외모 없이 사람을 사로잡는 유혹의 기술 (로버트 그린) — Transcript

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1. 0:04Some of the greatest seducers, male and
2. 0:06female, were not good-looking at all.
3. 0:08And you don't have to be good-looking to
4. 0:10seduce. That's a myth. What makes for a
5. 0:12great seducer is very simple. You are
6. 0:15outer-directed. When you meet somebody,
7. 0:17you're not having that internal
8. 0:19monologue going. Do she like me? Am I
9. 0:21dressed well? What can I do to impress
10. 0:23them? No. You turn it off,
11. 0:25outer-directed, and you're listening to
12. 0:27them. And you're hearing them say things
13. 0:29that that give you idea of what they're
14. 0:31missing in life, of what they want, of
15. 0:33what their needs are, of what makes them
16. 0:35an individual. You're entering into
17. 0:37their spirit, and then you can reflect
18. 0:39it back to them. You can give them
19. 0:41gifts. You can take them to places that
20. 0:43show that you're attentive to them.
21. 0:45Because if you look at how we are in our
22. 0:46day-to-day life, normally people never
23. 0:49pay us attention. If you give that
24. 0:51feeling to someone, it's incredibly
25. 0:53powerful, because we all want to be
26. 0:54validated. We all want to be recognized.