15 Forbidden Statements That Attract Women Like MAGNETS (Women Go CRAZY For You!) — Transcript
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- 0:00There are certain things that you can
- 0:01say to a woman that will attract her to
- 0:03you like a magnet, right? There's that
- 0:05magnetic attraction where she feels
- 0:08drawn to you. And it's an irresistible
- 0:11type of pull towards you. And to do
- 0:14this, it requires you to say some things
- 0:17at times that will feel forbidden. It
- 0:21will feel like, I don't know if I should
- 0:23really say this. Am I allowed to say
- 0:25this? Is it okay to say something like
- 0:27this? But if you just push yourself to
- 0:30say it, you will see the woman's
- 0:32reaction. You will see her attraction
- 0:34switch on, her eyes light up, and you
- 0:36will see that she starts to feel drawn
- 0:38to you. But most guys never discover
- 0:40this. Most guys never figure it out. And
- 0:42for most guys who watch this video, they
- 0:45won't have the courage to say it even
- 0:46though they learn the examples. But if
- 0:48you try it, you will see for yourself
- 0:50that it draws women to you. So the first
- 0:53statement is, "You're too young for me."
- 0:55And how this may come up, for example,
- 0:58is you're talking to a younger woman and
- 1:00say she's about 21 and say for example
- 1:02you're about 30, 35, something like that
- 1:05or maybe even 40 and she's feeling
- 1:08attracted to you and then she says,
- 1:09"Wait, how old are you?" And you have a
- 1:12bit of a smirk on your face, a bit of a
- 1:14smile, and you say, "Put it this way. I
- 1:16think you might be too young for me."
- 1:18And as a result, she then feels rejected
- 1:20in a playful type of way. It's not a
- 1:22serious rejection. And if you've been
- 1:24making her feel attracted prior to that,
- 1:26she's feeling attracted to you and
- 1:28that's why she wants to confirm how old
- 1:29you are, she will then naturally feel
- 1:31some desire to want to prove that she's
- 1:34on your level and it could work between
- 1:36you and her or that she doesn't have a
- 1:38problem with that type of age difference
- 1:40versus, for example, if a guy is 35 and
- 1:43she's 21 and she says, "Wait, how old
- 1:46are you?" And he says, "Oh, I'm 35. Is
- 1:49that okay?" Sure, that type of response
- 1:51is not going to attract a woman like a
- 1:53magnet. It's going to repel her because
- 1:55he's being self-doubting and he's
- 1:57already making it out to be a problem.
- 1:58Even though for her it might not
- 2:00actually be a problem. She might like
- 2:02older guys, but he's saying it in that
- 2:04apologetic type of way. He's seeking her
- 2:07validation, her approval, and that's not
- 2:09attractive to women. So, with this first
- 2:11example, it's not as if you have to go
- 2:13around saying to women that they're too
- 2:15young for you everywhere you go.
- 2:16Instead, it's more about getting
- 2:18comfortable with the idea of playfully
- 2:21rejecting women at times. The reason why
- 2:23it's important to get comfortable with
- 2:24that is that if the woman is attractive,
- 2:27she will rarely, if ever, get rejected.
- 2:30So, when you're able to do it in a
- 2:32playful way, it lights her up. She can't
- 2:34believe that you would potentially push
- 2:36an opportunity with her away when pretty
- 2:39much every other guy is hoping to get a
- 2:41chance with her. She feels like she's
- 2:43going to have to do more to win you
- 2:44over. And that's part of what creates
- 2:46the magnetic attraction. It's an
- 2:48experience that most men aren't able to
- 2:50give a woman because they're just hoping
- 2:52that the woman will give them a chance.
- 2:55The next example is, well, you know what
- 2:57they say, cute girls are always bad
- 2:59kisses. When you say that in an
- 3:01attractive way with some confidence,
- 3:03some presence, some courage, and you're
- 3:06being relaxed about it. You're just
- 3:07being playful about it. She feels that
- 3:09playful pressure now to prove that she's
- 3:12not a bad kisser. and she may say that
- 3:14to you or if she doesn't want to say
- 3:16anything about it, she's still feeling
- 3:18that playful pressure now where you're
- 3:20potentially thinking that she might be a
- 3:22bad kisser. So, it's a bit of playful
- 3:25fun and it creates that conversation
- 3:27about kissing between you and her. And
- 3:30something else that's going on is that
- 3:32you're also flirting with the woman.
- 3:34Where's the flirting? Well, you said
- 3:36that cute girls are always bad kisses.
- 3:39So, you're saying that she's cute. And
- 3:41you're also playfully hinting at the
- 3:42idea that you and her may kiss. Flirting
- 3:45is where you show sexual interest in a
- 3:47woman, but you do it in a playful or
- 3:49non-serious way. To say it in a serious
- 3:52way would be to say something like, "Oh,
- 3:54you're very cute. I'm thinking about
- 3:56kissing you." Or, "You're very cute and
- 3:58I'd like to kiss you." It's very serious
- 4:00and essentially you're putting the woman
- 4:02in a position where she has to make a
- 4:04yes or no decision. But flirting is
- 4:06where she doesn't have to make a yes or
- 4:08no decision and there's a subtle
- 4:10understanding between you and her that
- 4:12you find each other sexually attractive.
- 4:14And in the case where you say something
- 4:16like, "Well, you know what they say,
- 4:18cute girls are always bad kisses." Then
- 4:20the challenge is set right in the
- 4:23moment. She either has to accept that
- 4:25she is a bad kisser and that she's cute
- 4:28or she has to try to prove herself to
- 4:30you where she either wants to kiss you
- 4:33or she either wants to say that she's
- 4:35not a bad kisser that she's a good
- 4:36kisser. And if she says that that she's
- 4:39a good kisser, then you say to her,
- 4:41"Prove it." Then the sexual tension
- 4:43between you and her is building. And
- 4:45you've said something that many guys
- 4:47would feel like is a forbidden
- 4:49statement. You can't say that cute girls
- 4:52are bad kisses. She might get offended
- 4:54by that. She might think that you're
- 4:56insulting her, but women don't see it in
- 4:58that way. Instead, they see it as
- 5:00flirtatious. They find it funny. And
- 5:02women refer to guys like that as a
- 5:04challenge. And what happens in the
- 5:06woman's mind is that she's feeling
- 5:08attracted to you, and she feels like
- 5:09she's going to need to do more now and
- 5:12be very attractive and appealing to you
- 5:14in order to get a chance with you. So,
- 5:16it's no longer a case of being like a
- 5:18typical guy who's handing himself on a
- 5:20silver platter to the woman and hoping
- 5:22that she's going to give him a chance.
- 5:24Instead, you're being one of the rare
- 5:25guys who can actually make a woman feel
- 5:28attracted and subtly push her away in a
- 5:30playful way, right? It's not done in a
- 5:32serious way. It's not to the point where
- 5:35you say, "Well, you know what they say,
- 5:36like cute girls are always bad kisses."
- 5:39And being way too serious about it,
- 5:41taking it seriously. Instead, these
- 5:43sorts of things are said in a playful
- 5:45way, in an easygoing way, in a
- 5:47flirtatious way, and that's what makes
- 5:49it land with the woman. That's what
- 5:51makes it work. She senses that you're
- 5:53not being a prick. You're not being an
- 5:55You're not trying to hurt her
- 5:56or anything like that. Instead, it's
- 5:57just playful flirting. It's a bit of
- 6:00playful teasing. It's a bit of playfully
- 6:02challenging behavior. And that's why
- 6:05women don't get offended or angry about
- 6:07it. Whereas, if it's serious behavior
- 6:09and serious statements, it's a
- 6:11completely different thing. For example,
- 6:12if a guy says, "You're too young for
- 6:15me." Or, "Oh, no, you're too old for
- 6:17me." Then that sort of statement is
- 6:19going to feel insulting to the woman
- 6:20because it's the same type of words, but
- 6:22it's said with a different intention,
- 6:24different tonality, and the woman is
- 6:26going to feel different as a result.
- 6:28Right? So if you are saying things with
- 6:30confidence and in a playfully
- 6:31challenging way or in a flirtatious way
- 6:34then the woman feels attracted to that
- 6:36and therefore it is welcomed because a
- 6:39woman wants to be with a man who is
- 6:41making her feel attracted and when she
- 6:43senses that he's saying it in a playful
- 6:45way and he's not trying to hurt her then
- 6:48it's welcomed. Right? It's something
- 6:50that feels forbidden. feels bad to say
- 6:54that she's too young for you or she's
- 6:56too old for you or that you know she may
- 6:59be a bad kisser, but when you say it in
- 7:01the right way, it triggers so much
- 7:04attraction inside of women that they
- 7:06feel attracted to you like a magnet. So,
- 7:08let's get on to the third one. If she
- 7:09seems a bit naughty, rebellious, or
- 7:12sexual, you can say something like,
- 7:14"You're such a bad girl." Or, "You're
- 7:16such a bad girl." So, this one is not
- 7:19going to apply to every type of woman,
- 7:20right? This one is going to be in a
- 7:22specific type of case. As I mentioned,
- 7:24if she seems sexual, if she seems a bit
- 7:27rebellious, if she seems naughty, then
- 7:30it's applicable. But if she's just a
- 7:33shy, innocent type of girl who's being
- 7:35really nice and you say to her that
- 7:37she's such a bad girl, it's not going to
- 7:39make sense. But if you come across a
- 7:41woman who's a bit naughty, a bit sexual,
- 7:44a bit rebellious, then saying something
- 7:46like, "You're such a bad girl." is going
- 7:48to be a connect for her because she's
- 7:50going to see that you recognize that
- 7:53she's not an innocent type of girl who
- 7:56wouldn't have sex with you on the first
- 7:58date or the first night. And she gets a
- 8:00sense that she's not going to have to
- 8:02put on an act of being more innocent and
- 8:05gentle around you. And instead, if you,
- 8:08for example, were to say to her, "Let's
- 8:10get out of here. Let's go hang out at my
- 8:11place," when you're at a bar or party,
- 8:13or at the end of the date, if you were
- 8:15to say, "Let's go chill out at my
- 8:16place." then she knows that you're most
- 8:18likely going to be the sort of guy who
- 8:20isn't afraid to make a move sexually
- 8:22when you get her home. When the door
- 8:25closes at your apartment or your house,
- 8:28you turn around and she's standing there
- 8:29and you're most likely going to have the
- 8:31confidence to move in and put your arms
- 8:33around her and start kissing her rather
- 8:35than thinking that she wouldn't be open
- 8:36to something like that happening and
- 8:38instead treating her like a lady who
- 8:40would never have sex right away or kiss
- 8:42right away and talking to her for 2
- 8:44hours or 3 hours and then she realizes
- 8:47that the guy just doesn't get it. He
- 8:49doesn't get that she is down, right?
- 8:51She's ready to get it on like make a
- 8:53move already. But when a guy has already
- 8:54said to her at some point, "You're such
- 8:56a bad girl," or "You're such a bad
- 8:59girl." or "You're such a bad girl. I
- 9:02like it." Then she knows that he's most
- 9:03likely the sort of guy who's not going
- 9:05to be afraid to make a move on her. And
- 9:07in some cases, it may even result in him
- 9:10making a move on her right then and
- 9:12there. If he says that, and she then
- 9:15smiles and she dips her chin down in a
- 9:17flirtatious, submissive type of gesture,
- 9:20and then he just puts his arm around her
- 9:22and brings her into him. and moments
- 9:24later they start kissing. Now compare
- 9:26that to a guy who is interacting with a
- 9:28woman who's a bit naughty, a bit
- 9:30rebellious, a bit sexual, and he's
- 9:32feeling stunned. He doesn't really know
- 9:34what to do with it, and he's using his
- 9:36typical approach of just being nice and
- 9:38trying to get along with the woman. What
- 9:40happens then? The woman realizes that he
- 9:43probably can't handle a woman like her
- 9:45and that if she went home with him after
- 9:46the first or second date or if they were
- 9:48at a party or a bar or something like
- 9:51that and she went home with him, he'll
- 9:53probably be timid in the bedroom. He'll
- 9:56probably be a nice guy in the bedroom.
- 9:58It probably won't be a match for her in
- 10:00terms of who she is as a person. And as
- 10:02I said, this isn't something that
- 10:04applies to every woman. This is not
- 10:06something that you say to a nice girl
- 10:08who isn't displaying naughty,
- 10:10rebellious, sexual type of behavior.
- 10:13It's just not going to be a match for a
- 10:14woman like her. But if you come across a
- 10:15sexy woman who's being a bit naughty,
- 10:18has a bit of a sexual side and you can
- 10:20see that, then you have an opportunity
- 10:23now to attract her to you and create
- 10:25that connect where she realizes that if
- 10:27she went home with you, then you would
- 10:29do her, right? you would be the sort of
- 10:31guy who wouldn't be afraid to make a
- 10:33move and it would be enjoyable for her.
- 10:35So, number four, you're not really my
- 10:37type, but you're cute. So, when you flip
- 10:39the situation around like this, where
- 10:41you're not hoping to try to get a chance
- 10:43with a woman, and instead you're being
- 10:45the assessor, the chooser, the decider,
- 10:48and you're able to say something like,
- 10:50"You're not really my type, but you're
- 10:51cute." She now wants to find out what
- 10:53your type is and whether she fits into
- 10:55that in any way or if she should try to
- 10:58adjust herself in the moment to become
- 11:01your type for the night or for life. And
- 11:03once again though, it doesn't work if a
- 11:05guy says it while not displaying
- 11:08attractive traits. So, for example, if a
- 11:10guy says it with nervousness, you're not
- 11:12really my type, but you're cute. That's
- 11:14not going to work. Obviously, the woman
- 11:16can see the fear all over the guy's
- 11:18face. He's nervous. He's doubting
- 11:19himself. He feels apologetic for saying
- 11:21that sort of thing and as a result she's
- 11:23feeling turned off. Women are turned off
- 11:25by emotional weakness in men and turned
- 11:27on by emotional strength. So if you
- 11:29display non-physical traits that are
- 11:32based on emotional strength, such as
- 11:33confidence, presence, courage, and so
- 11:35on, then the woman feels attracted to
- 11:37you while you're saying it. So for
- 11:38example, you're not really my type, but
- 11:41you're cute. Then she's feeling
- 11:42attracted because there was also a bit
- 11:44of flirting in there as well. A bit of a
- 11:45subtle sexual vibe as well. and she can
- 11:48sense that the guy is being playful
- 11:50about it, right? So, it's not intended
- 11:51to hurt her and it's not a serious
- 11:53statement to the point where a guy says,
- 11:55"You're not really my type, but I mean,
- 11:56you're cute." Even though it's the same
- 11:58words, the woman is going to receive
- 12:00that as an insult. The guy's trying to
- 12:02hurt her. He's being a bit of a prick,
- 12:04an and it's not going to work.
- 12:06But when you say it while displaying
- 12:07traits that attract the woman now, she
- 12:10feels like she's going to be losing
- 12:12something if she doesn't try to figure
- 12:13out what your type is and try to prove
- 12:15herself to you. And in the process of
- 12:17her trying to get you to want her, it
- 12:21attracts her to you like a magnet,
- 12:23right? She's feeling attracted to you.
- 12:25She wants to be with you. She's hoping
- 12:27to get a chance with you. She's hoping
- 12:29to win you over. She's hoping to get you
- 12:31to like her more. You've completely
- 12:33flipped the dynamic and you're giving
- 12:35her the type of feeling and experience
- 12:38that she desperately searches for but
- 12:41cannot find because most guys have no
- 12:43idea how to attract women. So, they just
- 12:45try to be nice to women and get along
- 12:47with them and try to put their best foot
- 12:49forward in the hope that the woman will
- 12:51give them a chance. But what makes a
- 12:54woman feel attracted to you like a
- 12:55magnet is when she has to come at you.
- 12:57And you can make her come at you, be
- 12:59drawn to you, be trying to get with you
- 13:02based on how you say something to her,
- 13:04based on how you react to things. You
- 13:06can have the same physical appearance,
- 13:07but the woman will have a completely
- 13:10different feeling about you and you will
- 13:12get completely different behavior from
- 13:14her if you say something in one way
- 13:16versus another way. On that note, this
- 13:18is something that a guy can say when it
- 13:20comes to that point in the interaction
- 13:22where he and the woman are going to
- 13:24exchange numbers and it's obvious that
- 13:26she's very attracted to him. He is
- 13:29definitely going to get the number. She
- 13:30definitely wants to exchange numbers
- 13:32with him. And he then adds in that bit
- 13:34of playful rejection where he says
- 13:35something like, "I'll give you my
- 13:37number, but only if you promise not to
- 13:38booty call me tonight. I see the way
- 13:40you've been looking at me." Or, "I'll
- 13:42give you my number, but only if you
- 13:44promise not to text me 10 times a day.
- 13:46Just take it easy." Or, "I'll give you
- 13:48my number, but only if you promise not
- 13:50to text me too often." And the woman
- 13:52knows that you're only playfully messing
- 13:53with her. However, at the same time,
- 13:56you're also in that position where you
- 13:58are the chooser, you are the selector,
- 14:00you are the decider, you are the
- 14:02assessor, and she's feeling that dynamic
- 14:05between you and her. She feels like you
- 14:07have the upper hand. And she's going to
- 14:09need to continue to impress you to make
- 14:11sure that she doesn't lose her chance
- 14:13with you. And she's not going to want to
- 14:15lose her chance with you because you're
- 14:16able to make her feel so attracted.
- 14:18You're able to make her feel that
- 14:20magnetic attraction where she wants to
- 14:22win you over. she's coming at you.
- 14:24Another example that will feel forbidden
- 14:26for a lot of guys or feel like they
- 14:28can't say this sort of thing is when
- 14:30she's hitting on you or she seems like
- 14:33she's really starting to feel attracted
- 14:34to you and really like you. You say
- 14:36something like, "Get away from me. I
- 14:38can't have you around. You're way too
- 14:40cute and way too tempting." And once
- 14:42again, you're playfully pushing the
- 14:43woman away, which is exciting and
- 14:45enjoyable for her when she's feeling
- 14:47attracted to you and attracts her to you
- 14:49like a magnet because she now feels like
- 14:52she has to do more to be able to get
- 14:54with you sexually and romantically. But
- 14:56what usually happens for a girl, what
- 14:58usually happens for a woman is that if
- 15:01she's showing a guy that she finds him
- 15:03attractive and she seems to be hitting
- 15:05on him, the guy's usually very excited.
- 15:07The guy's feeling like, "Okay, cool. I'm
- 15:08going to get laid here." and he wants to
- 15:10keep pulling the woman towards him and
- 15:12he can definitely get results with that
- 15:14type of approach if the woman is very
- 15:15attracted to him. But if he wants to amp
- 15:18up her attraction and make her go crazy
- 15:20for him and really want to rip his
- 15:22clothes off sort of thing and have that
- 15:23type of desire for him, then he can say
- 15:25something that will feel a bit
- 15:26forbidden, will feel like it's bad to
- 15:29say something like that and he may even
- 15:31ruin his chance with her, but it
- 15:33doesn't. It just amps the woman's
- 15:35attraction up even more. So, for
- 15:37example, she seems to be hitting on you.
- 15:40She really seems to be attracted to you.
- 15:42And then you say something like, "Get
- 15:44away from me. I can't have you around.
- 15:46You're way too cute, way too tempting."
- 15:48Women love that sort of thing because it
- 15:50gives them some subtle permission to be
- 15:52the sexual aggressor, to start making
- 15:54moves on you, to start showing even more
- 15:56attraction for you. And the woman feels
- 15:58like she wants sex to happen. It's sort
- 16:00of like when you get a woman back to
- 16:01your place and you've kissed her and
- 16:03it's starting to heat up and then you
- 16:05say something like, "We don't have to
- 16:06have sex." And the woman then feels
- 16:08like, "No, no, I want to have sex."
- 16:09Right? She feels so attracted to you.
- 16:11She's feeling turned on after you and
- 16:12her have been kissing. And she knows
- 16:15that it's most likely then going to lead
- 16:17to potentially having sex. And you've
- 16:20just now said, "We don't have to have
- 16:22sex." And the woman now feels like,
- 16:24"Hang on, but I want it." Right? And she
- 16:27then starts to grope you more. she
- 16:29starts to show more interest. She starts
- 16:31taking off your shirt, so to speak, and
- 16:33you're giving her that subtle permission
- 16:35to be the sexual aggressor, to make
- 16:37moves on you, and that's so attractive
- 16:39to the woman. So, the next example is, I
- 16:42don't know if you're the coolest girl
- 16:43I've ever met or the craziest one.
- 16:45Another example, you know what? If I
- 16:48were into blondes, I'd probably really
- 16:49like you. And of course, she would be a
- 16:52blonde. And you may, for example, be
- 16:54into brunettes or women with black hair.
- 16:57And because you've been attractive to
- 16:59her and your behavior leading up to that
- 17:00point and you're saying it in an
- 17:02attractive way, she's now feeling like
- 17:05she's losing something. Why don't you
- 17:07like her, that she's a blonde? How can
- 17:09she get you to like her more? And
- 17:10there's flirting in there as well where
- 17:12you're saying that you'd probably really
- 17:13like her. So, it suggests that you like
- 17:15who she is as a person. You like her
- 17:17personality, but you seem to be
- 17:20rejecting her based on her hair color
- 17:22because you may be into brunettes or
- 17:23women with black hair or something like
- 17:25that. But because she gets a sense that
- 17:27you're really only being playful with
- 17:28it, she's going to laugh. She's going to
- 17:30smile and she's going to ask you further
- 17:32about that. Or she's going to say that
- 17:33blondes are hotter or blondes have more
- 17:35fun or if you've never been with a
- 17:37blonde, you may like it or something
- 17:38like that. She's going to try to sell
- 17:40herself to you. Or she may just laugh
- 17:41and playfully hit you on the side of the
- 17:43arm to let you see that she gets it. She
- 17:46gets that you're only flirting with her,
- 17:48that you're messing with her. But at the
- 17:49end of the day, what really makes her
- 17:51feel attracted to you is that she now
- 17:53has to do more. She has to prove herself
- 17:57to you. She has to make you like her
- 17:59more. And that's a very rare experience
- 18:02for a woman to have. Most guys are
- 18:04essentially offering themselves on a
- 18:06silver platter, hoping that the woman
- 18:08gives them a chance. But if you can say
- 18:10something like this, it lights a woman
- 18:12up. You'll see her eyes light up. You'll
- 18:14see her smile and feel attracted to you
- 18:16in an excited way. She'll be coming at
- 18:18you. Another example, hey, you know
- 18:20what? You have beautiful eyes. and then
- 18:22pause because most guys will give that
- 18:25type of compliment to a woman hoping
- 18:27that it will get them a chance with her
- 18:29that she'll be wowed by it. But you then
- 18:31pull the rug out from underneath her in
- 18:33a playful way by saying they're almost
- 18:35as beautiful as mine. Right? So you're
- 18:37saying, "Hey, you know what? You have
- 18:38beautiful eyes. They're almost as
- 18:41beautiful as mine." And that's what's
- 18:42going to give her that playful shock in
- 18:44the moment where she realizes that
- 18:46you're not a typical nice guy who's just
- 18:48giving her a compliment on her eyes and
- 18:50hoping to get a chance with her as a
- 18:51result of that. Another example, you're
- 18:53too much of a nice girl for me. And then
- 18:55she wants to prove that she can be
- 18:57naughty, that she can be bad, that she
- 18:59can be sexual. Another example, you're
- 19:01crazy. You know that I don't even know
- 19:03why I talk to you. And that can feel
- 19:05like a forbidden statement because you
- 19:06don't say to a woman that she's crazy.
- 19:08That's a bit of an insult. That's rude.
- 19:11But it's not done in a serious way. It's
- 19:13just a playful comment. If it was
- 19:15serious, then she's going to take it as
- 19:16an insult. But if a guy says something
- 19:18like, "You're crazy. You know that? I
- 19:20don't even know why I talked to you."
- 19:21Then she knows that he's only messing
- 19:23with her, and he's going to say that
- 19:25after she's said something a bit crazy
- 19:27or silly, and it's then going to make
- 19:29sense. Another example, she drops
- 19:32something or is being clumsy. You'll
- 19:34never get into my pants if you keep
- 19:35doing things like that. Another example,
- 19:38damn, stop being so cute, girl. So
- 19:41that's flirting, but it's also playfully
- 19:43pushing the woman away. And she knows
- 19:45now that her behavior is making you feel
- 19:48attracted to her, right? So she may have
- 19:50done something very feminine, very
- 19:52loving and warm and is making you feel
- 19:56attracted. And you are then saying
- 19:58something like, "Damn, stop being so
- 20:00cute, girl." And that usually makes her
- 20:02want to be even cuter, even more
- 20:05attractive, even more appealing to you.
- 20:07And as a result, she's trying to make
- 20:10you like her even more. And she's also
- 20:12feeling like she can be like that around
- 20:15you. You're letting her be like that
- 20:17rather than what she experiences with
- 20:19most guys where she'll be interacting
- 20:22with them and the guy will feel
- 20:23uncomfortable around her. He'll be
- 20:25feeling nervous and tense and unsure of
- 20:28himself. And as a result, she will start
- 20:30to feel awkward around him. She'll start
- 20:32to feel uncomfortable. And there'll be
- 20:34an uncomfortable dynamic between him and
- 20:35her. And as a result, she will start to
- 20:38shut down that cute, loving, warm
- 20:40behavior. And she'll start to be a bit
- 20:42more cold, a bit more indifferent,
- 20:44reserved, and she won't be showing that
- 20:46loving, warm, flirtatious, girly side of
- 20:49herself that she will show to a guy
- 20:51who's able to bring that out in her,
- 20:53right? Where he's able to feel
- 20:55comfortable when she's behaving like
- 20:57that and be the masculine one in the
- 20:59dynamic between him and her, right? So,
- 21:01for example, if she's being girly and
- 21:03feminine, what some guys will do is
- 21:06they'll start being giddy and silly and
- 21:08copying her behavior to hopefully get
- 21:10along with her, but that won't make her
- 21:12feel attracted. It'll just neutralize
- 21:14the attraction because there is no
- 21:16masculine and feminine. Instead, he's
- 21:17kind of like her girlfriend, like one of
- 21:19the girls sort of thing, but he's still
- 21:21a male, of course, but he feels more
- 21:23like one of the girls. And that is not
- 21:25going to make her feel that magnetic
- 21:27attraction that comes from the polarity
- 21:29between the masculine and feminine. So,
- 21:31when you're able to bring more of a
- 21:33woman's feminine side out and she feels
- 21:35free to be like that around you, she
- 21:37naturally feels so much more attracted
- 21:39to you. The next example is a nice way
- 21:42of saying that you want to have sex with
- 21:43her or let's get out of here sort of
- 21:45thing. And it's to say something like, I
- 21:48kind of want to have breakfast with you.
- 21:50And the woman knows what that means. It
- 21:52means that you and her sleep together.
- 21:54You wake up together in the morning and
- 21:56you have breakfast together. And that's
- 21:58going to work if you've been making her
- 22:00feel sexually attracted to you. If your
- 22:02behavior has been sexually attractive
- 22:04and you've been triggering her feelings
- 22:05of attraction, she's then going to
- 22:07welcome a comment like that. She's going
- 22:08to feel like that is some really slick,
- 22:11smooth flirting, it's a really cool way
- 22:14of saying that, "Hey, I want to have sex
- 22:16with you. Let's get out of here." sort
- 22:18of thing. So, if she's feeling turned on
- 22:20and you say something like, "I kind of
- 22:23want to have breakfast with you." That's
- 22:24going to work if you've been making her
- 22:26feel sexually attracted. But if you
- 22:28haven't been making her feel sexually
- 22:29attracted and you haven't been flirting
- 22:30with her and creating that private
- 22:32understanding between you and her that
- 22:33you find each other sexually attractive
- 22:35and it's on between you and her and
- 22:37instead you've just been talking to her
- 22:38in a friendly way, in a neutral way and
- 22:40getting along with her and then you say
- 22:42something like, "Oh, I kind of want to
- 22:43have breakfast with you." Or, "I kind of
- 22:46want to have breakfast with you." Then
- 22:47it's not going to be wellreceived
- 22:49because it's a one-sided attraction,
- 22:50right? you're feeling attracted to her
- 22:52and you're now essentially saying to her
- 22:53in a subtle type of way that you want to
- 22:55have sex with her, but because she's not
- 22:57feeling sexually attracted because you
- 22:58haven't created that type of dynamic
- 23:00between you and her. Now, it's going to
- 23:02feel like it's sort of like you throwing
- 23:04a line out there and hoping that it's
- 23:06going to work, but she's not going to
- 23:08want to do that and her guard is going
- 23:09to start to go up because essentially
- 23:11the guy is saying to her like, "Do you
- 23:14want to have sex? Yes or no?" In a
- 23:16flirtatious way. He's using a
- 23:17flirtatious line, but because she's not
- 23:20feeling attracted, he's essentially
- 23:22putting her in a position where he is
- 23:24wanting some flirting back, but she's
- 23:26not going to feel like she wants to do
- 23:27that because there's no mutual sexual
- 23:30attraction. So, a line like that will
- 23:32work if you've been making her feel
- 23:33sexually attracted. But don't just throw
- 23:35it out there. If you've been nice to a
- 23:37woman and been getting along with her
- 23:39and there's no private understanding
- 23:40between you and her that you want to
- 23:42have sex with each other, it's just not
- 23:43going to work. But if you've done that,
- 23:45if you created that type of dynamic
- 23:47between you and her and then you say
- 23:48something like you kind of want to have
- 23:50breakfast with her when you're looking
- 23:52at her, she knows what's going on. She's
- 23:54feeling sexually attracted to you and
- 23:55she knows that you're looking at her in
- 23:57that sexual way. And it helps create
- 23:59more of that private understanding
- 24:01between you and her that you and her
- 24:03want to have sex to the point where if
- 24:05you say something like that and she's
- 24:07giving you a flirtatious smile back and
- 24:09she is welcoming it and showing you that
- 24:11she's feeling a bit shy and submissive
- 24:13now or she's maintaining eye contact
- 24:15with a smile and she seems to be
- 24:17enjoying it, then she's trying to
- 24:19communicate to you that okay, it's on
- 24:21between you and her, so make a move.
- 24:24Another example is that's a nice looking
- 24:26dress. Not too sure about the shoes
- 24:28though, but you gave it a try. And
- 24:31importantly, I have to point out here
- 24:33that it's said in a playful way, not a
- 24:35serious way. If that's said in a serious
- 24:37way, a woman will take that as an
- 24:39insult. She'll see that as rude, and she
- 24:41won't see it as attractive behavior.
- 24:43She'll feel turned off by it. But if the
- 24:45woman gets a sense with the guy's
- 24:47intention, with his tonality, with his
- 24:49energy, that he's only playfully messing
- 24:51with her, then she'll see it as
- 24:53flirting. So, if a guy says something
- 24:54like, "That's a nice looking dress.
- 24:57Not too sure about the shoes though, but
- 24:58you gave it a try. The woman then is
- 25:00going to be playfully shocked, right?
- 25:02Her jaw may drop or she may laugh and
- 25:05playfully hit the guy on the side of the
- 25:06arm, right? She will get it, right?
- 25:08She'll understand that he's only joking,
- 25:10right? She'll understand that he's
- 25:11playfully messing with her. He's
- 25:12playfully teasing her. And women see
- 25:14that as flirting. And if the guy is
- 25:16worried about the woman potentially
- 25:17thinking that he's being serious, he can
- 25:19add in a bit more of a playful tonality
- 25:21when he is saying that she gave it a
- 25:23try. Right? So, he can say something
- 25:25like, "That's a nicel looking dress. Not
- 25:28too sure about the shoes, though, but
- 25:29you gave it a try." And the woman knows
- 25:31that the guy is only joking, right? He's
- 25:33not saying it in a serious way where he
- 25:35says something like, "That's a nice
- 25:36looking dress. I mean, I'm not too sure
- 25:37about the shoes though, but yeah, you
- 25:39gave it a try." The woman is then going
- 25:40to feel a bit insulted because he's
- 25:42being serious about it. But when you're
- 25:44being playful about it, you can get away
- 25:46with saying pretty much anything to a
- 25:48woman and she'll find you attractive as
- 25:51a result because you have the confidence
- 25:53to say it. the courage, the social
- 25:55intelligence to say it in the right way.
- 25:58And when you do it in the right way,
- 25:59you're also going to be flirting with
- 26:00her, which creates that private
- 26:02understanding between you and her. And
- 26:04in the case of playfully saying
- 26:05something about, "You're not too sure
- 26:07about the shoes though, but she gave it
- 26:09a try." You're just playfully messing
- 26:11with her. And what happens as a result
- 26:13of that is the woman senses now that you
- 26:16find her attractive enough that you want
- 26:18to flirt with her and communicate your
- 26:20sexual and romantic interest in her in a
- 26:23flirtatious way. And what it does for
- 26:25you and the woman is that rather than
- 26:27having to put on an act as though you're
- 26:30strangers and that you have to be polite
- 26:33with each other all the time and
- 26:34hopefully try to get to know each other
- 26:36and keep your guard up. You can drop
- 26:38your guard and be more easygoing and
- 26:41have that boyfriend girlfriend vibe with
- 26:43each other already. That boyfriend
- 26:45girlfriend dynamic where you're
- 26:47comfortable with each other. You're cool
- 26:49with each other and you can say things
- 26:51like that. It helps to create some
- 26:52sparks between you and the woman. So,
- 26:55she realizes that you and her have that
- 26:58type of feeling together where it's not
- 27:01just a friendly, polite, forgettable
- 27:03type of interaction. There are sparks
- 27:05flying back and forth between you and
- 27:06her. And when she's feeling that she
- 27:09wants something to happen between you
- 27:10and her, right? Rather than her feeling
- 27:12like, well, she's just seeing the guy as
- 27:14a friendly type of guy. It's just a
- 27:16neutral type of conversation. It's going
- 27:18to be most likely forgettable. She's
- 27:20probably going to forget about him the
- 27:21moment the interaction ends. But when
- 27:23you're able to say some things that may
- 27:26feel a bit forbidden, it wakes the woman
- 27:29up. It creates those sparks between you
- 27:30and her. And then all she's really
- 27:32waiting for you to do is have the
- 27:34confidence to make a move. If you don't
- 27:36feel confident enough around women that
- 27:38you find attractive to the point where
- 27:39you believe in yourself, you believe
- 27:41that you're attractive enough for her
- 27:43and you don't have the confidence to
- 27:45then make a move, then in most cases
- 27:47you'll lose your opportunity with the
- 27:49woman because she would rather go
- 27:51without than be the one who has to kiss
- 27:53you first or ask you out. If you're
- 27:56creating enough attraction inside of her
- 27:57and giving her that subtle permission to
- 27:59be the sexual aggressor, then with some
- 28:02women, yes, they will be more touchyfey
- 28:04with you and they'll make it way more
- 28:06obvious and they'll hug you first or
- 28:09something like that or get very close.
- 28:11But in most cases, even if the woman is
- 28:14being the one who's trying to move
- 28:15things forward and she's getting very
- 28:17close with you, she will still get to
- 28:19the point where she's close to your
- 28:22face. She's looking at you in the eyes
- 28:25and she still wants you to then lean in
- 28:27and start kissing her. She still wants
- 28:28you to have the confidence to make a
- 28:30move. Now, that's with women who are
- 28:32actually going to be that forward. But
- 28:34with most women that you come across,
- 28:36they won't be that forward. They'll feel
- 28:38sexually attracted to you. They'll be
- 28:39feeling turned on and they'll be hoping
- 28:41that you have the confidence to make a
- 28:43move, to move things forward, to believe
- 28:45in yourself. And if you don't have that
- 28:47type of confidence and you want it, it's
- 28:49what I teach in the first lesson at
- 28:51Master Attraction. In the first lesson,
- 28:53I teach you my best ever mindset for
- 28:55feeling confident around women that you
- 28:57find attractive and feeling confident
- 28:59enough and worthy enough to make a move.
- 29:02Right? Rather than doubting yourself and
- 29:04losing your opportunity with the woman,
- 29:05you have the confidence to make a move.
- 29:07And this is not something that I only
- 29:09mastered myself and enjoyed my choice of
- 29:11women as a result of. But it's something
- 29:13that the guys who are part of my
- 29:15community and are learning the lessons
- 29:17are experiencing the benefits of. Guys
- 29:19who come along and learn from me not
- 29:21only from the first lesson, but they
- 29:22continue to learn experience results
- 29:24like this where they kiss and have sex
- 29:27with women right away. Women are feeling
- 29:29so attracted to them that it happens for
- 29:31them right away. Even though for many
- 29:33guys, they've never done that before in
- 29:34their life to the point where they've
- 29:36never gone to a party and ended up
- 29:38kissing a pretty girl and sleeping with
- 29:39her that night or gone to a bar and had
- 29:42that experience or gone on a first date
- 29:44with an attractive woman and had her
- 29:45stripping for them. Had sex with an
- 29:47attractive woman and she then asks to be
- 29:49his girlfriend. These are the sort of
- 29:51results that guys are getting by
- 29:52learning the exclusive techniques and
- 29:55secrets and examples that I teach at
- 29:56Master Attraction and then applying that
- 29:58into their interactions with women. So,
- 30:01if you want to have that type of power
- 30:02where women feel sexually attracted to
- 30:04you, they want to be with you, and you
- 30:06can enjoy your choice of women or get
- 30:08yourself a pretty girlfriend or wife,
- 30:09then head over to Master Attraction and
- 30:11start learning. Otherwise, I'll see you
- 30:13in the next video here on YouTube.
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