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Alex Hormozi's 27 Minutes of Life-Changing Advice — Transcript

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  1. 0:00It is so easy to beat people today. They
  2. 0:03are so soft. They have no work ethic. No
  3. 0:05one can stick with anything. Everyone's
  4. 0:07distracted. They're on social media.
  5. 0:08They're counting their notifications
  6. 0:10because they can't stick with. They
  7. 0:12can't say no.
  8. 0:17Hard work is the goal. And so it's not
  9. 0:21like work hard so that X because as soon
  10. 0:24as you have a so that then the X is the
  11. 0:26thing. But if the goal is to work as
  12. 0:29hard as you possibly can, then the only
  13. 0:32real output we have is who we become
  14. 0:35along the way. The best days of my life
  15. 0:37are ones when I had nothing left in the
  16. 0:39tank. And so then the goal becomes to
  17. 0:41empty the tank. Not what where I drive,
  18. 0:44but just to drive the car as hard as I
  19. 0:47possibly can. The sign of success is the
  20. 0:50hate that you get along the way. And
  21. 0:53what you can't do is bend the knee to
  22. 0:55their hate and fit back into the
  23. 0:56conformity because it's comfortable and
  24. 0:58it's warm because you've been down that
  25. 0:59road and you know exactly where it leads
  26. 1:01and I know that's not where you want to
  27. 1:03be. It's like the best way to guarantee
  28. 1:04to not have the life that you want is to
  29. 1:06do what everyone else is doing unless
  30. 1:08you want what everyone else has with no
  31. 1:09one which no one does. So think about
  32. 1:10it. People always are looking for the
  33. 1:12shortcut but you have to accept a very
  34. 1:14simple truth which is that the shortcut
  35. 1:16never actually takes you to the place
  36. 1:18that you're trying to go and it's
  37. 1:19because it's rarely one big thing. There
  38. 1:22are a lot of shortcuts that exist in
  39. 1:24life and everyone already uses those.
  40. 1:26And so whenever an actual shortcut gets
  41. 1:28found, all humans immediately do it and
  42. 1:30it no longer becomes a shortcut. It's
  43. 1:32just a thing that everyone does and it's
  44. 1:34not really a thing anymore. Like we
  45. 1:35learned how to tie knots. That was a big
  46. 1:37breakthrough. And then everyone ties
  47. 1:38their shoes and they're like, "Oh my
  48. 1:39god, let me show you the shortcut to
  49. 1:40this." It's like, "Oh, you tie." Like,
  50. 1:41"Oh my god, everyone does it and it's
  51. 1:43like not a thing anymore, right?" And so
  52. 1:45all the things that you want to have
  53. 1:46that most people don't have don't have
  54. 1:48shortcuts. But thing is is so many
  55. 1:50people waste so much time. they
  56. 1:51literally waste longer than it would
  57. 1:53have taken the hard way or the only way
  58. 1:55to get there in search of the easy way
  59. 1:58that doesn't exist. And so the reality
  60. 2:00of this is that it's usually a hundred
  61. 2:02small things that make days, weeks, and
  62. 2:05months hard. It's the neverending
  63. 2:07onslaught of and then you remember after
  64. 2:10going through that onslaught of that you
  65. 2:12signed up for this, but then again, you
  66. 2:15figured that it would be hard and then
  67. 2:16you're reminded that this is what hard
  68. 2:18feels like. And so you keep going
  69. 2:20because it's the only choice you have. I
  70. 2:22want to remind you that a lot of times
  71. 2:24what we imagine hard to be is different
  72. 2:27than how we experience hard because the
  73. 2:30nature of hard changes too. And it's
  74. 2:32more of a limitation in how we describe
  75. 2:34hardship than it is and I actually think
  76. 2:37there's a big problem with this. So just
  77. 2:38kind of like Eskimos have like seven
  78. 2:40different words for snow. I feel like I
  79. 2:42should have like 25 different words for
  80. 2:44hard, right? Like the amount of things
  81. 2:46that you go through. There's like
  82. 2:48lifestyle hard like, okay, so there's
  83. 2:50sacrifice hard of like you're giving up
  84. 2:51things that you enjoy. There's also like
  85. 2:53effort hard of like starting to do
  86. 2:55things that you hate doing that you're
  87. 2:56not good at. There's risk hard of the
  88. 2:58the fact that you could lose something
  89. 3:00that you currently have, right? That you
  90. 3:01have the chance of losing what you
  91. 3:03currently have. You have the uncertainty
  92. 3:04heart of the fact that you might be
  93. 3:06doing all of the sacrifice for nothing.
  94. 3:08There's lots of different flavors of
  95. 3:10heart and each one of them presents at
  96. 3:12different times. And for some reason
  97. 3:13when it gets a new kind of heart, it's a
  98. 3:15new seventh type of snowflake heart,
  99. 3:18then you're like, "Oh, this is
  100. 3:19different." But it's not. It's just that
  101. 3:21the thing that you grow comfortable
  102. 3:23with, then you conquer, and then you're
  103. 3:25exposed to a new level. The reason the
  104. 3:29goal isn't coming at you fast enough is
  105. 3:32because every person you've seen
  106. 3:33accomplish the goal, you only see it the
  107. 3:36moment they accomplish it. And the
  108. 3:38reason that it hurts so much when people
  109. 3:41are like, "Must be nice. Oh, that
  110. 3:44happened overnight." Is because every
  111. 3:47time you fail, no one cares and no one
  112. 3:50sees. But when you finally win, people
  113. 3:53take notice.
  114. 3:54>> Disgrunted. But it's the only time they
  115. 3:56notice is when you actually win. And so
  116. 3:58to even further reinforce the point, the
  117. 4:02fact that everyone looks like an
  118. 4:04overnight success means that the 10
  119. 4:06years where they sucked, no one saw. And
  120. 4:10so the fear that you have about people
  121. 4:12noticing the fact that you fail is
  122. 4:15ridiculous because they're barely going
  123. 4:16to notice when you succeed. When you're
  124. 4:19growing in a business, it's very
  125. 4:21painful. When you're stagnating in a
  126. 4:24business and you're plateaued and you
  127. 4:25don't know what to do, it's very
  128. 4:26painful. When you're declining and you
  129. 4:28also don't know what to do, it's very
  130. 4:30painful. And so that means that all
  131. 4:32conditions of reality are painful. And
  132. 4:35so if pain is a prerequisite for
  133. 4:38reality, then it means it's just a
  134. 4:40signal that we are alive. And so in
  135. 4:43thinking about that
  136. 4:45rather than pain is a problem, it is a
  137. 4:50signal that I'm breathing and then
  138. 4:54becomes irrelevant.
  139. 4:56You know, in the beginning you're like,
  140. 4:57I feel bad. And then you think that that
  141. 4:58should weigh on the decision of whether
  142. 5:00you do the thing that you're supposed to
  143. 5:01do. And then you start realizing that
  144. 5:03you can do the thing even though you
  145. 5:05don't feel good about it. And you start
  146. 5:06hypertrophying it. But I think the
  147. 5:08ultimate version of the hypertrophy when
  148. 5:09the muscle becomes a tendon or it just
  149. 5:11becomes fused is when you don't even
  150. 5:13consider how you feel.
  151. 5:14>> It's just not a thought. You just keep
  152. 5:16you just do it. I think a hopeful
  153. 5:19message that anyone can think about
  154. 5:21who's about who's in that hard period or
  155. 5:23in that start period is that
  156. 5:26it won't get harder. Like this is the
  157. 5:30hardest part. And so if you can just
  158. 5:33make it through this, everything else is
  159. 5:35downhill. It's not that the things that
  160. 5:37you're the dragons you're going to slay
  161. 5:38aren't going to get bigger. They are.
  162. 5:39But you become so much more equipped to
  163. 5:41slay them back. And you have so many
  164. 5:43more allies. You have people in the
  165. 5:44stands cheering for you. You have the
  166. 5:46audience. you have all of these other
  167. 5:47things that are behind you, but in the
  168. 5:49beginning it's just you with a stick
  169. 5:51against a bear. And arguably that fight
  170. 5:55is a harder fight to win than beating a
  171. 5:57dragon when you have a nuclear bomb and
  172. 6:00six nations behind you. And so it's not
  173. 6:02even like the the size of the hardship.
  174. 6:04It's just also the resources and how few
  175. 6:06of them you have and how so much of the
  176. 6:08beginning is literally burning the one
  177. 6:10thing you have, which is time because
  178. 6:12you have no leverage. You don't have the
  179. 6:14money to pay other people to help you.
  180. 6:15you don't have the resources to go like
  181. 6:17get someone to to you. No one can learn
  182. 6:20it for you. It's like there's a lot of
  183. 6:22the things that that we care about a lot
  184. 6:24like no one can work out for you.
  185. 6:25Doesn't matter how much money you have,
  186. 6:27no one can learn skills for you. And so
  187. 6:29in the early days like it feels so
  188. 6:31painful cuz you're like you look around
  189. 6:33to see who can help you and then you're
  190. 6:34like it's me again. The skills that you
  191. 6:37develop along the way like Steve Jobs
  192. 6:39learning calligraphy that then became
  193. 6:41Apple fonts that you know transformed
  194. 6:43how we type. those early days, that
  195. 6:45little trench winning in the weeds
  196. 6:48often times gives you these huge
  197. 6:50advantages later on because you have
  198. 6:51more context than anyone else. And so
  199. 6:53rather than lament them and hate the
  200. 6:56fact that you're going through it,
  201. 6:58remembering that these will be arrows
  202. 7:00that you put in the quiver that you're
  203. 7:01going to be using to slay the future
  204. 7:03bigger dragons. And so expecting it to
  205. 7:06be easy is what makes it much harder
  206. 7:07than it ever is. We all know the
  207. 7:09happiness formula, which is um when this
  208. 7:12happens, I'll be happy, right? When X,
  209. 7:15I'll be happy, or if X, I'll be happy.
  210. 7:17When I'm when I'm putting that work in
  211. 7:19and doing the reps, like that's when I'm
  212. 7:21actually my most in flow and enjoying
  213. 7:25myself the most. And so, it's actually a
  214. 7:27lie that I've been telling myself that
  215. 7:28like once the presentation goes well,
  216. 7:31I'll feel good. Because in some ways
  217. 7:33now, I feel like when the presentation
  218. 7:35happens, I'll be disappointed because I
  219. 7:36won't get to do this anymore. I'll have
  220. 7:38to find something else to pick as a
  221. 7:40target so that I can get back into my
  222. 7:41rocky cut scene. And so I think that
  223. 7:43that has taken some time and I've gotten
  224. 7:45better at it. I really do think I've
  225. 7:47gotten a lot better at it. Um at least
  226. 7:49recognizing because the more the more
  227. 7:50times I've I've had W's and then
  228. 7:53realized that right afterwards I felt
  229. 7:54nothing. I had to think back of like
  230. 7:56what are the things that I enjoyed most
  231. 7:58in my life and it's always in pursuit.
  232. 8:01And I'm like, well then why don't I set
  233. 8:03something really big, really far so I
  234. 8:05can be in pursuit for the longest period
  235. 8:06of time possible. And that's where I
  236. 8:08think a lot of people from the outside,
  237. 8:09you know, they cast their expectations
  238. 8:11of life onto me and say, I wouldn't live
  239. 8:12my life that way. You're always, you're
  240. 8:14always working. You're always doing
  241. 8:15these things. But it's like I'm actually
  242. 8:18always spending my time in pursuit
  243. 8:19because in pursuit is my button for
  244. 8:22enjoyment.
  245. 8:24One of the things for people who are not
  246. 8:26where they want to be is that they have
  247. 8:29pain like oodles of pain. And I remember
  248. 8:31when I was starting out, I was looking
  249. 8:33for passion. I was looking for purpose.
  250. 8:34I was like, I just want to find
  251. 8:35something that I'm motivated by. But
  252. 8:38it's the it's the cat and the cheese.
  253. 8:39It's like we're looking for cheese, but
  254. 8:40we have all these cat behind us. And all
  255. 8:42we have to do is look and remember that
  256. 8:43they're behind us and chasing us. And so
  257. 8:46if you have the cat and you're staying
  258. 8:48in your current situation, you're being
  259. 8:50used by the cat, right? You're being
  260. 8:52used by the business owner who, you
  261. 8:54know, it doesn't treat you well and is,
  262. 8:56you know, and you're in this job that
  263. 8:58you don't really want to be in, right?
  264. 8:59or you're being used by the situation or
  265. 9:01the context of the relationship that
  266. 9:02you're in with the girl that you're like
  267. 9:04not that into, right? Versus saying like
  268. 9:06this is terrible and because of this
  269. 9:09terribleness,
  270. 9:10I now have something that I can run away
  271. 9:12from. And then and then and then like
  272. 9:15rather than not looking at the knife or
  273. 9:16trying to take painkillers to not feel
  274. 9:18the pain, it's like completely sobering
  275. 9:21up taking the knife and twisting it in
  276. 9:22your own heart and being like, I'm going
  277. 9:24to do something about this. And I think
  278. 9:26that that's that's what the heroes like
  279. 9:28if we're heroes in our own story, it's
  280. 9:30not avoiding pain. It's choosing for
  281. 9:32from the very beginning the alchemy,
  282. 9:34which is like you have these terrible
  283. 9:35situations. It's like and you have the
  284. 9:37opportunity to turn turn them into magic
  285. 9:39and and and skip or shortcut all the
  286. 9:43growth you're going to have in a really
  287. 9:44short period of time simply by twisting
  288. 9:46the knife and being like, I'm going to
  289. 9:47do something about it. Charlie Mer in
  290. 9:50one of his seinal speeches he talks
  291. 9:52about how to guarantee failure, how to
  292. 9:54make sure that you are a failure and he
  293. 9:56inverts the the concept of success. It's
  294. 9:58like what could you do to make sure that
  295. 10:00you were a failure? It's like well you
  296. 10:01would definitely get involved in drugs,
  297. 10:04drinking he says was it leverage liquor
  298. 10:06and women that's you know the Charlie's
  299. 10:07Charlie's big one, right? But one of the
  300. 10:10ones that he has I think he has seven in
  301. 10:11his in his in his speech is consistency.
  302. 10:15He's like you have to make sure that
  303. 10:16you're inconsistent. He's like, "Because
  304. 10:19if you are consistent and you have none
  305. 10:21of the other attributes," he's like,
  306. 10:22"It's you still might be successful."
  307. 10:25He's like, "It's it's very tough for
  308. 10:27people who are consistent to not be
  309. 10:29successful." And he makes an an
  310. 10:31especially pointed point about
  311. 10:32consistency because in my opinion, it's
  312. 10:34one of the most difficult of the virtues
  313. 10:35for humans to do because we're so
  314. 10:37attracted to novelty. And so, like, I
  315. 10:40mean, I used to deal with this with, you
  316. 10:41know, people on their diets all the
  317. 10:43time. I remember I ran gyms. And so
  318. 10:45someone would come in and I would always
  319. 10:46ask the question, "So, have you been
  320. 10:47following the meal plan?" And then they
  321. 10:49would say, "Yes." And so then I started
  322. 10:50changing the way I asked the question.
  323. 10:52So I'd say, "Out of the 21 meals that
  324. 10:54you were supposed to eat, how many of
  325. 10:55the 21 did you have exactly the way it
  326. 10:57was on the meal plan?" And then they
  327. 10:59would be like, "Oh, I mean, at least
  328. 11:00half." And they would say it as though
  329. 11:02that was a mark of success. And right
  330. 11:05now, the meal plan could be your content
  331. 11:07plan. It could be your it could be your
  332. 11:09showing up to work on time plan. It
  333. 11:10could be the time that you want to put
  334. 11:11towards your side hustle. Doesn't really
  335. 11:12matter. But if there's one muscle that
  336. 11:16you can flex, it's learning to do the
  337. 11:19same thing over and over again. Like one
  338. 11:20of the one of the values that we had at
  339. 11:21Gym Launch is do the boring work.
  340. 11:23Because boring is what makes you rich,
  341. 11:25right? It's it's it's it's writing the
  342. 11:27follow-up sequence to your to the
  343. 11:30purchase page that you don't feel like
  344. 11:31doing, but you know you should do. It's
  345. 11:34running the split test for the 10th
  346. 11:36time. It's it's actually going through
  347. 11:38and prepping for 20 minutes before you
  348. 11:40have the meeting. Because it's amazing
  349. 11:42how much smarter you can appear with 20
  350. 11:45minutes of preparation. Like you can
  351. 11:47appear 50 IQ points smarter if you just
  352. 11:49prepare for meetings for 20 minutes. If
  353. 11:51we want to behave a certain way, then we
  354. 11:54want to increase the likelihood that a
  355. 11:57behavior occurs. And so BF Skinner said
  356. 12:00this, and I just love this. It's like my
  357. 12:01most savage quote of his. He says,
  358. 12:02"People say you can lead a horse to
  359. 12:05water, but you can't make it drink."
  360. 12:07False. Said, "If I dehydrate the horse,
  361. 12:09I salt its mouth. I put it in the heat
  362. 12:12and I put its face one inch away from
  363. 12:14water. I can veritably guarantee that it
  364. 12:16will drink. And I think about that
  365. 12:19visual all the time when I think about
  366. 12:22myself as the horse. And I think to
  367. 12:25myself, what is the behavior that I want
  368. 12:26drinking water and what is the salt in
  369. 12:28my mouth and what is the dehydration the
  370. 12:30motivation for this behavior that I can
  371. 12:33create? And so I am not a believer in
  372. 12:36free will. I believe that we respond to
  373. 12:40the conditions that we've had and then
  374. 12:41we learn behaviors as a result of those
  375. 12:43things. And so, for example, I could get
  376. 12:46everyone in here, the entire crew to get
  377. 12:47naked. Guarantee you I could do it. All
  378. 12:50I would do is I just crank up the
  379. 12:51temperature and I'd wait and eventually
  380. 12:53everyone would get naked. It would
  381. 12:54happen. And so, everyone has this idea
  382. 12:56that they have this free will. But
  383. 12:58that's what would happen eventually. And
  384. 13:00so if that's true, then we have
  385. 13:04significantly less control and at the
  386. 13:05same time more control over our behavior
  387. 13:08if we can stack the deck in our favor.
  388. 13:10And so part of the reason going to bed
  389. 13:12at 9:00 p.m. is so powerful is because
  390. 13:14we're changing the conditions so that we
  391. 13:16can change our behavior. If all of your
  392. 13:17friends are poor, Harvard did that long
  393. 13:20study and said that the the number one
  394. 13:21correlate was your reference group,
  395. 13:22which is who you compare yourself to.
  396. 13:24Also note, not who you spend the most
  397. 13:26time with, it's who you compare yourself
  398. 13:27to. And so if you want to change your
  399. 13:29life, change who you compare yourself
  400. 13:30to, number one. But part of who you
  401. 13:33compare yourself to is who you spend
  402. 13:35your time with or who at least you
  403. 13:36consume the most of. So if you're doing
  404. 13:37this, then maybe that's a good thing or
  405. 13:38maybe it's a terrible thing cuz you're
  406. 13:39comparing the wrong people. But either
  407. 13:42way, if you want to get fit, if you get
  408. 13:46around fitter people, you will be
  409. 13:48deprived of fitness because you'll be
  410. 13:50the least in shape person and then all
  411. 13:51of a sudden you'll be more motivated. If
  412. 13:53you are poor, but you're the richest of
  413. 13:56your friends or the same level of wealth
  414. 13:58as your friends, then get around people
  415. 13:59who make more money. And then, of
  416. 14:01course, people say, "But I can't get
  417. 14:03around people who make more money."
  418. 14:04Okay? No one else has ever done it. No
  419. 14:07one who has had it worse than you has
  420. 14:09ever figured out how to do it. You're
  421. 14:11right. Right. Of course, you're not
  422. 14:13right. So, shut the up. The best art is
  423. 14:15art where the artist makes it for
  424. 14:17themselves.
  425. 14:18And where you see commercial work is
  426. 14:21where a bunch of people are trying to
  427. 14:22make something for an audience. And so
  428. 14:24it's they're trying to like rinse and
  429. 14:26recycle stuff that actually solves no
  430. 14:30one's problems because no one is
  431. 14:31actually the audience. Whereas when you
  432. 14:32make it for yourself, there's thousands
  433. 14:34of people just like you who will who
  434. 14:36will have the same depth of
  435. 14:37understanding of it. But it feels
  436. 14:39selfish in the moment to make something
  437. 14:40for yourself. But when you make it for
  438. 14:42yourself, you actually make it for
  439. 14:43everyone. And so I think when you're on
  440. 14:45the start path, you can't look at the
  441. 14:48outcome as the only positive because you
  442. 14:50will never make it. And so the positive
  443. 14:53frame that I've always used is sure you
  444. 14:54can have the external ones of like I
  445. 14:56like thinking about my first videos had
  446. 14:58like 13 views. And I'm like well if I
  447. 15:00had an audience of 13 people I used to
  448. 15:02spend years pitching you know weight
  449. 15:03loss stuff to rims of 13 and that was
  450. 15:05fine. And so thinking about that way was
  451. 15:07helpful. But the the most helpful frame
  452. 15:10was thinking about who I was becoming as
  453. 15:14the asset that I was building. So in
  454. 15:16real time whenever I finished a long
  455. 15:18day's work, I was becoming more like the
  456. 15:20type of person who could work for 5
  457. 15:23years without reward. And that would be
  458. 15:25part of the story I would someday tell.
  459. 15:27And some some of the biggest reinforcers
  460. 15:29I've had in my life has been
  461. 15:31futurecasting the story that I would
  462. 15:33tell about the period that I was in.
  463. 15:35Like I remember when I was sleeping on
  464. 15:36the floor at my gym cuz I didn't have
  465. 15:37enough enough money for two rents and I
  466. 15:39was like I will tell this story and when
  467. 15:42I lost everything for the first time I
  468. 15:44like I have the screenshot of the bank
  469. 15:46account like when I show it people are
  470. 15:47like oh look there's that thing but they
  471. 15:48forget that there was a person who
  472. 15:50screenshotted it to be like this won't
  473. 15:52happen again. And I think having a
  474. 15:56larger narrative of where you're
  475. 15:58ultimately going, one gives you the
  476. 15:59vision of where you're like the like
  477. 16:02knows where he's going, but it allows
  478. 16:05the dragons that you have to slay along
  479. 16:07the way, the hard things that you have
  480. 16:09to overcome to feed into the larger
  481. 16:12narrative of who of the story that
  482. 16:13you'll someday tell. And so like no one
  483. 16:15ever tells stories about the hero who
  484. 16:18made it all happen immediately and had
  485. 16:20no hardships. No one cares, right? Like,
  486. 16:22okay, you were born to a billionaire. Is
  487. 16:24there a story there? Not really. But
  488. 16:26everyone loves the story because we can
  489. 16:28see ourselves in the character and how
  490. 16:30much we hope to be like them. And it's
  491. 16:33the being like them, not the having what
  492. 16:35they have that we usually like. And so
  493. 16:38reframing ourselves as the hero of that
  494. 16:40narrative in my harder times was what
  495. 16:43really got me through that and thinking
  496. 16:46I will tell this story someday. I think
  497. 16:49a lot of the discontent comes from the
  498. 16:51judgment people have about what they
  499. 16:53should or should not do along the way.
  500. 16:56And so they take my description as
  501. 17:00prescription for what they should do. So
  502. 17:03I describe my life and then people think
  503. 17:04I'm prescribing what they should do. And
  504. 17:06it couldn't be further from the truth.
  505. 17:08If you want to take a break at every two
  506. 17:10steps and take in the view, do it. I
  507. 17:13mean in four generations no one will
  508. 17:16remember your name. And so enjoy the
  509. 17:19view if you feel like it. I just happen
  510. 17:21to enjoy
  511. 17:23how much I can see that I can do. That's
  512. 17:27what I enjoy. And I and I feel like I am
  513. 17:28most present when I work. And so I'm not
  514. 17:33going to go on to work life balance
  515. 17:34whatever cuz we already know where that
  516. 17:36conversation goes. But people have a
  517. 17:38harder time accepting that someone can
  518. 17:41just work all the time and and truly
  519. 17:44love it. And I define that by there's
  520. 17:48nothing else I would rather do at any
  521. 17:50time. And so for me, I feel like I
  522. 17:53exercise absolute freedom in my life.
  523. 17:56And freedom is reinforcing for all
  524. 17:59species, dogs, cows, fish, humans.
  525. 18:03Freedom is one of the re most positively
  526. 18:05reinforcing thing that people have that
  527. 18:06everyone wants. Freedom. Everybody wants
  528. 18:08to be able to say Q,
  529. 18:09>> right? But once you say Q, you have to
  530. 18:12do something because you can't just stay
  531. 18:13stand there and saying Q over and over
  532. 18:14again for hours for the rest of your
  533. 18:15life. You start to do something and that
  534. 18:17thing that you choose to do after you do
  535. 18:19after you say Q is what you want to do.
  536. 18:22What's interesting about humans is that
  537. 18:24our ability to endure is very robust if
  538. 18:29we know that we'll make it out. And so
  539. 18:32they've done mice studies where they
  540. 18:34drop the mouse in and then they let it
  541. 18:36drown and it drowns really fast and then
  542. 18:39they drop a a mouse in and then before
  543. 18:41it gets to the point where it drowns
  544. 18:43they pick it up and then they put it
  545. 18:45back in. And the second time they put it
  546. 18:46in it can last like 20 times longer.
  547. 18:49Think folk the stats of something around
  548. 18:51will drown in less than an hour. If it's
  549. 18:53taken out, dried off and allowed to
  550. 18:55relax it'll swim for a day.
  551. 18:57>> An absurd amount different. And so if I
  552. 19:00were to say, "Hey, I need you to hold
  553. 19:03your breath, but I don't tell you how
  554. 19:05long." 20 seconds in, you might be
  555. 19:08thinking, "This is stupid. When is he
  556. 19:10going to stop? Is he going to wait for
  557. 19:10me to pass out?" And all these stupid
  558. 19:12thoughts go into your mind. But if I
  559. 19:14say, "I need you to hold your breath for
  560. 19:163 minutes." Your lungs might burn, but
  561. 19:19you can see that there's this end that's
  562. 19:21coming. The difficulty with personal
  563. 19:24development and entrepreneurship is that
  564. 19:26you don't know when the end is coming,
  565. 19:27but you still need to fight like the
  566. 19:29second mouse who gets out, gets right
  567. 19:31off, and gets put back in. And the only
  568. 19:34certainty that I can give you is that
  569. 19:36it's the same thing that every other
  570. 19:37mouse, every other person who got
  571. 19:39through that period went through. And
  572. 19:41you won't die. And if you do die, you
  573. 19:44won't care because you'll be dead. And
  574. 19:47so, best case, you win. Worst case, it
  575. 19:50won't matter. It's rarely the
  576. 19:53information or the intensity that makes
  577. 19:57things hard. It's the sticking with it
  578. 20:01that makes it hard. And so the desire
  579. 20:05that we have to quit is simply breaking
  580. 20:10the consistency. And so that's why
  581. 20:12consistency has always been the hardest
  582. 20:14thing for most people to achieve. But
  583. 20:16the intensity of what you have to do to
  584. 20:17be successful is much lower than most
  585. 20:19people expect. And so often times they
  586. 20:21suffer significantly more in a short
  587. 20:23period of time than is required to be
  588. 20:25successful over a much longer period of
  589. 20:27time with a much lower intensity. And so
  590. 20:29it's just like if you walk for 5 minutes
  591. 20:31a day, you're going to get, you know,
  592. 20:3350% of the health benefits, probably
  593. 20:35more than that, I'm sure, um, of just
  594. 20:37even exercising. You add 10 years to
  595. 20:39your life if you walk 5 or 10 minutes a
  596. 20:41day. Um, and the path of personal
  597. 20:45development is
  598. 20:49befriending uncertainty. And so I
  599. 20:51obviously sit from the entrepreneurial
  600. 20:53perspective, but almost all decisions
  601. 20:55that you make in the beginning, you have
  602. 20:57incomplete data and you have to make
  603. 20:58decisions anyways. And so it's growing
  604. 21:01comfortable with taking your best bad
  605. 21:03guess and being directionally correct
  606. 21:05rather than searching for a perfect
  607. 21:07answer because a perfect answer assumes
  608. 21:10perfect information which you can only
  609. 21:12have after you begin. And so in some
  610. 21:15ways making a decision is the perfect
  611. 21:18answer so that you can get the
  612. 21:20information
  613. 21:21>> feedback
  614. 21:21>> to then improve the quality of the
  615. 21:23decision later. And I think that one
  616. 21:24loop is what a lot of people miss out on
  617. 21:26is they spend they obsess for years
  618. 21:29sometimes on the perfect pick, the
  619. 21:31perfect business, the perfect job, the
  620. 21:33perfect mate when most of the times
  621. 21:37beginning each step illuminates the next
  622. 21:41step. Which means the information, the
  623. 21:42feedback that you get from walking gives
  624. 21:44you more about where to walk than trying
  625. 21:47to sit at the beginning in the darkness
  626. 21:49and pick a direction.
  627. 21:51What's wild about
  628. 21:53the fear that people have when they're
  629. 21:55starting out is that they say things
  630. 21:58like, "I have nothing going for me. I
  631. 22:00have no advantages. I have nothing to my
  632. 22:03name. I have no money. I have no
  633. 22:04network. I have no resources." But using
  634. 22:07Rory Sutherland's reframing, it also
  635. 22:10means that you have nothing to lose,
  636. 22:12which makes you incredibly dangerous.
  637. 22:14And I think people wildly underestimate
  638. 22:17how many shots on goal you can take when
  639. 22:19you have nothing to lose. Whereas when
  640. 22:21someone has something to lose, they have
  641. 22:22to be more and more selective about the
  642. 22:23the shots they take. And so you have the
  643. 22:26perfect conditions for taking risk
  644. 22:28because the worst case scenario is
  645. 22:30baseline is where you're currently at.
  646. 22:32>> Correct. And so
  647. 22:34>> the downside is this.
  648. 22:35>> Which means that it's like going to the
  649. 22:37casino and playing craps. But they say
  650. 22:40that you can just keep playing until you
  651. 22:42win. But people are afraid to roll.
  652. 22:45>> I think it's genuinely right to say that
  653. 22:49your calendar is a better measure of
  654. 22:50your wealth than your bank account. It's
  655. 22:53also the easiest way to know where
  656. 22:54someone's going to be in 5 years or even
  657. 22:56a year. How so? You just see what
  658. 22:59they're where they're investing their
  659. 23:01time and you can predict like more
  660. 23:03accurately what their life is going to
  661. 23:05look like in a year based on what
  662. 23:06they're doing today. a reminder that the
  663. 23:09life that I'm living today is a result
  664. 23:11of the work that I did 6 and 12 months
  665. 23:13ago. And so if you to look at my
  666. 23:14calendar 6 and 12 months ago, then you
  667. 23:16might extrapolate out to what I'm doing
  668. 23:17today. But just like people want the
  669. 23:21immediate reward, they also see their
  670. 23:23current condition as a result of the
  671. 23:25behavior they're doing today when it's
  672. 23:27not at all. And so that's why I think
  673. 23:30having in some ways a very vivid
  674. 23:32imagination of like this is where I
  675. 23:34think the the benefit of quote
  676. 23:36visualization comes into play. I don't
  677. 23:38see it as much as a benefit for like oh
  678. 23:40I have to imagine this thing to happen
  679. 23:41but I think it's more powerful to think
  680. 23:43I'm doing this thing today and I'm
  681. 23:45imagining it happening. So it's an
  682. 23:47approximation of the feedback loop that
  683. 23:49you want to have and so it helps you
  684. 23:50substitute and get through the period
  685. 23:52where nothing's actually happening.
  686. 23:54>> I have led a toothless life. I have
  687. 23:57never bitten into anything. I was
  688. 23:59waiting. I was reserving myself for
  689. 24:01later on. And I have just noticed that
  690. 24:04my teeth have gone. A lot of people wait
  691. 24:06for perfect conditions to start, but
  692. 24:08don't realize that starting is the
  693. 24:09perfect condition. He's saving himself
  694. 24:11to use his teeth, but he could have had
  695. 24:14all of his teeth at the end if he had
  696. 24:15been using them the whole time.
  697. 24:17>> And so, we have this idea. I call it the
  698. 24:19fallacy of the perfect pick, but
  699. 24:21thinking that you're going to have this
  700. 24:22one shot, this one pick of this one
  701. 24:24opportunity that's going to take you all
  702. 24:28the way. But it's the habit of biting
  703. 24:33that takes you all the way, not where
  704. 24:35you choose to bite the first time. And I
  705. 24:38obviously now have a huge history of
  706. 24:39this and you do too, which is we have
  707. 24:43learned to just bite and know that our
  708. 24:47teeth will get stronger and we will
  709. 24:48learn how to chomp down along the way.
  710. 24:51And waiting to begin never got anyone
  711. 24:56anywhere. So I think about death all the
  712. 24:59time because it's it's probably the
  713. 25:01central theme. It's probably the thing
  714. 25:02that I think the most about and I think
  715. 25:04that influences how I see time and also
  716. 25:06how I think how it how it influences
  717. 25:08agency like what actions I'm willing to
  718. 25:10take despite the judgment of others. And
  719. 25:13so a lot of times and it might be
  720. 25:15because I have more insecurity than
  721. 25:17everyone that I think like man I want to
  722. 25:19do this thing and then I hear all these
  723. 25:20other voices of reasons why I shouldn't
  724. 25:22do it or why somebody else will say like
  725. 25:24that's bad or you're bad or like that's
  726. 25:26wrong whatever. And so I think I've had
  727. 25:28to come up with a lot of these devices
  728. 25:29to get around my own insecurities to
  729. 25:31take action despite those insecurities.
  730. 25:33And the biggest one that I think about
  731. 25:34is that it doesn't matter whether I
  732. 25:36achieve all of my goals or I don't
  733. 25:37achieve all of the goals in three
  734. 25:39generations I'll be forgotten. And the
  735. 25:41only people who were naysaying against
  736. 25:43me will also be dead. And so then it's
  737. 25:46like just do it for me. And then
  738. 25:50when I wake up every day, there's only
  739. 25:52one voice I have to listen to. I think
  740. 25:55this is the mysticism. This is the
  741. 25:56unknown that the beginners or the people
  742. 25:59at the very beginning of their path
  743. 26:00don't understand is that there is no
  744. 26:03magic. There is no mysticism. There is
  745. 26:05no spirituality around this. Everything
  746. 26:07comes down to behavior. And ju and by
  747. 26:10doing that you can take out all of the
  748. 26:13the hullaloo, all of the the voodoo that
  749. 26:16unfortunately is so prevalent on social
  750. 26:19media. And so when you hear the the
  751. 26:21podcast clips and whatever of people
  752. 26:22saying you just need to be more this, if
  753. 26:24they haven't described it by a behavior,
  754. 26:27it is useless. And so this has allowed
  755. 26:30me to also separate signal from noise
  756. 26:31when I'm consuming content in general or
  757. 26:34if I want to learn something, I'm
  758. 26:36immediately thinking, well, what does
  759. 26:38this mean that I have to do? And if
  760. 26:40someone can't break it down into the
  761. 26:42behaviors, then they don't know either.
  762. 26:44and they may be very good at the thing,
  763. 26:47but they may be very bad at teaching it.
  764. 26:50And being able to separate those two
  765. 26:51skills, because those are skills, too.
  766. 26:53Being able to transfer a skill is a
  767. 26:55skill, will allow you to audit who
  768. 26:57you're listening to so that you can get
  769. 26:59the highest return on your effort
  770. 27:01because then you know that you're doing
  771. 27:02activities that lead to the outcome that
  772. 27:05you want.

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