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Alex Hormozi’s Blueprint To Making Money Blew My Mind — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Alex has just stepped me through his
  2. 0:01blueprint to make any business work and
  3. 0:04make you a million dooll business from
  4. 0:05opening gyms to launching software
  5. 0:07startups Alex knows how to make any
  6. 0:10business worth a million dollars so Alex
  7. 0:12what are we going to learn today from
  8. 0:13you so we're going to go through nine
  9. 0:14steps number one is figuring out who you
  10. 0:17are number two who to sell to number
  11. 0:20three is what to sell them four got to
  12. 0:22get them to buy number five how many
  13. 0:24times so this is getting them to buy
  14. 0:26more times number six who's going to
  15. 0:28help you do that even more number seven
  16. 0:30is you're going to keep your advantage
  17. 0:31cuz now you're starting to get ahead and
  18. 0:33then stick with it because this is
  19. 0:34usually when it's like okay I feel like
  20. 0:35business uh business is starting to get
  21. 0:37boring and then you just keep getting
  22. 0:39better and you never stop and so those
  23. 0:42are nine steps to building a million
  24. 0:43dollar business as I've gone through in
  25. 0:45my life and I try to translate from my
  26. 0:47audiio so tell us how people figure out
  27. 0:50who they are what what was the process
  28. 0:52that you went through and what's the
  29. 0:53process people need to go through so I
  30. 0:55think there's a lot of um confusion
  31. 0:58around identity
  32. 1:00and I think a lot of it is around like I
  33. 1:02want to have these I want to have these
  34. 1:03traits or like I wish I were born was I
  35. 1:05wish I were more charismatic I wish I
  36. 1:06were more patient and I don't think
  37. 1:09people translate them into the behaviors
  38. 1:11that create the trait and so the traits
  39. 1:14themselves are just bundled terms so
  40. 1:16let's say someone's charismatic they're
  41. 1:17like I want to be charismatic all right
  42. 1:20well if I look at somebody and say cool
  43. 1:22be charismatic someone would just stare
  44. 1:24back like how right well you need to do
  45. 1:27small easy no but that's and so what's
  46. 1:29interesting is that you've already went
  47. 1:31to start translating it but Charisma
  48. 1:33patience a lot of these things are what
  49. 1:34I call bundled terms and so there's
  50. 1:36single words that actually have series
  51. 1:38of behaviors underneath them that when
  52. 1:40we see them in in the wild we then
  53. 1:42describe that person as charismatic so
  54. 1:45they nod up and down when you talk right
  55. 1:49they repeat back what you say at the end
  56. 1:52of whenever you take a pause during your
  57. 1:53breathing breathing they they
  58. 1:56smile um they increase the volume of
  59. 1:59when they talk uh and they have
  60. 2:01different tonalities as in like they go
  61. 2:03up and then they go down they speed up
  62. 2:05uh they emphasize words and so it's
  63. 2:08basically looking at all of these micro
  64. 2:10behaviors and if you do all of these
  65. 2:12things they shake hands firmly uh they
  66. 2:14make eye contact and so all of these
  67. 2:17things then it's like oh so I don't I
  68. 2:20don't need to try and be charismatic I
  69. 2:22just need to nod when people are talking
  70. 2:23I need to repeat back to them what they
  71. 2:25just said I need to smile when they walk
  72. 2:26in the room I need to be able to
  73. 2:27enunciate and speak with volume and not
  74. 2:30just be monotone I need to be go up and
  75. 2:32down and up and down and speed up and
  76. 2:33slow down when it's important I need to
  77. 2:35shake people's hands uh with confidence
  78. 2:37I need to make eye contact if I do those
  79. 2:39things other people will describe me as
  80. 2:40charismatic and so when I look at you
  81. 2:43know the version of who I would like to
  82. 2:44be I say what are the traits that I
  83. 2:45think of and then what are the behaviors
  84. 2:47that associate with those traits and
  85. 2:49then that way it makes something that
  86. 2:50seems unattainable like man I wish I
  87. 2:52were more X it's like well you can be
  88. 2:54that if you just think what must occur
  89. 2:56in order for someone to describe someone
  90. 2:58as this thing and so that's been
  91. 3:00honestly one of the big things that like
  92. 3:01it really changed my life because a lot
  93. 3:02of these things feel like out of your
  94. 3:04control it's like I wish but it's just a
  95. 3:06lot of times we just break skills down
  96. 3:08same thing when we're teaching someone
  97. 3:10if I said um hey build a company you can
  98. 3:13go do that because you have because that
  99. 3:14would be like a big bundled thing can
  100. 3:16you just go build a company sure I can
  101. 3:18now leveled down one it's like okay so
  102. 3:20do you know how to advertise do you know
  103. 3:21how to sell do you know how to create a
  104. 3:22product or a service do you know how to
  105. 3:23hire people it's like all of those are
  106. 3:24bundled skills underneath and you can
  107. 3:26basically derive everything all the way
  108. 3:28down to turn on the computer turn on
  109. 3:30Internet Explorer type in in a website
  110. 3:32and so at every level whenever someone
  111. 3:34gets confused about what to do it's like
  112. 3:35just break it down and that's
  113. 3:37fundamentally how we like to train teams
  114. 3:38but also it started with me which is
  115. 3:40like who what do I need to do and I
  116. 3:43think this is my um this is something
  117. 3:44that I'm going to be hitting on really
  118. 3:49hard doing is being and so if You' ever
  119. 3:52heard that the saying be do have have
  120. 3:55you heard of this yep I hate it because
  121. 3:59people are like have to become this type
  122. 4:00of person to do this type of stuff to
  123. 4:02have this thing but if the doing creates
  124. 4:04the having then we don't need to worry
  125. 4:06about having because doing is the actual
  126. 4:07thing we control and if we describe
  127. 4:09someone only by the behaviors they do
  128. 4:11then being also happens as a result of
  129. 4:13doing which means it's just do so Nike
  130. 4:15is always had it right it's true though
  131. 4:17yeah like I definitely wasn't
  132. 4:19charismatic when I was old younger and
  133. 4:20and I think this also people almost
  134. 4:22embarrassed to call themselves a certain
  135. 4:23label but you can train to be anything
  136. 4:25this is my thing about entrepreneurship
  137. 4:26that kind of like anyone can be an
  138. 4:28entrepreneur true and people get really
  139. 4:29annoyed me when I say that oh no it's no
  140. 4:32it's tough you know you got to worry
  141. 4:33about cash flow well if you can't get a
  142. 4:35good accountant you know like you know I
  143. 4:37I think it's interesting because people
  144. 4:39always have a reason why it's such a
  145. 4:40bloody hard thing to do and if you break
  146. 4:41it down like this it's not right um but
  147. 4:43how do people this this thing of who you
  148. 4:45are though is it a genetics thing though
  149. 4:48as well like maybe some people just
  150. 4:49can't be charismatic maybe they can't
  151. 4:51smile I mean you know what I mean like
  152. 4:54it's because I think my my wife is and
  153. 4:56she she never listens to this stuff so I
  154. 4:58can say this I wouldn't describe her as
  155. 5:00charismatic I describe her as beautiful
  156. 5:02and intelligent um but she doesn't she
  157. 5:04doesn't really bother shaking hands
  158. 5:05firly she just who she is you know so do
  159. 5:07you think this is a personality thing
  160. 5:09here or anyone can learn to be
  161. 5:10charismatic that's the end of it or is
  162. 5:11it going to be feeling a bit false for
  163. 5:13no I think 100% of people can learn I
  164. 5:15mean I have a fundamental belief about
  165. 5:16the world which is all things are
  166. 5:18trainable it's just that not all things
  167. 5:19are worth training yeah you got to be
  168. 5:20motivated to be to turn turn I think
  169. 5:22about it from return on resources so
  170. 5:24it's like even if like I think as a I I
  171. 5:26believe someone genuinely with Down
  172. 5:27Syndrome could learn to become or at
  173. 5:30least rather learn to do brain surgery
  174. 5:32would the amount of resources required
  175. 5:34in order to teach that person be a good
  176. 5:36use of resources probably not if
  177. 5:38intelligence is rate of learning then
  178. 5:40it's the rate of behavior change like
  179. 5:41how quickly can we get someone to change
  180. 5:42Behavior at least for me that's how I
  181. 5:44Define intelligence and so if I were to
  182. 5:45train my team and say hey do this thing
  183. 5:47and the next time they walk in they do
  184. 5:48that new thing under the same conditions
  185. 5:50they've learned quickly they're a more
  186. 5:51intelligent person and so um I think
  187. 5:54it's simply that the rate of learning
  188. 5:55differs between people but all people
  189. 5:57are trainable that's how we learn
  190. 5:58everything Plus what you're saying if
  191. 6:00you reverse it if you train yourself
  192. 6:01then it's not about us deciding the
  193. 6:02resource you get it's about you deciding
  194. 6:04the effort you make is it right so so so
  195. 6:07to concluding this bit I mean who you
  196. 6:09are is who you what you want to be is it
  197. 6:11so so that goes back to modeling
  198. 6:12yourself and perhaps the people you
  199. 6:13admire or the people you have the life
  200. 6:15you want sure and then go learn what
  201. 6:17they know MH and do what they do and I
  202. 6:19think that's and um I'll actually give
  203. 6:22one that I think um is helpful for a lot
  204. 6:23of people is like it's making sure that
  205. 6:25we're doing the things that they did at
  206. 6:27that stage and so you know uh if you
  207. 6:30want to become a billionaire doesn't
  208. 6:31mean go fly on private jets because
  209. 6:32billionaires fly on private jets if you
  210. 6:34want to become tall it doesn't mean you
  211. 6:35go play basketball and so it's it's
  212. 6:37conflating what like what was the cause
  213. 6:40what was the effect right and so um we
  214. 6:42want to not model where people are today
  215. 6:45and how they act today but we want to
  216. 6:46model the rise we want to model what
  217. 6:47they did at the beginning and so one of
  218. 6:49the tough Parts about that is usually
  219. 6:51when you're in the grind like one of my
  220. 6:52biggest regrets in the world is that I
  221. 6:54have zero sales that I had recorded when
  222. 6:56I was in person and I have over 4,000
  223. 6:58101 sales that I done and all the stuff
  224. 7:00I learned there I never had any
  225. 7:02recordings and so it's like because I
  226. 7:04didn't think oh I'm going to later
  227. 7:06someday in the future have a YouTube
  228. 7:07channel and I'm going to be teaching
  229. 7:08this stuff I was like just trying to
  230. 7:09sell memberships you what I mean and so
  231. 7:12I I I say that because I try and
  232. 7:14remember to the best of my ability and I
  233. 7:16do that through teaching you know our
  234. 7:17teams and whatnot like hey do this and
  235. 7:19do this and so um we do our best to
  236. 7:22remind everyone who's coming up like
  237. 7:24this is what I was doing don't look at
  238. 7:26what I'm doing now look at what I was
  239. 7:27doing then oh I think yeah doing things
  240. 7:29so powerful because that's how also you
  241. 7:31remember you can read you can hear
  242. 7:33someone tell you how to do something you
  243. 7:34can listen to this video but if you
  244. 7:35don't go out and apply it you probably
  245. 7:37won't remember it yeah yeah nothing will
  246. 7:39happen that's the guarantee so that's a
  247. 7:41good place to start you can be anything
  248. 7:43maybe decide what you want to be I mean
  249. 7:44a lot of people in sales for example um
  250. 7:46say oh you need to be an extrovert to do
  251. 7:48sales I'm like my biggest salesperson in
  252. 7:49my last company was my accountant no one
  253. 7:51more introverted no and do you know what
  254. 7:54cuz she was introverted she was slightly
  255. 7:55more trusted yeah cuz she would only say
  256. 7:57things that people she' go to a meeting
  257. 7:59CFOs and talk about how brilliant our
  258. 8:01company was those CFOs who also
  259. 8:02introverted would go back to the office
  260. 8:04talk to the CEO and say you should get
  261. 8:05Simon's company in cuz I just heard from
  262. 8:06the CFO what they're doing there you
  263. 8:08know best sales technique ever but she
  264. 8:10didn't think she was a salesp person if
  265. 8:11i' interviewed her and said welcome to
  266. 8:12the company you're going to be our
  267. 8:13number one sales person would have even
  268. 8:15started yeah but yeah so it's all about
  269. 8:17using your personality traits to also be
  270. 8:19applied right what next um so the second
  271. 8:22one is like okay so you have to acquire
  272. 8:24enough of these traits bundled terms to
  273. 8:26just take action so if I had to do the
  274. 8:27what's the tldr of the last phage which
  275. 8:29just do something that's it like if all
  276. 8:31of this was around doing it's do
  277. 8:33something because currently nothing is
  278. 8:35happening in your life and so in order
  279. 8:36for something to change you have to do
  280. 8:38something now once you decide okay I'm
  281. 8:39going to take action then it's like okay
  282. 8:42who am I selling to this is one that
  283. 8:44people get really confused about and I
  284. 8:46think people want to start with what do
  285. 8:48I sell like two and three what to sell
  286. 8:52are very much interrelated right because
  287. 8:55who you sell to is going to determine
  288. 8:57what you're going to sell right if I
  289. 8:58decide that Pilots are going to be my
  290. 9:00the people that I feel like selling then
  291. 9:02I can't be like oh well I have these you
  292. 9:04know this uh this insurance thing that
  293. 9:06does for houses it's like I don't know
  294. 9:07if that's really the the right match for
  295. 9:09that particular thing and so sometimes
  296. 9:12you come in with some past experience um
  297. 9:14and so I like to I know I'm going I'm
  298. 9:16going out of order but hopefully it'll
  299. 9:17it'll work out in the end um but I think
  300. 9:19there's three PS
  301. 9:21around uh what people figure out and I I
  302. 9:24tend to talk more about Services than
  303. 9:26products and I do that because at least
  304. 9:28in the US 8% of businesses of services
  305. 9:31great way to start as well service is
  306. 9:32very easy business right at the end of
  307. 9:33the day you're just doing something that
  308. 9:35other people don't want to do for money
  309. 9:37right and so pain profession and then
  310. 9:38passion and so almost all businesses can
  311. 9:42get derived from one of these three
  312. 9:43things which is like you had some
  313. 9:44painful experience you overcame and so
  314. 9:47that's you know a mom who helps uh her
  315. 9:49kids pack lunches who have uh food
  316. 9:51allergies it's like if you figured out
  317. 9:52how to overcome that then you can help
  318. 9:53other people do it too if you overcame
  319. 9:54some sort of depression thing it's like
  320. 9:55you can help other people do that if you
  321. 9:57didn't know how to advertise your big
  322. 9:58business and then you figured out how to
  323. 9:59do Google paperclick it's like that's
  324. 10:01something that's it's a pain pain is you
  325. 10:03know uh relative but time saving if you
  326. 10:06can save people time is way translating
  327. 10:07it oh totally and then the second one is
  328. 10:10profession so a lot of people do have
  329. 10:11jobs but want to start a business and so
  330. 10:14um whatever you do in a company
  331. 10:16fundamentally is something that other
  332. 10:17companies probably want and so you can
  333. 10:20always fractionalize whatever your
  334. 10:21professional skill is between multiple
  335. 10:23companies and so that's just taking a
  336. 10:24skill that you already have in the
  337. 10:25workplace and just selling it to other
  338. 10:27people and then passion is like okay
  339. 10:28well I love uh I'm really interested in
  340. 10:31model cars okay well can you build a a
  341. 10:33business around model cars absolutely
  342. 10:35you could build a subscription on
  343. 10:36building them you could build the actual
  344. 10:37products around them you could make a
  345. 10:38Channel about painting model cars you
  346. 10:40like there's a zillion things that you
  347. 10:41could do there but in each of these it's
  348. 10:43usually something you overcame some sort
  349. 10:45of professional skill that you learned
  350. 10:46or some passion and so that usually goes
  351. 10:48into what to sell the most common person
  352. 10:51to sell to is someone like you so most
  353. 10:54if you look at uh like w combinator and
  354. 10:57a16z some of the best uh Venture startup
  355. 11:00investors uh one of the one of the
  356. 11:02requirements that they often have is
  357. 11:03what they call living with the problem
  358. 11:05and so they want people who've had a lot
  359. 11:06of surface area a lot of exposure many
  360. 11:08repetitions over years with many
  361. 11:10different types of solutions and why
  362. 11:12they don't work and so on one hand sure
  363. 11:15you can be like I'm going to just I'm
  364. 11:16going to think of this beautiful idea
  365. 11:17but most of the times it's like what do
  366. 11:19I hate what what bothers me um because
  367. 11:23you because then you don't have to do
  368. 11:24all this market research to figure out
  369. 11:25like how do these people talk like what
  370. 11:27are what are their innate desires you
  371. 11:28just say like well what do I want and
  372. 11:29it's a much faster path and I think
  373. 11:32that's where um this is where a lot of
  374. 11:34people um end up starting in terms of
  375. 11:36who to sell to they sell people like
  376. 11:37that you don't much research in the
  377. 11:40market when you when you know exactly
  378. 11:41your own problem and interestingly even
  379. 11:42at the top level like Mark Zuckerberg
  380. 11:44built Facebook to solve his own awkward
  381. 11:46problem of being socially awkward yeah
  382. 11:48he didn't he wanted to meet girls he
  383. 11:49wanted to be liked he wanted friends but
  384. 11:51he found it socially awkward to go out
  385. 11:53so he built a platform to solve his own
  386. 11:54problem turns out a lot of people have
  387. 11:56that problem so I think this like you
  388. 11:58thing is a really easy way to sell
  389. 12:00I guess Um passion and purpose do you
  390. 12:02differentiate the two um no I just not
  391. 12:05to say that it's not true I just I
  392. 12:07usually use those three PS CU I think if
  393. 12:09people I I my I believe in sales it's a
  394. 12:12it's a there's three steps right which
  395. 12:13is like people do it the one way around
  396. 12:15normally but the first step is do you
  397. 12:17like the person does the person like you
  398. 12:19the relationship stuff I don't know
  399. 12:20people spend enough time doing that
  400. 12:22second is do people need what you're
  401. 12:23selling sure lot of people spend a lot
  402. 12:24of time selling something they don't
  403. 12:25need right and then the third step of
  404. 12:26course is like pricing and all that sort
  405. 12:28of stuff but I think lot the time like I
  406. 12:30I took 9 years to get to Apple as a
  407. 12:31client n years but it's because I had a
  408. 12:34passion and a purpose to build a company
  409. 12:36I wanted to build something that was
  410. 12:37respected Apple being a client would
  411. 12:39would help my company being be respected
  412. 12:41I think that purpose really helps you
  413. 12:43get through in the end on sales oh yeah
  414. 12:46and so um yeah these are I mean this is
  415. 12:49kind of like the the the cycle of of of
  416. 12:51figuring it out and then when you once
  417. 12:53you're like okay well I get it pain
  418. 12:55profession passion but underneath of
  419. 12:57those things um like what what really is
  420. 12:59it and so typically you're going to have
  421. 13:02you can either sell products so that's
  422. 13:03physical stuff right tangible things you
  423. 13:05can put it in someone's hand there's
  424. 13:06Services which is you just do stuff for
  425. 13:09other people which is fundamentally
  426. 13:11services are wrapped to time and there's
  427. 13:13two types of time one is the time to
  428. 13:14learn the skill and the other is the
  429. 13:16time to do the skill so underneath it's
  430. 13:18some sort of information advantage that
  431. 13:20you have and then the actual doing and
  432. 13:21execution and so those are F like
  433. 13:23Services can be as simple as I know how
  434. 13:25to how to mow my lawn I just don't want
  435. 13:27to do it um on the other hand it could
  436. 13:29be be hey uh I know how to code and I
  437. 13:31can code this you know site a certain
  438. 13:33way it's like okay not only do I not
  439. 13:35want to take the time to do it to learn
  440. 13:36it I also don't want to take the time to
  441. 13:38do it and so when you're thinking about
  442. 13:39products or Services those are those are
  443. 13:41the two um kind of buckets as I think
  444. 13:43about them and then you have SAS or
  445. 13:44software you've got software as a
  446. 13:45service you've got apps things like that
  447. 13:48um you have something that I like to go
  448. 13:49into which is just access you've got
  449. 13:51risk you've got money and so these are
  450. 13:54all things that people can buy and sell
  451. 13:55Banks buy and sell money insurance buy
  452. 13:57and sell risk access if you think real
  453. 13:59estate there's physical access they
  454. 14:01digital access um SAS is basically these
  455. 14:04things just put in a digital format and
  456. 14:06so this gives gives you kind of like a a
  457. 14:08jump start of like well what do I how do
  458. 14:10I take my passion it's like okay we'll
  459. 14:12pick one of these ways it's like you
  460. 14:14could sell the model cars you could
  461. 14:16build the cars for people and then sell
  462. 14:18them you could have assass that helps
  463. 14:19people design their own cars you could
  464. 14:21have events where you bring people
  465. 14:23together uh and they can show off their
  466. 14:25cars and race them and whatever and then
  467. 14:26you can charge for T you know for access
  468. 14:28to that or media access like if you have
  469. 14:31um like for me like this would be like
  470. 14:33education would still kind of fit inside
  471. 14:34of here it's like access to some sort of
  472. 14:35media risk you could ensure people's
  473. 14:37collections around their cars if they
  474. 14:38have really valuable car collections uh
  475. 14:40you know model cars and then money is
  476. 14:42hey maybe uh people need lending for
  477. 14:43this stuff who knows and so
  478. 14:45fundamentally like that's how I think
  479. 14:47through um what am I going to
  480. 14:50sell I I think as well it's very
  481. 14:52interesting around the service side
  482. 14:54because in my agency business for
  483. 14:55example I was selling the services
  484. 14:57someone else's design ability their time
  485. 15:00to someone I wasn't even doing the
  486. 15:01service but I helped the person the
  487. 15:03designers didn't like to sell they're
  488. 15:05shy they want to sit at their computer
  489. 15:06creating right so I didn't even have the
  490. 15:08skill to do the design but I was able to
  491. 15:10sell the service I think I think this
  492. 15:12list is brilliant um so when okay so
  493. 15:14people have who to sell to and what
  494. 15:17you're going to sell are in interl so
  495. 15:20you've decided what you're going to do
  496. 15:21here I'm going to add one thing to this
  497. 15:22CU I think so will be helpful for people
  498. 15:24we're starting out and so I talk about
  499. 15:25this a ton in in my stuff but
  500. 15:29one of the in my opinion one of the
  501. 15:31things that matters a ton is is pricing
  502. 15:35right and so it's a lot easier to sell a
  503. 15:37100 people a $10,000 thing than is to
  504. 15:40sell 10,000 10,000 people a $100 thing
  505. 15:42there's just so much more distribution
  506. 15:43that you need to get and so for me I
  507. 15:46look at do the people that I want to
  508. 15:48sell my thing have the money for my
  509. 15:50thing and if everybody's broke in this
  510. 15:52particular market then I might consider
  511. 15:54well is there anything else I know how
  512. 15:55to do or anything else I'm I'm
  513. 15:57passionate about or anything else that I
  514. 15:58I a professional skill around so the
  515. 16:00first thing is money the second thing um
  516. 16:03is how easy are these people to find
  517. 16:05like is it really hard to find this you
  518. 16:07know this particular subset of people um
  519. 16:09or can I find them pretty easily are
  520. 16:10they directories or their associations
  521. 16:12with them if so then it's easy for me to
  522. 16:13reach out or show up at those
  523. 16:14conferences or whatever um the next
  524. 16:16thing is I'd rather have the market be
  525. 16:18growing like if I can if I'm about to
  526. 16:20pick what business I'm going to get into
  527. 16:21I'd rather go into one where there's
  528. 16:23more demand than there is Supply right
  529. 16:25like I'd rather just have the Tailwind
  530. 16:26rather than a headwind one of my uh one
  531. 16:28of my one of my friends friends um had a
  532. 16:30business that sold to newspapers and
  533. 16:32Brilliant guy and basically he was
  534. 16:34trying to transition them from print ads
  535. 16:36to give them a second ad product that
  536. 16:37was digital so he's like he could
  537. 16:38convert all of their uh print ads into
  538. 16:41digital ads onto their website and so it
  539. 16:43makes sense it's like you know it's AV
  540. 16:44on guard it's like hey you just have
  541. 16:46another product you can now sell you
  542. 16:48don't have to do anything you just make
  543. 16:49more money like it's a good offer the
  544. 16:51problem is that newspapers at least in
  545. 16:52the US were shrinking by 25% per anom
  546. 16:55every year compounding the wrong
  547. 16:57direction 25% a year and so now if he he
  548. 17:00had to gain 25% market share every year
  549. 17:01just to keep his company the same size
  550. 17:03because people were just going out of
  551. 17:04business even it's in the digital space
  552. 17:05which is the growing PA right but they
  553. 17:07didn't have any money to pay for that
  554. 17:08service yeah and then the final one is
  555. 17:10uh if I had to pick between two things
  556. 17:13I'd rather have one where people are in
  557. 17:15pain and so you good at dra excent um is
  558. 17:20is you want searing hot pain whenever
  559. 17:22you can and when I say pain it doesn't
  560. 17:24necessarily mean like people are like oh
  561. 17:25my God like you know I've got cancer I'm
  562. 17:27going to die but just that the
  563. 17:29annoyances of taking out the trash every
  564. 17:31day it's like it's just the problems are
  565. 17:32things that people would rather not do
  566. 17:34and again it's going to be things they'd
  567. 17:36rather not learn or just things they'd
  568. 17:37rather not do and those are the easiest
  569. 17:38things now when you combine these things
  570. 17:41together is when you can charge a lot
  571. 17:42more like if it's just like a lot of
  572. 17:44times when you start out like very very
  573. 17:46early days you probably don't know
  574. 17:48anything that other people don't know
  575. 17:49I'm just being real right and so a lot
  576. 17:51of the the the earliest businesses you
  577. 17:53start are are what you know we' probably
  578. 17:55consider Blue Collar businesses so it's
  579. 17:57like it's cleaning it's it's lawn care
  580. 17:59it's painting um these are not you know
  581. 18:03you can learn how to do it in a weekend
  582. 18:04but that's okay because business takes a
  583. 18:07really long time to learn and so it's
  584. 18:08like okay well at least let me I'll just
  585. 18:09have something simple that I can do here
  586. 18:11and then I can learn all the other
  587. 18:12skills around business by practicing it
  588. 18:14and so I just these are kind of the four
  589. 18:16characteristics of if I'm going to get
  590. 18:17into a market I want to make sure that
  591. 18:19they've got the money they're easy to
  592. 18:20find it's growing and they're in pain I
  593. 18:22hope you writing this down folks I wish
  594. 18:25i' done this when I was younger I mean I
  595. 18:27I built a service business we talking
  596. 18:29about it off camera and sometimes you
  597. 18:30you're selling so hard to a market that
  598. 18:32doesn't have enough money it's so much
  599. 18:35harder anyone's going to faed it sales
  600. 18:37if you if you put yourself in a place
  601. 18:38where the people don't have enough pain
  602. 18:39they got too many choice too choices you
  603. 18:42got to have that pain to create the
  604. 18:43closing situational selling and this is
  605. 18:46actually um I think this will be really
  606. 18:48relevant for your your history with the
  607. 18:50creative agency so there's this story
  608. 18:52that I really like a lot where a father
  609. 18:54gives his son an old car you might have
  610. 18:56heard this one um but father gives his
  611. 18:58son an old car and he says if you want
  612. 19:00you can sell it and then you can take
  613. 19:01the money and you know buy yourself some
  614. 19:03what something else and so he says why
  615. 19:05don't you go down to the um the pawn
  616. 19:06shop and see what they'll they'll give
  617. 19:08you and so he you know kid goes comes
  618. 19:10back and he looks a little bit down he
  619. 19:12he's like what's up he's like oh they
  620. 19:13said they'd give me 2500 bucks he's like
  621. 19:15all right well go to the dealership see
  622. 19:16if you can trade it in there for you
  623. 19:17know for something else so he goes there
  624. 19:19comes back he said well hey they they'll
  625. 19:21give me $5,000 he's like okay that's an
  626. 19:23improvement uh and he says hey why don't
  627. 19:25you go down to the uh the old the old
  628. 19:27Collectibles uh Auction House see see
  629. 19:29what they'll do and so the kid goes
  630. 19:31there and he comes back and he's he
  631. 19:32comes back he's jump for he's like Dad
  632. 19:34you won't believe it you won't believe
  633. 19:35it he's like they say this is an old
  634. 19:36collectible car and it's worth $100,000
  635. 19:39and he was like the biggest lesson here
  636. 19:40is that sometimes it's the exact same
  637. 19:42thing but who you sell to changes
  638. 19:44everything and So within the services
  639. 19:47that you have if if Simon had gone back
  640. 19:50and sold to really small businesses the
  641. 19:52like branding and creative and logo
  642. 19:54design and things like that I would bet
  643. 19:57that the vast majority of those
  644. 19:58businesses couldn't appreciate what the
  645. 20:00service was and what the value of even
  646. 20:02branding is to begin with because they'
  647. 20:03be like yeah but how's this give me
  648. 20:04leads and only a more advanced business
  649. 20:07can appreciate the upside of how much uh
  650. 20:10return on Advertising return on
  651. 20:11throughput you get by having kind of a
  652. 20:13brand halo effect but you have to be of
  653. 20:14a certain size and so if you had that
  654. 20:16skill set and then you were like hey
  655. 20:18Alex Simon I started my business but no
  656. 20:20one wants to buy it the first question
  657. 20:21we'd probably ask is okay well are you
  658. 20:23good at your thing and if if you check
  659. 20:24the box he like yeah I think this guy's
  660. 20:26good well who are you selling to it's
  661. 20:27like well I'm just tring to sell to uh
  662. 20:29to local lawn care services it's like
  663. 20:31well that's un that's not surprising to
  664. 20:33me that they wouldn't buy but in that
  665. 20:34moment you might think oh I suck at
  666. 20:36business you were just selling to the
  667. 20:38wrong people and I think that's why this
  668. 20:39is so important is making sure who you
  669. 20:40sell to is one of the biggest levers
  670. 20:42that you can have on success can I tell
  671. 20:43another story yeah go please so there
  672. 20:46was a um a cro company that came through
  673. 20:48here um that we were looking at to
  674. 20:50invest in and it was it was great so
  675. 20:53this guy was a really good coder really
  676. 20:54good CR you know conversion optimization
  677. 20:56for websites and um um he had a really
  678. 20:59really cool business but what was
  679. 21:01interesting is he and I had this
  680. 21:02conversation we said oh yeah when I work
  681. 21:04with a million-dollar year e-commerce
  682. 21:05store and I you know raised their
  683. 21:07througha by 10% he's like it only adds
  684. 21:10$100,000 to the business he said but
  685. 21:12when I go to an e-commerce store that
  686. 21:13does 100 million and I add 10% it's the
  687. 21:14same amount of work he's like I had 10
  688. 21:16million to the business and so I can
  689. 21:18charge so much more money for the exact
  690. 21:19same work because in a very real way it
  691. 21:21is more valuable I did create more value
  692. 21:23but it wasn't because of me it was
  693. 21:24because of them and so one of the
  694. 21:26biggest leverage you can have on success
  695. 21:27is doing the same work for better people
  696. 21:29yeah I you know the stories really
  697. 21:31really resonate with me and again I wish
  698. 21:32I'd heard you speak uh 20 years ago I I
  699. 21:35remember um when I first started the
  700. 21:36business we were selling graphic designs
  701. 21:38we go to someone do you want a logo do
  702. 21:39you want a brand and they pay a certain
  703. 21:41amount and I I managed to get quite good
  704. 21:42fees out of it because we were good but
  705. 21:44then one day I gave ideas to someone for
  706. 21:46free yeah and they said oh I would have
  707. 21:48paid a lot for that and what I realized
  708. 21:50is we shouldn't be selling the creative
  709. 21:52we should selling the concepts the
  710. 21:54creative is almost like a commodity so
  711. 21:56we started selling the ideas that's
  712. 21:58where we were getting millions of
  713. 21:59dollars from and then the execution was
  714. 22:01like well lots of people could design it
  715. 22:02now you just give them the brief you
  716. 22:04know go fer and they'll they'll go make
  717. 22:05exactly that got commod which by the way
  718. 22:07is a little bit unfair cu the actual
  719. 22:09creative part is really tough but people
  720. 22:11don't value it and pain isn't pain is in
  721. 22:13the idea so we go to CNN and give them
  722. 22:16an idea they well that's that's valuable
  723. 22:18but just the execution almost is
  724. 22:20secondary so you can always take your
  725. 22:21existing service and just tweak it a bit
  726. 22:23and you'll get a lot more uh out of it
  727. 22:25if you do that all right so people
  728. 22:27hopefully have made a list of who
  729. 22:29they're going to sell to and what
  730. 22:31they're going to sell what's next in
  731. 22:33this so now we got to get them to buy so
  732. 22:35it's like this is all great you know
  733. 22:37we've got some of these character traits
  734. 22:38we decideed to start taking action we
  735. 22:40figure out who we want to sell to we
  736. 22:41figure out what we want to sell so now
  737. 22:43and we're going to write there we go I
  738. 22:46need to have a purpose in this see this
  739. 22:48is it I get to
  740. 22:49write one and so now we got to give to
  741. 22:52buy and so uh I know s you've got your
  742. 22:54you've got your sales framework the one
  743. 22:56that I've been teaching for years is is
  744. 22:58uh is closer so there are a million
  745. 23:00sales Frameworks out there this is just
  746. 23:02the one that's it's just consistently
  747. 23:04work for me teaching uh you know teams
  748. 23:06of guys out in the road whatever um and
  749. 23:09for years I actually just taught clothes
  750. 23:11and it was only uh probably in the last
  751. 23:13four or five years that I added the r on
  752. 23:14there hope you trade mark this I don't
  753. 23:17know who knows
  754. 23:18CL I hope everyone just learns how to
  755. 23:21sell um so the first thing is is like
  756. 23:24basically okay now that I'm in front of
  757. 23:26this who and I've got the what how do I
  758. 23:27get them to give me money and so this is
  759. 23:30basically a structure for our
  760. 23:31conversation which is the first thing
  761. 23:33that we like to do is clarify why
  762. 23:34they're there so the person and the nice
  763. 23:37thing with any sales conversation is
  764. 23:39that there's always something that
  765. 23:40someone has done to indicate interest
  766. 23:42like you can't unless someone is still
  767. 23:43listening to you they opened the door
  768. 23:45they clicked on the email they responded
  769. 23:46with with a comment they dm'd you they
  770. 23:48opted in on your site like someone has
  771. 23:49to take some initial uh move towards you
  772. 23:52in order to they they indicate interest
  773. 23:55and so all you have to do then is just
  774. 23:56ask them why so say hey why did you why
  775. 23:59did you respond to my post hey why did
  776. 24:00you why did you DM me hey why did you
  777. 24:02opt in on my site and you're just asking
  778. 24:04them why you're clarifying the problem
  779. 24:06right and so the second step and this is
  780. 24:09all listening right you're just asking
  781. 24:10questions so what brought you in today
  782. 24:11what was the main reason what are you
  783. 24:13struggling with right now and then and
  784. 24:15this is just a very small step but super
  785. 24:17important which is we label them with a
  786. 24:19problem and say okay I got it John uh so
  787. 24:22it sounds like you're here and you want
  788. 24:25to get here and this has been the thing
  789. 24:27in your way does that sound about right
  790. 24:29and this is also active listening so for
  791. 24:30me from a rapport building perspective
  792. 24:32if you say back to someone what they
  793. 24:33just said they're like oh this guy's
  794. 24:34great this guy this guy's brilliant
  795. 24:37charismatic exactly and so we label them
  796. 24:40or problem and we have you're here you
  797. 24:42want to get here here's the scap okay so
  798. 24:44then and this is just out of just
  799. 24:46experience um we overview the past
  800. 24:49experiences that they've had and I call
  801. 24:50this the pain cycle and um I didn't know
  802. 24:54why this worked I just knew that it did
  803. 24:56work and so so the key Point here is you
  804. 24:59say hey so what have you done so far to
  805. 25:01try and solve this what have you done
  806. 25:03and then they're going to start listing
  807. 25:05out I did this and then we just ask okay
  808. 25:08well how'd that work for you and then
  809. 25:10obviously they're talking to you so it
  810. 25:11didn't work so it's a loaded you know
  811. 25:12like you're you're just pushing on this
  812. 25:14pain getting them to realize it yeah
  813. 25:16basically yeah and so I have this um
  814. 25:19fundamental belief that all salespeople
  815. 25:22are just motivational speakers
  816. 25:23fundamentally just on a one-on-one basis
  817. 25:25and so all we're trying to do is
  818. 25:26motivate someone to take action and so
  819. 25:28if you know that at least for me if I
  820. 25:30think that that's that's what it is it
  821. 25:31just comes down to motivating someone
  822. 25:33then what creates motivation and so I
  823. 25:35spent a really long time trying to think
  824. 25:37through this but it's actually the
  825. 25:39opposite is what creates motivation
  826. 25:42deprivation creates motivation so if I'm
  827. 25:44starving then I'm very motivated to eat
  828. 25:46if I'm if I'm exhausted I'm very
  829. 25:48motivated to sleep and with that same
  830. 25:51concept what we want to do is basically
  831. 25:53remind them we want to deprive them
  832. 25:55remind them of how deprived they are of
  833. 25:57this thing and how much pain they've
  834. 25:59gone through up to this point and so we
  835. 26:02try and ask them what they did ask them
  836. 26:04how that worked ask them what they liked
  837. 26:06and what they didn't like about that
  838. 26:07thing when they say the things that they
  839. 26:08liked you associate that with oh I think
  840. 26:10if you like that you're going to love
  841. 26:11this and if they hated that it's like oh
  842. 26:13that's great I understand why you
  843. 26:14struggle with that because later we're
  844. 26:15going to take notes of that and we're
  845. 26:16going to make sure that we don't talk
  846. 26:18about that stuff if we have anything
  847. 26:19similar to that in our product and so
  848. 26:21after we've gone through this pain cycle
  849. 26:22and you just keep asking anything else
  850. 26:24you've done anything else you've tried
  851. 26:25until V is like no that's that's about
  852. 26:26it they say awesome John
  853. 26:29I think that you're going to love what
  854. 26:31what we've got for you can I tell you
  855. 26:32about it so this is where we asked for
  856. 26:34permission to make the sale and so um I
  857. 26:36go sell the vacation so I have this
  858. 26:40little moniker about um selling that a
  859. 26:43lot of people sell the plane flight and
  860. 26:46not Maui or Hawaii or whatever your
  861. 26:48vacation spot is and so they they then
  862. 26:50go right into you know jargon they're
  863. 26:52like oh we're going to we're going to do
  864. 26:54these color tones and we're going to
  865. 26:55have this palette for your logo and like
  866. 26:57they're like what is is going on but
  867. 26:59what people want it's you know people
  868. 27:01don't want to buy drills they buy holes
  869. 27:03right the drill is just a vehicle and so
  870. 27:05what we want is to talk about the the
  871. 27:08the the the light Breeze in their hair
  872. 27:11what it's like at Sunset what they're
  873. 27:12going to feel like when they've got
  874. 27:14their feet in the sand and they're
  875. 27:15drinking the cold you know my taii at
  876. 27:18the beach and they're with their loved
  877. 27:19ones and making a memory that they'll
  878. 27:20have for the rest of their lives so so
  879. 27:22the sizzle nut steak it's a simple we
  880. 27:24exactly but what we don't want to sell
  881. 27:26is the TSA the plane checking take your
  882. 27:29shoes off the guy farting next to you
  883. 27:30the terrible I don't know why they have
  884. 27:31sell planes flying in the air that's not
  885. 27:33the enjoyable B is it unless you're in
  886. 27:34business class maybe but I really it's
  887. 27:36not enjoyable why do they settle that
  888. 27:37every Airline listening should change
  889. 27:39right now what they're doing and so I do
  890. 27:41something that I call a three-pillar
  891. 27:42pitch and so I almost always try and
  892. 27:46chunk up my basically my selling points
  893. 27:49to three points why three I don't know
  894. 27:51but three is just always worked really
  895. 27:52well and so the three-pillar pitch I
  896. 27:54like to have basically one statement and
  897. 27:56then a metaphor and so if there's and I
  898. 27:58used to teach this for Fitness sales all
  899. 28:00the time so it's like there's three
  900. 28:01things Fitness Nutrition accountability
  901. 28:03and with that it's like you want to have
  902. 28:04a three-legged stool that if you're
  903. 28:05missing one of the sides it's not going
  904. 28:07to work right and so it's like if you
  905. 28:09just work out then you're and you're not
  906. 28:11eating well then you're going to it
  907. 28:13doesn't matter you're not going to lose
  908. 28:14weight if you just eat well but you're
  909. 28:15not working out you're going to lose
  910. 28:16muscle and you're going to rebound back
  911. 28:18is that right and if because we just
  912. 28:19knew about their pain cycle they're like
  913. 28:20yeah I've had that happen before like no
  914. 28:22exactly so you know that and if I give
  915. 28:24you the best fitness and the best
  916. 28:25training in the world I say the best
  917. 28:27fitness and the best nutrition plan in
  918. 28:28the world but you don't actually do it
  919. 28:29cuz no one holds you accountable it's
  920. 28:30not going to happen either and so you
  921. 28:32got to have all three and when you have
  922. 28:33all three you can't lose right and so
  923. 28:35that's the three pillars and so when I
  924. 28:37would create scripts for I was to like a
  925. 28:39completely opposite script I made a
  926. 28:40script for a B2B mortgage sales company
  927. 28:41and so I was like okay they were selling
  928. 28:43leads to uh Realtors and so it's like
  929. 28:45okay so I spent the whole morning I was
  930. 28:46like what are the three things it's like
  931. 28:48okay you want leads that are exclusive
  932. 28:49to you you want them to be qualified and
  933. 28:51you want them to be timely you want them
  934. 28:52to be like they just stopped it in
  935. 28:54they've got they're really interested
  936. 28:55and no one else is calling them but me
  937. 28:57that's what you want in leads and so
  938. 28:59it's like these are the three things and
  939. 29:00so then for each of those three things
  940. 29:02you then just make one analogy or story
  941. 29:04that relates it and so if I wanted to do
  942. 29:06you know explain accountability I would
  943. 29:09say okay have you ever heard of The
  944. 29:09Amazing Race it was a show that happened
  945. 29:11even if they had doesn't matter they're
  946. 29:12like yeah so there was actually this
  947. 29:14this couple that won so many times they
  948. 29:16had to change the rules do you know what
  949. 29:17they did differently they're like what
  950. 29:19he's like so what they did was whenever
  951. 29:20they land into a new area and they had
  952. 29:22to find the new location they would
  953. 29:23immediately grab a local and say hey can
  954. 29:24you get in the back of the car and just
  955. 29:25tell us where to go and by doing that
  956. 29:28they always beat everyone else and so
  957. 29:30the thing is is that you want to guide
  958. 29:31and so that's exactly what we're going
  959. 29:32to do with the accountability and so I
  960. 29:34have like six different accountability
  961. 29:35stories but that's one of them right and
  962. 29:36so it's like you just want to have one
  963. 29:38story for each of the pillars and then
  964. 29:39you just say does that make sense they
  965. 29:41say yes and then you just move on to the
  966. 29:42next pillar and you'll notice that like
  967. 29:44at least for me especially in high
  968. 29:46volume transactional sales so I would
  969. 29:47say like b2c sales consumer sales where
  970. 29:49it's you know oneandone kind of sales I
  971. 29:51found that like when I'm like on fire in
  972. 29:54terms of selling the person's walking
  973. 29:56out the door and they're super excited
  974. 29:58they're like I don't even know what I
  975. 29:58just signed up for because the thing is
  976. 30:00is that like the more and the weeds we
  977. 30:02get the more questions they're going to
  978. 30:03have about it and as long as you're
  979. 30:04confident whatever it is that you sell
  980. 30:06just know that you're going to take care
  981. 30:07of them because you explaining the
  982. 30:09macros and the calories and the rep
  983. 30:10schemes like they don't even know what
  984. 30:12it is anyways and so they're going to KN
  985. 30:13along and try and ask questions they
  986. 30:14don't even know why they're asking the
  987. 30:15question like what kind of
  988. 30:16certifications you have we just ask
  989. 30:18which ones you're looking for and
  990. 30:19they're like like right so you're just
  991. 30:21they want to seem like they're in like
  992. 30:22they're asking informed questions but
  993. 30:24they just don't know what to do and so
  994. 30:26we do a three-pillar pitch and and then
  995. 30:28we say great so then we transition to
  996. 30:29the close so we ask for the sales that
  997. 30:31makes sense awesome you want to get
  998. 30:32started on Monday yes or no whatever and
  999. 30:34then you start moving through it now if
  1000. 30:36they say anything but
  1001. 30:39yes away says explain away I'm writing
  1002. 30:42vertical concerns all right so you want
  1003. 30:45to explain away they're concerns and so
  1004. 30:48most concerns mind if I eras this top
  1005. 30:50here so most concerns at least as I I
  1006. 30:52think through them is you've got timing
  1007. 30:54concerns which is I'm really busy right
  1008. 30:56now you've got um uh preference concerns
  1009. 31:00which is I don't like this particular
  1010. 31:02thing about your solution you've got uh
  1011. 31:04money right you've got money SL Roi
  1012. 31:07whatever you've got stalls which is uh
  1013. 31:10sounds similar to timing but completely
  1014. 31:12different which is can you give me some
  1015. 31:14time to think about it versus I don't
  1016. 31:15have time they both have the word time
  1017. 31:17in it for sales guys off finally you
  1018. 31:18want to just cover past experiences and
  1019. 31:21so this is where I I signed up with a
  1020. 31:23creative agents you just learn like
  1021. 31:24yours and they burn me so so you want to
  1022. 31:25make sure that you have something to
  1023. 31:26overcome um that particular thing and so
  1024. 31:29once you understand what the core things
  1025. 31:32that people have in that they present
  1026. 31:35with that are the reasons why they don't
  1027. 31:37want to do something you just need to
  1028. 31:39understand the logical arguments for
  1029. 31:40each of these these bullets so with
  1030. 31:42timing uh this is all about priorities
  1031. 31:44so everyone's got the same times you
  1032. 31:46just say hey how important is this to
  1033. 31:48you okay then it means that there's
  1034. 31:50something else in your 24 hours a day
  1035. 31:51that we need to trade that's less
  1036. 31:52important than this as long as you
  1037. 31:54explain that to them then you're good
  1038. 31:56preferences is they want your result
  1039. 31:58their way if you change the variables of
  1040. 32:01the way that I do it if you just want to
  1041. 32:02do Fitness and Nutrition not
  1042. 32:03accountability then you're not going to
  1043. 32:04get the result so if you change the
  1044. 32:05variables you change the outcome and so
  1045. 32:07it's just like always thinking they want
  1046. 32:09my results their way you can't uh you
  1047. 32:11can't just I mean the amount of times
  1048. 32:13I'd have you know ladies trying to lose
  1049. 32:14weight be like can I just eat what I'm
  1050. 32:16currently eating and then do your
  1051. 32:18program and I was like no because what
  1052. 32:19you're currently eating is getting you
  1053. 32:20what you're currently getting right and
  1054. 32:22so then we have Roi which uh we solve
  1055. 32:25with logic proof and payment terms so
  1056. 32:30logic is just understanding like if this
  1057. 32:32does this is it worth it okay so if it
  1058. 32:34is then the problem is that they don't
  1059. 32:36believe you and so then it's all around
  1060. 32:37proof like how many different varieties
  1061. 32:39of testimonials can I demonstrate that
  1062. 32:40are as similar to them as possible to
  1063. 32:42get them to believe me and you know we
  1064. 32:44have our little belief breaking formula
  1065. 32:46but I won't even get into that uh and
  1066. 32:48then you've got uh payment terms so it's
  1067. 32:50like okay the person logically
  1068. 32:51understands they believe they could
  1069. 32:52happen then it just gets into Logistics
  1070. 32:53of payment which is like okay can you
  1071. 32:55break this up for me can I do half now
  1072. 32:56half later whatever you've got stalls
  1073. 32:58which is again I need to think about it
  1074. 33:01um but here what we do is we walk them
  1075. 33:02through a logical decision so we say
  1076. 33:04okay do you think that you'll be more
  1077. 33:05successful uh if you do this than if you
  1078. 33:08didn't do it yes okay do you think that
  1079. 33:10uh if you do it on your own versus doing
  1080. 33:12it with us you will get close to your
  1081. 33:13goal yes do you have access or know
  1082. 33:15somebody who has access to the money to
  1083. 33:16get started yes yes yes great then you
  1084. 33:18made a logical decision and so a lot of
  1085. 33:20people are just afraid of making
  1086. 33:21mistakes and so um with stalls we want
  1087. 33:24to figure out what the fear is and so
  1088. 33:26the number one triage question that we
  1089. 33:27ask is if you have less Rapport we just
  1090. 33:30say what's your main concern if you have
  1091. 33:31a little bit more Rapport I just ask
  1092. 33:33like what are you afraid of having
  1093. 33:34happen and you can lower your voice a
  1094. 33:35little bit they're like I just don't
  1095. 33:37want my husband to say that I spent
  1096. 33:38money on this thing again you're like
  1097. 33:40totally understand what if this is the
  1098. 33:43thing that 5 years Som now you look back
  1099. 33:44on and you're like what if I hadn't done
  1100. 33:46that and you're sitting there completely
  1101. 33:48changed your lifestyle and you you know
  1102. 33:50your husband and you guys are so much
  1103. 33:51better now I was like what if you look
  1104. 33:53back on this one moment because I think
  1105. 33:55about this with my wife I'm I'm swiping
  1106. 33:56on my phone if I had left on the app and
  1107. 33:59I hadn't met Lea my life would be
  1108. 34:00completely different than it is right
  1109. 34:01now eight or 9 years later and so it's
  1110. 34:03like I just don't want that to happen to
  1111. 34:05you like oh man okay and so then I
  1112. 34:07didn't know you met an app did you
  1113. 34:09should give him a plug who was it it was
  1114. 34:10Bumble oh really there you go Bumble
  1115. 34:13hold on and so this is uh so if someone
  1116. 34:15has a past experience so hey I I worked
  1117. 34:16with a creative agency before and it
  1118. 34:18didn't work therefore you won't work
  1119. 34:20yeah and so I have yet to have a an
  1120. 34:22overcome here um there's also decision
  1121. 34:25maker I use I use for this one but oh
  1122. 34:29this one's killer so I'll tell you how
  1123. 34:30to do it so um with Bern you twice you
  1124. 34:33just say listen you had something bad
  1125. 34:36that happened in the past and the only
  1126. 34:38thing worse than having a bad investment
  1127. 34:40is letting a bad investment prevent you
  1128. 34:41from making a good one right right now
  1129. 34:43great and so then we do a metaphor so
  1130. 34:44it's like hey are you married a lot of
  1131. 34:46times if you're old like they're like
  1132. 34:47yeah you're with somebody yes okay did
  1133. 34:49you ever date anybody before that person
  1134. 34:51yeah you ever da like middle school or
  1135. 34:52high school yeah yeah now imagine after
  1136. 34:55your first Middle School boyfriend or
  1137. 34:56girlfriend you said
  1138. 34:58so it just means that that person wasn't
  1139. 34:59right for you it doesn't mean that all
  1140. 35:01people aren't right for you and so
  1141. 35:02there's a big difference and so they're
  1142. 35:04I get it it's like you don't want to let
  1143. 35:05that person burn you twice once for when
  1144. 35:06it happened and once when it stops you
  1145. 35:08from having the good thing and then
  1146. 35:09there's decision maker which is uh I
  1147. 35:11don't have the authority to make the
  1148. 35:12decision I don't bring that one up
  1149. 35:13because it's one of the hardest ones to
  1150. 35:14overcome and people have a lot of uh
  1151. 35:16harsh beliefs in the comments about how
  1152. 35:18I overcome this stuff cuz they're like
  1153. 35:20you should always get permission from
  1154. 35:21this spouse and it depend if you're
  1155. 35:22buying a house yeah you're going to need
  1156. 35:23permission from the spouse kind of
  1157. 35:25yeah and so obviously you want to bring
  1158. 35:28that person if you know that whatever
  1159. 35:29you sell requires somebody else you want
  1160. 35:31to make sure the decision makers are on
  1161. 35:32the call but there are times when you're
  1162. 35:34in a selling situation where like you've
  1163. 35:36got one shot and so for us I try to
  1164. 35:39overcome decision maker um or authority
  1165. 35:41to make the decision by by first saying
  1166. 35:44okay well uh what if they say
  1167. 35:47no and so if I have a guy I'll lean into
  1168. 35:50his ego and i' be like what if your wife
  1169. 35:51doesn't give you permission yeah better
  1170. 35:52ask to forgiveness than permission I
  1171. 35:54used that at the very end yeah yeah but
  1172. 35:56yeah so what if she what if she doesn't
  1173. 35:57give you permission cuz then it makes
  1174. 35:59them really and they're like no I could
  1175. 36:00it's like oh great let's get you going
  1176. 36:01you know what I mean as soon as they
  1177. 36:02bounce back you're good but if they say
  1178. 36:04no I wouldn't do it then you say well
  1179. 36:05what do you think they'd be against so
  1180. 36:07now I'm still not on I'm now isolating
  1181. 36:09towards variables like what like what
  1182. 36:10are the actual things that they would
  1183. 36:11say no to because I can overcome that
  1184. 36:13not the decision and so they're like oh
  1185. 36:15they'd be over you know it'd be this
  1186. 36:16particular thing but now I'm off
  1187. 36:17decision now if they're still like no it
  1188. 36:19it it doesn't matter it's like okay well
  1189. 36:20just do they know that you're here right
  1190. 36:22now they know that you're struggling
  1191. 36:22with this thing yeah they know that
  1192. 36:24you're struggling are they are they are
  1193. 36:25they do they approve of that they don't
  1194. 36:28know they don't approve of it they're
  1195. 36:29not happy that I'm that I'm struggling
  1196. 36:30with this it's like oh then why would
  1197. 36:31they be against something that they
  1198. 36:32already don't approve of so they go
  1199. 36:33relying on past agreements so it's like
  1200. 36:35you you already have the permission they
  1201. 36:36know that you're struggling why wouldn't
  1202. 36:37they want you to solve it and it's like
  1203. 36:39well if your wife's anything like my
  1204. 36:40wife like we end up making it work in
  1205. 36:42the end anyways right and then we'll go
  1206. 36:44into um I think you I think you might be
  1207. 36:47asking for permission instead of
  1208. 36:48support deep psychology get started to
  1209. 36:51be marriage counselor is it it's time
  1210. 36:54you stood up for yourself you know like
  1211. 36:55well cuz then you play it out you say
  1212. 36:56listen because if you if you don't do
  1213. 36:58this and you don't do it because of your
  1214. 36:59wife or whatever cuz let's say you go
  1215. 37:01home and she says no okay fine well play
  1216. 37:04this forward 5 years your business isn't
  1217. 37:06in the place you want it to be you're
  1218. 37:07not the weight you want to be you have
  1219. 37:08this back pain you whatever the thing
  1220. 37:10that you sell around is it's like 5
  1221. 37:12years from now who are you going to
  1222. 37:13blame you going to blame her you going
  1223. 37:15to blame you I don't think it's fair to
  1224. 37:17either of you because at the end of the
  1225. 37:18day it's your life and you got to be
  1226. 37:19able to make these decisions now again I
  1227. 37:20just think and this is where you go into
  1228. 37:22like I think you're asking for
  1229. 37:23permission when you really just give
  1230. 37:24need support by the way Amazon do a
  1231. 37:26brilliant job of TI Tak most of these
  1232. 37:28off but just saying we'll give you a
  1233. 37:29refund you can send it back and it won't
  1234. 37:31cost you anything so my wife gets a
  1235. 37:32package a day and she's like don't worry
  1236. 37:34if I don't like it I can send it back so
  1237. 37:36like I don't object and it's like okay
  1238. 37:37fine you know I don't see much going
  1239. 37:39back but the point is you can just get
  1240. 37:40rid of it money back guarantee or giving
  1241. 37:42people some comfort oh 100% yeah or
  1242. 37:44delay or you can do a delay pay with the
  1243. 37:46payment term you say hey just say yes
  1244. 37:47now sign the contract I'll delay the
  1245. 37:49payment till Friday and between now and
  1246. 37:51then if you go home and your husband
  1247. 37:52says no sweetie I want you to live 10 10
  1248. 37:54years less long I want you to be fat I
  1249. 37:56want you to have generational unhel Die
  1250. 37:58Young yeah exactly if he says that you
  1251. 37:59call me out first I'll talk to him
  1252. 38:01exactly and so I make some jokes about
  1253. 38:03it and then the final one here is let's
  1254. 38:05assum you explain a way they're
  1255. 38:06concerned they're like yeah I want to do
  1256. 38:07it um and I added this one later which
  1257. 38:09is you reinforce the
  1258. 38:12decision and so one of the the major
  1259. 38:14things that happens and I I had to add
  1260. 38:16this in because I wanted my sales guys
  1261. 38:17to make sure that they completed the
  1262. 38:18transition or the handoff to customer
  1263. 38:20success in onboarding and until I had
  1264. 38:22this it was just like explain their
  1265. 38:23concerns close the deal and then it was
  1266. 38:25like I'm done and so it was like no we
  1267. 38:27have to bridge this we have to reinforce
  1268. 38:29that they made a great call so say hey
  1269. 38:31right now I'm going totr you to Sarah
  1270. 38:32Sarah's going to get you started hey
  1271. 38:33Sarah this is John John's trying to
  1272. 38:35retire his wife John's trying to get in
  1273. 38:37shape for a wedding whatever it is um
  1274. 38:39Sarah's going to help you take the next
  1275. 38:40steps now then Sarah is going to start
  1276. 38:42the onboarding conversation of how do I
  1277. 38:43relate the actions that this person has
  1278. 38:45to take with their goal and say hey
  1279. 38:47we're going to help you retire way we're
  1280. 38:48going to help you get look good for that
  1281. 38:49wedding but these are the first three
  1282. 38:50steps anyway so that's so that's how you
  1283. 38:53get people to give you money in England
  1284. 38:55there's a new gym that's open up called
  1285. 38:56third space and one of the things
  1286. 38:58they've done is they've also limited
  1287. 39:00Supply so they basic I went there it's p
  1288. 39:03gym it's like $1,000 a month for it and
  1289. 39:05they're like we don't have his space
  1290. 39:07right now yeah but put you on the
  1291. 39:08waiting list and then and then a few
  1292. 39:10days later they ring you up say
  1293. 39:11someone's just left but do you want it
  1294. 39:13now yeah and that's actually a brilliant
  1295. 39:15I'm like yeah okay I'll do so limiting
  1296. 39:17suppli is another element great I hope
  1297. 39:19you're enjoying the podcast of Alex I've
  1298. 39:20just written a book guys it's taken me
  1299. 39:2135 years to get all this knowledge and I
  1300. 39:23put it all in here it will help you
  1301. 39:25remove any subconscious bias you have
  1302. 39:27for stopping you from starting your
  1303. 39:28dream the keyy in this book that I want
  1304. 39:30you to learn is if you want your dream
  1305. 39:31to happen you've got to make other
  1306. 39:32people's dreams happen first the link is
  1307. 39:34down in the description it would mean a
  1308. 39:35lot to me if you bought it all the
  1309. 39:37proceeds from this book I'm giving away
  1310. 39:38to fun dreams so please buy if you can
  1311. 39:41now let's get back to the episode of
  1312. 39:42Alex all right next cuz that was awesome
  1313. 39:45so how many times they buy so um now we
  1314. 39:48want to get them to obviously buy again
  1315. 39:50because um I think Dan Kennedy said this
  1316. 39:51and I just love this quote he says you
  1317. 39:53don't you don't get customers to make
  1318. 39:56sales you make sales to get customers
  1319. 39:59and so the idea is that once you have a
  1320. 40:00customer then you want to get them to
  1321. 40:01buy as many times as seemly possible and
  1322. 40:04so at this point there's so many things
  1323. 40:07that you can do um to make a business
  1324. 40:09make more money right and so you've got
  1325. 40:12get this out the way
  1326. 40:13again yeah yeah so one is that you can
  1327. 40:16increase the price of whatever you have
  1328. 40:18I'm just talking about eight different
  1329. 40:19ways that you can make more money um to
  1330. 40:20get them just basically make more money
  1331. 40:22from any customer so one is that you can
  1332. 40:23just charge more the second is that you
  1333. 40:25decrease the cost of whatever you sell
  1334. 40:27so so if you have a service you can
  1335. 40:28either pay people L that's usually not
  1336. 40:30the right idea but you can improve the
  1337. 40:31service ratio of how many customers to
  1338. 40:34every rep you can add Tech in order to
  1339. 40:35make their jobs easier um you can go
  1340. 40:37offshore things like that the next one
  1341. 40:39is you ask them to buy again so you just
  1342. 40:42do this times two you say hey um you
  1343. 40:45have that thing do you want to buy more
  1344. 40:46of that thing you just bought uh one of
  1345. 40:49my favorite one of my favorite upsells
  1346. 40:50ever uh the next one is that you can get
  1347. 40:52continuity which is you say buying which
  1348. 40:55I see this as a quantity this one as uh
  1349. 40:58you're they're buying once and then
  1350. 41:00there's a delay and then a day so this
  1351. 41:02is a
  1352. 41:04quantity then you've got
  1353. 41:06quality which is do you want to buy a
  1354. 41:08better version of the thing that you
  1355. 41:10have then we have uh down sell so it's
  1356. 41:13like hey and this one it's like wait how
  1357. 41:14do how is this going to make me more
  1358. 41:16money so down cells make you more money
  1359. 41:18in that if you you turn a no into a yes
  1360. 41:22and so okay you don't want to buy the
  1361. 41:24the the normal Burger do you want to buy
  1362. 41:25a junior Burger do you want to buy a
  1363. 41:26smaller one do you want to just buy the
  1364. 41:27burger not the other stuff okay then
  1365. 41:29we've got cross
  1366. 41:31Sals where you sell something different
  1367. 41:35so I'll go through this whole example
  1368. 41:37real quick uh but with with a burger
  1369. 41:39store because everyone can understand it
  1370. 41:40so I can take my burger and make it more
  1371. 41:42expensive I can lower the cost of each
  1372. 41:45burger for myself I can get them to buy
  1373. 41:47two burgers I can get them to come back
  1374. 41:50again to buy another burger or put them
  1375. 41:51on a burger subscription so this would
  1376. 41:53be through like follow good idea for
  1377. 41:54business idea Burger subscription
  1378. 41:55business in and out should do that what
  1379. 41:57they yeah did you did you eat it there
  1380. 41:58today it's great not today we have to
  1381. 42:01there's no Su sure yeah I don't know
  1382. 42:03what's in it but it's not sugar don't
  1383. 42:05it's me either but anyway you can have
  1384. 42:06uh you can you can increase the quality
  1385. 42:08of the meat you he oh this is mystery
  1386. 42:10meat Burger you can have Sirloin you
  1387. 42:11know Burger that's ground up mystery
  1388. 42:13meat yeah we can go uh lower quantity so
  1389. 42:16this is uh making it smaller oops sorry
  1390. 42:19that's you know what is quantity there
  1391. 42:21you go and then you can lower the
  1392. 42:22quality all right now I don't like
  1393. 42:24saying lower quality but it's a more
  1394. 42:26economical this is a HP strategy for all
  1395. 42:28their printers they start off as really
  1396. 42:30good printers that never break don't
  1397. 42:31need an ink cartridge and they reduce
  1398. 42:33the quality so you need ink cartridges
  1399. 42:34and you need the faster one not the
  1400. 42:36slower one they make it slower so you
  1401. 42:38want to buy the faster one and so uh you
  1402. 42:41you get the smaller Burger so you have
  1403. 42:42less uh or you go from regular meat to
  1404. 42:44just completely questionable like what
  1405. 42:46is this thing uh or you say okay what
  1406. 42:48are the cross cells well do you want uh
  1407. 42:50fries with your burger do you want a
  1408. 42:51drink with your burger and so those are
  1409. 42:53basically the eight ways that you can
  1410. 42:55get a customer to buy more stuff and so
  1411. 42:59the whole process though especially if
  1412. 43:01you're selling doing a cross out which
  1413. 43:02is very common in terms of what people
  1414. 43:04are thinking about selling next is that
  1415. 43:07there's a problem solution cycle that
  1416. 43:10exists in business which is that if you
  1417. 43:12actually solve a problem with whatever
  1418. 43:14you do you also create another problem
  1419. 43:17so all problems all solutions create
  1420. 43:19more problems all problems create
  1421. 43:20Solutions and so if you do accurately
  1422. 43:23solve it so let's say I um like let's
  1423. 43:26say someone has the burgers and all that
  1424. 43:28stuff well once someone's full then I
  1425. 43:29created a uh a dessert problem right
  1426. 43:32right which I can solve you know with uh
  1427. 43:34with my milkshake or my ice cream cones
  1428. 43:36or whatever right just to use the very
  1429. 43:37simple example but if I solve the
  1430. 43:39traffic to someone's site then the next
  1431. 43:41thing they're going to need help with is
  1432. 43:43sales the next thing they're going to
  1433. 43:44need help with is delivery there's
  1434. 43:45always going to be something else that's
  1435. 43:46going to happen you know if you if you
  1436. 43:48help someone lose 20 lbs the next thing
  1437. 43:50they're going to want is they're going
  1438. 43:50to want to tone up or they're going to
  1439. 43:51want new clothes there's there's a ton
  1440. 43:53of things that happen as a result but
  1441. 43:55there's um another piece that I'll bring
  1442. 43:57up here which is something that I've
  1443. 43:59learned over and over
  1444. 44:01again which is that people enter hyper
  1445. 44:03buying cycles and so let's say that I
  1446. 44:06sign up for a marathon right if I decide
  1447. 44:09I'm going to start a marathon and then I
  1448. 44:11go to the the shoe store the running
  1449. 44:12shoe store and I say hey I want some I
  1450. 44:14want some running shoes if that business
  1451. 44:15owner it's like well well they just
  1452. 44:17bought the running shoes I don't want to
  1453. 44:18I don't want I don't want to scare them
  1454. 44:19away I don't want to seem too salesy
  1455. 44:21well what are they going to do they're
  1456. 44:22like well I still need the iPod thing
  1457. 44:24for my for my shoulder so that when I'm
  1458. 44:26running I need new tank TOS I need
  1459. 44:27running shorts um I got to have uh you
  1460. 44:30know the the app that tracks my progress
  1461. 44:32whatever it is right and so and I've got
  1462. 44:34to have those gels that I whatever
  1463. 44:35marathon runners eat but the thing is is
  1464. 44:37that if you don't sell it they're going
  1465. 44:40to buy it just not from you and all of
  1466. 44:42this going to happen in a very short
  1467. 44:43time cycle they're going to make the
  1468. 44:44decision I'm now a marathon runner and
  1469. 44:46so I need to get all the stuff
  1470. 44:47associated with that you buy a pet
  1471. 44:48there's a zillion things you buy you go
  1472. 44:49to a wedding there's a zillion things
  1473. 44:50you buy like whenever someone makes a
  1474. 44:52decision to enter it like basically they
  1475. 44:54have a new identity that then Associates
  1476. 44:55with whatever purchases they're going to
  1477. 44:57to make they enter this cycle where they
  1478. 44:59just buy lots of stuff and you want to
  1479. 45:02be there right at that moment to make
  1480. 45:04that next offer again and again and
  1481. 45:06again and offers are only bad if you
  1482. 45:10present it at the wrong time or it's not
  1483. 45:14a need and so that's why we don't try
  1484. 45:16and sell them we make the offer we
  1485. 45:17present it if they're not into it no big
  1486. 45:19deal and so that's at least how I think
  1487. 45:21through um upselling and getting more
  1488. 45:23out of every night stores do this so
  1489. 45:25well you know they put the socks on the
  1490. 45:27out to check out right they put the and
  1491. 45:29all that stuff and brand brand plays
  1492. 45:31such an important role in this because
  1493. 45:33once you've got trusted then people want
  1494. 45:35to buy from you cuz they know you know
  1495. 45:37your shoes are good quality well your
  1496. 45:39tops are probably good quality your
  1497. 45:40socks are probably good quality your arm
  1498. 45:41band's going to be good put my iPhone in
  1499. 45:43so who helps you isn't that next yeah
  1500. 45:47yeah who helps you that's it who helps
  1501. 45:51by the way um we have a platform that
  1502. 45:53helps people it's the hardest thing
  1503. 45:54we've noticed for people to actually ask
  1504. 45:55for help love giving help that's the
  1505. 45:58shocking thing but people don't ask for
  1506. 46:01but but what's your take on it so who
  1507. 46:03helps you so the the way I think about
  1508. 46:06this is you have you have four ways you
  1509. 46:08can let other people know about stuff
  1510. 46:10right so you've
  1511. 46:12got you got oneon-one
  1512. 46:14uh and then you got one to many it's
  1513. 46:17people who know
  1514. 46:19you and people who
  1515. 46:22don't and so one one to people who know
  1516. 46:24you is warm Outreach so you just text
  1517. 46:28your friends you DM people you email you
  1518. 46:30call whatever you've got one to many to
  1519. 46:33people you know you which is posting
  1520. 46:35content that you make a post to your
  1521. 46:37Facebook page and you say hey this is
  1522. 46:38what's going on in my life one to one to
  1523. 46:40people who don't know you is cold
  1524. 46:41Outreach so that's cold calling cold
  1525. 46:43emailing cold
  1526. 46:44whatever and then you've got one to many
  1527. 46:48uh to people who don't know you which is
  1528. 46:49paid ads and so these are the only four
  1529. 46:52things that any one person can do to let
  1530. 46:54other people know about their stuff you
  1531. 46:56can talk at events the similar things
  1532. 46:57put oh yeah totally and so once we know
  1533. 47:01this this is how we advertise to
  1534. 47:03anything um to get customers then it's
  1535. 47:06like okay well we do the exact same
  1536. 47:08process to get employees and so you need
  1537. 47:10a team that's going to help you and so
  1538. 47:11in the beginning a lot of times you
  1539. 47:13start by reaching out to people you know
  1540. 47:14and saying hey friends family do you
  1541. 47:15want to help me with my business um and
  1542. 47:17then you probably make a post and say
  1543. 47:19hey I'm hiring you know anybody who
  1544. 47:20knows anybody please like make the
  1545. 47:22introduction um and then you start
  1546. 47:25running ads on job boards and saying hey
  1547. 47:27uh I've got this great thing please
  1548. 47:29apply it's great and then when you get
  1549. 47:31more advanced you start head hunting uh
  1550. 47:33and you start looking for people who are
  1551. 47:36really good at that thing and these are
  1552. 47:39typically in my experience these are the
  1553. 47:41highest value uh and the hardest but
  1554. 47:44it's just like it's just like the sales
  1555. 47:45that you made with apple it's like these
  1556. 47:47people sometimes it takes 2 three years
  1557. 47:49to get that one killer on your team but
  1558. 47:51that person can just build an entire
  1559. 47:53division or anire department and just
  1560. 47:55continue to scale and so it's basically
  1561. 47:56taking the same concept that you have
  1562. 47:58with advertising at customers and
  1563. 48:00applying it to employees now I have a a
  1564. 48:04little another framework if you're good
  1565. 48:06with it yeah um so you've got lead gen
  1566. 48:09how you get uh how you get customers
  1567. 48:11right and then you've got
  1568. 48:13nurture you've got
  1569. 48:14sales and you've got
  1570. 48:16onboarding and then you've got uh
  1571. 48:19retention SL oops SL ascension all right
  1572. 48:21so they you retain them and you upsell
  1573. 48:23them okay cool everyone a lot of people
  1574. 48:24at least in business understand this
  1575. 48:26pipeline but they don't know that they
  1576. 48:28already have all the skills just like
  1577. 48:29all the things that you do to currently
  1578. 48:30cut customers you already have the
  1579. 48:31skills to advertise to get people to
  1580. 48:33help you out and so then all this is is
  1581. 48:35just application generation which you
  1582. 48:37use the same core 4 that we just went
  1583. 48:39through nurtur is the same is that you
  1584. 48:41should be nurturing so fun facts SOA
  1585. 48:43might have shared it yesterday but like
  1586. 48:45a candidates take on average eight days
  1587. 48:47to find a job and B candidates and Below
  1588. 48:49take 30 days plus and so if your process
  1589. 48:52of getting someone from the first uh
  1590. 48:54engagement to getting higher takes
  1591. 48:55longer than that then you're by
  1592. 48:57definition getting B players and Below
  1593. 49:00now I'll say my only exception to that
  1594. 49:01is if you're hiring C Level and up it
  1595. 49:02just takes a very long time but you want
  1596. 49:04to make sure that the communication
  1597. 49:05still rapid between those things they
  1598. 49:06probably make a decision quite quickly
  1599. 49:07they might have a notice period That's
  1600. 49:08longer but they might still make a quick
  1601. 49:09decision and so the application nurture
  1602. 49:12here is that like a lot of smaller
  1603. 49:13businesses like they should they should
  1604. 49:15be honored to work for me they should
  1605. 49:17they should be calling me I'm going to
  1606. 49:18put a 100 steps of friction it's like
  1607. 49:20well okay you're just going to get fewer
  1608. 49:21applicants well like you say a a won't
  1609. 49:25get a players you get players they just
  1610. 49:26want to deal with it and so sales this
  1611. 49:28is the interview and so a lot of people
  1612. 49:30are like well tell me why you should
  1613. 49:31work for me that really only works for
  1614. 49:33low-level individual people at a certain
  1615. 49:34level you're selling them just as much
  1616. 49:36on why they should work for you as they
  1617. 49:38are on on them and that's that comes
  1618. 49:40with talent because the higher the level
  1619. 49:41of the talent the more options they have
  1620. 49:43they don't I'm not I know you know but
  1621. 49:44I'm just saying it's so it's it's so
  1622. 49:46this thing I don't I don't want people
  1623. 49:47to miss it because a lot of people don't
  1624. 49:48understand when they're recruiting
  1625. 49:49they're selling and and I work
  1626. 49:51personally so hard to get good people
  1627. 49:53like it's the hardest job people don't
  1628. 49:56apply sales process to it the they sit
  1629. 49:58back and say well tell me where you
  1630. 49:59going to be in 5 years or while you're
  1631. 50:00good for my company and people just
  1632. 50:01don't give a [ __ ] good people be like
  1633. 50:03well you why why should I be here yeah
  1634. 50:04yeah right why should I spend my next
  1635. 50:06five years here totally and onboarding
  1636. 50:08is the same you onboard employees the
  1637. 50:09same way after someone takes the job
  1638. 50:11they accept the offer they sign the
  1639. 50:12paper workk it's like great now we have
  1640. 50:13the onboarding here's all the passwords
  1641. 50:15this is what it's going to look like and
  1642. 50:17typically people do I think people do
  1643. 50:19this backwards which is they basically
  1644. 50:21bring people on and say good luck uh
  1645. 50:24whereas the basically the more work you
  1646. 50:25do up front the less work is required
  1647. 50:28over time in order to get someone to be
  1648. 50:29proficient at whatever their work is you
  1649. 50:30do a big onboarding we're super big on
  1650. 50:32onboarding anything particularly on
  1651. 50:33onboarding you think really useful
  1652. 50:36honestly it's just a lot of touch bases
  1653. 50:38I mean the first two weeks they're
  1654. 50:39probably like managers usually meet
  1655. 50:40twice a day you know with uh with with
  1656. 50:43new hires just to say like okay what are
  1657. 50:45you going to do today at the end of the
  1658. 50:46day it's like how to go tell me about
  1659. 50:47the conversations you had and usually
  1660. 50:49especially it depends on what level of
  1661. 50:50you know person's coming in anybody
  1662. 50:52who's maybe director leveling up they're
  1663. 50:54going to they're going to talk to all
  1664. 50:55the directors across the Departments
  1665. 50:56they kind of Shadow a lot of people CU
  1666. 50:57we want them to get a very good idea of
  1667. 50:59a holistic understanding of the business
  1668. 51:00so they can understand where where and
  1669. 51:03why their work makes a big impact and
  1670. 51:05then finally you have the exact same
  1671. 51:07thing which is retention and Ascension
  1672. 51:08which is how do I keep good talent and
  1673. 51:09then what's my career path um for them
  1674. 51:13so they can see their vision of what
  1675. 51:16it's going to look like in 5 years it's
  1676. 51:18like listen we're bringing you in a
  1677. 51:19director but longterm we'd love to have
  1678. 51:20you as a cro or a VP of this whole
  1679. 51:23division or something like that and this
  1680. 51:24is these are the requirements this is
  1681. 51:26what you would have to do in order to
  1682. 51:27move up there and again we try to we try
  1683. 51:29and Define things by behaviors so if
  1684. 51:31you're doing all of these activities
  1685. 51:33then you will by definition be this role
  1686. 51:35and so our way of promoting at least at
  1687. 51:36acac.com is we want people to just start
  1688. 51:39doing the role and then the title feels
  1689. 51:42obvious rather than hey I want that
  1690. 51:44title okay here's the plan I'd rather
  1691. 51:46you just go do the next role and then
  1692. 51:48everyone's like well yeah he he deserves
  1693. 51:50the title like so everybody else is
  1694. 51:51already bought in cuz you're already
  1695. 51:52doing the job anyways and I think it's
  1696. 51:53the one of the the biggest hacks at
  1697. 51:55least for those of you who are who are
  1698. 51:56employees at a company one of the best
  1699. 51:58ways to move up theya said yesterday
  1700. 51:59which I absolutely love was growth yeah
  1701. 52:01give people a chance to grow cuz that
  1702. 52:03will keep them everybody I've ever lost
  1703. 52:05in past companies has been because I
  1704. 52:07didn't have a thing they could do next
  1705. 52:08yeah so this is brilliant framework okay
  1706. 52:11keep your advantage all right how would
  1707. 52:14you keep the advantage well I mean I I I
  1708. 52:16think for people is always a key part
  1709. 52:18right it depends on the business if it's
  1710. 52:20a service business you like if it's a
  1711. 52:22creative agency business the people
  1712. 52:24literally keep the client if if so
  1713. 52:26that's that's one way so you have to
  1714. 52:27keep recruiting probably never ending
  1715. 52:29most CEOs are permanently recruiting
  1716. 52:31that that's the main job right to keep
  1717. 52:33Advantage I I personally think these
  1718. 52:35days it's like well if you're not
  1719. 52:37building a personal brand you're going
  1720. 52:39to lose yeah I actually think the brand
  1721. 52:40piece is actually this I think the
  1722. 52:42keeping your advantage is the brand and
  1723. 52:44so if we think about the brand as a
  1724. 52:46virtuous cycle right and so I kind of
  1725. 52:49think about it like this which is if we
  1726. 52:51have different levels of communication
  1727. 52:53so this is you a about you so you say
  1728. 52:58we're great and people some people might
  1729. 53:00believe you some people might not so
  1730. 53:01let's just say you go and watch you know
  1731. 53:03Godzilla the movie or you know you see
  1732. 53:05an ad for Godzilla you say okay you know
  1733. 53:08it looks decent maybe I'll go see it
  1734. 53:10whatever then it's your friends so your
  1735. 53:14your friend John sees it and he says oh
  1736. 53:16it was a great movie or oh it was a
  1737. 53:18terrible movie this is going to weigh
  1738. 53:19way more than whatever they said about
  1739. 53:22themselves and then finally it's just
  1740. 53:24you say so you go see the movie and you
  1741. 53:28have a good experience or a bad
  1742. 53:29experience and so what happens is that
  1743. 53:31this person then becomes the friend for
  1744. 53:33other people and either perpetuates the
  1745. 53:35cycle of advertising uh for the business
  1746. 53:37and this is what reinforces brand and so
  1747. 53:39at the end of the day we can make
  1748. 53:42whatever you know we can we can have the
  1749. 53:44most brilliant advertising campaign of
  1750. 53:45all time the best associations the best
  1751. 53:47celebrity endorsements but if as soon as
  1752. 53:49people try the food or they try the
  1753. 53:50product they wear the shoes if it's not
  1754. 53:52good it doesn't matter it like it
  1755. 53:54doesn't matter how good all of that
  1756. 53:56stuff is is is that you have to keep the
  1757. 53:58edge and I think that's where the the
  1758. 53:59connection between the brand so it's
  1759. 54:01like the brand makes a promise That
  1760. 54:03Remains the Same more or less but the
  1761. 54:05way to keep the promise changes and so
  1762. 54:07it's like we want to be the so if Apple
  1763. 54:09says we're going to have Elegant you
  1764. 54:10know products that are welld designed
  1765. 54:12blah blah blah okay that promise has
  1766. 54:14remained the same for many years but the
  1767. 54:16way they execute on that promise has to
  1768. 54:18change right because technology changes
  1769. 54:21there's new advancements in foam so the
  1770. 54:22shoes become lighter they become better
  1771. 54:24fitting and so um from an R&D
  1772. 54:27perspective what we did uh was that we
  1773. 54:29we actually had a r& R&D department at
  1774. 54:31um at gym launch the the company that we
  1775. 54:33sold um and what we did was I said okay
  1776. 54:36here's here's your budget and I want you
  1777. 54:38to spend this money no matter what every
  1778. 54:40month and I just want you to spend it on
  1779. 54:42solving our customers's biggest problem
  1780. 54:44so every month you're going to give me a
  1781. 54:45list of all the problems that they that
  1782. 54:46they're saying they have and I want you
  1783. 54:48to try and wait them is how big is the
  1784. 54:49problem and how many of them are
  1785. 54:50suffering from the problem and so we use
  1786. 54:52a little format which is you might have
  1787. 54:55seen this one before
  1788. 54:58which is um let's see you've got
  1789. 55:03impact got the
  1790. 55:06expense you've got the the number of
  1791. 55:08times I can't remember what the r
  1792. 55:10is and then you've got confidence this
  1793. 55:12is reach there
  1794. 55:14reach and then you've got confidence and
  1795. 55:17so basically with the product it's like
  1796. 55:19how many people are suffering from this
  1797. 55:21thing how much are they suffering How
  1798. 55:24likely is this solution uh going to to
  1799. 55:26solve the problem and then how much does
  1800. 55:28it cost us to do it and so with that we
  1801. 55:30can basically create a power ranking of
  1802. 55:32okay this thing is impacting a lot of
  1803. 55:34these people so this is a high high high
  1804. 55:36priority issue but we don't have any
  1805. 55:38solutions that we're actually really
  1806. 55:39confident about we've got a solution
  1807. 55:41that we're really confident about but
  1808. 55:42it's really expensive right and so this
  1809. 55:45is where you basically Factor all four
  1810. 55:46of these things in into your Innovation
  1811. 55:49cycle so you say okay this is how we
  1812. 55:51strategically prioritize uh our
  1813. 55:53resources to get the best returns and so
  1814. 55:56if we think about what strategy is
  1815. 55:59strategy okay so a lot of people use
  1816. 56:01this word and no one really defines what
  1817. 56:03it means and so I'm going to Define two
  1818. 56:05words for the audience that I think will
  1819. 56:07will make a lot of sense so strategy is
  1820. 56:10just
  1821. 56:12prioritization of
  1822. 56:16resources so when people are like man I
  1823. 56:19really need a strategy it's like dude it
  1824. 56:21just means what are my priorities that's
  1825. 56:22all it is and so if we think about the
  1826. 56:24universe as having Unlimited things that
  1827. 56:26we could do but we have limited
  1828. 56:28resources time money energy effort then
  1829. 56:31the people who get the furthest in life
  1830. 56:32are the ones who are the best at
  1831. 56:33allocating those resources to get the
  1832. 56:35most bang for the buck and fundamentally
  1833. 56:37that's what the best strategists are
  1834. 56:38it's just this big amorphous word that
  1835. 56:39people Define in all sorts of ways but
  1836. 56:41that's all it is and so then it's like
  1837. 56:43okay well if I'm going to prioritize my
  1838. 56:44resources I want to prioritize my
  1839. 56:46resources in a way that that provides
  1840. 56:48the most value and so for customers um I
  1841. 56:51see value as this value equation which I
  1842. 56:53taught in the um $100 million offers
  1843. 56:55book which is I see there's four
  1844. 56:57variables to Value you've got the dream
  1845. 57:00outcome like is the thing the thing they
  1846. 57:01want the need thing that you're
  1847. 57:03referencing earlier we've got perceived
  1848. 57:04likelihood of achievement which is if I
  1849. 57:06buy this thing How likely is it that I'm
  1850. 57:08actually going to get what I want and
  1851. 57:10this is actually the the last one that I
  1852. 57:11added to this because I was like there
  1853. 57:12was another thing that felt like it was
  1854. 57:13missing you've got time delay which is
  1855. 57:16how long is it going to take between
  1856. 57:17when I buy and when I get and then I've
  1857. 57:20got
  1858. 57:21sacrifice and effort so uh they're two
  1859. 57:24sides of the same coin
  1860. 57:27effort is what are the things that I
  1861. 57:29have to start doing as a result of this
  1862. 57:30purchase that I don't want to do and
  1863. 57:32what are the sacrifices what are the
  1864. 57:33things I'm going to have to stop doing
  1865. 57:35that I wish I could keep doing and so
  1866. 57:37fundamentally the goal here is you want
  1867. 57:39to increase the the dream outcome as
  1868. 57:40much as humanly possible and increase
  1869. 57:41their perceived likelihood and you want
  1870. 57:43to decrease the time delay and decrease
  1871. 57:45the effort in sacrifice and so in a
  1872. 57:46perfect world you'd have something that
  1873. 57:48they click a button they get their dream
  1874. 57:49outcome absolutely guaranteed
  1875. 57:51immediately by doing nothing and if you
  1876. 57:53had that you'd have an infinitely
  1877. 57:54valuable product if you think about like
  1878. 57:56hey uh buy a six-pack if someone could
  1879. 57:58just simply click a button and then all
  1880. 58:00of a sudden they could pull their shirt
  1881. 58:01up and they would have a press that
  1882. 58:02button right now of course so many
  1883. 58:04people would and so think and then
  1884. 58:05because of that we'd be able to charge a
  1885. 58:07tremendous amount of money and so by
  1886. 58:09thinking through this these these things
  1887. 58:11in my opinion will never change people
  1888. 58:13will always want things to be faster
  1889. 58:14people always want to do less for them
  1890. 58:15they will always want to have less risk
  1891. 58:17or a higher perceived like of
  1892. 58:18achievement and they want to make sure
  1893. 58:19the thing is actually what they want and
  1894. 58:21so um I obvious you know I use Fitness
  1895. 58:24examples a lot because a lot of people
  1896. 58:25understand it but it's like okay let's
  1897. 58:27say that someone wants to uh lose weight
  1898. 58:29okay that's the dream outcome well then
  1899. 58:32why is it that uh a PDF is $5 about how
  1900. 58:35to lose weight and Libo section is 50
  1901. 58:38Grand well the other three variables so
  1902. 58:41if I think about the PDF if I if I buy a
  1903. 58:43$5 PDF when I make the purchase do I
  1904. 58:45really believe that I'm immediately
  1905. 58:46going to lose weight probably not and so
  1906. 58:48there's a huge discount that I'm going
  1907. 58:49to put on the value of the PDF because I
  1908. 58:51don't think I'm really going to do
  1909. 58:51anything with it whereas lipo section if
  1910. 58:53I pay it I they're going to put me to
  1911. 58:55sleep they're going to rip this fat out
  1912. 58:56like so the perceived lik of achievement
  1913. 58:57significantly higher on the liposuction
  1914. 58:59for time delay it's like okay this one I
  1915. 59:02might have to work out for a year in
  1916. 59:03order to see the results the lipos
  1917. 59:05suction I go to sleep I wake up I'm thin
  1918. 59:08much faster and then effort and
  1919. 59:10sacrifice well I'm going to have to
  1920. 59:12sacrifice uh you know taco Tuesdays
  1921. 59:14nights out with the girls uh I'm going
  1922. 59:16I'm going to have to sacrifice sleeping
  1923. 59:18in I can't do that anymore sacrifice my
  1924. 59:20weekends uh and the effort is I now have
  1925. 59:22to wake up early I have to eat food that
  1926. 59:24I don't like I'm going to have to be
  1927. 59:24sore I'm going to have to feel stupid
  1928. 59:26because I don't know how to exercise
  1929. 59:27it's like there's a lot of cost with
  1930. 59:29that compared to you just wake up and
  1931. 59:31you didn't do anything and so for that
  1932. 59:33reason one thing's $5 the other thing's
  1933. 59:3550 Grand and so if we think through that
  1934. 59:37like there's many different things that
  1935. 59:38solve losing weight making more money
  1936. 59:41you know getting more leads there's a
  1937. 59:42ton of different things but if you want
  1938. 59:44to make sure that your thing's more
  1939. 59:45valuable you want to decrease the risk
  1940. 59:47which is increase perceived likelihood
  1941. 59:48you want to make it faster decrease the
  1942. 59:49time and you to make it easier this
  1943. 59:51framework works so well a case study
  1944. 59:52like Blockbusters you know it didn't
  1945. 59:54keep their advantage because because
  1946. 59:56people wanted it quicker they could
  1947. 59:57going to Netflix originally it was
  1948. 59:59getting posted to them Blockbusters
  1949. 1:00:00didn't think people wanted posted they
  1950. 1:00:02thought it was more convenient for
  1951. 1:00:02people to go to a store and buy it and
  1952. 1:00:05so there was a less time delay there's
  1953. 1:00:06no less sacrifice just press a button at
  1954. 1:00:08home they people don't keep their
  1955. 1:00:09advantage they die like BL Blockbusters
  1956. 1:00:11do so youve got to keep thinking about
  1957. 1:00:13how you can make this this is a
  1958. 1:00:14brilliant equation by way I'm glad you
  1959. 1:00:16went a bit deep on it because I think a
  1960. 1:00:17lot of people just just talk about this
  1961. 1:00:18Top Line as you say they don't think
  1962. 1:00:19about the time delay and they don't
  1963. 1:00:20think about the sacrifice element it's
  1964. 1:00:22so funny you say that because the first
  1965. 1:00:23the first half of my career all I
  1966. 1:00:26thought about was was this all I would
  1967. 1:00:29do to me was this was
  1968. 1:00:31promise and this is proof mhm so all I
  1969. 1:00:34did was I had bigger promises more proof
  1970. 1:00:36bigger promises more proof but if I look
  1971. 1:00:38at the the biggest companies in the
  1972. 1:00:39world all they focus on is this Amazon's
  1973. 1:00:42like how do I make it easier how do I
  1974. 1:00:43make it faster how do I make it how do I
  1975. 1:00:45make it less effort for the person and
  1976. 1:00:47this part is usually where all of the
  1977. 1:00:49operational effort goes in this is all
  1978. 1:00:51the marketing and sales totally plus
  1979. 1:00:53this promise if you make it too big you
  1980. 1:00:54damage your brand this is why this all
  1981. 1:00:56links together cuz if if you're not
  1982. 1:00:58careful you you want to get the big sale
  1983. 1:01:00and you sell something you haven't
  1984. 1:01:01actually got and then you're in real
  1985. 1:01:03trouble right next stick with it stick
  1986. 1:01:05with it right this is a good one most of
  1987. 1:01:08the best things in life happen um so we
  1988. 1:01:10have this we have this little
  1989. 1:01:12orientation that we take our sales guys
  1990. 1:01:14through and so um we show this line and
  1991. 1:01:18we say okay so this is you today and
  1992. 1:01:21this is you uh you know later and so
  1993. 1:01:24this is your skill as a salesperson and
  1994. 1:01:27so this might be you know 2 weeks in and
  1995. 1:01:30this might be you know 2 months in and
  1996. 1:01:34this might be you know 6 months in and
  1997. 1:01:36so you're like 6 months I'm almost I'm
  1998. 1:01:38almost at the top it's like yeah well
  1999. 1:01:40let's let's move this up a little bit my
  2000. 1:01:42my drawing's a little broken and let's
  2001. 1:01:43say this is three
  2002. 1:01:45years so you're like I'm only going to
  2003. 1:01:47make this tiny bit of tiny bit of
  2004. 1:01:49improvement between 6 months and 3 years
  2005. 1:01:52yeah and the thing is though is that
  2006. 1:01:54your income is going to look like this
  2007. 1:01:56yeah and so it's going to basically not
  2008. 1:01:59change much at all and then at the very
  2009. 1:02:01end is where you're going to get because
  2010. 1:02:03this little difference the difference
  2011. 1:02:05between number two in the world and
  2012. 1:02:07number one practically for running is a
  2013. 1:02:09tenth of a second but the difference
  2014. 1:02:11between number one in the world and
  2015. 1:02:12number two is everything and so all of
  2016. 1:02:15the best gains come at the very end of
  2017. 1:02:17the compounding it comes from the very
  2018. 1:02:18deep knowledge that only comes from
  2019. 1:02:20repeating many failures in a very narrow
  2020. 1:02:22field and so that's actually one of my
  2021. 1:02:23favorite definitions for an expert so
  2022. 1:02:26who's uh who's made more mistakes than
  2023. 1:02:28anyone else in a very narrow field so
  2024. 1:02:30how do people stick with it though
  2025. 1:02:31because I mean social media is a great
  2026. 1:02:33example first three years I did social
  2027. 1:02:35media I made no money and it probably
  2028. 1:02:36cost me a million pounds yeah so it's
  2029. 1:02:38only in the last year and a half I've
  2030. 1:02:39actually started to be a to make money
  2031. 1:02:40and be able to pay the team and all the
  2032. 1:02:41rest of it so I I I look at it as a
  2033. 1:02:44purpose thing right I'm trying to fix
  2034. 1:02:45the education system it's broken it
  2035. 1:02:46should be teaching the skills that you
  2036. 1:02:48and I trying to get people for free how
  2037. 1:02:50do people stick with it what do you
  2038. 1:02:51think is the formula there so I'm going
  2039. 1:02:53to I'm going to go back to something
  2040. 1:02:54that I said at the very beginning so if
  2041. 1:02:58motivation is
  2042. 1:03:01equal to deprivation you need to feel
  2043. 1:03:03deprived of of something and so in the
  2044. 1:03:07examples I gave so you know if you're
  2045. 1:03:08starving you're hungry if you're sleepy
  2046. 1:03:10you if you're if you're if you're
  2047. 1:03:12exhausted You're motivated to sleep but
  2048. 1:03:14money doesn't work the same way because
  2049. 1:03:16if you take that that logical extreme
  2050. 1:03:18you say okay well then all poor people
  2051. 1:03:19should be more motivated to make money
  2052. 1:03:20than anything and the reality is they're
  2053. 1:03:22not so why is that so because all the
  2054. 1:03:25ones that I first at are all
  2055. 1:03:26physiological needs the other one is
  2056. 1:03:29completely made up money is only a new I
  2057. 1:03:30mean in terms of humanity it's a very
  2058. 1:03:32new thing right and so it's a
  2059. 1:03:34psychological construct and so the idea
  2060. 1:03:37is that the deprivation actually is
  2061. 1:03:39completely made in our own minds and so
  2062. 1:03:42um you know Harvard at least did this
  2063. 1:03:44did this study which is they talk about
  2064. 1:03:45your reference group which
  2065. 1:03:48is the biggest predictor of people's
  2066. 1:03:50long-term um Financial wellbeing is
  2067. 1:03:52their reference group which is and this
  2068. 1:03:54is important is that it's the five
  2069. 1:03:55people people you compare yourself to
  2070. 1:03:58not The Five People You spend the most
  2071. 1:03:59time with and I think that's a huge a
  2072. 1:04:01huge difference and so um I had this
  2073. 1:04:04little this little tweet that kind of
  2074. 1:04:06went like viral or whatever but you want
  2075. 1:04:08to take advice not from the people who
  2076. 1:04:11are closest to you but the people who
  2077. 1:04:12are closest to your goals take advice
  2078. 1:04:14from them and people are like oh yeah
  2079. 1:04:16I'll take advice from them but when
  2080. 1:04:17you're about to make a big life-changing
  2081. 1:04:19decision who do you talk to if you're
  2082. 1:04:21talking to the people closest to you
  2083. 1:04:23none of them have relevant experience
  2084. 1:04:24and if you don't want their lives then
  2085. 1:04:27definitely don't listen to what they say
  2086. 1:04:28right and it's very hard because that's
  2087. 1:04:29what makes it feel so lonely I think in
  2088. 1:04:31the beginning because you have no one to
  2089. 1:04:32talk to and so that's why I'm such a big
  2090. 1:04:34believer in Heroes uh Heroes and mentors
  2091. 1:04:36so mentors are people who actually
  2092. 1:04:37interact with you but heroes are just
  2093. 1:04:38like what would Warren Buffett do you
  2094. 1:04:40know some people are religious what
  2095. 1:04:41would Jesus do whatever your thing is
  2096. 1:04:43right like who's that who's that ideal
  2097. 1:04:44and sometimes you know one of my friends
  2098. 1:04:45is like what do the ideal version of me
  2099. 1:04:47do what's the person I want to become do
  2100. 1:04:49and all of is again around
  2101. 1:04:51doing because if I do those things like
  2102. 1:04:53I might not be a patient person but if I
  2103. 1:04:55to be patient for 5 years people start
  2104. 1:04:57calling me patient I might actually be
  2105. 1:04:58patient because all I did was patient
  2106. 1:04:59things even though I don't feel patient
  2107. 1:05:01right and so it's like we can change
  2108. 1:05:02basically how we
  2109. 1:05:04feel and what we do don't need to be
  2110. 1:05:08connected at all so you can feel
  2111. 1:05:10horrible and still do things and be kind
  2112. 1:05:12and people like you can feel like a very
  2113. 1:05:15nasty person because of the things that
  2114. 1:05:16you think and the things that you want
  2115. 1:05:17to do but as long as you don't do them
  2116. 1:05:20then the only thing the world will ever
  2117. 1:05:21judge you on at least the only thing
  2118. 1:05:22that I would ever judge you on is what
  2119. 1:05:23you do and so it's like okay a
  2120. 1:05:26deprivation so back to this so in my
  2121. 1:05:28opinion I've always struggled with this
  2122. 1:05:30question the most because it's never
  2123. 1:05:32been an issue for me and I think and
  2124. 1:05:34that's and that's why it's one of the
  2125. 1:05:35hardest things that I have to translate
  2126. 1:05:36to somebody else so everything that I
  2127. 1:05:38have is more around how do I translate
  2128. 1:05:40how I see it more than this was the
  2129. 1:05:42series of steps I followed to become
  2130. 1:05:44motivated I was so afraid of failing and
  2131. 1:05:47being this deprived right I was so
  2132. 1:05:49deprived of respect or at least how I
  2133. 1:05:51perceived it not continuing was just
  2134. 1:05:53never a choice and I always used to
  2135. 1:05:55think when when I was like the earliest
  2136. 1:05:56days of the gym was really tough for me
  2137. 1:05:57I was sleeping on the floor all the
  2138. 1:05:59whole the whole the whole story right
  2139. 1:06:01and and it sounds it sounds cool in
  2140. 1:06:03retrospect but when it's like you're
  2141. 1:06:05sleeping on the floor of a gym because
  2142. 1:06:06you can't afford two places and you know
  2143. 1:06:08you've got kids the same age as you who
  2144. 1:06:09are partying on the rooftop of your gym
  2145. 1:06:11because I it was below parking garage is
  2146. 1:06:12where my gy was so a parking garage
  2147. 1:06:14people with like these cars would drive
  2148. 1:06:15over the top like and it was it was
  2149. 1:06:17Concrete in metal so it just it sounded
  2150. 1:06:18like a gunshot and it would happen all
  2151. 1:06:20night long so I couldn't sleep but I'd
  2152. 1:06:21have to wake up at 4:00 to teach the
  2153. 1:06:224:30 class and I taught all the classes
  2154. 1:06:24so I take eight classes a day
  2155. 1:06:26but then I also ran the whole business I
  2156. 1:06:27had zero employees so I did all the
  2157. 1:06:29billing I cleaned it I fixed the
  2158. 1:06:30equipment I marketed and got leads I did
  2159. 1:06:32everything I didn't know that employees
  2160. 1:06:34were a thing that's why I have it as one
  2161. 1:06:35of the steps I had no idea and so the
  2162. 1:06:37thing is is that whenever it would be
  2163. 1:06:38really hard for me um I would I would
  2164. 1:06:41always think to myself as long as I
  2165. 1:06:43don't quit I win mhm and so like if I
  2166. 1:06:46just keep going I just have to survive
  2167. 1:06:48and so just kind of approaching it from
  2168. 1:06:51that perspective because the the more
  2169. 1:06:52painful thing was the idea of going home
  2170. 1:06:54a failure and I just couldn't do it I
  2171. 1:06:55was like I would rather die and I think
  2172. 1:06:57thinking through like past human
  2173. 1:06:59experiences which is okay across all the
  2174. 1:07:02globe slavery has happened everywhere
  2175. 1:07:05and slaves for their entire lives for
  2176. 1:07:07thousands of years had to work all day
  2177. 1:07:11every day and they had no opportunity
  2178. 1:07:13they had to work all day every day but
  2179. 1:07:14there was no upside they just had to
  2180. 1:07:15work all day every day or they die or
  2181. 1:07:17get killed or whatever and so I was like
  2182. 1:07:19if they can do it with no upside I can
  2183. 1:07:21absolutely do it with the chance uh that
  2184. 1:07:24I can win and I think seeing business as
  2185. 1:07:26an infinite game is what was a huge
  2186. 1:07:29perspective shift for me which was the
  2187. 1:07:31there is no number one in business and
  2188. 1:07:33this was something that was like really
  2189. 1:07:35like it's for anybody who's listening to
  2190. 1:07:36this I think it's powerful to understand
  2191. 1:07:38is if I were to say hey who was who is
  2192. 1:07:40the richest man in the world 30 years
  2193. 1:07:41ago there a couple Japanese guys because
  2194. 1:07:43the Japanese economy was booming at that
  2195. 1:07:45time now no one even knows who they are
  2196. 1:07:47and that was just 30 years forget 500
  2197. 1:07:49years and so the thing is is the number
  2198. 1:07:50one guy in the world at business if you
  2199. 1:07:52want to measure it by net worth which
  2200. 1:07:53whatever but even if you did it's like
  2201. 1:07:55that guy just touches the top for a
  2202. 1:07:58decade and then someone else touches the
  2203. 1:08:00top MH and so when we say I want to I
  2204. 1:08:03want to be successful success is about
  2205. 1:08:05sticking with it and so the only way
  2206. 1:08:07that you become a failure in business is
  2207. 1:08:08by stopping MH and so all the infinite
  2208. 1:08:11games like all the games worth playing
  2209. 1:08:12in life in my opinion are all infinite
  2210. 1:08:14so it's not about it's not about getting
  2211. 1:08:15married it's about staying married it's
  2212. 1:08:17not about getting in shape it's about
  2213. 1:08:18staying in shape it's not about starting
  2214. 1:08:19a business it's about staying in
  2215. 1:08:21business and the only thing that gets
  2216. 1:08:22you out of business is you choosing to
  2217. 1:08:24stop and I think that's a very powerful
  2218. 1:08:26frame because it puts it 100% in your
  2219. 1:08:27control and so as long as you keep
  2220. 1:08:28trying you're still in business and I
  2221. 1:08:30think a lot of people give up so much
  2222. 1:08:32they they give up just on the idea of a
  2223. 1:08:34negative comment or some Snider remark
  2224. 1:08:36from a friend of theirs or you know
  2225. 1:08:38their their dad or their brothers you
  2226. 1:08:40know makes them trying to feel stupid
  2227. 1:08:41for for taking a risk that they were
  2228. 1:08:43unwilling to take and I think that's
  2229. 1:08:44[ __ ] and so anyways motivation comes
  2230. 1:08:47from deprivation and so at least my
  2231. 1:08:49number one rule for entrepreneurship is
  2232. 1:08:51use
  2233. 1:08:53what you've
  2234. 1:08:57God and so a lot of times there's
  2235. 1:08:59there's a lot of Social Media stuff I
  2236. 1:09:01don't think there's anything wrong with
  2237. 1:09:01it that talks about like find your
  2238. 1:09:03passion find your purpose find the thing
  2239. 1:09:05that you love and I think that's great
  2240. 1:09:07but when if I were to go back in time I
  2241. 1:09:10can say that now from this lovely you
  2242. 1:09:12know position that I have but when I
  2243. 1:09:14started you know my first business I
  2244. 1:09:17wasn't doing it because it was something
  2245. 1:09:19I was passionate about it was not it was
  2246. 1:09:21not this like sunshine and rainbows it
  2247. 1:09:23was miserable and I had a lot of Shame
  2248. 1:09:26and had a lot of anger and so I didn't
  2249. 1:09:29feel any of the Butterflies but that's
  2250. 1:09:31what I had and so it's like I think you
  2251. 1:09:33just use what you got and if you need
  2252. 1:09:35shame to get you going if you need if
  2253. 1:09:37you need anger to get you going then you
  2254. 1:09:39can that fuel can change over time but
  2255. 1:09:41wishing you had a different fuel I think
  2256. 1:09:43is what gets people in trouble I think
  2257. 1:09:44that's what that's what stops a lot of
  2258. 1:09:46people like I should feel it's like you
  2259. 1:09:47should nothing like should just just
  2260. 1:09:49shouldn't exist it's just what do you
  2261. 1:09:52have and what are you going to do and
  2262. 1:09:55I'll say the last piece
  2263. 1:09:57is they're
  2264. 1:10:01trade-offs and I think being able to
  2265. 1:10:03name the price of the things that you
  2266. 1:10:05want is super valuable yeah which is
  2267. 1:10:07like you know the the cost of of of Fame
  2268. 1:10:11for example is privacy you don't get
  2269. 1:10:13that anymore and the cost of you
  2270. 1:10:16starting a business is for you know for
  2271. 1:10:18me it was like I stopped being able to
  2272. 1:10:20follow the the football team that I used
  2273. 1:10:21to follow I stopped being in fantasy
  2274. 1:10:23Leagues with my friends I stopped being
  2275. 1:10:25able to go out to you know the bar and
  2276. 1:10:26drink and things like that so there was
  2277. 1:10:28a cost and so the thing was just like am
  2278. 1:10:30I willing to pay that or trade that for
  2279. 1:10:32this thing that I want most and I think
  2280. 1:10:34for some people maybe you don't want
  2281. 1:10:37that M and I think the thing is is like
  2282. 1:10:39and that's okay but I think the problem
  2283. 1:10:41is where you you want you want to have
  2284. 1:10:43your cake and eat it too yeah I want to
  2285. 1:10:44have the sixpack but I also want to have
  2286. 1:10:46cake I want to you know I want to I want
  2287. 1:10:48to you have to and you
  2288. 1:10:50go got to learn how to play the game uh
  2289. 1:10:54but it's it's that it's it's people
  2290. 1:10:56aren't willing to make the trade and I
  2291. 1:10:57think that just comes down to the very
  2292. 1:10:58bottom of everything like when I wanted
  2293. 1:11:00to you there was a period where I wanted
  2294. 1:11:01to get into Harvard's business school
  2295. 1:11:03when I had I'd done two years of
  2296. 1:11:04Consulting and that was what I thought
  2297. 1:11:05was going to be my path but I'm always
  2298. 1:11:07very grateful for them because on one of
  2299. 1:11:08the application questions they had was
  2300. 1:11:10how are Harvard MBA help your short and
  2301. 1:11:12long-term goals and I thought about it
  2302. 1:11:14for like three days and I realized that
  2303. 1:11:16well I wanted to start a business and so
  2304. 1:11:18me start doing another two years of
  2305. 1:11:19school I could just start a business
  2306. 1:11:21like that was this the goal and so I'm
  2307. 1:11:23grateful that they asked me that
  2308. 1:11:24question but before I ended up getting
  2309. 1:11:26to the application I spent four months
  2310. 1:11:28taking um I basically did 10 phone books
  2311. 1:11:31of problems because I read this research
  2312. 1:11:32study on uh on standardized testing
  2313. 1:11:35which said the the score that you get So
  2314. 1:11:37for anybody who has standardized testing
  2315. 1:11:39that they have to do maybe you're a
  2316. 1:11:40Tradesman and you need a certification
  2317. 1:11:41or something it goes like this which is
  2318. 1:11:45uh score so this is
  2319. 1:11:48like
  2320. 1:11:51score number of problems
  2321. 1:11:55so basically it was just a direct
  2322. 1:11:57correlation between the number of
  2323. 1:11:58problems that you did before taking the
  2324. 1:12:00test was directly correlated with your
  2325. 1:12:02score and as soon as I saw that I was
  2326. 1:12:04like oh I'll just do all of the problems
  2327. 1:12:06and so I did 16 like it was it was it
  2328. 1:12:08was huge it was like I it was standing
  2329. 1:12:10on the floor books of problems like the
  2330. 1:12:12really thin Bible paper like really thin
  2331. 1:12:13paper and so I did four hours a day of
  2332. 1:12:15problems for four months it's all I did
  2333. 1:12:17I just did problems and so I got above
  2334. 1:12:19Harvard's mid score and so for me it was
  2335. 1:12:22like this is the only thing that I have
  2336. 1:12:24to do and this is what I care about most
  2337. 1:12:26and so people like how do you stay
  2338. 1:12:27motivated I was like I don't know I just
  2339. 1:12:28didn't have any other choice because the
  2340. 1:12:30alternative is just was something I
  2341. 1:12:31wasn't willing to do and I think a lot
  2342. 1:12:33of people aren't willing to cut things
  2343. 1:12:35like I've been i' say one of the things
  2344. 1:12:37that's been you know blessed with if you
  2345. 1:12:39want to say that is um I'm very willing
  2346. 1:12:41to cut people and things out of my life
  2347. 1:12:44very quickly I think it's healthy to do
  2348. 1:12:46that and so this is my this is my North
  2349. 1:12:48Star question that I would encourage
  2350. 1:12:50people to ask themselves
  2351. 1:12:57does having X in my
  2352. 1:13:02life
  2353. 1:13:05increase the
  2354. 1:13:09chance I hit my
  2355. 1:13:15goal that's my North Star question this
  2356. 1:13:17could look like like it off Twitter but
  2357. 1:13:19I get
  2358. 1:13:20it it's it's it you know uh first of all
  2359. 1:13:23I feel a little bit emotional hearing
  2360. 1:13:24you talk about that I don't know why
  2361. 1:13:26that's triggering something in me um do
  2362. 1:13:28you know what is cuz I I have the same
  2363. 1:13:30problem trying to help people have a
  2364. 1:13:32better life they kind of got to help
  2365. 1:13:33themselves what do you think of this
  2366. 1:13:35like you know I think it's Pablo's cave
  2367. 1:13:37where people get brought a fish in the
  2368. 1:13:39cave every day and it's easier right
  2369. 1:13:41they don't ever leave the cave because
  2370. 1:13:42that's what a salary kind of is the food
  2371. 1:13:44comes to you every day and people have
  2372. 1:13:45forgotten how [ __ ] amazing is to go
  2373. 1:13:47out in the rain with your mates and Hunt
  2374. 1:13:49yeah or or go together and make the food
  2375. 1:13:52and men and women made food men and
  2376. 1:13:53women went out hunting in the old days
  2377. 1:13:55you know like there was no fridge there
  2378. 1:13:57was no get up and eat [ __ ] get up and go
  2379. 1:13:59out and make [ __ ] happen and you know
  2380. 1:14:01what what it is I think that and it's
  2381. 1:14:03absolutely fine with people don't want
  2382. 1:14:04to do it but I don't want people to say
  2383. 1:14:05they can't be an entrepreneur or they
  2384. 1:14:07can't sell I want them to be honest they
  2385. 1:14:08can't be bothered yeah cuz and I think
  2386. 1:14:10the key is and you you describe your
  2387. 1:14:12story I have a similar story I love the
  2388. 1:14:15hunger I have from the deprivation that
  2389. 1:14:18I had the Vikings used to land places
  2390. 1:14:21and burn the boats of got them there
  2391. 1:14:22yeah then they got no [ __ ] choice and
  2392. 1:14:24I think that's what people need to do if
  2393. 1:14:25they really want to do it they need to
  2394. 1:14:27burn the boats that got they can't go
  2395. 1:14:28back to the cushy job the middle class
  2396. 1:14:29life that's it you're in or you're out
  2397. 1:14:31yeah and then like you say you got to
  2398. 1:14:33like figure out what you're going to cut
  2399. 1:14:34out isn't going to give you the goal you
  2400. 1:14:35want so especially in the beginning you
  2401. 1:14:37have limited resources right you have
  2402. 1:14:39limited time because you have no
  2403. 1:14:40leverage you have no one helping you and
  2404. 1:14:41you probably don't have that much money
  2405. 1:14:43and so time is the only thing that you
  2406. 1:14:44have that you really have to be uh
  2407. 1:14:46really careful with and so that's it's
  2408. 1:14:50what are the what are the activities
  2409. 1:14:51does this activity you know like
  2410. 1:14:53drinking for example is this like does
  2411. 1:14:54this does this increase the likelihood
  2412. 1:14:56that hit my goals that's it does it
  2413. 1:14:57increase the lik my goal does does does
  2414. 1:14:59having these friends in my life increase
  2415. 1:15:01the lik that hit my goals and the answer
  2416. 1:15:03is usually pretty obvious it it doesn't
  2417. 1:15:06and then the thing is is that most
  2418. 1:15:07people are again just cowards Y is that
  2419. 1:15:10they're not willing to just make the
  2420. 1:15:12make the cut but I'm pretty sure you
  2421. 1:15:13live the same framework that you did
  2422. 1:15:14when you were younger I act like I've
  2423. 1:15:16got no money like I don't I don't put I
  2424. 1:15:18don't this is Gucci right sure me know
  2425. 1:15:21like I I think people get comfortable as
  2426. 1:15:23they grow as but I think people the
  2427. 1:15:26motivation thing really gets to me cuz
  2428. 1:15:27sticking with it which is the theme
  2429. 1:15:29around this is Al to down to perhaps
  2430. 1:15:32limiting your choices not increasing
  2431. 1:15:33them some people have too many choices
  2432. 1:15:35yeah you know like die on the hill you
  2433. 1:15:38know like go for it and people don't do
  2434. 1:15:40it so okay getting better this is the
  2435. 1:15:42one step before we get a million dollars
  2436. 1:15:44so um I'm looking forward to the U
  2437. 1:15:47million dollar in cash yeah all right
  2438. 1:15:49getting better cuz I I've done all these
  2439. 1:15:50things so I hopefully a big suitcase of
  2440. 1:15:52money is coming my way get better so
  2441. 1:15:55I'll um I'll describe a process that uh
  2442. 1:15:58that I I do and it's all based on action
  2443. 1:16:00so I Define work right
  2444. 1:16:03as
  2445. 1:16:06volume times
  2446. 1:16:09leverage which is how much you do and
  2447. 1:16:12how much you get for each time you do it
  2448. 1:16:14because that equals output which if
  2449. 1:16:17you're looking at this transitive
  2450. 1:16:19property work equals output so it's not
  2451. 1:16:21about how hard you try it's about what
  2452. 1:16:22you get done and if you have more
  2453. 1:16:24leverage
  2454. 1:16:25you get more done now if you do a lot of
  2455. 1:16:27work so I'll give you a simple example
  2456. 1:16:29so if you if you if we're learning sales
  2457. 1:16:31right so if I start cold calling and I
  2458. 1:16:33do 100 calls a day and I have low skill
  2459. 1:16:36then I will have low leverage I'm going
  2460. 1:16:37to get fewer appointments than somebody
  2461. 1:16:38who makes the same amount of calls as me
  2462. 1:16:40and has high skill they'll book five
  2463. 1:16:41times the appointments as I will so did
  2464. 1:16:43they work more in my world yes they had
  2465. 1:16:46higher output and so a lot of times it's
  2466. 1:16:48like you have to learn how to work but
  2467. 1:16:49the thing is is that how did that guy
  2468. 1:16:51who is good get good he did volume he
  2469. 1:16:54did a lot and so then it's like okay if
  2470. 1:16:57this is our equation for output in terms
  2471. 1:16:58of getting better and the getting better
  2472. 1:17:01part is going to be leverag this this is
  2473. 1:17:02a constant you have to do work you have
  2474. 1:17:04to do volume okay so we start with the
  2475. 1:17:06doing which is the
  2476. 1:17:08volume cool so we have that first and so
  2477. 1:17:12whatever it is so let's say it's I want
  2478. 1:17:14to start making uh you know Instagram
  2479. 1:17:16reals fine I want to get good at
  2480. 1:17:17Instagrams so it's like great so I'm
  2481. 1:17:18going to make 100 Instagram
  2482. 1:17:20reals and this is the part that people
  2483. 1:17:23well people people don't even do this
  2484. 1:17:24but let's assume that you did this okay
  2485. 1:17:26so you do the 100 Instagram rails people
  2486. 1:17:28then say well I did 100 and nothing
  2487. 1:17:30happened it's like okay so then what we
  2488. 1:17:32do is we look at our 100 let's say this
  2489. 1:17:34is you know the the the 100 reals that
  2490. 1:17:36we did we
  2491. 1:17:39say what's different about
  2492. 1:17:42these about these top ones these top
  2493. 1:17:44ones did
  2494. 1:17:45better and what's different about these
  2495. 1:17:47singers do this all the time don't they
  2496. 1:17:49they put a music out all the time 60% of
  2497. 1:17:51Adele's songs never went in the top 10
  2498. 1:17:53or something right you know so yeah this
  2499. 1:17:55is that they also do it and so then once
  2500. 1:17:57we figure out and this is where you have
  2501. 1:17:58to this is where you have to uh be as
  2502. 1:18:00detailed as possible and a lot of times
  2503. 1:18:02you'll start having almost superstitions
  2504. 1:18:04it's like okay I coughed at the
  2505. 1:18:05beginning of this call well that was
  2506. 1:18:06different well did all of your top 10
  2507. 1:18:07calls did you cough well no okay then
  2508. 1:18:09disregard that so you run something
  2509. 1:18:11called a common factors analysis which
  2510. 1:18:12is just saying what do all these ones
  2511. 1:18:13have in common what do so like what do
  2512. 1:18:15these ones all have in common with each
  2513. 1:18:17other but that's different than all of
  2514. 1:18:19these ones and so once we do that we say
  2515. 1:18:21okay so my next 100 that I do I want to
  2516. 1:18:25look like this and then all of a sudden
  2517. 1:18:27it's like huh I got 30% better on my
  2518. 1:18:30total views by just doing more of the
  2519. 1:18:32stuff that worked yep and so this
  2520. 1:18:34process you just do for like 10
  2521. 1:18:37years um and you just keep doing it over
  2522. 1:18:40and over again I mean like the first the
  2523. 1:18:41first YouTube You Know video that I did
  2524. 1:18:43I think probably has like you know 100
  2525. 1:18:45views or whatever it was and any for
  2526. 1:18:47anybody who's listening to this like
  2527. 1:18:49Simon had a had had a big business but
  2528. 1:18:52I'm assuming that when you started you
  2529. 1:18:53had zero subscrib when you started your
  2530. 1:18:55account and so did I across all
  2531. 1:18:58platforms and so people have this idea
  2532. 1:18:59that like everyone starts at zero and
  2533. 1:19:02I'll also give you this other kind of
  2534. 1:19:04word of encouragement which is there's
  2535. 1:19:05this there's a huge media narrative
  2536. 1:19:07around the idea that like Millionaires
  2537. 1:19:09and billionaires are evil I don't know
  2538. 1:19:11why but there is and so what's
  2539. 1:19:13interesting about that if you look at
  2540. 1:19:15least in the US statistics are that it's
  2541. 1:19:16over the overwhelming majority of
  2542. 1:19:18millionaires and billionaires are
  2543. 1:19:19self-made not inherited and so it's like
  2544. 1:19:22okay wait if the majority of them are
  2545. 1:19:24self-made then that means they all
  2546. 1:19:26started at zero mhm and so they had the
  2547. 1:19:29same thing so let's say they didn't have
  2548. 1:19:31a lot of money actually think having
  2549. 1:19:32zero starting at zero is a competitive
  2550. 1:19:34Advantage oh yeah we have nothing to
  2551. 1:19:35lose yeah exactly anyone with zero you
  2552. 1:19:37think you don't realize that you've got
  2553. 1:19:39an advantage so you have no money and
  2554. 1:19:41all you have is time mhm and that means
  2555. 1:19:43that you're in the exact same
  2556. 1:19:46position as every
  2557. 1:19:49self-made
  2558. 1:19:51millionaire and billionaire when they
  2559. 1:19:55started and the only difference is that
  2560. 1:19:56right now you're a self-made poor person
  2561. 1:19:58mhm it's just that no one likes to claim
  2562. 1:20:00it by the way selfmade doesn't exist
  2563. 1:20:03because everyone had help oh for sure no
  2564. 1:20:05no but Con in terms of in terms of
  2565. 1:20:07starting here yeah we with no no you can
  2566. 1:20:09have nothing and still make it I do you
  2567. 1:20:11know what's really interesting about
  2568. 1:20:12this for people listening as well like I
  2569. 1:20:14I've invested in 78 companies I know
  2570. 1:20:17you've invested in a lot of businesses
  2571. 1:20:18as well sometimes too much money can
  2572. 1:20:20destroy a business like I've seen people
  2573. 1:20:22like we works for example their biggest
  2574. 1:20:23problem was they never thought about
  2575. 1:20:25actually making money just kept their
  2576. 1:20:26business was raising money yeah right so
  2577. 1:20:28I think that that's another thing people
  2578. 1:20:30don't really quite grasp but getting
  2579. 1:20:32better I mean do you think there's a a
  2580. 1:20:34mental framework to help people get
  2581. 1:20:36better cuz I I mean even myself right
  2582. 1:20:38I'm I'm pretty good at business I've had
  2583. 1:20:40to get better to compete yeah but is is
  2584. 1:20:42there a framework for getting better as
  2585. 1:20:43a as a human like do you think as a
  2586. 1:20:45human being not as a business person I
  2587. 1:20:47think they're linked but what well I
  2588. 1:20:49mean I I really 100% live on that common
  2589. 1:20:51factors analysis thing so if I look at
  2590. 1:20:53so I'll tell you how I live my my whole
  2591. 1:20:55life so like when um so I really did
  2592. 1:20:58this which was uh the whole the thing
  2593. 1:21:00that started this was I was 20 one 21 or
  2594. 1:21:0422 and this is my first job out of
  2595. 1:21:05college and I remember I had a really
  2596. 1:21:07good weekend and um I was just like in a
  2597. 1:21:11good mood came in on on Monday and my
  2598. 1:21:12boss was like hey uh you know what's
  2599. 1:21:15what's going on I was like just you know
  2600. 1:21:16just had a good weekend and she said to
  2601. 1:21:19me this line that I I just it kind of
  2602. 1:21:21like hit me um she said I'm pretty sure
  2603. 1:21:23stringing is many many days in a row
  2604. 1:21:25like that as you can is the secret to
  2605. 1:21:27living and what what it did though is it
  2606. 1:21:30took this whole this amorphous idea of
  2607. 1:21:32like Joy contentment purpose and just
  2608. 1:21:34made it really tactical was like okay
  2609. 1:21:36how do I live as many days in a row as I
  2610. 1:21:38can of days that I like so I looked back
  2611. 1:21:40at like last year and I said okay what
  2612. 1:21:42were the days that I like the most what
  2613. 1:21:43were my top 10% days well the things
  2614. 1:21:46that I had in common as I worked out
  2615. 1:21:48okay cool I did that um I ate with
  2616. 1:21:51people I like ate with friends
  2617. 1:21:56and then I worked until I had nothing
  2618. 1:22:00left that's exactly my
  2619. 1:22:02framework and so if I do these three
  2620. 1:22:05things then if I do that on all my days
  2621. 1:22:08then more of my days will look like that
  2622. 1:22:10and so the majority of my days now feel
  2623. 1:22:12like what used to be top 10% days and so
  2624. 1:22:15obviously these are different for other
  2625. 1:22:16it might be playing music it might be
  2626. 1:22:18whatever you know whatever your thing is
  2627. 1:22:19but that common factors analysis and
  2628. 1:22:21it's like okay what are the top 10 you
  2629. 1:22:23know we've you know Leeland have gone on
  2630. 1:22:24100 dates okay the top 10 Dates what do
  2631. 1:22:26they have in common okay well Al I think
  2632. 1:22:29all of it yeah how make stes better it's
  2633. 1:22:31brilliant I got flowers right he got
  2634. 1:22:34flowers he had a gift is this coming
  2635. 1:22:36from her side she told pre-planned no he
  2636. 1:22:38had pre-planned he had pre-planned
  2637. 1:22:39something right she's told you her her
  2638. 1:22:41list I wrote some sort of note right um
  2639. 1:22:45and so and we dress
  2640. 1:22:47up and so those are the things they're
  2641. 1:22:50like this is my this is my recipe for
  2642. 1:22:53for making
  2643. 1:22:55good dates and so it's like a lot of a
  2644. 1:22:57lot of times it's like no one just takes
  2645. 1:22:58the the look back and says okay what I
  2646. 1:23:01but it's because they don't start with
  2647. 1:23:02the I did stuff that's the first step
  2648. 1:23:04like you got to do the 100 reps you got
  2649. 1:23:05to do make the 100 posts you got to make
  2650. 1:23:06the 100 you got to make the 100 C calls
  2651. 1:23:08you got to make the the 100 sales and
  2652. 1:23:09you got to record them and that's the
  2653. 1:23:11other piece like you have to be able to
  2654. 1:23:12record it whatever whatever to the
  2655. 1:23:13greatest degree possible you have to
  2656. 1:23:15recall what were the details and so then
  2657. 1:23:18you look you see the common factors it's
  2658. 1:23:19like all right well I'm going to only do
  2659. 1:23:20those five next time and by by by
  2660. 1:23:22Randomness because life happens in
  2661. 1:23:24there's variables that are out of our
  2662. 1:23:26control again there's going to be
  2663. 1:23:27another top 10% in the next 100 dates
  2664. 1:23:29and we're like okay so in those dayses
  2665. 1:23:31not only did I do these five things but
  2666. 1:23:34I uh we had a driver uh was a was a big
  2667. 1:23:36difference and there was a
  2668. 1:23:38surprise uh element for some of these
  2669. 1:23:42and at a certain point the thing is the
  2670. 1:23:43the the Improvement is going to go like
  2671. 1:23:44this right just like that just like that
  2672. 1:23:46sales thing you know the first time you
  2673. 1:23:48do this your your dates are going to get
  2674. 1:23:49way better right and then after that
  2675. 1:23:51though the dates are going to get
  2676. 1:23:52incrementally better but all that
  2677. 1:23:54happens is like man people are going to
  2678. 1:23:55be like how do you have such a healthy
  2679. 1:23:57relationship you're like you know all I
  2680. 1:23:58did was I just looked at the stuff that
  2681. 1:23:59worked and I just stopped doing the
  2682. 1:24:01stuff that didn't and I just did it over
  2683. 1:24:02and over and over ago Amazing Alex
  2684. 1:24:04honestly you're an amazing human being I
  2685. 1:24:06love this I hope you guys enjoyed it
  2686. 1:24:07we're off to have some chicken now we'll
  2687. 1:24:09see you later

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