All women say they want a good man until they meet one. — Transcript

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1. 0:00All women say they want a good man
2. 0:01[music] until they meet one and realize
3. 0:04they're not equipped to handle him. A
4. 0:07good man isn't convenient. He won't bend
5. 0:10[music] to accommodate chaos or
6. 0:12rearrange his values because you're
7. 0:14having an emotional day. His discipline,
8. 0:16his boundaries, and his priorities don't
9. 0:19shift with your mood. And if you've
10. 0:21never met emotional maturity before,
11. 0:23you'll [music]
12. 0:25misread all of it. You call him cold
13. 0:28because he won't tolerate drama, selfish
14. 0:30because he protects his peace, detached
15. 0:32because he refuses to beg for your
16. 0:35approval. What you're looking at is
17. 0:37self-respect. A man who knows his worth
18. 0:39moves [music] from conviction, not
19. 0:42insecurity. Good men have no interest in
20. 0:45drama or chaos, and they definitely
21. 0:48don't chase women
22. 0:49>> [music]
23. 0:49>> who use their emotions as weapons. They
24. 0:51build, they lead, they create order. A
25. 0:55lot of women aren't ready for a stable
26. 0:56man because stability doesn't feed the
27. 0:58[music] need for a roller coaster. And
28. 1:01if you grew up around uh dysfunction,
29. 1:04peace feels boring right up until you
30. 1:07lose it. A good man needs partnership,
31. 1:09respect, and a a woman who is regulated
32. 1:13rather than reactive. Good men don't
33. 1:15bend, they build, and the right woman
34. 1:18rises to [crying] meet him. Steady feels
35. 1:20boring until you retrain what love is
36. 1:24supposed to feel like. My book has a
37. 1:26whole chapter on it. Um grab it from my
38. 1:29bio or comment home and I'll get it to
39. 1:32you.