Atendimento Gestalt - Gloria e Perls - Legendado — Transcript

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1. 0:07I'm to interview a
2. 0:09patient and I'd like to give you some
3. 0:12thumbnail sketch of what gal therapy
4. 0:15stands
5. 0:16for G is working on an equation
6. 0:22awareness equal pleas time equal
7. 0:27reality in contrast to depth psychology
8. 0:30we try to get hold of the obvious of the
9. 0:34surface of the situation in which we
10. 0:36find ourselves and to develop the
11. 0:39emerging Gestalt strictly on the I and
12. 0:43thou Here and Now basis any Escape into
13. 0:48the future or the past is examined as a
14. 0:52likely resistance against the ongoing
15. 0:58encounter modern man has alienated given
16. 1:03up so much of his potential that his
17. 1:05ability to cope with his existence
18. 1:07becomes badly
19. 1:09impoverished my aim is
20. 1:13this the patient should recover his lost
21. 1:17potential he should integrate the
22. 1:19conflicting
23. 1:21polarities understand the difference
24. 1:23between game playing especially the
25. 1:26playing of verbal
26. 1:28games on the one hand hand and of
27. 1:31genuine authentic be confident behavior
28. 1:34on the
29. 1:35other the Civil War of inner conflicts
30. 1:39weakens the efficiency and comfort of
31. 1:41the patient but every bit of integration
32. 1:45will strength
33. 1:47it now in the safe emergency of the
34. 1:50therapeutic situation I repeat in the
35. 1:54safe emergency of the therapeutic
36. 1:57situation the patient begins to take
37. 2:00risks and to transform his energies
38. 2:03from manipulating the environment for
39. 2:07support into developing greater greater
40. 2:10selfs support that is reliance on his
41. 2:13own
42. 2:15resources this process is called
43. 2:20maturation once the patient has learned
44. 2:23to stand on its own feet emotionally
45. 2:25intellectually and economically his need
46. 2:28for therapy will collapse
47. 2:30he will wake up from The Nightmare of
48. 2:32his
49. 2:34existence the basic technique is
50. 2:37this not to explain things to the
51. 2:41patient but to provide the patient with
52. 2:44opportunities to understand and to
53. 2:47discover
54. 2:49himself for this purpose I manipulate
55. 2:52and frustrate the patient in such a way
56. 2:55that he's confronting
57. 2:58himself in this process he identifies
58. 3:01with his lost potential for instance
59. 3:04through assimilating his projections by
60. 3:06acting
61. 3:08out by acting out the alien parts of
62. 3:11himself principally I consider any
63. 3:15interpretation to be a therapeutic
64. 3:17mistake as this would imply that the
65. 3:20therapist understands the patient better
66. 3:23than the patient
67. 3:24himself takes away from the patient a
68. 3:26chance of discovering himself
69. 3:30by
70. 3:31himself and prevents him from finding
71. 3:35out his own values and star on the other
72. 3:40hand I disregard most of the content of
73. 3:44what the patient says and concentrate
74. 3:46most on the nonverbal level as this is
75. 3:49the only which only one which is less
76. 3:52subject to self deception then his
77. 3:55verbal pseudo
78. 3:57self-expression on the non-verbal level
79. 4:00the relevant gal will always emerge and
80. 4:04can dealt with in the here and
81. 4:13now we are going to an interview for
82. 4:16half an
83. 4:21hour right away I'm
84. 4:24scared you say you're scared but you're
85. 4:27smiling I don't understand how one can
86. 4:29be scared and smile at the same
87. 4:34time and I'm also suspicious of you I
88. 4:36think you understand very well I think
89. 4:38you know
90. 4:41that when I get scared I laugh or I kid
91. 4:44to cover up but do you have stage
92. 4:47five uh I don't know I'm mostly aware of
93. 4:51you I'm afraid that uh I'm afraid you're
94. 4:54going to have such a direct attack that
95. 4:55uh you're going to get me in the corner
96. 4:57and I'm afraid of it I want you to be
97. 4:58more on my side get you your corner you
98. 5:00put your hand on your chest mhm is this
99. 5:04your
100. 5:05corner well it's like yeah it's like I'm
101. 5:09afraid you know where would you like to
102. 5:13go can you describe the corner you like
103. 5:16to go
104. 5:18to yeah uh it's back in the corner where
105. 5:22where I'm completely
106. 5:24protected and they would be safe of me
107. 5:27for
108. 5:28me
109. 5:30well I know I wouldn't really well feel
110. 5:33it made you wear this corner you're
111. 5:35perfectly safe now what would you do in
112. 5:38this corner I just sit you just sit yes
113. 5:42well how long would you sit I don't know
114. 5:45but this is so funny as you're saying
115. 5:47this this reminds me of when I was a
116. 5:48little girl every time I was afraid I'd
117. 5:51feel better sitting in a corner okay
118. 5:53panicky are you a little girl well no
119. 5:56but it's the same feeling are you a
120. 5:58little girl
121. 6:00this feeling reminds me of it are you a
122. 6:02little girl no no no at last how old are
123. 6:05you 30 then you're not a little girl no
124. 6:10okay so you're
125. 6:1230-year-old girl who's afraid of a guy
126. 6:16like me well I don't even know if I I do
127. 6:19know I'll be afraid of you you I get
128. 6:21real defensive with
129. 6:23you now what can I do to
130. 6:27you you can't do anything but I can
131. 6:29share feel dumb and I can feel stupid
132. 6:31for not having the right answers now
133. 6:33what would it do for you to be feel dumb
134. 6:35and stupid I hate it when I'm stupid
135. 6:38what would it do for you to be dumb and
136. 6:42stupid but it put it so like this what
137. 6:45would it do to me if you would play dumb
138. 6:48and stupid that makes you all the
139. 6:50smarter and all the higher above me then
140. 6:52I really have to look up to you cuz
141. 6:54you're so smart yeah oh yeah and but me
142. 6:56up right and
143. 6:58left all I think you can do that all by
144. 7:02yourself I think the other way around if
145. 7:05you play dumb and stupid you force me to
146. 7:08be more
147. 7:11explicit that's been said to me before
148. 7:14but I don't buy it I don't what are you
149. 7:16doing with your feet
150. 7:18now
151. 7:21wiggling what's a joke now no I'm afraid
152. 7:24you're going to notice everything I do
153. 7:26GE I don't you want me yeah I want you
154. 7:29to help me become more relaxed yes I
155. 7:31don't want to be so defensive with you I
156. 7:33don't like to feel so
157. 7:38defensive
158. 7:40um you're acting like you're treating me
159. 7:43as if I'm stronger than I am and I want
160. 7:44you to protect me more and be nicer to
161. 7:47me are you aware of your smile you don't
162. 7:50believe a word what I do too but I know
163. 7:52you're going to pick on me for it sure
164. 7:55your block your
165. 7:58FY
166. 8:00do you believe are you meaning that
167. 8:01seriously yeah if you say you're afraid
168. 8:04and you laugh and you giggle and you
169. 8:07squir it's
170. 8:09funny you put a performance for me oh I
171. 8:13I resent that very much can you explicit
172. 8:16yes sir I most certainly am not being
173. 8:18phony I will admit this it's hard for me
174. 8:21to show my embarrassment and I hate to
175. 8:23be embarrassed but boy I resent you
176. 8:25calling me a phony just because I smile
177. 8:28when I'm embarrassed or I'm put in the
178. 8:29corner doesn't mean I'm being a phony
179. 8:31wonderful thank you if you didn't spell
180. 8:34for the last minute well I'm mad at you
181. 8:36I that's right you didn't have to cover
182. 8:39up your anger with your
183. 8:43smile now you in that moment in that
184. 8:46minute you were not a pH well at that
185. 8:49minute I was mad though I wasn't
186. 8:50embarrassed in other words when you're
187. 8:52mad you're not a
188. 8:54phony I still resent that I'm not a
189. 8:57phony when I'm nervous again I I want to
190. 9:00get mad at you I you know what I'd like
191. 9:03to do I I I Want You On My Level so I
192. 9:06can pick on you just as much as you're
193. 9:07picking on me okay pick on
194. 9:15me I have to wait till you say something
195. 9:17that I can pick on but what does this
196. 9:19mean can you develop this
197. 9:21movement it's a I can't find words I
198. 9:24want to develop this as if you been
199. 9:28dancing
200. 9:33I want to start all over again with you
201. 9:35okay let's s all over I know a corner
202. 9:37I'd like to put you on I'd like to ask
203. 9:38you a question and and because I have a
204. 9:40feeling you don't like me right off the
205. 9:42bat and I want to know if you do can you
206. 9:45not play Fritz SPS not liking Gloria
207. 9:48what would he
208. 9:50say he'd say that she's a phony for one
209. 9:53say you are a phony you're a phony and
210. 9:56you're a flip little
211. 9:58girl and you're show
212. 10:01off what would Gloria answer to
213. 10:05that I I I know what I'd answer I'd say
214. 10:08I think you are too no say tell this to
215. 10:12me tell me what a funny I am well
216. 10:18I'm see your
217. 10:21for phon is not quite the right word but
218. 10:24it's more like a a show off a show like
219. 10:28you know all the answers
220. 10:30yeah and I want you to be more human and
221. 10:32that doesn't seem very human to me to
222. 10:34know other answers is not very human
223. 10:37yeah to right away find out how I'm
224. 10:38kicking my feet and why am I doing like
225. 10:40this why are you doing like that oh dear
226. 10:42I've got eyes I can see you kicking your
227. 10:44feet I don't need a a scientific
228. 10:47computer to see that you're kicking your
229. 10:49feet what's big about
230. 10:52that you don't need to be wise to see
231. 10:54that you're kicking your feet I know but
232. 10:57it seems like you're trying to find some
233. 10:58reason for it
234. 11:00I
235. 11:01don't this your imagination okay I know
236. 11:04what I'd like from you can I tell you
237. 11:05what I'd like from you yeah I'd like you
238. 11:07to be aware that I'm kicking my feet and
239. 11:09to be aware that I'm giggling when I'm
240. 11:11really nervous and accept it instead of
241. 11:13putting me on the defensive having to
242. 11:14explain it I don't want to have to
243. 11:17explain why I'm doing these things did I
244. 11:19ask you to explain you said why am I or
245. 11:21what am I doing well what am I doing you
246. 11:23said that's right kicking your feet I
247. 11:25didn't ask you to explain
248. 11:27it is your imagin
249. 11:31it's not his FRS it's the frits of your
250. 11:33imagination it's big
251. 11:40difference now do this
252. 11:43again
253. 11:45again how do you feel
254. 11:50now I don't
255. 11:52know playing
256. 11:54stupid I'm not playing stupid I don't
257. 11:58know the right answer this is playing
258. 12:12stupid you did something with your hair
259. 12:14there is by chance something in my hair
260. 12:17that you object to no
261. 12:20no
262. 12:23okay no but I your your hair and your
263. 12:27features go along with the the feeling I
264. 12:29had about you earlier I I had a feeling
265. 12:31I could be afraid of
266. 12:32you and you're the type of person that
267. 12:35seems like you demand so much respect
268. 12:36and so
269. 12:39you're please play Fritz I demand so
270. 12:41much respect play this Fritz you just
271. 12:46saw well you know how smart I am I know
272. 12:49more about psychology than you do Gloria
273. 12:52so anything I say of course is right can
274. 12:55you say the same as Gloria something
275. 12:57similar as
276. 12:58Gloria
277. 13:00but the same act as
278. 13:02Glory I demand respect
279. 13:07because I don't
280. 13:10know no I don't I identify it with my
281. 13:13father but not me I don't feel I demand
282. 13:14respect you don't Dem me respect no sure
283. 13:18not as a matter of fact I'd like more
284. 13:20I'd like you to respect me more no you
285. 13:22see so you're the man
286. 13:25respect all right
287. 13:27yes yes as a matter how to if I could
288. 13:29demand respect from you I would but do
289. 13:34it who's preventing you except
290. 13:41yourself cuz I feel if I get myself out
291. 13:43on the corner you're going to let me
292. 13:44just drown you're not going to help me
293. 13:47one bit and I know that I can't quite
294. 13:48come up to standards with you what
295. 13:50should I do when you're the
296. 13:54corner encourage me to come out oh you
297. 13:59don't have
298. 14:01enough courage to come out by yourself
299. 14:04you need somebody pull little mims in
300. 14:06the stress out of a corner yes so
301. 14:09anytime you want somebody to uh pay
302. 14:12attention to you call into a corner and
303. 14:15wait till The Rescuer comes yes that's
304. 14:17exactly what I'd like and this is what I
305. 14:19call phony pardon me this is what I call
306. 14:22phony why is it phony I'm admitting to
307. 14:25you what I am how is that a phony that
308. 14:27is a phony because it's a trick it's a
309. 14:30gimmick to crawl into a corner and wait
310. 14:32there until somebody comes to your
311. 14:33rescue I'm admitting it I know what I'm
312. 14:36doing I'm not being phony I'm not
313. 14:38pretending I'm so
314. 14:40brave I resent that I feel like you're
315. 14:42saying unless I come out openly and
316. 14:45stand on my own I'm not a phony baloney
317. 14:47I'm just as just as real sitting in that
318. 14:49corner as I am out here all by myself
319. 14:51but you're not sitting in that well not
320. 14:58now
321. 15:01and besides that it's like passing
322. 15:03judgment when you call me phony I just
323. 15:04hate that anyway now we're getting
324. 15:07somewhere I call anybody phony who puts
325. 15:11them in
326. 15:13act and if you like somebody you want to
327. 15:16meet this
328. 15:17person to go to this person tell them I
329. 15:20would like to meet you I would call not
330. 15:23for me but if you coly go into that
331. 15:27corner waiting to be rescue this I call
332. 15:30F this I called and I still think you're
333. 15:33judgmental you know what I have a
334. 15:35feeling you've never felt this way in
335. 15:36your life you feel so secure that you
336. 15:38don't have to feel anybody that does
337. 15:40something like this you're going to pass
338. 15:41judgment on there being a phony well I
339. 15:43resent it good now play Fritz passing
340. 15:45judgment you are you're sitting up there
341. 15:47in your big old chair I am Fritz I pass
342. 15:53judgment pass judgment on me
343. 15:57now I don't feel close to you at all Dr
344. 16:01pearls I feel that's phony I feel like
345. 16:03you're playing one big game
346. 16:06right sure we're playing games but in
347. 16:09spite of the games I think I've touched
348. 16:12you now and then I think I hurt you when
349. 16:14I called you a phone well of course you
350. 16:16did and I think I hit the bull's eye
351. 16:19that's why you feel
352. 16:23hurt I don't know all I know is when
353. 16:25somebody when I feel the way I feel with
354. 16:27you right now it's like you don't have
355. 16:30feeling alline now exaggerate this what
356. 16:33you just did that's it don't talk to me
357. 16:37like this I can't I can't I want to
358. 16:39laugh I want to I'd like you to be
359. 16:40younger than me so I could really scold
360. 16:42you how old must have
361. 16:44be my age three good I'm 30 now imagine
362. 16:48I'm 30 and now you're SC okay don't be
363. 16:51so sure of yourself don't think
364. 16:53you're so dog on Smart don't act so
365. 16:55proud because you've never been in the
366. 16:56corner I think you can be just as big a
367. 16:58phony parading around like you're so
368. 17:00damn smart you know all the answers as
369. 17:02much as me sitting in my
370. 17:04corner oh and I like the feeling of you
371. 17:06being younger I'd like to really I'd
372. 17:08like to embarrass you yeah embarrass me
373. 17:11well you you wouldn't get embarrassed
374. 17:13you seem
375. 17:14unaffected tell me embarrass me tell me
376. 17:17how old how ugly I
377. 17:20am you don't look old ugly you look
378. 17:22distinguished and that gives you that's
379. 17:24all the more on your side if you look so
380. 17:26distinguished then see that's more on
381. 17:28your side too well Gloria can you say
382. 17:31one thing we had quite a good fight no I
383. 17:35no MM no I F I don't think you're
384. 17:38fighting with me but I F you came out
385. 17:40quite a
386. 17:42bit well I'm mad at you
387. 17:45wonderful but you seem so detached you
388. 17:48don't even seem to care that I'm mad at
389. 17:51you I feel like you're not recognizing
390. 17:54me at all Dr pearls not a bit this is
391. 17:57quite true our contact is much too
392. 18:00superficial to be involved in caring I
393. 18:03care for you as far as let's see you're
394. 18:08right now my client I care for you as
395. 18:10far as I like to like an artist bring
396. 18:14something out which is hidden in you is
397. 18:17as far as I
398. 18:22care well I'd like you
399. 18:25to I'd like to feel that there's some
400. 18:28it's frustrating if I were to leave you
401. 18:29right now and not seean it would
402. 18:31frustrate me to feel like there hadn't
403. 18:32been more contact I feel completely out
404. 18:34of contact with you like I'm talking to
405. 18:36the baby that doesn't understand me or
406. 18:38something like that I don't feel like
407. 18:40we're a bit in contact and that ooh that
408. 18:41frustrates
409. 18:43me that bothers me more than being angry
410. 18:45with you I'd rather we were angry and
411. 18:47fought than to have no
412. 18:49contact yeah this reminds me of when my
413. 18:52husband and I used to fight he sits
414. 18:54there and he listens to me but he's not
415. 18:55even aware of how much I hate him and
416. 18:57how mad I am at him rather yeah I'd
417. 19:00rather affect you you'd really hate me
418. 19:02or
419. 19:06something and I feel like you're
420. 19:07purposely staying out of contact with me
421. 19:10how should I
422. 19:11be give me your fantasy how how could I
423. 19:15share you my concern with
424. 19:18you I can't say in words I know the
425. 19:21feeling I'd see on you but I can't say
426. 19:23it's just a feeling
427. 19:25like I don't
428. 19:27know it's like I want you to respect me
429. 19:30more as a human being that I've got
430. 19:31feelings now we come back to the
431. 19:33beginning so you want respect yes I do I
432. 19:37do this is a different kind of respect
433. 19:39than I meant the first time but you want
434. 19:41you need respect
435. 19:45yes I respect you so much as a human
436. 19:48being that I refuse to accept the fly
437. 19:50part of yourself and address myself to
438. 19:53the genuine part right now the last few
439. 19:56minutes you were wonderfully genuine
440. 20:00you were not playing
441. 20:03anymore I could see you were really
442. 20:07hting well I don't feel I've got a right
443. 20:11when I don't like somebody or I disagree
444. 20:13with somebody's doing if if I should
445. 20:15respect them if they're above me they're
446. 20:16Superior to me I don't feel I've got a
447. 20:18right to really really tell you how mad
448. 20:19I am at that's that's
449. 20:22garbage you're not JY JY you're getting
450. 20:25bed into your safe Corner that's the way
451. 20:28it feel that's what the safe Corner
452. 20:29feels like to me now go back to your
453. 20:32safe Corner because you have to part
454. 20:34very soon you stay in your safe corner
455. 20:36you came out for a moment you nearly met
456. 20:39me could get a little bit angry with me
457. 20:42now go back to your safety I feel like
458. 20:44you're telling me the only way you
459. 20:45respect me as a human being if I'm
460. 20:47aggressive and forceful and strong you I
461. 20:50feel like you couldn't even accept my
462. 20:52I'd be scared to death to cry in front
463. 20:53of you I feel like you'd laugh at me and
464. 20:55call me a phony I feel like you don't
465. 20:58accept my weak side only when I'm
466. 20:59yelling back at you or hollering at
467. 21:02you you must be cry my presence well I
468. 21:06wouldn't even give you the satisfaction
469. 21:08see this again no see this
470. 21:13again I try not to I try not to cry in
471. 21:16front of you or show my weak spot for
472. 21:17fear you'd jump on me again are you
473. 21:19really that your eyes are moist I'm
474. 21:21aware that I feel more chokey yes I feel
475. 21:24it could you choke
476. 21:27me
477. 21:30pretend but not for real why not for
478. 21:32real well because I don't hate you that
479. 21:34much no you want to choke my tear SP you
480. 21:37want me to choke you so you wouldn't
481. 21:41cry I'd like to if I'd like to choke you
482. 21:43it would be to make you cry I'd like to
483. 21:46see you
484. 21:47weak I'd like to see you hurt and and
485. 21:52vulnerable what would do this do for
486. 21:56you make me feel like I
487. 21:59I have more of a right to be hurt and
488. 22:01you wouldn't jump on me so quick would
489. 22:03you jump on me if I would cry no mm- but
490. 22:07I would jump on you if you would
491. 22:09cry you're sure of
492. 22:12this no I'm not sure of it
493. 22:16uh what would what would you like me to
494. 22:19do if you were to
495. 22:23cry I was you're smiling you're smiling
496. 22:26something off well because I got two
497. 22:27feelings I was I was going to say I want
498. 22:29you to I want you to love me and hug me
499. 22:31but then I thought no I don't want to
500. 22:34what's your objection I'd be scared to
501. 22:36be too close to
502. 22:37you now we're getting somewhere first
503. 22:40you want to be close to me now you're
504. 22:42afraid to be too close to me is what I'm
505. 22:45saying but that's right now we got the
506. 22:48two PS of your existence but they're two
507. 22:50different feelings close I mean
508. 22:52emotionally but not physically yeah but
509. 22:55you've got the two PS of your existence
510. 22:57now
511. 22:58either far away in a
512. 23:01corner or be so close that you get melt
513. 23:05into one with other
514. 23:09person it apparently you travel between
515. 23:11the two
516. 23:17extremes I do you know what I'm thinking
517. 23:20when I am really hurt and really uh
518. 23:23upset about something and I want someone
519. 23:25to love me like my girlfriend will do it
520. 23:27a lot and she'll come up to hug me
521. 23:28I don't I don't want it exactly
522. 23:32see that's what I'm talking about you
523. 23:35cannot sustain
524. 23:39contact okay this is
525. 23:43garbage but are you afraid if you were
526. 23:45too close to your girlfriend if you let
527. 23:47her hug you um the only thing I'm aware
528. 23:50of is like when I pire It embarrasses me
529. 23:53that should feel how wet I am and it
530. 23:55should hold my body up close and I don't
531. 23:58know are you aware of your facial
532. 24:00expression kind of disgust com me yes I
533. 24:03am do this more please icky I it's just
534. 24:08icky I can just feel what it is I don't
535. 24:10like it can you say this to me Fritz
536. 24:11you're
537. 24:17icky no
538. 24:19no what's your difficulty cuz I feel
539. 24:23like if you really believe me that would
540. 24:24hurt your
541. 24:25feelings oh you must hurt my feelings
542. 24:30well I thought I was so indifferent you
543. 24:32said before that nothing could touch me
544. 24:35now you suddenly discovered a way to
545. 24:37touch me isn't
546. 24:40it well you know what I believe I
547. 24:43believe you're the type of person sort
548. 24:44of like me that you act like it wouldn't
549. 24:46hurt your feelings but it really would
550. 24:48you act strong but you're you're soft
551. 24:51and vulnerable inside there
552. 24:54too I think your feelings could be hurt
553. 24:57sure
554. 24:59but I don't think you'd show it very
555. 25:01easy what would I
556. 25:03do how would I conceal my feelings by
557. 25:07turning it back on me by saying now what
558. 25:10did you get from that Gloria you turn
559. 25:12the whole thing back on me instead of
560. 25:14showing how hurt you were now can you
561. 25:16say this to Fritz how did you what did
562. 25:18you get out of this Fritz say this to me
563. 25:21what you get out of what what you just
564. 25:23say just a
565. 25:27sentence
566. 25:29sure I know what you'd get out of it if
567. 25:30I said what did you get out of this FR
568. 25:32you'd
569. 25:33say nothing it didn't bother me it was
570. 25:36you that did it you still wouldn't let
571. 25:37me know you were hurt but I know what it
572. 25:39would be if you told your true feelings
573. 25:41that you didn't want to show your hurt
574. 25:42so you covered it up same way with me in
575. 25:44the corner now if I were hurt if I would
576. 25:47cry what would you do with
577. 25:51me you would be you wouldn't be so
578. 25:53Superior to me you'd be more vulnerable
579. 25:56and I could pacify you and make you feel
580. 25:58better you could hug me yes then I could
581. 26:01be the baby
582. 26:03yes yes I'd like that you'd feel more On
583. 26:06My Level I wouldn't have to feel so dumb
584. 26:08with you and the other way around you
585. 26:11would have to be my
586. 26:13baby she would cry you would like to
587. 26:17play the baby and be comforted and hug
588. 26:19and the poor thing well I like that
589. 26:24too but I tell you something I think we
590. 26:27came to a nice closure I think we came
591. 26:29to a little bit of
592. 26:31understanding I think we finish this
593. 26:35situation now right all
594. 26:43right uh the demonstration was in my
595. 26:46opinion uh quite successful and
596. 26:49consistent with my theoretical
597. 26:52Outlook the avoidance of the genuine
598. 26:54encounter manifested itself in three
599. 26:57ways the patient was first taken control
600. 27:03by putting on a smiling sophisticated
601. 27:05phony mask of oscillating between a
602. 27:08pretense of being frightened and yet at
603. 27:11the same time having me figured out thus
604. 27:15being or believing to be fully in
605. 27:17control of the
606. 27:19situation
607. 27:21secondly she was
608. 27:23withdrawing by fantasizing of hiding in
609. 27:26a corner
610. 27:30thirdly she was blocking the real
611. 27:34Encounter of melting through crying
612. 27:37which then would have been the real
613. 27:40emotional meaning of this
614. 27:43meeting the patient was capable of
615. 27:46identifying herself with several
616. 27:48fantasies she had projected onto me she
617. 27:51was this was especially evident with
618. 27:53regard to her initial denial for need to
619. 27:56be
620. 27:57respected
621. 27:58the need for environmental support
622. 28:00started to come out besides her need to
623. 28:02get
624. 28:04respected it was verbalized in a wish to
625. 28:06be cared for rescued from the
626. 28:09corner and so on I broke off the session
627. 28:13when the first tears begin to appear she
628. 28:17be to play the role of the Lonely child
629. 28:19and apparently wanted to be hugged and
630. 28:22comforted but here too the assimilation
631. 28:24of her projection began to work and she
632. 28:27began to experience holding me like a
633. 28:33baby apart
634. 28:35from assisting her and assimilating her
635. 28:38in some projections the main therapeutic
636. 28:40Factor was to show her the inconsistency
637. 28:43of a verbal and nonverbal behavior for
638. 28:46instance saying that she was frightened
639. 28:50and smiling at the same time a
640. 28:53frightened person does not
641. 28:57smile where I feeled was in the
642. 28:59direction of her
643. 29:01embarrassment this embarrassment was
644. 29:03protected by her brazenness and anger to
645. 29:07get to her existence existential
646. 29:09embarrassment we would have to work
647. 29:11through and eliminate the Foon that is
648. 29:14the ease with which we can superficially
649. 29:17assume any role that is required for a
650. 29:19specific
651. 29:20situation this pseudo adaptation is her
652. 29:24way of coping with life this is about
653. 29:28what I got out of this
654. 29:35session