ADHD, Women and Hormones: What you need to know — Transcript
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- 0:31so um I'd just like to welcome you all
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- 0:38a consultant psychiatrist and I'm the
- 0:40ADHD clinical lead. Today we're doing a
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- 3:57Hi and uh apologies for not doing the
- 4:02slides quite right there. Sorry. Um hi.
- 4:05Uh so yes, I'm Dr. McKenzie and uh I'm
- 4:09delighted to welcome you all here today.
- 4:12Um, and I wanted to start just by
- 4:16acknowledging that likely you are here
- 4:19today because you have had some
- 4:21difficulties yourself um, in terms of
- 4:23managing with ADHD and with hormonal
- 4:27changes. And um what I wanted to do was
- 4:31first of all upfront acknowledge that we
- 4:34are talking today about how your body
- 4:38and your mind responds um and how your
- 4:42ADHD is affected by what happens
- 4:45hormonally in your body. And I think
- 4:48really important to recognize that
- 4:51hormonal changes affect ADHD symptoms
- 4:55very significantly. And it's not all in
- 4:58your mind. This is real and it is
- 5:00important to be able to talk about it,
- 5:03to understand it, and to be able to to
- 5:06share it with people who are looking
- 5:07after you from a clinical perspective.
- 5:10Um, we are lucky tonight that uh once
- 5:13I'm finished that we will also have um
- 5:17Ella and uh Wendy talking about their
- 5:20own experiences. And I think it's really
- 5:22really helpful to hear other people talk
- 5:24about the experiences how they've
- 5:26managed with these difficulties.
- 5:29So first of all the big question um why
- 5:33do hormones matter?
- 5:36So um we all know that ADHD uh involves
- 5:43disregulation of some crucial
- 5:46neurotransmitters very specifically
- 5:49dopamine and also noradrenaline.
- 5:52[clears throat] So this underlies ADHD
- 5:55symptoms and why they exist. But what's
- 5:58not often talked about is how our sex
- 6:02hormones as they were previously known
- 6:04but now we know they are actually neural
- 6:06hormones so brain hormones estrogen and
- 6:10progesterone that they can have a
- 6:12profound effect on all of these systems.
- 6:16So I want to talk a little bit about the
- 6:19biology behind this because um it is
- 6:22important to understand that uh estrogen
- 6:25specifically affects dopamine
- 6:28production, how dopamine functions in
- 6:30the brain, how much of it is available,
- 6:32how sensitive receptors are and that
- 6:35basically means it affects very
- 6:38crucially um how how well your brain can
- 6:42respond to what you are demanding of it.
- 6:46So whether it's needing to concentrate,
- 6:48whether it's needing to help with
- 6:50emotional regulation, with um
- 6:53motivation, all of those things are
- 6:56affected by estrogen. So when estrogen
- 6:59is nice and high in your body, at that
- 7:01stage, your dopamine will work better.
- 7:06But then when your uh estrogen drops as
- 7:09happens every month during your period
- 7:11or then um as those of us who've been
- 7:14through permenopause or menopause um
- 7:16will know when estrogen drops dopamine
- 7:21becomes less available and that can have
- 7:24profound effects on how we experience
- 7:26our ADHD symptoms. Um and then
- 7:30progesterone is also um you know really
- 7:34important in this uh whole process. So
- 7:37progesterone works on our GABA system
- 7:40and GABA is what is responsible for a
- 7:43calming effect. So when um progesterone
- 7:46goes low, we really lose that calming
- 7:50effect of this hormone. So I'll talk a
- 7:53little bit about how that then um
- 7:56affects how we experience our um our
- 7:59monthly cycles and how that affects um
- 8:02our ADHD symptoms.
- 8:05So I think what is important to
- 8:07understand is that basically every
- 8:11person who has a monthly cycle or has
- 8:14had it will have had some experience of
- 8:17um their ADHD symptoms being affected in
- 8:20some way by these hormonal changes.
- 8:24So just thinking about um the menstrual
- 8:29cycle and ADHD.
- 8:32So in a typical cycle you basically have
- 8:35the first half of your cycle which is
- 8:38called your the follicular phase and
- 8:42during this um part of your cycle the
- 8:44estrogen is rising and estrogen is uh is
- 8:47is pretty good. There's a good level of
- 8:49estrogen and so most people will find
- 8:52that in that first part of their um
- 8:55their period. As the estrogen is at a
- 8:58good level, they will feel that they are
- 9:00functioning a little bit better. And if
- 9:03you're on medication, you might find
- 9:05that your medication is is working well
- 9:07and you're able to do your job. Then in
- 9:10the middle of that um that graph, that
- 9:14uh image, what you can see is there's a
- 9:16peak and that's when ovulation happens.
- 9:19That's kind of in the middle of your um
- 9:21menstrual cycle. Now, when ovulation
- 9:23happens, people can often find that
- 9:26because of the high estrogen, they can
- 9:28feel amazing. Sometimes just for a day,
- 9:31sometimes for a couple of days, but
- 9:33that's when people are often functioning
- 9:35at their very best from an ADHD
- 9:38perspective. And then we get into the
- 9:41second half of the cycle, and that's
- 9:43called the lutal phase. Now, at the
- 9:46start, you still have moderately high
- 9:49estrogen,
- 9:50but what happens the closer you get to
- 9:52your period, so about the 7 to 10 days
- 9:56um before your period, what can happen
- 9:59is that um as the estrogen drops, you
- 10:03might find that you're you're finding it
- 10:05really hard to concentrate. You might
- 10:07find the tasks that normally you do
- 10:09without effort suddenly become really
- 10:12really effortful. And you might find
- 10:14that you you quite irritable. Um that
- 10:17you struggle with your emotions, that
- 10:19you're feeling overwhelmed, that you
- 10:21can't really concentrate um very well.
- 10:24You might even feel um more sensitive to
- 10:28to uh sensory stimuli. So things like um
- 10:32noise, sounds, and um people can get
- 10:36quite irritable, can feel as if if they
- 10:38are on medication that the medication
- 10:40just isn't really working. Um, and
- 10:43people can make bad decisions during
- 10:45this time as well because that dopamine
- 10:48uh that's less accessible in your brain
- 10:51can also um cause difficulties with
- 10:55impulsivity. So people can feel more
- 10:57impulsive. And because that progesterone
- 11:01also drops towards the end of um your
- 11:04cycle, towards the end of your uh cycle,
- 11:07just before your period, um you also
- 11:10have that uh less of the calming effect.
- 11:12So all of that irritability, everything
- 11:14is just so much harder. People can
- 11:17experience brain fog, real fatigue, even
- 11:20if they're still sleeping well, they can
- 11:21feel really, really tired. And I think
- 11:24just incredibly important to know that
- 11:26this is normal. It is a real experience
- 11:30and it is just because of the biological
- 11:33changes that the hormones are affecting
- 11:36in your brain. And um now as you go as
- 11:41you start your period very often people
- 11:43will find that uh that their symptoms
- 11:46become better and that's because of the
- 11:49estrogen that starts being recycled at
- 11:51that stage and you it starts getting uh
- 11:54higher.
- 11:56Now these cycle changes can affect
- 12:00people in very different ways. So
- 12:02sometimes people can find that their um
- 12:05their symptoms are mildly worse, but for
- 12:09some people it can be a really really
- 12:12big um issue. And so for some people
- 12:16they also in addition to having um the
- 12:19ADHD that can become worse, they can
- 12:23also have a condition that is known as
- 12:26premenstrual dysphoric disorder.
- 12:29and premenstrual uh dysphoric disorder
- 12:32is something which is more commonly
- 12:35associated with ADHD.
- 12:37So um there a lot more people with ADHD
- 12:42have uh PMDD than people without ADHD.
- 12:48And PMDDD is not the same as PMS or
- 12:52premenstrual syndrome. It is a very very
- 12:55severe cyclical form of a mood disorder
- 12:59and people can uh in the leadup to their
- 13:03period. So the uh the symptoms start in
- 13:05that 7 to 10 days before um people have
- 13:08a period very intense irritability,
- 13:12anger. People can often do and say
- 13:14things that they wouldn't otherwise do
- 13:16or say at all. People can feel extremely
- 13:19low. They can feel tearful.
- 13:22um very overwhelmed. People can get
- 13:25physical symptoms as well. Um so
- 13:28significant pain, bloating, breast
- 13:30tenderness.
- 13:32Often people can have a sense of feeling
- 13:34disconnected. So even if there's support
- 13:36around them, they can't actually access
- 13:39it because they just can't feel it. And
- 13:43um the symptoms usually improve once u
- 13:47their period starts. But I think what is
- 13:50important to know is that PMDD can be a
- 13:53very very significant um disorder to
- 13:57struggle with. And if you think that you
- 14:00might have these uh this experience,
- 14:03it's really important to speak to um to
- 14:06someone about it because it is treatable
- 14:10and it is also something that is you
- 14:14know people who have got PMDD have got a
- 14:17much much higher um risk of feeling
- 14:21suicidal.
- 14:22So you know up to about 75% of people
- 14:26can at some stage in their life feel
- 14:28suicidal when they have um PMDD
- 14:32and um so it is something that is
- 14:35important to take extremely seriously
- 14:37and to get um support with it. And when
- 14:41people have got both ADHD and PMDD, it
- 14:46can be really really devastating and
- 14:48have a very um profound impact on
- 14:51people's quality of life. So very
- 14:54important to realize that it is
- 14:56treatable and um that there is help
- 14:59available. Um unfortunately it does take
- 15:02a long time mostly for people to get
- 15:04diagnosed and so if you are aware you
- 15:09need to advocate for yourself to get
- 15:11help with this. And then the next
- 15:16transition is when women start going
- 15:19through permenopause.
- 15:21Now typically that is um what happens
- 15:26around your 40s.
- 15:29Recent research has shown that um women
- 15:31with ADHD are likely to start
- 15:34experiencing permenopausal symptoms
- 15:36earlier and that's up to 10 years
- 15:39earlier. Now pmenopause is basically
- 15:42that period where your hormones
- 15:46are in chaos and it can last anywhere
- 15:49between about 5 years to 10 years
- 15:53typically around um well 4 to 8 years is
- 15:56is kind of typical for these symptoms to
- 15:59last. And in that time, estrogen and
- 16:03progesterone, whereas for all the the
- 16:05years where you have a menstrual cycle
- 16:07that's quite predictable, it becomes
- 16:10much more unpredictable and you get lots
- 16:13of peaks and troughs of your hormones
- 16:16and that can affect people in lots of
- 16:18different ways. And with ADHD, ADHD
- 16:22symptoms can often become very, very
- 16:25difficult during this time. And it's
- 16:27often a time when women get diagnosed
- 16:30with ADHD. So women who have had coping
- 16:33strategies throughout their lives um and
- 16:36have managed with work, even with kids,
- 16:39even though they knew they were
- 16:41struggling, when they hit permenopause,
- 16:44often things become much more
- 16:46unmanageable.
- 16:48So um typical symptoms within per
- 16:52menopause um is that people can have
- 16:54more uh forgetfulness, word finding
- 16:57difficulties, brain fog. Um
- 17:00traditionally people have often thought
- 17:02about things like um having hot flushes
- 17:05or night sweats and those are very
- 17:07common but not everybody experiences
- 17:10them. Um and mood instability and
- 17:14anxiety are two of the main uh things
- 17:17that we see in per menopause. Um
- 17:21about 63% of women going through
- 17:24pmenopause will develop anxiety, a
- 17:27diagnosible anxiety disorder. And I
- 17:30think when ADHD is in the mix, that
- 17:33sense of overwhelm and anxiety is just
- 17:36that much more prevalent. Um but
- 17:39important to realize firstly that it is
- 17:42temporary. It will pass but the other
- 17:46part of it is that there is support
- 17:48available so you don't have to suffer so
- 17:51much. Um
- 17:54so
- 17:55what I'd like so just in terms of the
- 17:58ADHD I think what is important is as I
- 18:01said about the coping mechanisms often
- 18:03things will just um feel very
- 18:07unmanageable and I think what
- 18:10I hear a lot of women say to me when
- 18:13they um are with ADHD going through
- 18:16pmenopause
- 18:18is that they feel that things become
- 18:21very cha chaotic and having previously
- 18:24managed a home that often things become
- 18:27very messy. They struggle to plan meals,
- 18:29their motivation becomes more difficult.
- 18:32There are so many factors that affect
- 18:35their ADHD much more. And I think it's
- 18:39important to really understand that this
- 18:42is because of the biological changes
- 18:44that underpin permenopause and that your
- 18:48experience of things getting worse is
- 18:50very real. Yeah. And very often women
- 18:54will be offered anti-depressants
- 18:57um during this time and I think
- 18:59important to note that you know if you
- 19:02are in this kind of age group and you
- 19:04are finding things are really really
- 19:06overwhelming to just remind your
- 19:09clinician could this be permenopause.
- 19:14Now I want to say a little bit about the
- 19:18treatment options for what we've spoken
- 19:20about. So just thinking about monthly
- 19:25cycle. So with ADHD medication with
- 19:28hormonal changes, ADHD medication is
- 19:31still effective.
- 19:33But I also think really important to
- 19:35know that it can feel that the
- 19:38medication is less effective. And very
- 19:41often in that leadup to the time before
- 19:44your period, so that 7 to 10 days, it
- 19:48might be that you could do with a
- 19:50slightly higher dose of your medication.
- 19:53And another option is that maybe you
- 19:57need just a a a short release
- 19:59medication, the same type as the
- 20:01medication that you're already on, but
- 20:03actually that just having a little boost
- 20:06for when you feel that you're going to
- 20:07need it on that day. That might be how
- 20:10you manage if you're finding that your
- 20:12symptoms get so much worse uh in the
- 20:14leadup. But what is really essential is
- 20:20that you need to have um you need to
- 20:24have data to be able to tell people what
- 20:28your experience is. So being able to
- 20:31track your symptoms and being able to
- 20:34tell people what your experience is is
- 20:36incredibly important. There are lots of
- 20:38um apps available. Uh there's one called
- 20:41clue, there's one uh maybe PMDDD and
- 20:44I'll say a little bit more uh in a
- 20:46moment, but even just writing on a
- 20:48calendar and
- 20:51just checking in on yourself on a
- 20:54regular basis, seeing are there times in
- 20:58the month when my mood is lower, when I
- 21:01feel that I'm just not coping at work,
- 21:04where I sit down to read a book, I just
- 21:07can't do it. actually just make a note
- 21:09of those things. And over time,
- 21:13especially if you can document things,
- 21:15you can see that there are patterns that
- 21:18start emerging. And finding those
- 21:21patterns is just so important and
- 21:23helpful because not only will it help in
- 21:25terms of how you might um approach the
- 21:28medication side uh of treatment of ADHD,
- 21:32but it can also help in other ways, and
- 21:34I'll say a bit more in a moment. Um and
- 21:38I think again with the medication if
- 21:41there are um changes that are required
- 21:45in how you do the medication or how you
- 21:47manage with your medication it can take
- 21:50a little bit of time and I think it's
- 21:53important to be patient with that and if
- 21:56the first thing doesn't work to not
- 21:58think to not feel help hopeless about it
- 22:02but to just understand that it's
- 22:03sometimes a bit of a journey to get to
- 22:05the point the the right uh treatment for
- 22:08you.
- 22:10And then when we think about um
- 22:13permenopause and menopause,
- 22:16um
- 22:18HRT,
- 22:20hormone replacement therapy or um
- 22:22menopausal hormone therapy as it's also
- 22:25known,
- 22:26is something that for some people can be
- 22:30absolutely transformative.
- 22:32Um, and what that HRT does is it kind of
- 22:36just stabilizes your progesterone and
- 22:39your estrogen.
- 22:40And so it increases the the level, but
- 22:43also stabilizes it. So you're not
- 22:46getting those massive fluctuations
- 22:48that's so typical. This is in
- 22:49parmenopause.
- 22:51Um, and by stabilizing it, it can really
- 22:54help with stabilizing your mood, with
- 22:58helping with sleep, with reducing
- 23:00physical symptoms. Um, but also with
- 23:04ADHD,
- 23:05people often find that they have less
- 23:07brain fog, they have less of that
- 23:09cognitive fatigue. Um, they feel less
- 23:11overwhelmed when once they go on to HRT.
- 23:15And sometimes women who are diagnosed
- 23:18late with ADHD will choose to not go on
- 23:22to medication once they stabilized on
- 23:25hormones. I must say it's not always the
- 23:28case and sometimes you need both HRT and
- 23:31medication and that is also okay because
- 23:34everybody's brains are different. Um and
- 23:37it is a bit of a journey to try and and
- 23:39just find what what works. And important
- 23:44to know that um not everybody can take
- 23:48HRT. If you can't take HRT or if you
- 23:51don't want to take HRT, there are other
- 23:54things that can be done. If you do
- 23:57decide to go on to HRT, again, um it can
- 24:02take a little while to get to the right
- 24:04place. Don't give up on it too quickly.
- 24:07If you're getting side effects with it,
- 24:09make sure that you speak to somebody
- 24:11who's well-versed in how to manage um
- 24:14hormone therapy because uh there are so
- 24:19many different options and different uh
- 24:21solutions available.
- 24:25I wanted to just mention about um
- 24:28contraceptives because for some people
- 24:32they can be sensitive to contraceptives
- 24:35and specifically some of the
- 24:37progesterrogens
- 24:38that are in uh in contraceptives.
- 24:43some people with ADHD, well people in
- 24:46the population, but a higher percentage
- 24:48of people who have got this hormonal um
- 24:51sensitivity
- 24:53are people who have also got ADHD.
- 24:56So um just be aware that contraceptives
- 25:00can sometimes worsen mood and can also
- 25:03affect ADHD symptoms negatively. And if
- 25:07you have noticed any of that, so either
- 25:09mood changes, changes in your anxiety
- 25:12levels, changes in your ADHD symptoms,
- 25:17then it becomes really important to go
- 25:19and speak to whoever is prescribing your
- 25:22medication and actually explain that. Um
- 25:25because very often people don't make
- 25:27that association. They're feeling more
- 25:30anxious. They're feeling a bit low. The
- 25:33ADHD has worsened. And so just make that
- 25:36connection between if you've started the
- 25:39oral contraceptive or even had a Marina
- 25:42coil that it might be that you've got
- 25:45this um sensitivity to uh to hormones to
- 25:48those specific type of hormones. And
- 25:51again, important to know that if you
- 25:54have the sensitivity to uh contraceptive
- 25:57hormones, it doesn't mean that you'll
- 25:59have that same sensitivity to um HRT
- 26:02because the hormones are different.
- 26:06And then just a little bit about what
- 26:10else you can do. So, we've talked a bit
- 26:13about the medication, but as I
- 26:16mentioned, the data is just so
- 26:19incredibly important. So, put a few um
- 26:24uh apps here. There are lots of apps
- 26:27available. Um these are just some that
- 26:29um that I use uh with with my clients.
- 26:33One is uh Clue, which is much more about
- 26:36kind of just monitoring your own cycle.
- 26:40MIV PMDDD if you think that there is a
- 26:43chance you might have that and um if you
- 26:45are experiencing those very significant
- 26:47mood fluctuations
- 26:49or um very significant pain and uh I
- 26:54should say and uh significant pain
- 26:58important to track it because in order
- 27:01to get the diagnosis you need to
- 27:04prospectively track for two months that
- 27:07you are symptomatic
- 27:09And as with everything, as soon as you
- 27:12start tracking, you'll probably find
- 27:13that you have a month where everything
- 27:15is going much better. That's not the
- 27:17month to use the data. So you want two
- 27:20months that is months where things are
- 27:23really tricky for you and take that
- 27:26information to your GP and explain to
- 27:30them what what is happening with you. So
- 27:32that's for the PMDD and the balance app.
- 27:36Um again, it's a it's a free app. There
- 27:38is a paid section but the free part
- 27:41within that you can actually look at
- 27:43what symptoms of per menopause you are
- 27:45experiencing and you can actually um
- 27:48monitor uh what's happening with those
- 27:50different symptoms and what you'll find
- 27:53is that there is a very very very long
- 27:55list of symptoms many things that people
- 27:58don't always associate with um
- 28:01menopausal symptoms or permenopausal
- 28:03symptoms um but that can get better with
- 28:07treatment. ment.
- 28:09So what it helps is when you are
- 28:13tracking is it helps you to be able to
- 28:16understand your ADHD better
- 28:20start to plan things around how hormones
- 28:23affect you and your ADHD.
- 28:26And then once you know what your pattern
- 28:29is like then you you can actually um
- 28:32adjust to that
- 28:35and
- 28:38important
- 28:39as as always lifestyle is always
- 28:43incredibly important. So regular
- 28:45exercise is helpful for everybody
- 28:48incredibly important um for people with
- 28:50ADHD. And when we're having um hormonal
- 28:54fluctuations, exercise can often be
- 28:57hard. But at the same time, really
- 29:00important to continue to do exercise.
- 29:02And if you can do it in a green
- 29:04environment, even better. But not only
- 29:07regular exercise, but also to try and
- 29:10build in strength training because we
- 29:12know there are very, very specific brain
- 29:14benefits when you do strength training.
- 29:16And um it is kind of like a buffer
- 29:20against ADHD symptoms but also uh helps
- 29:23with that mood regulation, helps with uh
- 29:26with memory as well. So strength
- 29:29training twice a week and then um
- 29:32additional exercise as you can uh more
- 29:34of the cardio of cardio nature.
- 29:38So sleep is essential for everybody but
- 29:44when there is ADHD and when there's um
- 29:47hormonal fluctuation sleep really
- 29:49becomes non-negotiable
- 29:52and especially um in your uh lutal phase
- 29:56so the last part the second half of your
- 29:59um cycle sleep is even more important
- 30:02and you actually need a little bit more
- 30:04sleep than in other times uh of the
- 30:06month and so make sure that you listen
- 30:09to your body and that you prioritize
- 30:11sleep.
- 30:13Nutrition always matters. Um, and it's
- 30:16not about restricting food. It's really
- 30:19about making sure that um you're eating
- 30:23a wide variety of foods, that you're
- 30:25getting all of your um nutritional needs
- 30:28met, and important to start your day
- 30:31with protein, especially if you're
- 30:33permenopausal or menopausal. But um
- 30:37making sure that your blood sugar
- 30:39remains a bit more constant. So you're
- 30:41staying away from fizzy drinks, anything
- 30:44that spikes your sugar, sweet um snacks
- 30:49and making sure that you uh take enough
- 30:51protein throughout the day. So early in
- 30:54the morning, make sure you get protein,
- 30:56but make sure you have uh a bit of
- 30:58protein at least at uh at every meal.
- 31:01And then caffeine and alcohol need to be
- 31:04limited. Um both of them can worsen your
- 31:08mood uh but also uh affects your sleep
- 31:11and even more so in the lutal phase. In
- 31:16pmenopause and menopause, our liver
- 31:18enzymes change and alcohol becomes much
- 31:21more difficult to manage. And so, um,
- 31:25alcohol can have a much more profound
- 31:28effect on, uh, both our sleep, but also
- 31:31our ADHD symptoms as we go through per
- 31:33menopause.
- 31:35And then stress reduction is actually
- 31:38incredibly important because stress also
- 31:41affects our hormones. So it's a bit of a
- 31:45a cycle between those. So um you know
- 31:48the hormones protects against stress but
- 31:50when there's a lot of stress our
- 31:52hormones actually dip. So we get less of
- 31:55that protection that our hormones uh
- 31:58estrogen and progesterone provide to us.
- 32:01So ADHD we know is associated with just
- 32:05a much higher baseline level of stress.
- 32:08So really important to build in those
- 32:10ways of reducing stress. It might be
- 32:13breath work. It could be um mindfulness.
- 32:16Something like that. Whatever it is that
- 32:19um that works for you and it's the
- 32:22stress reduction technique that you're
- 32:24going to do on a regular basis, that is
- 32:26what um you need to uh to focus on.
- 32:30And
- 32:31then supplements can be helpful. Um, we
- 32:36know that omega-3s
- 32:38can be helpful for some people,
- 32:40especially when they're not taking
- 32:41enough healthy fats in their diet. It
- 32:45can be helpful for mood, inflammation.
- 32:47Magnesium can help with um sleep. Um,
- 32:51creatine really uh is none of these are
- 32:55in the guidelines, but um creatine
- 32:58itself can really help with uh cognitive
- 33:01energy. So just having energy to think
- 33:05and um it it does have other protective
- 33:08effects as well. Um and then making sure
- 33:11that your vitamin D and B vitamins are
- 33:14at a at a high enough level. Now when to
- 33:18seek help? So definitely at any stage if
- 33:22you find that suddenly your ADHD um
- 33:25symptoms are much worse beyond what you
- 33:29would normally expect with um with your
- 33:31normal cycles.
- 33:33If your mood symptoms are extremely um
- 33:37significant
- 33:38and if you find that any of the hormonal
- 33:41changes that you're experiencing is
- 33:43affecting your daily functioning, how
- 33:46you manage on a day-to-day basis. Uh
- 33:49obviously if you've got any concerns
- 33:51about your medication experiencing side
- 33:53effects um or worried about the um the
- 33:58effectiveness,
- 34:00low mood uh when you start hormonal
- 34:04contraception or anxiety when you start
- 34:06your hormonal contraception,
- 34:08then make sure that you you speak to
- 34:11your doctor. And really important just
- 34:15to remember, you're not alone in this.
- 34:18And um there are a lot of people having
- 34:21this experience.
- 34:22There are lots of people who would want
- 34:25to help and support and sometimes people
- 34:28can get frustrated at the first um port
- 34:31of call. So let's say if they see a GP
- 34:34who might not um be supportive, there
- 34:37will be another GP who is. And I think
- 34:40it's really important to find um those
- 34:42people that uh that first of all know
- 34:46about hormones and secondly um who can
- 34:49empathically and uh and wisely help and
- 34:53support you with this. And also when it
- 34:58comes to um just uh there's some
- 35:02resources um there for you to think
- 35:04about. But I think really important just
- 35:07to remember that once you understand how
- 35:11your hormonal changes either through
- 35:14your cycle through permenopause or in
- 35:16menopause affects your ADHD symptoms,
- 35:19you can have an informed conversation
- 35:22with the clinicians looking after you. I
- 35:25think very important um if you're on a
- 35:27waiting list before being seen if you
- 35:30can track your cycles and get a sense if
- 35:32there is this pattern um if you're
- 35:35waiting for your medication to start
- 35:38please track your symptoms have that
- 35:40conversation when you have your next
- 35:41review
- 35:43or um if there is an annual review
- 35:45coming up. Make sure that you go with
- 35:48this information so that the clinician
- 35:50who sees you can actually help you to
- 35:54manage these times uh if you are having
- 35:57those uh exacerbations of your ADHD
- 36:00symptoms that they can support you with
- 36:02the ADHD medication appropriately.
- 36:06All right. Um so I am ready to hand over
- 36:11and so I would like to um hand over to
- 36:16Ella in the first instance to talk about
- 36:19her experience.
- 36:24>> Hello everyone. Um
- 36:28>> can we have the first slide please?
- 36:35like I need to wave a magic wand.
- 36:40Um Oh, I don't quite know where to
- 36:42start. Excuse me if I get a bit nervous
- 36:44or blab on, but um I am going to blame
- 36:46the ADHD on that one. Um so, a little
- 36:51bit about me. Um I
- 36:55actually got diagnosed with ADHD about a
- 36:58year and a half ago. Um so it was quite
- 37:03late on. I'm How old am I now? 28. Um,
- 37:06but prior to that, I spent a lot of time
- 37:09um in and out of um sort of mental
- 37:13health services um in hospital. Um I was
- 37:17sectioned for a number of years. Um and
- 37:22[sighs]
- 37:23I I was I got many many labels, many
- 37:25many diagnosis.
- 37:27Um it kind of started with anxiety,
- 37:30depression, kind of built on from that.
- 37:33Um, I then got diagnosed with a
- 37:36personality disorder. Um, had a few
- 37:40things thrown at me. I think someone
- 37:42told me once that I had um, treatment
- 37:45resistant depression. Obviously hearing
- 37:48that is a bit scary because you think,
- 37:49"Oh dear, well, what are we going to do
- 37:50with this?" Um
- 37:53uh and yeah, I I think on many of my
- 37:56paperwork it always tended to say a
- 37:58complex
- 38:00can't remember the exact wording, but
- 38:02yeah, basically I got the vibe that
- 38:05people thought I was complicated. So
- 38:07that's what I started to believe and I
- 38:08thought I don't actually know quite
- 38:09what's going on here. Um I did also
- 38:13develop an eating disorder. Um so that
- 38:16became something I majorly struggled
- 38:18with. Um, and I think looking back now
- 38:21kind of disguised a lot of the ADHD.
- 38:25Um, so I actually got diagnosed when I
- 38:29was um, an impatient um, in hospital
- 38:34which was a personality disorder and
- 38:36eating disorder unit. Um, and it was my
- 38:40who was it? It was my
- 38:43it was my psychologist actually that
- 38:45first picked up on something. She kind
- 38:47she said something along the lines of um
- 38:51you ever considered um that maybe your
- 38:54brain's a little wired a bit
- 38:55differently? I said, "Well, I've always
- 38:57known that. Don't know quite how it's
- 38:58wired. I think it needs rewiring. Can
- 39:00you help me?" Um but she she's the one
- 39:03that first she suggested doing an autism
- 39:06assessment, which they did, and it came
- 39:09up. I've got traits of autism, but not
- 39:11enough to kind of get a diagnosis. So
- 39:15then ADHD was mentioned and the first
- 39:17time it was mentioned I kind of thought
- 39:20why why is she suggesting that? No
- 39:23because in my head kind of the
- 39:25stereotype of ADHD I thought was naughty
- 39:29school child running around not able to
- 39:32sit still. That that's what I thought
- 39:34ADHD was. I've not got that. No, I sat
- 39:36still at school um most of the time. Um,
- 39:41but I started doing a bit of reading up
- 39:43on it and how it can potentially present
- 39:45differently in girls, um, and also in
- 39:48just different types of people. And I
- 39:50was like, "Oh my goodness, this this I
- 39:52think explains my brain." Because I
- 39:55didn't quite realize how much ADHD had
- 39:58an impact on
- 40:00emotions, emotion regulation, things
- 40:02like that. And so all of a sudden for me
- 40:05it was a bit like
- 40:07yeah I I think that that's what it is.
- 40:10Um so
- 40:13in a way I think that was the turning
- 40:14point in my recovery to be honest
- 40:16because I I started to think actually
- 40:20maybe I should stop being so frustrated
- 40:22at my brain. Maybe I should just think
- 40:25it's wired differently.
- 40:27Okay, how can I cope with this? Um,
- 40:32next slide, please.
- 40:35I'm going to chuckle now. Um, so now we
- 40:37move on to how
- 40:40kind of I started noticing that my
- 40:42periods were affecting my ADHD. Um, so
- 40:47for for a while I didn't have periods.
- 40:50Um, probably due to it was around the
- 40:52time that I was struggling a lot with my
- 40:54eating disorder. Um, so because I didn't
- 40:57physically have periods, I kind of I
- 41:00never linked the whole sort of my
- 41:04symptoms of ADHD and my hormone cycle
- 41:08because I wasn't seeing my period. I
- 41:10kind of thought, well, well, I didn't
- 41:12think about it. Um, I think to be
- 41:15honest, it's only been since I've
- 41:18started on ADHD medication and I've
- 41:21actually started to experience what it's
- 41:24like to live with a brain that's
- 41:25slightly quieter and it's wonderful. Um,
- 41:29now that I've experienced that,
- 41:32when my period does come, well, it's
- 41:35normally kind of just a few days before,
- 41:39I kind of almost feel like my brain
- 41:41reverts back to how it was before I
- 41:42started medication.
- 41:44So then
- 41:46when I was when I was just starting the
- 41:48medication, I I kind of was thinking,
- 41:50"Oh, it's not working. Why is it stopped
- 41:51working? It was working last week. Why
- 41:54why is it not working now?" And I kind
- 41:56of I thought, "Oh, maybe I'm
- 41:57overthinking this." Oh, not sure. Um
- 42:02I've gone down a rabbit hole now. I'm
- 42:03not sure what I was talking about there.
- 42:05Um
- 42:07where was I going with that? I know. Um
- 42:11but my personally, my periods are quite
- 42:15erratic. They're kind of there's not
- 42:17really too much of a
- 42:20um a plan for them. like that. Sometimes
- 42:22they will come monthly. Some months
- 42:25they'll be like tada three times a month
- 42:27and then I'll go a month without. So
- 42:31it was it was really interesting
- 42:32actually. I enjoyed listening to you
- 42:34earlier um Anone when you were saying
- 42:36about kind of tracking periods and I was
- 42:39sat there like oh that would be
- 42:40wonderful. Yes, I'm going to start
- 42:41tracking my periods. I'm going to do
- 42:43this this this and then the little ADHD
- 42:45snuck into my brain and thought are you
- 42:47going to remember to do that? I am going
- 42:49to try. I'm going to try. [snorts] Um,
- 42:52but also I think because um my periods
- 42:58aren't regular
- 43:00um that kind of makes it hard.
- 43:03I guess now that I've been learning more
- 43:05about it, I kind of there is an element
- 43:07of frustration I have now and I'm just
- 43:09like, oh well, even if I do kind of
- 43:13manage to like learn how periods affect
- 43:17ADHD, how am I going to do anything
- 43:19about that? because I have no idea when
- 43:20my period is going to come. Like I can't
- 43:22think, oh, actually I know that my most
- 43:24productive day in my cycle is going to
- 43:26be this. So, I'm going to plan a meeting
- 43:28for that day cuz I I just don't know.
- 43:31Um, but that's something I'm working
- 43:34through and kind of learning myself if
- 43:36I'm honest. Um, which I'm finding quite
- 43:38interesting.
- 43:40Um, next slide please.
- 43:44So
- 43:46for me um when I had my period sort of I
- 43:51guess a few days before the main thing I
- 43:54notice is
- 43:57well I don't I don't know I now start to
- 44:01potentially link it to my period but
- 44:02I'll get very emotional sort of get
- 44:05quite tearful be crying over things that
- 44:07I'm thinking why thinking it's the end
- 44:09of the world then a few days later my
- 44:11period will start and I think oh god
- 44:13Gosh, I was being a bit silly, wasn't I?
- 44:15And I like I'll drop a teaspoon on the
- 44:17floor and I'll be crying about it and I
- 44:18think, what what what is wrong with me?
- 44:20Then my period will start two days
- 44:22later. That's what's wrong with me.
- 44:24Well, it's not wrong. It's just what's
- 44:25happening. Um, so in in a way,
- 44:29maybe the way that my ADHD sort of
- 44:32reacts to my periods does give me
- 44:34warning signs. Like when my brain starts
- 44:37to go a bit more wacky, I'm like, "Ah,
- 44:38maybe I should be prepared. Maybe I
- 44:41should be prepared. Um
- 44:44I think
- 44:46sort of just before and while I'm on my
- 44:48period, I do physically my body does
- 44:51ache a lot. um which I think then has a
- 44:55knock-on effect um
- 44:58to
- 45:00sort of my motivation, energy levels,
- 45:02which is something people with ADHD like
- 45:05we we do struggle with like sort of the
- 45:08getting started with tasks like actually
- 45:10doing things. I think when you've got
- 45:12the added, oh, you know what, I'm tired,
- 45:16my stomach hurts, my legs ache.
- 45:19No, I just don't want to do it. So I
- 45:22think I think that's an element of it as
- 45:23well. Um
- 45:26but
- 45:28I think before I knew about sort of my
- 45:31diagnosis with ADHD, I used to then get
- 45:34frustrated at myself and think, well,
- 45:35why am I not why am I doing this? Like
- 45:37why can't I do it? Like my friends can
- 45:39do it. Like there's somebody like
- 45:41everybody goes to work and they still
- 45:43like why why can't I do it? But I think
- 45:46having the diagnosis for me has um yeah,
- 45:50don't get me wrong, I still get
- 45:51frustrated and I at myself, but I
- 45:56it's definitely lessened um in that
- 45:59aspect. Um
- 46:02let me just I think we're ready for the
- 46:04next slide.
- 46:07Oh, there we go. Thank you. Um so yeah,
- 46:10medication. Um I'm now I think finally
- 46:15on one which is um working cuz like I
- 46:17said my brain is ever so slightly
- 46:19quieter. It was a bit disconcerting
- 46:21actually. Um at first I I remember I
- 46:24rang rang my friend cuz I was sat there
- 46:27on my sofa and I was like where have my
- 46:30thoughts gone?
- 46:33It like it was just kind of felt quiet
- 46:35and I was like I don't know if I like
- 46:36this. So, at I think probably because
- 46:39I've been so used to just living in
- 46:40chaotic land, um it was almost just
- 46:44like, "Oh gosh, I don't know what to do
- 46:45with this." I then had the most
- 46:48productive day ever. I cleaned like my
- 46:50entire house. I sorted out cupboards. I
- 46:51was like, "Oh my god, this is amazing."
- 46:54But then was exhausted. So, I kind of
- 46:57had to sit down with myself and I was
- 46:58just like, "Right, okay."
- 47:01brain. I'm aware that you are able to be
- 47:04more productive, but we do also need to
- 47:06consider the fact you're going to get
- 47:07exhausted. So, I'm I'm I'm learning and
- 47:10I think I'm getting that balance now.
- 47:13Um, so yeah, I think I don't really know
- 47:18what else I was going to say to be
- 47:19honest. Um,
- 47:21that's me and if anyone has any
- 47:23questions, please feel free to put them
- 47:26down in the chat. Um, and I'll now hand
- 47:29over to Wendy.
- 47:36Hello. Thank you. Um, I'm Wendy. Um,
- 47:41have I got my first slide up?
- 47:46Is that Yeah.
- 47:48[snorts] So, yeah, I'm Wendy. Um, I
- 47:51reached the great age of 50 this year in
- 47:55May.
- 47:57um which are celebrated in a paddling
- 47:59pool drinking procco because we're
- 48:02having a heat wave.
- 48:04Um yeah, and my journey um through
- 48:11per menopause, which I didn't actually
- 48:14know it was per menopause. Um
- 48:18yeah, it sort of
- 48:20sort of came up like a a train and hit
- 48:23me in the face really. um out of the
- 48:26blue. But I think it was because
- 48:29I mean even 10 years ago that
- 48:32menopause and it was certainly wasn't
- 48:35per menopause was not a word 10 years
- 48:37ago. It was not a word. Um I was
- 48:41obviously at university. I'd um
- 48:46done my mental health nurse training. Uh
- 48:49decided um in my late 30s to try and
- 48:53become a mental health nurse.
- 48:55um because of my own experiences with
- 48:57mental health um like Ella I I've been
- 49:00sectioned in hospital
- 49:02um in my early 30s um I was told I had
- 49:07bipolar disorder uh
- 49:10and I often wondered
- 49:13why don't why aren't I getting these
- 49:16like severe depressive
- 49:19kind of you know but anyway I took the
- 49:22diagnosis yeah fine and I'll I'll I'll
- 49:24take the medication. Um,
- 49:27but then yeah, I decided to I thought,
- 49:29yeah, I want to I want to understand a
- 49:32little bit more about bipolar. And you
- 49:35know, it's like you sort of become an
- 49:37expert in in your in what scares you.
- 49:40And I think because my my um episode in
- 49:44hospital had become it had sort of come
- 49:46completely out of the blue and I always
- 49:49had this fear in the back of my mind
- 49:50that that that was going to happen again
- 49:52and I was going to have no idea. So I
- 49:55thought right I'm going to become an
- 49:57expert and knowing the signs. So yeah um
- 50:01started uni and you know started
- 50:03training. we did start learning about
- 50:06ADHD and autism, neurodyiversity, and I
- 50:10remember sat with um one of my um the a
- 50:15lady who I got really close with. We we
- 50:18trained together at uni and we were sat
- 50:20together in the the lecture theater and
- 50:21and um they were saying, "Oh, this you
- 50:23know this can happen. It can affect
- 50:25females different males and blah blah
- 50:27blah." And I just kept looking at my
- 50:29friend and going, "That's like me." And
- 50:32she was going like me as well. But um
- 50:37yeah, I mean back then it was just like
- 50:40well yeah if what's the point in getting
- 50:43a a diagnosis really you you know you
- 50:46knew that the the NHS waiting times were
- 50:49extremely sort of long and I just
- 50:51thought no it's fine. I was fine you
- 50:54know nothing was sort of bothering me at
- 50:56the time. Yeah, I had some, you know,
- 50:58quirky little traits of um, you know,
- 51:01what we were taught at university, but
- 51:03that was fine. I was trundling along
- 51:06fine, single parent, two children,
- 51:10paying my mortgage on a student nurse
- 51:13bery, which I'm still quite proud of
- 51:16that. Um, and yeah, studying for a
- 51:19nursing degree, absolutely fine. Um and
- 51:23then
- 51:24I got into my job. Um obviously
- 51:27graduated at the age of 43
- 51:30and started working, everything fine.
- 51:35Um but then I started to notice that all
- 51:38of my sort of what I would call now
- 51:42masking
- 51:44strategies,
- 51:46I could no longer do them. like or not
- 51:50that I could no longer do them but I it
- 51:53was becoming I was becoming less skilled
- 51:56in be able to like you know act normal
- 52:01keep calm and carry on while you know
- 52:05screaming inside and keep smiling um and
- 52:09I did find that it was getting more and
- 52:12more difficult still didn't have a clue
- 52:14about per menopause and things like that
- 52:16I thought menopause hit you when you're
- 52:18about 55, you had loads and loads of hot
- 52:21flushes. Um, your periods just stopped
- 52:24and then that was it. That that was my
- 52:29outlook on an idea of menopause even
- 52:34when I was 43 in the early 40s. Um,
- 52:38but like I say, I had a uni friend who
- 52:40was in a similar situation. She'd now
- 52:43graduated. She was struggling as well.
- 52:45Um,
- 52:47and it was it was her that said, "I've
- 52:50heard about this menopause, per
- 52:52menopause. Uh, I've been watching such
- 52:56and such on YouTube and things like
- 52:58that." And um, I was like, "But I
- 53:02haven't had any hot flushes.
- 53:06I haven't had any symptoms of it, so I
- 53:09don't understand." Like my periods had
- 53:12always been I would literally my period
- 53:15would start within the same hour
- 53:19of the same day every four weeks. They
- 53:22were that much of a clockwork. It was
- 53:23dinner time on a on a Monday period
- 53:28would come every four weeks and that was
- 53:30still the same. That was another thing
- 53:32that I thought happened in menopause.
- 53:34You your periods became very erratic and
- 53:38you know nothing like that. I had no
- 53:40symptoms whatsoever.
- 53:43Um
- 53:44but my friend, she had decided to try
- 53:48HRT. She was um about three years older
- 53:50than me. Um she decided to go to the
- 53:53doctors and try HRT and it was really
- 53:56really working out for her. Sorry, have
- 53:59we gone on to the next slide? I forgot
- 54:01to say.
- 54:04Yes, I needed to be on the next slide.
- 54:06Sorry.
- 54:08Um
- 54:10yeah, so the HRT was really really
- 54:12working for her. Um and we both kind of
- 54:16built up before that these sort of like
- 54:20toolbox of strategies like oh we need to
- 54:24you know get more exercise that that's
- 54:25meant to be really good for you. Um so
- 54:28we joined the gym
- 54:30we became gym buddies you know. Um, and
- 54:35yeah, we
- 54:37we did find Yeah, I mean exercise cuz I
- 54:39mean I'd always um I was always a like a
- 54:43runner. Um, I still went on me runs and
- 54:46stuff like that, but it was nice to just
- 54:47have somebody
- 54:50as company, you know. It was it was
- 54:52because I would either I would always be
- 54:55either all or nothing. like I would run
- 54:58every day for 6 months, you know, and
- 55:01try and train for a marathon or then I
- 55:04would just be no,
- 55:07I can't be bothered. But it was nice to
- 55:10just have a friend there
- 55:12that would, you know, um but yeah,
- 55:15things weren't quite getting any better.
- 55:18Um
- 55:20and so I thought, "Oh, well, I'll I'll
- 55:22try HRT." Um, so I'd gone to the GP and
- 55:28asked for the blood tests and stuff like
- 55:30that. Um, and anyway, I wasn't quite
- 55:34suitable for the HRT. So, they offered
- 55:38me the contraceptive pill
- 55:41um, until me whatever hormone levels
- 55:46were low enough to the threshold to have
- 55:48it. Um but it
- 55:53I knew from when I was in my younger
- 55:55years I've also got um
- 55:59hyper mobility
- 56:02um which I know now is the it's kind of
- 56:04linked with neurodeiversity and things
- 56:06like having hyper mobile joints. Um, and
- 56:10during my pregnancy with my son, who's
- 56:14now 20,
- 56:15um, I unfortunately got the, um, the
- 56:19pelvic dysfunction where my pelvis
- 56:22started to separate and I had to hold it
- 56:25back together with a, like a, a belt
- 56:28corset thing. And I'd actually gone back
- 56:33on to on to contraceptive after he was
- 56:37born. and the contraceptive was causing
- 56:42pain in my pelvis. Um, but I thought,
- 56:45"Oh, well, you know, that was like 16
- 56:47years ago. It'll be fine now." But it
- 56:49straight away it's it started again and
- 56:52I thought, "No, this isn't helping." I
- 56:54persevered with it for about 9 months
- 56:58and then I started to get hot flushes
- 57:03while like taking this pill and I
- 57:06thought it's done nothing for my brain.
- 57:08I'm getting hot flushes anyway. I think
- 57:11I'm just going to leave it and then see
- 57:14where I am with the the hormone level
- 57:17thing and see if I can go on to like
- 57:18sort of proper HRT. [snorts] Um but it
- 57:22just sort of didn't work out like that
- 57:24so I just kind of left it. Um but yeah
- 57:29cuz it the physical side got better but
- 57:32things to do with my brain just seem to
- 57:34just keep getting worse and worse and
- 57:36worse and um it was like
- 57:41I don't know kind of more or less like
- 57:43overnight
- 57:45I just felt like a nuclear bomb had just
- 57:47gone off in my brain. Um, I was sensit
- 57:50sensitive to light. I walked into a
- 57:53supermarket one day and I literally
- 57:56couldn't see. I I the the lights that
- 57:59were shining down were just horrendous.
- 58:01Um, all I could hear was the supermarket
- 58:05beeping. There was just like sensory
- 58:07overload like constantly.
- 58:11>> [clears throat]
- 58:11>> Um, and then I found that the word
- 58:14finding difficulties were um were there
- 58:18as well. Um,
- 58:21I could literally see if I was talking
- 58:24about something like would would you
- 58:26like a cup of tea?
- 58:29I could literally
- 58:31see the image of a cup in my mind, but
- 58:36the word just wouldn't come. I could
- 58:38literally see cup of tea with the steam
- 58:41coming out of the top of it. I literally
- 58:44couldn't and I just thought, is this
- 58:46dementia?
- 58:49Is this really dementia? Like, is this
- 58:52it? You know, um
- 58:56and yeah, it was a really, really,
- 58:58really scary time. Um, and I think I'd
- 59:01started to sort of like do me own
- 59:03research on YouTube and um, I'd come
- 59:06across this lady who was like, well,
- 59:10if if you have struggle with word find,
- 59:13I think it was something about long co,
- 59:15it was it was just I was just sort of
- 59:17like, you know,
- 59:20do looking at anything and everything
- 59:23possible. What is wrong with me? Um,
- 59:26and she she'd explained in this in this
- 59:30sort of video thing that when you're
- 59:33having word finding difficulties,
- 59:36panicking about it will make it worse.
- 59:39And a strategy that was suggested was if
- 59:43you can't think of the word, keep
- 59:45describing it until
- 59:49the word will just come to you.
- 59:51So um I mean by this time as well I was
- 59:54a a qualified nurse and uh it would
- 59:57happen quite a lot and um so um a wet
- 1:00:02floor cone you know the yellow wet floor
- 1:00:04cone that became a yellow upside down
- 1:00:07trumpet put out when the floors wet. Uh,
- 1:00:11I remember couldn't I couldn't think of
- 1:00:14the word for wind
- 1:00:16like you know the wind the the weather
- 1:00:20and I described it as fast air.
- 1:00:24Um, yeah there was there was lots and
- 1:00:26lots of other things and I just thought
- 1:00:28to myself this isn't sort of
- 1:00:32this just isn't getting any better. Um,
- 1:00:35obviously HRT
- 1:00:39I was I was quite skeptical as to
- 1:00:41whether or not it would work. So I just
- 1:00:44thought, do you know what? I'm just
- 1:00:46going to go and see if I am a bit
- 1:00:50neurodeiverse, if if what I, you know,
- 1:00:54spotted in myself at university
- 1:00:57is is that. So I uh went and got a uh
- 1:01:03went and got the right to choose thing
- 1:01:05um and diagnosed in 2025
- 1:01:09which did make a huge
- 1:01:12um did make a huge difference
- 1:01:16and
- 1:01:18yeah I just it was quite a relief really
- 1:01:20like no I don't have early onset
- 1:01:22dementia no I'm not lazy no my brain
- 1:01:26isn't broken
- 1:01:29it's just
- 1:01:31going through a few hormonal shifts and
- 1:01:34and that's all right. That's this is
- 1:01:38going to happen. And I think as well I
- 1:01:41think what helped me as well was
- 1:01:45um I don't know there's a lot of what
- 1:01:48I'm finding in the media and stuff like
- 1:01:50there's a lot of scaremongering around
- 1:01:53menopause
- 1:01:54like you need to take this supplement
- 1:01:56and do this and do that. And I'm like,
- 1:02:01my my mom went through it. My grandma's
- 1:02:04went through it. Like,
- 1:02:06it's it's a natural
- 1:02:09transition in a way. It's not it's not
- 1:02:12the end. Like, you know, I mean, me nana
- 1:02:15must have gone through it when she was I
- 1:02:16don't know, probably my age. Like, I
- 1:02:19mean, my period stopped when I was 48.
- 1:02:22Like, coming up to two years ago, they
- 1:02:24just stopped. Like, that was it.
- 1:02:29I think the last one was a little bit
- 1:02:31heavy and it lasted for about a week. It
- 1:02:33was a bit like the grand finale and then
- 1:02:37you know um but I just remember thinking
- 1:02:41to myself like it isn't the end. It's
- 1:02:43just a transition,
- 1:02:46you know. I mean, me nana, me nana lived
- 1:02:49till she was like 91 years old, like
- 1:02:53you know. Um, and I'm just I think that
- 1:02:57helped me a lot that I didn't no longer
- 1:03:00had this impendent sense of doom, you
- 1:03:03know, oh god, me youth's all gone and
- 1:03:06this and that and the other. I think
- 1:03:09once I got the the diagnosis of um
- 1:03:14all three I've got um so I've got
- 1:03:17inattentive
- 1:03:19impulsive ADHD and autism.
- 1:03:25Yeah, that's that's just me really if if
- 1:03:27you're going to have the whole shebang,
- 1:03:29you know. But I think what it meant for
- 1:03:32me to get that was Yeah, I am. It
- 1:03:35answered a lot of questions as to,
- 1:03:39you know, why I am why I am. Um, and
- 1:03:42yeah, it's it's you don't need to feel
- 1:03:45ashamed. You don't need to mask it
- 1:03:47anymore. Well, I mean, cuz me is
- 1:03:49estrogen and progesterone have all gone.
- 1:03:50I think they were like me masking powers
- 1:03:53went, you know. Um, but it's okay. Yeah.
- 1:03:58And, uh, the medication really, really
- 1:04:00helps.
- 1:04:01Um cuz like I say the HRT wasn't for me.
- 1:04:06Um but my friend who I mentioned who you
- 1:04:10know uh was a uni with she got diagnosed
- 1:04:13at the same time around the same time.
- 1:04:16Um, I remember Instagram reels. I found
- 1:04:20this uh little video uh of uh a clip
- 1:04:23from the Undatables where there's um
- 1:04:26couple and they get introduced and then
- 1:04:29the guy says, "Right, Alice, um it it it
- 1:04:32appears that we both have autism, don't
- 1:04:34we?" And she's like, "Yes." And he's
- 1:04:36like, "Well, that's good to know." And I
- 1:04:39sent it to my friend and she was like,
- 1:04:41"This has made my uh like this is us."
- 1:04:44And I was like, "Yeah, I know."
- 1:04:45Unfortunately, my friend has got a heart
- 1:04:48condition. She can't have any ADHD meds.
- 1:04:51Um,
- 1:04:53but HRT has really really helped her.
- 1:04:56And yeah, so we're we're swimming along
- 1:04:59nicely now.
- 1:05:01Um, yeah. So,
- 1:05:06that sums it up for me. Thank you for
- 1:05:08listening.
- 1:05:10>> Oh, thank you, Wendy, Ella, Anon. We've
- 1:05:13got so much love in the chat for all of
- 1:05:14you for for the fantastic. I've been
- 1:05:17frantically making notes. I wish this
- 1:05:19information had been available for me
- 1:05:21years ago. So you it's just absolutely
- 1:05:23fantastic and your authentic your
- 1:05:26authenticity really shines through and
- 1:05:28really brings it to life. And we've got
- 1:05:30some amazing questions. I'm going to
- 1:05:32start off. I don't know if we'll get
- 1:05:33through all of them, but I'm going to
- 1:05:34try. Um so I think this one for you is
- 1:05:38there any advice for us ladies who
- 1:05:39aren't having periods? I was on the
- 1:05:41contraceptive pill for 30 years and took
- 1:05:44it continuously so I don't have periods.
- 1:05:46Told to come off the pill prior to
- 1:05:48taking HRT and have since had the Marina
- 1:05:51coil fitted but don't have periods just
- 1:05:53a bit of spotting.
- 1:05:58I think it depends really on what your
- 1:06:00experience is because um what these
- 1:06:04medications so the oral contraceptive
- 1:06:06and uh then HRT can do is it can prevent
- 1:06:11those fluctuations and the fluctuations
- 1:06:14are really the things that make our
- 1:06:16symptoms much worse. So apologies.
- 1:06:19[music]
- 1:06:20Um so when uh when people are on HRT it
- 1:06:26can it without those fluctuations it
- 1:06:29might not actually be affecting your
- 1:06:31ADHD.
- 1:06:33So um it might you know it might be that
- 1:06:36you need something that if your ADHD
- 1:06:39symptoms are still problematic that that
- 1:06:42might need to be looked at kind of
- 1:06:44independent of your hormones. But at the
- 1:06:47same time making sure that your hormone
- 1:06:49levels are optimal. Um so that you are
- 1:06:53you are feeling okay, your pain is
- 1:06:55managed. Uh you're not getting your hot
- 1:06:57flushes, you're sleeping all right,
- 1:06:59you're not too anxious, all of those
- 1:07:01things.
- 1:07:02Lovely. Thank you, Anon. Um Ella, when
- 1:07:05you say about aching in your legs, I get
- 1:07:07that it feels like a headache. Uh but
- 1:07:10it's all in this person's calves and
- 1:07:12shins. Is that similar to what you get?
- 1:07:16It really is. And that actually I read
- 1:07:18that comment and I was like, "Oh my
- 1:07:19gosh." Yeah, it kind of is. And I mean,
- 1:07:22the way I cope with it when it happens
- 1:07:24is I literally lie on my sofa here with
- 1:07:27my legs up in the air. Um, just a little
- 1:07:30tip for you. It kind of feels like it
- 1:07:32I'm like draining out the ache. Um, but
- 1:07:35yeah,
- 1:07:37>> it's the same. Brilliant. Um, okay. Uh
- 1:07:40Wendy, uh what ADHD what ADHD medication
- 1:07:44helps you with the brain fog?
- 1:07:47>> Uh so I take the stex and fetamine.
- 1:07:52Um
- 1:07:53and it it takes a little while. It takes
- 1:07:58about an hour and a half
- 1:08:01to sort of start working after I've
- 1:08:04obviously first taken it in the morning.
- 1:08:08Um, and it really really does help. It
- 1:08:11really really does. It just I feel when
- 1:08:15with brain fog, I think when your brain
- 1:08:19is ADHD as well,
- 1:08:22um, the brain fog, it just seem because
- 1:08:24I think your brain is working quite
- 1:08:26quickly when you've got a neurodeiverse
- 1:08:29ADHD brain.
- 1:08:31And when the sort of permenopause brain
- 1:08:36fog comes in, you just find it you it's
- 1:08:40far too fast. You cannot [clears throat]
- 1:08:42focus on anything. There's like not one
- 1:08:45of the little thoughts that's going
- 1:08:46around in your head can you focus on.
- 1:08:50And then I find that the
- 1:08:53the least exciting that helps a lot. I
- 1:08:56can then yeah I focused. So, I find that
- 1:08:59I need to have I need to have made a
- 1:09:01to-do list
- 1:09:03before the meds kick in. Um, and I have
- 1:09:07that that is my to-do list. That is what
- 1:09:09I'm doing. And I can tick things off.
- 1:09:12Done done. If I don't do that and I sit
- 1:09:17and play, I mean, I've actually gotten
- 1:09:19rid of my smartphone. I don't have it
- 1:09:20anymore. Um, but what I was finding is
- 1:09:26if I'm sitting on my smartphone when my
- 1:09:29meds kick in, that's it for me for the
- 1:09:32rest of the day. I'll be kneede in Candy
- 1:09:36Crush, Instagram,
- 1:09:39just dopamine
- 1:09:42central. We're having a dopamine
- 1:09:45festival.
- 1:09:46Yes. So, the Lisa Dex and Fetamine, but
- 1:09:49I've got to I've got to sort of be
- 1:09:51mindful how I work with it
- 1:09:54cuz then I'll just hyperfocus on
- 1:09:58ruining me life in me. [laughter]
- 1:10:00>> Chipping in quickly, Wendy. I'm exactly
- 1:10:02the same.
- 1:10:04>> I still can't believe you haven't got a
- 1:10:05smartphone, but I'm I'm All praise to
- 1:10:09you. I think that's amazing.
- 1:10:10>> It was a big step. It took me about six
- 1:10:12months to get rid of my smartphone, but
- 1:10:15it's the best thing I've ever done.
- 1:10:16We'll have to do a webinar just on not
- 1:10:18having smartphones.
- 1:10:20>> Have you got a phone you could play
- 1:10:21Snake on now, Wendy?
- 1:10:22>> It does have Snake on it.
- 1:10:24>> It does. Yeah, it does.
- 1:10:27>> I just wanted to mention uh with with
- 1:10:30brain fog and all of all of the
- 1:10:32symptoms, even the leg ache um that was
- 1:10:35mentioned. Um I think just really
- 1:10:37important to note that um women with
- 1:10:40ADHD are much more likely to have low
- 1:10:43iron levels and low iron levels can also
- 1:10:47contribute to um aches and pains
- 1:10:49especially leg pain um kind of a sense
- 1:10:52of a feeling of bone pain um people can
- 1:10:54experience and anything to do with um
- 1:10:58concentration fatigue all of that. So
- 1:11:00just one other thing especially if you
- 1:11:03um have heavy periods or are
- 1:11:05permenopausal where women often um
- 1:11:08become anemic and not even before you
- 1:11:11get to a stage of anemia just having low
- 1:11:13iron can really affect um ADHD symptoms
- 1:11:17as well. So just keep that in mind with
- 1:11:20um with all of these.
- 1:11:22>> Brilliant. Thank you and I've got one
- 1:11:23more question for you. the other
- 1:11:25questions, we'll collect them and send
- 1:11:27them out with the next uh patient
- 1:11:29newsletter. But someone's asking, "What
- 1:11:31about after menopause? Once you plateau,
- 1:11:34do people with ADHD feel more calm and
- 1:11:36settled?"
- 1:11:39>> Yeah, it's a it's a very good question.
- 1:11:42And on the whole, people do find that
- 1:11:44things become a little bit more
- 1:11:46manageable. Um and very often as women
- 1:11:50go into that post-menopausal
- 1:11:53um or menopausal phase that actually um
- 1:11:56because the fluctuations are less um
- 1:11:59symptoms can definitely improve. Um but
- 1:12:03at the same time I think uh important to
- 1:12:06know that your estrogen is going to be
- 1:12:08low in that time if you're not on HRT.
- 1:12:11So although you're not getting the
- 1:12:12fluctuations
- 1:12:14with low estrogen, you are going to have
- 1:12:16lower dopamine and you are going to um
- 1:12:19have more difficulties with both your
- 1:12:21dopamine and adrenaline systems and your
- 1:12:25serotonin which is all to do with mood
- 1:12:27and anxiety and all of that as well. So
- 1:12:30although the fluctuations will be less
- 1:12:32and your ADHD symptoms will be more
- 1:12:35stable, they likely to be a bit worse
- 1:12:38than before you went through per
- 1:12:40menopause.
- 1:12:42Brilliant. Thank you, Anon. But this
- 1:12:44this has been utterly amazing. We'll
- 1:12:46collect all these questions, send them
- 1:12:48out with our our patient newsletter. Um
- 1:12:51but you can watch this recording. It
- 1:12:53will be uploaded onto YouTube tomorrow
- 1:12:55so you can look at it all again in its
- 1:12:56glory. Um there will be a summary of the
- 1:12:59slides on our blog as well. Please do
- 1:13:01follow us on Eventbrite. I know many of
- 1:13:03you do and you've got your links through
- 1:13:05there. And I apologize for some of the
- 1:13:07the connection problems getting in
- 1:13:09today, but um we we'll we're getting to
- 1:13:13to a point where we can get that
- 1:13:14resolved. Our next patient newsletter
- 1:13:17will be with you on the 12th of October.
- 1:13:19Um and there'll be lots more information
- 1:13:21in there. But if you're having any
- 1:13:23problems um connecting, do go to our
- 1:13:26live chat. um and connect through our
- 1:13:28our patient support center. Our next
- 1:13:31webinar is going to be on the 6th of
- 1:13:34October and this is about creating a
- 1:13:36workplace that works for everyone. So
- 1:13:38lots of tips and advice and support for
- 1:13:41those wonderful neurode divergent brains
- 1:13:43of ours. So thank you for joining us. Uh
- 1:13:46we went a little bit over but thank you
- 1:13:48enormously to Dr. to Ron McKenzie to
- 1:13:51Ella and to Wendy and of course for Sam
- 1:13:53for for getting us starting off th this
- 1:13:56evening. Thank you.
- 1:14:02>> Thanks everyone.
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