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Are the Cards Stacked Against Men?: Censored Filmmaker Speaks Out (Ep. 12 | Season 3) — Transcript

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  1. 0:00[Music]
  2. 0:03Restless I am so
  3. 0:07restless and this changing world is me
  4. 0:14speechless I am
  5. 0:21lost the blue pill is the Paradigm that
  6. 0:24most people live by that men have all
  7. 0:26the power that they've always had all
  8. 0:28the power that domestic violence is a
  9. 0:31problem that's committed by men against
  10. 0:33women only that sexual assaults are only
  11. 0:35committed by men against women that
  12. 0:37women don't make the same money for the
  13. 0:39same work as men the blue pill is just
  14. 0:42swallowing all that as though it's
  15. 0:50true welcome to the Fallen state I'm
  16. 0:53Jessie Peterson I am uh excited about
  17. 0:56this discussion as I am with all but
  18. 0:58especially this one because it's about
  19. 1:01men and families I have with me Cassie
  20. 1:05Jay an awardwinning documentary
  21. 1:07filmmaker her newest film is called the
  22. 1:11red peill it's an honor to have you here
  23. 1:14thank you it's an honor to be here the
  24. 1:16the documentary was um deep it it really
  25. 1:20showed was really going on with men and
  26. 1:22children and the mother of the children
  27. 1:24as well but I was surprised uh when you
  28. 1:27talked on the film about being a
  29. 1:30feminist and uh and how this whole film
  30. 1:33changed that for you why did you become
  31. 1:36a feminist or how did that happen to you
  32. 1:38uh so I just moved to Los Angeles to be
  33. 1:41in the film industry and I was pretty
  34. 1:43young I was naive I was 18 years old and
  35. 1:45KN New Town didn't know anyone in town
  36. 1:47and I noticed that all the roles that I
  37. 1:50was going out on auditions for were sexy
  38. 1:52girl number seven or the girl that gets
  39. 1:54killed in the first 10 minutes of the
  40. 1:55film and so I've died about eight times
  41. 1:58in movies I have a great scream
  42. 2:01and uh and so I was annoyed with the
  43. 2:04stereotyped casting I was I was getting
  44. 2:07and uh so I started to complain about is
  45. 2:10this because I'm a woman and how I'm
  46. 2:11being treated and also being hit on by
  47. 2:13producers and so when I would voice my
  48. 2:16uh well rant to my friends and family
  49. 2:19about being a woman they would say oh it
  50. 2:21sounds like you're a feminist so I
  51. 2:22looked it up and it said feminism is the
  52. 2:24belief in gender equality and I thought
  53. 2:26sign me up and that was that was about
  54. 2:28over 10 years ago so so what was it like
  55. 2:31living as a feminist well I it was also
  56. 2:35kind of the rise of social media at that
  57. 2:36time and I think social media really
  58. 2:39influenced and um kind of fed more into
  59. 2:44my um feminist ways because I was
  60. 2:47reading articles online about how women
  61. 2:49were being mistreated and uh and at the
  62. 2:53time when I when I started calling
  63. 2:54myself a feminist a lot of my friends um
  64. 2:56turn their nose up to the idea and the
  65. 2:58word but now since then a lot of my
  66. 3:02friends who were previously didn't like
  67. 3:03that I was feminist now are feminists um
  68. 3:06did you get to the point where you hated
  69. 3:08men while being a feminist at the time I
  70. 3:11didn't realize it but now looking back
  71. 3:13with what I know now after making the
  72. 3:15red pill I think I I easily male bashed
  73. 3:19without realizing it and was dismissive
  74. 3:21of their issues and just thought they're
  75. 3:23privileged they have nothing to complain
  76. 3:24about and and uh yeah so I think in that
  77. 3:27way it was a uh kind of hidden
  78. 3:30mail bashing explain to the folks what
  79. 3:32is the rare PE why did you name it that
  80. 3:35it's a it's a cultural slogan it comes
  81. 3:37from the movie The Matrix and within the
  82. 3:39movie uh this character Morpheus tells
  83. 3:42the lead character Neo that Neo is
  84. 3:44asleep he's going out in this world with
  85. 3:47this kind of ignorant Bliss and Morpheus
  86. 3:50says I will show you the truth if you
  87. 3:52take the red pill I will show you the
  88. 3:54harsh reality of the world we live in
  89. 3:56and you're not going to like it but it's
  90. 3:58reality and uh so that's where the red
  91. 4:00pill cultural slogan comes from as the
  92. 4:02Matrix but the men's Rights Movement
  93. 4:03started using the red pill term to
  94. 4:06describe their seeing the light about
  95. 4:09gender issues and that it's not all
  96. 4:10black and white The Miz Right Movement
  97. 4:14um what is their primary purpose do you
  98. 4:17know now that you've gone through this
  99. 4:19what is the primary focus uh what I
  100. 4:21would say their primary focus is trying
  101. 4:23to bring balance to a very unbalanced
  102. 4:27gender discussion because of feminism
  103. 4:29and a lot of mainstream media will
  104. 4:31attack the men's rights activists as
  105. 4:32being misogynistic they're hate group
  106. 4:35they hate women or they hate feminists
  107. 4:38which they do have a lot of criticisms
  108. 4:40about feminism they don't hate women I I
  109. 4:42did not find MRA as men's rights
  110. 4:44activists to outright hate women a lot
  111. 4:46of them are in relationships and have
  112. 4:48kids loving relationships uh but they do
  113. 4:51have criticisms about feminism because
  114. 4:53it's dominating the gender dialogue
  115. 4:55today I noticed that with the Man Group
  116. 4:57they call them hate groups but do they
  117. 5:00call the feminist groups hate group as
  118. 5:02well or just the men uh just the men's
  119. 5:05rights movement has been labeled a hate
  120. 5:07group but not accurately um it's been
  121. 5:10misreported a lot in the media that they
  122. 5:12they were named a hate Group by the
  123. 5:13Southern Poverty Law Center which they
  124. 5:15were not the Southern Property Law
  125. 5:17Center has been critical of the men's
  126. 5:19rights movement and wrote an article
  127. 5:20saying that they're on our watch list
  128. 5:22but they never outright labeled them a
  129. 5:24hate group yeah I was on their list at
  130. 5:25one time oh yeah they call me a hate
  131. 5:28group um Dr Michael Kimel of whom I had
  132. 5:31on my radio show said that if domestic
  133. 5:34violence come from men and women then
  134. 5:37it's not a gender issue what did you get
  135. 5:39from that uh when I interviewed him he
  136. 5:43said that men are not being abused in
  137. 5:45equal numbers that women are being
  138. 5:46abused by men but my research showed
  139. 5:50otherwise that that it's almost equal
  140. 5:52very close and uh but Michael Kimmel did
  141. 5:54mention in my film and we showed in the
  142. 5:56film that he says if if it were equal
  143. 5:58numbers then it wouldn't be a gender
  144. 6:00issue it would just be a societal issue
  145. 6:01like hunger it's genderless uh but
  146. 6:04currently with with feminism there is
  147. 6:06this idea that only or a vast majority
  148. 6:09of women are being abused by men but
  149. 6:11even the CDC reports that it's very
  150. 6:13close to almost the same amount of men
  151. 6:15that are abused what's interesting about
  152. 6:18women violence toward men is that they
  153. 6:21pass laws where men are not allowed to
  154. 6:23even defend themselves you know so the
  155. 6:26woman just go nuts beating him up and
  156. 6:28you know and he can't offend himself
  157. 6:30because he will end up in jail yes I
  158. 6:33mean even if he said no stop he'll go to
  159. 6:36jail because they would call that verbal
  160. 6:39violence or something like that yeah it
  161. 6:42and women do have
  162. 6:45a I I guess it's a privilege but I would
  163. 6:48say it's uh using the system for for bad
  164. 6:53rather than good but they they have the
  165. 6:55privilege to call the cops say they are
  166. 6:58feeling threatened by a man and the cops
  167. 7:01will take the man to jail and a man does
  168. 7:03not have that same uh
  169. 7:07ability I was assaulted several times
  170. 7:10you know and and I never got any help I
  171. 7:12went to the police still bleeding a
  172. 7:13couple of times um and one police
  173. 7:16officer
  174. 7:18said uh I I'll never forget this he said
  175. 7:21if she starts hitting you again you
  176. 7:23better get out of there fast because if
  177. 7:25she just breaks a fingernail trying to
  178. 7:26hit you we'll arrest you
  179. 7:30in the film you had you talked about a
  180. 7:32guy who had tried to get his son I
  181. 7:34believe maybe daughter but son and he
  182. 7:37ran out of money so he shot himself in
  183. 7:39the head he went up into the mountain
  184. 7:41and he killed himself mhm yeah that
  185. 7:43broke my that was like awful yeah and it
  186. 7:46happens all too often yeah a lot of men
  187. 7:48go through that over the last 26 years
  188. 7:50I've worked with men who have gone
  189. 7:52through divorces or unfortunately had
  190. 7:54children out of wet loock I know of a
  191. 7:56case right now where this man woman
  192. 7:59broke up they had a little child the
  193. 8:02woman uh they went to court and he had
  194. 8:0550/50 and she start threatened him to
  195. 8:08accuse him of sexual M molestation
  196. 8:10whenever he would get with his daughter
  197. 8:12so even though he had the right to see
  198. 8:14his daughter he don't bother with seeing
  199. 8:16them at all now because of that are you
  200. 8:19hearing about any that kind of stuff
  201. 8:21happening yeah false accusations is a
  202. 8:24real issue and and that's one thing that
  203. 8:26feminists tried to downplay like oh it's
  204. 8:281% but it's not because false
  205. 8:31accusations don't always go to court so
  206. 8:33it's not always on the books but uh but
  207. 8:35women can hold that over men's head and
  208. 8:38and falsely accuse him of one of uh the
  209. 8:41fathers that I interviewed he was
  210. 8:43falsely accused of child pornography for
  211. 8:45taking a photo of his son with um it was
  212. 8:49a Mr Potato Head the little pieces like
  213. 8:51the ears and hands and all that it was
  214. 8:53on his face and he was like four years
  215. 8:54old but he took a photo of of his son
  216. 8:57with with the Mr Potato Head pieces on
  217. 8:58him and the his ex-wife took the photo
  218. 9:02to the police and said this is child
  219. 9:05pornography uh but the biggest problem
  220. 9:08with false accusations is that there's
  221. 9:09no accountability for women or people
  222. 9:12who make false accusations and and
  223. 9:14that's the problem why is it like that I
  224. 9:16mean why has it just gone one side like
  225. 9:19that I think it's because uh we have
  226. 9:22lived in a culture for so long that we
  227. 9:25need we believe we need to protect women
  228. 9:27and that uh a lot of people don't think
  229. 9:29or even when I started making the red
  230. 9:31pill I didn't think what woman would
  231. 9:33just falsely accuse a guy of beating her
  232. 9:35if he didn't or raping her I just
  233. 9:38thought that that's insane that anyone
  234. 9:40would do that because I wouldn't do that
  235. 9:42right uh but there are people using the
  236. 9:45system uh for their benefit because
  237. 9:47sexual assault mostly does happen to
  238. 9:49women and it's hard to prove then I
  239. 9:51think as a society we're wanting to
  240. 9:54believe her word over
  241. 9:57his and so this stuff ends up in
  242. 10:00horrific
  243. 10:01consequences like this gentleman here
  244. 10:04that's his little son they found him
  245. 10:07dead not the son but the young man in
  246. 10:10the desert with a bullet in his
  247. 10:12head day before the family court and
  248. 10:16where it became known that he was going
  249. 10:18to get to see his little guy even
  250. 10:21less and of course he'd been falsely
  251. 10:24accused one time after another after
  252. 10:26another uh had destroyed his life he had
  253. 10:29Bank bankrupt him and driven him into
  254. 10:31debt and caused him to misw work he was
  255. 10:33about ready to lose his job he was in of
  256. 10:35his rope so he just decided to end
  257. 10:39it while producing this movie you also
  258. 10:41gave us an opportunity to see the impact
  259. 10:45that was happening on you on your life
  260. 10:48and we see you going through these
  261. 10:49changes that was very good idea to do
  262. 10:51that um what were you feeling I mean
  263. 10:55what were you thinking and H how was it
  264. 10:57impacting you so my video di have always
  265. 10:59been for private use and I kept a video
  266. 11:02diary log throughout making the red pill
  267. 11:05uh in total when I filmed the red pill
  268. 11:07over over a year I had 38 diaries that I
  269. 11:11filmed and I think about five make it in
  270. 11:12the film but it does a chronical and it
  271. 11:16shows in the film my Evolution yeah this
  272. 11:19film was the probably the biggest change
  273. 11:23in my life have ever gone through and
  274. 11:24for the better and it really affected my
  275. 11:26relationship with my boyfriend and my
  276. 11:28father figur and my male friends and and
  277. 11:31also made me feel more empowered as a
  278. 11:32woman W affected you in what way uh
  279. 11:36realizing that men aren't privileged
  280. 11:39over women and oppress women as a whole
  281. 11:43cuz I started to ask myself while I was
  282. 11:44making the red pill I would ask myself
  283. 11:45if I had the choice to switch places
  284. 11:47with my boyfriend for instance who was
  285. 11:49the bread winner and uh and he would get
  286. 11:52up at 4:30 a.m. and work 12 14 hour days
  287. 11:55and pay most of the bills would I want
  288. 11:57to switch roles with him and the answer
  289. 12:00was no and I realized well I guess I'm
  290. 12:02actually the privileged one in this
  291. 12:03relationship so have you been a tack for
  292. 12:05this film yes you have give us examples
  293. 12:09well it started early when I started
  294. 12:11making this film a lot of my friends and
  295. 12:13family who were feminists were angry
  296. 12:15that I was making a film about men's
  297. 12:17rights activists and they would say why
  298. 12:18are you giving them a platform to speak
  299. 12:20which is such an insane thing because
  300. 12:22most people don't even know what emy's
  301. 12:24have to say so why are you saying they
  302. 12:25can't speak uh but I didn't let that
  303. 12:29deter me from continuing on but I did
  304. 12:31lose a few friends and then when I had a
  305. 12:34budget to make this film I started
  306. 12:36approaching different companies to uh
  307. 12:39contribute sound services and animation
  308. 12:42and so many very peculiar things
  309. 12:44happened that I've never seen happen on
  310. 12:46a dozen other films that I've directed
  311. 12:49where they would be along for being a
  312. 12:51part of the project and at the 11th Hour
  313. 12:53they would drop out and give a reason
  314. 12:56that didn't make sense and we actually
  315. 12:57had the Village Voice major paper in in
  316. 13:00New York refused to run our what would
  317. 13:02have been a paid for advertisement and
  318. 13:05my PR team has never seen that and in
  319. 13:07there Decades of being in this industry
  320. 13:10and so we just had all these things
  321. 13:12happening that uh I I've never seen
  322. 13:15there were companies I worked with in
  323. 13:16the past that refused to work on this
  324. 13:18film and uh so there was that kind of
  325. 13:21discrimination happening just based on
  326. 13:23the subject matter and my film I believe
  327. 13:24is very balanced I think most people
  328. 13:26that will see it will agree it's
  329. 13:27balanced it's not propaganda so it's
  330. 13:29just having the discussion is they're
  331. 13:31wanting to silence that just the
  332. 13:33discussion or the idea of this topic of
  333. 13:34men's issues and uh and then in the
  334. 13:38media you know having my reputation
  335. 13:40smeared having the film lie outright
  336. 13:43lies about the film to discredit the
  337. 13:45film or me so people won't see it and
  338. 13:48and we are doing the Oscar qualifying
  339. 13:50process and so some of these mainstream
  340. 13:53media uh sources that are writing our
  341. 13:55film reviews I think maybe are trying to
  342. 13:57sway the vote to to not like the film or
  343. 14:00watch the
  344. 14:02film battered children grow up to batter
  345. 14:05that's what I learned whether it be a
  346. 14:07man or a woman and I now know that if a
  347. 14:09woman comes in with a history of
  348. 14:11violence in her own childhood the
  349. 14:13chances are she will be probably violent
  350. 14:15to her children and she will want to
  351. 14:17live on this knife edge of Crisis and
  352. 14:20[Music]
  353. 14:21danger I haven't been allowed to speak
  354. 14:24that's the difficulty why is that
  355. 14:26because I'm completely barred from all
  356. 14:28conferences like I'm not allowed to walk
  357. 14:30up the step of my own Refuge I bought
  358. 14:32the bloody building but no cuz there
  359. 14:34feminist the woman who runs it is very
  360. 14:36heavy femin she won't have anything to
  361. 14:38do with me what did you say that made
  362. 14:40them hate you that women could be
  363. 14:43equally advant as men that was from the
  364. 14:50beginning you know what I noticed about
  365. 14:52your film like with those organizations
  366. 14:54some of the organization you interview I
  367. 14:56have a nonprofit where I work with men
  368. 14:59and what I try to do is to show men how
  369. 15:02to forgive you know don't resent don't
  370. 15:06hate you know always operate from love
  371. 15:08and love is not like a feeling love is
  372. 15:11just not hating you know and when you
  373. 15:13don't hate you you have natural love
  374. 15:16that cause you and help you to overcome
  375. 15:18anything some of the organization seem
  376. 15:21to be operating from hate you know have'
  377. 15:23gone through a lot now they're angry
  378. 15:25about about that and so it's weakening
  379. 15:28them rather than allowing them to go
  380. 15:30forth with power have you did you notice
  381. 15:33anything like that the anger or what
  382. 15:35anything I I think men's rights
  383. 15:37activists feel beaten down and then it
  384. 15:40and it does um come out in anger or rage
  385. 15:44uh sadness hopelessness suicide rate is
  386. 15:4878% men uh of all suicides are men right
  387. 15:52that was shocking to me that what was it
  388. 15:5575% you said 78% worldwide of of false
  389. 15:59suicides are men that is amazing I did
  390. 16:02not know that yeah I had a unfortunately
  391. 16:05had a son out of wedlock when I was 18
  392. 16:07years old and he came here to live with
  393. 16:10me in La he was five and so he stayed
  394. 16:13here and really happy guy you know love
  395. 16:17being with his father and his mother
  396. 16:19went to New York got married and one
  397. 16:21Summer she said oh can you let him come
  398. 16:23visit just for the Summers summer I
  399. 16:26promised not to keep him and and I like
  400. 16:29no no no I'm not going to take that risk
  401. 16:32and she's like please please please so I
  402. 16:34took the risk and I let him go visit and
  403. 16:37she kept him and so I had to get a
  404. 16:39lawyer I went through the whole thing
  405. 16:41she lied and said she had changed his
  406. 16:42last name and we found out years that
  407. 16:45that wasn't true and um I have to tell
  408. 16:49you I don't think the world understand
  409. 16:51the pain that a father feel when he
  410. 16:53loses his children and I can imagine it
  411. 16:56must be tough for a mother too but when
  412. 16:58someone just take your kids away from
  413. 17:00you or your child it's really really
  414. 17:02painful and I was thinking about that
  415. 17:04watching a movie I hope that the world
  416. 17:06can see that men love their children too
  417. 17:10and they should not just be taken away
  418. 17:11from their fathers were there what do
  419. 17:14you what do you want for this from this
  420. 17:16film what do you want people to know
  421. 17:17what do you want to come out of this
  422. 17:20film I I think first and foremost I want
  423. 17:23this to start more discussions about
  424. 17:25men's issues and also allow people to
  425. 17:28open up about their own personal stories
  426. 17:29and and hopefully also elicit um
  427. 17:33compassion and from other people and
  428. 17:36allow people who do have this wall up to
  429. 17:38hear about men's issues to free their
  430. 17:40mind from whatever is is creating that
  431. 17:43wall and to be able to listen and have
  432. 17:44compassion for men and uh and if they
  433. 17:47don't have compassion for men's issues
  434. 17:49then they should look with inside
  435. 17:50themselves and ask themselves why and
  436. 17:52that's what I did while making the red
  437. 17:53pill was there were so many times I
  438. 17:54heard men's issues and I kept on
  439. 17:56thinking well what about women what and
  440. 17:57I kept making it about my feminist
  441. 17:59beliefs and it took so many years before
  442. 18:02I started to question that why do I why
  443. 18:04am I unwilling to hear men's issues and
  444. 18:06have compassion for them have you
  445. 18:08changed in the hearts of women women who
  446. 18:11hated men prior to this now they see
  447. 18:13what's going on yeah and I have some
  448. 18:15very close friends and family members
  449. 18:16who are very upset about me making this
  450. 18:18movie and because I made this film over
  451. 18:21three and a half years it's very long
  452. 18:23journey and I we kept having discussions
  453. 18:25over those years and just slowly it
  454. 18:28wasn't EAS process even for me to change
  455. 18:30but I saw them changing as well and some
  456. 18:32feminists that I interviewed in the film
  457. 18:34changing and now that they've seen the
  458. 18:37film they really have had uh
  459. 18:41just had their eyes opened I thought it
  460. 18:44was interesting how this one mother
  461. 18:46tried to get her son fat make him fat by
  462. 18:51overfeeding him that's a darest thing I
  463. 18:53ever heard of yeah you going to kill
  464. 18:55your son just to get back at the father
  465. 18:58yeah were you shot by that I was and I
  466. 19:01was really nervous to put that story in
  467. 19:02the film because of fat shaming and that
  468. 19:06whole you know dialogue right now uh and
  469. 19:10and the story isn't about you know if
  470. 19:12should people should be fat or healthy
  471. 19:14or whatever but the story shows that the
  472. 19:17courts supported a woman who was abusive
  473. 19:20to the child and gave her primary
  474. 19:23custody and and the father who was a
  475. 19:25very good father and cared about his
  476. 19:28son's health
  477. 19:29uh had his parental rights taken away uh
  478. 19:34and there's no other explanation except
  479. 19:36for gender bias in the courts that's
  480. 19:39amazing huh I'm glad to see men rising
  481. 19:42up and stopping us because the kids are
  482. 19:45along with women like you because the
  483. 19:47kids are suffering the worst thing that
  484. 19:49can happen to a child whether male or
  485. 19:51female is to be turn away from their
  486. 19:53fathers because when you turn when you
  487. 19:56turned away from your father it leaves a
  488. 19:57void is that you yeah what did your
  489. 20:00brother and and F father think about the
  490. 20:04movie well I only have sisters I have
  491. 20:06three sisters a lot of estrogen in house
  492. 20:08boyfriend yeah boyfriends uh and father
  493. 20:12my boyfriend has been overwhelmingly
  494. 20:14supportive he was my executive producer
  495. 20:17meaning he financed a lot of the movie
  496. 20:20uh and he was also my cinematographer so
  497. 20:23we're a film making team and uh and
  498. 20:26we've had a lot of discussions about
  499. 20:27these issues since uh starting the film
  500. 20:29and he also started as a feminist as
  501. 20:31well um as a feminist as a feminist he
  502. 20:34grew up in Berkeley and your boyfriend
  503. 20:36was a feminist just as a side note why
  504. 20:39would a woman be interested in a man who
  505. 20:43call himself a
  506. 20:45feminist well I think there's uh what
  507. 20:49they're trying to Brand feminism as
  508. 20:51which is movement for gender equality
  509. 20:53and the reason why spoiler alert at the
  510. 20:55end of the film I dropped the label of
  511. 20:57femin feminist yes um the reason for
  512. 21:00that is because I I I see that they
  513. 21:02don't include men's issues in the
  514. 21:04discussion and go as far to silence them
  515. 21:07and so that's why I dropped the label
  516. 21:09but I'm obviously still for women's
  517. 21:10rights and now I care about men's issues
  518. 21:12as well but I I believe and also looking
  519. 21:15at the tactics of movements and not just
  520. 21:17what they say their definition is but
  521. 21:20how they Implement that around them what
  522. 21:22can we do to help you get this out to
  523. 21:25the world the people who watching who
  524. 21:28will watch is and all of us yeah well go
  525. 21:31to the redpill movie.com and we are
  526. 21:34going to be doing screenings worldwide
  527. 21:35it's a Grassroots effort right now just
  528. 21:38fans and followers of the film are
  529. 21:39hosting their own screenings all over
  530. 21:41the world so if you go to our website
  531. 21:43you can see where there's a screening
  532. 21:44and very soon we're going to be
  533. 21:46available worldwide online and All
  534. 21:49Digital platforms and DVD iTunes Amazon
  535. 21:51Netflix Hulu all the rest so the film
  536. 21:54will be available far and wide and I
  537. 21:57hope as many people will see it as
  538. 21:59possible do you know why men are so men
  539. 22:02are so hated men are the most hated
  540. 22:05creatures on Earth today they would
  541. 22:08rather have an animal before they love a
  542. 22:10man why is that and not just feminist
  543. 22:14but it seem to be popular in the country
  544. 22:16today I I think it's an interesting
  545. 22:19phenomenon that a lot of women are and
  546. 22:22it's not like they're lesbians either
  547. 22:23it's just there are a lot of women who
  548. 22:25say they don't need a man and I can do
  549. 22:27it all and uh and say that it's
  550. 22:29empowering to not need a man and do it
  551. 22:31all and um and I understand that I mean
  552. 22:35I have friends that are doing that as
  553. 22:37well and I I think you know each
  554. 22:39person's circumstance is different but I
  555. 22:41would like to see children raised with a
  556. 22:43father in the home or male figure and uh
  557. 22:46some kind of male role model that's um
  558. 22:49male teachers as well coaches that that
  559. 22:52connection is so important to see what a
  560. 22:54good man looks like and as far as the
  561. 22:56hatred of men um
  562. 22:59I I think it has a lot to do with the
  563. 23:00feminist uh rhetoric and uh this idea
  564. 23:05that uh women are victims they're
  565. 23:08oppressed by men and men have all the
  566. 23:09power and therefore we need to take away
  567. 23:11power from men to uplift women and so
  568. 23:14it's almost like female empowerment
  569. 23:16under in feminist size is to actually
  570. 23:20indirectly step over men in the process
  571. 23:22to lift up women again I want everybody
  572. 23:26to see the movie because it's really
  573. 23:28really insightful I know men and some
  574. 23:31women too but especially men who are
  575. 23:33adults and because they have not been
  576. 23:35raised up by their fathers they are
  577. 23:38mentally affected by it a lot of guys
  578. 23:41can't get up and go to work anymore
  579. 23:42they're relying on women to take care of
  580. 23:44them or you know they're living at home
  581. 23:46with their mothers until they're 50 and
  582. 23:4860 years old and all that is due to the
  583. 23:51lack of a good father because if you
  584. 23:54don't have that while growing up you
  585. 23:55don't have an example to look at to see
  586. 23:58how to follow yeah and I I would also
  587. 24:01like to add that a lot of feminists will
  588. 24:03say yes fatherlessness is a huge problem
  589. 24:06in our society but they will blame men
  590. 24:08as deadbe dads that they weren't
  591. 24:10involved but what I learned throughout
  592. 24:12making the red pill is that there are so
  593. 24:14many fathers that want to be involved
  594. 24:15and the courts and the exes in their
  595. 24:18lives are disallowing them to be
  596. 24:20involved in this parental alienation and
  597. 24:23uh that 81% of all primary uh custody is
  598. 24:27to the mother yeah and uh so there are a
  599. 24:30lot of dads that want to be involved and
  600. 24:32and they're being pushed out yeah I saw
  601. 24:34this happened to the black
  602. 24:36community about 50 or 60 years ago when
  603. 24:39they started to take the man out of the
  604. 24:40home and the government became the daddy
  605. 24:43of the family corrupt leaders became the
  606. 24:47head of the people it just went downhill
  607. 24:50I mean men became weaker they became
  608. 24:52emotional and now you have uh um a
  609. 24:56Warfare going on between the black man
  610. 24:58and the black woman which has nothing to
  611. 25:00do with racism by the way it is the
  612. 25:02destruction of the home the woman
  613. 25:04doesn't have the father there to help
  614. 25:06raise the children she's angry about
  615. 25:08that and she's passing that anger down
  616. 25:10to the children you know because kids
  617. 25:13are innocent when they first come into
  618. 25:14the world but they come into this crazy
  619. 25:16family where fathers and mothers are not
  620. 25:19there are not getting alone it changes
  621. 25:21their nature and we just now have a mess
  622. 25:24in the black community and they're
  623. 25:26blaming it on racism but it has nothing
  624. 25:28to do with that is all about not having
  625. 25:30that father there and they don't want to
  626. 25:33admit it wow and so all the destruction
  627. 25:35that you see is coming from not having a
  628. 25:37father there and the anger of the
  629. 25:39mothers and then the fathers who try as
  630. 25:41you said they try to be with their kids
  631. 25:43they pay the money but they can't see
  632. 25:45the kids because the mother fights
  633. 25:47against that even after the court tell
  634. 25:50them to do it yeah I know a lot of I've
  635. 25:53heard a lot a lot of women wanting to
  636. 25:55keep custody for the child support
  637. 25:57payments why don't Society understand
  638. 26:00the family issue why have we forgotten
  639. 26:02about how important that is I don't
  640. 26:05think they've forgotten it I think they
  641. 26:06benefit from the chaos and the money in
  642. 26:10court and family court the money and
  643. 26:12child support payments I think broken
  644. 26:15families growing up and and kids having
  645. 26:17issues there are a lot of industries
  646. 26:20that benefit from that so they're they
  647. 26:22all have an investment in keeping it bro
  648. 26:25broken you know that's true well I
  649. 26:27really appreciate your work thank you so
  650. 26:28much for what you're doing and uh thanks
  651. 26:30for coming today thank you for having me
  652. 26:33did you have fun I did were you nervous
  653. 26:35I was you were oh my gosh yes and why
  654. 26:38were you nervous I saw your other videos
  655. 26:40and I didn't know if I don't know we
  656. 26:42would debate about politics or whatnot
  657. 26:45I'm scared this this documentary is too
  658. 26:47important to to put anything else in I
  659. 26:50want everybody and their M to see this
  660. 26:53thank you and really because we've been
  661. 26:54dealing with this stuff for 26 years and
  662. 26:56it's nice to see someone put it on on
  663. 26:58film it really show what's going on so I
  664. 27:00do appreciate that I I was easy on you
  665. 27:03today because of that thank you thank
  666. 27:10[Music]
  667. 27:16you don't let it get near
  668. 27:20you don't let it get too
  669. 27:25close don't let it turn you
  670. 27:30things you hate the most on the season
  671. 27:34finale of the Fallen state do you
  672. 27:37believe that human beings are in a
  673. 27:38fallen State there's a veritable schoras
  674. 27:41Board of ideas belief can be a
  675. 27:43contrivance of both intellect and
  676. 27:45emotion dead branches and cavers or
  677. 27:48origin saplings and infants or pliant
  678. 27:51when we become rigid we become Disciples
  679. 27:54of death
  680. 27:59n
  681. 28:00[Music]

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