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0:00This is actually the easiest I think
0:01guest we could start with.
0:03>> I think so, too. Yeah, I think so, too.
0:04Also, because she knows us both really
0:06well and she respects us like we respect
0:08each other.
0:09Is [snorts] there anything that you're
0:09particularly interested in asking her?
0:11>> her last night.
0:13>> [laughter]
0:13>> Why?
0:14>> often, but last night last night for
0:16questions, um
0:18I was like coming up with like
0:19hard-hitting questions.
0:20>> And then you're like, "Ah, I should
0:21stop."
0:22>> to talk about?"
0:23>> Yeah, yeah. What Wait, what was the
0:24hard-hitting question though?
0:25>> question I came up with in my head, um
0:27like, "Oh,
0:28Barbara, you were found at 14 as a
0:31model.
0:32Dylan was a child actor. Are you guys
0:34friends because you never developed
0:36outside of
0:37uh
0:37a job?
0:39Fame? [laughter]
0:40Is that why you get along? Cuz you never
0:42went to high school and got bullied?
0:43>> what? I wish you were like a little less
0:45right on the money.
0:46>> [laughter]
0:47>> I wish you were a little less right on
0:48the money.
0:49>> It is actually a good question.
0:50>> burnt it.
0:50>> You just don't know how to ask it.
0:54>> He was like dress pants that are
0:55jeggings.
0:56They're like supposed to look like that.
0:57>> I feel like if they're dress pants, they
0:59can't be jeggings, right? The cut's got
1:01to be different.
1:02>> No, no, no, no, no. You don't know what
1:03a makes something that says, "Go into
1:04work casual." And he's like, "Yeah, no
1:05one could tell the difference." Turns
1:06out everyone could tell the difference.
1:08>> [laughter]
1:08>> his pajamas.
1:09>> Well, yeah, dude, you can't like casual
1:11doesn't mean jeggings on a man. I don't
1:13think that that's like casual Fridays
1:15does not mean jeggings.
1:17>> In the office setting?
1:19>> Yeah, like we wouldn't know. [laughter]
1:20>> Fair, yeah, yeah.
1:22>> Who knows what goes on there.
1:23>> It's scary, dude.
1:24>> Cubicles are scary.
1:25>> [laughter]
1:26>> Your dad, I feel like, has a lot of
1:27embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions.
1:30>> I'm not going to tell the story. I'd get
1:31kicked off. He's going to He's not going
1:32to come out as a guest.
1:33>> I think it's funny.
1:35>> Oh, the plane is my The plane story for
1:38your dad is truly my favorite thing
1:40ever.
1:40>> I'm going to get in trouble.
1:41>> Not not only that, but I think about it
1:44every time I'm on a plane.
1:45>> You want to say that we're kind of
1:46embarrassed guys? Like that helps. Like
1:48me and my dad like we're not big on, you
1:50know, we're not taking the shirts off
1:52all the time.
1:53We're hiding a lot.
1:54>> Hiding a lot. You guys are never
1:55dressed.
1:56>> And my dad was on a plane, he's flying
1:57back from Toronto, and he wanted to get
1:596 hours of sleep. He always flew back
2:01every weekend to see the kids, very
2:02nice. And so he he takes he takes like
2:05an Advil PM
2:07and and then halfway like he So he's
2:09like, "Oh, you know, I'm just going to
2:10sleep." And he wakes up, he's like, "Oh,
2:12it's the best sleep of my life." And
2:13there's a stewardess tapping him. He
2:14goes, "Sir, sir, sir."
2:16"Sir, can you please put
2:16[snorts and clears throat] your shirt
2:17on?"
2:18>> [laughter]
2:19>> While he was asleep, he's taken his
2:20shirt off mid-flight.
2:22>> [laughter]
2:22>> And he's like, "I might have been asleep
2:23for 2 to 3 hours just with my shirt
2:25off."
2:26And then I think about that, I have
2:28never taken Advil PM. I'll never will
2:30cuz I'm like, "What if I take my shirt
2:31off?" I don't take my shirt off at home.
2:33>> [laughter]
2:34>> What about those four baths that you
2:36shirt on?
2:37>> You got to like you [laughter] got to
2:38>> my wet suit on?
2:39>> A rash guard on in the in the bath?
2:43>> So what are we thinking of asking our
2:45first guest
2:46>> [laughter]
2:46>> tonight ever, which is Barbara, my wife,
2:48which is
2:49>> And you texted me this morning, you go,
2:50"Oh my god, like this I I you said I'm
2:52really tired." And I texted you back, I
2:54was like, "Well, you're interviewing
2:55your wife. Like this should be easy for
2:56you."
2:57>> It's going [laughter] to be very easy
2:58for me cuz
2:58>> Cuz you guys didn't go to high school,
3:00didn't go to college.
3:01>> No, I definitely think Well, I first
3:02[laughter] off
3:03>> We met in college.
3:04>> [ __ ] off. I
3:07I do think I was talking to my brother
3:09about this actually a little while ago.
3:10I do think that there we have a
3:13definitive kinship about being like
3:15young, working in entertainment. There's
3:18definitely overlap there because there's
3:20a shorthand. Like I think with
3:22with people who are in the industry to
3:24date someone outside of the industry,
3:26and we're in two different industries,
3:27but to date someone outside of the
3:28industry, there's definitely a learning
3:30curve of explaining like "Hey, now I'm
3:32gone for 3 months and oh, I have to fly
3:35to this thing out there."
3:37>> more often, you're long-term less often,
3:39right?
3:40>> Yeah.
3:40>> So she's like every other weekend she's
3:41flying out.
3:42>> I mean, I think a lot of people talk
3:44[ __ ] about that industry, which I think
3:46is undeserved, but like when I watch
3:47Barbara on set
3:49>> Mhm.
3:50>> she locks in. She's so good at it. Well,
3:52that's why she can sleep on planes,
3:53right? Like I think it's all of the
3:55above.
3:56>> as a kid.
3:57>> It's all the above. It's all the above,
3:58dude. I mean, also she's Hungarian, so I
4:00think like they have like a sleep thing
4:02there where they can just sleep at any
4:03time. I've watched Hungarians like sleep
4:05on a staircase, like down a staircase
4:07once.
4:08>> Down a staircase?
4:09>> on the stone, down a staircase.
4:11>> much. I went to the Museum of Terror. It
4:13was awesome.
4:14>> I know. Here's one I have never actually
4:16been there.
4:16>> It's awesome. We all came in after your
4:18bachelor party. Everyone's hungover. I'm
4:19like, I
4:20>> You got to get to this place.
4:21>> guy in general. Like you just
4:23>> 14 No, no, I'm going to overstate it.
4:261,500
4:28men were killed in the basement of that
4:30museum. And they And you go into the
4:31execution room.
4:32And I go, I can feel it.
4:34>> This is a
4:35>> I'm not sure if I actually did, but I
4:37told everyone I could just anxious,
4:38dude.
4:38>> You got a [laughter] tummy ache.
4:40>> From your bachelor party, you got a
4:41[ __ ] tummy ache.
4:42>> Wow, I feel weird and tired
4:44>> [laughter]
4:45>> and upset about things.
4:50>> Okay, so Babs, what's our attack plan?
4:52>> Babs hasn't talked much about the
4:53pregnancy.
4:54>> She hasn't talked much about the
4:55pregnancy. I think it's all about
4:56>> Covered a bit of the wedding yesterday.
4:57>> Yeah, but I think I mean, you must have
4:59some questions about the wedding in
5:00general.
5:01>> I want to see how she dealt with you.
5:02>> exactly.
5:03>> Yeah.
5:04And she she handled like virtually
5:06everything. And also, I will say we had
5:08a lot easier
5:09>> the wedding? I'm shocked.
5:10>> I know, right? We had it a lot easier
5:12though because like her
5:14>> parents
5:15>> [snorts]
5:15>> have a wedding venue. Now, that like
5:17makes it That takes a lot of weight off
5:19us.
5:19>> It's actually an official venue, right?
5:21>> It is an official wedding venue in
5:22Hungary. So, that definitely helped us.
5:24You do not have that luxury.
5:26>> Can we bring the dogs on? I wanted you
5:28to bring Piggy today.
5:29>> Oh, that would be great.
5:30>> to bring Grandpa on before he dies.
5:32Yeah, he's the oldest French bulldog of
5:34all time.
5:35>> He is actually the oldest
5:36>> right now, and I googled like how like
5:38there was a chart like on Instagram say
5:40like, "How old is your French bulldog in
5:42human years?" It's different. And it's
5:43like it stopped at 14.
5:45>> Yeah, yeah.
5:46>> Grandpa's 15.
5:46>> I know. He's actually the oldest
5:48Frenchie.
5:48>> No.
5:49>> No, no. He's a He's the oldest Frenchie.
5:51I think that's testament to how much he
5:52loves you.
5:54>> Five tumors have been removed. The most
5:56expensive free dog anyone's ever gotten.
5:59>> Someone just left him at my dorm in
6:00college.
6:01>> So, we'll have to save that one cuz
6:02that's a long story.
6:03>> Yeah, that's a long story. Maybe, you
6:05know, maybe in the future when he comes
6:07in, we'll have him on.
6:08>> When Grandpa We can have him as a guest.
6:09>> And we have to have him as a guest.
6:10>> He's been good.
6:11>> This is actually an entire episode.
6:13I think
6:14I'm not used to interviewing people.
6:16>> Yeah.
6:17>> And I know you're not.
6:18>> No.
6:18>> So, this will definitely be our like
6:20kind of first
6:21>> First big one.
6:22>> Yeah, first big one.
6:23>> got my questions ready. I'm ready to go
6:25hard-hitting.
6:26>> Cuz when you're like in you're in a
6:28relationship with someone for so long,
6:30>> get straight answers.
6:32>> Well, sometimes you forget to ask the
6:34things that like
6:36>> [snorts]
6:36>> are really
6:38from their past or from points like you
6:40might have asked it eight years ago.
6:42>> Yeah.
6:42>> But then these are things that they find
6:44really like people who don't know this
6:46about Barbara might find it really
6:47interesting, right?
6:48>> what I'm saying. Babs doesn't I don't
6:49remember her doing much
6:51interview work.
6:52>> She kind of doesn't.
6:53>> Right?
6:54>> Which is why
6:54>> on a podcast?
6:56>> I don't think she has.
6:57>> No.
6:58>> No, which is why I think we can kind of
6:59like we can
7:00>> been on Call Her Daddy?
7:01>> Uh no. No. I think after after a call on
7:04Call Her Daddy like
7:05>> The family's been
7:06>> The whole family was like, "Fuck
7:07[laughter] that."
7:08>> So, you guys have been banned?
7:09>> I I know. They You know they asked me to
7:11come on a week later.
7:13>> Did they?
7:13>> Yeah, and I was like, "I don't think
7:14it's a good time."
7:15>> That would have been really funny.
7:16>> I know. I was like, "You know, also I
7:18just don't think it's my vibe."
7:19>> No. That I I would hate I think there's
7:22nothing a fate worse than death would
7:24having to answer questions about
7:25yourself.
7:26I could hate it.
7:28If anyone asked me like anything, I'd
7:29just be like, "No.
7:31>> [laughter]
7:31>> Can I leave?"
7:34But what are you doing in the bedroom,
7:35Brent? And I was like, "I I don't know."
7:37>> I don't know. I hopefully sleep.
7:39>> [laughter]
7:41>> Oh yeah, that sounds awful to say on TV.
7:44>> No, but you're also I feel like
7:45[laughter]
7:46you do have like some deep-seated Irish
7:48Catholic guilt though about stuff.
7:50>> Everything. [laughter]
7:51>> Like the funny thing is is I've realized
7:52over the course of our friendship
7:54>> You brought up weed yesterday and I was
7:56up last night thinking about my family
7:57hearing about me trying
7:59>> Yeah, you've got some deep-seated [ __ ]
8:01>> of THC.
8:02>> I the one thing I find really funny
8:05about the Columbuses is that you guys
8:06have one of the like you collectively
8:08have an amazing sense of humor. Like all
8:10of your your guys' humor is really good,
8:12but you do not
8:14>> So we got that.
8:14>> absolute No, thanks. [laughter] Absolute
8:16hardline in the sand is anything like
8:19poop humor.
8:19>> No, poop humor is out the window.
8:21>> It's so easy to
8:22>> Roses are out. We don't like it now.
8:24>> All of you.
8:24>> Yeah, I know.
8:25>> [laughter]
8:25>> Which is so funny.
8:26>> me angry and sick.
8:27>> Like the amount of times that I I'd be
8:29around Violet while she'd be like, "Ew,
8:31no."
8:32Like like completely freak out.
8:34>> Your your family's more like Three
8:35Stooges, where they're we're like the
8:37Marx Brothers. We're like we're like
8:39high-end film.
8:39>> You guys are slapstick.
8:42>> We're really funny and witty, yeah.
8:43>> Oh, [laughter] yeah, yeah, yeah. That's
8:45definitely the way I would explain you
8:46guys. Funny and witty. [laughter]
8:48>> and witty family.
8:53>> Well, um I'm excited about today.
8:55>> Well, let's bring her in.
8:59>> [laughter]
9:03>> You ever feel like you have a podcast
9:06and maybe you're looking forward to
9:08having a few beers for it, but you don't
9:10want to feel kind of yucky the next day?
9:11>> I'm flying to Albany tomorrow and I hate
9:14flying even a little tired. So, you know
9:15what we should do?
9:17>> Crush some of these, right?
9:17>> We're going to have a couple beers on
9:18the pod. We might as have one of these
9:20now.
9:21>> This is ZBiotics probiotic drink. It is
9:24the first genetically engineered
9:26probiotic.
9:27>> Pre-alcohol.
9:29>> Cheers.
9:29>> Knock it back.
9:32I think it tastes good. Kind of lemony.
9:34>> Yeah, I like it.
9:35>> Yeah, that's nice.
9:36Uh I guess it was invented by a PhD
9:38scientist to tackle rough mornings after
9:40drinking. Here's how it works. When you
9:42drink, alcohol gets converted into a
9:44toxic byproduct in the gut.
9:46>> I have a lot of toxic byproducts in my
9:48gut.
9:49>> do.
9:49>> I think that's just
9:50>> going to clear it right up.
9:52>> What? How?
9:53>> It's a buildup of this byproduct, not
9:55dehydration, that's to blame for rough
9:57nights after drinking.
9:58>> Pre-Alcohol produces an enzyme to break
10:00this byproduct down. The byproduct
10:02apparently is called acetaldehyde.
10:04I was actually really intrigued by this
10:06because I I like all of the alcohol
10:08science stuff.
10:09>> Um acetaldehyde, and it's the leading
10:11contributor to that bad feeling after a
10:14few drinks.
10:14>> Most people think it's dehydration. It's
10:16just not.
10:17>> It's just not.
10:18>> No, so you know what I do? These are
10:19small enough to carry around, throw one
10:20in your pocket. Friday night gets a
10:22little wild, you have this before Well,
10:24>> You want a little arm holster? You know,
10:26like chk. You know, like sideways.
10:28>> Yeah, sideways. It's like a bandolier.
10:30How do you say that?
10:31>> I'd be You know, my bachelor party's
10:33coming up. We're going to need a lot of
10:35these.
10:35>> Great time to bring that. Great time to
10:37bring that.
10:37>> fun. And you don't have to refrigerate
10:38them.
10:39>> This is kind of weird, but uh
10:41like if you're at a bachelor party,
10:43uh just make sure that Pre-Alcohol is
10:44your first drink of the night. Drink
10:46responsibly, and you'll feel your best
10:48tomorrow.
10:50Well, thank you for coming, Barbara.
10:52>> Thank you, Babs.
10:53>> Our first guest.
10:55>> [applause]
10:55>> Now, hey, you better be cool. This is my
10:57wife.
10:57>> I know.
10:58>> And this is my first podcast.
11:00>> Wow.
11:00>> It's a double up.
11:01>> Okay, so we were talking. We were
11:03wondering if this was actually your
11:04first podcast. And the thing that I had
11:07to try and get over was that like I know
11:09everything about you, of course.
11:10>> You would think.
11:11>> But there's a lot of stuff that I feel
11:13like What? Um there's a lot of stuff
11:15that uh I feel like people don't know
11:18about you that I know that I have to
11:21like think of and make sure cuz that's
11:23that's what part of and it making an
11:25interesting podcast is about.
11:26>> one of the reason why I never did a
11:27podcast cuz I people might think I'm
11:30there's I'm hiding some things behind
11:32and she's so interesting. There's
11:33nothing
11:34>> You have the mystique. [laughter] I
11:35would share the mystique right now.
11:38>> Yeah, what you see is what you get, you
11:40know.
11:40>> Well, you know, Brendan was talking a
11:42little bit before and I and I do agree
11:44with him on this. I
11:45I think first off like it's phenomenal
11:48>> Sorry,
11:48you're so serious.
11:50>> I don't know.
11:50>> [laughter]
11:51>> I didn't know we were sitting down for
11:52Maury.
11:53IT'S LIKE MAURY.
11:55LOOK, I MEAN THE THE more serious I look
11:57the
11:58the more professional I look. Like I'm
12:00This is actually This is me getting hype
12:02later. She's going to go, "Baby, you're
12:04so professional."
12:05>> talks to me at home.
12:06>> Yeah. He goes, "Hello, darling."
12:07>> I have to be, "Yes, sir."
12:08>> Yes, sir.
12:09>> [laughter]
12:09>> Yes, sir.
12:10>> Oh my god.
12:11>> That's a bad sign.
12:12>> Yeah, yeah, that's a
12:12>> I've been there. He goes, "Yes, ma'am."
12:14>> Oh,
12:14>> [laughter]
12:15>> no. You're like a trad wife at home?
12:17>> I don't think so.
12:18>> Yeah, I don't think so. I think it's the
12:20opposite.
12:21>> Yeah. The amount of sorrys I say in my
12:23house is crazy, dude.
12:24>> As you should.
12:25>> So, we're building up to this question.
12:26>> Oh, yeah. So, sorry. I got derailed. Um
12:29no, I find that like your actual history
12:32of work as well as just life in general
12:35is incredibly interesting to people uh
12:37who don't know it. I've known it for
12:39years. That's why I love you so much.
12:41>> [gasps]
12:42>> But, I feel like you What? You got
12:44scouted at 14?
12:47>> 13.
12:47>> 13?
12:49Maybe I'm crazy, but is there any part
12:51of like someone looking at a 13-year-old
12:53being like she's going to be a famous
12:55model? That's a little weird. Am I
12:56crazy?
12:57>> [laughter]
12:57>> I got a lot of compliments in in like
12:59school also where Okay, this I thought
13:02this was weirder. Like like someone
13:05who's like 4 years older than me and
13:07would come like, "You're going to be so
13:08hot when you grow up." And that was like
13:11>> That is weird. Yeah, that's super weird
13:12to say.
13:13>> Can we beat HIM UP?
13:14>> YEAH.
13:14>> [laughter]
13:14>> WHERE IS HE? WHERE THE [ __ ] IS THAT?
13:16>> BUT, IT'S NOT as weird as like when once
13:18I booked a job, I went to Japan and my
13:20one of my first shoot was shooting for a
13:22pregnancy catalog.
13:23>> 13 years old. 13 years old. At 13.
13:26Is that not crazy?
13:27>> Okay, you shouldn't have said no, I
13:28think.
13:29>> my mom still has it.
13:30>> that's legal.
13:31>> I don't know what I was doing.
13:32>> a fake belly?
13:33>> Yeah.
13:34>> No.
13:34>> Yeah.
13:35>> Just like today.
13:36>> Oh, yeah, just like today.
13:37>> Just like today. That's why I put it on
13:38today.
13:39>> acting for us.
13:40>> She wore a
13:41a fake stomach at 13.
13:43>> Yes.
13:43>> And then you were in a for like
13:45pregnancy clothing?
13:47>> Yeah. That's weird.
13:49>> shoot.
13:49>> sick. Wasn't it like a I thought you
13:50also said it was like a bridal shoot or
13:52something?
13:53>> a lot of bridal shoots.
13:54>> At 13?
13:55Isn't that creepy?
13:56>> I didn't Oh Oh obviously, I don't know
13:59if you can cut like pictures in here. I
14:00don't think I've changed that much.
14:02>> You kind of do look the same.
14:04>> Like I I did lose the baby fat, but my
14:06features were kind of the same and they
14:08do like that.
14:09>> I don't think you can not look like a
14:1013-year-old with a with a belly on at 13
14:13years old. Like anyone with eyes would
14:16be like that's a 13-year-old.
14:17>> the kids nowadays, they I'm talking like
14:20I'm so old.
14:20>> [laughter]
14:21>> The kids nowadays.
14:22>> Well, you know, this new generation. No,
14:24but I'm looking at their videos when
14:26they're 13, but they look sometimes they
14:28look older than me. I go to events and I
14:30talk to girls and I get so
14:31self-conscious.
14:33>> And then they look older?
14:34>> I always think I'm the baby in the
14:36group. I don't know why.
14:37>> Cuz you started so young, so you just
14:38kind of feel like that all the time.
14:39>> Yeah,
14:40kind of traveled with me, but then they
14:42give me they're like, "Oh yeah, I'm 17."
14:44And I'm like, "Oh my god."
14:46>> In middle school?
14:47>> older than me. I think they're older
14:48than me.
14:48>> I don't know if anyone else experiences
14:50but I I remember in when I was in middle
14:52school, I was seeing kids 1 year above
14:55me that had like mustaches. Like the
14:57kids in the 80s looked like for example,
15:00like I would look at pictures [laughter]
15:02That's how they looked back then. They
15:03still do.
15:04>> I It took me until I was 28 to be able
15:06to grow a mustache.
15:07>> 27 for me.
15:08>> Yeah, it was a long time.
15:09>> 1 year earlier than you.
15:11>> God damn it.
15:11>> Sorry, Mogged.
15:13>> [laughter]
15:13>> Um I but I remember looking at kids
15:15while I was in middle school being like
15:16that's a that's a [ __ ] man. No, like
15:19I saw a guy with a full mustache. Like
15:21he had back hair. In middle school. I
15:22was
15:22>> How did you see his back?
15:24>> Because I was like, "Ooh, nice back.
15:25Show me your back, please."
15:27>> Can I please see your back?
15:28>> Show me your back.
15:29>> Could you take his shirt off for just
15:30>> shirt off. Show me your back.
15:32I came up with a great question, babe.
15:33Do you think you and Dylan get along so
15:35well because child actor, and you got
15:37found at 13, and you guys just stopped,
15:39and you're mentally kids still?
15:41>> [laughter]
15:42>> I don't like the second part of the
15:43question.
15:45But
15:45>> We're definitely a little mentally kids,
15:47for sure.
15:47>> We definitely bonded over the trauma of
15:50being
15:51>> Cuz you had to work so much.
15:52>> a young age. Yeah, we we did lose I I
15:55missed out on a lot of
15:57school activities and
15:59>> Yeah, I went to I graduated, yeah.
16:01>> But like I'd say or
16:02>> [laughter]
16:02>> Barely.
16:04I think, you know, we joke about like,
16:05"Oh, yeah, of course we bonded over the
16:07trauma." But, you know, recently I've
16:09started to notice that like people like
16:11to really harp on the traumatic aspects
16:13of the thing, but we are also so blessed
16:16in that way, too. Like you had an
16:17amazing run.
16:19>> I was just happy like I was 13, and I
16:21got to travel to Japan for a whole
16:23summer with my mom.
16:25>> Yeah, I was
16:25>> And your mom's really nice, too.
16:27>> Everything was exciting, yeah. about my
16:28mom, please.
16:29>> your mom. Hey, man, lay off. That's my
16:31wife.
16:32>> That's your girl.
16:33>> That's my mother-in-law.
16:33>> Mother-in-law, there we go, yeah, yeah.
16:34>> Yeah, well, what do you mean? Your mom
16:36is your [laughter] wife?
16:37>> Yeah.
16:38>> That's gossip. That'd be sweet.
16:41Um
16:42>> We're weird, by the
16:44>> [laughter]
16:45>> So, tell us, what do you think about me?
16:48>> I love you.
16:49>> Yes.
16:50>> You guys first met
16:51>> You guys first met in China. We were
16:53learning about that yesterday.
16:54>> That's not true.
16:56>> It's not true.
16:56>> And wrong.
16:57>> He's already off.
16:58>> This is what Dylan told me yesterday. He
17:00goes, "You bonded over Mexican food in
17:02China."
17:03>> We did, but we met previously. This guy
17:04doesn't know anything, babe.
17:06>> So, where did we meet?
17:08>> Uh on Raya?
17:10>> [laughter]
17:11>> Nice Here's a question I have you I have
17:13for you. Okay, so
17:15this podcast is obviously called Wild
17:17Men. You've known the Wild Men, all of
17:20them, for a very long time. You have You
17:23have had historically said to me that if
17:25I
17:27were to perish in an untimely accident,
17:29and I said, one of the Wild Men has to
17:31step in
17:33and be your husband. You
17:35>> [laughter]
17:36>> This feels like this answer's changed
17:38over time.
17:39>> It was
17:40You always said it was Brendan.
17:41>> Yeah, it was
17:42>> Okay, it was Brendan.
17:43>> I don't want to give him credit though,
17:44but
17:45>> Oh, you're right, you're right. Very
17:45nice, but
17:47>> Huh?
17:47I got a high five.
17:48>> [laughter]
17:51>> What do you think about the Wild Men in
17:52general?
17:54>> [laughter]
17:54>> I don't like to pick a
17:55favorite, but in this pod
17:56>> I know. How much can you reveal?
17:58>> I know. No, I I think
17:59>> Who's your favorite?
18:00And you don't have to say him cuz he's
18:01here.
18:01>> not pick favorites.
18:02>> Yeah.
18:03>> She never does.
18:04>> No, I I I
18:05It's like a mother picking their
18:07favorite kid. You guys are all uniquely
18:09funny and weird and nice. You're like
18:12You're like newborn babies in a world.
18:14Like, I don't know how you guys got
18:15here, but you're so excited about
18:16everything.
18:17>> I [laughter] was excited to have you on
18:18until you said that.
18:20>> I love you.
18:21>> Yes, thank you, Barbara.
18:21>> But it's the amount you guys text.
18:24>> Is Will you text Anita a fair amount?
18:27>> That's true.
18:28>> Are you siblings or lovers?
18:29>> [laughter]
18:30>> Oh my god, you know the sibling or
18:31lovers Siblings are dating.
18:33>> Neither.
18:34>> People think about People think that we
18:36look alike all the time, and they're
18:37kind of weirded out by it online cuz
18:39they're like, these guys look related.
18:41>> Yeah, that you look like brother and
18:42sister.
18:43>> When we
18:43>> I do see it's the eyes. You guys got the
18:44big eyes.
18:45>> My eyes go down. I have tired eyes. You
18:47have pretty bright
18:48>> little low on this side.
18:49>> Mine go like that.
18:50>> Like Franklin the turtle.
18:51>> Sleepy eyes.
18:52>> You're telling me I have turtle eyes?
18:54>> Yeah, you look like Franklin.
18:54>> Well, the otters thing I I wanted to
18:56bring up, uh, your favorite animal,
18:57because you guys got engaged
19:00in front of
19:01otters.
19:02>> Yes.
19:03>> The best fact about otters
19:04>> Well, it wasn't in front of them.
19:06>> As close as you would get to otters are
19:08around.
19:08>> They showed up after for approval.
19:10>> They showed up after.
19:11>> they not there before?
19:12>> No, the funny thing is so
19:13>> Oh, it's like a sign.
19:13>> So, we go to uh we go to this National
19:17Park in Big Sur and part of the whole
19:20thing was it's just like I really want
19:21to get a moment where she can see
19:23otters.
19:24>> [snorts]
19:24>> Um we we're driving into the National
19:26Park and it's known for its otter
19:29sightings, right? The entire thing. And
19:31as soon as we get to the guard gate
19:33the the guard goes, "Well, I hope you're
19:35not looking to see otters today. There
19:36haven't been any for like 5 6 months."
19:38And long story short, I'm not going to
19:39tell the whole thing.
19:40>> You already did.
19:41>> get down on the knee.
19:42>> [laughter]
19:42>> Long story short.
19:43>> Long story medium, I guess. Get down on
19:45the knee.
19:46>> Uh-huh.
19:47>> She says, "Yes."
19:48>> Did he Did you know it was coming?
19:49>> Spoiler alert.
19:50>> Yeah.
19:51>> How?
19:51>> to say why.
19:52>> Well,
19:54we were packing our bags and he packed
19:56his bags and put it I mean, he packed
19:57his clothes and he puts it on the
20:00bed, but wants me to put it in the bag.
20:01>> Okay.
20:02>> So, I see everything he packs and we're
20:04going for camping and there's a white
20:05button-down.
20:06>> Yeah, that was a bad move, Dylan. Yeah.
20:08>> a tank top and sits
20:10>> I've never seen him in
20:10>> with rainbow sandals to to like a fancy
20:13restaurant.
20:14>> Feel like I'm pretty dressed up right
20:15now, guys.
20:16>> You did. You dressed up today, but no,
20:17you're right. He I've never seen him
20:18with more than three buttons.
20:20>> So, in the morning off to hike, he put
20:22on the white button-down. Again, I'm
20:24like, "We're going hiking." So, I put on
20:27a white shirt, too. And then let me go
20:29The other side The other giveaway was
20:31when we got to the lookout. He was like,
20:33>> No. Shaking? I was nervous.
20:36>> I guess stage [laughter] fright. I
20:37thought, "This is pretty, no?" And I'm
20:39like,
20:39"Okay."
20:41>> Did you get ready for it? Like uh
20:44Do the nails and [ __ ]
20:46>> stuff.
20:46>> No.
20:46>> No.
20:47>> No, even though our friend Alize and
20:48Hart were there and Alize was like, "We
20:50should go get our nails done." And I'm
20:51like, "I never really do that." So, I
20:52was like, "I'm going camping. Why would
20:54I Why would I do my nails?"
20:55>> I think that should have probably
20:56triggered a warning. So, then you know,
20:59she says, "Yes." And
21:02um
21:035 seconds later
21:05we we hear like we hear some movement
21:07down below us, and we look over the
21:09bluff, and there's an otter on his on
21:12his back swimming like patting his
21:13tummy, and he's swimming by. We're like,
21:15"Oh, the otters!" And then from the
21:16distance we can hear these kids like
21:18running up the trail, and they go, "The
21:19otters returned!"
21:21>> The otters
21:21>> [laughter]
21:21>> returned. It was like I don't REMEMBER
21:23THAT PART.
21:24>> MAYBE I MADE THAT UP. I don't know.
21:26>> You can fact check that part.
21:27>> [laughter]
21:28>> Um maybe I made that up, but uh
21:30>> No, it's probably it, but I was just
21:32like
21:32>> But remember we walked down the way?
21:34>> I was
21:35Well, still I I think my first question
21:37was, "Are you sure?"
21:39>> Yeah. Or for Yeah.
21:41You should You should You should have
21:42said, "Are you sure?" Yeah.
21:43>> Are you sure?
21:44>> Sure, yeah.
21:44>> It wasn't that last name.
21:46>> It wasn't that like picture- picturesque
21:49picturesque video that you always see on
21:51social media where it's like
21:53>> Yeah.
21:54>> And then you fall on your knees and you
21:56hug. No, I was like
21:57>> You were shocked.
21:58>> sure?"
21:58>> Are you sure? [laughter]
21:59>> Like and then he stands up, and I'm
22:01like, "Do you Are you sure like what
22:03right now?" Like
22:04>> [laughter]
22:04>> we walked
22:05>> I think I grunted when I stood up, too.
22:06I was
22:07>> And then we talked a little, and I was
22:08like, "Okay."
22:10And I said, "Yes." Like I obviously
22:11wanted to, but I
22:12>> So it took you until standing up to say
22:14yes?
22:15>> Yeah, he stood up, and that's when I
22:16Yeah, because well, if he
22:18For me, he had the ring for what, 7
22:20months, 8 months? He had time to think
22:21about it.
22:22>> Yeah, it's true. I was nervous. I didn't
22:24know either. It has to be a right time,
22:25dude. The otters returned, okay? Give me
22:26a break.
22:27>> Is that the ring?
22:28>> This is Wait, hold on. This is the
22:30engagement ring. Engagement ring,
22:32remember? And then you get another ring
22:34when you get married.
22:35>> Yeah.
22:36>> But I got this one on the right side cuz
22:38in Hungary you wear your wedding band on
22:40the right side.
22:41>> So you doubled up.
22:42>> Yeah, but cuz I I want to make sure that
22:44people know everywhere that I'm I'm
22:46married.
22:47>> Yeah, that's some bling, yeah.
22:48>> He doesn't want to be proposed
22:50>> No, wearing it on the right.
22:51>> They don't want it in America.
22:52>> to get a rubber one.
22:53Because that's what you have to Think
22:54your dad almost degloved himself or
22:56something.
22:56>> Yeah, he got his He got his caught in
22:58London. He slammed it shut, and he He to
23:00get it sawed off cuz it like grew into
23:02his finger.
23:03>> I I eventually I have to take them
23:05off
23:06towards
23:07>> What do you take it off?
23:07>> I'll have to take them off towards the
23:09end of the pregnancy.
23:10>> Oh, then oh, cuz your fingers swell up.
23:12>> Yeah.
23:12>> And when you take a modeling shoot, you
23:14take them off probably, right?
23:16>> Yeah, most of the times, yeah.
23:17>> cuz if you're doing like jewelry, you
23:18don't want like
23:18>> There is a lot of things about the
23:20pregnancy which while we've been doing
23:21this, I found very funny. One of the
23:23things that I find funny is that
23:25everything is normal online when you
23:27look it up. Like we've talked about this
23:29before. Like you could slam your toe in
23:31a door and look it up like, "Why does my
23:33toe hurt so bad?" And they're like, "In
23:34pregnancy, it's normal to slam your toe
23:37in a door."
23:37>> down everyone here?
23:38>> Like everything is normal.
23:40>> is just normal. Like Like you know your
23:42feet grows can grow a couple sizes. You
23:45can grow like more nipples.
23:47>> Yeah.
23:48Wait a second. See, so this is one of
23:50the things that she told me which I was
23:51like, "First off, like they say that's
23:53normal to grow a nipple." I'm still
23:55going to argue that's not normal.
23:57>> nipple?
23:57>> A third nipple just grows.
23:59>> Where?
24:01>> That's the thing. Like
24:02>> was like on their armpits here, because
24:04you have your gland like milk glands and
24:06stuff and
24:07I don't want to talk
24:08>> [laughter]
24:09>> that details about it because I'm not
24:11knowledgeable enough.
24:11>> it cuz it happened to you?
24:12>> But no, but I
24:14>> Yeah.
24:14>> No, but I saw a video online and it was
24:16again like And you know when I Googled
24:18it, they said it's normal. And this
24:20other girl was like she's getting a
24:22massage from her boyfriend and the
24:23boyfriend stopped because it's like,
24:25"Babe, what's that between your like
24:27your
24:27ass cheeks, your butt crack?" And she's
24:29like, "What do you mean?" So she would
24:30like went to the bathroom, maybe she
24:32didn't wipe enough. And she wiped it and
24:34there was no poop on it. Sorry, I know
24:36you don't want to I smell poop on the
24:37toilet paper. And then she looked in the
24:39mirror and it literally looked like her
24:41butt hole was covered in poop because
24:43your skin darkens.
24:44>> Oh, wow.
24:45>> Just pigmentation like everywhere.
24:47>> like your armpit, your nipple,
24:50>> What kind of massage was he giving?
24:51>> And all of [laughter] that.
24:53>> Some guy.
24:54>> Guy's like, "All All babe."
24:56>> Chill out. All right.
24:58>> [laughter]
24:58>> Chill, homie.
24:59Oh. Wait, okay, so
25:01>> Everything dark So, that's, by the way,
25:03normal. Yeah, normal. Okay.
25:04>> Oh, it's completely normal, yeah. You go
25:06bald? Completely normal.
25:07>> Are you losing hair?
25:09>> Not yet. That's postpartum.
25:10>> Have you I lose hair postpartum?
25:12>> Yeah.
25:12>> Any food cravings so far? Like pickle
25:14You already
25:15As a Hungarian, you're already eating
25:16like Do you
25:17>> I eat everything. Sour cream pickles,
25:18yeah.
25:19>> Babs came into my house.
25:21My mom made sour cream fish.
25:22>> Oh, it's the best.
25:23>> And it was the weirdest My mom makes it
25:24once a year. It's like a weird dish for
25:26my birthday. Cuz no one else likes it in
25:28my family but me.
25:28>> I love
25:30>> I know. And she made it and then she put
25:31it out. I was so excited. I was like cuz
25:32I get the dish to myself every year cuz
25:34everyone thinks it's weird. It's
25:35paprika, sour cream, lemon, like this
25:37food.
25:38>> [laughter]
25:39>> And Babs is over and for the first time
25:41ever I had to split it. Babs, I walk
25:43over, it's halfway gone. I was like,
25:44"WHAT [laughter] THE HELL?"
25:46CUZ IT WAS JUST ON THE TABLE.
25:47>> Maybe we have more in common than I
25:49thought. Maybe
25:49>> Well, I'm outside of Budapest my
25:5123andMe.
25:52>> Guys?
25:52>> I know.
25:53>> Is it happening [laughter] here soon?
25:54>> Is it happening?
25:55>> Um
25:56>> My No, no, my dad's side has a lot of
25:57Budapest. Uh area.
25:59>> DNA, yeah.
26:00>> I think there's a lot of people The
26:02thing that I I think in like the last
26:04[sighs] 40 years but like the San
26:06Fernando Valley used to be filled with
26:07Hungarian food places and like it's kind
26:08of it's There's a lot of quarter and
26:09half Hungarians because you know,
26:11because of the war, everyone like
26:13migrated this way, yeah. Is there any
26:15good Hungarian restaurants I think
26:16there's a lot of people The thing that I
26:18I think in like the last 40 years but
26:20like the
26:21San Fernando Valley used to be filled
26:23with Hungarian food
26:40places and like it's kind of it's
26:42There's a lot of quarter and half
26:43Hungarians because you know, because of
26:44the war, everyone like migrated this
26:47way, yeah. Is [snorts] there any good
26:48Hungarian restaurants in Los Angeles?
26:50We haven't found that'd be a good little
26:53venture.
26:53>> I know.
26:54>> open a Hungarian restaurant. I go cuz I
26:56went to Hungary when I went to your
26:57place there.
26:58>> You went to Hungary?
26:59>> Yeah. You went for any reason or why'd
27:01you go?
27:01>> For your guys' wedding.
27:02>> Yeah. Yeah.
27:02>> And I met my friend Phil there, too.
27:05>> Um
27:05>> Oh, Silver yeah. Silver. [laughter]
27:06>> Phil Silver. You You just have to be
27:07there. But I went actually mainly for
27:09your wedding. 9 90%. Um
27:12>> And then the torture of it.
27:13>> you just can't give it to us.
27:14>> Yeah. You just [laughter] can't be there
27:15for our wedding.
27:15>> The food in Hungary shocked me how good
27:17it was. Budapest was awesome.
27:21>> That was good, right?
27:22>> It was awesome. We walked around. It was
27:23like It looked like Prague mixed with
27:25Manhattan a bit. It was really really
27:27good the food. And then on your uh
27:29your family's farm, the pigs you guys
27:32slaughtered and prepared were fantastic.
27:36>> We do
27:37It's called a
27:37>> But the screams were not the nicest to
27:40hear in the morning.
27:40>> You were not there. You were sleeping.
27:42>> ever I was like Clarice Starwell hearing
27:45the lambs get slaughtered.
27:47>> He just can't say a name right.
27:49>> Silence of the Lambs. It was Silence of
27:50the Hogs in Hungary.
27:52>> Starling. [laughter]
27:53Starwell.
27:53>> But I wake up in the morning I hear
27:55screaming. And then that lunch
27:58we go over and there's two pigs hanging
28:01dead.
28:01>> They had our They like carved our names
28:03into the side of it, too,
28:04[clears throat] which I thought was kind
28:05of oddly.
28:06>> So like Dylan and I. [laughter]
28:07>> So one pig Yeah, one pig said Dylan and
28:09I.
28:09>> for the wedding.
28:10>> They torched it into it. They didn't
28:12mark it.
28:13>> So there's two pigs with torched names
28:15in
28:15>> [laughter]
28:16>> You guys got how you getting trolled for
28:18this.
28:18>> Symbolizing Dylan and I. And I have been
28:20married we just dance.
28:22>> [laughter]
28:22>> Dead pigs.
28:24>> Yeah.
28:24>> That's sad.
28:25>> Two dead pigs, dude. But then you guys
28:27whipped it up and made 17 different
28:29dishes out of these pigs.
28:31>> Well, that's the thing.
28:32>> Yeah. We used every part of the animal.
28:33>> kill for fun.
28:34>> You They take the hoof and part of like
28:37part of the ritual of it is you take the
28:38hoof and then you pour palinka in it and
28:41you have to take a shot.
28:42>> Yeah.
28:42>> He had it. But they make stew
28:44>> have to take a bite of the raw ear cuz
28:46of the collagen.
28:47>> toes.
28:48>> Oh yeah, like
28:48>> pig toes. Yeah.
28:49>> That is one thing I will say about your
28:51family and and like Hungarian cuisine in
28:53in general is that they use every part
28:57of the animal. And that's like it's very
28:59cool to see from start to finish because
29:01we have I think in the States we have so
29:03much waste. Like there's parts where we
29:04just go, "That doesn't look tasty or
29:06something tasty." But the Hungarians are
29:08like, "Yep, use the guts, use the blood,
29:11use the toes, use the ears." They just
29:13use everything and every dish tastes
29:15amazing. So like I think we could
29:16definitely learn from your guys' cuisine
29:18a bit. Yeah, definitely.
29:21>> When you guys open a Hungarian
29:22restaurant, I'll be the one of the
29:23servers.
29:24I'd be good at that, yeah.
29:25>> Yeah, you would be able to say
29:26everyone's name correctly. [laughter]
29:28That'll be great.
29:29>> Budapest. Budapest.
29:31>> Budapest.
29:31>> There we go.
29:32>> So my wedding's coming up as
29:33>> Your wedding?
29:34>> My wedding, which [laughter] neither of
29:35you guys are going to attend, it turns
29:37out cuz
29:38>> He's going.
29:38>> There's a world There's a world where
29:39both of you miss it.
29:40>> Yeah, there's a world where both of us
29:41miss
29:42>> Cuz you'll be having the child.
29:43>> Yeah, I mean I after while you can't
29:45fly.
29:46>> Mhm.
29:46>> So that's that's fine. By the way, don't
29:48just call
29:49>> the child
29:50>> the child
29:50>> the baby.
29:52>> Do you want to share?
29:54>> Yeah, so I mean we've been calling her
29:56Princi Pessa, which
29:58I don't know why that's been our like
30:00>> What was that her name?
30:00>> Well, it's Italian for princess.
30:02>> Oh, it's not going to be your name,
30:03Princi Pessa.
30:04>> Princi Pessa is Pessa, PPS.
30:06>> You
30:07you already can't say that. So we got to
30:09cut that [laughter] out.
30:10>> Princi Pessa is Pessa.
30:11>> PRINCI PESSA IS PESSA.
30:12>> IT'S LIKE SEAN CONNERY became Sean
30:14[laughter] Connery.
30:15>> pronouncing the name
30:16>> Um but no, we are having a baby girl,
30:18which I'm very excited about.
30:19>> That's awesome.
30:20>> Yeah, I'm very excited about that.
30:22>> My sister I have a niece.
30:23>> Oh, that's awesome.
30:24>> mean my niece and I are like best buds.
30:26We watch Scooby-Doo together.
30:27>> I you your sister stole the name I
30:29really really loved.
30:31I loved Dorothy.
30:32>> Really? It is a good name. It's classic.
30:34>> It's classic. It's a good name. I'm
30:37excited to be a girl dad, actually.
30:38>> I think he needs it.
30:40>> He needs that.
30:40>> down a bit, yeah. Exactly.
30:43I grew up with all women, so it's like
30:44>> With girls you it will
30:47>> It'll mellow me out?
30:48>> Mellow you out.
30:50You're going to be so stressed about the
30:51princess.
30:52>> The princess but he's going to be like
30:54yeah, she's going to be the princess. I
30:55just also unironically love a tea party.
30:58Like I'm a major
30:59>> He's he's already
31:01You guys do do high tea.
31:02>> I It is my favorite thing. I love
31:04clotted cream. I love scones. I love
31:07just sitting around a pot of tea.
31:08>> the sandwiches, huh?
31:09>> I'm not a crust guy.
31:11>> No, they had tea don't they do the
31:12triangles and stuff?
31:13>> Yeah, I I don't think I've had tea in
31:14years.
31:14>> Yeah, so I know that we're going to do a
31:16lot of that with Princi Pessa right now.
31:18So we haven't
31:18>> We don't know the name.
31:19>> We yeah, we've been going back and forth
31:21on names.
31:22>> don't reveal it here.
31:22>> No, well we actually don't know. So like
31:25we can't reveal it.
31:26>> Brenda? Yeah, Brenda Sprouse?
31:28>> Ew.
31:29>> BS in the building.
31:30>> That's me.
31:31>> Yeah.
31:31>> Spra Sprouse?
31:32>> [laughter]
31:33>> That's just
31:34>> BS, damn. Already took my initials. Uh
31:38Already took my [laughter] initials.
31:39>> You wanted a wife with the same
31:41initials, so it was meant for you and
31:42me.
31:43>> If we got married, would you change your
31:44last name?
31:45For me?
31:46>> Undoubtedly.
31:47>> Thank you.
31:48>> Would you change yours?
31:49>> No.
31:49>> We'll do a little swap. DC, BS and DC.
31:52>> That'd be kind of cool.
31:53>> Yeah, that'd be sweet as hell.
31:54>> That'd be kind of cool.
31:55>> It'd be cool if you could both trade.
31:58>> I feel like you have a like a lot more
31:59value in your last name.
32:01>> I think you do.
32:01>> I [laughter] really feel like I'm third
32:02wheeling here.
32:09>> Barbara, welcome back.
32:12>> [laughter]
32:12>> That was really cool.
32:13>> Was that cool?
32:14>> Yeah.
32:14>> Um no, so we were talking
32:16>> that I'm back.
32:16>> Yeah, we're part there. I brought my dog
32:19in.
32:19>> You got Yeah, if you can't see the tips
32:21>> since the time change, then something's
32:23wrong [laughter] with your eyes. I feel
32:24like I've aged in this time. How long
32:27has it been?
32:27>> A month and a half to the day.
32:29>> A month and
32:30>> Three months for Dylan.
32:31>> [laughter]
32:32>> Feels like three months.
32:33Um we so we were talking at home because
32:37we're currently in the edit of the first
32:40part. And as we were kind of getting
32:42into it, you suggested a few things that
32:44you wanted to talk about more so in the
32:47second part of this, which I think was
32:49actually a really good idea. So I'm glad
32:50that you came back in.
32:52Um I'm glad you gave me the time uh to
32:54come back in and have me interview you.
32:57>> Yeah, you got it.
32:59>> [laughter]
33:01>> I don't know why I'm so nervous. This is
33:03the thing.
33:03>> you could have hold grandpa.
33:05>> We touched like kind of base of that the
33:06last time that I never do in deep
33:09interviews or like podcasts.
33:11>> this is your first long-form interview,
33:13yeah.
33:13>> I don't really know. It takes time for
33:15me to open up in general as a person
33:17with like friendships and stuff too. So
33:20but I thought maybe you you could
33:22>> I'll lead us in. Um also for the record
33:26even in the time difference between then
33:28and now, we've also done probably what?
33:3210 episodes? Yeah, a lot more episodes
33:34since then. I know. I'm more relaxed
33:37like you. Brendan's not wiggling around
33:39as much. So we ended off last time on us
33:41talking about the gender of our baby
33:43girl.
33:44>> We talked about Prince Harry. We talked
33:46about Brendan's wedding. Now it's like
33:48even closer.
33:50>> And the baby's even closer. How you
33:51feeling? What are symptoms have popped
33:53up?
33:53>> Uh just yesterday I think I like hit
33:57that wall of like oh it's third
33:59trimester.
34:00>> Yeah. Is that the hardest one?
34:03>> For some. I I do feel similarities from
34:06the first trimester cuz my hunger is
34:08getting crazy. If I don't eat I'm
34:09nauseous. I have a lot of stomach acid.
34:11And I have a lot of gas.
34:13>> Yogurts and granola which was not
34:15enough. So then I started to feel sick.
34:17>> You're not eating like two bananas or
34:18anything weird?
34:19>> No, no, no. But I should be eating more
34:21protein and that's that's my mistake the
34:23first trimester too that I wasn't
34:25eating. But yeah, those are the moments
34:27when I'm
34:28and this is what I was
34:29>> [laughter]
34:30>> what I was opening up to Dylan about
34:32that sometimes I feel guilty because I'm
34:34not not enjoying pregnancy as much as
34:36like a lot of women out there and I know
34:38it's a gift.
34:39>> My sister hated it. She was mean to me
34:42the entire time and she [laughter] was
34:43like she yelled at me and my mom
34:45constantly.
34:46>> I also like and
34:47>> First off
34:48you've got a new body entirely.
34:51[laughter]
34:52>> No, but you're like you're got
34:54>> First of all, you have enough room for
34:56six. Listen, listen. You've got you've
34:58got [laughter] a new body. Essentially,
35:00your back hurts all the time. It's hard
35:02to sleep. You're hungry. Your hormones
35:05are
35:05>> Like I don't know if the mic is picking
35:07it up, but I just talked and I'm like
35:09>> We'll just leave it on grandpa's snore.
35:10>> Yeah, I'm freezing here.
35:12>> Dylan's surrounded by hard snoring right
35:14now. I don't know if everyone's
35:14breathing heavy around me right now. Um
35:16me included.
35:17>> I mean I think I think it's fair to say,
35:20you know, I think the people who are
35:22online cuz that's another thing I've
35:23noticed is that as soon as we got
35:26pregnant, which is crazy to say cuz that
35:28still feels weird. It's way more
35:30>> Well, she got pregnant.
35:31>> Yeah, but don't say we.
35:33>> No, but that's the thing. Couples online
35:35are like we're pregnant.
35:37>> Yeah, I know. It's strange. [laughter]
35:38It's weird.
35:39>> But as soon as we got pregnant
35:40>> we're expecting.
35:42>> Yes.
35:42>> And that she I am pregnant.
35:44>> Okay, okay.
35:44>> We are expecting.
35:45>> Nothing changed for you.
35:46>> Yeah.
35:46>> I Well,
35:47>> Yeah.
35:47>> hold on. Okay, that's [laughter] another
35:49one of these things, right? So, we were
35:52talking about this recently, which I
35:53find really interesting. Okay, when you
35:56when you start out in your relationship,
35:58there's the imminent goal in the future
36:00if you guys are really into each other
36:02to get married.
36:03>> Yeah.
36:03>> Okay.
36:03>> Okay, next big step.
36:04>> Then you reach that breakpoint and
36:06there's a change.
36:07>> Mhm.
36:08>> Then when you're married if you're
36:10thinking about it and that's something
36:11you want, your next breakpoint is kids.
36:15>> Normally, yeah.
36:16>> And then that's a change.
36:17>> normally. That's so wrong.
36:19Yeah.
36:19>> a house. Maybe you you have you just
36:22have to
36:22>> in together and buy a house together if
36:24you haven't lived together.
36:25>> Being Hungarian, was there a lot of
36:27family pressure immediately after the
36:29wedding?
36:29>> Family what?
36:30>> Family pressure.
36:31>> For Asher?
36:32>> [laughter]
36:32>> I said pressure.
36:33>> For Asher?
36:34>> Was there a lot of family pressure for
36:36Asher?
36:36>> She she assumed like I know the day
36:38after my wedding my mom is going to be
36:40calling me like, "Do you want me to buy
36:42a test? Like are you pregnant right
36:43now?"
36:44>> I mean sure they
36:45>> Irish Catholic, right?
36:46>> I thought it might cross over the
36:47Hungarians.
36:48>> They they were they weren't pushy about
36:51it. You they they kept asking and then I
36:53like, "When are we getting a god
36:54daughter? Like a god something grand."
36:58>> Grand.
36:58>> correct me, guys.
36:59>> Did you always want to have a kid, Pebs?
37:01>> The the pregnancy brain is happening.
37:03It's it's so small.
37:04>> Apparently that's a thing, right?
37:05>> Yeah, so it's it but it's it doesn't
37:07shrink as much as I thought.
37:08>> [laughter]
37:09>> One day I was like, "Oh and it shrinks
37:10like 60%."
37:11>> 60%?
37:12>> And I was like
37:13>> You're a TINY LEMUR, YEAH.
37:15>> [laughter]
37:16>> I SAID 5%. It's kind of like
37:19it's
37:19>> I said I was like that's insane.
37:21>> You're still losing motor skills Dylan
37:23if you lost 60%.
37:24>> it's No, it's like a selective shrinking
37:26like all the extra information it just
37:28sheds. It's like 5%.
37:30>> of nice. Kind of relaxes your brain.
37:31>> you can focus more on like I'm I'm
37:34guessing just so you can focus.
37:35>> Didn't you say it was like it's a biolo-
37:37a biological adaptation to allow for the
37:40restructuring of your brain to get ready
37:43for a
37:43>> I'm pretty sure I NEVER SAID THAT.
37:45>> [laughter]
37:46>> MY VOCABULARY
37:46>> BABY YOU SAID IT IT JUST shrunk the
37:48memory away.
37:49>> Verbatim out of your mouth,
37:51>> I well I sound smart.
37:53>> You sound so smart.
37:54>> [laughter]
37:54>> Dude, I'm
37:55>> Hyping you up over here.
37:56>> like a sprouts blow hardcore.
37:57>> Was I wearing a costume
37:59like I don't know. [laughter]
38:00>> Was it gold?
38:03>> No, I'm pretty sure I didn't say that.
38:04>> prepares you to get ready for
38:06motherhood.
38:06>> I think so. It just takes this like
38:08extra information you don't need. Just
38:11sheds it. And then it grows back I think
38:136 months after giving birth you're
38:16>> [laughter]
38:17>> It's not a bad deal.
38:18Did you always want to have a kid?
38:20>> Yeah, and that the thing like I always
38:22knew I was Oh, my parents and that. So,
38:24they weren't pushing. They obviously
38:26wanted their grandkids. I wish sent a
38:28picture of piggy and cows. You guys,
38:30too.
38:31>> guys have like you already have two.
38:32Yeah.
38:32>> And that's the thing like I think Dylan
38:34and I are both very
38:36uh work-oriented to where we
38:39>> You guys work nonstop.
38:40>> We're perfectionists. We We've been
38:42working since we were kids.
38:43>> Both of us, yeah.
38:44>> And so, it was weird to I know they
38:47always say there's never a good time to
38:49get pregnant, but it was weird cuz I was
38:51like, "Oh, no, but now I'm I'm I'm doing
38:53the Victoria's Secret show. And now now
38:55I'm Oh, I got this job and I just got
38:56this new contract. Like, I can't I with
38:58like for watches and I can't get
39:00pregnant." And we kept pushing it out.
39:02And And then it was like
39:03>> for reference, we've taken one vacation
39:06in 8 years of being together.
39:08>> Yeah. I mean, yeah. We went like We went
39:10to Japan.
39:10>> Japan.
39:11>> On our first year anniversary.
39:13>> First year anniversary.
39:14>> Okay, yeah, cuz I remember when you
39:15went. Like, I was very jealous.
39:17>> you, we do travel to cool locations,
39:19which is a benefit of our job.
39:21>> There is always work.
39:22>> the only That's truly the only with no
39:25work at all the whole time?
39:26>> We would go camping. But yeah, we we
39:28knew we wanted to get pregnant, but we
39:30also knew like we have like because I
39:33have endometriosis, we knew we wanted to
39:36get that surgery done before we start
39:39trying.
39:40>> Because
39:40>> My voice my voice shaking.
39:42I got to go to the
39:43>> [laughter]
39:43>> Yeah, but you're doing awesome.
39:44>> So, the
39:45And part of the reason
39:49I mean, part of the endometriosis thing,
39:51too,
39:52was that when you were being advised
39:54about the surgery, which in like in
39:57itself,
39:59there's very little information on
40:01endometriosis in general. There's not
40:03enough study done about it, but part of
40:05what they were saying is that
40:06post-surgery
40:08would be your most fertile time. Because
40:11after that And correct me if I'm wrong,
40:13but after that,
40:15>> It's not always fertile time cuz you're
40:16not fertile.
40:18>> But
40:19>> [clears throat]
40:19>> it's most likely to get
40:21>> Yeah, they kind of cleared out
40:22everything in the surgery.
40:23>> a
40:24Let's go.
40:25>> And there's a clear
40:26an easier chance to get pregnant,
40:28because it gives a clear shot for the
40:30baby deal.
40:31>> Which was sick as hell.
40:33>> [laughter]
40:37>> Okay, so when did you get the surgery?
40:38That was pre-wedding though, [snorts]
40:39correct?
40:40>> No, no, no. It was just
40:42June last year in June.
40:43>> got married I always forget it's like
40:45>> We're married 3 years now.
40:46>> 3 years, right? Coming up on July.
40:48>> July 15th.
40:49>> July 15th? Yeah, cuz we we had to fly on
40:51the 4th of July.
40:52>> I know. And our this podcast is
40:54releasing the day before our
40:56anniversary.
40:57>> Oh, wow.
41:01>> Surgery was
41:03pretty
41:05pretty soon before
41:07the last VS fashion show, right?
41:09>> Well, so okay. June 3rd I had my
41:11surgery. Let's let's first talk about
41:14that. How so many women are suffering
41:16from endometriosis, so you know, I wish
41:18people would pay a little more attention
41:20to that. Period cramps are not that
41:22normal.
41:22>> Yeah.
41:23>> It's doesn't have to be normal. I was
41:25always suffering during the night, still
41:27in those. Sleepless nights, suffering on
41:30the floor,
41:31dying from pain, and no medication would
41:34work. And I would go to gynecologist and
41:37try to get diagnosed and they would
41:39always say, "Oh, no, you're fine. You're
41:40fine. It's just period. You have to go
41:42to a specialist. Luckily, there's more
41:44attention now around it. So, like when
41:48we did the VS show, Delilah was wearing
41:49the
41:51>> Endo
41:51>> little endo pin.
41:53>> Yeah, so we are just trying to, you
41:55know,
41:55>> What pushed you to go to the specialist?
41:58>> The pain.
41:58>> Just the pain was just constant,
42:00non-stop, every single
42:01>> I'll give you some few like few memories
42:04that I've had. Like and
42:05correct me if I'm wrong again, but there
42:07were it fluctuated. Sometimes you'd have
42:10a month
42:11where you it was okay. The symptoms
42:13seemed okay.
42:14>> was able like I would always have to
42:16take like six pills a day.
42:18And I was managing it.
42:20>> Next month
42:22It was like
42:23>> Like the worst thing ever.
42:24>> in over screaming pain. Like to the
42:27point of her feeling nauseous,
42:29wanting to throw up, like really gnarly
42:32>> I would throw up from the
42:33and I would I would be like drenched in
42:35sweat. My I would have to change shirts
42:37because
42:38>> And they just keep telling you this is
42:39normal this is not
42:40>> They're like yeah it's period cramps.
42:42They're like oh change your lifestyle
42:45you know.
42:45>> Yeah.
42:45>> Work out more. Strengthen the muscles.
42:48>> The truth is is that like there again
42:51because of the lack of study that this
42:56this endometriosis has in general,
42:58there's so much medical uh there's so
43:00many
43:02>> Like you have to have a surgery normally
43:04to get diagnosed with endometriosis.
43:05>> Oh so that's the only way yeah.
43:06>> laparoscopic surgery already to just so
43:09they can tell you. It takes also five to
43:11eight years here in the US I think to
43:13get diagnosed.
43:14>> Jesus.
43:14>> So you're like
43:15>> So that's
43:15>> Yeah.
43:16>> And when endo is and when endo is
43:18bad it's always bad.
43:19>> When endo is bad it's always bad. But
43:21when endo gets to necessarily it's worst
43:24point it's actually spreading to your
43:26other organs.
43:27>> Yeah it can affect your organs. It can
43:30the worst you know like it can spread to
43:31your ovaries and then your ovaries can
43:33like grow together and then you
43:36>> You'd never have babies?
43:37>> You can't have babies.
43:38>> Oh jeez that's awful.
43:39>> So they luck I was lucky enough that it
43:41wasn't in my ovaries but I also had
43:44adenomyosis which which is a different
43:46type that's more on the stomach wall and
43:48muscles. So they just you know the wound
43:52inside was the size of my two palms.
43:54>> Jesus.
43:55>> So they when we finished luckily they
43:57were scared it was touching my
43:58intestines.
43:59>> Yeah.
44:00>> It was like this close to my intestines
44:01so like before the surgery like I wasn't
44:04allowed to eat for like two three days
44:05cuz they didn't know if they'll have to
44:07touch [clears throat] my intestines and
44:08like
44:08>> Intestines.
44:09>> That's the thing. Like I could have been
44:10like
44:11>> for getting the surgery when you did,
44:13right? Because
44:14>> it was timely. Like if it grows, cuz
44:16every time like all these little
44:17>> Get worse and worse and worse.
44:19>> And then he touches my intestines and
44:21then, you know, it's a more complicated
44:23surgery and a bigger surgery.
44:24>> And there's still no easy test for this?
44:26>> No. I mean, now I saw some news, I don't
44:29know if how much how true it is that
44:30maybe from your period blood, I don't
44:33know if that if that's too much. I I
44:35still feel like we're not we're not
44:37talking openly enough about these
44:39things. Like, "Oh, it's such a taboo to
44:41talk about women's periods." And it's
44:43like
44:44I We're bleeding once
44:45>> Yeah, exactly.
44:46>> Like it's just there, okay?
44:48>> Well, first off, I think that any
44:50conscious adult gets to a point where
44:51that just doesn't gross them out
44:53anymore. Maybe it's a gross out thing.
44:55Maybe people are like, "Ooh, it's
44:56taboo." You know what I mean? But
44:57>> Never grossed me out. It's just like
44:59>> cuz it doesn't have to do with that
45:00Yeah. Also, like
45:01>> I could HAVE BEEN LIKE,
45:03>> [laughter]
45:03>> ANY ANY any guy who's weirded out by
45:06that, I'm like, "You're a baby. You just
45:08grow up." Um at some point or another.
45:10But
45:11>> Just creepy guy.
45:12>> Yes, just a creepy
45:12>> Thinking too much, too.
45:13>> Yeah, just go away. You're strange.
45:15>> learn about it and then try to help your
45:17partner. And Dylan was really great at
45:19explaining
45:19>> very supportive.
45:20>> Yeah, especially when I would be in
45:21pain. He knew Cuz the thing is, when
45:24you're in that pain, it's like any
45:26noise, any sound, any movement just
45:29you can't have it. You just can't have
45:31>> yelling at Dylan. I'd be like, "Cuz I
45:33know you make a little bit of noise."
45:35>> it. My mom also said because of the
45:36>> You're a wrestler, [laughter] yeah. And
45:38Daddy's always moving around. I'm like,
45:40"You're driving me crazy."
45:41>> Why do you know that?
45:42>> [laughter]
45:43>> Bachelor party, it doesn't matter.
45:45>> Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
45:47>> Okay.
45:47>> No.
45:48So,
45:49>> Sorry.
45:49>> La la la. So,
45:51>> [laughter]
45:51>> No, I was going to do Dylan.
45:53>> Huh?
45:53>> He didn't get down on your nerves? I'm
45:55shocked.
45:55>> No, I mean, I always get on her nerves.
45:57I mean, that's just being in a
45:58relationship. I think
45:59>> to be be I remember one time I was in so
46:02much pain and you brought me a plate of
46:04blueberries because you went on Google
46:07and you saw that blueberries help with
46:09period cramps and I was like throwing up
46:11in a bathroom. Like I really thought
46:13>> [laughter]
46:14>> He hands her the plate of blueberries.
46:16>> Yeah.
46:17>> And it's probably preventative too. It's
46:19like not
46:20>> He was like running around but I didn't
46:21know babe. Like do you want this or
46:22>> freshly picked these.
46:23>> [laughter]
46:24>> It's a very nice gesture but
46:26maybe the least thing you want when
46:27you're throwing up is a pile of
46:29blueberries.
46:29>> little orbs
46:30>> I was like
46:31>> [laughter]
46:31>> thank you.
46:32>> But the surgery I will say is night and
46:36day difference.
46:37>> For me, yeah. I was lucky.
46:38>> Immediately?
46:39>> Well, I yeah. I mean uh
46:43Yeah. Even my first period right after
46:46the surgery
46:46>> month after?
46:47>> Yeah. Actually 2 weeks after because it
46:50doesn't just because you had a surgery
46:51>> Doesn't slow stuff down.
46:53>> I can tell you that there was I mean
46:55during during the worst times of your
46:58endo during your lady times, there were
47:02months where we were like we got to shut
47:03this whole thing down. Travel's gone.
47:06>> Yeah.
47:07>> I'm worried I'm going to get my head cut
47:09off. You're going to be in so much pain.
47:12Like there it was it was bad to the
47:14point and since the surgery, there
47:16hasn't been a single thought like that.
47:18>> Really?
47:18>> Well, I've been pregnant like half 6
47:20months pregnant.
47:21>> I think [laughter]
47:22Which apparently is also
47:24Didn't you say preventative or
47:26something?
47:27>> it helps like with endo if you get
47:29pregnant.
47:30>> Oh, really?
47:31>> endometriosis
47:32>> Apparently doesn't grow during that time
47:34because of
47:35>> Right. It doesn't grow during that time
47:36cuz there's no blood.
47:37>> Yeah, exactly. To
47:38block onto. Yeah, the so
47:41weirdly the more I read into it
47:44and you probably know way more about
47:46this than I do but it reads it reads
47:49like cancer.
47:51>> It does.
47:51>> It sounds like it's cancer.
47:52>> It's growing. It's moving. It's taking
47:54things over.
47:55>> something to do with cell tissue,
47:56regenerative tissue, and it it reads
48:00like cancer cuz
48:01really you can't get rid of it the way
48:04that most people are talking about it,
48:06right? It's kind of as of now, as we
48:08know, it's
48:09>> There's no cure for it as of now. You
48:10have the surgery that can help and helps
48:13a lot of people.
48:14But like we have a mutual friend who has
48:17endometriosis and she had two surgeries
48:19already and she's she's in so much pain
48:21all the time.
48:22>> So sometimes it just doesn't take.
48:24>> Yeah. So
48:25>> And that was the thing, too, is that
48:27when you started talking about it
48:30the amount of people we found out who
48:32even in our immediate friend group, the
48:34amount of
48:35women who reached out to Barbara and me
48:37after the after the VS show because that
48:39was big news. I saw it. We're like, I'm
48:42not joking
48:4470% of our friend group, dude. Like it
48:46is a very very common
48:48>> have it and don't know?
48:50Probably a lot.
48:52>> Yeah, there's a ton.
48:53>> So a lot of people probably have this,
48:55don't know they have it, and you only
48:56find out if you
48:57either die in a pain or you try to get
48:59pregnant and it's not taking.
49:01>> Or you have you have the laparoscopy
49:02surgery to get diagnosed for it.
49:04>> But if you didn't even know you Yeah, if
49:06if you weren't pushed into it.
49:07>> the thing, I hadn't heard hear about
49:09endo
49:10until like a couple years back. Like
49:12that wasn't even an option.
49:13>> think I heard it until you came on here.
49:15>> the thing. It's like people just don't
49:17talk about it enough.
49:18>> Well, a lot of times it's cuz doctors
49:20are also they seem to just be like, "Oh,
49:22your periods are really painful?"
49:25>> Suck it up.
49:26>> Or they recommend taking birth control
49:29to regulate it, and that could also make
49:31things complicated.
49:32>> It can [ __ ] it up, too, yeah.
49:33>> So after the surgery, that was the two
49:35option that my doctor said, like you
49:36could either go on like
49:38birth control to manage it or start
49:41trying.
49:42>> So how much do you think that endo has
49:45affected you and your body throughout
49:48your life? I mean, on top of
49:50modeling
49:51which in and of itself has comes with
49:54packed house full of body dysmorphia and
49:58issues of that sort. Do you think that
50:01endo affected you in that way as well?
50:03Cuz I remember there were sometimes
50:04>> my body, not my mentality of how I look
50:07at my body.
50:08>> You don't think that they're linked in
50:09some way? Like the feeling of pain and
50:11like Cuz I remember sometimes
50:13>> bloated like from endo you could like
50:15that's the thing when some pictures came
50:17out when I was already pregnant and I
50:19had like a small tummy.
50:22>> People were saying also like she could
50:23just having a flare up from
50:25endometriosis.
50:26>> Oh, really? Okay, got you.
50:27>> like you get really bloated and like
50:29really huge. It's also PCOS. It's that
50:31other one that
50:31>> Yeah, PCOS huge, yeah.
50:33>> has the same effect. So,
50:35yeah, in that regard I was fluctuating a
50:37lot. So, a lot of people
50:40saw that that gives them a right to
50:41comment on my body, which you know, it
50:43comes with modeling obviously and it's
50:46not like traumatic, but it is definitely
50:48scarring and it's been pretty hard
50:51during this pregnancy to just let that
50:54mindset go that I'm not
50:56gaining weight. And like I'm creating
50:59life and and it's okay to gain weight,
51:02but
51:02>> I mean, and that's been a packed like
51:04that's been a
51:05just a bag full of [ __ ] since the
51:08moment you started in in the industry.
51:10You started again, like we mentioned I
51:12think in part one.
51:13>> pregnancy model?
51:15>> Pregnancy model, but also when you're
51:17You're in the
51:17full circle now.
51:19>> [laughter]
51:19>> I MADE IT.
51:21>> YOU'RE BUYING BACK TO JAPAN. UM
51:23BUT you started modeling again when you
51:25were like 14 or 15.
51:27>> 13.
51:27>> 13. But like that is not a time by the
51:31way like
51:33people are all already commenting on
51:35your body
51:36when you're 13, 14, 15. It's like that's
51:40a really rude age to comment about
51:42anybody on top of it already being rude.
51:45>> it's a very dangerous age. I think. Like
51:47there's [clears throat] so many that's
51:48why I think there's so many women are
51:50struggling with eating disorders and all
51:52that sort of things. Like I know I was
51:55Yeah, I started when I was 13 by 17
51:58every single time I would go into the
51:59agency they would tell me I have to lose
52:01weight. My hips are too big.
52:03>> At 17?
52:03>> At 17. I didn't even have hips yet, you
52:06know.
52:06>> [laughter]
52:07>> I want to frame this question
52:09delicately because as when we first
52:11started dating
52:13we were a year in to us dating when you
52:16got the casting for the VS Fashion Show
52:19in 2018 or 19, right? How
52:21>> Yeah, 2018.
52:22>> 2018. So maybe less than a year into
52:24dating. But we we started dating. Then
52:27your announcement video came out and I
52:28remember you were elated when you found
52:31out you got the show because you had a
52:34hiatus being away from VS.
52:37And so this was kind of like a return to
52:40the stage for the first time in a really
52:42cool way. I know
52:43>> Since 2012, so 6 years in
52:46>> okay. It's a long time.
52:47>> Everybody
52:48>> who had watched VS previously was pumped
52:52the [ __ ] up for your return.
52:56However
52:58the media took that
52:59>> tiny little people on my shoulder like
53:02"Babe, babe."
53:03>> [laughter]
53:03>> Everyone was so excited. Everyone was
53:05pumped up.
53:05>> Babe's is back.
53:06>> But the media took that and spun it in a
53:09way that
53:11felt really strange. They they framed it
53:15like you were the first plus-size model
53:18in VS, which
53:21is fine.
53:22>> on an unnecessary label on it.
53:24>> Yes, but tell tell us a little bit about
53:27that because as someone
53:29I I felt like you thought that was
53:31unfair to put a label on it at all, but
53:33also furthermore because you weren't
53:36viewing yourself as that
53:39it also made it into this thing that was
53:43necessary. It seemed like a marketing
53:44ploy or something. Like I don't know
53:45what it was.
53:46>> Yeah, so well like I said, it's I've
53:49been already scarred for
53:51like constantly getting commented on my
53:53body from my agency, from just the
53:55industry in general to lose weight, lose
53:57weight, be skinnier, do this, do that.
53:59And I was
54:01trying to do all that and I was dieting
54:02and I was eating unhealthy. I was I was
54:05going crazy cuz I would think like, oh
54:06my god, I'm in such a good shape. And
54:08then I get VS and I'm like
54:10[ __ ] yeah, it's working out.
54:13And then they put the label on me that
54:15like, oh she's the first plus-size
54:16model. And like, you know, there's
54:18nothing hurtful in general in that.
54:20>> Of course.
54:21>> But when you
54:23don't consider yourself that and you're
54:25really been torturing yourself
54:28to fit into this cat other category,
54:32which was you having, you know, the
54:3490-60-90
54:36whatever measurements,
54:38it really [ __ ] you up. And and the
54:40support where I wanted to have I didn't
54:42get, which was my agency, my that time
54:45agency, they their response was to
54:48invite me to their camp where you should
54:51talk to these other models how it feels
54:53to be a plus-size model in the industry.
54:56And I was like, but I'm not.
54:58>> Yeah.
54:58>> Like I never I never represented that
55:02and I'm like
55:04I would love to obviously represent that
55:06too, but I but I don't think I want to
55:09be forced into a role that's not me.
55:11>> They might not the plus-size model fans
55:12might not want you over there anyway.
55:14>> Yeah.
55:14>> what I mean?
55:15>> It's just wrong representation.
55:16>> Yeah, exactly. That's what I'm saying.
55:17I'm like it's yeah.
55:18>> Well, it's also attributed to you from
55:21outside of you, which is the core of the
55:24issue here, right? Which is that you're
55:26fine to identify as whatever you like,
55:29but that's when you're giving it to
55:30yourself. If someone's putting a label
55:33onto you and it affects your job and
55:36it's your work, suddenly you go
55:39what the hell? I mean if if everyone
55:42this is a bad analogy, but if people
55:44were reading your scripts and you've
55:45been writing dramas, but people are like
55:47he's the best comedy writer ever. You're
55:49like
55:49>> a weird thing.
55:50>> You're like what the [ __ ]
55:52So
55:53>> that was I think that's that was the
55:54moment where my mentality like switched
55:57shifted a little. I'm like
55:59I have to stop trying to fit in and and
56:01please people and just just be me.
56:04>> Yeah. And then after 25 years old?
56:07>> Yeah, 25 or 26, yeah.
56:08>> Exactly. That's what they say your brain
56:10fully develops, too. So you're like
56:11locked it all in.
56:12>> more years for you, babe.
56:13>> Just [laughter] a couple more years. I
56:14don't I own that. I like My life's nice.
56:17Don't think too much.
56:18>> to be aloof.
56:19>> chill. [laughter] Yeah, we're just
56:20aloof.
56:21>> Dude, if your brain shrunk a little bit
56:23during pregnancy
56:25you I think you'd lose it all.
56:26>> It did with him.
56:29>> He is actually a baby. That's
56:30>> So tell us more about this camp full of
56:32models.
56:32>> [laughter]
56:37>> I'm just teasing you.
56:38>> [laughter]
56:39>> So this
56:41>> That's super.
56:44>> So So then though
56:47what was interesting is that you were
56:48like [ __ ] it.
56:49>> Yeah, and I didn't put any stress on how
56:51I look and what my body should look and
56:54all that and
56:56weirdly without doing any diets is
56:58eating whatever I wanted and all that, I
57:00started dropping weight.
57:01>> Really?
57:02>> Yeah.
57:03>> Cuz you weren't like hyper-fixated.
57:05>> I wasn't hyper-fixated. When you're
57:07hyper-fixated and this and that, you
57:09hold back on losing weight. It's just
57:11chemicals something that
57:12>> Some people are going to see this and
57:13not believe you, Babs.
57:14I can as a fact say I can as a fact say
57:17I've seen you eat. And she eats a lot.
57:20[laughter]
57:20>> Yeah, we
57:21>> It's almost A SCARY AMOUNT.
57:22>> AND BY the way, it is part of and I
57:23really do mean this, it is part of what
57:26initially has made me so attracted to
57:29you.
57:30>> about that in the in the other podcast.
57:32>> Because food is a big part of you guys'
57:34life.
57:34>> A huge part of my love language.
57:36>> together and it's not like you just have
57:37one meal. It's like yeah, you eat a you
57:39eat a good amount for you know
57:40>> No, we navigate through a day by what
57:42sounds yummy. Like that is like that we
57:45we do that quite frequently and it is
57:47such a part of our love language and so
57:49like
57:49>> So you're just happier, you're feeling
57:51better, you dropped it. Dropped it.
57:52>> Yeah, it's like during COVID I didn't
57:54have to
57:55yeah and
57:56>> [laughter]
57:56>> I during COVID I didn't have to like pay
57:58attention. I was like I just felt I'm
58:00just I don't care anymore.
58:01>> Do you feel so much better?
58:02>> I felt so much better. I felt I was at
58:04ease. I didn't care about what people
58:06think about my body. But then started
58:07posting pictures and then I started
58:09getting the comments that I Oh my god,
58:11why she so skinny?
58:12>> No, you were the other way.
58:13>> And I was like what is like I I just
58:15don't know why people think that
58:19I mean I
58:20I get in the sense like I'm a public
58:22figure and I'm a model. So I am working
58:25with my body. So that should give them
58:27the right to comment on my body.
58:29>> [snorts]
58:29>> But it's like
58:31I never felt the need to comment on
58:33anyone's body or if I had nothing nice
58:35to say I I didn't say. I just kept it to
58:37myself.
58:38>> Yeah.
58:39And I think in that way too
58:42transitioning into pregnancy this has
58:45been
58:47a thing.
58:47>> bit of my shock. Yeah.
58:49>> It went this way, that way and now we're
58:51going back.
58:52>> Now now it was a scramble and I I would
58:55like especially the first trimester
58:57where you don't really have a bump.
58:59>> Did you comment and kind of did they
59:01know it was coming you think?
59:03>> Just because of the way I was styled for
59:05like fashion week and stuff.
59:06>> People
59:07you gave some time.
59:08>> more in my head. That's where like that
59:09scar came back where I was like Oh, the
59:12number on the scale like really going up
59:13super quick and my arms are getting
59:15bigger and my you don't have a bump yet
59:17but your stomach is bigger and you your
59:19pants don't fit and I was like I can't I
59:21started spiraling.
59:22>> Yeah. And you haven't felt that way in 5
59:24years or something.
59:25>> Yeah.
59:26It was it was weird but this is when
59:29it's important that you have a good
59:30partner cuz like you know Dylan was
59:32there
59:33reminding me every single time that
59:35we're creating life cuz we are pregnant.
59:38>> Yeah, [laughter]
59:39all of us all three of us are pregnant.
59:42I've been supportive.
59:43No, no, I'm not actually.
59:44>> [laughter]
59:45>> I'm not I'm saying that one now.
59:47>> He was in the room when it happened.
59:49Just in the corner.
59:54>> You went and announced the pregnancy or
59:57you just like well first of all you
59:58didn't tell anyone. You can announce a
1:00:00pregnancy it's one of the only things
1:00:01you can announce by walking out of a
1:00:02room. You know, cuz you walked out and
1:00:04your belly was just out. And it if I
1:00:07remember it was a bare belly, right?
1:00:08Wait on the piano announcement? No, you
1:00:11didn't
1:00:12I love this beer belly.
1:00:13>> You just did one for
1:00:15>> first time I did bare belly
1:00:17in FIFA.
1:00:17>> Only have my belly out.
1:00:18>> You know it got again again it got mixed
1:00:21responses. Yeah.
1:00:22>> Why? Really? Why?
1:00:24>> Yeah, it's controversial I guess. Like
1:00:26some people are saying why put out
1:00:29Your They're
1:00:30almost someone compared it to like a
1:00:32beer belly. It's [laughter] like so if I
1:00:34put out my beer belly it's the same.
1:00:37>> I remember when I was in China one of
1:00:39the things I thought was really sick is
1:00:40a lot of the Chinese guys in the summer
1:00:43pull their shirt up over their tummy and
1:00:46they just hang it [laughter] out to cool
1:00:47off and I'm like that's tight as hell.
1:00:50That's tight as hell.
1:00:51>> And let them do [laughter] it.
1:00:54So many girls when they're not pregnant
1:00:56they're wearing crop tops. Is that not a
1:00:58That's not a problem.
1:00:59>> I think the only problem I'd have is a
1:01:01sunburn.
1:01:02Can you imagine if you're pregnant with
1:01:04a belly that's all sunburned? That
1:01:05That's like hell. I bet.
1:01:08>> I burnt my tummy. I I don't know my
1:01:11I don't
1:01:12I don't know my width right now but at
1:01:15length width.
1:01:16>> Length width. Width is this ways.
1:01:19Length is long.
1:01:19>> Yeah, you can't Okay, so you're Wait,
1:01:21explain it because this this made me
1:01:23laugh the other day.
1:01:24>> Oh, if we're going that way.
1:01:25>> Yeah.
1:01:25>> This is width. This is length.
1:01:27>> I get I was thinking this the belly
1:01:29itself.
1:01:30>> Yeah, yeah. We're thinking of it like a
1:01:31cube.
1:01:31>> Yeah. We're doing We're all doing 2D
1:01:33right now. We have to do two 3D.
1:01:34>> ball.
1:01:35>> Okay. All right. Well, explain what
1:01:36happened.
1:01:37>> of the ball.
1:01:37>> Okay, it's the width of the ball. It's
1:01:38not the length of the ball.
1:01:39>> Well, the ball's all equal on each side,
1:01:41but it's a perfect ball.
1:01:44>> [laughter]
1:01:44>> Guys
1:01:45>> Well, this is not a geometry podcast.
1:01:48Can we lock the [ __ ] in and tell the
1:01:49story?
1:01:50>> I No, no, no. I was just
1:01:51>> Okay, so you don't know what you're
1:01:52talking
1:01:53>> So, I was making breakfast for Dylan
1:01:55before he woke up and
1:01:57>> Oh, so you're making breakfast at 11:30
1:01:59a.m.?
1:02:00>> Anyway, I was making pancakes and eggs
1:02:03and bacon and all that. And first like
1:02:04the bacon fell like kind of just
1:02:06dribbled on my tummy. [laughter]
1:02:08I was like, "Ow, that hurts." But then I
1:02:10was like, I bent over to like
1:02:13twist turn a pancake and I forgot my
1:02:15tummy and I I I touched a the pan. I
1:02:18have a pan line now.
1:02:20>> Pan line, yeah. [laughter] That's your
1:02:21belly. Burns are like the
1:02:23biggest pain in the world cuz they throb
1:02:25for hours.
1:02:25>> what I don't like that my mom's reaction
1:02:27was immediately like, "Oh, now the
1:02:29baby's going to have that mark."
1:02:31>> I like that logic though.
1:02:32>> That's Hungarian witchcraft.
1:02:34>> That's also when I got stung by a bee on
1:02:36my feet cuz I Now the baby's going to
1:02:38have that mark.
1:02:38>> Yeah, probably.
1:02:39>> What?
1:02:40>> Can you explain that a little bit?
1:02:42>> I can't and I told her I was like, "Stop
1:02:43saying that." Like I'm I didn't burn a
1:02:46baby's face.
1:02:47>> your girl comes out with a burnt face?
1:02:49>> Sick.
1:02:50>> Can you ski?
1:02:51>> What if it's like
1:02:52>> Frenchy pass it?
1:02:53>> Frenchy pass it.
1:02:54THIS [laughter] IS
1:02:56>> WHERE DO YOU EVEN GET THESE?
1:02:58>> I forgot that
1:02:59>> say endometriosis for me?
1:03:00>> Endometriosis.
1:03:01>> Oh, so you [ __ ] [snorts] prepared.
1:03:03>> Endoboniosis.
1:03:04>> [laughter]
1:03:06>> I'm I know all this stuff. I have three
1:03:08sisters, so I'm know all women's health.
1:03:11>> [laughter]
1:03:11>> They're all knowing, Brendan.
1:03:12>> Wow.
1:03:13>> Yeah.
1:03:14>> Um so
1:03:15>> She could come out with like an sick
1:03:17anime show.
1:03:18>> cool.
1:03:18>> I mean it would start down like a
1:03:19>> That's cool.
1:03:20>> I knew a guy who I watched who who had
1:03:22that scar and I was like, "How did you
1:03:24get it?"
1:03:24>> Alex has it.
1:03:25>> And he goes, "I ran into a door." I was
1:03:27like, "That's not cool." It needs to be
1:03:28by a slash.
1:03:30>> That would hurt though, running into a
1:03:31door.
1:03:32>> But anyway, so
1:03:32>> What's the most surprising thing you've
1:03:34discovered during the pregnancy that's
1:03:36been like either hard
1:03:38>> They're all right.
1:03:39>> That I'm all right?
1:03:40>> Yeah.
1:03:41>> You do see She does seem like she loves
1:03:42me.
1:03:42>> Wait, were you shocked that he was good
1:03:44at it?
1:03:45>> Now, here's the thing. Like pregnancy
1:03:47can either make your
1:03:49>> husband
1:03:49>> partner really just like you you hate
1:03:51you hate them.
1:03:52>> Yeah.
1:03:52>> Their smell changes. Their Your
1:03:54deodorant you have to change.
1:03:56>> Yeah, yeah. What kind of Old Spice,
1:03:57Tiger?
1:03:59>> No.
1:03:59>> What kind of juice you
1:04:00>> Are you?
1:04:00>> Are you?
1:04:01>> [laughter]
1:04:02>> Huh?
1:04:03Are you like Old Spice and The Kraken
1:04:04now or like what
1:04:05>> No, I used to have Kraken, yeah.
1:04:06>> [laughter]
1:04:07>> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:04:08>> People probably on the street or because
1:04:09everyone knows you pretty well.
1:04:10>> streets?
1:04:11>> On the streets.
1:04:12>> Out on the streets.
1:04:12>> Wait, they they they they do know
1:04:13>> When I'm out on the street.
1:04:15Bruce, no.
1:04:16>> [laughter]
1:04:17>> But a lot of people think they know you.
1:04:18Has anyone grabbed grabbed your belly
1:04:20that like like a stranger? Like old
1:04:22women I'm sure are big belly grabbers.
1:04:24>> I think people are more inclined to
1:04:26touch your belly when it's something
1:04:29skin tight. But when your belly's out
1:04:32they actually don't touch.
1:04:33>> Oh, when it's skin out, yeah.
1:04:34>> skin they don't want to do skin to
1:04:35>> Do people give you a wide like do do
1:04:37people give you a wide berth when
1:04:38walking? Like they're like, "Ooh,
1:04:40they're kind of getting out of your
1:04:41way."
1:04:41>> lady I give her 10 ft, yeah.
1:04:42>> Oh, molto molto coming.
1:04:44>> [laughter]
1:04:44>> Coming out.
1:04:46I like them big. I like them chunky.
1:04:50>> [laughter]
1:04:50>> Good song.
1:04:51>> No, they don't.
1:04:52>> Love that song.
1:04:53Love that song.
1:04:53>> They do not give me a wide. They I know
1:04:57but I don't because you know like right
1:04:59now the way I'm dressed
1:05:00>> Yeah.
1:05:00>> No, I couldn't really tell. So
1:05:02>> But you're not intentionally trying to
1:05:03hide it, are you? Is there a part of you
1:05:05that feels like you want to hide it?
1:05:07>> We're back to the scar. There's a part
1:05:09of me that I'm still trying to dress up
1:05:11so I look skinny.
1:05:12>> Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:05:14>> By the way, that's a funny thing too
1:05:15that while in the industry I would be
1:05:17called plus size and too big and all
1:05:19that. I would go back to Hungary where
1:05:21everyone around me would be like, "Ah,
1:05:23you got to put some meat on that
1:05:24>> to eat something now.
1:05:25>> to eat. You're so skinny." And it's
1:05:27like, "Just stop." And it became
1:05:31Yeah, just don't comment on my body.
1:05:33Like, [clears throat] even when I went
1:05:34home my mom was like, "Oh, yeah, you can
1:05:36see you're starting to gain weight now."
1:05:38And I'm like,
1:05:38>> Oh, thanks, Mom.
1:05:39>> I know. I'm aware.
1:05:40>> moms do that with everybody, right?
1:05:45>> Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:05:45>> Mom, I love you and I didn't mean
1:05:47anything.
1:05:48By the way, do you guys like me breaking
1:05:49the fourth wall every now and then?
1:05:50>> Yeah, I know. I like it.
1:05:51>> I look at the camera, babe.
1:05:52>> Thank you.
1:05:53Yeah, babe.
1:05:54>> Um something I found interesting
1:05:58uh as the as we got pregnant was that
1:06:03for I always thought just the bigger the
1:06:05baby the better.
1:06:06>> Yeah.
1:06:07>> Right? Like as a guy you go like,
1:06:08>> Yeah, you want the biggest
1:06:09>> going to I'm going to we're going to
1:06:10create a 10-lb baby by like eating all
1:06:12the right things."
1:06:13>> Yeah, you want
1:06:13>> You want Lenny not George.
1:06:15>> Yeah.
1:06:16>> I thought you just wanted a big baby,
1:06:18which maybe it's just like man brain
1:06:20going like big baby healthy baby.
1:06:22>> sense, yeah.
1:06:22>> But you actually there's like for most
1:06:25pregnant ladies there's a
1:06:27window
1:06:29straight up baby and it's totally monkey
1:06:31brain like but there's a there is a
1:06:33window there which is like the exact
1:06:35size of the baby that you want. Yes,
1:06:37right? Cuz you've been very conscious
1:06:39about being like whoa, whoa, whoa. I
1:06:41don't want to have a
1:06:42>> Well, I just don't like for example when
1:06:44Yeah, you don't want to have a 12-lb
1:06:45baby cuz you have to push it. Yeah, like
1:06:48in your third trimester when you're
1:06:49eating a lot of sugar that goes directly
1:06:52to the baby and they like gain weight,
1:06:54you know.
1:06:54>> Buttermilk.
1:06:56>> Yeah. I was more I was more thinking ice
1:06:58cream or donuts.
1:07:00>> buttermilk.
1:07:01>> [laughter]
1:07:02>> Same thing.
1:07:03>> My mom My mom always reminds me that my
1:07:05head was abnormally large for a baby's.
1:07:08>> Yeah, not just the baby's.
1:07:09>> [laughter]
1:07:11>> Now too, buddy.
1:07:12>> Hats still don't fit, but um
1:07:13>> That's the thing, you don't want that
1:07:15big of a baby. I think a 7 8 7 lb baby
1:07:18it's like the average.
1:07:19>> Paul and I were each 8 and 1/2 lbs.
1:07:21>> 8 and 1/2? I think it was 8
1:07:22>> I can tell.
1:07:247 would be great cuz then
1:07:26less chance of tearing.
1:07:27>> Yeah, exactly.
1:07:28>> You can push out baby maybe a little
1:07:30easier.
1:07:31>> That's got to be nice.
1:07:32>> So, if it's like bigger, heavier, you're
1:07:35stretching bigger, heavier.
1:07:37>> Well, there's a few things that we've
1:07:39learned like about the delayed cord
1:07:41clamping.
1:07:41>> Oh, what is that?
1:07:42>> That's one.
1:07:43>> That well, why don't you explain that a
1:07:44little bit to him since he definitely
1:07:46doesn't know.
1:07:46>> sound like you know a lot about it.
1:07:47>> at explaining it than I am. Okay, wait.
1:07:49So, I'll I'll explain it. So, delayed
1:07:51cord clamping is this process So, when
1:07:54the baby comes out
1:07:55>> Yeah.
1:07:56>> umbilical cord's obviously still
1:07:57attached. Now, previously they'd want to
1:08:00just cut the cord, tie it off, get the
1:08:02baby out.
1:08:03>> Any outies?
1:08:03>> But, inside of the cord is a lot of like
1:08:07[snorts]
1:08:07very high stem cell count blood.
1:08:10>> Nice.
1:08:11>> And so, nowadays the practice is you
1:08:13want to wait until the cord turns white
1:08:17>> Oh, so it's all pushed out.
1:08:18>> because it drains into the baby
1:08:20>> and helps with the health.
1:08:21>> So, you get a little skin to skin while
1:08:23you're waiting?
1:08:23>> Yeah, but so you're trying to wait, but
1:08:26some people delay the cord clamping too
1:08:28because you can save the blood
1:08:30>> Yeah.
1:08:30>> that's inside, which sounds like
1:08:32>> organs for them later on?
1:08:34>> Yeah.
1:08:34>> Maybe not grow organs, but you can
1:08:36maybe. Sure.
1:08:37>> save these cells
1:08:38>> stem cells.
1:08:39>> Cuz in the future you could maybe grow
1:08:41organs.
1:08:41>> Really helpful for both the mother and
1:08:43the baby.
1:08:44>> Oh, so you are eating the placenta?
1:08:46>> baby siblings.
1:08:47>> You turn them into pills.
1:08:48>> Really?
1:08:49>> you turn into pills.
1:08:50>> And you actually eat them?
1:08:51>> The blood cord I think they dehydrate it
1:08:53and they put it in
1:08:53>> Yeah, it's probably just like the like
1:08:55liver.
1:08:55>> in the thingy and
1:08:56>> Could it be like coffee creamer?
1:08:58>> Coffee creamer, yeah.
1:09:00>> That'd be so cool.
1:09:00>> put it in anything. It's like medicinal.
1:09:02>> Anything in Hollywood.
1:09:04>> Dude.
1:09:07>> [laughter]
1:09:08>> I was joking about the placenta but that
1:09:10there's health benefits are you supposed
1:09:12>> For sure.
1:09:12>> of health health benefits health
1:09:14benefits.
1:09:14>> You think cavemen were eating placentas?
1:09:16>> I think they were
1:09:17>> We're the only like species
1:09:20>> That has placenta.
1:09:21>> That don't eat their placenta.
1:09:22>> Really?
1:09:23>> If you see the like a deer have you seen
1:09:25a deer video giving birth or anything
1:09:27like that?
1:09:28>> yet no.
1:09:28>> Any video where they
1:09:30>> Google deer giving birth.
1:09:31>> I saw one live once an antelope in a
1:09:34game preserve give birth and that thing
1:09:35immediately ate the placenta.
1:09:37>> That's the first thing they they go and
1:09:39eat the placenta.
1:09:40>> Yeah cuz you need a little nutrition
1:09:41after pushing.
1:09:42>> I watched a giraffe give birth in that
1:09:44same preserve like a few years ago.
1:09:46>> What kind of safaris you got going on?
1:09:48>> They just
1:09:49>> Giving birth around me.
1:09:50>> [laughter]
1:09:50>> Creepy safaris.
1:09:53>> Safari for creeps.
1:09:55>> [laughter]
1:09:55>> It's another birth.
1:09:56>> By the way the giraffe giving birth that
1:09:58thing fell like
1:09:59>> Yeah.
1:10:00>> 10 ft out of the air and just splat.
1:10:02>> Yeah.
1:10:02>> I was like holy [ __ ] like it was a
1:10:04splash zone dude.
1:10:05>> Well that's an idea. Are you going to do
1:10:06a water birth?
1:10:07>> No. At home birth or anything?
1:10:09>> No.
1:10:09>> Nothing kooky?
1:10:11>> It's not kooky it's a choice.
1:10:12>> What if the baby can't swim?
1:10:14In the water birth.
1:10:15>> They definitely can't swim.
1:10:16>> Or can't they breathe water for a couple
1:10:18minutes?
1:10:18>> in a big pool you know that.
1:10:19>> Which is crazy
1:10:20I thought about this the other day.
1:10:22The baby's vocal cords are already
1:10:24developed. What if she's just screaming
1:10:26in there and we can't hear it?
1:10:29>> [laughter]
1:10:36>> Have you played music for her?
1:10:38>> Oh sorry no.
1:10:39>> We [laughter] did a Lord of the Rings
1:10:40soundtrack.
1:10:41>> Oh good.
1:10:41>> So you're trying to raise a dork.
1:10:43>> [laughter]
1:10:43>> You could try Gladiator or Braveheart
1:10:45it'd be way cooler.
1:10:47>> I'm willing to throw forward dork. We're
1:10:49[laughter] kind of dorky with that too
1:10:50dude.
1:10:50>> All right come on I heard you were big
1:10:52on grocery store ruffles so let's not
1:10:55talk let's not call each other dorks.
1:10:57>> The the chips at the grocery store?
1:10:59Ruffles? Yeah, I like the chips.
1:11:00>> What's dork?
1:11:02>> [laughter]
1:11:04>> WAIT, I LOVE THE SOUR CREAM and onion.
1:11:06>> It's not Ruffles.
1:11:08>> The chips that you dip into the sour
1:11:09cream and onion?
1:11:10>> The game.
1:11:11>> Raffles, raffles, raffles. [laughter]
1:11:13Grocery store raffles.
1:11:18Grocery [laughter] store raffles.
1:11:19>> Raffles, raffles.
1:11:21I was great at that. Yes, which is dork.
1:11:24>> It's the word.
1:11:25>> The raffles.
1:11:26>> [laughter]
1:11:26>> Dude, you would have killed that before
1:11:27your brain shrunk. You chose my favorite
1:11:29chip.
1:11:30>> I didn't spit. That might have been
1:11:31grandpa sneezing or something.
1:11:32>> It was right here.
1:11:33>> No, that doesn't happen with him. You
1:11:35saw that wrong.
1:11:36>> [laughter]
1:11:39>> So, we've been trying to find like
1:11:40obviously the foods that she likes the
1:11:42most during this entire thing and
1:11:44something
1:11:45she had a weird observation the other
1:11:47day and the more I think about it, the
1:11:49more it makes sense, which is that the
1:11:51closest thing she's found to eat to
1:11:54Hungarian food out here is Mexican
1:11:57cuisine.
1:11:58>> Eat sour cream.
1:11:58>> Cuz it has a lot of sour cream. It's
1:12:00very like meat and pepper oriented. It
1:12:05has There's a lot of
1:12:06overlap with Mexican food and Hungarian
1:12:10food.
1:12:10>> What are you chowing down on? Burritos,
1:12:12quesadillas?
1:12:13>> Quesadillas. She loves the quesadilla
1:12:14and bowl.
1:12:15>> I like the tortilla soup.
1:12:16>> Oh, tortilla soup's good.
1:12:17>> There's a really good one and uh
1:12:20quesadillas and what did I had something
1:12:22else the last time. Es-
1:12:23>> You had enchilada?
1:12:25Ooh.
1:12:25>> It was the heart show.
1:12:26>> Oh, oh, yeah, you had a taquito.
1:12:28>> Taquito.
1:12:29>> Um you had taquitos.
1:12:30>> Es-
1:12:30>> Esquites? Is that how Does that Oh, no,
1:12:33no, I got this one. I got this one.
1:12:35>> Which one?
1:12:36>> It's elotes.
1:12:37>> Dylan got it first.
1:12:38>> I can't eat corn anymore.
1:12:41>> I don't want to hear.
1:12:42>> No, you don't want to hear.
1:12:42>> Okay, I will assume I eat a lot of corn.
1:12:45I love corn.
1:12:46>> I love corn. I can't do it anymore.
1:12:48Not in the third trimester.
1:12:50>> Yeah.
1:12:51If you know, you know.
1:12:52>> You're the poster boy for just chomping
1:12:54on corn. Cuz I've seen you just rip down
1:12:56on a cob.
1:12:57>> been really [clears throat] difficult to
1:12:58figure out
1:12:58>> holders.
1:12:59>> Sorry.
1:13:00>> Yeah, yeah, the ones that She never had
1:13:01those in Hungary?
1:13:02>> What did you say?
1:13:02>> The corn holders, so when it's hot you
1:13:04can still eat them. You put like two in
1:13:05on the side.
1:13:06>> You mean just the wooden stick?
1:13:08>> No, no, like they're two little plastic
1:13:10things with two
1:13:11metal tines.
1:13:13>> No.
1:13:14>> I'll get you some.
1:13:15>> it with our hands.
1:13:16>> Maybe at your baby shower I'll get you
1:13:17some.
1:13:17>> with our hands. We're okay with that.
1:13:19>> So you're saying you're getting us for
1:13:20the baby shower
1:13:21>> think I got you a wedding gift so
1:13:24>> What?
1:13:24>> We're not doing a baby shower.
1:13:25>> Okay, when you have a baby I'll get you
1:13:26corn and times.
1:13:27>> I feel like you
1:13:28>> I don't want a baby shower.
1:13:29>> a baby shower for you, babe.
1:13:30>> Baby showers before you even have the
1:13:32baby though. So you would have already
1:13:33had to plan it.
1:13:34>> I just don't like the I don't like the
1:13:35attention. It's the same like with
1:13:36birthdays, I don't like the attention. I
1:13:39I
1:13:39>> I feel like you get a pass on this one
1:13:41though, babe.
1:13:42>> But I don't like it. It It's I wouldn't
1:13:44have fun. It would stress me out.
1:13:45There's also like I said there are times
1:13:47when some people are more excited sound
1:13:49more excited than I am and I don't know
1:13:50how to react cuz I'm not a
1:13:52>> Yeah.
1:13:53>> squeaker?
1:13:54>> A SQUEAKER?
1:13:54>> SQUEAKER?
1:13:58>> [laughter]
1:13:59>> I LIKE THAT TERM. YEAH, I KNOW WHAT a
1:14:01squeaker is.
1:14:01>> No, no offense. Like I wish I was that
1:14:03excited about things.
1:14:04>> Well, you are excited but you're you're
1:14:05a
1:14:06stoic woman. Yeah.
1:14:07>> yeah, cool.
1:14:08>> Uh-huh.
1:14:08>> Yeah.
1:14:09>> Yeah.
1:14:10Sick. [laughter]
1:14:10>> Cool.
1:14:10>> Sick as hell, dude. That's sick as hell.
1:14:13Um
1:14:13>> What I was going to say is that
1:14:16not like we we're trying to cook more at
1:14:18home.
1:14:18>> Yes.
1:14:19>> To also just get used to that when baby
1:14:21comes we can cook all all these meals
1:14:24and
1:14:25that's been a challenge because I know
1:14:27my Hungarian dishes but like I I don't
1:14:29know how people It's like I feel like my
1:14:32life is now
1:14:34just around what are we going to eat?
1:14:36>> Yes.
1:14:36>> What are we cooking? What do you take
1:14:38out of the freezer?
1:14:40And where was I get going with that?
1:14:42>> Well, I was going to say for me at least
1:14:44like I've I've to understand a lot more
1:14:47of the role around the house and how
1:14:50it's going to be even when we get into
1:14:52the baby being born because the funny
1:14:55thing is is pregnancy naturally seems
1:14:57like it's the translation into having a
1:15:00kid.
1:15:01>> Transition.
1:15:01>> Transition.
1:15:02>> Transition, yeah.
1:15:02>> Translation, transition. Um it but it's
1:15:05the transition obviously into the time
1:15:07of having a child.
1:15:09>> Yes.
1:15:09>> But because of the symptoms of pregnancy
1:15:11too, it's already kind of forcing you to
1:15:14>> Well, you had to be more of a caretaker,
1:15:16Dylan, right?
1:15:16>> Precisely. It's Also, it's kind of sick
1:15:18because
1:15:18>> to slow down.
1:15:20>> Slow it down.
1:15:20>> You really have to like
1:15:21>> Make the house a home.
1:15:22>> Give grace to each other. Be patient
1:15:24with each other, which I'm I'm really
1:15:26not a I don't think I'm a I'm not a
1:15:28patient person.
1:15:29>> Not all the time, yeah. Sometimes I've
1:15:31seen that.
1:15:32>> In Hungary, we snap. It's very It just
1:15:34the
1:15:35the voice goes a little la
1:15:37>> Just la
1:15:37>> And he doesn't. And he hates that.
1:15:40>> I mean, it sucks.
1:15:41>> It's
1:15:41>> Dylan's Dylan's but you
1:15:43>> [laughter]
1:15:45>> But is Dylan not a snapper? He's more of
1:15:46like a sad sad man?
1:15:49>> No, he holds in a lot of things for like
1:15:51months.
1:15:52>> Yeah, yeah, [laughter] I see that.
1:15:55>> That's his new thing.
1:15:56>> When she when she snaps at me, then I go
1:15:59>> [laughter]
1:15:59>> See, that's called diffusion. That's a
1:16:01good little skill, yeah. I like that.
1:16:02>> Funny.
1:16:03>> He He's way
1:16:04a little bit he's picking up the
1:16:06snappiness, which I'm like don't don't
1:16:08give me attitude.
1:16:09>> don't want to join the snap crew.
1:16:10>> I actually
1:16:10>> Just because there's been a lot less
1:16:12sleep recently. And I will say that's
1:16:14also part of like the transition period
1:16:16is because like
1:16:17>> You got to be so sleep sleep deprived.
1:16:20>> It's going to get worse, but the uh
1:16:23But the truth is is like
1:16:25at least in my head, I go, "I want her
1:16:27to eat as much she wants, sleep as much
1:16:29as she wants, and just to do kind of
1:16:31whatever she wants."
1:16:32>> Can you just not sleep through the night
1:16:34or what?
1:16:34>> No, you can't. Like you you have to pee
1:16:36like four or five times to get up.
1:16:38>> That's cool.
1:16:38>> Also, like now, you know, you can't just
1:16:40sit up. You have to Everything's from
1:16:43the side.
1:16:44>> That'd be crazy, dude. I really don't
1:16:46want to get to the bed pan.
1:16:47>> I could start wearing diapers.
1:16:48>> Diapers wouldn't be Honestly, if I get
1:16:50up five times a night, why not?
1:16:52I just think that like
1:16:54>> hygienic.
1:16:55>> [laughter]
1:16:55>> Maybe that's why. I don't know.
1:16:57>> It's just getting up to pee five times a
1:16:59night.
1:16:59>> And then just turn Every time you just
1:17:00turn, you're like
1:17:02>> And you're just pushing yourself.
1:17:04>> and then go this way, then a pillow goes
1:17:06behind the back, pillow under the tummy,
1:17:07otherwise your hip hurts cuz the weight
1:17:09is rolling on the ligaments here. And
1:17:13yeah, it's it's And then Piggy's in the
1:17:15bed with us.
1:17:16>> course. Which has got to change pretty
1:17:18soon.
1:17:18>> It's not going to change.
1:17:20>> Yeah, cuz Grandpa I mean, only sleeps in
1:17:22bed. Obviously.
1:17:22>> I I don't I don't It's going to be
1:17:24already so much change for Piggy like
1:17:25having another screaming baby there. I
1:17:27don't want her to be thrown out of the
1:17:29routine.
1:17:30>> She's not going to get thrown out of the
1:17:31routine. I just think that like at some
1:17:33degree you don't put the infant in the
1:17:34bed immediately, right?
1:17:35>> No.
1:17:36>> Yeah. And then I was a best friend.
1:17:37>> Yeah, so they just leave Piggy in the
1:17:38bed.
1:17:40The Piggy just uh finds the worst places
1:17:42to sleep all the time.
1:17:43>> Hey, say it to his face. You're going to
1:17:45move him out of the bed?
1:17:46>> Absolutely not. You're so [laughter]
1:17:47cute.
1:17:48>> Oh, man.
1:17:49>> Don't move me out of the bed.
1:17:50>> Does he sleep between your legs up?
1:17:51>> Oh, yeah. He goes between my legs.
1:17:53>> You don't feel stiff in the morning?
1:17:55>> Every day, baby.
1:17:56>> Well, who cares? It's
1:17:57>> [laughter]
1:17:59>> I could set that one up [ __ ] up so hard.
1:18:01>> Grandpa no, Grandpa moves from my legs
1:18:03to my pillow to out of the covers.
1:18:05>> He just got it.
1:18:07>> But my last night he was up twice. I had
1:18:08to take him out. He goes to the bathroom
1:18:10a lot. So, you're kind of training. It's
1:18:12>> of training.
1:18:12>> I'm going to help you guys out, yeah. If
1:18:14you need tips.
1:18:15>> Oh, you want to come here, Grandpa?
1:18:16>> No, no. You'll get you all dirty.
1:18:18>> I don't mind. She's a baby.
1:18:20>> He's a little baby.
1:18:21>> I just It's he
1:18:21>> This is literally a hot potato.
1:18:24>> [laughter]
1:18:25>> Hi.
1:18:27Oh, she's sweating.
1:18:29>> Yeah, [laughter] I know. He's kind of
1:18:30sweaty. They I've took him to a vet one
1:18:32time, and I was like, "Yeah, it's weird,
1:18:33you know, we were out in uh Long Island
1:18:35or something." And the vet was like,
1:18:36"Yeah." I'm like, "It's hot." So, he's
1:18:38always sweating. He goes, "Dogs can't
1:18:39sweat." And he picked him up, he goes,
1:18:41"Your dog is sweating."
1:18:42>> [laughter]
1:18:43>> It's a weird guy.
1:18:44>> You're related to the horse.
1:18:46>> to go back.
1:18:47>> He loves his daddy.
1:18:49>> He just wants to look around.
1:18:50>> Um what's he saying you know I I'll say
1:18:52that like in general it seems like
1:18:54there's been
1:18:56a lot of changes. All like I'm saying
1:18:58have been trans like the transition
1:19:01period into having a kid.
1:19:03>> It's easy to wait.
1:19:04>> it's almost as if this process
1:19:07>> Sorry.
1:19:07>> is biologically designed for that
1:19:09express purpose.
1:19:10>> Uh-huh.
1:19:11>> Yeah.
1:19:11>> Slow down, learn patience, give grace to
1:19:14each other.
1:19:16Respect each other's pace.
1:19:17>> over maybe once a week only. Yeah.
1:19:19>> And you can you can be as prepared as
1:19:21you you do all your research, find like,
1:19:24"Okay, now is the time." If you ever
1:19:25actually can think that way, have a
1:19:27strong foundation in a relationship,
1:19:29it's going to test it test you. We had
1:19:33>> [sighs]
1:19:34>> Not because of me.
1:19:35>> Yeah.
1:19:35>> Can't blame me.
1:19:35>> Uh
1:19:36>> And the only thing that changed in me is
1:19:38his DNA, okay? So, if I seem off
1:19:41>> You've become a little more sprout,
1:19:42which is not a good thing.
1:19:44>> I was going to say you seem chill as
1:19:45hell lately.
1:19:47>> It's like a super soldier, but they just
1:19:48get dumber.
1:19:50>> [laughter]
1:19:50>> It's like if Captain Rogers got
1:19:52skinnier.
1:19:56>> As your husband and
1:19:59I I think that what I would hope to see
1:20:03in the future is that coinciding with
1:20:05what you said earlier about the kind of
1:20:07dysmorphia behind the growing and this
1:20:10is that
1:20:12first off, a 12-lb baby is sick.
1:20:14>> No.
1:20:16>> Second off,
1:20:17you've been gorgeous from the moment I
1:20:21met you.
1:20:23You're just as gorgeous now if not even
1:20:25more pretty.
1:20:27And I think nothing's going to change
1:20:29that avenue of it.
1:20:30>> Yeah.
1:20:31>> I know, it's too heartfelt. Normally
1:20:33we're silly.
1:20:33>> [laughter]
1:20:34>> Uh
1:20:35But I don't
1:20:36>> I don't know how to react.
1:20:37>> I don't think I don't think it's
1:20:39something like I hope that in your head
1:20:41you're able to get past some of those
1:20:44like fears
1:20:45of the body stuff, especially when
1:20:47you're in this like beautiful natural
1:20:48phase of your life, is what I'll say.
1:20:51And I'll keep I'll keep
1:20:54feeding you taquitos and Mexican food
1:20:55with
1:20:56>> the second the kid pops out
1:20:58>> Sure as heck is
1:20:58>> It's just all going to be all about her,
1:21:00and it's going to be awesome.
1:21:01>> You guys will team up to help her out.
1:21:05>> I think that's a natural thing.
1:21:07Um I love you.
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