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- 0:00Hi everyone. I've come up with a really
- 0:02interesting system or algorithm that
- 0:04will help you find your style. It'll be
- 0:06a series of videos, where each episode
- 0:08is crucial. I'll give you tasks, and if
- 0:12you actually follow them, you'll
- 0:13definitely succeed. Let me tell you
- 0:16right away, take it easy. If you don't
- 0:19look the way you'd like right now,
- 0:21maybe you simply haven't had the time
- 0:23to work on it because you've had other,
- 0:25more important priorities in your life.
- 0:29When people are constantly busy with
- 0:31work, school, or children, they don't
- 0:33pay enough attention to their style and
- 0:36dress based on comfort. And that's
- 0:39completely normal. I've been in this
- 0:41situation myself and I understand
- 0:42perfectly well what it's like. Since
- 0:45childhood, I've loved experimenting
- 0:47with my appearance and dressing
- 0:48interestingly. These looks may seem
- 0:51ordinary today, but for the provinces
- 0:53of the 2000s, they were truly cool.
- 0:55Clothes could only be bought at the
- 0:57market. There were no AliExpress
- 0:59marketplaces. There weren't even any
- 1:01mass-market brands in our city. Imagine
- 1:04the whole city dressing at a single
- 1:06market. And if you wanted to stand out,
- 1:08you had to use your brain and come up
- 1:11with something, wear clothes not
- 1:13intended for them, or buy things others
- 1:15wouldn't buy, and style them so they
- 1:17looked good. My mother often sewed or
- 1:20knitted my clothes, and it was always
- 1:22something truly exclusive. I mean, I've
- 1:25always paid attention to my style,
- 1:27putting together outfits, and not just
- 1:29throwing on the first thing I saw. But
- 1:32when I came to study in St. Petersburg,
- 1:34everything went in the same direction.
- 1:36It seemed like a city with a population
- 1:38of over a million, lots of stores, lots
- 1:40of opportunities, but I had absolutely
- 1:42no time. I'd go to the gym early in the
- 1:45morning, then go to class, write
- 1:47articles, and speak at conferences to
- 1:50earn the extra stipend I needed to
- 1:53survive. Plus, I was working part-time.
- 1:57Personal style was out of the question.
- 2:00I've deliberately arranged the photos
- 2:02in chronological order so you can
- 2:03clearly see how the situation worsened.
- 2:06At first, I wore the clothes I'd
- 2:08brought with me, and then, at best, I
- 2:09wore jeans, a sweatshirt, and sneakers.
- 2:12I washed my hair, and that's good.
- 2:13Thank you. It's clear how my style is
- 2:16gradually becoming simpler and more
- 2:18depersonalized. If you're in a similar
- 2:20situation, that's normal. You just have
- 2:22other, more important priorities in
- 2:24your life right now. The biggest
- 2:26misconception is thinking that if you
- 2:28don't have a distinctive personal style
- 2:31, you have no taste. The truth is,
- 2:33everyone has taste. Taste is your
- 2:36imagination, what you love, what you
- 2:38associate with in your inner world.
- 2:41Style begins when you find the courage
- 2:43to bring that imagination to life and
- 2:45show it to the world. Many people
- 2:47believe that style is the privilege of
- 2:49a select few. I often see this in the
- 2:52comments: bolder, richer, younger, more
- 2:55beautiful, slimmer, and so on. Only
- 2:58these special people are allowed to
- 3:00look unconventional and express
- 3:01themselves through clothing. But the
- 3:04truth is, you don't believe in your
- 3:06right to be noticed. And until you
- 3:09believe you're worthy of wearing what
- 3:11you like, you'll dumb yourself down for
- 3:13the world. And this traps you, because
- 3:16our self-esteem is built, in part, on
- 3:19what others think of us. They see a
- 3:23safe version of you and react
- 3:24accordingly, treating you as someone
- 3:26who doesn't stand out and doesn't take
- 3:29risks. And you receive feedback that
- 3:32only confirms your fears. Your brain
- 3:35registers this as proof. It sees how
- 3:39you dress, how other people react, and
- 3:41concludes that you really are the kind
- 3:44of person who doesn't need to stand out
- 3:47, and this becomes your new norm, your
- 3:50reality. The main task is to understand
- 3:53who you really are, what you like and
- 3:55what you want, and how to make it all
- 3:58happen. This is exactly what we'll be
- 4:01doing in this series of videos. I
- 4:03understand that it's scary to try
- 4:05something new, but there's no other way
- 4:07to break out of this loop. New looks
- 4:09can feel awkward at first, but
- 4:12habituation works. The more we see
- 4:15something, the more normal it seems. If
- 4:18you never risk looking different, you
- 4:20stop growing. And the only way to close
- 4:23the gap between your taste and your
- 4:25style is to start experimenting. That's
- 4:29why I created the Personal Style
- 4:31Challenge, so you can calmly, in the
- 4:33friendly atmosphere of a chat, try new
- 4:36things, get support, and pick up some
- 4:38tips for yourself. The third round of
- 4:41the challenge starts at the end of
- 4:43summer. If you'd like to participate,
- 4:46be prepared. I'll announce the exact
- 4:48dates closer to August. I'm planning
- 4:51these lectures on personal style. And
- 4:53then we'll polish it all up with the
- 4:55challenge. In an old video, I talked
- 4:57about the personal filter system, but
- 4:59this time I've refined it. To start, I
- 5:02suggest you describe yourself and your
- 5:04style in words. You can do this freely,
- 5:07or you can answer the questions I've
- 5:10prepared. This will be a rough outline
- 5:13that we'll use as a guide later in the
- 5:15process. Question number one: how
- 5:18important is comfort to you? Can you
- 5:21sacrifice it for the sake of an idea or
- 5:23that wow factor? Question number two:
- 5:26the degree of distance from the world.
- 5:28Do you want to attract attention,
- 5:30invite dialogue, be noticeable? If so,
- 5:33in what way? Do you want to evoke
- 5:36admiration, surprise, perhaps even
- 5:38provoke, or do you prefer to be an
- 5:41observer? Do you want to use clothing
- 5:43to create boundaries so that you're not
- 5:45noticed, so that you're not bothered?
- 5:48Perhaps you want the general public to
- 5:51overlook you, but for like-minded
- 5:53people to see you as one of their own,
- 5:55based on certain attributes and tricks
- 5:57known only to that circle. Consider
- 6:01whether you want to emphasize the
- 6:03natural beauty of your figure or
- 6:05whether you want to go against nature,
- 6:07correct it, create a new silhouette,
- 6:10exaggerate it—not necessarily to
- 6:12approach beauty standards, but, for
- 6:14example, for the sake of some artistic
- 6:16vision of yours? Your attitude toward
- 6:19aesthetics. Is it important to you that
- 6:21your image be beautiful and harmonious
- 6:24in the conventional sense, or do you
- 6:26prefer something strange, maybe even
- 6:28ugly? The complexity of your image. Do
- 6:31you prefer complex looks with multiple
- 6:33accents and techniques, or simpler ones
- 6:35? Precise or relaxed, even casual? Do
- 6:42you prefer a unified style that
- 6:44combines different elements into a
- 6:45cohesive whole? Or do you have multiple
- 6:49subpersonalities? One day you're one
- 6:51way, and the next you're completely
- 6:52different, and there's no way to
- 6:54combine them. Of course, we're using
- 6:56the term "subpersonality" loosely. If
- 6:58you have multiple subpersonalities, you
- 7:00need to write down all the answers to
- 7:03the questions for each of them and
- 7:05complete all subsequent tasks
- 7:06separately. Alternatively, you can try
- 7:09to somehow combine them all into a
- 7:11single style. We'll discuss this in
- 7:13more detail in the next videos.
- 7:15Lifestyle is also a very important
- 7:18factor. Where do you spend most of your
- 7:20time, and what kind of clothes do you
- 7:22need? Again, if you have a strict dress
- 7:25code at work, but your style is
- 7:26radically different in your free time,
- 7:28you have a different positioning, a
- 7:29different degree of distance from the
- 7:31world—your style is neat at work and
- 7:33casual in your free time. For example,
- 7:36it's also better to describe each style
- 7:38separately to understand what
- 7:40percentage of your wardrobe belongs to
- 7:42which context. And, of course, your
- 7:45needs. What is the problem, why are you
- 7:48unhappy with your current style, and
- 7:50what do you want to change? You've
- 7:53answered all the questions, and now you
- 7:55have a more or less clear idea of what
- 7:57you want. But we can't rely solely on
- 8:00desire. Our body, our shell, must also
- 8:03be considered. In any case, the clothes
- 8:06we wear visually affect our bodies,
- 8:09accentuating some areas and concealing
- 8:11others. And if we don't understand how
- 8:15this works, if we choose clothes
- 8:16randomly, we get a random, uncontrolled
- 8:19result. Sometimes we will like it,
- 8:22sometimes we won't. But if we're
- 8:25developing our own personal style and
- 8:27want to create a certain mood, we need
- 8:29to understand how to achieve the
- 8:31desired result through styling. And to
- 8:34do this, we need to know our starting
- 8:36points, at least some basic information
- 8:39about our body, so we can understand
- 8:41our proportions and choose clothes
- 8:43consciously. But first, it's important
- 8:46to know your vertical proportions, the
- 8:47ratio of your torso to your legs.
- 8:50Because this, at a minimum, determines
- 8:52the fit of your bottoms and much more.
- 8:56In terms of visual preferences, you can
- 8:59certainly choose jeans with any fit,
- 9:01but we can't deny the fact that
- 9:03different fits affect our figures
- 9:05differently. Some style bloggers, even
- 9:09very popular ones, recommend that all
- 9:11women wear high-waisted jeans. They
- 9:14supposedly suit everyone. They visually
- 9:17lengthen the legs and accentuate the
- 9:19waist. Simply beautiful. But this
- 9:21doesn't always work for women with long
- 9:24legs and a relatively short torso,
- 9:26because a high-waisted jeans can
- 9:28visually swallow up half the torso and
- 9:31make it appear even shorter. This will
- 9:34visually compress your upper body. If
- 9:37you like this effect, great. But if you
- 9:40don't, understand that the problem
- 9:42isn't your figure, it's the jeans.
- 9:44They're simply not tailored for you.
- 9:47Knowing your body type based on the
- 9:49horizontal lines of your body is also a
- 9:51good idea to understand your baseline.
- 9:54And these features, your figure, can be
- 9:56emphasized, enhanced, or radically
- 9:58changed. In either case, it's personal
- 10:03style, because it's your choice. And
- 10:06again, you don't necessarily have to
- 10:08change your figure to bring it closer
- 10:09to a beauty standard. You can change it
- 10:12to express a creative idea, a vision of
- 10:16yours. I really like to use Rihanna as
- 10:18an example. Many may not like her style
- 10:21, but we can't deny the fact that she
- 10:24has a great influence. Rihanna is a
- 10:26type A figure. Her shoulders are
- 10:28narrower than her hips. For type A
- 10:30figures, Natalia's accents are
- 10:32recommended to highlight the natural
- 10:34beauty of this body type. Or, following
- 10:37the old rules, emphasize Natalia's
- 10:39features while broadening her shoulders
- 10:41to create a more X-shaped figure. Yes,
- 10:44these recommendations certainly suit
- 10:47her, but don't you think they're a bit
- 10:49too obvious? As if she always
- 10:52emphasized her body type, she wouldn't
- 10:54be considered a style icon. Many may
- 10:58dislike this, but personal style isn't
- 11:00obligated to beautify you in the
- 11:01traditional sense. Its main goal is to
- 11:04express your inner world through your
- 11:06outer appearance. Yes, looks can
- 11:09highlight your natural features, but
- 11:11that's not the main goal. We can choose
- 11:14any areas, any body parts, that we want
- 11:17to highlight, regardless of our body
- 11:20type. For example, I like to emphasize
- 11:23my shoulders in my looks, making them
- 11:25visually wider with clothing. That's
- 11:28why I love trench coats, coats, and
- 11:30generally any clothing that highlights
- 11:32the shoulders. You need to think about
- 11:35this too. Your clothing choice will
- 11:37depend on it. You also need to identify
- 11:40areas that we don't want to emphasize
- 11:43for any reason. This will help us when
- 11:45creating filters. Every image we create
- 11:48is based on the universal laws of
- 11:50optics and visual perception. These
- 11:53include how the eye interprets lines,
- 11:55how scale works, how proportions
- 11:57interact, and how texture changes
- 11:59volume. These laws always apply,
- 12:02regardless of what you're wearing. If
- 12:06you're interested in this topic, I've
- 12:07recorded a separate lecture called "
- 12:09Figure Workflow." In the first section,
- 12:12I discuss vertical proportions and a
- 12:14formula for determining your body type.
- 12:17I also explain how to visually lengthen
- 12:20your torso and lengthen your legs. In
- 12:23the second section, I discuss body
- 12:25types. Five body types are commonly
- 12:27distinguished: hourglass, pear, apple,
- 12:30inverted triangle, and rectangle.
- 12:32However, I present a more modern
- 12:34classification that distinguishes seven
- 12:36body types instead of five. Naturally,
- 12:38it's impossible to fit all people on
- 12:40the planet into these body types. And
- 12:43often, our bodies combine
- 12:44characteristics of two or even three
- 12:46body types. But we can determine our
- 12:49predisposition to one of these body
- 12:51types. And again, we don't need this
- 12:54information to correct our figure and
- 12:56make it fit certain standards, but to
- 12:59understand our starting points, which
- 13:01we'll work with later, and adjust not
- 13:03our figure but the fit of our clothes
- 13:06so that they achieve the desired effect
- 13:08. I also provide control or focal
- 13:12points for each figure type—areas
- 13:14that can be emphasized if we want to
- 13:17highlight our figure. But, of course,
- 13:20everything needs to be approached
- 13:22consciously. For example, I have an
- 13:24eight-shaped figure. One of the
- 13:26characteristics of this type is a short
- 13:29waist and high pelvic bones. The
- 13:31distance between the ribs and the
- 13:33pelvic bone is about one or two fingers
- 13:36. That is, if I wrap my arms around my
- 13:38waist like this, I can feel both the
- 13:41ribs and the pelvic bone at the same
- 13:43time, because they are located very
- 13:45close. The focal point for a figure
- 13:47eight-shaped figure is the waist. It is
- 13:50precisely here that they suggest
- 13:52emphasizing to highlight the natural
- 13:54beauty of this figure type.
- 13:56High-waisted jeans are welcome, but
- 13:58there are some nuances. I discussed
- 14:00this in more detail in the lecture.
- 14:03Low-waisted jeans can visually make the
- 14:06midsection look more square. This is
- 14:08clearly visible in the first photo. A
- 14:10mid-waist will be located at the widest
- 14:13part of the hipbones. This means that
- 14:16this horizontal line is a dividing line
- 14:18, which will visually widen the waist.
- 14:21It turns out that a high-waisted jeans
- 14:24look best on an eight-shaped figure. I
- 14:27agree with this and I can see it in
- 14:29myself. But I don't like high-waisted
- 14:32jeans and can easily wear mid-and
- 14:34low-waisted ones. In the last section
- 14:36of the lecture, I discuss ways to work
- 14:38with our figure. These used to be
- 14:40called correction techniques. In my
- 14:42opinion, this is the most important
- 14:45part. If you understand how it all
- 14:47works, you will become omnipotent. I'm
- 14:50serious. You won't need any formulas or
- 14:53rules at all, because if you know the
- 14:55basics and understand the meaning, you
- 14:57can create your own techniques and
- 14:59adapt any trends, any looks, to suit
- 15:01yourself. The lecture is available on
- 15:04Boost, not by subscription, but for a
- 15:06one-time payment. I've left the link in
- 15:08the description. After we've answered
- 15:11all these questions, we'll transform
- 15:13them into personal filters. I'll show
- 15:16you mine as an example. The most
- 15:18important thing in style for me is
- 15:20comfort. And I don't want to sacrifice
- 15:23it under any circumstances. Even if I
- 15:25really like a thing and it suits me, I
- 15:29won't buy it if it's uncomfortable.
- 15:32Therefore, I immediately say no to
- 15:34heels and clothes that restrict my
- 15:36movement. I don't like attracting
- 15:39attention on the street. I'd like to
- 15:41dress simply, but at the same time, so
- 15:43that when my people see me, they know
- 15:45I'm in the know. This means I won't buy
- 15:49anything flashy or use techniques that
- 15:52might provoke a strong reaction from
- 15:54people. Even if I like it visually, I
- 15:58understand perfectly well that I won't
- 16:00wear it. I don't want to reveal the
- 16:03natural beauty of my figure. For me,
- 16:05that's not that important. But at the
- 16:08same time, I don't want to transform it
- 16:10too much for the sake of making a
- 16:11statement, because I don't want to draw
- 16:13too much attention to myself, as you
- 16:15understand. Therefore, in general, I
- 16:18favor simple silhouettes without being
- 16:20too tight. I don't care if the look is
- 16:23traditionally beautiful or if it
- 16:25somehow flatters me. I like all sorts
- 16:29of weird, ugly things, but the main
- 16:31thing is that they are comfortable and
- 16:33don't attract too much attention. As
- 16:36you understand, I favor simple
- 16:38combinations that have interesting
- 16:40details that aren't obvious to most
- 16:42people. Neatness is not my thing at all
- 16:45. There are no restrictions here. On
- 16:47the contrary, I only favor casualness.
- 16:49It's important for me to tie everything
- 16:51I like into a single style. And that's
- 16:53always been the case. I work as a
- 16:56blogger from home, and I don't need any
- 16:58special clothes for work or going out.
- 17:01I focus on everyday style. Everything I
- 17:04buy should fit into my life. My body
- 17:07type, according to the vertical
- 17:09dimensions, is lower-body. So, my legs
- 17:11are long, but my torso is short. And I
- 17:15don't like the way high-waisted jeans
- 17:17fit because they make my torso look
- 17:19even shorter. I prefer a mid-rise, but
- 17:24I can buy high-waisted jeans, knowing
- 17:27that I'll only wear them with a long
- 17:29top so the waistband isn't visible and
- 17:32the midriff line drops lower. Also,
- 17:36given my body type, I either don't do
- 17:38anything to my torso or try to elongate
- 17:41it. So, of all the necklaces, I only
- 17:44wear long ones that fall below my chest
- 17:48. I don't like regular short chains and
- 17:51necklaces. And here's a very important
- 17:54point. This isn't about my short torso.
- 17:58I learned this, and now I forbid myself
- 18:00from wearing short necklaces. I didn't
- 18:04like them before. I bought them and
- 18:07never wore them. But now, knowing my
- 18:10body type, I understand why I don't
- 18:13like them. And knowing the cause, you
- 18:16can find a solution to fix it. For
- 18:18example, I wear them with long ones. It
- 18:21creates a layered effect. I've already
- 18:24said that I love a defined shoulder
- 18:26line. Sometimes I even deliberately
- 18:28widen them with outerwear. This means
- 18:31that such things are absolutely not
- 18:33suitable for me, because they don't
- 18:35hold the shape of the shoulders and
- 18:36only make them worse. This applies
- 18:39specifically to outerwear. I don't want
- 18:42to draw attention to my knees because I
- 18:44have scoliosis. Let me remind you what
- 18:47a person's body looks like with
- 18:49scoliosis. Maybe not everyone has it
- 18:51like this, but I have pretty much the
- 18:52same. And it also affects the way you
- 18:55walk. Pay attention to your knees. In
- 18:58general, the problem is certainly not
- 19:00only there, but I don't want to draw
- 19:03attention to my gait and especially to
- 19:05my knees, so I always cover them.
- 19:08Skinny jeans don't suit me because they
- 19:10hug the knees, which means they draw
- 19:12attention to them. Short skirts and
- 19:15shorts also don't suit me, because they
- 19:17expose this area, only things below the
- 19:20knees. But since I know how to correct
- 19:23my figure, all the ways to work with it
- 19:25are easier for me because I understand
- 19:28how to adapt any item, any trend, any
- 19:30technique to suit myself. I put all
- 19:33this knowledge into the lecture,
- 19:34explaining everything in detail. I
- 19:36understand that you can wear thigh-high
- 19:39boots with a wide shaft, and then I can
- 19:42wear anything. But remember, yes, I
- 19:45don't wear heels, and finding decent
- 19:47thigh-high boots with a wide shaft that
- 19:50don't have high heels is quite a quest.
- 19:53I don't want to worry about that, so I
- 19:55simply ruled out shorts and skinny
- 19:58jeans. My current style problem is a
- 20:01lack of clothing, as strange as it may
- 20:03sound. I really don't have a lot of
- 20:06things. I recently sorted through my
- 20:08wardrobe again and got rid of most of
- 20:10it. I took some to a thrift store, and
- 20:13I'm selling others on Avito. And by the
- 20:15way, if you want, the link to my Avito
- 20:18is in the description. In short, I
- 20:20don't have enough items in certain
- 20:22categories, and I don't have the time
- 20:24to search for them. I don't even have
- 20:27time to think about what I want in
- 20:29terms of clothes. So, in this video
- 20:33series, I plan to combine business with
- 20:36pleasure, upgrade my style, and show
- 20:38you how. I think I've already shared
- 20:42enough about myself. That's definitely
- 20:44enough for an example. You need to do
- 20:46the same. Yes, it's long and tedious,
- 20:48but there's no way around it. Believe
- 20:50me, it gets much more fun. We'll look
- 20:53for what you like, what inspires you,
- 20:55and translate it all into clothing. So
- 20:58subscribe to the channel to make sure
- 21:00you don't miss the next episodes. You
- 21:02can also subscribe to my Telegram
- 21:04channel, there's a lot of interesting
- 21:06and inspiring stuff there. That's all
- 21:08for today. Thank you so much for
- 21:09watching, and see you in the next video
- 21:12.
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