152. Menstruation and Menopause in the Workplace (Dr Lara Owen) — Transcript
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- 0:04welcome to the menstrual podcast where
- 0:06we share inspiring conversations about
- 0:09the power of menstrual cycle awareness
- 0:11and conscious menopause this podcast is
- 0:14brought to you by Red School where we're
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- 0:19future I'm your host Sophie Jane Hardy
- 0:22and I'll be joined Often by Red school's
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- 0:26an inspiring group of pioneers activists
- 0:29Chang makers and creatives to explore
- 0:32how you can unashamedly claim the power
- 0:34of the menstral cycle to activate your
- 0:37unique form of leadership for yourself
- 0:40your community and the
- 0:47world hey welcome back to the podcast
- 0:51today I'm talking to one of the original
- 0:53menstrual reality Trailblazers Dr Lara
- 0:56Owen and welcoming her back to the
- 0:59podcast we've had a couple of episodes
- 1:00with her episode 52 and
- 1:0372 uh but today we're exploring a topic
- 1:06which comes up all the time in the red
- 1:08School Community which is how to
- 1:10practice menstrual cycle awareness and
- 1:12conscious menopause at work and how to
- 1:15create workplaces which honor our
- 1:18cyclical needs particularly during
- 1:20menstruation and
- 1:22menopause so the amazing Dr Lara Owen is
- 1:25recognized internationally for her
- 1:27pioneering and continuing work on
- 1:29menstruation for decades now she's the
- 1:32author of The groundbreaking book which
- 1:33is one of my favorites her blood is gold
- 1:36she holds a PhD in menstrual
- 1:39organization and she's a founding member
- 1:41of the menstration research Network in
- 1:44the UK and as we talk about today she
- 1:46recently helped to birth something
- 1:48amazing the new British standards
- 1:51Institute menstrual and menopause
- 1:53workplace policies which going to have a
- 1:55huge impact and as she talks about are
- 1:58being rolled out internationally as well
- 2:00in her new book reorganizing
- 2:03menstruation which is coming out soon
- 2:05she explores what happens when menstrual
- 2:08stigma starts to be disrupted in a
- 2:11mainstream way and I left this
- 2:13conversation feeling so much hope for
- 2:18the cycle aware world that really is on
- 2:20its way and I hope it really inspires
- 2:22you
- 2:25too laa thank you so much for coming
- 2:28back to the podcast I'm really really
- 2:29excited to talk to you today how how are
- 2:31you going how are things with you today
- 2:34um good good it's very busy time I've
- 2:37got a lot of work to finish up and then
- 2:38I'm hoping to have a good break over the
- 2:41summer to rest and recuperate so I
- 2:44suppose it's one of the things when you
- 2:45don't have a menstral cycle to track
- 2:46anymore about your level of activity I I
- 2:50really have to make sure I take chunks
- 2:52of time off and sort of Midsummer and
- 2:55midwinter a good times for that lovely
- 2:57have you got any nice plans yeah
- 3:03yeah you obviously don't have a mental
- 3:05cycle anymore is it 18 or 19 years
- 3:08postmenopause now yeah it is yeah yeah
- 3:11about that yeah yeah are there cycles
- 3:14that you are tracking in your life I
- 3:16mean there's obviously you're in the
- 3:18annual cycle and twice a year you're
- 3:19taking a pause you said but are there
- 3:21other cycles that you live within that
- 3:23you that you track I usually know where
- 3:26the Moon is um I live in an area where
- 3:30you know I'm in a town but I'm in a a
- 3:32sort of countryfied part of it really so
- 3:34I've got a big sky from my windows and
- 3:37garden so I usually know where the Moon
- 3:40is and I follow that um but mostly I
- 3:44think I'm really following um my
- 3:48body um so you don't stop having a cycle
- 3:52it's just not as
- 3:54loud um but there's still cyclical
- 3:57rhythms in the body and sometimes you're
- 3:59just more tired than other times and
- 4:01sometimes you're more outgoing and of
- 4:03course all of this stuff around cycles's
- 4:05got really turned upside down in a way
- 4:07by covid I think those two years where
- 4:10we had a lot of time being you know
- 4:12having to behave really
- 4:14differently um of course some people got
- 4:17ill as well I think I'm seeing that in
- 4:19people now that there's been a sort of
- 4:21knock on effect to that in terms of
- 4:23people's well-being um and uh not
- 4:27necessarily entirely negative there've
- 4:28been some really good outcomes for
- 4:30example the normalization of working
- 4:32from
- 4:33home um which has been great for a lot
- 4:35of women
- 4:37um uh particularly in terms of child
- 4:40care not having to go so far to pick
- 4:42your kid up necessarily from school or
- 4:44whatever you've got to do like narrowing
- 4:46those distances that people have to
- 4:48travel but also with the menstrual cycle
- 4:49there's some good data showing that
- 4:51people with endometriosis actually had
- 4:54um a better time in terms of their
- 4:57symptoms during the lockdowns because
- 4:59they were able to just do what their
- 5:01body wanted to do rather than forcing
- 5:03it that seems to have had an effect on
- 5:07on uh on symptoms which was something
- 5:09that
- 5:09obviously in the menstrual cycle
- 5:11awareness World we'd thought for a long
- 5:13time that there might be some
- 5:15correlation it's not obviously the whole
- 5:16story but there's some correlation
- 5:18between endometriosis and um how much
- 5:21you can follow your body rather than
- 5:24forcing it into a noncyclical reality
- 5:26yeah that that that seems to have got
- 5:29better for a lot of people during during
- 5:31the covid years so you know it's
- 5:33interesting when you go through these
- 5:35things as a collective and I think it
- 5:37takes a long time to actually understand
- 5:38what the impact of such a radical change
- 5:42um is yeah that's really fascinating it
- 5:45it feels good to talk about it actually
- 5:47you know I don't think we're talking
- 5:49about it enough yeah no I agree I agree
- 5:51but yes it's uh and and it does have an
- 5:53impact on menstration and I do think
- 5:56that these even though the new menstrual
- 5:58workplace policies are to coming in now
- 6:00and the new guidelines from the BSI the
- 6:03British standards Institute which is you
- 6:05know a massive thing to happen that such
- 6:07a mainstream organization government
- 6:09funded and it now has a 40 plus page
- 6:12document with guidelines for for
- 6:15employers and management for how to
- 6:18accommodate to menstruation and
- 6:19menopause in the workplace I mean it's
- 6:21really actually pretty radical thing to
- 6:24happen even though a lot of you know
- 6:26some of us have been talking about these
- 6:27issues for you know at least a decade it
- 6:30have been somewhat in the public Arena
- 6:32bits and Bobs especially menopause but
- 6:35to have that document now I'm not sure
- 6:37that would have happened without covid
- 6:39because we started
- 6:41meeting I think in during the latter end
- 6:45of uh
- 6:472021 so it had been sort of an idea but
- 6:49it actually but we were all everyone on
- 6:52the panel was operating out of the
- 6:55experience of recent experience of covid
- 6:58um so you know I I think uh it it may
- 7:01have had an impact in
- 7:04accelerating some things to do with
- 7:06menstration and menopause that were sort
- 7:08of in the in the pipeline just the whole
- 7:10idea of well-being at work Health at
- 7:12work has of ratcheted up to another
- 7:15level with more awareness and more
- 7:17conversation and more
- 7:19literacy um and more sense of
- 7:22responsibility you know that employers
- 7:24have um and also there's this argument
- 7:27that is actually a human rights issue
- 7:29and so all of those coming together I
- 7:32think you know Co did play a part in
- 7:35pushing that forward I think we're
- 7:37seeing it in the world around of mental
- 7:39health as well absolutely yes everything
- 7:42accelerated yeah so you were on the
- 7:45panel for this yeah how was that process
- 7:48and are you pleased with the outcome
- 7:51like do you think it contains everything
- 7:52that you wanted it to or is is there
- 7:55much more for us to
- 7:56do oh well an endeav like that is a
- 8:00massive compromise you know you don't it
- 8:03it it's it's political it's um you know
- 8:06you you can't go in with um a sort of
- 8:09radical perspective really you can get
- 8:11some things in you know um I did manage
- 8:15to get the term menstruation because at
- 8:18one point it was changed to menstrual
- 8:20health and I said no it's important to
- 8:22actually have menstration in there
- 8:24because of the stigma you know if you
- 8:26make it all about health you're
- 8:28basically saying none of the other
- 8:29aspects apply so anyway I managed to get
- 8:31that in but not into the international
- 8:33one so the international one is
- 8:35menopause and menstrual health and the
- 8:37word menstruation has been taken out so
- 8:38I've lost that one but um you know so
- 8:41there's little things like that like
- 8:43what words you used and what that
- 8:44implies that you can argue about for
- 8:46forever and you some some of it you get
- 8:49some of it you don't um there's a um a
- 8:54big well there certain things were
- 8:56emphasized that I might not have
- 8:58emphasized so much
- 9:00but the main thing is that the spirit of
- 9:04the policy is that the menstrual cycle
- 9:07is just is a normal thing that women
- 9:09live through it shouldn't be stigmatized
- 9:11it should be acknowledged we should
- 9:14understand it and uh anyone who has any
- 9:17symptoms so is very symptom based should
- 9:20have uh accommodation in the workplace
- 9:23to be able to work around that and not
- 9:25have to feel that they have to hide it
- 9:26or that they have to work through it um
- 9:29or that they shouldn't progress in their
- 9:30career because of it so that's very very
- 9:34important it doesn't tick all the boxes
- 9:36or the menstral cycle sorry that's a
- 9:38terrible phrase tick all the
- 9:41boxes you know what I mean it's yeah um
- 9:44that's the sort of language you start
- 9:45using when you do these things um to uh
- 9:48of a menstrual cycle awareness of an MCA
- 9:51perspective yeah because there's no
- 9:54really um apart from a discussion about
- 9:57stigma and the impact that has on every
- 9:59body who menstruates there's not really
- 10:02any any allowance for uh people to take
- 10:05time off when they have their period
- 10:07unless they're too symptomatic to be
- 10:08able to work so it's not following the
- 10:12sort of um processes for example that
- 10:15red school people who study with red
- 10:16school would do around their period it's
- 10:19not you know going that far you could
- 10:22say um fall like her blood is gold
- 10:26exactly yeah yeah not there's not a a
- 10:29spirit ual or even a psychological
- 10:31component but one wouldn't really expect
- 10:33that at this point in history with a you
- 10:35know a mainstream agender and really we
- 10:37need more research to show the impact of
- 10:41living like that on symptomatology so um
- 10:46the more the more data we get sh
- 10:49demonstrating a relationship between
- 10:51following the cycle and having say
- 10:55reduced dmara or endometriosis or
- 10:58whatever um you know that then actually
- 11:01lends a a practical basis to menstrual
- 11:05cycle awareness um so it's you know step
- 11:08by step but it is a big step and then
- 11:11now we're doing the international
- 11:12standard organization policy which is
- 11:15really complex because it's very
- 11:18interesting we've just had all the
- 11:20responses in from the different
- 11:21countries about whether they'll even
- 11:23join this policy in the iso and quite a
- 11:27lot of countries are saying we don't
- 11:28need to because it's already covered by
- 11:30Medical cover people could take sick
- 11:33leave we don't want to do anything else
- 11:35we don't see the any need to make
- 11:37menstration and menopause a special case
- 11:39it's just a medical issue and then the
- 11:42the Islamic countries say we're not
- 11:44having anything to do with any policy
- 11:45that mentions the term trans because we
- 11:47don't accept that um so you know there's
- 11:52it's uh it start everything starts to
- 11:54fragment a bit and then you're down to
- 11:56well what's really really important and
- 11:59what can the majority of countries agree
- 12:01upon so I think I suspect the polic is
- 12:03going to get um
- 12:07um yeah shorter I think it's probably
- 12:10going to get shorter and it will be more
- 12:13around things like you know managers
- 12:16need to understand and accommodations
- 12:19need to be made um but it won't be as uh
- 12:23perhaps political as the first one um I
- 12:26mean in the first one there were long
- 12:28discussions about how to include or not
- 12:31include um trans and non-binary people
- 12:35and how to describe them what terms to
- 12:37use and there was a long discussion
- 12:39about intersectionality and about
- 12:41whether you you know
- 12:43overtly position this through an
- 12:45intersectional feminist lens and you
- 12:48know there was a long whole thing about
- 12:49that that you know so these things
- 12:52eventually came down to essentially
- 12:55footnotes or you know a descriptive
- 12:57passage to be inclusive
- 13:00but um they they took a lot of
- 13:02discussion because were as you can
- 13:03imagine these are unsettled debates and
- 13:06uh so there's lots of different opinions
- 13:08and then when you send that out to the
- 13:09world the whole thing just goes like
- 13:10whoa you
- 13:12know it's massive work Lara I'm I'm so
- 13:16grateful to you I have quite a lot of
- 13:18cogn cognitive dissonance around this
- 13:21because I work in red school and I'm
- 13:23just surrounded by people who are just
- 13:25constantly talking about our menstrual
- 13:26cycles it's just so commonplace and then
- 13:29I'll forget I'll be out in the world and
- 13:32I'll forget that I'm not in a red school
- 13:34and I'll start talking about what day
- 13:35I'm on or I had my period and then
- 13:38there's
- 13:39this there's just this oh my God she's
- 13:42like you can't say that there and I just
- 13:44feel the shame all around and and it's
- 13:47um I imagine people listening experience
- 13:49a similar
- 13:51thing yeah and I'm just so grateful to
- 13:54you for getting right into to the kind
- 13:56of right into the quagar all all of this
- 13:59policy work um but I know you love it
- 14:01it's your it's a big passion for you I
- 14:03do I think it's really important but
- 14:05it's also hard yeah you know it and it's
- 14:10unpaid yes you know so this is a level
- 14:12of work that everybody is volunteering
- 14:16for some people are getting paid through
- 14:18their work or their Union there some
- 14:21people involved in on the panel who are
- 14:23in unions some people are academics and
- 14:25it becomes part of their academic
- 14:27workload um but I'm a freelance academic
- 14:30now so you know it's just it's uh but
- 14:34but I think it's important and it needs
- 14:36people who've been in the field a long
- 14:37time and who understand that some of the
- 14:40ideas which are uppermost now might not
- 14:42necessarily be the ones that are going
- 14:43to last the test of time you know so I
- 14:47think it's
- 14:48important that that perspective is you
- 14:51know represented there so um yes it it
- 14:56it's a privilege uh to be involved at
- 14:58that level for sure and I and I feel for
- 15:01everybody really who's in a sort of
- 15:03mature stage of life might be looking to
- 15:05sort of downgrade their workload a bit
- 15:08um and yet they've got a specialization
- 15:10that you know they're passionate about
- 15:13which is a wonderful thing I mean I'm
- 15:15you know got I'm not near retiring but
- 15:19um there's still a sense of I suppose
- 15:23um you know Duty which is good you know
- 15:27and it's what is so fantastic is that I
- 15:31got into this young enough in a way to
- 15:35have spent you know a sort of working
- 15:37lifespan with some attention paying some
- 15:40attention and then full-time attention
- 15:42to it in the last 12
- 15:44years um to be uh now society's changed
- 15:48enough that one can actually do
- 15:50something yeah so that would have I'm
- 15:52not sure that would have really felt
- 15:53possible when when I started out in it I
- 15:57had I mean I had a vision but uh it's it
- 16:00is kind of amazing to step back and go W
- 16:03but then you still get those instances
- 16:05of you mentioned the word period and
- 16:06people go yeah yeah so I'm getting that
- 16:10even now with this book coming out I've
- 16:12had a couple of people saying you know
- 16:15saying really really negative things
- 16:17about it not too much yet but there's
- 16:19bound to be some you have to accept that
- 16:21some people just won't get it and
- 16:23they'll think it's you know that you're
- 16:25talking about something that just should
- 16:26not be spoken about yes yeah tell us
- 16:29about the book oh the book the book so
- 16:32the book's called um reorganizing
- 16:35menstruation um and um menstrual
- 16:38Innovations the subtitle is menstrual
- 16:40Innovations and the redistribution of
- 16:43boundaries capitals and labor so it is
- 16:46an academic book but it's um it's a
- 16:49softened academic book I would say so it
- 16:53hopefully it's fairly
- 16:54readable um and what it does is it looks
- 16:57at what happens when Metro practices
- 16:59change which has been happening over the
- 17:01last decade particularly and when
- 17:04menstration as a topic enters the
- 17:05mainstream is something you can speak
- 17:08about and what's um what's both revealed
- 17:12and what's made possible when menstrual
- 17:14stigma starts to be
- 17:16disrupted um outside of the pockets
- 17:18where it's been being disrupted for a
- 17:20long time where it starts to become more
- 17:22mainstream and so my sort of main
- 17:25argument I suppose is that it's a very
- 17:29picture so some menstrual Innovations um
- 17:33actually support a sort of neoliberal
- 17:35capitalist view of the person as a sort
- 17:39of
- 17:39commodity um and that Commodities are
- 17:43the most important things and and our uh
- 17:46relationship to things we own and buy
- 17:49and
- 17:50sell um and that we're supposed to sort
- 17:54of be a sort of perfect performing
- 17:56liberal subject in the workplace so
- 17:58things like so say you know tampons
- 18:00allow women to behave as if they're not
- 18:03menstrating yes so it creates a culture
- 18:06where the ideal is a woman who's not
- 18:08menstruating and so when you're not
- 18:10menstruating you have to pass to use
- 18:12Shar ost's term as a non- menstruators
- 18:15so you're constantly in denial of what's
- 18:17really happening so that's an early
- 18:20innovation in menstrual practices that
- 18:21started in the 1930s but really
- 18:23accelerated in the second half of the
- 18:2520th century and then you get something
- 18:28newer like a menstrual
- 18:29cup and that then has sort of you know
- 18:34more complicated function in that it too
- 18:36disappears menstration up to a point in
- 18:38that you can look like from the outside
- 18:41you look like you're not menstruating
- 18:43and in fact it's even better than a
- 18:44tampon because you can keep it in all
- 18:46day you're not bleeding a lot um and so
- 18:50you can I mean the women in the study I
- 18:52did on this reported how great it was
- 18:54that they could put their Cup in before
- 18:56they went to work and then be at work
- 18:58all day not have to carry uh any
- 19:00menstrual product with them not have to
- 19:02be concerned about being you know having
- 19:04to change a product um and then come
- 19:07home and then they would empty their cup
- 19:09and either you know use a pad at night
- 19:11or put the cup back in so in a way it's
- 19:14even better than a tampon a
- 19:16disappearing menstration and it makes
- 19:19you behave even more like what we call a
- 19:21good neoliberal subject you know good
- 19:23neoliberal woman who manages to conceal
- 19:25all the tricky bits of being female um
- 19:28and goes to work looking sort of you
- 19:30know this kind of perfected state of a
- 19:33certain certain version of femininity
- 19:35you could
- 19:36say um and and yet at the same time the
- 19:41menstrual cup is actually deeply radical
- 19:44and subversive towards normative
- 19:46capitalist ideas about the female body
- 19:49because you actually see your blood you
- 19:52can't avoid actually seeing your blood
- 19:54in um what has been an anerobic
- 19:56environment so no oxygen has you know
- 19:59you pull it out and you see it and it's
- 20:00bright red or it you know it's very
- 20:02Vivid and you see the consistency of it
- 20:04which you don't see when it's absorbed
- 20:06into a tampon or pad so then that
- 20:08changes your relationship with your body
- 20:10and with menstration because it's like
- 20:13you're apart from the fact that you own
- 20:15the product you're not constantly
- 20:16replacing the product so you're not at
- 20:18the
- 20:19mercy um of the appetising industry and
- 20:22the all the symbolic violence around
- 20:23menstration that that happens through
- 20:25menstrual advertising and just
- 20:27constantly being tied into a dis
- 20:28exposable polluting product so you own
- 20:31it the thing itself and then you also
- 20:34kind of own your blood as well because
- 20:35you get to actually see it um and then
- 20:38you can use it for fertilizing your
- 20:41plants or you know whatever some people
- 20:43have different uses for it or you can
- 20:45just wash it away but you've got a much
- 20:47more direct relationship with it and
- 20:49that's actually very profound because
- 20:51the way we've been trained to relate to
- 20:53our blood have been the same as the way
- 20:54we've been trained to relate to our
- 20:57whole reproductive function and to the
- 20:58vver and the vagina and everything that
- 21:00it's down there you don't own it it
- 21:03belongs to men and gynecologists you
- 21:05know that they'll see more of it than
- 21:06you ever
- 21:07will and and and they'll tell you what
- 21:10you need to do with it and all of the
- 21:12stuff that goes along patriarchal
- 21:14control of the female reproductive
- 21:16system and um and so instead you're
- 21:20you've got this direct relationship
- 21:22which I think is massive I mean I think
- 21:24a lot of people who go through red
- 21:26school or any program that introduces
- 21:28you to a deep level of menstrual cycle
- 21:30awareness develops a different
- 21:32relationship with their menstrual blood
- 21:33that's a key element of of that work um
- 21:37and I think everyone knows how
- 21:39transformative that is and then when you
- 21:42get the menstrual cut being sold in
- 21:43supermarkets you know being normalized
- 21:46and being on the one hand this sort of
- 21:48perfect kind of better than a tampon way
- 21:51of Disappearing it but it's got this
- 21:54subversive side
- 22:01and then I found the similar thing with
- 22:02menstral workplace policies that on the
- 22:04one hand
- 22:05they uh fit into a neoliberal um idea
- 22:11about ideas about well-being and that
- 22:13it's really up to the individual to
- 22:14Foster their well-being and that
- 22:16organizations will help them to do that
- 22:18but that you you should be fit you
- 22:21should be healthy you should look good
- 22:23you know you shouldn't be carrying any
- 22:25extra weight you know this sort of idea
- 22:28of of the um you know that this person
- 22:31who's ever sort of developing themselves
- 22:33into more and more Perfection which sort
- 22:36of allies with the you know the
- 22:38well-being industry which does get I
- 22:40think quite uh tainted by a sort of
- 22:43commodified view of reality and that if
- 22:46you just buy this thing you know and use
- 22:48this thing it'll make you better and
- 22:50then everything will get better in your
- 22:51life and of course it's not that simple
- 22:54no so on the one hand menstrual
- 22:55workplace policies fit into that
- 22:57well-being at work
- 22:59sort of bucket um and it can often be
- 23:02all about what the woman needs to do and
- 23:05actually menstrual cycle awareness can
- 23:07be used in this as well like you should
- 23:09be paying attention all the time you
- 23:10should know where you are in the cycle
- 23:12you know so any of these things can get
- 23:13co-opted into yeah and MCA can get
- 23:16co-opted into that um being the perfect
- 23:19what did you say neoliberal yeah see
- 23:21because you can go right well I am going
- 23:23to make sure I really rested
- 23:24menstruation so I'm fully optimized
- 23:27exactly my in a summer energy to just
- 23:30hustle and nail it and yeah you can that
- 23:33can very easily happen yeah so just that
- 23:36word optimize put optimize and hack you
- 23:38know next to the menstrual cycle and
- 23:40you're you're behaving like a yeah
- 23:42exactly a way that neoliberal capitalism
- 23:44goes yeah great you know um so but on
- 23:48the other hand a menstrual workplace
- 23:51policy is subversive to that idea that
- 23:55you know the world is all about capital
- 23:59uh and and and all about you know that
- 24:01if you're making money that makes
- 24:03anything you do okay basically the whole
- 24:05deregulation and
- 24:07amorality of the current capitalist
- 24:09system in many parts of the world um so
- 24:13it's actually subverts that by saying no
- 24:15there's actually an inherent value in
- 24:17the female body just as it is and we are
- 24:21going to
- 24:22collectivize which is a big thing when
- 24:24women come together to say we're going
- 24:27to collectively claim our right to
- 24:29menstrate in the way we want to and we
- 24:30want workplaces to adjust to us not us
- 24:33adjusting to workplaces that's that's
- 24:35really
- 24:36radical yes so it's the combination of
- 24:39these two streams and and H being able
- 24:42to see what you're actually doing with
- 24:44the menstrual work that you're doing are
- 24:46you in fact unconsciously
- 24:49supporting uh commodified material
- 24:51overly
- 24:52materialistic worldview or are you
- 24:55making that more
- 24:57Humane you know are you actually making
- 25:00it more about what human beings actually
- 25:03are and what they actually need so and I
- 25:05think that's really important at this
- 25:07juncture of the development of um
- 25:09menstrual activism and menstrual
- 25:11awareness because we can easily fall
- 25:13into dominant mindsets especially when
- 25:17we're trying to make our work palatable
- 25:19and I think that's when we saw a lot of
- 25:20these words like optimization started
- 25:23coming in you know because it makes your
- 25:25work more sellable in a capitalist in a
- 25:28neol liberal capitalist Marketplace yeah
- 25:31I'm thinking of um Dei Educators too
- 25:34that I've heard say I think it was an
- 25:36interview with rashika Talan I think and
- 25:38she said I'm no longer going to pitch my
- 25:41Dei workshops to corporations as if the
- 25:45organization adopts a good di policy it
- 25:48will be more productive she's like I
- 25:50will no longer do that and I can imagine
- 25:54mental Educators thinking if I can just
- 25:56get in with this organization and do a
- 25:57work shop and if I tell them that
- 25:59everyone's going to be much more
- 26:00productive then they'll definitely say
- 26:02yes and they'll they'll pay me more for
- 26:04it yeah and we made that mistake
- 26:06initially with the coexist policy where
- 26:08we put it in that way and the first
- 26:10draft of the policy said um that women
- 26:13had to they could take time off when
- 26:15they had their period and then they
- 26:16needed to pay it back at times of the
- 26:18month when they had more energy so that
- 26:21was what we had in the and the idea was
- 26:24exactly that that they'll be more
- 26:25productive at other times of the month
- 26:27and you see this narrative a lot and I
- 26:29see it now a lot on LinkedIn and you
- 26:31know it's become very normalized this
- 26:33idea that women should be more
- 26:35productive at another time of the month
- 26:37if they take time off when they have
- 26:38their period but what the feedback we
- 26:41got was we haven't got time to pay back
- 26:43those hours we'd rather come to work and
- 26:46Limp through you know having period pain
- 26:49and you know taking painkillers and just
- 26:50sort of showing up and doing the you
- 26:52know minimum or whatever just to get
- 26:54through those first two days then have
- 26:57those two days off and then have to pay
- 26:58back two days in the middle of the month
- 27:00it's like doesn't make sense and uh and
- 27:02and and what we're seeing around the
- 27:04world is that policies that have come in
- 27:06like this like the Spanish one you have
- 27:08to pay back the time I think um and in
- 27:11Taiwan and various others where it's
- 27:13like well you're still going to work the
- 27:14same hours in a month as a man you know
- 27:17but you can have some time off when
- 27:18you've got your period if you want women
- 27:20are already working more than men right
- 27:23being paid less far more hours than men
- 27:26and are paid less so you know a lot of
- 27:28women are already doing two jobs CU
- 27:30they're doing almost all the child care
- 27:32and the the domestic labor as well as um
- 27:36working the same amount of hours as men
- 27:38in the workplace so and as the women at
- 27:41cois pointed out they also do voluntary
- 27:42stuff too on top of it so there was just
- 27:44nowhere to nowhere in the month to find
- 27:47this extra time so we very quickly
- 27:49pulled that out and completely rewrote
- 27:51the policy so that it wasn't connected
- 27:54we actually detached it from
- 27:55productivity and ours worked so it was
- 27:58the amount of productivity during the
- 28:00month and the number of hours wasn't the
- 28:02point the point was that you were doing
- 28:05work at the time the amount of work the
- 28:08amount of hours in the day or the the
- 28:10intensity of work or whatever that
- 28:12worked with your
- 28:14cycle and that you didn't have to ever
- 28:16pay anything back and so that meant that
- 28:19people started to use the policy and
- 28:21that was tied into a contingency policy
- 28:23where there was always someone who could
- 28:25take over from you people didn't feel
- 28:28feel well some people it couldn't work
- 28:29with because there weren't enough people
- 28:30who could do what they did so that's
- 28:32obviously something that is difficult
- 28:35and a lot of a lot of jobs that's going
- 28:37to be the case so this is not a
- 28:39universal solution but for things like
- 28:41for example the front of house people
- 28:43who were the ones who suffered the most
- 28:45because when you're on a reception desk
- 28:47for example and you've got period pain
- 28:50you can't it's not like if you're in the
- 28:51back office and you just sit at your
- 28:53computer and you just work a bit slower
- 28:55um you've got this constant request from
- 28:57people it's doesn't stop and you've got
- 28:59to be perky and friendly and charming
- 29:02and all the things you don't want to be
- 29:04at that point in the month and so by
- 29:08having a contingency policy that that
- 29:09was a job other people could take on
- 29:11people could come from the back office
- 29:13to the front office to sta it if someone
- 29:16needed to go home because they just
- 29:17started their period and they had cramps
- 29:19so that actually um those all have
- 29:22bringing those things together meant a
- 29:24workable policy but in those countries
- 29:26where it's a trade-off women aren't
- 29:28using the policies and now all the data
- 29:29is coming in saying well there's no
- 29:31point having a menstrual policy because
- 29:34nobody uses it but that's because the
- 29:36policy wasn't designed in a way that
- 29:38actually would be workable for
- 29:45people if hearing Lara is inspiring you
- 29:49and you would like to play a more active
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- 30:46and there'd have to be a huge culture
- 30:50shift to get it get it to a place where
- 30:53it is fully workable because it would be
- 30:55accepting as you said that a woman's
- 30:56body is valid
- 30:58as it is it would be accepting that
- 31:00being is as valuable as doing in a
- 31:02capitalist society which you know not so
- 31:05likely to happen but but I what does
- 31:09what has really helped it back to covid
- 31:11again what we started with is the
- 31:12normalization of working from home so it
- 31:16you can still often I mean it might not
- 31:19be ideal from an MCA perspective but you
- 31:21can still work do some work on day one
- 31:25and two but you're not having to get
- 31:27dress get made up rush out the house get
- 31:30your kids to school whatever be you know
- 31:32mad Panic Rush stress public transport
- 31:35to get to the workplace be around other
- 31:38people all day have unexpected things
- 31:39happen have people being difficult and
- 31:41you've got to suppress everything you're
- 31:43feeling to cope all of that instead you
- 31:47stay at home in your pjs you know you go
- 31:49and lie down when you feel particularly
- 31:51like you need to and you do a bit of
- 31:53work on the computer and it's not you're
- 31:55still doing something yes um and
- 31:58hopefully still getting paid the same
- 32:00amount but you're not so stressed so I
- 32:02think working from home has been an
- 32:05incredible Boon actually for not only
- 32:08for menstruators but also for just the
- 32:12idea of flexibility that the workplace
- 32:16isn't something that you have to go to
- 32:18five days a week 9 till 5 and uh uh I
- 32:22know I have you know male colleagues and
- 32:24acquaintances who also say that it's so
- 32:27much better for them
- 32:28to go in two or three days a week and
- 32:30not five and they actually get more done
- 32:32when they work at home and they you know
- 32:35um just feel much better in themselves
- 32:37that they haven't had to do the whole
- 32:39commute especially those of us who
- 32:41aren't so extroverted who actually find
- 32:44being in a busy office all day every day
- 32:46extra tiring because of the extroversion
- 32:49involved can I just go back a step Lara
- 32:52because there'll be people who don't
- 32:54know what the coexist policy is to share
- 32:58just a you know version of the story of
- 33:00that so coexist was an organization
- 33:03running um a large community Hub in
- 33:08Bristol in the center of
- 33:09Bristol uh from about 2008 I think until
- 33:162019 but it was an amazing organization
- 33:19with very idealistic but also very
- 33:22practical and managed to do some
- 33:24incredible things and one of those was
- 33:26under the um initi of be Baxter to bring
- 33:30in a menal workplace policy and it got
- 33:33quite a lot of press coverage I remember
- 33:35it got massive press coverage when it
- 33:36was first announced it was very
- 33:38interesting and I talk about this in the
- 33:39book that the idea of the policy was
- 33:42actually more interesting for the media
- 33:45than the actual policy itself so when
- 33:48the when the policy was first moted um
- 33:51and then Alexandra came in and and did a
- 33:53workshop on menstrual cycle awareness um
- 33:56with with the staff
- 33:58that you know introduction of the idea
- 34:00of a policy that one day workshop got a
- 34:04massive amount of publicity and was in
- 34:06all the mainstream papers oh my God
- 34:08these people are thinking about doing a
- 34:09menstrual policy because it was
- 34:11clickbait it was massive clickbait so
- 34:14you know loads of people would come on
- 34:16going oh my God this is disgusting you
- 34:17know women don't have the right to this
- 34:19so it was and then lots of women saying
- 34:21well actually hang on a minute we do we
- 34:24do need something around this it's it it
- 34:26causes unnecessary NE AR problems so it
- 34:30and then when the policy actually was
- 34:32sort of matured it took 18 months to
- 34:34really cook it because there was no
- 34:35template for it so we had to really
- 34:37start at the beginning and I I came in
- 34:40as a pro bono consultant and then I I I
- 34:43researched it formally through my
- 34:45University so it um it it um yeah it it
- 34:51was once the policy actually came in
- 34:53then it wasn't really so interesting
- 34:55anymore because it was an actual thing
- 34:58it shows
- 35:00how oh there's such a mixed influence of
- 35:03social media and and people being able
- 35:06to comment on newspaper articles now I
- 35:08call them newspapers they're not really
- 35:09papers anymore but it's It's All Digital
- 35:11but or mostly digital but that just that
- 35:14sort of commentary from everyone that
- 35:16huge sort of opinion universe that we've
- 35:19Unleashed um that just often is a lot of
- 35:22people who don't really know much about
- 35:25what they're talking about to be blunt
- 35:28but but for whatever reason want to have
- 35:30a say so there's something very
- 35:31Democratic about it but is it actually
- 35:35effective um is it positive in Social
- 35:38terms and it just seems at the moment
- 35:40we're in this sort of Gastly culture
- 35:42where um media Outlets are dependent
- 35:44upon clicks yeah for you know getting
- 35:48capital in order to continue and pay
- 35:50their staff's wages and the way you get
- 35:53clicks is really through a sort of
- 35:54lowest common denominator aspect of
- 35:56humanity which is going for the shock
- 35:58value in everything so the shock value
- 36:01was in the idea of a menstrual workplace
- 36:04policy but not in the actuality of it
- 36:07yeah and then there are brilliant people
- 36:08like you who are actually getting these
- 36:10policies in place and getting them out
- 36:11there and I'm so bloody Greatful to you
- 36:14just briefly back to the book and then
- 36:15I'd love to talk about menopause yeah so
- 36:17the book's coming out on August the 30th
- 36:20but it's available for pre-order now it
- 36:22is it's being published by Oxford
- 36:24University press so it's available
- 36:26worldwide and it's available also
- 36:28through non-academic Outlets like
- 36:31waterstones have it now and and other I
- 36:34think even wh Smith have got it on their
- 36:35website something that really surprised
- 36:37me so it's widely available it's not
- 36:39cheap as academic books tend not to be
- 36:42but it's not as expensive as I was
- 36:44concerned it might be so it's 40 it's a
- 36:47hard back um and yeah so you know it
- 36:52it's uh it'll be aail I think the
- 36:54there's a digital Edition which will be
- 36:56cheaper and and and also an ebook so
- 37:00that I think that maybe they're doing
- 37:03them as the same thing now at one point
- 37:05it was slightly different I'm not quite
- 37:07sure how that's going but anyway so it's
- 37:08available in in multiple formats and
- 37:11what's your hope for it what's your
- 37:13vision for
- 37:16it well you know it's a funny thing with
- 37:19books isn't it they sort of have their
- 37:21own
- 37:23momentum
- 37:25and this books had quite a strong one uh
- 37:29it sort of pushed
- 37:30me something anyway pushed me to do it
- 37:34during a time in my life where I really
- 37:36didn't have the energy for it um both of
- 37:39my parents were elderly and needed a lot
- 37:41of care and it was a difficult phase but
- 37:44somehow I managed to get the book done
- 37:46through it and it just felt like this
- 37:48engine even that I went to Upp you know
- 37:51which is sort of one of the top academic
- 37:54Publishers in the world and just that I
- 37:56had the nerve to do that felt like it
- 37:59was something else kind of and that they
- 38:02after a lengthy process that they took
- 38:04it on um first book they've published on
- 38:07menstration uh since Ceno's 1999 book is
- 38:11menstruation
- 38:14obsolete the book that said that um
- 38:16because Paleolithic women only have 40
- 38:18periods so we should only have 40
- 38:20periods so it's a really good idea to
- 38:21suppress your periods so that that they
- 38:24published that in 1999 they're nothing
- 38:26nothing nothing then mine which is kind
- 38:29of the opposite but um yeah so and
- 38:31they've been really supportive actually
- 38:34yeah they put it up for an award and no
- 38:37they've been really supportive so yeah
- 38:40we we'll see we'll see you know books
- 38:42are a lot about timing you know on the
- 38:44one hand
- 38:45they're uh you know they shape culture
- 38:48but on the other hand they're also
- 38:49shaped by culture or they're permitted
- 38:51by
- 38:52culture when her blood is gold came out
- 38:55a lot of people were saying oh this is
- 38:56going to be really big because nobody's
- 38:58written anything like this before and
- 39:01it's laying this new cultural ground and
- 39:03all of that but in fact it didn't it
- 39:05sold and it did get some reviews but it
- 39:07didn't sell particularly well and it you
- 39:10know because it was so far ahead of what
- 39:12the mainstream was doing and talking
- 39:14about so it became a kind of cult book
- 39:16over the years this one's a bit
- 39:18different and it's obviously speaking to
- 39:21a mainstream moment but there's still I
- 39:24still have regularly have experiences
- 39:26where people F put face like they've
- 39:28just been made to eat a lemon when I
- 39:30tell what my book's about
- 39:32so we'll see we'll see well I would love
- 39:35to maybe next August um I I'll have read
- 39:38it and we'll see how it's landed in the
- 39:39world and we can have another on the
- 39:41podcast that great great and I mean the
- 39:43amount of people who say to me my
- 39:45favorite book about this work is her
- 39:48blood is gold by Lara Owen is it's a lot
- 39:50of people like that's the thing about
- 39:52books they stay they keep going that
- 39:55one's been amazing for that yeah it has
- 39:57it's really surpassed any expectations I
- 40:00might have had of it that's why when you
- 40:01ask me what do your expect what do you
- 40:03want for the book I like who knows it's
- 40:07um it's in a way you know some books not
- 40:10all books some books are more you know
- 40:11personal or whatever it's not that these
- 40:13books aren't personal but they're they
- 40:16it feels like something that a bigger
- 40:19process than you
- 40:21is behind and you're the sort of vehicle
- 40:25for this idea going into the culture and
- 40:30um I mean it's not I don't mean to be U
- 40:33sort of ungrounded about that obviously
- 40:35I did a huge amount of work for it and I
- 40:37actually wrote every word you know all
- 40:39of that but it's
- 40:42um I as a human being you know I'm in my
- 40:46life which is also about going shopping
- 40:49you know putting the bins out um you
- 40:52know so a big part of my Consciousness
- 40:54is taking up with the same mundanity
- 40:55that everybody's is taken up with right
- 40:58and then and then you have this bit of
- 41:01you which is doing something which is
- 41:02about something in the future probably
- 41:04well the book is always about something
- 41:05in the future you're working on it for
- 41:07years and years and years and it's
- 41:09somehow that's what I mean about it has
- 41:11this engine that you are in a way
- 41:13keeping up with and part of what you're
- 41:15keeping up with is something in your own
- 41:16mind for sure but it doesn't feel
- 41:19personal it feels transpersonal maybe or
- 41:23I'm not describing this very well but
- 41:24I'm trying to get at why I can't know
- 41:27what this book is going to do yeah I
- 41:30everything I'm nodding because
- 41:31everything you're saying makes sense to
- 41:33me I mean I can imagine Alexander and
- 41:34shy talk you about it being your calling
- 41:37that's calling yes yes it is definitely
- 41:40you can definitely use that that
- 41:41language yeah yes it's a calling there's
- 41:44something sacred about it it's something
- 41:47that is bigger than
- 41:49yourself and that you are in service too
- 41:52I suppose is another way of of putting
- 41:55it
- 42:00it does feel important to speak to
- 42:03menopause as well both the experience of
- 42:05manopause and I'd love to speak to you
- 42:07if we have some time about post
- 42:08manopause phase at work so what
- 42:12challenges are you seeing in your
- 42:14research and in your work around what's
- 42:16happening in menopause at work I know
- 42:19one of the things that you spoke about
- 42:20in an article that I read is this
- 42:21climate of Silence which is similar to
- 42:23the climate of Silence around
- 42:25menstruation well I think that's changed
- 42:28a lot and I think that we've gone
- 42:31further got further with menopause than
- 42:32we have with menstration and I've got
- 42:34various ideas around that one is that
- 42:37women at menopause have more Authority
- 42:38in workplaces they have more clout so
- 42:40they can affect more change another is
- 42:43that employers see it as maybe a
- 42:46two-year period of time they've got to
- 42:47be concerned with whereas men
- 42:49menstration is scary because it's a long
- 42:51chunk of time do you really want to be
- 42:53giving people two days off a month for
- 42:5530 years um whereas giving people more
- 43:00flexi time and more accommodation for
- 43:02two years is a different
- 43:04thing the thing that is worrying is how
- 43:07I suppose how much the HRT narrative
- 43:09starts to infuse the workplace and then
- 43:11this idea the idea is well you just need
- 43:12to go on HRT and you get workplaces
- 43:15telling female managers who are on HRT
- 43:18telling staff that well you go to the
- 43:20doctor get some HRT and then you'll be
- 43:21able to basically perform at the same
- 43:24level and you won't get a hot flash in
- 43:25the middle of an important meeting or
- 43:28whatever so then we get this um you know
- 43:32just
- 43:33normalization of HRT as if uh there's a
- 43:37fix there's a quick fix and I see this
- 43:40being talked about a lot well the minute
- 43:42you start to experience any menstrual
- 43:44irregularity or men param menopausal
- 43:47premenopausal symptoms just go to the
- 43:49doctor and get on the medication just
- 43:51get the medication take the medication
- 43:53it's all
- 43:55solved and it's not that simple
- 43:57um apart from the fact that at the
- 44:00moment the figures are something like
- 44:0250% of women shouldn't either shouldn't
- 44:05or won't tolerate HRT so it leaves out
- 44:08half of you know the workforce anyway
- 44:12and that those reasons are they've had
- 44:15some form of a reproductive cancer
- 44:17already or they've got something in
- 44:19their family family history um uh or
- 44:24they experience severe side effects on
- 44:26the pill
- 44:28um like they had anxiety and depression
- 44:30or whatever um or they just that really
- 44:34don't want to take it like
- 44:36psychologically it's something that they
- 44:38feel strongly about so it would be um
- 44:42you know complicated for them to take it
- 44:44so and there are you know other reasons
- 44:46too but those are the main
- 44:48ones and so it's it that but the trouble
- 44:52is at the moment it's becoming the only
- 44:55solution whereas for a while we would
- 44:57and we still are talking about that I
- 44:59mean this is in the BSI guideline is
- 45:02that there are other things you can do
- 45:03like have desk fans have workplaces
- 45:06where people can control the heat and
- 45:10you know the air conditioning so that if
- 45:13your you know temperature is going up
- 45:15and down you can actually have some
- 45:17control over the external temperature um
- 45:20using natural fibers in
- 45:22uniforms which make it much less
- 45:25distressing if you if you sweat
- 45:27whereas if you're wearing all polyester
- 45:29or all nylon it's
- 45:31excruciating you know to have a hot
- 45:33flush so things things like that which
- 45:37are very cheap well fairly cheap I mean
- 45:39they're controlling your temperature can
- 45:41be more expensive depending on how the
- 45:43workplace has been built and designed
- 45:44but there these are relatively cheap
- 45:46interventions and don't involve medical
- 45:49Pro procedures to come um you know
- 45:52clinical practices to come into play and
- 45:55then there's also being more flexible
- 45:56about time so having some idea that you
- 45:59know women around that stage of their
- 46:01life would benefit from some kind of a
- 46:04sabatical having more annual leave
- 46:07holiday leave that year or two years um
- 46:11or being able to work from home more or
- 46:13taking a step back from a position of
- 46:15responsibility with the Proviso that
- 46:17they'll come back into it so that
- 46:19they're not that their career is not
- 46:21going backwards it just might be on hold
- 46:23for a little while so timing of
- 46:25promotions and
- 46:27that kind of thing I feel like the world
- 46:29can learn from Academia here too because
- 46:31there is the tradition in Academia of
- 46:34having a sabatical and actually um
- 46:36someone in our community is she is
- 46:39timing her sabatical her academic
- 46:41sabatical to go with just when she's
- 46:43reaching the point of menopause where
- 46:44her everything in her is saying you need
- 46:46space yes and yeah I wonder how that
- 46:50could be translated yeah without loss of
- 46:53income because one of the issues for
- 46:55women now is because we're having
- 46:56children ler yeah you can get caught in
- 46:59a care sandwich where you've got um
- 47:02Teenage children or in some cases even
- 47:05younger than that children who still
- 47:07need a lot of care and attention and
- 47:09elderly parents at the same time and
- 47:11you're going through menopause so just
- 47:13at the time when you need to be really
- 47:14engaged in self-care you're actually
- 47:16split between your job and two
- 47:19generations generation on either side
- 47:21needing care so it's you know it's a
- 47:24whole lot easier going through menopause
- 47:26if you you know if you have children at
- 47:28the biological the prime biological age
- 47:30for having children you know in your
- 47:32early 20s then they're out the house by
- 47:34the time you go through menopause U but
- 47:36we're not doing that now
- 47:38so that's um you know an extra uh
- 47:42complication what was your question
- 47:44again how do we set up a situation where
- 47:48workplaces understand that that
- 47:49sabatical is necessary right huge
- 47:52extension of the menstrual leave
- 47:54question it is it is but I think it's
- 47:57partly also understanding that we're
- 47:59living and working for longer yeah so it
- 48:02used to be that a lot of women would you
- 48:04know they' they'd either not be in work
- 48:07outside the home or they'd be in
- 48:08part-time work and when they went
- 48:09through menopause they'd often drop that
- 48:11part-time work or they'd be working at
- 48:13home so they just would be able anyway
- 48:15to rest in the afternoon or you know
- 48:18they they'd have more
- 48:19control over their work and they might
- 48:21have a couple of years where they
- 48:22weren't as active you know or whatever
- 48:27and yet and now we've got far more women
- 48:30who are working outside the home so they
- 48:32don't have so much
- 48:34control
- 48:37um and so I think it's partly that we
- 48:39have to understand that
- 48:41shift and that and that because we're
- 48:45then living longer so 50s was seen as
- 48:48already getting old and that you know
- 48:51your husband would be retiring your
- 48:53retirement age was 60 then so you're in
- 48:56your early 50s is going through
- 48:57menopause you're looking at maybe
- 48:58working for six or seven years longer
- 49:00which isn't doesn't seem like very long
- 49:03so you might just think well I'm not
- 49:05going to go for a promotion I'm just
- 49:06going to tread water really and I'll
- 49:08carry on doing the job I'm doing but I'm
- 49:09not going to create any waves or do
- 49:11anything new I'll just plot along and
- 49:13then I'll retire at 60 on a full pension
- 49:15and whatever and then your husband would
- 49:17be retiring this is in the UK 5 years
- 49:20later but now we're either at all you
- 49:24know we're all retiring in our late six
- 49:26is if we retire getting a pension but
- 49:28then many of us are carrying on working
- 49:31and people are carrying on working well
- 49:32into their 70s so if you look at that
- 49:35from the age of 50 you've got 25 or 30
- 49:37years you're still working so to see it
- 49:39then as like in the middle of the
- 49:42working phase of your life say say it's
- 49:44going from
- 49:4520 you know to 75 or 80 I mean my you
- 49:49know my mom gave her last public talk
- 49:51when she was 83 w you know at 83 she
- 49:54said you know what it makes me too tired
- 49:56now I'm going to stop she wasn't
- 49:58formally working but she was doing a lot
- 50:00of volunteer stuff you know right until
- 50:02then so she was
- 50:04active and if you know and Our
- 50:06Generations the generations coming up
- 50:08now are going to maybe even go longer
- 50:10than that so if you see it as a time
- 50:11span from 20 to 80 of being active in
- 50:13the public sphere one way or another and
- 50:16that 50 is in the middle of that so
- 50:19that's when you take two years
- 50:21out and then you come back and then
- 50:23you've got the opportunity to really
- 50:24move forward and and be a you know of of
- 50:28great
- 50:29service to your community uh because
- 50:33also you you you know your children have
- 50:36pretty much grown up by that point um
- 50:39and you know you may have escaped the
- 50:41care sandwich one way or another but
- 50:43you've got a long period of
- 50:45time um you know I did my PhD in my
- 50:48early
- 50:4960s and that's unusual but it's becoming
- 50:52more and more people are doing it it's
- 50:54not completely out of left field now and
- 50:57it was the absolutely best time for me
- 50:59to do it I was so well prepared for it I
- 51:02knew exactly what I wanted to study I
- 51:04knew what needed to happen in the field
- 51:06that I was in um and I was so motivated
- 51:10because it was such a fantastic
- 51:11opportunity so I I just ate the whole
- 51:13thing up I absolutely loved every minute
- 51:15of it you know it was it was absolutely
- 51:18fantastic so you know you you're able to
- 51:21do things differently than you would
- 51:23have been before and you know I wasn't
- 51:25distracted by things that are happening
- 51:27between the ages of 20 and 50 you know
- 51:30um I wasn't distracted by my love life
- 51:32or by you know being pregnant or all of
- 51:35that stuff you know was not um taking my
- 51:39attention and energy so I could
- 51:40completely devote myself to to doing it
- 51:43which was you know just fantastic so
- 51:46there's a lot to be said for the
- 51:47postmenopausal years yeah so back to
- 51:50this postmenopausal zest which you said
- 51:52that you wanted to touch on that we need
- 51:55to be making the most of this period in
- 51:58our lives when we are in this next level
- 52:00of maturity Authority and contribution
- 52:04really yes and what we don't know and
- 52:06this is a controversial thing to say but
- 52:08what we don't know is how HRT affects
- 52:10that yeah so I mean I one of the reasons
- 52:15I didn't take HRT is partly because
- 52:17obviously I was s of interested in
- 52:21living as you know naturally as possible
- 52:24but also because I had a really bad time
- 52:26on the pill pill and I got became
- 52:27anxious and depressed on the pill so I
- 52:29thought well you know exogenous hormones
- 52:31of me just don't work very
- 52:34well but I just you know I just we just
- 52:37haven't got any data really on how the
- 52:40impact that being on HRT has on your
- 52:44sense of um personal strength and
- 52:46well-being so the dominant narrative is
- 52:49that it improves all that because you're
- 52:51not having your menopause symptoms yeah
- 52:54but if the pill
- 52:57causes women to feel as many people say
- 53:00not like themselves and to have even you
- 53:02know subclinical levels of anxiety and
- 53:06depression what is the long-term effect
- 53:08of taking exogenous hormones after
- 53:11menopause um you know over a long period
- 53:14of time the medical advice is not to
- 53:16take it forever but many women are
- 53:19taking it forever and a lot of those are
- 53:21clearly having very powerful
- 53:23postmenopausal phases of their lives of
- 53:26their careers they're very visible
- 53:28they're very confident so maybe it
- 53:30doesn't have um any kind of a negative
- 53:33impact and maybe it really is that
- 53:34there's different types of people and
- 53:36for some people they'll have amazing
- 53:38postmenopausal zest um without taking
- 53:42any hot te and for other people it will
- 53:43be with hot te we just don't know yet
- 53:47again it comes back to data yeah I mean
- 53:49obviously anecdotal evidence has a place
- 53:52and knowing who you are and what is
- 53:54likely to suit you or not suit you is
- 53:56really important so I don't want to say
- 53:58that um you won't have that with
- 54:02HRT um but I don't think it's just a
- 54:04silver bullet that necessarily solves
- 54:06everything
- 54:08yeah so if listeners are loving
- 54:11listening to you how can they connect
- 54:13with you how can they connect with your
- 54:15work so I have a website it's very easy
- 54:18to remember it's Lara owen.com
- 54:20um and I teach a course in contemporary
- 54:24menstral studies which is going to start
- 54:27its second year um of the course next
- 54:31year so it I've been running the year
- 54:33one since
- 54:352022 so I've had 55 people go through
- 54:38the program so far it's a year-long
- 54:40master's level course um it's pretty
- 54:43intense and it gives you a grounding
- 54:45across disciplines in what we know about
- 54:48various aspects of
- 54:50menstration uh and a bit about menopause
- 54:53and then the so I'm starting year two
- 54:55concurrently with the next year one in
- 54:58um uh March next year enrollment will
- 55:02open on October the 1st and we are
- 55:04already accepting expressions of
- 55:06Interest so you can use the contact
- 55:08button on the website if you're
- 55:10interested in applying for year one year
- 55:12two will only be available for people
- 55:14who've already done year one and year
- 55:16two is going to drill down more into
- 55:18specific uh aspects like there'll be a
- 55:21unit on uh a module on endometriosis
- 55:23there'll be a module on trauma in the
- 55:25menstrual cycle would be very STI
- 55:27there'll be a module on menopause and
- 55:29and what you'll get is um you'll get to
- 55:31read the most influential and the you
- 55:34know a wide representation of the
- 55:37academic papers so you get given those
- 55:39to read and you'll get um couple of
- 55:44discussions two seminars per module and
- 55:47in the first year you do a research
- 55:49project which is Guided by me um so it's
- 55:53your research project obviously but I
- 55:55help you with it
- 55:56so it's uh it's Master's level as I
- 55:59think I said and uh yeah I'm so happy
- 56:01with how it's gone um it's it's really
- 56:04just fantastic to be able to teach at
- 56:06that level and of course that's not
- 56:07happening in any Universities yet so
- 56:09that's why I'm doing it myself through
- 56:12the website it's a bridge for people who
- 56:15do want to do PhD study it's serving as
- 56:17a bridge there yes exactly so It
- 56:20prepares you for doing a PhD or
- 56:21menstration and sometimes people are
- 56:23doing a PhD already but they're super
- 56:26supervisors aren't specialists in
- 56:28menstration because there's not enough
- 56:29of those yet um and so it it it helps
- 56:32them write their lit review and all of
- 56:34that there is a big shift happening
- 56:37though so I was just at the menstruation
- 56:38research Network this is a network that
- 56:4012 of us set up in 2018 and we just had
- 56:44a conference um our annual conference in
- 56:47Liverpool and there were so many people
- 56:49there doing phds on menstruation it was
- 56:51just
- 56:52amazing you know in 2018 it was like one
- 56:55or two people I mean when I started mine
- 56:57in 2016 it was the first time someone
- 56:59had done a PhD in a business school on
- 57:01menstration and now there's just so many
- 57:03people it's phenomenal so the field is
- 57:07accelerating uh and and a good
- 57:09proportion of those people are coming in
- 57:11through red school as well so they're
- 57:14doing the red school training and then
- 57:15they're going you know what I want to
- 57:17really get some and do more research on
- 57:19this and I want to explore this
- 57:21particular Avenue so there's a sort of
- 57:23steady infiltration of people who've got
- 57:26high level of menstrual cycle awareness
- 57:28coming into Academia so that's that's
- 57:30really interesting um but also check out
- 57:32my website for I do occasional webinars
- 57:34on different topics which anybody can
- 57:36join without the commitment of the of
- 57:38the long course thanks for asking yeah
- 57:41you're so welcome and I just want to
- 57:43thank you again I said this at the end
- 57:45of our first conversation but thank you
- 57:47for sticking at this for all the years
- 57:49that you have and for how you are
- 57:52shaping and changing the field and
- 57:54changing things for all of us you know
- 57:55us on behalf of all the listeners so
- 57:57grateful to you Lara and yeah look
- 58:00forward to speaking to you again soon
- 58:01yeah thanks Sophie thank
- 58:08bye thanks for being with us all the way
- 58:10through to the end today if you've
- 58:12really loved hearing Lara we have two
- 58:14more episodes with her that you might
- 58:16like to listen to episode 52 the
- 58:19cultural story of the taboo power and
- 58:22wisdom of
- 58:24menstruation and 72 following intuition
- 58:27taking Retreat and finding your path in
- 58:30menopause it's just wonderful being with
- 58:33someone who has been in this field for
- 58:35so long doing such amazing work so thank
- 58:38you again Lara and that's it for this
- 58:41week I hope you've enjoyed this episode
- 58:43I'll be with you again next week and
- 58:45until then keep living life according to
- 58:47your own brilliant rhythm
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