10X Your Mind If You Do This... | Klaus Nielsen | TDP — Transcript

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1. 0:00[Music]
2. 0:05that's sometimes what people get wrong
3. 0:06about Detachment so you just don't care
4. 0:08about it no no no no I care that's why I
5. 0:11won't let my emotional fluctuations
6. 0:14interfere with me solving the
7. 0:17problem right and it it PE people in
8. 0:20general have no idea the capacity of
9. 0:24their own
10. 0:25mind like you can 10x it right it's an
11. 0:29order of magnitude if you de if you
12. 0:32throw out all the nonsense politics and
13. 0:35football and all the social media and
14. 0:39worrying about what other people think
15. 0:41about you and what they think you think
16. 0:43they think about you thinking about them
17. 0:45it just never ends if you can actually
18. 0:48get rid of that so I'm not on social
19. 0:50media right I don't I follow politics
20. 0:54enough that I can talk about it to
21. 0:56people but it's like it it doesn't act
22. 1:00the problem is consumerism it's not
23. 1:02leftwing right-wing like the right
24. 1:04people now there's a election going on
25. 1:07in the UK and people are right that the
26. 1:09Tories have ruined the housing market
27. 1:12but guess what labor is going to get in
28. 1:13now and not fix
29. 1:15it right it's not going to get fixed
30. 1:18because it's it's greed
31. 1:20driven the whole society is greed driven
32. 1:23the people who are upset that 10% of the
33. 1:27country owns all of the country if they
34. 1:30were the 10% they would act exactly the
35. 1:33same right so we're living in a society
36. 1:36where old blames young young blames old
37. 1:39Rich blames poor poor blames Rich
38. 1:41educated blames uneducated uneducated
39. 1:44blames educated men blame women women
40. 1:46blame men whatever group you're not part
41. 1:48of it's their
42. 1:50fault right the natives blame the
43. 1:52immigrants the immigrants think that the
44. 1:54natives have stolen the wealth from the
45. 1:56rest of the world and all of those
46. 1:59things are part partially
47. 2:01true but it doesn't matter because the
48. 2:04solution is the
49. 2:06same right we need a higher state of
50. 2:09consciousness we need to realize not
51. 2:13just understand and and kind of agree
52. 2:16that consumerism will never make one
53. 2:19person happy not in the history of the
54. 2:22human race has a single person ever
55. 2:26succeeded at becoming materially
56. 2:28satisfied
57. 2:31and yet we all walk around whether we
58. 2:33want to admit it or not thinking if I
59. 2:35had that thing or if I achieved that
60. 2:37then everything all my problems would go
61. 2:40away that is what I'm trying to teach
62. 2:44people and you don't have to go all the
63. 2:46way if you just go 10% of the way your
64. 2:50life will be 50% better I'm just it's
65. 2:53arbitrary numbers right but but when
66. 2:55you're when you're really bad at
67. 2:56something a tiny bit of difference make
68. 2:59a whole lot of difference and then as
69. 3:00you get really really good at it at it
70. 3:03you you'll have to put more and more
71. 3:04efforts into getting like it's
72. 3:06diminishing returns basically right so
73. 3:09the amount of effort I put into it for
74. 3:11for tiny differences is not for most
75. 3:14people that doesn't right that's not
76. 3:16necessary at all just do
77. 3:22something um I don't know what it does
78. 3:25but it deeply resonates with me right
79. 3:26now the way you you talk about this um
80. 3:29um this because as you said it feels so
81. 3:33cluttered and I can still remember this
82. 3:35moment after my first 10day V pass on
83. 3:38The Meditation Retreat that I had this
84. 3:40like I could look around and my thoughts
85. 3:43were not cluttered I was I was calm you
86. 3:46can see I was still I could see actually
87. 3:49how things are and not how I project
88. 3:53them to be and I think that was I can
89. 3:55still remember that moment how that felt
90. 3:57right it was crazy and I didn't want to
91. 3:59talk to people again because there was
92. 4:02so much input um like in the last day
93. 4:05they had this um opportunity to like you
94. 4:08know connect with other people again
95. 4:10talk again and to like not phase the
96. 4:13real world suddenly again after this
97. 4:1510day Meditation Retreat and I didn't
98. 4:18want to I just went to my room and
99. 4:20stayed
100. 4:21there because it was so overwhelming
101. 4:24first of all and second like I had this
102. 4:26peace inside of me that I didn't want to
103. 4:28give up again
104. 4:30yeah yeah there's
105. 4:33a there's a term in the East called Cala
106. 4:37okay you want to avoid prala it's it's
107. 4:40empty
108. 4:41talk and it's basically what most people
109. 4:44engage in 99% of the time it's just
110. 4:48they're just talking to feel like
111. 4:50they're belonging it's not really about
112. 4:52what like you know like the guys down at
113. 4:54the pub who are second guessing the
114. 4:57football coaches decisions as if they
115. 5:01could ever coach a football team it's
116. 5:04not that they literally quite literally
117. 5:06think they would be better at it it's
118. 5:09just the the topics don't really matter
119. 5:12they just like we we all want to feel
120. 5:15like we belong and so a lot of the time
121. 5:18we're talking with other people to feel
122. 5:19like we belong and we're trying to say
123. 5:21something we think they will appreciate
124. 5:23so they will like us right so we're kind
125. 5:26of
126. 5:27imitating the service but actually look
127. 5:30at me like anyone who spent 30 seconds
128. 5:33on LinkedIn will know what I mean right
129. 5:36that it's just like The Virtue signaling
130. 5:38is
131. 5:39insane and everyone's playing along and
132. 5:41so if you have like a 10 day successful
133. 5:45repass in a retreat you don't need any
134. 5:47of that and it's suddenly the the
135. 5:50contrast becomes so Stark yeah I've had
136. 5:53situations with like
137. 5:56fasting and and extreme
138. 6:01uh like level of meditation where where
139. 6:03it's like 18 hours straight or
140. 6:07something and and I just started crying
141. 6:11out of absolute Bliss just the beauty of
142. 6:16everything without like singling
143. 6:19anything out just the beauty of being
144. 6:22alive these these
145. 6:24states are by like by their nature
146. 6:28they're beyond what can be really
147. 6:31explained you can describe it but you
148. 6:33can't explain it until you've
149. 6:35experienced it so it's natural for
150. 6:38people to be like yeah that sounds a
151. 6:39little woo woo you know but it's real
152. 6:42man and it's pretty glorious right um
153. 6:47and and the thing is once you've been
154. 6:48there everything else becomes easier
155. 6:51like that build that you're not sure
156. 6:53about that becomes a tiny tiny thing
157. 6:57they're not going to come and kill you
158. 6:58if you don't make that Bild right it's
159. 7:00just call them up have a chat figure out
160. 7:03something and move on with your life and
161. 7:06then maybe a little financial planning
162. 7:09right it's it that is as simple as it is
163. 7:12but the fear of not being approved of
164. 7:14not fitting in of not that thing I was
165. 7:17feeling as a child and that led me in
166. 7:19all of these
167. 7:20directions that's what's holding us back
168. 7:23why false ego the idea I'm the center of
169. 7:26the universe the more I can control the
170. 7:28happier I am with constantly confronted
171. 7:30with situations that we can't control
172. 7:32because guess what we can't control any
173. 7:34situation we can only control
174. 7:36ourselves and and through controlling
175. 7:39ourselves we can then impact our
176. 7:41surroundings but it's a relationship
177. 7:43it's not like I'm Mr Boss Man in the
178. 7:46center making all these decisions like
179. 7:49so I work a lot with Founders and CEOs
180. 7:52on on these types of topics and man
181. 7:55they're as anxious as the homeless
182. 7:57people right because a lot of the time
183. 8:00this this
184. 8:02missing piece of the puzzle that no no
185. 8:05look the company actually more or less
186. 8:07runs itself just like the universe runs
187. 8:10itself it's always been here it's always
188. 8:12functioned this way it's just your
189. 8:14decisions are a little bit more
190. 8:16important than other people in this
191. 8:18company but look at them they come to
192. 8:20work every day they do their job and so
193. 8:23you don't have to micromanage you don't
194. 8:25have to feel like you control everything
195. 8:27you can delegate and everything is
196. 8:30easier than we
197. 8:33think but we don't want to get
198. 8:36essentially we we have we have a problem
199. 8:38giving up this idea that I can control
200. 8:43everything at the end of the day as as
201. 8:46Psychopathic or delusional as it sounds
202. 8:50we we want to be
203. 8:52God constantly the center of attention
204. 8:55and things just happening just because
205. 8:56we want
206. 8:58it but but we're not and we don't have
207. 9:00to be it's actually more fun to be the
208. 9:03servant