AL MIJN GEHEIMEN (zo ging ik van luie dikzak naar mijn droomleven) — Transcript
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- 0:00Good morning guys. Welcome to a new
- 0:01video. The previous video was received
- 0:03very positively. I received so many nice
- 0:05messages about it. So today I'm going to
- 0:07take you through all my secrets on how I
- 0:09changed my entire life.
- 0:11It is currently 4:38.
- 0:13Normally I wake up at 5, and I start
- 0:15reading right away.
- 0:17But I can't sleep anymore.
- 0:18So what we're going to do, I'm first
- 0:20going to edit my video, because I didn't
- 0:22get to that yesterday.
- 0:24And this is also one of the very first
- 0:26secrets.
- 0:28Waking up early and starting
- 0:30productively right away.
- 0:33Okay guys, instead of scrolling in the
- 0:35morning, I'm producing, making a video.
- 0:39I normally don't try to do this in the
- 0:41morning, but I didn't get to it
- 0:42yesterday and I sort of want to post it
- 0:44today. In the Netherlands it's still
- 0:46evening, so that's still possible. Um
- 0:48yes, 75 extreme video. We are on day 72
- 0:51by now already.
- 0:53We are almost done.
- 0:55I'm going to Japan on Sunday to run 75
- 0:58km there.
- 0:59I haven't announced it yet, but by the
- 1:01time this video is online, I probably
- 1:03will have announced it. Uh so that's
- 1:04really [ __ ] sick. And this is also
- 1:07very fun. I need to check if it's late.
- 1:09I'm going to do some storytelling for
- 1:11you guys in a bit.
- 1:13Okay guys, I'm trying to edit my video,
- 1:15but it's all loading so poorly again.
- 1:18Nothing wants to cooperate.
- 1:20And I hate iCloud. That's why iCloud
- 1:22works so badly.
- 1:24It's really not normal. And you pay so
- 1:26much [ __ ] money for that every month
- 1:27.
- 1:29Oh. But in the meantime, we're going to
- 1:31read a little book. Man's Search for
- 1:32Meaning. Good book. It's about World War
- 1:35II.
- 1:36About why you should actually always,
- 1:38yeah, want to keep going and what the
- 1:39reason is not to give up.
- 1:42It's also not a very thick book. Maybe
- 1:44the English isn't the absolute easiest,
- 1:46but it's certainly not very difficult
- 1:48either.
- 1:49And that is immediately number two of
- 1:51the things that changed my life.
- 1:53Reading.
- 1:54Make sure you learn something every day
- 1:55. Guys, I haven't been to school for
- 1:58four or five years. I finished VWO.
- 2:00Everyone says to me: "Why aren't you
- 2:02going to study?" Blah blah blah. But I
- 2:04just knew: school is not for me. I don't
- 2:06like school. I don't fit in there. I
- 2:08don't belong there. But I always make
- 2:10sure that I keep broadening my knowledge
- 2:11.
- 2:12So I read daily, at least that's the
- 2:14intention.
- 2:15Sometimes I just don't succeed, and
- 2:17that's just bad.
- 2:19But you just have to get better every
- 2:21day, learn more.
- 2:23It's really crazy if you think there's
- 2:25nothing left to learn in life and that
- 2:27you already know everything there is to
- 2:28know.
- 2:30I can truly learn from very special,
- 2:32exceptional people for just € 10, € 15,
- 2:35or € 20. People who have achieved so
- 2:38many things. People who have had so much
- 2:39knowledge. People of all kinds.
- 2:42For € 15 or € 20, you can literally get
- 2:45an insight that could change your entire
- 2:47life.
- 2:49That could change your whole schedule,
- 2:51change your whole purpose, for literally
- 2:53no money.
- 2:54Make sure you read. In school, I hated
- 2:57reading. I never read. If I had to read
- 2:59a book, I wouldn't do it.
- 3:01But because I simply know the value
- 3:03reading can bring, I do it every day.
- 3:06Because I just want to get more out of
- 3:07my life and more out of myself.
- 3:09Self-development definitely includes
- 3:11reading and gaining knowledge. So that
- 3:13is also one of the big things that has
- 3:15completely changed my life. I have read
- 3:17more than 20 books. 30, 40, maybe even
- 3:19more.
- 3:20And the insights from those books have
- 3:22really brought me super far.
- 3:24Okay guys, the video is finished. I
- 3:26couldn't put everything in it that I
- 3:28wanted to because it was all taking way
- 3:30too long. But I want to show you this
- 3:31for a second. Okay, this is November,
- 3:347.9 k in 5 days.
- 3:38But 2 years before that, in December
- 3:402024, I quit my job while I was earning
- 3:42€ 750 a month on the side; here’s what
- 3:45happened.
- 3:48And please learn from this. You can 100
- 3:51%learn from this. I got comfortable too
- 3:53quickly.
- 3:54I worked for € 2,000 a month. € 200 a
- 3:57month. I earned € 750 on the side. When
- 4:00I quit, things went crazy because I was
- 4:02grinding hard every single day. January
- 4:05, so I quit in December. January, I made
- 4:08almost 3k. February, almost a 10k month
- 4:11as my second month as an entrepreneur.
- 4:13Bro, I thought, I thought I was rich. I
- 4:15thought I didn't have to do anything
- 4:17anymore. I thought everything would come
- 4:18naturally. Money comes easily. I got so
- 4:20comfortable, so fast. And please learn
- 4:22from this. Do not get comfortable. Don't
- 4:24think: "Oh, I've done something nice."
- 4:27It all comes naturally, because it
- 4:28really doesn't. And that genuinely sort
- 4:31of ruined my life.
- 4:33Luckily, I've realized now, okay, I
- 4:35can't be comfortable, and I think
- 4:37everything happens for a reason.
- 4:39Everything in my life happens for a
- 4:41reason.
- 4:42So it's not that I'm really bothered by
- 4:43it or anything, because I learned new
- 4:45lessons from that.
- 4:46But don't get comfortable, guys. In the
- 4:49second month of being an official
- 4:50entrepreneur, I made 10k, and for a year
- 4:53and a half, I didn't get past that.
- 4:55But I lived as if. As if I was making
- 4:5710k every month, as if 10k was coming in
- 5:00every month. I, I didn't put money aside
- 5:02for taxes. This and that, guys, believe
- 5:04me, I've had a lot of money worries this
- 5:06past year.
- 5:08Purely, first of all, because it sort of
- 5:10went too fast and I got comfortable too
- 5:12quickly.
- 5:15I had counted myself rich too soon and I
- 5:17just wasn't working as hard as when I
- 5:18first got there.
- 5:21So, at that moment, I was grinding so
- 5:24hard. Making videos every day, in my DMs
- 5:26every day, doing this and that every day
- 5:28.
- 5:29And then, once I reached that point, I
- 5:31had become comfortable.
- 5:33I was still putting in work, but not the
- 5:35same effort.
- 5:36Even though you have to keep going even
- 5:38harder. Make sure you don't get
- 5:39comfortable, guys. It brings you so many
- 5:41problems. It doesn't, it doesn't get you
- 5:43to the place where you want to be. So
- 5:45even if you achieve great things, even
- 5:47if you get great results.
- 5:49Not just in your business, but in the
- 5:51gym too. In every area. If you are
- 5:53growing, keep that momentum going.
- 5:56Let it motivate you to put in even more
- 5:58work instead of thinking: "Okay, now
- 6:00I'll get comfortable."
- 6:01Don't do it.
- 6:02Don't get comfortable.
- 6:04It really hurt me so much.
- 6:07And that is the reason I started this 75
- 6:09Hard, because I had become comfortable.
- 6:13Literally three months ago, I came back
- 6:15from the summer.
- 6:17Um, and during the summer, I went back
- 6:19to working for friends as a demolition
- 6:21worker a few times because I just, yeah
- 6:23, I just didn't know: "Okay, how the
- 6:24[ __ ] am I going to pay my bills?"
- 6:27Honestly, I'm sort of ashamed to show
- 6:29this to you and to say this, but I know
- 6:31someone can learn something from it.
- 6:34So I just don't give a damn. I'm going
- 6:36to show you this. Pay attention. Two
- 6:38years ago, this is how I was doing. Yeah
- 6:40, so this is how I was. I hated my life
- 6:42. I never wanted to go back to this
- 6:44situation. That's why I was working so
- 6:46hard. This was last summer, in June. I'm
- 6:49doing demolition work with some friends
- 6:50. A friend of mine has a demolition
- 6:52company. And I just had to ask him: "Yo
- 6:54, do you maybe have some work for me?"
- 6:57Because you know, it's all tough. It's
- 6:59just not really working out. Look at
- 7:00where I am now. "
- 7:08I was literally back in the position I
- 7:09never wanted to be in again.
- 7:12Purely because I had become comfortable
- 7:14and was no longer putting in the work
- 7:15every day that I knew I had to do.
- 7:17I just thought that € 10,000 every month
- 7:19would come automatically.
- 7:22But when I really honestly looked at my
- 7:24finances after that first month,
- 7:26February, that € 10,000 month, I just
- 7:28never exceeded that again.
- 7:31Until now, until, yeah, last month,
- 7:33because I just wasn't putting in the
- 7:35work anymore. I thought:" It will all
- 7:37come naturally.
- 7:38"And I, I, I for so long just didn't set
- 7:41my ego aside to say: okay, I really have
- 7:43to go full throttle again to get there.
- 7:47In my head, it was just happening every
- 7:49month, and it totally wasn't. And the
- 7:51worst part is, I was just living as if €
- 7:5310,000 was coming in every month. So I
- 7:55was spending money as if € 10,000 was
- 7:58coming in, while it wasn't.
- 8:00Not for a year and a half, because I
- 8:01wasn't putting in the work myself. Last
- 8:04summer and after this moment: I went to
- 8:06do manual labor for about a week because
- 8:08I had to pay a bill. And yeah, regarding
- 8:10coaching, there wasn't much coming from
- 8:11it because I wasn't providing the input
- 8:13myself.
- 8:14After that week, I already knew: bro,
- 8:17I'm back in my old situation. I don't
- 8:19want this. I can't do this. I can't do
- 8:21this any longer. So what I did then. I
- 8:23fled to Thailand.
- 8:26Yeah, I can almost call it that. I fled
- 8:28to Thailand. Booked a flight to Thailand
- 8:30the night before and I thought:" Okay,
- 8:32I'm going to make trading work, because
- 8:34I can't do this. "I'm just going to work
- 8:35incredibly hard. To be completely honest
- 8:37, it went a bit better, you know. I did
- 8:40a bit better that month and after that I
- 8:41went to Bali for another two months.
- 8:44But I still wasn't the person I needed
- 8:45to be. I was still not giving my full
- 8:48100%every day.
- 8:50And that's why, you know, there was an
- 8:52upward trend, but it still wasn't where
- 8:54it needed to be, because I wasn't
- 8:55providing the input myself and I was
- 8:57still too comfortable. Until I came back
- 8:59from those three months, so one month in
- 9:01Thailand, two months in Bali. And I just
- 9:03knew:" Okay, now I have to make a
- 9:04decision. "" Because financially, things
- 9:06were still not looking good. "I had
- 9:08things that were outstanding. I owed my
- 9:10grandmother € 1,000. I owed Odido €
- 9:121,000. I had all kinds of taxes that I
- 9:15still had to pay. I still had an Amex
- 9:17bill of several thousand euros that I
- 9:19had to pay.
- 9:20And I just knew that this way, it wasn't
- 9:22going to happen. So I had two options.
- 9:25Either I go work for that friend, make
- 9:27about € 1,000 a week.
- 9:32I can pay everything off as quickly as
- 9:34possible, or I just fully commit to the
- 9:36work again, trust 100%in myself, and
- 9:38just do what needs to be done.
- 9:43And that was the moment I thought, okay
- 9:45, my life has to change.
- 9:49I can't go back into that old grind of
- 9:50construction work and every day, every
- 9:52day with the dust and everything.
- 9:56And then I just decided, you know what?
- 9:58[ __ ] it. For the last year, year and a
- 10:00half, I haven't done at all what needed
- 10:02to be done. I haven't put in all the
- 10:04effort required. I've been way too
- 10:06comfortable.
- 10:08Let me just really give everything for
- 10:09myself now.
- 10:11Yeah, you know, it was a difficult
- 10:12choice, because it could have gone
- 10:14completely wrong, you know, me ending up
- 10:16even deeper in the [ __ ].
- 10:18Um, but luckily I'm almost out of all
- 10:20the [ __ ] right now, and I've actually
- 10:22been able to completely turn my life
- 10:23around.
- 10:25Purely because for the last two months,
- 10:27I chose to give everything, and really
- 10:29give everything, everything.
- 10:34Um yeah, I still find it hard to talk
- 10:35about because it doesn't align with my
- 10:37ego at all, and it's not in line with
- 10:39the person I want to be and know I can
- 10:41be.
- 10:42You know, in January, everything was
- 10:44going perfectly. My life was going well
- 10:47. My coaching was still doing fine. I
- 10:49was trading in Bali. I had made €
- 10:51100,000 and, um, yeah, then I broke my
- 10:53finger, I fell into a deep rut, mentally
- 10:56completely [ __ ] up.
- 10:59And since then, I've really just been
- 11:01chasing money instead of trading from a
- 11:02place of abundance, from freedom.
- 11:06Um, and yeah, since then I've just been
- 11:08too comfortable.
- 11:10I completely messed up my financial
- 11:11situation.
- 11:13And yeah, by no longer putting in the
- 11:15work I used to, things just weren't
- 11:17going well anymore.
- 11:20So guys, it might all look nice and rosy
- 11:22, sunshine and rainbows, but believe me
- 11:24, this past year I've had so much stress
- 11:27about my finances, about things I had
- 11:29left unpaid.
- 11:33And purely because I had counted myself
- 11:34rich too early and couldn't set my ego
- 11:36aside and, yeah, didn't put in the work
- 11:38that I had to put in.
- 11:41I, I got too comfortable. And so maybe
- 11:43you see this now, you know. It is
- 11:45currently November 6th. We're at 8.6 K.
- 11:481,000 plus 1,000%of, I think, last year
- 11:51. Um, but yeah, that didn't come out of
- 11:54nowhere.
- 11:55Literally two months ago, I had to
- 11:57choose for myself, okay, how am I going
- 11:59to fix my life?
- 12:02Am I going to work for that friend of
- 12:04mine, or am I going to give it my full
- 12:06100%and really give my full 100%and get
- 12:08everything out of it that's in me?
- 12:10Because I know that I could do it.
- 12:12I had faith that I could.
- 12:15But I just knew, okay, lately I haven't
- 12:17shown at all that I can do it.
- 12:20Lately I've been way too comfortable,
- 12:22and now if I want to do this, I really
- 12:23have to approach my life differently.
- 12:26And that was just scary. That was a
- 12:28choice I had to make that I found quite
- 12:29nerve-wracking. Because I just knew,
- 12:31okay, for a year and a half I've been
- 12:33comfortable.
- 12:35If I really want to do this now, then I
- 12:37have to become a completely different
- 12:38person.
- 12:39And, and that is one of the reasons this
- 12:41challenge started.
- 12:45I’ve honestly told very few people about
- 12:47this, but I also think that when you
- 12:48guys see how much I believe in myself,
- 12:50how hard I've worked lately, and what a
- 12:52[ __ ] difference that can make in my
- 12:54life.
- 12:58You know, 2 months ago I was literally
- 13:00still doubting, okay, am I going to work
- 13:02for € 200 a day, or am I going all in on
- 13:04my content, am I going to make it happen
- 13:06anyway without certainty and am I just
- 13:08going to pull that off?
- 13:11And now in 5 days we're at 9k and my
- 13:13life is almost completely back on track
- 13:15the way it should be.
- 13:17I've paid off almost everything. I
- 13:19really had a few large amounts
- 13:20outstanding. I have Japan, oh yeah, no,
- 13:22I'm allowed to say it. I have fully paid
- 13:25for Japan. T, that's already almost at
- 13:273K now. Um, so that just popped up too.
- 13:30This vacation to Bali also just popped
- 13:32up for a moment. That’s also, well, €
- 13:342,000 that everything cost in total.
- 13:37Which, uh, yeah, of course all costs
- 13:39money again. But I must honestly say, I
- 13:41am super happy that I went to Bali,
- 13:43because I really provided even more
- 13:45extra input here. Did a lot more extra
- 13:47work, and got to know new people again.
- 13:49Um, so it did cost me something, but I
- 13:51am glad I definitely got it out of it,
- 13:53in my opinion. Another very long session
- 13:56. But guys, I just want to show you the
- 13:58reality.
- 13:59Entrepreneurship is [ __ ] fun, it's
- 14:01[ __ ] hard. If you can set something
- 14:03up for yourself that you can work on
- 14:05with satisfaction every day, that's
- 14:06really great, you know, if you can make
- 14:08a living from it. But yeah, this is also
- 14:10the reality of entrepreneurship. I'm
- 14:12still a young guy. When I started, I was
- 14:15maybe 19 or 20, you know. Suddenly
- 14:17you're earning five times as much.
- 14:19Suddenly, nothing seems like too much
- 14:21anymore, you know. And yeah, you know,
- 14:23then you can make mistakes. And I hope
- 14:25you guys learn from my mistakes so you
- 14:27don't have to make them yourselves.
- 14:29Don't count yourself rich too quickly.
- 14:31You know, if you earn a couple hundred
- 14:33thousand a month, splash some around.
- 14:35All well and good, but if you earn 5 or
- 14:3710k or maybe 20k, you are not rich.
- 14:40Make sure you have a good system for how
- 14:42you handle your money.
- 14:44What I have now set up for myself for
- 14:46the coming period.
- 14:47So I still have a few small things that
- 14:49I need to arrange.
- 14:51I'm actually sure that in two weeks,
- 14:53three at most, so before the end of
- 14:54November, I'll have my whole life back
- 14:56to zero and everything settled.
- 14:59I'm also just earning really well right
- 15:00now.
- 15:02And I'm just going to continue in this
- 15:03line because I won't get too comfortable
- 15:05and will keep putting in the work every
- 15:06day.
- 15:07But what I have now just determined for
- 15:09myself is, okay, this is what I have to
- 15:11do with my money. I'm just going to set
- 15:13aside 50%immediately. Because in the
- 15:15Netherlands you just pay a lot of tax, a
- 15:17lot of, yeah, VAT. And last time I just
- 15:19didn't set it aside properly at all. So
- 15:22I'm going to set aside 50%immediately
- 15:24for taxes, VAT, all those kinds of
- 15:26things.
- 15:2810%of that I could possibly invest
- 15:30long-term, so in the S&P 500 or crypto
- 15:32for the long term.
- 15:34And the intention is actually that it
- 15:35doesn't have to be taken out. Um, but
- 15:37that just, yeah, money can be invested
- 15:40in there.
- 15:41I want to put 20%into trading. Um, just
- 15:44building up my live account steadily,
- 15:46not too fast. And that's exactly what
- 15:48went too fast.
- 15:49In January, I made a hundred thousand in
- 15:52a week, and after losing most of it, I
- 15:53spent the whole time chasing the money.
- 15:56You know, I wasn't even thinking about,
- 15:58okay, is this a good trade?
- 16:00I was only focused on how I could get
- 16:02back to that level as fast as possible.
- 16:05And that is absolutely not the way you
- 16:06should approach trading. It just goes
- 16:08completely wrong. I've noticed that
- 16:10myself. Because of that, I've lost a lot
- 16:12of money over the past year. Um, and
- 16:14it's just not going well mentally with
- 16:16trading.
- 16:17It just doesn't work because you're only
- 16:19focused on the money. Especially since I
- 16:21needed money because I had expenses.
- 16:23Um, you know, sometimes I'd receive
- 16:25money and deposit everything straight
- 16:27into my trading account, and you just
- 16:29can't do that. So what I'm going to do
- 16:31is put a max of 20%into trading. That
- 16:33can go to my live account. It can go to
- 16:35, uh, prop firms, but yeah, when I
- 16:37receive money, I'm just going to split
- 16:39it immediately, four or five different
- 16:41ways, and then I can't mess it up
- 16:43anymore. And then it's not so dependent
- 16:45anymore, you know. Then you just, you're
- 16:47always good. Then you don't have stress
- 16:50, and you can trade with a clear mind.
- 16:52And then I just know I'm going to make
- 16:53it succeed so hard. I just know that
- 16:56this December, yeah, I don't want to
- 16:57make too many crazy claims, but I know I
- 16:59can make a hundred thousand again, just
- 17:01like in January, and that I won't screw
- 17:03it up this time because my mindset will
- 17:05be totally solid by then. So 20%can go
- 17:08that way. I want to put 15%towards
- 17:10living.
- 17:12So, just all my costs: my coach, my
- 17:14accountant, all the programs I use, food
- 17:17, but also flights.
- 17:19Uh, just life itself. Those are the
- 17:22kinds of things I want to spend a max of
- 17:2415%on.
- 17:25Then I want to spend about 15%on my
- 17:27business.
- 17:29So, costs to help us grow, editors,
- 17:31videographer, uh, getting a new camera,
- 17:34all those kinds of things.
- 17:37Just putting 15%back into the business
- 17:39and investing in, yeah, content, and
- 17:41everything that comes with it. And I
- 17:44think that brings us to 100%. One thing
- 17:46I also find very important is continuing
- 17:48to invest in myself. So, uh, I include
- 17:50that under there too. So, for example,
- 17:53getting coaching, books on mentorship,
- 17:55all those kinds of things. That's also
- 17:57part of it, because I always find it
- 17:59important to keep investing in myself
- 18:01and expanding my knowledge.
- 18:03And I haven't done that enough over the
- 18:05past year and a half, which is why I was
- 18:07leaking.
- 18:08Well, I had put almost 10k into ecom
- 18:10coaching. Unfortunately, I didn't get
- 18:12anything out of that. But I do find it
- 18:14important to just, yeah, keep investing
- 18:16in myself. Okay guys, like I said, lots
- 18:18of talking, hopefully, I was able to
- 18:20share a lot of value. Believe me guys,
- 18:22the last year and a half has been really
- 18:24tough for me.
- 18:25I've been abroad a lot, but at times my
- 18:27money was just gone.
- 18:29My money was literally gone. I remember
- 18:31here in Brazil, I'm going to look it up
- 18:33for you. Watch this. Okay, at one point
- 18:35my money was just gone. I didn't know
- 18:36what to do anymore. I maybe had € 5 left
- 18:39in my account.
- 18:41I'm just going to eat one more time now
- 18:43, so I don't have to pay for dinner
- 18:44tonight.
- 18:45Buffet.
- 18:46I had gone to a buffet for my lunch.
- 18:50I downed two meals back-to-back there,
- 18:52so I didn't have to spend any more money
- 18:53on food in the evening.
- 18:55That's how broke I was. I was literally
- 18:58in the dumps. I literally had nothing
- 19:00left. I literally had absolutely nothing
- 19:02left, guys.
- 19:03And yeah, you know, nobody shows stuff
- 19:05like that, but I don't give a [ __ ]. It
- 19:08doesn't matter to me, you know. Everyone
- 19:09can think what they want to think, but
- 19:11I'm being super real with you. I always
- 19:13keep it 100%. And I show you the
- 19:15beautiful moments, you know. This month
- 19:17is going, going super well. 5 days 9k.
- 19:20Wow. But bro, that really didn't come
- 19:23out of nowhere.
- 19:24I've had so much money stress this past
- 19:26year, as I said.
- 19:28Purely because I've been comfortable.
- 19:29Purely because I wasn't putting in the
- 19:31work every single day anymore.
- 19:33I've really, I've literally had moments
- 19:36where I thought, okay, maybe, maybe it
- 19:38should just be over.
- 19:40I had € 500 deposited. I started trading
- 19:43with it. I thought, okay, I need to make
- 19:45something work now, because otherwise I
- 19:46don't know how I'm going to get out of
- 19:48my situation. I lose that entire € 500,
- 19:51bro.
- 19:52I was literally at a point where I
- 19:53thought I can't do it anymore. I can't
- 19:55take this anymore. My life, I have too
- 19:57much stress. I can't handle this anymore
- 19:59. I I need to stop this, and I'm not
- 20:01talking about trading or anything like
- 20:03that.
- 20:04Do you know what I mean?
- 20:06That’s how intense the past year has
- 20:08been.
- 20:09Purely because I counted my chickens too
- 20:11early and purely because I was too
- 20:13comfortable and just stopped putting in
- 20:14the work.
- 20:16And yeah guys, honestly
- 20:22I I just find it—I don’t know how—I
- 20:24haven’t told anyone this, and it feels
- 20:26kind of nice to vent and share this with
- 20:28you.
- 20:32On the other hand, yeah, I’m really
- 20:34opening myself up and being vulnerable.
- 20:37Um but yeah, I’m just very glad I never
- 20:39gave up. That I never thought, okay, I’m
- 20:42done.
- 20:44And um, that I’ve now truly given
- 20:46everything for myself, done everything
- 20:48for it, and that life is finally back on
- 20:50track.
- 20:52Almost so good that I’m going to do a
- 20:54few [ __ ] massive things. Next week I
- 20:57fly—well, this Sunday I fly to Japan.
- 20:59Wednesday I’m running 75 km. In 5 weeks
- 21:02I’ll be on a bodybuilding stage.
- 21:04My physique is super insane and my
- 21:06company is just, yeah, doing better than
- 21:08ever. I literally had, for half a year,
- 21:11the feeling that 10K was the max.
- 21:14This month I doubled it. I think it’s
- 21:16going to double again this month.
- 21:18And that’s purely because I really did
- 21:20everything for it this time.
- 21:22And I’m telling you honestly, I’ve been
- 21:24really close to giving up several times
- 21:26.
- 21:27Even in the last two months, there have
- 21:28really been days where I just thought,
- 21:30yo, how the [ __ ] am I going to do this?
- 21:33I don’t know how I’m going to resolve my
- 21:35situation. We’re talking about literally
- 21:37more than 20k, maybe even 30k that was
- 21:39outstanding at one point, while I was
- 21:41maybe earning 2 or 3k a month again
- 21:43because I just wasn't putting in the
- 21:45work.
- 21:46Bro, do you know how much stress that
- 21:48brings?
- 21:49I have no idea how I’m going to solve
- 21:51that.
- 21:5220, 30k, that’s literally a year of work
- 21:55.
- 21:55That’s a year of what I’m doing now. How
- 21:57am I—how the [ __ ] am I going to solve
- 21:59that? I had so much stress. I still have
- 22:02stress, because it’s still not
- 22:03completely resolved. But now I know,
- 22:05okay, what’s coming in, what’s going to
- 22:08happen in the coming time. Also because
- 22:09I’m not making stupid choices with
- 22:11trading anymore. I’ve put it on hold for
- 22:13just a moment. I’ll just tell you that
- 22:15too. Trading went really well last month
- 22:17. I’m making the sickest trades. I’m
- 22:20going to show you.
- 22:21Watch what I do.
- 22:24Zero drawdown. Literally bottom tick.
- 22:26Just literally from the bottom.
- 22:31Look at this one.
- 22:36Look at this short. € 915. € 1000. And
- 22:40that while I was just walking on the
- 22:42beach. Honestly, the trading this month
- 22:44. It’s going super well. I’m really
- 22:46making bangers. Plus € 5000. Account was
- 22:49at € 1000. The next day it was at € 8000
- 22:52. Look at this.
- 22:54900 withdrawal, 400 plus plus, nothing
- 22:57but profit. One [ __ ] loss. Trading
- 23:00itself isn’t hard for me at all when I’m
- 23:02mentally sharp, bro.
- 23:04I’m making this trading thing work so
- 23:06well.
- 23:07Bottom bottom ticks time after time.
- 23:10Another one.
- 23:12Honestly just the sickest trades. Zero
- 23:14drawn. Really guys, seriously, believe
- 23:17me, the trading itself.
- 23:20Here, a 150k account in one day, passed
- 23:22halfway with three or four trades.
- 23:28Bam, literally top tick.
- 23:31And then literally at the moment too,
- 23:33bro, look at this.
- 23:35Look at the, look how accurate.
- 23:37Look how accurate. Here we’re starting
- 23:39to turn around a little bit.
- 23:41Exactly the bottom out.
- 23:43Another day. € 100. € 250.
- 23:47€ 100 -4 +3 +3 +3, withdraw 400.
- 23:52Here I took five trades, four of which
- 23:54were winners. Winner, winner. Small loss
- 23:57, winner.
- 23:58Here’s another big winner. Pop, pop. All
- 24:01one after another. Wins, wins, wins.
- 24:04Plus 700. Plus 700. Bro, I was literally
- 24:07taking a [ __ ] here. Cleaned up € 1600
- 24:09while taking a [ __ ].
- 24:15>> Banger. Literally a top tick.
- 24:19Literally a top tick. I have a call here
- 24:21. I'm up € 1000. Yeah,
- 24:24>> I could also choose not to show you guys
- 24:26this or not to tell you. But yeah, like
- 24:28I say, I’m so real with you guys. I, I
- 24:30don’t know anyone who is as real with
- 24:32you guys, who really shows you
- 24:34everything. Uh, yeah, just unfiltered.
- 24:37And I also think that you guys can learn
- 24:38a huge amount from that.
- 24:40The trading itself, bro, it’s nothing to
- 24:43me. It’s super easy.
- 24:45But because I currently don’t have my
- 24:47life completely in order yet and still
- 24:49not exactly where I want it to be, so
- 24:50there are still a few things open, then
- 24:52it’s about money.
- 24:56I, you can’t trade in a way where it’s
- 24:57not about money if you still need money
- 24:59.
- 25:00You get me? Look, if I just have €
- 25:0210,000 in my account, then I don’t have
- 25:04to think about money while trading.
- 25:07But lately, I do have to think about
- 25:09money. So that is literally the problem
- 25:11. That is also the reason why I just
- 25:13made a hundred grand in January. I
- 25:14didn't, I didn't need any money. I was
- 25:16sitting there. My money was fine, my
- 25:18life was good, you know. I was in Bali
- 25:20for the first time. I was completely
- 25:22happy. Um, but now, yeah, it’s just not
- 25:24working out. The trading part goes
- 25:26really easily. The mental side just
- 25:28isn't where it needs to be.
- 25:30So, I’ve decided to take a three-week
- 25:32break.
- 25:33I am 100%sure that in three weeks I will
- 25:35have paid off everything I need to pay.
- 25:37Because there is just enough money
- 25:39coming in. Yeah, I still have to pay 5.5
- 25:41k in VAT.
- 25:44I literally had a € 7,000 bill from AMX
- 25:46because, as I’ve already mentioned, I
- 25:48kept chasing money.
- 25:51Kept chasing money, bro. I bought so
- 25:53many [ __ ] combines with that AMX.
- 25:56Yeah, suddenly I didn’t have enough
- 25:58money anymore.
- 26:00Um, yeah, you know, that thing has been
- 26:02outstanding for a long time and it’s
- 26:04just given me so much stress this past
- 26:05year. So I’m just busy getting
- 26:07everything sorted now. Yes, I’ve paid
- 26:09off Japan in full. It was almost € 3,000
- 26:12. The AMX is almost paid off. The VAT
- 26:14will be paid next week. Then I have one
- 26:16more thing I still need to pay.
- 26:18Then I’ll be completely done. Everything
- 26:20paid. Maybe you saw it in the 75 Extreme
- 26:22, but I had to borrow € 1,000 from my
- 26:25grandma because I was coming back to the
- 26:27Netherlands.
- 26:28And yeah, I hadn't extended my visa
- 26:30correctly. Then I suddenly had to cough
- 26:33up € 1,200 at the airport. I didn’t have
- 26:35that. So I borrowed it from my grandma,
- 26:37and I paid her back. I also paid the €
- 26:391,000 bill from Odido. I paid my taxes.
- 26:42Um, yeah, every month I also just have
- 26:45my expenses. I pay my mother for rent
- 26:47every month. Uh, my accountant, this and
- 26:49that. I suddenly had to pay € 1,000 for
- 26:52my program. I don’t know. I’ve paid for
- 26:54a whole lot of things over the last two
- 26:56months. Really almost everything. Yeah,
- 26:58just finishing up the last few things
- 27:00now.
- 27:00And when I’m done and I have a
- 27:02completely clear mind again, I can just
- 27:04start trading again in December. It will
- 27:06just take off, because then I won’t have
- 27:07anything on my mind. And as you just saw
- 27:09, trading itself bro, I can trade really
- 27:12[ __ ] well. It’s really not difficult
- 27:14.
- 27:14But the mental part has just been
- 27:16holding me back lately.
- 27:18Um, so I've just decided now, and this
- 27:20is something I just couldn't manage to
- 27:22say: hey, I'm just stopping for a while
- 27:24.
- 27:26Because I just wanted to make money so
- 27:28fast.
- 27:29I wanted to solve it so quickly.
- 27:31But quick just doesn't work. The only
- 27:33thing that works is putting in the work
- 27:35every day and just doing what needs to
- 27:36be done. And with trading, it's exactly
- 27:38the same. You just have to put the work
- 27:40in every day and do what needs to be
- 27:41done. And that is exactly what I didn't
- 27:43do again. So I've now said I'll just fix
- 27:45everything first.
- 27:48I'll make sure I have everything fixed,
- 27:50and then bro, believe me, in January,
- 27:52December, February, early next year, you
- 27:54guys are going to see the craziest
- 27:56things from me in terms of trading. The
- 27:58craziest things. Because I know my life
- 28:00will be completely in order by then.
- 28:02Financially, I'll be completely in order
- 28:05.
- 28:05Then I'm really going to take over. Then
- 28:07the trading industry...Bro, they aren't
- 28:09ready for me. I can show you. They
- 28:11aren't ready for me. Bottom tick, top
- 28:13tick.
- 28:15If I can manage my risk properly, which
- 28:17I haven't done because I wanted to make
- 28:19money and was focused on money, then
- 28:21it's done.
- 28:23It's honestly done. No one, no one is
- 28:24going to be able to touch what's going
- 28:26to happen. Okay, a very short summary.
- 28:29Please learn from me. If you start
- 28:30making a little money, don't get
- 28:32comfortable too fast. Don't think it
- 28:34will keep coming. Work even harder. Make
- 28:36sure you work even harder. Make sure you
- 28:38get even more out of yourself. Make sure
- 28:40you handle your money smartly. Make sure
- 28:42you set money aside for taxes. Very
- 28:43important, because I didn't do that
- 28:45either. And that's also one of the
- 28:47things that gave me so much stress.
- 28:50Um, yeah man, don't spend too much.
- 28:53Just live calmly. Even now, you know.
- 28:55Right now I'm actually earning quite a
- 28:57bit. I'm here in an apartment for € 100
- 29:00a week.
- 29:00I just have a bed, I have a desk, I have
- 29:03a shower. I don't need anything else,
- 29:05you know. I'm trying to live very
- 29:06minimalist, also with making food, you
- 29:08know. Last time. I go around here
- 29:11spending € 1000 a month on eating out
- 29:13because I eat out three times a day. It
- 29:15works just fine. It's not...look, even
- 29:17if you earn 5k a month, that's just fine
- 29:19. But it's not necessary at all, you
- 29:21know. I can make my own breakfast in the
- 29:23morning. Then I'll just spend € 300. Be
- 29:25a bit smarter with your money. Don't
- 29:27count your chickens before they hatch.
- 29:28Man, I can really tell you. The past six
- 29:30months I've just had too much stress.
- 29:32You don't want to go through this.
- 29:33Believe me. Reaching the point where you
- 29:36think, is my life even worth it? Purely
- 29:37due to money stress. You don't want to
- 29:39experience that. You don't want that.
- 29:41You really don't want that. Believe me.
- 29:44And I am very glad that I am just the
- 29:45person who always keeps going, who never
- 29:47gives up and just makes it happen.
- 29:50Now I've made it happen again. This
- 29:52month it's going to work out.
- 29:54But um, learn from this.
- 29:56Make sure you don't end up in the same
- 29:57situation. We're going to the beach,
- 29:59guys. It is time to get those steps in.
- 30:01And that is also immediately the next
- 30:03thing. Make sure you bring structure
- 30:05into your life. Make sure you make your
- 30:07bed. Make sure you clean your room. Make
- 30:09sure you leave everything neat.
- 30:11For me, it has made such a difference
- 30:13because if you just live in a structured
- 30:15way and do the same few small things
- 30:17every day, that just makes a huge
- 30:18difference.
- 30:20So making your bed, leaving your room
- 30:22neat, and yeah, if everything is sloppy
- 30:24, then your mind is sloppy, then you are
- 30:26a sloppy person and not much will come
- 30:28of it. Let's quickly step on the scale,
- 30:31man. I am very curious.
- 30:34Okay.
- 30:35The weight today is 76.1.
- 30:38I did gain a little bit. Yesterday was
- 30:4175.8, but I did put in all the work. I
- 30:44did an hour of cardio. I walked. I ate
- 30:46all my meals properly. It is also not a
- 30:48big deal. Um, I'm going to order a Gojek
- 30:51. We're going to the beach to get our
- 30:52steps in. Okay guys, it's already almost
- 30:557 o'clock. So before I go to the beach,
- 30:57I'm first going to make breakfast. I was
- 30:59just posting a video. That 75 Hard, also
- 31:02important. Um, yeah, so just going to
- 31:05fry an egg. Just fry an egg. And guys,
- 31:08like I say, you know, I could just not
- 31:10tell everything and not show it, but I
- 31:12think it literally only shows how good I
- 31:14am at what I do.
- 31:15In changing lives and also changing my
- 31:17own life.
- 31:19Because who the [ __ ] do you see go from
- 31:2230,000, well in any case € 30,000 in
- 31:24outstanding payments.
- 31:27Only earning € 3,000 per month. Having
- 31:30no idea how I'm going to solve it. 2
- 31:32months, 2.5, 3 months, having completely
- 31:35fixed everything.
- 31:37That is literally life-changing. That is
- 31:40literal, okay, imagine 2, 3k a month, 20
- 31:42, 30k is almost a whole year. 3 months,
- 31:45everything fixed, plus the best shape of
- 31:48my life.
- 31:49Plus running 75 km plus a bodybuilding
- 31:52show.
- 31:54Bro, I am literally showing you in real
- 31:56time.
- 31:57Even if, yeah, this maybe isn't the most
- 32:00beautiful, the freest. That will come
- 32:02next year. 2027 is the year we are going
- 32:04to take over completely. I am literally
- 32:06showing you in real time how fast your
- 32:08life can change if you put in the work
- 32:10every day. Literally, I am literally the
- 32:12perfect example. Literally the thing I
- 32:14do, what I help people with. I, I am
- 32:16literally making it happen myself. I am
- 32:19sure that none of my clients ever had to
- 32:21, yeah, achieve something like this or
- 32:23whatever.
- 32:24But I am literally showing how much you
- 32:26can change your life in a short period
- 32:28if you do the work every day, give 100%
- 32:30every day, and every day just do what
- 32:32needs to be done. Bro,
- 32:35I am literally on a bodybuilding stage
- 32:37in a month.
- 32:39Wednesday I run 75 km, and just this
- 32:42month I sorted out 20, 30k in
- 32:44outstanding payments in 3 months.
- 32:47While 2 months ago I was only bringing
- 32:49in 2k a month from my coaching.
- 32:52It's crazy how fast your life can change
- 32:54, right? So even if you are at a point
- 32:56now where you actually just hate your
- 32:57life or think, how will I ever get out
- 32:59of this situation?
- 33:01You can get out of it in record time.
- 33:03Believe me, nothing is too bad. Nothing
- 33:05is too intense. I have really had days
- 33:08where I thought, yo, this is impossible
- 33:10. This can't be. I won't be able to
- 33:12solve this. No, actually not even that I
- 33:13thought this can't be, but more that I
- 33:15really just didn't know, how, how am I
- 33:17going to do this? But like I say, if you
- 33:19put in the work every day, everything is
- 33:21possible. I just know that 99%of people
- 33:23in my situation wouldn't talk about it
- 33:26at all or whatever, or would fool you.
- 33:28But I literally don't give a [ __ ].
- 33:30Because everyone who follows me, who
- 33:32watches my videos, knows first of all
- 33:34how real I am. Knows second of all what
- 33:36I manage to accomplish. 3 years ago I
- 33:38was literally still fat. I was 105 kg.
- 33:41I am top fit, bro. I am top fit. I am
- 33:44literally beautiful. You've seen my
- 33:46physique. It's insane. I don't have to
- 33:48make anything look like anything,
- 33:49because everyone knows how real I am and
- 33:50the things I manage to accomplish anyway
- 33:52. And I think that a lot of people can
- 33:53appreciate that as well. Just that
- 33:55purity, that rawness too.
- 33:57For example, that last vlog. Make $
- 33:595,000 in one day. The next day, I still
- 34:02get up at 5 a.m. I still do exactly the
- 34:04same thing. I still work all day long.
- 34:06I’m not out partying in clubs, nothing.
- 34:09Wow. You know, I’m just really being
- 34:11myself.
- 34:12I’m just living what I show you guys.
- 34:16And I, yeah, I think a lot of people can
- 34:18appreciate that, I hope. And um yeah,
- 34:20that's why I actually don't care,
- 34:22because it's only going to get better
- 34:24anyway.
- 34:25Something else that changed my life, a
- 34:27good breakfast. If you start your day
- 34:29right, the rest of the day will go well
- 34:31too. There are two options.
- 34:34Eggs with toast or quark with fruit.
- 34:38Then you might possibly have two other
- 34:40options. Protein oats or something.
- 34:42That's possible too. Oatmeal, something
- 34:44in that direction works. Uh, or meat.
- 34:46Meat if you really want to eat like a
- 34:48meal. Steak. Something like that works
- 34:50too. Steak with eggs, steak with uh
- 34:52potato, chicken, who knows. But that’s
- 34:55not really breakfast for most people.
- 34:57But those are basically the only options
- 34:59for breakfast. Look, you know, that’s
- 35:01actually pretty fun in itself. My
- 35:02coaching right now for the value I
- 35:04deliver isn’t expensive at all, you know
- 35:06.
- 35:07Um but it's more that I’m not quite at
- 35:09that point myself yet.
- 35:13Um and I don’t want to make it look like
- 35:15I’m already there, you know. I just show
- 35:17you guys everything honestly, openly.
- 35:19It doesn’t matter, because yeah, who
- 35:22cares?
- 35:23Uh but at the point where everything is
- 35:26how I want it, believe me, my price will
- 35:28double, triple, quadruple, quintuple.
- 35:31Because I just know, bro, the value I
- 35:34provide to people is insane.
- 35:36If you look at how I completely changed
- 35:38my life, it’s insane. 3 years ago I was
- 35:41fat, I weighed 105 kg, I did absolutely
- 35:43nothing. Last month my company did
- 35:46almost 30k in revenue. It’s only going
- 35:48to be more in the coming time. Um I’ve
- 35:50just become a completely different
- 35:51person. And that is exactly what I help
- 35:53people with. Uh to just, yeah, become a
- 35:55completely different person.
- 35:59And now I just know from what we deliver
- 36:00, from what is possible if you really
- 36:02put in the work, that the price I’m
- 36:04asking now is really worth nothing.
- 36:09And uh at the point where I'm at an even
- 36:11higher level, I'll have even more
- 36:12authority.
- 36:15Um, and then my price is definitely
- 36:17going up quite a few times. So, uh, yeah
- 36:19, you know, if you're doubting, I'd say
- 36:22:" Hurry up, man. "Because in a few
- 36:24months, my life will look very different
- 36:26and you'll be paying a whole lot more, I
- 36:28can tell you that.
- 36:29Um, let me see. Something else that's
- 36:32really important.
- 36:33Um, pick up your day or your moments as
- 36:35quickly as possible.
- 36:37Look, it's already 7:15.
- 36:41I'm an hour later than I would normally
- 36:42go to the beach.
- 36:44For a lot of people, if a day doesn't go
- 36:46exactly as they want—so, uh, yeah, you
- 36:48have a plan and it doesn't go exactly
- 36:50that way—they just drop everything else
- 36:52entirely. Then they think:" Yeah, forget
- 36:53it, there's always tomorrow. "Bro,
- 36:55you're literally throwing the whole day
- 36:57away because of a few minutes. Because
- 36:59of a few hours, you know. It's such a
- 37:01waste. You can still get so much out of
- 37:02your day every day. Even if your morning
- 37:04didn't go as expected. Even if something
- 37:06else happens. Not exactly how you want
- 37:08it, according to plan. The thing I
- 37:09always do and have taught myself is to
- 37:11pick it back up immediately. And not
- 37:13after a week or not after a few days,
- 37:15but just literally at that same moment.
- 37:18So the moment my schedule suddenly
- 37:20changes, I just look as quickly as
- 37:21possible:" Okay, how do I get back on
- 37:24track as fast as I can?
- 37:26"What is the thing I need to do right
- 37:27now to get back on track?
- 37:29So, yeah, I just quickly made some food
- 37:31. Uh, it’s more convenient since I’m a
- 37:33bit later, because otherwise I’d have to
- 37:35cram three meals in later. Um, and now
- 37:37we're just going to the beach anyway.
- 37:39I'm going to follow my morning routine
- 37:40completely. Maybe I'll be home half an
- 37:42hour or an hour later than usual.
- 37:44Who cares?
- 37:46You know, I could just stay in bed and
- 37:48think," Yeah, it’s not going exactly as
- 37:50I want, so I'll just do nothing at all.
- 37:53"No, you just do exactly what needs to
- 37:55be done.
- 37:56Only maybe at a later time, or you shift
- 37:58it, or whatever.
- 37:59But a lot of people throw away hours or
- 38:01days or sometimes weeks because things
- 38:03just aren't going exactly as they want.
- 38:05You just immediately pick up what needs
- 38:07to be done. So the morning walk needs to
- 38:09happen. Well, I’m a bit later than usual
- 38:11. Okay, doesn’t matter. After that,
- 38:13cardio. Then ice bath, sauna. Then come
- 38:16back home here, maybe grab some food,
- 38:18work, you know?
- 38:20Pick everything back up immediately and
- 38:22don't throw away days, weeks, or hours
- 38:24just because another hour or minute
- 38:26didn't go exactly as you wanted.
- 38:28You probably do this quite often. You
- 38:30probably don't even realize you're doing
- 38:32it, but it makes such a big difference.
- 38:34Just be very intentional with your time
- 38:36. So you can put every minute of the day
- 38:38to good use. So really look at, okay,
- 38:40when am I leaking time?
- 38:43When am I doing things that shouldn't
- 38:45require my time at all, or where I
- 38:46shouldn't be putting any time into?
- 38:49And then it's time to say, okay, this is
- 38:51what I should still do. I'm going to get
- 38:53to work on that now. We're going to the
- 38:55beach. Let's go. I still get the
- 38:56question quite often:" Why do you wake
- 38:58up at 5 a.m. every day? "Especially when
- 39:00it’s not necessary." Because I can
- 39:02literally get up whenever I want. Nobody
- 39:04tells me what time I have to get up.
- 39:07But what you have to realize is that
- 39:08you've been taught your whole life to do
- 39:10the minimum.
- 39:12A lot of people do the minimum. I did
- 39:14too. At school, I did the minimum.
- 39:16Just enough to pass. At work, I did the
- 39:19minimum, because, yeah, you know, I
- 39:21didn't care. It was just my job, anyway
- 39:23. So I just did enough not to get fired
- 39:25.
- 39:26But if you want to get more out of your
- 39:28life, you don't want to do the minimum,
- 39:29but the maximum.
- 39:31You want to do everything. You want to
- 39:32give as much as possible.
- 39:34So instead of waking up just in time to
- 39:36go to work, you wake up early so you
- 39:38have 2 or 3 hours for yourself to crush
- 39:40it.
- 39:42In the morning, nobody is doing anything
- 39:44.
- 39:45Waking up, opening the phone, scrolling
- 39:47.
- 39:48What you want to do is the opposite.
- 39:50If you really want to change your life,
- 39:52you don't want to do the minimum. You
- 39:53want to do the maximum. You want to
- 39:55provide maximum input every day so that
- 39:57you can see that change as quickly as
- 39:59possible.
- 40:00So that means waking up early, doing
- 40:02things for yourself immediately, reading
- 40:04, taking steps, working on your own
- 40:06business before you go to work.
- 40:08Working on your own side hustle,
- 40:10whatever it is.
- 40:12That’s why I walk every day in the
- 40:13morning.
- 40:14Just time for myself.
- 40:16Important to be fit anyway. Taking steps
- 40:19. If you do it at the start of the day,
- 40:21you have to think about it less later on
- 40:23.
- 40:24But you also just want to provide more
- 40:26input. You know, if you want to provide
- 40:28minimal input for school or your boss or
- 40:30your job, you do you. That's totally
- 40:32fine. I did that too. But for yourself,
- 40:34you literally want to provide maximum
- 40:36input for your body, for your mental
- 40:38state, for your physical state, for your
- 40:40business. You want to go all out. Why
- 40:42the [ __ ] would you sleep in until 8 or 9
- 40:44o'clock then? Are you crazy?
- 40:47Are you crazy?
- 40:48You could have been grinding for 4 hours
- 40:50already, bro. You want to provide
- 40:52maximum input. Hey, act normal, man.
- 40:56Crazy day.
- 40:59He's providing minimal input. He gets
- 41:01mad that I’m telling him the truth.
- 41:04But seriously, if you really, really,
- 41:06really want to change your life as fast
- 41:08as possible, then you want to make the
- 41:10most of your time and provide maximum
- 41:11input.
- 41:13And that also means waking up before
- 41:14your alarm.
- 41:16That you don't wake up at 8 o'clock if
- 41:17you have to work at 9.
- 41:19No, you wake up before that. You’re
- 41:21going to get work done before that.
- 41:23Reading, learning, working, or being
- 41:25active.
- 41:26One of those four, those are the only
- 41:28options. Leave that phone alone. Block
- 41:30your phone.
- 41:31Use an app to block your phone and just
- 41:33get to work.
- 41:35As early as possible.
- 41:37Believe me, it literally changed my
- 41:39whole life. At one point, I worked from
- 41:426 to 6. I had to wake up at 5 o'clock to
- 41:44get everything ready. I wanted to run
- 41:46during the day, but yeah, after work I
- 41:48went to the gym at 6. After that, I went
- 41:50straight to sleep. When am I going to
- 41:52run?
- 41:535 in the morning.
- 41:55I woke up even earlier to be able to run
- 41:57because I wanted to invest time in
- 41:59myself and in learning.
- 42:01My physique.
- 42:03Do you get what I mean? Sleeping in is
- 42:05for the rich and the successful.
- 42:07But if you aren't at the point in your
- 42:09life where you want to be yet, why are
- 42:11you sleeping in?
- 42:12And then you say you want it so badly,
- 42:14but you could be out of bed 3 hours
- 42:16earlier. You don't want it, bro. You
- 42:17don't want it. And then you really have
- 42:19to ask yourself, how seriously do you
- 42:21take yourself? You know, in the
- 42:23beginning, I never wanted to get up
- 42:24early. At one point, I had to set my
- 42:26alarm for my boss at 5 o'clock.
- 42:29But for myself, why wouldn't I be able
- 42:31to do it?
- 42:33If I can wake up this early to work for
- 42:35my boss, why can’t I wake up just as
- 42:37early to work for myself?
- 42:40Even on the weekend. The weekend is
- 42:42exactly the same for me. I wake up at 5
- 42:44a.m. I don’t believe in sleeping in.
- 42:46It’s no different to me.
- 42:48It’s just another day to work on myself
- 42:50. That’s the difference in that mindset
- 42:52. "Yeah, it’s the weekend.""I’m going to
- 42:54sleep in."
- 42:55No, you can get up early for your boss,
- 42:57so you can also get up early for
- 42:59yourself to get further in your life.
- 43:01Maybe it sounds a bit crazy, but I
- 43:03actually see going through [ __ ] in your
- 43:05life as something good and positive.
- 43:07Think about it: the more [ __ ] you’ve
- 43:09been through, the stronger you become as
- 43:11a person and as a man, and the more you
- 43:13can handle in life. You should really
- 43:15see it as a slingshot.
- 43:17Imagine you’re going way down into the
- 43:18ground.
- 43:20The elastic is stretched tight, pulled
- 43:22all the way down.
- 43:23Most people hold onto that elastic.
- 43:26The moment you let go of that elastic,
- 43:28bam. You can literally only move further
- 43:30upward. The deeper into the [ __ ] you go
- 43:32, the further you can go up. And that’s
- 43:34what I’ve noticed, too. My life was
- 43:36[ __ ]. I was 105 kg. Everything in my
- 43:39situation sucked.
- 43:40The only way out was up, because I let
- 43:42go of the elastic and just went for that
- 43:44change, made that change.
- 43:46Now, it’s exactly the same.
- 43:49This past year I’ve been through so much
- 43:51[ __ ] [ __ ], but the fact that I’m
- 43:52getting through it, that I manage to
- 43:54solve everything, means I can go 10
- 43:56times higher than the low point I
- 43:57reached.
- 44:00So, if I look at what I’ve had to go
- 44:02through this past year, what I’ve dealt
- 44:04with, if I look at how I literally
- 44:06solved my whole life in three months and
- 44:08got it all together, bro, how could you
- 44:10not go all the way to the top?
- 44:13You know, all the [ __ ] you go through,
- 44:15you have to see it as something positive
- 44:16. If you make it through, you can only
- 44:19go further upward after that.
- 44:20And yeah, see it as an elastic band. See
- 44:23it as a springboard.
- 44:25The deeper you jump onto a trampoline,
- 44:27the higher you launch.
- 44:29And yeah, if you just don’t give up,
- 44:31keep going, and always make sure you
- 44:32give your all, everything is going to be
- 44:34alright.
- 44:35I’ll even go as far as to say that 2027
- 44:37will be the year I become a millionaire
- 44:39. And we’re going to, we’re going to see
- 44:41it happen. We are going to look back in
- 44:43a year, but I already know it's going to
- 44:45happen, because it already has.
- 44:48Okay guys, another one of my secrets
- 44:49that changed my life is combining things
- 44:51whenever possible.
- 44:54I am I am walking on the beach. I am
- 44:56practicing my Spanish here.
- 44:59It's part of the earth.
- 45:02You know, this just saves me half an
- 45:04hour. I could do this at home on my bed
- 45:06, but I can also just do it while
- 45:07walking.
- 45:09And by combining such things, things you
- 45:11actually have to do anyway, things you
- 45:13want to do anyway, and doing them at the
- 45:15same time, yeah, you save a sick amount
- 45:17of time. You can make it very big, but
- 45:19also very small. Why don't you brush
- 45:21your teeth in the shower? Saves you 3
- 45:23minutes. You have to do both anyway.
- 45:25What are you going to do? Not brush your
- 45:27teeth, not shower? Do it at the same
- 45:28time. By just putting and combining a
- 45:30lot of small activities together, I just
- 45:32get so much more out of my day. When I
- 45:35am walking, I am also working. Am I
- 45:37sending texts? Am I answering DMs, am I
- 45:39learning my Spanish?
- 45:42Just all those small things can ensure
- 45:44that you get a lot more out of your day
- 45:45.
- 45:47At one point, I was even working during
- 45:49my sets at the gym, during those 2
- 45:51minutes between every set.
- 45:53And that might be a bit exaggerated, but
- 45:55yeah, you get what I mean. Just do
- 45:57things together. Okay, we have arrived
- 45:59at the spot. We're going to have a nice
- 46:01coconut drink. One more thing that
- 46:02changed my life.
- 46:04Which is perhaps stopping the chasing of
- 46:06women and especially sexual stimuli.
- 46:09It's not something I talk about a whole
- 46:11lot. In the beginning I talked about it
- 46:13a bit more, but I do nothing with women
- 46:15.
- 46:15I literally do nothing with women.
- 46:17The intention for me was actually to
- 46:19remain a virgin until I had found a good
- 46:21woman.
- 46:22Due to alcohol, that unfortunately
- 46:24didn't work out. And also just the fact
- 46:26that because I just looked good, it was
- 46:27suddenly not difficult at all anymore. I
- 46:29didn't even have to put in any effort.
- 46:31So, uh, that is unfortunately where I
- 46:33went wrong. I would have liked to see it
- 46:35differently, but yeah, those are still
- 46:37actually my principles. So even though
- 46:39this is how I look, this is how I pay
- 46:41attention to my appearance.
- 46:44I can, well, for the guys who maybe
- 46:46don't know how it works, um, I can tell
- 46:48you if you look good and fit, you don't
- 46:50have to put in any effort to bring a
- 46:52woman home.
- 46:53Literally zero. Literally nothing. It it
- 46:56happens on its own. If you want to, it
- 46:58can happen. No problem at all. But the
- 47:00last time I did anything with a woman
- 47:02was more than half a year ago.
- 47:05And not because I can't, but purely
- 47:07because I don't need to chase that urge
- 47:08.
- 47:11Um, and I think that's a very big part
- 47:13of personal development.
- 47:14And if you really manage to restrain
- 47:16yourself in every area, even in that
- 47:18area, then you can literally, as I said
- 47:20, I actually just wanted to wait.
- 47:22Unfortunately, that didn't work out. It
- 47:24went wrong once, or even twice.
- 47:27Um, but that doesn't mean it's suddenly
- 47:29necessary to stop living by my
- 47:31principles altogether and just, yeah,
- 47:33pick someone up from the gym every week
- 47:35or from the beach or whatever.
- 47:38Um, so yeah, for now it's been more than
- 47:40half a year, and I'm just trying to keep
- 47:42that up until I have a nice woman.
- 47:45And in the meantime, I don't give in to
- 47:46those urges.
- 47:47It's also something I struggled with for
- 47:49a very long time. Especially with
- 47:51watching, you know, a lot, I know that
- 47:53many guys have trouble with that. I
- 47:55struggled with it myself for a very long
- 47:57time. Now it's something I haven't done
- 47:59in a few months. I haven't watched
- 48:00anything. And uh, that makes such a big
- 48:02difference in your life. For real. Guys
- 48:05, believe me.
- 48:06Make sure you get your sexual urges
- 48:08under control.
- 48:09That you don't have that impulse. And if
- 48:11you do have that impulse, that you can
- 48:12control it. And if you as a man with
- 48:14high testosterone who looks good, who
- 48:16can get it if he wants it, if you manage
- 48:18to do that bro, then you are literally
- 48:20unstoppable.
- 48:21Then you're then you're honestly
- 48:23unstoppable. This is literally perhaps
- 48:24the highest standard of self-discipline
- 48:26and self-preservation and self-control,
- 48:28you know. Um, a bit of losing weight, a
- 48:30bit of looking really good and such.
- 48:32It's all great, but if you can't keep
- 48:34yourself under control, then you're
- 48:36still not really the man you should be.
- 48:39And I just think doing things with just
- 48:41anyone doesn't get you anywhere.
- 48:43It it only takes energy away from you.
- 48:46It literally takes energy and it brings
- 48:47you nothing.
- 48:49It is short-term satisfaction.
- 48:51Um, and in the long run, it only breaks
- 48:54you down. And that is why I don't do it
- 48:55. And that is why I would advise you not
- 48:57to just do anything.
- 48:59You know, if you have a girlfriend who,
- 49:01yeah, is good for you, with whom you are
- 49:02building something serious, whom you
- 49:04really love, then you can just do your
- 49:06thing.
- 49:07But I would say, don't just do anything
- 49:09with ladies.
- 49:10Uh, it might sound very old-fashioned or
- 49:13something, but it really makes a big
- 49:14difference in life, believe me. And you
- 49:16know what the fun part is? I am
- 49:18extremely proud that I don't do those
- 49:19kinds of things. You know, when I
- 49:21weighed 105 kg and I looked like this,
- 49:23you know. And you are a virgin or
- 49:25something, then it's a different story,
- 49:27because then it's more like, yeah, I
- 49:28can't get it. And uh, then it comes more
- 49:31from scarcity, if you know what I mean.
- 49:34And you know, I'm not trying to flex at
- 49:36all or see myself as something very high
- 49:38up, but when I look like this, believe
- 49:40me guys, it is really not hard to get
- 49:42women.
- 49:44Even women where I myself just think,
- 49:46how, how do I manage this? How do I pull
- 49:49this off? Really just true gems, you
- 49:51know?
- 49:52And if you can still restrain yourself,
- 49:54then you show that you really have
- 49:56control over yourself. That you really
- 49:58are the person you want to be.
- 50:00And so not if you, yeah, don't do such
- 50:02things out of scarcity because you can't
- 50:04or can't get it done.
- 50:06But at the moment that you can actually
- 50:08do whatever you want and then, yeah,
- 50:10make that choice for yourself, then you
- 50:12just show, okay, I have self-control.
- 50:15And I think that as a man, especially if
- 50:17you are ambitious, that is super strong
- 50:19. And that, yeah, many people don't talk
- 50:22about this and many people, I think,
- 50:24also don't live this way.
- 50:26But I think, um, it is something that
- 50:28should be talked about more and it is
- 50:30also something that more people could,
- 50:32yeah, take as an example.
- 50:35In a good woman you can put all your
- 50:37time, effort, and money, and you will
- 50:39get it all back.
- 50:41But in anything else, it is simply not
- 50:42worth the investment of your time and
- 50:44effort.
- 50:46And even though it's literally just 10
- 50:47minutes on the couch and you're done,
- 50:49the energy it drains from you still
- 50:51makes it not worth it.
- 50:53Trust me. It is literally not worth it.
- 50:55Even if you invest zero money in it,
- 50:57even if it's just 10 minutes of your
- 50:59time.
- 51:00Even if it's just for that quick
- 51:02satisfaction, your energy, literally
- 51:04your life force, goes down so much.
- 51:08And uh, the moment you can control
- 51:09yourself at that point, so don't look at
- 51:11things, don't mess around.
- 51:14Don't fool around, you know, don't chase
- 51:16after women.
- 51:17If you can just fully focus on yourself
- 51:19, go after your goals and uh, or have a
- 51:21good partner.
- 51:23And if you don't have that, wait for it
- 51:24.
- 51:25Or at least only talk to someone
- 51:27seriously and don't waste any time.
- 51:30Not dealing with 10 ladies at once makes
- 51:32a huge difference in your life. So I
- 51:33think you have to look at it a bit like
- 51:35this.
- 51:36For every ab on your stomach, you have
- 51:38to put in 10 times less effort for women
- 51:40.
- 51:41So if you have one big belly, then you
- 51:43have to put in 100%effort. If you have
- 51:46two little blocks, it’s one block more,
- 51:48you only have to do 10%of that, and with
- 51:50every block it becomes 10%less.
- 51:54No, but honestly, I've noticed it over
- 51:56the past few years. I'm also busy with
- 51:58social media content, of course, and uh
- 52:02it makes such a big difference how you
- 52:04just physically look. Some women don't
- 52:05care about your personality at all.
- 52:10I’ve literally had women of 30, 35, even
- 52:1240 who, yeah, actually only wanted to
- 52:14hear from you or wanted something from
- 52:16you because of your appearance.
- 52:21But, uh, yeah, as I said guys, that's
- 52:23not, that's not important.
- 52:26It's not good.
- 52:27You just have to live true to yourself.
- 52:29And uh, yeah, as I said, the best thing
- 52:31is to just find a good woman who really
- 52:33supports your goals, your dreams. And
- 52:36otherwise, uh, you just have to grind
- 52:38solo, man. It's that simple. We're going
- 52:40to jump rope for half an hour.
- 52:47Always have a lot of work to do. Ah, I
- 52:49can. Ah, my foot is burning hot. Ah, the
- 52:52grass was burning hot too. Ah, I just
- 52:55have to jump. Ah,
- 52:57oh, my feet.
- 53:00Oh y, I stepped into those slippers, but
- 53:01those slippers are black and they've
- 53:03been burning in the sun here. I know
- 53:05that. I'm in Bali. Ah, one thing I find
- 53:07very important is to at least break a
- 53:09sweat every morning.
- 53:11It doesn’t matter if you go to the gym,
- 53:14do cardio, or just go for a walk.
- 53:16You should just start your day with some
- 53:18activity.
- 53:20And uh if possible, if it’s really
- 53:22impossible, just get up earlier. You
- 53:24know, I used to go running at 4:30 AM.
- 53:27But just try to start your day with
- 53:28something, some kind of activity. Break
- 53:30a little bit of a sweat.
- 53:32It definitely ensures that your body is
- 53:34good.
- 53:38But mentally, it’s also great to clear
- 53:40your head in the morning with some
- 53:41exercise, some activity, to unwind, and
- 53:43then you can take on the day again.
- 53:47And it’s much easier to just get your
- 53:49activity done for the day.
- 53:51Because if you have to do all your
- 53:52activity in the evening, there’s a big
- 53:54chance you’ll skip it or won’t make it
- 53:56or whatever.
- 53:57So just try to do some activity in the
- 53:59morning. Get a little bit active. Okay.
- 54:02Then just continue with your day feeling
- 54:04good.
- 54:05Completely sweaty. Crazy.
- 54:17>> I think a lot of people live in a
- 54:18routine very unconsciously.
- 54:20So basically doing things every day they
- 54:22don't want to do or shouldn't do, just
- 54:24because it’s such a strong routine.
- 54:27And if you can just make those kinds of
- 54:28things routine, things that really push
- 54:30you forward, the things you want to do,
- 54:32like exercising, all those kinds of
- 54:33things. My morning routine is reading,
- 54:36walking, and then doing cardio. Ice bath
- 54:38, sauna is nice. My morning routine. I
- 54:40don’t have to think about it at all.
- 54:42If you can work those kinds of things
- 54:44into your life by just doing them every
- 54:45day, until at a certain point it’s so
- 54:47ingrained that it’s just the standard.
- 54:50Yeah. You literally change your life.
- 54:53All those bad habits that are currently
- 54:55a routine, if you work those out and
- 54:57replace them with good habits. You don't
- 54:59even have to think about them anymore.
- 55:00It all goes automatically. Guys, I'm at
- 55:02the gym.
- 55:04Suddenly run into the lost one.
- 55:06He is ruthless.
- 55:07>> He’s still here. Are you still alive?
- 55:09He’s alive. Nothing to worry about.
- 55:11How’s it going, man?
- 55:12>> But I’m making a vlog, a bit more
- 55:14educational.
- 55:15What is your most important life lesson
- 55:17for the people today?
- 55:18>> Time will tell, guys. You hear it.
- 55:21>> The truth always comes to light.
- 55:23>> Wow, you're still alive.
- 55:25Of course, bro.
- 55:26>> People, people miss you, man.
- 55:28>> The best ever.
- 55:34Oh, it is seriously insanely cold.
- 55:37As I said in other videos before, I try
- 55:39to jump right in and teach myself not to
- 55:41delay uncomfortable choices.
- 55:45So I just jump straight in, then it's
- 55:47[ __ ] cold. But if you have to get in
- 55:49anyway, it stays cold. Might as well
- 55:51just jump in quickly.
- 55:53Ah, it's really cold.
- 55:58It's cold, man.
- 56:00With food, it's exactly the same. I have
- 56:03a small kitchen here, but yeah, two
- 56:05burners, a couple of small pans.
- 56:07It's very easy to say, yeah, I'm going
- 56:09to order food here. Look at everything I
- 56:12have here.
- 56:13This is all mine.
- 56:14Bread, eggs, dark chocolate, yeah,
- 56:17everything.
- 56:18I’ve even prepped my own meals here.
- 56:21For example, I fly on Sunday. I
- 56:23literally have every meal I'll eat on
- 56:25Sunday, even though I'll be traveling
- 56:27for 12 hours, just according to plan.
- 56:30There are always plenty of excuses not
- 56:32to do it, but there are also always
- 56:33plenty of solutions to do it.
- 56:36And that is what you need to realize,
- 56:38like, okay, it doesn't matter how many
- 56:40excuses there are. It doesn't matter how
- 56:42difficult the situation is.
- 56:44It can always be solved if I really want
- 56:46it.
- 56:47And so you have to ask yourself, how
- 56:48badly do I want it? How serious am I
- 56:50about this? And don't get me wrong, I'm
- 56:52in competition prep right now, so it has
- 56:54to be a bit stricter, because in four
- 56:56weeks I'll be on stage.
- 56:58But even when I was working, for example
- 57:00, I just wanted to eat unprocessed food
- 57:02, get good nutrition in, and get the
- 57:04right things in every day.
- 57:07It felt weird to bring food or, uh,
- 57:09carry a whole bag full of food with me.
- 57:12But at a certain point, I realized, okay
- 57:14, I can keep eating at gas stations
- 57:16every day.
- 57:17And it is, yeah, difficult because I'm
- 57:19on the road all day, but I can also just
- 57:21make it happen and bring my own meals.
- 57:24And then I just had what I needed to eat
- 57:26, what I wanted to eat, every day. Even
- 57:28if the situation wasn't great, you can
- 57:30always make it happen if you want it
- 57:32badly enough.
- 57:34So you also have to ask yourself, do I
- 57:36want it badly enough?
- 57:37Why am I making excuses? Why am I
- 57:39negotiating with myself? If I say to
- 57:41myself: "Okay, I only eat unprocessed
- 57:44food." Why am I negotiating? Why do I
- 57:46make excuses like "now it's not possible
- 57:48"? No, just make sure it gets done.
- 57:51It's as simple as that. I am currently
- 57:52eating five meals a day.
- 57:55I’m flying to Japan on Sunday at
- 57:57midnight and then I arrive around noon.
- 58:00What am I going to do? I have no idea.
- 58:02I'm just taking two rice meals with me.
- 58:04So one with rice and chicken, one with
- 58:06sweet potato and chicken. Cream of rice
- 58:09is one of my meals. I think I'll just
- 58:11bring it with me. That I'll just grab
- 58:12some water somewhere there. Boiling
- 58:14water so I can just eat that meal.
- 58:17Then I think when I get there I'll eat
- 58:18my eggs with bread and then my quark in
- 58:20the evening.
- 58:22Then I've just done everything.
- 58:24At the airport, I’ll take some steps
- 58:25during my break to get my step count in
- 58:27.
- 58:28You know, it just has to happen if you
- 58:30want something.
- 58:31You can make excuses for yourself, but
- 58:33nobody is forcing you to do it. Nobody
- 58:35is forcing you to eat healthy every day
- 58:37. You do it for yourself.
- 58:40So then you also have to make the choice
- 58:42for yourself that I'm just going to do
- 58:43it, because I want the result it gives
- 58:45me if I do it.
- 58:47Nobody is telling you: "Yeah, you have
- 58:49to take 15,000 steps every day."
- 58:52I imposed that on myself and that's why
- 58:54I do it. Because I know myself: "Okay,
- 58:56if I do that, then I'm going to reach my
- 58:58goal." Do you get what I mean?
- 59:01You have to take responsibility for your
- 59:02own life. If your boss says something to
- 59:04you, that's something else entirely.
- 59:07If you have your own goals, if you have
- 59:09your own wishes, if you want to create a
- 59:11certain situation for yourself and
- 59:12certain things come with that, then it's
- 59:14your job to get it done.
- 59:17And you can say: "Oh yeah, sorry, but I
- 59:19can't manage it." And uh, it is
- 59:21literally your job. You want it. Nobody
- 59:23else is going to do it for you. You have
- 59:25to you have to handle it. Nobody feels
- 59:27sorry for you. Nobody is going to say to
- 59:29you: "Oh yeah, yeah, I understand."
- 59:31Because you were so busy. You want
- 59:33results, right? You do want to get it
- 59:35done, right?
- 59:36Everyone cheers for you once you've
- 59:38managed to do it. Sure, when I weighed
- 59:40105 kg, people could say to me: "Yeah,
- 59:42but you're busy, it makes sense." But
- 59:45now that I've fixed it, everyone has
- 59:46respect for me.
- 59:48Everyone says: "You made it happen." Do
- 59:50you think that would have happened if I
- 59:53, uh, negotiated with myself like: "
- 59:55Yeah, yeah, okay, let’s just not do it
- 59:57today.""Let’s just not do it today,
- 59:59because, uh, I don’t really feel like it
- 1:00:00, or it doesn’t quite fit into my
- 1:00:02schedule," or something. You are, you
- 1:00:04have to take that responsibility
- 1:00:05yourself. Okay guys, I'm almost done.
- 1:00:08I’ve, uh, posted the full story on
- 1:00:11TikTok.
- 1:00:12I’ll be honest with you, I found this
- 1:00:13quite a challenge.
- 1:00:15Uh, for a long time I didn't tell anyone
- 1:00:17how things went, how my life has
- 1:00:19unfolded.
- 1:00:20Um, yeah, because it’s obviously quite
- 1:00:22vulnerable to just put something like
- 1:00:24that out there.
- 1:00:26But I think it’s really important to
- 1:00:28share things like this. That a lot of
- 1:00:29people might benefit from it.
- 1:00:32And yeah, maybe it was also part of my
- 1:00:34ego that I didn't want to show it, and
- 1:00:36that I found it hard to accept myself
- 1:00:37how everything went.
- 1:00:40Uh, but I’ve put the full storytime on
- 1:00:43TikTok, and in, yeah, this video I’ve
- 1:00:45obviously explained a lot of it too.
- 1:00:48Um, but yeah, you know, because I just
- 1:00:50never give up, because I always keep
- 1:00:52going, um, it all works out in the end.
- 1:00:55So that’s, of course, nice. Yeah, a
- 1:00:57bonus. Okay guys, we’re at the gym. I
- 1:01:00did half an hour of cardio, practiced
- 1:01:01handstands for half an hour, did a
- 1:01:03little bit of abs, and today I actually
- 1:01:05didn't feel like it at all. I actually
- 1:01:06had very little time as well. I really,
- 1:01:08yeah, managed to do exactly what needed
- 1:01:10to be done, how I’m heading home to work
- 1:01:12. And I’ll be honest, today it was
- 1:01:14actually very easy to skip. Yeah, I
- 1:01:15still have a lot to do and stuff. I have
- 1:01:17to fly on Sunday. Um, yeah, this workout
- 1:01:19isn’t super important either, but it’s
- 1:01:21precisely important that you do it
- 1:01:23anyway.
- 1:01:24Pushing yourself to just go.
- 1:01:27Workouts that are easy, that come at the
- 1:01:29right time. Those are not the workouts
- 1:01:30that are going to make the biggest
- 1:01:31difference. It’s the workouts you don’t
- 1:01:34want to do, that you actually want to
- 1:01:35skip, but by going anyway, those are the
- 1:01:37ones that make the big difference.
- 1:01:39Not necessarily because they’re always
- 1:01:41the best workouts, but because they are
- 1:01:43the workouts that change you here as a
- 1:01:44person.
- 1:01:45You are the person who doesn’t skip the
- 1:01:47workouts. Who does it anyway, even if
- 1:01:49they don’t feel like it. Who does it
- 1:01:50anyway, even if it doesn't fit the
- 1:01:52schedule. If you only do the easy
- 1:01:54workouts, you will never get as far as
- 1:01:55you would if you actually took on the
- 1:01:57hard workouts. That you get everything
- 1:01:59out of it. And often when you are
- 1:02:01finished, it still gives you a satisfied
- 1:02:03feeling. Because you actually know: "
- 1:02:04Okay, I didn't want to do this. I did it
- 1:02:07anyway." Then you have a satisfied
- 1:02:09feeling. And if you're lying in bed, you
- 1:02:11skipped it, then you just know it had to
- 1:02:13be done, but you didn't do it.
- 1:02:15So if it is in the plan, there is no
- 1:02:17room to negotiate with yourself about it
- 1:02:19. You can negotiate with yourself about
- 1:02:21the plan, you know. The plan must fit
- 1:02:22you, the plan must be right. But at the
- 1:02:24moment it needs to happen, then you just
- 1:02:26have to execute it. And it's that simple
- 1:02:28. And if it really doesn't work out once
- 1:02:30because you were super busy or something
- 1:02:32happened or whatever, then that is a
- 1:02:33different story than if you were just
- 1:02:35lying at home. That you didn't feel like
- 1:02:37it and that you thought, okay, I'll just
- 1:02:38skip it. I also surely have times when a
- 1:02:40workout doesn't quite fit, then I move
- 1:02:42it a day. But yeah, just choosing not to
- 1:02:45do it. While you can. Then you make a
- 1:02:47wrong decision and you also vote for the
- 1:02:48person you don't want to be. You should
- 1:02:50actually vote for the person you do want
- 1:02:52to be. Okay guys, I'm back home. We
- 1:02:54still have a little meal prep to do. Uh
- 1:02:56, it is 7:15. I'm going to do some work
- 1:02:59in a bit. I'm actually very tired. I'll
- 1:03:01tell you honestly, I'm really tired. I'd
- 1:03:03rather just lie in bed, scroll and stuff
- 1:03:05, watch Netflix.
- 1:03:07But how often do you hear someone say: "
- 1:03:09I wish I had scrolled on TikTok more."
- 1:03:14And how often do you hear someone say: "
- 1:03:16I wish I had worked harder on the dream
- 1:03:18.
- 1:03:23Do it tired." Just do it tired. Who
- 1:03:25cares.
- 1:03:27Who cares that you're tired.
- 1:03:29This is, by the way, also one thing that
- 1:03:31is very important to keep in mind.
- 1:03:35After your work doesn't mean you are
- 1:03:36done.
- 1:03:37If you are finished with work, it
- 1:03:39doesn't mean your day is over. That
- 1:03:40you're finished and don't have to do
- 1:03:42anything else.
- 1:03:45I remember when I started changing my
- 1:03:47life.
- 1:03:49Every night I at least did something.
- 1:03:51Watching YouTube videos about things I
- 1:03:53wanted to learn. Whether it was trading
- 1:03:55.
- 1:03:56Whether it was about my business, I
- 1:03:58don't know, just everything.
- 1:04:01Whether reading or working on something
- 1:04:03, or when I was doing e-commerce, I was
- 1:04:05at it all evening.
- 1:04:09You can't just do nothing all evening
- 1:04:11and think your day is done once your
- 1:04:12work is finished.
- 1:04:14Your day isn't over yet.
- 1:04:17You worked for your boss. Now it's time
- 1:04:20to get to work for yourself.
- 1:04:21And that is really how easy it goes,
- 1:04:23right?
- 1:04:24You can either choose to lie on the
- 1:04:26couch every evening and see that as your
- 1:04:28rest.
- 1:04:30Or you can choose to be able to go on
- 1:04:32vacation several times a year to create
- 1:04:34freedom for yourself and see that as
- 1:04:36your rest.
- 1:04:37I know which one I pick. I'd rather lie
- 1:04:39on the beach than watch a movie on the
- 1:04:41couch at home.
- 1:04:42I think most people.
- 1:04:45Hmm.
- 1:04:48Most people want that, but most don't
- 1:04:50use their time in a way to actually
- 1:04:52create that freedom.
- 1:04:54One thing you have to realize is that
- 1:04:55there are always people working harder
- 1:04:57than you. You worked 10, maybe 12 hours
- 1:05:00. Okay. There is also someone who worked
- 1:05:0216 hours and is still doing it. They are
- 1:05:04still doing what they need to do.
- 1:05:07You have to stop feeling sorry for
- 1:05:08yourself.
- 1:05:10You shouldn't feel sorry for yourself.
- 1:05:12You're not pathetic. You know what's
- 1:05:14pathetic? Your situation.
- 1:05:16That is pathetic. You yourself having to
- 1:05:18work hard, that is not pathetic. That’s
- 1:05:20part of it.
- 1:05:21You are a man, or perhaps a woman if a
- 1:05:23woman is watching this. But you are a
- 1:05:25man.
- 1:05:26You shouldn't feel sorry for yourself.
- 1:05:32If you feel sorry for yourself, you can
- 1:05:34only feel sorry for your situation.
- 1:05:36And then it is your job, your
- 1:05:38responsibility. Yes, no one else is
- 1:05:40coming to save you. It is your job to
- 1:05:42make a change in that. That is also
- 1:05:43something I realized. No one could save
- 1:05:45me. If I want change in my situation,
- 1:05:47then I am the one who has to take
- 1:05:49responsibility for it and get it done.
- 1:05:52Sure, people can wish me well.
- 1:05:54Everyone can wish me well. Everyone, my
- 1:05:56family, my friends, they can wish me
- 1:05:58everything. But are they just going to
- 1:06:00hand me a hundred grand?
- 1:06:02Are they going to give me a successful
- 1:06:04business? Are they just going to hand
- 1:06:05that over to me? Of course not.
- 1:06:07You have to take responsibility yourself
- 1:06:09if you want something in your life.
- 1:06:11A great body, a great business.
- 1:06:14More freedom, more money, whatever it is
- 1:06:16.
- 1:06:17No one is going to come and give it to
- 1:06:19you.
- 1:06:20No one cares. You, you, you are the one
- 1:06:22who cares. You are the one who wants it
- 1:06:24. You must take responsibility and make
- 1:06:26it happen yourself. And maybe you didn't
- 1:06:28have much influence over your situation
- 1:06:30. That happens, right? Your family, your
- 1:06:32whatever. Uh, maybe someone screwed you
- 1:06:34over, whatever. It’s all possible.
- 1:06:37It may be that you didn't have much
- 1:06:38influence on your current situation and
- 1:06:40where you are, but you have total
- 1:06:41influence on what you do with it.
- 1:06:43How you handle that situation, how you
- 1:06:45move forward, you have total influence
- 1:06:47over that.
- 1:06:48And you are also the only one who can
- 1:06:50take responsibility for it and bring
- 1:06:52about change.
- 1:06:53No one is going to do it for you. So you
- 1:06:55can always feel sorry for yourself and
- 1:06:57blame others.
- 1:06:58Oh, but the government. Oh, but my boss
- 1:07:00. Oh, but my family. That’s all well and
- 1:07:03good. But they aren’t going to solve it
- 1:07:04for you. You have to solve it yourself.
- 1:07:06So take that responsibility yourself.
- 1:07:08Even if someone else caused it, it’s
- 1:07:10still your responsibility. Then you say
- 1:07:12: "I am responsible for changing this
- 1:07:14right now."
- 1:07:15Then you just make it work.
- 1:07:18Okay guys, it’s 10:30 now.
- 1:07:20It’s about time to go to bed. I just
- 1:07:22finished up some work. I just had a
- 1:07:24check-in. This and that. Really great to
- 1:07:26hear. The guy is totally enthusiastic.
- 1:07:28We haven't even been at it for a month.
- 1:07:30Three weeks. Lost 2.5 kilos and stronger
- 1:07:33on every exercise. Yeah, that’s what we
- 1:07:36do. He is super consistent with
- 1:07:37everything he couldn't do before.
- 1:07:40We are turning you into the person you
- 1:07:42need to be.
- 1:07:44Um,
- 1:07:49I might have filmed a little less today
- 1:07:51than I wanted to.
- 1:07:52I think the vlog has already become
- 1:07:54quite long, but I actually have a lot
- 1:07:56more to say.
- 1:07:57Maybe I'll include a bit more in
- 1:07:59tomorrow's vlog.
- 1:08:00So that I can include some more good,
- 1:08:02useful tips in there. And otherwise, I
- 1:08:04am 100%sure that this video is already
- 1:08:07valuable enough as it is.
- 1:08:11What I definitely want to share is make
- 1:08:13sure you always just stay real. Make
- 1:08:15sure you keep living close to your
- 1:08:16principles.
- 1:08:17Um, I think that is super important. I
- 1:08:19got a text from someone today, for
- 1:08:21example, or a message on TikTok. He says
- 1:08:23: "Yeah, bro, I want to change my life
- 1:08:26too. But, like, I don't really know how
- 1:08:28." Uh, and all my homies are going down
- 1:08:29the wrong path and stuff. He says: "You
- 1:08:31know, because of my faith and my
- 1:08:33principles, I don't do that." He is
- 1:08:34absolutely right. Make sure you always
- 1:08:36live true to your principles. Make sure
- 1:08:38you are always real with yourself and
- 1:08:39the people around you.
- 1:08:41Um, I think that is very, very important
- 1:08:44. That is also the reason I’m just fully
- 1:08:45putting this story out there. A lot of
- 1:08:47people wouldn't do this. Um, it's on
- 1:08:49TikTok now. It's actually doing really,
- 1:08:52really well.
- 1:08:54And I'm also getting comments like, um,
- 1:08:56let's take a look.
- 1:08:58Love how open you are about this.
- 1:09:00Deep respect for your story and for your
- 1:09:02openness.
- 1:09:03Yo Quint. Many people don't dare to make
- 1:09:05a video like this. Really a lot of
- 1:09:07respect. This really motivates me too,
- 1:09:08good luck with everything. You know, I
- 1:09:10like that. I like changing people's
- 1:09:12lives. Whether that is through coaching
- 1:09:14, or whether that is through content. My
- 1:09:15life has already changed so much. I have
- 1:09:18already become the person I want to be
- 1:09:19so much. And of course, I still have
- 1:09:21very big goals myself and I'm nowhere
- 1:09:23near the, yeah, the place I want to be.
- 1:09:26But I especially really like it when I
- 1:09:28can help people further in their journey
- 1:09:29.
- 1:09:30And yeah, whether that is through
- 1:09:32content or through coaching or whatever
- 1:09:34, I always get a very satisfied feeling
- 1:09:35if I've just been able to help someone a
- 1:09:37bit further. So I do that with all my
- 1:09:40love every day.
- 1:09:41We are going to pack some stuff tomorrow
- 1:09:43. I, uh, still need to pick up a package
- 1:09:45for 17 Nutrition to make some ads. And
- 1:09:48then the time has come guys, then we are
- 1:09:50going to Japan. A new chapter.
- 1:09:53There is definitely a really great vlog
- 1:09:55coming up. 75 km run, whatever. There's
- 1:09:58a really sick video coming to YouTube. I
- 1:10:00would say, don't forget to subscribe.
- 1:10:01Make sure you keep an eye on it. Also on
- 1:10:03Insta and TikTok, some really sick
- 1:10:05things are coming up about both the 75
- 1:10:07Extreme and the 75 km run in Tokyo. So
- 1:10:10keep an eye on everything. I'll see you
- 1:10:11guys again next time in any case. And,
- 1:10:13uh, I hope you guys learned something
- 1:10:15from it again, man.
- 1:10:17Ciao.
- 1:10:18Woo. Make it happen, man. No matter how
- 1:10:21deep you're in a hole, no matter how
- 1:10:22difficult your situation is. As we
- 1:10:24discussed on the beach this morning, be
- 1:10:26a catapult.
- 1:10:27Be a catapult.
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