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1. 0:01He who knows himself, knows his path.
2. 0:06This wisdom, echoed by sages throughout
3. 0:09the ages, summarizes a long journey of.
4. 0:13Human exploration, for the greatest
5. 0:15discovery one can reach is not
6. 0:18discovering the world around them, but
7. 0:21the world within them. A person may
8. 0:26spend many long years trying to
9. 0:28understand others, trying to prove.
10. 0:31Themselves, to reach their goals. And
11. 0:35to achieve the success they dream of.
12. 0:38But they forget the most important
13. 0:40question: Am I living in a way that
14. 0:43makes me feel at peace with myself? In
15. 0:46a time where speed has become the title
16. 0:49for everything. People have started
17. 0:52running more than they are living.
18. 0:54Waking up to notifications and falling
19. 0:57asleep to thoughts. And between the
20. 0:59beginning and the end, they forget to
21. 1:01ask themselves. What is happening
22. 1:03inside me? We live in an era where
23. 1:07humans possess unlimited means of
24. 1:10communication. Yet, they have sometimes
25. 1:13become more detached from themselves.
26. 1:17They know everyone's news. They know
27. 1:20what others are doing. What they own.
28. 1:23And how far they have reached, but they
29. 1:25don't always know what their heart
30. 1:27needs. Here the problem begins, because
31. 1:32when a person neglects themselves for a
32. 1:34long time, they don't collapse suddenly
33. 1:36; rather, they drift away from their
34. 1:38self gradually, losing enthusiasm for
35. 1:41the things they used to love. They feel
36. 1:44tired without any clear reason.
37. 1:48Sometimes you just need honest moments.
38. 1:51In which you rearrange your
39. 1:53relationship with yourself. Mental
40. 1:56health is not about never feeling sad.
41. 2:00And it is not about being strong all
42. 2:03the time. And it is not. Waking up
43. 2:05every morning full of energy; that is
44. 2:09not human. The real human goes through
45. 2:14phases of fatigue, doubt, fear, and
46. 2:17confusion. But the difference between
47. 2:22someone who gets lost in these feelings
48. 2:23and someone who moves past them is that
49. 2:25the latter. Learns how to understand
50. 2:30themselves, to sit with their pain
51. 2:33instead of running from it, to listen
52. 2:36to their thoughts instead of fearing
53. 2:38them, and to treat themselves with
54. 2:41mercy instead of being their own
55. 2:43harshest critic. Some people treat
56. 2:48themselves in a way they would never
57. 2:51allow someone else to treat them; they
58. 2:54criticize every mistake, remember every
59. 2:57failure, and constantly compare
60. 2:59themselves to others, then wonder why
61. 3:02they don't feel comfortable. The answer
62. 3:07is simple: because a person cannot live
63. 3:10in peace while they are in a constant
64. 3:13war with themselves. The most beautiful
65. 3:18relationship you can build in this life
66. 3:20is not your relationship with money.
67. 3:23Nor fame, nor people's admiration of
68. 3:25you. But your relationship with
69. 3:28yourself. Because everyone may drift
70. 3:31away at certain stages. Circumstances
71. 3:34may change. And places may shift. But
72. 3:38the only person who will remain with
73. 3:40you in every moment is you. That is why
74. 3:44taking care of yourself is not
75. 3:46selfishness as some might. Think, but
76. 3:49rather a responsibility. For a person
77. 3:52who takes care of themselves becomes
78. 3:55more capable of giving. And calmer in
79. 3:58their dealings, and more conscious of
80. 4:01their choices. And in this episode, we
81. 4:04will talk about seven psychological
82. 4:06habits. Simple, yet very profound.
83. 4:11Habits. If you start applying them,
84. 4:13they won't change your life in one day.
85. 4:17But they will change the way you see
86. 4:20yourself. And the life around you,
87. 4:24because true change doesn't always
88. 4:27start from the outside; it starts from
89. 4:30a quiet moment where you say to
90. 4:32yourself: It is time. To take care of
91. 4:36the person who has lived with me all
92. 4:38these years—myself. Once we realize
93. 4:42that our relationship with ourselves is
94. 4:44the foundation, we begin to discover
95. 4:46that true change does not always
96. 4:48require. to massive decisions, but to
97. 4:51small habits we repeat until they
98. 4:54become part of our character. A person
99. 4:58does not become calmer because they
100. 5:01found a life free of problems, but
101. 5:04because they learned how to deal with
102. 5:06problems without allowing them to take
103. 5:09away their inner peace. The first habit
104. 5:14is to give yourself real time for quiet
105. 5:17. In a world where silence has become a
106. 5:21rarity, sitting with oneself has become
107. 5:24a skill that needs to be learned. Many
108. 5:29people fear moments of quiet because
109. 5:31when they step away from the noise,
110. 5:34they hear voices they have been trying
111. 5:37to ignore for a long time. But a person
112. 5:41cannot understand themselves while
113. 5:43constantly running away from them.
114. 5:47Sometimes you just need a few minutes
115. 5:49in your day without a phone, without
116. 5:52comparisons, and without trying to
117. 5:55please anyone. Sit down and ask
118. 5:58yourself: What is draining me these
119. 6:01days? What am I putting off even though
120. 6:04I know it's important? What makes me
121. 6:08feel disconnected from myself? These
122. 6:11questions are not a weakness; they are
123. 6:14a sign of awareness. The second habit
124. 6:19is to stop punishing yourself for the
125. 6:22past. There are people who live in the
126. 6:25present with their bodies, but their
127. 6:28minds are still stuck in years gone by.
128. 6:33They remember their old mistakes as if
129. 6:36they happened today and judge
130. 6:38themselves based on an old version of
131. 6:41them that no longer exists, even though
132. 6:44the truth is that a human is a being
133. 6:47that changes. The person who made the
134. 6:51mistake years ago did not have the same
135. 6:54knowledge. Nor the same experience. Nor
136. 6:57the same awareness you have now. If you
137. 7:01knew then what you know today, you
138. 7:04might have acted differently. That is
139. 7:07why you should not let an old mistake
140. 7:09become a prison. That you live in for
141. 7:11the rest of your life. Take the lesson
142. 7:14and leave the pain behind. Maturity is
143. 7:18not about forgetting the past, but
144. 7:20about learning from it without letting
145. 7:23it steal your future. The third habit
146. 7:27is to choose what you allow into your
147. 7:30mind. The mind is like a garden; every
148. 7:33thought you plant in it will grow one
149. 7:36way or another. If you fill it with
150. 7:40fear, comparisons, and negative energy,
151. 7:43it is only natural that you will feel
152. 7:46tired. Not everything you see is worth
153. 7:51your attention, and not everyone
154. 7:53deserves a place in your world. There
155. 7:57are things that do not need to be
156. 7:59fought; they just need to be walked
157. 8:01away from. True maturity is not knowing
158. 8:05how to respond to everything, but
159. 8:07knowing what does not deserve a
160. 8:09response from you. Guard your mind.
161. 8:13Just as you guard your home, do not
162. 8:15open the door to everything. The fourth
163. 8:20habit is to take care of your body as
164. 8:22part of your mental health. Many people
165. 8:26separate the mind and the body as if
166. 8:29they were two distinct things. But the
167. 8:33truth is that a human is one single
168. 8:35unit. Lack of sleep affects your
169. 8:39feelings, physical neglect affects your
170. 8:42energy, and lack of movement affects
171. 8:45your mood. Sometimes a person does not
172. 8:49need a complex solution. Perhaps they
173. 8:54just need better sleep, a simple walk,
174. 8:57and food that gives them energy.
175. 9:02Self-care is not always books, courses,
176. 9:04and deep meditations; sometimes, it is
177. 9:06just that. It could be a glass of water
178. 9:11you drink, a set time to sleep early,
179. 9:13or a decision to treat your body with
180. 9:16respect. The fifth habit is learning
181. 9:20the art of setting boundaries. One of
182. 9:24the most draining things is living to
183. 9:27please everyone—saying yes when you
184. 9:30want to say no, staying silent when you
185. 9:33need to express yourself, and carrying
186. 9:36others 'emotions while forgetting your
187. 9:39own. But the truth is, setting
188. 9:42boundaries isn't cruelty; it's respect.
189. 9:47You don't set them because you dislike
190. 9:49others, but because you love yourself
191. 9:52enough not to let anyone consume your
192. 9:55peace. You aren't required to be
193. 9:58available all the time, nor are you
194. 10:01required to explain yourself to
195. 10:03everyone. True relief comes when you
196. 10:07stop trying to make everyone understand
197. 10:10you. The sixth habit is to live in the
198. 10:15moment. Instead of getting lost between
199. 10:17the past and the future. How many times
200. 10:21has a person sat in a beautiful place,
201. 10:24yet was...Thinking of a problem from
202. 10:26yesterday or a fear awaiting them
203. 10:28tomorrow? We rob ourselves of life's
204. 10:34most beautiful moments when we live in
205. 10:37places where we do not exist. The past
206. 10:41is over, taking its opportunities and
207. 10:43mistakes with it, and the future hasn't
208. 10:46arrived yet to justify carrying its
209. 10:48full weight. As for the present moment,
210. 10:51it is the only thing we truly possess.
211. 10:56Learn to drink your coffee while
212. 10:58present, to listen to those you love
213. 11:01while present, and to view small things
214. 11:03as if they were a gift. Life isn't just
215. 11:07the big events we remember, but the
216. 11:10tiny details whose beauty we often
217. 11:12overlook. The seventh habit is to
218. 11:15become a friend to yourself. You may
219. 11:19pass through stages in life where you
220. 11:22find no one who understands you as you
221. 11:24wish, and you may sometimes feel you
222. 11:27are walking a path no one else sees. In
223. 11:31those moments, do not be the person who
224. 11:34adds to your pain. Give yourself
225. 11:38security. Speak to yourself with
226. 11:41kindness. Celebrate your progress, even
227. 11:44if it is simple. Forgive yourself when
228. 11:49you stumble, because a person needs
229. 11:52someone throughout their life...To
230. 11:54support them, and the first person who
231. 11:57should be by your side is yourself. In
232. 12:02the end, remember that caring for
233. 12:04yourself isn't a journey to reach
234. 12:07perfection, but a journey of learning
235. 12:10how to love the person who will
236. 12:12accompany you for a lifetime. Your life
237. 12:17might not change immediately after
238. 12:19hearing these words, and that is
239. 12:22natural, for great trees do not grow in
240. 12:25a single day. But perhaps today you can
241. 12:29start with a small step—a
242. 12:32compassionate word you say to yourself,
243. 12:35a healthy habit you choose, or a moment
244. 12:39of calm you grant your heart. With time
245. 12:43, you will discover that you didn't
246. 12:45need to become someone else; you only
247. 12:48needed to return to yourself. Thank you
248. 12:53for being here and for dedicating a
249. 12:56portion of your time to these moments.
250. 13:00I hope this episode has reached your
251. 13:03heart before your ears. And that you
252. 13:07take something small from it to
253. 13:08accompany you in the coming days.
254. 13:12Always remember to take care of
255. 13:14yourself, for there is a beautiful
256. 13:16version of you waiting for the chance
257. 13:19to emerge. Until we meet again. Stay
258. 13:23close to yourself, close to your dreams
259. 13:26. And do not forget that the peace you
260. 13:30seek in the world begins within you. Be
261. 13:33well, and stay in peace.