Alumni Workshop: How Mindfulness can Increase Regeneration, Vitality, and Wellness — Transcript
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- 0:01welcome everybody we're about to get
- 0:03started there's a lot of socializing
- 0:05left to be done but it's going to have
- 0:06to hold off till a little
- 0:10later my name is Skip pagee I'm a class
- 0:13of 1984 and I'm pleased to introduce our
- 0:16speaker tonight right over here looy
- 0:19Maloof who's going to be speaking to
- 0:22us ly is a wellness and vitality
- 0:26practitioner an instructor enabling
- 0:29clients to make significant
- 0:30breakthroughs and in sustainable
- 0:32improvements in their lives he happens
- 0:34to be living locally Cape Cod area so he
- 0:36was able to get here to help us today
- 0:38he's also the author of knowing and
- 0:40living your purpose and the developer of
- 0:43energetic well-being process and
- 0:46positive power of being neutral
- 0:48modalities l ly is the founder and
- 0:51chairman of LMA Incorporated which owns
- 0:54leadership influence and organization
- 0:56development
- 0:57companies serving Fortune 500 clients
- 1:00and he has licenses in 20
- 1:03countries he's been a consultant
- 1:05entrepreneur and personal life and
- 1:07business coach and instructor since
- 1:121961 ly was born and raised in West
- 1:15Texas he earned a BS in mechanical
- 1:18engineering here at MIT and then he got
- 1:20his Ms from Sloan also please join me in
- 1:24welcoming
- 1:28ly
- 1:31thank you
- 1:33welcome well I live on Cape Cod with my
- 1:37wife
- 1:38Tony um she raises sheep and llamas and
- 1:41goats and alpacas and cats and dogs and
- 1:46birds and
- 1:48me in that order in that
- 1:52order we actually met uh 61 years ago
- 1:57last October 3rd at 5:30
- 2:02p.m. but who's
- 2:04counting we had a blind date for a
- 2:06formal dance that
- 2:09night and we got married at the end of
- 2:12our junior year she's Welsley
- 2:14graduate uh tonight we're going to go
- 2:17pick up on her reunion and so we were
- 2:19married our last year in
- 2:22college and um and I as it said um I'm
- 2:27originally from West Texas I immigrated
- 2:30to a foreign land called Cambridge
- 2:33Mass I met many
- 2:36aliens and and when I got here uh the
- 2:40dark Winters compared to West Texas they
- 2:43were
- 2:45mind-blowing and uh I was struggling
- 2:47with school and I badly injured my knee
- 2:51uh I couldn't walk at
- 2:53times and um and I was
- 2:57depressed and I thought that was reality
- 3:02and then uh I had this amazing spiritual
- 3:08experience it was like being dumped into
- 3:10the Amazon
- 3:12River and that River was incredible
- 3:15power and perception I could see
- 3:18molecules shimmering in the
- 3:20air and
- 3:21joy and love I said wow I had reality
- 3:26and unreality
- 3:28reversed I want to live my life this
- 3:31way well I had so much stuff on myself
- 3:34to work on I've been to literally
- 3:36hundreds of self-development
- 3:39experiences and learn many modalities
- 3:42and I've been helping people uh as part
- 3:45of my advocation if you will and then um
- 3:50we have three Offspring who own and run
- 3:53the company I started so in 2000 um I
- 3:58resigned
- 4:00I'm chairman uh which means nothing and
- 4:05uh they're all pretty headstrong uh they
- 4:09take after their mother
- 4:11and and um I my advocation became my
- 4:17vocation and uh so
- 4:22um well you've heard about all that um
- 4:26so our
- 4:27purpose for this session
- 4:30is to learn about mindfulness what's
- 4:32meant by
- 4:34mindfulness um how it relates to us as
- 4:36individuals how it relates to Evolution
- 4:40how and why it works to help us be more
- 4:42fit in all
- 4:44ways okay I just turned
- 4:4782 I believe it's very important for all
- 4:50of us to be more fit in
- 4:55always as we get
- 4:57older now why is that that I remember
- 5:01back in science class in high
- 5:04school wonderful High School in leok
- 5:07Texas and in science class it said our
- 5:11human bodies Peak at age
- 5:1420 okay and then they degenerate by 20
- 5:1710% every
- 5:21decade so uh you know here uh well when
- 5:25we were much younger about 3 years ago
- 5:28we were only 78
- 5:30and we went to a new primary care
- 5:33physician and so uh you know the average
- 5:36age of death of men I think has gotten
- 5:38up to 78 now or 18 months after they
- 5:41retire whichever comes
- 5:46first and I think the average age of
- 5:48death the women is now 81 so what were
- 5:51what was the new primary care physician
- 5:55expecting to see when we walked
- 5:58in
- 6:02right all right so we're in an examining
- 6:05room right and he and his nurse come in
- 6:08they've got blank our medical Rec
- 6:11records and a blank page on top and they
- 6:15say the first thing we want to do is see
- 6:17how many meds are on we kind of looked
- 6:20at each other and smiled and we said
- 6:21well we're not on any meds we haven't
- 6:24been we don't plan to
- 6:26be noads noads
- 6:30and he saidwell let me look at your
- 6:32blood
- 6:33work he said you got your cholesterol
- 6:36down from 25 to 185 that's good how'd
- 6:39you do
- 6:41that this is a guy I never met before
- 6:44right so what's he's saying how did you
- 6:46do that without
- 6:48satins and I said well I work on
- 6:51myself and he said well I'm starting to
- 6:54get this symptom and this symptom and he
- 6:56kind of stopped himself and I said well
- 6:58I can help you with that
- 7:04right well he didn't take me up on it
- 7:08but uh the reason I'm telling you this
- 7:11uh and I'm probably going to tell you
- 7:12some some things two or three times I'm
- 7:14getting a little ahead of my
- 7:15presentation reason I'm telling you this
- 7:17there's a quote uh this one of my
- 7:20favorites and it is that the deadliest
- 7:23self-fulfilling prophecy in our culture
- 7:26is that we degenerate as we age the
- 7:28deadliest
- 7:31now we're reminded in all kinds of ways
- 7:33we're going to
- 7:35degenerate uh I was in a a Home Depot
- 7:38and I asked a question guy said well I
- 7:41don't have an answer but I'll find
- 7:42someone who does so he walked off about
- 7:4550 ft found someone he said it's for
- 7:47that old guy over
- 7:49there well you know what I did I turned
- 7:51around to see who he's talking
- 7:56about so we get all these REM reminders
- 8:00about how we're going to
- 8:02degenerate all right so
- 8:05mindfulness we aren't very mindful of
- 8:07the kind of effect this has on us so
- 8:10what does mindfulness
- 8:12mean when all of us fails go to the
- 8:16dictionary right the practice of
- 8:19maintaining a non-judgmental state of
- 8:21heightened or complete awareness of
- 8:24one's thoughts emotions or experience it
- 8:27on a momentto moment basis
- 8:31some selected synonyms awareness
- 8:34cognizance knowledge notice observation
- 8:37and related words discernment perception
- 8:41recognition understanding there's one I
- 8:43use as well too called neutral very
- 8:46powerful place to be coming from a place
- 8:49of not
- 8:53reacting okay
- 8:56mindfulness now let's talk about how
- 8:59mindfulness helps in business I'm going
- 9:01back to my longest career which was a OD
- 9:04consultant applied behavioral scientist
- 9:06whatever that means um we had a company
- 9:11large large company uh that said the
- 9:14head of software Services said we want
- 9:18to know what our software Specialists do
- 9:21that help make
- 9:23sales well what did everybody say about
- 9:25that they don't help make the sales you
- 9:28can't measure that right it's the
- 9:31salesman who makes the
- 9:33sales well we actually um I mean they
- 9:38wanted to do it so that they could uh
- 9:42use use it to help select and develop
- 9:44good software specialist right well we
- 9:47defined actually Define what they did in
- 9:49six
- 9:51countries and in the United States with
- 9:53a VIN
- 9:55diagram we figured at three different
- 9:58levels what did they do do that helps
- 10:00make sales very statistically
- 10:03significant so um and it's used for
- 10:06selection coaching training
- 10:09specialist mindfulness everybody says
- 10:12you can't do that right well let's get a
- 10:16little more mindful about that let's try
- 10:18another one this was a executive team of
- 10:21a large government
- 10:23contractor and they were uh we were
- 10:25focusing on helping them be more
- 10:27effective uh they kept expressing
- 10:30concern about the
- 10:32future I didn't know what what to tell
- 10:35them about their future so I said well
- 10:37who in this organization has a proven
- 10:40track
- 10:41record right of predicting the future
- 10:44said oh well there's Joe over here and
- 10:46there's Mary over there and and they
- 10:48kept going like this right you act some
- 10:51different people so we interviewed those
- 10:54people a very biased Sample about the
- 10:57future and then we recommended that they
- 10:59use them as an ongoing sounding
- 11:02board first of all who's got the
- 11:04mindfulness about who we are what we are
- 11:06where we're going that's who we
- 11:08identified and
- 11:10then they you you you can begin to get
- 11:13some decent information for what they
- 11:15wanted to know let's take another
- 11:19example executive senior managers and
- 11:22EXA and Executives we had a number of
- 11:25clients both in Fortune 500 companies
- 11:28and in the government
- 11:29and we said we want to know who is
- 11:32really good both at getting results you
- 11:35know who's excellent at getting results
- 11:37and developing people at the same
- 11:39time and through that we identified what
- 11:42do they do that enables them to do that
- 11:45basically getting to the
- 11:48competencies
- 11:50okay so you can look back through time
- 11:54that's what we learned as as Sloan all
- 11:56the different ways that mindfulness
- 11:58helped bring bring about
- 12:00improvements in various
- 12:04ways and of course this one we hear all
- 12:06the time how mindfulness in the
- 12:09electronic field has been very powerful
- 12:12over the
- 12:16years and let's even talk about remedies
- 12:19you know before there was a medical
- 12:21practice people were finding herbs in
- 12:23the wood that kind of thing well that's
- 12:25gotten
- 12:26organized right uh medical diagnosis has
- 12:32evolved from kind of just sensing an
- 12:34intuitive which is very very powerful
- 12:37but numerous sophisticated test measures
- 12:40databases remote
- 12:44diagnosis and numerous medical
- 12:47procedures have gone from not being
- 12:49possible to being relatively safe and
- 12:52easy enabling seriously ill patients to
- 12:55regain health and normal
- 12:57living with a lot of really great kind
- 12:59of things that can be done
- 13:03now well what's the difference you know
- 13:06what I do is in the alternative field
- 13:08well what's the difference between these
- 13:10two it's really interesting to
- 13:12distinguish
- 13:13these you know kind of say well what's
- 13:15the difference well the doctor and the
- 13:18test know best from my viewpoint the
- 13:21patient their body and their energy know
- 13:23best 90 in the medical field 95% of the
- 13:29root causes for what's going on with us
- 13:31physically or physical physical root
- 13:34causes in this work 95% are
- 13:42non-physical Embraces sickness first and
- 13:45and Embraces Wellness first eliminates
- 13:49our covers over our ber symptoms we want
- 13:54to eliminate the root
- 13:57causes drugs and surgery natural means
- 14:00potential huge side
- 14:02effects make mistakes cause up to
- 14:05500,000 deaths a
- 14:08year minimal side effects minimal risk
- 14:11of death or other side effects uh and
- 14:14this work I have two rigid rules first
- 14:17one is you can't do it
- 14:19wrong because the worst thing that can
- 14:21happen is nothing
- 14:23happens and the second one is if you're
- 14:26not having fun you're not doing it
- 14:30yes I'm just when you say non-physical
- 14:33do you mean mental or do you mean
- 14:34something else I'm glad you asked that
- 14:39question whoops wrong
- 14:44button oh one other side effect before
- 14:47I'm side trip before I get there just as
- 14:49kind of point of Interest traditional
- 14:51medical visits went from 380 million per
- 14:54year in 1990 to 365 alternative Vis went
- 14:58from 40 10 to
- 14:59615 alter alternative revenues have been
- 15:02going way
- 15:05up I'm grateful for
- 15:08that now the effective
- 15:12uh this is what I call a revolutionary
- 15:15energy
- 15:16work um and it's surprising how simple
- 15:19these various modalities like this are
- 15:22and how quickly they work in the same
- 15:23ways they're a characteristic of how
- 15:26we've evolved programs uh drugs phones
- 15:31very quickly there's been an evolution
- 15:33here too they're focused on finding and
- 15:36clearing root causes and On
- 15:39Wellness now what do I mean by working
- 15:43fast well one client came and she said I
- 15:49was in a car accident 25 years ago I got
- 15:53whiplash and I've had neck pain ever
- 15:56since it gets better it gets worse never
- 15:59goes
- 16:00away and I said to her um it feels to me
- 16:04like there are about seven things in
- 16:06your life that are a big pain in the
- 16:08neck and she said oh yeah well there's
- 16:10this about money and there's this about
- 16:12my spouse and this about my job we
- 16:16worked on about 40 minutes her pain went
- 16:18completely
- 16:21away you see one really great thing
- 16:23about our symptoms um by the way I just
- 16:26published my first book it's called
- 16:28knowing living your
- 16:29purpose and uh in it as I was writing it
- 16:33last year I said my goodness our
- 16:36symptoms have
- 16:38intelligence they're saying hey work
- 16:41there well she had pain in her neck well
- 16:44what in her life is a big pain in the
- 16:47neck
- 16:50gone okay another example about 12 years
- 16:55ago um this little baby had happens to
- 16:58be one of our
- 17:00grandsons uh would only eat milk
- 17:04products right and then he started
- 17:08breaking out in a painful
- 17:10rash and it was driving our daughter
- 17:12crazy cuz she couldn't get him to eat
- 17:15anything well what's she being told
- 17:18anybody got an
- 17:20idea H lactose int lactose intolerance
- 17:24and how long is the is the boy going to
- 17:26have
- 17:27it probably forever right so I said to
- 17:32her do you mind if I work with him and
- 17:35she says it can't
- 17:38hurt right she's exhausted so I work
- 17:41with him about 20 minutes I say uh could
- 17:44you give him uh some milk and some
- 17:47cheese and she looked at me like I was
- 17:49absolutely crazy like
- 17:52what and so she did and he hadn't had a
- 17:55painful rash ever
- 17:57since worked with him about 20
- 18:01minutes now uh you know what in the
- 18:04world was causing it what's the root
- 18:06cause well it turned out her husband and
- 18:09her had been having some serious
- 18:11difficulties some negative emotions the
- 18:14baby picked him up and
- 18:17reacted so we I just cleared that away
- 18:21and he's fine in fact I strengthened him
- 18:24to thrive on milk products and has ever
- 18:29since okay lady with intense Gall batter
- 18:32playing she's scheduled for
- 18:36surgery uh she she'd had these bouts
- 18:39over a long period of time she came to
- 18:41see me we worked three
- 18:44times and pain gone cancel the surgery
- 18:49no go she's got her gallbladder and
- 18:51she's doing very
- 18:54well okay another
- 18:56example lady with a fast growing breast
- 19:01tumor five
- 19:02sessions tumor gone in fact in the third
- 19:06session it shrank by half in about a
- 19:13second all
- 19:16right another
- 19:19example um wife died
- 19:23suddenly I mean a husband at age 55 she
- 19:26cried for five years
- 19:29her doctor said go see this
- 19:32guy and I worked with her and she began
- 19:35to do workshops and at one of the
- 19:38workshops uh a guy who was helping said
- 19:41to her is your husband still
- 19:43alive she said no he's dead why'd you
- 19:46ask that he said why are you still
- 19:48acting like she's
- 19:50alive hit her like a wet noodle across
- 19:53the
- 19:54face right she realized she had a
- 19:57mistaken idea identity she'd been living
- 19:59her husband's life not her own she's
- 20:02doing beautifully in fact actually now
- 20:04she's helping people in another modality
- 20:07okay finally one more I'm telling I'm
- 20:11giving you these
- 20:12examples uh because um you know we want
- 20:16we want to see concrete results when
- 20:18somebody talks about
- 20:20something and uh this one um multiple
- 20:25symptoms pain unreeling
- 20:28de debilitating migraines three to four
- 20:31times per week for 45
- 20:33years uh meds ER visits her doctor said
- 20:39go see this guy seven sessions never had
- 20:42a migraine since it's been several years
- 20:45ago all right
- 20:48so what's going on
- 20:51here we're not very mindful of our own
- 20:54energy
- 20:57levels um my favorite example of this is
- 21:01that five year olds left an average of
- 21:04two three 400 500 times a
- 21:08day the average adult laughs about five
- 21:12to 15 times a day and on a bad day we
- 21:16have trouble finding
- 21:18one
- 21:21now these 5-year-olds they're going
- 21:24strong to 90% of their life which is
- 21:28mostly fun play curiosity and
- 21:30laughing as adults we're going strong to
- 21:33about 20% of our
- 21:37life in other
- 21:39words uh our energy goes weak to 80% of
- 21:43our thoughts feelings experiences
- 21:45memories reactions and
- 21:47dramas anytime we're
- 21:50irritated upset frustrated angry
- 21:53impatient judging ourselves and others
- 21:55of course nobody in here does any of
- 21:57these things but I I had to have some
- 21:59examples U feeling down discouraged
- 22:02reacting struggling our en energy goes
- 22:05weak and any one of them is small but
- 22:07when you accumulate them over days weeks
- 22:10months a
- 22:12lifetime we get energy blocks and we say
- 22:16ouch and ouch can be physical mental
- 22:19emotional psychologic Psychic Spiritual
- 22:22we say
- 22:26ouch
- 22:28okay we move from this strong base which
- 22:32is Health Wellness Vitality
- 22:33unconditional love and acceptance joy
- 22:36peace resilience fun beinging being our
- 22:39true selves infinite boundless one with
- 22:42all things living in creating with these
- 22:45we shift from
- 22:46that
- 22:48to going strong only to 20% of our
- 22:54life so this is our weak base of living
- 22:57these days
- 22:59now if you take an an example just take
- 23:02the middle one talking about this group
- 23:05right now over guarding
- 23:10overprotecting over
- 23:12worrying
- 23:14over fearful over anxious
- 23:18overanalyzing over internalizing does
- 23:21anyone resonate with any of
- 23:26those does any one resonate with them
- 23:28but isn't willing to admit
- 23:31it I have a friend I have a
- 23:41friend this protective
- 23:44state that it's so easy for us to get
- 23:46into uh by the way the lady I mentioned
- 23:48with the tumor that shrank by
- 23:51half uh after the second session I said
- 23:54I kept saying to myself why hasn't it
- 23:57gotten smaller we stopped it from
- 23:59growing in two sessions so I went to the
- 24:02dictionary again and looked up breast
- 24:05you know I wanted to stay a breast a
- 24:06breast of
- 24:07things and of course it says mamory
- 24:10gland
- 24:13but she's
- 24:15embarrassed of course it says mammory
- 24:18gland but it also says mothering and
- 24:22nurturing now this person this lady I
- 24:24was working with had a son who'd been in
- 24:26a lot of serious trouble I thought oh my
- 24:30God over mothering over nurturing over
- 24:34worrying and the third session when I
- 24:37said let's clear that the lump shrank by
- 24:40half in a half
- 24:42second right talk about root
- 24:46causes see the root causes for our
- 24:49symptoms are basically life issues we
- 24:52don't really have health issues with
- 24:55what we have are life issues
- 24:58and you know we say don't assume
- 25:00anything but I found like clockwork
- 25:03several hundred clients that when we get
- 25:06stuck into the over mothering over
- 25:08nurturing overg guarding overprotecting
- 25:10that it reduces energy to our breast and
- 25:12genitals male and
- 25:15female there's a direct link between
- 25:18these life issues and what happens to
- 25:20our
- 25:22body and then of course we do these
- 25:25other things we get into increasing
- 25:27levels of disease symptoms aging
- 25:30degeneration and in a way we we forget
- 25:34who we really are and we get stuck in
- 25:37our
- 25:38stuff so here's what's
- 25:42happening we very quickly go from being
- 25:45strong to 90% of our lives down to 20
- 25:48and you know we're we that this part we
- 25:51don't have very much mindfulness about
- 25:53we know something's going on GE I seem
- 25:56to be in a down period or I seem to be
- 25:59upset these days I'm a little
- 26:02anxious and so we get some help and we
- 26:05rock along question is when are we going
- 26:07to make that a sustained upward
- 26:10path may I interrupt ask when you say
- 26:13strong what what are the dimensions of
- 26:16that that you're okay yeah that's good
- 26:21um I mentioned this one
- 26:26before
- 26:29oh wait one more thing before I get to
- 26:30your question um biggest Paradox about
- 26:33us human beings is we don't support what
- 26:36we say we want we don't let go what we
- 26:38say we don't want I've lost hundreds of
- 26:42pounds I mentioned this one
- 26:46before and by the way what would you do
- 26:50if anything any process relationship
- 26:53tool Appliance vehicle company had some
- 26:57part of it but only function at
- 26:5920% replace it you'd what fix it or
- 27:03replace it you'd fix it or replace it
- 27:05and yet here's where we
- 27:10are okay
- 27:12so to your
- 27:15question um one of the ways we do this
- 27:18is muscle testing K Kinesiology been
- 27:21used extensively largely debunked by
- 27:23traditional practitioners in their
- 27:25professional organizations oh it's like
- 27:27when the amaama started there were these
- 27:30rif machines that doctors were using and
- 27:32they said well you can keep using them
- 27:35uh if you want to do it from your jail
- 27:37sale so um we're Limited in what they
- 27:41can do um it has actually been
- 27:44extensively uh researched and validated
- 27:47and uh mindfulness is a key ingredient
- 27:50in getting some
- 27:52accuracy so here's what I want you to do
- 27:56um get a pair party partner just someone
- 27:59next to you stand up with that person
- 28:02and uh I'll show you what to do once you
- 28:05do that and U can you come up work with
- 28:12me okay come over here okay turn that
- 28:16way
- 28:18please
- 28:26okay
- 28:35all right everybody got a partner then
- 28:38stand behind that person kind of like
- 28:43this all right and and the person behind
- 28:47put a hand on either shoulder for
- 28:50balance right person in front just move
- 28:53your hand arm out about 6 in put some
- 28:56energy in it it's this is not a brute
- 28:58strength
- 28:59thing and the person back just put a
- 29:02couple fingers on the wrist so put some
- 29:05energy in your in your uh arm just in
- 29:07your arm
- 29:10yeah yeah put put some energy in this
- 29:12arm and let me do this okay so no you're
- 29:15too rigid okay just let relax a minute
- 29:18now just put some energy in there you go
- 29:21okay so pretend you're like you're doing
- 29:23the pulse right give give a gentle
- 29:28pressure everybody done
- 29:31that gentle
- 29:33pressure um all right now person in
- 29:36front turn your toes
- 29:38in toes
- 29:41in right and check your energy again and
- 29:45see what you get strong or
- 29:48weak okay turn the toes out just the
- 29:52person in front and put apply pressure
- 29:55and notice it go goes
- 30:00weak everybody noticed
- 30:03that now now let me explain for a minute
- 30:05stay right there let me explain for a
- 30:08minute toes in is a strong energy
- 30:11position for us human beings and Toes
- 30:14out is weak just because the way our
- 30:16bodies are constructed and the way our
- 30:19energies
- 30:20move right so if you are strong this way
- 30:25weak this way it basically says that
- 30:28your polarity is straight it's like
- 30:30saying your compass reads north
- 30:33south if it is either weak this way or
- 30:36strong that way it's reversed it's like
- 30:39saying your polarity your your compass
- 30:41is reading South
- 30:43North
- 30:45okay you can't feel it okay that's all
- 30:48right let's check again all right so all
- 30:51right let's go toan
- 30:56again
- 31:00okay and again gentle pressure and
- 31:04notice how
- 31:05strong everybody feel that
- 31:09strong okay now toes out again and check
- 31:14again and check and it goes weak and if
- 31:18the person is doing this that means it's
- 31:20weak okay okay
- 31:26yes
- 31:35if it's in it's stronger yes all right
- 31:37now wait a minute let me just check a
- 31:40minute let's let's do it a different way
- 31:44person in front tow
- 31:46straight and person in front say your
- 31:49real name five times out
- 31:56loud
- 32:00now uhhuh now check the
- 32:04energy see how strong that
- 32:07is that's your
- 32:10truth when when it's your truth your
- 32:13energy is strong now I'm I'm going to
- 32:15push really hard don't do this it at
- 32:17home it should only be done by a trained
- 32:21professional now don't you say your real
- 32:24name okay I'm going to push hard now
- 32:29it's out there like a
- 32:31limb all right now I want you to say my
- 32:33name is
- 32:35Mary Mary Mary you got it okay see my
- 32:38little finger come on give me some
- 32:40strength in your
- 32:45arm we're talking about our truth not
- 32:48our truth strong weak everybody got
- 32:53it okay now uh one one of the things
- 32:58when when I say strong weak too well
- 33:00wait a minut let me come back to that
- 33:02put your toes
- 33:03out right and
- 33:06resist and it's weak now take your right
- 33:09hand pretend you got a strong uh you've
- 33:12got a uh zipper jacket and just zip it
- 33:15up okay and now let's check again that's
- 33:20strong now when you check your midline
- 33:23see this is another thing we're not very
- 33:25mindful about just being strong every
- 33:29day um at chapter 13 here says we can
- 33:32start this upward path by being strong
- 33:35and here's how to do it every day that's
- 33:38what I do every
- 33:39day now one day by the way I drove about
- 33:4230 minutes uh to give a workshop I I had
- 33:46checked myself I walked in said
- 33:48something's odd about this room it was
- 33:51me my polarity reversed I have no idea
- 33:55why now let me show you what we do I
- 33:57want everybody to do this what we do to
- 33:59get polarity straight all right circles
- 34:02are a strong symbol for us human beings
- 34:03everybody makes
- 34:07circles or you can do
- 34:11to
- 34:12right all right
- 34:15INF we're we're conducting the band okay
- 34:18infinity signs is another strong symbol
- 34:20for
- 34:22us
- 34:24right okay then we tap we got to reboot
- 34:28the computer so we tap in a
- 34:33circle tap in a
- 34:35circle and then tap your chest and
- 34:38[Laughter]
- 34:55go now yeah check the check check the
- 34:58energy now see what it feels like
- 35:01absolutely strong
- 35:05right all right person in front person
- 35:10in front think of a time when you were
- 35:11in pain depressed upset irritated and
- 35:17tell the person in back when you got
- 35:21it
- 35:25okay just think think of a time when
- 35:27you've been irritated upset in pain and
- 35:30then tell the person and then check the
- 35:32energy when they tell you they got it
- 35:34you got
- 35:38it got
- 35:39it all right see how weak it goes all
- 35:43right person in person in front zip
- 35:46up check it again and it goes
- 35:50strong
- 35:52okay all right person in front think of
- 35:55a time when you were having happy
- 35:57productive feeling great tell the person
- 36:00when you got
- 36:03it and check the
- 36:07energy all right switch
- 36:10rolls everybody switch rolls here we
- 36:17go okay again a hand on the CH on the
- 36:21shoulder just for balance two two
- 36:24fingers on the on the wrist just too
- 36:26like you're going to do the uh check the
- 36:29pose toes in person in front check the
- 36:33energy okay toes out check it again all
- 36:38right zip
- 36:40up and see how strong it
- 36:43gets okay person in front toes straight
- 36:47think of time you've been irritated
- 36:49frustrated in pain
- 36:51depressed tell them when you got it got
- 36:54it notice even if you're try you can't
- 36:57hold it up zip up check it again and
- 37:01it's strong
- 37:07again okay person person in front say my
- 37:11name is uh something that it's not Mary
- 37:14or Jack or whatever say something that
- 37:16it's not my name is Jack Jack Jack Jack
- 37:20Jack Zep
- 37:23up and then say your real name five
- 37:25times ly ly ly ly ly ly ly ly okay have
- 37:32a seat please you stay here stay here a
- 37:35minute just one more
- 37:45time when
- 37:47when if if you do not do
- 37:50anything
- 37:52okay from this session other than
- 37:55getting your energy strong every
- 37:58day it'll help get you on this upward
- 38:01Trend in terms of the percent of your
- 38:03life you're going strong
- 38:05to okay if you don't your
- 38:09name oh it helps with that
- 38:12too now we're going to do one other
- 38:15thing uh we need to be at 100% every day
- 38:19I'm going to check this group using him
- 38:21as a surrogate okay I'm going to see
- 38:23what percent on a scale of 100 put your
- 38:26toes please is the central core energy
- 38:29of this
- 38:30group 0 10 20 30 35 4 it's about 40
- 38:40average we do that
- 38:45again huh on come
- 38:54here okay another person do we do we we
- 38:56want to make your your central core are
- 38:58we going to use your for surrogate
- 39:00whichever you think would be more
- 39:01educational okay let's use yours okay
- 39:04here we go 5 10 15 20 25 30 35 40 45
- 39:09excellent excellent wait wait don't go
- 39:12away come over here
- 39:14please we're going to do this in Stereo
- 39:17okay here's what I want everybody to do
- 39:19first of all just briefly touch the top
- 39:21of your head to locate it in
- 39:23space then the very base of your spine
- 39:27okay you can let go now but focus on a
- 39:30strong central core full of energy and
- 39:34strength right up and down your
- 39:36midline
- 39:38joy
- 39:42love focus on your
- 39:55midline
- 39:58okay I'm going to check you now 45 50 60
- 40:0170 75 80 85 90 you're up to 90 we're
- 40:03going to check you for the group 10 20
- 40:0530 40 50 60 70 75 80 85 90 okay you and
- 40:08the whole group are at 90 now uh let's
- 40:11see I'm going to check to see where
- 40:13there's some weakness in the group here
- 40:15we go I know you let me do it give me
- 40:19some
- 40:20energy right at belly button level right
- 40:23the base of the spine everybody up and
- 40:25down the base of your spine
- 40:28I'll give you just 30 minutes to stop
- 40:34this okay and belly button belly button
- 40:39let me see
- 40:40something belly button
- 40:43okay um when we look at the digestive
- 40:46system hold on just one more
- 40:48minute oh wait let's see where we got on
- 40:50our Central core 91 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 100
- 40:54we're going to boost that here 100%
- 40:56positive of infinity thank
- 40:57you okay for the
- 41:03group for the
- 41:06group belly
- 41:08button digestive
- 41:11issues how many people in the room have
- 41:13what percent of the group has digestive
- 41:15issues 5 10 15 20 25 30 okay
- 41:19um when people have anything going on
- 41:22with their digestive system uh what I
- 41:25look at is starting with the mouth
- 41:29mastication and if there's something
- 41:31going on with the mouth it's like what
- 41:34can you what can you not get your teeth
- 41:36into life
- 41:39issue right if it's around
- 41:42swallowing uh what is it you in your
- 41:44life you don't want to swallow anymore
- 41:46oh that fits for 1 2 3 4 5 six seven
- 41:49about eight people in the
- 41:51group uh digestive issues what is it you
- 41:54can't stomach anymore you're just not
- 41:57going to die what in your life are you
- 41:58not going to stomach anymore you're just
- 42:00not going to
- 42:03digest okay we get assimilation in the
- 42:05small intestine what is it in your life
- 42:07can you not assimilate or don't want to
- 42:09assimilate
- 42:11anymore that fits at least 10 people in
- 42:13the
- 42:14group and then large intestine what is
- 42:18it you're having trouble
- 42:21eliminating okay that fits about about
- 42:2510 people in the group let's take all
- 42:26those life issues for the group let's
- 42:29just clear them all away
- 42:31Shazam okay focus on the midline by the
- 42:34way anytime we're saying let's clear
- 42:35something if it applies to you you just
- 42:37say
- 42:39apply me
- 42:41too
- 42:45right all right
- 42:47so check the group now 91 2 3 4 5 6 9
- 42:51100 we're going to we think that we're
- 42:53always going to come down so let's just
- 42:55boots set to our 100% positive infinity
- 42:58and beyond thank you very much let's
- 43:00give let's give our people a hand here
- 43:02thank
- 43:05you a question so
- 43:07far yes is there anything in health that
- 43:11you think does not work in
- 43:13this I didn't understand the question is
- 43:16there anything is there anything in in a
- 43:19person's health that you think doesn't
- 43:21work this way are genetic causes oh
- 43:25there's genetic causes too as well oh
- 43:28yeah in fact um okay one of one of the
- 43:32things U that I and other people have
- 43:34done is to kind of start looking at
- 43:37patterns of root
- 43:39causes and um and for example uh my
- 43:43father um uh used to tell everybody
- 43:48exactly what to do no matter how skilled
- 43:51they
- 43:52were
- 43:54right by the we father
- 43:59too where did you
- 44:02live now it's really interesting because
- 44:05if you look at the research on
- 44:07entrepreneurial Behavior achievement
- 44:10motivation that's been one of my prior
- 44:12lives that's what I worked on training
- 44:14entrepreneurs training people to be
- 44:16entrepreneurial we had wonderful uh
- 44:19research studies showing you can train
- 44:21people to be more entrepreneurial but
- 44:23one of the motives for entrepreneurs
- 44:26is wanting to please their
- 44:30father
- 44:32wow
- 44:34right now uh so my dad used to tell
- 44:37everybody exactly what to do and I said
- 44:40nobody should treat anyone that way
- 44:43right very righteous first management
- 44:46job I got guess what I was
- 44:49doing doing the same thing so we take on
- 44:53stuff from our parents who take on stuff
- 44:56from their parents who's take on stuff
- 44:57from their parents up to many
- 44:59generations that's one of the things we
- 45:01clear
- 45:04Away by the way my dad also had this
- 45:06wonderful sense of humor he was there
- 45:08was a skilled Carpenter who was working
- 45:10for it he was telling the skill
- 45:12Carpenter exactly how to do everything
- 45:16right skill Carpenter got so frustrated
- 45:18he said Maloof I can do anything you can
- 45:21my dad says you want to bet he said sure
- 45:23put $10 on the table so he did he took
- 45:26out his false teeth put them back in
- 45:28collected the
- 45:29[Laughter]
- 45:33$20 so okay we're talking
- 45:37about um first of all again
- 45:41consciously consciously every morning
- 45:44getting your energy strong we want to be
- 45:48on that upward
- 45:54line now it's the truth that sets us
- 45:58free this works based on this premise
- 46:01that we really don't have health issues
- 46:04and that the more we focus on health
- 46:06issues we have more health issues to
- 46:08deal with that lady in the automobile
- 46:10accident she was believing an
- 46:13untruth and it was that the Whiplash
- 46:16caused her
- 46:18headache as long as we are believing
- 46:20something that is not true we are
- 46:22propagating our
- 46:24symptom as as soon as we found her
- 46:27truth it goes
- 46:33away okay there's another way of looking
- 46:35at these patterns that we get for
- 46:37example left often if there's a pattern
- 46:41of weakness on the left side or symptoms
- 46:44it's about being left out left alone
- 46:48left out and left field left with the
- 46:51responsibility right is about being
- 46:53right or
- 46:54wrong
- 46:57hands often when there's weak energy in
- 46:59the hands it's around things in your
- 47:01life you're not handling well enough
- 47:03breast I already mentioned that over
- 47:05mothering over
- 47:08nurturing and so what and how does this
- 47:11work first first of all we focus on the
- 47:13whole person we get mindful about the
- 47:15whole person if you will and we build
- 47:18energetic support for the desired State
- 47:20remove for holding on the symptoms
- 47:23strengthen align Focus free up expand
- 47:26unlock our energies regenerate
- 47:28rejuvenate return to our natural state
- 47:30of Wellness Vitality Etc remove
- 47:33energetic blocks so they leave quickly
- 47:35you know I told you I badly injured my
- 47:37knee in college I had the meniscus take
- 47:41it out um been bone on bone since then
- 47:45what's what's supposed to happen
- 47:48terrible pain terrible pain right you
- 47:51can't do anything with
- 47:54it right we want to regenerate
- 47:58rejuvenate as part of our natural
- 48:03statey physically that doesn't make
- 48:05sense to me so you had your miniscus
- 48:07removed and bone on bone you don't feel
- 48:10pain since
- 48:111960 I have no physically that does make
- 48:14sense because there's noing theone
- 48:17scraped against bone I I understand it
- 48:20doesn't make sense but when you start
- 48:21rejuvenating
- 48:23regenerating it makes a difference
- 48:29[Laughter]
- 48:35okay and these are the modalities I work
- 48:39and so what I'd like to do is
- 48:40demonstrate this a little further on
- 48:42some do we have some brave soul with
- 48:45pain that would let me work on
- 48:47them okay come
- 48:54up my next
- 48:58C you you what what' you say my
- 49:01emergency next to pin card just in
- 49:06case
- 49:10okay okay where what pain do you have
- 49:13right shoulder right shoulder how long
- 49:15have you had this since 14 freshman year
- 49:17high school football okay how tall are
- 49:20you 5'9 and
- 49:243/4
- 49:28um and um let's see what your range of
- 49:32motion is with your right
- 49:34shoulder is that as high as you can take
- 49:37it okay go
- 49:39forward is that oh okay do you have any
- 49:42pain there always discomfort discomfort
- 49:46okay on a scale of 10 how much
- 49:47discomfort uh three but if I sleep on it
- 49:50it wakes me up in the middle of the
- 49:51night okay do you have any other pain in
- 49:53place else my mother-in-law but
- 49:57I don't think we I don't think we have
- 49:59enough time for
- 50:00[Laughter]
- 50:08that we're here all week try the
- 50:14fish okay let me check your mother give
- 50:16me some energy
- 50:18y okay we want to get you neutral okay
- 50:21to everything your mother-in-law says
- 50:23thinks or does oh definitely not that
- 50:25neutral we're going to clear a few
- 50:26hundred quadrian layers of belief
- 50:29experience negative anticipation all
- 50:31that stuff going to get you neutral to
- 50:33everything your mother-in-law says
- 50:34things or does by the way anything that
- 50:37bothers us our energy goes weak to
- 50:41everything that bothers us our energy
- 50:43goes weak
- 50:44to so to get to neutral you have to go
- 50:47to your worst scenario because if you
- 50:50don't there's something out there still
- 50:52bothering you and you'll still react
- 50:57okay you have to go to your best
- 50:59scenario because we set up expectations
- 51:02and when they're not met we
- 51:06react okay so we're starting with
- 51:09getting neutral to everything she says
- 51:11thinks or does and neutral to everything
- 51:13she doesn't say think or do not neutral
- 51:15there another few hundred quadrian
- 51:17layers neutral to everything she says
- 51:19thinks or does new different things she
- 51:21doesn't say think or do we're going to
- 51:22check for a positive energy flow from
- 51:24you to her
- 51:26and from her to you oh it's positive
- 51:28from you to her but not from her to you
- 51:34okay open your be neutral to the
- 51:36experience so we're going to strengthen
- 51:39her to send a positive energy flow to
- 51:41you let's do it again positive energy
- 51:45flow from you actually you don't know
- 51:47quite what to do with it if she did it
- 51:49would kind of bother
- 51:52you so uh let's get you neutor always
- 51:55being very positive far meeting your
- 51:57expectation and neutrons are always
- 52:00completely missing on your expectations
- 52:02another few hundred quadrian
- 52:04layers and so in that relationship we're
- 52:07going to check the internal and external
- 52:09Dynamics internal and external
- 52:10boundaries and they're all weak so with
- 52:13you and your mother-in-law we're going
- 52:15to clear all the internal external
- 52:18boundaries all the internal and external
- 52:20Dynamics all the interaction between
- 52:22them all to your 100% positive Infinity
- 52:26and I want a note from you about what's
- 52:28going on with your
- 52:30mother-in-law she took the
- 52:38clicker threaten the manhood okay how
- 52:41much discomfort in the
- 52:44shoulder I think I could do push-ups
- 52:47now funny I'm
- 52:50not no we we were at discomfort for a
- 52:53scale of three yes for is it now it's
- 52:57it's not apparent not apparent yeah now
- 53:00how could this be wait a minute don't go
- 53:03away yet yeah uh essentially what you
- 53:06told to do is to eliminate both
- 53:07scenarios it's the scenarios up and down
- 53:10that are uncaria yourself yeah good one
- 53:14it it's the it's it's the scenarios that
- 53:17we have a charge
- 53:19on that we that causes us to react you
- 53:23get a bad inner dialogue exact ex now
- 53:26wait a minute on your shoulder uh
- 53:28there's something about uh not putting
- 53:30your shoulder to the wheel not putting
- 53:33not get not not not going forward with
- 53:36the best way you could who used to judge
- 53:38you about
- 53:41that you're not putting your full effort
- 53:44in my
- 53:45[Laughter]
- 53:54life
- 53:56[Laughter]
- 54:14give
- 54:15me okay uh let's get you neutral to
- 54:18everything your wife doesn't say think
- 54:20or do and everything your wife says
- 54:23thinks or does that's gets you neutral
- 54:25to Never Getting acceptance from your
- 54:27wife ever again in your wildest
- 54:31dreams this is a few 100 quadrillion
- 54:34billion quadron layers that we're
- 54:35dealing with here okay we're going to
- 54:37clear that way neutral to your wife
- 54:40never proving of anything you do neutral
- 54:43to your wife totally loving everything
- 54:44you do another few hundred wife loving
- 54:48every give me some energy life totally
- 54:50loving everything you
- 54:53do that'd be cool
- 54:55you
- 54:56might long note yeah you might even get
- 54:59lucky
- 55:01tonight she's in New
- 55:06Hampshire
- 55:10however I'm staying
- 55:15at
- 55:18nevertheless okay okay check the
- 55:21shoulder
- 55:24again
- 55:28looks good to me let's check your energy
- 55:31and see what you're saying about
- 55:32discomfort you're not weak to discomfort
- 55:34anymore so we're going to boost the
- 55:36strength the stamina flexibility
- 55:38Mobility agility of both your shoulders
- 55:40actually every joint in your body to
- 55:42100% And your positive infinity and
- 55:47beyond thank you sir thank you you're
- 55:50welcome would I make the check out
- 55:54to
- 55:59okay who else had pain all right come up
- 56:02oh wait wait a woman first we we we'll
- 56:05we'll go male female
- 56:09okay hello hello I'm leoy I'm Maria Lisi
- 56:14from Brazil ah I love you
- 56:20already I'm sorry
- 56:23honey
- 56:27uh what pain do you have I have here on
- 56:30the left side left side oh shoulder
- 56:32blade and neck
- 56:37aha uh on scale 10 how much pain eight
- 56:41eight how long have you had
- 56:44this maybe 10 years 10 years yeah comes
- 56:47up in do comes up and down okay let me
- 56:50check something here give me a little
- 56:53energy in your arm that
- 56:59feels like you've been losing your sense
- 57:00of joy and happiness for about 5 10 11
- 57:0412 13 years wow is that right I'm I'm
- 57:08recovering that recovering that you're
- 57:10recovering you're recovering from that
- 57:12I'm recovering from you're recovering
- 57:14okay
- 57:16understand um what happens when we lose
- 57:19our sense of joy and happiness and by
- 57:21this this is pretty typical of us by the
- 57:23way but what happens when we lose our
- 57:24sense to joy and
- 57:26happiness no energy low energy what else
- 57:29depression depression what
- 57:32else pain
- 57:35pain and we know uh joy and happiness
- 57:38keeps our immune system
- 57:40strong right keeps us
- 57:44well um how much pain right
- 57:48now maybe five yeah five
- 57:51yeah okay um
- 57:57what happened back then was too much to
- 57:59bear I think too much work too much
- 58:02stress yeah too much stress too much
- 58:04Strife over stressing myself yeah so uh
- 58:08what's the worst thing that can happen
- 58:10if you keep overstressing yourself then
- 58:13you're broke you're broke what's worse
- 58:15than that you stay
- 58:17broke oh let's do Groundhog
- 58:20Day every time you come back it's more
- 58:23broke
- 58:25okay let's see if you're neutral that I
- 58:27don't think
- 58:29so okay few hundred quadran layers let's
- 58:31get neutral to broke forever another few
- 58:34hundred quadrian get to being broke
- 58:36forever what's the best
- 58:38scenario oh just being well again yeah
- 58:41everything just done everything's fine
- 58:44oh works with ease in synchronicity not
- 58:46neutral there another few quadrian
- 58:47layers let's check that cool okay how
- 58:50much pain
- 58:52now huh three three a little bit little
- 58:56bit oh with a little bit with a little
- 59:00bit uh let's see what's going on okay A
- 59:06lot of times when we have something like
- 59:09this uh there is something else going in
- 59:12the body as well we refer pain from one
- 59:14place to the body and the other is it
- 59:17all right if I touch you a little
- 59:18more we
- 59:20are okay so I'm just going to show you
- 59:24pattern of pain actually turn around
- 59:26here if you don't mind please okay so
- 59:28this pain right here there's a place
- 59:30right here that's resonating with
- 59:32that okay and then another place kind of
- 59:36right here and another one right there
- 59:39and then under this foot kind of under
- 59:41the pad we're just going to clear that
- 59:42all the way okay turn around how much
- 59:45pain now now I'm briefing and now you're
- 59:48breathing
- 59:51ah notice how something that we've been
- 59:55had for a long time the root see a
- 59:57symptom like this has roots like a 100y
- 1:00:00old
- 1:00:01tree right sometimes clients come with a
- 1:00:05tree and sometimes it's a
- 1:00:08forest right sometimes it takes a little
- 1:00:11bit more to clear it away and um I'm
- 1:00:16just going to check see what percent of
- 1:00:17the roots we've gotten now 10 20 3 45 67
- 1:00:21we've got about 70% of the roots feel
- 1:00:24better much better thank you yeah thank
- 1:00:26you you're
- 1:00:31welcome okay one and one
- 1:00:39more is this
- 1:00:41crazy why why would I ask someone to
- 1:00:43come up here with a symptom that they've
- 1:00:45had for a long time and say we why why
- 1:00:48would I say we can do anything about it
- 1:00:50that's kind of crazy isn't
- 1:00:52it well this is a kind of crazy we want
- 1:00:55to
- 1:00:56be we want to be more mindful of what's
- 1:00:59going on with
- 1:01:01us starting with again us being strong
- 1:01:05every day and when you do that you get
- 1:01:08more aware of the little ways each day
- 1:01:12that your energy goes weak we need to be
- 1:01:14very mindful of what we're doing to
- 1:01:16cause our energy to go weak and what
- 1:01:18causes it to go strong so that we can
- 1:01:21consistently be getting more strong
- 1:01:23every day uh what pain uh my lower back
- 1:01:27lower back uh how much scale one to 10
- 1:01:30yeah three or four how long have you had
- 1:01:32this five years five years when you say
- 1:01:35lower back show
- 1:01:36me
- 1:01:38okay I let's check something what
- 1:01:41happened five years ago to break your
- 1:01:43back started working out a lot and
- 1:01:47started working in the
- 1:01:53startups
- 1:01:56it only hurts when I
- 1:02:01laugh okay let's see pain you said it
- 1:02:06was a three or four MH how much is it
- 1:02:11now two yeah
- 1:02:15two uh let's get you new what's the
- 1:02:17worst thing that can happen what's the
- 1:02:19worst thing that can happen with these
- 1:02:21startups they fail and what it's worse
- 1:02:24than
- 1:02:26that they fail again yeah and what else
- 1:02:31fails me okay we go oh and what happens
- 1:02:36if you can't even think of
- 1:02:41that that really an
- 1:02:44option and what's the worst thing that
- 1:02:46can happen if you
- 1:02:48fail if I fail
- 1:02:52mhm then I let everybody down yeah and
- 1:02:56what's the worst thing if you let
- 1:02:58everybody
- 1:02:59down then I let my family down and
- 1:03:01what's worse than
- 1:03:04that there's not really anything worse
- 1:03:06than that yeah there
- 1:03:08is okay let's check yeah you're
- 1:03:12homeless you have to
- 1:03:16take let's see so you're living under an
- 1:03:18underpass with your family you have a
- 1:03:20good model grocery cart and someone
- 1:03:22steals your grocery cart
- 1:03:25and it was the latest grocery model okay
- 1:03:27let's clear a few hundred quadran layers
- 1:03:29there how much pain in your back now I'm
- 1:03:33totally distracted from my
- 1:03:36back I'm living under a bridge I don't
- 1:03:38even
- 1:03:47think okay what's what's the best
- 1:03:51scenario uh everything blows up in a
- 1:03:55great way yeah uh abundance yes
- 1:03:58synchronicity absolutely ease yes not
- 1:04:01neutral okay another few hundred quadri
- 1:04:04layers get neutral to everything
- 1:04:06prospers beautifully abundantly with
- 1:04:08ease and synchronicity okay check the
- 1:04:10pain in your back
- 1:04:12now again
- 1:04:14um okay oh sry I I don't feel you don't
- 1:04:17feel it okay 543 2 1 Z we're going to
- 1:04:19clear that all down your Zer minus
- 1:04:21infinity and beyond now there's
- 1:04:23something else you need to do I come
- 1:04:25over here please and let me see you walk
- 1:04:27over
- 1:04:30there uhhuh okay when we've had
- 1:04:34something like this going on stay back
- 1:04:35there a minute please when we've had
- 1:04:37something like this going on for a while
- 1:04:40you see uh we start moving in ways not
- 1:04:44to have the
- 1:04:46pain okay right if I've got a hurt and
- 1:04:51I'm uh our muscle sheath has a
- 1:04:55memory and it locks into the position
- 1:04:58we've been using to not have pain so
- 1:05:01when we go to walk or act in a normal
- 1:05:05way it
- 1:05:08resists now we're going to retrain your
- 1:05:10muscle sheath and here's what I want you
- 1:05:13to do watch me first okay it's called an
- 1:05:15exaggerated walk okay so you're going to
- 1:05:17walk slow keep your
- 1:05:19balance
- 1:05:23right
- 1:05:24put your arms straight up your knees as
- 1:05:26high as you can opposites okay here we
- 1:05:31go that's see it keep
- 1:05:35going keep going balance keep going
- 1:05:39coordin keep going all right now turn
- 1:05:41around walk normally
- 1:05:44again everybody Noti the difference we
- 1:05:48could his
- 1:05:49[Laughter]
- 1:05:52back what what what did that feel like
- 1:05:55to you it did feel different yeah you
- 1:05:57were much smoother
- 1:06:00then okay okay all right let's see what
- 1:06:03percent of the roots we cleared 30 1023
- 1:06:05456 70 71 2 3 73% thank you very much
- 1:06:10thank
- 1:06:16you okay
- 1:06:18questions yes when you evaluate these
- 1:06:22levels of strength as a percentage how
- 1:06:25do you mentally calculate that okay so
- 1:06:29when the question is when you say What
- 1:06:31percentages is how do you mentally
- 1:06:33calculate it um um okay this is a really
- 1:06:37good question um I call it additional
- 1:06:41sensory
- 1:06:43perception okay you know how uh when
- 1:06:47someone walks in a room and they're
- 1:06:49preoccupied are they're extra happy are
- 1:06:52they're extra sad
- 1:06:54what do we say we say hey what's going
- 1:06:57on right so what I'm talking about now
- 1:07:00it's a skill what I'm talking about is
- 1:07:03we keep increasing the
- 1:07:06skill right so uh it's it's just uh
- 1:07:10being more in tune I actually went to
- 1:07:12one modality uh where we actually stood
- 1:07:15you know we we would be opposite each
- 1:07:17other and we just focus on where is this
- 1:07:20person energy where is their weakness
- 1:07:22where is their strength I used to think
- 1:07:24why are we doing this so much you know
- 1:07:26actually it's really good because it
- 1:07:27helps you understand your weakness and
- 1:07:29you know when you make yourself weak and
- 1:07:31strong as well so it's a skill that's
- 1:07:34what we keep
- 1:07:35doing now I also teach people how to do
- 1:07:39this right these are participant
- 1:07:41materials we had a webinar uh I've got a
- 1:07:44four session webinar I taught the first
- 1:07:47two sessions last weekend and then the
- 1:07:49next t or next weekend I got an email
- 1:07:52from one of the participants really hard
- 1:07:54knows God a lot of problems I tried
- 1:07:56numerous things he said I and we we uh
- 1:08:00the way I teach is I explain something
- 1:08:03and then demonstrate it and then you do
- 1:08:05it so we did it those two days I put
- 1:08:09pairs together to do the work with each
- 1:08:11other and I told them the very first
- 1:08:13time you start working with each other
- 1:08:15you're going to clear
- 1:08:17symptoms right so I get an email from
- 1:08:19this hard-nosed guy just a couple of
- 1:08:22days ago he said I just just had a
- 1:08:24session with my par partner he said I
- 1:08:28have a high tolerance for not having any
- 1:08:30BS in my life he said it was a fantastic
- 1:08:35session and my symptoms are going away
- 1:08:37and this is stuff he's been living with
- 1:08:39from
- 1:08:41years so it is it is far simpler than we
- 1:08:45think it
- 1:08:47is
- 1:08:48um for example again just the what I
- 1:08:52talked about aging we've been we get
- 1:08:55yeah this sea of human consciousness
- 1:08:58that we're swimming in we buy into more
- 1:09:01stuff that's not true then you you can
- 1:09:06believe um okay let me give you another
- 1:09:09example uh there was a doctor on the
- 1:09:11Discovery
- 1:09:12Channel he said we had this patient come
- 1:09:15in with esophagal
- 1:09:17cancer he said everybody in the medical
- 1:09:20profession knows that nobody survives is
- 1:09:23sop
- 1:09:24cancer said we told him offered him a
- 1:09:28treatment he took the treatment a few
- 1:09:31weeks later he died we did an autopsy no
- 1:09:35esophagal cancer the treatment worked no
- 1:09:38cancer in his body anywhere that would
- 1:09:40explain his
- 1:09:42death he said he died of a sophical
- 1:09:45cancer but not from a sophical
- 1:09:48Cancer and then he said I wonder how
- 1:09:51often we Medical
- 1:09:54medical people parents teachers take the
- 1:09:57power away from
- 1:10:00people
- 1:10:03right so uh these these beliefs the the
- 1:10:07the number of beliefs we have around
- 1:10:10what you should or shouldn't do must or
- 1:10:12mustn't do can or can't do is absolutely
- 1:10:17staggering and when we don't do when we
- 1:10:19do things that we're not supposed to do
- 1:10:21or don't do what we're not supposed
- 1:10:23guess what we start judging ourselves we
- 1:10:26don't accept
- 1:10:28ourselves I challenge myself by the way
- 1:10:31there has been a change since
- 1:10:342012 I believe all of us are being
- 1:10:37invited now to come to another level of
- 1:10:40Consciousness and
- 1:10:42functioning it's there's there's
- 1:10:45wonderful things happening in our in the
- 1:10:47in round Consciousness and mindfulness
- 1:10:50that I sense in this universe and some
- 1:10:52colleagues do too
- 1:10:54so things are shifting and I'm I'm
- 1:10:57finding clients who are so completely
- 1:10:59locked into their symptoms but you see I
- 1:11:02I believe what happens is our symptoms
- 1:11:05are our friends they are going to keep
- 1:11:07saying hey you haven't cleared it yet
- 1:11:11and you know what they do if we don't
- 1:11:12what
- 1:11:13happens the symptoms get worse we raise
- 1:11:16the
- 1:11:17volume a year ago I raised the volume on
- 1:11:20myself for five months right right until
- 1:11:24I finally got it I'm a tough case and uh
- 1:11:29and what I realized is is that our
- 1:11:31biggest symptom is lack of
- 1:11:33self-acceptance
- 1:11:36very biggest because every single way
- 1:11:39we're not accepting ourselves exactly
- 1:11:42the way we are right now means our
- 1:11:44energy is going weak in fact I made a
- 1:11:47whole chapter in my book about it
- 1:11:48chapter
- 1:11:5119 and uh
- 1:11:54and so
- 1:12:00um we've never been
- 1:12:03taught to deal with this kind of
- 1:12:05mindfulness in our stuff in ourself one
- 1:12:08of my Consulting clients years ago big
- 1:12:11office building right I walked in Long
- 1:12:15rows of gray office
- 1:12:17partitions and on on one of these
- 1:12:19partitions was a sign and it said all of
- 1:12:22life is a game
- 1:12:24because if it was real we would have had
- 1:12:26much better
- 1:12:30instructions and then then I realized
- 1:12:33that it took me basically 60 years to
- 1:12:36get to the point where I could get on
- 1:12:38that curve and keep going up and I said
- 1:12:40you know what I don't want it to take
- 1:12:43anybody else 60
- 1:12:45years about uh five six years ago I
- 1:12:49started carrying a video camera just to
- 1:12:52do little things like we were doing here
- 1:12:54and I've got 16 of them on YouTube now
- 1:12:57it absolutely amazes me at people I hear
- 1:13:00from around the world in fact some
- 1:13:02people are saying I was watching this
- 1:13:04YouTube thing you know 10 minutes I said
- 1:13:07all of a sudden I started feeling
- 1:13:09better I'm thinking wow this internet
- 1:13:13there's something to this
- 1:13:16internet quick as a wink I
- 1:13:19knew right and I said well how do I
- 1:13:22reach more more people I want you know I
- 1:13:26love the purpose uh for Sloan
- 1:13:29school right there's mindfulness built
- 1:13:32into that
- 1:13:33purpose um and my purpose is to bring
- 1:13:37mindfulness to the world to this
- 1:13:39universe that we're in and so I want to
- 1:13:42do it in any and every way possible uh
- 1:13:45including you know if a book works fine
- 1:13:49and um you know if it's more videos then
- 1:13:52fine if it's takes it teaching people uh
- 1:13:55this is something that we can do I mean
- 1:13:59kids can learn
- 1:14:01this two examples I had a workshop a
- 1:14:04live Workshop in New York City this lady
- 1:14:06brought her 10-year-old son he got it
- 1:14:09faster than anybody else he was going
- 1:14:11click click click click people's
- 1:14:12symptoms are going
- 1:14:14away I had a lady come with a
- 1:14:175-year-old uh and she said she's been
- 1:14:20getting afraid these last six months so
- 1:14:23I started teaching the little girl
- 1:14:25neutral right and the mother said oh
- 1:14:28well you do this and this to go neutral
- 1:14:30and the little girl said no ma you do it
- 1:14:32this way she started teaching her mother
- 1:14:36I'm you know it's like amazing yeah can
- 1:14:39you talk more about that getting to
- 1:14:41neutral because I guess the only
- 1:14:43modalities that I've experimented with
- 1:14:45are Zen meditation or something like
- 1:14:47that I think they have a practice that
- 1:14:50you follow to try to get to something
- 1:14:52like neutral and it works by the way uh
- 1:14:55back uh back many years ago when all the
- 1:14:58different meditation techniques were out
- 1:15:00uh a guy wrote a book um where he looked
- 1:15:04at the pattern of
- 1:15:06meditation he's at Harvard now I'm
- 1:15:08forgetting his name and and um he said
- 1:15:11if you follow this proess in other words
- 1:15:13he said you do step by step by step by
- 1:15:15looking at different forms he said if
- 1:15:17you follow this um in four to six weeks
- 1:15:20you'll find a physiological change and
- 1:15:23did and I did it actually works that way
- 1:15:26so that's a nice thing to do it but when
- 1:15:28I first heard of neutral I I kind of had
- 1:15:31my misunderstanding of a Buddhist
- 1:15:32definition which says you go out 17
- 1:15:34years in the wilderness and get detached
- 1:15:37from everything I said well this isn't
- 1:15:38going to work for
- 1:15:41me I love her I support her you know and
- 1:15:47um and I'm definitely attached now
- 1:15:49there's many times in our marriage I
- 1:15:51didn't think we were going to make it
- 1:15:53we're in the best place we've ever been
- 1:15:56right and I it's
- 1:16:05primarily cuz she's got a lot of
- 1:16:07unconditional
- 1:16:09love you need that you live with
- 1:16:12me and I learned to go
- 1:16:15neutral right I want to I want just like
- 1:16:17we were doing here I'm going to go
- 1:16:19neutral to everything she says thans or
- 1:16:21does and everything she doesn't say than
- 1:16:23or do now why would I say
- 1:16:29that so you can be in the moment
- 1:16:32reacting to what's actually happening
- 1:16:34instead of triggering yourself into some
- 1:16:37other Vector up or down that distorts so
- 1:16:40causes of yeah so you can be in the
- 1:16:42moment and not react and some days it's
- 1:16:45not an issue other days I'm going
- 1:16:46neutral all day long not because of
- 1:16:50her not because of her but because my
- 1:16:53possible
- 1:16:54reaction you know one time um one other
- 1:16:58quick story uh we have this small farm
- 1:17:01and we've got electric fence and a few
- 1:17:04years ago there was a bad bad snowstorm
- 1:17:07and it was a Sunday and we said we
- 1:17:10better go check the fence line you know
- 1:17:13we've got an electric cart I got my
- 1:17:14chainsaw and so but in that day for some
- 1:17:18reason I don't remember what it was I
- 1:17:19got really angry at her and uh and so
- 1:17:23anyway we were out doing this together
- 1:17:25and come you know here's this big Branch
- 1:17:27we're taking it off the fence line in
- 1:17:29the process I stub my toe so bad I can
- 1:17:32hardly walk right and I started laughing
- 1:17:36I said well I stubb my toe this morning
- 1:17:39emotionally now I'm stting I stubbed it
- 1:17:42physically oh well so what right so we
- 1:17:45finished it and I said oh my God you
- 1:17:47know I'm saying I've got this plan on
- 1:17:50Tuesday morning and I'm barely able to
- 1:17:52walk again again I said okay time to go
- 1:17:55to clearing well I got to the airport
- 1:17:58and I was
- 1:17:59still a little bit limping and I made
- 1:18:02one concession I said I'm going to make
- 1:18:03one concession I asked them to take me
- 1:18:05to the to the uh gate in a wheelchair
- 1:18:09that's the last time I
- 1:18:11limped so first of all we say get
- 1:18:15neutral um and if you don't clear it in
- 1:18:183 seconds it took me an hour a half that
- 1:18:20day not because of her because of
- 1:18:23me and my
- 1:18:26reactions so uh yeah sorry morning
- 1:18:31exercise you said the morning exercise
- 1:18:34that you mentioned to
- 1:18:36me
- 1:18:38what okay what's the morning exercise
- 1:18:41that I do first thing I do is I check to
- 1:18:43see if I'm energetically strong if I had
- 1:18:45100% or
- 1:18:47more and is my uh and uh and is my
- 1:18:52polarity stength
- 1:18:53now again there's more detail about that
- 1:18:55but that's what chapter 13 of this book
- 1:18:57is about uh I say that of course because
- 1:18:59I want you to buy them um but and
- 1:19:03they're
- 1:19:041995 today we're having a sale they're
- 1:19:06on sale for
- 1:19:09$20 cuz I don't have any nickels and uh
- 1:19:13if and if you're from Massachusetts we
- 1:19:15add tax of a buck and a quarter
- 1:19:17something like that uh and uh so um but
- 1:19:21uh I explained and more detail there I
- 1:19:24explain how to get yourself strong every
- 1:19:26day uh and uh what's behind a lot of
- 1:19:30this work yes would it be a fair summary
- 1:19:33to say that um this is about being
- 1:19:36becoming very very good about checking
- 1:19:38your state of
- 1:19:39mind and and trying not to over
- 1:19:42contextualize everything that happens to
- 1:19:44you because then you can't react
- 1:19:46frontally to each event as it comes
- 1:19:47along you've created a context around it
- 1:19:50you over
- 1:19:51interpret
- 1:19:53mind is the whole thing so you're saying
- 1:19:55isn't isn't this really about being more
- 1:19:58mindful of your own state of mind yes it
- 1:20:00is and it's about having your energy
- 1:20:02strong every day and it's about being
- 1:20:04neutral and it's about learning how to
- 1:20:07clear root causes so that you do you you
- 1:20:10get on this upward Trend and you stay on
- 1:20:13it um so let me just
- 1:20:21summarize
- 1:20:24okay the really good news is that there
- 1:20:26are actually numerous modalities and
- 1:20:28products out there by the way I don't
- 1:20:30take any uh vitamins I don't take any
- 1:20:33herbs I don't take any meds the only
- 1:20:36thing I take regularly is called Max
- 1:20:41ATP uh three generations of research
- 1:20:44found a catalyst to get every cell to
- 1:20:46function by better and produce more
- 1:20:48energy not like an energy drink that
- 1:20:51goes like that but it goes like this I
- 1:20:54believe in doing stuff that really is
- 1:20:55natural for us um so but there's all the
- 1:21:00modalities all the traditional all the
- 1:21:03alternative they work and they work for
- 1:21:05numerous people which is great because
- 1:21:07nothing seems to work for
- 1:21:11everybody um and um there's a lot of
- 1:21:16options and if you look through through
- 1:21:18time um we you know there's many options
- 1:21:23when we get more mindful of what's going
- 1:21:25on with us and you know one way that
- 1:21:28we're doing things is to take like a
- 1:21:31specific part of us and improving it um
- 1:21:34there's you know there's effective ways
- 1:21:36to fuse vertebrae by the way when people
- 1:21:39are doing a medical uh a traditional or
- 1:21:43alternative modality and they ask me to
- 1:21:45work with it I support them so that will
- 1:21:48work
- 1:21:49better right I want to support
- 1:21:52everything thing working better for a
- 1:21:53person and if it's a lot of meds or
- 1:21:56chemo or something that to strengthen
- 1:21:58their body so that that Med will do its
- 1:22:02job and quickly get out of their
- 1:22:04body so a lot of times toxicities build
- 1:22:07up from these things we can help the
- 1:22:09body eliminate the toxicities we got two
- 1:22:11or three different ways of doing that so
- 1:22:14we want everything to work for every one
- 1:22:16of
- 1:22:20us okay we can focus on symptom and
- 1:22:23there's a lot of modalities that do that
- 1:22:26uh we can under undercover work with
- 1:22:28aspects of living there's a lot of ways
- 1:22:30of doing that and another way is what I
- 1:22:34what I believe in which is approach the
- 1:22:37whole person and clear it
- 1:22:40away and so um uh the characteristics of
- 1:22:45products that is
- 1:22:47evolved um and become revolutionary is
- 1:22:51that they are simply lighter easier to
- 1:22:53use and cost less there are many M
- 1:22:56alternative modalities that do this and
- 1:22:58they get results with a little
- 1:23:03effort now uh there is a lot more
- 1:23:06information in the handouts you have um
- 1:23:10and uh and there's been a lot of good
- 1:23:13research on alternative modalities and I
- 1:23:16have reviewed two of those uh because I
- 1:23:19thought some of you might be interested
- 1:23:21in seeing some of the research and
- 1:23:24methodology and so you'll find those if
- 1:23:26you choose to go a little further
- 1:23:27looking at that and they work and so
- 1:23:31thank you very much for being here um oh
- 1:23:34one sorry one more thing uh there's a
- 1:23:37page there called contact information if
- 1:23:39you would like to be on our email list
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- 1:23:46it to us uh you also have a card and a
- 1:23:50brochure that describes what we've been
- 1:23:51doing
- 1:23:53um and my wife and I will be here if
- 1:23:56anyone wants to buy a book and again
- 1:23:58thank you very much for coming I wish
- 1:24:00you all the very
- 1:24:02best thank you
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