According to psychology when someone hurts you deeply yet the moment they turn kind #psychology — Transcript
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- 0:00According to psychology, when someone
- 0:02hurts you deeply, yet the moment they
- 0:04turn kind, you let the pain fade away,
- 0:06it is not weakness or simple forgiveness
- 0:09at play. Your brain is caught in
- 0:11cognitive dissonance, rewriting pain. It
- 0:14convinces you that maybe you
- 0:15overreacted, maybe you're too sensitive,
- 0:18so you hold on to the bond for safety
- 0:20sake. A smile, a sweet text, or a gentle
- 0:23tone makes the hurt vanish, almost as if
- 0:26the betrayal never existed until it
- 0:28happens again. And when it repeats,
- 0:30instead of blaming them, you turn
- 0:32inward. You ask yourself why you stayed,
- 0:35why you allowed it to continue. Memories
- 0:37return in flashes. Anger bursts out
- 0:39unexpectedly. And somehow you look like
- 0:42the problem even when you are not.
- 0:45Psychologists call this intermittent
- 0:46reinforcement. The same strategy casinos
- 0:49use to keep players hooked to slot
- 0:51machines. The hurt is constant, but the
- 0:53reward, the apology, the rare I love
- 0:56you, the sudden kindness arrives
- 0:59unpredictably. Those random rewards feel
- 1:01intoxicating, almost irresistible. They
- 1:05trick your nervous system into chasing
- 1:06the next win, pulling the lever again
- 1:09and again, even at the cost of peace.
- 1:13[Music]
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