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1. 0:00It’s a truly shocking story I once
2. 0:02heard from my eldest uncle. This is
3. 0:04something I really hope parents will
4. 0:06remember, too. My eldest uncle said to
5. 0:08me. "Hey, Boman.""What do you think of
6. 0:10when you see a mouse?""A mouse?""I
7. 0:12think it’s creepy and dirty.""Do you
8. 0:14think a cat thinks the same?""No.""I
9. 0:16think a cat would think it’s
10. 0:17delicious.""Exactly.""Did the mouse
11. 0:18change from being dirty in front of you
12. 0:20to being delicious in front of a cat?""
13. 0:22No.""The mouse is the same.""Then what
14. 0:24changed?""The one who is looking
15. 0:25changed.""Do you think what you
16. 0:27consider happiness now will still look
17. 0:28like happiness as time passes?"
18. 0:30That’s the question he asked me. That
19. 0:31was the first time I learned to
20. 0:33practice not trusting my own thoughts.
21. 0:35I was a freshman in high school. I was
22. 0:37so, so happy back then. I was happy for
23. 0:40two reasons; first, I was thrilled that
24. 0:42my level of thinking had the potential
25. 0:44to keep growing and improving. Second,
26. 0:48I gained a great weapon that made it so
27. 0:50easy to let go of things that seem good
28. 0:52right now. I gained a powerful weapon
29. 0:55to convince myself. I became free. Free
30. 0:58from my own thoughts. I hope parents
31. 1:00don't forget this either. Is the
32. 1:03thought that this is the best education
33. 1:05for my child, for my kid, really going
34. 1:07to stay the same forever? I believe it
35. 1:10will change.