Are the Cards Stacked Against Men?: Censored Filmmaker Speaks Out (Ep. 12 | Season 3) — Transcript
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- 0:00[Music]
- 0:03Restless I am so
- 0:07restless and this changing world is me
- 0:14speechless I am
- 0:21lost the blue pill is the Paradigm that
- 0:24most people live by that men have all
- 0:26the power that they've always had all
- 0:28the power that domestic violence is a
- 0:31problem that's committed by men against
- 0:33women only that sexual assaults are only
- 0:35committed by men against women that
- 0:37women don't make the same money for the
- 0:39same work as men the blue pill is just
- 0:42swallowing all that as though it's
- 0:50true welcome to the Fallen state I'm
- 0:53Jessie Peterson I am uh excited about
- 0:56this discussion as I am with all but
- 0:58especially this one because it's about
- 1:01men and families I have with me Cassie
- 1:05Jay an awardwinning documentary
- 1:07filmmaker her newest film is called the
- 1:11red peill it's an honor to have you here
- 1:14thank you it's an honor to be here the
- 1:16the documentary was um deep it it really
- 1:20showed was really going on with men and
- 1:22children and the mother of the children
- 1:24as well but I was surprised uh when you
- 1:27talked on the film about being a
- 1:30feminist and uh and how this whole film
- 1:33changed that for you why did you become
- 1:36a feminist or how did that happen to you
- 1:38uh so I just moved to Los Angeles to be
- 1:41in the film industry and I was pretty
- 1:43young I was naive I was 18 years old and
- 1:45KN New Town didn't know anyone in town
- 1:47and I noticed that all the roles that I
- 1:50was going out on auditions for were sexy
- 1:52girl number seven or the girl that gets
- 1:54killed in the first 10 minutes of the
- 1:55film and so I've died about eight times
- 1:58in movies I have a great scream
- 2:01and uh and so I was annoyed with the
- 2:04stereotyped casting I was I was getting
- 2:07and uh so I started to complain about is
- 2:10this because I'm a woman and how I'm
- 2:11being treated and also being hit on by
- 2:13producers and so when I would voice my
- 2:16uh well rant to my friends and family
- 2:19about being a woman they would say oh it
- 2:21sounds like you're a feminist so I
- 2:22looked it up and it said feminism is the
- 2:24belief in gender equality and I thought
- 2:26sign me up and that was that was about
- 2:28over 10 years ago so so what was it like
- 2:31living as a feminist well I it was also
- 2:35kind of the rise of social media at that
- 2:36time and I think social media really
- 2:39influenced and um kind of fed more into
- 2:44my um feminist ways because I was
- 2:47reading articles online about how women
- 2:49were being mistreated and uh and at the
- 2:53time when I when I started calling
- 2:54myself a feminist a lot of my friends um
- 2:56turn their nose up to the idea and the
- 2:58word but now since then a lot of my
- 3:02friends who were previously didn't like
- 3:03that I was feminist now are feminists um
- 3:06did you get to the point where you hated
- 3:08men while being a feminist at the time I
- 3:11didn't realize it but now looking back
- 3:13with what I know now after making the
- 3:15red pill I think I I easily male bashed
- 3:19without realizing it and was dismissive
- 3:21of their issues and just thought they're
- 3:23privileged they have nothing to complain
- 3:24about and and uh yeah so I think in that
- 3:27way it was a uh kind of hidden
- 3:30mail bashing explain to the folks what
- 3:32is the rare PE why did you name it that
- 3:35it's a it's a cultural slogan it comes
- 3:37from the movie The Matrix and within the
- 3:39movie uh this character Morpheus tells
- 3:42the lead character Neo that Neo is
- 3:44asleep he's going out in this world with
- 3:47this kind of ignorant Bliss and Morpheus
- 3:50says I will show you the truth if you
- 3:52take the red pill I will show you the
- 3:54harsh reality of the world we live in
- 3:56and you're not going to like it but it's
- 3:58reality and uh so that's where the red
- 4:00pill cultural slogan comes from as the
- 4:02Matrix but the men's Rights Movement
- 4:03started using the red pill term to
- 4:06describe their seeing the light about
- 4:09gender issues and that it's not all
- 4:10black and white The Miz Right Movement
- 4:14um what is their primary purpose do you
- 4:17know now that you've gone through this
- 4:19what is the primary focus uh what I
- 4:21would say their primary focus is trying
- 4:23to bring balance to a very unbalanced
- 4:27gender discussion because of feminism
- 4:29and a lot of mainstream media will
- 4:31attack the men's rights activists as
- 4:32being misogynistic they're hate group
- 4:35they hate women or they hate feminists
- 4:38which they do have a lot of criticisms
- 4:40about feminism they don't hate women I I
- 4:42did not find MRA as men's rights
- 4:44activists to outright hate women a lot
- 4:46of them are in relationships and have
- 4:48kids loving relationships uh but they do
- 4:51have criticisms about feminism because
- 4:53it's dominating the gender dialogue
- 4:55today I noticed that with the Man Group
- 4:57they call them hate groups but do they
- 5:00call the feminist groups hate group as
- 5:02well or just the men uh just the men's
- 5:05rights movement has been labeled a hate
- 5:07group but not accurately um it's been
- 5:10misreported a lot in the media that they
- 5:12they were named a hate Group by the
- 5:13Southern Poverty Law Center which they
- 5:15were not the Southern Property Law
- 5:17Center has been critical of the men's
- 5:19rights movement and wrote an article
- 5:20saying that they're on our watch list
- 5:22but they never outright labeled them a
- 5:24hate group yeah I was on their list at
- 5:25one time oh yeah they call me a hate
- 5:28group um Dr Michael Kimel of whom I had
- 5:31on my radio show said that if domestic
- 5:34violence come from men and women then
- 5:37it's not a gender issue what did you get
- 5:39from that uh when I interviewed him he
- 5:43said that men are not being abused in
- 5:45equal numbers that women are being
- 5:46abused by men but my research showed
- 5:50otherwise that that it's almost equal
- 5:52very close and uh but Michael Kimmel did
- 5:54mention in my film and we showed in the
- 5:56film that he says if if it were equal
- 5:58numbers then it wouldn't be a gender
- 6:00issue it would just be a societal issue
- 6:01like hunger it's genderless uh but
- 6:04currently with with feminism there is
- 6:06this idea that only or a vast majority
- 6:09of women are being abused by men but
- 6:11even the CDC reports that it's very
- 6:13close to almost the same amount of men
- 6:15that are abused what's interesting about
- 6:18women violence toward men is that they
- 6:21pass laws where men are not allowed to
- 6:23even defend themselves you know so the
- 6:26woman just go nuts beating him up and
- 6:28you know and he can't offend himself
- 6:30because he will end up in jail yes I
- 6:33mean even if he said no stop he'll go to
- 6:36jail because they would call that verbal
- 6:39violence or something like that yeah it
- 6:42and women do have
- 6:45a I I guess it's a privilege but I would
- 6:48say it's uh using the system for for bad
- 6:53rather than good but they they have the
- 6:55privilege to call the cops say they are
- 6:58feeling threatened by a man and the cops
- 7:01will take the man to jail and a man does
- 7:03not have that same uh
- 7:07ability I was assaulted several times
- 7:10you know and and I never got any help I
- 7:12went to the police still bleeding a
- 7:13couple of times um and one police
- 7:16officer
- 7:18said uh I I'll never forget this he said
- 7:21if she starts hitting you again you
- 7:23better get out of there fast because if
- 7:25she just breaks a fingernail trying to
- 7:26hit you we'll arrest you
- 7:30in the film you had you talked about a
- 7:32guy who had tried to get his son I
- 7:34believe maybe daughter but son and he
- 7:37ran out of money so he shot himself in
- 7:39the head he went up into the mountain
- 7:41and he killed himself mhm yeah that
- 7:43broke my that was like awful yeah and it
- 7:46happens all too often yeah a lot of men
- 7:48go through that over the last 26 years
- 7:50I've worked with men who have gone
- 7:52through divorces or unfortunately had
- 7:54children out of wet loock I know of a
- 7:56case right now where this man woman
- 7:59broke up they had a little child the
- 8:02woman uh they went to court and he had
- 8:0550/50 and she start threatened him to
- 8:08accuse him of sexual M molestation
- 8:10whenever he would get with his daughter
- 8:12so even though he had the right to see
- 8:14his daughter he don't bother with seeing
- 8:16them at all now because of that are you
- 8:19hearing about any that kind of stuff
- 8:21happening yeah false accusations is a
- 8:24real issue and and that's one thing that
- 8:26feminists tried to downplay like oh it's
- 8:281% but it's not because false
- 8:31accusations don't always go to court so
- 8:33it's not always on the books but uh but
- 8:35women can hold that over men's head and
- 8:38and falsely accuse him of one of uh the
- 8:41fathers that I interviewed he was
- 8:43falsely accused of child pornography for
- 8:45taking a photo of his son with um it was
- 8:49a Mr Potato Head the little pieces like
- 8:51the ears and hands and all that it was
- 8:53on his face and he was like four years
- 8:54old but he took a photo of of his son
- 8:57with with the Mr Potato Head pieces on
- 8:58him and the his ex-wife took the photo
- 9:02to the police and said this is child
- 9:05pornography uh but the biggest problem
- 9:08with false accusations is that there's
- 9:09no accountability for women or people
- 9:12who make false accusations and and
- 9:14that's the problem why is it like that I
- 9:16mean why has it just gone one side like
- 9:19that I think it's because uh we have
- 9:22lived in a culture for so long that we
- 9:25need we believe we need to protect women
- 9:27and that uh a lot of people don't think
- 9:29or even when I started making the red
- 9:31pill I didn't think what woman would
- 9:33just falsely accuse a guy of beating her
- 9:35if he didn't or raping her I just
- 9:38thought that that's insane that anyone
- 9:40would do that because I wouldn't do that
- 9:42right uh but there are people using the
- 9:45system uh for their benefit because
- 9:47sexual assault mostly does happen to
- 9:49women and it's hard to prove then I
- 9:51think as a society we're wanting to
- 9:54believe her word over
- 9:57his and so this stuff ends up in
- 10:00horrific
- 10:01consequences like this gentleman here
- 10:04that's his little son they found him
- 10:07dead not the son but the young man in
- 10:10the desert with a bullet in his
- 10:12head day before the family court and
- 10:16where it became known that he was going
- 10:18to get to see his little guy even
- 10:21less and of course he'd been falsely
- 10:24accused one time after another after
- 10:26another uh had destroyed his life he had
- 10:29Bank bankrupt him and driven him into
- 10:31debt and caused him to misw work he was
- 10:33about ready to lose his job he was in of
- 10:35his rope so he just decided to end
- 10:39it while producing this movie you also
- 10:41gave us an opportunity to see the impact
- 10:45that was happening on you on your life
- 10:48and we see you going through these
- 10:49changes that was very good idea to do
- 10:51that um what were you feeling I mean
- 10:55what were you thinking and H how was it
- 10:57impacting you so my video di have always
- 10:59been for private use and I kept a video
- 11:02diary log throughout making the red pill
- 11:05uh in total when I filmed the red pill
- 11:07over over a year I had 38 diaries that I
- 11:11filmed and I think about five make it in
- 11:12the film but it does a chronical and it
- 11:16shows in the film my Evolution yeah this
- 11:19film was the probably the biggest change
- 11:23in my life have ever gone through and
- 11:24for the better and it really affected my
- 11:26relationship with my boyfriend and my
- 11:28father figur and my male friends and and
- 11:31also made me feel more empowered as a
- 11:32woman W affected you in what way uh
- 11:36realizing that men aren't privileged
- 11:39over women and oppress women as a whole
- 11:43cuz I started to ask myself while I was
- 11:44making the red pill I would ask myself
- 11:45if I had the choice to switch places
- 11:47with my boyfriend for instance who was
- 11:49the bread winner and uh and he would get
- 11:52up at 4:30 a.m. and work 12 14 hour days
- 11:55and pay most of the bills would I want
- 11:57to switch roles with him and the answer
- 12:00was no and I realized well I guess I'm
- 12:02actually the privileged one in this
- 12:03relationship so have you been a tack for
- 12:05this film yes you have give us examples
- 12:09well it started early when I started
- 12:11making this film a lot of my friends and
- 12:13family who were feminists were angry
- 12:15that I was making a film about men's
- 12:17rights activists and they would say why
- 12:18are you giving them a platform to speak
- 12:20which is such an insane thing because
- 12:22most people don't even know what emy's
- 12:24have to say so why are you saying they
- 12:25can't speak uh but I didn't let that
- 12:29deter me from continuing on but I did
- 12:31lose a few friends and then when I had a
- 12:34budget to make this film I started
- 12:36approaching different companies to uh
- 12:39contribute sound services and animation
- 12:42and so many very peculiar things
- 12:44happened that I've never seen happen on
- 12:46a dozen other films that I've directed
- 12:49where they would be along for being a
- 12:51part of the project and at the 11th Hour
- 12:53they would drop out and give a reason
- 12:56that didn't make sense and we actually
- 12:57had the Village Voice major paper in in
- 13:00New York refused to run our what would
- 13:02have been a paid for advertisement and
- 13:05my PR team has never seen that and in
- 13:07there Decades of being in this industry
- 13:10and so we just had all these things
- 13:12happening that uh I I've never seen
- 13:15there were companies I worked with in
- 13:16the past that refused to work on this
- 13:18film and uh so there was that kind of
- 13:21discrimination happening just based on
- 13:23the subject matter and my film I believe
- 13:24is very balanced I think most people
- 13:26that will see it will agree it's
- 13:27balanced it's not propaganda so it's
- 13:29just having the discussion is they're
- 13:31wanting to silence that just the
- 13:33discussion or the idea of this topic of
- 13:34men's issues and uh and then in the
- 13:38media you know having my reputation
- 13:40smeared having the film lie outright
- 13:43lies about the film to discredit the
- 13:45film or me so people won't see it and
- 13:48and we are doing the Oscar qualifying
- 13:50process and so some of these mainstream
- 13:53media uh sources that are writing our
- 13:55film reviews I think maybe are trying to
- 13:57sway the vote to to not like the film or
- 14:00watch the
- 14:02film battered children grow up to batter
- 14:05that's what I learned whether it be a
- 14:07man or a woman and I now know that if a
- 14:09woman comes in with a history of
- 14:11violence in her own childhood the
- 14:13chances are she will be probably violent
- 14:15to her children and she will want to
- 14:17live on this knife edge of Crisis and
- 14:20[Music]
- 14:21danger I haven't been allowed to speak
- 14:24that's the difficulty why is that
- 14:26because I'm completely barred from all
- 14:28conferences like I'm not allowed to walk
- 14:30up the step of my own Refuge I bought
- 14:32the bloody building but no cuz there
- 14:34feminist the woman who runs it is very
- 14:36heavy femin she won't have anything to
- 14:38do with me what did you say that made
- 14:40them hate you that women could be
- 14:43equally advant as men that was from the
- 14:50beginning you know what I noticed about
- 14:52your film like with those organizations
- 14:54some of the organization you interview I
- 14:56have a nonprofit where I work with men
- 14:59and what I try to do is to show men how
- 15:02to forgive you know don't resent don't
- 15:06hate you know always operate from love
- 15:08and love is not like a feeling love is
- 15:11just not hating you know and when you
- 15:13don't hate you you have natural love
- 15:16that cause you and help you to overcome
- 15:18anything some of the organization seem
- 15:21to be operating from hate you know have'
- 15:23gone through a lot now they're angry
- 15:25about about that and so it's weakening
- 15:28them rather than allowing them to go
- 15:30forth with power have you did you notice
- 15:33anything like that the anger or what
- 15:35anything I I think men's rights
- 15:37activists feel beaten down and then it
- 15:40and it does um come out in anger or rage
- 15:44uh sadness hopelessness suicide rate is
- 15:4878% men uh of all suicides are men right
- 15:52that was shocking to me that what was it
- 15:5575% you said 78% worldwide of of false
- 15:59suicides are men that is amazing I did
- 16:02not know that yeah I had a unfortunately
- 16:05had a son out of wedlock when I was 18
- 16:07years old and he came here to live with
- 16:10me in La he was five and so he stayed
- 16:13here and really happy guy you know love
- 16:17being with his father and his mother
- 16:19went to New York got married and one
- 16:21Summer she said oh can you let him come
- 16:23visit just for the Summers summer I
- 16:26promised not to keep him and and I like
- 16:29no no no I'm not going to take that risk
- 16:32and she's like please please please so I
- 16:34took the risk and I let him go visit and
- 16:37she kept him and so I had to get a
- 16:39lawyer I went through the whole thing
- 16:41she lied and said she had changed his
- 16:42last name and we found out years that
- 16:45that wasn't true and um I have to tell
- 16:49you I don't think the world understand
- 16:51the pain that a father feel when he
- 16:53loses his children and I can imagine it
- 16:56must be tough for a mother too but when
- 16:58someone just take your kids away from
- 17:00you or your child it's really really
- 17:02painful and I was thinking about that
- 17:04watching a movie I hope that the world
- 17:06can see that men love their children too
- 17:10and they should not just be taken away
- 17:11from their fathers were there what do
- 17:14you what do you want for this from this
- 17:16film what do you want people to know
- 17:17what do you want to come out of this
- 17:20film I I think first and foremost I want
- 17:23this to start more discussions about
- 17:25men's issues and also allow people to
- 17:28open up about their own personal stories
- 17:29and and hopefully also elicit um
- 17:33compassion and from other people and
- 17:36allow people who do have this wall up to
- 17:38hear about men's issues to free their
- 17:40mind from whatever is is creating that
- 17:43wall and to be able to listen and have
- 17:44compassion for men and uh and if they
- 17:47don't have compassion for men's issues
- 17:49then they should look with inside
- 17:50themselves and ask themselves why and
- 17:52that's what I did while making the red
- 17:53pill was there were so many times I
- 17:54heard men's issues and I kept on
- 17:56thinking well what about women what and
- 17:57I kept making it about my feminist
- 17:59beliefs and it took so many years before
- 18:02I started to question that why do I why
- 18:04am I unwilling to hear men's issues and
- 18:06have compassion for them have you
- 18:08changed in the hearts of women women who
- 18:11hated men prior to this now they see
- 18:13what's going on yeah and I have some
- 18:15very close friends and family members
- 18:16who are very upset about me making this
- 18:18movie and because I made this film over
- 18:21three and a half years it's very long
- 18:23journey and I we kept having discussions
- 18:25over those years and just slowly it
- 18:28wasn't EAS process even for me to change
- 18:30but I saw them changing as well and some
- 18:32feminists that I interviewed in the film
- 18:34changing and now that they've seen the
- 18:37film they really have had uh
- 18:41just had their eyes opened I thought it
- 18:44was interesting how this one mother
- 18:46tried to get her son fat make him fat by
- 18:51overfeeding him that's a darest thing I
- 18:53ever heard of yeah you going to kill
- 18:55your son just to get back at the father
- 18:58yeah were you shot by that I was and I
- 19:01was really nervous to put that story in
- 19:02the film because of fat shaming and that
- 19:06whole you know dialogue right now uh and
- 19:10and the story isn't about you know if
- 19:12should people should be fat or healthy
- 19:14or whatever but the story shows that the
- 19:17courts supported a woman who was abusive
- 19:20to the child and gave her primary
- 19:23custody and and the father who was a
- 19:25very good father and cared about his
- 19:28son's health
- 19:29uh had his parental rights taken away uh
- 19:34and there's no other explanation except
- 19:36for gender bias in the courts that's
- 19:39amazing huh I'm glad to see men rising
- 19:42up and stopping us because the kids are
- 19:45along with women like you because the
- 19:47kids are suffering the worst thing that
- 19:49can happen to a child whether male or
- 19:51female is to be turn away from their
- 19:53fathers because when you turn when you
- 19:56turned away from your father it leaves a
- 19:57void is that you yeah what did your
- 20:00brother and and F father think about the
- 20:04movie well I only have sisters I have
- 20:06three sisters a lot of estrogen in house
- 20:08boyfriend yeah boyfriends uh and father
- 20:12my boyfriend has been overwhelmingly
- 20:14supportive he was my executive producer
- 20:17meaning he financed a lot of the movie
- 20:20uh and he was also my cinematographer so
- 20:23we're a film making team and uh and
- 20:26we've had a lot of discussions about
- 20:27these issues since uh starting the film
- 20:29and he also started as a feminist as
- 20:31well um as a feminist as a feminist he
- 20:34grew up in Berkeley and your boyfriend
- 20:36was a feminist just as a side note why
- 20:39would a woman be interested in a man who
- 20:43call himself a
- 20:45feminist well I think there's uh what
- 20:49they're trying to Brand feminism as
- 20:51which is movement for gender equality
- 20:53and the reason why spoiler alert at the
- 20:55end of the film I dropped the label of
- 20:57femin feminist yes um the reason for
- 21:00that is because I I I see that they
- 21:02don't include men's issues in the
- 21:04discussion and go as far to silence them
- 21:07and so that's why I dropped the label
- 21:09but I'm obviously still for women's
- 21:10rights and now I care about men's issues
- 21:12as well but I I believe and also looking
- 21:15at the tactics of movements and not just
- 21:17what they say their definition is but
- 21:20how they Implement that around them what
- 21:22can we do to help you get this out to
- 21:25the world the people who watching who
- 21:28will watch is and all of us yeah well go
- 21:31to the redpill movie.com and we are
- 21:34going to be doing screenings worldwide
- 21:35it's a Grassroots effort right now just
- 21:38fans and followers of the film are
- 21:39hosting their own screenings all over
- 21:41the world so if you go to our website
- 21:43you can see where there's a screening
- 21:44and very soon we're going to be
- 21:46available worldwide online and All
- 21:49Digital platforms and DVD iTunes Amazon
- 21:51Netflix Hulu all the rest so the film
- 21:54will be available far and wide and I
- 21:57hope as many people will see it as
- 21:59possible do you know why men are so men
- 22:02are so hated men are the most hated
- 22:05creatures on Earth today they would
- 22:08rather have an animal before they love a
- 22:10man why is that and not just feminist
- 22:14but it seem to be popular in the country
- 22:16today I I think it's an interesting
- 22:19phenomenon that a lot of women are and
- 22:22it's not like they're lesbians either
- 22:23it's just there are a lot of women who
- 22:25say they don't need a man and I can do
- 22:27it all and uh and say that it's
- 22:29empowering to not need a man and do it
- 22:31all and um and I understand that I mean
- 22:35I have friends that are doing that as
- 22:37well and I I think you know each
- 22:39person's circumstance is different but I
- 22:41would like to see children raised with a
- 22:43father in the home or male figure and uh
- 22:46some kind of male role model that's um
- 22:49male teachers as well coaches that that
- 22:52connection is so important to see what a
- 22:54good man looks like and as far as the
- 22:56hatred of men um
- 22:59I I think it has a lot to do with the
- 23:00feminist uh rhetoric and uh this idea
- 23:05that uh women are victims they're
- 23:08oppressed by men and men have all the
- 23:09power and therefore we need to take away
- 23:11power from men to uplift women and so
- 23:14it's almost like female empowerment
- 23:16under in feminist size is to actually
- 23:20indirectly step over men in the process
- 23:22to lift up women again I want everybody
- 23:26to see the movie because it's really
- 23:28really insightful I know men and some
- 23:31women too but especially men who are
- 23:33adults and because they have not been
- 23:35raised up by their fathers they are
- 23:38mentally affected by it a lot of guys
- 23:41can't get up and go to work anymore
- 23:42they're relying on women to take care of
- 23:44them or you know they're living at home
- 23:46with their mothers until they're 50 and
- 23:4860 years old and all that is due to the
- 23:51lack of a good father because if you
- 23:54don't have that while growing up you
- 23:55don't have an example to look at to see
- 23:58how to follow yeah and I I would also
- 24:01like to add that a lot of feminists will
- 24:03say yes fatherlessness is a huge problem
- 24:06in our society but they will blame men
- 24:08as deadbe dads that they weren't
- 24:10involved but what I learned throughout
- 24:12making the red pill is that there are so
- 24:14many fathers that want to be involved
- 24:15and the courts and the exes in their
- 24:18lives are disallowing them to be
- 24:20involved in this parental alienation and
- 24:23uh that 81% of all primary uh custody is
- 24:27to the mother yeah and uh so there are a
- 24:30lot of dads that want to be involved and
- 24:32and they're being pushed out yeah I saw
- 24:34this happened to the black
- 24:36community about 50 or 60 years ago when
- 24:39they started to take the man out of the
- 24:40home and the government became the daddy
- 24:43of the family corrupt leaders became the
- 24:47head of the people it just went downhill
- 24:50I mean men became weaker they became
- 24:52emotional and now you have uh um a
- 24:56Warfare going on between the black man
- 24:58and the black woman which has nothing to
- 25:00do with racism by the way it is the
- 25:02destruction of the home the woman
- 25:04doesn't have the father there to help
- 25:06raise the children she's angry about
- 25:08that and she's passing that anger down
- 25:10to the children you know because kids
- 25:13are innocent when they first come into
- 25:14the world but they come into this crazy
- 25:16family where fathers and mothers are not
- 25:19there are not getting alone it changes
- 25:21their nature and we just now have a mess
- 25:24in the black community and they're
- 25:26blaming it on racism but it has nothing
- 25:28to do with that is all about not having
- 25:30that father there and they don't want to
- 25:33admit it wow and so all the destruction
- 25:35that you see is coming from not having a
- 25:37father there and the anger of the
- 25:39mothers and then the fathers who try as
- 25:41you said they try to be with their kids
- 25:43they pay the money but they can't see
- 25:45the kids because the mother fights
- 25:47against that even after the court tell
- 25:50them to do it yeah I know a lot of I've
- 25:53heard a lot a lot of women wanting to
- 25:55keep custody for the child support
- 25:57payments why don't Society understand
- 26:00the family issue why have we forgotten
- 26:02about how important that is I don't
- 26:05think they've forgotten it I think they
- 26:06benefit from the chaos and the money in
- 26:10court and family court the money and
- 26:12child support payments I think broken
- 26:15families growing up and and kids having
- 26:17issues there are a lot of industries
- 26:20that benefit from that so they're they
- 26:22all have an investment in keeping it bro
- 26:25broken you know that's true well I
- 26:27really appreciate your work thank you so
- 26:28much for what you're doing and uh thanks
- 26:30for coming today thank you for having me
- 26:33did you have fun I did were you nervous
- 26:35I was you were oh my gosh yes and why
- 26:38were you nervous I saw your other videos
- 26:40and I didn't know if I don't know we
- 26:42would debate about politics or whatnot
- 26:45I'm scared this this documentary is too
- 26:47important to to put anything else in I
- 26:50want everybody and their M to see this
- 26:53thank you and really because we've been
- 26:54dealing with this stuff for 26 years and
- 26:56it's nice to see someone put it on on
- 26:58film it really show what's going on so I
- 27:00do appreciate that I I was easy on you
- 27:03today because of that thank you thank
- 27:10[Music]
- 27:16you don't let it get near
- 27:20you don't let it get too
- 27:25close don't let it turn you
- 27:30things you hate the most on the season
- 27:34finale of the Fallen state do you
- 27:37believe that human beings are in a
- 27:38fallen State there's a veritable schoras
- 27:41Board of ideas belief can be a
- 27:43contrivance of both intellect and
- 27:45emotion dead branches and cavers or
- 27:48origin saplings and infants or pliant
- 27:51when we become rigid we become Disciples
- 27:54of death
- 27:59n
- 28:00[Music]
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