor?
  310. 11:24That doesn't factor into the testimony.
  311. 11:26If it harms someone rich, you might get
  312. 11:28scared and say, "Well, they got money,
  313. 11:30and if it harms them, they're going to
  314. 11:31take revenge from me. So, I better not
  315. 11:33mess with this rich guy or these rich
  316. 11:34people. I'm not going to testify against
  317. 11:36them.
  318. 11:37If it's against some someone poor and
  319. 11:39you testify, you say, "Oh, this is
  320. 11:41already poor guy. He's already got a
  321. 11:42tough life. Me testifying against him is
  322. 11:44going to make things even harder. Let it
  323. 11:46slide."
  324. 11:48Right? So, either you get afraid to
  325. 11:49testify because you're intimidated by
  326. 11:51someone's wealth
  327. 11:52or maybe you might even want to win
  328. 11:54their favor by not testifying. They
  329. 11:55might do you a favor. They might give
  330. 11:57you a promotion. Might give your son a
  331. 11:59job, something. Right? So, might come
  332. 12:01with some benefits. And not testifying
  333. 12:04against someone poor, you might pity
  334. 12:05them and might let them go.
  335. 12:07Allah says, "When it comes to justice
  336. 12:08for me, these feelings of yours, you
  337. 12:10have to put them aside. These fears and
  338. 12:12these biases, you have to put them
  339. 12:13aside. Just testify."
  340. 12:22And after making all of this list, which
  341. 12:23started with myself, of course, the one
  342. 12:25the one person I'm looking out for more
  343. 12:27than anyone else is myself. And Allah
  344. 12:29started with that. When it comes to true
  345. 12:31testimony,
  346. 12:33you need to be willing to sacrifice
  347. 12:34yourself.
  348. 12:36That's where he started.
  349. 12:37Then he says,
  350. 12:40"Allah comes before before all of them."
  351. 12:44Allah comes before both of them, you
  352. 12:46know?
  353. 12:47Meaning that Allah is priority over the
  354. 12:49rich one. Allah is priority over the
  355. 12:50poor one.
  356. 12:52There's no These are not priorities for
  357. 12:54you. Allah is priority. When Allah gives
  358. 12:56his word, that's it. That's the end of
  359. 12:57it.
  360. 12:58Now,
  361. 12:59this part of the ayah is telling us the
  362. 13:02people
  363. 13:04that have influence on us, including
  364. 13:06ourselves, that get in the way of
  365. 13:08speaking the truth
  366. 13:10or standing up for what is fair, what is
  367. 13:11right. Yeah?
  368. 13:13The next part of the ayah, still on one
  369. 13:15all one ayah.
  370. 13:17Allah now describes something happening
  371. 13:19deep inside ourselves, inside each
  372. 13:21person, inside me, inside you.
  373. 13:25and ta'dilu.
  374. 13:27Don't end up following feelings, empty
  375. 13:30feelings that keep you from being fair.
  376. 13:34Don't end up following empty feelings
  377. 13:36that keep you from being fair. Now, the
  378. 13:38word for fairness here
  379. 13:40is the second word. The first word used
  380. 13:42in this ayah was al-qist.
  381. 13:45Allah in the beginning said, "Kunu
  382. 13:46qawwamīn shuhadā'a bil-qist."
  383. 13:49Shuhadā'a bil-qist lillāh in the
  384. 13:51beginning of this ayah. Now, he's not
  385. 13:53using the word qist.
  386. 13:54He's using the word al-'adl, and a
  387. 13:56different word, and ta'dilu.
  388. 13:59The word 'adl in Arabic has to do with
  389. 14:01equal.
  390. 14:02Has to do with fair share.
  391. 14:04'Adala, everybody got an equal share.
  392. 14:06Everybody got a fair share, right?
  393. 14:09And this idea is your feelings get in
  394. 14:12the way and say, "This person deserves
  395. 14:13less because I don't like them.
  396. 14:15This person said this, this, this, and
  397. 14:17therefore they should not have as much
  398. 14:18as this person or the other person."
  399. 14:20Or implicitly, you know, for example,
  400. 14:22there's a father who loves one of his
  401. 14:23sons and is kind of annoyed with the
  402. 14:24other son.
  403. 14:26And time comes for inheritance, and he
  404. 14:27kind of
  405. 14:29you know, favors one son over the other.
  406. 14:32The feeling got in the way.
  407. 14:34The feeling got, "This one used to
  408. 14:35massage my feet even when he was a
  409. 14:36teenager. This one was talking back to
  410. 14:38me. He should not get a piece of the
  411. 14:40This one gets the BMW, this one gets the
  412. 14:431987 Hyundai."
  413. 14:45Right? That's cuz they both got a car,
  414. 14:47so you know. No, no, no.
  415. 14:48Your Your feelings cannot get in the way
  416. 14:51of being fair.
  417. 14:53Your feelings cannot allow you to be
  418. 14:55biased one way or the other.
  419. 14:57This is extremely important because
  420. 14:58there are people that we want to do more
  421. 15:00for more than they deserve because we
  422. 15:02love them.
  423. 15:04There are people that we want to deprive
  424. 15:06because we hate them.
  425. 15:09There are people that we want to cause
  426. 15:10harm to because we don't like them.
  427. 15:13Because they were we were hurt by
  428. 15:14something they did or something they
  429. 15:15said. We just want to see them suffer.
  430. 15:17The feeling,
  431. 15:19the need for revenge, the feeling of
  432. 15:21being humiliated, the feeling of being
  433. 15:23one-upped by somebody. Now you want to
  434. 15:25satisfy that feeling and when justice
  435. 15:27comes in front of you, you say, "No, no,
  436. 15:28no, no justice, excuse me. Go to the
  437. 15:30side. I need to follow my feelings right
  438. 15:32now."
  439. 15:33And then someone reminds you, "Hey, fear
  440. 15:35Allah. What you're doing is unfair. What
  441. 15:37you're saying isn't true. What you're
  442. 15:38saying is a lie."
  443. 15:40You know that it's a lie. Don't do it.
  444. 15:42You don't know what this person did.
  445. 15:44You don't know how they made me feel.
  446. 15:46As if
  447. 15:47justice can be put on the side because
  448. 15:49of how you feel.
  449. 15:51This is exactly what Allah is saying. Do
  450. 15:53not follow your feelings to let them get
  451. 15:56in the way of justice.
  452. 16:02Then this this whole concept of justice
  453. 16:06takes another step.
  454. 16:08People say, "No, no, no, fine. I'm not
  455. 16:09being unfair. Fine, fine, fine. I'll be
  456. 16:11fair."
  457. 16:12But there are plenty of ways to play
  458. 16:13games with justice.
  459. 16:15There's plenty of ways and Allah
  460. 16:17mentioned two ways. You can be unjust.
  461. 16:20You can violate what Allah is teaching
  462. 16:22you. You can violate it and be slick
  463. 16:25about it and nobody will catch you.
  464. 16:28Except Allah.
  465. 16:29But everybody will think you you're
  466. 16:31right.
  467. 16:32First tactic you can use if you want to
  468. 16:34be really unfair while wearing the
  469. 16:36disguise of fairness.
  470. 16:38While be you can be the the villain, you
  471. 16:40can be the oppressor while while wearing
  472. 16:42the disguise of the oppressed.
  473. 16:45You can be the perpetrator
  474. 16:47while wearing the the disguise of the
  475. 16:49victim.
  476. 16:50It's very easy.
  477. 16:53If you just twist The word Allah uses is
  478. 16:56twist. Let's focus on this word for a
  479. 16:58minute. I know I'm supposed to
  480. 16:59end at 3:00. I'm going to take 5
  481. 17:01minutes. I promise you. 5 minutes is I I
  482. 17:02don't mean Muslim 5 minutes. I mean 5
  483. 17:04minutes.
  484. 17:05Okay?
  485. 17:06If you twist Let's just talk I won't
  486. 17:08even talk about the second tactic. I'll
  487. 17:09just talk about this one tactic. If you
  488. 17:11twist The word lawa in Arabic is used
  489. 17:13for a tree that wraps or the kind of
  490. 17:16plant that wraps itself around other
  491. 17:18trees and then squeezes them.
  492. 17:20Yeah? [clears throat] That's what it's
  493. 17:21used for. It's also used for the tail of
  494. 17:23a scorpion that's always bent.
  495. 17:25Yeah? From this comes the idea that
  496. 17:27there are people
  497. 17:29who wrap them They They find someone to
  498. 17:30talk to. Like for example, you stole
  499. 17:32money. I'm not saying you, hypothetical
  500. 17:34you, stole money.
  501. 17:36And you're about to get caught.
  502. 17:38So, before you get caught,
  503. 17:40you go to someone and say, "You know, I
  504. 17:42was working so hard and these people
  505. 17:44didn't pay me for several months and my
  506. 17:46boss is so oppressive and it was such a
  507. 17:48bad and you know this person is a
  508. 17:49soft-hearted person, you start crying in
  509. 17:51front of them telling them an entire
  510. 17:52mythology that you created about how
  511. 17:54oppressed you were and you just wanted
  512. 17:56your paycheck." And you don't mention
  513. 17:58anything about the
  514. 17:59couple of million you conveniently
  515. 18:01withdrew for yourself. "I did so much
  516. 18:03for him. I did this and I did this. And
  517. 18:05now they're accusing me Astaghfirullah,
  518. 18:06I can't even tell you what they're
  519. 18:07accusing me of." The cops are after you,
  520. 18:09bro, like
  521. 18:11But they know how to spin a story. And
  522. 18:13they can get someone to cry for them.
  523. 18:15They can get somebody to feel bad for
  524. 18:17them.
  525. 18:18They know what disguise to put on in
  526. 18:20front of what person.
  527. 18:22Oh, this person has a soft corner for
  528. 18:23children? Let me talk to them about my
  529. 18:25kids and how bad they feel. This person
  530. 18:27cares a lot about, you know, Islam? Let
  531. 18:29me quote some ayat and a hadith when I
  532. 18:31tell my story to this person. They know
  533. 18:33how to put on the disguise that they
  534. 18:35need to to manipulate the opinions of
  535. 18:38others because if they can twist enough
  536. 18:40people's minds and a bunch of people
  537. 18:42start saying, "Yeah, this person is the
  538. 18:44victim." You no longer need justice
  539. 18:46because the popular opinion is this is
  540. 18:47the right This is the victim.
  541. 18:49And you can play that game.
  542. 18:51You can be very good at playing that
  543. 18:53game.
  544. 18:54You can also twist words by not saying
  545. 18:56what happened. You know, uh politicians
  546. 18:58are very good at this. "Did you or did
  547. 19:00you not sign this document?"
  548. 19:02Senate hearing.
  549. 19:03The guy says, "Yeah, when I was five, I
  550. 19:05went to kindergarten and
  551. 19:06Nobody asked you."
  552. 19:08You're going everywhere in in universe
  553. 19:10except a yes or a no.
  554. 19:12Right? You can't do it because this is
  555. 19:14intel woo.
  556. 19:15You twist. You word You play word games.
  557. 19:18You're not straightforward. This is the
  558. 19:19opposite of qawlan sadida, speak
  559. 19:21straightforward.
  560. 19:23Some people, men and women, master this
  561. 19:26technique.
  562. 19:27They master twisting words, manipulating
  563. 19:30communications, talking to this person
  564. 19:33in this way, that person in that way,
  565. 19:34that person in that way. In their mind,
  566. 19:36people are just pawns. You're supposed
  567. 19:38to just turn them like chess pieces. I
  568. 19:40want to turn this person's focus this
  569. 19:42way, this person's focus that way. I
  570. 19:43want to turn this one against them, that
  571. 19:45one against them, that one against them,
  572. 19:46that one against them. And then I can
  573. 19:47slip through.
  574. 19:48When tell woo.
  575. 19:50Now, I'm telling you all of this because
  576. 19:52people that do this, right? They might
  577. 19:53be in your family. Some of Some of you
  578. 19:55are sitting here listening to this like
  579. 19:56I can think of someone in my in-laws
  580. 19:57that are very good at this. Like
  581. 19:59Don't.
  582. 20:00Try not to.
  583. 20:02But as you're thinking about that, just
  584. 20:04know something. They get away with it.
  585. 20:07They don't get caught.
  586. 20:09There's no way to catch their
  587. 20:10manipulations. They're very good at
  588. 20:11doing this
  589. 20:13without a clean record. That's not what
  590. 20:15I said.
  591. 20:17I didn't I don't remember saying that.
  592. 20:19What are you talking about? I would
  593. 20:20never say that.
  594. 20:22No, no, no. This person's lying. This
  595. 20:24person's doing this. What I actually
  596. 20:26meant was this. They know how to rewrite
  597. 20:28the history.
  598. 20:29They know how to retell the story.
  599. 20:31Flip it every time. And you're like, how
  600. 20:32do I How do I deal with this person?
  601. 20:34They're like, you know, like a snake
  602. 20:36that keeps twisting. Like you can't
  603. 20:37catch them in a straight line.
  604. 20:39What does Allah say at the end of that
  605. 20:41ayah? If you are going to play this
  606. 20:42game,
  607. 20:44Allah didn't say in this ayah that you
  608. 20:46will be exposed. That's not what Allah
  609. 20:48said. Allah said, "Inna Allaha kana bi
  610. 20:50ma ta'maluna khabira."
  611. 20:52Then Allah has had full news of
  612. 20:53everything you've been up to. Every
  613. 20:54twist and every turn and every
  614. 20:56manipulation that nobody caught.
  615. 20:59You never went to court for it.
  616. 21:01Nobody held you accountable for it. You
  617. 21:03got away with it clean.
  618. 21:05The The The wolf successfully pretended
  619. 21:07to be the sheep.
  620. 21:09Yeah?
  621. 21:10The the the the the snake successfully
  622. 21:13coming off as the rabbit.
  623. 21:15Every time.
  624. 21:17And Allah says, "Congratulations. I've
  625. 21:19kept record of every one of your twists
  626. 21:21and turns."
  627. 21:26And you're like, "Okay, okay, yeah,
  628. 21:27Allah knows. I got it. Uh-huh. At least
  629. 21:28at least I won the lawsuit."
  630. 21:31Allah got it, but at least I didn't have
  631. 21:32to pay the money back.
  632. 21:33I got away with it.
  633. 21:35Yeah, yeah. I got But at least I got my
  634. 21:37revenge.
  635. 21:38You know, in the next ayah Allah This
  636. 21:40ayah was about justice. The next ayah is
  637. 21:42ya ayyuha alladhina amanu aminu billahi
  638. 21:44wa rasulih.
  639. 21:45Those of you who believe actually
  640. 21:46believe. Meaning, this is not just a
  641. 21:48matter of justice. This is a matter of
  642. 21:49faith itself. If standing in front of
  643. 21:52Allah doesn't scare you, do you even
  644. 21:54believe in Allah?
  645. 21:56Is that even faith?
  646. 21:58I mean, if that level of injustice
  647. 22:00doesn't bother you,
  648. 22:02and Allah threatening you directly that
  649. 22:03I know I'm going to deal with you,
  650. 22:05that's not enough for you to stop you in
  651. 22:07your tracks
  652. 22:09and to rethink your behavior, and you
  653. 22:11continue to twist and plot,
  654. 22:14then the only one to deal with is Allah.
  655. 22:16And that's why in this set of ayat
  656. 22:17you'll also find alladhina kafaru
  657. 22:20alladhina amanu thumma kafaru thumma
  658. 22:22amanu thumma kafaru thumma azdadu
  659. 22:24kufran.
  660. 22:25Those who claim to believe, then they
  661. 22:27disbelieve, then they believe, then they
  662. 22:29disbelieve. We know in this in in Medina
  663. 22:31nobody accepted Islam and rejected Islam
  664. 22:33and accepted Islam and rejected. That
  665. 22:34never happened. Not on the outside.
  666. 22:37This is talking about what's happening
  667. 22:39on the inside.
  668. 22:41They got their act together, then they
  669. 22:43twisted and turned again, then they got
  670. 22:44their act together, then they played
  671. 22:45more manipulations. This is the story of
  672. 22:47the munafiqun.
  673. 22:48That's why in the next ayah after
  674. 22:49alladhina am alladhina amanu thumma
  675. 22:51kafaru thumma amanu thumma kafaru thumma
  676. 22:53azdadu kufran, next ayah bashshir
  677. 22:55al-munafiqin.
  678. 22:56Bi-annahum adhabun alim. Congratulate
  679. 22:58the hypocrites.
  680. 23:00That that was about hypocrites.
  681. 23:02Allah Azza wa Jal protect all of us from
  682. 23:03falling into that hypocrisy.
  683. 23:05>> [snorts]
  684. 23:05>> And Allah Azza wa Jal protect us from
  685. 23:06those who twist their tongues and
  686. 23:08manipulate the truth for their ends. And
  687. 23:10may Allah Azza wa Jal not make us of
  688. 23:12those who fall into these traps and
  689. 23:13those that are committed to Allah's
  690. 23:14justice because that is a that is a
  691. 23:16testimony to our own Iman. Barakallahu
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