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  1. 0:00[Music]
  2. 0:04welcome to the menstrual podcast where
  3. 0:06we share inspiring conversations about
  4. 0:09the power of menstrual cycle awareness
  5. 0:11and conscious menopause this podcast is
  6. 0:14brought to you by Red School where we're
  7. 0:16training the menstrual leaders of the
  8. 0:19future I'm your host Sophie Jane Hardy
  9. 0:22and I'll be joined Often by Red school's
  10. 0:24Founders Alexander And shie as well as
  11. 0:26an inspiring group of pioneers activists
  12. 0:29Chang makers and creatives to explore
  13. 0:32how you can unashamedly claim the power
  14. 0:34of the menstral cycle to activate your
  15. 0:37unique form of leadership for yourself
  16. 0:40your community and the
  17. 0:47world hey welcome back to the podcast
  18. 0:51today I'm talking to one of the original
  19. 0:53menstrual reality Trailblazers Dr Lara
  20. 0:56Owen and welcoming her back to the
  21. 0:59podcast we've had a couple of episodes
  22. 1:00with her episode 52 and
  23. 1:0372 uh but today we're exploring a topic
  24. 1:06which comes up all the time in the red
  25. 1:08School Community which is how to
  26. 1:10practice menstrual cycle awareness and
  27. 1:12conscious menopause at work and how to
  28. 1:15create workplaces which honor our
  29. 1:18cyclical needs particularly during
  30. 1:20menstruation and
  31. 1:22menopause so the amazing Dr Lara Owen is
  32. 1:25recognized internationally for her
  33. 1:27pioneering and continuing work on
  34. 1:29menstruation for decades now she's the
  35. 1:32author of The groundbreaking book which
  36. 1:33is one of my favorites her blood is gold
  37. 1:36she holds a PhD in menstrual
  38. 1:39organization and she's a founding member
  39. 1:41of the menstration research Network in
  40. 1:44the UK and as we talk about today she
  41. 1:46recently helped to birth something
  42. 1:48amazing the new British standards
  43. 1:51Institute menstrual and menopause
  44. 1:53workplace policies which going to have a
  45. 1:55huge impact and as she talks about are
  46. 1:58being rolled out internationally as well
  47. 2:00in her new book reorganizing
  48. 2:03menstruation which is coming out soon
  49. 2:05she explores what happens when menstrual
  50. 2:08stigma starts to be disrupted in a
  51. 2:11mainstream way and I left this
  52. 2:13conversation feeling so much hope for
  53. 2:18the cycle aware world that really is on
  54. 2:20its way and I hope it really inspires
  55. 2:22you
  56. 2:25too laa thank you so much for coming
  57. 2:28back to the podcast I'm really really
  58. 2:29excited to talk to you today how how are
  59. 2:31you going how are things with you today
  60. 2:34um good good it's very busy time I've
  61. 2:37got a lot of work to finish up and then
  62. 2:38I'm hoping to have a good break over the
  63. 2:41summer to rest and recuperate so I
  64. 2:44suppose it's one of the things when you
  65. 2:45don't have a menstral cycle to track
  66. 2:46anymore about your level of activity I I
  67. 2:50really have to make sure I take chunks
  68. 2:52of time off and sort of Midsummer and
  69. 2:55midwinter a good times for that lovely
  70. 2:57have you got any nice plans yeah
  71. 3:03yeah you obviously don't have a mental
  72. 3:05cycle anymore is it 18 or 19 years
  73. 3:08postmenopause now yeah it is yeah yeah
  74. 3:11about that yeah yeah are there cycles
  75. 3:14that you are tracking in your life I
  76. 3:16mean there's obviously you're in the
  77. 3:18annual cycle and twice a year you're
  78. 3:19taking a pause you said but are there
  79. 3:21other cycles that you live within that
  80. 3:23you that you track I usually know where
  81. 3:26the Moon is um I live in an area where
  82. 3:30you know I'm in a town but I'm in a a
  83. 3:32sort of countryfied part of it really so
  84. 3:34I've got a big sky from my windows and
  85. 3:37garden so I usually know where the Moon
  86. 3:40is and I follow that um but mostly I
  87. 3:44think I'm really following um my
  88. 3:48body um so you don't stop having a cycle
  89. 3:52it's just not as
  90. 3:54loud um but there's still cyclical
  91. 3:57rhythms in the body and sometimes you're
  92. 3:59just more tired than other times and
  93. 4:01sometimes you're more outgoing and of
  94. 4:03course all of this stuff around cycles's
  95. 4:05got really turned upside down in a way
  96. 4:07by covid I think those two years where
  97. 4:10we had a lot of time being you know
  98. 4:12having to behave really
  99. 4:14differently um of course some people got
  100. 4:17ill as well I think I'm seeing that in
  101. 4:19people now that there's been a sort of
  102. 4:21knock on effect to that in terms of
  103. 4:23people's well-being um and uh not
  104. 4:27necessarily entirely negative there've
  105. 4:28been some really good outcomes for
  106. 4:30example the normalization of working
  107. 4:32from
  108. 4:33home um which has been great for a lot
  109. 4:35of women
  110. 4:37um uh particularly in terms of child
  111. 4:40care not having to go so far to pick
  112. 4:42your kid up necessarily from school or
  113. 4:44whatever you've got to do like narrowing
  114. 4:46those distances that people have to
  115. 4:48travel but also with the menstrual cycle
  116. 4:49there's some good data showing that
  117. 4:51people with endometriosis actually had
  118. 4:54um a better time in terms of their
  119. 4:57symptoms during the lockdowns because
  120. 4:59they were able to just do what their
  121. 5:01body wanted to do rather than forcing
  122. 5:03it that seems to have had an effect on
  123. 5:07on uh on symptoms which was something
  124. 5:09that
  125. 5:09obviously in the menstrual cycle
  126. 5:11awareness World we'd thought for a long
  127. 5:13time that there might be some
  128. 5:15correlation it's not obviously the whole
  129. 5:16story but there's some correlation
  130. 5:18between endometriosis and um how much
  131. 5:21you can follow your body rather than
  132. 5:24forcing it into a noncyclical reality
  133. 5:26yeah that that that seems to have got
  134. 5:29better for a lot of people during during
  135. 5:31the covid years so you know it's
  136. 5:33interesting when you go through these
  137. 5:35things as a collective and I think it
  138. 5:37takes a long time to actually understand
  139. 5:38what the impact of such a radical change
  140. 5:42um is yeah that's really fascinating it
  141. 5:45it feels good to talk about it actually
  142. 5:47you know I don't think we're talking
  143. 5:49about it enough yeah no I agree I agree
  144. 5:51but yes it's uh and and it does have an
  145. 5:53impact on menstration and I do think
  146. 5:56that these even though the new menstrual
  147. 5:58workplace policies are to coming in now
  148. 6:00and the new guidelines from the BSI the
  149. 6:03British standards Institute which is you
  150. 6:05know a massive thing to happen that such
  151. 6:07a mainstream organization government
  152. 6:09funded and it now has a 40 plus page
  153. 6:12document with guidelines for for
  154. 6:15employers and management for how to
  155. 6:18accommodate to menstruation and
  156. 6:19menopause in the workplace I mean it's
  157. 6:21really actually pretty radical thing to
  158. 6:24happen even though a lot of you know
  159. 6:26some of us have been talking about these
  160. 6:27issues for you know at least a decade it
  161. 6:30have been somewhat in the public Arena
  162. 6:32bits and Bobs especially menopause but
  163. 6:35to have that document now I'm not sure
  164. 6:37that would have happened without covid
  165. 6:39because we started
  166. 6:41meeting I think in during the latter end
  167. 6:45of uh
  168. 6:472021 so it had been sort of an idea but
  169. 6:49it actually but we were all everyone on
  170. 6:52the panel was operating out of the
  171. 6:55experience of recent experience of covid
  172. 6:58um so you know I I think uh it it may
  173. 7:01have had an impact in
  174. 7:04accelerating some things to do with
  175. 7:06menstration and menopause that were sort
  176. 7:08of in the in the pipeline just the whole
  177. 7:10idea of well-being at work Health at
  178. 7:12work has of ratcheted up to another
  179. 7:15level with more awareness and more
  180. 7:17conversation and more
  181. 7:19literacy um and more sense of
  182. 7:22responsibility you know that employers
  183. 7:24have um and also there's this argument
  184. 7:27that is actually a human rights issue
  185. 7:29and so all of those coming together I
  186. 7:32think you know Co did play a part in
  187. 7:35pushing that forward I think we're
  188. 7:37seeing it in the world around of mental
  189. 7:39health as well absolutely yes everything
  190. 7:42accelerated yeah so you were on the
  191. 7:45panel for this yeah how was that process
  192. 7:48and are you pleased with the outcome
  193. 7:51like do you think it contains everything
  194. 7:52that you wanted it to or is is there
  195. 7:55much more for us to
  196. 7:56do oh well an endeav like that is a
  197. 8:00massive compromise you know you don't it
  198. 8:03it it's it's political it's um you know
  199. 8:06you you can't go in with um a sort of
  200. 8:09radical perspective really you can get
  201. 8:11some things in you know um I did manage
  202. 8:15to get the term menstruation because at
  203. 8:18one point it was changed to menstrual
  204. 8:20health and I said no it's important to
  205. 8:22actually have menstration in there
  206. 8:24because of the stigma you know if you
  207. 8:26make it all about health you're
  208. 8:28basically saying none of the other
  209. 8:29aspects apply so anyway I managed to get
  210. 8:31that in but not into the international
  211. 8:33one so the international one is
  212. 8:35menopause and menstrual health and the
  213. 8:37word menstruation has been taken out so
  214. 8:38I've lost that one but um you know so
  215. 8:41there's little things like that like
  216. 8:43what words you used and what that
  217. 8:44implies that you can argue about for
  218. 8:46forever and you some some of it you get
  219. 8:49some of it you don't um there's a um a
  220. 8:54big well there certain things were
  221. 8:56emphasized that I might not have
  222. 8:58emphasized so much
  223. 9:00but the main thing is that the spirit of
  224. 9:04the policy is that the menstrual cycle
  225. 9:07is just is a normal thing that women
  226. 9:09live through it shouldn't be stigmatized
  227. 9:11it should be acknowledged we should
  228. 9:14understand it and uh anyone who has any
  229. 9:17symptoms so is very symptom based should
  230. 9:20have uh accommodation in the workplace
  231. 9:23to be able to work around that and not
  232. 9:25have to feel that they have to hide it
  233. 9:26or that they have to work through it um
  234. 9:29or that they shouldn't progress in their
  235. 9:30career because of it so that's very very
  236. 9:34important it doesn't tick all the boxes
  237. 9:36or the menstral cycle sorry that's a
  238. 9:38terrible phrase tick all the
  239. 9:41boxes you know what I mean it's yeah um
  240. 9:44that's the sort of language you start
  241. 9:45using when you do these things um to uh
  242. 9:48of a menstrual cycle awareness of an MCA
  243. 9:51perspective yeah because there's no
  244. 9:54really um apart from a discussion about
  245. 9:57stigma and the impact that has on every
  246. 9:59body who menstruates there's not really
  247. 10:02any any allowance for uh people to take
  248. 10:05time off when they have their period
  249. 10:07unless they're too symptomatic to be
  250. 10:08able to work so it's not following the
  251. 10:12sort of um processes for example that
  252. 10:15red school people who study with red
  253. 10:16school would do around their period it's
  254. 10:19not you know going that far you could
  255. 10:22say um fall like her blood is gold
  256. 10:26exactly yeah yeah not there's not a a
  257. 10:29spirit ual or even a psychological
  258. 10:31component but one wouldn't really expect
  259. 10:33that at this point in history with a you
  260. 10:35know a mainstream agender and really we
  261. 10:37need more research to show the impact of
  262. 10:41living like that on symptomatology so um
  263. 10:46the more the more data we get sh
  264. 10:49demonstrating a relationship between
  265. 10:51following the cycle and having say
  266. 10:55reduced dmara or endometriosis or
  267. 10:58whatever um you know that then actually
  268. 11:01lends a a practical basis to menstrual
  269. 11:05cycle awareness um so it's you know step
  270. 11:08by step but it is a big step and then
  271. 11:11now we're doing the international
  272. 11:12standard organization policy which is
  273. 11:15really complex because it's very
  274. 11:18interesting we've just had all the
  275. 11:20responses in from the different
  276. 11:21countries about whether they'll even
  277. 11:23join this policy in the iso and quite a
  278. 11:27lot of countries are saying we don't
  279. 11:28need to because it's already covered by
  280. 11:30Medical cover people could take sick
  281. 11:33leave we don't want to do anything else
  282. 11:35we don't see the any need to make
  283. 11:37menstration and menopause a special case
  284. 11:39it's just a medical issue and then the
  285. 11:42the Islamic countries say we're not
  286. 11:44having anything to do with any policy
  287. 11:45that mentions the term trans because we
  288. 11:47don't accept that um so you know there's
  289. 11:52it's uh it start everything starts to
  290. 11:54fragment a bit and then you're down to
  291. 11:56well what's really really important and
  292. 11:59what can the majority of countries agree
  293. 12:01upon so I think I suspect the polic is
  294. 12:03going to get um
  295. 12:07um yeah shorter I think it's probably
  296. 12:10going to get shorter and it will be more
  297. 12:13around things like you know managers
  298. 12:16need to understand and accommodations
  299. 12:19need to be made um but it won't be as uh
  300. 12:23perhaps political as the first one um I
  301. 12:26mean in the first one there were long
  302. 12:28discussions about how to include or not
  303. 12:31include um trans and non-binary people
  304. 12:35and how to describe them what terms to
  305. 12:37use and there was a long discussion
  306. 12:39about intersectionality and about
  307. 12:41whether you you know
  308. 12:43overtly position this through an
  309. 12:45intersectional feminist lens and you
  310. 12:48know there was a long whole thing about
  311. 12:49that that you know so these things
  312. 12:52eventually came down to essentially
  313. 12:55footnotes or you know a descriptive
  314. 12:57passage to be inclusive
  315. 13:00but um they they took a lot of
  316. 13:02discussion because were as you can
  317. 13:03imagine these are unsettled debates and
  318. 13:06uh so there's lots of different opinions
  319. 13:08and then when you send that out to the
  320. 13:09world the whole thing just goes like
  321. 13:10whoa you
  322. 13:12know it's massive work Lara I'm I'm so
  323. 13:16grateful to you I have quite a lot of
  324. 13:18cogn cognitive dissonance around this
  325. 13:21because I work in red school and I'm
  326. 13:23just surrounded by people who are just
  327. 13:25constantly talking about our menstrual
  328. 13:26cycles it's just so commonplace and then
  329. 13:29I'll forget I'll be out in the world and
  330. 13:32I'll forget that I'm not in a red school
  331. 13:34and I'll start talking about what day
  332. 13:35I'm on or I had my period and then
  333. 13:38there's
  334. 13:39this there's just this oh my God she's
  335. 13:42like you can't say that there and I just
  336. 13:44feel the shame all around and and it's
  337. 13:47um I imagine people listening experience
  338. 13:49a similar
  339. 13:51thing yeah and I'm just so grateful to
  340. 13:54you for getting right into to the kind
  341. 13:56of right into the quagar all all of this
  342. 13:59policy work um but I know you love it
  343. 14:01it's your it's a big passion for you I
  344. 14:03do I think it's really important but
  345. 14:05it's also hard yeah you know it and it's
  346. 14:10unpaid yes you know so this is a level
  347. 14:12of work that everybody is volunteering
  348. 14:16for some people are getting paid through
  349. 14:18their work or their Union there some
  350. 14:21people involved in on the panel who are
  351. 14:23in unions some people are academics and
  352. 14:25it becomes part of their academic
  353. 14:27workload um but I'm a freelance academic
  354. 14:30now so you know it's just it's uh but
  355. 14:34but I think it's important and it needs
  356. 14:36people who've been in the field a long
  357. 14:37time and who understand that some of the
  358. 14:40ideas which are uppermost now might not
  359. 14:42necessarily be the ones that are going
  360. 14:43to last the test of time you know so I
  361. 14:47think it's
  362. 14:48important that that perspective is you
  363. 14:51know represented there so um yes it it
  364. 14:56it's a privilege uh to be involved at
  365. 14:58that level for sure and I and I feel for
  366. 15:01everybody really who's in a sort of
  367. 15:03mature stage of life might be looking to
  368. 15:05sort of downgrade their workload a bit
  369. 15:08um and yet they've got a specialization
  370. 15:10that you know they're passionate about
  371. 15:13which is a wonderful thing I mean I'm
  372. 15:15you know got I'm not near retiring but
  373. 15:19um there's still a sense of I suppose
  374. 15:23um you know Duty which is good you know
  375. 15:27and it's what is so fantastic is that I
  376. 15:31got into this young enough in a way to
  377. 15:35have spent you know a sort of working
  378. 15:37lifespan with some attention paying some
  379. 15:40attention and then full-time attention
  380. 15:42to it in the last 12
  381. 15:44years um to be uh now society's changed
  382. 15:48enough that one can actually do
  383. 15:50something yeah so that would have I'm
  384. 15:52not sure that would have really felt
  385. 15:53possible when when I started out in it I
  386. 15:57had I mean I had a vision but uh it's it
  387. 16:00is kind of amazing to step back and go W
  388. 16:03but then you still get those instances
  389. 16:05of you mentioned the word period and
  390. 16:06people go yeah yeah so I'm getting that
  391. 16:10even now with this book coming out I've
  392. 16:12had a couple of people saying you know
  393. 16:15saying really really negative things
  394. 16:17about it not too much yet but there's
  395. 16:19bound to be some you have to accept that
  396. 16:21some people just won't get it and
  397. 16:23they'll think it's you know that you're
  398. 16:25talking about something that just should
  399. 16:26not be spoken about yes yeah tell us
  400. 16:29about the book oh the book the book so
  401. 16:32the book's called um reorganizing
  402. 16:35menstruation um and um menstrual
  403. 16:38Innovations the subtitle is menstrual
  404. 16:40Innovations and the redistribution of
  405. 16:43boundaries capitals and labor so it is
  406. 16:46an academic book but it's um it's a
  407. 16:49softened academic book I would say so it
  408. 16:53hopefully it's fairly
  409. 16:54readable um and what it does is it looks
  410. 16:57at what happens when Metro practices
  411. 16:59change which has been happening over the
  412. 17:01last decade particularly and when
  413. 17:04menstration as a topic enters the
  414. 17:05mainstream is something you can speak
  415. 17:08about and what's um what's both revealed
  416. 17:12and what's made possible when menstrual
  417. 17:14stigma starts to be
  418. 17:16disrupted um outside of the pockets
  419. 17:18where it's been being disrupted for a
  420. 17:20long time where it starts to become more
  421. 17:22mainstream and so my sort of main
  422. 17:25argument I suppose is that it's a very
  423. 17:29picture so some menstrual Innovations um
  424. 17:33actually support a sort of neoliberal
  425. 17:35capitalist view of the person as a sort
  426. 17:39of
  427. 17:39commodity um and that Commodities are
  428. 17:43the most important things and and our uh
  429. 17:46relationship to things we own and buy
  430. 17:49and
  431. 17:50sell um and that we're supposed to sort
  432. 17:54of be a sort of perfect performing
  433. 17:56liberal subject in the workplace so
  434. 17:58things like so say you know tampons
  435. 18:00allow women to behave as if they're not
  436. 18:03menstrating yes so it creates a culture
  437. 18:06where the ideal is a woman who's not
  438. 18:08menstruating and so when you're not
  439. 18:10menstruating you have to pass to use
  440. 18:12Shar ost's term as a non- menstruators
  441. 18:15so you're constantly in denial of what's
  442. 18:17really happening so that's an early
  443. 18:20innovation in menstrual practices that
  444. 18:21started in the 1930s but really
  445. 18:23accelerated in the second half of the
  446. 18:2520th century and then you get something
  447. 18:28newer like a menstrual
  448. 18:29cup and that then has sort of you know
  449. 18:34more complicated function in that it too
  450. 18:36disappears menstration up to a point in
  451. 18:38that you can look like from the outside
  452. 18:41you look like you're not menstruating
  453. 18:43and in fact it's even better than a
  454. 18:44tampon because you can keep it in all
  455. 18:46day you're not bleeding a lot um and so
  456. 18:50you can I mean the women in the study I
  457. 18:52did on this reported how great it was
  458. 18:54that they could put their Cup in before
  459. 18:56they went to work and then be at work
  460. 18:58all day not have to carry uh any
  461. 19:00menstrual product with them not have to
  462. 19:02be concerned about being you know having
  463. 19:04to change a product um and then come
  464. 19:07home and then they would empty their cup
  465. 19:09and either you know use a pad at night
  466. 19:11or put the cup back in so in a way it's
  467. 19:14even better than a tampon a
  468. 19:16disappearing menstration and it makes
  469. 19:19you behave even more like what we call a
  470. 19:21good neoliberal subject you know good
  471. 19:23neoliberal woman who manages to conceal
  472. 19:25all the tricky bits of being female um
  473. 19:28and goes to work looking sort of you
  474. 19:30know this kind of perfected state of a
  475. 19:33certain certain version of femininity
  476. 19:35you could
  477. 19:36say um and and yet at the same time the
  478. 19:41menstrual cup is actually deeply radical
  479. 19:44and subversive towards normative
  480. 19:46capitalist ideas about the female body
  481. 19:49because you actually see your blood you
  482. 19:52can't avoid actually seeing your blood
  483. 19:54in um what has been an anerobic
  484. 19:56environment so no oxygen has you know
  485. 19:59you pull it out and you see it and it's
  486. 20:00bright red or it you know it's very
  487. 20:02Vivid and you see the consistency of it
  488. 20:04which you don't see when it's absorbed
  489. 20:06into a tampon or pad so then that
  490. 20:08changes your relationship with your body
  491. 20:10and with menstration because it's like
  492. 20:13you're apart from the fact that you own
  493. 20:15the product you're not constantly
  494. 20:16replacing the product so you're not at
  495. 20:18the
  496. 20:19mercy um of the appetising industry and
  497. 20:22the all the symbolic violence around
  498. 20:23menstration that that happens through
  499. 20:25menstrual advertising and just
  500. 20:27constantly being tied into a dis
  501. 20:28exposable polluting product so you own
  502. 20:31it the thing itself and then you also
  503. 20:34kind of own your blood as well because
  504. 20:35you get to actually see it um and then
  505. 20:38you can use it for fertilizing your
  506. 20:41plants or you know whatever some people
  507. 20:43have different uses for it or you can
  508. 20:45just wash it away but you've got a much
  509. 20:47more direct relationship with it and
  510. 20:49that's actually very profound because
  511. 20:51the way we've been trained to relate to
  512. 20:53our blood have been the same as the way
  513. 20:54we've been trained to relate to our
  514. 20:57whole reproductive function and to the
  515. 20:58vver and the vagina and everything that
  516. 21:00it's down there you don't own it it
  517. 21:03belongs to men and gynecologists you
  518. 21:05know that they'll see more of it than
  519. 21:06you ever
  520. 21:07will and and and they'll tell you what
  521. 21:10you need to do with it and all of the
  522. 21:12stuff that goes along patriarchal
  523. 21:14control of the female reproductive
  524. 21:16system and um and so instead you're
  525. 21:20you've got this direct relationship
  526. 21:22which I think is massive I mean I think
  527. 21:24a lot of people who go through red
  528. 21:26school or any program that introduces
  529. 21:28you to a deep level of menstrual cycle
  530. 21:30awareness develops a different
  531. 21:32relationship with their menstrual blood
  532. 21:33that's a key element of of that work um
  533. 21:37and I think everyone knows how
  534. 21:39transformative that is and then when you
  535. 21:42get the menstrual cut being sold in
  536. 21:43supermarkets you know being normalized
  537. 21:46and being on the one hand this sort of
  538. 21:48perfect kind of better than a tampon way
  539. 21:51of Disappearing it but it's got this
  540. 21:54subversive side
  541. 22:01and then I found the similar thing with
  542. 22:02menstral workplace policies that on the
  543. 22:04one hand
  544. 22:05they uh fit into a neoliberal um idea
  545. 22:11about ideas about well-being and that
  546. 22:13it's really up to the individual to
  547. 22:14Foster their well-being and that
  548. 22:16organizations will help them to do that
  549. 22:18but that you you should be fit you
  550. 22:21should be healthy you should look good
  551. 22:23you know you shouldn't be carrying any
  552. 22:25extra weight you know this sort of idea
  553. 22:28of of the um you know that this person
  554. 22:31who's ever sort of developing themselves
  555. 22:33into more and more Perfection which sort
  556. 22:36of allies with the you know the
  557. 22:38well-being industry which does get I
  558. 22:40think quite uh tainted by a sort of
  559. 22:43commodified view of reality and that if
  560. 22:46you just buy this thing you know and use
  561. 22:48this thing it'll make you better and
  562. 22:50then everything will get better in your
  563. 22:51life and of course it's not that simple
  564. 22:54no so on the one hand menstrual
  565. 22:55workplace policies fit into that
  566. 22:57well-being at work
  567. 22:59sort of bucket um and it can often be
  568. 23:02all about what the woman needs to do and
  569. 23:05actually menstrual cycle awareness can
  570. 23:07be used in this as well like you should
  571. 23:09be paying attention all the time you
  572. 23:10should know where you are in the cycle
  573. 23:12you know so any of these things can get
  574. 23:13co-opted into yeah and MCA can get
  575. 23:16co-opted into that um being the perfect
  576. 23:19what did you say neoliberal yeah see
  577. 23:21because you can go right well I am going
  578. 23:23to make sure I really rested
  579. 23:24menstruation so I'm fully optimized
  580. 23:27exactly my in a summer energy to just
  581. 23:30hustle and nail it and yeah you can that
  582. 23:33can very easily happen yeah so just that
  583. 23:36word optimize put optimize and hack you
  584. 23:38know next to the menstrual cycle and
  585. 23:40you're you're behaving like a yeah
  586. 23:42exactly a way that neoliberal capitalism
  587. 23:44goes yeah great you know um so but on
  588. 23:48the other hand a menstrual workplace
  589. 23:51policy is subversive to that idea that
  590. 23:55you know the world is all about capital
  591. 23:59uh and and and all about you know that
  592. 24:01if you're making money that makes
  593. 24:03anything you do okay basically the whole
  594. 24:05deregulation and
  595. 24:07amorality of the current capitalist
  596. 24:09system in many parts of the world um so
  597. 24:13it's actually subverts that by saying no
  598. 24:15there's actually an inherent value in
  599. 24:17the female body just as it is and we are
  600. 24:21going to
  601. 24:22collectivize which is a big thing when
  602. 24:24women come together to say we're going
  603. 24:27to collectively claim our right to
  604. 24:29menstrate in the way we want to and we
  605. 24:30want workplaces to adjust to us not us
  606. 24:33adjusting to workplaces that's that's
  607. 24:35really
  608. 24:36radical yes so it's the combination of
  609. 24:39these two streams and and H being able
  610. 24:42to see what you're actually doing with
  611. 24:44the menstrual work that you're doing are
  612. 24:46you in fact unconsciously
  613. 24:49supporting uh commodified material
  614. 24:51overly
  615. 24:52materialistic worldview or are you
  616. 24:55making that more
  617. 24:57Humane you know are you actually making
  618. 25:00it more about what human beings actually
  619. 25:03are and what they actually need so and I
  620. 25:05think that's really important at this
  621. 25:07juncture of the development of um
  622. 25:09menstrual activism and menstrual
  623. 25:11awareness because we can easily fall
  624. 25:13into dominant mindsets especially when
  625. 25:17we're trying to make our work palatable
  626. 25:19and I think that's when we saw a lot of
  627. 25:20these words like optimization started
  628. 25:23coming in you know because it makes your
  629. 25:25work more sellable in a capitalist in a
  630. 25:28neol liberal capitalist Marketplace yeah
  631. 25:31I'm thinking of um Dei Educators too
  632. 25:34that I've heard say I think it was an
  633. 25:36interview with rashika Talan I think and
  634. 25:38she said I'm no longer going to pitch my
  635. 25:41Dei workshops to corporations as if the
  636. 25:45organization adopts a good di policy it
  637. 25:48will be more productive she's like I
  638. 25:50will no longer do that and I can imagine
  639. 25:54mental Educators thinking if I can just
  640. 25:56get in with this organization and do a
  641. 25:57work shop and if I tell them that
  642. 25:59everyone's going to be much more
  643. 26:00productive then they'll definitely say
  644. 26:02yes and they'll they'll pay me more for
  645. 26:04it yeah and we made that mistake
  646. 26:06initially with the coexist policy where
  647. 26:08we put it in that way and the first
  648. 26:10draft of the policy said um that women
  649. 26:13had to they could take time off when
  650. 26:15they had their period and then they
  651. 26:16needed to pay it back at times of the
  652. 26:18month when they had more energy so that
  653. 26:21was what we had in the and the idea was
  654. 26:24exactly that that they'll be more
  655. 26:25productive at other times of the month
  656. 26:27and you see this narrative a lot and I
  657. 26:29see it now a lot on LinkedIn and you
  658. 26:31know it's become very normalized this
  659. 26:33idea that women should be more
  660. 26:35productive at another time of the month
  661. 26:37if they take time off when they have
  662. 26:38their period but what the feedback we
  663. 26:41got was we haven't got time to pay back
  664. 26:43those hours we'd rather come to work and
  665. 26:46Limp through you know having period pain
  666. 26:49and you know taking painkillers and just
  667. 26:50sort of showing up and doing the you
  668. 26:52know minimum or whatever just to get
  669. 26:54through those first two days then have
  670. 26:57those two days off and then have to pay
  671. 26:58back two days in the middle of the month
  672. 27:00it's like doesn't make sense and uh and
  673. 27:02and and what we're seeing around the
  674. 27:04world is that policies that have come in
  675. 27:06like this like the Spanish one you have
  676. 27:08to pay back the time I think um and in
  677. 27:11Taiwan and various others where it's
  678. 27:13like well you're still going to work the
  679. 27:14same hours in a month as a man you know
  680. 27:17but you can have some time off when
  681. 27:18you've got your period if you want women
  682. 27:20are already working more than men right
  683. 27:23being paid less far more hours than men
  684. 27:26and are paid less so you know a lot of
  685. 27:28women are already doing two jobs CU
  686. 27:30they're doing almost all the child care
  687. 27:32and the the domestic labor as well as um
  688. 27:36working the same amount of hours as men
  689. 27:38in the workplace so and as the women at
  690. 27:41cois pointed out they also do voluntary
  691. 27:42stuff too on top of it so there was just
  692. 27:44nowhere to nowhere in the month to find
  693. 27:47this extra time so we very quickly
  694. 27:49pulled that out and completely rewrote
  695. 27:51the policy so that it wasn't connected
  696. 27:54we actually detached it from
  697. 27:55productivity and ours worked so it was
  698. 27:58the amount of productivity during the
  699. 28:00month and the number of hours wasn't the
  700. 28:02point the point was that you were doing
  701. 28:05work at the time the amount of work the
  702. 28:08amount of hours in the day or the the
  703. 28:10intensity of work or whatever that
  704. 28:12worked with your
  705. 28:14cycle and that you didn't have to ever
  706. 28:16pay anything back and so that meant that
  707. 28:19people started to use the policy and
  708. 28:21that was tied into a contingency policy
  709. 28:23where there was always someone who could
  710. 28:25take over from you people didn't feel
  711. 28:28feel well some people it couldn't work
  712. 28:29with because there weren't enough people
  713. 28:30who could do what they did so that's
  714. 28:32obviously something that is difficult
  715. 28:35and a lot of a lot of jobs that's going
  716. 28:37to be the case so this is not a
  717. 28:39universal solution but for things like
  718. 28:41for example the front of house people
  719. 28:43who were the ones who suffered the most
  720. 28:45because when you're on a reception desk
  721. 28:47for example and you've got period pain
  722. 28:50you can't it's not like if you're in the
  723. 28:51back office and you just sit at your
  724. 28:53computer and you just work a bit slower
  725. 28:55um you've got this constant request from
  726. 28:57people it's doesn't stop and you've got
  727. 28:59to be perky and friendly and charming
  728. 29:02and all the things you don't want to be
  729. 29:04at that point in the month and so by
  730. 29:08having a contingency policy that that
  731. 29:09was a job other people could take on
  732. 29:11people could come from the back office
  733. 29:13to the front office to sta it if someone
  734. 29:16needed to go home because they just
  735. 29:17started their period and they had cramps
  736. 29:19so that actually um those all have
  737. 29:22bringing those things together meant a
  738. 29:24workable policy but in those countries
  739. 29:26where it's a trade-off women aren't
  740. 29:28using the policies and now all the data
  741. 29:29is coming in saying well there's no
  742. 29:31point having a menstrual policy because
  743. 29:34nobody uses it but that's because the
  744. 29:36policy wasn't designed in a way that
  745. 29:38actually would be workable for
  746. 29:45people if hearing Lara is inspiring you
  747. 29:49and you would like to play a more active
  748. 29:52role in this movement to create positive
  749. 29:56menstrual and menop P cultures at work
  750. 29:59and everywhere else in our world we
  751. 30:02invite you to visit menstrual
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  768. 30:46and there'd have to be a huge culture
  769. 30:50shift to get it get it to a place where
  770. 30:53it is fully workable because it would be
  771. 30:55accepting as you said that a woman's
  772. 30:56body is valid
  773. 30:58as it is it would be accepting that
  774. 31:00being is as valuable as doing in a
  775. 31:02capitalist society which you know not so
  776. 31:05likely to happen but but I what does
  777. 31:09what has really helped it back to covid
  778. 31:11again what we started with is the
  779. 31:12normalization of working from home so it
  780. 31:16you can still often I mean it might not
  781. 31:19be ideal from an MCA perspective but you
  782. 31:21can still work do some work on day one
  783. 31:25and two but you're not having to get
  784. 31:27dress get made up rush out the house get
  785. 31:30your kids to school whatever be you know
  786. 31:32mad Panic Rush stress public transport
  787. 31:35to get to the workplace be around other
  788. 31:38people all day have unexpected things
  789. 31:39happen have people being difficult and
  790. 31:41you've got to suppress everything you're
  791. 31:43feeling to cope all of that instead you
  792. 31:47stay at home in your pjs you know you go
  793. 31:49and lie down when you feel particularly
  794. 31:51like you need to and you do a bit of
  795. 31:53work on the computer and it's not you're
  796. 31:55still doing something yes um and
  797. 31:58hopefully still getting paid the same
  798. 32:00amount but you're not so stressed so I
  799. 32:02think working from home has been an
  800. 32:05incredible Boon actually for not only
  801. 32:08for menstruators but also for just the
  802. 32:12idea of flexibility that the workplace
  803. 32:16isn't something that you have to go to
  804. 32:18five days a week 9 till 5 and uh uh I
  805. 32:22know I have you know male colleagues and
  806. 32:24acquaintances who also say that it's so
  807. 32:27much better for them
  808. 32:28to go in two or three days a week and
  809. 32:30not five and they actually get more done
  810. 32:32when they work at home and they you know
  811. 32:35um just feel much better in themselves
  812. 32:37that they haven't had to do the whole
  813. 32:39commute especially those of us who
  814. 32:41aren't so extroverted who actually find
  815. 32:44being in a busy office all day every day
  816. 32:46extra tiring because of the extroversion
  817. 32:49involved can I just go back a step Lara
  818. 32:52because there'll be people who don't
  819. 32:54know what the coexist policy is to share
  820. 32:58just a you know version of the story of
  821. 33:00that so coexist was an organization
  822. 33:03running um a large community Hub in
  823. 33:08Bristol in the center of
  824. 33:09Bristol uh from about 2008 I think until
  825. 33:162019 but it was an amazing organization
  826. 33:19with very idealistic but also very
  827. 33:22practical and managed to do some
  828. 33:24incredible things and one of those was
  829. 33:26under the um initi of be Baxter to bring
  830. 33:30in a menal workplace policy and it got
  831. 33:33quite a lot of press coverage I remember
  832. 33:35it got massive press coverage when it
  833. 33:36was first announced it was very
  834. 33:38interesting and I talk about this in the
  835. 33:39book that the idea of the policy was
  836. 33:42actually more interesting for the media
  837. 33:45than the actual policy itself so when
  838. 33:48the when the policy was first moted um
  839. 33:51and then Alexandra came in and and did a
  840. 33:53workshop on menstrual cycle awareness um
  841. 33:56with with the staff
  842. 33:58that you know introduction of the idea
  843. 34:00of a policy that one day workshop got a
  844. 34:04massive amount of publicity and was in
  845. 34:06all the mainstream papers oh my God
  846. 34:08these people are thinking about doing a
  847. 34:09menstrual policy because it was
  848. 34:11clickbait it was massive clickbait so
  849. 34:14you know loads of people would come on
  850. 34:16going oh my God this is disgusting you
  851. 34:17know women don't have the right to this
  852. 34:19so it was and then lots of women saying
  853. 34:21well actually hang on a minute we do we
  854. 34:24do need something around this it's it it
  855. 34:26causes unnecessary NE AR problems so it
  856. 34:30and then when the policy actually was
  857. 34:32sort of matured it took 18 months to
  858. 34:34really cook it because there was no
  859. 34:35template for it so we had to really
  860. 34:37start at the beginning and I I came in
  861. 34:40as a pro bono consultant and then I I I
  862. 34:43researched it formally through my
  863. 34:45University so it um it it um yeah it it
  864. 34:51was once the policy actually came in
  865. 34:53then it wasn't really so interesting
  866. 34:55anymore because it was an actual thing
  867. 34:58it shows
  868. 35:00how oh there's such a mixed influence of
  869. 35:03social media and and people being able
  870. 35:06to comment on newspaper articles now I
  871. 35:08call them newspapers they're not really
  872. 35:09papers anymore but it's It's All Digital
  873. 35:11but or mostly digital but that just that
  874. 35:14sort of commentary from everyone that
  875. 35:16huge sort of opinion universe that we've
  876. 35:19Unleashed um that just often is a lot of
  877. 35:22people who don't really know much about
  878. 35:25what they're talking about to be blunt
  879. 35:28but but for whatever reason want to have
  880. 35:30a say so there's something very
  881. 35:31Democratic about it but is it actually
  882. 35:35effective um is it positive in Social
  883. 35:38terms and it just seems at the moment
  884. 35:40we're in this sort of Gastly culture
  885. 35:42where um media Outlets are dependent
  886. 35:44upon clicks yeah for you know getting
  887. 35:48capital in order to continue and pay
  888. 35:50their staff's wages and the way you get
  889. 35:53clicks is really through a sort of
  890. 35:54lowest common denominator aspect of
  891. 35:56humanity which is going for the shock
  892. 35:58value in everything so the shock value
  893. 36:01was in the idea of a menstrual workplace
  894. 36:04policy but not in the actuality of it
  895. 36:07yeah and then there are brilliant people
  896. 36:08like you who are actually getting these
  897. 36:10policies in place and getting them out
  898. 36:11there and I'm so bloody Greatful to you
  899. 36:14just briefly back to the book and then
  900. 36:15I'd love to talk about menopause yeah so
  901. 36:17the book's coming out on August the 30th
  902. 36:20but it's available for pre-order now it
  903. 36:22is it's being published by Oxford
  904. 36:24University press so it's available
  905. 36:26worldwide and it's available also
  906. 36:28through non-academic Outlets like
  907. 36:31waterstones have it now and and other I
  908. 36:34think even wh Smith have got it on their
  909. 36:35website something that really surprised
  910. 36:37me so it's widely available it's not
  911. 36:39cheap as academic books tend not to be
  912. 36:42but it's not as expensive as I was
  913. 36:44concerned it might be so it's 40 it's a
  914. 36:47hard back um and yeah so you know it
  915. 36:52it's uh it'll be aail I think the
  916. 36:54there's a digital Edition which will be
  917. 36:56cheaper and and and also an ebook so
  918. 37:00that I think that maybe they're doing
  919. 37:03them as the same thing now at one point
  920. 37:05it was slightly different I'm not quite
  921. 37:07sure how that's going but anyway so it's
  922. 37:08available in in multiple formats and
  923. 37:11what's your hope for it what's your
  924. 37:13vision for
  925. 37:16it well you know it's a funny thing with
  926. 37:19books isn't it they sort of have their
  927. 37:21own
  928. 37:23momentum
  929. 37:25and this books had quite a strong one uh
  930. 37:29it sort of pushed
  931. 37:30me something anyway pushed me to do it
  932. 37:34during a time in my life where I really
  933. 37:36didn't have the energy for it um both of
  934. 37:39my parents were elderly and needed a lot
  935. 37:41of care and it was a difficult phase but
  936. 37:44somehow I managed to get the book done
  937. 37:46through it and it just felt like this
  938. 37:48engine even that I went to Upp you know
  939. 37:51which is sort of one of the top academic
  940. 37:54Publishers in the world and just that I
  941. 37:56had the nerve to do that felt like it
  942. 37:59was something else kind of and that they
  943. 38:02after a lengthy process that they took
  944. 38:04it on um first book they've published on
  945. 38:07menstration uh since Ceno's 1999 book is
  946. 38:11menstruation
  947. 38:14obsolete the book that said that um
  948. 38:16because Paleolithic women only have 40
  949. 38:18periods so we should only have 40
  950. 38:20periods so it's a really good idea to
  951. 38:21suppress your periods so that that they
  952. 38:24published that in 1999 they're nothing
  953. 38:26nothing nothing then mine which is kind
  954. 38:29of the opposite but um yeah so and
  955. 38:31they've been really supportive actually
  956. 38:34yeah they put it up for an award and no
  957. 38:37they've been really supportive so yeah
  958. 38:40we we'll see we'll see you know books
  959. 38:42are a lot about timing you know on the
  960. 38:44one hand
  961. 38:45they're uh you know they shape culture
  962. 38:48but on the other hand they're also
  963. 38:49shaped by culture or they're permitted
  964. 38:51by
  965. 38:52culture when her blood is gold came out
  966. 38:55a lot of people were saying oh this is
  967. 38:56going to be really big because nobody's
  968. 38:58written anything like this before and
  969. 39:01it's laying this new cultural ground and
  970. 39:03all of that but in fact it didn't it
  971. 39:05sold and it did get some reviews but it
  972. 39:07didn't sell particularly well and it you
  973. 39:10know because it was so far ahead of what
  974. 39:12the mainstream was doing and talking
  975. 39:14about so it became a kind of cult book
  976. 39:16over the years this one's a bit
  977. 39:18different and it's obviously speaking to
  978. 39:21a mainstream moment but there's still I
  979. 39:24still have regularly have experiences
  980. 39:26where people F put face like they've
  981. 39:28just been made to eat a lemon when I
  982. 39:30tell what my book's about
  983. 39:32so we'll see we'll see well I would love
  984. 39:35to maybe next August um I I'll have read
  985. 39:38it and we'll see how it's landed in the
  986. 39:39world and we can have another on the
  987. 39:41podcast that great great and I mean the
  988. 39:43amount of people who say to me my
  989. 39:45favorite book about this work is her
  990. 39:48blood is gold by Lara Owen is it's a lot
  991. 39:50of people like that's the thing about
  992. 39:52books they stay they keep going that
  993. 39:55one's been amazing for that yeah it has
  994. 39:57it's really surpassed any expectations I
  995. 40:00might have had of it that's why when you
  996. 40:01ask me what do your expect what do you
  997. 40:03want for the book I like who knows it's
  998. 40:07um it's in a way you know some books not
  999. 40:10all books some books are more you know
  1000. 40:11personal or whatever it's not that these
  1001. 40:13books aren't personal but they're they
  1002. 40:16it feels like something that a bigger
  1003. 40:19process than you
  1004. 40:21is behind and you're the sort of vehicle
  1005. 40:25for this idea going into the culture and
  1006. 40:30um I mean it's not I don't mean to be U
  1007. 40:33sort of ungrounded about that obviously
  1008. 40:35I did a huge amount of work for it and I
  1009. 40:37actually wrote every word you know all
  1010. 40:39of that but it's
  1011. 40:42um I as a human being you know I'm in my
  1012. 40:46life which is also about going shopping
  1013. 40:49you know putting the bins out um you
  1014. 40:52know so a big part of my Consciousness
  1015. 40:54is taking up with the same mundanity
  1016. 40:55that everybody's is taken up with right
  1017. 40:58and then and then you have this bit of
  1018. 41:01you which is doing something which is
  1019. 41:02about something in the future probably
  1020. 41:04well the book is always about something
  1021. 41:05in the future you're working on it for
  1022. 41:07years and years and years and it's
  1023. 41:09somehow that's what I mean about it has
  1024. 41:11this engine that you are in a way
  1025. 41:13keeping up with and part of what you're
  1026. 41:15keeping up with is something in your own
  1027. 41:16mind for sure but it doesn't feel
  1028. 41:19personal it feels transpersonal maybe or
  1029. 41:23I'm not describing this very well but
  1030. 41:24I'm trying to get at why I can't know
  1031. 41:27what this book is going to do yeah I
  1032. 41:30everything I'm nodding because
  1033. 41:31everything you're saying makes sense to
  1034. 41:33me I mean I can imagine Alexander and
  1035. 41:34shy talk you about it being your calling
  1036. 41:37that's calling yes yes it is definitely
  1037. 41:40you can definitely use that that
  1038. 41:41language yeah yes it's a calling there's
  1039. 41:44something sacred about it it's something
  1040. 41:47that is bigger than
  1041. 41:49yourself and that you are in service too
  1042. 41:52I suppose is another way of of putting
  1043. 41:55it
  1044. 42:00it does feel important to speak to
  1045. 42:03menopause as well both the experience of
  1046. 42:05manopause and I'd love to speak to you
  1047. 42:07if we have some time about post
  1048. 42:08manopause phase at work so what
  1049. 42:12challenges are you seeing in your
  1050. 42:14research and in your work around what's
  1051. 42:16happening in menopause at work I know
  1052. 42:19one of the things that you spoke about
  1053. 42:20in an article that I read is this
  1054. 42:21climate of Silence which is similar to
  1055. 42:23the climate of Silence around
  1056. 42:25menstruation well I think that's changed
  1057. 42:28a lot and I think that we've gone
  1058. 42:31further got further with menopause than
  1059. 42:32we have with menstration and I've got
  1060. 42:34various ideas around that one is that
  1061. 42:37women at menopause have more Authority
  1062. 42:38in workplaces they have more clout so
  1063. 42:40they can affect more change another is
  1064. 42:43that employers see it as maybe a
  1065. 42:46two-year period of time they've got to
  1066. 42:47be concerned with whereas men
  1067. 42:49menstration is scary because it's a long
  1068. 42:51chunk of time do you really want to be
  1069. 42:53giving people two days off a month for
  1070. 42:5530 years um whereas giving people more
  1071. 43:00flexi time and more accommodation for
  1072. 43:02two years is a different
  1073. 43:04thing the thing that is worrying is how
  1074. 43:07I suppose how much the HRT narrative
  1075. 43:09starts to infuse the workplace and then
  1076. 43:11this idea the idea is well you just need
  1077. 43:12to go on HRT and you get workplaces
  1078. 43:15telling female managers who are on HRT
  1079. 43:18telling staff that well you go to the
  1080. 43:20doctor get some HRT and then you'll be
  1081. 43:21able to basically perform at the same
  1082. 43:24level and you won't get a hot flash in
  1083. 43:25the middle of an important meeting or
  1084. 43:28whatever so then we get this um you know
  1085. 43:32just
  1086. 43:33normalization of HRT as if uh there's a
  1087. 43:37fix there's a quick fix and I see this
  1088. 43:40being talked about a lot well the minute
  1089. 43:42you start to experience any menstrual
  1090. 43:44irregularity or men param menopausal
  1091. 43:47premenopausal symptoms just go to the
  1092. 43:49doctor and get on the medication just
  1093. 43:51get the medication take the medication
  1094. 43:53it's all
  1095. 43:55solved and it's not that simple
  1096. 43:57um apart from the fact that at the
  1097. 44:00moment the figures are something like
  1098. 44:0250% of women shouldn't either shouldn't
  1099. 44:05or won't tolerate HRT so it leaves out
  1100. 44:08half of you know the workforce anyway
  1101. 44:12and that those reasons are they've had
  1102. 44:15some form of a reproductive cancer
  1103. 44:17already or they've got something in
  1104. 44:19their family family history um uh or
  1105. 44:24they experience severe side effects on
  1106. 44:26the pill
  1107. 44:28um like they had anxiety and depression
  1108. 44:30or whatever um or they just that really
  1109. 44:34don't want to take it like
  1110. 44:36psychologically it's something that they
  1111. 44:38feel strongly about so it would be um
  1112. 44:42you know complicated for them to take it
  1113. 44:44so and there are you know other reasons
  1114. 44:46too but those are the main
  1115. 44:48ones and so it's it that but the trouble
  1116. 44:52is at the moment it's becoming the only
  1117. 44:55solution whereas for a while we would
  1118. 44:57and we still are talking about that I
  1119. 44:59mean this is in the BSI guideline is
  1120. 45:02that there are other things you can do
  1121. 45:03like have desk fans have workplaces
  1122. 45:06where people can control the heat and
  1123. 45:10you know the air conditioning so that if
  1124. 45:13your you know temperature is going up
  1125. 45:15and down you can actually have some
  1126. 45:17control over the external temperature um
  1127. 45:20using natural fibers in
  1128. 45:22uniforms which make it much less
  1129. 45:25distressing if you if you sweat
  1130. 45:27whereas if you're wearing all polyester
  1131. 45:29or all nylon it's
  1132. 45:31excruciating you know to have a hot
  1133. 45:33flush so things things like that which
  1134. 45:37are very cheap well fairly cheap I mean
  1135. 45:39they're controlling your temperature can
  1136. 45:41be more expensive depending on how the
  1137. 45:43workplace has been built and designed
  1138. 45:44but there these are relatively cheap
  1139. 45:46interventions and don't involve medical
  1140. 45:49Pro procedures to come um you know
  1141. 45:52clinical practices to come into play and
  1142. 45:55then there's also being more flexible
  1143. 45:56about time so having some idea that you
  1144. 45:59know women around that stage of their
  1145. 46:01life would benefit from some kind of a
  1146. 46:04sabatical having more annual leave
  1147. 46:07holiday leave that year or two years um
  1148. 46:11or being able to work from home more or
  1149. 46:13taking a step back from a position of
  1150. 46:15responsibility with the Proviso that
  1151. 46:17they'll come back into it so that
  1152. 46:19they're not that their career is not
  1153. 46:21going backwards it just might be on hold
  1154. 46:23for a little while so timing of
  1155. 46:25promotions and
  1156. 46:27that kind of thing I feel like the world
  1157. 46:29can learn from Academia here too because
  1158. 46:31there is the tradition in Academia of
  1159. 46:34having a sabatical and actually um
  1160. 46:36someone in our community is she is
  1161. 46:39timing her sabatical her academic
  1162. 46:41sabatical to go with just when she's
  1163. 46:43reaching the point of menopause where
  1164. 46:44her everything in her is saying you need
  1165. 46:46space yes and yeah I wonder how that
  1166. 46:50could be translated yeah without loss of
  1167. 46:53income because one of the issues for
  1168. 46:55women now is because we're having
  1169. 46:56children ler yeah you can get caught in
  1170. 46:59a care sandwich where you've got um
  1171. 47:02Teenage children or in some cases even
  1172. 47:05younger than that children who still
  1173. 47:07need a lot of care and attention and
  1174. 47:09elderly parents at the same time and
  1175. 47:11you're going through menopause so just
  1176. 47:13at the time when you need to be really
  1177. 47:14engaged in self-care you're actually
  1178. 47:16split between your job and two
  1179. 47:19generations generation on either side
  1180. 47:21needing care so it's you know it's a
  1181. 47:24whole lot easier going through menopause
  1182. 47:26if you you know if you have children at
  1183. 47:28the biological the prime biological age
  1184. 47:30for having children you know in your
  1185. 47:32early 20s then they're out the house by
  1186. 47:34the time you go through menopause U but
  1187. 47:36we're not doing that now
  1188. 47:38so that's um you know an extra uh
  1189. 47:42complication what was your question
  1190. 47:44again how do we set up a situation where
  1191. 47:48workplaces understand that that
  1192. 47:49sabatical is necessary right huge
  1193. 47:52extension of the menstrual leave
  1194. 47:54question it is it is but I think it's
  1195. 47:57partly also understanding that we're
  1196. 47:59living and working for longer yeah so it
  1197. 48:02used to be that a lot of women would you
  1198. 48:04know they' they'd either not be in work
  1199. 48:07outside the home or they'd be in
  1200. 48:08part-time work and when they went
  1201. 48:09through menopause they'd often drop that
  1202. 48:11part-time work or they'd be working at
  1203. 48:13home so they just would be able anyway
  1204. 48:15to rest in the afternoon or you know
  1205. 48:18they they'd have more
  1206. 48:19control over their work and they might
  1207. 48:21have a couple of years where they
  1208. 48:22weren't as active you know or whatever
  1209. 48:27and yet and now we've got far more women
  1210. 48:30who are working outside the home so they
  1211. 48:32don't have so much
  1212. 48:34control
  1213. 48:37um and so I think it's partly that we
  1214. 48:39have to understand that
  1215. 48:41shift and that and that because we're
  1216. 48:45then living longer so 50s was seen as
  1217. 48:48already getting old and that you know
  1218. 48:51your husband would be retiring your
  1219. 48:53retirement age was 60 then so you're in
  1220. 48:56your early 50s is going through
  1221. 48:57menopause you're looking at maybe
  1222. 48:58working for six or seven years longer
  1223. 49:00which isn't doesn't seem like very long
  1224. 49:03so you might just think well I'm not
  1225. 49:05going to go for a promotion I'm just
  1226. 49:06going to tread water really and I'll
  1227. 49:08carry on doing the job I'm doing but I'm
  1228. 49:09not going to create any waves or do
  1229. 49:11anything new I'll just plot along and
  1230. 49:13then I'll retire at 60 on a full pension
  1231. 49:15and whatever and then your husband would
  1232. 49:17be retiring this is in the UK 5 years
  1233. 49:20later but now we're either at all you
  1234. 49:24know we're all retiring in our late six
  1235. 49:26is if we retire getting a pension but
  1236. 49:28then many of us are carrying on working
  1237. 49:31and people are carrying on working well
  1238. 49:32into their 70s so if you look at that
  1239. 49:35from the age of 50 you've got 25 or 30
  1240. 49:37years you're still working so to see it
  1241. 49:39then as like in the middle of the
  1242. 49:42working phase of your life say say it's
  1243. 49:44going from
  1244. 49:4520 you know to 75 or 80 I mean my you
  1245. 49:49know my mom gave her last public talk
  1246. 49:51when she was 83 w you know at 83 she
  1247. 49:54said you know what it makes me too tired
  1248. 49:56now I'm going to stop she wasn't
  1249. 49:58formally working but she was doing a lot
  1250. 50:00of volunteer stuff you know right until
  1251. 50:02then so she was
  1252. 50:04active and if you know and Our
  1253. 50:06Generations the generations coming up
  1254. 50:08now are going to maybe even go longer
  1255. 50:10than that so if you see it as a time
  1256. 50:11span from 20 to 80 of being active in
  1257. 50:13the public sphere one way or another and
  1258. 50:16that 50 is in the middle of that so
  1259. 50:19that's when you take two years
  1260. 50:21out and then you come back and then
  1261. 50:23you've got the opportunity to really
  1262. 50:24move forward and and be a you know of of
  1263. 50:28great
  1264. 50:29service to your community uh because
  1265. 50:33also you you you know your children have
  1266. 50:36pretty much grown up by that point um
  1267. 50:39and you know you may have escaped the
  1268. 50:41care sandwich one way or another but
  1269. 50:43you've got a long period of
  1270. 50:45time um you know I did my PhD in my
  1271. 50:48early
  1272. 50:4960s and that's unusual but it's becoming
  1273. 50:52more and more people are doing it it's
  1274. 50:54not completely out of left field now and
  1275. 50:57it was the absolutely best time for me
  1276. 50:59to do it I was so well prepared for it I
  1277. 51:02knew exactly what I wanted to study I
  1278. 51:04knew what needed to happen in the field
  1279. 51:06that I was in um and I was so motivated
  1280. 51:10because it was such a fantastic
  1281. 51:11opportunity so I I just ate the whole
  1282. 51:13thing up I absolutely loved every minute
  1283. 51:15of it you know it was it was absolutely
  1284. 51:18fantastic so you know you you're able to
  1285. 51:21do things differently than you would
  1286. 51:23have been before and you know I wasn't
  1287. 51:25distracted by things that are happening
  1288. 51:27between the ages of 20 and 50 you know
  1289. 51:30um I wasn't distracted by my love life
  1290. 51:32or by you know being pregnant or all of
  1291. 51:35that stuff you know was not um taking my
  1292. 51:39attention and energy so I could
  1293. 51:40completely devote myself to to doing it
  1294. 51:43which was you know just fantastic so
  1295. 51:46there's a lot to be said for the
  1296. 51:47postmenopausal years yeah so back to
  1297. 51:50this postmenopausal zest which you said
  1298. 51:52that you wanted to touch on that we need
  1299. 51:55to be making the most of this period in
  1300. 51:58our lives when we are in this next level
  1301. 52:00of maturity Authority and contribution
  1302. 52:04really yes and what we don't know and
  1303. 52:06this is a controversial thing to say but
  1304. 52:08what we don't know is how HRT affects
  1305. 52:10that yeah so I mean I one of the reasons
  1306. 52:15I didn't take HRT is partly because
  1307. 52:17obviously I was s of interested in
  1308. 52:21living as you know naturally as possible
  1309. 52:24but also because I had a really bad time
  1310. 52:26on the pill pill and I got became
  1311. 52:27anxious and depressed on the pill so I
  1312. 52:29thought well you know exogenous hormones
  1313. 52:31of me just don't work very
  1314. 52:34well but I just you know I just we just
  1315. 52:37haven't got any data really on how the
  1316. 52:40impact that being on HRT has on your
  1317. 52:44sense of um personal strength and
  1318. 52:46well-being so the dominant narrative is
  1319. 52:49that it improves all that because you're
  1320. 52:51not having your menopause symptoms yeah
  1321. 52:54but if the pill
  1322. 52:57causes women to feel as many people say
  1323. 53:00not like themselves and to have even you
  1324. 53:02know subclinical levels of anxiety and
  1325. 53:06depression what is the long-term effect
  1326. 53:08of taking exogenous hormones after
  1327. 53:11menopause um you know over a long period
  1328. 53:14of time the medical advice is not to
  1329. 53:16take it forever but many women are
  1330. 53:19taking it forever and a lot of those are
  1331. 53:21clearly having very powerful
  1332. 53:23postmenopausal phases of their lives of
  1333. 53:26their careers they're very visible
  1334. 53:28they're very confident so maybe it
  1335. 53:30doesn't have um any kind of a negative
  1336. 53:33impact and maybe it really is that
  1337. 53:34there's different types of people and
  1338. 53:36for some people they'll have amazing
  1339. 53:38postmenopausal zest um without taking
  1340. 53:42any hot te and for other people it will
  1341. 53:43be with hot te we just don't know yet
  1342. 53:47again it comes back to data yeah I mean
  1343. 53:49obviously anecdotal evidence has a place
  1344. 53:52and knowing who you are and what is
  1345. 53:54likely to suit you or not suit you is
  1346. 53:56really important so I don't want to say
  1347. 53:58that um you won't have that with
  1348. 54:02HRT um but I don't think it's just a
  1349. 54:04silver bullet that necessarily solves
  1350. 54:06everything
  1351. 54:08yeah so if listeners are loving
  1352. 54:11listening to you how can they connect
  1353. 54:13with you how can they connect with your
  1354. 54:15work so I have a website it's very easy
  1355. 54:18to remember it's Lara owen.com
  1356. 54:20um and I teach a course in contemporary
  1357. 54:24menstral studies which is going to start
  1358. 54:27its second year um of the course next
  1359. 54:31year so it I've been running the year
  1360. 54:33one since
  1361. 54:352022 so I've had 55 people go through
  1362. 54:38the program so far it's a year-long
  1363. 54:40master's level course um it's pretty
  1364. 54:43intense and it gives you a grounding
  1365. 54:45across disciplines in what we know about
  1366. 54:48various aspects of
  1367. 54:50menstration uh and a bit about menopause
  1368. 54:53and then the so I'm starting year two
  1369. 54:55concurrently with the next year one in
  1370. 54:58um uh March next year enrollment will
  1371. 55:02open on October the 1st and we are
  1372. 55:04already accepting expressions of
  1373. 55:06Interest so you can use the contact
  1374. 55:08button on the website if you're
  1375. 55:10interested in applying for year one year
  1376. 55:12two will only be available for people
  1377. 55:14who've already done year one and year
  1378. 55:16two is going to drill down more into
  1379. 55:18specific uh aspects like there'll be a
  1380. 55:21unit on uh a module on endometriosis
  1381. 55:23there'll be a module on trauma in the
  1382. 55:25menstrual cycle would be very STI
  1383. 55:27there'll be a module on menopause and
  1384. 55:29and what you'll get is um you'll get to
  1385. 55:31read the most influential and the you
  1386. 55:34know a wide representation of the
  1387. 55:37academic papers so you get given those
  1388. 55:39to read and you'll get um couple of
  1389. 55:44discussions two seminars per module and
  1390. 55:47in the first year you do a research
  1391. 55:49project which is Guided by me um so it's
  1392. 55:53your research project obviously but I
  1393. 55:55help you with it
  1394. 55:56so it's uh it's Master's level as I
  1395. 55:59think I said and uh yeah I'm so happy
  1396. 56:01with how it's gone um it's it's really
  1397. 56:04just fantastic to be able to teach at
  1398. 56:06that level and of course that's not
  1399. 56:07happening in any Universities yet so
  1400. 56:09that's why I'm doing it myself through
  1401. 56:12the website it's a bridge for people who
  1402. 56:15do want to do PhD study it's serving as
  1403. 56:17a bridge there yes exactly so It
  1404. 56:20prepares you for doing a PhD or
  1405. 56:21menstration and sometimes people are
  1406. 56:23doing a PhD already but they're super
  1407. 56:26supervisors aren't specialists in
  1408. 56:28menstration because there's not enough
  1409. 56:29of those yet um and so it it it helps
  1410. 56:32them write their lit review and all of
  1411. 56:34that there is a big shift happening
  1412. 56:37though so I was just at the menstruation
  1413. 56:38research Network this is a network that
  1414. 56:4012 of us set up in 2018 and we just had
  1415. 56:44a conference um our annual conference in
  1416. 56:47Liverpool and there were so many people
  1417. 56:49there doing phds on menstruation it was
  1418. 56:51just
  1419. 56:52amazing you know in 2018 it was like one
  1420. 56:55or two people I mean when I started mine
  1421. 56:57in 2016 it was the first time someone
  1422. 56:59had done a PhD in a business school on
  1423. 57:01menstration and now there's just so many
  1424. 57:03people it's phenomenal so the field is
  1425. 57:07accelerating uh and and a good
  1426. 57:09proportion of those people are coming in
  1427. 57:11through red school as well so they're
  1428. 57:14doing the red school training and then
  1429. 57:15they're going you know what I want to
  1430. 57:17really get some and do more research on
  1431. 57:19this and I want to explore this
  1432. 57:21particular Avenue so there's a sort of
  1433. 57:23steady infiltration of people who've got
  1434. 57:26high level of menstrual cycle awareness
  1435. 57:28coming into Academia so that's that's
  1436. 57:30really interesting um but also check out
  1437. 57:32my website for I do occasional webinars
  1438. 57:34on different topics which anybody can
  1439. 57:36join without the commitment of the of
  1440. 57:38the long course thanks for asking yeah
  1441. 57:41you're so welcome and I just want to
  1442. 57:43thank you again I said this at the end
  1443. 57:45of our first conversation but thank you
  1444. 57:47for sticking at this for all the years
  1445. 57:49that you have and for how you are
  1446. 57:52shaping and changing the field and
  1447. 57:54changing things for all of us you know
  1448. 57:55us on behalf of all the listeners so
  1449. 57:57grateful to you Lara and yeah look
  1450. 58:00forward to speaking to you again soon
  1451. 58:01yeah thanks Sophie thank
  1452. 58:08bye thanks for being with us all the way
  1453. 58:10through to the end today if you've
  1454. 58:12really loved hearing Lara we have two
  1455. 58:14more episodes with her that you might
  1456. 58:16like to listen to episode 52 the
  1457. 58:19cultural story of the taboo power and
  1458. 58:22wisdom of
  1459. 58:24menstruation and 72 following intuition
  1460. 58:27taking Retreat and finding your path in
  1461. 58:30menopause it's just wonderful being with
  1462. 58:33someone who has been in this field for
  1463. 58:35so long doing such amazing work so thank
  1464. 58:38you again Lara and that's it for this
  1465. 58:41week I hope you've enjoyed this episode
  1466. 58:43I'll be with you again next week and
  1467. 58:45until then keep living life according to
  1468. 58:47your own brilliant rhythm

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