[한영자막] 꿈도 없고 싶은 일도 없다면? — Transcript

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1. 0:00I need some serious advice, desperately.
2. 0:03What do I do if I don't know what I want
3. 0:06to be in the future? What if I don't
4. 0:08have any dream or ambition? What do I do
5. 0:10then?
6. 0:11It really feels like I'm stuck here
7. 0:14while the rest of the world is moving
8. 0:16forward.
9. 0:18This is the perfect time for me to
10. 0:20um
11. 0:21respond to this question because uh I
12. 0:24recently I was at this place and I was
13. 0:27getting something fixed like an item of
14. 0:29mine, right? And um the person who fixed
15. 0:31it uh was like, "You don't need to pay
16. 0:34me." And I was like, "What? No, I got to
17. 0:36pay you." And he's like, "No, I I
18. 0:37actually want some advice. Can you just
19. 0:40pay me with advice?" And I was like, uh
20. 0:43I I I can can I can I just pay you? And
21. 0:47I'm kidding. Uh so, he asked me for
22. 0:49advice and um apparently his uh his kid
23. 0:53um doesn't know
24. 0:56what they want to do with their life.
25. 0:58And the dad asked me like, you know,
26. 1:01you seem to know what you seem to
27. 1:04know not only what you want to do from
28. 1:06now on like uh from watching your
29. 1:09interviews uh it seems like even when
30. 1:11you were young, you knew what you wanted
31. 1:13to do. So, like how can I uh advise my
32. 1:17kid in a way where they'll have
33. 1:19something that they want to do in the
34. 1:20future, right? And I was like, "Oh, I
35. 1:23had no idea that I was going to end up
36. 1:26being a musician or rapper or uh like a
37. 1:30YouTuber." Like, I didn't know any I
38. 1:32didn't imagine until like I did it. I
39. 1:35didn't I didn't imagine, right? And um I
40. 1:39was like, "How old's your kid?" And not
41. 1:41even in high school.
42. 1:44So, I'm like, "Come on." I'm like,
43. 1:48"They're not supposed to know what they
44. 1:49want to do yet." And he was like,
45. 1:52"Really?" And I was like, "Yes, like
46. 1:54this this is the period of time where
47. 1:56like you just try a bunch of things. You
48. 1:59just like, you know, you just dabble in
49. 2:00this and dabble in that because first
50. 2:03you need to figure out what you don't
51. 2:06want to do. By the way, um a lot of
52. 2:09people seconded this question. Okay, and
53. 2:12uh liked this question. So I I think a
54. 2:14lot of people are going through this.
55. 2:16First of all, the future is exactly like
56. 2:18by definition something you cannot
57. 2:21predict. Okay, so do not be hard on
58. 2:23yourself for not knowing what you want
59. 2:25to do with your future or in your future
60. 2:27because no one does. Like the future is
61. 2:30not predictable. Okay, so it's totally
62. 2:32normal and okay for you not to know what
63. 2:35you want to do a year from now or 10
64. 2:37years from now. So first of all, calm
65. 2:38down. It's going to be okay. And um as I
66. 2:42was saying, if you can't figure out what
67. 2:45you want to do, just try a bunch of
68. 2:47things because it's just as important to
69. 2:49figure out what you don't want to do.
70. 2:52And that's what I told the dad and
71. 2:54that's what I would like to tell um God
72. 2:56Punk 1077. Try sports. Try different
73. 2:59hobbies.
74. 3:01You may like it. You may hate it, but
75. 3:03learning that you don't like something
76. 3:06will at least eliminate something in the
77. 3:09way of you finding something you
78. 3:12actually like, right? One of the things
79. 3:15that I do feel very blessed about
80. 3:18even though my parents were very strict
81. 3:21and my upbringing wasn't
82. 3:23wasn't all rosy. There was a lot of
83. 3:26pressure and at times like if I felt
84. 3:29like the pressure would crush me. But
85. 3:32one of the things that I'm very very
86. 3:34grateful about is that I was pushed to
87. 3:37do a lot of different things. Tablo, you
88. 3:40talk too much. Um but what I'm trying to
89. 3:42say is discovering what you are not
90. 3:45uh can nudge you towards what you are
91. 3:48and who you are. So um don't think of
92. 3:51these things
93. 3:53as a waste of time. Try hobbies. And
94. 3:55also like don't feel bad for, you know,
95. 3:58spending days just watching movies or
96. 4:01playing games because who knows? Like
97. 4:04pro gamers all started by just playing
98. 4:06games and I'm sure their parents hated
99. 4:08it. I'm sure their friends looked at
100. 4:10them like, "Oh, all you do is play
101. 4:12games, right?" And now they're being
102. 4:14applauded for it. So, you never know
103. 4:17where you're going to end up. And I
104. 4:19never imagined I would be sitting here
105. 4:21um,
106. 4:21giving life advice. Honestly, right?
107. 4:24Like I was a at at points in my life I
108. 4:26was called a [ __ ] up. Like that's what
109. 4:28people used to say. They're like, "Oh,
110. 4:29Daniel's a [ __ ] up." Right? But here I
111. 4:32am giving life advice
112. 4:35with people listening, you know? So like
113. 4:37don't worry.
114. 4:39And I'd like to finally add
115. 4:41I know the feeling of being stuck while
116. 4:44everyone is moving forward. But let me
117. 4:46tell you everyone is not moving forward.
118. 4:49You know, the the if you're basing that
119. 4:51off of like what's visible like social
120. 4:53media or like what you hear, they're not
121. 4:55going to share all the moments that
122. 4:57they're they tumble or like, you know,
123. 4:59they're not going to mention that they
124. 5:01they fell for a few months or years.
125. 5:04People usually share the good things,
126. 5:07right? And the the things they're proud
127. 5:09of. So, if you base it on what's
128. 5:11visible, you're going to feel like
129. 5:12you're the only one that's stuck. But
130. 5:13let me tell you a lot of people to move
131. 5:16forward
132. 5:17they, you know, they trip and fall. And
133. 5:20uh,
134. 5:21to you I might seem like I have it
135. 5:24together and I'm moving forward all the
136. 5:26time and I'm doing like, you know, a lot
137. 5:29of, you know, good things and like
138. 5:31awesome shiny things, but uh, let me
139. 5:34tell you it it just looks like that.
140. 5:36Like to do those things I, you know, I
141. 5:38fall way more. I I I maybe like
142. 5:41out of a hundred things I do, like 95
143. 5:45of them don't work out. So,
144. 5:48uh
145. 5:49don't don't don't care about other
146. 5:51people moving forward. I know it's hard
147. 5:53to do, but I mean, that's all I can say.
148. 5:56>> [snorts]
149. 5:56>> Be hard on yourself.
150. 6:09Figure out.
151. 6:21Have it together.
152. 6:32>> I need some serious advice desperately.
153. 6:36What do I do if I don't know what I want
154. 6:38to be in the future? What if I don't
155. 6:40have any dream or ambition?
156. 6:42What do I do then?
157. 6:44It really feels like I'm stuck here
158. 6:46while the rest of the world is moving
159. 6:49forward.
160. 6:51This is the perfect time for me to um
161. 6:54respond to this question because uh I
162. 6:57recently I was at this place and I was
163. 6:59getting something fixed, like an item of
164. 7:02mine, right? And um the person who fixed
165. 7:04it uh was like, "You don't need to pay
166. 7:07me." And I was like, "What? No, I got to
167. 7:08pay you." And he's like, "No, I I
168. 7:10actually want some advice. Can you just
169. 7:12pay me with advice?" And I was like,
170. 7:16I I I I can can I Can I just pay you? I
171. 7:19don't know. I'm kidding. Uh so, he asked
172. 7:21me for advice, and um apparently his uh
173. 7:25his kid
174. 7:26um doesn't know
175. 7:28what they want to do with their life.
176. 7:31And the dad asked me like, you know,
177. 7:33"You seem to know
178. 7:35You seem to
179. 7:37know not only what you want to do from
180. 7:39now on. Like, uh from watching your
181. 7:41interviews, uh it seems like even when
182. 7:44you were young, you knew what you wanted
183. 7:45to do. So, like how can I
184. 7:49advise my kid in a way where they'll
185. 7:52have something that they want to do in
186. 7:53the future, right? And I was like, oh, I
187. 7:55had no idea that I was going to end up
188. 7:59being a musician or rapper or
189. 8:02like a YouTuber. Like, I didn't know any
190. 8:05I didn't imagine until like I did it. I
191. 8:08didn't I didn't imagine, right? And um I
192. 8:11was like, how old's your kid? And not
193. 8:14even in high school.
194. 8:16>> [laughter]
195. 8:16>> So, I'm like, come on. I'm like,
196. 8:21they're not supposed to know what they
197. 8:22want to do yet. And he was like, really?
198. 8:25And I was like, yes, like this this is
199. 8:28the uh period of time where like you
200. 8:29just try a bunch of things. You just
201. 8:31like, you know, you're just dabbling in
202. 8:33this and dabbling in that. Because
203. 8:35first, you need to figure out what you
204. 8:38don't want to do. By the way, um a lot
205. 8:42of people seconded this question, okay?
206. 8:44And uh liked this question. So, I think
207. 8:47a lot of people are going through this.
208. 8:48First of all, the future is exactly like
209. 8:51by definition, something you cannot
210. 8:53predict. Okay? So, do not be hard on
211. 8:56yourself for not knowing what you want
212. 8:58to do with your future or in your
213. 9:00future. Because no one does. Like, the
214. 9:02future is not predictable, okay? So,
215. 9:04it's totally normal and okay for you not
216. 9:06to know what you want to do a year from
217. 9:09now or 10 years from now. So, first of
218. 9:11all, calm down. It's going to be okay.
219. 9:13And um as I was saying, if you can't
220. 9:16figure out what you want to do, just try
221. 9:19a bunch of things because it's just as
222. 9:21important to figure out what you don't
223. 9:24want to do. And that's what I told the
224. 9:25dad. And that's what I would like to
225. 9:27tell um gotbangtan77.
226. 9:30Try sports. Try different hobbies. You
227. 9:33may like it. You may hate it. But
228. 9:36learning that you don't like something
229. 9:39will at least eliminate something in the
230. 9:42way of you finding something you
231. 9:44actually like, right? One of the things
232. 9:48that I do feel very blessed about,
233. 9:51even though my parents were very strict
234. 9:54and my upbringing wasn't wasn't all
235. 9:57rosy. There was a lot of pressure and at
236. 10:00times like it if I felt like the
237. 10:02pressure would crush me. But,
238. 10:05one of the things that I'm very, very
239. 10:07grateful about is that I was pushed to
240. 10:09do a lot of different things. Tablo, you
241. 10:13talk too much. Um, but what I'm trying
242. 10:15to say is discovering what you are not
243. 10:18uh, can nudge you towards what you are
244. 10:21and who you are. So, um,
245. 10:23don't think of these things as as a
246. 10:26waste of time. Try hobbies. And also
247. 10:29like don't feel bad for, you know,
248. 10:31spending days just watching movies or
249. 10:34playing games because who knows? Like
250. 10:36pro gamers all started by just playing
251. 10:39games and I'm sure their parents hated
252. 10:41it. I'm sure their friends looked at
253. 10:43them like, oh, all you do is play games,
254. 10:45right? And now they're being applauded
255. 10:47for it. So, you never know where you're
256. 10:50going to end up. And I never imagined I
257. 10:52would be sitting here, um,
258. 10:54giving life advice. Honestly, right?
259. 10:56Like I was a at at points in my life I
260. 10:59was called a [ __ ] up. Like that's what
261. 11:00people used to say. They're like, oh,
262. 11:02Daniel's a [ __ ] up, right? But here I am
263. 11:05giving life advice with people
264. 11:08listening, you know? So, like don't
265. 11:10worry.
266. 11:11And I'd like to finally add,
267. 11:14I know the feeling of being stuck while
268. 11:16everyone is moving forward. But let me
269. 11:19tell you, everyone is not moving
270. 11:20forward, you know? The if you're basing
271. 11:23that off of like what's visible, like
272. 11:25social media or like what you hear,
273. 11:28they're not going to share all the
274. 11:29moments that they're they tumble or
275. 11:31like, you know, they're not going to
276. 11:33mention that they they fell for a few
277. 11:35months or years. People usually share
278. 11:38the good things, right? And the the
279. 11:40things they're proud of. So, if you base
280. 11:43it on what's visible, you're going to
281. 11:44feel like you're the only one that's
282. 11:46stuck. But let me tell you, a lot of
283. 11:47people, to move forward,
284. 11:50they, you know, they trip and fall. And
285. 11:53uh
286. 11:54to you, I might seem like I have it
287. 11:57together and I'm moving forward all the
288. 11:59time and doing like, you know, a lot of,
289. 12:02you know, good things and like awesome
290. 12:04shiny things, but uh let me tell you, it
291. 12:07just looks like that. Like to do those
292. 12:10things, I you know, I fall way more. I I
293. 12:12I maybe like
294. 12:14out of a hundred things I do, like 95
295. 12:18of them don't work out. So,
296. 12:21uh
297. 12:22don't don't don't care about other
298. 12:24people moving forward. I know it's hard
299. 12:25to do, but I mean, that's all I can say.